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Worked the door at a couple clubs and what you spit is hot truth sir
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:33 PM
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Oh god I work as a strip club bouncer and I can tell you for a fact that all that glitters in the club is anything but gold. The men who frequent the strip club regularly are on the lowest tier of the male species. Even though I’m there and I watch the place like a hawk and I toss any guy who touches the dancer, dancers still get touched, cum on, harassed, assaulted etc. The general consensus is most dancers just hate men. Even I am treated with a mild disinterest most of the time by all but the…
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:28 PM
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Nah, they probably just farted….
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:57 PM
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Ghosting actually means you had something romantic with her; ie you had sex, she said she liked you, you spent time with her etc Then she left. Most guys think they got ghosted when they exchange numbers with a girl and she never responds. That means she just didn’t like you and gave you her number to get rid of you.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:53 AM
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Its really good!
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:11 AM
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Couldn’t have said it better myself man
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:41 AM
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You are obviously hurting from some deep unaddressed issue. I wish you the best of luck with your journey friend.
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:38 AM
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I can see where you’re coming from and yeah, most people do just self-pity but most people had no guidance in their youth and now get out into the world and are like “I have no idea what I’m doing or where to start.” but I always try to help because it might just be that one person that wants to change but has no direction
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:30 PM
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You should definitely check out “Charisma University” by charisma on command on youtube. The single most amazing course I ever took on the subject of meeting new people There’s also a great book called “How to be a ladykiller” by a woman named Ann May who delves really deep into how to actually talk to women from a woman’s standpoint. Read it a few years ago, helped me tremendously in connecting with women on a deeper level.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:28 PM
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Look, hard truth here and I mean this only as the dose of reality no one will give you. You obviously know what issues you have and if you don’t conquer them, you’re gonna get run over. Nobody is coming to save you, you will just continue to lose in life until you grab the wheel and drive yourself down the right path. That’s it. I wish you the best of luck my friend
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:49 AM
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Jeez, what kind of game do you talk that you think if you get rejected, you just have to leave town? Just talk to the woman like a normal person
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:25 PM
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All the ladies. All types, ivy league college girls to tattoo artists to strippers, the whole 9 yards
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:48 PM
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There’s a saying: “If you don’t exist on her instagram, she’s not your girlfriend.” If she does put you up there and she “claims” you, “This is my rock, my person” etc, she’s basically telling the world “This is my man, I’m off the market.”
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:47 PM
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Lmfaoo
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:16 PM
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She’ll probably think you smell faintly of cheese and can’t swim. But she’s not forklift certified so it won’t matter.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:10 AM
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I was on the same path you were for a while because everyone told me “Sleep with a ton of girls is the goal my boy” So I did just that, I got into the triple digits, I thought I was “The Man” because every guy I met told me that. But I felt hollow and pointless. It all came to a head in my mid-30’s when, while sitting in a coffee shop, I saw this girl I used to hookup with on the regular years prior. We did all kinds of kinky wild shit, almost everything you can imagine. She was walking with thi…
/r/seduction29/07/22 10:38 PM
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You need to meet more women first off. Secondly, what do you do all day? I'm in my 40's and I work my face off when I'm not dating. I train martial arts, workout, have a ton of friends, have a million things to do at home and do car repair.
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:55 AM
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Oh god, bro lose the holier than thou attitude. I was seeing a woman 20 years younger than me. (43 and 23), If she's cool with it, then you should be cool with it too. It's completely fucking obvious you're interested in her but this silly church attitude is stopping you. THE GIRL LIKES YOU Why on earth would that be you ask? Because you may have been the only dude who didn't act like a total insane weirdo to her and SURPRISE, SURPRISE, women want normal, not insane men to date. She's in college…
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:38 AM
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I hate texting, I fucking HATE texting so goddamn much!! Every fucking failure of a relationship I have ever had was caused by people misunderstanding stupid fucking texts. Set the date, get off the phone. If you can’t see each other and have been hooking up for a while, a phone call every once in a while is okay but the relationship doesn’t move forward unless you see each other in person
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:09 AM
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I’ve done this before in the past, the way I did it was just shoot the breeze with her a little here and there, make funny observations on how other customers would talk (there used to be a guy who would absolutely NEVER stop telling bad jokes that were so painfully bad you actually thought of getting gas somewhere else) The real breakthrough came when he was talking on and on about something and I just began making sexual innuendos about everything he said then when he would try to say somethin…
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:12 PM
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I think that women really don’t waste their time for “free entertainment”. If she doesn’t like you, why is she going to put herself into a position of being alone with you? Most men really did have a decent chance with her (she has piles of options and she chose you) and she at least said “Hey, maybe this will work out” but something may have happened on the date that killed the spark for her I can’t shake that a lot of these anecdotes about dates where the girl just wanted free entertainment ar…
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:03 PM
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Hahaha, I don’t think so but we men think our problems with women are so complex when it always boils down to just a few simple mistakes
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:55 PM
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Thanks, I corrected it
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:51 PM
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Lmaoo, and men are like dogs. Women are very choosy with whom they trust where most guys will fall in love with the first woman that looks at him twice.
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:50 PM
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I don’t feel that’s a very good idea. Women KNOW you want to fuck them. They know it, they’re so much better in tune with emotions than us men. So just saying “I want to be friends” to a woman you just met makes her think “Bullshit, I know he wants me but he can’t even man up to me and say it.” so she goes off and meets a man who is at least serious about what he wants. HOWEVER: If this is a woman you work with or have to see on a daily basis, then yes, I believe friends is the right way to go a…
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:37 PM
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I think you’re really putting too much emphasis on a set “goal”. Let the conversation flow naturally, if she’s in, she’ll continue it and you can move from there. Conversation and seduction should be a dance, keep it light and comfortable the whole time Trust me when I say, too many guys try to push to fast and it scares women and makes them shutdown. Adopt the attitude that you’re happy to talk to them and have a laugh but you’ll be happy if they decide to leave as well
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:34 PM
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Women are emotional in the sense that what they feel right now is how they feel about you. This is why maintaining a strong frame is so important. A woman can curse your name, call you an asshole and despise the ground you walk on now but in an hour could desperately want to see you. We men think this is crazy but it’s actually very logical. At one moment, you were an asshole but you held frame and she subconsciously appreciated it and it made her more attracted to you. Yes, last night she was c…
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:41 AM
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Its very simple, she’s probably very beautiful and has a ton of orbiters who give her free validation but the man she craves is the man who makes her earn his affection. The rich guy leads with his wallet, even though he’s probably a good dude and cares for her, he solves all her problems with money. He doesn’t need her to contribute so she thinks she’s just basically a high end escort to him and not a girlfriend. The rich guy is probably busy and the “toxic guy” doesn’t care so she gets her val…
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:29 PM
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It means you’re not desperate, are at least interesting enough that a woman can put up with you for a while and that you have friends
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:40 PM
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They flake on you because they don’t like you, never liked you and never intended to hang out with you but they’re scared shitless that if they tell men the truth, the men will turn into idiot stalkers. As a guy, I’ve seen this play out multiple times so even though I sometimes get flaked and don’t like it, I get why women do it.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:29 PM
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Why are you texting so much?? Get her laughing, set the date and get off the phone! Women get literally HUNDREDS of these boring “Nice to meet you, I’m so and so, I like chicken and music, do you like chicken and music because I’ve never met anyone who didn’t like either chicken or music.” Good god man, I may shoot myself in the head over that drivel I just read. Go watch some Playing With Fire videos on youtube
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:24 PM
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Either that or she thinks your outfit is stupid…
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:58 AM
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Bro, you REALLY have to have a good read on her before you do that. And it sounds like you’re very unsure of yourself. It might end poorly Go in for the kiss, caress her face. If she has a high attraction for you and puts her arms around you, move lower. If she starts to press her mouth into yours and stick her tongue into your mouth, she’s in and grab her ass and pull her close But for god sakes, don’t just grab the ass as your opening move, it will freak her out You gotta warm them up and doin…
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:52 AM
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You’re not really using women, you’re actually a breath of fresh air to most of them. A lot of women are not into the weird, creepy feelings and dudes trying to lock them down after they fucked once
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:41 AM
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Met a total lunatic last night, face all tattooed, he’s a line cook at a college bar. He’s well known to many of my friends, has a rotation of 5-6 girls. Amazing and total scumbag but the ladies love him
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:25 PM
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Online Dating sucks in general and is full of losers and mental patients who are too scared to talk to people in real life. Look at the average profiles and tell me I’m wrong.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:47 PM
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It was the connection BEFORE I got the number. If you don’t get a girl hot for you before you get her number, you’re toast. And 99% of guys think that if they get the number, they’re in. But the the truth is most women will just give you their number just to get you to leave them alone. Then they never ever answer you.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:44 PM
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I know it sucks, but I’ll bet money it sucks less now than it did 72 days ago.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:41 PM
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You’re failing using your tactics and you’re arguing with me? No, no, no, goddamnit NO! You wouldn’t go up to a guy and be like “Hey man, you have pretty eyes, also can I bum a ride to the gas station” They get hit on by weak game like this ALL DAY LONG, they get DM’s of this weak shit ALL DAY LONG! If you only ever go through life with one fact in your head, burn this into your mind: “Women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.” She wants to you to hang out with her, fuck her brains …
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:39 PM
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No, I don’t even care who I’m talking to.
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:19 AM
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I would honestly just ignore that. Any answer or gamey answer is gonna come off as weak. Maybe I would agree and amplify: “Oh you don’t even know!! I kiss puppies all day long, pat babies on the head, cook dinner for grandmothers, pick flowers for sick children and call my mom every single day!”
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:18 AM
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Become someone worth respecting. And you’re 19, you don’t know shit yet. I didn’t know shit at 19, or 25, or even 30. What can you do that should be respected? Do you fix cars? Can you build furniture, do you wake up at 5am everyday? Can you do anything well that the average person cannot?
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:16 AM
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They don’t want to be treated like shit, you think that they’re being treated like shit because you think you’re right. I can tell you for a fact I have seen the phones of dozens of beautiful women and every single text is “Can I take you out friday or saturday to dinner?” All not even read. Then there is one guy, at the top who is never validates her, tells her to fuck off when she’s in a bad mood, and generally doesn’t give a fuck what she thinks of him. He’s busy with his own life and while h…
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:14 AM
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You gave out a free compliment. Stop validating women who haven’t done anything to earn your compliments. Your girlfriend fucks your brains out, sucks your dick and is loyal to you, SHE deserves your compliments. The random girl on the street who has done nothing more than spackle make-up on her face and shove herself into form-fitting pants to make her ass look better deserves nothing from you
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:10 AM
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Kisses are always stolen, never asked for
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:08 AM
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Never, EVER works. Trust me, I learned that lesson 20 years ago. Now I just tell it straight and be brutally honest. Women will probably think you’re still lying anyway because that’s just how it is. At least if you deal from truth, you can look yourself in the mirror and be okay with the outcome
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:07 AM
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You asked the girl out, she never answered. You had no chance with her, don’t even worry about it.
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:04 AM
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I like it! If I can add one thing, I have always found that the moment your life is excellent, like you wake up and say “Life is so good I can taste it on my spit” a woman will show up to wreck the whole thing lmaooo
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:03 AM
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Dude, pre emptive breakup. If you feel she’s gonna flake, just be like “Hey, something came up for tomorrow, we’ll hang out another time” and just leave. Your idea sounds supplicative and reliant on her. If you’re getting the vibe, leave. Every time I catch the vibe, it ends exactly how I thought it would
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:01 AM
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Tell her “Absolutely baby!” Then hand her a water
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:24 PM
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On rare occaisions I have but there were other factors involved, I knew a lot of people at the venue, I made up a story about why the guy sitting next to her was wearing a top hat, eventually I got her out of her shell
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:23 PM
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Simple and straightforward, I dig it
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:21 PM
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There really are no rules, but there is a mode for optimal success
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:21 PM
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All the time, women are women. I know this girl now who is relatively cute but her personality is incredible and she’s a riot to hang out with. People worry about too many things
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:11 PM
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Well, the reality is you only have two choices: I am a massive bitch in real life, which makes you feel okay because you feel better doing whatever it is you do, knowing you’re so much better off than me. I’m telling the truth. And then you have to face the cold hard reality that there are people like me out there and you are forced to look at your life and wonder what you’ve been doing wrong. I’ll be fine, I hope you will too. Interesting that you immediately assumed he jerks off to too much po…
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:12 AM
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Damn man, tough break. Now go meet another one
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:07 AM
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The marines have a saying called “March or die motherfucker” You can get up and move your ass or you can get run over. The hard truth young men can’t handle is that absolutely nobody will care if you die a virgin, or a miserable man married to the wrong woman. As a man, you must seize your own destiny, it cannot be handed to you.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:07 AM
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It’s only a great opener if you’re amazing and someone builds you up with something “Have you ever seen this guy in the ring? He’s a killer!!” Then you just bashfully say “He’s exxagerating” All guys everywhere try to lead with their flex, don’t be them. Be a mystery to be discovered
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:58 AM
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Look at it this way, prisoners with utterly nothing can get more women to fall in love with them than millionaires with abs. Charisma is the key
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:56 AM
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You’re too kind
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:47 AM
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At the gas station, on my way to end it with a woman I was seeing
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:27 PM
1

I just threw up a little in my mouth lmaooo
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:24 PM
1

Don’t get bummed, we stumble before we learn to run. You’ll get better with time
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:23 PM
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Listen man, let me tell you from experience. I have seen the phones of some very sexy women I’ve been hooking up with and I can tell you for a FACT that you have ZERO competition. Nobody has any game, nobody knows how to text and every guy is leading with his wallet. Hot girls have literally HUNDREDS of unread texts from guys who will never ever be answered. I’ve read some of those texts, dudes are all pathetic
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:22 PM
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Former stripclub bouncer here: Can’t meet them at the club, otherwise you will always be a trick in their eyes. Most strippers actually think men in general are a complete joke with their weird gropes and odd sexual bullshit, “I’ll give you a thousand dollars for a blowjob” they like watching their fellow female dancers more than they like even smelling your breath. Its a job to them and most of them are farting on you and thinking of how much laundry they have to do when they get home during th…
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:31 PM
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If she’s into you and wants to hang out, whoever the guy in her life is, isn’t important. Everyone; both men and women are always talking to someone. If its a girl that hooked up with a guy I know, I stay hands off but a lot of guys wouldn’t even extend that courtesy
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:26 PM
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She doesn’t think you have any experience with women
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:25 PM
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My boy, what you are suffering is called “Separation Anxiety” You’re so used to how that woman makes you feel and the way her pheremones set off your dopamine receptors when you’re around her that you are basically experiencing a drug withdrawal Eventually you can be friends, sure. I’m friends with plenty of my exes. However, until you can see them with another man, happy in his company and it either does not affect you with jealousy, or you’re truly happy for them, do not try to be friends. You…
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:24 PM
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Ended up with her for 3 months man, totally worth it.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:52 PM
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Not personally but I've seen it in action. Weak behavior all around.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:03 PM
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I didn't. I didn't make it to a 4 year university until I was 26, prior to that I worked full time and went to a community college (walked out the door with 196 credits haha) Had a mediocre body count until around mid to late 20's, then things started to take off. I worked as a nightclub bartender for a couple years and really got into my stride, my 30's were amazing, started a business and hit it all out of the park. Basically what I'm saying is, go to school and learn. Get your training in, fo…
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:24 PM
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It was a shit test and you passed with flying colors. You just have to realize that some women just like getting men to do things for them. Had you tried to engage her in conversation, you would of ended up just having to pay for drinks and a whole bunch of other crap and she STILL would have wasted your time.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:18 PM
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My aplogies, the post didn’t soecify that
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:22 AM
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Attitude
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:19 AM
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She’s not into you, prolly has a laughable amount of texts like yours in her phone. Let it go and find better
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:57 AM
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Relax and talk to them like a normal human being. Your competition is a bunch of desperate losers
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:54 AM
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Just appreciate him. Women in general do not give a single fuck about men anymore, they lump them all together and blame the deeds of few on the many. A real man, no matter how he seems on the surface, is trying his best but he knows he is utterly and completely alone.
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:46 AM
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Here ya go: https://youtu.be/CWbvnrcMtWY
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:56 PM
0

Spoken like a guy who loses women and doesn’t know why….
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:49 PM
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I know the benefits and in the beginning I’ll be talking to multiple girls but it usually sorts itself out real fast and one girl rises to the top, once I’ve slept with that girl, I don’t see anyone else. I will then keep the other girls on the backburner with a “Prolly not this week, but maybe anotehr time.” Pretty much the whole concept is to avoid neediness and scarcity mentality. If you have half a dozen hobbies, a fulfilling job and a bunch of good friends to hang out with, you don’t even r…
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:31 PM
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As a whole, women don’t really know what gets them going and what doesn’t. Men don’t really know either and it’s hard to explain it. I’ve talked to women who were crazy about their man at first but now he’s such a turn-off and they feel terrible and they don’t know what happened. There are countless female dating coaches on youtube specifically attempting to help men and they all seem to have mixed results. Its not sexist; as a guy, I wouldn’t be able to give good advice to a woman on how to att…
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:24 PM
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Man, I know a dude who’s 35, works at McDonald’s and rides a bicycle to work and that man gets more ass than a toilet seat. Prisoners in prison get more marriage proposals than you will ever get in your life. Stop getting in your own way.
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:13 PM
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CreepShow my dude
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:11 PM
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I’ve asked a couple women that over the years and they really don’t know. We men do things that kill their attraction and they don’t know what happened so they try and try but they don’t know where it went
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:10 PM
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You’re good enough to get their number but something you’re saying is killing the attraction. Brush up on your skills by checking out the “Playing with fire” channel on youtube and thank me later
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:07 PM
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She’s weighing her options. She has the intent of backburnering you immediately while she tries out a bunch of guys. This woman will NEVER be worth the effort it takes to sleep with her and if you manage to date her, she will always be looking for other options. When meeting someone, you want a “Fuck yes!” Or a “No”. If a woman you’re talking to is like “You should take my number” then when you ask her out, she is 100% in to meet up with you, and after a date or two, she’ll say something like “S…
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:04 PM
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Not with that attitude you’re not. Understand there is no pity party for men. Absolutely NOBODY cares if you die a lonely virgin, NOBODY OWES YOU A DAMN THING! If you want something in this world, you have to figure out how to go get it. If you need to tan, take finasteride for your hair and do a cycle of steroids or TRT to build muscle and change your body, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO! If you have to work 15 hours a day for 5 years to build a company so you can retire by 45, THEN THAT IS W…
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:35 PM
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Sets and reps man, just gotta keep talking to more and more people. And if you think you’re retarded even though you know 5 languages, then I’m f’in pond scum lmaoooo
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:16 PM
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I would honestly advise against it in my experience because you will become EXTREMELY dependent on her very very quickly for validation. Because everytime you want to go out, she’s the only person you spend time with. If you get too clingy, she’ll pull back and with nothing else to do, you’ll chase and annoy her more instead of being patient and allowing her to come to you at her own pace. Also, having good friends just vastly improves your relationships. You can hang out with your friends and h…
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:04 PM
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It gets old as fuck the higher your body count goes, Trust me. Game until you’re in your forties and come back and tell me how goddamn boring it is. The only guys who think its amazing are the guys who have low numbers. If this girl ends up staying, I will have no regrets.
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:46 AM
1

Didn’t mean to be aggressive, but online dating is for lazy people. Go out and talk to people, will be rough at first but it is EONS better than relying on a shitty app. I’m well over a hundred (no bragging) and I have only ever dated one girl off a dating app, every other woman was meeting them in person. Good luck my man
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:38 AM
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Bro, the three guys I’ve met over my whole life with the most game who get more women than they know what to do with are as follows: 1. One is 40 and looks like he’s 19 2. Two are bald 3. All three are under 5’7” and have NEVER dayed women shorter than them.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:42 AM
2

Its as simple as this. Generally, young men aren’t “men” anymore. Men haven’t raised these boys and they struggle with direction. As a society, we have embraced the “single mother” mentality but children need both a father and mother to raise them, even if the parents aren’t together. But what we have now is boys being told its wrong to act like boys. So these boys grow up disenchanted. They know what they would like to have (ie a relationship, sex etc), but they literally have zero idea how to …
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:00 PM
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I hear guys who have small peens say “Size doesn’t matter” while trying to convince themselves that size doesn’t matter. It matters bud. Getting laid on the regular either by one woman or 10 women matters.
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:05 AM
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Saying you’ve “tried online dating” as a guy is basically saying you’ve done nothing at all. And shut the hell up about your looks. I look like king henry the 8th with too many tattoos and my girl is nuclear hot!
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:04 AM
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Literally why engineers tried making apps to date people and it has turned society into a disaster
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:02 AM
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"We're gonna switch cars and rob a bank." She KNOWS you want to fuck her, if she's in, she's coming. When you get back to your place, say "I need a drink before we go", she'll follow. Proceed to hand her black clothes and a towel for a mask. Make the towel huge and ridiculous. Reassure her that she looks the part, she'll say no, then say "Fine, we'll do it another day, wanna watch a movie?" Simple.
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:08 AM
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You need to stop focusing on getting laid. That's like applying for a job for the sole reason of getting health care, you don't care about the job or the money, you just want one thing and NOBODY is going to hire you. No bragging, I have been with well over 140 women, I have had sex thousands of times in my life and I can absolutely say sex by itself is HIGHLY OVERRATED! Contrary to popular belief, sex by itself will not solve your problems, it doesn't cure cancer or improve your looks, make you…
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:02 PM
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The real reason most guys don't have a girlfriend is because having a girlfriend is a high time and resource investment. You WILL pay for dinner and drinks with your girlfriend more than you want to believe. Most guys are just too broke to handle them.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:22 PM
1

Alpha Male Strategies and Mindful Attraction
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:21 PM
1

Definitely a quick text an hour later of "Had fun tonight, see you soon" Then I'd wait for her to reach out which if she's interested, it'll probably be a day or two or three and then when she does, I'll just plan the next date and go from there.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:20 PM
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Lower your bodyfat, get a haircut that works for your head, grow facial hair, chew lots of gum for hours a day to build your chin and jaw, lift at least 4 days a week WITH AN ACTUAL MUSCLE GAINING PROGRAM and tan. Lift for a year. Stick to a hardcore diet for a year. If you have to, do a cycle if you're some shrimpy birdchested fuck and eat fucking REAL food like meat and vegetables and sweet potatoes. Drink lots of water. If I see you with a soda, I'll come over there and smack what's left of y…
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:18 PM
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Dude, get off the internet. My buddy it literally 5'3" and I've NEVER seen him with a woman shorter than him and he sleeps with some sexy females. You have to get the fuck out of your ridiculous peasant mindset. "If a woman would pick me" What are you? The little girl at the dance? YOU PICK THEM! Get some confidence, I seriously hope this was a joke because I feel gross just reading it.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:12 PM
1

Unless you're sure you would date this woman forever, don't just dip from the company pool to get your dick wet.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:10 PM
1

Hmm, girl who wants to fuck you is a red flag. Does that mean that a woman who shows utterly no interest in you is wife material?
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:20 PM
1

Why do you care about her life? If you didn't bang her, you have no right to even entertain the idea she's interested in you. And maybe she was interested in you and you said something stupid to her.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:19 PM
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Guy who has slept with three women thinks he's the god of dating now. Cool story bro, you sound like a woman who watches too much Oprah. I'm in my 40's, I've been with about 140 women (no brag) since I started in my 20's. I have talked to THOUSANDS of women throughout my life to get that number. I STILL run into new shit with women every single time. If you're fat or short or broke, you can have the best personality in the world and you still ain't getting shit. I have a horrible attitude, I'm c…
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:17 PM
1

You realize you have worth as well and you work each day to increase your self-worth.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:12 PM
1

Just be yourself and the world will beat a path to your feet. Nah bro, that's not how it works. And Elon Musk is a brilliant man but a total idiot when it comes to women. Or maybe not, he did marry and divorce the same woman twice and he has 7 kids....
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:11 PM
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There is no LINES There is no magic line that's going to take a introvert loser into a stud. So stop looking for that. Second, game is simply the ability to smoothly operate in social interactions to obtain a desired outcome. Game is being able to read the body language of a woman and know before you approach her if she's interested or not. Game is knowing when to talk and when to keep your mouth shut. Game is the ability to apply the exact amount of pressure and no more.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:09 PM
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I don't have any social media except for snapchat and I follow 14 people on it and I do well. Ask for the number. If she won't give you the number, she doesn't like you and asking for an instagram just pegs you as a beta fan.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:07 PM
1

Answer with the attitude of "happy to hear from you but happy to not hear from you." Stop texting stupid shit like a female and when she hits you up you reply "Come out with me tonight, I want to see you" The phone is for setting dates, not ending emojis and bullshit.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:05 PM
1

Women play games more when you're incongruent in your approach/attitude. When you do things that start making her nervous or cautious, you get more resistance.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:03 PM
1

Soft low voices means she's relaxed. If a man has a high or fast voice, it sounds effeminate
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:44 PM
1

Case in point, you're gonna have to talk. Unless you're a 22 year old dime in the bar, you're not getting approached without using your mouth.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:44 PM
1

Bro, the pills ain't doing shit. You're just acting like an idiot. Case in point, I'm on TRT, 180mg of test cyp per week, Normal male range is between 250ng/dl and 1200ng/dl My test levels are around 1150ng/dl. I'm calm as fuck and focused. If high T caused aggression, I'd be a serial killer.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:42 PM
1

You're dealing with a brat. "Well we'll have to correct that attitude before I allow you to see me."
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:40 PM
2

Alls fair in love and war and he's not your friend. But your friend sounds like total bitch anyway. Nobody gets "every girl they choose". Good game is something around 10% of all the women you meet. Which means if you want to sleep with 10 girls, you need to talk to a hundred girls. Get on the internet and read EVERY SINGLE PICKUP AND DATING BOOK YOU CAN GET YOUR HANDS ON. Take notes. Watch a thousand Charisma On Command videos, take notes. Get your ass out the door and meet other women.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:37 PM
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Do: Gym, no contact with ex AT ALL, regimented day, hang out with friends, get some hobbies, fix the broken shit you've been putting off, read more and spend time around people. Don't: Drink, eat garbage, mope around, text her a million stupid things, cry about her, confide about the breakup to her friends, post stupid vengeful or mopey shit on social media. You broke up with a girl, you didn't lose your life. Eat healthy, hit the gym and rediscover who you were before you met her. Because the W…
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:33 PM
1

You're gonna just have to talk to a LOT of people. You just need more practice in conversation. Everything will even out after that.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:27 PM
1

Sweetheart let me tell you about rejection. I've been seeing a girl for 10 weeks, she sleeps in my bed 4-5 nights a week, is attached at my hip, hot as fuck, sexy as hell and a total sweetie. Two nights ago I'm driving her home after she spent the last two days at my place and she says "I don't want a relationship, I can't do this", gets out of my car and I haven't heard from her since. That's REAL rejection and it's fucking STINGS! You just lost a first date, be glad you didn't have any serious…
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:26 PM
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Casually dating is code for "I can't make up my mind" I say instead that if I'm crazy about a woman, I would definitely entertain the idea of a longterm relationship Because that's 100% true and every wannabe player who thinks they "would NEVER settle down" is usually the first guy to lose his whole shit and simp over a chick. Even Mystery, one of the original pickup artists basically had a mental breakdown when his favorite girl left him. No guy is impervious.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:23 PM
2

The internet has lied to you my son. In my experience, there are very few "men". Most guys are walking around acting like defective females with penises and it's fucking annoying. You have large amount of "I'll shoot my shot but I'm too stupid to actually try to learn game for me to have any success" There's also a predominant amount of thirsty losers who will creep on women by any means necessary. Women in general are getting attention but they mostly HATE the attention they're getting. The guy…
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:20 PM
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TL:DR; Yes but it's as linear as "Get ripped and women just run at you." Uh, mega serious but understand some hangbacks about it. Yes, women treat you differently from when you're a fatass to when you're a badass. Sorry, that's the breaks. The Dadbod is not attractive unless you actually have a child. If you don't have a kid, you don't have a dadbod, you're just a fat lazy fuck. Being fit doesn't mean you don't need game. A lot of idiots get in the gym thinking "I'll just get ripped and then all…
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:13 PM
1

Most women are too nervous to have sex with a guy for the first few times sober, it's weird but totally normal.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:36 PM
1

Hail mary's usually don't work at all. Trust me, of all the Hail Mary's I've tried, one worked out and only prolonged that inevitable for another month.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:36 PM
1

Well, let me put it this way. I was dating this super sexy ex-stripper the past two months. Sexy, thin, fun as fuck, kinky as hell. She's also a gigantic pain in the ass too. She doesn't drive so I have to pick her up, she hates her apartment so she stays over 4-5 days a week. I like her a lot and the sex is great but understand that women are actual humans too and they can get annoying just like hanging out with your best friend. Don't put pussy on a pedestal, put pussy on the ground like it sh…
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:35 PM
1

Check out "Playing with Fire" on Youtube. Dude is really great at it.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:32 PM
1

You really can't. I've met strippers who dressed like sex dolls and had such a low libido it was ridiculous and I've met nurses dressed in hollister that liked to be slapped and pissed on during sex.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:32 PM
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I wouldn't even talk about marital arts, ESPECIALLY if you're really good at it. Just kinda casually downplay it. Then when she finds out you're actually good, she'll be even more impressed that you didn't talk about it. I've been doing muay thai for about 2 decades on and off, have records in boxing and muay thai and I rarely mention it until I have to go to training and she asks where I'm headed. Humble is sexy, guys who brag about fighting skills usually aren't that good.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:30 PM
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There are attractive women everywhere but you're probably not going to meet them at clubs. Attractive women who aren't dull have hobbies and do interesting shit. So start doing more interesting shit my dude.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:28 PM
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It's all relevant. Any guy who thinks he can live in his mom's basement, work some shit job, not exercise and then try to learn enough game to compete with guys who have their shit together is just going to have a hard ass time. Everything matters. All successes in life build on other successes.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:27 PM
1

Just strike up conversations with everybody. It's not that hard, it just takes time to build up charisma
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:25 PM
1

Dude you're 23, most guys are not the studs everyone thinks they have to be. I know plenty of guys who didn't lose their virginity until 25-30 and then went on to have god tier body counts. You don't get to be shy as a man. A girl can be shy and it's cute but a shy guy just comes off as effeminate and weak. You're going to get rejected but as long as you're not acting like a creep, the rejection won't normally be insulting, a woman who is not into will just kind of slough off and disappear. Lear…
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:24 PM
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That's an aggressive opening. It could have also been just for validation and to get you to simp. I'd ask her to hang out like "Come out with me friday night"
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:20 PM
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That's why you're a virgin. You have standards that are too high for your own good. Stop watching porn and meet real people. You're basically trying to say "Well I watch boxing on tv once, now I'm trying to get a fight with Floyd Mayweather, how do I do it?" The hot girl has WAYYYYY more experience than you. She gets hit on 40 times a day. For example: I'm seeing this chick, former stripper, chill as fuck, sexpot. She is dope as fuck. She is also a predator posing as a housepet and just for fun …
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:25 AM
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You're putting too much stress on the outcome and not trusting your skills. It's like saying "I'm gonna bench 315 today" when you've never put up more than 225. Work up slowly. Stop acting as if not sleeping with every woman you casually talk to is somehow a failure. I do pretty good but my meeting to lay ration is like 10%. Meaning that if I want to sleep with 10 girls, I need to talk to 100 girls. The more you talk to women and just people in general, the better you'll get. It's just reps man.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:08 AM
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If you have charisma, pretty much any subject can be fun. If you're boring, even the funniest joke will come off as awkward.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:05 AM
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Dude, RELAX! What timeline are you following? Most dudes don't peak until 30-35 anyway. You missed nothing, you're right on time. I'm in my 40's now and I knocking it out of the park and I can assure you my numbers were a complete joke in my 20's compared to my 30's. The fact that you're a virgin at 30 means utterly nothing. Start from where you are.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:54 AM
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All I hear is babies and std's. First off, NBA players wear condoms they still get women pregnant. Unless you're going to get on trt and shut down your sperm production, just by having sex, you're risking pregnancy. Pay for the abortion, she probably doesn't want your kid anyway. STDs? The gay community is literally taking PReP to avoid aids and raw dogging it anyway. Wtf are you worried about? Only 20% of the population has an STD and over HALF of those with an std are under the age of 24. Plus…
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:09 AM
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Unless you got lousy ass stamina, then the condom is your best friend.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:00 AM
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Tell that to all the NBA players who wore condoms and still got kids. If they have herpes on their crotch, the condom ain't covering that. I'm on trt, 97% chance of ZERO pregnancy as sperm production is shutdown. 1% less than a condom and you can't steal my sperm
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:00 AM
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Same, I have to wear the stupid extremely thin condoms and most women hate condom sex too. People act like guys refuse to wear condoms but my experience has been that most women I've been with really hate the feeling of condoms and once we're hooking up on the regular and tested, I never wear one with her again.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:57 PM
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Numbers are literally in triple digits and I have NEVER had an std. I dunno where you're meeting women bro.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:56 PM
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Lmao, you've learned that the internet isn't real. I'm 6'3" and the 4 guys I have met in my whole life with game, who get more ass than a toilet seat are all under 5'7" and one is bald. I have literally never met a tall guy with game. Even myself, I consider myself decent and I'm good at working with what I have but these guys have silver tongues and are completely unflappable.
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:21 PM
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Dudes dye their hair, no big deal.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:42 PM
1

No, they're still 3's with spray paint on.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:41 PM
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No, unless you're gay, you're gonna look effeminate. Most women would think you're weird. Use hyaluronic acid and a good face wash/moisturizer and get lean to make yourself look better.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:40 PM
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Yeah, this is great. She contacts you, you set the date and stop texting. You don't need to text all f'ing day with her. Set the date and seduce her in real life.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:36 PM
0

I think you're sad because you failed those tests and lost the girl.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:35 PM
1

What's the point of bettering yourself if you want to stay a virgin hermit? My buddy left the game behind years ago. He drives a camry, lives with roommates, delivers chinese food and is generally happy. He's also a little fat too. He doesn't need self-improvement because he's just out for himself. You don't need scads of money if you don't want to date.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:35 PM
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You don't sound like you have any quality relationships in your life, or friends for that matter. Look how easily you get hostile. You must be young. I hope you get out of this phase soon my man, won't be a good life if you don't.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:33 PM
1

THIS!
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:31 PM
1

No you won't. And every single guy who has said they can spot a gold-digger is usually ruined by a gold digger. Once you make money, she'll see the car, the watch, the clothes etc.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:31 PM
1

You should read "Waiting for Godot" Two men waste their whole lives waiting for this magical character to arrive but he never shows up. So you'll be old and gray with 100k or 200k or a million and you'll wonder what the fuck the point was. Every time I hear a guy crying about how he's "Getting the bag" he's usually broke and he stays broke. I know very, very rich men who never talk about "getting that money." I also know very, very rich men who are in their 70's who have body counts of less than…
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:30 PM
1

You should hookup with her if you want to or you should tell her you're not interested if you aren't interested.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:26 PM
1

How about: "Go out with me."
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:26 PM
2

I thoroughly enjoy women. I'm addicted them and I don't want to be cured. You should get your hormones checked, you sound like your testosterone is in the toilet.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:25 PM
1

Better question: Why do YOU think all men want is sex and no relationship? Stop being angry at women for behaving like women. That's about as dumb as screaming at the sky because it's raining.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:23 PM
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Who cares? For example. I am a large man, heavily tattooed, muscular, I train mma. I also read 50-70 books a year, run a business, build furniture, make over 6 figures and own a couple Audis. Sometimes I'm "Super angry looking protective guy" to a woman and sometimes I'm "Boyfriend who I can see myself settling down with" Sometimes she sees you as one thing, sometimes she sees you as something else. And stop referring to guys as "douchebags". She slept with them, she chose them, not your problem…
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:22 PM
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I work my face off Sunday to Thursday. Train mma, diet and training on point, 8 hours of sleep, reading, working on my business etc. Friday and saturday I fuck completely off and go out like a maniac.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:18 PM
2

Teasing isn't being rude. Being cocky isn't being rude. If you're actually being seriously rude and an asshole and she's responding to it, she's got issues you are not ready to deal with.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:16 PM
2

agreed
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:16 PM
1

Don't be her therapist, be her rock. Be the guy who's fun to be around with when she's with you. Do silly things, let her feel safe around you. That goes a far longer way than just trying to diagnose her problems. I was seeing this girl with HORRIBLE depression, CPTSD, self-harm, the WORKS. I just hung out with her and was silly with her. We would watch movies and go for walks and hook-up like teenagers. And that was enough.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:15 PM
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Depends on the girl. If she's petite and adorable, I expect a cute squeaky voice. If she's demure, I expect a drawn out, relaxed voice. That all being said, I dated a french chick 20 years ago she had a voice like a tuba and I thought it was THE sexiest thing I had ever heard.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:12 PM
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Because you're picking up women you aren't actually interested in. I used to do that and I felt hollow. Now I purposefully stick to going after women I'm really into. Sometimes I will turn her down for sex the first few dates (I'll tease her, play with her etc but won't pull my dick out). I want to really want to sleep with the girl and I can be patient. I have my "conquest" number, I have nothing left to prove to myself or anyone else in that department. You obviously have the game to get women…
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:09 PM
2

Yeah, most of the time. I barely have to do any work any more. You know you're on the right path when women of any type start approaching you. I do get some heavier women but I'm nice, I think it's cute, I'm flattered for the attention and sometimes I do hook up with them or sometime I just turn them into a friend and meet more of her friends. But I also do get hotties coming up to me. Sometimes even I have utterly no idea why they would want to talk to me but it happens more frequently. I will …
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:05 PM
2

THIS! Thank you for posting this.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:01 PM
1

It's not, you just missed the point. You're trying to play is "safe" by saying " I only want just ONE woman, that's okay right??" First of all, get that virgin crap about std's out of your head. My number is in the triple digits and I've NEVER gotten an std, not even a scare and I've done some dicey shit. Because I use protection and take care of myself. I'm not here to prove anything. I hookup with women simply because I LOVE WOMEN! I fucking adore them, I love the way they smell, the way they …
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:01 PM
2

Your plan is "I'll simply ask what women like then I'll become exactly that and then I won't need game at all. #Genuis" This an exercise in futility. I'm not even getting into the "ask a fish" trope. It's not what women like, it's what they respond to. It's not even you as a man like, it's what you respond to. Listen to every woman and she'll say she's attracted to hot tall guys with a lot of money and big dicks. Then you enter the real world and you see that same woman with a pudgy bald guy who…
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:49 PM
1

Bro, you made my f'in day with this comment!!
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:17 AM
1

I never use a wingman because that just means you have baggage and bullshit to deal with. If you're doing good and wingman aint't, he might sabotage you. What if you get a chick and she's down to hang right now? Do you drag wingman around or do you abandon him? Your object of daygame is to get LAID, not just get numbers.
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:16 AM
2

Robert Glover wrote an excellent book called "No more mr nice guy" and the audiobook is on youtube for free. https://youtu.be/fobu0RgzLJg
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:14 AM
1

If someone ever comes up to me and says "Are you angry?" I might smack them in the face for bothering me. It seems like she's not into you. She gave you the instagram as a consolation prize but she'll never respond. You prolly blew this one, try again with another girl. As a large man, I can tell you that I have been asked by female friends to act like her "boyfriend" because a dude wouldn't back off of her so don't just assume that the guy had any investment in you.
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:11 AM
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Man, wtf? you've obviously had too much internet. The 4 guys I know that get more ass than a toilet seat and have EONS better game than I can ever hope for are all 5'5" to 5'7" and one of them is bald. In fact, I've NEVER met a tall guy with game.
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:08 AM
1

At least you can talk to the trannies lmaoo. The bots are so f'in annoying!
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:00 AM
7

Definitely check out Playing with Fire on youtube, Alex has a lot of good ideas for text/tinder game.
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:59 PM
1

She's testing you. Most girls know some sort of game and they will wait long periods of time to see if a guy falls apart. I had a chick test me after I texted her "Plans this weeked?" around 11am on a friday She then waited 12 hours to get back to me, told me she was contemplating going on a tinder date but wasn't sure but would let me know. I didn't respond until saturday morning. Thinking she had blown me off, I went out drinking and dining with another woman and hooked up with her that evenin…
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:59 PM
1

Prolly thinks you and her gay brother would make a cute couple....
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:47 PM
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Lmao, basically you're saying: "So I'm planning on winning the Indy 500 using my dad's Ford Focus. How can I get a thousand horsepower out of that 4 banger?" Sorry kid, Tinder Gold ain't the easy way to that dream. If you want a rotation, understand that those women are free to suck and fuck as much dick as they like and you had better be okay with that. No developing stupidass feelings for her later on, no getting needy and no ever going through her phone. And you have to straight up tell them …
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:47 PM
1

You have things to lose at this point. You've been friends with her for a year. You obviously like being friends with her. Let's say you make a move on her and now things are weird and you lose her as a friend. Half the charm is being willing to walk away but you won't walk away and she knows that. You'll end up needy and weird and you won't get her and she won't be your friend anymore. Which hurts more; no sex or now you have one less friend? There are ways to turn a female friend into a lover …
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:40 PM
2

Well said!
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:34 PM
2

Dude, you're not even experienced enough to start having these fears. And since you're a dude, absolutely NOBODY cares if you're introverted. I'm introverted as fuck, I spend most of the day by myself. But I still get the hell out the door and socialize. You either head out the door and suck it up and deal with being uncomfortable or you don't and you stay single and alone and dateless and nobody will care. You're not a chick, nobody is coming to save you. You're a man and you're the captain of …
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:01 PM
2

"pls" looks effeminate. My little lesbian friend uses "pls" all the time. It's cute when she does it but it's weird AF seeing a dude text like that. Also, I personally would have gone with something like "I'm picking you up at 8, wear heels and something sexy." "Where are we going?" "That's for me to know and you to find out, see you at 8" As the man, you're supposed to be in control. She says please, you direct her.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:58 PM
1

Nightclubs might just not be your thing. I was NEVER good at nightclubs and I was a nightclub bartender for years. I prefer sports bars and dive bars.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:55 PM
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Well you first understand that you putting her on a pedestal is doing you no favors. And also realize that if you're asking this question, you may fuck the whole thing up completely. Just shoot your shot and come back and tell us how it went so we can help you do better next time.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:54 PM
2

You really just need to talk to more women. For example, when I first go into muay thai years ago, I would always get nervous when sparring. Now I literally don't care at all. No butterflies, no nerves, nothing. I just do it. Because I've done it hundreds and hundreds of times. Same thing.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:53 PM
1

I can see how that would work. Not my style, but I can see it working.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:51 PM
5

Don't use canned lines. What works for me probably won't work for you. Come up with your own approach and the only way you do that is you try out a bunch of different shit and see what works.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:50 PM
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What??? By your logic, you should never drive a car because if you aren't absolutely amazing at it from the start, then there's no point. Of course you're going to screw up. You're going REALLY mess up A LOT! Like it will almost be hilarious how badly you're going to fail before you figure how to pull girls. So get the fuck out the door and start making mistakes. It's the only what you'll learn.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:49 PM
1

Sparring in Muay thai when you get that sweet, sweet strike in that your partner never saw coming. Building a successful business and seeing your income grow is pretty f'in exciting too.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:47 PM
3

Because in the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king. Every other simp is thirsty and you're not. So they ask "Why doesn't he fawn all over me? What else does he have going on?" Now you've become interesting and aloof and people want what they can't have and they value things far more when they earn it.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:45 PM
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I'd get in the damn car. Say you're visiting a friend 30 minutes away from her and you'll be in the area on XXX date. (Of course you don't have a friend 30 min away but she doesn't know that). You frame it like this so it doesn't look desperate or weird. 4 weeks is too long.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:17 AM
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Go check out Playing With Fire on youtube. He's got some great advice for text game.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:15 AM
2

Good on you for losing weight. 80lbs is a big loss, keep it up my dude! Go binge watch Alpha M for his style advice and grooming advice. Ignore literally everything else he says. Then go scrounge for stuff on ebay and ASOS.com and Amazon that looks like the clothes he recommends. (The object is to look good, not go broke doing it.). I personally wear $6 v-necks from target and revtown jeans with a beat up pair of Frye boots or ASOS white sneakers. Works for me. I dunno what ugly means. I literal…
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:15 AM
2

If you think it's manipulation or deceiving women, you're already lost.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:07 AM
1

You're blowing it somewhere from the time you get her number to the time you ask her out. You're probably texting them too much and they're losing attraction.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:06 AM
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Because Dating and Seduction are two different things. Do you want to find and keep a girlfriend, you need to learn pickup to get her and relationship game to keep her. Do you want to sleep with a hundred women? Then you just need r/seduction
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:05 AM
2

Simple but effective. I approve!
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:01 AM
2

You go find them. I run a business from home. But I have to make sure a few times a week, I walk out the door and go talk to people.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:54 AM
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There's really no words that can get her to build up sexual tension. The sexual tension is your whole attitude. It's the way you look at her, the way you casually play with her hair, every so slightly tugging her head backwards, then letting go and changing the subject while looking like you're frustrated that you want to do so much more, it's in the way you kiss her but don't totally let her feel your lips, the way your fingers slightly graze the front of her shirt, lightly brushing her nipples…
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:53 AM
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You don't want them to be comfortable. You want them to feel a little danger, a little excitement. That's what gets the juices flowing. Comfortable is your grandmother's couch. Exciting is fingering her out while she's talking to the cops who just pulled her over.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:46 AM
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Well said my dude!
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:44 AM
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I fuck girls in public. I also eat out strippers and kiss hookers on the mouth. It totally depends on what you're comfortable with. My guess is if you're not sure, you're not ready for this. If you proceed, goddamn wrap that shit up man.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:44 AM
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Sarcasm is a turn-off. Dry humor and teasing is not. Example: She's wearing a mickey mouse watch. Sarcasm "Nice fucking watch." Dry humor: "That keep good time?" Teasing: "My little niece has a watch just like that. She might go to the same preschool as you."
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:42 AM
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Good god, stop watching f'in disney movies. There is NOTHING romantic about heartbreak. It fucking BLOWS. I lost a chick 6 years ago, woman was perfect in every way and I blew it. She left, started up with a new guy (she just got engaged to him. Congrats Tim and Kris) I went to the bar and didn't leave for 4 months. I got arrested twice for assault to some random guys I don't even know and my business took a massive shit. It then took me another 6 months to get back on my game and meet another w…
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:40 AM
1

Okay here we go: First off, you're not in love with this girl. You're "in lust" because you want to get your dick wet. You're also acting like an idiot. You just put her on the biggest pedestal even though you never slept with her, never kissed her, didn't date her or did anything. You then listened to your idiot brother who probably also is a virgin who did nothing but talk trash on her. Newsflash, men who get laid NEVER call women whores or sluts that they haven't slept with because that usual…
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:27 AM
1

A couple weeks ago, I drive this chick back to her place the first night I met her. As we were going over the local bridge she said "Wanna hear a secret? I was going to jump off that bridge tonight but I chickened out and went to the bar." I replied so non-chalantly it actually unnerved me: "Well that's a weird way of saying you want to fuck me." She completely cracked up and I got the slam. Women like dark humor just like guys do.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:13 AM
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Why are you hanging out with these people? Go solo and if someone starts talking appear completely disinterested. If he calls you out "Hey I'm talking!" you respond "Yeah, I can hear you, you should shut the fuck up." Then come what may. Either "Kill" the king or stop giving a fuck who the king is.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:10 AM
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Man, abandon that ship. Usually I have an answer for everything but if I don't know the chick or don't remember how she got into my phone, I'm definitely not spewing some bs game at her.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:07 AM
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High interest. I'd open with "So we meet again" Don't beat around the bush, she likes you, it's your game to lose. Set the date and get her out with you.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:06 AM
1

You have to go out but you don't have to get drunk, I drank club sodas with a lime for years. Nobody even asked if I was drinking. Worked out even easier since I was always able to get it up.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:36 PM
2

You look them in the eye and smirk. Eyes about half open. It sounds weird but think about how wide your eyes are open when you orgasm, that half open thing. That's what you're going for. Don't smile, don't stare. Just smirk. Like you're subtly saying in that smirk "Oh the things I would do to you" And this "fear of making them feel weirded out" is in YOUR head because you have this inherent idea that you're not worthy of her. That's YOUR problem to get over. She knows why you're checking her out…
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:30 PM
3

Hate to be that guy but you're essentially asking the question: "How am I supposed to learn how to drive a car if I don't have a car." Absolutely NONE of us were born with any sort of skills. On top of that, the guys who got really REALLY good at game most likely totally sucked and had zero success when they began. I know I didn't. My conversation skills were ATROCIOUS as a teenager and into my early 20's. The only reason I got better is because there was no other option. My choices were either:…
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:35 PM
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I mean, you're basically playing the coquette game (push/pull) without even realizing it. Say less, apologize for nothing and just be super into her when you're around her then distant and low on replies when you're not. But don't tell her all about your problems. You're a guy, you're going to therapy and you're handling your life. If she doesn't like it, tell her to find the door. I have a chick with bpd who does part time work for her here and there. She's been a friend of mine for years. I kn…
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:23 PM
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Ok first off, congrats on the job. Also, you're not a woman, stop whining. Nobody is coming to save you. You're a man, you manipulate your reality to suit your needs. So you can either wallow in your own loneliness or figure out how to change it. Maybe you can't get a dog but you can get a couple of cool cats that are pretty self-sufficient so at least you have something alive to come home to. Next, make it a point to start learning how to talk to PEOPLE., not just girls. You need to learn to ta…
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:01 PM
1

All women like muscular men. Most women lie about liking muscular men for some reason. I know two amateur boybuilders and they get a LOT of attention from women at the beach or pool party. It doesn't mean that you can't be an utter fat bastard and not get laid but being muscular will only improve your chances.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:52 PM
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Maintain the plan. The number ain't shit, it just means you're still in the game. Text her tomorrow, invite her out. Save all your conversation for when you see her in person. If she can't set a date, delete the number and go meet another girl.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:46 PM
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You gotta go "Whack Game" style. It's the only way to safely get rid of a stalker. Basically do everything the opposite of what you're doing. Instead of taking an hour to respond, respond immediately. Instead of playing it calm and cool, text her paragraph after paragraph of why you think sea otters are super cool and also ticklish. Send her corny memes and gifs. Snapchat her all day with pictures of random cats. Send her a pic from that dumb app that shows what your kids would look like. Tell h…
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:44 PM
2

People want what they can't have but as soon as they get it, they take it for granted. It's a human trait. And it's the basis of seduction. When you were 14 you dreamed of being able to drive and all the freedom it would give you. Then you got your license and realized what gigantic pain in the ass owning a car, paying for gas, insurance, upkeep and inspection is and now you could give a damn less about driving. You wanted that new car for so long, now that you have it, you could care less about…
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:38 PM
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You have the right mindset, don't second guess yourself. If it took her 6 hours to respond, she ain't that into you. Women are not as busy as you think, they have their phones glued to their face 24/7. She got your message when you sent it then decided to ignore it for 6 hours. Besides, you were SLEEPING. Normal people sleep at night. What were you supposed to do, "Oh, so sorry your majesty, I will try to stay up all night in anticipation of your glorious message!"?
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:35 PM
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You're only seeing the forest for the trees. Do you really think that every guy in her DM's even has a chance? Most of them don't. Take a look at this thread r/seduction. These are the guys who are ACTUALLY TRYING and they still come up short. You think the guys in her DM's are all masters at game? No, they're not. Case in point. A buddy of mine was hooking up with this stripper. 500 likes on every photo she posts on instagram, dozens of comments on every facebook post, has an OnlyFans etc. The …
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:32 PM
1

You call him toxic, she calls him "boyfriend" Stop listening to what women "say" they want and start watching what they actually respond to. Most women think the options they have in their 20's are like a saved game that she can just go back to anytime she wants. They're not a queen and they don't want you to treat them like it. She's with UK guy because he "checks all the boxes" and he's stupid enough not to ask questions about other men.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:23 PM
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The old Man Show with Joe Rogan and Doug Stanhope once had a skit: "Everyone has an ex-girlfriend, why right now someone is having yours too." And it's very correct because you HAD a girlfriend and now you don't. But on the same note, she once HAD you as a boyfriend, but now she doesn't. You weren't hers, it was just her turn applies just the same. Use the saying to keep you in the right mindset that there is no "One" or "Soulmate". These women are just people, they're not magical or amazing. Be…
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:19 PM
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I had this problem when I was younger. You probably have great conversation skills and can talk about anything but you speak too fast right now and maybe you move your hands. Say the same thing but say it slower. Your voice should be relaxing, take pauses and dial it back a little. The speedy talk comes off as supplicative and needy as almost if to say "Hey, I know you couldn't possibly like me so I'm going to talk as fast as I possibly can to get as much information out before you reject me." J…
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:14 PM
2

Congratulations, I don't know how old you are but you have an excellent mindset. You realize you have a lot to learn but you're positive you will get better. You did essentially get cockblocked, but you tried and you have a good attitude about it. You're not bitter or angry, you're just like "Eh, that was interesting." You're gonna go far kid.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:11 PM
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Most guys are weak ass and they get angry. Understand also that she doesn't like you. She rejected you. Just staying cool doesn't automatically make her say "Oh, such a chill man, please have my vageen now!" You're missing the whole point of the conversation. You ARE a pathetic nice guy in this case because you're supplicating your conversation and hoping to be rewarded for it. Why are you even still talking to her, you don't care if she's comfortable and she doesn't like you, which means she's …
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:55 PM
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Sorry man, you sound like a woman. Women complain that it's somehow someone else's fault for their failures. Competition is good and you need to learn that. If it's hard for you, it's hard for every other average fool out there and as soon as you figure out a way around it, you'll beat everyone else. Jim Rohn once said "Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom” I honestly think women ar…
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:53 PM
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Depends on your style. You just have to try it and see what you have a knack for.
/r/seduction22/04/22 09:07 PM
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You have to learn to roast guys back. Most guys these days don't know how to do this because they grew up around women and single moms. Men roast men. That's masculinity. For example: The other night I'm out with this chick, my buddy D rolls in. He's a little bastard, about 5'6" (I'm 6'3"), and excellent at game. Sometimes we fuck with each other when one of us is with a chick. So he walks up, shakes my hand, shakes her hand and says "Look, I hate to break it to you, as big as he is, his dick ga…
/r/seduction22/04/22 09:06 PM
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You're already too emotionally involved with her. You've built her into this fantasy woman that she isn't and she's going to smell that the moment you roll over to her and try to act chill. You need better conversational skills. What you're asking is basically the equivalent of saying: "Hey, so I got this fight with Floyd Mayweather tomorrow but I've only ever punched a heavy bag twice in my life, any pointers on how to beat him??" Let it go, meet another girl.
/r/seduction22/04/22 09:01 PM
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You're approaching this the wrong way. You don't know anyone and you're trying to just meet women. You need to improve your conversation skills and start meeting people. Start talking to every single person you run into. Even if it's a few words. You MUST get comfortable with talking to people in general before you can begin to get good at talking to girls.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:56 PM
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Yeah, that woman is already married my dude. If she's high value, she was locked down a loooonnnnnng time ago. Those were the women you saw getting married right after college. She married her high school sweetheart, never went to parties and worked 3 jobs through high school. You're left with the leftovers. Welcome to the pile. And understand anytime you "think" you are something, you're usually not. I used to think I was a rational, logical man. Nope, I'm a total lunatic who gaslights himself …
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:54 PM
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I mean, they do. Women also go for domestic abusers too. I'm seeing a girl casually that still gets tuned up by her ex that she won't call the cops on. So, don't ever try to mold yourself into what you think women like.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:49 PM
4

Loud club You: "Do you want to dance!" Her: "Not with you!" You: "No, I said you look fat in those pants!"
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:47 PM
3

Don't go with your roommate, he already sounds like a buzzkill. You can totally go alone, you live there. If any girl asks, you tell them you live there. (If any girl asks, that's her pickup line, game accordingly) On top of that, you're ripped bro, go to the pool and use that to your advantage. That set writes itself!
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:46 PM
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Those apps are TERRIBLE! I think in my whole life I only ever dated one chick off an app. I do far better in real life. I don't take good pics of myself.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:44 PM
1

She's a waitress, not a slave man. I was a bartender for years, trust me; plenty of waitresses met their boyfriends who came into the restaurant. HOWEVER; Just don't be a weirdo. Leave your number on the customer copy of the check with a "You're cute, call me sometime - (your name and number)" If she's in, she'll text you, if she's not, she won't. Waitresses are pretty upfront and slightly more aggressive than non-service industry girls. If you don't hear from her, don't return for at least a mo…
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:43 PM
2

That's normal. I've been in muay thai for years. I've gotten into a dozen altercations outside of the gym but the only fight I think about in my whole life is when I got the shit beaten out of me in high school at 16. You will always think about your failures so learn to grow from them.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:06 PM
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Bro, you don't even want to run down that hole. He's on the beginning of a path you don't want to go down. Young men think getting a woman obsessed over them is a good thing. It is NOT. If you're not ready for it, it can destroy your life. If you are ready for it, it can destroy hers. You have to be basically a narcissist if you want to pull that kind of severe game. I know how to do it and I've done it before but the methods are severely distasteful to me. That's full on serial killer level gam…
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:05 PM
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It means shut the hell up, you're probably annoying. I had a girl say that once and I replied out of the blue "Say that again and I'm gonna fuck your lights out and break your heart." And it worked. I did exactly what I said I would do. Take that for what it is.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:41 AM
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You're only answer to any of that nonsense is "That is none of your business" Unless you're on your wedding day to the Queen of sheba who is unbreakably and financially locked to you for the rest of your life and must lick your balls and shaft clean before she downs her morning orange juice every single day and give you the poopchute every evening at 7pm. Until such a day, never get rid of the hoes. Pussy likes to chase dick that other pussy is chasing.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:40 AM
1

Who taught you to talk man? "Would is be jarring?" Wtf??? Are you some sort of london dandy from the 18th century? Yes it would be "jarring" for a chick to watch some dude "waltz" up to her and start talking about nonsense, then say "Give me your number m'lady so that I may make sweet woo to you at a later time" *smh
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:37 AM
1

Being nervous is not being needy, it's being nervous. Needy means your emotions are dependent on whether or not you are accepted by others. Nervousness means you're unsure about yourself. You can be nervous giving a presentation. You can be nervous driving through a snowstorm.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:34 AM
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I mean, I guess. My teeth suck and they're kinda yellow from smoking and I do okay though.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:31 AM
1

Women are attracted most to men who intimidate other men. There's something about a hint of violence that is sexy as fuck. He probably plays some sort of direct game. He's direct and intimidating and the women who are into it are REALLY into it.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:31 AM
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You're probably really hyper and a fast talker and you use your hands when you speak. You're interesting but you act effeminate when you talk to women. Slow your speech down, keep your hand movement to a minimum and relax. And "I love your shoes" sounds gay as fuck. My gay brother says shit like that. But he's also trying to bang her brother so even he doesn't care.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:28 AM
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What a weird question. You can't figure out how to talk to women but you somehow want them to agree to casually fucking you when you please... You're in the wrong mindset. You're looking at women as if all they are is vaginas with legs and you're going to keep failing if you stick to this thought process.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:24 AM
1

Check out Playing With Fire on youtube. He's really good with app and text game.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:22 AM
1

If she's not interested in you or she's taken, she'll let you know in no uncertain terms. And what is a boyfriend? A committed relationship? I see about 3 girls a month. I'm not dating any of them, we're just fucking. When a woman asks me "Do you have a girlfriend?" the answer is no and it's truthful. Because she asked the wrong question. I don't volunteer that information either and most women don't care so why do you care?
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:22 AM
1

Oh so sorry Prince Average, let me make sure that the "Amazing Train" puts in a new stop at your house. Dude you have to make your life yourself. Absolutely nobody cares if you die a mediocre person who spend most of his life jerking off in his basement. You obviously suck at talking to people so I would say go figure out how to do that. I was so bored with your whining, I didn't even read the second half of your rant. You're not a woman, you can't just complain and make demands until a simp sho…
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:17 AM
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You're desperate because you're still putting entirely too much stock into pussy. Pussy isn't special or magical or interesting. It's a gigantic pain in the ass to deal with. My brother is gay and the effort he puts into getting laid is EONS LESS than I do and that makes me depressed sometimes. You also sound like you have almost nothing else going on in your life. That's a problem. Get some hobbies, find some male friends.
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:48 PM
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Tv, comfy couch, some drinks and she sits next to you on the couch. Get a loveseat to make that even easier. Cheese and fruit like strawberries if you really want but if you're young, have an assortment of drinks. Six pack of multi white claw, a couple coronas and a $20 bottle of new zealand sauvignon blanc will suffice. The truth is, most women usually have no food in their house either so don't stress the food situation. Stop by a gas station and get snacks or food on the way back to your plac…
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:45 PM
1

I had a buddy of mine run that crap, he'll get like 50 numbers in a night and sleep with 1 or 2 of them. And he's a jacked, tanned stud of an idiot he is. I on the other hand will work a girl for a few hours, get only her number and sleep with her a week later. I guess it all depends on how you're style is.
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:33 PM
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Congratulations, you complimented a woman. Join the rest of the 3.5 billion men out there. It's a nice start but don't let it go to your head. Women's words mean almost nothing. I once had a girl slap me in the face and loudly called me an "asshole" at a bar. Then I left with her an hour later and ended up dating her for a year. You really never know. But maybe I am a jaded, alcoholic asshole. She liked the compliment and you feel good about yourself. All's well that ends well.
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:31 PM
1

You're not friends anymore. If you think you are, get drunk and pull your dick out in front of your male buddy and tell me how that conversation goes. You also might be the dumbest person I've ever met. Why do you just want to have a FWB relationship with a woman whom you obviously enjoyed enjoyed spending time with platonically? I would kill for that. I'm tired of vapid hook-ups. But I digress. Chill out and don't say a thing until she brings it up, she'll probably say she felt silly for that h…
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:27 PM
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Most women are average and it's obvious you don't like her. You won't leave because you have a scarcity mentality and you like the sex on the regular. Also, I'm sure there are things she doesn't like about you too. She might think your peen is average too and also understand that whatever she doesn't like about you, her friends also know that information as well. The shyte truth is as soon as you dump her and see her with another guy, she's going to be the hottest thing you've ever seen in your …
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:22 PM
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I like the idea that you're keeping it cheap but the main thing is that if you don't know this girl that well, you need to keep it simple. I'd honestly go to the rooftop bar first, alcohol relaxes people. Museum and ice cream should be second date. You need to quickly figure out if she's even worth talking to. In that case, a simple "Let's meet at 7 at Craftlylad Bar" Don't say "Does this work for you", she will tell you if that works for her or not. If it doesn't, she'll come back with another …
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:17 PM
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My buddy G is like this. Former international model for a BIG brand. The man is cartoonishly handsome. Ended up dating a mega pop princess for a time. He's also literally the most genuine dude you've ever met in your life. When you talk usually people are just waiting to say something but he is REALLY listening to you. He does this to everyone and it shows. He just had a son, he's got a sweetie of a baby mama who he's loyal AF to and he's off the market. Conversely there's another guy who freque…
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:07 PM
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How many times have you tried? I started learning game 20 years ago and I'm still learning. It's a process. What's the alternative? Sit at home and masturbate to 4chan porn? Change your venue and try again. Clubs are difficult, I've never had great success at clubs and I was a nightclub bartender for years. I do much better in sportsbars and hipster dive bars.
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:01 PM
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It's really not that hard to understand. All these dudes talk about how much they want to date 8's, 9's and 10's but they NEVER hit on those women. NEVER! The majority of the TRUE hotties get hit on either by losers who have utterly nothing to lose and are just hoping or players who know how to deal with her. Guys sleep with 5's and 6's because they're comfortable with those girls. Honestly, I've hooked up with some legit 8's and 9's and they were such a pain in the ass to deal with for several …
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:59 PM
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Bruh, I'm 43 and am hooking up with a 23 year old. Females like men with charisma, stop thinking age is something to be ashamed of. Look at your male competition. Most of them are completely lost. Your game must be "Charming aloof guy". You're relaxed because you've had sex, you've dated women before, it's not a big deal. What you shouldn't do is go to any of the college parties, that's just going to end poorly. I'd find the college bar in the area and start frequenting that. Frequent the bar li…
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:49 PM
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In other news, water is wet.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:27 PM
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You don't sound very interested in him, you're just annoyed you got rejected so now you're creating scenarios in your head that he's secretly obsessed with you. He's not. Guys want to fuck and unless he's busy with his dying parents or pets, he's just not that into you and he's exploring other options.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:27 PM
1

You're not getting mixed signals. She's not that into you bro. Maybe she's back-burnering you while she sees what's up with a new guy but your chances are low. If she texts you anything that isn't "What are you doing?" you just reply "K" and walk away. Her: "My dog is so sick today lol" You: "K" Her: "My boss is being such a pain today" You: "K" Send her "K". "K" is "I bored with you" and it immediately will get one of two reactions. A: She'll be like "Fuck, I'm losing him" and she'll reply with…
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:24 PM
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Watch this video, will help a lot. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lR3wzB-mCj8&list=PLissspJvKZ-86MFuB1U31Ampd3\_GQ4YuU&index=4
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:17 PM
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Make sure you smile and make it obvious that you're kidding You: "Interesting dress, my mom has curtains that look just like it." She replies with whatever she replies. You: "You're gonna have to stop talking to me, I can't be seen in public with a woman who is sooo fashionably out of touch." She replies Continue to smirk and tease her about her fashion sense while she tries to convince you it's a nice dress and that she indeed is very fashionable. You: "Bullshit, you probably buy your underwear…
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:16 PM
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I agree with the others here. You have two issues going on A: You have convinced yourself that there is something wrong with just hooking up with women. Women like sex too and not every woman wants a boyfriend or some needy weirdo in her life. B: You're treating women like some accessory to magically save you from your depression. "If only I had a girlfriend, the world would be so wonderful and fun!" A girlfriend solves no problems of yours and mostly just creates more problems. Furthermore, you…
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:10 PM
1

THIS!
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:05 PM
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You think they know nothing about game but they have pretty girlfriends sooo that means they know something.... Stop looking at people who have something you don't as being less than you. That's a loser attitude. Instead, why don't you talk to these guys and ask them how they met their chick? You may find out that it was pretty straightforward through friends or classmates. Women are not that complex.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:05 PM
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You should definitely watch Playing With Fire on Youtube, great info on just this type of thing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lR3wzB-mCj8&list=PLissspJvKZ-86MFuB1U31Ampd3\_GQ4YuU&index=4
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:03 PM
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100% difference. I've been ripped, fat and ripped again and the way women treat a man when he's fat versus when he's ripped is a whole entirely different world. I read somewhere that only 1 in 100 men has a visible 6-pack. In the bedroom, women are far more aggressive and excited for sex with me when I'm ripped than when I'm fat. I still get laid when I'm fat but the girls kind of treat it like a chore. Get ripped. You almost don't have to have much advanced game if your ripped. And ripped to wo…
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:02 PM
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I say that as a man to a person who is really beginning to annoy me. The reason this is happening to you is that you're picking the wrong targets. Instead of carrying a shotgun and hitting on every woman you see, carry a sniper rifle and pick out the women who are just wandering around and don't seem to have any specific place to be. Those women will be the ones more receptive to conversation.
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:59 PM
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Drop her, if you keep trying for her it's going to utterly wreck your self-image and it will take you a while to get it back. Essentially, in pick-up and dating, you are looking for the "Fuck yes!" girl. The "Fuck yes!" girl makes everything seem almost effortless. She says "You should take my number" She agrees to the date without hesitation. If she can't make it that night, she rainchecks. "I'm super busy on thursday but I'm free saturday night, can we meet up then?" She wants you to kiss her …
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:39 PM
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It's rare to read a breakdown of game by someone who actually understands deep game and the problems one can run into. I commend you sir!
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:33 PM
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I never make it to the bed, we just bang on the couch....
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:26 PM
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There are men in prison with nothing to their names that can take Elon Musk's wife away. Charisma and charm are powerful things my sir.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:25 PM
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I do, I don't ever cold approach anymore unless it's in a bar so I know she's at least 21. There are girls today that I absolutely cannot tell that they're 15 and not 19 and I don't want none of that shit on my soul.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:24 PM
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Two arms and I pick her up. I don't give 3 rat's dicks about MeToo and neither does she.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:21 PM
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You flirt with them the same you would flirt with new girls except this a warm approach instead of a cold approach.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:20 PM
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Get her interested, open up your phone to the dial screen and tell her to call herself.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:19 PM
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I used to care but now I'm literally just out to amuse myself at this point. I have dated women who have fallen madly in love with me and have been the most incredible females I've ever met. If a chick I meet is not interested, I'm thankful. Because what if that girl faked her interest in me, we went out, we hooked up, she faked the relationship and 4 years later told me she never loved me? The girl who just rejected you just SAVED YOU 4 YEARS OF YOUR LIFE. Look at it that way. There are 109,000…
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:18 PM
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Play with her hand, move up the arm and move in for the kiss. Then say "let's get the fuck out of here."
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:09 PM
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I don't even call them rejections anymore, I call them hilarious stories. You think getting turned down before you get started is bad, well read on my brothers. Hooked up with this 22 year old, she was GORGEOUS, I was 34 at the time. I stupidly texted her too much after sex and she ghosted me HARD. Totally into this amazing natural redhead who was pornstar hot and happened to be my buddy's sister. One night, I'm at the bar after work and she's there, ready to go. Back to her spot, the game write…
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:08 PM
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I did a stint at a swinger's sex club 15 years ago working the door. Orgies aren't as sexy as you think. It sounds like it's awesome but it was basically people you would see in wal-mart having sex with each other. Your friend is probably dumb AF. He didn't have an "orgy", he had a threesome. An orgy is a bunch of people banging each other at the same time.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:46 PM
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You really have to get this "respectful" bullshit out of your head. You're putting women on a pedestal and that's your problem, not theirs. I was a nightclub bartender for years. I bounced at a strip club as well. I can tell you that who you think women are and who they actually are are two completely different animals. If a woman wants to fuck you, she'll be into everything nasty thing you tell her. If she doesn't, she'll think you're the second coming of Ed Gein. You lack the ability to create…
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:42 PM
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Go watch a bunch of Playing With Fire's vids on youtube. He's got some really good insights.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:37 PM
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Bro, there is an entire porn niche devoted to women who want to bang men like you. Get out of your head.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:35 PM
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You have to forge this unbreakable belief in your head that your arrival was ordained by the gods, that you are the greatest person she has ever met on planet earth. Gaslight yourself, repeat it to yourself, tattoo it on your chest but burn it into your psyche that you're the man.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:33 PM
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If your heart isn't into it, it will be a chore. If you honestly just like the adventure of meeting new people every night, it will be easy. You should definitely be taking voice notes of your rejections and successes and thinking about how you could have changed them. If you hit a scenario where you have no answer, come home and find that answer.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:32 PM
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No, you shut up. If I had a dollar for every time I've seen a guy talk his way out of pussy, I'd be a rich man. All you're going to do is burn your chances by saying something stupid. I know this because I have fucked up more sure things with phenomenally attractive women than I care to admit just because I sent a bunch of stupid memes and texted too much. You must remain mysterious. She must know very little about you and she must crave to know more. You don't wait for a big date, you grab a dr…
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:25 PM
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Every guy wants to make this shit complicated. Here's what I do. "Headed out tonight, hit me up if you're out." If she's interested, she'll do one of two things: A. I'd love to meet up, where are you going to be? B. Working/Busy tonight but I'm free thursday If she's not interested you will either get no answer or a dead "Can't tonight but maybe some other time." "Maybe some other time" means "Never" If you get no response, you never text her again. No double texts, no neediness. Your arrival in…
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:13 PM
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Congratulations, you're now her big gay girlfriend. She was DEFINITELY INTO YOU and you just "hugged her".... She has a daughter, she's definitely been fucked before and she wanted you to fuck her too and you just wasted your time texting her about painting like a teenager. You murdered the attraction. The phone is for setting dates ONLY. You're only conversation with a woman before you've bedded her at least a half a dozen times is "Hey great to hear from you, when do I get to see you this week…
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:03 PM
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Definitely pirate or buy Charisma On Command's "Charisma University". That's a really good base, then walk out the door and start talking to people. Learn some jokes, learn how to tell great stories and talk to EVERYONE. I didn't really get good at game until I got really good at starting conversations out of thin air.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:59 PM
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I'm somewhat the same and I'm not every woman's cup of tea and I don't really care. The women that don't like it usually HATE me but the women that do enjoy it, LOVE me and I get more first night slams out of it. Understand that most guys stick to hitting on 5's and 6's. Really attractive women intimidate regular guys to the point that the only guys that hit on them are either total losers or experienced players. I'd personally rather take my chances failing with the hottie than failing with the…
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:57 PM
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If you really want to reduce the chance of flaking, you need to make yourself memorable. If I don't at least make out with the girl when I get her number, I don't even consider her a priority. She needs to know that you're a viable, bold option. Most guys aren't.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:28 PM
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Here's the hangup. If she likes you, the conversation is sexy. If she thinks you're a creep, the conversation is sleazy. Sitting at a bar: Her: What do you want to do? You: How about we get a six-pack, get the fuck out of here and you show me what your bedroom looks like? If she likes you, this is a turn-on. If she doesn't, this is a turn-off. Simple as that.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:23 PM
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Man, you're definitely NOT a loser. You're very skilled. But you're putting your ladder against the wrong wall. It's like someone who runs a lot and wonders why they suck at fighting. You suck with women because you're literally NOT TRYING WITH WOMEN. The other guys with "no redeeming qualities" have one redeeming quality, THEY TRY WITH WOMEN. There is absolutely no way around it, you need to go out and build your conversational skills and talk to more women. The best I ever did was about a 10% …
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:18 PM
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You either move forward or you move backward. You are never "enough" or else you go stagnant. Granted, going from a fatass loser to a ripped guy who has decent game will get you 95% there. But you'll spend the rest of your life working to achieve that last 5% and you should because that's the game of life. For example, I've been in muay thai for about 20 years and not a week goes by that I don't learn a new way of doing things. But don't sit inside and just do situps and read PUA books, go outsi…
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:06 PM
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Juice ain't worth the squeeze my man. Sure you can get your dick wet but the husband may show up with a shotgun and put it in your mouth. Guys have a weird hangup about their wife cheating.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:00 PM
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Girls who were raised right will carry their own way. I was out with this stripper and we were just chilling at this bar, she bought all the drinks for me, despite the fact that I have my own money. She's like "No, you drove, I'll pay. " Can't talk smack about strippers, that girls is classy.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:30 PM
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Hey let me ask you a question: What's the worst pickup line you've ever heard? Like hands down, what is the weirdest thing a guy has ever said to you to try to get into your panties? Or: Point to the weirdest person in the room at the gym, maybe it's the guy in grey sweatpants who is hanging off the power tower and kicking the air. and tell the gym hottie "Hey, that guy told me he thinks you're really cute and he wants to go candle shopping with you." She'll look at you weird, then you burst out…
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:28 PM
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That sounds weak and that whole book messed me up for about a year. First off, you need to get sexual on the date from moment 1. It's not a job interview, you're trying to put your meat rod into her sex hole. Stop losing sight of that. You escalate to making out with her as quickly into the first date as possible. You need to give her absolutely ZERO doubt in her mind that you think she's hot and you want rip her clothes off and bang her on every piece of furniture you own. You want her to rip y…
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:20 PM
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Women want to fuck. They know why you crossed the bar to introduce yourself and they definitely know you're not as interested in their bracelet/tattoo/hair color as you sound like. But it's also not a job interview. Women want the act to go organically. They want you to know. Not sit there like a maniac taking notes "Okay, so do you like your clit rubbed clockwise or counterclockwise?" Learn to fuck well, then after you've fucked her a few times, feel free to fine tune it.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:14 PM
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You say you want guys to be straight up with you but you don't. I can't tell you how many damn times I've told a woman that I'm seeing other women and I'm not looking for a relationship but casual sex and drinks is great. The girl agrees to that then two months later is telling everyone we're boyfriend and girlfriend. I tell her that is not what I was looking for and I leave and she goes defcon 5 insane, calling me toxic, cursing my name blah blah blah blah. That's why we ghost you.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:10 PM
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I read once that the Sioux indians would rather choose death over being jealous of a woman. Whether it's true or not, it's something to think about. She's trying to make you jealous because she's starved for attention. Fuck her better or someone else will.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:07 PM
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I'm 43 with some gray and I've been hooking up with a couple 23 year old girls for a while. Women don't care about gray my dude.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:02 PM
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I personally would never sleep with a virgin. Shit is entirely overrated. I've been with well over a hundred women, I've had sex thousands of times. Why the fuck would I want to hang out with a chick who uses teeth on a blowjob or thinks doggy-style is impersonal and gets scared of a little light bondage? Virgins after a certain age aren't pure or interesting, they have sexual hang-ups and waste your time. People have sex with other people, get over it.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:01 PM
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Sleep with more girls, talk to more girls. You have a scarcity mentality. The only cure for that is realizing you have more options.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:57 PM
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If she's putting up a roadblock, she's not interested. Women are not stupid, if they want you, they're going to make it EXTREMELY easy for you to sleep with them. They're going to meet up with you, they'll ask you what you're doing and when you're going to be around and where they can see you. If she says she has a boyfriend, she either has a boyfriend or she's dumb enough to think that men will chase her after being rejected. Why the f*** would you waste your time with either of them? On top of…
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:57 PM
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No woman is going to agree to go out with you after knowing you for 30 seconds. My most successful pickups that resulted in a first night meet and bang took an average of 3-5 hours. You have to chat her up, she has to get to know you to the point that she's relatively sure you're not going to chop her into 50 pieces once she gets in your car. You have to build a certain amount of trust for her to convince herself you are the right choice to make tonight.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:53 PM
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Preach my brother!
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:50 PM
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Lmaooo, dating is COMPLETELY a numbers game. I average about 10% which is considered good. That means, for me to sleep with 10 women, I need to approach and talk to 100 women. It's a lot of work. Not everyone is up for it.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:49 PM
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If you're going to try to be disingenous, you're going to lose and lose and lose again. Women like to talk to REAL PEOPLE not puppets who brain vomit canned lines into their ears just to try to get some puss. By the very nature of your request, you're supplicating to try to mold yourself into what you think a woman would want. Women don't want you to be what they want, they want you to have a backbone. If you've never traveled, tell her "Travel?? Girl I've never left this town. I hate traveling!…
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:48 PM
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You're right, I already don't like the real you....
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:44 PM
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It depends if there's something interesting in that town. I went to Boston for a wedding last year, was talking to this chick who lives in Providence. I had never been to providence and it seemed like a dope spot so I decided I would swing by, hang out with chick and go see providence. If chick didn't work out, I had my roadbike and would grab a hotel and spend the weekend in providence exploring instead. Basically I couldn't lose. Chick worked out AND she rented a bike so I got everything I wan…
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:42 PM
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You just learn to not completely destroy it with your exes like a dumb child and you have a few of them around. Honestly the way it works for me is that the more women I have interested, the more women I can get from those. If you're single and sexless, you're dead to the world but as long as you have one, you can build from there.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:39 PM
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It's kind of "when it rains it pours" as a single man. I have two girls on rotation that I see once or twice a month each. Then I usually pick up a 3rd locally but I'm busy most of the week so maybe I average one night a week that I fuck the girl 2-3 times that night? (Damn, that really sounds pathetic lmao) It's really hard to have a sex schedule when you don't have a steady female.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:36 PM
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Dancing is foreplay, don't ever forget that.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:33 PM
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Ummm..... Everyone is totally crazy. Read the DSM6 and you'll realize you and everyone you know should probably be locked up in a padded room. Calling a chick "crazy" because your game is too weak to handle her is a cope. Truly mentally crazy women are usually very smart. I've been hanging out with this stripper who has razor marks all up and down her arms and legit CPTSD. She also has an advanced degree in mycology and was dean's list every semester of college. The woman can solve a rubik's cub…
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:32 PM
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Virgin rants.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:21 PM
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It's all how you personally feel. Are you trying to amuse everyone in the room or are you just here to amuse yourself? One is seen as trying too hard, one is seen as hilarious.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:21 PM
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Manson's book is good but it's not the end all, be all. He's a smart man but he didn't write the bible when he wrote Models and he'll be the first to admit it's flaws. Your issue is mainly internal. You're nothing special either, neither am I, neither is anyone. You are forcing your delusional ideals of what a woman should and shouldn't be onto the girls you meet and you're coming up short when these women don't meet your impossible standards. It's not necessarily your fault, every young man has…
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:19 PM
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Hahaha, you sound like the younger version of me. Almost to the letter. Get your stud phase out of the way as a young man because I can assure you, I've seen guys in their 50's trying to get the stud phase they never had in their youth and it's a total dumpster fire. You shouldn't be trying to settle down at all in your 20's. You have absolutely no idea what is out there and there is honestly rarely a woman in her 20's that is looking for a deep, meaningful relationship either.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:11 PM
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Well here's the harsh truth. A woman who hooks up with you believes she's lower in SMV value than you. When she leaves you, she believes you're lower value than her. You will NEVER get a woman who thinks she's better than you. Women date horizontally or up, not down. She can't even date a loser even if she wants to because her friends will trash her and convince her to dump you. All the women I've been with have been some sort of lower value than me. The only reason they appeared better is becau…
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:08 PM
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Eh, unless the guy is a good friend of mine, I just let the dude fuck it up by himself. I'm not here to help the world get laid. I like how you gave him a backhanded compliment with the "squatting 90lbs". It's not insulting but it makes him appear foolish enough to quit his nonsense.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:03 PM
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I would highly recommend you start your PUA journey at a smaller venue like a sportsbar or hipster divebar and gain some experience. I've been doing game for years AND was a nightclub and college bar bartender for over a decade and I STILL ain't great at dance club game. I perform much better in smaller settings.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:59 PM
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Yeah, you should definitely be friends with attractive females if they have boyfriends because ATTRACTIVE FEMALES HAVE HOT FEMALE FRIENDS! Just don't become her platonic puppy dog. Treat her the way you would treat your sister. You hang out, tease her, mess with her, sometimes ignore her etc.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:51 PM
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If you don't have tattoos, don't EVER open up with tattoo questions. Tattoos are personal and asking about tattoos is like saying "Hey, I don't know you but tell me your deepest, darkest thoughts right now so I can criticize them." I am heavily tattooed and even I rarely use open with tattoo questions. I opened a chick who was talking loudly last week by saying: "Ya know, that mouth makes a lot of noise, does it do anything else?" She replies "Wouldn't you like to know?" Then I take her hand, st…
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:47 PM
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I honestly would just say myself: "I'm going to try to have at least one 10 minute conversation with a person tonight" I reasoned that if I could talk to them for 10 minutes, I would have to have enough skill to get past the usual weather/parking banter and I would consider the evening a success. The conversation just had to be with a live person, whomever didn't matter. So I walked into the bar, sat down and did that. I honestly think it took me about two days. Had a good convo with a dude, nex…
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:40 PM
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There's an old joke that goes: "Why do women have vaginas?" "Because otherwise nobody would talk to them." Let's not get into the possibility that you might not be very interesting either. You could be downright boring and they just don't want to make an effort to talk to you But I digress. You're first problem is that most women aren't very interesting at all. They're not stupid and they usually are rather amusing and some of them are downright hilarious but very few of them are really going to…
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:22 PM
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You could sit around and whine about you can't find those people. Or you can literally become the guy who organizes parties and beach trips and bar crawls. My buddy Kev does this. If you've ever met him and exchanged numbers, he will invite you to things he's doing. He organizes a volleyball game or a beach trip or a lake trip or a tube float trip and invites everyone is his phone. I've shown up to some of these and it's like 70 people deep. Have met 3 girlfriends out of these parties and Kevin …
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:13 PM
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F**k the coach, most of them are tools anyway. Go to your local lively bar and watch until you figure out who the good seducers are. Once you have that figured out, determine who the best one is and buy him a drink and ask him for pointers. If you want to learn poker, you don't ask a coach, you ask the man who pays for his porsche through poker. If you want to sleep with more women, ask the man who sleeps with the most women.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:10 PM
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Lmao, I'm 43 and I got wayyy better game than you son. Learn to stop vomiting your thoughts onto the page and understand syntax.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:06 PM
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If she's into you sexually, everything is fun. Until you're hooking up, your sole task is to get in her pants. Once you're banging, she has now "earned" the right to have fun with you.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:04 PM
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Nah, you're on the right track. I personally don't do 3rd dates. Date 1: drinks. at least a makeout and heavy petting, (ass grab etc) and I'm gonna try to get her back to my place. Date 2: Nature walk or something physical and try to get sexual (more makeout, fingering etc) Date 3: Meet at my place for drinks and bang. Ejections: Date 1: Avoids kiss (rare but I won't see her again) Date 2: If she's stopping escalation, she's got sexual hang-ups or she's trying to back-burner me for a better opti…
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:02 PM
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My neighbor's daughters are 15 and 14 and while working on my car, I overheard them talking about messing with a boy's head who liked one of them so I think you should arm yourself with as much knowledge as possible.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:50 PM
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(What you're about to read is not a brag, but maybe it can give you some insight) I am that guy and I'll tell you why I get more girls than I should. I'm 6'3"and around 285lbs with broad shoulders. I'm heavily tattooed (I get tattooed about 3 hours a month, every month) I've been boxing and training muay thai for years. I've spent a month in jail for aggravated assault after getting into a bar fight with a wannabe gangbanger after he slapped with a female friend of mine. I also run a business, t…
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:49 PM
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Dude, CHILL! My little lesbian friend and I text back and forth ALL DAY LONG. We grab drinks about once a week. To date, I sent her a snapchat of this stupid sign I saw her 3 WEEKS AGO and she still hasn't opened it. This is just how women are. It means utterly nothing.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:06 PM
1

She's just not into you bro.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:04 PM
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Damn, you're the dude lmaooo 6'4 with a bright future. Jeez You definitely need to hone your conversational skills.
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:04 PM
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Think of why you would ghost. You're out, you meet this new chick, she's a total fox, fun and sexy and everything you want. You had a great time with her, you exchanged numbers and you're looking forward to seeing her again. Then you get a text from your ex-girlfriend. Yeah, THAT ex-girlfriend, the one who you had the best sex of your life with, the one that could make you laugh with just the way she crinkled her nose. The woman you thought you would marry until all that bullshit happened that c…
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:02 PM
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I always fly solo, it's easier and neater. If I get a chick and need to switch venues quickly, I can do it. With a group you always have to deal with fools and guys who either aren't good or might just shit on your game. If I go out with my buddies, I'm solely going out to have a guy's night.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:54 PM
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If she wants a free drink, order yourself a drink and hand her a glass of water and walk off.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:41 PM
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Men who have real value, it emanates off them like an aura. If you actually have real value, other men will notice it. If you're a faker, you'll come off as trying to show off.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:40 PM
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You're not a bad-boy. You're a wannabe. The fuckboi title you're getting is because you're not smooth, your game is choppy and your lines sound canned. The bad boy is charming because he's also capable of violence. He might lose his shit and fight the whole bar, he's probably into some illegal shit and may have been to jail at some point. All these clowns who act like they're "bad boys" aren't bad boys, you're fakers. Because eventually the real "bad boy", the handsome two-tour combat vet with a…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:38 PM
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I assume this is a coworker. Assuming you like drama and the possibility of losing your job when nutty chick gets tired of you and moves on, ask her to grab a drink after work and make your move.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:30 PM
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You're in the right mindset, you just need to really jack up your conversational skills. Start talking to everyone that you see, everywhere. Learn to start conversations out of thin air. Conversational skills are a muscle and the more people you talk to, the better you get at it. The beauty of it is, you can talk to men, grandmothers, cashiers, the elderly, etc and it will still ramp up your skills to talk to attractive women as well.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:28 PM
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No, no, no, no! That is weak ass game and you sound like a loser. Women can tell you sleep with a lot of women just by talking to you. They can see the calm demeanor, the lack of thirst when cocktail waitress bends over in the short skirt, the air of indifference in the way you talk, that you look her in the eye and not at her tits when you think she's not looking. She will see how women act around you when she's with you and if you actually are good with women, other women will flirt with you a…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:26 PM
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Sexual innuendo "joke"? Bro, what? She's out with you because she's interested in taking your dick because your game was good enough to show her that was what you were interested in. Women are absolute GENIUSES in knowing a guy wants to fuck them. That's why she's hanging out with you, because she's dtf. If she had zero interest in you, she would have given you a thousand excuses for why she couldn't meet up. You crack sexual innuendo jokes during the initial pick-up. Stop cracking jokes, you ha…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:22 PM
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Don't ever do 11. "Being yourself" is a copout for not trying. You're lonely and single and jerking off in the bathroom because you suck. Don't just "be yourself", become the best f'in version of yourself you can be.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:17 PM
1

No shit, you acquired all the "things that women say they want" but you never acquired the skills to actually talk to people. My guess is you probably suck at talking to men too and don't have many friends. Single mom, absent dad makes you sound like a woman. I've seen this a million times if I've seen it once. Walk out the door and start talking to EVERYBODY. Talk to people at gas stations, bars, grocery stores, the cashiers. Learn to compliment people, learn to start conversations from nothing…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:14 PM
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Bro, you're a guy, you don't get to be "shy". You don't get to cry about how introverted you are. If you don't act, you just lose. Nobody is coming to save you and feed you ice cream when women won't pity fuck you. You are just going to lose unless you take action.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:09 PM
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Well, you didn't completely destroy it but your game is pathetic. You NEVER give a woman straight answer, EVER! ********************* "Did you miss me?" "I missed your dog" ********************** "Do you think I'm pretty?" "Eh, you aight" ********************** "You should buy me a drink!" *hand her a glass of water *********************** What you did was not push/pull, what you did was whiny and supplicative. You don't "demand" a woman be "warm, affectionate and sweet", you reward that behavio…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:07 PM
2

While getting into a good convo with her, as long as she's digging you, lightly caressing the back of her tricep is fine, if she talks about something that hurt her, you can rub her upper back as kind of an "aww" thing. I would NEVER shake a woman's hand I'm trying to sleep with, that's weird. The only time I ever shake a woman's hand is in a work setting when there is a sole professional relationship to be built. The main thing is, if she's not into you, NOT A DAMN TOUCH YOU DO IS GOING TO MAKE…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:00 PM
1

You don't remember everything, you figure out your character that is most natural to your personality and you build your game around that. For example, I'm a large man with lots of tattoos and a beard. I can't really pull off playful or funny because it makes me look effeminate. I have the look like I might lose my shit at any time and fight someone in the bar so that's the emphasis I play. I do train mma, I am 6'3" and 280lbs, so it's not way off the mark that I can handle myself. So my game is…
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:53 PM
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When you eventually hook up with enough women you realize that the only way to treat them is the way you would treat your 5 year old niece. You like your niece but if she throws a temper tantrum and calls you stupid, you're just going to chuckle and walk away. Then eventually she'll walk up to you and say "Hey, want to see my new doll?" A woman laughing at you means utterly nothing. They talk shit about their best friends, call the guy who won't date her but will call her at 4am for a booty call…
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:44 PM
2

Well said!
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:35 PM
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You didn't get cockblocked, you got outgamed. Welcome to the jungle. Unless you want to date the ugliest women imaginable, this is going to happen again and you had better learn to handle it.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:46 PM
3

Wow, sounds like you're such a sweet girlfriend to her. Not one time in that story did I hear "So I told her I was into her" As soon as she said she had a boyfriend, you should have walked away.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:45 PM
1

No more mr. nice guy by robert glover. It will change your life and the audiobook is on youtube for free: https://youtu.be/fobu0RgzLJg
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:43 PM
1

I have certain friends who just "get it" and it's refreshing. I have other friends who don't and I don't bring it up with them. I also have other friends who don't give a rat's ass about pussy and are just out to get rich AF and they care the least. If you're friends are jealous of you, they're not your friends. I want to see my friends do well in life, not bring them down.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:42 PM
1

Yeah, took me about 5 years and still building. Showed up to a local dive bar and started a conversation, then another, then another and another. Have gotten some great friends and about 30 women out of that bar in the past 5 years. Was difficult but definitely worth it.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:40 PM
3

Eh, I've been ghosted twice in my life, Both times were because an ex came back and she wanted him more than me. Don't read into it, delete the number and move on. If she ghosted, you obviously meant so little to her that you didn't even deserve an explanation.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:38 PM
2

It can go either way. If she's a pro and you took 3 days to respond to her or you left her on read, she'll do the same. If they're doing this, they're structured and want to play you. Can be a good sign that she may do this with all guys so you have to be the one to win or it could be that she is trying to keep power. Either way, she's not 100% into you so if she leaves you on read, consider the convo dead and walk away forever, no double texts, no "Hey what's up in a month", NOTHING. Go talk to…
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:36 PM
1

You act like being a sociopath is a bad thing....
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:18 PM
2

No, not "sometimes", attraction is literally ALL about curiousity. That's why couples who have been together for long periods of time lose attraction when they find everything about their partner. You and the girl want to think that you're both not painfully average, boring and annoying.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 02:23 AM
2

I think it's good that she's doing what she's doing. It's hard for women to argue with a woman putting women in check.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 02:21 AM
0

Because men don't want to date MEN. Straight men grew up around mom and grandma, women who made us want to be better. We want to be with a woman who just by her very existence, makes us want to do better. Do you want to do better around a woman who's bossy and yells and talks about her WAP? No. That's gross.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 02:20 AM
1

Because InCels are sleeping with prostitutes. Look at these InCels. Elliot Roger for example, he was not an unattractive man, he had a great jawline, drove a nice car, hell I could KILL it with his looks. He could have gotten laid by a plainer woman, absolutely. But he believed he DESERVED a 10 without wanting to put in the work it took to build his sexual charisma. There are plenty of women in the world that will sleep you as a guy, they might not be the hottest woman but you can get laid. InCe…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 02:17 AM
1

There's a lot of misconceptions about what the red pill actually is and what it is actually not. If you read the rational male by tomassi, you'd see what it is. The red pill is not, nor has it ever been about hating women. That's a stupid concept, why would we want to hate women? I love women, my best friend is a gold-star lesbian and I adore her to death. I have many female friends and I don't hate them either. The true red pill can be looked at in this way: You step into a boxing ring and you …
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 02:13 AM
1

What??? You can't get rid of "toxic" masculinity because it doesn't exist. And while I see a whole lot of twitter weirdos complaining about toxic masculinity, I don't see a lot of women dating liberal arts majors. They all want to sleep with the assholes. That's what they do. So all you're doing is creating a complex inside of your head because some lunatics who don't know you have poisoned you into thinking you have a mental problem. You don't. Sincerely, a toxic man who drinks, lifts weights, …
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 02:07 AM
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Not gonna lie, I've been with a lot of women but I'm not dating a chick who has been with piles of guys. That's gross. It's gross because very rarely have I met a woman who actually slept with quality men. They all seem to be losers and clowns. I've met some of my girl's exes in the past and I'm like "Wow, I am not special AT ALL."
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 02:04 AM
1

Bro, my buddy had his face rebuilt after colliding headfirst into a telephone pole on a 4 wheeler. We were in the gym one morning and he was fixing his hair and just looked in the mirror and said "Man, I don't even know why I bother." He has also f***ed his way through like 300 women. There is absolutely no way you're uglier than he is, not a chance.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 02:01 AM
1

You're referring to yourself as a "wholesome man". Wtf are you? A breakfast cereal? The red pill is not to blame for you, you have no social graces.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:58 AM
2

Seek professional help. You have abandonment issues.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:57 AM
1

Man, red pill is not a cult. It's like what Bruce lee said, "Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless" Understanding a woman's inherent nature and that she has other options, no matter what her age is? Useful. Crying that you're too short to find love because some InCel on the internet convinced you? Useless. It's call purple pill, take the things that work, throw out the things that don't.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:57 AM
1

As a former bartender at a nightclub I can tell you that they don't have a crisis until far after it's too late. I would see women in their 40's and 50's who were probably show-stoppers in their youth but not anymore, but they still act like they can have any man in the bar (If that's how it's always been, why would it be any different) But what women don't understand is that sure, a guy will pretty much bang anything, but the woman he will actually date and call and fall for is far different. M…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:54 AM
1

You're confusing red pill with black pill man. Red pill is akin to "If you step into that boxing ring, you're probably going to get punched in the face so don't be surprised when it happens. Maybe learn to defend yourself so that doesn't happen." Black pill is nihilism.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:50 AM
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I agree, I don't want to know. I've been with a lot of women and I am not telling her who and how many, I don't want to know hers because for the simple fact that I know what I've done and it's gross and I would not be able to have respect for a girl if I knew she had done that too.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:48 AM
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You didn't really self-improve though. You just went through the motions, maybe you're fit and make some money, maybe you have a nice car and a good job but you're still thirsty as hell for women. Women do not want the men who want them, they want the men who they can't seem to get. In fact, I never had real success in my dating life until I just told women to take a hike and focused on MY happiness and MY life, then women came poking back in going "What's up with this guy? Why isn't he trying t…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:47 AM
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You sound like you're on the way up to success, I applaud your efforts for that. But you don't want a relationship at all. You're making demands about a "loving relationship" but you're too lazy to lift one single finger to make it happen. I've been with a lot of women, not bragging but it's an ENORMOUS AMOUNT OF WORK AND TIME to date. You have to put yourself out there, talk to tons of women, the number of women you sleep with AT BEST will be about 10% of the women you talk to IF YOU'RE ACTUALL…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:44 AM
1

Please stop comparing men to women. As a man, you can't live in a delusion for very long because you're gonna lose. Women can completely live a delusional existence because there is always some thirsty guy willing to put up with her nonsense just to sleep with her. No woman is putting up with a man's delusions about himself. No super model is going to tell you that your fat, lazy ass is sexy when you sit on the couch and stuff your face. We don't bodyshame men, we call them fat. Can't call a wom…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:37 AM
1

I hooked up with a girl I had known for 5 years, she had traveled the world, came back and we hung out. Where back in the day, we'd bang like rabbits, now she wouldn't hook up before she knew my net worth and had seen where I lived. I agreed, and she hopped into my car and we left the bar. I dropped her off at her house and said, "I don't think this is gonna work out." and never spoke to her again.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:33 AM
1

That's because Roosh was never red pill, he's beta and he's pu**y-whipped.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:31 AM
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Obviously you have no what red-pill actually means. Delusional? When I go on a date with a woman and she demands to know my net worth before sleeping with me. What is that? When I was bartending and hooked up with a chick in a nightclub bathroom only to see her the following week at a restaurant with a guy proposing to her, what is that? Red pill is the understanding that your ability to date and sleep with women, based on things completely out of your locus of control, has already been determin…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:30 AM
1

Why are you even posting here? You're not ex red pill, you're just a woman angry at men.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:25 AM
1

Wtf are you talking about?? You literally can go to jail for unpaid child support and there are men in prison RIGHT NOW because of unpaid child support. Read this: https://www.prisonlegalnews.org/news/2016/sep/2/poor-parents-fail-pay-child-support-go-jail/ On top of that, child support is not pro-rated if you make less money than you did when the courts decided on your payments. Say less.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:23 AM
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Wow, seems like just an angry woman looking to insult a man who obviously won't commit to her. Cool, you're part of the problem.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:21 AM
1

First off, what do you look like. How tall are you? How's your hairline? How old are you? If you're attractive, you're far above the average man. Yes women have it easier to find sexual partners, because someone WILL sleep with her. She doesn't need personal accountability. Whether she can get one of those partners to commit to her is a totally different story. For example, my very good friend is a 26 year old lesbian. She's also a fox, and she has some psychological issues. She can literally ge…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:20 AM
1

You're suffering from cognitive dissonance. "If it works for me, what's everyone else's problem?" What a bizarre outlook you lead that you assume that everyone is just like you.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:14 AM
1

So there was an old pick-up book written by a guy named Gary Brodsky. Had a lot of nonsense in it but he also had some straight golden nuggets of wisdom. One of them was "A woman is a man's compliment, women are not leaders. However you act, she will act." Your woman is testing you because YOU are acting weak. It's obvious. But the problem is, you are going to get a lot of pushback because you have been acting weak for years. You did not show up from day 1 as a strong man, so now you're eating a…
/r/askMRP25/08/21 11:16 PM
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A week is pretty perfect for a cold approach, it shows you're not needy, probably busy and you're hitting her up. Understand she's definitely handing out her number to other guys so she's probably not sitting by her phone with a box of tissues HOWEVER she's probably used to having guys text her the very next day so right now, you're interesting to her. Hit her up, talk about your dog, don't send any pics yet, ask her if she wants to come along with you on a dog walk and go from there.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:42 AM
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You can't flirt like a woman flirts. Instead you have to act oblivious to her blatant attempts. Her: "Oh the things I would do to you." You: *Gasp "Whatever do you mean, I'm a nice christian boy" (smile mischievously while saying this Her: "You're not christian" You: "Of course I am, I'm a virgin, I'm saving myself for marriage" (Have the look on your face like even you don't believe your own BS) You can't be a creep by doing this because she's leading the conversation, you're just tagging along…
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:39 AM
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I would hesitate to take my direct shot with her right now. You seem like you've kind of already built her up in your mind to the point that if she rejects you, you won't be able to laugh it off. Instead, involve her in your dating life. Don't mention specific women but casually kind of look like you're at a loss for words and bring up a ridiculous date story. "Oh man, I was on this tinder date the other week, this girl seemed super cool but then she showed up to the date with her mom. It was SO…
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:29 AM
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Couldn't have said this better myself!
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:17 AM
1

I'm with you. I frequent a local popular dive bar and know most of the regulars. It's very easy and natural for me to approach a woman in that bar. The element of comfort really shines through because you're a familiar part of the environment. She attends your gym, she's seen you before, she gets good feelings when she goes to the gym to exercise so all you had to do was associate her good feelings of being at the gym with you being a member of that gym and she was immediately comfortable.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:17 AM
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I think you have to play yourself naturally. If you're not naturally a vulnerable or emotional person, faking emotions is going to come off as strange. (this is not to brag) Example; I am 6'3", 250ish, heavily tattooed, beard, broad-shouldered, I've been in boxing and muay thai for years, was a bouncer blah blah blah. I've been told I walk around like I own the place but it's just because very few people try to start with me so I'm usually very relaxed. I'm also not very emotional, (hard childho…
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:14 AM
2

You don't tell her you like her, that just gives her validation and it cheapens your value. But you also have to play who you are naturally.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:05 AM
1

Also, I was not aware of how having visible abs is a turn-on to women. More than a strong torso, just being lean is enough to get them all about you.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:03 AM
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Can confirm, when I was competing in amateur boxing back in the day (13 years ago), I was RIPPED and I had all the attention. Then I started a business and got heavy. Still lifted but got a belly. Attention went DOWN. Women do not treat overweight men the same as they treat fit men. Now, I'm getting back into shape, lifting weights harder, dieting better. The attention is going up. Last year, I was still a bit heavy, (18% bodyfat) but I'm 6'3", I lost this chick to a guy who was 5'7" but fit wit…
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:02 AM
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IMHO I hate that problem, because I always end up overcompensating and paying her more attention and it comes off as unnatural. I always don't always have the light touch like some of the guys around here do though.
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:54 AM
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The hardest part is that we all know that "No don't put women on a pedestal" and most guys don't. But then you meet that one girl, and no matter how many videos you've watched, how many time prior where the woman was always trying to prove herself to you, this one new girl shows up and you KNOW FOR A FACT that she's just a regular girl, no better or worse than most other women but she's got that je ne'cest quois, that little extra thing and you find yourself making dumb mistakes. Why? Because yo…
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:52 AM
3

I was a bartender for about 12 years at a couple nightclubs. I knew some of my former coworkers who were just ridiculous at pickup and they were good-looking on top of that. John is creepy looking and skinny fat. The average woman isn't even going to look at him twice. Sorry, looks matter if you want to hit those high body counts and you're not famous. Here's my breakdown on cold approach PUA: If you are the best pick-up artist out there and you have spectacular charisma, if you approach 100 att…
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:35 AM
2

I would agree that Corey Wayne doesn't know much about pick-up but his stuff is simple and very effective at weeding out losers and timewasters. So what you lose in quantity, you more than make up for in quality because his tactics are basically "Shit or get off the pot"
/r/seduction10/04/21 04:48 AM
3

I'm not surprised. There is a place for the Red Pill community but in every man's life, Red Pill is simply "Phase One" of the healing process following a break-up. Example: Your girl leaves you for really degrading reason. Your height, your bank account or your dick game are the main ones but there are plenty others. Your whole life gets spun out on its head and you're trying to make sense of the whole thing. "She told me she loved me now she's banging my best friend, how could she do this??" Yo…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 02:35 AM
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Kevin Samuels is REALLY good. I've been listening to him a lot over the past month and he's just the whole picture. He's all about reality and living the brutal truth. He's not anti-man or anti-woman, he's harsh reality. He clearly defines high value men and high value women and calls out guys and girls who don't have their sh** together. If you only watch one video, watch this one. I'm 41, I thought I had grooming and self-care down, this vid showed me I have a lot to learn. https://www.youtube…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 02:26 AM
1

I listened to Corey wayne for a while, the bulk of his material, when you actually listen to it, will get you a relatively healthy relationship. It will get your ex back, and it won't be manipulative. I feel that while some of CW's titles are corny as hell, that's just the way the Youtube algorithim works these days and content creators have to use stupid titles to get clicks. I don't think he's red pill at all though. I've probably seen about a thousand of his vids over the years. Corey wayne a…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 02:04 AM
1

I listened to Corey wayne for a while, the bulk of his material, when you actually listen to it, will get you a relatively healthy relationship. It will get your ex back, and it won't be manipulative. I feel that while some of CW's titles are corny as hell, that's just the way the Youtube algorithim works these days and content creators have to use stupid titles to get clicks. I don't feel Corey Wayne is really Red Pill per se because he actually likes women and speaks highly of the women who he…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:56 AM
2

Well, yes and no. I'm 41, I do pretty well with women over 25 but there's a reason for that. I'm in shape, broad-shouldered, heavily tattooed. I train mma, I dress well, I have charisma, I'm tall, fit and relatively intimidating looking. (6'3", 250lbs) I don't look 41, I look mid 30's. I have a couple nice cars, a business, a nice ass (if I do say so myself) and a decent package and I'm a demon in the sack. In short, I'm not the average foolish dumpy looking guy in his 40's. I don't take viagra,…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:48 AM
1

Ok first of all, DON'T CONTACT HER FOR AT LEAST A MONTH. And don't ask her to "be friends", you had a sexual relationship with this woman and you want that back. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF. FIRST: Give that poor woman some much needed space. You just pushed her away, treated her like crap then she left and now you're going grovel back to her? I know exactly how that convo is going to go and it won't go well my friend. You have to ask yourself this simple question: "Do I really miss her or do I miss…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:35 AM
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Well, first of all, that's some great introspection. I have much of the same household growing up but I didn't really come to understand it until I was much, much older than you. At 41, I'm more than a little annoyed at the insight guys your age have. But I digress. Right now, stop worrying about women. You need real friends. You need to interact with more men. You're lost because you don't feel like you "belong" anywhere. Sebastian Junger's "Tribes" goes a long way in explaining this. But you n…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:23 AM
1

Well, at least you're doing something. But damn, realize that dating and women are not the be-all, end-alls in life. They're a nice to have, they're fun to be with while they're here and when they're gone, you won't really miss them in the long run. But women are just people. Pussy is nice but it's not made of gold. It won't solve your life's problems and it doesn't come with a lambo and a bag of money. But I will say, stop acting like the only women you can date are these mythical 8's, 9's, and…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:15 AM
1

Dude, get out of the house and get some friends. You're stuck in your own head and that's not healthy. You need more interactions with people. Join a mma school, be around fit people with purpose. You'll sort yourself out quick.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:05 AM
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I mean, that's a stretch, it mainly preys on LONELY men no matter if they're autistic or not.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:03 AM
1

Why would you apologize? "Hey, I'm sorry I find you attractive and would enjoy getting to know you better?" What a strange life you must lead.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 11:43 PM
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So there is absolutely no man or celebrity on the planet that could approach you and get your number? Not one single man out of 3.5 billion men on the planet? Sorry I don't believe you.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 11:41 PM
2

I've gotten numbers in grocery stores and gyms. But it's not easy. I do think it's easier than a nightclub though. Women's guards are wayyyy up in a nightclub. Plus you have regular women with regular lives going to grocery stores and gyms. You have weirdos going to clubs.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 11:39 PM
3

Well, if you run towards a woman and yell "Hi, I'm Eugene, give me your phone number!!" that's going to fail miserably. Did she check you out? Did she smile at you or make eye contact? If so, make your move. If she hasn't noticed you or if she has noticed you and looked away, she's not into you. I have literally NEVER approached a woman in my entire life that didn't give me some sort of signal she was interested. Here's the real truth, you don't have much competition. Despite the fact that game …
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 11:37 PM
5

As a former nightclub bartender, I can attest that yes, there are women with high body counts out there. Just like there are men with high body counts out there. But what's a high body count? For example and only an example, I have a number a little over 100, that sounds like a lot but I'm 41, I lost my virginity at 16. That's about 4 women a year for 25 years. I don't consider myself a stud at all. I have a gay friend who is 25 and has had over 700 partners. That's ridiculous. But I digress, yo…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 11:31 PM
2

I listed to an interview with him on the Art of Charm podcast years ago, I wasn't impressed. He believes he's got some high IQ and knows everything. But he doesn't. Anyone who has ever studied psychology would realize Vaknin is not very deep at all. And he's a creep as well. The way he openly admits to treating his ex-wife is downright distrubing.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 11:16 PM
5

Congratulations, you're a normal human being. Red pill is and always was meant to be a short phase that men went through while they sorted out and tried to make sense as to why the woman in their life left them. As men, we want to understand our mistakes, we to figure out how to "fix" situations. In the beginning, we're all angry at our exes, "She cheated on me, she belongs to the streets blah blah blah blah" Great. But eventually, given enough time, we realize that both you and your ex made mis…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 11:13 PM
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I think the downfall of most of the manosphere characters is that they deal with extremes. They say things like "NEVER marry a woman with kids", "NEVER date any woman who is not a 8,9, or 10", "ALL women will hurt you and steal your dog", "NEVER fall in love" blah blah blah blah blah. No part of life follows these extremes. I'm nearly 42, I've been with a lot of women, some of them hot, some of them average, and a few dogs. Some of them had kids, some of them were nice, some of them were jerks. …
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 07:05 PM
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Well, you can either figure out how to make your dick bigger or learn to live with it. If you suspend your "Nothing in the world is real" mentality, you will find that there are men out there who actually have done something about their size issue. They didn't need to buy anything, they figured it out. It's like guys who complain about getting beat up but never walking into a boxing or jiu jitsu gym to do something about it. Improve yourself or just date a woman who is okay with your mediocre se…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/20 07:15 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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