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Nervous-Ticket/r/seduction29/01/20 07:57 PM
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Outer Game Nervous-Ticket/r/seduction01/03/20 08:38 PM
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Field ReportNervous-Ticket/r/seduction30/01/20 08:08 PM
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Yeah yeah but I'm not talking about escalation, but flirting, sexual tension etc. I feel like booze made me more sexual in the mind and also the girls appear prettier when you're tipsy so it made my interactions more sexual. Now I kind of have to make myself more attracted in the mind, even if it's a legitimately cute girl.
/r/seduction02/03/20 11:20 PM
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Nah disagree, girls won't push interactions forward almost never. Unless you mean she's making you horny because you're so attracted to her. If you don't show it first, the girl rarely will. Unless it's social circle, she likes you and you're high status. Besides that very rarely.
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:54 PM
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This. + I had more anxiety about approaching than I expected. Getting much better though now. The first approaches were really nerve wrecking wow and this after almost a decade of doing it (but almost always at least 2 beers in). Can't even go out that much due to work right now, but on the weekends it's my main activity ahahah. Thanks for the support. I'm wondering how many guys have that same problem. I would have probably never made that step hadn't I realized that I really need to stop drink…
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:52 PM
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Yeah I'm not doubting it, it's more like some parts of my game feel like not accessible right now. But I can feel them slowly coming back even sober. It's kind of funny to observe. Like I'm getting bolder every time I go out. Alcohol would just instantly make me bold but without it I have to slowly overcome my inhibitions. It's like I unlock approaching, do it a couple of times and then feel quite comfortable doing it. Now next is being more obvious in my interest. I'm still too indirect when I …
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:47 PM
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Quick update: warm up approaches are the way to go. Feels super awkward at first but if you talk to dudes or girls you're not interested in it works pretty well as you don't want to fuck them. Getting more comfortable chatting up girls and the reactions are way better than when I do it drunk. I also do it more. Next step is upping the flirtation again, Cuz I'm too nice in the start and in nightlife you have a very short window to make an attractive impression. Can get numbers pretty easily now, …
/r/seduction15/02/20 03:13 AM
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Yeah I definitely noticed that. I started doing more warm up approaches, it's definitely helping. With alcohol I didn't really need to.
/r/seduction02/02/20 02:09 PM
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Good suggestion being stationary! That's what promoters do as well. And what you're really doing is promoting yourself. I'll try that out. Also gonna locate the malls in my city. I never go there due to online shopping lol. For the moment I think walking around is not that bad for my health and finding the good spots in my city.
/r/seduction31/01/20 06:45 AM
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Will definitely do so! What's your go to opener? A standard direct compliment?
/r/seduction31/01/20 06:39 AM
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How did you overcome the boredom? Nightlife seems less stimulating without booze
/r/seduction31/01/20 06:37 AM
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Yes it's definitely an anxiety thing. Gotta get used to it. On a plus side I did my first day game approach yesterday which would never have been possible because I would either have rebound anxiety from drinking the day before or would feel too awkward to approach cuz I'm not tipsy.
/r/seduction31/01/20 06:36 AM
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Thanks for the suggestions, yes I think I like bus public transport stops as well. You have a bit of time to think about an opener as well which seems like a bonus for me. Street sometimes is too fast for me, like I notice a pretty girl but by the time I think about approaching she's already 5 meter behind me. And I'm definitely not confident enough yet to do the "turn around and run up to her" yet.
/r/seduction30/01/20 08:38 PM
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Yeah online sucks quite hard. Thanks for the tips bro, had to vent a bit yesterday. It's been a rough week, but my mood is significantly better already. I gave too many fucks.
/r/seduction30/01/20 10:57 AM
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Yeah that's how I feel, I'm approaching my late twenties now. Video games are definitely more fun without hangovers but I'm missing the ladies. Day game + day activities and maybe some nightlife to get used to it without booze seems like the way to go.
/r/seduction30/01/20 10:20 AM
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Yeah there's a lot of stuff you can do without alcohol. Just getting used to it (I quit only 1 month ago). How old are you if I may ask?
/r/seduction30/01/20 10:13 AM
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I will try doing that, good idea. Have to change my life quite a bit I feel since booze is not an option anymore.
/r/seduction30/01/20 09:21 AM
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Yes that could also be a thing. I think the last year I was enjoying more the alcohol than the parties to be honest. Day game might be the better option. Have to get comfortable with it, I never really tried.
/r/seduction30/01/20 09:15 AM
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Yeah I think I have to start working with what I got. Being well rested is much more important now I feel, before I could have two beers and I'm in the mood, even if I felt tired just 30min before. I think the key is to just start approaching and not giving a fuck. Easier said than done though. And yeah I'm sure sober game works just fine, it's more a problem of me feeling less in the mood. Gotta work on that and I think I'll try out day game as well. Did some social approaches already but haven…
/r/seduction30/01/20 09:13 AM
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Don't really have a routine for pumping me up, I've always just had a beer or two and then I would be in a good mood. I'll try the friends thing but most of the time solo gaming was my thing. And I have decided to cut it completely, moderation doesn't work. It used to but nowadays it's either zero or 10 so not really an option. Lost a lot of lays because I got too drunk it's not worth it anymore. Also takes a toll on my mental health.
/r/seduction30/01/20 09:09 AM
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