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| 2 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"I don't buy the bullshit about these PUAs that some guys in this sub idolize when so many of them have been exposed as frauds for A) making fake videos with actors, B) making high risk plays that are super inefficient, but when they work, it looks amazing. Like a PUA could go ask a random girl if they can eat nutella off their ass, and get rejected 1000 times in a row, but on the 1001th time they'll finally get a good reaction and post the video and their fanboys will go nuts. I go based on what… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:28 AM |
| 2 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"Why do you think the ugly girls as you've described them started to come to you, and kept doing so? Because you essentially believed your own SMV was so much higher than theirs that you could literally do whatever the fuck you wanted with them. Why do you think the HB8+ didn't come for you? Because you believed your own SMV was so much lower than theirs that you reeked of it, thus they conceived you as lower SMV because you created your own reality by denying yourself. I don't give a fuck what y… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:15 AM |
| 4 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"You're speaking facts | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:49 AM |
| 2 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"I'm going to go with fuck no. If you Google Max Holloways nose, imagine that but worse. It was fucking bad, like small children in the family would come up to me asking what happened to make it like that. It makes me laugh my ass off now, but that shit was fucking bad, trust me. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:32 AM |
| 4 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"Fucking fantastic question. I asked myself this all the time before. I do think that it fucked with my frame subconsciously, because it was so egregious that people mentioned it all the time when I was growing up so it was ingrained. The honest self confident frame is right on the money. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"This is TRP. That would be literal suicide for showing your face in a place that's almost universally labeled a home of misogyny | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:25 AM |
| 2 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"Mate I don't even know what the fuck all that is. I came to RP, got what tf I needed, and am on my way out a better man than when I came in. Glad I offended some of the circlejerks on the way out | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:22 AM |
| 5 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"I'm a Dual-Citizen in a place that's the hotbed of honker fixers in the world. The quality is super high and the price super low, in part due to the plummeting economy because of the US oil sanctions that are strangling the economy. It's also an Islamic country, and a very dangerous one at that, so the likelihood of a probably white Aussie getting kidnapped is super high. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 07:41 AM |
| 12 | askTRP is fantastic, but IMHO is highly flawed. This isn't a question but more a "Fuck You" to the guys in that tell you to "Be Yourself" and "Frame is all that matters"EC, with my respect to you anecdotal evidence is all that TRP has. There is next to zero empirical evidence where we can quantity things like a hard science. This is a form of social science, an art. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 07:35 AM |
| 3 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantI'm aware of that. I'm responding to his (awful and inaccurate) point that a 5 and an 8 think the same. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 06:38 PM |
| 6 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantI have this same issue. It's because you want the higher caliber girls, and the lower and medium caliber girls want you. The answer is to work and raise your SMV | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 06:35 PM |
| 31 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantThis is not true. 5 game is not the same as 8 game. With ugly girls, you need only give them a bit of attention and they will be all over you. The same bit of attention is completely normal to a pretty girl, because they are given it by numerous men on a daily basis in real life and on social media. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 06:32 PM |
| 5 | How much does physical attractiveness matter to women?Most guys in here are absolutely delusional. It absolutely matters a lot. Women love to have sex as well, contrary to what AskTRP will sometimes say. You can have all the "frame" in the world, if a woman is repulsed by your appearance (any combination of skinnyfat, balding, acne scarred, yellowing teeth, nasty smell, lack of height, many other physical factors etc she will not give you the time of day. This isn't ALWAYS the case. Yes, some fat, ugly guys are good at playing the numbers game and … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good or bad sign?You said "there's the door, bye". Then you accepted her apology and affection. You didn't mean what you said | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Flake to show abundance? Am I her orbiter?Definitely cancel on her and don't orbit. Classic RP wisdom would be to invite her to a place in a date where sex could possibly occur. Put yourself in position to succeed. Go out and get a few drinks (not dinner) play some pool, some checkers, whatever your thing is, and then escalate. If she doesn't agree to that, she's just not into you and you soft next her. She will not play you as an orbiter unless you allow it. Don't allow it | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 05:49 AM |
| 6 | Why is Jordan Peterson looked down by TRPs?Jordan Peterson is a visionary. He is not looked down upon by the majority of RPers. He helps build a framework for getting your shit together. For myself, I attribute a lot of my growth to his lectures. He's a good man and the world needs more people like him. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 02:25 AM |
| 13 | 19M - should I invest in a phone? And other questions:Get an older iPhone or Samsung (with a case). You can replace the battery for cheap if needed and get on a pay as you go plan. A phone is important in 2019. But you don't need to spend a ton of money and then get an expensive internet plan and all the new bells and whistles. Not to mention the distraction it will be. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How would you reject a girl nicely?Correct, you don't think this behavior is unusual from girls you aren't fucking? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How would you reject a girl nicely?It's phat as fuck. How do I tell her that, when she's not overtly saying she's into me? It's all covert with the asking to hangout, and bringing gifts, and being nice and shit | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How would you reject a girl nicely?Fair points, I won't dispute them. I agree I should be unapologetic, but she hasn't explicitly stated "I have feelings blah blah blah". It's just implied to me because she's doing this extra nice shit that's a bit unusual. So how do you be straightforward if it's not been explicitly stated? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How would you reject a girl nicely?Nah bro I'm dead serious. That's why I'm saying, what if she's literally just being super friendly? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Is acting creepy and threatening still better than acting like a beta bitch?She says "I have a BF" You: "Oh an imaginary one?" She says "Nooo, he's in the car waiting". You: "Tell him I said hi!". Stole this from another asktrp post but I think you are in greater need than I for some amused mastery. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 07:23 AM |
| 8 | How do you guys practice meditation?Many different ways to go about this. I've tried Headspace and it's fine, but for me what works best is to A) Get to the quiet place. B) Play some soft meditation music C) Once you take the deep breathe and begin, focus on your breath in slowly inhaling on a count to 10, and slowly exhaling on a count to 10. Continue to do this for a set period of time. Focusing on the slow inhale/exhale allows you to separate from the wandering thoughts and gets better over time. Any thoughts that come to your … | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Besides lifting what else is vital for self improvement?Try a bunch of things out and you'll find out what your interests are. These are for YOU, what I want is going to be different than what you want. Just get started, the journey is the destination. For me, lifting, BJJ for my physical health. Reading books like the Intelligent Investor, the Snowball effect. Learning to become financially literate overall is a HUGE skill for me that hardly anyone learns in school. Do it now, and get started with investing your money. Other books like the Porn Illi… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to come to BJJWhat's your take on this then? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to come to BJJNope. I kinda want to try though after I read that DMT naturally is made in the body. I hear lots of interesting things about it and if I ever had a good source, I'd likely try it once | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants to come to BJJHigh level problem solving with dire physical consequences | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to come to BJJI'm in agreement, especially with the third point. So you think my response text was appropriate? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to come to BJJShe's 19, I'm 21. She grew up in a church, and her Dad died recently after having been like a super influential figure. I don't trust women, but I know inexperienced when I see it, she had no idea what to do. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to come to BJJShe doesn't know the instructor. Forgive me for being overly sober, but are you saying she wants to suck my dick? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameMate this guy is a fucking giant and he actually fights, he could shut the lights off anybody under 200lbs with a single shot. No thanks, that shit ain't happening | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameHe would literally kill me, the guy is a fucking giant 6'6 and he's a kickboxer | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:53 AM |
| 1 | I'm a pathological liar, and probably a complete psychopath. Made some changes but need tough love and adviceImportant distinction is I didnt "make it clear I was a degenerate" right as I arrived in the church. That was her initial perception based on previous experiences. I had a carefully crafted story and plan that her, her church community and family completely believed. Initially based on my interactions with her, I was the "cocky party boy" because I've been reading RP for too long and that shaped my mannerisms. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm a pathological liar, and probably a complete psychopath. Made some changes but need tough love and adviceFirst thing in the AM I'll make some calls to sit down with someone. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | I'm a pathological liar, and probably a complete psychopath. Made some changes but need tough love and adviceYou read me like a book, mate. It's so difficult to say phrases like the ones you listed. And about the girl, I did mention that she makes me want to be a better person, which is true. It's not really important anymore though because she's moved now across the country. My lingering feelings come from her being the first girl I ever did anything with, and it ending off in a weird way. Thanks for the comment, I'll consult it again | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Mom secretly hates me.Give her dick to establish who the alpha male is. Your dad can watch the show | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Lifting/Diet questionI went up in weight pretty quickly. In the span of a month or so, eating everything in sight type of deal. Now I'm focused on hitting 180g protein daily, and my weight is still at 190 from the recent jump. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl flaked, what would you do.Not a big deal IMO, but you should adjust your approach. You're a high value man, act like it. If you see her, smile and say what's up. But you are not to initiate anything with her social media wise from now on for the foreseeable future. You aren't initiating texts, Snaps, etc ever from now on. If she wants to see you, SHE WILL. If you can manage that, I see no reason why you can't get her out on a date and set yourself up to win. That's the key, play to WIN. Practice good fundamentals and exe… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Break it to the gf?Do you have a spine? Cut her loose | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Oneitis for my best friend.One of the hardest things I've personally ever been through. After dragging it out for so long and knowing she isn't interested, you'll eventually move on like I and many others have. You're only holding on because you're in love with her and using the "shes such a good friend" as a veil. I know because I used to say the exact same thing. You need to delete your texts with her, all the sweet things she has said, all the awesome videos of you cuddling up together, etc. Its all a means for you to … | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Too aggressive?Did you read what I wrote? NO more texting. If she's interested she will get back to you. Focus on your life and mission, your friends, other girls if you have them, etc. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Too aggressive?Good on you for cold approaching. As far as the text exchange, I'd ask her what her schedule is like the rest of the week, (or the next week, or whenever you're going to get free time). People are busy. They can't always drop everything to come out with you. Don't worry about her not making it this time. Dont text her again, if she is interested she'll get back to you. If you see her in person, just be chill and don't bring this up. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Plastic surgery worth it in my case?Not any other adults, but a few children have brought it up in curiosity (when the insecurity was already there). It's a fairly insulting thing to say to someone, so I'm not surprised that no adults have openly brought it up | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Plastic surgery worth it in my case?Right, I think you're on the right track here. I'll put it this way. I started out with massive insecurity about everything. I'm too skinny, I'm awkward, I can't fight, I dont have money, etc. I solved every single one of those through lifting, practice through my job, training MMA, socializing, etc. I have one insecurity remaining and that fucks up my frame. The big nose thing. It sounds like nothing, but if fixing it will remove my last and biggest insecurity, why not? I couldn't care less abo… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | This asshole is trying to take my girlfriend, how do I get rid of him?That is the worst idea possible. I don't think you understand how big/athletic/mean this motherfucker is. If there was even the slightest mistiming on something like, he would shut the lights off of anybody under 210-225 lbs with a single shot. The man has a size 18 shoe and ridiculous speed, attacking him one on one is asking for death. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | This asshole is trying to take my girlfriend, how do I get rid of him?Yeah but I was literally ready to wife her. I can't just up and leave. I love her | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | This asshole is trying to take my girlfriend, how do I get rid of him?I live with her, I can't just up and move. I've invested alot in this relationship, not fake at all | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Zero experience whatsoever. Complete beta male. Tell me what I need to do.LOL. I didn't say I'm looking for premarital sex or not. I want to get improve my overall life. That's what TRP is about. Playing the game to your advantage, it's a toolbox. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Zero experience whatsoever. Complete beta male. Tell me what I need to do.I've read the sidebar. Still working on internalizing it is all. I have a few of the books, (Dale Carnegie and Robert Greene's work) in my room that I've half assed through and need to step up on. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | 18 Y/O High School Girlfriend trying to make me jealous? Is this a shit/comfort test? Do I apply dread?If she apologizes ever, your response is 1 of 2 things. Either "No worries". Or silence. Which of the two you use will be dependant on what she has done. In this case, she's just being emotional like alot of girls. Say no worries and keep it moving | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | 18 Y/O High School Girlfriend trying to make me jealous? Is this a shit/comfort test? Do I apply dread?You broke frame when you said the shit about how "you should have been a bitch and said you're in a relationship" The shit/comfort tests you can never ever give off the impression that you're butthurt. The response above about getting his number and him being cute is golden. Stick to lines like that | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How should a man act when talking to another man while a girl is watching to be viewed as alpha?Too much overthinking. Lead the conversation, be cool, be positive, you can lightly tease if you want and crack a few jokes. Don't be that fag that will try to AMOG the other dude and make yourself look cool in front of a girl | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Physically picking girls upSo upon greeting would be calibrated wrong? Like if she sees me, smiles and tries to give me a hug, just level changing and giving her a blast double leg (minus the takedown) and either overhead pressing her or putting her up on my shoulder. I feel like this might just be one of those things where it doesn't matter what you do, as long as you do it with complete and utter confidence. What do you think of that? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Race question (LOL)Appreciate the detailed response, I'll shoot you a message tomorrow, got a couple things I'd love to get your thoughts on. Looks like you've seen alot of things from my perspective | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Race question (LOL)Lmao chill with that bro. I grew up in LA, there's no accent or curry shit whatsoever. I'll keep the rest in mind | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Race question (LOL)I could get bigger, but I deadlift 420lbs and do alot of cardio related sports. Played basketball in college, do Muay Thai kickboxing currently. If I went on a serious bulk I have no doubt I'd be monstrous, but I do not desire to be a mass monster. I'm already stronger than the vast majority. Performance and being lean is a bigger priority | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 03:40 AM |
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