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NihilistMonkey/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 06:47 PM
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Red Pill TheoryNihilistMonkey/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 05:36 AM
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LTRNihilistMonkey/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 09:31 PM
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Not necessarily, plenty of girls simply aren't available, that's why it's a numbers game. Let's say I'm an 8, and you ask my girlfriend out, and you're a 9. She very well would reject you, (although possibly politely or blush or even flirt a little) because she doesn't know anything about you. I will have passed shit test after shit test for months, years, whatever, and she knows I don't just look like an 8, im a SOLID 8 all around. Sure you were confident, attractive, whatever else you were to …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 09:26 PM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. It's not about politics or economics.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 08:02 PM
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My thoughts? All is fair in love and war. They're basically the same thing anyway. Just keep your frame strong and accept that beta thirst is real, just like AWALT. Sexual strategy is amoral and while it's not usually my style, I don't see a problem with swooping in and stealing some dudes girl. You've got to be able to protect what's yours. Women want the best guy they can get, so just keep being the best guy and don't let the actions of other men get to you. It's more important to maintain fra…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:01 AM
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Because women care more about who we are on the inside. I know that's counter intuitive to what we preach here but it's true. It's the reason why frame is such an important aspect to TRP. Paper alphas will interpret confrontativeness as being a hard ass who starts shit, but I believe what it's referencing is something closer to assertiveness. Women want a man who isn't afraid to be confrontative when the need arises, not someone who is so insecure they have to wave their dick around to show ever…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 07:28 PM
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FORD Family Occupation Recreation Dreams All good topics to start with. RAPE Religion Abortion Politics Exes All topics to avoid. Also avoid talking about rape.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 07:18 PM
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I hope "second wave MGTOW" gains traction as a phrase because it is such an apt parallel. Where the initial waves of feminism and MGTOW were both solving real problems on each end of the spectrum respectively, new wave feminism and MGTOW have very little to offer. They instead play the victim card while simultaneously trying to reframe reality in a way that soothes their ego without having to take an introspective look. If they did that, they might realize that they are in fact the arbiter of th…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 11:11 PM
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Apex fallacy, he is not the norm for expected behavior and emulating him will not lead to success for most men.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 03:10 PM
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No, but the ones who talk about it in public are probably fat incels with the social skills of a turnip. Smart men have better things to talk about in public settings.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 02:56 PM
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If your jimmies are this rustled by some internet random then your frame is probably toppled by a light breeze
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 08:32 PM
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You attract what you think you deserve. If you act like a supplicant who needs to spend money to attract women then that's what you'll get. I went through a few years of that. When you act like a man with options, a man who knows he doesn't need to spend money on a woman to get her because if she says no you have plan B through Z, they will react to that. Or they won't, in which case you move on to plan B.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 09:02 PM
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Keto is a great tool for those interested in weight loss. I used it over the course of a year to drop about 75lb, and am very happy with the state of my abs now. Been on a clean bulk ever since. One week isn't really enough time to see results though, but it is good that you mention the keto flu. There is a period of time when you feel really sick near the beginning when your body gets used to using ketones instead of glycogen as fuel. You don't have to stick with the diet forever, once I got to…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 02:45 PM
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This sub is full of bro science and it shows no signs of improving.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:05 PM
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If only we could all be as alpha as you
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:11 PM
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Just going to be pedantic here, but empathy is being able to experience or relate to someone else's feelings. Your second meaning is sympathy, not empathy. Agree with everything else though.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:06 AM
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Which is why it's so important to maximize your sex appeal in your photos. Bio can help or hurt but that's just the icing. The pictures are the cake. You could be the next Shakespeare but if girls are instantly swiping left at your opening photo you have no hope. When I started Tinder I was just using shitty Facebook photos and wondering if I just overestimated myself. With better photos I started getting daily matches, makes all the difference in the world.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:00 PM
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You're not the only one, but you are an outlier. Despite my moderate to heavy use of it I tend to preach against it on TRP, because in my experience most people who smoke the way I do are losers with no future.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 10:52 PM
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Speak for yourself, the past several LTRs of mine have either been cool with it or at least begrudgingly accepting. You just can't start the relationship off being one person and try to become someone else in the middle of it. It works because they knew what they were getting into when they signed up for a LTR with me. There was no misdirection. You will never have as much leverage as when a woman wants to be yours but you haven't committed to them.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:52 PM
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Something else to consider is that what people on this sub consider beta didn't really exist in these "ancient times". Women are looking for two things in a man, Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks. The marketplace is so fucked nowadays that women are more likely to get those two things from two different men now, but back in the day they would get those from the same man. The men would go off to battle another tribe or whatever is is they were doing, and the winners would be alphas and the losers would …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:29 AM
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Anarcho communist, voted Libertarian since it's the closest to my beliefs
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:49 PM
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Are you me from five years ago? This is so eerily similar to my story that I'm getting triggered reading it. Even down to the wording my ex fiance used. The good news is your analyzation is correct and you've made the right decision. Don't look back. In a few years you'll look back on the person you used to be and laugh, as long as you make steps to ensure that you aren't the same person in a few years.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:57 PM
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I hope people take what you're saying to heart. I'm always reading posts by people that clearly don't get it. Everything is fluid, everything has an exception. They come here and think they've got all the answers now, and start regurgitating information as if it's set in stone. They think they've swallowed the pill, but they've just replaced their blue pill commandments with some new ones. TRP at its core is about being your own man.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 07:38 PM
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That's why two of my six daily meals are whey protein isolate drinks with almond milk. Incredibly filling for the caloric content and helps reach my daily protein goals.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:31 PM
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Lead by example. Continue on your path to success and maybe eventually he will see the light. Maybe not. You can't force someone to change their beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 11:52 PM
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My comment has nothing to do with settling for less than you deserve. It's about gaining experience to boost self confidence. If you're a kissless virgin, it is better for your self esteem to fuck a fat chick than to continue getting older and watch all your friends gain experience while you stay at home masturbating. It's a stepping stone for some.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:40 PM
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The only thing I disagree with is fucking fatties vs nothing. If you're sexually inexperienced and insecure due to that, you should absolutely lower your standards and get laid. You can work your way up to the majors, but you still need to play ball to get better.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 09:02 PM
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How do you fall into a relationship that you don't want to be in? The next day when they push for a relationship at brunch you slow it down. That's like how my ex fiance accidentally kept falling on other dude's dicks. Shit doesn't just happen, you make conscious decisions.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 08:31 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly. But I'm also willing to bet that "I'm doing research, I'm making a plan" is a pretty common bullshit rationalization that people use here to avoid doing real work
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 12:29 PM
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If you take nothing else away from here, lift. That way when you come back you'll be ahead of the game.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 05:46 AM
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If this offends you it's probably because it resonates in your heart as truth but your ego won't let you see it for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:34 AM
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Best post I've read in months, saving this to reread whenever I feel myself slipping from the path.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 08:58 PM
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Completely true. I had never experienced this before swallowing TRP because I never took charge of the relationship, but the past few years this has been happening more often. It was strange at first but now its kind of endearing. It's a form of submission, where they trust you and feel free to "act childish" because it's fun, it's freeing, and they know that they have you there to reel them back into reality when necessary.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 06:43 PM
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Great post, I like when people dig a little deeper into the why's of things. Too many men here are looking for a quick fix and a script. Introspection is an important part of the process. How else are you supposed to become the man you want to be if you can't understand why you are the way you are to begin with?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 06:46 PM
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When I first started lifting I would go at 3am to be alone because of the same issues you have. I'd watch form videos on bodybuilding.com and then try it out myself. It does get better though, once you put in your time.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 10:08 PM
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You're right about that. I was just saying yeah whatever because she kept interrupting my composition to talk about food and I didn't think there was a snowball's chance in hell of it actually happening. Pretty sure I'm safe though, there are sad betas and angry betas, he's of the sad variety. Much more likely to off himself than me or her.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 09:56 PM
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Ate some leftover pizza and went to the gym
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 07:58 PM
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Well there's night game and day game, either way you have to approach. Would you rather do that in a bass-pounding club or at Whole Foods?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 10:43 PM
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I'm just here for friends is code for "I'm in a relationship but looking for a branch/dick to swing on, and am creating plausible deniability in case he finds me on here"
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 09:19 PM
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It's also a great way to turn an ONS into a plate, if you're into that.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 11:52 PM
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Women don't date down, they date up. Just because you don't see the appeal of the man they're with doesn't mean he isn't appealing. And even if objectively they're dating down, subjectively she's dating up because <insert whatever reason is in her head.> And even if she's dating up, she's still a woman and is still interested in branch swinging if it's possible.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:15 PM
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Sounds like you handled it pretty well. Most likely does have a boyfriend, but no reason you can't stay friendly with her. Never know what can come of it.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:48 PM
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Gained a little weight during hibernation, cutting back down to 10%bf. About five more pounds to go. Started training more seriously for my triathlon. Bought some new form fitting clothes. Started wearing cologne. Still not sure how I feel about this one. Started accepting invitations out more. Not huge on partying but it's a good way to increase my social circle, get more practice, etc. Trying to get better at "small talk". One book per month. March is The Art of Deception. Trying to be more aw…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 02:21 PM
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Without specific examples it's just speculation. What I do know is that there is alpha and there is beta, and a giant chasm in between the two. A lot of people either wind up as MGTOW because they aren't willing to put in the work, or become paper alphas because they never fully internalize the mentality, and are going through the motions waiting for that payoff.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 09:45 PM
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Depends on where you're starting and how dedicated you are. It took me 18 months gym/cardio to get here, dieting during the last 6 months as well. Personally I think nofap is retarded but some people seem to think it helps. Sounds like it's mainly for people who have a porn addiction and need to go cold turkey. Lot of bro science behind it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:16 AM
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It was a harder pill to swallow than coming to terms with the nature of women. Of all the friends I had when I started this journey, the ones that I'm still close with I can count on one finger. I think the reason why we find ourselves unhappy more so than our unambitious friends is because we take our lives and our selves more seriously than they do. It's easy to be complacently happy with your lot in life when you can't envision anything better. Keep on keeping on though, you do make new frien…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:35 AM
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Everything here is experimental, and is just the result of dudes trying things and writing about it, and seeing agreement or disagreement from their peers based on their own experiences. The sidebar is some of the most universally accepted things by the most experienced of us, whereas individual posts vary wildly in quality. Personally I find The Rational Male to have been my best resource in unplugging. If you're asking for specific advice for your life, that I can't give without knowing more a…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:25 AM
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No reason you can't do both. Continue lifting while on a deficit, and just accept that you're not going to be hitting a bunch of PR's while you're cutting. Seriously, hard work is hard work even if the numbers aren't what you'd like them to be, and your body will adapt. At 24%BF you have plenty of extra still to burn. Once you start getting to around 13-15% you can start doing bulk/cut cycles and slowly work your way down to <10%.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 04:43 AM
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All very true, but one addendum: Law 10: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky The people you associate with impact you. Their mental states and values literally infect and change you, whether you like it or not. The trick is to associate yourself with happy, productive people who will infect you with goodness, and not obese, mopey sacks of sadness who will bring you down. It's still important to be polite and cordial to them in professional environments, but not every man is worth your personal time. D…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 04:31 AM
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It's a learned skill like anything else. You get better at all this shit the more you do it, until it becomes the natural way you behave.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 04:08 AM
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The takeaway is this: All those insecurities that you have, women have them too. People deal with nervousness in different ways. What you may perceive as bitchiness or lack of interest may be nervousness or shyness or her not wanting to say the wrong thing or whatever. It's especially hard to tell via text because there aren't body language clues, or tone of voice clues, or anything else. I know that I'm guilty of my tone being misinterpreted quite often simply because I have a very dry sense of…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 02:31 AM
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I too have a Darren acquaintance who is a massive beta. Dated and paid for everything for some girl for three years while she was banging other dudes behind his back. The real kicker is that in the entire three years they never had sex. Proceeds to try to bang all the girls in our mutual friend group and fails. The real takeaway I'm getting from this is to not name my future son Darren.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 02:18 AM
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10's don't really exist. 10's are 9's that also have that unique thing going for them that gets you going. And if I had to guess about your friend, I'd say maybe he just doesn't get out too much? It's easy to mistake a 6 for an 8 when all you hang around are 3's and 4's.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:23 AM
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Well yeah, that's at the core of TRP. Women want men who are successful, powerful, unbreakable, attractive. You work on those things, you get women. You fuck around for 20 years and now you're an obese Walmart cashier. Nobody wants the obese middle aged dude with no prospects or ambitions. Unless they are also obese, middle aged, and with no prospects or ambitions. Even then it's not really what they want it's just what their SMV can negotiate.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:01 AM
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There's a long list of dead fatasses too. None of us are getting out of this world alive and I enjoy looking good and having sex with attractive women who think I look good. Does that mean I'm vain? I guess I'm vain then. For the record though, my life has gone nowhere but up since I started lifting, not just in the "having sex with women" category but in all aspects.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 06:51 AM
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No you don't understand. You're supposed to just have sex with the one woman but only after you put a ring on it and only if you've got a huge paycheck.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:26 AM
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The male fat acceptance movement is basically modern MGTOW. Nobody cares just like nobody really cares about the Healthy At Every Size movement. It's just trendy to preach equality and acceptance, and Dove capitalized on that (literally) to make a profit. Dove doesn't give a shit and neither do most of the attractive women. They just can't risk social ostracization that comes from telling a fat person that maybe they are the problem. The feminists just have a better PR campaign than the masculin…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:23 AM
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Depends on where you live. My old town I'd say about 40% of my swipes had mutual friends attached. Gotta play it differently when word can get around. Don't have these problems now that I'm in a bigger city.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:41 PM
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I do something similar, except I go for their number and use the reasoning that I don't like texting. It has several benefits. First, when you're talking on the phone, they actually have to think fast and respond, not just look at your text and mull it over and never respond. Second, I have a deep voice and chicks dig it. Third, I have decent verbal game which sets me above a lot of guys. Text game is easy to learn, you don't have to think quickly, and you're not setting yourself above anyone el…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:39 PM
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It's a great rule to live by, and vital for developing abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 06:36 AM
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It's not that ridiculous. Some guys would do it. Not everybody has the same sense of honor and loyalty that you have, and I've lost several BP "friends" to women because they were thirsty or desperate or whatever was going on in their mind.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:53 AM
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Nah you're just a lazy bitch who doesn't want to put in the work and you're trying to use us as an echo chamber to justify your lack of discipline.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:10 PM
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Anyone who is serious about swallowing the pill and making real change in their lives will have to cut out most of their friends as they make that change. It's not malicious, but your friends are your friends because of common interests and shit. If you're literally changing who you are and becoming a different person, it stands to reason that your friends may not like the new you for whatever reason. They have an idea of who "you" are in their head and you are testing their beliefs by hitting t…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:57 PM
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You should always be a work in progress. There is always more to learn, more to do, more to become.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 05:14 AM
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Your argument hinges on the assumption that women don't have a brain in their head. Yes some stupid women will fuck Chad in that scenario but if your SMV is higher and you're properly dreading her, she will understand that it's not worth the risk. Women know they can fuck above their SMV, they've had dudes hitting on them since they hit puberty.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:22 PM
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Going to have to disagree at least partially. When done properly it's great social proof. You aren't automatically relegated to orbiter status just for adding someone. You're an orbiter when you proceed to like every one of their photos and become a validation slut.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 08:37 PM
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Stupid shit like this is why TRP has a bad reputation. Pull your head out of your ass OP.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 01:30 AM
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She wore down your frame inch by inch. You have to rebuild it inch by inch. You're right to think that you can't change too quickly or it will be resisted, but you do have to change. Shit tests end when she leaves you or you die.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 03:58 AM
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It's the same thing as gaming women. Outcome independence in all aspects of life. It doesn't mean don't work hard toward your goals, it doesn't mean don't approach women, it just means that regardless of the outcome, you're okay. Because you're okay with the way life is regardless of what happens. Your life was good before you even knew about X, and even though you tried to get X and failed your life is still good.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 09:41 PM
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It really can become real though. I'm still a cynical nihilist, but I'm a happy one. Am I happy because I tricked my brain into becoming this person, or am I happy because of the social value that was added to my life when I "became" happy externally? Don't know don't care, you're 100% right that it works.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 09:37 PM
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Your first post and you're already ahead of most here. Nothing to add, just glad to see a beacon of reason in an otherwise vast sea of anger and apathy.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 09:44 PM
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It works but they have to be invested first. You can't just act aloof and hope they notice because they won't. They have dozens of dudes keeping them distracted. Once there is already a connection it is less of an issue.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 09:05 PM
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Probiotics are fine if you buy the right ones. 90% of supplement brands are crap but you get what you pay for. Ideally though if you're fit and healthy with a good diet you don't need a probiotic because your intestines are healthy. Glad you mention non sugar yogurt. So many people buy with sugar added and then wonder why they don't have good gut health.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 11:58 PM
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No problem. Your posts, while not exceptional, are good and on message for the most part. Which is unusual for people who post here all day every day. I just hope you're putting in the work as well. Nothing wrong with going crazy for a day or putting your thoughts out there to see what others think.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 01:01 AM
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Very well said. The greatest issue most here have, the issue that stops their progression, is rigid thinking due to pain aversion. Taking anything to an extreme isn't healthy, whether that's a fake PUA personality or MGTOW isolationism. Some don't want to lift because they're averse to physical pain. Some turn to PUA because they averse to being rejected for who they really are. Much easier to just pretend that you didn't have the perfect script. Some turn to MGTOW because they are too attached …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 12:44 AM
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Not worth it. You can bring up TRP concepts and they will agree when framed properly but bringing up TRP directly is a recipe for disaster. There's too much stigma. Nobody wants to be associated with creepy neckbeard rapists.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:57 PM
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They behave how they want to behave. There is no one true alpha ideal that everybody should aspire to. There are some core tenets but beyond that alphas are who they want to be.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:52 PM
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The fact that you recognize that you were delusional and are ready to change already puts you above half the people here. The first and most important thing is to get your body under control. Lift often and lift HEAVY. Are you obese? Start a daily cardio regimen. Are you scrawny? Eat till you're stuffed all the time. Cut out fast food and soda ASAP, even if you do nothing else you'll start to look and feel better. Doormat/people pleaser? Think about what you're getting out of the relationship. W…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:35 PM
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Don't hate the players or the game just because someone taught you the rules incorrectly. Now you know, and now it's up to you whether you're going to sit on the bleachers and watch, or get in the game. Nothing is going to change just because you don't like it.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 03:07 PM
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Not that I disagree with this particular idea, but dude. You really need to get out more and put these ideas into action. You've made nine different posts in the last twelve hours. Less talking more doing.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 03:39 AM
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It's just the nature of the beast. Everybody is at a different stage, with most people at earlier stages. The ones who post the most tend to be the least progressed ones, because the great ones tend to be out improving their lives instead of cementing these beliefs in their head by posting drivel.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 10:55 PM
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Very well said. I think too many people get caught up in the idea that there's just one TRP, or that it's a hard science. X is alpha, Y is beta, all women like/hate Z. There's plenty that I've taken from here and utilized to great effect, and plenty that sounded like it was written by an angry manchild. There's plenty that sounded good but when I put it into practice decided it wasn't for me. Very interested to hear where the rest of this is going.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 11:10 PM
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Plenty of people deny that having a 3-month abortion is fucked up. I'm one of them. However, I'm also able to respect someone else's opinion without having to resort to ad hominem attacks.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:21 PM
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Good stuff. The core of TRP is self determination, which naturally leads to unique results for each of us. I see too much half-swallowing of the pill, where they logically understand the truth of TRP but fail to internalize the mindset. It's not just about replacing your BP script with a red one, it's about writing your own script. I could do a step by step on everything I've done to change my life and if a newbie followed it 100% they would probably have a better life than they did before but t…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:09 PM
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That's literally the point. Not everybody thinks the same way you do. What is a couple of cells to you is murder to someone else.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:26 PM
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When you wake up every morning, happy with your life and proud of your accomplishments.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:54 PM
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It's surreal, how different things are when you look through life with a different lens. Women will show you a completely different side of themselves if they think you won't judge them for it. I've had quite a few women joke about their orbiters with me and it really is funny now that I'm where I am, it's just strange because four years ago I was one of them. I treat these people as a blessing though, because seeing them in daily intersections is a constant reminder of how NOT to be. They also …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:19 PM
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It depends. If you're getting shit tested often it's because she is unsure about your frame and is testing it for weakness. If you used to get tested often and all of a sudden it stops, then yes you should worry. She's done testing you because you've failed too any of them and she's ready to check out or branch swing. A lot of guys don't see that for what it is and are just happy things are less stressful. It's usually accompanied by her starting to go to the gym more or dressing nicer etc and g…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 07:41 PM
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I have mixed feelings about this. On one hand it would be hypocritical of me to tell others not to use it, since I use it often for pain management and during workouts/long runs. On the other hand, there are plenty of people here who probably smoke way too much and don't do anything productive with their life, and the last thing they need is an upvoted post telling them "just be yourself, keep smoking that weed and eating those cheetos." (I know that's not the message you're sending but people w…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 01:38 AM
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This reads like some anger stage bullshit. Fuck her like you own her, give her multiple orgasms, and there's no problem. If she wants to cuddle the man who just made her feel that good then let her. There's no reason why she shouldn't be allowed some validation, after all she just validated you for the past hour. What you're describing sounds like an easy way to get a rape charge filed against you.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 01:03 AM
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It never goes away. Are you sure you're actually passing them though? From my experience they tend to happen less often as time goes on, as it becomes more solidified in her mind that she hasn't made a mistake in her choice. They never fully go away though, she will always need the occasional reminder that you haven't gone soft. If you started your relationship before TRP the shit tests may by increasing because you're changing and it's not the "real" you and she's trying to beat you back into s…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 12:19 AM
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All very true, but guys definitely have this problem too just in reverse. AFC's can procure friendship from women the same way women can procure sex from men (super easily) but converting that into a sexual relationship is more difficult because they don't understand that being their friend so easily is effectively the same as a woman putting out on the first date.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 11:51 PM
1

I would argue that it isn't really ignored. Most people who come here start off as low value people with low value friends and a low value life. While putting in the time and effort to become a high value person, you see your low value hobbies and low value friends start to be replaced with better people. It's a crab in the bucket mentality, when you surround yourself with high value people you are less likely (not 100%) to experience that because they value brotherhood and honor more than pussy…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 10:42 PM
1

If you're after the "cognitive benefits" then just buy a rifle and learn to shoot for real. Nothing wrong with playing video games but that's the same logic that makes people think playing those brain games actually makes you smarter.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 05:46 PM
2

Many people here never fully unplug. They continue to think that being alpha is something you DO, and not something that you ARE. One of the most important aspects to TRP is self-reliance, yet they continue to fall into the herd mentality. It's just a new herd, they never changed.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:54 PM
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You tend to get in what you put out. If you lift like a bitch twice a week you will notice small changes. If you lift heavy five times a week you will notice big changes. If you pick up a new hobby and do it one hour a month you will slowly improve. If you do it one hour a day you will quickly improve. If you cold approach average women once a week you will slowly reduce your approach anxiety. If you cold approach the best women all day every day you will develop a thick skin faster. If all this…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 07:43 PM
6

You are going to go through the five stages of grief. Denial: The part you went through when you first learned about TRP but thought your woman was some special unicorn. Anger: Welcome to anger, the second most useful stage. It's important to use your anger constructively, specifically by channeling it at the gym. Lift heavy and lift often. Bargaining: The part where you think if you apply enough of the things you learn here, your problems will be magically solved and you will end up with the gi…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 05:12 AM
1

In Europe there are increased tax rates to pay for medical care for all. Unhealthy people are the ones who reap the benefits of this while the healthy people lose money. In America, health insurance rates are based on the average, and again the unhealthy people will end up utilizing the coverage more while the healthy take the financial brunt of it relative to the value received. Unhealthy people without insurance also have free clinics which are again subsidized by the taxpayer. You completely …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:10 AM
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So what if they die faster? The majority of their life they will be bleeding the government economically because of their poor life choices, whereas the healthy person will not. Now if you're saying that the government is trying to create a system where their citizens are dependent upon the government for survival, that's a whole other issue. It's definitely not cheaper to have an unhealthy populous though.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:22 PM
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I don't have specific precedents to add, but I would like to add that this doesn't just apply to courting interactions, but to all interactions in life. First appearances are everything, it sets the framework for how someone views you in their mind. That's why internalizing TRP is so important, so you can maintain an "always on" state. You always want to look and be your best because you never know who you're going to meet for the first time. A common problem that I see here is that people are l…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:25 AM
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Your girlfriend's true intentions are to lock you down because she can't do any better right now, get you to sign away half of your property in advance, and then maybe leave with half of your shit if she can find someone better who will take her later in life. Marriage is dead. It used to work because initially divorce wasn't a thing, and then it was a thing but only for certain reasons, and then it was a thing but she couldn't take away your children and your house when she left. It is now a sh…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 10:25 PM
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Because women are naturally better at social dynamics. Having several attractive non-broken women as friends can be very useful because of social proof and because they can introduce you to a wider circle of people.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 10:16 PM
6

The trend isn't going anywhere. Men have always been expendable, and as social welfare inevitably increases alongside technological advancement, this will only become more self-evident. Men's place in society has always been to provide for their woman, and as that gets replaced by "daddy government" there will be less and less of a reason for a woman to want an average or worse man. There will be a class divide between men who've "got it" and men who don't. As millions of jobs are outsourced or …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 09:39 PM
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It's easy to shit all over someone else's thoughts without contributing.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:46 PM
2

The reason for this is because most guys who actually "get it" don't stick around. They apply the knowledge, improve their lives, and move on. What is left behind is a few select people who continue to promote the core message and a lot of people who either never got past the anger phase or dont have the discipline to make real change in their lives so they stay here and talk the talk instead of walking the walk.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 10:54 PM
2

The stakes are lower with day game. It's much harder to walk up to an attractive women in a club surrounded by her friends, especially when you're the over thinking introvert type. You're less likely to have them leave with you on the spot but once you get it down it is trivially easy to set up a more intimate meeting later that day or whenever. It's just different.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 07:23 PM
1

That is blatantly incorrect and you should do more research before confusing the issue. Common law marriages are not legal everywhere and have a specific set of circumstances needed to make them legal.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:46 PM
2

I agree completely that relationships and marriage don't last forever. Nor does anything else in this life. As stated I do not believe in the institution of marriage, so I'm not really sure what you're saying. Things don't hurt as much when you realize that everything ends one way or another, but especially as described above I would by default have other options, would I not?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 02:09 AM
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Keep it up man, but don't get lethargic when the improvements start to slow. You're getting your noob gains right now, and it's a huge confidence boost to see the massive changes that a couple months of work can put in. Just stay the course and remind yourself daily that you reap what you sow.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 12:28 AM
2

I'd be interested to hear more about your experiences. Do you have one primary "wife" with an open relationship for you to see other lesser "mistress" women? Children with multiple partners in an ongoing relationship? Common problems and workarounds? Is the relationship solely polygynous or is it polyandrous as well? You are very right though about attracting monogamous women this way. Many of them see the social proof you exhibit, while also wanting "a taste of the lifestyle" as you say. I've n…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 12:22 AM
3

Just being myself actually works pretty well, but that's only because I took TRP to heart these past three years and changed almost everything about myself.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 09:31 PM
1

Very true. Taking it to either extreme is bad for your life prospects and your mental health, but finding a good middle ground is key. To balance the needs of the individual vs the needs of the group you need to be able to discern whose opinion of you actually matters. You're never going to please everyone but you will need allies in life.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 04:12 PM
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This feels like a troll post honestly. If you switch the genders and replace friendship with sexual relationship then people would be fine. There's amused mastery, there's waiting to respond to texts, there's an IDGAF attitude, there's letting plates (orbiters) drop because they don't accept your lifestyle, the list goes on.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 08:38 PM
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