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this.
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:12 PM
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I don't see anything wrong here. Why do you think you're doing something wrong? Do you want things to last longer with them? If not, then who cares call the next woman and set up the next date. Move along, move along. Maybe you didn't get to sex fast enough on two and the third maybe just wanted to bang you for that night. sometimes girls just want to bang with no strings too. That's not you doing anything wrong.
/r/seduction23/05/14 07:47 PM
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IMO: regardless of phone issues she no showed because you scheduled the date at "your house". You gave her no option for plausible deniability. What would have been better is if you scheduled the date some place and steered the her back to your place at some point during the date. EG: You take her to bar/club just have one suggest going some place else. While going to second place say you'd just like to stop by your place to pick up your "X" real quick before you get to the second place. BAM! Yo…
/r/seduction10/04/13 09:09 PM
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THIS! ha ha!
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:11 PM
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If you're an experienced PUA you'll know. If not, use the simple hair stroke/touch test.
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:10 PM
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"Yes!"
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:07 PM
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It could be a shit test, a qualifier or indicator of status, baggage or she's not over him yet. It depends on context and tone when she said this. Only you know that at the time it's said.
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:05 PM
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Jealousy? WTF is that bro? sounds like one-itess
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:13 PM
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Wait until he makes himself available to you like leaving table for a refill or desert then make your move quick. Don't hesitate! Go right up to him while he's refilling and say "Hey, I'm 2outtathree." Let him tell you his name, then say. "I've noticed you here a couple times before today. You seem pretty cool and I'd like to go out with you sometime." Then give him your number and turn and walk away. Don't wait for any response. If he's interested he will call, if not you'll know soon enough an…
/r/seduction15/03/13 05:10 PM
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Man the fuck up!
/r/seduction08/03/13 09:00 PM
1

A good place to start with physical is the DiCarlo ladder. And basically don't do anything or say anything you've seen in a porno.
/r/seduction23/01/13 04:24 PM
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The age thing will always be there until you are actually a little older just bust it like you always do. Disarm it and change the subject if it comes up again do the same thing. Women will shit test you more than once on some topics. As far as text reply I think just say 'OK' or 'thanks'. Just acknowledge it but don't elaborate, or text more words or stuff about the date etc..., until you text/call about the next date.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:48 PM
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Don't give her the password... ever!
/r/seduction08/01/13 11:43 PM
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Short answer yes. But, you will have to make adjustments to your seduction since you've already attempted to close her. She might recognize some of the things you do if you did them again plus you wouldn't want to do them again as obviously they didn't work the first time. TLDR: Basics? no! Can you attempt to close a girl you couldn't before? yes!
/r/seduction26/12/12 09:55 PM
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this!
/r/seduction26/12/12 05:03 PM
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IMO you messed up asking her to hang out at her place. You didn't give her any "plausible deniability". Instead I would have done this... Ask her out on a date for drinks, at a bar or pub. Then reestablish your kino, and escalation. Then say "let's get out of here" and go somewhere else. You could say "do you mind stopping at my place to get my (blank), or you've got to see my (blank)" if she agrees she's probably DTF and you've given her a reason for "plausible deniability" which she can tell h…
/r/seduction26/12/12 04:46 PM
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I read this somewhere what do you guys think? Boy meets world. Boy fights world. Man loves world. Man changes world.
/r/seduction14/12/12 04:28 AM
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Gold!
/r/seduction14/12/12 04:23 AM
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Gold!
/r/seduction13/12/12 08:36 PM
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for work good, for pick up douche, as a man. As a women, a contact card could work because it's very unique but also most women don't pick up so just doing that is already a huge plus for you.
/r/seduction12/12/12 04:36 PM
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You really fucked something up either you missed signals, or came off with a weird vibe. I stay away from time limited first dates. I recommend you do that going forward. Forget her and move on.
/r/seduction12/12/12 04:34 PM
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awesome movie.
/r/seduction08/12/12 05:14 AM
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See that girl? That girl right there? You've already made eye contact with her. Now stop being a little bitch and go talk to her you pussy!
/r/seduction08/12/12 05:05 AM
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Like someone said before I wouldn't consider any guy off limits or out of your league. It's pretty hard to determine if a person is interesting without having a conversation with them. Some guys will cower if you approach them first, but some won't so you could try that. As far as flirting I would just google how girls flirt and start doing some of those body language things, like turn towards the guy, play with your hair, look him in the eyes, etc... if you are as shy as you say then it will pr…
/r/seduction08/12/12 04:22 AM
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just the two of you? or a group? I'd still approach to be friendly and social, keep the kino light and to level 1, your GF may or may not see you do this if not then no worries. But if she does it can only help your value, and social status, as she'll see how other girls are into you. and if she gets jealous well then you've found that out about her and can proceed as you like.
/r/seduction07/12/12 08:04 PM
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Sounds like Shit test, HG is no longer your friend, back off and then hit ann up again for date in a couple weeks.
/r/seduction05/12/12 02:48 PM
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There are no other reasons to order hard liquor or beer beyond personal taste. Basically you can go with; Vodka w/ 7up or sprite Whiskey w/ 7up or sprite Rum w/ coke or diet coke Margarita is it's own mix Strawberry and Apple are very popular and taste good Tequila is usually just shots not mixed. I've never heard of a 2/hour 1/hour rule when it comes to driving. I recommend you figure out your body weight, compared with the information below and determine your BAC Blood Alcohol Content and then…
/r/seduction05/12/12 02:39 PM
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IMO, I would advised this; When you see him, flirt from a distance, eye contact, open body language, make yourself available for him to approach. The problem I see here is that women love for the guy to approach them not the other way around. Next, actually approach him and start up a conversation, use kino it works the same way, light touches at first, but quickly escalate the touch men are way more open to touching so you can move things along very quickly. Although I wouldn't advised walking …
/r/seduction05/12/12 02:16 PM
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Friends off campus? Maybe? I don't have anything better at the moment.
/r/seduction05/12/12 02:06 AM
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Agreed. Looking back, in this instance I agree.
/r/seduction05/12/12 02:06 AM
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First what he said you assume attraction. Which isn't much of an assumption really because if she wasn't already attracted to you some why is she on a date with you?... Anyway, here are some signs from a girl although it's not really kino as we know it. Remember a woman wants you to lead so her signs are going to be very, very subtle. In no particular order... she looks in your eyes, licks her lips, plays with her hair, turns her body towards you, leans closer to you, she looks at your mouth, an…
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:18 PM
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Humor
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:13 PM
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ask her out using the usual methods. Unless she friend zoned you.
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:12 PM
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Did you call her or text her that wednesday night invite? I would have replied to her text with "I'm not sure. I'll call you" Then call her later and ask her out. And when you call and ask if you stick with Wednesday then you need assume control back because if you agree to wednesday she's in control but to flip that you could say "well I can do Wednesday but only if we go to xxxx or, at xx time."
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:11 PM
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Or don't even mention boyfriend at all. You're showing your dominance because you don't care if she has one or not. You're showing her other men don't bother you. You know what you like, and want and you're going for it.
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:06 PM
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In my experience all openers are situational. Unless your referring to using a template or standard phrase. In that case yes I discourage the use of pre determined or template phrases.
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:04 PM
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Sneak her in. It will build excitement. It's an adventure. You're a risk taker. etc...
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:01 PM
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This is how all women act they play games. You have to bust them on it. Let them know you won't be playing games because you are not as foolish to be caught up in them as all the other guys.
/r/seduction03/12/12 07:34 PM
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Next time use the Dicarlo escalation ladder, for the physical stuff. And Chill, if you're not looking for anything serious then what's the problem? Just wait a few days more and call her for another date.
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:11 PM
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If you're not interested in her sexually why are you here?
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:07 PM
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Kino translates to intent without that you may as well be her girlfriend or gay.
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:44 PM
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IMO: You spoke with her too long on that first call. Shorten up that first call to the basics 15-20 minutes tops and be sure to get a firm yes to your time and place to meet. A long conversation leaves no mystery, why does she need to meet you? You just spent 2 hours telling her all about you. Also I'd avoid texting except to confirm the date on the day of the date. You probably didn't create enough attraction somehow. You can wait a couple weeks and try to call her and ask her out again. But if…
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:41 PM
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Check out this link http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/13ohv8/i_need_seddits_advice_on_how_to_build_a_profile/
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:33 PM
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Search this seddit for "kino" and "escalation" also, some of my posts have included examples of this search those as well.
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:30 PM
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No it's not bad. It's never bad to seek to improve yourself. Even if your intent is not to approach every woman, there is still a learning opportunity. "A great student is what the teacher hopes to be."
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:28 PM
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If she brings him up again you could say either of those coupled with you saying "I don't want to talk about him I want to talk about you." See how that makes you alpha, dominant? You don't care what he did or said your focus is on her. I would definitely ask her to the work thing. I would frame it like you don't really care if she comes or not. I'd call her and say "I'd like to take you to this thing I have coming up." Nothing more, don't tell her what it is exactly, leave some mystery, if she …
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:09 PM
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Yes. I don't see why you couldn't use this anywhere.
/r/seduction03/12/12 03:58 PM
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"The best confidence builder is experience."... I would make short reminder notes on your phone this way you always have access to them. This could help you come to an understand where you "get it".
/r/seduction03/12/12 03:55 PM
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Possibly you can say something like "Your out of napkins, or ketchup" to get her to come out from behind the counter. If you have to grab all the napkins first or have your friends to it ha ha!
/r/seduction03/12/12 03:42 PM
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Initially I go with flirting and kino. After you get a feeling from her that you've built up some trust and attraction you can guide the conversation to more sensual topics. There is no exact time of when to do this each woman is different, and it takes more time for some less for others. So, you'll have to get a feel for it when you are actually on the date. If you feel like you are not giving off your intent then you probably aren't. Having a comfortable regular interaction is exactly what you…
/r/seduction03/12/12 03:37 PM
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No I have women there as well as men but I reserve FB mostly for my family, and extended family and friends I've known for many years. I don't add new women I meet.
/r/seduction03/12/12 03:21 PM
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To seduce guys should project the perception of alpha male. Women use those visual queue's because men respond to visual stimuli. Women respond much more to emotional stimuli than visual. I would find a way to direct him to this seddit without him knowing you did then he can feel like he discovered it on his own and maybe he'll surprise you with some new behavior.
/r/seduction03/12/12 03:15 PM
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Here are some date ideas that provide good fun and give you the chance to set yourself apart from the typical dinner and a movie. air hockey,art gallery,art opening,baking/cooking,baseball game,batting cages,biking,board games,bookstore,breakfast,bumper cars,cafe,climbing wall,coffee shop,coloring books and crayons,comedy club,concert,dancing,dinner cruise,dinner theatre,disc golf,drive in movie,farmers market,film festival,free concert,frisbee,go-karts golf, mini golf,guitar hero,haunted house,…
/r/seduction01/12/12 07:09 AM
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Don't tell her anything. Stop texting back. Don't reply for hours or days. She may flake or stop seeing you, but that's a risk you'll have to take.
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:37 AM
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Agreed, and I seconded it! Can't emphasize enough how important that is.
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:33 AM
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This.
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:28 AM
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Of course she has a boyfriend they all do right? who cares? You don't because you want her not him. He doesn't matter to you at all. Projecting this feeling to her is the most alpha thing you can do.
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:27 AM
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You initiate sexual intent by kino. Your first kino in most cases is a handshake when you first meet but I've also gotten hugs instead of a handshake on first meet. After that continue to use kino and you'll be creating all the sexual intent you need. Use humor to build trust, not sexual intent. Honestly I have no idea about the living at home part. I would strongly suggest if you're old enough to make a huge push to get a job if you don't have one and get your own place. This way you have all t…
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:22 AM
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This. Also because you are sitting right next to her there could be some incidental contact kino and that's not bad.
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:12 AM
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First I'd quit the email flirting your company could log that shit and you might get fired. Plus later if it goes bad there are records of it and harassment is a bitch... Second I'd start finding ways to see her in passing in person, and then introduce some light kino like a high five and say great job on xxxxxx project. Or a light touch on her upper arm say your really did well on xxxx project. After a few of these hey I accidently saw you kino moments, even though you planned it you can play i…
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:10 AM
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this. drop saying JK and just say I don't smoke, I just wanted to get some time alone with you.
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:01 AM
2

Art museum is a good place for a date. There is a lot of opportunity for kino. I would suggest her car over the bus. That way you can bounce to a new location of your choosing after the museum and your not relying on public transportation to work out for your logistics.
/r/seduction01/12/12 06:00 AM
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Here I'd go with 'alpha' and I don't like to use that term because I think it can give the wrong idea to some guys. But, anyway don't let her get away with talking to you about him. If she brings it up say "he's a douche" and move on to something else. Or, talk about a girl you just met. Turn it around on her. Backing off was probably a good move so you didn't show too much neediness. But this was probably a missed opportunity. Now try some of the things in the sub seddit below, you may be right…
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:57 AM
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Ok Stop right there. You do not want to IMPRESS her with the place. Do not try to impress her at all with the place, or how much money, or yourself. NEVER THINK I've got to impress her, or she might not like me. She already likes you enough to go out on a date with you. Just go and have fun she will be impressed enough with that. You want a good selection of places yes, for fun, and comfortable for her to feel safe like a public place, never choose a place to impress her. Never think impress.
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:48 AM
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You FB'd a girl after meeting her only once? Never FB. anyway who cares if she has a BF or not at that time. If you want her then do it. Alpha. Why wait for spring break? Anyway if you have to wait just text her rarely and call a few times between now and then. Tease her, make jokes, be interesting as hell so she doesn't lose interest that's a long time from now. Then, closer to spring break time call her and say hey blah blah blah spring break is coming up, lets hang out, pick a specific date a…
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:41 AM
1

Personally I would never FB message, only phone. I would never put her on my FB or even tell her I had one until I had a LTR with her. Maybe not even then.
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:32 AM
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This is the only texting you want to do.
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:30 AM
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You don't want the appearance of availability.
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:30 AM
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Grats! Points for humor, solid execution, too bad you couldn't have gotten closer to her for a kino upper arm touch while you both were laughing at the 5$ refill joke. That would have been a big bonus in your favor. But a great FR in its own right.
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:27 AM
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Read my reply below to the coffee shop guy. That is what you do. With proper use of kino, "hopping" into a sexual frame won't feel like such a big "hop". Because you've already been establishing that frame little by little with kino.
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:21 AM
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This is what I would have done; slip in a few kino touches from the introduction(I presume you know what kino is), then when that moment arrives where you let the conversation drop, and make with the eye to eye, and eye to lips contact, you say to her "let's get out of here." You reach over and take her by the hand and lead her out of the coffee shop still holding her hand. BAM! Framed! and you've already been framing because of the humor in conversation, the kino, and now hand holding, and you …
/r/seduction01/12/12 05:15 AM
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Don't sweat it but next time you start getting physical use the dicarlo ladder of escalation you may do much better with things unfolding how you'd like.
/r/seduction30/11/12 06:29 PM
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Learn that shit! Use hockey skates not mens figure skates. You'll learn so much easier!
/r/seduction30/11/12 04:15 PM
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What kind of writing do you write? You suggest writing to help with conversation. Is there a style you would recommend; fiction non-fiction, poetry, screen play, romance, comedy etc..?
/r/seduction30/11/12 08:23 AM
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You're thinking about it all wrong. You don't need to be the life of the party because you already are. You don't need to be because you are already the most alpha guy in the room, you are alpha because you know you don't need to be the life of the party. Alpha creates the life of the party by how he affects others, not how others effect him. And everything this guy said.
/r/seduction29/11/12 07:29 PM
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I don't get it you talked to a guy? Who gives a fuck what he thinks alpha doesn't care what a guy thinks. Are you trying to pick him up? or girls? However, it took some balls to approach so points for that! IMO, The outgoing was probably fine but because your friends know you already, and the guy already knows you a bit it was weird for them to see you acting this way. What about the girls? Did you calibrate to them? Eye contact with them? Was he with two girls? Did you talk to the girls that's …
/r/seduction29/11/12 07:22 PM
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Think of the F close as the Close/Goal, which comes from the date, which comes from the number, which comes from the conversation, which comes from the approach, which comes from the state
/r/seduction29/11/12 06:20 PM
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I've picked up a Lesbian ended with FC, but wouldn't that make her Bi, and therefore 'not' a lesbian?
/r/seduction29/11/12 06:11 PM
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Public transportation, or fly by's. Like she's sitting on a bench in the park having lunch and you're passing by on the way to lunch.
/r/seduction29/11/12 06:08 PM
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again THIS!
/r/seduction29/11/12 06:05 PM
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This. Do This! I always follow this and it has never failed me to-date. I can take it as far as I want to go.
/r/seduction29/11/12 06:04 PM
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This.
/r/seduction29/11/12 05:49 PM
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DTF? Day two fuck? I'm at a loss for that one. Don't think I've seen that before it's not in the glossary here or anywhere else that I can see.
/r/seduction28/11/12 04:35 PM
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Got to stop thinking "what do I say", stop thinking all together and just say. Don't think just talk. Easier said than done I know.
/r/seduction28/11/12 04:12 PM
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This. This is one of my favorites quotes and words to live by. I also like the twist on this quote "Speak softly and carry and Armored Tank Division."
/r/seduction27/11/12 07:47 PM
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Bald seems to set an aura of authority, confidence, leadership... if your thinning a lot up top or almost all gone I'd go full bald vs. round-about.
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:11 PM
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yeah if you're set there then clothes, hair, is what I'd go with, you don't want to look like you just woke up. Facial hair yes, full beard no. I go with the "tony stark" beard. Good topic for discussion too because of the style and the way it's cut, very much different than the normal goatee.
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:07 PM
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Improving your game is the best quick/simple thing to improve attractiveness. Assuming you are already at least of average attraction. Sure you can change your Clothing, hair, Facial hair, buy a new car, cologne, white teeth, gym, etc... but those things are only backup to what you really need for game. I'd first look to conversation, then Kino, then close. Improve those and you'll see a big difference.
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:54 PM
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Oddly the only way to improve yourself "is" to get out of your comfort zone. I suggest you research, dabble, or look into many different topics, or subjects to find out what interests you most then pursue those. You're only 19, many 19 year olds don't have any idea what they want to do that's normal. Part time jobs for 19 year olds can have very shitty bosses that is true. I wouldn't let that discourage you away from all jobs. Many jobs can be fulfilling and have great bosses. Taking on changes,…
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:43 PM
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Dicarlo and DeAngelo have great information as well. Even if you don't want to take it all the way to being a PUA Master, there is excellent information on attracting women, meeting them, etc...
/r/seduction26/11/12 04:49 PM
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Most kids can grow up fairly normal without significant repercussions of split parents as long as both parents are active, and responsible in the kids life. According to most "experts" that is. My advice is to get a lawyer and draw up a specific parenting plan that you both agree to and you both get access to the child and shared responsibility.
/r/seduction26/11/12 04:46 PM
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I start with a hot shower to open pores and allow dirt and oils to wash out with soap and a brush or louffa or wash cloth whatever. Then I change to to cold just for a bit at the end to close up pores. Call it what you will, it works, and women love smooth clear skin. Look in the bathroom, of those big time stars, george cloony, brad pitt, daniel craig, chris hemsworth, robert downey jr., and you'll find all kinds of soaps, and moisturizers, etc...
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:43 PM
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good info I'd just like to add a couple things: First about being "in state" you really want to try to make this a natural part of who you are so that you don't have be "in state". You want this to become so much a part of your natural behaviors that you are naturally always "in state". second about humor I noticed a pattern only carry it to the third joke for whatever topic. Anything beyond that and it becomes far less funny. about molding them with your joking you mentioned that's like shaping…
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:05 PM
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Great example of positive reinforcement of attitude, behavior, and confidence.
/r/seduction26/11/12 02:48 PM
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This guy, who said, this guy right here, he knows. This is what you do.
/r/seduction24/11/12 07:20 PM
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Don't give up but stop pursuing for a while and do some learning.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:12 AM
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IMO a good reply. I'd wait 2-3 days when she should be returning from the "weekend" then call her and ask her out. If no, then drop her like your first instinct, flake.
/r/seduction23/11/12 11:00 PM
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respond with I already found someone to go but I can see you Saturday night(or some other night) instead if she says OK then she's still into you. if she says I dunno or we'll see or can i call you later etc... then she's just in it for the tickets.
/r/seduction23/11/12 08:12 PM
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Here is a good example "You've heard it all before, like height (5'11"), eyes (Blue), strong, athletic, but I don't want to bore you with those details like most other men on here have already done. I believe that one should put their "money where their mouth is", as the saying goes. There are many things I like to do and many things I'm passionate about doing in life. I have an amazing family, and the best friends in the world. I blend in well anywhere I go. I can get along with any crowd. I'm …
/r/seduction23/11/12 08:07 PM
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Please and thank you is fine as is opening doors for strangers etc... is beta. You're being polite or nice by doing it but that behavior is beta not alpha in any context and you definitely don't want her seeing it. Unless you exercise a lot and increase your endorphin levels you will continue to feel depression, not feel better. Exercising is a natural way to do it as is your diet. I would recommend medication for a short time as a quick fix until you can incorporate an exercise and diet change …
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:53 PM
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first thing STOP TALKING. second thing STOP TALKING. third thing play it cool, calm. Relax and let things play out for awhile. If you failed with one girl other girls in that class will know it and you are then already fighting an up hill battle before you even started. You need to cool out from conversation with any girl in that class for quite a while, unless it's specifically related to the class e.g. homework, etc... meet some girls from a different class and focus there instead for awhile.
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:42 PM
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when you think of buying and wearing this. Before doing so ask yourself does this portray an aura of confidence, leadership, alpha?
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:35 PM
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Alpha wouldn't confront because he doesn't allow anyone else's action to affect him, he effects the actions of everyone else. I understand your anger of course. I would be angry too. I suggest ignoring, or making some joke about it as if it means nothing to you and leave him and her hanging with nothing to say. If she cheated on you she'll cheat on him.
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:32 PM
1

Speaking purely as a PUA, this. Her having a boyfriend works even more in your favor.
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:26 PM
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A bad person? I don't know. I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic but on the chance you are not, I can try to clarify the mistakes for you. Even though I liked her, I told her too soon that I actually liked her. If you do that she'll feel less attracted to you and lose interest. I contacted her too frequently, too soon. That made me seem needy, like I didn't have anything else to do. Like I didn't have a life going on away from her. I only escalated the first date to a good night kiss. I prefer…
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:02 PM
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I do this with success. A girl who sees a lot of guys and tests them will look away if you make a direct complement. You can then quickly change your conversation away from that style and more towards a style fitting for a girl of that type A girl who sees only one or two guys will look directly back at you and say "thank you". You can then continue your conversation style that fits a girl of this type
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:42 PM
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Good point. This is the right place. I was half joking about flames because those types of comments don't bother me anyway.
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:34 PM
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normally I have excellent self-control somehow I got distracted on this one. :(
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:30 PM
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Less focus on the girls more focus on having fun, hanging with your bros, promoting your own dominance over the other frat guys by your own behavior.
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:11 PM
1

I'd start by commenting directly on her appearance something like "You look amazing in that xxxx, or wearing that xxxx. I just had to come over and meet you". depending on her reaction you can follow up with my name is xxx or whatever seems appropriate.
/r/seduction23/11/12 03:27 PM
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In my experience only two things can help this; Time Meeting many new women I recommend you find a way to give yourself some closure. I suggest taking all the things that remind you of her and putting them into a box, or plastic tub. I mean everything, kitchen utensils, that Hard drive you mentioned, photos, bed sheets, clothing everything. Put a note on it like, do not open, or something to that affect. Then put that box into storage. Give yourself a little time, go out with women, friends, fam…
/r/seduction23/11/12 03:17 PM
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not anymore. I used to feel that way. Now there are some "types" where I am not as attracted to them, or I have more difficulty putting game into play. I never put women into a league or category anymore.
/r/seduction23/11/12 03:06 PM
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You only need to develop your "perceived" social value. Sure you can buy a nice shiny new car for 60K but not all guys have the money to do that, and somehow they are still able to get the girl. IMO if you've already done well with your conversation, kino, and dominance, she should already have a perceived high value on your social status. At this point she's already so into you, you could show up in flip flops, torn shorts, driving a 1973 pacer.
/r/seduction23/11/12 03:03 PM
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Don't text asking for a date. Text to build tension. Then actually call and ask to go on the date.
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:52 PM
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