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9

Where else are they? I don’t use Twitter but I would sign up to follow GC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:24 PM
171

How can someone with zero empathy take good care of patients?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:19 PM
10

Unfortunately, with worse nutrition, girls go through puberty later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:39 PM
23

I couldn’t finish reading this. Sooooo racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:25 AM
11

Women are incredibly harassed, oppressed, and raped in countries like India and Saudi Arabia where “conservative” clothing is mandatory. They aren’t inviting the negative male attention, and neither are more carefree Western women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:03 PM
6

Is his profile pic Milo Yiannopoulis or Ryan Howard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:31 PM
20

It feels really nice when you have a little leg hair and the sea breeze blows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:27 PM
113

Nice job shutting down the women shaming. Any time a man has a problem they try to make it OUR problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:24 PM
13

That guy is a selfish and terrible partner, however... Some people are very happy with their copper IUD’s. I love mine, I don’t even know it’s there. Nice to have no hormones. However, you’re right on that it makes periods longer and heavier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:40 AM
190

We should DEFINITELY support her, she’s doing a great job for women everywhere by speaking up against the exploitation of the porn industry. ESPECIALLY talking about how little money she got paid. That, more than anything, will prevent desperate young women from getting caught up. $12,000 in 3 months comes out to about $24/hour, working 40 hour weeks. That’s better than minimum wage but definitely not worth the pain and degradation of the porn industry. She’s suffering in order to tell the truth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:38 PM
32

It’s like impossible to ruin one short of throwing it into Mordor, worst that can happen is you have to reseason it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:36 AM
85

Pleeeeze go to HR and come back with an update OP!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:32 AM
68

That poor baby. She had no idea what was waiting for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:08 AM
17

“She doesn’t like deep kissing” “I’m a smoker” 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:25 AM
78

Even referring to it as “choking” is already a euphemism. Choking is the internal obstruction of the airway by a foreign object, such as a piece of food. The form of asphyxiation characterized by pressure applied circumferential to the neck, resulting in obstruction of the flow of blood and air, is called S T R A N G U L A T I O N.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:37 AM
81

I don’t know why you’re being downvoted, that’s an astute take. Single moms have to be on extra double watchout for manipulative/predatory men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:35 AM
14

Either would work in that sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:34 AM
6

I’ve always Dworkin’s way of referring to them, as “prostituted women.” What do you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:32 AM
38

Powerful predators enabling other predators. I know 🍕 gate’s supposed to be a big dumb conspiracy, and yet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:07 AM
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As a woman who worked damn hard for years as a single mother, I don’t like seeing it ever used as a pejorative. Loving and caring for your children, even without the other parent who ought to be doing 50% should be a badge of heroism. And just because some women are crabs in a bucket doesn’t mean we ought to go down to that level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:55 PM
133

What does bubble mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:52 PM
-2

Of course not, but feminism is about women helping women. Not scoring points by being snarky and mean. Save it for the worthless man who put her in that position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:58 PM
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Wow way to tear another woman down! It’s not her fault some lowlife male chose to abandon his wife/gf and their innocent child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:19 PM
116

Consent or no consent, a guy who can get off from fucking an uncomfortable and unhappy woman has the soul of a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:15 PM
63

Just because something doesn’t last forever doesn’t mean it wasn’t a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:22 AM
5

Have you ever read Right Wing Women by Dworkin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:32 PM
8

LOL that’s a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:04 AM
40

The biggest difference is that FDS ladies are looking for the right man. MRAs are looking for a bunch of disposable female bodies to rotate through. No comparison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:59 PM
27

Wait...I thought men don’t take care of their children because of biased family court...? And if it weren’t for those pesky feminists they’d want 50:50 child custody every time?!?! I could swear there was a post on r / pussypassdenied like today even. Huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:19 PM
22

I’ve always wanted to see the story of Perseus told from the perspective of Andromeda, the princess of Ethiopia, who he rescued from the sea monster. I think it would be so cool. There’s a lot of interesting Ethiopian history (from the Greek perspective) in Herodotus’s Histories. I think Marvel took Wakanda’s fight for kingship lore from Herodotus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:27 AM
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Fucking disgusting. Yeah let’s watch men hit and strangle and have violent sex with black women while calling them cnt, nggr, tht, etc, that is so empowering for women. Go to hell, Pornhub, and don’t come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 01:33 AM
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Is that not where it’s mainly practiced?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:13 PM
8

Wow I hope he got her consent for taking that picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:04 AM
15

One of my husband’s coworkers (white man) does this with Chinese women and it’s super cringy and obvious. Question for OP - what problems have you had with fetishists in the past? Were they super embarrassing about talking about racial stereotypes, or were they just attracted to your physical type and you saw that as a red flag?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:17 PM
15

“You only need one after all” and that’s the difference between us and TRP 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 02:01 PM
15

As he should be, she’s amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:26 PM
20

Daily masturbation thinking of any fantasy EXCEPT him will keep your hormones in check. But it’s definitely hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:42 PM
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I felt exactly the same way as you in my early 20’s. To be frank, I was VERY horny and I wanted a man who would “seduce” me with tons of foreplay, wining and dining, etc. I ended up getting hit with a narcissist’s love bomb and ended up in the most toxic and dangerous relationship of my life. I will repeat what other posters here have said (and what my high school guidance counselor told me) - ask yourself what’s wrong with him that he can’t get a woman his own age?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:49 AM
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Well I’m a high earner so I like to not lose it all in taxes 🤷‍♀️ The funny thing is that he’s slowly becoming more conservative the more successful his business becomes. I might turn him yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:16 PM
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Women here are looking for love. Just that they want to be sure the man loves her back, and isn’t a cad or conman. And a good woman’s love is nothing but beneficial for her man, as evidenced by married men’s higher lifespans, better health, lower levels of addiction, greater incomes, higher reported happiness, etc. TRP assholes are looking for objects to exploit regardless of the harm they cause. Absolutely zero overlap between us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:41 PM
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God my husband is so bad about this. He’s a democrat and I’m a republican, we have just decided not to discuss politics together. He gets soooooo emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:32 PM
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If you don’t have a prenup, then you’re still subject to the divorce laws of your state, which can vary wildly. I didn’t have one because I think Florida’s divorce laws are basically fair. My husband and I have built the vast majority of our wealth as a married couple. And he’s a good father. If we ever part ways, I will be content splitting all our property down the middle and doing 50/50 child custody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:30 PM
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I get Botox 2X/year and love it. Got silicone implants as a congratulations gift to myself when I finished grad school. On the one hand, I had an excellent plastic surgeon and they look perfect. Nice size, they move naturally, I get great cleavage, still have good nipple sensation, etc. However I definitely got them for “the male gaze” and I know it wasn’t a feminist thing to do at all. They make it harder for me to have excellent back posture. But overall I am happy with my surgery. However I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:22 PM
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It can have the same bad effects on the consumer, that is, conditioning the mind and body to respond to masturbation to a fantasy instead of responding to a real human body during loving sex. And it can lead to degenerate perversions (bestiality is a huge erotica category.) But it’s vastly better than porn in that it doesn’t require enslaving women and children in order to produce it. No one is being kidnapped and raped and forced to write erotica. And there aren’t a bunch of violent pimps contr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:38 PM
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“I’m not into short guys but I married you so my kids could have a financially secure future.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:47 PM
4

A friend married a guy who was significantly less fit than she was, now she’s gained weight because married couples generally have similar lifestyles. Don’t get me wrong, they’re happy and he’s always been very good to her. It’s more likely that your lifestyle will change than that his will. If that’s not OK with you then maybe save both of y’alls feelings and move on now. No point in getting attached to someone who’s not marriage material, for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:43 PM
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I can’t post there for the same reason. Because they “support aaaaallll women,” including men in dresses and woman-face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:18 AM
9

I get where you’re coming from but why would we? Women don’t generally have sadistic fetishes, that sort of thing is sad, boring, and pointless. Better to just ignore bad men and deny them a place in civilized society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:00 PM
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If a 12 year old buys liquor at the store than YES the store is in deep shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:49 PM
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I’d like to be able to sue them because my underage son saw pornography. They target children just like any drug dealer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:27 AM
9

Nothing about it on his Wikipedia page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:58 PM
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It’s not a joke, he wants to masturbate to pediatric rape and he feels comfortable talking about that on his public social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:47 PM
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My ex husband used to send me shit like this. He’s still single and sleeping on the same sheets I bought 15 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:01 AM
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He should go to a gay club and drink himself to oblivion, wake up with a sore, leaking asshole and no idea what STDs he now has, and then he can talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:59 AM
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Because cam girls won’t give them anything for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:06 PM
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Disgusting. Can we just say orgasm? “Cum” is such a juvenile word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:10 AM
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They probably won’t be treated well, because abusers target them and there are a LOT of abusive men. So they have much lower chances of ending up with a quality man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:26 PM
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You’re doing future you a big favor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:24 PM
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It’s not a “loophole” it’s a definition. And speak for yourself, who is this “we?” Rape is rape and other things are other things. Words have meanings. If you non-consensual took a photo of a naked man, did you rape him? Obviously not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:37 PM
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Work on y’all reading comprehension. I’m a feminist and a mother and I would NEVER suggest a child is capable of understanding or consenting to sex. I was just explaining that there are some pornographic images (such as an image of a non-consenting naked person) that would be serious crimes, however not fit the legal definition of rape. That might be why he was charged with different things. If there was evidence of actual penetrative rape and he wasn’t charged, I’m disappointed. Maybe they didn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:51 PM
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Yes. But more of an acquaintance. They see each other at a get-together maybe once/year, and interact for work maybe a few more times/year. My husband thinks that behavior is pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:21 PM
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Legally the definition of rape is the non-consensual insertion of a penis into the victim’s vagina, mouth, or anus. (You have to have a penis to commit rape.) I agree there’s lots more that constitutes sexual assault but I like having a word “rape” that is clearly defined. So legally some pornographic images of children would not be legally rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:05 PM
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My hubby has a photographer friend who is recently divorced. He offers free sessions to beautiful models/social media “influencers” just so he can get them nude in his studio. As far as I know his skeevy plan hasn’t resulted in any sex for him. Hopefully they’re just taking their free pics and ghosting him, but it’s still gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:14 PM
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“I'm really gonna miss you picking fights And me falling for it screaming that I'm right And you would hide away and find your peace of mind With some indie record that's much cooler than mine”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 12:38 PM
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Ehh actually I went thru their post history and she does write like a woman, albeit a young woman. She’s probably just suffering from some low self-esteem and trying to find a middle ground between being a shy person who wants to be nice and get along, and a monolith of toxic masculinity that’s predatory and heartless. Like Ayn Rand said, there can be no compromise between food and poison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:36 PM
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“I studied feminism as a literary approach at university” suuuuuure you did buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:33 PM
2

This is soooo true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:31 PM
30

Can you expand on this tactic? Maybe make a separate post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:50 PM
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She was probably a pregnant FWB for a few months before he could commit to a relationship with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:34 PM
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Poor thing. After the divorce, she will still be doing all of the child care but at least she won’t be doing husband care or paying his bills. That is a win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:26 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ I would kill that man with my bare hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:24 AM
8

On the topic of loving your younger kids, I have four kids and love them all with the same level of intensity. Two from my first marriage and two from my current marriage. Being a stepparent/parent has been a challenge for my husband but I also think it’s made him a better person. When I was younger, after my divorce, I dated a man with children from his first marriage. The man ended up being the problem, but his kids were lovely. I never believed him when he would complain about his ex-wife, be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:04 PM
1

I had a really hard time getting over this one cad who was really good at sex. I forced myself to masturbate like twice/day and I always would read a romance novel or online erotica so my brain would fantasize about ANYTHING but him. It worked, I didn’t go back for any post-breakup hookups, but it was very hard. Took me like a month before stopped pining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:20 PM
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Exactly, the only a Muslim could be a decent man is if he’s benignly hypocritical about Islam. This is the way that the vast majority of western Christians reconcile their faith with basic human rights. They just ignore the primitive stuff and say, “hey, that was a different time, we don’t keep slaves/stone people for adultery/whatever anymore.” But they keep the good things like “love your neighbor,” and “do unto others as you’d have done to yourself.” Another way is to consider old myths to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:17 PM
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Another thing to consider is the inherent toxicity of social media. Outrageous things always get the most clicks, but that doesn’t mean there is no good in the world. There ARE good men. I second the idea of therapy, and maybe also try to set limits on your social media use. People are usually much nicer and more sincere IRL. Some positive activities that would improve your life (and also expose you to meeting possibly HVM) are things like volunteering, college clubs, professional networking gro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:09 PM
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They can’t feel it with a penis but you can feel the strings with your fingers. The strings are super soft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:03 PM
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You don’t have to help your mom in this regard; children are never responsible for their parents’ relationships. The best thing you can do for is just continue to love her and don’t blame her for being the victim of an abusive man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:14 PM
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Plenty of women are in abusive relationships with a man who won’t use a condom and won’t let her use anything like a diaphragm or IUD that he can feel at all. So hormonal BC is their only safety net against unwanted pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:53 PM
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That’s a MAN, baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:46 PM
21

Yeah but that’s actually good for men too because it helps them grow as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:45 PM
13

I also have a copper IUD and it’s the best BC ever. (Besides abstinence LOL.) I have slightly heavier periods. The more annoying this is that I have much LONGER periods. Before they used to last like 5 days, now they last about 8. And it’s kind of inconsistent, like the first day I’ll need to use a pad/tampon, then the next day there’ll be no flow, then I’ll have to use something again on day 3. But overall I am happy because it’s completely effective and painless, and I don’t have to put hormon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:43 PM
1

Notice, there is no minimum age to receive child support, so even if a minor has a child she can still be supported and if it’s true love they can marry when she’s 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:36 AM
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Ahhh Amy. Rest In Peace ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:29 AM
14

Ehhh, I have been the victim of a college “kangaroo court” myself, in undergrad nursing. I was doing my community service hours and someone anonymously complained that I wore “revealing tops that showed my cleavage.” Clearly they mistook me for someone else because I always wore scrubs to work and also back then my BMI was 19 and I wore a size AA bra. But the school didn’t even want to hear my POV, just wanted to immediately make me drop the class and try to take it again next semester, which wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:45 AM
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Thanks for the link, yeah I still like her and that was a beautiful pic of her family. Good for her for completing her first year of law internship!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:50 PM
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Real feminism has never been popular. #MakeFeminismScaryAgain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:47 PM
2

Really? Do you have a link to that? I always thought Kim was a nice person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:41 PM
7

Playful from the man’s perspective =\= consensual from the woman’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:34 PM
6

It appears that address is currently a liquor store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:09 AM
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I’m a nurse practitioner and I know loads of doctors. I love working with them and have tons of professional respect for them, however, as relationship partners I advise caution. For some unfathomable reason, docs are seen as very sexy by many women. While it’s true that they’re educated and make lots of money, they also have a lot of student loans, not much free time to spend with you, and a lot of them tend to always know everything. Take physicians with a grain of salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:05 AM
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Well, if you’re already sleeping with him, good signs are that his dick is hard (like cucumber hard) and stays hard, and he can orgasm in a reasonable amount of time. That he spends his time on foreplay, and looks you in the eyes and feels connected when you’re making love. That he responds to your verbal and physical cues, and can make you orgasm. Those are signs that a man gets his sexual pleasure from real-life interactions with a woman he loves. Signs he’s getting it from porn: he has a hard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:19 PM
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Highly likely he has porn-induced impotence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:13 PM
9

Real love doesn’t hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:52 PM
6

Oh wow an industry that traffics child slaves for the purposes of rape and torture does other unethical things too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:48 PM
5

Silver lining is a lot of women are going to be getting double stimulus checks from their worthless exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:50 PM
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Wow that’s a trashy word to use
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:04 AM
20

Women don’t have to sacrifice their dignity to purchase safety from male violence. Men aren’t allowed to shoot people whether they’re getting their dicks wet or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:02 AM
8

It’s a leftover pagan ritual but either way it’s embarrassing and gross indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:07 PM
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“And I have known the eyes already, known them all— The eyes that fix you in a formulated phrase, And when I am formulated, sprawling on a pin, When I am pinned and wriggling on the wall, Then how should I begin To spit out all the butt-ends of my days and ways? And how should I presume?” I think men are, indeed, intimidated by the judgment of women. They’re (at a primal level) afraid of being rejected and ending their line in failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:53 PM
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I asked specific sex questions, like, have you ever had a 3-some. How long was your longest relationship, etc. Those things are much more important than a “number.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:49 PM
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She probably meant if he made her wait 5+ years after having his child before he proposed, which, I can agree with would be wrong. But that girl looks too fair complected to be their mutual child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:47 PM
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Oh OP, my heart goes out to you, I was in an identical situation, except I was 21 and married (because I was pregnant) to a pornsick, alcoholic narcissist. Leaving him was the hardest and best thing I ever did for myself and my family. FYI watching porn with a man will never improve your sex life, because over time porn always makes their dicks softer, not harder. You’ve been hit hard with advice from the ladies on here today, but my last piece of advice is, no matter what happens, even if you d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:31 PM
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If incels want what women get, that is, gross and demeaning attention from people they aren’t interested in and would never want to have sex with, then they should put their pics on Grindr and they can enjoy our same experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:19 PM
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To quote Drs. Reay and Eisele, “Use of neck holds (by police officers) must be viewed in the same way as firearms; the potential for a fatal outcome is present each time a neck hold is applied and each time a firearm is drawn from its holster. The neck hold differs in that its fatal consequence can be totally unpredictable.” http://dhss.alaska.gov/ocs/Documents/childrensjustice/strangulation/16.%20Forensic%20Medical%20Findings%20in%20Fatal%20and%20Non-Fatal%20Intimate%20Partner%20Strangulation%2…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:14 PM
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Jealousy is a very very common trait of cheating men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:22 PM
11

Wait so are you committed now? Have you had the exclusivity conversation? Did he tell you he loves you? Living together is a big step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:21 PM
14

It’s not gross on women, it’s natural.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:57 AM
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If you watch online streaming porn you have seen rape and child porn. 100% guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:38 PM
2

My husband’s very smart and hard working, artistic, and has good taste, especially visually. I love to read and he doesn’t read anything but magazines. He’s just a really slow reader and would rather listen to podcasts or books on tape occasionally. We still have great conversations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:00 PM
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I’ve read most of those authors and all the genres, you’re being ridiculously judgmental on people trying to expand their minds. Lady, Aristotle, and Nietzsche are some of the most culturally influential writers of all time. Also know a very well-read guy who enjoys Atwood. And if you tell me you “enjoy” reading unedited Kant I don’t believe you. I’ve read everything Rand’s written. Strange that you call it “anti-feminist” to enjoy one of the most powerful female thinkers of the 20th century. Al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:57 PM
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I wear makeup because society expects me to, and because I’m treated better when I do. My skin feels better without it. I feel more like myself without it. I do enjoy the feeling of shaved legs, ngl. But even that’s not worth the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:16 AM
5

“Good Hamlet, cast thy nighted colour off, And let thine eye look like a friend on Denmark. Do not for ever with thy vailed lids Seek for thy noble father in the dust: Thou know'st 'tis common; all that lives must die, Passing through nature to eternity.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:22 PM
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Why post about it on Reddit? This is why: https://medium.com/bigger-picture/theres-something-sinister-happening-in-reddit-s-incest-communities-besides-incest-60f5f6429b85
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:16 PM
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So disgusting. I hope his wife sees this and leaves his pathetic ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:53 PM
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Maybe if the whole rest of the world changed radically, otherwise I don’t see porn ever not being exploitative, degrading, and damaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:10 PM
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If a man ever squeezes a woman’s neck, she is now 8 X more likely to be murdered by that man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:32 PM
4

I can see you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:49 PM
12

Somebody’s shadowbanned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:24 AM
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This is the only reason anyone ever lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 09:12 PM
3

No, it was his brother Cody who had the loving girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:49 AM
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He was arrested for stealing drugs from Florida Hospital. That should’ve been a felony. The Orange County DA Ms. Ayala chose to drop the charges. If her office had done the right thing, he would’ve been behind bars for THAT felony and wouldn’t have had the chance to kill his family. Don’t give psychos second chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 09:26 PM
71

Repressed homosexuality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:27 AM
138

I have 2 friends who were raped. In both cases, the rapist called them the next day wanting to see them again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:23 AM
24

I dated a man in the past who was short and annoying, he didn’t want me to wear heels. My wonderful husband is 1 inch shorter than me (and I very good shape) and we get along amazing.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 06:12 AM
17

Women are very nice to live with, we make the home happy! Why would a man leave a good thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:13 AM
1

Really?!?! That surprises me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:46 PM
14

Black people helped America land on the moon, black people invented open heart surgery. THAT is culture, what those young goons displayed is no culture at all. Maybe you can call it “peasant culture.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:56 AM
27

Compare it to a man wanting to hold a loaded gun to a woman’s head as he has sex with her. Except strangulation is MORE dangerous. Here’s a quote from an Alaska medical examiner regarding police choke holds: “Use of neck holds (by police officers) must be viewed in the same way as firearms; the potential for a fatal outcome is present each time a neck hold is applied and each time a firearm is drawn from its holster. The neck hold differs in that its fatal consequence can be totally unpredictabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:52 PM
2

One thing to think about - people’s emotions can be controlled by your values. So make sure you really love and respect YOURSELF. That will make you more admiring of people who feel the same way about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:56 PM
33

When they say “women commit x percentage of rapes” what they really mean is that men are x percentage of rape victims. What they can’t wrap their heterosexual caveman heads around is the fact that they are being raped BY OTHER MEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:16 PM
29

Read the CDC statistics. MRAs conflate non-violent domestic complaints with violent domestic assault. Men are slightly more likely than women to complain of emotional abuse by an intimate partner. Things like, their partner wants to know where they are, or says demeaning things, etc. The more violent the DV becomes, the more the perpetrators skew male. Stalking is much more male perpetrated. Rape, well, the women who “rape” men are statistically insignificant. Men who are victims of rape suffer …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:15 PM
67

My urologist coworkers says that women in their 30’s, with little kids, would be fine with putting the dick on a shelf for a few years. However men’s sex drive doesn’t change with the advent of children. He says that women in their 20’s and 40’s, however, will bring their husband’s to him asking what’s wrong that he doesn’t want to have sex. It’s frequently porn. Porn will cause an otherwise healthy young man to have impotence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:45 PM
28

I’m happy you’re happy, but I do want to pop up and say virginity is a social construct. You are in NO WAY lessened because you don’t have this “virginity” thing anymore. Maybe instead of thinking you lost something, consider you gained wisdom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:39 AM
8

I have been feeling soooo good on veganism and the pounds are gradually falling off with no calorie counting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:37 AM
2

I disagree. Sometimes alimony is inevitable, and in that case it’s better to face reality, than waste 50K on a lawyer and then face reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:54 PM
12

Why do mothers do that??? I remember my mom trying to set me up with a cross-eyed mechanic. And she looooved my HS boyfriend, who was a sad sack. She kept inviting him over for dinner even AFTER I’d broken up with him, which forced me to go to the gym instead of eating with my family. It was really hurtful, although at the time I couldn’t put my finger on why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:48 PM
12

You cannot share from an empty cup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:51 AM
23

Spend time taking care of yourself, doing active things that you enjoy. If he wants to spend time with you then he can accompany you bike riding, rock climbing, etc. If you have sex then do it in a position where you aren’t getting squashed. If he used to be fit then maybe he can come back to it? It really feels so good to exercise, and it’s so motivating when you just do it. I hope he gets healthy for himself and for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:07 PM
92

At least the whiny baby was downvoted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:03 PM
31

I’m long married, but I had good luck with catching their eye and holding the gaze for a moment longer than normal. It doesn’t take much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:02 AM
51

Over 90% of custody agreements are settled outside of court, men get exactly as much parenting time as they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:14 AM
7

A good thing is “don’t reward the behavior you don’t want to see.” If you ask him for something, and he doesn’t make it a priority, then stop doing extra nice things for him, for example. And yeah, I agree, work on finding happiness yourself. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:37 AM
7

My husband and I have each other’s phone passwords. When we were dating I would ask for his phone to look at Google Maps or something, and he would hand it to me without hesitation. I checked out his FB messages a few times, early on, before we really knew each other. Never anything questionable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:27 AM
5

It fulfills an emotional need and makes them feel loved and accepted. This is why, if you have sex with a man, he will assume you’re totally fine with how he’s acting in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:59 PM
2

The Wife of Bath was such an amazing character!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:58 PM
16

I completely agree. We don’t need to participate in objectifying other women. It literally stands for “That Ho Over There”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:12 AM
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