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| 4 | Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS. You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."Ok I'm going to backpedal on what I said above and agree with you. I'd like to modify my above statement to read this way: Assholes, nice guys, confident guys... the same percentage of each group doing what they do in order to get with girls. Because you're right, some guys are just raised to be nice to women. It's reflex, not some plan. And some are just assholes. For instance, I was raised in the South so I was raised to think you should always open a door for a woman. Now I just do it out of … | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 05:11 AM |
| 19 | Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS. You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."Newsflash: Most guys do everything they do because they want to fuck women. Every guy in this subreddit, for instance, is learning how to be confident so he can get with women. Assholes, nice guys, confident guys... they're all doing what they do for exactly the same reason. Let's not pretend that assholes and confident guys aren't. They just have different and better tactics. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Getting blown off after the first or second date.Yep. Right behind you. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Getting blown off after the first or second date.It's hard to do though, after a lifetime of being told by society and pretty much any woman you've ever met NOT to do that, that it's not respectful, etc. It's so hard to break that programming. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 12:03 AM |
| 6 | Getting blown off after the first or second date.Really good advice. I think this may be my problem. What you're describing as your previous problem mirrors mine exactly. It sounds like I'm just not forcing the issue enough, right away. I kind of work slowly, watch her for signals... I don't really usually k-close until the end of the date for instance, and I think I'm overly concerned with being polite and not making her uncomfortable. It sounds like you're saying I should just not give a shit what she thinks and just keep pushing with kino u… | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Getting blown off after the first or second date.Having exactly the same problem. Seriously, I was about to write the same post in the same way. I have great dates. Sometimes I even make it to a third date. We have an awesome time, I always K-close, they seem into me... and then I get the exact above message. So frustrating. I need to figure out what I'm doing wrong because this has happened so frequently that I'm basically wasting my time even bothering going on dates at all until I figure out what the issue is. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Growing a beard could up your confidenceMultiply everything you just said time three if you grow long hair. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 07:23 AM |
| 1 | One of the best seddit posts I've ever seen, it had to be linkedThis is amazing. I've been wondering how to actually get started. This is perfect. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 07:02 AM |
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