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| 103 | Scrote is trying to take his date to a storage unit to make her clean it!In loser-speak, “nanny” = “children” = “women’s work” (🤢) = free mommy bangmaid, since he apparently never hit the development stage where the idea of expecting someone else to clean your mess (especially for free) induces deep, rightful shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:28 PM |
| 25 | This is part of the reason I will never date a "car bro". He proposed by doing a dangerous stunt in his $500 car with a rockless ring that costs less than his scrap metal on wheels. I'd be embarrassed to even post about it.I’m surprised he even got close to her ring size. You can see the effort she puts in with her manicure and her caption to share this moment with the world and he can’t even bother to get out of the car with her for a photo, let alone offer her a ring that seems to have any sort of personalized thought put into it. She deserves better :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:41 PM |
| 51 | Children of Dads Over 40 at Risk of AutismUh..what’s this subreddit’s consensus on autistic/neurodivergent women? Yes, older men are going to have lower quality sperm and it’s something to take into consideration if you want children. Autism is also something that’s more hereditary than anything - if your kid has it you or your co-parent likely do too. This study though can come across as kind of looking down on people with ASD, which feels iffy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | OLD profiles of attractive men be likeThat smile says “I’ve never physically or emotionally satisfied a woman and I’m proud of it” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:59 AM |
| 25 | Don’t you just love it when LVM tell on themselves? Do not settle for a man you have to “change.” You’re not a therapist. A HVM will see your worth without expecting you to “fix” him!“I refuse to acknowledge that there are men who recognize and follow the bare f*cking minimum for treating women with human decency. Therefore I’m going to try to gaslight my way into free sex so I can continue to be a lazy, selfish, emotionally constipated POS” Translated that for ya, bud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:37 AM |
| 36 | if he wanted to he would ;)Yes! It’s expected of women (and oftentimes other women are denigrated/compared to the woman in the video) yet when a man does the bare minimum decency everyone falls over him as if he’s some sort of god. Normalize healthy relationships! 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:02 PM |
| 101 | Date with a LVM starter pack 😂😩🥴If you’re asking about the head push specifically - it’s when someone (almost exclusively scrotes) pushes the top or back of the head of an intimate partner towards their genital area as a coercion for oral sex. It’s rather heinous but not taken seriously as a form of sexual harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:16 PM |
| 60 | We absolutely are being bullied into having zero standardsRats are intelligent, clean, sociable and affectionate. Far more than can be said for the scrotes who demand the world from women yet refuse to wipe their own ass 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 497 | Message to Male LurkersIf they’re harassing 20s women they don’t deserve any women 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:15 PM |
| 50 | The bar is in hell. I don’t know who’s worse: OP or the commenters!Also he’s sharing pretty personal information about this woman’s body to the ENTIRE INTERNET. Thousands of strangers. I’d feel so violated if my partner did this to me, ick 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 09:59 PM |
| 5 | This man has found himself a mother.Pretty much the point of the (currently on hiatus) awardsforgoodboys account on Instagram. Being rewarded for doing the barest minimum should be insulting, yet so many men demand praise for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:50 AM |
| 6 | HV relationships (work, personal) NEVER argue on the lowest 2 levels. Ever.Excellent diagram! I remember learning a lot of these logical fallacies and persuasive methods in high school English. On a related note - bottom three levels are, ironically enough, what I most commonly see as criticisms to FDS. Still yet to see a central refutation to our core principles 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:46 AM |
| 36 | Dating Subs on Reddit are Social Engineering Hubs to Normalize Sexual Violence and Disrespectful Behavior toward WomenExcept that’s not gaslighting, it’s just telling them the truth lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:01 AM |
| 51 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.Probably a little of both, like how a lot of us facepalm/laugh at our past selves for pickme behavior. Accountability, acknowledging how absurd it is, and moving forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 85 | What's not clicking?Consent is supposed to be three things: • enthusiastic, • revocable at any time, and • freely given. Its very basis is antithetical to prostitution. If a woman wouldn’t willingly and enthusiastically sleep with you without direct payment for it, money isn’t changing her desire - just her implicitly contractual right to say no or back out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 27 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:That and there are certain words that set it off for review if they’re often used in a derogatory context towards women. I made a comment pointing out the scrotal hypocrisy of one of the words they use towards our community, and it got pulled for review. Quickly after it was approved due to the context so it really highlights how diligent and thorough our mods are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.Also can afford to spend a majority of their day exercising and buy lots of (often expensive) produce and diet products to achieve and maintain a certain shape. More power to them, they’re beautiful and seemingly physically healthy but the social glorification of their body type as a standard is very much still classism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 27 | No trousers.I’m imagining this hypothetical loser looking down at this exact tweet, reading each line aloud then glancing up at his date with a haughty smirk in between and I am losing it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:45 PM |
| 67 | Our fav guy just dropped another gem 😂I hope they are! Either way it’s lovely to see more young folks wise up and develop strong ideals, and stop putting up with misogynistic behaviors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:45 AM |
| 63 | Remember ladies, anyone who says this sub is "redpill for woman" or "female incels" chances are close to 100% that they are an MRA or incel. They're just bitter their fave sub got banned. It's the same mentality as a child throwing a temper tantrum when their toy gets taken away.Also amusing that they claim women can’t be incels because we’re women in one breath, then turn around and call our community “femcels” in the next. Make up your mind, scrotes, it can’t be both. On a related note, not having a relationship, partner, or sex isn’t a source of bitterness or hatred for us. Most of us are perfectly content enjoying our lives in peace and working on ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:03 AM |
| 17 | You love to see it.Nothing like realizing being “envious” of attractive women and upset towards very close women friends flirting/entering relationships with men during formative years was actually just being oblivious to your own crushes on them. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:00 AM |
| 10 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕A toxic cesspit where the gimmick is “share ‘secret confessions’ with the world under complete anonymity” in something like 130 characters per post or fewer. This translates in practice to: men spamming requests for fwb, extreme racist/sexist and transphobic rhetoric, a metric assload of scam spammers and bots (including propaganda trolls), straight up pedos lurking to groom young kids or barely legal teens, and a myriad of other vile garbage perpetrated majority by LVM either brazenly showing t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:06 AM |
| 19 | Why do men complain about marriage, when marriage for women is...Nothing like leeching off of and sexually disappointing several women at the same time, instead of just one. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:45 AM |
| 66 | It makes me sad how delusional this woman is. This is such a bullshit excuse!Bingo. Highlights both their hypocrisy and their bigotry in one go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:09 AM |
| 95 | This is how we arrived hereOh they are, though. Some are convicted, the others just have published writing jobs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:34 AM |
| 35 | The friend we all need 😭👑Her voice is iconic and her words are pure truth holy hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:25 AM |
| 22 | Never feel bad spending a man's money: If he gives you shit, dump him!It took a while to get there (yay unlearning pickme culture and programmed misogyny) but my motto now is “hey, I won’t stop you.” Whenever my current SO wants to do something nice for me or spend money on me I let him. Give me a massage? Sure. Handcraft high-end hot chocolate bombs with expensive, allergy-free ingredients because he saw I drink hot chocolate often and knows that’s something I enjoy? Graciously accept and tell him he did well. Buy me a boatload of medicine and come over to mine w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢They’re soooooo close to the point of part of why the porn Industry is so problematic and then they zoom right past it into “and that’s why animals make my dick hard.” Barf 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:06 AM |
| 24 | This guys twitter account is the worst Ive ever seenProbably a better fit honestly, that and any women spared from that disappointment can be counted as a win 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:46 AM |
| 9 | Yep.Oh no they don’t have any sense of irony lol, I just meant that it’s ironic because they think it’s a punishment when we still don’t care/find it rewarding to have scrotes weed themselves out for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 226 | Yep.They’re not afraid of it, they’re: 1.) deluded into thinking they’re entitled to speak on how women groom themselves, thinking we should do so according to their [often pedophilic] whim, and stemming from that 2.) intimidated by the women who don’t give a flying fuck what men think about their bodies so they lash out at us and try to ironically threaten us by saying men won’t find it attractive. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:44 AM |
| 115 | You can feel as fake-empowered about hookups as you want. It doesn't change the fact that this is how men think.Yep. We don’t waste precious energy trying to control men, only enforcing boundaries to protect ourselves and our value. We’re worth more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 05:23 PM |
| 21 | Conservative women call submission to men a sign of strength & character, Liberal women call submission to men liberation and empowerment. Conservative men will abuse their wives and call it their right as a husband, Liberal men will abuse their wives and call it a kink.Yep. Situationships or “eThIcAl nOn MoNoGaMy” where the guy tries to coerce the women involved into unwanted threesomes with no condom and tells them it’s “good for communication” then promptly throws a tantrum when those women find other men to sleep with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:46 PM |
| 18 | Circle the LieHey now - teenage girls are way more thoughtful and foresighted than these neonazi troglodytes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 30 | This is why you shouldn’t have babies with men you aren’t married to.Absolutely this too, but also stretch marks are completely fucking normal and natural and don’t always go away, nor do they need to. Dudes are so pornsick from airbrushed fantasies that they can’t recognize benign fucking natural scientific occurences as normal or healthy. It’s delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 9 | "I don't do friends."I know you’re getting downvoted but here we call those types of women “pickmes” and we can only hope they someday come to their senses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:48 AM |
| 31 | Never trust a man who calls himself a feminist.“Women Going Their Own Way.” Derivative of MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way), but instead of wishing they could physically or emotionally harm another gender just because they’re single, women are actually single by choice and living their own high value, fulfilled life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:14 AM |
| 38 | Kick him out if he does this!This goes for anyone, not just men/potential romantic partners. Your mental health and self-esteem is a precious thing; don’t let anyone trample on it. Staying in the HV mindset means protecting yourself EVERYWHERE, even when it’s hard or socially stigmatized (“but they’re family!” etc.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:43 PM |
| 25 | This is why we’re not nice.You’ve hit the nail on the head but that last line hit me hard. Appendicitis is fucking brutal and dangerous, I can’t imagine having to deal with that while also handling an NV scum like that. If that’s based on real life experiences I’m so, so sorry, and virtual hugs if you want them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:08 AM |
| 19 | Being single is homeostasis.Hear hear. Single-ness is raw, natural opportunity. It should be seen as the default and a positive, and no change “needs” to be made unless the individual wants and finds something that is a genuine benefit. Even then, partnership is an accessory that is always optional and this fact should be regularly kept in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 06:56 AM |
| 30 | I think this is supposed to be funny, but I’ve noticed a trend of women being incredibly desperate for a proposal on social media lately. Don’t be like this. You’re so much better than this.Facts. You’re tying down a woman to a legally binding contract and expect her to be foaming at the mouth for it? You better be offering orders of magnitude more than just a shiny ring, and providing it well before the marriage 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 07:06 AM |
| 8 | Found on fbSame. I never laugh harder than when I’m with my women friends and/or family, especially without men around since we can actually talk to each other and interact on an honest, intelligent level. Women are hilarious in a hard hitting, witty way that takes a similar level of sharpness to appreciate that scrotes just don’t have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:35 AM |
| 67 | Scrotes be like: Don’t come back when you hit the wall 😏🤪 Asian Grannies: bitch where is the wall?The wall for scrotes and the wall for women is like comparing the Great Wall of China to the Trump wall. Theirs is very real, has been obvious for like, ever and is impossible to miss because of how enormous it is. Ours is made a big deal of and talked about endlessly but mysteriously never actually appears...🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:27 PM |
| 66 | This is literally LVM logic. They blame their lack of charisma on us instead of introspecting and becoming a better person to be around.ActualBlackMermaid (her IG handle and what the display name stands for) is the absolute QUEEN of FDS principles and has been long before this sub became mainstream (or maybe even created but I’m still fairly new here so idk). Definitely recommend checking out her stuff, she’s a wise one ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 17 | Goofy out here putting LVM to shameWhen Redditors see something that caters to their fandoms, they nearly cream their pants. When they see it might be beneficial to women in any way they foam at the mouth, doesn’t matter how they felt about it before 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 6 | “Girls Mature Faster than Boys” and other classic hits from LVMWomen tend to: - Decorate their homes/environments nicely - Dress up in aesthetics they enjoy way more often - Often have hobbies in makeup and-or various crafts (to clear levels of interest that *prove* it's not for men, like what straight dude can tell the difference between subtle shades of eyeshadow or lipstick?) - Are a core demographic for jewelry, fashion, fragrances, etc. -Are more likely to have tetrachromacy, which allows for greater distinction between colors. And somehow we're not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:19 AM |
| 3 | No. ❤️I’m gonna go ahead and hope this is her making a point of how he’s a loser (considering how she worded what “he” was doing) and that this is something to avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:00 AM |
| 23 | Protect Your PeaceHear hear! Anyone I let into my life is competing with my solitude and personal peace, not “alleviating” it like it’s some curse or disease. You poison my vibe, you get cut off. End of story, no discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 11 | Girl this is not it.Bingo. First thought after my face finished contorting in horror at the lengths she was going to was how conspicuously absent his reaction was from the end of the video. I’m sensing ungrateful scrote/NVM vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Incels get the wallThe blatant, malicious, sociopathic behavior is absolutely terrifying. Men show their true colors so fast when given so much as a morsel of anonymity - knowledge to use wisely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:04 AM |
| 7 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.“i’M nOt A mInD rEaDeR” is code for shirking any and all forms of mental and emotional labor onto the woman because he’d rather be a bum than do any research or thinking or voluntary money spending for his partner. 9 times out of 10 these same dudes also tack their names onto cards and gifts that others (most often the gf/wife etc.) buy and put thought into instead of acting like an adult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:53 AM |
| 5 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"Meanwhile these ratf•ckers will descend like droves of hatethirsty hyenas with all sorts of horrifying commentary/threats if they even suspect a woman is behind a reddit post - and god forbid she’s gasp in a photo post with her hobbies or pets or anything. Their hypocrisy would be laughable if it weren’t so damn disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:38 AM |
| 2 | For any FDS queens that need to hear it 👑💕This is great! But also should be elaborated upon/clarified: You are a temple unto yourself. That is, what you do with your personhood and life should ultimately always be to the glory and benefit of you. Not others. Upon the last point, you are also a goddess (and-or aspiring to be the best, most FDS one you can). Let no man disrespect you, as you are to be revered accordingly. Sacred dwellings are not to be trampled upon, harmed, desecrated or treated as if a loud frat boy lives there. This me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:00 AM |
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