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I'm talking about the idea of increasing American births instead of importing more people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:00 PM
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Excellent point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:05 PM
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Because middle class and rich people are too selfish to spend money on kids instead of designer bags and iphones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:03 PM
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Women know this. That's why cold approaches will never be accepted. The highest class women aren't even in public by themselves. Blame the patriarchal slut shaming culture we are in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:57 PM
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USA could never do that or liberals would be in an uproar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:46 PM
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Not "men". Just one in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:53 PM
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I'm assuming you mean a relationship with a less attractive guy. I've already had 2 long term relationships like that, not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:05 PM
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They're attractive to small town women. They also tend to obsess about a woman's body count and prefer a young bride, so they discount many single women. I've given some of them a chance but they tend to be obsessed with porn so it didn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:21 PM
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I'm in my 30s and my brain is less fried by porn because I started having sex before the smart phone. When I was in high school nobody was choking or doing BDSM. And guys wrote me hand written love notes, not text messages with nudes. The younger girls are more warped with this " sex posi, love languages" crap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:33 PM
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Not going to pay someone to tell me to suppress my instincts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:48 PM
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SaMe thing happened to me. Still chasing the high
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:43 PM
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Omg when I was fresh out of college I went on a business trip as training for my new job, and every woman on the trip hooked up or tried to. They were all married. I was shocked that this seemed to be the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:39 PM
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There's also a hair tattoo that guys get. It looks pretty good. Just a tattoo that looks like hair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:26 AM
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I hope it's not Binghamton. He will be surrounded by aggressive hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:11 AM
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Because the majority of women are pick mes or just oblivious. Women thinking for themselves are still a novelty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:04 AM
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If he's bald get a hair transplant. If he has a beard he can shave. If he's fat hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:12 AM
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We take more drastic measures to look good that's why we get laid more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:10 AM
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She does it because she has only fans and wants to gain followers from this message board
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:50 PM
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As a woman, I agree that Facebook was better for dating before it got an algorithm that turned it to shit. I had better relationships that actually lasted beyond a ons around 2016 because of Facebook. It went to shit when the algorithms started to prioritize those who pay for "reach" and "clout"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:13 AM
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But moving to the middle of nowhere means you will not have a big family. You will be leaving most of your family behind. And north Dakota Doesn't have as many jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:08 AM
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Maybe she's trad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:16 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:36 AM
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I've said this for a while. If men want to be women so bad, they can't complain about harassment and discrimination. It's par for the course
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:31 AM
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Age? Location?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:55 AM
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Yeah there are definitely more fat poor and middle class people in the USA. The really attractive fit people are also rich
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:39 PM
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I don't like older men, tattoos, facial hair, dad bods or overly jacked, steroid, protein powder dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:31 PM
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I've been saying the same thing about men. Too bad there aren't that many gigolos around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:17 PM
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So what do you expect? Wages to go up? Housing prices to go down? Because that isn't going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:07 PM
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Yes, in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:19 PM
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I've actually seen attractive women being bullied and disrespected the most. They are frequently a target
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:16 PM
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I allow him to see my skinny naked body. Love languages are hogwash. I'm too old to be conditioned with that psychology junk. That crap just came out within the past few years and I've been around way before that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:03 PM
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If you're at a club or a bougie environment wear a blue button down shirt. Make sure it's clean. Pants and shoes should be no more than 2 years old and the quality matters. You get what you pay for. For a walk in the park or something casual I love shiny basketball shirts and a crisp white t-shirt with white sneakers and socks. I also like blue, grey and black on guys. Just make sure everything matches. I don't like loud sneakers like red, yellow or orange Jordans. It just screams fuck boy. Pink…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:41 AM
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What about women in sales? Hot ones being hired to sell products by using sex appeal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:38 AM
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A hat can hide ugliness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:56 PM
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I have a healthy body for bearing children: I eat a balanced diet, don't take prescriptions, I don't smoke, drink or do drugs, I have no Facebook and a low Snapchat score, no credit card debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:54 PM
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They probably weren't really gay to begin with but the media keeps pushing it as the cool new thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:56 PM
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That's because those women are desperate for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:32 PM
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This is me. I only kissed girls in my early 20s to impress guys plus I was under the influence. Got sober and turned conservative at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:31 PM
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If it lasts at least 30 minutes then it's a legit workout
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:26 PM
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Oh no not Zack effron. He's naturally cute he doesn't need drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:25 PM
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There are plenty of drug addicts with married parents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:19 PM
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And I know plenty of ugly baby daddies. I see more ugly people having children than attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:29 AM
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Where I'm from everyone is coping with drugs, the hot guys as well as fat and ugly ones. It's not women's fault, blame the pharmaceutical companies who only care about money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:28 AM
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I'm not sure what you're getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:17 AM
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Maybe back then but nowadays the opioid epidemic is affecting so many men it really is sad. Even the guys with jobs often battle a drug addiction. Those "lames" that might have become successful want a much younger and usually rich girl for marriage, not a working class woman his own age
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:59 AM
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That system would be much more expensive than $200 a month in food stamps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:56 PM
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Tinder Is giving politicians huge kickbacks. Will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:50 PM
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They do it to me but I don't care. I already have 4 other guys messaging me off of tinder, and that's after blocking 2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:44 PM
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So many guys have used me for rides and money then dumped me for a younger girl the moment they got jobs or cars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:30 PM
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Some communities are filled with no good men and that's the only choice we have. I know plenty of ugly baby daddies who are also criminals
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:26 PM
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What does everyone think of cuffing season? Is it real? Who benefits? Chad? Normal guys? Women? How long does it last? And if you participate, do you buy gifts for Christmas when you know you're going to breakup in the spring?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:13 PM
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That would be ideal but if people only had kids when they could afford those luxuries then the birthrate would plummet even more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:34 PM
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And it's rape to force sex on me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:39 AM
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And it's not homophobia. It's a fact that gay men have higher rates of HIV
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:28 AM
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Men freak out all the time about tranny's posing as women online. Most straight men would not fuck a tranny and I don't blame them. It isn't homophobic to choose who we have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:21 AM
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If somebody is walking up a mountain they're getting the same benefits as lifting and running
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:36 PM
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I heard that they have to claim it on their tax returns so there should be a way to look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:34 PM
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Yes but that's not the point. In some countries women get circumsized because it prevents them from ever having an orgasm. This keeps them from cheating. It's just goes to show that many men could care less if a woman enjoys sex, some think it means she's a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:27 PM
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We don't want to catch aids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:59 PM
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This. People don't understand that when you have kids you don't have time for hobbies unless you neglect them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:17 PM
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Doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:47 AM
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Ask him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:47 AM
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Alot of guys will still fuck us, cum in us and get us pregnant with no regard to our orgasms or enjoyment. Do you really think women need to cum to have kids? Have you ever heard of female circumcision?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:20 AM
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Every couple I know wIth a stay at home wife is dirt poor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:02 AM
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Because using a vibrator doesn't ruin our ability to have sex and procreate. If a man beats his dick til he can no longer get it up or cum without watching cartoons with big tits, he won't be able to have children. I mean his own biological naturally made babies of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:55 AM
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And they keep blaming the decline in birth rates on women. Well it's going to be hard to get pregnant if no guys can get a boner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:52 AM
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Exactly how I feel about men. If I didn't think I would be fucking hot guys on vacation I would stay at motel 6 Everytime. If I didn't have fuck buddies inviting me over I would sell my car
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:15 AM
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They're attracted but not like a 20 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:52 AM
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There would be more of a demand if they were better at their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:17 PM
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I'm all in
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:35 AM
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Can attest to this. I've dated a lot of mooches
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:06 AM
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There is a reputable legal service but the guys are all in their 30s. I would be a regular if they had college age guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:05 AM
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I've had more bad experiences than good with male prostitutes unfortunately. I covered those in the comment above. I only actually paid 2 men for sex. I met them online after searching for male escorts. 1st one was about 25, didn't like his style or voice but he was good at his job. 2nd was late 30s and chubby, not attractive but had a huge dick and was good at eating pussy. I would go back to the younger one but he ghosted me, I'm guessing he found a permanent sugar mama or job. I would only go…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:35 AM
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If you're not overweight you're still considered to be thin
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:54 AM
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And good looking guys would prefer this type of prostitution because the benefits are much greater than $200/hour
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:59 PM
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Because men like to be in control and don't want to feel like they are working for a women. I try to order prostitutes online all of the time but few of them will cater to me and follow my orders. Some examples: one guy would not give me the sensual massage I asked for and insisted on sex even though I said I do not want intercourse. Many others refused to send me pictures of themselves while requesting multiple pictures of me and trying to talk dirty. Another would not set an appointment up in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:20 PM
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I wouldn't want that but I know a lot of dead bedroom marriages so it's pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:40 AM
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People that use TikTok, doesn't it kill your phones battery?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:02 PM
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That's why they're tanning and getting big butts to look exotic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:13 PM
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It's the white girls who are not conventionally attractive that try to look racially ambiguous. It's like the only women who are considered hot are blondes, Spanish girls or alt gothic chicks. Not many guys seem to uphold a Normal white brunette as their fantasy girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:42 PM
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Yes. An average man won't compare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:57 PM
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Does it make you look younger? Have you been getting hit on more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:14 AM
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Same way progressives virtue signal with everything. "Do as I say not as I do"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:40 AM
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Average female loses virginity In high school to a boyfriend that she ends up breaking up with after prom. Spends her college years fucking a few friends with benefits and constantly shit posting on social media about how heart broken she is because she keeps getting ghosted. Forgets about being hurt when she gets that " you up?" Text at 3 am from same fuck boy. Once he gets a hotter girlfriend she gives up and finds another inconsistent fwb (all these guys are chads). Develops alcoholism and sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:37 AM
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You just want us to lower our standards and fuck fat neck beards instead of rising up to meet our current standards. Either get with it or get lost because you need sex alot more than we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:12 AM
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Every time I post advice to men like brush your teeth, shave and stop watching porn they don't want to hear it. Men won't listen to our advice because they think women are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:46 AM
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Don't care what makes a guy Chad. If I have to pick between 2 equally attractive men I'm going for the one that smells the best and treats me best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:40 PM
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The best Chad I've ever dated was naturally hot but he literally showered 3 times a day and brushed his teeth immediately after every meal. He also bought expensive clothes and made sure he looked and smelled good for me and tried to set the mood with pink wine, music, etc. The effort he showed me is what made me fall in love with him and is the reason no man could ever compare
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:36 PM
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I know women can't condition men because many don't respect our opinions. The conditioning needs to start in the home when they are small children and be enforced by society, School, employers and peers , same way it is for women. Men are definitely herd animals and will do anything to fit in. I know for a fact the disgusting beards that became a fad in the past ten years keep being copied Because men don't want their Friends to make fun of them. In my father's generation all of the men shave be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:33 PM
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Maybe in bumblefuck. Go to NYC and the guys actually have to improve themselves because they're competing with wolf of wall street types.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:26 PM
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Lmao Chad doesn't get to become Chad if he doesn't clean himself. Maybe you're only exposed to trailer trash
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:22 PM
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Ive also noticed sexual harassment in crowded places and sadly around schools. Ive been sexually harassed near schools by older creepy men more than actual students. I think perverts purposely hang out near schools to try to pickup the female students
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:55 PM
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I believe you because it's happened to me. Women walking alone on the street are viewed as fair game, especially in lower income, higher crime areas or in places with bars, prostitutes or drug trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:51 PM
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If actual men were conditioned to brush their teeth, workout and shave I would be more interested in dating. I wouldn't fuck a robot but I will buy one to present as my fake husband in public if I need a date to a fancy restaurant or a wedding or if I am going on vacation in a foreign country and need protection. I would make sure it's built like a linebacker and knows how to fight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:47 PM
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I've been thinking this for a while. Women are viewed as more attractive because we put alot of effort into our appearance. That's the same reason we have more sex options and we have 80/20 that so called average guys bitch about. Idk what it is with men today but the majority refuse to shave their facial hair which makes them repulsive to a lot of women. They think that their looks match is a 7 but in reality there are alot more repulsive men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:02 AM
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Yes I would do it and I have done it twice with 2 different male escorts. I would do it more if there were more gigolos around that we're good at their jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:50 AM
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If they give me some kind of guarantee that Chad will keep fucking me all throughout my pregnancy and post partum, then I will continue to have kids. Like every woman with gets to fuck Chad once a week plus give us more welfare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:03 PM
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I haven't found a way to block ads on social media, at the bottom of web pages. They aren't pop-ups that can be blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:36 PM
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I meant smart phone ads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:35 PM
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I have a question for guys that search for porn: do you get ads for erectile disfunction medicine?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:44 PM
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Find a guy who will
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:31 PM
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They don't have to show off. The smartest and most confident guys are already dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:51 PM
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The only way to meet good girls is to start dating in high School. Guys that got passed over in high school just need to admit that their not that good themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:26 AM
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I state clearly in my tinder profile that I only want to mess around. But I'm not going to say "hey I just fucked another guy." I wouldn't want a guy to triangulate me with another woman, matter of fact I cut them off when they pull that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:10 PM
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Don't ask don't tell. Any sort of human interaction is considered a relationship. There are all kinds of relationship other than as Facebook status. Familial relationship, business relationship, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:09 PM
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If it was legalized there wouldn't be "independents". The industry would be run by corporations and make it illegal to do it on your own, just like every other thing in the USA. As a Matter of fact, the only way it would ever be legalized is if corporations were getting a very large piece of the pie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:43 AM
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Not if women were running the company
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:56 AM
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I've been saying this. Tinder algorithm makes it so hard to get matches without paying for a subscription that it might as well be a prostitution ring, just with extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:47 AM
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This is true. If I could just fuck a man whore I'll stop wasting money on tinder and makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:45 AM
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I wouldn't do that. It's rude and tacky to try to make someone jealous and will introduce toxicity into the relationship. Learned the hard way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:36 AM
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Y'all want virgins and girls with little experience but they can't handle a broken heart. A more experienced woman would be more mature about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:20 PM
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I just fucked a guy off tinder yesterday. If that falls through I have 41 matches and over 1000 likes.oh and I've only had my current tinder profile for 2 weeks. I'm just spreading my methods to other women so that the sneaky guys get shut out of the game completely. I know that's exactly what you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:37 PM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:27 PM
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Sober, does not smoke or drink or go out to bars. Doesn't watch porn. Good at foreplay and does alot of it. No social media. Shaves all facial hair. Brushes teeth and showers every day. Makes sure he has fresh breath before kissing me. He cleans up after himself. Puts toilet seat down without leaving piss droplets. Does not leave hair on the sink after shaving. Debt free. Lives within his means. Doesn't sink money into expensive hobbies like putting led lights on a Honda or video games unless he…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:03 PM
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I hate talking and I'm only there for sex. Guys could improve their profile or go jerk off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:42 PM
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I still prefer to social distance. I also live in a blue state but people have been crowding me all thru the pandemic. I would get the creeps having to walk under a stranger's arm to enter a building. Not because of feminism. I'm all for chivalry but there are more considerate ways to hold the door
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:03 AM
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Yeah that's an invasion of space especially with COVID-19
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:47 AM
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If I can't tell how he looks in the first pic I swipe left. I won't even look at the rest of the pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:37 PM
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They use bad angles so it's hard to identify them. They probably have girlfriends or a rotation of girls who think they are exclusive. But yeah I agree with everything you said. Tinder is making it harder to match with good looking guys without paying, even if you are pretty they still show you the ugly ones for free
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:51 PM
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No I've actually looked into it. Go ahead and Google male escorts if you don't believe me. What do you care anyway who I fuck when I'm 50
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:09 AM
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Maybe I won't even want sex after 50. I heard some old ladies get dry after menopause
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:12 PM
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Actually you're wrong. They have legit legal male escort agencies in all major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:11 PM
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Look up thyroid healing broth by medical medium. It's a vegetable soup with sweet potatoes, lots of garlic, onion, herbs and spices. Medical medium is the name of the book but the recipe is available online for free. https://www.medicalmedium.com/blog/thyroid-healing-broth Try to commit to having a cup of the soup everyday for a week. I did this after a painful period and the next time I got it I did not have cramps. They came back after about a year but I made the soup again and they were cured…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:09 PM
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Hispanics hAte anyone that isn't from their home country, including different Hispanic ethnicities. Mostly talking about old school immigrants and their families that aren't assimilated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:04 AM
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Yo I'm not sure if you're username is ironic but I can tell you how I beat my painful periods forever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:00 AM
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I got on top, then he picked me up and put me up against a window, shades open in the morning, then he got on top of me. I was 33, he 18(so he says!) I give him a 10. As for me I'm 99 lbs and in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:49 AM
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Some guys are hot enough to fuck skinny girls but go for fat because they want someone to take care of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:33 AM
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Yes I fucked a guy 15 years younger than me and it was the best sex ever because he did lots of foreplay made me cum from oral then had lots of stamina and made me cum from sex. I came twice he didn't once
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:22 AM
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So there are thousands of single women in good company. Whenever I go on vacation I see alot of other single women. Don't worry, the famous hoes will be made an example of. Take a look at all of the aging divorced celebrities, and Nikki Minaj finally getting married to a RAPIST in her late 30s. The celebrities are more influential than local old ladies anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:35 PM
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My sex life is nobody's business. Children out of wedlock are on the rise, LGBTQ is on the rise, the future generations are getting less and less conservative, not too mention a pro sex work movement, only fans and porn, sexy TikTok s with minors only keep getting more popular. Even if I became a hypocritical "trad" all of a sudden, I would be a needle in a haystack unable to stop all of that other shit. Look at cardi b. A fucking stripper that got famous and married with 2 kids. It isn't right …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:55 PM
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I always see Spanish guys with fat chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:20 PM
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Because they are most likely to have money and power in the USA. Most likely to be ceos, have trust funds and be politicians. Marrying one will secure the woman's future. Don't blame women blame the system
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:17 PM
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Again, it's too late to care. I'm not a virgin and I can't change it. No sense in sitting home crying into my ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:50 PM
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It's a waste of energy to care. We can't change what we've done in the past. Besides, Chad will fuck us regardless of our n count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:47 PM
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Pick mes are bitches that post lasagna recipes on Facebook. She's just some kind of bdsm freak
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:32 AM
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She calls herself a pick me but a real pick me wouldn't call themselves that. Just like hipsters wouldn't call themselves hipsters back in 2015 or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:30 AM
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Stinks, can't get it up, no foreplay, talks too much, is over 15 minutes late or needs me to take him to a million places in my car. I have other things to do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:03 AM
1

Best dates I've been on both involved pizza. Not from a chain. NYC style big slices
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:50 AM
1

I'm shy so being cat called gives me anxiety. But if a guy walked up to me and asked for my number in a normal conversation I wouldn't mind. I just don't want to be touched or hollered at so that everyone is looking at me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:33 AM
1

It was probably a bot or a catfish
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:22 AM
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The men that are available for me to have sex with are not what I fantasize about either. So I have to take what I can get
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:21 AM
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I was just thinking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:16 AM
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If we're coming to a point where we need to pay for tinder to get laid, I don't see the difference. Let's just cut to the chase and skip all of the swiping and chit chat Bull shit. It will save a lot of time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:10 AM
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I'm embarrassed to say that it has worked on me as a teen and college student. I was dumb enough to think this is how you get a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:41 AM
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I draw on experience, use my imagination and intuition, but mostly let the guy take the lead. Maybe I'm not in the right audience, I'm not completely against porn, only if a guy is choosing porn over me or has Ed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:23 AM
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So the idea of this post is that a skinny young woman is ideal even though you have no way of knowing if she's going to stay attractive after childbirth. If she doesn't, it's okay to ditch your family and start a new one with a different woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:00 PM
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If being genetically fit is determined by the ability to age well and stay skinny after babies, all men should chase skinny single mothers because they already proved they can stay in shape
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:23 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:45 AM
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I agree with most of that but women who tailgate and drink are likely to have hookups under their belt. Drinking, college and hookups go hand in hand. If you want a virgin or near virgin avoid all college educated women or try to land a freshman like right now, it's already a month into semester and most of them fucked at least one dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:33 AM
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Eh I kinda get what she's saying. Whenever I drive past bars I see fat unattractive people, even near universities. There might be one hot girl in a group of 4 cock blocking fat chicks. The hottest girls got knocked up at a young age and are home raising kids. They're either in a serious relationship with beta bux or getting passed around by Chad's, sometimes both
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:48 AM
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I feel bad for those women that dress up in jerseys and try to show their support for the team to try and get their husbands attention, meanwhile the guys are just using her as a trophy to show off to his friends, like "look how powerful I am. I got this woman to submit to me and change her interests to match mine"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:03 PM
1

I guess you never met any alt/ artistic type guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:03 AM
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Ugh yes that's so annoying when they expect us to sit through games and cook and clean for all of their friends on the Superbowl while they ignore us. And it's such a major tenant of middle class married life that it's a reason I'm never getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:58 AM
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It makes them stink too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:54 AM
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I agree with this. I've been sober for 4 years and a lot of guys get upset that I won't smoke or drink with them but I don't want to go back down that road just to get some dick. I think there's a stereotype that single mothers are supposed to be party girls and I missed the boat to living the trad life, because trad wives get married as young virgins. I get that I may have "ruined my life" by having a kid but I don't want to ruin it even more by getting back into drugs. There has to be a happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:30 AM
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I hope the kids are that lucky, but some are a product of their environments. I know plenty of catholic school graduates from rich families that overdose on various drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:11 AM
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And have a great chance of his kids ending up on meth in one of those cheap towns 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:47 PM
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That's exactly why I won't have more kids and the birthrates will keep dropping. I don't want to get married and I would be judged for having more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:44 PM
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Guys don't have to tow the line when their good looking. And women that like bad boys don't want to be tied down in a serious relationship themselves. Vacations and smoking Weed are more appealing than mortgage and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:00 PM
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No. My primary loyalty is to my family, because romantic relationships end all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:58 PM
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What website do you use? I want to become a sugar momma
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:28 PM
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Islam also bans LGBTQ. I don't see that happening in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:01 PM
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When a guy doesn't have enough money to afford a house or car on his own, he gets a girlfriend to help with those things. The only way to ensure he is serious is if he's already successful. A lot of young men dump their forever girlfriends that have helped them pay their bills once they get enough money to support a younger/more attractive women. If you are going 50/50 on rent, chances are he's just using you. It's even more obvious if he doesn't take you out on fancy dates, has active social me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:49 AM
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Being poor enough that you can be on welfare and not have to work. Being rich enough that you don't have to work at a hard soul sucking job. Maybe not even a super high paying job, but one that you got through political connections. Example: People that work in the court house and most other government get to dick around all day and take as many vacations as they want. Or a job where you have enough fuck you money that you can get divorced at any time without any worry about paying child support
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:34 AM
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Only fans, porn and alcohol corporations are all making too much money. Don't forget, all of the fun stuff is banned under Islam, not just hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:35 AM
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Society should normalize cougars getting pregnant by horny college guys and even marrying them. That would give me incentive to have more kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:33 AM
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This article full of stereotypes and judgements is exactly why I and many other women refuse to have children. birthrates will continue to plummet as long as being a single mother is shamed. We're not going to marry old men in their 40s when they're finally done sowing their oats
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:30 AM
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I've been saying this. Lower classes and higher classes have more freedoms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:25 AM
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We should be able to take our time but in reality I've noticed a short window from about memorial day until the beginning of October. After that cuffing season starts and everyone is taken
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:56 PM
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Because the less powerful person eventually leaves to seek autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:36 AM
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No because they still need a second income to pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:19 PM
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Every time a couple tries the hippy lifestyle it's the guys idea. Women like modern comforts and places with indoor plumbing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:47 PM
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I like introverted men but if I have to do all of the chasing I'm going to get sick of it and pick a guy that is pursuing me and being dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:45 PM
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I'm not giving THEm sexual variety because I could never love someone enough to do things that make me uncomfortable. If he wants to fuck whores that will do anything that's fine, but I would never call him my man or move him into my home. Keeping a man isn't that important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:37 AM
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Now that is something I could get behind!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:17 AM
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I don't wear it so doesn't apply
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:15 PM
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Guys would rather jerkoff to porn than have sex with a real women. They are so used to fake tits and eyelashes that the real thing doesn't turn them on. They are choosing screens over us so I don't pity them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:50 AM
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Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:45 AM
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All hookups start online. If you shame me through a screen I'll just block you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:28 AM
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Do you think Amish and Mormon communities allow of those things? You would never be able to change laws to match a fake religion. Even if we lost seperation of church and state you would be outnumbered by Hispanics and the LGBTQ communities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:27 AM
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I only understand complete sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:23 AM
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Only fans, porn and alcohol are banned in those countries. It would never fly here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:50 PM
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We'll just fuck Chad on the low
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:49 PM
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I keep seeing this argument however irl I see more and more LGBTQ community than anything else. They're the ones displacing everyone else in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:44 PM
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Cu they ruined their looks by drinking too much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:24 PM
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Lol not Chad, just one of his lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:55 PM
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That's why I only fuck college guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:12 PM
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Yes. Queen Elizabeth, the grandmother of princes William and Harry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:08 AM
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It's a drop in the bucket for them. They have more money than the queen of England
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:55 AM
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These are some of the richest people in the world. Like most of them are probably related to Trump, rocafellers or Roth steins. All of those families are based in NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:19 AM
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Don't forget a single mother could get all kinds of extra money from the government for the kid, so it might be saving money for the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:07 PM
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Because in many places if a woman hasn't had a kid by age 30 it's because nobody wants to fuck her. Childless women in their 30s are usually unattractive or real sjw feminists that men can't stand. In my hometown all of the hottest girls are mothers by their 20s most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:03 PM
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I have had good relationships with men with small dicks. I've given many short guys chances but they ruin it by being insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:55 PM
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I concur
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:07 AM
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To be fair, irl approach was never a common way to meet women for a serious relationship. How many relationships do you know thaT started with a cold approach? Most irl relationships are introduced by mutual friends. Cold approaches only lead to filings most of the time, so maybe me too was needed to protect women from getting their hearts broken by men who lie just to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:06 AM
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Shave your face every day like my father and grandfather's generation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:46 AM
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Exactly what I'm thinking. This sub assumes women don't enjoy having sex and that everything we do is to please a man and try to get one to commit. I've done the haRd to get act when I was younger but then I realized it isn't worth it, even though it works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:32 AM
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When I was in college I used to have really long dry spells in between guys that were losers. My love life really started to level up once I got a job and started traveling in my mid 20s. 2016 was a great yet, as was 2020. Idc what men say, having money really does make a difference for women s success in dating. Also disproves the "post wall" myth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:43 AM
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All of 2015 was a wash. Summer of 2018 was pretty bad too. This summer I hooked up with a hot guy on the 4th of July, then it was dead until the end of August. Then boom I hooked up with 3 hot guys in the past 2 weeks. Cuffing season maybe? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:38 AM
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I think so too. I never met any of those guys irl. When I do add their social media it's all pics of them plugging booze, juul pods, Spotify and apple products
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:51 AM
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It's the same way in the USA. The lowest child support payment allowed is $100/month, it's always based on the man's income. Child support payments are pennies for children conceived out of wedlock. The women that are really getting paydays are the ones who had the kids within a marriage then get a great divorce lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:16 PM
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I'm not even attracted to men once they hit 30, let alone 40. I ghosted my ex when he started to look old
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:04 PM
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Not interested in settling. A broke college kid turns 18 and needs money every day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:44 PM
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Social class is something people are born into. For many lower class women, it is wise to stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:25 AM
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Most couples I know are in debt and the wife is shouldering the burden. More and more men refuse to work. Also there are so many male alcoholics and drug addicts. Men are seen as the prize so they aren't forced to be responsible the way that women are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:03 AM
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He could use me all he wants but it's not going to affect my paycheck. When he ghosts I could always replace him, especially if I'm constantly making money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:01 AM
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They refuse to give up porn so let them keep jerking off. They prefer pornstars to average women so they should be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:59 AM
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The unfair truth is that most married women don't have Time or money to keep their appearance top notch. If they go to the gym every day they will be called selfish for leaving the children with someone else. And they're mostly living on pizza and hamburgers because mortgage payments take priority over a healthy diet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:48 AM
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And don't forget money. Relationships are definitely expensive, even for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:44 AM
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All of the above problems affect men and women, so most men are liabilities. Why should I worry about another person's financial troubles when I have my own to deal with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:41 AM
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I don't understand why guys bitch about 80 percent of men being celebate when they prefer jerking off to sex anyway. If you can't get a girlfriend you should be happy there's nobody to nag you about watching porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:16 AM
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Most men need a woman's income to stay out of poverty so they will have to meet our standards of they ever want to own a house
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:13 AM
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Porn use and sex toys are both gross to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:14 AM
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I've noticed so many guys will do something rude right off the bat, like flaking on a date just to see how I will react. It's a test to see if they can treat me like shit. If I don't tolerate it I "failed" the test and they ghost. They don't want a woman they respect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:13 AM
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I was just thinking about this. A lot of manipulative Guys won't go any further with me because I know how to grey rock the fuck out of them. When I was younger I used to fall for every neg they pulled on me. Now I know all of the old tricks and they hate it. They want somebody that they can push around and dangle a carrot in front of, and it doesn't work with an experienced woman. I don't have tattoos but I've been in these streets and I can smell bs from a mile away
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:49 AM
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As a woman I also prefer guys with tattoos. The best guys I've dated did not have them. All of the manipulative ones that played mind games did. Also I was unfortunate enough to get mixed up with drug addicts and guess what feature they had in common
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:45 AM
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Good luck in America. Hispanics are the majority and most are blatantly racist against Islam
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:01 AM
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Again all of that is irrelevant. You're trying to pigeon hole me but I don't fit any of the "demographics" you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:43 AM
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All of that irrelevant. I'm not committed to anyone and I don't want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:18 AM
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Younger than me. Like by alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:24 AM
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I keep seeing over and over " good luck finding a porn free man" but it should be the other way around. "Good luck finding a good woman with that porn addiction"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:29 AM
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Most of the men that can't get women can't get good jobs either. All of the guys I know that actually build infrastructure are married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:27 AM
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No I definitely prefer younger guys and that's all I date now. I dated the old guy because he agressively pursued me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:42 PM
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My ex smelled bad because he had diabetes which is probably age related. He was 20 years older than me. The bad smell was probably a sign not to breed with him. I know men don't want to hear this, but Younger men really are more fertile
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:23 PM
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If a bad smell indicates poor genetics it's even more of a reason to avoid those men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:08 PM
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How is it self destructive. My health is great without having one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 12:42 PM
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I hate them whores too. I agree that the choking thing is also a recent phenomenon. I've been around, started having sex over 15 years ago and nobody was choking me back then. Now almost everyone does it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:53 AM
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If it doesn't affect me IDC what he does. If he can't get a boner with me he won't see me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:48 AM
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Yeah I don't really care what the reason is for not getting a boner but I have suspected it could be porn use in some cases. I use tinder alot and many guys on there ask me for weird shit like foot fetish stuff and anal, things I suspect they have seen in porn. It could be that porn is affecting many young guys brains and perceptions of women. It can be problematic in many ways besides Ed. Some guys can't cum at all which can also be a sign of too much jerking off, so I've heard. That doesn't bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:42 AM
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If it's something I can't tell without a polygraph, it's none of my concern. But if he can't get a boner with me he won't get a call back, because that's his only role in my life to begin with. This short guy I fucked a few times decided to try to neg me by watching porn in front of me last time we hung out, that was over a month ago and he can't figure out why I won't see him anymore and reply days later
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:23 AM
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I was just thinking something like this. An average man thinks he deserves an average woman yet he will compare her to pornstars and jerkoff to porn instead of fucking her. There's absolutely nothing beneficial about that relationship for the woman so it makes more sense to chase Chad or just be a cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:18 AM
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I'm not looking for a relationship so any guy I'm seeing is free to watch porn in his own time. Nobody is ever going to be watching porn under my roof. If I can't find a porn free man I'm never buying a home, so it's the real estate market that will suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:15 AM
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Small towns are always better for men as far as dating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:37 AM
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It just proves my point that Chad does well in college
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:20 PM
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Below the guys haha. Im in my 30s and I swipe on rich college guys, I'm not expecting a relationship tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:12 PM
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Idk about that. I swipe right on a lot of college guys but seldom have a chance with them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:40 PM
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College is better for women but worse for men. In highschool monogamy is more enforced because word travels fast if one guy is fucking every girl. Traditions like prom ensure almost everyone has a date. Like others have said, college students are more anonymous and hookup culture is more prevalent which is great for women and chads
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:17 PM
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And that's every guy on tinder it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 12:13 PM
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Single mother here. I only want casual sex, not to be exclusive and not to have a step daddy. But the guys on tinder overwhelmingly want to move in with me ASAP. They think I'm going to be their sugar mama and try to say how much they love kids. Like I would really bring a stranger around my kid. They can't wrap their head around "casual" and understand that casual means you can't come to my fucking house
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:13 PM
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What's BPD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:56 PM
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I'm a post wall single mom. I want to fuck Chad or at least a guy with a big dick which is hard to get for free, when I want it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:02 PM
1

As a woman who pays for sex I feel appreciation for Male sex workers. If one pisses me off I just block his number.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:35 PM
1

They keep improving the formulas. New brands keep coming out and poor brands get discontinued
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:16 PM
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We still don't have equality that's why we're unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:26 PM
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I've seen lots of advances in clothing, hair and makeup in the past 20 years. The keep updating jeans and other clothing to fit women's bodies better and make us all have a perfect ass Even if we don't have one naturally. Makeup and skincare has also gotten much better. We have more choices in makeup and they keep improving the formulas. Also, contouring wasn't a big thing until recently but it can completely change a girl's facial features
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:16 AM
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No that's just for basic shower, shaving, brushing hair and applying lotions. It takes me an hour to get ready in the morning and an hour in the evening to clean and groom myself. Then I dedicate about an hour or 2 a week to shopping for various soaps, shampoos and beauty products including driving to and from drug stores/Ulta
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:57 PM
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29 hours a week if you include excerise. But I excerise more for my health because I'm naturally thin. I don't need to workout to maintain my figure, it's more for stress relief. So without excerise I would spend 22 hours a week on average. If I have a hot date add an extra hour for hair and makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:26 PM
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Yeah definitely fucked a sex god but only like one time in my entire life. Most guys with big dicks cheat and have entitled attitudes that I'm not putting up with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:26 PM
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Compare 2 women. Could be comparing to an ex, coworker or another lover in an open relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:20 AM
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I don't really understand the question but biggest dick doesn't always mean best sex. Sex with a big dig can go wrong if he doesn't last long enough to get me off, isn't good at foreplay, isn't very attractive or has a bad attitude/negs me/flakes on plans/triangulates me with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:16 PM
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Idk maybe but every guy I meet expects to move in with me within a month. Most of the guys I meet are just placeholders and I wouldn't let a placeholder live with me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:14 PM
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I don't text alot with guys I've never met. Even if we have met, we can save the small talk for in person. Texting is just a waste of energy especially if I can't tell how serious the guy is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:53 PM
1

I like that trope but unfortunately in the real world "money talks". "Only in the movies" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:05 PM
4

Even the guys that divorce their post wall wives end up remarrying women with money. The second wives are usually hotter but still in the same age group. Only people I've met with Much younger stay at home wives are from the Mormon states out west. The East coast is too expensive to have a single income household
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:46 PM
2

Small Town mid Atlantic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:42 PM
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Where I live the rich girls marry the hottest guys and the broke ones get pumped and dumped. But they are rich from having daddy's money, not being independent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:15 PM
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He also worked for his father in law at a law firm. Very few men would give that up for spring break pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:13 PM
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What about the movie dirty grandpa where Zack effron leaves his rich blonde lawyer wife for a broke college student he met on spring break
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:21 AM
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As a woman I don't seek your validation or approval. Who cares if you're impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:25 PM
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They want women who are not actively looking for men. Women are not supposed to hunt online for men because "there's something wrong with them." They want to approach women in public because those women are not in hunting mode and men love the chase supposedly. It makes them feel powerful to do the opposite of what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:28 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:14 PM
2

But how do I know which one specifically? Is it blocked or unfriended? Can I tell which one they did?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:40 PM
2

They mark you as low class
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:17 PM
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Thank you for speaking out against tattoos. So many scumbags on old try to tell me I should get tattoos and I get a lot of backlash when I speak out against them for the reasons you stated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:17 PM
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How do I know if I was blocked or unfriended on Snapchat? It relates to a relationship of course. Is it worse to get blocked or unfriended?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:14 PM
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I tried to go that route by offering to fuck an actor for only fans. They told me I need more Instagram followers before they would even consider it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:10 AM
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You only see the loud drunk party girls at college. Plenty are shy or artsy types but you don't notice them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:36 PM
1

Na it's too much work for mediocre results. I'm fine with a casual hookup from time to time. But I'm happy for you that you found love
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:30 PM
2

I agree with you on that but both of my high school boyfriends are criminals so I'm better off staying single
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:10 PM
1

That's pretty funny that he's only 5' 3. He's the same height as me. Are there a lot of short guys where you live? Cuz they're pretty rare here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:18 PM
1

You can't really choose from dozens of options unless you're willing to be abused or consider sexting as one of those options. Many guys on old only want to send nudes back and forth while jerking off and never even meet up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:51 PM
1

For me it really doesn't take a lot of work. I get a lot of matches on tinder but most of them degrade me or ghost me so we never meet. I end up sleeping with the ones that text me the most and are not rude. Just be nice and text the girl alot if u want sex. So every guy can't get a 10/10 virgin 18 year old. I can't get chad to wife me either but I'm not killing myself or other people over it, I just try to appreciate the sex I do get from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:46 PM
1

I got 2/5 down to earth. 34 percent of men meet my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:04 AM
1

How is an 18 year old going to make 6 figures. At 18 they don't even have a degree yet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:56 AM
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When I was fresh out of college I used to get bitched at for petty things by my boss like having creases in my forms. I still do things like that but I don't get bitched at for it now. My company is 90 percent female so I don't think it has to do with impressing men, just a power trip or hazing. Now when I was a teenager I only got in trouble by female teachers for dress code. That definitely reeked of jealousy/ slut shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:14 PM
1

I hate loud noise and crowds so it wouldn't be enjoyable for me. Would much rather a walk in the woods or Netflix and chill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:27 PM
1

Not willing to move to NYC or any other big city. Not going to move very far at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:21 PM
0

I'm with you on the hair color and straitening. I see girls with perfect hair all the time and their boyfriend's are ugly so not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:20 PM
4

Not willing to straighten or style my hair and wear full makeup and fake lashes every day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:18 PM
3

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:17 PM
5

Same here! Agree 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:17 PM
2

Not willing to drink, smoke or do drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:16 PM
4

Not willing to do anal, have a threesome, text nonstop or move a guy in with me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:16 PM
2

You're ignorant to the fact that many street prostitutes have STDs and get murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:40 AM
3

Even for a 10/10 Chad that I'm in love with i wouldn'ta do it, not because of jealousy or being too uptight, but I simply hate people in general. Why would I want to be around an extra human? I don't Care who he fucks in his own time. Guys that I loved have given the ultimatums of anal, threesome or break up and guess what I did? I hired male escorts to do exactly what I want without trying to push boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:42 PM
1

How great is the design of your phone listening to you? Also, consider how china sent actual soldiers into Chinese Muslims homes to live with them and enforce compliance. If they had robots to do it they would be cheaply monitoring and "mentoring' all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 07:43 PM
1

There's already a lot of unmarried older women, but instead of bitching they are busy traveling the world and eating at expensive restaurants while the women that married their high school sweethearts are struggling with obesity and living on hamburger helper
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:58 PM
2

We should start a fund where for a dollar a day you can help an Icel get laid. Kinda like that commercial that donates to starving kids in Africa. Like hey don't bitch at me for fucking Chad, I donated to the Icel fund
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:54 PM
15

I know a family where the grandparents are actually better looking and cooler than the parents in their early 30s. The grandparents even look younger than their son! They're both in great shape and own a nice house in the mountains and have a boat, go on beach vacations regularly. Their son and his wife are/ both obese and the son is a neck beard gamer that actually wears t-shirts with video games on them. Wtf happened to my generation? Why don't men shave anymore? Idk maybe our generation got d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:44 AM
1

There's a lot of broke men that use single mothers for money and a place to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:36 PM
0

My list is the same as yours. The benefits to dating me: 1. I only want sex. 2. We don't have to go on dates. 3. You can fuck whoever you want on your own time. 4. I'm 99 pounds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:11 PM
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These men are also trying to scare women away from frat parties so that they have less avenues for meeting men and forcing them to hopefully settle. It isn't working to the extent they're hoping because more and more women are just staying single if they don't have good options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:15 AM
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Men shit on frat parties because they would never get into them. They are the type of men that are jealous of Chad and want to see women "get what they deserve" for being in the company of young rich Chad's instead of fucking a car mechanic in his 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:01 AM
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Because they want to mooch off of the single mother for money and a place to live, not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:50 AM
1

3 and I'm a woman I my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:01 PM
7

Same thing I do now: pay escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:48 PM
1

I never had great luck with men but was always harassed and bullied in public. The amount of harassment I get has slowed down now that I have a little cockblock with me. It's easier to move through the world and go about my daily life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:40 PM
1

Still getting used for sex but I was before I got pregnant anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:23 PM
1

What is abnormal? An alcoholic hanging out in a bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:24 AM
1

I don't know if I'm better off but my life feels somehow more fulfilled. I've never felt as close to anyone as I do my child. She gives my life meaning beyond working, going on vacation and meeting guys on tinder. Some less important benefits I've gotten from getting pregnant include a bigger rack but that's definitely not a reason I got pregnant, just a bonus. Also I get treated much better now that I have a baby. People are nicer to me I guess because mothers have more value than single and ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:22 AM
1

No, I'm 99 pounds but in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:18 AM
1

I don't care about effort in career, I care about effort towards me. And if a guy is bald he should get a toupee or hair transplant. Women are shamed for going grey and getting wrinkles so men should be held to the same standards. Actually IDGAF bald guys still aren't fucking me regardless of society's rules
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:17 AM
2

Lmao I've been on it for more than 5 years and I fucked about 4 satisfactory guys from it, 2 of which only performed well the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:40 PM
1

Someone that showers, stays in shape, doesn't have facial hair but has a full head of hair, and does foreplay correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:34 PM
8

This is why I'm boycotting tinder and switching to escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:30 PM
3

Lmao I wish it was that easy to "just fuck Chad" on a whim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:20 PM
3

True. Those with the best genes have a greater chance of passing them on. Natural selection always plays out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:14 PM
4

Yes. These men are blind to the fact that getting married requires money and a poor woman has a slim chance unless she is willing to marry a divorced older man who probably doesn't want kids anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:13 PM
2

I am in a similar situation and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:11 PM
1

I'm the government pittance type. I got pregnant by a good looking guy and I guess I was the one that ended the relationship because he choked me so hard I couldn't breathe. But my baby is worth it. My pregnancy was planned because I was 30 and wanted a kid and I knew that getting married would be too expensive and too much work. Edit: I only get free healthcare, no government pittance otherwise. I work for my money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:09 PM
1

Hot alpha man's child no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:05 PM
6

Could go either way. But there are too many possible drawbacks for me to agree to a date at a bar: 1. He's a promoter for the bar and just trying to recruit more customers. 2. He's trying to pimp you out to one of his friends that can't get laid without help. 3. He has a drinking problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:03 PM
1

A Chad I fw has a cousin that tries to get me to simp for her by giving her money and rides because she is a broke bitch with no job. I've done it in the past but it ate up all of my time and money and I only got to fuck Chad once a month or less, so not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:07 AM
1

I always wondered how guys become tinder influencers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:50 PM
2

The best Chad's I Know have always been sweet and romantic even for a casual thing. They kiss and hug me when saying goodbye and call me baby. Sure I will get ghosted but they believe in ending it on a high note, probably because they are somehow on tinders payroll
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:30 AM
3

I wish it was nothing more than a hookup app, yet guys keep bullying me to get an IPhone on that app. I don't see why I should have to spend a g on a phone just to get pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:14 AM
5

I'm no I wouldn't waste all of that time and effort, and I don't even care about going on dates. But I would pay him for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:44 PM
2

We shouldn't have to make our voices sound like a man's in order to be heard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:03 AM
3

When my cousin got married her bridesmaid made a speech and the ugly ass dj started playing music while she was trying to talk. At that point I realized marriage is a patriarchal concept and it made me say fuck the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:35 AM
0

We shouldn't have to act like men to be respected. Being a woman with feminine qualities shouldn't make us inferior. We shouldn't have to Work twice as hard as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:33 AM
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I don't want to catch aids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:39 PM
1

We don't need another website telling us how to look good. We have had countless magazines, talk shows , social media and websites that already do that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:34 PM
0

If he fucked models and escorts it would ruin his reputation and set a bad example which is bad for business. Same for bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:29 PM
3

You don't need strategy if you're willing to marry a man old enough to be your father or your high school sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:26 PM
1

If he doesn't pass my vetting but still turns me on I'll keep him as a FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:19 PM
6

I was banned for saying I wouldn't leave my shit at a guys house on my first time staying there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:15 PM
1

Good thing I Know how to forage and all the places to forage from. The girly girl types and most men all think I'm nuts for going out and getting dirty to find food in the woods but I know I'm onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:32 PM
5

And most of those messages come from guys who just want me to send nudes, never resulting in a date
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:29 PM
4

It's not your job to point that out in public when she's just minding her business
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 01:06 PM
4

I don't think men bother other men they don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:53 PM
2

They're making sure it spreads otherwise we would all immigrate to places with a better quality of life. They want to make sure there's no where to run to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:13 PM
2

Because hot girls don't want to be pumped and dumped, nor do all average girls. It's the ones with Lower self esteem that put up with it. Also really hot girls tend to have less money to spend on Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:58 PM
5

I totally support being in a relationship and living separately. I wish people didn't date with the goal of cohabitation. I could be faithful to one guy if he was attractive and nice enough but I don't want to give up my personal space
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:55 PM
1

Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:52 PM
2

There's more to life than sex. A normal working person only has time for sex once a day for about an hour. The rest of the time is consumed by work and responsibilities. Being well-rounded makes one a valuable partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:44 AM
2

Chad prefers parties to tinder because there are lots of girls there to fight over him, plus drugs and alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:07 AM
1

Some women with lessl options might date you but your definitely limiting your chances if you don't do something about it. I would even date a guy with a toupee before dating a bald guy. Or you can look into hair transplant surgery, I heard it's around $1200
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:28 PM
1

I won't even let a man in my home until we've been exclusive for months, let alone eat my food
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:30 PM
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They're a sign of being locked into the lower classes for life, because elites definitely still shun tattoos. Before anyone argues with me I'm talking about elites as in the owning class, not some hot shot with Bitcoin and a BMW
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:06 AM
1

Here's why I might be considered boring. I work and take care of a kid. I don't have much energy left to make small talk, prove myself or try to impress you, especially when you're going to ghost me. I only want a man to have sex with, don't worry about my hobbies because you won't be joining me for anything other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:02 AM
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Africa isn't safe because of violence against women, political unrest, lack of infrastructure and healthcare. If I was going that route I would do the Caribbean because it's a much shorter flight from the USA. My mom's coworker almost died on Africa because she got lost in a desert overnight and almost froze to death. I like nature but I'm not into extreme hiking and camping
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:04 PM
9

We shouldn't be expected to cook if we worked a All day. I cook on my days off or when working from home but if I have a long commute and work late I'm eating on the road
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:29 PM
1

You haven't seen male prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:45 AM
1

I wouldn't play ball. If prostitution was legal I would also gmow and visit male prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:27 AM
1

I'm all for legalized prostitution but there's one problem: areas with a lot of prostitutes are more unsafe for regular women because all females are viewed as "fair game" and the John's think they have the right to fuck any woman as long as they're paying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:19 AM
5

I'm glad this sub actually pulls the rug out from under promoters instead of playing dumb like the whole rest of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:53 AM
2

Northeast USA, working class area
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:57 PM
1

Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:16 PM
0

Mothers were never deified. I think the problem you speak of is due to middle class kids from 2 parent households getting participation trophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:16 PM
1

And there is also tons of elder abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:49 PM
4

Even minimum wage jobs have to pay taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:57 PM
7

If they don't pay the taxes they will be Put in jail. It's already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:52 PM
5

So that means those other cultures will be the ones taking care of you when you're in a nursing home. And I'm sure they won't resent American men at all. I'm sure an immigrant nurse wouldn't leave you laying in your own urine for 12 hours like they did to my neighbor. Nahhhh that was only a one time thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:51 PM
2

I see lots of hot guys dating fatties, assuming they are more likely to pay his rent, do nasty shit in bed and put up with cheating, porn and video games
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:08 PM
12

If the population decline is such a problem, mother's should be praised as goddesses, even single mothers. At least we're having kids. We're still not going to marry a fat guy but we are contributing to future generations. Want to increase the population? Normalize being single mothers. We're not going to breed with ugly men any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:16 PM
9

So men need to improve themselves if they want us to have babies. Survival of the fittest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:09 PM
5

I always see really hot single women because they put up with less bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:07 PM
1

In my area a pick me is a fat chick with a tongue ring that is constantly showing it on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:27 AM
3

If men want us to have more kids they have to be willing to date single mothers. I've had so many guys block me when they hear I have a kid that I refuse to have another unless I'm married. And no I won't settle for the average guy. So yeah, being a mother needs more praise and less shame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:52 AM
1

Hot, athletic, tall, young
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:45 PM
1

I keep getting ads from Uber that they need more drivers. I have yet to get picked up in a car without a driver, nor has my GrubHub been delivered by a drone. How can these driverless cars take away jobs if they're still illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:07 PM
1

Yeah I was sweet talked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:05 PM
1

Actually I have savings, a 401k and a great relationship with my father who just got an inheritance and has money spread across various accounts, and I'm his only heir. Maybe some 20 year old bimbos will be sucking dick on the street for $20, but not me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:04 PM
7

So all of the sexless men should just masturbate as well instead of shooting up schools. People have been having casual sex for a long time, I don't see why it's so bad if I do it too. I don't want a relationship but sometimes I want some dick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:33 AM
1

No I didn't go to the job fair. I just drove by it and saw a huge sign advertising a job fair with free food
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:17 AM
2

Female
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:02 AM
1

It's not here where I live and it's not widespread. There is a huge demand for driving jobs that is only growing with the internet. It is much cheaper for Uber, GrubHub, door dash, Amazon, etc to pay drivers to deliver their products than it is to buy a self driving car. Those cars aren't even legal in my state. They tested one and it crashed so they got pulled
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:01 AM
2

A toxic fwb or relationship is way worse for mental health that a ons. Having a good orgasm without the head games and negging makes me feel refreshed and ready to focus on work and other responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:35 AM
1

I thought it was a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:32 AM
2

It says drivers are in demand and driving is a part of my job. They can't replace that with automation until those self driving cars are safe and affordable for all. I'll be retired or dead by the time that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:26 AM
2

Haha you wish. The work force is begging us to fill open positions since the pandemic ended. My job is giving weekly bonuses just for doing our jobs. I saw a job fair offering free food the other day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:22 AM
2

Immigration from latin America, India and middle east. It will replace workers as they die off so that corporations can continue to exploit someone which is the only thing that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:00 AM
2

Chas will become pimps like they already are in a covert way but it might be more out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:52 PM
2

USA will keep getting more immigrants to replace plummetting population.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:49 PM
5

What made them high quality? Looks and money? Would they make good mother's?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:14 PM
2

I could tell you don't have any kids to take care of and never had to babysit for an infant otherwise you wouldn't be living in fantasy land
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:27 AM
1

I've always said the same thing. I want to be able to enjoy casinos but it's too entrenched in prostitution culture to be safe for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:12 AM
1

I could tell you never changed a diaper in a park bathroom or you wouldn't say " just go to the park everyday." Nor have you ever had to bundle a baby up in a snowsuit, boots and hat and get them into a car seat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:09 AM
1

They go by weight classes so a 130 pound guy doesn't suffocate under a 200 lb man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:29 AM
0

We still have a huge military that is very powerful. Military spending is a huge chunk of overall spending and creates many jobs. The military is definitely a huge patriarchy as military wives often can't work because the husbands are constantly being moved around and they are definitely heads if household. Almost every female soldier also gets raped with no consequences to the soldiers raping them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:18 PM
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Women might have more choices in dating but most politicians are male, the highest earners are male, marital rape is not illegal in many cultures, maternal leave is still unpaid, rapists get aquitted, we are definitely still a patriarchy and will be for many years to come. Just because some broke nobodies can't get laid doesn't mean that rich men do not run society
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:43 AM
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Also men value sports and those are the best athletes. You don't see women blowing their paychecks on sports betting. And most women lament being ignored all day on Sundays when the game is on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:38 AM
-1

Only the lower classes are matriarchies. Short fat guys are still marrying younger hotter women in the middle and upper classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:36 AM
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Men created culture by valuing wars and fighting. The tallest men are the best fighters and all patriarchies are industrial military societies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:35 AM
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And men are the ones that create culture and mold society, so they can thank themselves for those standards. They always brag about how patriarchies are the most successful societies but don't like all of the standards that go along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:18 AM
-2

No this is wrong. When I was younger I had to take what I can get because I didn't have enough money to leave my small town. I was also too insecure to think y'all rich guys would want to fuck me but as I got older and got some money and some nerve I started bagging tall upper class men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:14 AM
2

East Coast USA
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:57 PM
1

I'm in my 30s and I use tinder but I've always had problems even in my 20s. I was always thin but got the most attention from men at least ten years older than me which I'm not interested in. And I only started using tinder recently
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:58 PM
2

Are those not your kids too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:55 PM
2

Men can be pretty materialistic when it comes to dating. I've had guys bitch about me staying in an apartment and not picking them up in a brand new sports car. Women are expected to have nice things and we get judged for being minimalists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:12 PM
2

Where I'm from the majority of the middle class is fat. The only skinny ones are also rich and dating trust fund bros or crack ho types
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:03 AM
3

Won't happen because of political correctness. Would be lawsuit city, discrimination, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:59 AM
2

What really ends up happening is skinny girls have to compete with fat chicks that will do anything for at guy: gross shit in bed, give him rides, money and a place to stay, come over after midnight, fight other girls for him. Fat people are the reason the bar is in hell. They ruin it for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:55 AM
1

Definitely easier to date in big cities for me as a woman. But yes there is more competition and little incentive to settle down, more of a hookup culture. Also the only fancy dinners I've been taken to were in big cities, so I think men are expected to pony up the dough alot more than in a small town
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:51 PM
1

I'm thin and I still have a hard time with dating, yett i much older fat men get all pissy that I won't give them a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:45 PM
2

Offer him drugs and money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:20 AM
1

Having a child will limit your time outside
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:34 PM
1

Cuz the highschool kids aren't jaded and haven't learned to manipulate, they're usually in better shape and have all of their hair on their head, but none on their face. They get hard instantly and like making out and foreplay and think it's exciting to hit all of the "bases" like first base, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:23 AM
0

Because we are too busy for chit chat and we would rather do that with friends and family. The only thing a guy has to offer to me is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:16 AM
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What would you do if big brother programs the robot to surprise beat your ass. Or throw out food they don't want you eating. Touch your thermostat. Throw out your drugs and alcohol. You might just be buying a live-in drill Sargeant that you can't get rid of
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:09 AM
0

There are moments of happiness but they are fleeting. Being happy all of the time would make you bored. You need the rain to appreciate sunshine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:33 AM
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I rented houses on vrbo for $1000 a night just to fuck guys in and I still didn't cum so I'm done spending all of that money. I've had better sex in cars and cheap hotels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:28 AM
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Yes because my family is shallow and they would constantly shame me for dating someone of low status. Criminal record? Forget it. And no I'm not going to elope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:22 PM
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Yeah definitely and it crushed me. Just looking at his Facebook made it obvious and it went on for five years! I did meet his family and friends but they all knew about it. He even tried to get me pregnant multiple times while another girl was already pregnant by him. Sad to say this was my longest relationship, I think because I never pushed for it to be exclusive it prolonged it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:06 PM
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A lot of broke hobo sexuals are rushing to marry anyone with a job. My fat friend married a tall handsome guy that refused to work or do housework yet kept demanding threesomes so they ended up divorcing. He remarried an even fatter woman with 2 kids within a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:50 AM
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I wasn't talking about "gamers" as a subculture, but the average guy that watches football games and also plays video games. Every guy I know has some kind of gaming system, it's probably even more common than watching sports. But I definitely see tons of guys posting about the new playstation every Christmas and also posting about football on Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:28 AM
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I totally feel this way. I've dated men from different, classes, cultures and lifestyles and I get along best with those from similar backgrounds because we have similar values and lifestyles. Poorer men seem rude and disrespectful because they haven't been raised the same way while richer ones can be condescending and view me as a prostitute or a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:55 AM
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Women- chubby chicks with leggings and ear buds. Free time consists of drinking coffee, mixed drinks, going shopping and baby showers Men: chubby neck beard, beer belly, drinking problem, free time revolves around hot wings, beer, jerking off, video games and football, unkempt and a little stinky. Would not fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:28 AM
1

The dog might be more effective at warding off robberies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:52 AM
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Now that women are working they are never going to let us stop. If we leave the workforce the government will lose half of it's taxpayers, they would have to slash housing prices. Corporations and governments need to keep feminism in place and they have the ultimate say, not the average man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:23 AM
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I would block you and report you to whatever app you said that on. Guys that neg don't get any pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:14 AM
2

Bahaha at the lesbians sucking dick comment. I hate them bitches, thinking their slick because nobody will know they're hoes if they pretend to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:09 AM
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Idk why but I laughed when you said got some dogs, as if that's a sign of defeat. I've noticed a lot of single women walking dogs, I think they get them to ward off creeps because they don't know if the dog will attack and single women are an easier target for crime, or at least so we've been told
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:07 AM
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All men age 50 to 70. I don't know why but they are always the most rude and pushy guys in public. And not in a sexual way. Like yesterday I was eating out and the janitor came over and start spraying Windex on my table and cleaning it! I was right there. I think men that age are still in a old school less equal mindset and resent women's rights. Men below 50 usually have too much stuff going on to bully strangers, and men over 70 are either too weak or dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:44 AM
1

Mary Poppins and her boyfriend, skipping through fields of flowers in the countryside. Bonus if we have sex in the field
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:35 AM
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I've had a Chad fwb for a while that keeps trying to pass me around to his less attractive friends to do them a favor. And it's worked sometimes. I still always go back to Chad though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:18 PM
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I don't have a problem with it as long as he isn't flakey and respects my time. I don't tolerate plans being cancelled. And he can't expect loyalty from me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:17 AM
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I hope it becomes more common. I'm burnt out on tinder and dating. I wish there were more male escorts to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:37 AM
2

This is me. I'm anti social and I'd rather pay a younger man than go out to a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:24 AM
1

My cousin married and Asian woman but she's fat and middle aged so I'm guessing she was in a rush to have a kid. This was after a failed marriage to a Russian mail order bride
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:51 PM
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I don't treat these foul men like my boyfriend, because they are not. The point is that I am EXPECTED to, even if there is no commitment and I'm not being taken out on real dates. The bar is low because so many other woman are willing to bend over backwards for men they are casually seeing, now they think that were all going to jump through hoops for their dick. Example: last night this guy I sometimes fuck when I'm desperate texted me asking for $200. His dick smells like fish, he's on meth and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:12 PM
2

Overweight is overweight. Not a matter of what's attractive, it's unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:24 PM
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All over northeast USA. Granted I have no idea if they have sex, I just see them out together
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:23 PM
1

I don't like tattoos. Every married woman I know has to work at a full time job to help pay bills even though the husband works too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:22 PM
2

Latin America has 75% of children born out of wedlock, even more than USA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:54 AM
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My problem with the bar is that I am expected to be exclusive with a fuck Buddy and do girlfriend things with him like watch him play boring video games and give him rides and money all the while I'm not getting taken out to dinner or even a picnic in the park, let alone commitment. Also I'm sick of seeing overweight neck beards and drug addicts with Instagram models. The rise of Instagram made it the standard that women are supposed to have full makeup, fake eyelashes and tattooed brows at all …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:56 AM
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Evolution also causes us to select Chad because of our biology, so there must be a good reason for that. It works both ways. And evolution also caused some men to have bigger dicks bc they are more likely to get a woman pregnant, but you don't want to hear about that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:28 PM
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The funniest thing was that when we went to bars she told me to send her all the guys that hit on me. When they would approach me I told them I have a bf but that girl is dtf. They were just like "okay" then at the end of the night when they were about to leave together my actual bf that drove us there cockblocked the whole thing by refusing to give the drunk guys a ride. It just goes to show that guys will fuck anything. And it was karma on my friend for cockblocking me all those times
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:09 AM
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No not really but I did dump that friend and my life is a lot better without people like that in it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:27 PM
2

I could orgasm from p in v even with a smaller dick. But I need some foreplay first regardless of the dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:22 PM
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I used to have a fat friend that would cockblock me on purpose as a way to have guys use sex to get her out of the way. If there was one guy that wanted to fuck me she would demand a threesome. She also demanded that I give her the guys I got when we went out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:35 PM
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Depopulation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:14 AM
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We're just paying strippers and male escorts when Chad is unavailable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:12 AM
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Don't let your hair get some long that it's hanging in your eyes, unless you want emo chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:03 AM
1

I would rather be alone. I would always pick the hot guy but if I'm not his first choice he will quickly start cheating and make me unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:11 AM
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I never request a guy to eat my pussy, but a few have volunteered. Of those few, only one could find my clit, and he would be worth $1000 to me because of that. Also, there are other types of foreplay besides oral sex, I hate when a guy just sticks it in dry. I'm definitely not wealthy but I've been working since age 16 and I'm pretty good with saving money, so I would spend a g on a guy that's worth it, so far I've only met one but I know he would never ask me for money because he's one of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:57 PM
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Cuz I'm always the skinniest one there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:52 PM
2

I was going to say this but it takes some balls to approach a woman while shopping. I've had it happen more at malls and gas stations
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:58 AM
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Same. With old I only have to watch my back around one stranger, at bars it's many, they're all drunk, and I always have fat girls trying to fight me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:56 AM
2

A lot more women than men at the beach, especially young ones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:53 AM
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Are you a single mother in your 30s. Last time I fucked a Chad was in April, before that I fucked 2 Chad's in March. None on February, one in January. That's been it for 2021. The one from January is the same one from April. That's the only one that wasn't a ons, but once every 3 months doesn't really qualify as fwb. It's extremely hard to fuck hot guys regularly because they have tons of other girls to pick from, including really attractive rich ones that are down for freaky shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:03 PM
1

I heard steroids shrink the guys dick so you wouldn't want to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:49 PM
1

Maybe people will have more money as resources will be divided amongst a smaller population
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:23 PM
1

We should have a population of good looking people if that's all who can reproduce. Survival of the fittest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:21 PM
1

I would be happy to have Chad as a fuck Buddy, until that happens I would rather pay male escorts that know what they are doing and working hard to get good tips
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:25 PM
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I live in a small blue collar town. (Hicks). Is any girl happy in alpha fucks beta bucks situation? That's all we have to pick from. The ideal situation would be to lock down a Chad but that's impossible to do. But I will say that Chad makes me a lot happier than the sugar daddy, especially now that I have my own money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:38 PM
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I might even pay $1000 but only if it's someone I already fucked and he's a ten, eats pussy correctly and has a big dick, doesn't cum until I tell him I'm tired
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:30 PM
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I have paid 180 for sex, but I would pay $500 for Chad but I have yet to see Chad selling his body. I've had good sex with some smaller penis men because they do a lot of foreplay and know good positions. Lately the tinder guys do none of the above. The last guy from there had a bent dick and he came as soon as he put it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:29 PM
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The models definitely Live in NYC as they have to for work. They probably don't drink because of the calories. They're fucking guys from their social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:24 PM
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Good looking guys are somewhat easy to find with medium to difficult effort. If they are rude and bad in bed the experience has a negative impact on me. If I want to see hot guys that don't have anything else to offer I can drive around the university and gawk at them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:23 PM
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I orgasm easily if the guy gives effort, but they don't. I could orgasm in five minutes but they cum before that. They're not giving effort because they don't want to date me, they view me as some slut from tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:01 PM
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I had some fuck buddies during the pandemic, I think it was easier then because the guys couldn't go to bars, and one of them was a guy I knew for 4 years. He ended up getting a better job and started dating and 18 year old which was devastating. Its usually easy to find decent looking guys to fuck but very few of them can get me off and they don't even try. NYC area is a different story but can be tricky because I'm competing with literal models and heiresses
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:33 AM
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Oh and don't forget tinder is rigged so the paid members get the most matches regardless of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:13 AM
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I live about 2 hours from NYC in a town about 75,000, most people are old. The hot guys are either taken or have harems and won't talk to me unless I'm willing to do weird sexual shit/be their personal chauffeur/maid/roommate. We have a bad heroin and opiate epidemic severely affecting quality of guys and tons of immigrants moving in that I don't want to fuck. I'm 33 years old and 99 pounds. When I have sex with guys from tinder they either have small dicks, premature ejaculation. Also guys on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:12 AM
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If I was that girl I wouldn't be happy either. When I was 20 i dated a much older man for his money while cheating on him with Chad's, was the worst point on my life and I was constantly blackout drunk just to be able to fuck the old guy, it was unhealthy for both of us, he was getting sex twice a month from a mentally unstable younger drug addict but it was obvious that the stress was aging him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:41 AM
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I am 99 pounds by the way and still can't always get free sex on demand. I have to at least drive which costs me the gas money and sometimes I have to rent a room to fuck in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:11 AM
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I concur as a woman I have definitely paid for sex and traveled for it. I live in a small town with conservative misogynistic men so I traveled to NYC to pick up guys at bars, now that I'm getting older I have paid a male escort I met online as well as paying for tinder passport to get access to men out of state. Sure I could easily get sex with a fat balding smelly older man but I want a 7 at least and those take effort and money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:09 AM
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Polite and respectful of my time. Example: making plans in advance and sticking to them, no wyd texts. I am a sucker for pet names like babygirl, beautiful, sexy. Making the first move with making plans and also when it comes to hooking up. If I have to lead it makes me feel the guy is not interested or just a pussy. Take care of hygiene, it can make a 7 in looks top a 10. Shower, brush teeth, wearing clean matching clothes can make a difference. Maybe buy some new clothes if you haven't been sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:49 AM
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Starting to feel the same way. Tinder is a waste of time and I have to jump through so many hoops just to get some mediocre dick, I'm going to start calling male escorts and strippers instead. I'm not looking for a relationship or being courted, or how that makes my smv look, I just want to get some dick and the escort will be a better lay, more polite and we'll groomed cuz it's a job for them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:59 AM
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No. I hate opening up my snap and seeing a list of people that don't talk, so I'm blocking after a day of being ghosted, especially if we haven't fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:52 AM
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Probably going to get banned but this sounds like someone trying to end the supposed 80/20 rule that red pill bitches about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:17 PM
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Sorry but they do not all shower. And they have a higher risk of dying young, especially with jobs that have them working on roofs. Why should I settle when I've been educated at a private school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:09 PM
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Best sex I had was from a much younger guy. He also ate pussy the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:44 PM
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That's fucking ridiculous. He has no business getting married if he can't afford one designer item. This is why I would never get married, the man doesn't need any qualifications
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:15 PM
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Ugly people are unhappy so they shouldn't reproduce and create more miserable children that will harass the good looking people to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:08 PM
1

Society standards interfering with natural selection are the reason we have so many fat people that nobody wants to date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:50 AM
1

So true. All of the married women I see are fat and single ones stay skinny. I could care less if wifey got picked, I'm having the last laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:46 AM
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Yeah she didn't deserve to be committed for that. The average person would get some kind of disordly conduct charge with fines and be done with it. Those photographers were harassing her. Not to mention k fed basically plotted to get her pregnant then take the kids and get child support. The whole thing is so sad but she shouldn't be blocked from making music and performing, I'm sorry but she is one of the best performers and I hate this notion that once a woman turns 3o they get banished to Veg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:17 PM
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And it seems like any female entertainer that wants to stay relevant has to do it. I wish they president of France got more publicity. His wife is 25 years older
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:46 PM
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He dated Brittany and bragged about taking her virginity then dumped her. She got slut shamed to the 9th degree because all these teenage girls thought they actually had a chance with Justin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:07 PM
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Very to poignant post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:18 AM
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Oh and don't forget she became a single mother and the patriarchy always makes them look like the bad guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:48 AM
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She didn't even do anything that bad as far as I know. The biggest story I heard was smashing a window with an umbrella. Not nearly as bad as Justin Bieber pissing in a bucket and vandalizing property
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:47 AM
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I have a conspiracy theory on this: it goes along with the notion that others have mentioned that she was placed in that conservatorship to keep her quiet and compliant. Whenever a woman goes against social norms she is labeled "crazy." Being really hot and talented made a lot of people jealous that may have wanted to blackball her. Justin Timberlake helped to ruin her public image and probably hurt her, then along came k fed who most people did not like as he was a scumbag and Brittany knew thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:45 AM
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I'll have to look into it when I'm in NYC I guess. Those clubs are nonexistent in my state
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:16 PM
1

I don't want a live in boyfriend. I need to be available when Chad hits me up and he won't be in a serious relationship with me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:35 PM
1

I would love to find male escorts for $200 that I can fuck once a week. Way cheaper than getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:54 AM
1

Some guys beat their dick so hard that it gets bent and makes sex very hard or impossible, regardless of how hot the girl is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:50 AM
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Great jam. Thanks for reminding me. All of her music was real shit and she wasn't a pick me like most female musicians. Wish she would come back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:28 AM
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If you're taking these classes to meet men, you're essentially paying to date. I see no difference than going 50/50 on a date. And I read on pua website girls chase that women that they meet at groups and events are never as good as those they pick up through "day game" which is basically street harassment by hitting on women on the street or in grocery stores. They say that the hottest women don't have to meet at groups. I'm not saying their opinions matter, but I just wanted to point out that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:55 PM
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I disagree. Looking for attention is a sign of insecurity and a lack on discipline. Needing to text all day shows disengagement and boredom with real-life, perhaps disappointment with ones real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:06 PM
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I've been robbed so many times by lovers and friends that I'm almost used to it and I assume it will happen with anyone I let into my home. I really don't know if I'll ever invite someone in my home again and I don't want to get over it. I've experienced far less crises since I became "cold and jaded" aka established firm boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:14 AM
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I went to a yoga class once and the Male instructor humped me from behind while I did downward dog. Not even kidding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:52 AM
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I agree. Old is a lot less dangerous than meeting men at bars, at least from my experience. I've been sexually and violently assaulted many times by men and women at many different bars across the country and overseas. I get that old comes with risk but it's easier to watch my back around one stranger than it is around swarms of drunk and high men. And the bouncers don't do shit, they've assaulted me and threatened me as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:08 PM
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I agree. Not everyone is rich and lives in a big city, not everyone wants to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:05 PM
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Yup. This is why I have followers always trying to shame me. We're dismantling the patriarchy and also causing the potential loss of money for major corporations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:02 AM
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Don't apologize. Thank you for bringing these issues to light in a way that doesn't get downvote. I wish I could find the right words to discuss these topics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:50 AM
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There's no more good romantic r&b like the 90s. I dare say r Kelly was sweeter and genuine sounding before we found out he's a rapist. They don't even want to present the fantasy of a good relationship anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:56 PM
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That song is so lv it pisses me off every time I hear it and it's played every hour to further brainwash men into sucking even more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:53 PM
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Word. I have my own money so a plane ticket is nothing. If he wants to see me he can come to me, regardless of the transportation involved or the money it costs. My time is worth more than money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:42 AM
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I'm faced with the same dilemma. I'm not a city person and don't want to go there just to meet men. I would hate every minute of it. And in public I only get hit on by creepy old guys which I'm not going for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:15 AM
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Reason #6894279 why I won't live with a guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:17 AM
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Where are these guys that want to have sex in a field? All I get is strangers trying to come over to my house for the first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:51 PM
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I've already noticed it happening more frequently since pandemic lockdowns have been lifted. I suspect many of these men are working for bars that want to quickly get more business by luring women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:43 PM
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This. They hate when an average woman won't take care of a below average man and financially support him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:16 PM
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This story is awesome but it needs to be in popular news sources like the new York times and NBC, CBS, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:03 PM
20

Society doesn't want people to realize this because it capitalizes on putting us in shit situations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:43 PM
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I've also seen men use drugs and alcohol as bribes to get us to do what they want. " Can you give me a ride? I don't have gas money but I'll smoke you up" those tactics wouldn't work on a sober person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:41 PM
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Women are easier to manipulate when they are under the influence which helps men break down our boundaries and take advantage of us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:39 PM
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Also me. When I cut off the losers I found I prefer the clarity of being sober
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:38 PM
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I did the same thing. Only after breaking up with him did I realize I don't actually enjoy getting fucked up and I no longer needed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:37 PM
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I'm glad you brought this up. I was yoyo dieting in my 20s because I dated a man old enough to be my father and he would tell me I'm getting fat so I would lose weight and he would say I look sickly because I'm too skinny! He was always trying to make me insecure. After I broke up with him I had an eating disorder, thinking that being the skinniest girl would make guys want me but I only got pumped and dumped and ended up unhappy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:31 PM
13

I'm tired of seeing this shit in the media. when are we going to see some famous cougars?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:14 PM
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Not in debt but over the course of my life I've spent thousands on men. A 4 year relationship with an older man caused me to miss out on thousands I could made at work because he didn't want me to work. Other short term relationships added up to thousands of dollars spent on gas, car maintenance, me giving them money to help them with rent, thousands spent on hotels and apartments that I've gotten solely to have guys over, about $200 on old membership, thousands on clothing and makeup to impress…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:08 PM
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I know this sub doesn't condone sex work but honestly a male escort would be alot cheaper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:58 PM
20

I stopped going to bars because of creepy guys like this. They're as bad as old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:26 PM
17

Nordstrom is way too expensive to have poor customer service. You should call corporate and report him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:25 PM
36

Because inequality and sexism is able to run unchecked in the country
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:20 PM
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We need this in USA. Public transportation can be frightening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:29 PM
8

I keep seeing "women are the product" on old but I wonder how women with paid subscriptions fit into that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:01 PM
2

This reminds me of the Blight nightclubs in my area that reopen under a different name whenever someone gets shot. The same criminals continue to frequent them. Same with pornhub. Nothing will change except the names associated with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:51 PM
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None of those things happened to me while pregnant. I got to a doctor as soon as I found out I was pregnant and went to my monthly checkups. I was diligent with following all of their advice regarding diet and exercise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:22 AM
9

If he's talking about earning potential, that man is a mooch and wants you to work your ass off so he can sponge off of your money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:07 AM
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Men are so worried about appearing alpha In front of strangers that they neglect their own children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:59 AM
3

I never heard of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:31 AM
4

I hate that some communities are so saturated in sex work that I cannot walk down the street without a cop or john harassing me because they think that I am a prostitute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:52 AM
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Hvm are mostly busy with work, they are not going around hitting on women in public, even top models. Guys are afraid to approach anybody in person. I think most of them always have been scared but now it's even worse because people are so addicted to their phones they don't know how to socialize in person. Don't feel bad, even the most gorgeous girls in high school and college are rarely getting hit on except for gross fuckboys that will text them at 3 am to have sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:44 AM
2

I'm also sober and find it so hard to find someone who doesn't pressure me to drink and smoke. Only ten percent of the population smokes weed but it seems like every guy online does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:40 AM
41

There's no way I would ever live with a man that doesn't eat pussy, CORRECTLY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:20 AM
1

No I met these guys on old and know for a fact they don't know my friends, some are from out of state
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:11 PM
10

Turning us into lifelong alcoholics benefits capitalism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:59 AM
10

The shit won't hit the fan because they will never talk about these issues on the news. The guys that own onlyfans are the same ones that own all media
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:56 AM
4

It won't ever be destigmatized because sex workers are not a protected class and there's no way to prove a sw was denied employment because of said status
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:51 AM
5

Every guy I dated that follows pornstars has problems getting it up and asks for gross shit in bed. I know my followers on here hate my comments but this shit is facts. I'm talking from experience. They only follow pornstars to jerk off to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:43 AM
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The 15 minutes wasted could save you months or years of disappoinment. If you're only going off of what he tells you it could be months before the mask drops and you find out the hard way that he's a pornsick pervert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:41 AM
2

I did this but the damn algorithm still pulls up guys from my phone contacts as suggestions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:33 AM
3

Yeah I could definitely see them being more likely to have STDs and also intravenous drug users which are prone to HIV and hepatitis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:10 AM
14

Where do u find male sex workers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:58 PM
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I've used metronidazole many times and it kills my stomach. I posted my home remedy because it helped me and I wanted to share it so others might benefit. By the way I completed my garlic supplement treatment over a month ago and my symptoms haven't returned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:27 PM
2

Jennifer Lopez definitely got famous for her looks, but I love that she stayed naturally beautiful without getting implants or ridiculous fake lips and blonde hair like so many other celebrities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:53 AM
10

I heard there are a lot of Latinas in Massachusetts so it could be a part of their cultural conditioning since they most likely see many of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:50 AM
50

Good luck. You have to be born into it. And the elites are profiting from porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:42 AM
12

Yeah I told a guy off for calling me bro. I don't believe in having guy friends so if a guy doesn't see me romantically he has no place in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:29 PM
2

Those girls that got pregnant at 18 have always been a thorn in my side because they refuse to progress and help women's status advance as a whole and get their degrees. When I was younger I got called a whore because I focused on school instead of dropping babies at a young age. I blame them for keeping us in the dark ages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:23 PM
63

Patriarchy teaches this so that men get more time to sow their oats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:09 PM
20

My dad suggested I go to car shows to meet guys but ew. I don't like cars so it would be a lousy Time for me and if I did meet someone I would have to continue to do something I don't like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:30 PM
5

This is why I hate sex workers, they make it unsafe to travel As a woman because of the stereotype they give all of us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:24 PM
16

Also have been called a prostitute 80 percent of the time I'm staying in hotels, even in touristy areas and for work conferences. Sometimes in a harassing way, sometimes because they are hoping I will have sex for money. Happens when I am dressed conservatively and during the day as well. I stopped wearing makeup and going out at night to avoid harassment but it still happens, even when I had a big pregnant belly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:23 PM
48

An old man at a gas station thought a sugar daddy bought me my used Toyota. I'm in my 30s, doesn't everyone have a reliable car by this age? It's not even a luxury car, I don't get how it's so shocking to see a woman driving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:02 AM
2

I agree that anonymous women aren't respected as much as those that are a part of a community, but this seems to put poor women at a disadvantage. Someone living in Detroit is going to have a very hard time meeting a good guy through mutual friends, and upward mobility just isn't possible for everyone. I wouldn't want the risk of dating a coworker. My friend did that and got fired when they broke up because other pick mes were jealous of her and had a crush on the guy she dated. The manager was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:45 AM
12

I know an only fans girl that let's her unemployed bf live with her and take her pictures. I call that a pimp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:32 PM
15

Their pimps and sugar daddies take the pictures. Or another thirst bucket that help each other get clout
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:25 PM
27

This summer I'm already seeing too many girls with fake eyelashes and contour at the beach when it's in the 80s. I want to slap the Instagram makeup right off their faces
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:23 PM
2

Men we meet at bars would also lack the same respect and accountability you speak of. But I think it's now against most workplace policies to meet date a coworker, as it should be. It wouldn't be fair for a couple to work together especially if one gets promoted. That would cause jealousy with other coworkers. There's also a disproportionate number of men in some fields, women in others. A woman that works at a car dealership might have an easier time meeting guys but they would most likely be h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:13 PM
38

This is why IDC if the townspeople call me a whore. My life is alot easier than theirs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:19 PM
29

They might actually feel that way about someone. I think the love songs from the 80s are genuine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:09 PM
31

I've realized this and now invest little time and energy into dating and I constantly get blocked because of it. Oh well. I'm not going to jump through hoops for someone I barely know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:07 PM
7

I've realized old apps are corporations, but marriage is also highly beneficial to corporations such as mortgage industry and diamond industry. Keeping people on the apps would be detrimental to marriage corporations because they're preventing us from finding spouses. So what gives? How do they decide who gets to pay for apps and who gets to go into debt with a big house and white picket fence? Or us this why there are so many advocates for single people to become homeowners? They now expect us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:18 AM
18

I think it's easier to cum when you don't give AF because you're more relaxed. I've read many scientific articles that state if you're too tense or thinking too much it won't happen. But I also had an orgasm with a guy I liked alot but he made me feel super comfortable and gave lots of foreplay before sex. That time I came from penetration with him on top and it was amazing... I think just knowing he respected my time and tried to impress me made it so romantic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:12 AM
12

Ah I remember the young, dead inside days. Lots of good memories but I don't miss the stupidity or insecurities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:06 AM
13

When I'm on top I scoot back and forth like I'm trying to move my chair closer to the dinner table. Also sex in the spooning position is good, especially when you arch your back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:02 AM
33

I've been thinking about this for a while. It's a way to have us shoot ourselves in the foot while we're young and stupid. I've had this theory about other forms of sex work even before of was a thing. When I was younger some of my friends dreamed of posing for playboy because they thought it looked glamorous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:50 AM
17

We have a lot of these women in my town, especially with tongue rings showing in every selfie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:08 PM
24

I'm so rude I leave snaps opened all the time. I had 2 guys block me because of it but IDC I'll answer when I see more of an effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:29 PM
98

Nah I'm a bitch to weed out the lame guys with no self esteem. I wouldn't want my man being friendly to every girl anyway. I'm not the low hanging fruit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:27 PM
21

Same girl. Most me en have nothing to offer besides sex. Why would I want to be in a relationship with a guy who thinks I should worship him for buying me a slice of pizza? I'd rather him leave so I can get myself sushi and $10 smoothies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:09 PM
2

This is an uncomfortable topic that is seldom spoke of. My neighbor molested his daughter and the mom never reported him. She probably didn't want to be shamed or have her daughter shamed Even though they were victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:45 PM
1

I've been single for ten years and my child is almost two. Proof I don't need Chad or betas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:41 PM
2

Yeah they hate that they can't control our schedule and send a "wyd" text at the last minute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:40 PM
1

Yes. Having our own agency without answering to anyone pisses them off. The idea that women are unsafe in public and still need a male chaperone at all times is still prevalent even in the most progressive cities. A fearless women that thumbs her nose at that notion really pisses people off, male and female
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:38 PM
11

The only guys I saw improve themselves were ones that went to jail. They came out better at sex because they talk to other guys about techniques to use in foreplay. Some of them also use the time to read karma sutra books. Plus they get ripped from lifting weights and they're forced to sober up. Sadly these changes are usually short lived and the guys are still lv criminals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:16 AM
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I never see the woman fuck a really hot guy in these situations. It's always someone that the guy chooses and he has to control the whole thing. The husband only adds another person to benefit himself in some way. Like if I'm going to cheat I'm picking up a guy at a frat party like I did when I was younger, Jim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:04 AM
8

I'm with you on this. Not sure if all of these single homeowners built brand new homes, but that's absolutely unnecessary and the reason why deer and other wildlife keep running into the roadways and getting hurt. Too much urban sprawl is destroying wildlife and increasing greenhouse gas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:31 PM
7

Been my shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:09 AM
23

Ugh all the guys in DMV are fugly too. I would never want to live there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:59 AM
9

Beware of guys that want to FaceTime. Especially if it's in his bio. Apple brand ambassadors are becoming more aggressive on old to try to bully us to get iPhones. Most apps have the option to video chat on the app so there's no need to use another platform. If his social media info is listed in his bio, he's probably an influencer looking for potential fans or customers. Once you follow them you'll see product placement in all his stories whether he's peddling his shitty SoundCloud, tiktok, fas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:51 AM
30

Yeah same but my health is more important than impressing other people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:41 AM
118

To each his own. How about hiking aunt? Artist aunt? Musician aunt? Dancer aunt? Fashion aunt? Nature aunt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:53 AM
52

Low effort guys just vanish if disaster strikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:09 AM
46

Yeah every guy I know with a lesbian friend fucks her and tries to get other women to have threesomes with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:04 AM
202

Why do we have to choose between children or alcoholism? Oh that's right. Corporations need to get rich somehow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:02 AM
23

If we haven't made plans within a week of matching I delete. Watch out for guys looking for a texting buddy with no plans of meeting you. Also watch out for guys making plans for the following week, anytime I've had this happen they ghost me. Those guys are just using you as a texting buddy and or trying to keep their options open
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:00 AM
28

I agree, the inequality and amount of pick mes are glaring out here. And the men are low earners and women going half or even moving guys into their homes and supporting them completely seems to be the norm in the sticks. Also the men out here are worse in bed because they think sex is only for their pleasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:23 PM
42

Yes I would love to date more cosmopolitan men and I've had better experiences with them but I love living in the woods. I can't stand crowds, noise and traffic plus my toddler loves my big backyard and pool and gets scared of loud noises. I guess you have to pick and choose what's more important to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:05 PM
3

I've noticed that when I'm skating or walking with my skateboard in my hand I don't get harassed as much. Maybe because they think I could wallop them with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:09 PM
8

I thought China had a one child policy because of overpopulation. This confuses me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:14 AM
11

Seeing a meth head guy with pock marks on his face or a fat neck beard both dating Instagram models has become the norm in my area
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:46 PM
7

The whole time I was thinking the same thing. The internet has been brainwashing men from a young age with all kinds of warped shit. I was thinking that perhaps people from countries with less internet use have a healthier mindset in some instances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:44 PM
20

Yeah I've seen white men get immigrant women pregnant and leave them so many times. Some of the guys I used to date would try to triangulate me with immigrant women by saying things like "white girls don't cook and clean. They fuck alot of guys and drink. I don't want a white women because they refuse to quit their jobs and become barefoot and pregnant." So they want immigrants because they think they can treat them like a doormat whereas white women have generally been taught to go to school an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:38 PM
22

This reminds me of the YouTube video "send bobs" which makes fun of Indian men that hound women for nudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:25 PM
92

Omg this was my ex! I was yo yo dieting throughout my entire college because he was never satisfied whether I lost or gained. I'm so lucky I didn't fuck my thyroid up while I was dating him. But yes, it was mostly about control and keeping me insecure so I would be scared to lose him. He actually said repeatedly that I'm too old ( in my early 20s!) and fat to find another guy. I never weighed more than 120 at that time. It's so triggering Everytime I hear q story like this. It took me years to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:36 AM
67

When I was a kid in junior high my parents forbid me to wear makeup but now they say they wish I would wear some. You know we can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:52 PM
53

It's a way of instilling fear in us so that we become afraid to leave our houses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:48 PM
71

They are never moving there. They say that so you entertain them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:48 PM
1

Um rapists rape all the time. Many times they get away with it because nobody believes the victims. Crimes are committed everyday regardless of laws. That argument was dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:20 AM
19

Doesn't triangulate me with other women. No narcissists. Doesn't ask for weird stuff in bed. Few tattoos but ideally none. Not into gages or piercings other than ears. No unnatural hair colors like blue, green, etc. Not into long hair on men. Not into gothic or heavy metal looking guys, please look like a normal person. I don't really like bright colored sneakers either. I want someone that wouldn't embarrass me at a nice restaurant or make police suspicious of us. Also drive a normal looking ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:57 AM
15

Doesn't stink, nice teeth, in shape, no flab. No facial hair. No receding hairline or baldness. Confident. I don't care who he lives with as long as it ain't me, so he needs to have a stable place to live, no hobosexuals. Eats pussy correctly. Doesn't have to have a big dick as long as he makes me cum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:56 AM
23

But redpill is all straight men. How is that allowed but a group of straight women is not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:12 AM
13

That's why I only want to date casually. If he wants to screw his coworker, go right ahead. It's easy to break-up and move on if you don't live together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:08 AM
3

And do all of the cleaning once you get to your destination if you're staying anywhere but a hotel with housekeeping. Also wants someone to fund his adventures and or drive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:50 AM
31

Yeah one is my limit if I never met him or only met him or once. Guys just use these phonecalls as entertainment and I'm not a clown or therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:12 PM
62

I give one word answers and ignore a lot of texts until we meet. I know FaceTime and calls are the newfangled way of courting because if covid and all, but I grew up with dates and being hit on in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:01 PM
7

Yeah cuz you know if he beats your ass he's getting away with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:27 PM
5

I might be more inclined to buy the iPhone if the workers weren't all narcissists that triangulate me with other women. I'd rather spend that money on a night in a fancy beach house that costs as much as an iPhone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:51 PM
3

He had to mention FaceTime because he promotes for apple products like many guys on old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:48 PM
6

I see I got downvote so I know some apple employees or bots are lurking. Not at all surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:47 PM
13

Men like that are disgusting and women that follow them out of state make me want to 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:46 PM
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Yeah it is supposed to be the pinnacle of our lives. For the majority of women it's the only Time they get to wear a dress that expensive or have a big party in their honor. Some women get a graduation party but it isn't nearly that fancy even after earning a degree, which is kind of sad that being chosen by a man is more important than education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:45 PM
35

Yeah and if you're thinner than the bride people wi be a bitch to you all night because it should be "her day." Well I can't help it if I look better because I'm not in a stressful relationship and in debt from a guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:41 PM
15

They have to sell us the dream because weddings bare great money makers. More people are staying single which is causing the diamond and real estate industry to lose money. They keep using the narrative that millennials are defective for not buying homes but it's not a good deal for us. Too expensive and too much work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:39 PM
9

Why can't he just find a girlfriend once he gets to KS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:08 PM
3

This guy works for IPhone. I could tell by the FaceTime references. I see a lot of these influencers on old but I refuse to have a conversation unless it's in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:07 PM
23

I bet old is hurting their business. Lots of pick mes do gross stuff for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:05 PM
18

I don't either. They have to ask me out before I even answer. I don't do small talk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:57 PM
60

In my 20s my self esteem was lower, I was stupid and I spent most of my time drunk or high so I was surrounded with lvm because I didn't know my worth. Also I lived in a small town so my options were limited and I didn't have the money to travel. With age I gained wisdom, money and self respect which made it easier to identify who was lv and avoid them. Hvm are still rare but at least now I have the self awareness to sometimes date them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:55 AM
1

I've had a theory about the Arabian women's style of dress for a while. I do believe that practicing Muslims wear it for religious reasons and tradition, but the liberals are pushing for it to become mainstream in the west in order to benefit corporations. Hear me out: if it became a law to cover our hair, knees and legs in the West, men would not be able to oggle us in public. They would be forced to join Instagram, only fans, pornhub or tiktok if they want to see women's bodies and hair. Then …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:17 AM
17

My ex boyfriend drove me to the airport so I can fly to Los Angeles for business. He told me to leave my coat with him because it would be warm where I was going. This was in January and when I got there I found out I definitely needed a coat to go out at night. I always wonder if he did that to keep me trapped in the hotel. But jokes on him, I still went out every night for drinks with coworkers and he was so insecure blowing up my phone and arguing with me the whole time, accusing me of cheati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:00 PM
11

Same thing, it's harder for us to be independent with all of our belongings in a purse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:56 PM
67

This just reinforces Madonna vs whore and other ways to pit women against each other. If he acts hv for his "dream girl" (you know, an 18 year old) that act is going to be over as soon as he gets bored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:47 PM
20

A lot of guys on old are social media influencers trying to gain a following or they want to jerk off to your nudes. I found that the hottest ones usually don't want to meet up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:39 PM
17

My friend moved to Brazil as a newlywed because her husband was from there. He lied to her about becoming a doctor, it turns out the whole time they were dating he was just renting near a college but not an actual med student. When they got to Brazil her credit got ruined because they had no money and he charged thousands on her credit card, plus the divorce further ruined her credit. She ended up getting remarried to a much older man just to fix her credit. Needless to say she was a pick me but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:45 PM
1

You can look up vagina pH online as a guide. A healthy pH for your vagina might be different than the number for your fish tank, but the strips should be able to tell you what your pH is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:04 PM
47

I swear guys that ignore mother's day do it for control. It's a form of negging to try to knock us down a few pegs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:02 PM
1

38 on snap, dunno how to check on anything else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:03 PM
86

I'm happy I'm a single mother because no guy is going to ruin my mother's day. I already have plans with my parents and my baby and I know they'll get me a better gift than my baby's father would have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:53 PM
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I can't stand the look and feel of facial hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:48 PM
23

Yes I am set in my ways and it feels great. I've seen every game and now ya can't get nothing past me. Ive also pulled some great men and now I won't settle for less the way an insecure young girl would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:01 PM
14

Who said he's such a catch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:57 PM
9

As soon as he gets it he will be picking up college and high school students that don't have a car
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:53 PM
16

I won't even let him get a rise out of me. He pisses me off I'll ghost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:35 PM
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I'm not showing him my expectations. If he wasn't raised right he's lv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:09 PM
34

That means a hookup that comes over 2 nights a month will have legal rights to your place. He could be with other women that he likes more for the other 28 days. That means he's fucking college students more than he fucks you. He would rather be with them but he's breadcrumbing you because you're the only one with a solid place to stay. But don't worry, when it's freezing out he'll come back to you because the short skirts are not on the streets for him to chase anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:10 PM
34

I keep hearing about men wanting to marry virgins but I don't know where that happens other than conservative countries that lack equality. And guarantee virgin brides are treated like shit by their husbands as soon as he takes their virginity as their "used" goods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:15 PM
36

I get this too. Guys on old want lots of small talk before meeting up, but I want the opposite. I'm not staying in constant communication with someone I've never met or only met once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:07 PM
54

You know men really do view us as their free entertainment. Last night my ex texted me after midnight asking to FaceTime. But what would be in that for me? He gets to look at me, hear my voice and get therapy from me, but what do I get? I have to buy a $1000 phone just to be this guy's clown? I'm sorry but FaceTime is not a date whether or not it's a pandemic. It's a cop out so they get our presence without taking us on a real date, I don't care how old is trying to brainwash me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:09 PM
19

Sign me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:02 PM
1

Well that makes me feel better if it was pot hair that innocently fell out while cooking. I still feel bad thinking someone did it purposely. It bothers me because I really like the food there and I've been frequenting that restaurant for over ten years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:10 AM
1

The other day I was on vacation and a male cook put what must have been a pubic hair in my food. I don't have proof but it was too course and curly to be a hair that fell off his head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:59 AM
1

Yes I've gotten begged for walking/traveling/walking. They hate that we don't have to bring a male escort to go out like in some countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:55 AM
3

I'm also sober since 2017 and have met to find a sober guy. They just want us under the influence so we do things against our better judgement and our boundaries are more blurred
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:44 AM
24

Yes. I've been called a prostitute by men and women, even in touristy resort towns and expensive hotels. Some were saying it to bully me, some men were trying to solicit me. This has even happened during the day when I was dressed conservatively and without makeup. It even happened once when I was very pregnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:54 PM
93

Most times I've stayed in a hotel I've been called a prostitute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:06 AM
9

So which mortgage company do you work for? Or are you in real estate? flipping houses, maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:05 AM
12

Personal or not, it's a waste of my time and energy. They deserve to match with bots that make you pay to have conversations. I actually pay for an old premium subscription and I'm not paying to talk to people or give them therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:38 AM
26

This is so obvious because I see so many beautiful single women but very few good looking handsome men. Im talking about looks because the best looking people typically have more dating options. Think about places you went with groups of single people before covid-19, such as bars: lots of beautiful single women but 90% of the single dudes are creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:37 PM
23

I get rejected by most guys I match with on old but instead of just unmatching or ghosting right away,they try to string me along as long as they can so I can entertain them with texts and pictures on snapchat. Only after they waste days or weeks of my time do I realize I've been rejected for a date, because meeting in person is not in the cards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:34 PM
7

If you've ever seen the movie cinderella it's the same scenario. The prince was supposed to marry a princess but cinderella turned his head and caused an uproar in the kingdom. Of course true love prevailed but in real life this would be unlikely to happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:09 PM
5

If another single woman catches the young man's eye, he might not want to marry the woman he was supposed to. It would be bad for the rich man if his daughter doesn't get married because that would embarrass the family and he wouldn't be able to continue the bloodline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:06 PM
24

I'm with you on that. I'm so sick of seeing "let's smoke" on Old profiles. Like they assume every woman smokes even tho only about ten percent of the population does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:45 PM
28

Because every man was taught they are guaranteed a woman to screw them and take care of them and if a lot of women opted out of this they would lose their shit. Also because living with another person is a way to keep us in line. What we wear, the places we go and every action we do has to be run by another person so it's a way of policing us and enforcing social order. Also, if you're single, you are free to have sex with anyone, even a very in-demand man who might be promised to a rich man's d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:43 PM
25

This is why I try to avoid car guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:47 PM
300

I do know how to cook and clean but why should I do it for free and go 50/50 on a mortgage as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:57 PM
18

Dating should be fun. It shouldn't be constant tests to see if we make mistakes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:31 PM
18

I'd like to comment on the part about mobile devices and internet becoming more mainstream in the last few years. I don't agree with making smart phones an necessity to live, but the corporations are pushing hard for this to become the norm. Many fast food restaurants still have their lobbies closed and if you don't have a car to use the drive thru you have to use a mobile app. Last month I went to a pho restaurant and they tried to embarrass me because I didn't know how to scan some kind of cod…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:04 AM
8

Deal breakers: too many tattoos, unnatural hair color, poor hygiene, too many piercings, ANY facial hair, fat, muscles too big/steroid looking, receding hairline, bald
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:12 PM
80

Yeah, treating the dream girl well and treating you like crap still makes him a shitty person. Even if u play hard to get for a while it can't last forever and he'll just end up treating you like shit when he feels he has you. Meaning whenever you have sex. If they act like this they only want a new, shiny object every few months or even weeks because they don't know how to give and take in a relationship. I used to play hard to get when I was younger and I had men worshipping me, even "chad" bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:07 PM
59

They like to publicly humiliate women to show people just how much control they have over us. Also to make us look bad in front of other men that might want to date us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:18 PM
12

Lol @ ball reduction. I never noticed ball size. But a lot of those problems would go away if they stop being a lazy fuck and do some exercise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:02 PM
23

Why aren't men pressured to get hair transplants the way women are pressured to cover their Gray hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:43 PM
9

I don't think so. Guy have been doing that to me since i was a kid. I think that tactic is as old as the hills, way older than redpill. Isn't redpill like 5 years old?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:04 AM
10

And it would be harder to oggle women in public as they're covered up from head to toe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:40 AM
16

He couldn't handle one of those places because they banned tiktok and Instagram so he wouldn't be able to jerk off to underage girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:39 AM
12

Uh I'm so happy someone said it. I would much rather go out to eat alone than go on another mcdonald's or pizza date with a guy who thinks he deserves a gold medal for shelling out $7 on me. I don't even eat that stuff on a regular basis because I respect my body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:36 AM
40

That's why fuckboys are only good to fuck, not to get involved with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:42 PM
6

Other stuff (coke, pills)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:41 PM
115

See id rather a guy that doesn't speak. Most of the time their conversation just stresses me out with lies or complaining about their problems so I can be an unpaid therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:38 PM
10

I have one that's a gym bro but 2 of them are just drug addicts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:36 PM
13

Yes! I hate when women flaunt their diamond that are not paid off. Like don't they know that his debt becomes hers when married? He bought an expensive ring on a credit card because he knows she will have to help pay or it will tank her credit score
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:50 PM
35

Don't sleep in a hookups house. I'm not judging you for having casual sex, I get that we have needs. But when you sleep in a man's house he will view you as his property because you are on his property. Men are power hungry and control freaks like that. Make sure you can drive yourself home or take an Uber if you're too drunk. Better yet don't get too drunk. If the guy lives too far away to drive back home make sure you have enough money for a hotel. I've gotten robbed and sexually assaulted whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:43 PM
17

I'd like to know the same thing. I've foolishly made sex tapes and sent nudes and I want to find them online so I can try to sue the websites and press charges on the guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:40 PM
230

I would be able to ignore their personalities if they at least knew how to lay pipe and eat pussy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:29 PM
100

All I get is porn addicts looking to masturbate to my snaps and narcissists, but I wish they would at least go to the gym
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:29 PM
7

Count me in. I want a mail order boy toy that's an actual human, and also a robot that's built like a linebacker to be my bodyguard in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:09 AM
27

Yeah I feel the same way. Eating in restaurants is not a staple for every family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:17 AM
9

How is he going to find someone to go on last minute dates? The only away is to find A woman without a job, but how is that likely?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:40 AM
11

Meghan fox is so hot she deserves MGK, not some sad boy i never heard of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:54 PM
5

Yeah and they have to have an iPhone yet cannot afford healthy food, a reliable car or a decent date night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:09 AM
14

Because women are now expected to have degrees and jobs while also being pressured by society to be in a relationship. Until being single is more acceptable we'll always have these men that get away with being mooches and considered valuable simply for having a penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:02 AM
13

Too much hive mind influenced by media, especially internet in the past 3 decades. They don't give us too many tropes to choose from anymore. I remember at least in the 90s there was some diversity in highschool movie cliches, ie the preppy jocks, gothic kids, nerds, ghetto fabulous, etc. Nowadays everyone that gets the spotlight is almost exactly the same person, bland, watered down and lacking a personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:58 AM
22

This is how I feel about guys trying to do snap streaks. Is that supposed to trick us into thinking were in a relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:48 AM
6

Either they go oversees to find a doormat that they don't have to treat as equals or they find a disadvantaged woman from overseas that has moved to our country that will put up with his bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:20 AM
1

I'm convinced there are bots on here that downvote Everytime I bash some sort of product that a corporation is selling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:16 PM
21

Yeah I'm also getting this feeling. Being married and owning a home is expensive and if more of us remain single the real estate industry would be in trouble so they try to bully us into putting our name on the dotted line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:45 PM
5

I also have my reasons to go ghost. I don't want to see a guy everyday and I don't want to feel obligated to text and send snaps everyday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:33 PM
33

I've also noticed guys who get DUI constantly use it as a sob story. Like yeah, getting arrested is supposed to fuck your life up. It's called a punishment for a reason. Pay the fines and stop drinking or shUt up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:20 PM
14

I hate this time wasting nonsense. If u want to fuck just say so. I have things to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:20 PM
13

I don't get why guys do things to piss us off if they're trying to fuck. If he's ugly he should be kissing your ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:37 PM
15

I've noticed college is when decent mild mannered guys turn into misogynistic assholes. It's really sad how it indoctrinates them into patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:02 AM
33

This is proof that I'm safer living with family. Someone moved my laundry once from a laundry room and neverrrr again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:56 AM
9

I've heard this argument too but if society wants us to reproduce we need more incentive. Like start teaching men to be more considerate and get rid of porn. Can't continue to treat us like shit if u want us to birth future generations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:58 PM
8

I love using the pandemic as an excuse to get out of things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:55 PM
7

I'm always getting the same pressure from aunts I think it's because our parents usually want to protect us from harm because it's just maternal instinct. But aunts are sometimes jealous of how peaceful and carefree our lives are. In my case I think it could stem from sibling rivalry between them and my parents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:53 PM
10

I've always said the same thing. Salesmen really push products that are the hardest to sell. The most valuable items sell themselves. And marriage really is a money maker for the diamond industry and real estate especially. But of course now real estate is trying to push expensive homes on single women too now that we've opened our eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:51 PM
47

Yeah they only start to want commitment when they're not hot enough to pull one night stands every weekend. Or when they get someone pregnant and want to avoid child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:43 PM
1

It's so bad now I saw an ad for an Ed solution ( probably boner pills) while driving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:41 AM
3

I'd still like to get porn outlawed or at least restricted. The path our entire society is on is not good. It isn't healthy for women, children or men. Only the 1% benefits from only fans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:39 AM
2

I wish my world viewed makeup the way you describe it. I get bullied all the time for not covering my acne. Everywhere I go I see girls more made up than in the past. Like just plucking your brows isn't enough anymore. I see micro blading everywhere I go anymore. I miss the natural look of the 90s. Too much pressure from Instagram anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:48 AM
2

I'm kinda in this situation but my parents gave up after years of pressure. My aunt gives me jabs about being single whenever I see her but I just ignore it. I only visit her on holidays and don't stay long only because I want to see the other part of my family. My other aunt is not so subtle and strait up bullies me so I pretty much went no contact like others were saying. She's actually mean so I stopped going there even on holidays. It's sad but in certain families single women are exiled. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:43 AM
27

I saw that Utah passed some kind of law against porn. How can I push for the Same law to be passed in my state? Which politician should I write to? Senator, congress, governor? I want to push to outlaw smut everywhere and it would be great if all if you could do the same. If it's possible in Utah it's possible everywhere. I don't want my child to have access to porn and we all know those parental controls are easy to get around. I also don't want her to be a target for grooming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:50 PM
15

Don't count on it. In many cases your state's divorce laws will override a prenup. He can get a good lawyer to fight a prenup in divorce court and ultimately the decision will be made by a judge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:26 PM
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I hate how guys get to use this excuse in high school and college in order to fuck alot of girls and everyone gives them a free pass because "they're not ready for a relationship". Even my baby's father gets off the hook from raising his kid because at 20 years old "he's not ready to be a father. He's just a kid"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:27 AM
25

I have a theory that expecting women to spend a lot of money and time is yet another way to hold us down. If we have to spend hundreds on hairstylest frequently that gives us less money to spend on ourrs freedom, for example cars and vacations, you know things that might give us access to men outside of our immediate social circle, so they will have a harder time mistreating us because we have a way out. Also the money we have to spend on beauty gives us less of a chance to leave an unhappy or a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:22 AM
15

I never heard of these other lifestyles but I am intrigued. Do they have a community?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:38 PM
29

Yes I remember those days as well. First decade of the new millennium I got made fun of by guys I dated for not shaving everything, I had a sugar daddy unfortunately that would get into hour long arguments with me about shaving even tho I told him it itches when I do, he didn't care. Thank God pubic hair is normal now, I've even gotten great head and rim jobs with a bush lately. I wonder why it went out of style. But I'm not complaining. I think men have gotten just a tiny bit more accepting of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:59 PM
23

Not to mention the sex might suck or he might be fuckin someone instead of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:29 PM
64

The problem is men are never satisfied with one or even the handful of women who sell their bodies and pics willingly, so they constantly need a fresh supply of workers which can only be supplemented by the unwilling. I've been dumb enough to send nudes to potential boyfriends and even made a few sex tapes, I know some of them had to end up online on a paid porn site. So I'm probably an unwilling and unconsenting sex worker. So yes I have a problem with this industry for using my image to make m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:03 PM
1

I went on one dare with a tinder guy, then he started texting me asking if I would have his kid. Another text was him asking if he can come live with me. So maybe the kid entitles them to a rent free place to live, in their minds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:48 PM
4

Yes thank you. I'm over the grieving phase because he died in 2017 but it still makes me sad. I just know there's nobody that would respect me as much as he did because there was nobody as good before him and I thought I recently met someone on his level recently but then he asked me for nudes and I get the feeling he lies to me so now I lost all hope of finding a guy that truly loves me and that I can trust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:06 PM
-5

My soulmate that passed away told me to never get a tattoo so I know that by not having them I am not discounting myself from dating a super rich classy guy. I mean trust fund rich, yacht club rich not this self made crap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:21 PM
4

Jokes would be refreshing. I mostly just hear lies that are so easy to see through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:18 PM
17

I don't feel enthusiastic about any guy because I always get disappointed and I've given up hope. My soulmate died and nobody can equal him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:15 PM
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Guaranteed you're upper middle class at best. I'd bet money you're not white collar if the tattoos are visible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:01 AM
32

I have a really hard time getting a second date with hot guys, I guess they have too many options. But on the bright side I wear the same outfit for every date because it's always someone new. If I was steadily dating a guy I would feel compelled to spend a lot of money to keep surprising him with different outfits, heels and lingerie, from Neiman Marcus and Bloomingdales because a high value guy is worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:31 AM
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Yeah I see no point in making a lot of effort when I don't know if the guy will do the same. If he shows me a real good time I will want to look hot for him on future dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:28 AM
1

Anorexia was the dumbest decision I ever made because I still got pumped and dumped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:57 AM
9

If a guy just wants sex I would rather skip the stupid coffee and smash in his car while vlistening to music. I would rather hear the weekend than listen to his problems/lies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:54 AM
138

I would not wear makeup for this type of date. I only put my makeup on for tens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:38 AM
5

If a dated a guy that said that my hopes of having a life anywhere above mediocrity would go out the window
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:23 PM
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Yeah if he has tattoos there's very little chance of him ever being rich unless he's an entertainer, in which case you know he's fuckin groupies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:20 PM
7

It's because there are a lot of pickmes that pretend to be interested in cars and learn to fix them, buy tacky body kits and spoilers to attract guys. My one friend in hi school even went to a technical school to join the automotive program and be surrounded by guys 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:22 PM
9

I'm starting to think this about any low-population area. Too little competition from other men gives them less incentive to try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:47 PM
22

It's because they want us to hide in our houses and not ever be seen in public. We're not supposed to go out until our wedding day you know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:27 PM
19

It's sad to say the younger generation has no chivalry whatsoever. I would never date an older man but they're the only ones that hold the door for me when I'm leaving a building. Im talking about strangers, not dates. Younger guys never do. Some even push ahead of me to get by. That makes me think I would never ever want to get involved with one of these modern douchebags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:09 AM
21

I always think about this concept. When I see a man walking in front of a woman in a quiet area on the sidewalk, it looks like he's making her chase him and I find it disrespectful. I almost want to shame the woman for being a pick me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:33 AM
3

I used ones that are meant to test urine. I originallr ordered them online because I was paranoid that I'm diabetic and they test for a host of different health problems. I just inserted it onto my vagina a little bit and followed the directionz on the bottle to test pH. I believe they make pH test strips meant specifically for vaginal pH, you could find them in A pharmacy or online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:18 AM
3

No, this society can't afford to think of us as anything but mothers, regardless of our past. They need each woman to have at least 2 kids to replace the population for the future or they won't have a work force, which is already becoming a problem. Basically the ball is in our court as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:12 PM
19

This used to happen to me when I was in college and right after. I would fuck these guys cuz they sweet talked me and I thought it was going somewhere. Then I got dumped and my reputation tarnished as a slut. I tried to hold out for the 3rd date or whatever and still got pumped and dumped. So I wasn't looking to be a slut, I was being manipulated when I was young and naive. Only when I started making real money and bought a nicer car did the leeches try to lock me down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:12 PM
35

It should be banned because it is too easy for minors to Access. We had parental controls on my computer growing up and I still found it, sometimes on purpose, sometimes the ads would Pop up while I was innocently browsing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:55 PM
36

I found a study online that said 500 mg were used to clear it. But I had Allicin 650 on hand so I used that. Allicin is the active chemical in garlic. Disclaimer: I've had bv Treated by a doctor many times before so I know the signs and symptoms very well. I wouldn't recommend self treating unless you're positive of your condition. I was monitoring the odor and pH to see if the Allicin supplements were working. I used a pH test strip to check if my pH was going down since starting the supplement…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:51 PM
208

His hand or cock probably weren't clean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:48 PM
47

Same thing in my house. I realize now that my dad's porn sickness ruined their mmarriage, I don't even know if my mom realizes it. She's a boomer and probably thinks watching porn is normal for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:04 AM
117

Men being 4 or more years older and earning less or being unemployed is the norm in my family and it's disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:20 AM
32

Sorry I had to stop my kid was having a meltdown.nd rd But I'm starting to figure out that a part of therrri body dismorphia she suffered from could be a result of my dad's porn sickness. I could see the romance was dead in their marriage and as a teen I discovered his collection of girls gone wild tapes. She also kept bringing up the conversation she against overheard when he was talking about tits with his friend. I could tell it bothered her for years. I feel so bad and I wish I could help he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:14 AM
47

Im starting to realize my mother probably had an eating disorder when I was a kid and probably still does. She also does the cream of wheat breakfasts, sometimes dinners and substitutes meals with sweets. She often says she just wants dessert and likes it more than did but I have to wonder. As a kid she would only eat Campbell's chicken soup sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:09 AM
8

That's another thing I would be afraid of. I like to be alone most of the time and if I wanted to break up or the guy cheats It takes a court order to throw them out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:59 AM
17

I feel the same way. I would like to hear how someone manages the type of relationship where you're dating a man without living together or spending every day off together. I'm also a single mother but I don't want to get married or cohabitate but every man I meet wants this, and way too soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:32 PM
1

Yeah me too but he's military so they are awestruck by his "status"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:26 PM
6

I've been in a somewhat similar situation when my cousin's husband pushed me so I hit him. He never touched me again. I wish I didn't have to do that but my family loves him and they didn't believe me so I had no choice but to defend myself. I would say call the cops if something happens but by then it might be too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:45 PM
6

If you're ba Minor it's rough. If the guys bare really putting you in danger you should tell your teacher or school counselor but you will probably end up in foster care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:22 PM
11

Get an apartment in your name. If you have to get roommates you should call the cops whenever a stranger comes to your house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:12 PM
19

Tell them to go to his house or a hotel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:11 PM
2

Yeah see I couldn't have that. I don't want anyone staying in my house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:07 PM
11

I wish I could have this but every man I meet expects to cohabitate within months of dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:55 AM
39

The labor involved is why I understand the concept of only fans. Women literally get nothing out of it so they deserve to be paid. I still don't agree with sending nudes for free or for money as it objectifies women and keeps pushing us back as far as acheiving equality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:31 AM
29

Just read any article online that only 27% of sent nudes result in a date from old, this includes Netflix and chill dates. So women really don't get the guy like they assume. It really is pointless unless you're getting paid. I wouldn't condone if but I could see why girls sell nudes, otherwise it's a waste of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:14 AM
17

I often wonder if a lot of guys do this and get paid by other men for the nudes, like cyber pimps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:11 AM
9

I will say the harassment has slowed down for me past 30. I still get hit on but I feel more respected when I'm doing normal things like shopping or getting food. Maybe it's because men only know how to harass women online nowadays. when I was a teen, social media was still new (myspace) and even in my early 20s online dating was obscure so picking up girls largely happened in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:01 PM
17

Any male friends I had used me for rides and to pay for things whether or not they tried to put the moves on me. I think some of them like having femalE friends to use for favors because we're more likely to oblige as we've been conditioned to be selfless, helpful and caring. They wouldn't dare ask their guy friends because they know they would be expected to throw in gas money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:54 PM
29

I was in long term shitty emotionally abusive relationships from ages 17 to 24 and I refuse to believe those were the best years of my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:57 PM
27

I knew some guys that were like this. They said "if I can't find a girl tonight I'll just fuck a guy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:52 PM
7

I'm sick of tick tock and I don't even have it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:20 AM
120

I don't want to get wifed up by someone that thinks like this anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:46 AM
57

I don't think they exist on old. Every guy I met on there wants nudes or to hurt me. I think someone who's so reliant on the internet will be addicted to many different websites, including porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:35 AM
3

This is all way too much for some d. I'd rather get a male escort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:13 PM
34

Hey they can fuck all the hoes they want but don't look at me when your rent is due
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:11 PM
48

Yes except now they use fancy words to sugarcoat their immoral tendencies and trying to force us to accept it or we're not pc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:10 PM
2

Youre body burns calories Everytime you breastfeed. It's like the food you eat is turned into food for your baby, so it's leaving the body in your breast milk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:05 PM
32

So many men expect these types of conversations that it really makes me wonder how many pick mes are going for it. These guys have such high snap scores I'm thinking like 80% of women must be obliging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:52 PM
28

In many places their are laws that will override a prenup. Make sure you check the divorce entitlement laws in your state
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:47 PM
38

I'm pretty sure if you guys are married and get divorced he's still entitled to half of everything, even if the house was purchased by you. Same if you're living together. It's considered a common law marriage if he's lived in the house for a certain amount of time. You can't just throw him out. Make sure you look up the laws in your state
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:45 PM
6

I also date younger men, usually ten or more years younger. F society, the dick is better and they look better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:04 AM
61

Is fully vaxxed a pickup line that people are going for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:47 AM
3

People take the internet way too seriously. Block and delete should not be a major life decision
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:49 AM
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Why is paying for a man's overhead suddenly a requirement for a relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:44 AM
18

This seems to be backfiring because now all these broke men expect women to own homes that they can move into within a month of meeting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:33 PM
17

If this is going to become the norm I guess the real estate market won't ever get my John Hancock on a mortgage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:30 PM
1

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:16 PM
24

It's ridiculous that moving in with a man this soon or sooner is becoming the norm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:32 PM
50

As soon as the mention anal I block. Even if they act like it doesn't matter in the beginning, they will keep pushing boundaries every time you fuck them. They might be nice before the first time but after that the mask comes off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:46 AM
52

Same. And I still have to tell both men and women to get out of my personal space almost every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:42 AM
30

Right? I'm not going to live my entire life acting like a sales associate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:02 PM
49

And I'm charging then for the time spent applying makeup since I have an hourly wage. Luckily I don't think this would happen at my company because 90% of our company is female, including upper management
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:27 PM
37

Any guy I've ever met that drives this type of car is a loser. The decals just confirm there's a depraved sicko inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:23 PM
10

Dick pics, sexting and demanding nudes are not my dream but that's what half the guys on old want, especially since tinder made the global option free. Now I only get matches from far away that expect me to entertain them over text . Very few hot guys are actually offering sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:13 PM
21

Except In real life both are usually pick mes that end up fighting over the douchebag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:56 AM
42

I have to disagree with this. The super wealthy CEOs like musk and trump always end up with multiple heirs by various women. It's the 99% that always get a lower quality of life, the average Joe blows, the type of men that are abundantly available to the average woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:36 AM
64

This doesn't get nearly enough attention because the chemicals that cause the decline are making corporations billions. Processed food, medicine, alcohol, tobacco, cosmetics, chemicals in the air from plants, radiation, fracking, mining, exhaust fumes from vehicles, cosmetics, chemicals in soap, plastics, pretty much all the cheap fillers used to make anything at all. 🍔, 🍟, 🥤, 🍺, 💊, 🧼, 🚗,⛏️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:25 AM
35

Offensive ads are the main reasons I quit Facebook and Instagram
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:17 AM
10

I honestly feel the same way about dating. I hate feeling like I'm being interviewed about where I live and how much I make. I just want a good time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:14 AM
1

This is another big reason why I stop making an effort on a daily basis. I don't even wear denim shorts in the summer because I have a big butt and the slut shaming is brutal. I only wear baggy shorts and tshirts now and never wear makeup unless I'm on a planned date with a total babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:35 AM
12

New scary fact about snap: creeps can add you In Quick add even if it's turned off. I had some scum bags add me based on mutual friends, I'm guessing people that added me on online dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:22 PM
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I agree with you. I only get dolled up when I'm explicitly seeking attention for a hot guy that I'm seeing when he makes an equal effort in his appearance and the way he treats me. If he makes me feel special I'll look my best for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:38 PM
2

When I'm getting food or running errands I don't want guys coming up to me, it's just a distraction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:15 PM
3

My high school sweetheart was the same way. I'd honestly love to meet a guy like this today, because the beauty standards for women have gotten so much higher with microbladed eyebrows and false eyelashes becoming the norm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:11 AM
4

I prefer not having their interest. I consider my pimples to be sexual harassment blockers and mortgage blockers because we all know that to get married I will have to sign a mortgage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:08 AM
6

The only thing I got when I was a size 2 was pumped and dumped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:01 AM
8

Sorry society, it's not enough of an incentive or reward to play with makeup everyday. Idgaf what strangers think. If I'm putting on makeup I better be getting head and big dick served to me on a platter by a college athlete. Otherwise, I'm not making the effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:59 AM
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I don't wear makeup everyday I refuse. And my hair is wash and go. Only exception is if I'm going somewhere really important or if I have a planned date with a hvm ( not wyd). But on day to day errands I'm au naturel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:47 AM
35

Most of the things buou said sounds like the average man today of all cultures and dating practices, not just arranged marriages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:58 AM
11

I've definitely seen some waitresses employing the same tactics as sex workers. I know some bar tenders who are sex workers, bottle service girls and hostesses are basically gogo dancers without a stage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:15 AM
3

Pennsylvania
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:58 PM
9

The multiple present thing is peer pressure from corporations to spend a lot of money, but yes all of the work in wrapping and shopping is left to women. Its unfair that men are not expected to spend money on gifts even tho they make more than us as a whole. I want to get away from overspending on gifts but I feel obligated because my family always gets expensive gifts for my kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:05 PM
17

I'm convinced this is why most of the well preserved women are single and childless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:59 PM
18

They use us and use us until were all used up and driven into the ground then get a new one. We really are regarded as appliances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:58 PM
22

Those things were nightmares with male "friends" who were basically children. I had to drive, pay and do all the work around the campsite. Probably won't ever camp again. Its like being a homemaker without the modern conveniences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:53 PM
15

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:48 PM
15

I've realized all holidays are about men. Not a surprise as they were created by the patriarchy. Aside from the slavery I don't like them because I feel out of place at the dinner table as the only single women, and I can always count on whatever fuck boy I'm talking to ghost me, because apparently texting a girl your talking to on a holiday puts them in bf zone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:45 PM
1

The thing I find most irritating about these apps is the fact that they have advertisers and investments that keep them going, so they need engagement to keep them going. That means they depend on women like us to watch the snaps and ads and hopefully buy whatever products they are promoting. That's a real slap in the face- that we are expected to swoon over these low effort snaps to the point that we compelled to buy whatever products are being promoted. We are expected to accept trash and also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:17 PM
2

Oh and what's up with guys sending a snap of the side of their head? I don't understand that and I don't want to so I just ignore them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:22 PM
15

No a lot of them live with parents but desperately want to move into another house where they can do drugs and be unemployed without getting harped on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:39 PM
59

If a guy doesn't know how to make me cum he better be good looking, sweet and make it romantic with lots of kissing, touching and cuddling. If he can last a long time and makes an effort by sucking my nipples and doing other various foreplay, I can enjoy it without cumming. But if I didn't cum bc he didn't try or is a minute man that's unacceptable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:38 AM
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It could be but it will make me less likely to call him again. Been spoiled by guys with big dicks, good head and stamina so I know what an orgasm feels like both clitoral and g spot, from p in v, fingering and oral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:36 AM
42

And they dont always make the dick appointment enjoyable for us. Even if its just a hookup and not a relationship, can we at least show some common courtesy towards each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:31 AM
22

Multiple losers, to the point where I'm thinking, yes all men are like this. Or at least all men in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:28 AM
42

You would think but most men piss and moan about it because they don't like spending money on sex. Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:42 AM
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Every single guy wants to move In with me on the 2nd or 3rd date. Its actually expected because in this area it happens soooooo much. My cousin married a guy that she hung out with for a week. It's really disheartening that I cant properly vet anyone or they ghost. Like none of these men understand the concept of dating and getting to know someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:39 AM
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Guys with scores that low always ask me for nudes and only nudes. And/or they're catfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:55 PM
2

I should've done this because my number somehow got leaked to porn sites now they keep texting me links. Had to be a tinder douche bag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:53 PM
10

That's why I'm not getting married or shacking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:48 PM
8

The military gives extra benefits and housing to soldiers with wives and kids so they donf necessarily love them, its just a status quo thing. Meanwhile they still feel the need to sow their oats like single college students
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:46 PM
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Gas money, condoms, car, car insurance and maintenance because transportation is needed. ( I have to meet him because hes not coming to my house). Cost of venue whether it's a hotel, apartment or house. Cost of old subscription. $250 fine for when he smokes in my hotel room. Cost of landscaper for when he runs over my rockwall with his truck. Cost of babysitter. Makeup, hair products, razors. Cost of therapy after he fucks with my mind. Lingerie or sexy clothing. Special sexy shoes I wouldn't no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:30 PM
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I hate dealing with male mechanics. They try to rip me off every time thinking I'm a dumb broad that knows nothing about cars. But the worst was when one called me to ask me out because I had to write my number on a paper I signed. That was at jack Williams
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:24 PM
72

They should keep sending us stimulus checks since we're raising the next generation of consumers, workers and taxpayers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:58 PM
19

This article has A paywall. Can you summarize it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:57 PM
3

I should not have to hear or see anything sexual at work. It's a distraction. I couldn't wear daisy dukes kn high school so these freaks need their sexuality policed in public as well. Guaranteed your average basic sexy women dressed in clothes from forever 21 do not get the same rights they're pushing for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:53 AM
52

10 days with no plans is too long. I'm blocking them after a week of texting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:39 AM
38

I'm fascinated. I want to follow this story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:24 AM
72

I've noticed now that I have a kid I am respected more by my family as well as the general public. I really feel as though nobody valued my life before I became a mother. That's probably why these women brag about their kids and make it their whole identity, because it's been implied for our whole lives that motherhood is the only identity that matters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:06 AM
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I was pretty much forced to get on bc at age 12 by my mother because I had started to get hormonal acne and she wanted me to get into beauty pageants. I really hate that looking good by any means necessary is crucial to being a woman. Now I have hormonal acne that I refuse to take prescriptions for and I still get th bullied for it. Even an aesthetician at a spa said "you have really bad acne. Why don't you just get on birth control?" Like yeah I'll just risk getting blood clots so that more lvm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:36 AM
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I want to see what happens when he gets kicked out. Do the girls wake up and smell the coffee after 4 nights? And this has definitely happened to me while staying in big Cities so it's best to avoid going home with strangers. In my 20s they would come to my hotel rooms and sometimes not even fuck me, just pass out and jump in my car after check out so I was forced to babysit them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:36 PM
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Ugh I'm so sick of strangers asking to come over on old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:31 PM
2

This is why I wont live by myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:28 PM
4

https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/causes-prevention/risk/hormones/oral-contraceptives-fact-sheet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:12 PM
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https://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/birth-control-pill-sex-drive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:11 PM
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Birth control has also been proven to lower libido and cause cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:26 PM
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Idc about the male gaze I'm not doing all of this. As long as I'm clean and my nails and hair are kept neat there us absolutely no need for all of the extra cosmetics, especially when they don't even try to be romantic anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:24 PM
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I've noticed that women's bodies are also viewed as public property and it bothers me. Its like they want to reinforce the notion that we dont belong in public unless we are there to entertain men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:23 PM
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If I already got shot in the arm I may as well shoot myself in the foot too because there's no point in caring anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:17 PM
20

I'm with you on that. I also have acne but I refuse to wear makeup everyday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:59 AM
42

Most things men say are meaningless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:55 AM
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I went NC 2 weeks ago, now I barely think of the guy anymore. He did the same stuff, love bombing, ambiguous, texting with no plans. Once it started keeping me up at night I knew it was time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:48 AM
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I would be sex positive if it was actually enjoyable and didn't come with stress and manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:21 AM
13

Another reason I'm in no hurry to cohabitate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:11 AM
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This guy was way too fried to even know what the word hierarchy means. It was just a minimum wage job while I was in high school and college so thankfully he had no impact on my career. All of my coworkers including the bosses were in their teens and twenties but the older people that owned the company still blatantly favored the boys and did so much unfair shit because they probably figured the teenage girl workers would be afraid to say anything, which we were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:02 AM
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Yeah I didn't want to bring up the tall gene thing because it always seemed a little hurtful and I figured that isn't a PC thing to say on here, but I was definitely thinking it. And I think women do want taller kids so that they will be more respected and have a better life as well. But I'm not sure that the tall gene will benefit their daughters. tall women seem to have it harder unless they become runway models. I had a tall friend that was terribly insecure about her height and became the bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:58 AM
1

Scientific research backs up what I said. Do you think I just pulled this info out of my ass? Do u think I enjoy paying more for eco friendly products?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:51 AM
2

And retinol isn't even healthy. It can cause miscarriages and infertility
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:46 AM
3

I'm actually short myself at 5'3 so even though I've always been shorter than guys I've dated, I think the ones under 6 foot are insecure because of society's conditioning that tall men are more valuable and better at sports. They subconsciously think that I can get a taller guy, which I can even though I'm short, because height doesn't matter as much to men. So they think they have to cut me down to lower my self esteem enough that i wouldn't consider leaving them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:40 AM
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One of my boss's got the job because he was a guy and the higher ups even said that. He was a tall white drug addict that got naked in front of the whole staff, shit in a bucket at work, left 3 hours early without clocking out and still got paid, came to work drunk high and late numerous times. Never got in any trouble for any of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:33 AM
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I prefer taller men just because they are more confident In themselves. I've been attracted to short men too but everytime I try dating them they show their insecurities by negging me in various ways. The height isn't a dealbreaker but I can't go thru my life being stressed out from a manipulative partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:21 PM
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Because wrong or right, tall white men are most respected by other men, and men still rule the world. Having a respectable partner means you will be more respected in your own life. Even though most women don't actively think like this, social conditioning has made it a part of our subconscious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:18 PM
14

I forgot about this oldy but goody. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:15 PM
4

I think hyaluronic acid might be okay because it occurs naturally in our bodies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:46 PM
2

The same science will lead you to believe older men are more attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:41 PM
1

I'm not a "cool girl" so. I enjoy pulling rugs out of toxic organizations be it the patriarchy, or literal toxins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:09 PM
0

And retinol can cause infertility and miscarriages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:03 PM
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Just don't do it. If enough women go without cosmetics it will become the norm. Who needs makeup anyway when you're wearing a mask? If being natural repels men, all the better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:01 PM
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Some are interested In what I have to say and my doctor even told me to stay away from salons while pregnant. There is multiple research studies to back it up. I'm the modern day Erin brockovich lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:58 AM
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It's worth googling if u ever want to have kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:55 AM
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Salicylic acid is not proven to be toxic but it hasn't been proven otherwise. . I looked into this why trying to conceive in my 30s and found out I had to throw out all of my beauty products and replace them with natural stuff to lessen my chances of miscarriage. Of course Google hides alot of the articles because they would hinder big pharmacy from making money, similar to the way... But even my obgyn gave me a list of things to avoid while pregnant and hair salons and nail salons were on there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:54 AM
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Keep damaging your bodies to attract men go ahead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:47 AM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://pdxscholar.library.pdx.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi%3Farticle%3D2042%26context%3Dhonorstheses&ved=2ahUKEwjMvtGNvt_vAhVMCs0KHS43Aw0QFjAJegQIGRAC&usg=AOvVaw3tTAohS4tr9edJ_HebhYVe&cshid=1617364004844
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:47 AM
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I got them while pregnant and they never went away. Now I'm super self conscious when a guy goes down on me which sucks cuz I enjoy that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:13 AM
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I know this probably wont help but it is going to get better. My baby was hard to deal with until after 9 months, then it started getting easier. I felt the same way about wanting to die during the first year of her life because of the huge lifestyle change combined with the hormone changes, but it did eventually improve, moreso after age 1. I know its really hard but please try to take some time for yourself to do something you love everyday, even if it's a half hour. Try to find a way to relax…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:07 AM
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My orgasms were weaker for a while. Then a year and 3 months after giving birth I couldn't feel anything during sex and also suffered incontinence for about a week. Both problems thankfully subsided and I'm having orgasms better than ever, as long as my partner knows how to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:59 AM
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My ex used to start talking excessively and loudly whenever I found a movie to watch that I really liked or if a song came on that I really liked. I thought at the time he was just being a dick, which he was. Now I realize he may have been jealous of singers and actors in tv because they were getting my attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:47 AM
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I refuse to use retinol or salicylic acid, patriarchy and society be damned. I still have acne in my 30s, but those products absorb into your bloodstream and cause thyroid problems, infertility, miscarriages and cancer for both you and your offspring. I value my health and my babys health more than I value the male gaze. Chemicals in makeup cause the same problems unless they're eco friendly so I go makeup free unless I'm going somewhere really important. Nail polish and hair dye also have horri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:42 AM
7

Oh and breastfeeding helped me lose the baby weight quickly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:29 AM
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I walked every day (when I wasn't too tired/nauseous) while pregnant and I drank a lot of water. The doctors said that's probably why i didn't have complications during birth. My feet and legs didn't swell and my blood pressure remained normal thankfully. I had morning sickness until I discovered ginger tea and ginger water. I also found that when I got nauseous it was really because my stomach was empty, and I needed to eat more so I started every day with a denny's grand slam. The nausea lesse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:27 AM
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I never downloaded it because whenever I see tik tok videos on other platforms they show teenagers in revealing outfits. And I know videos typically drain my phone battery. Plus the videos are always being shared by fuckboys on snap which left a bad taste in my mouth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:49 PM
113

An American woman studying abroad in Italy was killed by being choked during sex. It was all consensual. This was at least 10 years ago yet choking became even more mainstream since then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:04 PM
7

I agree with this. I only put an effort into my looks if I'm 100% positive I'm meeting a hvm that is making an effort for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:28 AM
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I think I would actually feel more comfortable with lunch because it guarantees I wont be out after dark with a stranger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:25 AM
15

Yeah I've noticed that very few guys in the USA offer dates, but ones that do are in big cities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:23 AM
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They're using this catfish bs to try to get nude photos too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:17 AM
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Yeah I met a few guys that I fell for taking me on short dates and I could tell they met someone else before or after. Like who has time for all that? Dont you work? Do laundry? Shower? Cook? Work out? I would never want to spend a whole day off meeting various strangers even if they were all taking me to Neiman's Marcus and fancy dinners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:15 AM
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Yeah so many guys are like this and then they go cheat with women that shower and have perfect makeup. Like you sacrifice so much as a loyal wife and it gets you no where
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:48 PM
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This right here is why I know I'm better off living with my family than a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:45 PM
7

And they are literally the only type of female rappers to get mainstream radio play. What happened to truly empowering female artists like Lauren hill, queen Latifah and erika badu? We have no modern versions of them. Remember "what would you do" by city high? They actually put sex work in a negative light with that song. Where is the modern equivalent? Even taylor swift sings about getting pumped and dumped all the time. Can she put out a feel good song for once? Shes always being put in a subo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:41 PM
4

Music is supposed to be entertainment but guess what I don't find most of the subject matter to be entertaining. But I guess I'm not a man so my opinion doesn't count. It's more of a brainwashing tool to sell products and agendas, as if the ads on radio stations aren't enough they also want to promote sex work so that only fans and other sex work corporations can get rich
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:37 PM
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Its gross because even the raunchiest lil kim songs from the 90s never had lyrics about sugar daddies. Yeah she bragged about using guys but this creepy sugar daddy thing seems too much like slavery and the media keeps trying to normalize the bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:33 PM
13

And yet we are still coerced into living with a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:22 PM
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I quit Facebook and Instagram because I'm done doing unpaid modeling and the lvm I would attract were far from adequate compensation. To think women spend all this money on fancy cameras and skincare just to fuck lvm from the internet that don't even hide their other women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:19 PM
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With all of the old apps and so called "popularity " of hookup culture, you would think it would be easier to have a good time. But no, only the men get to have a good time and everything has to be on their terms. The porn addictions are getting more and more commonly these days. I've questioned why things have gone south in so many relationships until I found fds and I now realize porn is the culprit. And these porn addicted disrespectful losers still think I'm going to buy the food for them, c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:22 AM
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No, even if you pay the subscription and for the super like on tinder, you will still match with a lvm. I've done this and those guys still want nudes or ask for anal, threesomes and other gross shit or expect you to drive 100 miles to meet them at their house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:29 AM
12

I dont like that they glorify stripping in that song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:20 AM
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I like her but she sings about sex work too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:19 AM
6

Look up "rebel" by zum. It's a refreshing anti pick me anthem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:17 AM
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I've seen so many girlfriends get "posted" and cheated on. And I'm supposed to think the actual gf is higher ranking when shes just the ond that gets publicly humiliated and lied to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:16 PM
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Maybe not if there is enough public outcry. Witnesses can call child protective services on him because he is a danger to have around children. The law may side with men over women but child abuse is not taken lightly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:26 PM
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Everyone should start reporting thr video for showing abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:24 PM
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They're porn sick and they dont know what they're doing. The squirting thing is a myth I'm convinced. I know for sure I have orgasms but I don't squirt. If they cant get you off they're just inexperienced or lazy. Dont let them put the blame on you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:11 AM
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Omg this post should be upvoted to the top. It reminds me of a new gross, sad and scary pick me phenomenon that I'm noticing: girls that live together as roommates and invite guys over to have threesomes with them because they feel it's the only way they can compete with other women that they or the guys deem as a "dream girl". Different from the corporate pick mes you speak of, but pick mes that will sell you down the river none the less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:45 AM
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She should leave him and get him for everything hes got. The video is proof of abuse. He wont be allowed around his kids if a judge sees that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:16 AM
28

That's abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:14 AM
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I hate when guys pressure me to drink or do drugs and ask me nosy questions, especially if they don't want a serious relationship. Like I can't get over the nerve of guys asking me about my income when they have no intention of dropping their harem of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:57 PM
48

Word. They could hate us all they want but if they want us to bear the next generation of children they're going to have to play ball
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:55 PM
1

I don't need anyone else to care if there's bickering in my family. It affects my life on a daily basis, not yours, the system's or the townspeople. Elite women have the means and support to divorce if they need to, middle class women dont have it so easy as marriage is expected of them and the older generations pride themselves on being married 50+ years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:08 AM
1

Maybe by society at large but not by their own families. In many families nobody has husbands, the homes are ran by mothers and grandmothers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:48 PM
9

I'm not bashing anyone else's situation and nobody should judge mine. I'm quite content in my living space and see no reason to move. Of course I've been pressured by boyfriends to waste my money on an apartment so they can mooch off me, but I'd rather not clean piss off a toilet seat. And I like that the creepy neighbors can't just come to my house because they know I have other adults living with me. In Spanish families multi generational households are the norm and nobody questions it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:47 PM
13

It's not the way I was raised. Again 2nd generation sicilian. I have a baby and who would watch her while I shower? Also, single women have been murdered in their homes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:08 PM
12

I live about 2 hours from new York so it's not as high out here but my family still views it as throwing money away. If I get an apartment with a guy and we break up it's all that money down the drain with nothing to show for it. Requiring marriage to move out of my parents home does make more sense to me because if we get divorced I get half of everything I invested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:32 PM
2

In lower classes it's more of the norm to be a single mother and live with family. Middle class women are ostracized if they dont have a husband or own a home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:13 PM
10

Word. I follow her Instagram and shes constantly exercising, sunbathing and partying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:09 PM
9

As a 2nd generation sicilian I can say the culture is much more misogynistic than northern and western Europe. My male cousin married in his 40s while his sister was forced to marry in her 20s, all of the women actually. And his wife is 15 years younger, works while he stays at home like a lazy bum. My other cousin got knocked out by her baby's father and my grandmother and aunt both forced her to go back to him and wouldn't give her a place to stay. My mom's side (Welsh and eastern European) is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:57 PM
18

I'm sicilian and I also view renting as a waste
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:26 PM
254

Hes doing it to appear single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:25 PM
3

If a guy doesn't care if other guys touch me its pointless to be in a relationship. And if hes letting women touch him they better have his rent money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:23 PM
6

And every one of them is an ugly neck beard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:21 PM
35

Anyone that has this done should try to sue for malpractice. Is this something that is even taught in med school?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:31 AM
2

You're right. I wish I haven't been treated like shit so much that I think it deserves a gold star
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:49 PM
65

Women are omitted from history to reinforce their place in the home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:25 PM
53

No. But I've noticed lvm tens to flock together and put their friends before women. They think they're going to fix cars and drink during prime time on the weekends then get a 2 booty call once their friends have gone to bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:23 PM
47

"Looking for a pick me to dance to my tune "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:20 PM
4

I could tell a hvm from the first time we have sex if he offers to wear a condom and brings his own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:26 PM
4

I experience this when shopping all the time with men and women of all ages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:22 PM
14

I'm sick of this kink shaming and love language crap too. If a guy pulls that shot with me I just say sorry I'm not PC. Idgaf about your kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:58 PM
11

If he actually makes plans instead of texting wyd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:45 PM
11

I started going out to eat and on vacation by myself right after college and Ivd been doing it ever since. Much more peaceful and enjoyable without a cheap insecure man by my side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:44 PM
5

Yeah older guys are definitely going to be more eager to get married, but it just seems fishy to me. I want to see how someone's behavior changes over time before making a big commitment. I've seen too many girls get bamboozled by narcissists, alcoholics, abusers, drug and porn addicts. If you've only been dating for a few months it's easy to hide these behaviors, not too mention they always put the most effort in the beginning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:43 AM
6

I'm in my 30s and dating timelines are never getting shorter, idc about getting married. If a guy is in too much of a rush for me to truelly vet him, let him find the next pick me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:54 AM
20

How is this not against company policy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:18 AM
2

I live in the USA. As far as I know the kits are not free or covered by insurance but the antibiotics may he covered if you need them. You can choose what sti's you want to test for. It does not test for hpv. You still need a pap smear for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:16 AM
11

If you feel embarrassed you can now order std tests online and do them at home. Everly well and binx are some brands that will send you a test kit. Also great if you don't have a lot of free time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:47 PM
7

My cousin married a soldier that she knew for 2 weeks which was fine for her but my family started pressuring me to do the same thing and marry anybody that comes along. He came to her bachelorette party and was the only guy in our group and physically pushed me for no reason. I walloped him back and later told my parents about it but they didn't believe me and said they can't see him doing it because hes really good for my cousin, is in the military and will get her really good health insurance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:37 PM
6

Marriage usually means buying homes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:12 PM
31

I'm with you. As I'm getting older I do not miss being mistaken for a prostitute when I'm walking outside. It has happened so many times whether it was men trying to "buy" me, women bullying me or cops harassing and threatening to arrest me. I'm not saying I'm drop dead gorgeous, maybe people just cannot fathom a woman being out alone by choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:51 AM
15

Can confirm. I've noticed a few guys try to neg me because I make them feel insecure, like I'm out of their league even though I hooked up with them. When I check their social media I find pick mes throwing themselves at them offering to do all kinds of gross stuff in bed and let them move into their apartments for free. I won't do that so I guess they feel they have to knock me down a few pegs. It took me a while to pick up on these patterns but it really does still hurt, and no it does not mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:46 AM
19

They're pushing poly because men dont want to commit and get married but the real estate market is suffering because of hookup culture. With "poly" relationships all facets of the patriarchy can win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:01 PM
13

They wrote these lyrics cuz they knew it would sell. There are so many pick mes irl that can relate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:58 PM
17

The only time I think its wrong is if your dangling money over a younger partner which is what an older bf did to me. Everytime he would get mad at me he would change the locks on our apartment and throw out my clothes, leaving me out on the street with nothing. So maybe living with someone in a big age gap is a bad idea, I wouldn't do it again. I don't think its ever a good idea to have complete control over someone's life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:55 PM
16

I tend to date much younger guys also. If it works for you fuck everyone else. The younger men are less manipulative and dont have as much baggage. Who wants to deal with someone's ex wife or baby mama?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:51 PM
1

Girls in their twenties are more likely to drink and do drugs during pregnancy and eat a ton of fast food cuz they're broke. I had a healthy baby at 31 and made sure I took the time to get sober and allow my body to detox for years before getting pregnant, and ate a healthy well rounded diet for years before trying for a baby. And my pregnancy was planned which is also less likely for younger moms. No way was I healthier in my 20s and a drive around my local college campus shows that few young g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:17 AM
46

We should be allowed to give guys reviews or star ratings after meeting them on old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:35 PM
25

I always said respect is expensive, too expensive when it's going to cost me my physical and mental health and put me in debt as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:27 PM
5

My boundaries are protective of myself as well as my kid. Last summer I went out with a guy one time and he expected me to go on vacation and drive there in my car because he didn't have one. I wouldn't do it and sure enough he was engaged and moved into another womans home by fall. You can't tell me he really loves her when he was on old all summer. It just shows me he was desperate to leech off of the first person that would let him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:46 PM
3

I've been doing the date thing for a few hours once a week but whenever a guy likes me he thinks we're going to start hanging out constantly, meet my kid right away and have sleepovers. It's very hard to find someone who respects boundaries. I wish weekly dates were a normal thing in my area instead of jumping right into shacking up. I don't want to leave my child more than once a week and I don't want her getting attached to a guy that's going to leave me whenever something new comes along
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:29 PM
15

I wouldn't bring a guy around my daughter until we've dated for at least a year, which makes the guys ghost me bc they all want to move in after one date! Too bad though. And I will only leave my daughter for one day a week to go on a date for no more than a few hours. I realize that this will limit my chances of getting a bf but they should be more understanding. Too many men want to be up my ass 24/7 when I barely know them. It seems like the norm for pick Mes to let a guy they just met move i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:21 PM
1

I like sweetie but don't read too deeply into anything a celebrity says, it's all for publicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:09 AM
6

I've noticed guys will be sweet the first time hooking up, because they want you to fall for them. Then brt each time after they start asking for "freakier" stuff. So the only solution I see is cut them off and find a new guy and keep repeating. I know it sucks and it's not ideal but they have such a short attention span that the only way to keep them interested is keep surprising them with more disgusting stuff each time or keep switching guys cuz we all know they love dipping their dicks into …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:05 AM
6

In my town there are white male drug counselors at a rehab that have been arrested for using and selling drugs. Not even kidding. One also got promoted to be a manager at a job I used to have after working there for one year. He was picked over me who was working there for 4+ years because I was seen smoking a cigarette at work one time and it was considered "unprofessional"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:03 AM
76

If being with a man is starting to lower my quality of life, he's gone. My wellbeing is more important than love so I guess that's a condition that has to be met sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:50 PM
26

The men fight over fertile dirt. The most powerful militaries have the land with the most farming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:05 AM
5

My grandmother always told me its unsafe for me to go places by myself and I need a man with me, because I could get raped or assaulted. Well who says the guy they wanted to set me up with wasn't going to rape or assault me? I guess it's okay for a man that's assigned to me to access my body but god forbid it's a stranger that I might find attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:53 PM
17

Right? Who says I want to he taken seriously by some diseased alcoholic tinder trash anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:36 PM
2

Because she is glorified for having plastic surgeryapp and they wont let women get famous anymore without them. Look at all of the famous female rappers. Also she got her fake butt illegally in a Brooklyn basement for $800. Something like ~1 woman a week dies from that procedure. Shes a pick me because she was in court for beating up a stripper that slept with her husband. Hes cheated multiple times and got other women pregnant yet she keeps taking him back. They wont give nicki Minaj a Grammy b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:33 PM
6

There is a prestigious private school in my hometown. Most of the smart guys in lucrative majors have girlfriends in their hometowns and cheat on them with classmates. The girlfriends at home are usually their high school sweethearts that are influencers, in beauty school or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:50 PM
11

The Republican man views you as a bang maid. The democratic views you as a bang maid and wallet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:39 PM
8

This Is why I can't blame only fans girls for charging for pics. Even though the site is poison, taking photos is literally a job that deserves compensation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:34 PM
7

I put on my profile "no nudes or sexting" and it actually worked. But I sometimes demand snaps of a guy before meeting if his profile pics look blurry or he's always making weird faces. One snap is usually all it takes for me to see if hes hideous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:31 PM
5

I wont send more than 3 snaps. If we don't meet in a week hes blocked. I also dont talk at all unless were making plans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:56 AM
27

Cardi b is not an empowered female. She is a stripper helping to make old guys that own only fans rich. I don't like her because she is influencing young girls to strip, have of and get dangerous butt and breast implants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:52 AM
1

I feel the same way. I have way too little free time to waste it on a guy that will most likely disappoint me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:59 AM
25

Omg thiiis. When I was in high school and college I definitely made some choices about sex and drugs that I'm not proud of and my mother wouldn't talk to me for a while. Now I realize that I was. Naive and peer pressured to rebel by partying and having casual sex, because that's what would benefit men and they didn't give af about my wellbeing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:20 PM
32

My family is kind of like this, only thing I was able to do was spend as little time with them as possible. I have a baby now and they are somewhat nicer because I guess I'm furthering the bloodline, bit I'm a single mom so I definitely get judged, at least it's not straight up bullying though. I still try to avoid family gatherings unless my mother really pressures me to go, but even then I try to leave early and stick to myself. Before I had the baby I used to travel out of state a lot so I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:41 PM
7

The best thing I ever did was learn how to ride so I can get myself off even if the guy is bad in bed. Not ideal but at least you know you will always be satisfied
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:06 PM
10

In my 20s I briefly dated a guy that approached me on the street. It ended because he brought his girl " bestfriend" to my house. He kept bringing her up the whole time and though nobody ever came out and said it, it was pretty obvious they were hooking up and he was using both of us to make the other jealous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:04 PM
17

I used to like getting approached like this because it saved me the trouble or going to bars and old but I realized the guys only look at you as a piece of ass. This type of interaction rarely becomes a serious relationship. Not to mention that the guys roaming the street are usually unemployed low lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:01 PM
53

Yeah and I've noticed in my family the girls get pushed to get married in their 20s while the guys live at hom until they're 40+ and then finally think about settling down. My aunt even let's my adult guy cousin live in an apartment she owns for free, and doesn't make him work. Pays all of his bills. It seems like guys are an asset to have in the house while girls are a burden which is so unfair. My family also has this prejudice against girl babies because they think they will have to pay for a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:48 PM
2

Even if it's a guy I know its pushy and gives me vibes that the guy is a user. I would never go out to a bar or anywhere without knowing how I'm getting home ahead if time. It's not anyone else's job to give me a ride or pay for my uber if I have enough money to drink in a bar in the first place. I'm so happy I don't drink anymore. So many lv guys in bars. I know it's a traditional way to meet someone but to me its just as bad as online dating only more stressful and has more potential for bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:56 PM
8

You're not the only one. All of my friends and family dropped off as I got older and still didn't get married. My aunt even flat out told me that I'm not invited to family gatherings if I'm not bringing a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:00 AM
30

I miss the lilith fair era artists like Sarah maclachlan, fiona Apple and alanis morissette. There were so many different down to earth female musicians to choose from and the lyrics were so relatable and from the heart. They touched on issues that make me think they couldn't possibly have been written by a man, bc they undercut the brainwashing that men have always tried to inflict upon women. And they weren't blatantly about sex either. "Arms of the angel" by Sarah maclachlan jas has nothing t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:57 PM
9

I hate when guys act pathetic and ask for rides just to go home with a girl. I would be more likely to let them smash if they complimented me and called me beautiful and maybe even came out and said they want to smash. Asking for a ride is just dishonest and manipulative or maybe they are just users. I would rather some chivalry and flattery even if it was just "game" instead of being used for a ride
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:27 PM
5

I always wondered why stores like forever 21 make cute sexy clothes when there are very few safe places to wear them in public. I guess they expect us to dole out money just to pose for the gram and make social media shareholders even more rich. Oh yeah and pick tock of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:50 PM
3

I guess I was forced to submit because I no longer wear makeup, jewelry or nice clothing on a daily basis. In the summer I wear loose basketball shorts or adidas shorts with a baggy tshirt when I have to go on basic errands and even to the beach, and I still get harrassed or disrespected sometimes but much less than when I wear tight shorts. Tight shorts bring the most harassment even more so than skirts. Only time I dress up reallly is to see a guy and I hate that it feels like I'm catering to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:48 PM
17

Anime guys are losers. If they watch it they have too much time on their hands. I like guys that use their free time for self improvement, like working out or doing some type of sport
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:38 PM
147

If hes 35 there's no excuse for this behavior. You can get younger, hotter less manipulative guys than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:34 PM
7

I should of but I was scared and shy ( in my mid 20s) so used to be stomped on by the patriarchy, shamed for not having health insurance, being single and also I had PTSD and anxiety. Nobody ever believes me when I complained about harassment in the past, I've always been told keep quiet or I'm being crazy. My own family has told me dont speak up about other harassment bc nobody would believe me, I'm poor and we're nobodies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:43 AM
15

Yes, a male doctor yelled slut after walking out of the exam room in an urgent care center. I was there for a uti
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:33 AM
10

This is shocking to me. In my high school the ap and honors classes were almost all female. This area is heavy on the "girls mature faster than boys" mentality and hold girls to high academic standards while the boys are allowed to be lazy, focus on video games sports and partying. Of course most end up unemployed losers while women are still expected to be responsible for everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:31 AM
6

Ugh I hate this type of bragging and it's so common
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:17 PM
6

They have toupee s and hair transplant surgery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:02 PM
7

This is not an excuse to be lied to, abused and degraded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:50 PM
3

No longer buying sexy clothes or lingerie to impress a man, only clothes that I feel comfortable in. But I do kinda miss sexy lingerie it just seems pointless to have if nobody is going to see it (not doing only fans- creepy old men are not worthy of seeing my immaculate frame)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:31 AM
3

Spending less on gas, able to eat healthier food that isn't fast food, and able to live at home instead of being pressured to get an apartment for a leach to live with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:29 AM
2

These defeats the purpose of dating an older guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:03 PM
101

This post should be published in the new York times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:48 PM
33

Yes! The primary responsibility for a child lies with the parents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:14 AM
17

Maybe Facebook and social media displays have you fooled. Those average women who seem to be in happy relationships have to take a lot of shit from men, work 40 hours a week then go home and do all of the housework, play free therapist, probably dont get fucked good, have no time for themselves, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:17 AM
47

I'm all for larger family units but of course mortgage companies wouldn't like women staying with family instead of aspiring to be homeowners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:00 AM
25

I've noticed that divorced women are still more respected by general society than those that have never married. People usually feel sorry for them if they were married to an abusive husband. I think people might be jealous of those that haven't had as many hardships, ie singles. But then again divorced women or single mothers are condemned by men in the dating market. Women truly cannot win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:28 AM
51

I've been saying this for a while. Women get bullied by society to buy a product they dont even want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:25 PM
12

I also read on a pua website that some men like girls with tattoos because they make them undesirable to some men, which automatically eliminates a lot of competition over the women ( in their mind). So the woman has less options and is more likely to settle for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:40 AM
-4

Well I mean it could be a test or the guy is just being cheap, or he doesn't want to be seen in public with a woman bc he is dating other women. Those are all red flags if you are looking for a relationship, which I am not. I get that my motivations are different than most women, but I see a date as a predecessor to me becoming a "mommy therapist bangmaid" which I dont want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:26 PM
-3

I dont want a serious relationship, I just want to see a man for a good time when I feel like it. I dont want to invest a lot of time or money into a relationship and i would much rather eat dinner with my daughter. If I'm going out to dinner with a man that means I'm not having dinner with my kid and i can't imagine putting someone else before her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:23 PM
3

I think skincare can be a hobby. Trying different products is interesting and relaxing. I used to love applying masks every weekend before I got pregnant. When my kid gets out of her whiny phase I'll go back to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:57 PM
12

I agree. I love seeing that there are other women with standards and boundaries out there. I just wish I knew more in real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:58 AM
94

I've always felt condemned, chastised or strait up bullied and harassed for having hobbies other than cooking, cleaning, shopping or taking care of a baby. When I go for walks, ride a skateboard, hula hoop or dance I'm called a whore. Some people have also implied that I'm wasting my time and I should be working or at a bar looking for guys (pre covid) so I'm not sure what hobbies are acceptable to men, I'm guessing the ones that they themselves are interested in, because they seem to be intimid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:51 AM
1

Even if I was super rich I would still prefer to live in the suburbs or the country
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:49 PM
1

I get if you live near the city, but I wouldn't travel more than a half hour from my house for a first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:08 PM
12

I just use it when I'm bored or want to have a good time. In don't expect anything serious from it, I dont settle and I dont give too much effort. I'm sick of telling complete strangers all of my business and they end up ghosting me, so now I'm pretty tight lipped. These guys are clowns and I just let them do their job now, which is to entertain me. Sounds cynical I know but this way is much better for my mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:15 PM
-14

I wish Instagram fit and a leisurely lifestyle where in because I look like that but I am an outcast in my area because most women work full time and do not have time to work out because they're too busy working and slaving away after lvm husbands or live in boyfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:22 AM
38

Oh god I am so sick of men expecting me to meet them in the city. I would presume you are talking about NYC because every new Yorker expects me to meet them there. And I live 2 hours away, in f*cking Pennsylvania. What makes them so entitled or smug to think I'm going to trek out there and deal with that traffic and parking issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:23 PM
5

I'm not saying I would personally miss them, but The male patriarchy powers that be want to keep them around. Also for another reason, they are consumers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:25 AM
-15

Somehow I cant picture prince harry or William with ed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:01 AM
315

Hearing this confirms that I'm better off as a single mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:07 AM
8

Pennsylvania: 1. Tons of guys whose only interests are NFL games, chicken wings and beer. Alot are neckbeards 2. Fuckboy eminem types that do drugs, cant keep a job, dont have a car and will try to mooch off of girls for rides and a place to stay. Usually on probation with a son story blaming the cops, their mom, stepdad or boss, anyone but them. Wastes money on sneakers, tattoos and jewelry 3. Hicks that drive pickup trucks, usually covered in mud from off roading, also into atvs, drinking in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:29 AM
23

My cousin was choked by her baby's father and she met him in person through a friend. Yeah she got a serious relationship with him but what's so great about that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:16 PM
28

Men are allowed to want hookups but they shouldn't waste my time and money and expect access to my home, for me to do wifey shit if they just view me as a fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:14 PM
74

Oh yeah and a popular question lately is "are u freaky" ie, can I degrade you sexually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:51 PM
21

The only questions they ask is what I do, what I make, and who I live with, which is why they will never get to meet who I live with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:50 PM
3

Guys love lesbians because sometimes they go both ways and will hook up with the guy, meanwhile the guy gets to date other women because "dont worry about her, shes just my best friend and she doesn't like guys anyway". Its a fwb that naive women won't feel threatened by. Also he can try to manipulate them into a threesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:51 PM
2

I've had beer cans and coins thrown at me from cars while walking. Not exactly rape, just harassment because obviously people are bothered by the sight of a single woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:29 PM
1

Yes, it has happened so many times. Not anymore because I have a baby. Which goes to show, they don't give a about our safety, they just don't want us outside without a cockblock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:26 PM
17

And I've been accused by cops of being a prostitute 3 times in 3 major resort cities, seaside heights, Atlantic city and ocean city md. Ac and ocmd even asked to see my identification. And I was doing nothing wrong, just walking home alone after the bar. Sorry I didn't want to leave with a scumbag guy and get raped by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:32 AM
10

Even worse is being called a slut and harassed by other women for being out late at night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:30 AM
229

I think shaming women for being alone at any time is also a way to bully us into relationships so that every man can get a gf like they feel entitled to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:39 PM
3

I think I'm over him after a 3 month healing process. I'm not crying anymore. I just feel numb now. But being numb is better for my mental health. Its hard to open up to a new guy knowing the way that they are. And I've worked too hard on my inner peace to let someone ruin it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:05 PM
13

As far as the anxiety I am experiencing a lot less without it because Facebook itself was my main source of anxiety. I got rid of it to help me move on from a breakup, deleting the guy wasn't enough bc I was still checking his profile and I didn't want to give him the satisfaction of blocking him. I do get fomo and I probably am not coping with it In the healthiest of ways ( scrolling through other apps) but i still feel so much better because those apps are not making my cry and if they ever do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:52 AM
64

I got rid of Facebook too and I'm no longer underweight and I'm getting better sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:02 AM
29

This is why I've given up on a serious relationship until my kid is way older. I'm not going to constantly ditch the kid to be with a guy, and I'm not bringing a guy around her that I've known for a few weeks, even months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:51 PM
13

That part is really important to me too. I've gotten dumped because I refused to go out in a snow storm to watch the superbowl with a guy, and another guy stopped talking to me because I wouldn't drive 40 minutes to sit and listen to music with him. Another because I wouldn't spend my weekends at car shows. I don't mind men having their own interests, but they shouldn't expect me to tag along as a decoration
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:11 AM
6

That's when they come up with a sob story so their girls can pay their bills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:42 PM
6

It's like country mouse and city mouse only its country fuck boys and city fuck boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:06 PM
7

We have these guys up north too, but we call them "hicks" and they don't mingle with the drag race guys. These guys tend to gather in sheetz parking lots and rest stops where I'm from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:03 PM
6

Dont even get me started on the pick me's that go to those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:59 PM
3

Having a monogamous relationship would be ideal but I know soooooo many people in sexless marriages that it scares me away from it. I would at least want to look forward to the pleasure after a long day of hard work that undoubtedly comes along with being a wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:32 AM
3

I'm so used to being treated like shit that the bar is literally on the floor. I'm so fed up and tired of dating that a gigolo honestly sounds like a better option
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:03 PM
5

I would pay for it as long as they understand they have to use protection and I'm not acting like a pornstar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:35 PM
2

I wish it was that simple. Fuck buddies always seem to want wifey benefits of a free therapist, mommy and sometimes rides and money, even room and board
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:15 PM
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