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Absolutely spot on this is exactly what most of us have been through 👏💯
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/25 05:22 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 06:08 PM
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💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 12:23 PM
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Brilliant post mate
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/25 08:01 PM
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Absolutely 💯 mate 💪
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 07:53 PM
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Ex wife
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 09:49 PM
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Cheers mate appreciate it 💪
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 11:50 AM
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My ex wife when she lived in new Zealand with her auntie and cousins in her early 20s (we are English) slept with a few bad boys some had girlfriends, when we first started dating she had moved back home to England she told me she normally only went out with drop dead gorgeous blokes and it must have been 6 months before we slept together after marriage and our son was born sexless marriage surprise surprise! 6 years ago she tried to monkey branch to her EX friends husband our neighbours, well s…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 09:29 AM
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Great reply mate 👏
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 07:53 AM
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Yep my ex wife our broken family for nothing too many stories like these
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:52 AM
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Superb mate 💪
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:48 AM
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Great message mate all the best guys keep pushing we are all in this together I'm here in the city of Norwich in the England
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:57 PM
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Playing step dad son time there my typing!
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 11:23 AM
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Gutted for you mate but I'm like a lot of us I have no interest in basing step dad or blending my son in some other family I keep both things separate and always will Fun time separate from sun time But good luck anyway mate
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 11:22 AM
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💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 06:52 PM
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No never again for me spend loads of time with my 12 year old son season ticket holders at Norwich city FC (a team in the championship one down from the premier league in england I also coach his football team or soccer for some of you guys! I'm 50 this year when I'm not with him i do whatever I like Have a good job love the gym cycling fishing have loads of mates I grew up with but don't mind a lady friend kept at arms length
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 06:40 AM
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Yea that is so accurate 💯
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 10:16 PM
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How true 💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 11:27 AM
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Yep my ex wife became "just friends!" With her friends husband our neighbours kept taking my son round to see his friend normally when her actual friend was working just his dad there my son used to say Should have seriously put my foot down but didn't want to see it When she blew our family up I didn't know her friends husband left her also Out of nowhere my ex wife told me she was going on a date with him! Oh well he obviously dumped his friend as has other woman on the go whilst at the same t…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 06:56 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 09:33 AM
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💯 this there is no other way but to push forward without them we all spent years trying to rationalize what a ridiculous decision they made the hurt the kids properties but we are dealing with the female mind You have to go through the door you don't want to simple
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 11:25 AM
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Yes 💯 from another divorced guy here in the city of Norwich in the UK
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 07:58 AM
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Loved reading that mate great advice
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 03:18 PM
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Absolutely 💯 this 👌
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 01:57 PM
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Absolutely 💯 when I was going through it I used to think how many young children were currently in hospital with major illness that soon used to snap me out of my victim mentality
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/23 12:22 AM
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Absolutely spot on description 💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 02:18 PM
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This 💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 02:17 PM
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Absolutely 💯 become the ex husband who she wants but can't have back that's what I did
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 10:06 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 10:03 PM
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My ex wife tried the same don't do it mate
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 10:02 PM
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Oh and mablethorpe and Louth
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 11:56 AM
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Just round the corner then mate! Yes been to skeggy and then sunny Grimsby FA cup with Norwich was a bit cold and windy! Workmate is from Boston no worries keep in touch on here 💪
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 11:54 AM
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Sorry mate happens to so many of us but I promise if you carry on with your improvements you can go on to far better things UK also 🇬🇧 Norwich
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 10:16 AM
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Great posts guys 💯
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 10:22 PM
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💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 10:22 PM
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Absolutely 💯 agree with all that mate great words and so true 💪
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 07:49 AM
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Yes same here I lost weight stress at first then carried on with the gym Started getting attention to from other females some my ex wife knew she hated it tried then to get ex husband back great move saying no when I did I have never felt so strong as a man
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 12:33 AM
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💯💯 it absolutely amazes me guys like this I have a 12 year old son and my two lives are separate he will never have a step mum or some ridiculous blended family But what I get up to when I'm not wth him he will never know I dont so step dad and it would break his heart anyway His mum has tried to introduce him to an idiot who drinks up the pub she works he isn't having any of it I just say your choice son and don't get involved
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 09:07 AM
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The perfect checklist mate 👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 09:48 PM
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My wife tried to monkey branch to her friend's husband our neighbours sorry "just friends" I enjoyed turning her down when she obviously got dumped and I levelled up gym,work even more Superdad etc Best feeling ever after I was the pathetic ex husband trying to win her back when it first happened So great to hear mate all upwards for you but downwards for them
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 02:47 PM
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Great post by the way guys 💪
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 09:06 PM
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💯 with you on that mate totally agree
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 09:05 PM
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I was lucky all the lads I grew up with went through school with lads holidays weddings (I'm the only divorced one not bad most of us late 40s but still plenty of time for them! Those guys and close family work mates got me though so lucky I guess
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 08:55 PM
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My ex wife couldn't stand it when other females especially up my son's school started taking an interest She went into full on panic mode I'm now seeing someone 12 years younger than her
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 01:41 PM
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Wow what a great read mate 👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 09:56 AM
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💯 had the same my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours I enjoyed turning her down after I levelled up big time and she obviously got dumped by "he's just a friend" Become the ex husband she wants back but can't have All the best mate
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 07:43 AM
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Please listen to the advice it could save an absolute mess all the best mate
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 06:24 PM
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Absolutely spot on 💯
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 10:01 AM
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Absolutely this 💯💯💯💯 if we had all done this we would have recovered so much quicker Great words mate will screenshot this for any lads I know who end up going through this crap
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 09:59 AM
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"just a friend" has ended more marriages then anyone
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 09:56 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 this happened to me
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 11:25 PM
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No my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours well she still won't admit that was the reason she destroyed our family He obviously dumped her not long after she was just one of a couple of woman he was banging He moved in with another woman that went wrong All the time begging to go back to his ex wife My ex wife is now a struggling single mum of 48 I could have gone back plenty of times after her flirting hinting and playing the poor victim all on her own No thanks …
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 11:23 PM
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Absolutely 💯
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 05:56 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 10:08 AM
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If another guy it's called "monkey branching" if the new branch feels secure boom your family broken up If the new branch breaks " I realised I still love you and want our marriage to work! My ex wife did the same but the new branch she thought was secure wasn't she was used and dumped I enjoyed rejecting her listen to us guys who have been thorough this it's the same story unfortunately Give her the space she wants and seriously work on yourself good luck mate keep us posted
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 10:07 AM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 06:13 PM
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Absolutely 💯 my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours all the kids know each other! Absolutely ridiculous what rational mind would think that's all going to work out! She didn't realise she was one of a few and got dumped when he moved in with another woman that also went wrong I really enjoyed rejecting her after I levelled up big time and other females some younger I'm now 49 was 44 at the time, I became the ex husband she wanted but couldn't have
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 05:05 PM
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Think they call it relationship equity we basically don't have any the years spent together dating marriage kids homes etc etc in a female brain they are hidden away all that matters is now "she feels" she has lost herself Or the new exciting guy gives her the tingles we used to give them None of it makes sense I have up on that years ago
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 02:38 PM
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Mate you have put that so well that resonates with all of us
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 02:34 PM
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Don't go for it mate I wanted to go back to my family home with my son living with both parents but I got my confidence and self worth up so high and walked away
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 04:05 PM
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We all did the same well most of us But do you know the best part I enjoyed turning the tables and rejecting her after I pulled away hit the gym became even more Superdad and started getting attention from other females mostly women she knew This was after she obviously got dumped when "he's just a friend!" Dumped her Let her go mate become the ex husband she cant have All the best mate
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 02:14 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 02:06 PM
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Absolutely 💯 the look my ex wife gives me and the touchy feely flirting when I pick up my son I am no longer the overweight middle aged husband but now the apparently hot younger looking single dad of 49! She hates it she has a boyfriend who is 45 but looks 65 Hang on let's get another couple of plates on the squat bar 💪
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 12:00 AM
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💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 06:24 PM
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My ex wife came from a divorced family mum a narcissist to be honest Yep 10 years married she tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours, sorry just friends! Long story! She tried to come back I held firm I come from a close family mum and dad together long marriage until my dad passed Brother and sister both long term marriages So totally different backgrounds and it shows Always look at your potential future wifes background and dont ignore red flags
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 11:01 PM
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Absolutely agree with all of it 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 my marriage in a nutshell
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 09:26 PM
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They all do HE'S MY SOULMATE YOU JUST DONT UNDERSTAND! 😂
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 04:01 PM
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💯 agree had the same but in my case it it was after she obviously got dumped from her friends husband our neighbours she tried to run off with (sorry just friends nothing to do him she just never loved me!)
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 05:37 AM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 05:29 AM
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💯 been there
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 08:24 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/23 04:37 AM
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You are 💯 I said above I wish I hadn't left my family home but if I hadnt then I would have had to eventually
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/23 04:35 AM
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I did exactly the same went to my parents house it makes me cringe when I look back Never leave your OWN HOUSE!
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/23 04:33 AM
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This is a great post guys how many of us missed all the red flags My ex wife came from a divorced family a narcissist mother I come from close family my mum and dad together for years until my dad passed a year ago My brother and sister long term marriages I didn't have a chance with her what she comes from
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 05:06 PM
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💯 this had a few and one especially of single mums up my son's school all obviously knew my wife were on me like a shot love bombing me promising me the most amazing relationships and sex I was wise enough to see through that but hyenas is the description totally agree mate
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 04:39 AM
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This 💯
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 08:27 PM
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Great read mate and I agree 💯
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 08:23 PM
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Absolutely spot on mate 💯
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 08:19 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💪💪💪💪💪
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 08:16 PM
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Absolutely 💯
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 05:22 AM
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When I got divorced (her decision obviously!) I still had all my mates I grew up with I was 44 when she blew our family up had known most of my best mates for at least 35-40 years helped me through the bad times
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 04:44 AM
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I think you have it spot on mate 💯
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 09:52 PM
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Yep the new branch broke well Mr lover boy snapped it
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 09:51 PM
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Yep my ex wife and yes she tried flirting and hinting for new improved levelled up ex husband back Dont fall for it mate you are at least 2nd choice never be that
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 09:49 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 09:48 PM
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This is a great post guys and so true
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 06:43 PM
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Hear this all the time from my mates and work mates so sad but we were all there at some stage well most of us we don't learn until we go through what most of us have
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 06:42 PM
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Same here my ex wife is always saying how tired she is how skint she is (no money for anyone outside the UK) you might use that term? She says she struggles with our son he is now 12 starting to work things out so overall good effort for a woman of 48 with multiple sclerosis All for nothing she tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours, sorry he was just a friend nothing to do with breaking our family up! She obviously got dumped then wanted to have ex husband back Why so woma…
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 08:50 PM
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Some good posts on here guys there isn't a right or wrong answer all relative to our situations But totally agree some of is totallyagr specific and most will work it out for themselves
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 04:29 PM
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This 💯, my son is still friends and goes to school with one of the children from let's just say "the other family involved" my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours she obviously got dumped tried to come back No accountability as usual but the karma bus will drive straight into her
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 04:26 PM
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💯 agree with this mate
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 07:24 AM
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💯 I always say it doesn't matter were we are in the world I'm here in England in the city of Norwich and have a brotherhood with guys all over 💪💪💪
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 07:22 AM
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Totally agree my ex wife tried to hint and flirt for me back I enjoyed turning her down never look back no matter how much you want your old life back
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 09:35 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💪💪💯💪 this keep reading it back brilliant
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 09:34 AM
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💯 this
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 08:17 AM
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Yep same although she will never admit that's why she destroyed our family all the usual ones instead of the truth Oh well at least she got dumped and I had the pleasure of levelling up then rejecting all her advances! No accountability nothing unbelievable
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 08:16 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 08:14 AM
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💯 most don't come out of it aswell as we can if we put the work in my ex wife was desperate for new apparently hot ex husband of 49 back too bad She is now dating a guy a little younger than me but looks 10 years older spends most of his time up the pub she works and my 12 year old son doesn't want to meet him or his 4 year old daughter I just sit back and be Superdad and grab my popcorn and enjoy the show
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 05:30 PM
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Yep my ex wife tried to come back not directly but indirectly hinting flirting I said no obviously that was the most powerful I have ever felt
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 11:51 AM
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💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 11:47 AM
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Same here mate, I just wonder about the idea that woman settle so dating boyfriend girlfriend etc all good sex sex sex then marriage then kids dead bedroom nagging She eventually tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours The first time she desired me again was when she had obviously been dumped and I rebuilt myself gym etc and other attractive females wanted her ex husband When we started dating she said to me once "I normally go for drop dead gorgeous guys bad boys"! I never …
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 11:46 AM
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The best revenge mate is getting in the best shape ever smashing your job and becoming even more Superdad if you have kids you will then have many females chasing you no matter what she says this will be like a steak through her heart be indifferent all the best my friend and good luck
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 07:41 PM
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Great post mate and so true 👏 yes I got the "ilybinilwy!"
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 08:25 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 08:43 AM
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It's amazing after my ex wife destroyed our family because she tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours I rebuilt myself hit the gym smashed work became even more Superdad and then after she got dumped obviously (sorry he was just a friend) Other females wanted to take her place my god did she throw herself at new apparently hot ex husband of 49 I became like most of us the overweight middle aged husband provider with the sex appeal of a wet fish Dead bedroom for years naggin…
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 09:02 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 08:57 AM
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Yep we can all see it so sad he wouldn't listen if you told him" his wife wouldn't do that" " the only reason she doesn't sleep with me is because she is tired etc etc
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 06:34 PM
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All the best mate we are all in this together I promise if you do the self work usual stuff smash the gym martial arts smash work become even more Superdad if you have kids you will become the ex husband they want back but can't have It doesn't matter were we are in the world we are a brother ship I'm English here in the city of Norwich sending you all the best for your future mate
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 07:33 AM
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💯 this mate
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/23 12:11 PM
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They get more delusional by the minute tell her were to go mate
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 09:34 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 09:31 PM
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Was totally in the same place mate I recently started EMDR therapy and I seem to have had a total mind reset worth looking into mate all the best
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 11:23 AM
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Yes have never felt anger like it but now I laugh at her and her car crash life I also enjoyed rejecting her advances for a few years it will get better mate
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 11:19 AM
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She always complained she lost herself as she became a mother worked from our home etc so someone came along (her friends husband our neighbours) gave her the tingles and bang destroyed our lives but obviously all for nothing as he obviously just wanted one thing then moved onto the next
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 03:58 AM
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I still look at my ex wife and wonder what the f**k has she actually achieved She tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours sorry they were just friends that's not the reason she left! Must think I'm stupid Well she obviously got dumped I levelled up she desperately indirectly tried to hint flirt for ex husband back now other females wanted me I obviously said no thanks even though I so badly wanted my family together and my son in an intact family So back to your point she ha…
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 06:34 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 03:43 PM
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💯 agree I have a 12 year old son I rebuilt myself and never had so much attention I have no desire to be a step-dad but will have fun on the way
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 04:36 AM
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Absolutely 💯 anytime mate
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 09:21 PM
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Yep same here
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 02:46 AM
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Superb post and just keep agreeing with all the input describes most of our marriages and ex wives
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 11:14 PM
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Welcome mate this is were all us guys come to "FIND OURSELVES" 😂 it gets better mate do the work self improvement and you can leave her in the rear view mirror!
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 09:34 AM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/23 09:58 PM
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None will ever admit regret even though i would say most totally regret it ,I can tell me ex wife does but the female mind won't allow her to look at herself in the mirror
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/23 09:21 PM
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💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/23 09:18 PM
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Superb thread gentleman some great posts
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 03:16 PM
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Agree with this also mate
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 03:13 PM
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Brilliant simple as that 👏
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 03:13 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯 agree will all that mate
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 03:11 PM
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So well put mate and 💯 agree 👏
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 06:33 PM
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💯 this I went into pick me dance let her manipulate me I should move in with parents which I did Never move out of your own house or even bed if your wife wants to divorce break up the family Had my revenge I enjoyed rejecting her after I levelled up etc
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 12:07 PM
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Same here in the UK
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 06:05 AM
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Superb 💪
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/23 05:54 AM
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Great answer mate
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 08:57 PM
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💯 agree I'm a divorced dad I would casually date but never go as far as meeting each others kids if they want a boyfriend husband they can move on
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 11:30 PM
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Absolutely 💯 same here in the UK mate
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 04:57 AM
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Was reading agreeing with everything you just put mate 💯 that is most of our marriages in a nutshell 👏
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 04:37 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 04:33 AM
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Loved reading that mate 😂
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 06:16 AM
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Absolutely 💯 agree great advice
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 11:54 AM
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💯 victim mentality is easy to keep but hard to get rid of but when you do it's a huge point in recovery Stay strong mate 💪
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 11:06 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 09:22 PM
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💯 I come from a close family mum and dad together for years until his passing last year's close brother and sister they have close family lives guess what my ex wife comes from turmoil and a narcissistic mother her mum divorced her dad Yep she tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours still pretends that was nothing to do with our family split
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 06:11 AM
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Absolutely with you on that one mate 💯
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 06:37 PM
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Totally agree with all this 💯 spot on my ex wife walks aroud like she has done nothing wrong absolutely delusional
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 04:45 AM
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Yes ex wife obviously got dumped by her friends husband our neighbours she tried to monkey branch oh sorry "JUST FRIENDS!" I did want you should do in this situation hard gym training even better dad although was so close to my son already smashing work etc she obviously tries hinting flirting with apparently hot ex husband her friends words not mine! and other females wanted to take her place! no apology no accountability as usual but the work i put in my self esteem and confidence had shot up …
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 06:50 PM
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Yep my ex wife tried to make out it was nothing to do with her trying to monkey branch to her friends husband! No "JUST FRIENDS" helping each other through both families break ups! Oh well she obviously got dumped when he had had his fun, they must think we are stupid
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 05:43 AM
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I know mate absolutely crazy they are delusional
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:38 PM
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No go for it mate
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:34 PM
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Great advice and that's all I do 💯
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:34 PM
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Or they are "JUST FRIENDS"
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:31 PM
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Same here in the UK
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:31 PM
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💯 funny thing is after I levelled up and other females wanted me my ex wife was constantly throwing herself at me
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:30 PM
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Absolutely 💯 agree read this post and follow
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:28 PM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 04:13 AM
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10 years I'm not sure it ever leaves but you must go down the route of massive self improvement
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 07:34 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 06:41 PM
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Yep ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours sorry they were JUST FRIENDS! he obviously dumped her and after I rebuilt myself gym smashed work become Superdad and other females wanted to take her place guess who started flirting hinting for new improved husband back No thanks push forward with nothing but self improvement and become the ex husband she wants but can't have
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 06:40 PM
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This 💯 I enjoyed turning her down when she tried the flirting hinting for new improved husband back
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 02:08 PM
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I kept asking myself the same question and the honest truth they will bury any life and feelings they had for us and in her female brain it was out fault and running away with the new bad boy will solve everything
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 01:35 PM
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I have never agreed with so many posts
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 01:33 PM
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Same as me mate my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours he dumped her after she left me them spent a couple of years flirting hinting for new improved husband back no thanks my son is now asking questions I'm sure she thinks he won't find out as he goes to school and is friends with one of the other kids involved now she has told him she is with someone but he can meet him when he likes, that went down like a lead balloon they are absolutely delusional
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 01:32 PM
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Same
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 01:28 PM
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Brilliant advice mate I'm gonna screenshot that 💪
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 04:29 AM
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💯💯💯 totally agree even if we don't want them back
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 10:16 PM
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Yep got the same and we have not been in love for years She can be a better mum if she is happy I'm ok looking etc etc oh well her friends husband dumped her once she was fully available and I enjoyed rejecting her after I levelled up Yes I did at first beg and try to rationalize how stupid it was to destroy our family so great advice guys
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 10:12 PM
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💯 agree mate
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 02:03 PM
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Absolutely agree will all that 💯 same for me in my 10 year marriage and when we separated well she tried to monkey branch to her friends husband it failed I levelled up red pill to a point gym work got better became even more super dad guess who wanted back in especially when other females wanted to take her place
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 10:03 PM
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💯 this
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 10:12 AM
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💯 this and chances are she is just a side piece to Mr personal trainer he will dump her once she wants committment and move on to his other woman
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 07:08 AM
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I have nothing to add to the above superb advice just follow it simple as that mate good luck
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 04:21 AM
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So good to read mate and I totally agree 💯
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 02:10 PM
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Cheers mate it's hard our natural instincts are to go back but if you do the work you can resist and walk away
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 04:25 AM
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💯 attraction is everything we have no realationship currency i used to be the typical deadbedroom marriage especially after kids and became the typical overweight comfy middle age husband with the sex appeal of a wet fish! She became the stressed out mum and bang her friends husband gave her those tingles and that was that marriage over I did enjoy turning the tables when I rebuilt myself gym Superdad i was that already, when she obviously got dumped and other females wanted to take her place sh…
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 04:40 AM
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💯 this my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours I didn't know this at the time well the red flags were there and the gut feeling but like most convinced myself there was nothing she started hanging out with the neighbour and the kids "just friends" then suddenly nothing he obviously dumped her I hit the gym rebuilt myself other females wanted to take her place She is now a struggling single mum of 47 so yes totally agree her new lover pumped and dumped
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:22 PM
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Just remember mate we have all been through something similar to you and are all in this together, I'm typing this at work painting cars in the city of Norwich in England in the UK and am here like most of us to help our fellow man good luck mate keep on here and talk anytime
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:12 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:07 PM
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💯 this
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 09:59 PM
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💯 this
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:47 PM
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This 💯 I care about you as the father of my children but I'm not in the slightest attracted to you, but this other guy gets me hot and gives those tingles so I will let him take me What she fails to realise is he just wants one thing
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:46 PM
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Amazing the more you don't give a f##k the more they chase
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:40 PM
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💯 never had so much attention but no thanks just casual dating have no desire to play step dad in some messed up blended families
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:38 PM
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Yep same no one has ended more marriages than "he's just a friend!"
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:35 PM
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Yea totally I suspected my ex wife with her friends husband our neighbours red flags everywhere I got even more pathetic same when she wanted to separate out of nowhere or so I thought begging pleading, you really have to look at them and say no worries off you go and walk away
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:34 PM
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I actually enjoyed letting her flirt with me and didn't react just held my centre it absolutely killed her
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:22 PM
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Really good effort mate 👏
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:20 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:19 PM
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My son and I are closer than ever if that was possible it hit him hard and he will find out a lot of his mum's behaviour one day unfortunately
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 08:17 PM
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Brilliantly written
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 07:04 AM
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Well good luck anyway mate
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 06:50 AM
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What have i just read blimey mate I'm a total believer in kids should live both their biological parents but there is a line once crossed never go back
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 06:28 AM
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Norwich is my home city in Norfolk about 100 miles north from London
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 06:09 AM
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When I've been to the states to some people I may aswell be speaking Japanese they don't understand my strong regional accent but all the best to our allies across the pond 🇬🇧🇺🇲
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 06:06 AM
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I promise you mate if you follow the advice on this thread and become totally unrecognisable to her you will become the ex husband she desires regrets losing but can't have back and yes I speak from experience keep us posted on your journey mate How to tell I'm English I just realized how often I use "mate" 😂
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 04:19 AM
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Loved reading that mate and so true
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 04:16 AM
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Yep the famous ILYBNILWY were have I heard that before!
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 04:13 AM
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Yes after she initiated separation "we haven't loved each other for years "she loves me but is not in love with me" And she was obviously trying to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours she still will never admit that, he obviously dumped her In the meantime I hit the gym after losing the stress weight looked completely different to loyal comfy overweight middle age husband oh and other attractive females wanted to take her place She spent a couple of years flirting hinting for new…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 04:39 PM
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💯💯💯💯 if I hadn't hit the gym etc I wouldn't have had the chance to turn my ex wife down after she got dumped 6 months he can completely change himself
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:57 PM
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Yep until she gets dumped and want loyal husband back
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:54 PM
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If I hadn't done the personal work I probably would have I so badly wanted to back home but my self respect had got so high I could walk away She still gives me the eyes now it's ridiculous
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:50 PM
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Cheers mate appreciate it but I had my revenge hit the gym work got better and better became even closer to my son if that was possible When other females began to tell my ex wife how hot (apparently!) Ex husband has become for late 40s some wanted to take her place She was all over me I have never felt so powerful when I turned her down
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:47 PM
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Agree my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours absolute fantasy land yes he dumped her
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:44 PM
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This is a huge point a man could bang the young secretary for example go back to his wife kids The stressed out middle age mum who has "lost herself" The bad boy loser who gives her the attention bangs her she will believe he is the one he gives her the tingles not boring old husband Now we know as men he is just getting her into bed then boom she is dumped and another destroyed family Yes I speak from experience
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:43 PM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 08:58 PM
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I don't think any of them do all I get is the sob story how she is struggling on her own! Delusional, my story is on the timeline so she made her bed
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 08:57 PM
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Totally agree 💯 with all that so many of us been there I became the ex husband my ex wife wanted but couldn't have back bit of a revenge of sorts so follow the advice I know this sounds corny but become the best you have ever been physically smash work become an even bigger kick arse dad if you have kids It's a steak through my ex wifes heart every time we interact I look nothing like mr comfy overweight husband now And yes even though she still denies it she tried to monkey branch to her friend…
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 08:55 PM
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Yes probably could have done! Yes step dad not for me mate
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 10:43 AM
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Yes but indirectly my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours I knew something was up the old gut feeling but didn't want to see what was obviously happening She wanted a separation out of the blue not loved each for years apparently "loves me but not in love with me" yep that one I had no idea until she told me her friends husband had asked her out, i wasn't aware they had split up! Found out when I got her ex friends number all the details He obviously dumped her a…
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 04:47 AM
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💯 and whoever it is is probably, "just a friend" nothing to do why she wants a divorce hopefully not the case but 99% a good chance unfortunately good luck mate
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 02:34 AM
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You have to remember they are using emotion we use rational thoughts My ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours sorry they were just friends! She obviously got dumped and when I did the work on myself gym hitting work hard becoming kick arse dad and other females wanted me she then spent a couple of years flirting hinting for new improved ex husband back No thanks she is now a struggling single mum of 47 So keep push living well most of them regret it when they come …
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/23 09:04 PM
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Brilliantly put mate 💯 agree with all of that
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/23 09:00 PM
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What ever planet is she on absolutely delusional mate a month!
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 04:52 PM
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" I put my kids first" apart from when they destroy their families for their selfish needs
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 09:41 AM
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Ex wife and son stayed in family home she brought me out with the help of her dad and mum and step dad, hardest thing ever giving up my family home but wanted my son to stay near his schools, I'm in the UK by the way
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 04:55 PM
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Parents first now a 2 bedroom with a garage and decent garden peace and quiet!
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 04:53 PM
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💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 06:52 AM
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Yep same for me mate build on it and become the ex husband's they can't have back 💪
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 06:22 AM
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It's so funny I literally just popped round my old family home to take my son something in my gym gear and she did what she always does pick one of the cats up and bring them to see me right close up and she gives me the most obvious come to bed eye contact I always drive away thinking what a ridiculous waste of a broken up little family
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 09:01 AM
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Cheers mate appreciate it
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 07:02 PM
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Totally agree my ex wife is now a struggling single mum of 47 after trying to monkey branch to her friends husband got dumped I levelled up and have a had loads of opportunities at 48 she has thrown everything away for nothing totally delusional as you say
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 04:50 PM
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💯 this my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband still denies it just fell out of love been unhappy for years etc etc oh well ahe did try and get me back after she obviously got dumped so yes watch forbred flags I had loads
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 12:03 PM
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My ex wife thought the grass was greener she is now a struggling single mum of 47 I became the best I've been in shape even better dad smashing work I'm now the apparently the hot single dad of 48! She cant have so walk away and do the work it takes your soul but you can get it back mate all the best listen to a lot of the advice it's so true
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 12:02 PM
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💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 11:59 AM
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Unbelievable!
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 11:20 AM
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Absolutely disgusting but don't tell me "she puts her kids first and are her world!"
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 04:24 AM
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💯💯💯💯
/r/seduction16/05/23 09:41 PM
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Absolutely 💯 mate great strength of character my ex wife now makes out all is ok she is happy in her own little way yep this is the life she wanted etc etc
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/23 01:49 PM
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Yep I had many slumps but you pick yourself up and push forward again
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 04:58 AM
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Yes my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours, she obviously thought they were going to run off and she was going to be step mum to her friends kids absolutely delusional, he obviously dumped her after he had what he wanted sorry they were just friends she just didn't love me anymore "she loves me but she isn't IN LOVE WITH ME! it nearly destroyed me but I pushed through hit the gym became even more super dad etc and suddenly other females wanted to take her place s…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 10:18 PM
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Absolutely amen to that mate
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 12:26 PM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 12:25 PM
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💯 on the stoic philosophy read and watch some great stuff even have an app on my iPad
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 12:24 PM
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Great replies again guys 💪💪
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 08:50 AM
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💯 with you on this mate
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 08:49 AM
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💯 spot on
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 08:48 AM
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💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 08:48 AM
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My ex wife and I went through IVF twice i was 37 she was 36 had my amazing son he is now nearly 12, that hits home what you said we are English and my ex wife had lived in new Zealand with her auntie for a few years after her parents split up she always said to me she came home to England to settle down I definitely think I was Mr family guy as she had had the party days bad boys in New Zealand She already knew me as she was friends with my sister in law since they were kids Fast forward 10 year…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 04:27 AM
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💯 agree with all of that most of our marriages in a nutshell
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 04:17 AM
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Just pisses me off reading these stories lads shocking
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 09:14 PM
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Ha ha just wondered itsvgood guys all over the world can help each other I'm English and the woman are horrendous here you should see a Friday Saturday night out in any UK town or cites loads of trouble and thats just the woman 😂
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 09:13 PM
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Are you in the USA?
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 09:10 PM
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Then let him have her two pieces of trash together is an absolute catalyst for disaster
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 09:09 PM
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Yes they normally are her ex friends husband was just playing my ex wife he was seeing his ex wifes friend also Obviously my ex wife thought she was going to go and play happy families with her friends kids absolutely delusional The other couple are now divorced he doesn't even bother with his kids and my son is friends with the boy they go to school together and will all the way through high school so my son will eventually find So sad and all for nothing
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 09:02 PM
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My ex wife was hoping I had met someone obviously to aliveate the guillt although she has never admitted she tried to run off with him "just friends! Coincidence but obviously when he dumped her boom who am I seeing etc etc brilliant
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 08:58 PM
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It will come mate it's so funny I'm a football coach to my son's team (soccer for the USA guys!) And a couple of the boys mum's have shown interest, I actually have no interest in being a step dad but she basically mate guards and may as well push them out of the way to stop them talking to me it's so funny to watch 😂
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 08:56 PM
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💯💯💯💯 this
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 08:41 PM
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I hear you mate but there is no other choice then to go down the road of massive self improvement my wound still runs deep, even worse she tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours, he dumped her arse not long after and yes she tried flirting hinting for new improved ex husband back gym even better dad hitting work hard , especially after other woman wanted to take her place she hated it i wanted with every bone in my body to back to my home and son to normal family life but I…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 08:36 PM
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They make me laugh how they all say they "put their kids first" then proceed to destroy the family and try and introduce the kids to some guy they hardly know! All whilst trying to find themselves oh well my ex wife is now a struggling single mum of 47 after her friends husband dumped her after he got what he wanted 😂
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 10:09 AM
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💯 still have all of the lads I grew up with 40 years later as best mates they were there when I needed them
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 04:41 AM
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Unfortunately I totally agree lot of us have been there and didn't want to see it hope this is not the case
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 04:40 AM
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Absolutely 💯 I used to think how bad i felt then remembered there were young kids in my local hospital with cancer that put it in perspective and kicked my arse
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 04:39 AM
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Yep my ex wife desperately tried to covertly get new improved husband back with hinting flirting etc this was after her friends husband obviously dumped her and I levelled up big time and other females some she knew well wanted to take her place, I enjoyed rejecting her i hope you do the same mate good luck
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 12:04 PM
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Absolutely 💯
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 04:06 PM
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Appreciate it mate
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 01:08 PM
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Agree with the no going back I wanted so badly to just go back home back to normal with my wife and son but did the work to enable myself to stay strong and walk the other way
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 04:31 AM
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It's ridiculous if you follow exactly what you have done you will have so many woman hit on you I completely rebuilt myself and had so many attractive and some younger woman want to take her place I even turned it round so I was rejecting my ex wife that had destroyed our lives great post this guys we are all in this together wherever we are all the best from the UK 🇬🇧
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 04:30 AM
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This 💯 my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours! "Sorry just friends!! He obviously dumped her when he had his fun she is now a struggling single mum of 47 all the advice of this post is gold dust and should be followed completely we was men can come out better than ever
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 04:27 AM
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This is one of the best posts I've read for ages great work lads
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 08:23 AM
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That is absolutely spot on mate 👏
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 08:18 AM
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I had the same thing mate but my ex wife got dumped it was her friends husband our neighbours! He was seeing other woman she was just a sidepiece sorry he was "just a friend" keep pushing forwards mate hit the gym best dad ever etc etc well you know the drill and keep in touch on here mate good luck
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 07:02 PM
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How dare you he is her soul mate saving her from her awful life and husband! BUT THEN SHE IS GONNA GET DUMPED 😭😂
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 04:18 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 04:17 AM
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💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 01:49 PM
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It was mate I obviously see her loads now and you can see it in her face buy no accountability just hear how she is struggling all the time
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 08:03 AM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 08:02 AM
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I'm a divorced dad and would never take on another man's kids and don't want a step mum for mine I'm 49 and just gonna enjoy the ride I will never marry again and love the thought of that when I'm not with my son it's my hobbies time
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 07:40 AM
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This 💯 my ex wife is now a struggling single mum of 47 her fantasy guys her friends husband our neighbours! Dumped her just after we split me and my son are closer than ever, she hated it when new improved in shape husband had a lot of the single mums up our son's school wanting to take her place, I enjoyed rejecting her after a couple of years flirting hinting, she is all over the place overworked over stressed can't deal with an angry 12 year old who just wanted a normal family life, I forgot …
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 07:37 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 07:42 AM
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Not sure he wants to listen hope I'm wrong and if it worked out great but......
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 07:40 AM
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💯💯 guys
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 07:39 AM
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💯 this and it doesn't matter were in the world we are I'm here in the city of Norwich in England in the UK and still feel a bond with my fellow divorced bros all over
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 12:49 PM
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This 💯 as a man if you get in shape look after yourself smash it at work if you have kids become even more super dad you would not believe the woman who will be after you and like me you might get to reject your ex wife! Good luck mate keep on here and listen to the above advice became like he says it really really works
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/23 11:34 AM
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💯 this and his ex if hot will get passed around by the guys she wants and will have to settle for someone she has no desire for, if he does the work and follow what you have said win win he will enjoy rejecting his ex wife I did with mine keep pushing lads
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 02:20 PM
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All I can say is listen to all this solid advice we have all been there and are all in this together wherever we are in the world UK here you got this mate
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 04:11 AM
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Absolutely 💯 mate
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 09:00 AM
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Funny thing is I just get the sob story how she is struggling, no accountability or awareness that she caused her own downfall absolutely delusional
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 06:03 AM
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Yep also got the "I love you but I'm not in love with you! We have been unhappy for years it's like they all have the same script!
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 05:23 AM
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Yep and me but my ex wife is now a struggling single mum of 47 she got dumped
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 05:22 AM
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Sorry for you mate, my ex wife tried monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours, she is now a struggling single mum of 47 she spent a couple of years flirting hinting putting out the feelers for new improved husband back, I let her divorce me even though her heart wasn't in it, obviously he was just a friend! So what I am saying mate is become the best version you have ever been life can begin again for you good luck
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/23 07:24 PM
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I see so many men go and play step dad and see another man's kids more their own absolutely pathetic
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 05:30 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 05:28 AM
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💯 I've never felt better then having my ex wife spend a couple of years flirting hinting at new improved ex husband back and being able to say no thanks, Keep pushing mate
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 05:18 AM
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Great advice going to screenshot
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 05:32 AM
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And mine
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 05:59 PM
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💯 guys
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 05:58 PM
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💯 the Rian stone he also did athol Kaye's married man sex life primer brilliant stuff totally agree
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 05:56 PM
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Yep 💯 with you on that one mate was explaining the same thing to my son
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 09:34 AM
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This 💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 05:41 AM
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With you all the way brother keep pushing
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 03:36 PM
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Loved reading that mate and totally agree we are in the same page 💯
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 02:44 PM
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Nearly 49 married 10 years 12 year old son After getting through the pain because as a married man a dad with a family home when your wife throws you away because she thinks she found someone better (her friends husband our neighbours!) He also dumped her within a couple of months sorry they were just friends! It feels like it takes away your soul you lose your standing in the world, but after hitting the gym completely rebuilding myself other females wanting to take her place, ex wife also hint…
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 02:43 PM
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💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 02:13 PM
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Same position as me mate have no interest in another man's kids just enjoy yourself and let things play out I date woman with kids but my son time is separate from my fun time i tell them that from the off, it's silly but they get more attracted to me then!
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 02:13 PM
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💯 this if you do the work as said above you will enjoy rejecting your ex wife, I did now I see the look of regret on her face every time we swap with my son good luck mate take your time you can become the guy she wants but can't have
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/23 01:12 PM
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Yep my kids are my world but I will also break up their family because I need to find myself and replace the dad with a guy who turns out he just wanted to bed me and now I feel sorry for myself, yep my ex wife 😂
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 10:09 AM
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Good book goes deep into intersex dynamics the more I looked at how i had become during my marriage the more I've changed into the man my ex wife wanted back but couldn't have
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/23 09:56 PM
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Totally agree with all of the above, there also some great men's channels on you tube, some great books mentioned I have read all of them, I totally rebuilt myself and became the man who my ex wife wanted back but couldn't have, she also got dumped not long after she blew our family up, if we put the work in we can get through this guys
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/23 07:02 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 05:26 PM
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It's a hard one as some of the single mums up my son's school tell me 'they think it's amazing when a man takes on another man's kids and have tried to shame me because i tell them no thanks! I'm always straight up with them, we can go out enjoy some fun but that's were it ends, if you want a future husband get back on your dating sites, I see some of them with a different guy picking the kids up every few months unbelievable
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 05:43 AM
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Great honest reply mate it's so easy to judge so hopefully I didn't come across to opinionated, when I first separated i had so many single mums and some very attractive ones hit on me and how easy I could have thought with my d##k! And next minute bang I'm involved
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 05:39 AM
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I'm a divorced dad and don't want someone elses kids! Would casually date but there would be no meeting each others kids or trying for some for of a blended family my son gets all my time money and emotion I can't believe how many men do this even worse if you have no kids of your own
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 05:29 AM
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Same here mate my ex wife was flirting hinting and giving me the sob story within a year of blowing up our family, no thanks I enjoyed rejecting her
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/23 05:43 AM
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Yep when I'm with my son it's great and when it's me I do what the f##k I want love it
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 08:12 PM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 07:15 PM
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Totally agree with this 💯
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 07:14 PM
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He doesn't realise if he does serious work on himself he will get the chance to reject her when she tries to come back, been there you become a man again
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 03:52 PM
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Absolutely spot on he needs to hear that
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 03:50 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯 to every post, go through massive self improvement to build up confidence and self worth hit the gym hard put on lean muscle get boxing combat sports become a man again because most of us have been there and the only way is what I have just said it will kill her to see you become the man she can't have, good luck my friend keep us posted mate
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 11:56 AM
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💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 05:30 AM
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Totally agree with this if you spent 6 months hitting the heavy weights getting your protein nutrition spot on pulled away your attention become Superdad you would not believe how it will awaken your wife if that's what you want read 'married man sex life primer by athol Kaye dead bedroom by DSO and don't show her or tell her what you are reading or never tell her why the self improvement, if she doesn't react you will have plenty of other females interested, good luck mate
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 09:14 PM
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My ex wife did the same but not directly just hinting flirting etc, she actually thinks I don't know what she did, I enjoyed turning her down
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/23 05:46 AM
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My ex wife was 43 got diagnosed with multiple sclerosis same year as thinking she was gonna run off with her friends husband our neighbours, he dumped her and moved in with another side piece whilst begging to go back to his ex wife she divorced him my ex wife now a single mum of 47 so scary woman and their emotions will destroy everything for nothing
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 05:41 AM
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💯 this
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 08:30 PM
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Yea can't quite bring myself to throw it I know she still has the wedding photos in the wardrobe at my old family home
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 02:16 PM
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Yea, have mine in a box top shelf of wardrobe all what she did I still haven't thrown it away. I got no feelings for her just co-parent
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 02:08 PM
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Listen carefully hit the gym hard pack on some lean muscle get fit again slay it at work become super dad, whilst your ex wife is still attractive she is a divorced single mum she will get lots of attention but the guys who want to settle with her won't be the guys she desires, you are hitting your peak as a man if you do the work you could go on to bigger and better things mate good luck
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 07:05 AM
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Totally agree with all that mate. I also don't want some blended family as most divorced women have kids my 11 year old son gets all my time money and emotions, the amount of men who are desperate not to be on their own and jump in again absolutely pathetic
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 10:55 PM
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I would say definitely no1 she got dumped 💯 now, she will play on his emotions
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 05:44 AM
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Sorry, but the chances are to him she was a little side piece, and once he had his fun dumped her,'YOU ARE SECOND BEST! Move forward without her mate. I know it's hard some of us have been in your shoes, but the best revenge is becoming the biggest baddsss and greatest dad ever and leaving her in the dirt. Good luck, mate
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 05:42 AM
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Feel for you mate, my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours, it failed she tried to swing back to me when I levelled up, he dumped her whilst trying to go back to his ex wife and he moved in with some other side piece, that failed also, I let her divorce me her heart wasn't in it it was the hardest thing ever walking away from my family home but your self worth has to be more, she has never admitted what really happened total gaslighting me they were just friends e…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/23 10:34 PM
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Yep that's my ex wife 💯
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 09:39 PM
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Have no interest in being a stepdad and have no idea why anyone would, my son gets all my attention finances and time and when I'm not with him I do what I want, son time separate from fun time
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 02:16 PM
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💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 Great effort sir
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 06:33 PM
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This 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 08:28 AM
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Yep, divorced. have an 11 year old son when I'm not with him. I do whatever I like, and that doesn't involve women. I really have no interest in all that effort anymore
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 05:44 AM
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Yep 'I can be a better mum if I'm happy.' I got that one also, obviously got the 'ilybinilwy! Also,' we have been unhappy for years' well she tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours! He dumped her, of course. Sorry, he was just a friend! Helping each other through separation, I quietly levelled up gym, etc. I enjoyed turning her down after other females wanted to take her place, Two broken families for nothing they are delusional how they destroy everything for those tingles
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/22 05:49 AM
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💯 why on earth does anyone want another man's kids is beyond me my dad life is separate to my single man life
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 03:20 PM
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Loved reading that thank you and so true
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 07:49 AM
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Well put mate and so so true 💯
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 07:47 AM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 07:44 AM
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💯 this I levelled up bigtime especially physically she got dumped a few months after she left me (oh sorry they were just friends!) Yep came crawling back when other females wanted to take her place, enjoyed rejecting her multiple times over the last few years that's our revenge guys
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 07:43 AM
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Cheers mate all the best keep in touch on here
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 04:42 PM
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💯 agree mate you have to remember they are both trash simple as that, I think we spoke the other day I've just changed my username from the awful one reddit gave me! Like I said the other day uk 🇬🇧 here I think you are in the US? we are all in this together, apart from tonight (not sure if you are a football soccer to you! Fan we play you guys tonight in the world Cup
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 04:34 PM
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But them dump them and come running back normally as though they did nothing wrong
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 02:43 PM
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💯 this
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 02:20 PM
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Yep happened to me no thanks
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 02:19 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 11:10 AM
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Totally agree 99% of the time they leave for a guy who they don't realise just wants to bed them for a bit, my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours! All the kids knew each other, she blew our family apart for a little slimeball who dumped her a few months later to pursue other woman including his ex wife, she divorced him. My ex wife will never admit this is the reason she wanted to separate they were 'just friends! She has now lost a lovely friend a solid family …
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 06:26 AM
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This 💯 they can dump you but they still love the idea of you sitting there like a little puppy waiting for them to change their mind, the best thing to do is become the biggest baddas in life physically fit slaying it at your job and if you have kids the best superdad ever, it's funny when I did this and other females started to notice especially the mums up my sons school and they constantly kept saying to her ' your ex husband is getting hot for his age! their words not mine, and a few started…
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 05:50 AM
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Absolutely resonate with all that mate 💯
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 05:38 AM
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💯 agree with that
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 05:32 AM
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