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Read the newspaper... Man sleeps with student? Labeled a rapist before he's even arraigned. Woman sleeps with student? The word rape is never used. And she'll end up with community service and probation.
/r/MensRights03/03/15 11:57 AM
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More women in authority (teachers) get off with light sentences than men in the same position having sex with students of the same age. Neither is acceptable, but the disparity between the media outrage and the sentencing is the reason for the hypothetical gender swaps.
/r/MensRights03/03/15 03:17 AM
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Hmm, never knew that. I mean, as EX-ROTC I know how to do the paper football flag, just never knew that's how you were supposed to burn it. My Dad is former Air Force and when I was a kid, every Fourth of July, we'd pick up all the little American flags we could find on the ground and burn them respectfully, but it never occurred to me to fold them. Thanks for the info.
/r/MensRights13/02/15 11:09 PM
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My girlfriend has a two year old. We're almost to the point where he'd be comfortable with me taking him somewhere (I think)... The thought of ever taking him in public is terrifying, especially since he's very white and I'm very Asian.
/r/MensRights23/12/14 06:12 PM
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*Womyn
/r/MensRights12/12/14 10:10 PM
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I'm a male who is only now (at 28) dealing with having been sexually abused by a (female) babysitter when I was 6 or so, because I'm finally in a healthy relationship, and I can't give her the sex she wants/deserves. Thank you so much for understanding. Thankfully, my girlfriend understands, too, after a painfully frank conversation I never wanted to have. (where she still doesn't know the details, because I'm embarrassed, but she gets the gist of it and is willing to work with me). Everyone has…
/r/MensRights21/10/14 04:47 AM
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I literally had to force myself to ignore an obviously lost, crying child in the mall, and try to find a security person instead of helping him, because no way was I going to keep my cool when I was inevitably accosted.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 04:23 PM
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I can't speak for all of reddit... Only my own beliefs.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 04:24 AM
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I disagree. He's already got more upvotes than you. I always welcome knowledge, whether or not it's counter to my beliefs, but I want sources, too.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 03:47 AM
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They do this every year at my company. "Go red for women"... Because, y'know, heart disease kills only women.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 10:58 PM
32

Unwanted touching of the genitals isn't sexual assault?
/r/MensRights28/07/14 02:48 AM
2

There's an old saying among special forces troops (in the US): "If you ain't cheating, you ain't trying. And if you get caught, you ain't SF."
/r/MensRights03/07/14 08:24 PM
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Or when traditional "masculine" behavior benefits women, i.e., chivalry.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 08:49 PM
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Funny, Dad always told me "You don't have to always be good, just don't get caught."
/r/MensRights01/07/14 08:45 PM
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That's up to your psychologist.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 02:45 AM
1

Yeah, clearly the millions of dollars worth of advertising they put out every year which proclaim loudly "IF YOU LOVE YOUR SO YOU WILL BUY THEM THIS OR GET A RESERVATION AT OUR RESTAURANT OR WHATEVER" are definitely not manufacturing demand. They're just reminding us, right?
/r/MensRights13/06/14 08:39 PM
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I find it ironic (oh, wait... moronic) that people think a man could molest a child in the middle of a full airplane.
/r/MensRights20/05/14 08:31 PM
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I flew unaccompanied all the time as a kid. Nothing wrong with it.
/r/MensRights20/05/14 05:42 PM
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I have never lost anything crowd surfing, but this is still sound advice.
/r/MensRights08/05/14 01:30 AM
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I meant while she was slapping me. Obviously I wasn't going to go on the offensive once her friends pulled her off me.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 12:28 PM
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I know. I had the thought (later) "What would have happened if I hit her back?"
/r/MensRights07/05/14 06:11 AM
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Duh?
/r/MensRights07/05/14 05:20 AM
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punching muffins I don't know why, but this is where I started cracking up.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 04:49 AM
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I'm sorry, I couldn't make it past the Center for Research on Gender & Women. I closed it. Aren't women a gender? (No matter what your definition of gender?) The fact that this exists blows my mind and makes me angry. If we established a Center for Research on Gender and Men, it would be decried as sexist. WTF?
/r/MensRights18/04/14 03:30 AM
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He's just a manjustice-ist...
/r/MensRights09/03/14 05:39 AM
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The latter.
/r/MensRights27/02/14 08:54 PM
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I've been with my company for 2 years now, and they've done the "Go Red For Women" campaign both years, encouraging employees to wear red shirts on a certain day for photos.... When I point out that an equal number of men die from heart disease, and that it affects everyone, not just women, and that EVERYONE should get education on being "hearth healthy", I get stared at like I grew a third head....
/r/MensRights26/02/14 08:15 AM
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I'm (technically) a minority (half white, half Korean) and Affirmative Action has done nothing but piss me off ever since I learned what it was. I hope to (your favorite deity here) that when I go to the ER I get the top doctor in their field, not the 14th best who got their spot thanks to AA....
/r/MensRights26/02/14 08:11 AM
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The worst victims of hate crimes are the women who are left alive to mourn the men who died. /s and relevant link, for the unaware
/r/MensRights26/02/14 08:04 AM
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I can be fired for offending someone, during my time off, while wearing company attire. It's not right for someone in a position of authority to spew such hatespeech.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 08:03 AM
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I honestly don't even see how these people (male or female) convince themselves that this is right. I am 27, I have a 19 year old sister. Her best friend is 18, and has been totally smitten with me for the last few years. It would literally only take a few nice words from me and a few advances, and I could be sleeping with her. And it would be legal. And I still won't do it. She may be legally an adult, but I would still be taking advantage of her, and it would be wrong (in my opinion). Please i…
/r/MensRights26/02/14 06:47 AM
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Once you make yourself a threat, you have endangered my life, and I will act to preserve it; I have no way of knowing if you'll stop once you hit me, or knock me unconscious.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 06:26 AM
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Femin-ism Women-Ism Women-first You can't claim to strive for equality while putting your people first. People who want equal rights and opportunities for everyone are called egalitarians. Imagine the uproar if someone came out with Andronysm (Men first)... Why should feminism be any different? Nobody will be equal until we stop separating ourselves into groups, and feminism does more to damage the public perception of women/women's rights than it helps, in my experience.
/r/MensRights23/02/14 08:17 AM
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I'd say that "better" isn't even fitting. Modern feminism believes that women are "worthier".
/r/MensRights23/02/14 08:14 AM
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As a legally armed citizen, I can't legally shoot at someone unless I have reason to believe they are an immediate danger to my life, or the life of others. Reaching their pocket, even after acting erratically, is not reason enough. I can't legally shoot him until he presents a weapon and/or a reasonable threat to my life. The police had no call to shoot at him, either. The results are entirely upon them.
/r/MensRights07/12/13 07:07 AM
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How far did you read? He clearly makes reference to his own beard.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 09:50 PM
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You should try posting in /r/mensrights . Despite the stigma, there are many men there who have gone through what you're going through, and can offer their advice. Edit: I just realized I'm a drunken idiot and deserve the downvotes. I was hit with a bunch of /r/mensrights type posts on my frontpage that weren't actually in /r/mensrights, and with 20 open tabs, I assumed this was one of them without actually looking at the sub I was in.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 05:46 AM
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Shit, I haven't run regularly since high school (a decade ago), I'm a half a pack a day smoker, and I can still run an eight minute mile.
/r/MensRights11/11/13 03:02 PM
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Made me want to call my Dad. I'm definitely going to see him after work Sunday, no matter what.
/r/MensRights02/11/13 01:01 AM
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I think that was a joke...
/r/MensRights09/08/13 08:42 PM
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Lay roofing in Florida in the summer. I'd drink one to two gallons of water every day, and only piss when I got home. And it'd be brown. I imagine doing that with soda would give you kidney stones real fast.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 06:19 AM
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So? I'm a huge nerd with a large group of even nerdier friends. I can count on one hand the number with any encryption on their phones. John Q Public can't manage to install lookout, use a password, or avoid trash apps in the store... You think they encrypt their shit?
/r/MensRights12/04/13 02:49 AM
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This was 2 years ago Click through the gallery.
/r/MensRights11/04/13 08:38 PM
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From this thread. (Before someone rags on me, I was on my phone and couldn't edit my comment, hence the double reply)
/r/MensRights20/03/13 07:53 PM
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Three words. Good. For. Him.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 11:01 PM
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He said she was "beating down the door".... For many people, that's a common expression meaning she's pounding violently on the door. Also, The call states that she was stabbing him BEFORE saying she's beating down the door... To me this indicates that she was already in the house, (She couldn't well stab him through a door, could she?) and he had locked himself in a room inside the house. Which means the entrances to the house would not show any signs of forced entry.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 09:41 PM
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We were required to pay, as the school had the masterkey to all of the masterlock padlocks, and could get into any locker at any time they wanted. Much like my current company, they reserved the right to cut any personal lock at their leisure.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 04:19 AM
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Usually you just pay $5 for the padlock at the beginning of your freshman year.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 09:12 PM
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Sure. For them.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 04:16 AM
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So... Voting rights == Toasted bread?
/r/MensRights13/02/13 10:58 PM
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Conscientious. That was irking me.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 10:56 PM
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My take: You're partially right. It wasn't overtly sexist. The poster probably didn't mean a damn thing by it. It was, however, INHERENTLY sexist, implying that only females are fit to do the job (as we are ingrained, as a society, to believe). It's not necessarily the poster's fault, but it is still a valid example of social bias against men as caregivers versus their patriarchal role as providers.
/r/MensRights09/02/13 04:29 AM
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I think he was implying that for the girl to know/instigate that kind of behavior, it might be something she's seen before. Which would be worthy of investigation, and possible jailtime for the parent(s).
/r/MensRights04/02/13 09:30 PM
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This is exactly what I intend to do. I might see her twice a week. All that changes is that I will no longer be friendly or say hi. This isn't the type of thing to go to HR, it was more a "drunkenly shared between girlfriends" kind of thing that came back to me. We don't work together, and this won't affect my job or life, it just bugged me to know that I'm regarded as creepy simply for trying to be nice and friendly. The stinging is relieved by our mutual female friend (who told me of this) ass…
/r/MensRights27/01/13 06:02 AM
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This isn't the kind of situation where my comfort at work, or my job are threatened. I might see this girl twice a week, we don't work closely or anything. The only thing that has changed is that I won't make friendly conversation with her anymore. My source for this whole thing was a mutual friend who got it in passing that "A guy at work is creepy because (reasons I listed)" and figured out with some questions that it was me. She mentioned it to me after we'd both had a drink or two. I'm not g…
/r/MensRights27/01/13 06:00 AM
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Aww, c'mon guys. 4chan bullshit? This is what SRS, Feminists, and everyone else who hates us uses to drag us down.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 08:29 AM
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Because its rarely giant issues that are contested, it's lots of little issues compounded. The "Well, it's just a little bad, and could be worse" mentality is what let Hitler rise to power and perform atrocities, one small act at a time. "Guys, it's just a stupid star on your arms, wear it and stop complaining."
/r/MensRights21/12/12 12:57 PM
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I guess Rosa Parks probably should have just moved to the back of the bus, eh?
/r/MensRights20/12/12 10:14 PM
2

It was the rugby girls at Georgia Tech (THWG) that scared (and excited) me.
/r/MensRights18/12/12 07:01 AM
2

All 50 shades of it?!?!?!
/r/MensRights15/12/12 08:16 AM
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Doesn't matter. Simply being accused or arrested on suspicion of being a child molester can ruin your life. Employers are pretty unrestrained when it comes to moral turpitude.
/r/MensRights06/11/12 05:41 PM
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I'm a pirate, dammit!
/r/MensRights23/09/12 01:43 AM
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After learning about Susen G. Komen, and how they're assholes, I stopped buying things with pink ribbons on them. I give the money to other charities instead.
/r/MensRights15/09/12 05:11 AM
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It's humor. Well, satire really, because it would actually happen.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 12:03 AM
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The court ruled they could be forced to pay if the program's viewpoint was neutral. I don't think one could argue that a women's center is neutral. They have very definitely picked a side.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 11:52 PM
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Only to get identified as spewing "hate speech" by campus feminists.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 11:50 PM
2

I find your use of derogatory humor to be insulting. Since I am insulted, you clearly have to stop it. /s
/r/MensRights19/08/12 12:35 AM
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Sure. But there were plenty of draft dodgers the first time, and there would be a second time, too.
/r/MensRights17/08/12 05:04 AM
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Maybe I'm dumb and idealistic, and even a slight romantic (I'm 26, that shit should be dead by now)... But if there was a war serious enough to reinstitute the draft, I think I'd go. It's not the greatest country on earth, I'm not running around screaming 'MURRICA!!! but this country has been pretty damn good to me.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 11:20 PM
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You can't use logic or reason to persuade someone whose argument is based on neither.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 04:06 AM
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Stories like this are why I try to act only when I feel I have a complete understanding of the situation. Guy on fire? Yeah, put him out. (I've been on fire, it blows. 3rd degree burns blow, too.) Guy getting chased? Maybe stop the chasee, but keep the chasers from kicking his ass. Maybe they're drunk assholes, and he's some guy who stood up for himself at a bar. My motto is to intervene, and HELP, but try to never escalate. I've literally been punched in the face, and walked away, because it wa…
/r/MensRights24/07/12 02:58 AM
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Since I learned of this subreddit and men's rights in general, I haven't been able to understand the hate. Saying MRAs are anti-women is exactly the same as saying that feminists are anti-men. Except, wait. The decent MRAs aren't anti women, but most feminists (that I've met, and this may be confirmation bias) ARE anti male.
/r/MensRights06/07/12 06:14 AM
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Like tear gas.
/r/MensRights03/07/12 04:15 AM
1

I'm with you. I find I actually enjoy the fights I've been in. It's just another adrenaline rush. But I've never once started a fight, and I don't let people start them with me easily. I've only ever fought in true self defense, after someone hit me first. I usually use humor to defuse the situation, and if that fails, I'll usually just walk away. No sense getting in trouble, even justified trouble. But once someone hits me, all bets are off until I feel safe again. Or if someone is beating the …
/r/MensRights02/07/12 08:36 PM
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As someone who pepper sprayed himself to see how bad it felt, I can confirm this.
/r/MensRights02/07/12 08:28 PM
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Except that they both violently repel women. That stuff smells like ass.
/r/MensRights02/07/12 08:27 PM
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Some weak guys have bad Napoleon complexes. Note: not disparaging weak/small dudes. I'm 5'3, 135lbs. I just don't have a Napoleon complex, but I know many who do. I know small guys who go out of their way to provoke fights, to prove that they're as tough as big guys. I just don't give a shit, and if someone manages to start a fight with me (rare, I walk away unless I feel there is real risk to myself or someone else), then I do well enough to make them think twice before messing with little guys…
/r/MensRights02/07/12 08:25 PM
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I don't have any statistics to back me up, and I'm sure most of this is just what I've learned through the institution (and I'm drunk), but I feel there might be something to the alpha/beta thing. There are plenty of guys who are confident in themselves but non confrontational, and there are plenty of guys who go full on angry deer headbutting at the first sign of a problem. I'd imagine there is some dichotomy there, and if they're not perfect, the idea of alphas and betas is at least a thought,…
/r/MensRights23/06/12 05:24 AM
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I never realized I was rare in that I realized a long time ago I don't need a woman to be happy. Yes, I want one, I like having a woman in my life, I like taking care of her, and being loved back. But I don't need it. I'm great on my own, I'm only looking for someone who makes me better, and WANT to be better. I haven't given up on dating, but I'm not bothered at all that I'm single, either.
/r/MensRights23/06/12 05:22 AM
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Idiots. People are often idiots. And even intelligent people will believe what they want to believe, and not what is true, even if their intelligence says they shouldn't. (Cognitive dissonance, anyone?)
/r/MensRights22/06/12 08:16 PM
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You can't use facts or logic to convince someone who understands neither.
/r/MensRights22/06/12 03:43 PM
1

Probably because you DON'T ask them to blow into your breathalyzer, or make some other crude attempt to hit on them.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 10:12 PM
1

I disagree. I've been pulled over on multiple occasions, and only received one ticket (reduced from 92 to 84, to save me the $200 super speeder fine). I've had multiple occasions where, if the cop followed the letter of the law, I'd have been on my way to jail, and my motorcycle impounded. I was polite, honest, and cooperative, and the police officers responded in kind. "Yes, sir, No, sir" goes a long way. And it's not being a sheep, it's affording respect until it is unwarranted. Especially to …
/r/MensRights08/06/12 10:11 PM
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Well, in looking for a link, I found out I was wrong. I remember the big media sensation, but apparently they were wrong, and never really retracted it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gloucester_High_School_(Massachusetts)
/r/MensRights08/06/12 08:12 PM
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Not saying it's the norm or anything, but do you remember the big news scandal about the ring of 13-17 year old girls who slept with a homeless man repeatedly, trying to get pregnant?
/r/MensRights03/06/12 05:39 AM
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But for all intensive porpoises, they're the same!
/r/MensRights01/06/12 07:53 PM
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So perjury laws don't apply to women who say they've been raped. A man who claims he was raped gets laughed at. Gender equality! Wait..
/r/MensRights31/05/12 01:07 AM
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I believe that I'm a feminist in the same vein that (as an Agnostic Atheist Nihilist) I believe I'm a Christian. I agree with the basic points and live my life by them (people are people, regardless of sex, everyone should be happy as long as they're not harming others, we're all stuck here on the same dirtball, be awesome to one another, essentially). I live my life by the logical precepts they put forth. Women are equal to men (and vice versa, if that comparison is offensive), even if they're …
/r/MensRights29/05/12 03:44 AM
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I'm with you. Saying Feminists have crazy ideas is the same as saying MRAs are just misogynists with fancy names. Some of the smartest, most rational women I know are self described feminists. but we agree on pretty much everything, because they're rational. Conversely, I know a lot of close minded, argumentative feminists (again, self proclaimed) that leave a bad taste in my mouth whenever we discuss gender equality/etc. (Not as bad as the taste I leave in their mouths... Hooray fellatio humor)…
/r/MensRights29/05/12 03:39 AM
3

You honestly don't believe women don't rape men? Or women?
/r/MensRights29/05/12 03:35 AM
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Here's the thing: I'm against government interference in my everyday life. But I'm for (cheap) subsidized birth control simply because we're overpopulated (as a nation and as a planet) and there are too many unfit parents out there.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 03:51 AM
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I feel you. Seeing my asshole friends get nice girls as girlfriends/fiancees/wives is ok.. but then seeing them treat them like shit, or cheat on them, or just generally disrespect them makes me hurt. I'm good with women, mostly, but somehow the smart/funny/cute ones seem to settle for assholes early, so I'm stuck with immature young ones, and the pretty, older women still think I look too young to be taken seriously (I'm 25 and got called 18 last week).
/r/MensRights15/05/12 05:15 AM
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As a Korean, I can confirm this. From (Phonetically) Me Gook (ironically, though it sounds like I'm declaring myself a gook, that's actually the term for Americans), and Han Gook (Korean). As explained to me by my Father, who served with the Air Force and NSA as a linguist in Korea. Where obviously, he fathered me, his Irish Korean son. My father is white with blonde hair and blue eyes. My Dad has since remarried. I have blonde parents and 3 blonde half siblings. I look like this. Growing up, my…
/r/MensRights07/05/12 02:11 AM
1

Wait. Everyone missed the important question. It's illegal to put your arm out the window of a car?
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:25 PM
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Don't worry, I misunderstood, too. Glad you asked, so I didn't have to look like a dick.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 08:54 PM
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I just googled "Jon Lovitz beats up Andy Dick". Thanks for informing me.
/r/MensRights16/04/12 05:45 AM
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You know, at its base, nobody said chivalry has to be about treating women better. I think of it like Don Quixote. Defend the defenseless, be kind to everyone, etc.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 03:08 AM
0

Jesus, this guy reminds me of me when I was a whiny 16 year old. Then I grew the fuck up and realized the burden was on ME to get out there, find a woman, and work to establish a relationship. Women don't owe you shit just because you're nice to them.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 03:05 AM
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She's fucking delusional. You can't win someone over to your side with logic and reason when they refuse to see either.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 02:38 AM
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