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I just finished a consultation, I liked this attorneys attitude but if I retain him I'm maxing out my CC. He's asking 10k and told me most of it would be gone in the first motion, I tried starting a gofund me but without any social media it's tough, I've at least gotten one donor I have no access to her bank account and she's not going to help pay the CC bills any more my social security is 2500 after taxes I just filled out a form to stop taxes temporarily to increase my income to 3300, I feel …
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 09:07 PM
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Good to know I won't make any mention then, she's normally extremely frugal now she's buying expensive products like a year supply of nutafol hair products, what I'm assuming is a gucci leather purse. I'm not familiar with brands but that purse is 100% leather
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 02:59 PM
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Short version she made separate accounts when I got sick and has zeroed out my account slowly, and used hers as "our savings" When I got diagnosed and started chemo she dissolved our joint account and kept separate accounts, hers would be "our" savings and mine would be for bills, i was so ignorant to what was happening she convinced me at the time that it was for the best incase i amassed large medical debt so they wouldn't be able to freeze our account or some crazy thing like that I'm not mak…
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 02:51 PM
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Merry Christmas Brother, this is my last Christmas with my stbxw and it's rough, I'm gonna miss certain things about these past 9 years. I understand your pain. She's grown heartless, cold, and bitter, none of that bothered me I figured it was part of her grieving process after my cancer diagnosis. I tried multiple times over the last 2 years to go see a marriage counselor together to no avail. I ate the emotional pain she served me everyday while eating the cancer pain for dessert. I didn't car…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 02:12 AM
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That's essentially what I've told the lawyer, the money sucks but all I care about is spending any time I have with my son, I record every single thing I can with him so he has memories of us to look through, I have 500 gigs worth of videos and pictures and still feel like it'll never be enough when I'm gone, the other day he split a wishbone and made his wish out loud and said he wishes to love mommy and daddy together forever. That is what I'm fighting for our bond is very strong, he constantl…
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 02:43 AM
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The attorney I saw did mention that health insurance would be one thing she would fight for. And private insurance will be astronomically high since I have a pre existing conditions.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 10:48 PM
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I got done about an hour ago, it's a shitty outcome for me and bad outcome for her, long story short if she deposited the money from selling a house while we were married that she owned prior to us getting married, I would be able to get half, something the attorney called commingling of funds. she we would have to buy me out of the house. But and big but I learned that auxiliary benefits that I get for my son are not counted as extra income for my wife, so on top of her getting 1650 from my ssd…
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 10:14 PM
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She wants the divorce, I want to spend the rest of my time with them. My dr. Stops short of saying terminal, I have a rare cancer
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 04:00 PM
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Still live together, she works, I'm disabled collect social security she has a pension, she has an attorney already, we own a home, we're in ny
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 03:58 PM
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Thanks great advice I'll strike 1 and 2 out, I had to look up swot and you're right thanks again
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 03:21 PM
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Long story short about my case, I have stage 4 neuroblastoma go to chemotherapy & immunotherapy once every 4 weeks, admitted for a week. wife says she fell out of love after 9 years together wants a divorce, doesn't want to try marriage counseling and has already hired an attorney. She has had full control of all our finances since I was diagnosed 3 years ago and has emptied out my account while amassing a decent savings in her account that would be " our " retirement money, last I had seen it "…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 02:55 PM
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That is 100% my first priority, I have stage 4 neuroblastoma and get admitted for chemotherapy once a week so my big fear is that it will be used against me to say I'm unfit. I'm not working but collect ssdi and get auxiliary for my son as well total is more than enough for both of us, although the latter is going into my stbx account currently. My son is 3 and a half
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 02:44 PM
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No, Nyet, Nie, Nein, Īe, Aniyo.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 02:45 AM
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I hadn't considered that but my wife and I bought her dream house everything she wanted my only request in any house we bought was central air, the day we got the keys she was sad, pregnant and cried to her mom, mother in law sells her house convinces my brother in law to buy a 2 family with her to be closer to my wife, didn't help that I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer a few weeks into moving into our house, 2 months before she was due during covid peak in April 2020, fast forward.... in law …
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 03:28 PM
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I have a question for you guys, anyone know if I make a gofundme to raise money for attorney fees if they can use that against me, I have nothing in my personal account I am on disability and had given total financial control to my wife( long story short I have stage 4 cancer, going through chemo and never thought my wife would want a divorce so gave her access to everything)
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 07:33 PM
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I would move mountains for her, if things were reversed I would made sure she was as comfortable and happy as I could make her.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 05:06 PM
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