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You don't have to put a label onto it. You don't even have to advocate for it. All you need to do is treat women with basic respect, the same way you would treat a guy.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 07:56 PM
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Sure most women are feminists. But why is that such a bad thing? Most rational women just want to be treated as human being and not have their sex determine the rights they get. That's what feminism is about. That being said, with everything extremes do exist and feminists who believe all men should perish are no better than misogynistic men. Pay no attention to these people. Remember that the multitude of women in the world are not extreme feminist and do not want to force you to their ideology…
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 07:51 PM
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What are these thoughts that you are having about women that makes you not want to go to therapy?
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 07:29 PM
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100% agree. I’d even add the popularity and normalization of porn too. When everyone around you is selling sex. It can feel like a cruel joke where the whole world is dangling a piece of cake in front you which you can never reach. This is creates isolation and is a big reason why incels can’t stand advice from the so called “normies”.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 04:12 AM
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I don't think I ever consciously said to myself that women are any less than human. However, I feel that actions have said otherwise in the past. For example, I would always to try to befriend women with the hopes that they would sleep/perform sexual favors to me if I made them laugh and were friendly with them. I treat our relationships like a covet contract and I'm not proud of any of it. I've since then learned that relationships aren't a sort of science that can be chalked down like redpill …
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 06:43 PM
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From what I know. The whole 80/20 thing is called the pareto principle and it was a term initially used for economics. But then people began spinning it off with other field. Like "how 20% of the top sport players earn 80% of the salary" and "20% of a code has 80% of the problems". Redpillers use such logic and thus spun it to create their own logic.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 04:50 PM
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In the grand scheme of things I don’t think so. Humans are far too different from each other and our tendency to wanna be right or make it right will always create a divide. This doesn’t just apply to gender but race, age, politics, social economic status. But in the smaller person to person interaction it is possible. In fact I think that’s how it was intended to be. I think the goal isn’t to trust everyone you meet. But to be selective of the ones you can trust. For many this will be but not l…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 03:10 AM
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You can try r/bropill or r/menslib both I feel are great spaces for men
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 04:29 PM
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The opposite of crazy is still crazy
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 11:27 PM
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I’ve always felt the red-pill is a result of the PUA world merged with incel ideology.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 03:17 PM
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The main message of that post does in a way make sense. That too much screen time is not good for you. That sometime you need to tune off and live in the real for a bit. Nothing wrong with that. The redpill has a lot of these ideas, from losing weight and building muscle to not putting women on a pedestal. All of which are not really red-pill ideas but more general self-help. Where it becomes red-pill is in the content behind the message. A great example is the points of that post. While the pos…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 07:13 PM
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This isn’t just a thing with MGTOW but generally with people who attach too much of their livelihood to a certain ideology or belief. You see this all the time with extreme fans of certain anime and shows. When you invest a big part of you life to a certain thing. It naturally becomes a part of who you are. Therefore any criticism of it isn’t just a criticism of a belief but a personal attack to their identity.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 05:19 PM
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Being authentic isn't black and white. We need to stop telling people to be a 100% open to everyone they meet but also when things backfire our answer shouldn't be build a persona so no one will ever hurt us. Being vulnerable is about being true to yourself regardless of what others say about you. I understand we all have different life experiences that force us to be someone your not. But part of the process is finding a good balance. Getting made fun of hurts but it is not a reflection of your…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 06:56 PM
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I might be very wrong with what I'm about to say but things don't really add up. For starters both male and females have the same genetic makeup all expect our sex chromosomes, where females have two X chromosomes and males have one X chromosomes and one Y . you have a 50% for a male or female child but out of all the possible outcomes 6/8 chromosomes are going be X. If Roy is saying that female sex chromosome are more common than male then yes he his right but not because of hypergamy but becau…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 06:32 PM
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For starters many of these theories are actually hypothesis which have reports for being false as much as there’s evidence for being true Next, the redpill is really about control in relationships. It is my believe that many redpillers are guys who have a history of being hurt by women. Whether it’s the guy whose gf cheated on him or the 20 year old virgin who can’t understand why women don’t find him attractive. This hurt sucks, I know cuz I’ve felt it. The red pill uses this and flips it on it…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 06:36 AM
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I don't think there anything inherently wrong with initially wanting to work out, practice hygiene, etc.. to get girls. It's natural and can be a really easy source of motivation. I think the problem relies in the sense of entitlement people can get when doing these things. Like by sweating the blood and tears to get a six-pack, you expect there to be a harem of girls waiting for you. I find that it can be healthy to initially do these things for getting girls but overtime switch that motivation…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/20 04:43 PM
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Obvs. I don't know the full context behind all this. But for the sake of being a decent human. I hope you don't try anything and just focus on studying together. If she wants to be with you ask her to break it off with the other guy first. Cheating sucks and I hope you don't become a part of it.
/r/seduction24/11/20 12:38 AM
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You sound like you have an awesome life, way more interesting than mine LMAO. All your hobbies are really male-dominated which is fine but branch out a little. Creative writing is a great start and your open-minded so really give it a shot. Luck might really be a part of it too. You aren't unlovable, your just unlucky. The rejection that piles on will take a toll on your mental health, but you can't let yourself be hopeless. Because once you do, you will brush aside any potential even if it's in…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 11:23 PM
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As you say, you eat healthy, go to the gym, attempt to make some decent amount of money and put effort into looking good. These are all great and by no means are easy. The problem I see is that you are nothing more than your self-care routines. Do you play an instrument? Do you enjoy nature? Do you like improv? Do you enjoy debates? Even if you have hobbies, how many of them involve being around other people? The reason I believe you struggle at dating is cuz you don't really connect with any wo…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 10:44 PM
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Elliot Hulse used to be the man back in like 2014-16 back when his channel was primarily fitness based. Always found those breathing video a little weird but whatever. He got me into the idea of weight loss and lifting . Then he stop doing those Q and A style video and I stopped watching him. Sucks to hear that he's a MGTOW/RPer type of guy now
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 10:35 PM
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I read through your post and yet still I think your toxic. You may not use harsh words but it screams that your misogynistic. There’s a way to be career driven, have self care, be fit and have goals in life, all without swearing away women. No doubt you’ve had bad experiences with them but not all women are vile and viscous whose only goal in life is to screw with men and see them crumble. It’s complete ok to stray away from relationships all together (or take a break) but if you do so just say …
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 12:22 PM
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I honestly would say that red-pill is like the fusion child of Incels and Pick-up artist. Also, how so do you think it applies to your life.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 11:11 PM
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These standards apply to both genders and aren’t exclusive to just men.I mean wouldn’t you rather date a girl who is healthy, smells nice and is socially adept than someone who is obese, reeks and struggles to hold a conversation
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 05:58 PM
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I agree. Large sample sizes are important for scientific studies cuz they give the research a more accurate representation of a population. I was wrong by saying a number like 3600 is too small to judge. Rather 3600 is actually too large for us to care about the result. Most guys like me and you are never going to date ~3600 women. Maybe 1-10 in our lifetimes. All of which will be different and unique. Some will re-affirm those blackpill belief and most will show you it was bullshit all along.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 08:48 PM
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Many of the science studies on that sub are sociology surveys. They take X amount of people. Ask them X amount of questions. Tally the results. Get an statistical distribution and infer a result out of it. Here is the things. The statement you see on the title of those post have hundreds of asterisks applied to them. These studies have their limitations. Those who can conduct the survey can ask oh so many people. Take the top post of that sub. "men like 61.9% of women on tinder and women like a …
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 07:41 PM
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I don't think your wrong or right. I'm guilty of having Black or White thinking and this is one of those situations were things are just grey. Could you have dealt with this situation better. Absolutely. But in the moment you made decisions based on what you thought was right to do. You didn't want this girl to see your reddit account because it was a side of you that you were comfortable sharing with just yet. How is that bad. On the other side, your over analyzing made you forget to even call …
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 05:38 PM
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Stuff like eat good and workout to get a good body. Not putting women on a pedestal. Don’t primarily focus on getting girls, quit porn. In general self-improvement type stuff While redpill introduced me to these things. I can argue that these advice aren’t strictly redpill and are honestly just common knowledge.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 09:53 PM
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Old Elliot Hulse was the man. I used to go to him for all sorts of fitness-related videos and found them really helpful. However, I get really tuned off by his relationship-esque advice. I don't know what he is up to these days but it sucks to see someone I used to look up to fall into that sort of mindset.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 03:07 PM
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No book is perfect. There's a couple of things that Mark Manson says that also doesn't resonate with me. I think a more balanced outlook on it is. If you want to get girls, don't manipulate yourself and women to achieve it. Be the person you want to be and you'll naturally become more attractive.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/20 11:22 PM
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My personal favourite books on it are No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover and Models by Mark Manson. It's funny cuz both books are recommended by the RedPill community yet in those books they actively call out the bullshit that resides in their theories.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/20 11:12 PM
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As a fellow brown boy myself. I totally resonate with your experience. I've always hated the fact that I was brown, and it made me avoid any sort of romantic relationship because I subconsciously believe that no women will ever give me a chance due to my color. I went to the redpill because it gave me a scapegoat. It gave me a simple answer to a complex question. The truth is that the reason why I have never dated was because I shut myself down from any opportunities. I am in the process of chan…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/20 01:41 PM
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The hot or not argument is a generalization. If you had two equally attractive girls but one is completely dependent on you while the other can hold her ground and support herself. Wouldn't you want a relationship with the one who can support herself. Now wouldn't you say that girl has a higher status. Also just to clarify status isn't just based on how many followers you have on Instagram, or how popular you are. But rather what you have to offer to the world.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 07:24 PM
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Hypergamy in a sense exists in both ways. Simply this isn’t a female only issue but a human one in general. We typically will always gravitate to people with high status cuz biologically status=survival. Like you said that will throw themselves at 10/10 guy but wouldn’t you want to do the same to a 10/10 girl. My advice would be to build you own version of status. Workout and buy nice clothes to look better. Pursue hobbies and dreams to develop an identity. Be the best version of yourself.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 04:23 PM
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Yea the post history is kinda sketchy
/r/seduction26/07/19 06:23 PM
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Looking at your post history, you ridicule yourself way too much. How can a girl like you if you don't even like yourself. Work on yourself as a human being and the girls will come.
/r/seduction22/07/19 01:45 AM
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Long term relationship
/r/seduction14/07/19 02:10 PM
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Not with that mindset. Even if you think your not good looking, coin yourself as a "work in progress" and begin becoming that attractive dude.
/r/seduction05/07/19 02:29 AM
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Pretty much this guy would post frequently on this sub asking people on here to give him validation. He’ll ask “what’s wrong with his looks” or “Girls at my work we’re laughing at me, is it because of the way I look”. He’s been doing this for a long while now on multiple accounts. Kinda annoying.
/r/seduction28/06/19 10:11 AM
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I was going to recommend you do this.But I guess it’s not working out. Thanks for the clarity
/r/seduction19/06/19 02:10 PM
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What’s reading frames?
/r/seduction19/06/19 11:41 AM
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Maybe she is genuinely busy with life. Give it time, if nothing happens then just move on
/r/seduction15/06/19 12:09 PM
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There's nothing wrong in being a Genuine nice guy. The problem starts when you do nice thing for others with the expectation that they should return the favor like its some equivalent exchange.
/r/seduction13/06/19 10:54 PM
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None of those things are hard-wired into our brain. I know you’ve heard that our brains are malleable. All that “alpha” male whose a top salesman needs is different mindset and he too will be become a socially in-adept individually and vice versa. Intelligence and social fluency isn’t something destined to people rather it is traits that people can choose to work on if they find it enjoyable. All you need is an-attitude that change is possible
/r/seduction22/05/19 12:13 PM
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I C what you did there
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:21 PM
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While those are all great traits that any human being should have. Pick the ones you feel are most like you. If you don't enjoy playing the guitar then don't bother picking up the skill just to pick up girls.
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:43 PM
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It’s like in Skyrim when they open the door they just fade away
/r/seduction11/05/19 01:34 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with being nice. But know your boundaries and take action when the people in your life start to push them.
/r/seduction08/05/19 04:56 PM
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It's all in your head. First up, there's not such thing as an ugly person, your either physically attractive(good facially symmetry, nice jawline, high cheekbones) or your not. Despite that, you can always heighten the way you look through fashion, good hygiene and working out. So get it out of your head that your looks are slowing you down Second, you gotta work on the approach anxiety, rejection is going to happen attractive or not, that's just how it works. Things I've seen in many PUA videos…
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:46 PM
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How so??
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:57 PM
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You've gotta ask yourself at the end of the day, what you truly want. Do you want to be a player and continue improving on your game, being able to game any women you possibly are interested in?? Or would you rather have a relationship with one and work together in sustaining it? You hypothetically can't have both. Ask yourself what you want and learn from your mistakes
/r/seduction05/05/19 07:31 PM
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Find the things that are causing trouble in your life and begin to work on them. You can''t develop a good vibe overnight, it comes in time once you start to consistently work on the issues that plague your life
/r/seduction04/05/19 08:13 PM
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Working out in general should help you lose the fat around your face making your jawline more defined. Other methods can include things like chewing gum often or mewing
/r/seduction25/04/19 03:44 PM
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It’s a pretty asshole thing to be doing. You wouldn’t want your wife to be doing such things right? Even if you make her happier, set some boundaries. If she wants to continue fooling around with you make it clear that she has to end it all with her current husband.
/r/seduction24/04/19 11:53 PM
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Well judging off this, I think you made your mistake when you bought her that drink. She might have been using you for a drink, which is scummy on her part but it happens. I also believe you should have approached more women. The rejection from this one might have got you, but shake it off and move on to the next one. In terms of pinpointing your mistake, learn to read social cues and body language. Time where you felt uncomfortable can be jotted down as a mistake. There’s some great books/video…
/r/seduction21/04/19 02:03 PM
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I mean looks the positives, you went out by yourself for the first time. That’s a hell of a lot better than staying home in bed. Well you don’t specify here but look back at your encounter with the girl and pinpoint your mistakes and success(Did you make her laugh or were you too aggressive?). Evaluate your expierance and bounce right back tomo night
/r/seduction21/04/19 06:23 AM
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What are some thing you two have in common. Any hobbies, similar interest??
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:50 AM
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Does it count if I still believe that :(
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:15 AM
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Is this something you experience with everyone? or just a certain group of people. Meditating helps a lot so please continue that, maybe try mindful meditation, practicing mindfulness can help a lot with being patient.
/r/seduction15/04/19 06:49 PM
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Cuz biologically speaking, Someone who is tall is assumed to have a sense of physical dominance. In terms of getting female, they are selective and will choose those who can provide security.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:43 AM
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Personally I like RSD Tyler similar to why you resonate with him. While his game is really really good, and his hot seat stuff is interesting. His "truth about success videos" were really eye-openers for me, convinced me to finally get my shit together and stop procrastinating on working on myself
/r/seduction03/04/19 09:48 PM
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Self-depreciating humor is fine when used in right amounts and with the right people. I'm not going to devalue myself among others who I barely even know, but with my friends we always poke fun at others and ourselves. Learning when to put a foot down is also important, if someone is making fun of you because of your self-depreciation, straight-up tell them to stop. In terms of replacing your humor, sarcasm is something that could work, if you try it out. Also learn to poke fun at the person you…
/r/seduction03/04/19 12:39 AM
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Great stuff. I appreciate the time and effort you put into this. I feel this isn't just stuff for seduction but more focused on finding out who you are as a person. I've always live my life doing things for the validation of others and overtime, I've never really developed a unique personality. Those question can really help me out a lot. Cheers!!
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:11 PM
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Yea sure
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:11 PM
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It sucks i feel you. But I think a change in mindset is needed. You are going to get rejected a fuck ton. I read that professional PUA get rejected 19/20 times, so you can imagine our odds. Use each rejection as a learning experience and think why did she not like me, was it something I said/not being aggressive enough or vice versa. Try not to be desperate for sexual actions because a women can smell that from a mile away. Just be yourself around them, enjoy the process of getting to know a wom…
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:05 PM
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Congrats on your weight loss progress. How do you handle the rejection you've gotten. I feel like the problem lie within that
/r/seduction30/03/19 01:54 PM
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I don’t think you could have handled it any better. Most colleges have rules that strictly prohibit teacher student relationships, and that can affect both your careers very heavily, I don’t believe it’s worth it in most cases. Whether she had feelings or not, it was in the interest of both you not to have anything serious. Just move on, you’ll meet others just as wonderful as her or even better
/r/seduction30/03/19 12:42 PM
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I mean it probably does. but if you legit have a reason for not texting back, then you can't blame yourself.
/r/seduction29/03/19 01:34 AM
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I typically don't like texting other than a form of communication to meet up with someone. Probably because I use sarcastic jokes and they don't convey through text too well. If someone has a lot to say, instead of text I'd rather them call me. That's just my say on it
/r/seduction29/03/19 01:24 AM
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Stick to one guy and follow his stuff. In today’s world there’s so much information that as a noob, you often don’t know where to start. You end up searching endlessly and not knowing who to follow at the end of the day, you don’t get anything done Not related to pickup but when I was learning how to draw as a complete noob. I was watching an intro video to a specific program and the guy said that if your going to be doing my program stick to it. He said he doesn’t only want to develop your draw…
/r/seduction25/03/19 05:16 PM
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Dude you need to change your entire mindset. I know where your coming from. I'm overweight and I've had a very similar mindset. You my friend lack confidence maybe due to the lack of experience in picking up women. But we all gotta start somewhere, talking to people(not only women) is a skill and it needs to be trained in order to be good at it. No amount of weight loss is going to help you talk to people. You may have the mindset that once you lose weight, you will start to be more social(I cer…
/r/seduction24/03/19 06:41 PM
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I say cars is a good hobby but one that is fairly expensive so if can afford it all power to you. Try to get into guitar again, you could probably self-teach it to yourself if your just playing for fun(it's what i did for piano). Are you interested in drawing, you can try that too. Search this stuff online you'll be bound to find something your interested in
/r/seduction21/03/19 09:32 PM
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You say you have no hobbies but have you tried getting into any of them. Find something you might enjoy and give it a try(there's no harm in trying right?). Something like pick-up can be considered a hobby, it doesn't have to something like surfing or being in a band. One thing I do suggest is that you do something for the enjoyment of the activity and not for the impressing of girls(b/c that shows itself very clearly).
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:57 PM
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Start to do things for yourself more often. Build your self-confidence. The problem with "nice guys" is that they are too agreeable and will do anything to please others. Often times this result in a person who lacks any sort of unique personality cuz they just do what others are doing. Try to change your opinon on rejection, truth be told I don't believe that you can have a friendship-type relationship with someone you got rejected by b/c she is not into and probably never will and you will spe…
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:50 PM
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My guy, I'm no expert but you putting getting laid way too high on your priority list. I will admit that sexual drive is one of the most highly motivating force a man can have but you my friend are kinda going overboard with this. I'm in a similar situation to you (never had a relationship) but I feel like because of how badly you want to have sex, it may rub on off onto other people(especially girls) you want is to get laid badly. In fact it can probably explain why you are feeling depressed. W…
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:58 PM
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Ayy congrats on your progress. It certainly gave me some motivation. It sucks that things didn’t work out with #3 sounds like it could have been something special.
/r/seduction19/03/19 06:47 PM
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Ahh I see. Sorry your title came off to me like you wanted to learn cooking for the sake of chatting up with women. ​ I personally love Asian food it's my favorite form of cuisine. Cook what you enjoy cooking and be proud of it, if you are interested maybe learn some European dishes to maybe enhance your abilities. But the main goal should being satisfying yourself with the dishes you make.
/r/seduction18/03/19 08:44 PM
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Don't learn to cook for the sake of having common ground with others(especially women).You're going to waste a lot of time and eventually lack motivation because the reason you choose to learn to cook is based on the opinions of others. That being said if you want to learn to cook because you personally are interested in it then go for it.
/r/seduction18/03/19 08:29 PM
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Or do it even more old school than those two options. In-person
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:25 PM
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Chemistry is "the study of matter,its properties, how and why substances combine and separate to form other substance and how substances react to energy"
/r/seduction09/03/19 04:04 PM
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Looks like a poem
/r/seduction08/03/19 04:05 PM
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what type of grip do u use?
/r/seduction08/03/19 12:50 AM
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