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Don't do it if you don't want to. If you just said over text that you will do it but then changed your mind, I'd say go with the latter. No good person will take this as " you said it so now you have to deliver". If you feel pressured by him absolutely don't do it because you will regret later if things don't work out. My first interaction was the same i said I'm ready over text and then when the opportunity arrived I felt like it wasn't the best idea. But I was pressured by him that I said so o…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/23 11:38 AM
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Thanks! Could you elaborate on the books?
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 07:24 PM
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Thank you for sharing your insight. This really made my day!🥹
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 05:55 AM
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How come?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 10:47 PM
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I totally agree with the first line lol but it was so that in the beginning he made it seem like it’s going to be a committed relationship but later was unsure. of course it’s more probable that he was just acting in the beginning to get me to like him but I think in general he was more enthusiastic about me in the beginning. So yeah our relationship turned out to be more of a situationship but I went with it because I was already hooked and he breadcrumbed me the whole way. Thanks for the advic…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 03:55 AM
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Haha thank you for your relentless but hope-inducing reply. I do have a very symmetrical face and it looks better while I’m still so it looks better in photos. I have been told for example by 1 person that I have an ugly laugh maybe because my teeth are not very straight. The way I carry myself is also not very feminine because for some reason I picked up this tomboy attitude in middle and high school which is really hard to change and doesn’t feel natural when I act girly. Maybe it’s for that r…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 03:44 AM
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Yes I am looking for marriage. The second one I have always had problems with because I don’t know where to start. Yes I usually put effort as I have mentioned in another reply sometimes put a lot of effort and it makes things feel fake. Recently I have only maybe changed my hair routine which has made a difference but it takes way longer. I have curly hair so it can basically take one whole evening to do my hair which in my tight schedule it’s hard to do every time. thank you for the advice! I’…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 03:26 AM
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What is that haha
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 03:22 AM
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Do you think it’s possible to train our brains to like “personality traits”? I’m already quite fit and have tried the hot girl stuff(make-up, hair) and it does raise me to a 7 on a good day. On days that I do that I can instantly feel the energy shift in men (the way they interact and look at me) and it honestly makes me sad lol. Btw that’s how in the beginning I pulled the guy I mentioned but after a while of spending time together I can’t keep up with all the work and the mask falls off. It al…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 02:55 AM
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Spot on. We are talking about averages here and the average woman has far more control over the happening of the relationship than the average man. A lot of women enjoy this sort of control and are not after Chad because then they will lose the upper hand. Most women love being worshipped so a guy that has a lot more options and would be more likely to lose interest can be threatening for a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:20 AM
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From your post history it seems like your boyfriend has been trying to show you from day 1 that he has other options. I don't know why but this ordeal gives me some narc vibes and he seems to be prompting you to try harder for him and it's possible that he is using your mental state as a leverage to do so. Us women are always faced with exes coming back or people chasing us but we rarely go and boast about it to our current partners because it really has no point other that making our partners a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 07:26 PM
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I've always held the view that it should be from mid twenties to 30 maybe 32. After that it would be harder to find someone compatible and before that people can make childish decisions. I look at it like a game of musical chairs. The best strategy is to sit just before the music stops. If you decide to sit too late all the chairs are already taken and you fall by the wayside.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 04:08 PM
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This comment felt like a slap to the face for me. Wasted a year and a half of my most crucial mate selecting years in a situationship with a guy who was more physically attractive than me(I'm not bad looking, he was just model tier) trying to pull him just to prove my self-worth to myself in this area. Well that backfired bad. He didn't even bring anything else to the table other than his looks, so not even a HVM, but I was so self hating that I accepted whatever he gave me to prove some arbitra…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 02:00 AM
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So has this been a consistent theme since you were 16? For how many years and when did you realize it has not been the not so good approach? You should not let the shame make you go back to that track again. Saying that oh yeah I was a whore and I always will be one, so I might as well continue, is a horrible thing to think. Now that you know better, make better decisions and don't fall into old patterns. You cannot change the past but you can always change the future.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 10:38 PM
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Is your friend me?! I'm exactly as you described. I also tend to attract narcissistic men thanks to my upbringing, and the whole dating ordeal is frustrating for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:18 AM
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There are many scientific sources that confirm that the rational part of the brain, also known as the prefontal cortex, isn’t fully developed and won’t be until the age of 25. source The fertility argument is also invalid. Can you give me some valid references on what you're saying or you are just making these argument based on personal assumptions?
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 03:02 AM
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This is a general and rough statement for the average woman. Of course every person has their own timescale. No one expects you to make the perfect choice in the first try.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 12:02 PM
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Since his comments are deleted let me answer him here. Most girls would not settle at the age range that you are specifying. If they would, it would be with the men around their same age range that they probably met at college, because older men in their eyes are not as physically attractive as men their own age, and one of the first priorities of a girl at this age range is physical attractiveness. That's why getting married at a younger age is not a very smart decision; your priorities lie els…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 11:36 AM
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I totally agree with you and I think pressure in this case may even have reversed results. By "using it wisely" I mean not wasting your time on relationships that you know are not gonna be your end goal; the one that you get into for fun and for the sake of not being alone in the meantime.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 11:06 AM
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Explain. I just spent ~300 words doing just that. And I only stated my opinion. Of course there are many people who get happily married later in life; but you also have to take into account that most couples don't just hop into getting married right after they meet. So you can't rely on "Wikipedia" on when most people find their life partners.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 09:25 AM
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I go to the gym regularly and I don't see any mails frequenting the gym. You may still want to check the post office though, maybe you'll get what your lady reptile brain desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:13 PM
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Well, my dude, I have to inform that this is indeed obvious. The problem is that finding a young woman who is willing to be with you at 35 is not going to be much easier than when you were 18, unless you are suddenly a billionaire in your 30s. If you are the average Joe you have gained a regular job which will qualify you as a betabux, but definitely not enough to attract a young gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:03 PM
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