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Good way to look at it. Hard to relate to that extreme level of behavior, but I don't blame myself, I did the best I could. That's just who she is and the only way she knew how to act, which is a composite of her entire experience in relationships since she was born. Not someone I want to spend another minute with and not my problem anymore.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 08:02 PM
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Well played sir, well played. For most of this year, my gut was telling me she wasn't seeing anyone else. But, the last month I've sensed maybe something is going on, but I can't really say for sure. It might be just that we've both been traveling and its been a 3 week break for us, which opens up time to evaluate. Who knows, who cares. It will be obvious over the next few days if we meet up as planned. She is my main plate also and I treat her as such. My hunch is that she is more likely to fla…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:33 PM
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I've done those things - i've been lifting now for a few yrs, I have fun hobbies, I lead my HH, and of course fuck like a champion! I think the bp part of this is that I was concerned that she might be swinging to a new branch after so much involvement with me - but the RP part of me should say 'i don't give a fuck, her loss'. So, in effect, and maybe this answers my question, if I continue as I have without the worry of her leaving, maintain confidence, frame, etc, it will either continue on as…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:12 PM
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Thanks - I'll spare a lot of the history with the ex, but the man up thing was her being frustrated I wasn't managing the relationship (which only happened because I knocked her up), which I consciously was not because I despised her and was constantly debating how/when to end it. She was nuts from the get-go, and my blue pill mindset told me to 'do the right thing' - bad idea. So it wasn't that I was being a pussy and putting her on a pedestal, rather I was just checked out and got out thankful…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:56 PM
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I think so, but what does a LTR promotion mean exactly...to me it feels like an LTR already, but I don't know for sure if she feels that way or if she has some plates spinning I'm unaware of. I feel like it will just turn into whatever it turns into but I'm hesitant to voice anything because it might make me look weak.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:40 PM
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Well, I have my kids every other weekend, so we've all been doing something together those weekends for the past say 6 months. I've also met her daughter several times, but she is 23 (mine are still in elem school), but notable anyway. She's also attended my kid's b-day parties, we've had dinner with my mother, my sister, and we've taken a couple vacations together....awhile ago she brought up the idea of taking the kids on vacation...she typically sleeps over 1-2 nights per week at my house, al…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:53 PM
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So, you are suggesting bringing up the idea of a committed LTR with her? I would like to but it feels like that's my old blue pill self searching for confirmation of her desire for me, and in effect confirm my own powerlessness/desperation in the relationship, no?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:44 PM
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I guess its a tinge of oneitis underlying the motivation for my question - if she does end it I'd be bummed out. I know I should always be prepared to let her go, but its more difficult if the other plates are of relatively lesser value.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:03 PM
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Great point about me not being available all of the time - I honestly hadn't thought of it that way, but it does give me a bit of clarity/relief....still getting the hang of this. I am taking it WAY TOO personally, like its some sort of seismic shift in my universe -- its one chick that got close to me. Seems like that is the key to relationships with women -- don't make it personal, since god knows what is going on with them that may make them do what they do. I did try to contact, and she may …
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:02 AM
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Amen brother - it ALWAYS ends this way, and usually abruptly. I've seen it so many times that it no longer surprises me at all. If its casual dating - i.e. no deep feeling conversations, no I love you's, etc....then I've always assumed I'm one of several prospects. But more recently, I've realized that its safe to make the same assumption for serious/committed relationships too. They may say they 'love you', and there is 'no one else'....please, for god's sake, don't buy it - extremely dangerous…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 04:53 PM
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I see both sides here, but she's been married 3x, and has a hard time even putting sentences together when talking about her emotions as it pertains to relationships. So part of it is some emotional damage somewhere along the line. Oh, and she said the next guy is a prior relationship...so feels like she's cycling through guys she's known in the past for ST relationships given she doesn't have other options (post-Wall SMV decline). And she didn't want to talk about it if I hadn't pressed her on …
/r/askTRP07/09/17 12:16 PM
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