RedPill prevents you from ever finding true love

MommysPills · 2021-11-06T21:06:16+00:00

Red pill also requires a level of contempt for women and contempt is a relationship killer. It shows up in subtle ways but most people still notice eventually.

Naus1987 · 2021-11-07T00:16:02+00:00

It’s one of those areas where I love being asexual lol.

True love does exist. But a lot of people end up chasing sexual desires instead of true compatibility.

Red pill alludes to this frequently how people just think with sex in mind. How women will chase pretty boys with shit personalities. And also the reverse is true. How many men get absolutely wrecked chasing a pretty body?

True romantic love does exist, and people do find it. But they’re not the ones chasing after tail with weak impulse control.

Keep in mind that all those statistics that red pill tends to push also apply to majorities. Which absolutely means there are exceptions.

The best way to find true love is to not be an average person. The best way to find a unicorn is to be a unicorn.

softnmushy · 2021-11-06T22:16:41+00:00

This true.

But redpill is also a poor strategy for getting laid. I dated a ton and played the field for a long time before marriage. There are a lot of strategies that are better than redpill.

Trill_Hicks333 · 2021-11-06T21:00:12+00:00

For arguments sake I'm not so sure TRP endorses or even believes in true love. If that's what you're looking for you should probably think in terms other than "getting laid" from the outset

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2021-11-06T21:54:20+00:00

Except there's no such thing as "true love" in transactional relationships (between people unrelated by blood). It's something movie writers made up. I agree with the intent of your post, but the problem with this type of argument is that you are assuming that men who fall into the manosphere are actually looking for "true love" and not simply trying to get laid. That is an unwise assumption for most men and might achieve the opposite of the intended effect. In fact, if I was vulnerable to RP, this reads like a recruitment pitch.

Edit: RP is disgusting because abusing & manipulating women is disgusting. Period. Even if RP led to getting laid OR "true love" OR whatever, it would still be disgusting. It is better to argue against RP using shared ethics than dubious utilitarian arguments that we see in this sub every other day.

vcreativ · 2021-11-07T18:59:25+00:00

That's quite true.

The only thing worse than not getting laid is never receiving true love.

I dunno if that's the only thing worse. I can think of a few I'd consider worse.

To me, the real tragedy here is not that no one else that cared for you at the end of the life, which, since it requires some sort of third party, may not necessarily be the case. But rather that the person in question never really cared for themselves.

OutsideBandicoot3 · 2021-11-07T19:14:48+00:00

Define what 'true love' is.

I'm not into RP anymore but true love doesn't really exist and you will probably be happier if you gave up on the idea. It depends on what you mean by it, but if it's like most people I'm pretty sure I'm right.

hagakurejunkie · 2021-11-13T01:50:01+00:00

You're confusing red pill with black pill man.

Red pill is akin to "If you step into that boxing ring, you're probably going to get punched in the face so don't be surprised when it happens. Maybe learn to defend yourself so that doesn't happen."

Black pill is nihilism.

Brazilian_Slaughter · 2021-11-13T07:39:52+00:00

>You will never be loved for who you truly are.

I never was, never will be. If it existed, I never deserved it anyway. Even before the Red Pill.

Title	RedPill prevents you from ever finding true love
Author	NewStartup2021
Upvotes	49
Comments	34
Date	November 6, 2021 8:11 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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