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And u are a virgin
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:35 AM
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yes XD
/r/askTRP12/10/20 03:40 AM
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yes XD
/r/askTRP12/10/20 03:24 AM
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Like you are more mad at the old bitch mouthing off and you not defending yourself or setting her straight, as opposed to being genuinely upset at what shes saying. Yes, and the lack of respect. She holds her tongue when I'm around, cause she's not my mother, but on other things, she opens her mouth and I can't put her straight the way I would with my own mother. It's not about defending myself per se, it's about expressing the truth for what it is: "hey, mother, she's with me, ok? we live toget…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:37 AM
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the issue is my girlfriend wants to have a good relationship with her mother and looks up to her in many ways, which makes all of this problematic
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:56 AM
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our trash :p
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:56 AM
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So you suggest talking to my girlfriend about this?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:55 AM
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she's a hottie, but it doesn't make a difference, right newton? lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:54 AM
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I agree about the money and house chores. In fact, it's something about me and my ltr, not her annoying mother. The amazing thing is: my mother adores my girlfriend, and I can feel her mother hates me, and just because she cannot see her daughter acting like my wife, and it pisses me off cause I'm not an angel and sooner or later I'm not gonna let shit like this slide.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:53 AM
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We know each other for a couple of years, been together since january. She’s threatened by you because she can’t control you like she does her husband, and maybe she’s constantly shit-testing you because something about you makes her think that you’re not good enough for her daughter. Well, her daughter changed her own life 100% because of me, virtually out of the blue, and totally ignoring her mother's advice. Now she lives with me, asks her advice on how to take care of the house (how to clean…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:51 AM
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Also, the issue is because your girlfriend's mother is afraid of losing control of her, insecure, and never respected/or your girlfriend have, any boundaries. Exactly, they had that lack of boundaries relationship going on for way too long. She left home at 29 to move in with me, and her mother was against it. She dumped her old boyfriend and changed her life to grow up, and her mother was against it. The only thing that made sense to me was the fact she kept her mother and family out of the loo…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:48 AM
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yes. Although her job is way less taxing (she spends days without doing anything) and makes a bit less than me.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:37 AM
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yes, living hours = machismo. I mean, seriously, reading comprehension? lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:36 AM
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Amazing. She jumped on to my boat exactly because of how independent and down to earth I am and she offers to do tons of shit for me to make me happy. but her mother sees the truth and I'm doomed. lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:35 AM
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Next time your girlfriend offers you a blowjob without wanting oral sex back, just say NO, cause you know, you need to be equally rewarding. get the fuck out of here lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:48 AM
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I said she cleans, not that I'm unclean. When she wasn't with me at my/our place, I would do all the cleaning. the fact that she wants to do it doesn't mean I should prevent her from doing it. Again, some guys here seem to have became BP all of a sudden lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:40 AM
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Sometimes, but she does most of it. Could I help out more? Sure. Do I enjoy it when she does it? Of course I do. Eg, washing the dishes. We have a dishwasher, so there's no "dish washing". But, I usually put the dishes in there myself while she cleans the kitchen.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:39 AM
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Read the post you too lol edit: and the sidebar lmao
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:28 AM
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Well, my relationship did not start well in regards to her mother. She had a boyfriend and they had tons of issues, then she met me. She did not cheat, but ended things with him instantly and got with me. Her mother had no idea what was going on, why she did what she did, why she didn't "wait for things to get better", etc. She saw her daughter doing a 180 turn for a guy she didn't know (me). Now, of course, she got more comfortable with me and started making these comments, like she was my moth…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:24 AM
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bye sherlock, maybe next time try harder. last message from me, have fun lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:09 AM
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yes, telling someone the truth is bad. bye
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:09 AM
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It isn't that her mother hates you, it's that you haven't exemplified your value. That's the thing, I give zero fucks about impressing people who don't matter. And to me, her mother doesn't matter. So she should shut the fuck up. Should I talk to my ltr about this?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:08 AM
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lol, sometimes it really seems like you guys never saw a woman in your entire life. grow up lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:07 AM
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She does, so what? not her mummy's business lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:06 AM
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hey 1 month old account, still having fun? lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:05 AM
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Your girlfriend and her mother are both women, and as such they communicate covertly. They are masters of manipulation. The fact that this conversation is happening is not an accident or the mother's doing. Your girlfriend doesn't accidentally bring up the fact that you were late because SHE had to do chores. She chose those words very deliberately. No, she said the truth. the exact and only truth. and it was ok with my girlfriend, it was trying to justify herself that brought this up. Your girl…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:05 AM
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well, at leas I enjoy it lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:03 AM
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So you think I should bring it up with my girlfriend then?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:02 AM
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I do, but she jumped on to do tons of shit herself and I see nothing wrong with letting her.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:01 AM
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so good you are here to prevent this lol
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:00 AM
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uh you are such a badass, 1 month old account is really red pill lol
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:59 PM
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No, you are reading things wrong. 1) we got to her place a bit late and the girlfriend said it was because she was cleaning, which was the truth. 2) the other incident happened when we were joking with her family and the mother jumped without any reason
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:58 PM
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thanks man, I appreciate the comment. The works part is, the mother is the same way and it pisses me off when she acts like this cause she's conveying I'm not worth it and I hate that shit. The fucking hypocrite got married to leave home at 18, and now she wanted her own daughter at 29 not to leave home cause it was too soon...
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:57 PM
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No, she has a husband. It's the kind of marriage where she got married to leave home at 18, and now she wanted her own daughter at 29 to not leave home cause it was too soon. Fucking hypocrite.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:54 PM
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Because it's her mother, it's probably best for you to let her handle the situation rather than you necessarily getting involved yourself. Yeah, I thought so too
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:53 PM
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She pays for half she shouldn't do work, she lives without working = she should bust her ass in the house. And you posted about Edgy Adult Animated Comedy Starter Pack. Yeah, please, more advice from your mum's basement lmao
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:52 PM
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LMAO
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:50 PM
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yes, she told the truth. and there was nothing wrong with what my girlfriend said. Being late cause you are doing something is not a big deal, especially since her parents are sometimes a pain on those things
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:50 PM
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good for you mum XD
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:49 PM
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my girlfriend told the mother to shut up. nice conversation lol
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:48 PM
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cause I wanna know what to do with her, nor my girlfriend. see the difference?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:47 PM
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not yours nor the mother's problem kid. grow up
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:47 PM
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maybe the daughter, who lives with me and is with me virtually all the time, knows more about it than her mother, who sees me a couple of hours each week.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:46 PM
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As much of a jackass as I am, that's probably too much :)
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:44 PM
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So what's your advice? should I talk to my girlfriend about her mother to prevent this from going on?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:44 PM
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What do you mean? English please
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:07 PM
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Ok, thanks for the advice. Just one last thing: what about the fact we were joking and she intervened like this? My LTR’s cousin was being teased because he never takes the trash out, and his wife was doing the teasing. We were all laughing. At that point, I made a joke and my LTR replied “you are one to talk!”, laughing like a silly girl like women do when teasing. At that point the mother (sitting next to her) said something to her about not doing everything and let ME take the trash out. My L…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:05 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:53 PM
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She lied about the trash lol, we (the family and relatives) were joking about not helping out and this idiot jumps saying that shit out of nowhere, so my girlfriend shut her up.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:53 PM
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dude, seriously, you never had a woman doing this stuff for you? it's one thing if you NEED her to do it (then it's your mum), a completely different thing is if you DON'T NEED HER TO but SHE DOES IT ANYWAY. that's a WOMAN.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:42 PM
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actually, I sound like a guy who has sex every night and got a girl living with me that does all this stuff for me. You should learn
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:14 PM
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So your advice is not even mentioning the issue to the daughter then? I mean, she stood up for me, should I just let it go, even if the mother implies this again?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:14 PM
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Jesus, you sound like someone who never had a girl wanting to do this shit for you... it's normal, get used to it.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:13 PM
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Make her happy. You sound like someone who never had a girl wanting to do this shit for you... it's normal, get used to it.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:12 PM
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You sound like someone who never had a girl wanting to do this shit for you. Life will happen to you eventually. Or maybe not. But grow up.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:11 PM
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Cause I cleaned when I lived alone, now she's here and she likes doing it. You sound like someone who never had a girl wanting to do this shit for you. Life will happen to you eventually. Or maybe not. But grow up.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:11 PM
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Or fuck a girl good enough so that she would do this for you. Read the god damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:10 PM
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The two big, continuous chores in our house seem to be dishes & laundry. Washing machine and dish washer. Done automatically, zero effort, by either of us. You might be bothered by it because the mother is right in a way. No, I'm bothered because it's the mother and I cannot tell her to fuck off as I would with any other stranger. that's why I posted the question. I mean taking the trash out is literally the minimum that a man should do around the house these days. So what if I don't always do i…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:09 PM
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so do you even know how to read? lol
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:05 PM
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Your girlfriend doesn't respect Actually, if you read the post, you'd see she told the mother I do help out. That being said... Mom's giving you the signs now and you're dumb enough to pretend somehow you are impervious to being the problem? Not mum's problem, which is why I posted this. My girlfriend and me kind of problem, not mum's. See the difference? Oh btw, she moved in with me and decided to start doing this, nobody asked her to. And I'm ok with it, so deal with it :)
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:05 PM
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I fuck her nice and good, and she still wants to do this stuff for me. So what? I'm not gonna pretend I don't like it jesus
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:00 PM
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Not sure what you do but unless it's arduous, you should be helpful around the home. I'm not saying throw on an apron, greet her with a martini and ask her about her day, but treat it like two roommates splitting the bill. Again, don't know your living so take that with a grain of salt. There are tons of guys that are lazy and try to use the "I'm a man card" to avoid being helpful while ignoring the fact that a man is also responsible. I've been living on my own for years and doing my stuff with…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 06:59 PM
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I really like this answer cause I know the mother hates me. I’m usually carefree, kind of a jackass, independent and good looking, and her daughter switched her life 180 to be with me without telling ANYONE (including her) what was going on. Her mother was dealt the cards that the daughter decided: new boyfriend, new life, moving out, etc. and the mother knows I’m the cause, and doesn’t like that one bit. Hence, the comments and her stupid theories which, true or not, are none of her fucking bus…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:13 PM
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She pays half rent, bills, food, etc. nothing’s free ;)
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:02 PM
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I meant I don’t let then tell me how to do stuff. She’s in fact rwlling her daughter, not me. And I dont want to be over confrontational about this, wr had a rough start in which her daughter left home and came to live with me against her mother wishes
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:57 PM
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The question was about the mother measing with a relationship where the daughter’s doing fine, not about your inability to find a woman who does shit for you
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:14 PM
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Dude, relax, I do other stuff, the question is about her mother trying to mess with us, not whether I’m right or not. Girlfriend’s ok with this
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:12 PM
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When the mother made these comments, she shut her down bu telling her I do help out. Should I still intervene or just ignore? The thing is, it’s not the first time she makes comments like these and I honestly don’t let women I’m not fucking tell me shit about my personal life
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:11 PM
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Serious
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:09 PM
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Most of the time she does it. I never clean either. I fis stuff, do manual labor and so on. Division of labor. It works cause she moved in with me and offers to do this stuff, I never made her do it
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:09 PM
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Triggered eh? :) bye ;)
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:48 AM
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Hahaha good, go back to stalk me some more then :)
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:47 AM
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Do know how to read? Answer the post question or shut up ;)
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:44 AM
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Exactly, read just the question freud, no need to act like an obsessing bitch stalking my profile page :)
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:44 AM
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Hahaha exactly, you just like to comment but have no idea what you are saying. I know exactly where I am kid ;)
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:39 AM
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Please either answer the question or not, dont comment useless stuff...
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:35 AM
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Please either answer the question or not, dont comment useless stuff...
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:35 AM
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Dude, chill out, I said I hooked up with her when I stopped being a dick to her, that's the thing, that's all...
/r/askTRP15/07/20 09:50 AM
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Good point. I know she used to shit test me a lot and when I never gave a shit, it was easy to pass them all. But I wasn't fucking her either. I tuned it down, she got close, now she rides my cock every day and night. But if I keep my dick-ass behavior low, she starts teasing/shit testing me. Wtf?
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:49 AM
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Also, sounds like you're giving off soft vibes to her, which is why they may increase. If you want something beta, such as hugs, long chats, no-shitest dates, they will sense it and test you harder. But I don't get is this: I hooked up with her the moment I softed the game and showed her I cared. Now I'm really confuse cause I want that thing back in our lives and sometimes it seems it's not there. I hate having to be a dick to keep her attractive, why the fuck can't one just be ok with it's own…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:48 AM
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I know exactly what you mean. I didn’t get even close to hook up with any of them, but had any of it happened, I would have tried to marry her and have children. Tbh, I love the idea of having children now, but I hate the idea of settling down. I have to admit, I’m aware I’ll end up having children with multiple women eventually, but I have no idea how it’ll turn out for me in the long run from a legal point of view.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:20 AM
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Lol, I remembered another one. Beginning of high school, new school, new people, this girl became my friend in the first few days. She was barely chubby, and definitely bigger than me, which is probably why I didn’t think there could be anything between us, but she was pretty and I was a moron lol. We had an acting-like class back then, and I remember we sat on the floor while the teacher explained stuff. She sat in front of me, laying her back on me. Needless to say, I got a hard on through the…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:53 AM
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The ones that sent me away are now hitting the wall faster than they can believe, So, so true. Funny thing is, you can see they still try to look good, to look attractive, to compensate, and yet, it’s clear they are looking worse everyday. Eg, I work with 8 women, ranging from 28 to 45. Only one (39yo) has clearly pulled something to age well. All the others are definitely post wall, and the pathetic attempts at looking better fool no one. The only men I’ve seen fallen for their crap are the bet…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:29 PM
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Attitude maybe? I used to get a lot of shit because I kind of acted like the top dog in the room, and I was a 5’6 toothpick, so you can imagine, eventually guys or women started bringing me down a notch and I looked pathetic. For example, I’m the top guy at work. Two years ago I was constantly put down by a guy who realized I could do nothing to stop him, and people laughed their asses off and/or followed his example. Today, this guy is gone (I got him fired), and my smartass, top dog attitude i…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:19 PM
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Well, I have noticed that my oportunities raised only after I got bigger (gym). Those girls who kind of liked me before are now more straightforward with how they feel, those who didn’t like me are now shit testing me, and those who used to mess with me backed down after a couple of snide remarks on my part. The new ones show, on average, more interest, but the thing is, you have to put yourself out there and meet people. Right after I found trp I started going to the gym but stopped meeting new…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:09 PM
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8th degree cousing = almost not a relative
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:56 PM
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I didn’t ask what to do, I asked what was going on. You’ve confirmed they are shaming me because they see me as low-value. That’s what I wanted to know. The one that started it (short-hair ugly bitch) is obsessed with me and acts as if I’m hitting on her every thing I say something and so she needs to reject me, and she’s disgusting, which is why her actions piss me off even more. Low bitch who tries to make me look like a loser? Fuck her...
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:51 PM
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The same thing I asked the other guy. Why do you say this is flirting? They were saying this stuff about me, with me in the room, like I wasn't there... How is this ok in any fucking way???????????
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:34 PM
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It's neither. It's their way of flirting with you. I'm sorry, I don't understand this. I have flirted with both, and in my book, physical contact, teasing back and forth, sexual innuendos, etc, they all account for teasing. Telling other women and men in the room that I'm "tolerated" after I did nothing to her, is that teasing? And what about the other one, who jumped in at the chance to say the same thing? Isn't social validation important when it comes to hooking up? Now I have two of the bott…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:34 PM
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I guess I should have emphasized the normal range a bit. If you don't belong to top 10% or bottom 10%, the change in your size doesn't matter too much. Again, I don't think that's the case, but I may be wrong. Bottom or top 10% are just 20% of the population (really lucky or really screwed). We all tend to fall in the middle, and we already know the average guy is a loser beta buck that's waiting for life to happen to him. From that point of view, change can have a significant effect. One of the…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 03:51 PM
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Getting bigger (while staying at normal ranges) isn't the reason why people treat you differently. It's your increased self confidence which causes the change how people treat you. I don't agree. Attractive people are treated differently, no matter how confident/insecure they are. For average people, it tips the scale in one direction or another. Let's say you are the most confident guy in the world doing your thing on your everyday life. Do you really think bigger guys are gonna let you get awa…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 02:43 PM
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I’ve found that creatine really does help build muscle as well I've just eaten food until now, and I intend to keep other stuff out of the system unless I need to do otherwise for health reasons. If it works for you, I'm happy! Just be careful not to mess your metabolism with stuff man! good luck
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:38 AM
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And you are 5'8! I'm 5'4-5'5 at the most, so you can imagine how pathetic I was when I weighed 115lbs and tried to act like the alpha dog lol
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:36 AM
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Agreed with everything you said. Let them be the happy beta bucks who thin they can slam pussy by being "themselves" ;*)
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:34 AM
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It depends on how tall you are
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:32 AM
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The funny thing is you don’t even need to spend all your free time in the gym. I train three days a week, and I got my gym at home, so I maximize my free time.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:46 PM
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In my case? Yes. I walk everyday, do the stairs, and lift, so I settled for that. Once I get to my target weight (80?), I’ll cut and may start doing cardio. I’m putting mass for the first time in my life, so I’m skipping cardio. I used to run in the past, but there was no muscle gain.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:45 PM
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I just can't stand the self aggrandising mentality that promotes the wrong message to others. Stop being so passive in your life and start kicking ass. Nobody will respect you if you keep asking for permission to have a “self aggrandising mentality” xD
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 11:05 AM
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Yeah, the girl rubbing her breasts against me is really disgusted and is trying to push me away xD Btw, if you haven’t noticed already, humility will really help you get over your insecurities. Good luck ;)
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 10:50 AM
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It’s about feelings, not rationality. Imagine yourself jerking off: once you are really horny, you can fantasize about anything and it’ll do the trick. If a woman gets the feels, she’ll ride your dick and won’t be thinking abour right or wrong. The bulging dick in her pussy is all that matters at that point.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 10:46 AM
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I’ll keep bulking until I feel like I’m too fat, then I’ll cut.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:38 AM
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Don’t go overboard with your calories and be patient. For example, I’m at 2300 currently. Small gains, but constant.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:35 AM
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Could be the environment (high school), the way you look (bf %, powerlifting, etc) or something else. Wait until you get out of high school, and you’ll see :) One more thing, I was a confident, little arrogant jerk at times, but I was small and weird. Now I’m stronger, more imposing, and the same things that made me look pathetic now make me look good. It’s not just the body, it’s your attitude, confidence, etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:32 AM
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I know, so many post walls must now be made “full” :) Seriously, I know it’s not all looks in the end, but it’s really exciting when you realize you have the power to wet so many women, even if they are not hb9 or hb10.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:25 AM
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Yeah, I have to agree I haven’t been dealt the “ugly” card. However, statistically speaking, “truly ugly” guys aren’t probably all that common. Most guys look uglier because of other issues, not genetics.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:20 AM
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Ok, maybe you are running with the wrong crowd or have other issues making you feel bad. My arms are noticeable compared to my body and girls keep looking at them. Girls who are shorter fixate on my pecs when I walk by, and when they are seated and I’m standing next to them, they keep looking at my abs. By the way, 200 pounds at that height is kind of too much lol. Maybe you are fat?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:19 AM
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I’ve spent almost 10 years convincing myself that going to the gym was for insecure pussies and my pathetic life would one day turn around by magic. So yeah, I’m glad to shame my old me :)
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 04:03 PM
4

Yes, men are being pussified. Ever wondered why the assholes who get women so worked out and enranged are, oh who knows why, the successful ones in the game? Pussified betas make them happy on the surface and disgusted on the inside. Real men make them angry on the outside and juice-flowing on the inside.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:30 PM
3

Read /u/VasiliyZaitzev guides.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 05:04 PM
2

After tease/joke to a big one.. SHE: do you want me to kick your ass this early in the morning? YOU: if you wanna play with my ass, you gotta promise Big Johnny is next ;)
/r/askTRP10/07/17 05:45 PM
1

I let him (and her) burn themselves. All I had to do was push them a little in the end, and they fell hard. They are still trying to figure out what hit them, and the most rewarding thing is, they are still trying to figure out why this happened to them lol
/r/askTRP10/07/17 06:16 AM
1

I have a Chad appearance.... I get more positive attention, That's the way it works lol
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:49 PM
2

It may be harder to pull off, but it will work nonetheless. And it may be wild...
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:37 PM
5

I wasn't talking about the fact he was ugly, I was talking about the whole "pretty people have it better" stuff.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:35 PM
6

My older brother (21) recently became pretty legitimately depressed because he's recently realized how more attractive people are treated better and receive more attention and he believes he's ugly. And it took him 21 years to figure that out? Where was he until now, in fairy land?
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:33 PM
3

I agree with ThunderCocky, we want screenshots!
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:32 PM
19

Socially anxiety disappears with success. It's really simple actually. The problem is, becoming "successful" isn't easy. For example... you are in the office during a coffee break, and a couple of female coworkers are talking about guys and making a few sexual jokes. Maybe you chime in, and one of them makes fun of you because you are not "sexually" desirable... You turn red, wanna get out, etc... Same scenario, with a nice body, and the knowledge you have a hot plate waiting for you outside rea…
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:31 PM
1

No, you either cut or bulk. In either case, you lift. Decide to cut first if you are too fat, otherwise, bulk.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 09:18 PM
1

Start lifting and bulking (building muscle mass). Be persistent, strict and disciplined, and you'll never regret it. I got to a point where the only guys that look better than me are usually taller and muscular. Tall and thin? Look bad. Short/tall and fat? Look bad. Trust me, it's worth it,
/r/askTRP09/07/17 09:07 PM
1

And fat. you'd look really bad next to me.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 09:03 PM
1

Why don't you wanna fuck her? Is she ugly? Fat? Old?
/r/askTRP09/07/17 09:01 PM
1

Everytime I feel bad for being 5'6 and ripped, I think of people like you and automatically feel relieved. Just go lift...
/r/askTRP09/07/17 09:00 PM
4

Don't give that person control over you, and if you ever have the chance, kick them out of your life. I did it once, and I'm still gloating to myself to this day :)
/r/askTRP09/07/17 08:52 PM
9

Probably confidence. You may see her as confident as you are, or even more, and the "challenge" turns you on. My 2cents...
/r/askTRP09/07/17 05:02 PM
5

If depends on her body language. A woman I know says that often, and yet she laughs and tries to tease me in a way that she knows will lead to me touching her ;)
/r/askTRP09/07/17 05:00 PM
1

Oh, don't worry, I wasn't referring to the whole subreddit, I meant only you, but thanks for pointing out how you feel part of the team lol
/r/askTRP28/06/17 09:24 PM
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Whatever makes you feel better ;)
/r/askTRP28/06/17 08:10 PM
-2

Did I mention she lives with her old dad and doesn't seem to have a boyfriend/husband? what do you think this means?
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:39 AM
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Did I mention she lives with her old dad and doesn't seem to have a boyfriend/husband? what do you think this means?
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:39 AM
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Stop repeating the stuff you read here like I moron.... I like fucking girls, even if they are not HB10, wtf do you know about me lol
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:39 AM
1

I knew a guy who went into a similar transformation, except for the drugs. Turned asshole wannabe after his girlfriend dumped his sorry beta ass for another cock... He kept up the act until they fired his ass from the company he worked for. No idea what he's doing now.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:33 PM
1

So? Aim for that... stop responding to every single comment, this isn't a support group...
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:29 PM
1

Ok, then u aim for that. Or don't even start.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:28 PM
2

You told some guys you liked a girl, big deal... nothing's gonna happen unless u do something stupid...
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:27 PM
1

U are never getting swole... but u can get big. Google whalberg... this is what u want: https://heightline.com/wp-content/uploads/Mark-Wahlberg.jpg
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:25 PM
1

Just get big...
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:22 PM
2

There's something you don't seem to get here... they subconsciously grow attracted to you if you display strength, domination, power, etc. Tall guy = strength. Muscles = strength. short guy = weakness. Short guy with muscles = weakness and strength. U do the math...
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:21 PM
1

Of course it's compensating, don't kidd yourself. It doesn't mean it's wrong though, in spite of what jealous guys or horny bithces may say
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:12 PM
1

Them you are dumb, becuase every woman will always fuck someone if they are high SMv enough...
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:45 PM
2

This is stupid lol, get over your short guy complex... she's not gonna fuck a taller guy just because he's tall lol. I'm guessing you imagined a taller, jacked, high SMV guy fucking her in the bathroom, but that's not the same thing as just being "tall"... jesus
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:44 PM
0

Nothing like that, and I'm not gonna tell you.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 08:51 PM
1

You stated one thing, I've also noticed the opposite. What changes on those?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:50 PM
1

To be fair, ever since I took the Pill, I've noticed men suck. They do a lot of stupid shit, and seem to be heavily influenced by film, tv and fictional characters in their quest to be validated. This is true, but I wasn't referring to that sort of men. I was referring to the sort of guy who doesn't take things seriously, on the surface, but "somehow" is still successful in life and so on. That "somehow" = good alpha qualities.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:49 PM
2

And what about women who go as far as marrying guys who are younger?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:39 PM
0

I'm smarter than them and got access to it on a regular basis. Can't say more, but it shouldn't matter, right?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:33 PM
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Oh, you are right, I wasn't referring to that though. From their conversations, they are clearly referring to the "personality" of women versus men. For example, even if the aloof asshole manages to pull off incredible crap, they still label him as "immature", no matter how successful he is. That's what I don't get, considering they are also enjoying his personality...
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:58 AM
1

It's not anger, that's why I said "edgy". U show it with body language, especially on ur face.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:22 PM
1

If u look like a guy who takes no shit and would react easily to provocation, people will mess with u less.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:20 PM
1

I meant wtf is wrong with him by not being careful and wearing a damn condom...
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:30 AM
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Jesus... what where u thinking man. Even if child alimony is acceptable, ur still giving ur money away... I get it, u wanna take care of ur son, but still, wtf... And be ready for more. I've worked with 6 pregnant women in the last three years, I don't envy u lol EDIT: I meant wtf is wrong with u by not being careful and wearing a damn condom...
/r/askTRP11/06/17 07:59 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:46 PM
1

the opposite is also true: u can have a reasonably good game and lose value because of your looks, especially if u are surrounded by guys who have similar game and look way better. Remember, body is somehting u can change. I'll never forget my first year in the gym: one day, after doing some squats, I was leaving the gym and came across a couple of girls. I didn't have to say squat to them (pun intended), because my body language was under the effect of the previous excercises: posture, protrudi…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:42 PM
5

Imagine the near-the-wall HB5 who managed to look like an HB7 in her best days and succeeded in hooking up with a younger, economically stable guy with a good family business. She works with me, and is marrying him in a few months. By the way she acts, the way she flirts and the way she dresses, she could marry the guy and live happily with him for years, and I'm 100% sure that if snother guy came along with better looks, more money, and a whole new sense of freedom, she'd dump his ass snd branc…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:36 PM
5

1 is wrong... I'm barely jacked at the moment and my 40yo old coworker (she hit the wall 15 years ago lol) would jump me blindfolded if we didn't work together... and I'm not the hotter guy in the office.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:31 PM
1

I didn't wanna say anything, but this comment seems on point to me... People generalize way too much when using the word "game". Body and body language also counts, and a great body = game goes up.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:28 PM
1

I was sharing my experience. The statement was the point.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:25 PM
1

U could see results in 6 months if we were talking about noob gains, but given u've been lifting for two years, I'm not sure that will apply. I'd say you should see results in a year, guaranteed. Keep in mind also that, unless u are extra careful with what u eat, u'll probably have to cut in the future to eliminate fat.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:20 PM
2

Eh... u are still a virgin? And here we are having this insightful conversation about plates and fucking women... go get laid man, then we'll talk about gaming hotter or average women... LOL
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:14 PM
2

Well, the last part isn't true. You may have problems if you are socislly incompetent, but way less than the other guy
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:08 PM
1

Out of curiosity, how hot are u? What about them? Are they desperate cases or average girl? Is this common in the netherlands? When u say "u could fuck them", u mean u have a chance to meet and hang out and "maybe" fuck them or get to her place and drill that pussy?
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:02 PM
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He's also talking about "messages" and "tinder". Nothing wrong with that, mind u, but how realistic do u think it is to "put new girls on rotation using tinder on a regular basis"? Hey, I'm not from the states and we don't use it, sommaybe I'm wrong, but it just seems fake
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:55 PM
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He can go after hotter women and keep the average at the same time, he isn't a hollywood star followed by journalists all day long lol Unless he's spinning 100 plates, I don't see the big deal.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:50 PM
1

First, cut down the 5 days. If u've been lifting for two years and u are asking advice here about lifting, u are probably making tons of mistakes. So, cut down to three days. Second, fix the sleep thing. If u are taking something to sleep, fix that first. U should be able to sleep normally unless u have some sort of disorder... and if u absolutely have to take something, check it's side effects. Third, most important thing: how much are u eating? U need to have a caloric surplus in order to bulk…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:48 PM
3

Maybe he wants her to come over to show her his dvd collection...
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:38 PM
1

Questions are becoming more and more metaphysical around here... isn't this a first world problem kind of thing? U study, u are good looking, u have sex, u have fun...what else do u want? Discipline on ur sex life? Good quality women? A purpose in life? No one here would post saying how they are satisfied with sex and have a great life but want to be less satisfied and up the standards so that a happy life becomes an even happier life. This sounds like the fantasy of a guy who jerks off to chubb…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:24 PM
1

Get a nice car. Stop working on crap I like 90% of the time and start working on stuff I like 110%. Tour the world and fuck women cross-continent for a couple of years. Then, I'll think of something else.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:17 PM
2

Wtf man, u have guides for everything, lol
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:42 PM
1

Sorry man, the Red Pill Forum Comission will not gather till august, but will work hard on compiling a list of approved material u'll be authorized to read.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:40 PM
1

It's easy, u behave one way and women are attracted to u, and when u change it, they lose the attraction. That, plus the fact that "women who are really into u" seems like a fantasy. We all have girls trying to get close to us, that doesn't mean they drop their pants if I show my dick... Is she touching u on her own? Does she try to be alone with u and invites u to escalste? Does she show u her body in private enough to get u excited? Girls talking to u on their own means almost nothing
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:35 PM
1

Is there something she can get from u that she can't get from someone else? If yes, she'll stick around. If, on the other more realistic hand, she can find more elsewhere...
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:29 PM
19

A Hello Kitty watch would accurately display the woman that lives in u, even if u are not yet aware of her existence.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:20 PM
1

Stop obsessing and go out more often. U have OCD or a version of it. That's ur sickness. Maybe if u ever get cancer u'll realize how much crap u just wrote...
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:19 PM
1

If u want to influence people without really socializing with them, then u have to manipulate them.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:16 PM
1

Why are u talking about wanting/not wanting to fuck her? If u start using words to communicate these things, u'll be screwed man. Lol, u told her u didn't wanna fuck and spent time with her and when u told her u wanted to fuck, she flipped out? Why are u telling her to chose?
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:14 PM
1

First, find good frames dor ur face. Second, buy big enough glasses: people make the mistake of buying small glasses and end up with limited vision which, on the long run, makes them feel down and depressed, and they don't even know why lol Finally, once u have these covered, live ur life like if the glasses weren't there. Do not get contacts, that's my advice. Even if u could wear them without any kind of side effect, u won't be able to have them on all the time or every day, and when u don't h…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:08 PM
1

Lol, ever saw Good Will Hunting? Well, it's a movie, but when u dedicate ur life to something u really like can tackle everything.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:01 PM
1

U stupid idiot, it's a movie... and by the way, Nazis were in World War 2, the movie happens during World War 1... go back to school...
/r/askTRP11/06/17 01:00 PM
1

I think OP meant "anger" in a generic way, not specifically related to women. For example, not letting guys screw u over is easy when u are a little "edgy", and that turns women on. However, when someome toys with u wnd u get angry, that's a turn off. So, in the end, I don't think anger is the reason or lack of for increased attraction.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 12:58 PM
1

Exactly. I mean, when I think of a mission for my life, I always think of something that will have an impact on others or on the world. Becoming the best at something is always a side effect.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 12:53 PM
1

Well, be careful man... I mean, beware of the anger.... the rage... it turns good men.... evil
/r/askTRP11/06/17 12:47 PM
1

Wtf? What do u mean "you can't be a winner"? Give me an example...
/r/askTRP11/06/17 12:26 PM
5

It depends on what u mean by "look like". Body wise, u know what attracts women, and that'd do the trick everywhere. The rest is cultural and depends on context. A skinny famous actor or tv personality may have no impact on women and men in a part of the world where he's unknown, unless he's really good looking. However, a jacked/muscular guy will have an impact on men and women, no matter his social status. Think about that and u'll figure out who's on top.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 12:22 PM
1

My brother is similar, excep he believes that most women are bitches, and the unique princess will come around some day. And he believes it so much that he basically hangs out only with his equally-oblivious friends and never, ever meet any women. He basicslly believes that unless a woman is willing to see inside his soul (and past superficial shit), she's not worth his time.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 11:43 AM
1

Man, bitches will let go of any reatraint if they think they can get away with it, and nail ur ass if it's socially ok for them. If u don't see her egularily (like, work or school), just next her.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 11:40 AM
2

I'm a computer programmer, and I love doing it even on my free time. I have, therefore, the advantage of working on something I like, and I even get to improve way more than others because of that, giving me an edge other people lack.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 11:37 AM
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Thanks. I'll keep sending her away with the "busy" excuse. However, I don't think how long it will last. Eventually, she will vent enough with a PM (her friend, btw) or a boss, and one of them will come to me, and I'll be forced to defend myself... I mean, even if I'm not put under attack in anyway, I'll still be forced to pick up her slack. See, she doesn't care about me doing her work or taking the credit, all she wants is to avoid lookimg incompetent and failing the tasks/prowjcts she was ass…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:03 PM
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I put my energy into the job and treating others with respect and professionalism, not sucking up to them. I don't have time for that, nor do I want to... social game in the office? Beyond common decency, u are not required. Anything more than at, it's office politics. And even if she doesn't really convince other people, if the others are stupid enough to let themselves be used, she'll feel entitled to make noise about me. And guess what, once those noises get to management, then what? Should I…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 09:50 PM
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But u haven't addressed my real problem... what about "nex is clearly an unhelpful asshole who can't work in a team because he refuses to help out a coworker in need"? That's my only problem. I don't have a problem letting her high and dry for her incompetence. I don't have a peoblem saying "no" to her. What I do have a problem with is she turning people against me because I refuse to suck up... and being labeled as the uncoopertive asshole is never good, especially in the eyes of management, an…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:18 PM
3

If you can't handle drinking, stop drinking, it's common sense dammit... Why do you have to drink if you don't like how it makes you feel? Jesus...
/r/askTRP07/05/17 07:10 AM
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Just because one woman has the balls to say this shit doesn't mean I get walked all over. I mean, the others never even dare to say stuff like this unless they make it extremely clear they are joking... I mean, what's the point of automatically assuming low value when a shit talker comes around?
/r/askTRP18/04/17 07:57 PM
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Then what would you do in my position? Keep in mind I see her at work, and I cant just tell her to fuck off. However, she's basically the only one doing this, but she does it in front of both guys and girls.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 09:06 PM
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True, I thought of that too. In real life though, without so many "rules" imposed to us because of the work environment, he would pressure me on my social shortcomings, and I would pressure him on his (dumb, professional, etc). I can't though. Me shitting on him = me talking things too seriously, he shitting on me = he being funny. And he managed to pull this off because the couple of people who listen to him are as professionally incompetent and personally fucked up as he is. I don't give a cra…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:57 AM
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If you are truly above this man professionally, then your social worth is of little concern in the workplace Not exactly. I can stipulate that his crap do not impact my social life, but it impacts my everyday life inside the office. why do I have to tolerate a shithead who talks to his clic of friends in front of me, about me? Why do I have to tolerate this shithead who goes and insults me to those that are friendly to me inside the office, in front of me? No thank you.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:07 AM
1

Yeah, so? you are not the first one who says this. I don't deny he's wining, that's why I wanna get rid of him...
/r/askTRP07/01/17 07:56 AM
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You have a point, I'm not denying he thinks I'm an idiot. But... so what? He shuts the fuck up and accepts me the same way I have to accept his incompetent ass around the office. But no, he makes sure to manipulate as many people as possbile and turn them against me. Fine. Let's see if he can really play at that level without getting burned...
/r/askTRP07/01/17 01:16 AM
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I'm not threatened, I'm extremely annoyed, and that's different. I really enjoy my job and the workplace and I hate not being able to do so because this guy is out to get me. Just yesterday he told a coworker of mine that "that idiot finally said something right" when I gave her advice on something. Why does he have to fuck with me and try to get others to dislike me? I don't give a shit sbout what's right or wrong, and if I can have his ass, I will.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:44 AM
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Take the heat? I don't associate with people who shit on me and are not my friends, I don't see why I have to lower my head and be hammered at work...
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:35 AM
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Of course I'd only do it if the risk was low for me. I just don't wanna see his face anymore.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:28 AM
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Or... eliminate the charismatic guy if he tries to sink me. How does thst sound?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 11:42 PM
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I won't win it. He's way more chsrismatic than I am and people like him way more. Om the other hand, he keeps pointing at me as the trouble fucked up guy. So, after weeks and months of this shit, you can imagine how people stsr behaving...
/r/askTRP06/01/17 10:53 PM
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Lol, you are right!
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:58 PM
1

So be professional, dependable, honest and straightforward with others. They will eventually make a decision as to who they respect more. Already did, it didn't work. He killed me socially, and he was merciless with it. True, some of the people I work with are idiots, but that doesn't mean I deserve this shit...
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:48 PM
1

Until I sunk his ass. That's why I made the post...
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:47 PM
1

This is the professional equivalent of keying someone's car or slashing their tires. So... you'd prefer to be treated like shit by a coworker rather than act??? Shift your focus on elevating yourself instead of trying to bring him down. I did. But I work with people, especially this guy, who hate the job and couldn't give a rats ass about how superior one may be professionally. It's all about social relations and not about competition or careers, not at my company. These jerkoffs exist everywher…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:40 PM
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who said I'm weird??? lol...
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:39 PM
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So yeah, what you are saying is that I would have acted if I could have/was capable of. Thanks for the advice man.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:25 PM
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If you knew how to do it, you wouldn't have problems with him in the first place. What do you mean by this? That I would have threaten him or used it against him if I could?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:10 PM
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He's trying to get others to dislike me. Starts with jokes and ends with insults just because people know him as the "joker". Why do I have to tolerate that?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 02:17 PM
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Yeah, that's what I figured. What really turns me on is the fact that this has happened again and again, and keeps happening. I'm starting to realize that I'm probably acting like a clueless idiot while she keeps throwing me everest size signals in my direction...
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:30 AM
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you have to build up to it This is what stopped me until now. I've built up great when not in private, but then in private the whole thing kind of get awkward and I just cannot "build it", so to speak. Any ideas?
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:01 AM
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Ok, I've got some of these. What about strong eye contact when being close, face to face? I get close, I smile, she smiles back, looks at me directly in the eye, no hesitancy? Even a couple of seconds after I stopped talking. Is this a clear sign?
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:59 AM
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i'm assuming you are actually touching this girl Yes. Arms, legs, waist/abdomen/belly, face, hands, etc. if you can touch her neck, face, or hair and she's cool with it, yes, touching her has been accepted so far. I just hadn't found the moment to kiss her yet, where by moment I mean being close enough, isolated, and just go for the kiss. I'm not on dates with her, it got tricky so far.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:01 AM
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