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Thanks for the advice. I’ve done all of that. None of it seems to constitute “rough” to her.
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:35 AM
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Blocked. At this point, you are harassing me.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:46 PM
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Pathetic.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:43 PM
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Telling a man that he needs to be “high value” is good for his mental health? Telling veterans that their likely traumatic experience serving in the military is a “turn off” is good for them? You are a vile excuse for a woman.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:40 PM
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My partner is consenting, I’m not guilty. This conversation is over.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:38 PM
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After seeing the disgusting nature of your comment history, I have no intention of taking any advice you have to offer. Please annoy someone else.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:34 PM
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You’re pathetic. You have no clue about our relationship. My girlfriend has made her boundaries and desires explicitly clear. I hope you seek professional help for your internalized misandry. What a bitter woman you are.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:28 PM
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My girlfriend is explicitly asking me to be rougher in bed. This is the definition of consent. Your entire comment history is picking fights on r/seduction. Do you have anything better to do? A hobby? A partner? Honestly pathetic. Some highlights of your comment history including telling men to be “high value” and that being a veteran is a “turn off to women”. Sexist, immature and frankly disgusting advice. Before casting judgment on someone else, you should look in the mirror...or rather your c…
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:21 PM
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How exactly is anything I said “rapey”? My partner is a consenting adult. Clearly, you don’t have much experience with consenting women.
/r/seduction21/11/21 06:40 AM
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R/whiteknight
/r/seduction21/11/21 02:19 AM
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I hate talking about it. When she brought it up, it felt emasculating. How do I be more physical without being rough? What limits are you referring to? Thanks man
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:25 AM
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Sometimes you just gotta pretend. Yes, Disney world is just a bunch of mechanical rides and employees wearing costumes but to kids, it’s magic. You can choose to see the bad parts of relationships or you can play along and hope you find some fulfillment.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 11:33 PM
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If you lose attraction for someone based on that, it was never love to begin with. That’s what I’m saying
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 10:57 PM
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I think an important component of true love is staying together even if a better option is available. Social status, looks and wealth should matter in the courtship process. Once you make an agreement, you should honor your word / vows till death.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 10:33 PM
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My definition would be two partners that are 1. mutually invested in one another 2. genuinely enjoy each others company 3. intend to stay together even if a better option presents itself.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 09:40 PM
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Idk man. Seems like a cope. I guess all relationships, even friendships, rely on some sort of value exchange. You wouldn’t keep hanging out with someone if they offered you nothing in return
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 09:18 PM
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How do you explain old couples that have stay married for 40+ years? Obviously their looks deteriorate, status and intelligence deteriorated over time, right?
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 08:49 PM
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What’s your definition?
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 08:02 PM
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Keep chasing your dreams. You don’t need a romantic partner to live a good life. If you find one, that’s great but it shouldn’t define your life. If you’re dead set on dating, invest in a pair of boots that give you a few inches and try Tinder again. Don’t put your height in your bio and hope that someone agrees to go on a date / gets to know your personality better. If I were you, I’d join some interest groups (rock climbing, comic con, MMA). You may find someone or you’ll just meet some cool f…
/r/ExRedPill07/11/21 12:57 PM
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What idea?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/21 10:56 PM
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This post is racist and misogynistic. If you’re not desired in “the West”, you won’t be desired in “the East.” The people who report success stories are either lying or buying hookers from Thailand. Pretty pathetic, seek help.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/21 05:07 PM
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I can’t tell if she’s losing respect for me or just getting more comfortable in the relationship. Today, she told me she doesn’t care if she looks good for me because I make her feel comfortable. I took this as a backhanded compliment and got very turned off
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:17 AM
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Really appreciate the detailed answer. Helps a lot. Definitely wisdom I wish I had. The relationship has seemed to have taken a turn for the better but every day is a new challenge.
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:07 PM
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Men want stability. Girls want drama. I hate that shit.
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:55 AM
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Not me. Her. Also me. More her.
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:38 AM
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I do everything, that’s the problem. There’s nothing left on the table.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:19 AM
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So don’t create excitement and see how they respond? If they are cut out for a LTR it shouldn’t matter anyway
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:01 AM
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Any tips?
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:32 AM
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I needed that bro. Gotta flip the script. Shouldn’t worry about keeping them around. They should be worried about keeping me around. In theory, this is a good mindset. Easier said than done. Appreciate you man.
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:05 AM
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That’s some real advice bro. Appreciate it. The spark didn’t come from cute shit. If anything, the cute shit is what is turning her off. The relationship got real fast. I’m not the romantic type so it’s hard to be the cool guy she met while also being committed.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:52 AM
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Idk man. You can’t live life nexting everyone right? Sometimes you have to settle. Even if she’s a bitch 5% of the time, you still enjoy her company 95%. I want to have faith that someone is out there for me. Not just an endless chain of empty one nighters.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:50 AM
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Any suggestions for meditation?
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:28 AM
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Long term relationships?
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:22 AM
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Fuck. I’m sorry to hear about your ex. Sometimes it feels like women go out of their way to hurt us. I’ll take your advice to heart and re-examine the next time I see her. Cold world out there man. Chad may be lurking, but so is Stacy.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:05 AM
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That’s a hard pill to swallow. All good relationships take a little work, right? Not everything will be smooth sailing all the time. I’ve gotten hurt like this before and it sucks.
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:53 AM
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Everyone on this sub is always saying next everyone. What if she’s the one? What if I’m happier with her than the next 100 girls? Theoretically speaking
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:38 AM
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I like that idea
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:55 AM
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Not sure how. We try to get each other jealous but it’s kinda lost it’s appeal
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:52 AM
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Hahah that’s all the options
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:51 AM
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Mastutbate a lot? Why
/r/seduction27/09/21 06:48 PM
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How do I communicate without sounding like a needy, whiny loser
/r/seduction27/09/21 07:02 AM
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Agreed. I think I’m going to ignore her and just keep talking to other girls. Fuck that
/r/seduction27/09/21 07:00 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with men wanting to boost their self worth. Women are constantly told how desirable they are. Men don’t get the same encouragement. This post is just as toxic as redpill. You’re a prize to whoever thinks you’re a prize. That’s it.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 04:46 AM
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A man that takes charge and doesn’t let a girl walk over him.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/21 09:46 PM
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It all depends what you look like. A handsome “nice guy” is marriage material. An ugly “nice guy” is a creep. A handsome bad boy is a one night stand. An ugly bad boy is a douchebag.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 12:47 PM
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No I want to be a dad someday
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 09:25 PM
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All animals have a courtship process. Seduction is natural. NO woman is going to walk up to you and just start making out. They want to make sure you’re a suitable partner that isn’t dangerous. This is literally seduction. Proving yourself as a good mate. Yes, some people take it too far and it becomes creepy or dishonest. Also, I don’t understand why it matter whether they were conditioned or not? The end result is still the same. More women are turned on by being sexually dominated than being …
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:57 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/women-show-sexual-preference-for-tall-dominant-men-so-is-gender-inequality-inevitable-98159
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:40 PM
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I don’t think I would consider seduction gross. You’re not convincing them to do anything that they don’t want to. You’re just showcasing your potential as a partner. No different than a salesman presenting a product. Nothing inherently dishonest or slimy. Can you link the study that says women don’t prefer dominant man? The only studies I’ve found have confirmed the opposite. I would guess 80-90% do. This is the basis of TRP. I genuinely want to know which parts of TRP are real and which ones a…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:39 PM
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Yes agreed. Saying women want a dominant man is like saying men want a physically fit woman. Yes, not every man does. The majority do and by being physically fit, you will have a much larger dating pool available. Men that was a physically unfit partner are the minority. Women that want a weak timid man are also in the minority. Though they exist
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:37 PM
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Is dominant in some major aspect of the relationship (decision making, financially, sexually).
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:34 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/women-show-sexual-preference-for-tall-dominant-men-so-is-gender-inequality-inevitable-98159
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 05:33 PM
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TRP teaches men to always keep your options open. When my girlfriend dumped me, I was comforted by the idea that there where many women out there. It also helped me understand why she dumped me and how not to make the same mistakes in future relationships (being needy, over invested etc). I do feel like TRP gives me an advantage in seduction. Especially if you aren’t physically gifted. Unless you look like Brad Pitt, being shy and timid aren’t going to get you very far in the dating scene. I don…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 04:58 PM
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Personal experience. I’ve talked to a lot of women. It’s very rare that I hear anything other than wanting someone more dominant than themselves
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 04:51 PM
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I haven’t really thought that far. After my girlfriend ended things with me, TRP helped me reframe the situation and move on. I was able to maintain my dignity and keep trying with other girls. Without TRP, I would’ve taken it more personally and had trouble attracting new partners. I’m not exactly sure what the opposite of TRP looks like. What is a healthy way of viewing relationships or women? Almost all women agree that they want a man that can take control. I just don’t know where reality st…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 04:44 PM
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Great advice.
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:16 PM
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Like she’s mad I’m not spending time with her / ignoring her. Not sure what to do
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:12 PM
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She’s mad that I’ve been getting with other girls. Is this just a shit test
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:34 PM
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Don’t girls like guys that make decisions?
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:42 PM
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Just ignore the post pussy boy
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:55 PM
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Do I try to talk to her or let her just chill for a few days? And what do I say when I talk to her?
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:39 PM
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So you just try to be fun?
/r/seduction12/09/21 09:07 AM
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Depends how attractive you are. Being shy is fine if you’re good looking
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 01:36 AM
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Thanks for the advice. What’s the opposite of acting emotionally? Stoic? Logical?
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:49 PM
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You should change ur name to white knight pal
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:44 PM
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Damn bro you got this figured out. I couldn’t agree more. What if a girl is worth committing to but you fucked it up? I might take the next few days off. She got me burnt out.
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:44 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:30 PM
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Sometimes you actually like a girl. Shocker I know
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:30 PM
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It seems like seduction is toxic these days. Blocking her kind of just ends things between us tho
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:24 PM
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The funny thing is I got with a bunch of girls this week. She just doesn’t know about it. If she knew about it she’d be hitting me up. Girls are so annoying
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:23 PM
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If I knew what normal was, I wouldn’t be on here
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:19 PM
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Got it. Easier said than done but I’ll try my best. Do I unadd her? When I run into her, should I bring it up? Be serious? Joking? Very cold?
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:10 PM
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Good advice. What should my tone be when I run into her in person? Serious? Joking? Or just ignore her altogether?
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:07 PM
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Just make it clear that you’re not exclusive. If she doesn’t respond to your texts, find a different girl in the meantime. If she wants to commit, she’ll let you know
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 10:39 PM
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He’s ex red pill give the man a break. Healing takes time
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 07:34 AM
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I feel like men have always complained about the opposite sex. “Women are so complicated” “My wife is such a nag” etc
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 11:10 PM
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Agreed, but how does it turn men feminine?
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 08:56 PM
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That’s definitely an issue. I think most guys, including myself, just need to lower their standards
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:56 PM
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I send two texts and they ghost me
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:19 PM
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Yeah but initially you need to get them interested if you’re on Tinder. Or if you’re doing long distance like during the summer
/r/askTRP29/04/21 10:35 AM
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If Steven Hawking went to a bar, I don’t think he’d be getting any girls unfortunately. A lot of his appeal probably came from being famous (high status).
/r/askTRP29/04/21 06:41 AM
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How do I be more decisive or deliberate
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:29 AM
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5’9 maybe 5’8. Just got some tall friends
/r/seduction29/04/21 02:13 AM
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Then what is it
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:06 AM
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Yeah everyone has their short comings. I know plenty of tall / ugly guys that do terrible with women. Good post
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:54 AM
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I agree but a lot of those qualities are somewhat dependent on your height. “Can I trust him?” Tall people tend to earn your trust easier, even if you don’t realize it. “Is he respected by others?” It’s hard to gain respect from other men and women when you’re shorter. “Can he protect me with other men?” I’m like 5”9. Other guys have it a lot worse than me but I think it does play a factor.
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:43 AM
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Big facts bro
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:10 AM
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I find it hard to escalate an interaction without some dominance. Like, I’ll match with a girl on tinder and they’ll just stop responding. Or I’ll have their interest and say something a little too much and they stop responding. Not sure how to find the balance
/r/askTRP29/04/21 12:05 AM
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I may not be the best person to answer this but I’ve honestly had decent success. If I were you, I’d try to let the girl do more of the talking. Lock eyes and let her make the mistakes. I think women like being judged, not the other way around. Also, I’d be careful about what you reveal. For example, when you qualify yourself as a “kissless virgin” on my post, I automatically assumed you’re a loser (which is definitely not true). The girl doesn’t know how confident you are outside of what you te…
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:58 PM
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At this point I don’t really know how to act like myself. A few years ago, I got into a relationship and tried to be myself. Got dumped and tried to work on myself. Now, I don’t really know what’s the real me vs pickup stuff I’ve learned
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:49 PM
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I feel like the majority of women want a dominant man (in some regards). It’s hard to filter out the ones that don’t. I think my personality is naturally dominant but it doesn’t match my looks and it causes the girl to shit test me.
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:43 PM
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I think you make some good points but honestly, in my experience, it’s harder as a short guy to make a good impression on women. If I act tough, I’m seen as over compensating. If I act quite, I’m seen as shy and effeminate. If someone tall acts tough, they’re seen as macho. If someone tall acts quite, they’re seen as mysterious and hard to get. Kinda unfair but is what it is
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:40 PM
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