Narrow_Bridge5804 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
278	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in	CMV	Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:17 PM
120	Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settling	CMV	Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 01:39 PM
106	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer?		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 11:33 PM
77	Why do people use the term "deserve" within an entirely free social dynamic like dating?		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 11:28 AM
67	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness	CMV	Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 01:31 PM
63	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive?	CMV	Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 11:55 AM
52	Just because you look like a good "match" to others, or are "equal" on paper, does not mean you "should" be with somebody	CMV	Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 06:19 PM
31	Can somebody explain what they mean by the term looksmatch		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 02:46 PM
30	One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some men		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 02:57 AM
20	Do dudes have a revenge fantasy about women who won't date them ending up alone because they themselves are on track to ending up alone?		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 12:50 PM
8	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing	CMV	Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 01:54 AM
8	A metaphor for those who truly don't seem to grasp the concept of being alone is better than being with somebody you're not attracted to.		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 11:46 PM
6	A male colleague said to me today "If a guy likes a girl, a hotter guy then him likes her too, so It's pointless to even try..." and I kinda disagree	CMV	Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 07:38 PM
6	Who decides how attractive somebody is? Surely it's the people who date them...		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 02:59 PM
0	You have to BE sexy for your partner to have lust for you, being in an LTR doesn't circumvate that		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 08:16 PM
0	Why would you expect women to be attracted to guys who do the easiest thing, live the path of least resistance?		Narrow_Bridge5804	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 06:28 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Women haven't changed. We are the same as ever. We and men have both lived through the zame events, the same years, the same cultural changes and influences. Your own claims as to how women are, is how it's always been.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 12:39 AM
2	Contrary to what some in here think, it doesn’t matter how attractive, wealthy or charismatic a man is. It only takes one minor misstep or sometimes nothing at all for a woman to completely lose interest. I've noticed if I'm attracted to a guy...truly attracted...I perceive "mistakes" or "awkwardness, weirdness" or whatever in a more favourable light. I see it through a positive lens. If I'm not as attracted or becoming less attracted for some significant reason, then I start to perceive things more negatively...even if in retrospect those things weren't even that bad. Depends more on our rapport, the vibe and how attracted I am to start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 11:34 PM
1	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 11:19 PM
1	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 10:24 PM
0	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Yeah I agree. Women are by default, contrary to what a lot of people think, happy to be alone though. Especially modern women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 09:10 PM
0	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness No, no I'm not. Men have ENTIRELY their own power to attain these things. I'm proposing no law. Every man should be FREE to do what they want without shame. I'm saying we shouldn't shame anyone. I'm also saying we should encourage men in their OWN CHOICE to mgtwo and set their expectations at a real level. A lot of average/below average men, especially in modern times, WON'T have a wife and family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 08:58 PM
1	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness No. There's a LOT to life. And you can have relationships, they just won't be this fantastical lust filled dream you hope for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 07:53 PM
0	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness No. Nobody shame anybody for doing anything that doesn't hurt anybody else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 07:51 PM
0	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness No. Nobody shame anybody for doing anything that doesn't hurt anybody else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 07:51 PM
3	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness I didn't say that though.... I said we should not shame men, who will realistically not be successful in dating, as having the quality of relationships and sex they're expecting to have ism't going to happen. We need to normalize their lack of success as not being a failure that makes them losers, but that it's normal. I am also advocating encouragement and acceptence of men who CHOOSE to go their own way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 07:00 PM
1	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness What I'm saying is, a large portion of men won't get, and it's almost cruel, in 2022, to still feed them bullshit, or at least we should try to outline the reality of the next 20 years. The choice is, average relationship as I described, or nothing. I say we shouldn't shame men, and they should be gently encouraged to find happiness without women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 06:24 PM
2	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Men do this to women ALL the time, constantly	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 06:10 PM
6	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness That's pretty much what I say in my OP. Though it's not really "lies". It's just culture being as indoctrinally optimistic as always, as it is for most aspects of life. A lot of guys kinda naturally "get" the truth. Some seemingly need it spelling out. But we ALSO need to stop shaming men for not achieving romantic success as they've come to expect. It's not ACTUALLY the norm, but we have always pretended it is, leading to frustration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 03:54 PM
-3	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Bit of an over reaction. What's the alternative?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 03:51 PM
-1	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness I don't know why we don't legalize it pal. I'm not against it. Undesireable men SHOULD have an outlet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 03:47 PM
-1	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness I am addressing women in my OP....I AM saying we women should not shame men who can't get lots of sex or relationships because we know it's not on the cards for them. I'm trying to be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 03:22 PM
8	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Yeah and strippers, protitutes and porn sites and apps are just using your horniness for money...and you know it...and it ain't real. And I enjoy sex. I won't be shamed for it. May as well have it with an attractive person. And I don't know how to articulate it, but based on PERSONAL experience and my close girl friends, a woman dating a man she really fancies is unsustainsble. It ALWAYS ends in her being insecure, or him cheating. The LTR's that have lasted the longest in my friend group are th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 03:19 PM
1	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness I've always been INITIALLY attracted to men because of their looks. I've been like that for the almost 20 years I've been sexually developed. Other traits add to that attraction significantly, yes, but just like men - spoiler alert - we like hot guys and shouldn't be shamed for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 03:07 PM
4	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Well it's a sexual experience attained with relative ease that's apparently "not real". How is it different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 03:04 PM
6	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Neither is porn or strip clubs. Us women having sex with very attractive men we know deep down are just using our bodies (which in itself is kinda hot) is our equivilant of porn etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 02:50 PM
5	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Hence, we need to start as a society not artificially inflating the expectations of mens sex life and love life from a young age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 02:48 PM
0	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness Ok, so women's expectations have been shaped by feedback from men, giving us attention, sex, etc. Where have your expectations come from if you're not recieving that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 02:33 PM
7	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness I think, realistically, a VERY small percentage of people are going to achieve that dynamic. I look in my own DM's and pop on tinder and I can get enough attention in one hour that I don't even feel the need to act out on it. The amount of attractive guys who compliment and chat to you is enough that I'm almost content with just that alone. I would agree that women have the security of knowing we can almost always do better. The only guy I dated longish term with who I felt I couldn't do better …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 02:28 PM
4	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness I suppose I'm advocating more for not pretending that most men will have the fantasy relationship culture sets them up to expect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 02:25 PM
1	A male colleague said to me today "If a guy likes a girl, a hotter guy then him likes her too, so It's pointless to even try..." and I kinda disagree Well i pretty much agree with this	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 08:03 PM
5	The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as men I can't really explain it without sounding offensive, but WITHOUT CONTEXT or knowing or having rapport with a guy...MOST male bodies are unattractive. Its just how it is. I'm sure after a relationship has been built it's possible to love a guys body as "your own" but just on surface level, yeah, you kinda gotta be ripped to a degree to be "nice to look at"	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 07:25 PM
1	One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some men why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:52 PM
2	So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship? I think we need to focus more on changing expectations for young guys so they don't grow up frustrated. It's ok not to be wildly sexually successful....its ok not to have a partner or girlfriend or whatever....you're not a loser, it's actually kinda normal. As opposed to brainwashing every guy as a kid that theyre gona find love etc. I'm a big fan of the mgtow movement too. Just guys doing their own thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:34 PM
-1	One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some men Did I say they wanted to marry me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 03:20 AM
0	One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some men Did I say they wanted to marry me? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 03:15 AM
1	Do dudes have a revenge fantasy about women who won't date them ending up alone because they themselves are on track to ending up alone? Some men are, the racially opressed, the impoverished, those under religious persecution. I'd agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 07:28 PM
0	Do dudes have a revenge fantasy about women who won't date them ending up alone because they themselves are on track to ending up alone? Big difference between women being treated as second class citizens and the state spoon feeding men unwilling sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 03:08 PM
0	Do dudes have a revenge fantasy about women who won't date them ending up alone because they themselves are on track to ending up alone? I'd have MORE sympathy for her if she'd "settled" for a guy she isnt attracted to. That's much worse than being single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 01:58 PM
7	Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women? When people say "be yourself" I've ALWAYS just taken it as "chill out and be relaxed".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 04:00 AM
3	Just because you look like a good "match" to others, or are "equal" on paper, does not mean you "should" be with somebody I dunno, I simply see relationships like everything else, as an experience. As that's all it is. I only want the experience if it's good or adds value to my life, like any experience. I don't seek experiences just for the sake of it. I certainly don't need it. Maybe some people have kinda been conditioned to think they need it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 03:51 AM
1	Just because you look like a good "match" to others, or are "equal" on paper, does not mean you "should" be with somebody What do you mean am I autistic in regards to relationships as being disposable? And no, I'm not	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 02:27 AM
3	I’ve seen this claim on PPD. Women of PPD, if abortions were banned tomorrow, would you keep having casual sex? I dunno, I only have "casual sex" very very rarely and only with guys who I consider really attractive, like they're so attractive I can't think straight. A couple of times I've found myself kinda....hoping?...they'd got me pregnant...but then a bit of time passes and I snap back to my senses and realize that may not be a great outcome haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 12:47 AM
2	Just because you look like a good "match" to others, or are "equal" on paper, does not mean you "should" be with somebody You're lambasting me for not finding men under a certain height attractive. Then proceed to claim my height makes me less attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 07:21 PM
1	Just because you look like a good "match" to others, or are "equal" on paper, does not mean you "should" be with somebody I'm 5 foot 7	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 06:57 PM
5	Just because you look like a good "match" to others, or are "equal" on paper, does not mean you "should" be with somebody A relationship without spark is a set up for misery. I don't care about being single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 06:36 PM
3	Who decides how attractive somebody is? Surely it's the people who date them... So are you saying then that fundementally most men are unattractive, as the only real decider of what's attractive is the people who choose to date those people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 03:28 PM
-4	Why would you expect women to be attracted to guys who do the easiest thing, live the path of least resistance? Do I not mention being unafraid of rejection and offending? Sounds like you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 07:45 PM
-6	Why would you expect women to be attracted to guys who do the easiest thing, live the path of least resistance? Well if they've developed social skills, have met me somewhere where we are engaging in a mutual interest, have groomed, dressed well and are in shape, (aka, all the other steps) then I've got no problem being approached by this dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 07:20 PM
1	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Yeah, at least I ain't gona use some poor guy like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 07:11 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Yeah I know. If I was a dude, dunno how fulfilled I'd feel knowing I was just some chicks wallet/nurse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 07:06 PM
1	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in What if anybody ends up broke and alone? What if I get cancer next year? What if my partner I settle for gets cancer AND goes broke? What if what if what if?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 06:58 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in You don't care if I end up broke or alone. So why ask? Truly grasp the concept behind my question there...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 06:35 PM
-2	Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist? I know but you've kinda gotta gauge it. 5 foot 8 is short and if shes tall for a girl then its inappropriate, its clearly not going to work, so save both you and her some time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 06:16 PM
–	A metaphor for those who truly don't seem to grasp the concept of being alone is better than being with somebody you're not attracted to. I dunno. A guy who is slim but soft, not tall, maybe a blandish face like Andrew Garfield or somebody with "non offensive" looks. Has a bland desk job, not much hobbies, we go out for dinner every now and again, he wants missionary and doggy only and doesn't know how to take charge because hes scared to hurt or offend me and cant fuck properly because he doesnt have any muscle	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 12:53 AM
–	A metaphor for those who truly don't seem to grasp the concept of being alone is better than being with somebody you're not attracted to. Yeah, it is objective harm yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 12:51 AM
–	A metaphor for those who truly don't seem to grasp the concept of being alone is better than being with somebody you're not attracted to. Spending years living with, shaping your life around, answering to, sleeping with somebody you don't want to be with is literally worse for your mental health than depression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 12:25 AM
–	A metaphor for those who truly don't seem to grasp the concept of being alone is better than being with somebody you're not attracted to. As will a lacklustre relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 12:17 AM
–	A metaphor for those who truly don't seem to grasp the concept of being alone is better than being with somebody you're not attracted to. And being alone forever IS better than being in a bland relationship, they should count their blessings and embrace being single. The MGTOW movement I've read about here is actually really cool, more men should seek that path. They'll find peace and contentment there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 11:53 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in How	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 10:17 PM
–	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Yes but if I don't want them then it's miserable. Money etc doesn't really mean much, it's more common than you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 10:10 PM
–	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? One big paragraph of a man essentially complaining he can't get a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 09:27 PM
10	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in We're all going to be old one day. I'd rather not waste it with somebody I don't want to be with. I'm starting to get the impression that settling is essentially doing guys who can't handle being alone a favor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 09:05 PM
21	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Its a double standard and you shouldn't be shamed for your life choices	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 04:24 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Writing is a great hobby, I do it too. I agree, there should be more of a discourse towards single men not being losers, and more resources to help you deal with being alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 03:53 PM
11	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Well you can't force yourself to want something. Get into productive hobbies, like fitness, like outdoor exploration and sports, like reading writing and music. Do shit that isnt just a big dopamine fryer. Do stuff that MAY even lead to yoh meeting somebody. Not "women must force themselves to love men they dont love otherwise sparta"	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 03:18 PM
3	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Sometimes I go a while without sex and don't even think about it. It's not a big deal to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 02:32 PM
11	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Happy with a woman being with you just so she doesn't become homeless are you? Proves my point about projecting your loneliness onto women. This sounds like real desperate hamstering on your part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 01:45 PM
9	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Sure, whatevee you say. I'd argue men don't care either. They see women as posessions and walking fleshlights. The only reason you fool yourselves into thinking you care is because you confuse your desperate scarcity mindset for love, when actually it's just throwing your entire emotional self worth and state of being into the one woman who'll have you. But I don't believe that's all men, just the losers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 01:44 PM
7	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Lots of anger here. But I feel like this comment is coming from a place of still believing I am in need of a relationship with anyone. I'm not. It's someone who I WANT or nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 01:27 PM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? There's no such thing as a looksmatch	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 01:19 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in I think forgetting about dating would do them good. They'll focus more on amazing aspects of their life that matter, make friends, invest in passions and hobbies, and seem less desperate. It will translate into their interractions with women for the better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:35 PM
13	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in I DO have sympathy for lonely people. I'm not happy they are experiencing this. I suppose part of the point of my OP is that they don't need women to have a fulfilling life that isn't lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:22 PM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? No I don't. I am not bitter or angry at men who don't reciprocate my attraction. I am above the age of 17.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 11:52 AM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Well it is. Unless you're hideously deformed or disabled, a man can find a woman. It's extreme outliers who can't get a single female. I think it's more ironic how obliviously unaware that and yours/mens on this subs standards are higher than what you can get. Are you quazimodo? No, and most of the thousands of men on this sub aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 11:46 AM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Yes it can, its having a standard above what you can get	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 01:51 AM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Whats the alternative? Nobody is by rights entitled to be with another human being	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 01:09 AM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? What do you mean? I'm just pointing out your own definition but turned onto men	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 01:08 AM
4	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Forgive me, you are correct you didnt use the term entitlement. You did say women complaining about not getting the men they wanted meant their standards are too high. So by your own definition, men on here complaining about not getting the women they want, even if that's any women, mean's their standards are too high. I suppose I would then go on to say that a man is not entitled to a woman, even if his standards are rock bottom, as nobody is entiteled to be with anybody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:54 AM
0	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Well apparently the "average" man can so that means there sure is a lot of em...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:47 AM
3	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Yes but once again you can find that ANYWHERE. Maybe men underestimate just how easy it is for women to get "a guy"	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:45 AM
0	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Can find those things anywhere. Literally tje ability to just get "a guy" who offers that is so incredibly easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:42 AM
3	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Ok but that's ten a penny....in the nicest possible way....just finding "a guy" with a job who isn't fat and who doesn't have a criminal record is literally a case of going into my dm's and picking one and saying "he'll do" or smiling at somebody in the work food hall. What makes you, or any other average guy, stand out? It isn't enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:41 AM
-1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Yeah but why should any average girl pair up with any average guy. What do they, you, have to offer that your best friend or the guy on the train next to me or the dozens of dudes in my dm's don't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:37 AM
10	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Relationship for relationship sake is pointless	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:31 AM
6	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? You say women complaining they cant get the men they want are acting entitled because they complain. I said men on here complain all the time about not getting the women they want. You're saying that's different.... HOW is it different? It's men complaining about not getting the women they want....even if that's ANY women it's still acting entitled by your definition	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:30 AM
-2	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Yeah, being together in and of itself is not of value	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:27 AM
-3	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Ok, but STILL by your own definition that mean's they're being entitled to that, and complaining about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:26 AM
0	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? I'm not demanding. And also... "well what does the average woman have to offer" is pointless, even if they offer no more than you, then why do you want to even be with them? And secondly, a woman not being able to offer anything remarkable or of worth doesnt then render you more valuable	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:24 AM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Well living with somebody who doesn't add to your life isn't a happy thing either	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:16 AM
-1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? How? I'm going by your very own simple definition	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:15 AM
-4	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Now twisting this to "well what does the average woman have to offer" is pointless, even if they offer no more than you, then why do you want to even be with them? And secondly, a woman not being able to offer anything remarkable or of worth doesnt then render you more valuable, you're still average...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:14 AM
0	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Ok so if everyone has value then what makes one "average" guy stand out	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:13 AM
-5	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Why should they	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:11 AM
11	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Being alone is better than being with somebody I'm not attracted to. Why the hell is that concept so hard to grasp for some people? Relationship with somebody attractive >Alone>>>>>>>>>>>>Being with somebody I'm not attracted to	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:10 AM
14	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? This subreddit is FILLED with men complaining that women aren't with them. So, by your own definition, their standards are too high?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:08 AM
6	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Yeah I'm not complaining about nobody with me. I'd agree that people shouldn't complain about being alone. A "relationship" is worthless. It's the containter, the glass, the structure. It needs to be filled with something of value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:06 AM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? No, but I'd love a partner as dearly as family. I'm with em because I love em, I don't love em because I'm with em.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 12:00 AM
2	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? A big dick is literally almost repulsive if I'm not attracted to the rest of the man. If I don't want a man who isn't attractive to put something in me, then why would MORE of the thing I don't want in me be a benefit?!?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 11:59 PM
2	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? What do you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 11:58 PM
5	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? in regards to entitlement.... You know NOT wanting to be with somebody who doesn't have much to offer us, DOESN'T mean we think we are entitled to men who are more attractive than us....it's not an either or, it's a well I can't find somebody who ADDS to my life, therefore it's pointless me being with somebody who doesn't...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 11:55 PM
2	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Ok but literally ANY guy can offer that. Why does that make YOU worth literally loving as much as one of my own relatives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 11:54 PM
1	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing "some kind of dick arousal" Ah, what lasting relationships are built on....	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 05:48 PM
1	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing Madly in love in the sense that they find eachother sexy? then theyre sexy, right? Im not claiming objectively sexy, im just saying you have to be sexy. Are you saying these people who are madly in love find eachother sexy? if so its not contradicting me	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 05:24 PM
1	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing Whats conventionally sexy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 04:34 PM
1	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing Nagging and arguing and expressing frustration goes both ways. I'm not advocating it, I'm saying in the nitty gritty realities of the average human beings life, living with, raising kids with, sharing financial burdens with, making life changing decisions with, sharing the same toilet with etc etc etc WILL come with those "negative" acts, and it will come with a lack of mystery and excitement and lust unless you are essentially in a situation where you're incredibly sexually desireable to your p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 03:53 PM
1	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing Your reply is literally just echoing what I say about men in my OP You want/think you deserve to be lusted after without having to be sexy	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 12:56 PM
-1	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing I don't have an S.O Re read O.P My o.p says you have to be sexy to be lusted after. I don't state what sexy is, I use Hemsworth as an example, but he's not everyone's type. But that's not my point, my point is you have to be sexy. You're saying that's not true, because your partner is not sexy/attractive but you find him sexy? Which is confusing, what exactly are you saying about your partner...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 12:50 PM
-1	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing No, I'm saying they have to be sexy. I'm using Hemsworth as an example (he's not my type) Are you saying your s.o isn't very attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 12:27 PM
-4	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing So how does that contradict my op? You're saying he's sexy....	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 11:50 AM
-2	You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thing How are you contradicting my OP? Your husband is clearly sexy, therefore...you lust after him....that's what I'm saying in the OP lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 11:48 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men confuse realisting long term average relationships as "settling" and beta buxing Relationships on a long term level for the average, every day relationship are NOT these lust filled exciting perpetual romances where the woman is constantly horny for you and being submissive and only has eyes for you and wants to have sex with you every night and love you like youre the best guy in the world. That's just not how it is for the vast majority of relationships. I'd say most of the women I know pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 12:21 PM
0	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? It's good for monogomy to be prett much only attracted to your partner And why do you think women have the same preferences?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 10:50 PM
1	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? Sorry, why are you talking about purple balls i dont get your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 09:56 PM
1	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? You have to be desireable then???? You (nor anybody, man or woman) gets treated with desire by default. Normal men in normal relationships get normal. Passionate romance and lust are rare	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 04:37 PM
1	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? Well one is more mindless and sensory and one is warmer and more of a bonding experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 04:36 PM
-1	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? That's what most adult relationships are like. If you're not a remarkable person with a remarkable life, then relationships are going to echo that. They are just a relatively normal, mundane part of life that's sometimes great, sometimes bland and sometimes not so good. Sexual enthusiasm and lust and initiation of sex as you call it will happen on good days, most days they won't. That's just how it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 02:37 PM
-6	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? I'd say most of the women I know personally enough to talk about their relationships about are with men who you could argue they "settled" for. Boyfriends and husbands don't seem to be somebody you fantasize or lust over, they're more of a part of your family and day to day life, especially as you get older and life isn't a big fairytale waiting to happen anymore. My female friends have mostly "grown up" and are with men who are mostly good fathers and husbands who treat them relatively well. An…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 01:15 PM
0	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? Women are way more subtle than men at checking people out. My partner wouldn't notice and it's not like I'm going to go chasing the other guy down the street, I'd forget them 30 seconds later. I suppose though, not acting insecure is part of whst I mean by getting on with people with zero drama.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 12:52 PM
7	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? I don't think of it as standards being high, it's just preferences that are unique to me. I'm not claiming the men I find attractive are better or worse, and other women probably don't find the men I notice attractive. I've found other men attractive who I haven't noticed straight away, after building some familiarity and rapport. Confidence and humour and the sense that the guy is zero drama all help, though the attraction is different than the attraction I feel to the guys I notice and turn my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 12:26 PM
3	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? Fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 12:06 PM
14	Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive? Yeah when you establish a dynamic with them it's different. But even then I'd say out of the men I know I only contemplate having sex with one of them at any one time, I'm never horny for more than one dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 12:01 PM
1	Why do people use the term "deserve" within an entirely free social dynamic like dating? The tree doesn't deserve or not deserve anything, it's a non sentient being, my point is likely hood of an event doesn't have ANYTHING to do with deserving or not. I can't believe you just unironically said a tree does not deserve to be hit by lightening.... A 5 foot 2 man and a 6 foot 5 man do not "deserve" or not deserve anything in dating. The only person who decides who that person has is the other person in the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 12:45 PM
4	Why do people use the term "deserve" within an entirely free social dynamic like dating? It's illegal to rape somebody and you deserve to go to jail based on the laws, moral structure of society. Two humans deciding to hook up or not has nothing to do with what either of them deserve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 11:59 AM
3	Why do people use the term "deserve" within an entirely free social dynamic like dating? It's ENTIRELY subjective And how likely or not something happening is, doesn't mean you apply the word deserve. Does a tree deserve to be struck by lightening? The odds of it happening doesn't mean it deserved it to happen or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 11:57 AM
12	Why do people use the term "deserve" within an entirely free social dynamic like dating? Not sure how this proves or disproves anything, what's your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 11:46 AM
5	Why do people use the term "deserve" within an entirely free social dynamic like dating? So would you say that people applying the word deserve to other people's dating lives are projecting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 11:45 AM
0	How easily could a man lie to you regarding the amount of effort that he puts into his physique, are you idealistic or realistic? He's an olympic athlete, its his job. A blue collar guy who said he works 10 plus hours a week for that body would be unimpressive	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 12:09 PM
-2	How easily could a man lie to you regarding the amount of effort that he puts into his physique, are you idealistic or realistic? His body isn't that impressive, fairly fit and healthy and I certainly wouldn't be put off by it, it passes the attraction threshold I suppose. His stomach isn't as defined as I am used to but he is clearly lean and has some muscular developement. He is ideal in the sense that he has a realistic body and doesn't look roided out. I'd believe him if he said he works out every day and enjoys junk on the weekends. He clearly also is slightly tall too which is a plus	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 11:37 AM
3	Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated? I don't know, maybe its changed recently, most girls I know arent on apps for long they either have a new boyfriend, seriously dating or their fwb is enough for the time being	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 06:23 PM
1	Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated? Well that's good to know, it obviously hasn't held you back	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 05:19 PM
2	Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated? They dont say it they just simply don't consider short as something to justify discounting from the outset. It would be like putting "must not be ugly"....well duh	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 05:09 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I never understood the 80/20 thing. That implies that I'd find literally 1 out of 5 guys attractive which sounds absurd, i'd be cobstantly staring at men haha, its obviously far less than that and I'd go as far to say most women find much less than 1 out of every 5 men attractive. It would be hard to function if it was that high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 05:06 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Fair	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 04:16 PM
5	Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated? No I wouldn't, I'd argue I've only ever found men attractive who have the potential to intimidate me, but our rapport is so positive that it's transformed into attraction. 5'6 is short, and they don't want to hurt his feelings. Most girls on dating apps that I know simply set their filter to 6 foot anyway, it's like the standard, as do I.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 04:10 PM
8	Daily Community Chat Megathread There is nothing "wrong" with the fact that I only find roughly one guy a month physically attractive in dsy to day life I've seen a few weird comments in response to part of a post I made in the main chat yesterday, one of them claimed that women need fixing and "something doing about them" because I find "so few men attractive" and another said I need my hormones checked lol. But recently three other female posters agreed with me saying "it's about right" and they share that experience. So I f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 02:11 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your paragraph makes no sense. How is being attracted to a small amount of people a problem. What have children or animals got to do with anything. And should I settle for somebody I don't want to be with and live a fundementally miserable life, or do us both a favour and stay single and content with friends, family, independence and occasional hook ups with the few guys I find attractive from time to time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 11:08 PM
18	Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements? Preference and requirement are weird terms. I either AM attracted or I am not. My head is turned maybe once a month by a man on the street, gym, bars etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 10:57 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread What? How is that broken at all, its normal and healthy, nothing about that needs fixing, and nothing needs to be "done" about women, very disturbing language there	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 10:49 PM
0	What do you mean when you refer to the average guy? Well it looks short, I cant explain it, it's not a height that evokes anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 08:53 PM
2	What do you mean when you refer to the average guy? Hes not above average height for a dateable 20 - 40 range man in the US or other western countries. Most men that age are taller than that. Its only when you include older men that the average shrinks. 5 foot 10 is a non height, not short or tall	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 07:15 PM
2	What do you mean when you refer to the average guy? Yeah, just a totally beige kinda doesnt provoke any feeling kinda guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 07:00 PM
1	What do you mean when you refer to the average guy? I think the "bar" doesnt move depending on your population, if the majority of your country is fat men then the majority of your country is below average	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:47 PM
1	What do you mean when you refer to the average guy? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:31 PM
0	What do you mean when you refer to the average guy? As a woman, not speaking for all women, I'd define the average guy as the following. 5 foot 10ish, not short not tall. Thin but soft A face that is undefined but not "ugly" (I hate using that word) Normal haircut without a particular style Drives a random sedan, owns one bedroom apartment maybe Is chill and polite but not really charming. Almost like the kind of person youd imagine playing an extra in a movie scene, just non descript "man", totally beige but nothing "wrong" with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:18 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The alternative is worse though, and being alone has never been better than right now	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:11 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ok, well I don't see many men that inspire that feeling. But like I said, i'd only want it for one person anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:39 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Why feel sad, I'm fine with it. Surely if youre in an LTR, the less people youre attracted to the better, a you only need to be attracted to 1	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:18 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread maybe not happy ones	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:15 PM
8	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think it would be beneficial for the men here to REALLY internalize one thing I'm not speaking for all women, but myself and other women I know included... We absolutely would MUCH rather be alone than settle for a man we're not attracted to. Granted, some women kinda give up or "let the dream die" of being with somebody they find attractive, and kinda decide to just be with somebody (think of it as mgtow for women, but instead of being alone they have a man paying for half their lifestyle and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:00 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread it aint victorian times	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 03:03 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because you're holding out for something that aint having the affect you fantasize it having, and youre better off not viewing a woman being alone as a negative outcome for her, and dome kinda karma, but view a woman being single as more competition. Being single should be thought of as "chad lite" as far as youre concerned	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:29 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread This is the order of happiness Being with a man we find attractive Being alone Being with an "average" guy (nothing wrong with average, one mans average is anothers prince charming)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 01:51 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread you speak of it like the rapture. Why can't people comprehend that being alone is better than sharing a bed and having to spend all your time with a guy you essentially see as more of a friend than a person you want to touch? Is it just projection of scarcity from men who have truly not had much affection in their lives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 01:33 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Why? Seems cruel	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:40 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's 2022, not 1980	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:40 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread From my experience women who settle are unhappy	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:39 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ok, but being alone is fine... It's WORSE to end up with a guy we don't want. Actively less happy being with somebody than not. I suppose if you want a woman to suffer, try and be with somebody who doesn't reslly want you that much...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:39 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, you may end up being a girls rare guy, keep doing you. But don't count on women "timing out"	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:27 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread How is it a revenge fantasy fulfilled? And how do you benefit from that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:26 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's beneficial in the sense that it gives you a better idea of the landscape. Being alone isn't some cliff women are driving off in a game of chicken with men, we'll keep going forever if we have to	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:20 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread My point is women alone are happy, especially now. A great guy is a bonus. The alternative is miserable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:10 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think it would be beneficial for the men here to REALLY internalize one thing I'm not speaking for all women, but myself and other women I know included... We absolutely would MUCH rather be alone than settle for a man we're not attracted to. Granted, some women kinda give up or "let the dream die" of being with somebody they find attractive, and kinda decide to just be with somebody (think of it as mgtow for women, but instead of being alone they have a man paying for half their lifestyle and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 11:56 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, the comparison to food is wrong. Sex with a man I don't find attractive, or having the option of it, is akin to being fed sand or dust at best and poison at worst. Unlike food, there is ZERO, if not MINUS benefit to a man putting his dick inside your body when you don't want it. It's not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:51 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Sex with an unattractive man is at the very least useless and repulsive, while at most traumatic and psychologically damaging. It compares nothing to having to read the labels on food....	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:10 AM
1	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? Why do I have to justify that and you don't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 01:42 AM
1	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? All I see is you quoting me using the words "I" in reference to my opinion and "the way I personally"....so.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 01:29 AM
1	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? I don't claim to speak for anyone else in any of my comments, only me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 01:17 AM
1	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? Are you implying women should only be on here to serve as reps for ALL women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 01:06 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, money is exchangeable for a VAST array of items and services. Sex is a singular physical act. What's your point dude?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:52 AM
1	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? I don't know, we are not a hive mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:50 AM
0	Question for TRP: What type of man do you consider a "Top" man or High Value Man? I refer to myself as "I" and in the third line below, in my unedited comment, I literally say "the way I personally define this is" And I'm not speaking for most women....though you are, as you're saying "most women..."	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:09 AM
1	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? Yeah? There's a lot of laws I disagree with....	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:06 AM
-1	Question for TRP: What type of man do you consider a "Top" man or High Value Man? In my comment I say "I don't think like that" Never do I use "we" And I have no problem with touch at all. When it happens with the rare guy, it's great.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 11:59 PM
0	Question for TRP: What type of man do you consider a "Top" man or High Value Man? I suppose so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 11:58 PM
1	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? I don't see the issue with prostitution. I don't see the issue with a society where people pay their own way. I am anti war. I still only find maybe one guy I pass by a month genuinely attractive. I'm not moaning at men to change. I have agency and am doing just fine. How are you doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 11:57 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Its not if you dont want it though. Sex in and of itself means nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 11:52 PM
0	Question for TRP: What type of man do you consider a "Top" man or High Value Man? As a woman, I don't think like that. It's either "attractive" or "unattractive". The way I personally define this, is if I think of the man touching me, do I want to recoil or not? I'd say on average I see one man a month who wouldn't make me initially recoil at the thought of them touching me. But if we are in love and in a relationship, that person is 1 out of 4 billion men....so surely NOT being attracted to a large share of men is a GOOD thing in regards to reinforcing this dynamic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 11:48 PM
2	Should "smaller" men give up on PIV (penis in vagina) sex ? Yeah, it's just not the same when you've experienced it	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 11:04 PM
0	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? Even if that is true. Men here when it's boiled down are complaining that they can't get a woman they are not unattracted to. What's the difference?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 11:03 PM
2	Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR? I suppose in a way the type of men we have sex with during a "hoe" phase as you put it are better at providing a raw sensory feeling, whereas with an LTR those men tend to not be the kind to stick around so we find guys who are more likely to commit and provide an overrall more fulfilling and meaningful experience over the long term, but rarely are they as "good" at sex, or should I say, it feels like more of an emotionally intimate act with a ltr kinda guy that had its own positives but rarely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:31 PM
2	Should "smaller" men give up on PIV (penis in vagina) sex ? Its tough because on the one hand, rarely is a penis so small that it's a problem, but when you're used to or experience 6 inch plus on a frequent basis, it's more of a "but it aint that" kinda feeling. Almost like the "Can we have McPenis mom? No, we have penis at home" kinda meme	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:09 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The best way to describe it is that there are men who are attractive, and all the other men (and I mean this in the context of if I was to imagine them touching me, not in day to day interraction) are fundementally repulsive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 06:56 PM
-1	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? I'm going to repost my mega chat comment as it encapsulates what I feel Men have it hard, but it isn't "easy" for women either I think men, whilst understandably frustrated by dating, don't seem to see anything about the female experience as anything but an advantage. But take a moment (as we should all do) to try and comprehend the OTHER side. As a woman do you know how frustrating it is that.... Almost NOBODY in day to day life or online provokes any feeling of attraction? It's just an endless…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 06:29 PM
3	Q4W Out of the 10 guys listed below, how would you rank them from most physically attractive to least physically attractive? Guy 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 06:27 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not really, how is it at all like that? Money is of value, most unwanted attention is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 06:02 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not wanting to date somebody doesn't mean thinking you're better than somebody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:07 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men have it hard, but it isn't "easy" for women either I think men, whilst understandably frustrated by dating, don't seem to see anything about the female experience as anything but an advantage. But take a moment (as we should all do) to try and comprehend the OTHER side. As a woman do you know how frustrating it is that.... Almost NOBODY in day to day life or online provokes any feeling of attraction? It's just an endless slog of swiping through people we don't want. Now imagine, men, if you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 04:35 PM