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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 14 | Give them an inch, they’ll go a mileI actually didn’t consider that, but you’re probably right. He had the nerve to still show up to the wedding and I had to endure sitting next to him at dinner. The fucking audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:57 AM |
| 14 | Give them an inch, they’ll go a milePlease don’t apologize for sharing your story! I think having someone who understands can be so beneficial. Wow... such a similar story. I too had him blocked and then let him back in. We will get through it! We are more than these “men” will ever amount to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:51 PM |
| 23 | Give them an inch, they’ll go a mileThis made me laugh. I wish!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 32 | Give them an inch, they’ll go a mileHi. No, I wasn’t drugged. I just felt paralyzed by fear. I had something very similar happen to me as a teenager so I think my body just shut down... I just pretended I was asleep and willed it to be over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 6 | I can’t and won’t accept that 32% of women who run experience breast ligament pain and possible permanent injury.Hi! I am a DD-DDD cup and am an avid runner, rower, and hiker. I adore the Brooks Juno Sportsbra. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 0 | Cultural misogyny at its finestSure! In several languages, Hungarian being this example, there are no gendered pronouns (they vs he and she). On google translate, when you translate common phrases from Hungarian to English, you get some interesting translations. There is an automatic and misogynistic assumption that the man is the one who works, teaches, reads, etc while the assumption for women is they cook, clean, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 94 | Pickmeisha horror tale. Hapless scrote nearly destroys mind/body of once-vibrant girl. She has an STD (prob bc of him)+ is at risk for cervical cancer. Jobless bum doesn’t care. Friends beg her to leave b4 this kills her. They “just can’t see the good”. And she’s STILL f*cking him. Mother help her!“Hi, my boyfriend gave me a disease, emotionally neglects me, and steals from me.” Good gracious... like GIRL you are not a garbage can. Drop him like a hot pocket and LEAVE. I am genuinely appalled... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:53 PM |
| 41 | Bloke arranges stay at home wife a work christmas do and annual review of her housewife duties. Degrading and humiliating even as "a joke." When will women get some self respect?!Oh my god if that was my husband he would find all his things in the yard within the hour. That is one of the most degrading things I’ve ever read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:50 PM |
| 21 | I'm a 23 year old virgin. Why? because nothing has convinced me that sex is worth it, thus far.I’m 24 and also a virgin. For me, it’s part faith-based, part self-based. I also agree that I don’t have any FOMO with sex. I’ve yet to find the right partner and someone I want to share that with - it’s a big deal for me as it’s an emotional, physical, and spiritual connection (in my opinion). I feel like I probably won’t find that connection until marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:56 AM |
| 68 | Finally broke up with a LVM.“I’m building relationships with influencers” omg throw the entire man out 🤮 I am thrilled that you are moving on with your life girl! We are here to support you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:18 AM |
| 4 | Idk if this is a joke or not but regardless it’s disgusting.Hun, throw the whole man away. He is not worth your time, energy, and beauty! It can be terrifying to leave a relationship, but there is a man out there for you that will never insult you, but will build you up, support you, treasure you, and love you. Find the inner power to believe in yourself enough to leave the guy you’re with in pursuit of better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:42 PM |
| 202 | My boyfriend destroyed my 7 year old Bonsai treeOh my god what is wrong with these men? Why on earth would anyone find destroying someone else’s property funny? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:28 PM |
| 32 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡Hate to see it /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:50 PM |
| 17 | Dating during COVID, how to avoid going to their places?I will caution you that if you think you’re susceptible to sleep with them while you’re there, then don’t go. I’d advise you to heavily vet before sleeping with a man. Like another commenter said, there are countless options for dates. You’re a strong woman - you’re the prize! Let the man prove himself beforehand :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 8 | Dating during COVID, how to avoid going to their places?It’s your body, your decision. I don’t think that if you go over to their/your house it automatically means sex. I’ve been on several dates where they came to my house afterwards and left with nothing physical. You set the pace. If they try something funny, kick them out or leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 26 | Dating during COVID, how to avoid going to their places?I literally just say “I’m sorry, I’m not comfortable going to your apartment/house at this time and would appreciate your understanding.” And then if you’re still interested in seeing them, you can also follow up with: “I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you.” And ask them a completely separate question to drive the conversation away from going to their house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 23 | From OLD failures to FDS-approved datesWe will see if he remains HV, but I met him through work. He’s a friend of a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 22 | Are we all the same people experiencing the same thing?My ex in college was the same. He used old spice bodywash as some form of a “catch all”. And I asked him one day where his bar of soap was because I wanted to shower and the man deadass said “I don’t have a bar of soap”. And I asked how does he clean his nether regions?? He couldn’t give me an answer... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 21 | Should I wait or?I’m 24 and still a virgin. At the moment, I’m waiting until marriage or at least until some form of a big commitment (ie engagement). But I echo the other commenter’s post. Wait until you feel ready and know there is a strong emotional and physical connection between you and whoever you choose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 24 | In need of solid advice ladiesGirl. Please reread through your list of cons. This “man” forced himself on you while you were intoxicated as your first sexual encounter. He doesn’t respect you or your boundaries in the bedroom, or in general. He talks to other women and clearly doesn’t respect or honor them with his language. This person does not deserve you, your time, or your precious child. Think about if this is really the type of person you want to help raise your child. Do you want this to be their father figure? My adv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Was asked how many likes on tik too would it take for me to “spread my cheeks social distancing style and let the boys play”... wtf?Saaaaaaaame. And I am sick and tired of it - I will bet my life we all are. It’s not a joke to anyone but these clowns because they find tearing down women as funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:20 AM |
| 74 | 😂Shut up and take my money - I need this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:46 PM |
| 15 | LVM & NVM be like, "I wAs JuSt ChEcKiNg In tO sEe HoW yOu WeRe DoInG bEcAuSe I aM sUcH a GoOd gUy." then get salty when you don't accept their shitty outreach attempt because hE iS TrYiNg!Thank god for this sub. I just recently got out of a 3 year long cycle of talking/not talking and it always started with one of these lines. Blocked. Deleted. Goodbye forever - I’m free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:24 PM |
| 12 | Cleaning out my messages and I find this lovely thread. First he made dinner plans and Never texted back THE NIGHT OF. Then acts so clueless. Doesn’t even address it. What do you diagnose this as? Dumb, selfish, heartless or just pure evil? There are levels to this shit.So sorry you had to deal with this ZVM. Not even low. Zero. Selfish, stupid, narcissistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:09 PM |
| 46 | Cleaning out my messages and I find this lovely thread. First he made dinner plans and Never texted back THE NIGHT OF. Then acts so clueless. Doesn’t even address it. What do you diagnose this as? Dumb, selfish, heartless or just pure evil? There are levels to this shit.Lord in the heaven the WHINING. He’s the kind of person that if you asked them to wear a condom, they’d throw a fit like a 5 year old “Noooooooooo you’re gonna ruin itttttt!” and give you the silent treatment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:23 PM |
| 5 | If he only wants a housewife clap your hands 👏🏼👏🏼Update: this man had the audacity to say “I prefer in person delivery” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:57 AM |
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