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I have everything but nothing on paper
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:25 PM
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honestly it doesn't even make sense in my own brain any longer, if imma be real with you. But it seems to be working tremendously well. But when i do think about it... Who would you rather talk too? Someone who truly loves you unconditionally Or someone who expects to get something out of talking to you. and sure go ahead.
/r/seduction22/07/26 06:41 PM
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Basically the way you get status is by being neutral to everything and by doing that you become a mirror to other people and 80-85% of the people will adore you for it.
/r/seduction21/07/26 04:26 PM
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The spark is very simple. You just let go of your own desires completely and talk from a space of servitude.
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:14 AM
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Its kinda weird. You just gotta drop importance of things. Its natural, for a man and woman to sleep with each other. Tbh propaganda has made men forget themselves
/r/seduction18/07/26 10:10 PM
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Idk just walk up to a girl and say hello to her.
/r/seduction18/07/26 02:12 AM
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now why would i play a game where i can't win?.
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:53 AM
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Look here, mate. I'm gonna tell you simply how I've understood it. Feel free to correct me. We human beings are greedy little creatures in a lot of ways. We're always looking for something bigger, something better, something newer. We're always chasing the next cool trend or the next exciting thing. Because of that, you've got to be willing to put yourself out there. That means risking rejection, risking getting hurt, and constantly readjusting your approach. Sometimes the approach itself isn't …
/r/seduction01/07/26 08:49 AM
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Yeah?. Personality matters a lot more then you think and by creating a ridiculus card, youve done something out of the blue that nobody else would think off and that speaks character if you ofcourse believe in it.
/r/seduction01/07/26 06:44 AM
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Idk about that out of every 20 cards i give away in a week ive had atleast 2 or 3 girls call text about getting a meet up. But the sad factor here is that im playing a role as a initiator and kind of a provider//simp. What i truly yearn for is a woman who approaches me and allows me to be. In the passenger seat.
/r/seduction01/07/26 04:32 AM
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if you say soo
/r/seduction01/07/26 03:40 AM
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just give her your number if she calls she calls if she doesn't no big dealie. That way you know if a girl truly likes you or not... because if she does... she will invest time too make a call.
/r/seduction01/07/26 02:47 AM
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I resonate deeply with this. Tbh even the people who preach too know how attraction works are just second guessing it. From what they believe is true.
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:50 PM
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Whoever has the most fun.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:51 PM
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i don't know anymore. What do you do, when all options just suck the life force out of you?.
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:50 PM
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Unfortunately what you are saying is true. Many men go unto these gurus believing they gonna get jacked millionaires and get hot crazy sex with many women. But in the end they are the ones being pimped out without even realising it.
/r/seduction27/06/26 02:22 AM
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The one thing you can do as broke, homeless, odorless. Is talking too people.... Talking is one of the main skills to become better.
/r/seduction26/06/26 02:59 PM
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Wait if i have women giving me money how would that make me into a cuck
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:45 PM
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So i should put on a dress and fly to dubai
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:44 PM
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Nice username
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:42 PM
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I been thinking about voluntering but then i think.. wait evrry1 who chooses to volunter are probably thinking the same, so youd most likely meet a rich person at a place where it costs a lot to enter. But then that could just be a scam so yaaah... idk anymore xd.
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:15 PM
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Im all ears
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:05 PM
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Sounds like im taking the rope.
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:05 PM
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well i mean obviously Woman are attracted to men who's feelings are unclear.
/r/seduction22/06/26 01:41 AM
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Why do the government try too chase us who dont wanna work?
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:26 PM
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Focus on solving a problem that exists. Youll gain wealth and status by doing so. As disgusting as it sounds. Most of us are looking for a more comfortable life. Which means most likely. More resources. Meanwhile, Women doo infact have a side of themselves, where they are in total flow. Looks and money dont matter as much as you may think. Because we human beings manifested, everything in this world and what a woman actually, is looking for in a man is certain behaviour traits. Body language, pr…
/r/seduction12/06/26 11:06 PM
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Well yeah i get it i genuinely am just attracting bullies thou i ignore their comments, but i cant honestly say its not affecting me. On social media
/r/seduction28/04/26 08:06 PM
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you don't think i am equally as terrified of rejection?. ''just because i am a man, that does not make me into a super hero''. If anything i'd say women are mentally stronger then men will ever be. I could never dare, too argue against someone who's physically stronger, then me. Women are doing that consistently and she can't walk up to a man and flirt with him? -Yeah i'm not buying into it.
/r/seduction23/04/26 11:41 AM
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What’s really stopping me is the financial side of life. I genuinely hate how unequal everything is. And then the advice you hear is always: “Don’t focus on that, just focus on having fun.” How am I supposed to focus on having fun when there’s barely any money left to actually do anything? At the same time, you see people around you your peers doing better, having more success, more money. It’s right there in front of you. Then people say money doesn’t matter. Sure, you can always talk to people…
/r/seduction19/04/26 03:49 PM
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because we live in a genderless world, where both men can be feminine, and women can be masculine.
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:21 PM
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that could also be true. the truth can be very subjective. But it feels too odd when you get multiple datapoints of similar events.
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:19 PM
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no i value women who take initiative, as high value, because i am indecisive.
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:16 PM
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because i am always :(..... my dream is to get approached, initiated and taken out on an adventure by a woman... :_/
/r/seduction18/04/26 10:44 PM
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imma just buy 1000 cats and wait until a , intiates and invites me out on a date. Tbh
/r/seduction18/04/26 08:58 PM
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yeah she had a plan to see if i would step up and initiate and take her out on date. Guess who's responsible now?.
/r/seduction18/04/26 08:55 PM
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because... i'd like to feel like the one being desired. instead of having to be the one that chases.
/r/seduction18/04/26 08:54 PM
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here, is the thing.... whoever initiate's is the one who's ''expected too have a plan''. that's why i get bitter and salty over that women do indirect approaches.
/r/seduction18/04/26 08:02 PM
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So if i where to tell her too buy me a dinner she would doo it?
/r/seduction18/04/26 05:20 PM
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This is what is driving me nuts. i just want a woman to be direct with her interest.
/r/seduction18/04/26 04:39 PM
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it's a open loop and they are annoying, for the brain, too handle because the brain wants closure, it's a effective, strategy too make a person, want too chase. my opinion it's better to not make a comment at all, if you're not going too have intent, behind your words. -but each to their own i suppose.
/r/seduction18/04/26 04:25 PM
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Think ur confusing me with someone else im newbanana. :). And well, we human beings are unpredictable. What one human hates and despises another human being, loves and worships. :) you can't know without taking action. Action gives feedback, feedback brings clarity
/r/seduction15/04/26 10:39 PM
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Youre young at that point of life nobody thinks about marriage or settling down. You kinda just go out on dates n have fun. Allthou, keep in mind to HAVE A SENSE OF URGENCY when it comes to your career. If you care about money that is.
/r/seduction15/04/26 08:55 PM
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everywhere?. There's literally women on the streets... pick her up. Maybe not ''literally'' but that's how simple it is.
/r/seduction05/04/26 04:32 PM
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Hahah simplicity i love it. Just write this video will go viral in captions
/r/seduction01/04/26 02:29 PM
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Read up on law of state transference. Women most of the time will go for whatever man has the confidence to lead it. It doesnt necessarily mean it always will be a yes, but Women Very Very Very often Mirrors whatever emotion the man is Feeling.
/r/seduction01/04/26 01:52 PM
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If you dont think is creepy nobody else will.
/r/seduction01/04/26 08:40 AM
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Ohboiii, well shouldnt you have the answers who have. Way more experience then the majority of us
/r/seduction31/03/26 12:00 PM
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So Hmm, How do i convince women too genuinely, buy anything i desire and want?.
/r/seduction25/03/26 10:14 PM
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You kinda walk up and say hello. Everyone is a human inside themselves.. despite no matter of how big of a success they are...... all it honestly takes is to get alone time with a succesful person to get them too trust you. #the issue comes from being able to get alone time with them.
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:12 AM
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Yes. We human beings filter information, in terms of how sure someone is of themselves. So if you doubt yourself others will doubt you. Belief is literally... what created everything we have on this earth.
/r/seduction01/01/26 06:48 AM
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no but chatgpt + text lines works absolutely wonders. 0 thoughts needed to figure out clever lines and in real life... body language and confidence does 90% of the work.
/r/seduction31/12/25 04:18 AM
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You just did
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:10 PM
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Most guys think you need money, looks, or status to attract women. You don’t. You need alignment between what you think, say, and do. 1. Clarity of Intent Attraction works best when your intent is clear. If you like someone, let that energy show in your tone, posture, and words instead of hiding it behind small talk or fake coolness. When your thoughts I like her, your words “Hey, you look great today”, and your actions, actually saying hello all line up, people feel the honesty and 8.5 times ou…
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:05 AM
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I asked a girl at a nightclub if she was into health. She said, YES, I’m all about being healthy, while juggling a tequila shot in her mouth and a cigarette in her hand… striking a perfect namaste pose. And right then I kind off realized. Everything is half truth and half false at the same time and human beings are expert-level delusional, fully capable of thinking they’re Zen masters while slowly killing themselves.
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:16 PM
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I mean it depends... like. Some girls do romantise the idea of a man. Going out of his own way to get her attention. Like as long as you arent yknow jeopardazing your own life. Id continue too stay persistent for a bit.
/r/seduction09/11/25 11:04 PM
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What is a personality huhuhu do I even exist
/r/seduction05/11/25 08:12 PM
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in a way you've proven that there's 0 excuses left. i'm having of hard time.... too accept that people would just simply join..... a event that's about walking..... pure walking and nothing else. But yet also.... as people say ''the content is just an excuse'' and what matters more is energy signature.
/r/seduction05/11/25 05:57 PM
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the thing is having the funds too organize events around it hehe.
/r/seduction05/11/25 04:58 PM
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Attraction is both primal and psychological. Primal attraction comes from biology signals of health, strength, and fertility. Psychological attraction comes from culture and experience what we’ve learned to see as high value or desirable, like wealth, intelligence, kindness, or confidence. But here’s the interesting part: those beliefs aren’t fixed. They can change when we’re influenced by someone we perceive as higher value than ourselves. When we respect or admire someone, we naturally adopt s…
/r/seduction04/11/25 02:21 PM
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nature doesn’t waste energy. When you feel a strong pull toward someone, most of the time 80, 85 percent they feel it too. One day, I went out to buy sneakers and saw this drop dead gorgeous woman red hair, green eyes, yoga pants, the whole deal. The second I saw her, I felt that spark, and she was looking right back at me. I don’t know what got into me, but I yelled, Ayy girl, get your sassy ass over here! She laughed, so I said, Damn girl, I wanna do you in the bedroom and every other room we …
/r/seduction03/11/25 11:12 PM
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eventually, your nervouse system will kind off... yknow ''flirt with women unconsciously'' after trial and error... you will understand exactly what to say too what kind of woman to create rapport. we human beings are very predictable.... since we work in patterns... from the information we decide to put into our brains. the hard part as always is initiating it from start and adapting your nervouse system to the new lifestyle.
/r/seduction02/11/25 09:13 PM
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Instead of asking it, say hey theres a bottle of water next to you, i want you to bring it to me. This usually gives you 80% compliance in my experience because you are assuming authorithy.
/r/seduction01/11/25 11:16 PM
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i am tiny, because most of the people i hang out with are atleast 185cm+- in height. it's not a objective truth... but it's true according to how i live my reality, i'm the tiniest person, on all our photo's we take and so on.
/r/seduction30/10/25 04:56 PM
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As a tiny King on 179 cm all i can say, is shout loader and be more fun, its kinda the only way to compete against a 2.2 meter dude in nightclub.
/r/seduction30/10/25 02:21 PM
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Markiplier is a great example. stupid relatable content, that's only great for entertainment and he's making billions of it.
/r/seduction30/10/25 03:04 AM
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be able to talk to a person and be fully commited too it. Yet at the same time being okay with whatever result you get. it's a hard skill to master.
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:14 PM
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if you could go more indepth over what you did on the date?. it would be easier to give feedback.
/r/seduction27/10/25 03:41 AM
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i've tried this and it doesn't work.. if you still believe you are a champion inside.
/r/seduction26/10/25 11:15 PM
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be in collaboration with the woman... you guys are building a fun vibe together..... think of it like this also.... Would she drop those funny/witty lines if she didn't feel attraction for you?.
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:53 PM
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no probs happy to help out
/r/seduction25/10/25 10:13 PM
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You have no idea what you’re doing right now, do you? The way you’re looking at me it’s trouble. You’re close enough that I can feel your breath, and I swear, if you keep staring at me like that, I’m not going to be able to think straight. woah did you just feel that? I think i got molested by a cat as i was looking at you. i could see you and me eating breakfast together. i don't think you'd be able to handle me. -keep in mind it's not the words that draw her in... It's your energy that she and…
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:42 PM
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did you get this from blueprint reloaded ? :P but ayeah... the more people you have greeting you the higher social proof you have in a venue. but obviously you have to make them HAVE a good time xd
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:09 AM
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think of it like this buddy. every approach you do sets you up for momentum. when you get huge momentum, you get into a flow state. When you are in flow state, you think much quicker, you make snappier comments, you express yourself more freely. women Reward the guy who is in flow state with sex. obviously it doesn't happen every time... but i could almost gurantee you... when you aren't thinking at all and just look at a woman, take her hand and kiss her, with no fear chances are she'll recipro…
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:51 PM
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i have this exact same problem... lmao but honestly it's no shame in asking for help... just keep it in moderation. Funfacts a lot of people like having their ego stroke of knowing that they are important. and when you are asking for help... you are letting their ego get stroked.
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:12 PM
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you do realise none of this matters right? only thing that matters is, Body Language, energy projection, vocal tonality. it might matter for 5-6% of women out there.. But majority of women... will literally jump on a guy's D if he can maintain eye contact with a woman without flinching... Well almost, a couple of words here and there and that's all you need to do.
/r/seduction23/10/25 05:18 PM
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AYY GIRL, COME GET YAH SCRAWNLY LITTLE ASS OVER HER. RIGHT NOW! RIGHT FUCKING NOW! then you do some push n pull... you tell her, you hate her and yet at the same time i love you. after that she's so loose emotionally that you can lead her anywhere you want.... I just wished... Women could doo that to me..... I want to be that Loose little plaything, that gets pulled and tugged played around by a woman. maybe my mind is fucked up from social conditoning... but somewhere deep inside of me i truly …
/r/seduction23/10/25 02:12 PM
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in Sweden it has never happened so far, i been talking to women about it and they keep telling me i'm wrong
/r/seduction23/10/25 01:03 PM
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collaborative mindset. content is just an excuse. Energy matters more then words. Somewhat, it can't be totally unrelatable... but you could go up too a woman and talk about how boring your day was as you looked at a wall for 12 hours. you're talking with great energy and conviction behind your words.. She'll listen for hours and hours. create fun roleplay of narrative's... Yes Women are pulled to this AF, it's like they can't resist it. you have to sell yourself into believing whatever you talk…
/r/seduction22/10/25 11:49 PM
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What if im choosing to stay passive cause im lazy. its truly liberating too understand that you get what you work for and Im choosing to be lazy. The irony here is that ever since that clicked inside my brain its as if woman constantly want to be around me since the energy i radiate is non needy. But still they dont ever initiate.
/r/seduction22/10/25 01:57 AM
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she picked up two weights, nearby me and then walked a lap around the gym and then she glared angrily at me.
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:35 PM
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i know that they are giving signals... but they are not obvious Green Lights. they walk up to me on the left or right side and i can feel like the energy in the air, that they have some kind of purpose with what they are doing and trying to synch up with my nervouse system and then be like walking infront of me and start swaying their hips. That could be interpreted as the following. i like your attention, i want your validation or i just want to flaunt my body. another one i seen happen often i…
/r/seduction21/10/25 04:57 PM
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Actions habits and luck all matter too. Think of positive thinking like soil and water for a seed, but it still needs sunlight and care to grow. So thoughts are important, but they need real action behind them. if a girl says, You act like you’re going to kiss me, and you back down with, Oh, I wasn’t going to, you’re selling yourself short, probably because of social conditioning. Your confidence takes a hit. Thoughts lay the groundwork, but actions show your true intention.
/r/seduction20/10/25 07:37 PM
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To change your inner frequency of your beliefs, become aware of your emotional/thought patterns. Our subconscious brain can't dictate what is true or false. like our brain has something called reticular activation system(RAS) and it's kind of a mental filter in your brain that decides what you notice. When you focus on a thought or belief like I’m unlucky or opportunities are everywhere, your RAS starts filtering your environment to find things that match it. It doesn’t necessarily create realit…
/r/seduction20/10/25 12:25 AM
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you have to do inner work buddy. Your outer world, is a reflection of your inner beliefs. This has taken me a very long time, too understand deeply honestly.... still today there's some doubts of it, But the man who's willing to die for his cause and be delusional about it. gets his results by a 75-80% accuracy. It's rare that a person who shows up everyday and cold approaches women won't get a girlfriend. It just goes against the law of how this world works. Nature does not permit waste.
/r/seduction19/10/25 11:33 PM
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the reasoning why he is saying no to blowjob, is to make you unsure of where you stand with him. people do this all the time... not necessarily as a means of a powerplay.... but more as a means of trying to spice things up. We Value what is scarce, this is how we humans operate on a emotional. #There's a reason why rolex watch is expensive and apple watch is cheap. Rolex watch has limited supply apple watch has abundance of supply. Same psychology works for us human beings.
/r/seduction18/10/25 10:59 PM
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85% of women feel the exact same way as you do. Let that sink in.
/r/seduction17/10/25 04:33 PM
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what a woman wants is polarity.... Polarity is being acchieved, when you can make eye contact with a woman and fully owning it without flinching. You tell her, yes this is happening right now and she has the choice to respond on that if she wants to or not. so yes you can be nice to a woman... as long as it's comming from a space of genuine niceness.... just bite your lips as you look at her, look down to her mouth and show CLEAR, Intent and Interest and don't apologize for it. But DO RESPECT if…
/r/seduction14/10/25 10:45 AM
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mirror girls... what they do when they flick their hair, do the exact same thing. girls get caught offguard when you do that. IF they like you that is, some might maintain composure, but most usually get some kind of positive emotional reaction. That gives you level room of how attracted they are into you.
/r/seduction12/10/25 04:10 PM
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give the girl such an irresistable offer, so she's the one willing to pay you instead.
/r/seduction11/10/25 12:22 PM
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Declared outload infront of mirro, that I’d flirt with 5 women today. Didn’t force it… but later caught myself unconsciously flirting with a clerk, totally in flow. Realized saying my intent out loud programmed, my subconscious to follow through without me thinking. Crazy how that works.
/r/seduction10/10/25 03:28 PM
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That you cant control ever so I wouldnt worry about it. I like to see it as if a woman isnt willing too accept my soft side shes not the one for me period.
/r/seduction09/10/25 07:49 PM
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just make eye contact with a woman. legitimately... if she likes you she'll start talking most of the times.
/r/seduction09/10/25 01:14 PM
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Yep it is, just gotta deal with it.
/r/seduction09/10/25 09:09 AM
1

how about. you are already in pain, you are dead, you are a ghost. you only have a limited time and hours to live on this earth. you're really going to let a random girl, keep up bandwith inside your brain? This gets tougher and tougher, the more you invest into a girl ofcourse.... since that's just how we brain works. for better or worse... you're dealing with some kind of pain, anyhow. Pain of regret, pain of failure.
/r/seduction08/10/25 10:24 PM
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your brain will constantly... interpret and make up bullshit illusions over why you shouldn't take action. First it'll be... what if she doesn't like me? Later on it'll be... i could but i won't..... after that it'll be... do i even like her? after that you'll be... meh i don't find it meaningful to sleep with women. Like your own brain... is the worst enemy out there.... same for me. same for everybody. We don't like too tread into the ''unknown'' it's kind of a cavemen mechanism in order to ke…
/r/seduction08/10/25 10:03 PM
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You can more or less always express emotions as long as youre not seeking to be rescued
/r/seduction08/10/25 02:34 PM
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dats kinda the flinch of the irony now isn't it? When you stop assuming things and let go of bandwith in the brain. you start too notice what is happening in the current timeline.
/r/seduction08/10/25 08:57 AM
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ahh yes ofcourse, it was wrong of me to be selfish and focus on my own workout.
/r/seduction07/10/25 01:39 AM
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I dont want to shit where I eat. So I ignore her. this part covers that.
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:51 PM
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It’s in the subtle stuff, body language, eye contact, and those weird coincidences where she’s suddenly near you for no reason. When you’re present in the moment, you start noticing these signals. Obviously, you can’t ever be 100% sure without initiating, but it does become kinda obvious. If you look at her, and she plays with her hair, looks down in submission, looks to the side, then back at you and down again she’s likely interested or curious about you. If she holds eye contact, that’s a sig…
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:25 PM
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i hope he'll also unlock... how i actually make millions of dollars. He said in his program(Blue Print Decoded, free download on a site,hehe) as you go on make you first million dollars. With utmost certainity and clarity as if he's already seeing a vision of me, making million of dollars. My unconscious mind accepts this as truth, since it can't tell what is right or wrong. afaik The question here is thou, is he manipulating me into believing i'll make my first million dollar by signing up to h…
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:07 PM
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The real loss isn’t in being rejected. It’s in silencing yourself. It’s tough, but speaking your truth keeps you alive and growing.
/r/seduction06/10/25 04:54 PM
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This tbh idk what he did but he shifted something in me and now i can legit just look at a woman and shell be intrigued.
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:51 PM
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I find it very hard too believe that you could just walk up to a woman in day time stranger and say so lets hook up. But i'm willing to be proven wrong about that, without creating rapport at all, depends on how open she is i suppose.
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:13 AM
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yeah they will for sure, if you frame it right. but you just can't outright say. hey i want to sleep with you. that will never work. You always gotta play some kind of ''socially acceptable script'' and that's what i find retarded.
/r/seduction04/10/25 06:17 PM
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Well my ideal self kinda want a woman too approach me and initiate conversation with me and let me be lazy. You have to be yourself. No youve got to offer something of value. Well quite frankly i just want too hook up. But women wont just Hook up with a man who says so you wanna hook up.
/r/seduction04/10/25 04:54 PM
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Over Knee Boots for sure.
/r/seduction04/10/25 01:29 PM
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I know... social pressure, is hard to not fall for. Since we are human beings, that long for connection. Whenever they call, you a loser i want you to stand up for yourself and say that their opinon of you don't define who you are!.
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:29 PM
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Learn to uncouple emotions from the word.(its very tricky for the logical mind to understand this) Lower your standards of what you find exciting too talk about. Drop the schtik(the ego or so to say) But aha if youre thinking about dropping the schtik youre still not dropping it. Its an easy trap to fall into. More or less, Fix your inner state and you can just say hello and she will melt inside. the content is just an excuse.
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:20 PM
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You dont need a girlfriend What you want is to connect with a woman and build a relationship together with her. It begins with saying hello.
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:17 PM
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when someone else is being very calm, their state can be confectius to another person. Doesnt happen every time, but afaik... when you feel time gets super, slowmotion. Chances are very often that a woman, will feel the same youre feeling, since women are very keen on following, whatever man who has the most calmest nervouse system.
/r/seduction02/10/25 03:09 AM
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Shush the real people are talking.
/r/seduction01/10/25 09:29 PM
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When you let go off. All emotions except Forgiveness and love. Your brain gets stretched out as your brain isnt being shutdown as much. Youre being more aware of other people ans observe more micro body language frames per second. In my eyes the world feels super slow and i can tell immediately now with 85-90% accuracy how much attraction a woman has for me. This is called somatic awareness or energetic leadership
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:46 PM
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Haha tell me about it i assumed a woman was interested in me. She did this. Walked infront of me swayed her hips. Looked back. she walked longer forward and stopped as she stopped she took her Phone up. So i went, up said hello, she looked so pissed off that I regreted saying hello.
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:42 PM
3

I guess Somewhere inside yourself youre labeling it as a disgusting behaviour and you dont find it okay to talk to women on the Streets. So you are probably not okay with that behaviour. You have to accept and love yourself before others can love you. Personally i only approach women who flick their hair when I make eye contact cause thats path of least resistance.
/r/seduction29/09/25 08:24 PM
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Btw you can be a creep if you own it. Yes you can be shy, nervouse, creep, cringey. As long as youre not signalling please like me, women Will pretty much jump on your D
/r/seduction29/09/25 08:17 PM
4

Walk around outside. And for real only thing you need to do. Is be non judgemental.
/r/seduction29/09/25 08:14 PM
7

Depends on their personality
/r/seduction29/09/25 04:26 PM
0

no not really, i just wanted to help honestly. i felt like he wanted an example of what kills attraction.
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:20 AM
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^ This is an example of what kills attraction i got an emotional respons from you
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:50 AM
1

Yes and no It depends fully where its comming from. The idea im having in mind is that you are seeking validation
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:48 AM
2

was this post done with chatgpt ? :D be very nice to the girls and talk in a trying to create rappor way that will instantly kill any attraction they had for you.
/r/seduction27/09/25 05:44 AM
5

^ and most women settle around age 40-45 when they've had their wallop of fun.
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:01 PM
59

Attraction isn’t a checklist, it’s an emotional experience and confidence, charisma and emotional impact can often override things like money or status, especially in the short term. Some guys just know how to make women feel something and that can be incredibly magnetic, even if the rest of their life is a mess.
/r/seduction25/09/25 09:24 PM
4

The book that has helped me the most. The Power of Now and A New Earth don’t talk about dating or confidence directly. But they shifted something deeper in me, my frequency, my presence, the energy I bring into every room. At some point It just clicked in my mind, no one owes me anything. Not their time, not their validation, not their approval. And that realization?. Is Liberation and freedom. It regulated my nervous system in a way. That years of trying to fix myself never did. I stopped think…
/r/seduction25/09/25 06:49 PM
2

I think its because more people are realising that you don't need to go out to a bar to get a woman.
/r/seduction25/09/25 07:47 AM
1

Exactly your frame thinks its hard to find women and thats why it Will continue to be hard. Youre making it hard on yourself attraction with, women comes from letting go and being non needy. Its a bit paradoxical i know.. but one Day in the future i hope it Will click.
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:36 PM
3

A woman won't fall in love with a man who has a lot of money. she falls in love with a man's character and demeanor... Yes infact you can be broke AF, homeless... but if you have a internal mindset that you havn't lost. Women will still find you, attractive. this is exactly why there are so many single mothers.... who Hopped on the wrong Dick. Externally... but their internal world was that they are still the champion: Despite being in rags and destroyed clothes. Yes; a lot of men out there havn…
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:48 AM
1

Say whatever you want. When your internal thoughts are aligned with external actions, people Will respond positively. Its very rare that someone Will get annoyed. One pro tip. Make statements....(yes sounds crazy i know) But the reasoning why is that statements wont make you look needy of their approval that you exist and If they dont answer, you can always throw another statement. Since its pure giving of energy, without asking for anything in return.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:55 AM
1

you don't need to do anything at all. to get love from women. They are very delusional beings, similar to us men. just bullcrap about something you believe in and people will choose you from your energy you project. ''The content is just a excuse''
/r/seduction19/09/25 02:29 PM
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yep women do make a lot of first moves.... but..... most men can't see these moves because they aren't obvious.
/r/seduction19/09/25 12:49 PM
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never. just talk to other people and let them come back when they feel ready.
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:23 AM
1

i guess a part of me doesn't like myself still, but that's totally cool i accept it, but i won't engage with it.
/r/seduction15/09/25 01:24 PM
1

yep, it's very interesting, when we drop the ego and start being cooperative with people around. it's like people just want to help me build my vision. my self image has just hard time accepting it lmao.
/r/seduction15/09/25 12:04 PM
0

it's unreal, i just make eye contact with a woman now and she starts touching her hair like crazy.
/r/seduction14/09/25 08:35 PM
7

you have to want it so badly, that you're willing too die for it!. you have to let go of outcomes and be okay with not getting anything. i know these two mindsets sound paradoxically together..... But that's how you generate insane attraction with people.
/r/seduction12/09/25 03:32 AM
2

my move is that i'm having so much fun with my friends. that the girl will just come over to my party.
/r/seduction06/09/25 05:11 PM
1

Presence is spiritually Thou
/r/seduction05/09/25 07:55 PM
1

Yes, being a crazy lunatic makes her think of you. I assumed this was out at a night Club it.
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:00 AM
3

Go to opposite end of the venue and start talking bat shit crazy to your Phone and be the loudest and most authentic person there.
/r/seduction05/09/25 01:01 AM
2

The secret to being attractive is to let go of outcomes, expectations, impressing people, judgements of what you think is cool to say. Stop trying to control how others perceive you and youll be the coolest guy talking to her. Enjoy the process not the reward. Whatever you are doing is the coolest shit. Women are willing to fuck a tree as long as it can communicate and be funny.
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:52 PM
-8

Where does the frame that it's scary to talk to girls even come from? i mean someone messed people up for sure.
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:20 PM
2

that's your ego protecting you from mating, since you're afraid other alpha men will kill you. the reasoning why the approach feels unnatural is because, somewhere deep inside yourself.... you don't think you're worthy of sex. Women are a reflection of what goes inside your head. obviously some women won't mate with you no matter what. but the reason why majority of women don't mate with you. is because you're not allowing yourself to be okay around women.
/r/seduction01/09/25 05:11 PM
1

Put up boundary and say youll hang out soemdays but not everytime
/r/seduction31/08/25 09:55 PM
1

yeah our brain tends to think a lot of dumb stuff that quite frankly isn't helping us moving forward with our life's i was wrong about that, i do have thoughts that come up in my brain, but the thing is i do not try to micromanage them. i just accept that there was a thought and now i've returned into the present moment.
/r/seduction31/08/25 06:11 PM
7

try put your focus into your feets or breath. A calm nervous system makes you more attractive because it signals safety, stability, and emotional maturity qualities that people instinctively find appealing on both on a biological and psychological level.... you can see people sending you signals of wanting to be approached when you're not thinking at all and just being. it communicates i'm safe to be around and women pick up on it unconciously.
/r/seduction31/08/25 08:38 AM
1

everyone has their own stories of up and downs in life. in some people's experience, it's totally valid to say i don't want to be approached by men in public(Since majority of the men. Wanted to get something out of talking with her). and yep that's more or less the system programming people into being obedient workers. don't collaborate with people, because it could challenge the system that's already in place by authorithy figure's.
/r/seduction31/08/25 12:02 AM
18

i'm the guy that does legday 3x days a week xd
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:32 PM
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work on being present to the moment. thru breathing and getting into your body (This is the main key to have unshakable confidence). This is primal, biological attraction that shatters thru all distractions and illusions, society has created. You want to be in this state when you talk to people. Whenever you start to think you become reactive and that causes a woman to not trust you. (Whoever is the least unreactive is the one that is in controll) Honestly, this first point matters the most. It'…
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:20 PM
1

my opener is you wouldn't believe what happened to me and then drag out something silly like, a Cat pissed on me, when i was sitting on a bench outdoor.
/r/seduction29/08/25 07:33 PM
1

two girls i met just yesterday, are joining me at the gym today. not sure where it'll go but, they where very open to be physical from the getgo.
/r/seduction29/08/25 08:06 AM
2

Yo to articulate this better. What happens when you take control of the mind is That you become the grounded primal masculine force of the World. The reasoning why this is attractive is because youre telling, people subconsciously. I am here fully, im not reacting to the World, nor do i need to impress, or fake myself. Women Will just show up in your field of vision, praying youll be the man and play With her. Your nervouse system, becomes very Calm. Honestly its like magic, ive had strangers of…
/r/seduction29/08/25 04:18 AM
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Trust me bro youll be amazed how they Just start orbiting around you, hoping youll act on it.
/r/seduction28/08/25 10:08 PM
2

me neither, it's like magic
/r/seduction22/08/25 01:59 PM
3

oh brother, there's no shaving you now.
/r/seduction22/08/25 01:34 PM
10

she tries to orbit around you. lets say you're out walking. a woman will go from the right, to the left or left to the right. So she can stare a few more glances at you and hoping you'll say hello to her. another example is... a woman comes from your right side and then she purposefully, walks infront of you, in hopes of glancing at her ass and then she'll kinda look backwards(this one is a bit tricky, it can be seeking validation or it's a honest sign of attraction) She bends, over in your fiel…
/r/seduction22/08/25 09:19 AM
18

look at a woman in her eye's and think This will work. look for cue's of attraction. if she does things with her hands, playing with her hair, fixing herself to look better. The following could be true. she's super nervous she finds you so attractive, that she's put you up on a pedestal in her own mind.
/r/seduction22/08/25 05:32 AM
1

hahaha..... still working on it.
/r/seduction20/08/25 06:44 PM
140

Women is side hustle. never main hustle. mass media, constantly been socially programming us to believe women to be main hustle.
/r/seduction20/08/25 01:32 PM
28

Attraction isnt a choice.
/r/seduction18/08/25 01:36 PM
3

Yep
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:01 PM
1

Chat game sounds funny for the ego when you figure out a witty line and she responds with a hilarious response. but it's better to call. vocal projection, tells a lot more, then words behind a screen.
/r/seduction15/08/25 05:31 AM
2

the one who fails the most is trying
/r/seduction15/08/25 04:54 AM
10

we treat people the way they want to be treated. infact if a person believes whatever they are talking about, is the best shit out there. It gets kinda hard to reject that person. we're smitten by confidence and good emotions.
/r/seduction13/08/25 08:39 PM
1

this is hard for the logical mind too understand. but in order to get *insanely good* With women. you can't have a outcome in mind at all. I know it sounds ridiculus, but that's the key, to get good with women.
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:24 PM
3

don't think of impressing them. talk about things you want to talk about. enjoy the process and not the goal.
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:29 AM
4

this might sound weird, but the person who fumbles when they approach and have no clue what to say. Stands out more then the person who doesn't approach at all.
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:28 AM
6

you are the storyteller of your own story and right now you're not finding any meaning with women. You have to draw from internal source from within of why you are passionate about things. If it's ever an external source you put your hapiness into. You will eventually become unhappy.
/r/seduction11/08/25 06:22 AM
1

also instead of asking wanna come back to my place. Say something along the lines.. Yo i been working on a song on my guitar and i would love for you to hear it. i've got my guitar back at home. or like hey i got great photo album of myself as a kid back home that i want to share with you. OR any kind of excuse at all. This kinda makes it so a woman will come back home to you. Since she's not being forced *Logically* too make a decision to sleep with you. But guess what, once you're at home with…
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:01 PM
1

change topic and try again a bit later. men's value goes UP and DOWN dramatically in real time. Yep that no she said earlier. will be a yes if you manage to make her crack up and have fun.
/r/seduction10/08/25 08:56 PM
1

there are other ways. but it requires lateral thinking build an attractive instagram, where you are hanging out with women. Could be going to the gym, going out to the park, walking around a lake, fishing, going to an art museum(Kinda free in general) hang out at some rich hotel and find lonely men there and strike up a conversation with them and ask how their love life is like. propose a deal, where they'll host a place to party at and you'll bring the women. for this too work you'd better have…
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:12 PM
15

when you have time you have no money when you have money you have no time. what people don't tell you that only 1-2% of population out there gets too have both time and money. the larger issue at play with society in general.
/r/seduction10/08/25 11:47 AM
5

there's some truth to status.... ofcourse it. however did you know? You can ACT as a high status man with having 0 money. It's all about how you walk into a room, how you talk to people. if you assume i am the king here. people will do the following. 1. submit to your authorithy 2. challenge you. making lazer eye contact with someone. honestly it gets Very, VERY, VERY, VERY. Hard to ignore that person. You'll be up in their reticular activation system immediately.
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:10 PM
2

honestly i'm starting to believe, attraction is more of a primal energy that we have in us, and not so much what we say or do. today when i was out for a walk in nature, i was being very present and thought i've no need to impress anyone at all, i looked at a woman. and she yknow, started playing with her hair, looking down being very shy. Despite not even saying hello to each other. i'm starting to think that, a lot of people are, very receptive to calm, present energy. idk maybe i sound super …
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:06 PM
3

exactly, but you've got to start somewhere, when you've got no opinions on life.
/r/seduction01/08/25 04:31 PM
3

instagram is the ideal choice. majority of people use it. post pictures and video clips, where you are having fun with friends. sooner or later by building your instagram, you'll have women befriending you (this can be done aggresively, thru cold approaching women and asking to exchange instagram also) when they see your instagram, they can decide on if they find you as a fun guy to be around or not then just invite them to some activity. You'd be doing anyway and that they can leave easily.
/r/seduction01/08/25 04:31 PM
1

i'd focus on building a fun social media page.(A lot of people tend to relate to silly, goofy, stupid shit.) over dating apps. dating apps are for women, where they are looking for foolish wallets, who think they need to pay for sex. also if you have no idea, just Copy what some succesful guy is doing. no need to have *originality* Just copy what works.
/r/seduction01/08/25 03:44 PM
3

great job on sending out value. Peace
/r/seduction01/08/25 03:35 PM
2

honestly it might even work in your favour. people are attracted to people who's feelings are unclear. if you're communicating from a vibe of depression, some people who are empaths, who see the good in life, might have a urge of wanting to *Fix you*
/r/seduction31/07/25 10:42 AM
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honestly if you only want sex with women. just invite her out for drinks at three different bars and lead her from bar to bar. and then lead her home to your cave. instead of dinner. Dinner = Provider role and long term romance. when women see you in this way, they'll keep sex the hell away from you, since you're someone they are considering to have long term wise and then there's no rush to sleep with you. i know crazy right? that's just how women operate. They worship the fun guy, who won't co…
/r/seduction31/07/25 10:16 AM
2

dammit and it's always the woman i *CAN't HAVE* that triggers my ego, that motivates me to trigger a response in her.
/r/seduction28/07/25 10:23 PM
1

obviously these compliments have to be authentic and you're not only saying them in hopes of getting a outcome of it.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:24 PM
4

ru praising her when she takes action? oh my god i thought you where so sexy, when you took control and had your way with me. or like, damn i love you how the way you're making me feel, when you look at me. Baby you where so sexy, when you killed that spider in the corner.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:23 PM
3

nonono you're deluding yourself. What makes you think that you don't have confidence? what makes you think you don't have game? what made you feel like this? why don't you love yourself more? Your thoughts attract the people you need in your life. heh i used 15 minutes of energy to write this, since i really want you to be succesful and i'm 100% sure you have the qualities, you need to attract a woman into your life. You already have had the experience of having a girlfriend. You might not be fu…
/r/seduction28/07/25 11:18 AM
0

some guys are focused on what they can give. Others are focused on what they can take. guy1(ughu i hope she likes me stumbles across all nervous) guy2(i wonder how i can make her laugh or i wonder what she's like)
/r/seduction27/07/25 07:12 PM
8

we are what we attract.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:25 PM
8

- best shift i've had... was to stop trying to impress people and start focusing on what i want and what i find funny and share that fun with other people. - another mindshift i had is this. You can't control people nor how they like you and ironically enough the more you let go of trying to get people's attention, the more people will become intrigued by you. - last mindset. What else?. i'd rather stumble and say some weird creepy words and be judged as a creep, instead of not trying at all. -m…
/r/seduction26/07/25 07:01 PM
1

what makes you think, that you can't provide value to people... by talking about your money related topics? I can gurantee you that 65-70% of the world population, would be interested in understanding how to make more money. -sure... you'd offer more value, by asking questions about their life and what they like to do and what they are passionate about and so on.
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:25 AM
4

maybe you've leveled up your ig to much and people just can't relate to you anymore?
/r/seduction23/07/25 03:45 PM
0

did on ig wrote -MAN'S BEST FRIEND
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:13 PM
14

you get back up on your horse, this woman wasn't worthy of you king. no matter what personality you have, no matter what your thoughts are... There is someone out there, that will resonate with you.
/r/seduction20/07/25 12:02 PM
3

you're too stuck in your head. you have to let go and live in the moment, to be really attractive in women's eyes. Realise this, Women don't really care of what you say to them. It's more how it's comming off... if it's comming off from a vibe, that is taking value, they will find you super creepy. If it's comming off from a vibe off abundance and not the EGO. you'll be super attractive, saying the exact same thing. sit still infront of a tree or flame or something for 1+ hour to a minimum. Sit …
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:56 PM
1

aha i see your points of views they are very fascinating and interesting.
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:34 AM
1

the idea behind scarcity, is that we value what we have to invest time into getting. if you're avaible to people, when they call you... they'll be like... ohh whatever he's always there... i can come back to him in 15 years, when i'm bored. how do we get here then?. Value your time..... have goals, you want to accomplish in life. (but realise this, that this doesn't matter to anyone, except you and yourself) add pauses into the interaction and observe if they are willing too add value back to yo…
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:41 AM
1

you're expecting a outcome and that's why it's not funny.
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:49 AM
19

girls just wanna have fun. be silly, goofy, funny, foolish, bold, adventureous. Lead her, be more in the present. i assume you know the buyer seller dynamic? -it's just how women operate...they will forever, shit test you, try to make drama, too see if you cave in or keep being the man she loves.
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:09 PM
-2

it works like a charm
/r/seduction18/07/25 12:25 PM
21

nah it's just people who have a tendency too judge others because they are insecure themselves. We men, find desire for youth. So yes it might happen if a man didn't figure out how attraction works until he is in his, 40s he'll go around flirting with 20-25s, too payback for his time.
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:34 AM
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whenever a woman reaches out to me, after going cold. i ask her, What are you hoping to get out of this? have you changed your mind about us?
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:26 AM
1

a lot of men have no clue how to be present to the moment and how to be, foolish, silly, adventureous around women. -In General. praise him when he does things you really like(i'd assume taking action)
/r/seduction17/07/25 06:11 PM
3

i second this^
/r/seduction17/07/25 06:06 PM
29

hahaha what's your opener when you walk up to a set and be like HEY WANT MY homemade cigarettes? xD xD i'd be sus as hell ngl. but if it works it works
/r/seduction17/07/25 05:25 PM
1

honest communication with each others. about what you value and don't want in a relationship. LTRs are a concious effort to maintain.
/r/seduction17/07/25 08:06 AM
6

okay if that's what you say then so be it.
/r/seduction17/07/25 03:29 AM
62

the way you get good at the attraction is by talking too everyone. the fattys, the uglys, the good looking ones, the hot looking ones, the retarded ones. the idea is too get too a state where you have zero emotional reactions.... when you talk too people... weither it'll be hate guilt, greed, anger, a man who isn't swayed by emotions is a very hot and attractive man.
/r/seduction17/07/25 01:06 AM
1

all of the world. good places too practise daygaming on is high anonimity.... so crowded places but once you feel confident in your skills, I'd go to parks, gym, groccery stores. university parks. some places... But in general you can approach a woman anywhere....
/r/seduction16/07/25 05:06 PM
1

nice guy with backbone.. that's what women desire in men.
/r/seduction16/07/25 11:48 AM
1

fascinating missy. your brain is thanks for expressing your thoughts, it gave me more insight into how women operate. and no i was talking about the vet who stepped on a gad damn grenade. for a 5% discount. j1mmy_white wanted tips on how to act around women be less on guard around a man. and the Vet in some scenes are acting how you should behave... too be attracted, by majority of women.
/r/seduction16/07/25 02:42 AM
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i mean he has 1,8 million subscribers on youtube who like his content. i'd guess he has atleast too a minimum, 1k+- women who would love too spread their legs for him. and that's because he's focused on a mission in his life.... which is too spread out joy and fun too people.... thru being a content creator.
/r/seduction15/07/25 11:42 PM
-1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J4n2OMnrIYE just mimic what this guy does.
/r/seduction15/07/25 11:02 PM
1

why would you want too apologise for checking a man out? i mean it'd be one thing if you gave his number and leaded him on too something.... but just making eye contact with a person means nothing in most context.. unless it's very prolonged eyecontact. I'd say if you look at a person for more then 30 seconds.
/r/seduction15/07/25 03:22 AM
1

to be honest.... just have zero expectations and trust the process.
/r/seduction14/07/25 06:46 PM
2

first of all never call a woman she's beautiful.... until after you had sex with her. like there's no point in calling a woman she's beautiful..... like she won't Sleep with you just cause you said HEY you're beautiful. also.... what i would've done there after she said, i know i'm beautiful, great i love girls who are confident. what's your name? also the angle is kinda ehh ehh
/r/seduction12/07/25 10:33 PM
1

kinda, just say hey, ask their name and most of times you can drag them off to your cave. with minimal rapport needed....
/r/seduction12/07/25 05:54 PM
8

i wonder when we will meet female providers.
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:26 PM
7

look up james marshall on youtube.
/r/seduction11/07/25 11:11 AM
12

be delusional. you need too be willing too die for your cause, soldier. it's hard to put in words... but it's not just looking at a woman. it's looking at her with a intent, that says damn i want you. in a non needy way
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:47 PM
1

that's the beauty of attraction. Whatever you perceive too be true, becomes true.
/r/seduction07/07/25 05:36 AM
1

wherever your hobbies and passions takes you. obviously some hobbies are more female dominated.
/r/seduction02/07/25 01:29 PM
5

become blank and empty and just look at a woman and think sexy, sexy, sexy thoughts. don't even say anything at all... if she likes you, she'll try engage with you saying stuff like, who are you? ohh you not gonna answer? Women dig tension. Tension builds, when you don't know what is going too happen.
/r/seduction02/07/25 11:41 AM
5

somewhere mid 25-30s
/r/seduction02/07/25 07:33 AM
9

^ i was super chill with a woman, she sat in my lap, and i was talking too my friends. and then after 20 minutes had passed, she left my lap and went away. i was like uhm okay? 5-10 minutes later, her friend comes by and tries too shame me for not buying her drinks and treating her like a lady. in my head i am like? Huh, why would i owe this woman drinks, when she choosed to sit in my lap.
/r/seduction02/07/25 05:51 AM
1

you're allowed too fuck up more times if you're great looking. however if you do not take action even with the best looks. Women will look, elsewhere for a man.
/r/seduction30/06/25 06:40 PM
1

yes having great looks will be an asset too flirting with girls. flirting is a skill, so is talking and the more you use it. The better you become with adapting new path ways in your brain.
/r/seduction30/06/25 10:23 AM
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never stand infront of their goals. 45 yards diangle always. She should always have the option too be able too leave. 3.try to get their attention atleast a good 10 seconds before you guys meet each other. 4.(if they don't stop, walk with them and use a time constraint and say i will only walk with you for 1 minutes) try to get a date immediately if possible, else as soon as possible.... since the longer time you take... Higher chance it is, she has forgotten who you are. you need too meet them,…
/r/seduction28/06/25 11:53 AM
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either i'm too smooth of a guy or she doesn't see me as a potential partner... but quite frankly i never get those shit test or congruence test... people are talking about.
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:25 AM
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talking is a skill, the more you talk, the better you get at expressing your own emotions. The better you get too frame her shit tests also. yeh it's definetly bullshiit, majority of people who get into pua, do it because they obviously want to have sex. i see it as a numbers game to be frank... Some people will like you others won't, some will stay neutral and it's those people that are neutral.. where getting good at social interaction really matters.
/r/seduction26/06/25 12:24 PM
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you're learning how to express your thoughts, more profiencly, when cold approaching women. you realise, that your ego, that which is trying too protect you, make up fake lies, and it's actually a lot safer then what you think it is. But ayeah it does suck.... when comming from the mentality of what i am getting from it.... that's the thing you're not there to get sex, you're there too Connect with people and see if you like their vibe or not(sex will happen, as long as you trust the process of …
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:27 AM
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i bet so too,
/r/seduction25/06/25 06:11 PM
1

how do you do this btw.... Like i mean obviously if i'm going up to a girl. she already knows i'm interested in her.
/r/seduction21/06/25 06:30 PM
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two options. 1. cold approach men until you find one you like, who's serious 2. lower your standards and settle down with one of your friends. atleast i'm 99% sure you have a friend who's constantly messaging you. Most girls do
/r/seduction21/06/25 03:37 PM
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i'm amazed, that you are a woman approaching men. that rarely ever happens, keep up the good work, soldier you're a blessing out in the world.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:03 PM
1

what do you feel inside yourself. when you make conscious eye contact with someone? And no you're definetly not cooked. You've succeded far more, then most men out there. You are on a date with a woman. A woman won't just go out on a date with anyone. She'll go on a date with someone, she sees as a potential partner..... however ofcourse there are chances that you might ruin your chances during the date.
/r/seduction20/06/25 09:07 AM
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ahh nono, i thought it was brilliant quote.
/r/seduction19/06/25 06:40 AM
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hahaha if you have the ability to leave nasty comments under my post then you have the ability to speak freely.
/r/seduction18/06/25 06:39 PM
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realise this. A Woman won't Sleep with you or Kiss you... because you have ''Witty game'' She'll Kiss you, because of your energy.... Not what you are saying. It's how you are saying it, that matters. sure you can strategize around it and plant small seeds, to get her thinking about having sex with you. in the end it's a numbers game to be frank and you just gotta put yourself out there for rejection and failure until you find your own tribe of people. more or less
/r/seduction17/06/25 04:10 PM
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hahaha what i do is have eye contact with everyone i walk by xD Meanwhile.... it sounds kinda idotic too do, who the fuck cares. at best point you're getting someone who's intrigued with you, or hate your guts.
/r/seduction15/06/25 08:54 AM
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don't worry about it and it won't happen.
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:55 AM
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you're welcome papalove has spoken.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:58 PM
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you don't break thru. You let go, you cannot control people's emotions at all. once a woman goes cold on you, you approach other women until she reciprocrates back to you.
/r/seduction11/06/25 11:07 AM
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naah, that's not simping, but it's hella funny story you could tell others. 21 dollars is cheap.... lmao i know of men who have sent women over 150-500 dollars.... with just receiving a picture of her being with another dude and a kick in the balls in return xD xD xD. Simping is when you're giving a person money.... because you want too exist in their world and reality. Did you do that? If so then yes YOURE A SIMP!
/r/seduction11/06/25 05:36 AM
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Honestly... if it wasn't for Owen, i'd be stuck thinking i need too please women and never figuring out that they don't want a people pleaser.
/r/seduction09/06/25 07:26 PM
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Everyone is charismatic, until the adults show up!
/r/seduction09/06/25 02:19 PM
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So what where you hoping for, when you made this post?
/r/seduction09/06/25 12:49 PM
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obviously there's probably more clever things out there too say, majority of the times when you own it and don't give a F about the outcome you get positive responds back.
/r/seduction09/06/25 08:03 AM
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if you continue liking my posts we're gonne have problem
/r/seduction09/06/25 08:02 AM
1

honestly, bECOME really good friends with her whole Social Circle. as good as possible. if only Two or Three of her Friends, Doubts you, chances are her attraction for you will actually go down.
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:33 PM
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Try maybe, hey i know this amazing place, too eat or whetever at you should come with me, when ru free. (This way you're leading it and that's what the girls Digs)
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:18 PM
3

only because one woman, thinks you're a creep, it doesn't mean all women will think you are a Creep.
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:09 PM
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mediate, meditate, meditate, the more you can detach yourself from yourself and your emotions. The easier it is, to get those top 10 hot af girls.... btw even the girls that are a 10 in attractiveness, is usually only there cause of makeup and high heels. once you remove all that you'll realise she's a 6 at max.
/r/seduction08/06/25 06:51 AM
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what has worked best for me.... is instant dates. sure might not work everytime, but those are the best situations for you. Because that allows you to make her feel your personality.
/r/seduction07/06/25 11:38 AM
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the idea behind not paying on the first date.... is to make sure you aren't just a transactional machine. it's ofcourse alright too pay for a woman, once you've gotten to know her, and is important that she knows, that the reason you are paying, is because you like her personality. Else she migth, see you as a freefood ticket.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:02 PM
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write something silly on a paper, make it into a paper plane and toss it across. obviously this is quite risky. you'll either get asked to leave or she'll love you for it.
/r/seduction06/06/25 10:02 AM
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there's nothing wrong with desiring a woman. allthou what is wrong is when you think you need to impress that women. that's a game you can't ever win, she's a millionaire in that world.
/r/seduction05/06/25 12:36 PM
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i'm an amazing man and she's lucky that i invited her out - (Should be the mentality) silence is good. Think of it as a job interview... She is there to impress me, not the other way around. Honestly other then this, it's all about Practising social skills and humor.
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:53 PM
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holding a frame is just another word for selfesteem in my eyes. lmao
/r/seduction04/06/25 11:41 AM
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