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Why aren’t you and the woman you met dating still
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 03:12 AM
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Thank you, I tried the gym and it didn’t really help me. I like being alone. I just gotta get used to it for a couple more years
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 02:51 AM
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Yeah I agree, I’ve gotten closer to my family and my old friends who I blew off a lot bc of my marriage. This new life feels amazing
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 02:48 AM
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We have a child together so that’s the only thing we talk about now. And who’s getting what in the divorce and everything. I don’t want her back, I just wanna move on and stop the pain I get every once and awhile
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 03:43 PM
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Yeah I’m starting to see some things that she could have improved on to. It wasn’t the best relationship but she was my best friend. I do wish us both healing but I don’t wanna live the rest of my life thinking about her and why we didn’t work out
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 03:42 PM
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Yes I’m in the same boat. I moved out and she doesn’t want to refinance bc the mortgage will go up. Will have to pay 8000 loan back though to refinance so I’m sort of in a pickle
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 04:26 PM
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4 dudes ? Bro I’m sorry but you deserve better. It hurts but you’ll get over it bro. Just takes time and healing and you’ll be alright
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 09:06 PM
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Yeah people are telling me that too. Although it will help you to move on quicker but I want to heal first before I’m in a relationship again
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 04:34 PM
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Do you still miss her after a year? Will life get better
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 03:23 PM
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I’m trying to figure out do I actually miss her or just our old life and marriage
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 04:13 AM
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Thank you man that’s a good idea. Thank you for your advice. I tell my mom and sisters and friends pretty much everything now about my day. This sucks bc I thought I was getting better but I been missing her this week
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 04:11 AM
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I’ll try
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 02:39 PM
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In my state you have to be separated for atleast a year before you can file
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 02:03 PM
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I think your right. I did the begging , talking and buying flowers and got rejected. I’m actually starting to change and feel better about myself. It’s been 6 months in separation and I’ve turned my focus completely on my daughter now. Planning for the future of next year if she still wants divorce but I’m moving on like we’re going to. I still love her but I have to let her go and move on like she wants to. I’ve learned my lesson for my next relationship whenever I’m ready if I get a divorce
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 04:23 AM
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What happened that led to separation
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 05:49 AM
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How do I join
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 11:27 PM
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What am I supposed to do
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 10:26 AM
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Did you turn off your location since she’s dating? Tbh the real reason I want to turn off location is so I can see this girl I’ve been talking to but I still want my wife and family back. I’m a train wreck I know . But the more I’m alone and waiting on her to want me back is the more I get depressed. This girl is wanting to text me everyday and listens to me and she knows I can’t be in a relationship rn and accepts that. She knows I’m healing but she’s not going to stick around longer if I never…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 04:39 AM
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I’d do anything to have her back but it just seems like it’s not gonna happen. I keep getting rejected asking her to hang out but I feel like this separation is the only thing I can do to save my marriage. If we divorce I don’t think I’d want to get back together with her
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 12:37 AM
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Thanks man. It’s actually funny you said that about the zoo because I tried to go today and we got there and I turned around at the gate Bc I didnt think I could do it by myself. So we just drove around instead
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 12:34 AM
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I kinda accepted it, already planning for the future next year for my living situation and everything. We have a 1 year old daughter together and there’s really nothing to do at times and I get depressed Bc I feel like she’s bored when she comes to me
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 10:25 PM
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Did you end up getting divorced?
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 10:22 PM
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Yeah man but I can’t move on. Sitting around depressed and crying when I’m alone waiting on a text from her. I feel like I’m crazy
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 03:14 AM
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