| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 51 | Religion Red Flags | FDS RESCUE MISSION | NawSisFT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:48 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?🤮🤮 ugh so gross because it’s true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 8 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?🤮🤮 ugh so gross because it’s true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 12 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?Yes! Finance has so many LVM! I can’t cite my source, but I read some article once that said finance men (& women) had the highest rate of cheating! Something about the “conferences” they go to being just a huge party. Adultery, drugs. Article went on to explain pretty much the “big $$$” and power made them all horny narcs! I’m divorcing a man that owns his own wealth management firm. I can confirm this is true. Can’t even watch “The Wold of Wall Street” without wanting to vomit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on men calling you adorable?THIS! My standard response to the “you’re cute” is “Puppies and drooling babies are cute, I’m not cute!” Context matters, but it’s often used as a neg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:37 PM |
| 24 | LVM will not hesitate to waste your timeLadies, if you live in a state that honors Common law/informal marriage KNOW YOUR RIGHTS! For instance. Texas....if your SCROTE plays house with you, combines all your lives, and walks around claiming you as his “wifey”. YOU CAN DIVORCE HIM. KNOW YOUR RIGHTS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 149 | Stay awareDefective “x” chromosome is what I like to think of it as! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:12 PM |
| 11 | Is this just part of the culture now? What are you’re thought a women who use these kind of names? To each their own or do you think it’s wrong and degrading?It’s gross. Worry about the ones that want you to call them Daddy yes....but be even more concerned when they want to call you MOMMY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 59 | My friend dumping her LVM and treating herself right !!!Yes Queen! Bring her into our loving arms! Time to LEVEL UP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 24 | 👑 You’ve got this, sis. Don’t forget.Wow. Powerful, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Goodbye loser 🥰Lol, I was hoping he would die first! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 18 | Local man can't handle the fact his girlfriend is smarter than himWhy do they always go so damn verbose when the baby ego flares?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 7 | Goodbye loser 🥰I will AVOID the quija board FOR SURE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:23 AM |
| 25 | This woman knows her stuffFuck, I needed that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 45 | Dammit I just realized I’ve been played by a fuckboy. I’ve been out of the dating game a while and am over 30. So I’m new to some things.RUN SIS. RUN. NEVER LOOK BACK! Block and delete, only answer work emails if you truly have to. These aren’t “fuck boy” symptoms. These are the symptoms of an abuser. How it starts. The script has been followed down to the T. I am so sorry you’re living this right now. Don’t fall for hoovering, flying monkeys, future faking. Triangulation. DARVO. None of it. Research all these terms. Then research the grey rock method. Research Narcissistic abuse. Read WHY DOES HE DO THAT by Lundy Bancroft ASAP! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 26 | Goodbye loser 🥰Only death stops them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Do you find it pedophilic when men want their partner to be shaved everywhere ?Screams porn sick to me. I also hate to see a guy that has shaved himself bald down there. It’s a huge turn off for me I don’t want to have sex with a man that looks prepubescent. It’s disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 27 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Got a nice discount on some truck accessories and dealership manager driving and picking up my vehicles just cause I’m a pretty little thang. Let him waste 4 hours of his day so I’m not inconvenienced! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:54 PM |
| 9 | This is the kind of attitude we need to have👏🏼👸🏻I second this! Threw the alcoholic, cheating, narcissist NVM out of my life last month. Now the sweet chi~weenie sleeps with me! He’s a much better bed fellow! Might drool a little bit, sometimes he cuddles a little too close, but his snores don’t shake the room. If I have a nightmare (from all the abuse) the dog doesn’t wake me up screaming, calling me a “PsyChO bITcH” Pup is happy with affection and cuddles and it feels good to give my love and nurturing to something that won’t destroy me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | What are some songs you used to find cute and romantic and you find unbearable nowadays?Thank you, but it’s actually so freeing to finally be able to put it all together! Out of the gaslighting fog and leveling the fuck up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 10:03 PM |
| 3 | What are some songs you used to find cute and romantic and you find unbearable nowadays?Omg 🤮🤮 that is LITERALLY the song that is the ringtone for the NVM I’m divorcing...at his request! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 13 | What are some songs you used to find cute and romantic and you find unbearable nowadays?Not exactly cute and romantic, but I remember when T-Pain had a song about “blame it on the alcohol” It was a huge hit. Anyways, heard it the other day and it just clicked that it was glorifying rape culture, date rape. I had to change the station. I guess my age is starting to show 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How did you stop feeling guilty about standing up for yourself?This comment was amazing! Queen energy thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 2 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Amen! Also a good point...I know a lot of us queens can get stuck a little longer than we like asking that damn “WHY?!?” Question! Unfortunately it does seem to be part of the process, but you’re so right...the why does NOT matter. The cliché of “it is what it is” can save you from the constant “Why” stage. Why doesn’t matter. Only thing that matters is LVM will not/cannot/are unwilling to be HVM unless it is a charade to serve their purpose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Exactly! Like maybe we should try and invent some sort of super glue that just makes the mask STAY ON. Like for LIFE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 5 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Hahahaha! Actually, this has been 20 months in the making! Patient Narc is damn right! So I’ve been a patient QUEEN and been doing everything I need to do to escape. He’s put the last nail in his coffin and I highly doubt there’s a damn thing he can do in court! And yeah, if I wrote a script and made a movie GOLLUM would be my pick to play him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 10 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Thank you so much. Today is an “angry day!” But Queen energy is starting to flow pretty heavy. The things I have pieced together and found out are horrifying. Definitely not his first marriage at all. Lifetime movie type story. Not too ready to share a lot, but I’m getting there. FDS SAVING LIVES OUT HERE! KICKHIMOUT2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 22 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Still in the thick of it. Kicked him out of MY MASTER suite mid AUGUST. Kicked him out of our home Friday 9/4. Divorcing an abusive, alcoholic, serial cheater. Ladies...I cannot say this strongly enough. BEWARE the predators are damn good at pretending to be HVM. I “did everything right”, vetted him for 2 years before combining homes and marrying. 4 months into it, after uprooting my entire life all the truth about him came out. Waiting on protective order or restraining order, whichever goes th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Cutting Off Audacious Individuals (Online & IRL)Gotta be a guy named Paul. Lol. I’m divorcing him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 7 | Dealing with an abusive narcissistic ex-husband’s ploy to win you backYou are my hero! FDS is saving my life at this moment, I’m also separated from and divorcing my abusive husband! Your response is GOALS! Yes Queen! I know I’ve got a lot of hoovering coming my way and I’m saving your post for clarity when I feel weak! Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 24 | Thought of you all... the answer is obviousCan confirm. First husband was a Capricorn. Now divorcing 2nd husband that is also a Capricorn. They are the antichrist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 3 | (TW) Men have no empathy. And there are a lot of comments siding with the boyfriend.No telling how many times he fapped to the video in his rAgE. Ugh I think I just made myself sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:09 PM |
| 24 | Alright I’ve lost enough brain cells todayGood old Lundy Bancroft goes over the myth of mutual abuse in Why does he do that. Most DV websites also discuss the myth of mutual abuse and the fact that abuse is about power and intimidation. There is crazy making and reactive abuse...women being abused so long they finally fight back or snap. The power dynamic is what makes mutual abuse a myth. That same type of power dynamic is what also invalidates the idea of reverse racism. Never let a SCROTE that is abusing you convince you are the viol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 11 | Religion Red FlagsThank you so much. I’m so sorry we can both understand this horrid treatment. I’d bet those ex in laws of yours—-the mother was a pick me from a long line of pick me’s and has been trapped in that marriage...shame on her for trying to trap you in their generational cycle of shit if that’s what it was. The awakening is liberating and terrifying all at once. Thank GOD for FDS. Sure as shit ain’t the same God those types worship though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:29 PM |
| 12 | Religion Red FlagsMy heart breaks for you, I’m so sorry you can empathize with spiritual abuse. I hope that your project helps in your healing process. So many women are trapped. Brainwashed. I was reminded very quickly that the church does not consider women as people in many cases. Especially when a man is abusing her. When the truth came out about this man. When the abuse started. Contacted our priest first. Told him about the abuse, Addictions, massage parlors, hook up sites...y’all know the rest. Depravity, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 18 | Religion Red FlagsI’m so sorry you went through that. I was raised in it as well. On and off. Left myself mid teens. Some life experiences that were pretty horrible had me yearning for the community and support of a church community, but I was unwilling. This LVM met me when vulnerable and convinced me his church was the right church and was sO sUpPorTiVe of my past and decision to identify as agnostic. It was sick. I’m in therapy to undo the brainwashing. This man even held a position in the church for 16 years.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 18 | Religion Red FlagsThanks you. It feels so great to have some support, this has been nearly 2 years trying to get away from this man and I’m finally having more strong days than not. FDS helps me access my strength on the days when I skip back into pick me thinking...being terrified because I emailed him for some divorce documents. NAW SIS FUCK THAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 10 | This snaggle toothed little bitchOh this wins the internet for me today! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:59 AM |
| 4 | How do you get over someone?If I were you I would read “Why does he do that?” By Lundy Bancroft. From what you’ve written it seems like you’ve been a victim of abuse. Abuse is not only physical. I’ve been there sis. Still trying to get out of there....but my first steps began with FDS and Lundy Bancroft. Leaving/being discarded and getting over an abuser is a bit different than just a typical bad relationship. Have faith though, we are Queens and will not fall. A tip, from personal experience....if you find the answers you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I bet he thought he really got me typing out this word soup. Just say you want a FWB and go.Cringe. Suicide jokes are a no go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 05:29 PM |
| 8 | I bet he thought he really got me typing out this word soup. Just say you want a FWB and go.I think that should be the standard FDS response from Now on! Lol, they wanna call FDS ladies gold diggers let’s earn it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | relevant book thread!I really hope you enjoy it! I did the audible first, then ordered the paperback off amazon!! I might give some as stocking stuffers this Christmas! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 02:15 PM |
| 20 | relevant book thread!Why Does He Do That? By Lundy Bancroft Changes your life. I believe every woman should read it before she begins dating and go back to it every few years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Update - don’t go for men who say they don’t want monogamy.Ugh you speak truth Sis! I loved this although yowza ouch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 04:42 PM |
| 8 | Its actually good things like this happen to you can weed them out after only 1 messageExactly. Straight douche baggery negging fuckery. This guy definitely thinks he’s a lady’s man and PUA 🙄🙄 Just another pornsick LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:07 PM |
| 47 | Reminder that hot and ugly dudes end up treating you the same wayI’ve dated a few ugly guys...they treat you worse than you can imagine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Older man (50) admits that it's hard for him to find women who want a relationship, was dumped by a woman who "wants to focus on herself and kids".Ehhh, I don’t feel bad that MOIDS struggle in dating. I really DGAF. They’ve done it to themselves. I don’t fall for this guy’s “poor me I’m sUcH A nICe gUY!” He’s a MOID like the rest of them, and just posted this so some pick me’s will flood his DMs. Naw Sis, FT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Ladies don't hold back, tell em like it isBITCH ain’t shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with Silent Treatment from boyfriend in a High Value way?Only well said because I’ve lived it!! But Naw Sis, FT! I’m getting out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:06 PM |
| 13 | I didn’t want to go this route but I think I’m starting to really dislike and look down on most men. Don’t want to feel this way.I’m in the same place sis! Just realized I’m 35...childhood was nothing but abuse. As an adult I’ve dealt with 3 abusive relationships. I’m trying to leave my last one ever now. At 35 I’ve now realized the only time I’ve been happy had been alone. That’s the only time I haven’t been abused. I’m trying so hard to not go full man hater, but y’all might see me screaming in a vagina hat at a women’s march soon 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:01 PM |
| 15 | Dealing with Silent Treatment from boyfriend in a High Value way?ST can often times be an abuse tactic in LTR. I would think long and hard if the man is worth it. No relationship will work if one person stonewalls and goes silent as their conflict resolution | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:57 PM |
| 7 | Just got banned from r/askfeminists for making a compliment on this sub when someone created a post asking others their opinion about this sub. Pathetic! 🙄I’m one comment away from being banned from narc abuse for mentioning that this sub has been one that’s helped me. I left the sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 14 | Cheating husband surprises no one by cheating again, wife wants to know how to regain sex life... Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!I would not want you to feel shame at all, I certainly don’t look down on you. I’m going through what you’re going through...with even more shit thrown in. I’ve finally gone no contact. Gotten a lawyer. This sub was one of the tipping points for me. I fkn matter. I deserve love. Honesty. I’m a HVW, no matter what his disgusting actions try to convince me of. There’s billions of people in this world. Many of them are men that wouldn’t abuse me and my trust over and over. Dealing with some cheatin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Accurate SnapBackI’m about to get some emails trying to break no contact, I really hope I’m able to clap back with something like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | A few weeks into “hey stranger” season 💁♀️If only you could respond that way without giving them hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Text him first only if it is very necessary and do not reply to all of his messages immediately. Let him chase you.His loss! Seems like he was trying to last minute you so good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 12:31 AM |
| 3 | How do you respond to breadcrumbing without blocking?I second this notion. Hear, hear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 11:32 PM |
| 3 | What about if you were friends first?If you’re letting him out of the friend zone proceed with caution I’d say. Need to make sure he’s not considering it to be only FWB | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Daily reminder: don’t chase loveOnly love I’m chasing from now on is self love. Fkn Moids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Within the Manosphere, what’s with all the septum ring hate?This is exactly it! I can think of a million different things that I don’t like....I don’t go around voicing my hateful opinion about them! I’m now seeing how I am programmed to make others happy...just thinking about it. If someone asks my opinion on something I’m honest, I tell them I don’t like it...but then try to make a save by telling them something about them I love to make them feel “happy” Ugh. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Empaths beware!Loved this and needed it today! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Say something nice about Alexandra and Keanu 💖She’s an absolute Silver Fox! So happy for this couple, they both appear to be HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Oh well!Today’s mood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 05:04 PM |
| 8 | Sometimes You Have To Remind Them Multiple TimesHad to swat one out of my inbox today! SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 06:54 PM |
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