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| 4 | FDS-adjacent FICTION novelsJane Eyre is a novel for pick mes - Wide Sargasso Sea is a book from the perspective of the first Mrs. Rochester. I think it kind of shows what life was like without options and is a good mirror for Jayne Eyre. Tess of the D’Urbervilles show the hypocrisy of LVMs and the harm they can do women. Kate Chopin’s The Awakening but I found it boring. AAAAALLLLL of Sylvia Plath and Adrienne Rich for poetry. If you want to read about LVW/M ruining everything Anna Karenina lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.No, you’re not worth talking to because you keep putting words in my mouth. That’s why I didn’t bother and sarcastically congratulated you. Of course I don’t support porn. I support an individual’s choice to make porn if it’s of their own choosing and I would never shame a person forced into porn and there’s a lot that goes into that. But you’re going to say I support porn because you have the reading comprehension and discernment of a 3rd grader. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.🙄🙄🙄 Awesome job at having a discussion. Gold star. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.Your comment has made me feel like this whole shitshow was worth it. Thank you. If you’re interested a bit more about the capitalism part of femaleness you should read Women, Race, and Class by Angela Davies. It’s a bit dated but really good and I think gives an interesting perspective that all of the problems feminism tries to address are actually caused by capitalism and we could solve them with a more communistic/socialist society. Anyway, thanks again for understanding my position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.None of what you pasted is the exploitation of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.I have not heard of her but jeez, lol. I don’t know how she got into prostitution or porn, so I can’t really say, but I don’t think women being forced into sex work to survive would be something any feminist would be supportive of. If she chose that over other options I think it deserves deeper examination of possible childhood sex abuse conditioning her. As for the gallery exhibit - conceptually I think it’s interesting. I’m not sure it’s inherently pornographic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.Gloria Steinem and Sylvia Plath are solidly second wave feminists That's what I said. So - there's a disconnect here. Taking away anyone's personal choice is impugning on their personal liberties and that I do believe. I don't think pornography should be banned, or even prostitution. I take responsibility for my own sexuality and wouldn't let anyone tell me what I can or can't do. I believe personal choice is paramount. I don't believe most people in porn are choosing that lifestyle nor are they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:39 PM |
| -1 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.P.s. the only privilege I had over you is apparently literacy and access to feminist literature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.You’re a horrible person. But a truuuuue feminist right? Fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.And how do LibFems support that? How did they not dissent against the objectification of women? How did they not point out that porn is harmful in the sexual maturation of boys? They did, they were there. If you were too young to notice or not listening, that's on you. That's literally my only point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 8 | Would you date a guy who seems like HVM but have communication issues ?Well, a) those aren't HVMs. b) yeah that's gaslighting, girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:58 PM |
| -10 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.I don't know why you're generalizing to all "LibFems". I personally do think there is some value in media that actually shows how a woman is pleasured and gets off because if porn is here, might as well have representation. On the flip side of that, it's not like men are watching that porn so it won't make a difference anyway. I think the actual issue with porn and "LibFems" that you're having here is capitalism. Any way there is to make money a capitalist will and sex work is the oldest profess… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:17 PM |
| 15 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.You’re acting like a reddit martyr and pickme. No, I'm not. If you just dismiss everything you don't agree with on the surface you'll literally never learn anything. I think porn is generally a front for human trafficking. I think that it sets unrealistic standards for men and women. I think it damages self-esteem and relationships. It's not a good thing. My only point is that LibFems don't support porn. No one is willing to have the conversation around that because LibFem automatically makes yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:59 PM |
| 11 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.I absolutely understand why the sub does not support the commercial porn industry. I don't understand why this sub thinks LibFems do. They don't. Instead of answering the question I posed people jumped to "ur so dumb/missing the point". Just came back with the same energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.What are you talking about? I'm saying that the "LibFems" I know are not outliers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.Not particularly. I asked a question: where does that narrative come from? Everyone's just being bitchy instead lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:41 PM |
| 0 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.... I'm saying me and my friends are the rule not the exception i.e. not outliers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.I don't know. Me and most of my friends are "LibFems" and none of us are like "YES, PORN IS GREAT AND EMPOWERING", most of us find it exceptionally gross. There is a subsection of porn that is actually for women and that is not as gross and usually it's female-owned but that's the only conceivable way I could see it being "pushed". I think this is just a strange opinion OP has that isn't based in fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:22 PM |
| 4 | [QUESTION] What's it like dating a HVM?Surprise gifts: my bf bought us tickets to a book tour in Nashville we're both interested in and surprised me with them. He also bought my plane ticket for vacation since he asked me to go. Does things he hates for the good of the household. With the whole COVID-19 thing the stores have been crazy. He went grocery shopping last night which is a chore he hates because we needed stuff. Normally I would say this is a normal person thing, but it was above and beyond what I was willing to do lol. Gen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:04 PM |
| 22 | RAPE LAWS: In the 70s it was marital rape, the 80s it was date rape, the 90s was roofies & rape drugs, 2000s it was rape while intoxicated/campus rape, & 2010s it was revenge porn and physical assault during sex. What new anti-sexual violence war will we have to wage with the Scrotes in the 2020s?I'd love to see more laws around reproductive coercion. It's fascinating in a fucked up way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:56 AM |
| 49 | RAPE LAWS: In the 70s it was marital rape, the 80s it was date rape, the 90s was roofies & rape drugs, 2000s it was rape while intoxicated/campus rape, & 2010s it was revenge porn and physical assault during sex. What new anti-sexual violence war will we have to wage with the Scrotes in the 2020s?One of my ex's did that to me back in college. I slapped the shit out of him and when I told people he raped me they were like "But you consented." and I was like "Yeah, to PROTECTED sex." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.Where does this whole LibFems pushing porn narrative come from? At most there's been a push for porn that caters to women instead of men. As far as "traditional" porn, MEN have been pushing that, not women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:49 AM |
| 4 | Tradwives have no idea what real traditional cultures are like.Tradwives and their scrotes are just larping some 1950s fantasy This is exactly what I was going to reply. It's not really that they're "traditional" - they just picked a time when women were compliant with being subjugated after WWII and the resulting economic boom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 06:53 PM |
| 19 | How to become a racist LibFem or TradWife Pickmeisha in one helpful illustration! Brought to you by the racists at r/TradWife!Yeah isn’t this a red pill thing? Wtf is it doing here?! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | “I thought he was HVM!”🙌🙌🙌 I’m glad someone finally said it. It’s the why not the what! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:57 PM |
| 46 | "whats your biggest turn off personality wise?" LVM like this dudeFeminism is just as bad as rapeyness. Ok bud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:53 PM |
| 8 | More LVM Period ShamingI accidentally left period blood under the toilet seat and didn’t notice and my bf was just like “whatever.” Men without sisters/exposure to women are creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:51 PM |
| 12 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”No I totally agree with you. I have PTSD too and yelling is out. I also feel like he gaslit diamond to get around him not telling her. I wanted to like him but he sucked SO hard. Kenny was a champ. Apparently they talked about it and both he and Kelly agreed to say no but she had the misfortune of going first. Either way he showed himself to be a HVM by the way he talked to the families. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”I think I said it that way because both people are black. I think it’s also more of an issue in the Latino culture (being a Latina I think it’s more of an issue to be a “catcher” than a “pitcher”. I’m pretty Americanized and white passing and in white culture it’s a thing but not quite as stigmatized) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”No don’t sweat it. In my mind it’s like someone saying you not wanting to date a fat person or trans person is fatphobic or transphobic. It’s not - it’s sexual or romantic preference. People might be offended by your choice but you should NEVER feel pressured or obligated to sleep with or date someone you don’t want to. I will say I don’t think any of those things makes someone a bad partner inherently, but ultimately respect people’s choices in their partners! I’ve been struggling a long time w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:30 AM |
| 10 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”Lol truuuuuue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:53 PM |
| 6 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”Oh I’m not even trying to say you need to be more open. To each their own! As a bi person myself I think it’d make me a hypocrite to not date other bi people but I fully understand wanting a 100% hetero relationship. Especially if you’re straight and can’t really get around someone being attracted to both genders (I know the liberal acceptance thing makes that sound icky to not want that but there’s a difference between thinking bi people exist and have rights vs. wanting to date them yourself! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:49 PM |
| 17 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”I guess from my POV it’s less about being bi than it is loving to sleep around. And him saying he could only have a love relationship with a woman. He was ticking a bunch of boxes that really just meant “unstable”! I’ve met bi guys that are extremely monogamous but Carlton did not give me that vibe lol. And the daddy hat. Come onnnnnn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:08 PM |
| 49 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”Carlton was the big one for me. I'm bi so I was rooting for him, but he kept that from Diamond until after proposing. From what I understand about the black community, it's a pretty big deal to sleep with men, and he knew it was going to be a problem. When she needed a second to think it over he immediately tried to put the blame on her for being homophobic which was not the case. He was acting like a total asshole before he told her too. Carlton is the biggest LVM of the entire show. Not becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:48 PM |
| 29 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”I think that's the biggest difference between dudes who are triflin'. Men who are ready don't fuck around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Cool girl shit on female dominated subsI have noticed the kids thing but I honestly think that for women who don't want kids it's like an expectation for us and it can be relieving to find a space where we can talk about not wanting them. Besides truechildfree (which makes sense) the only other place I've noticed it is trollx. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:34 PM |
| 5 | This is vileA guy did this to me once in high school. I heard from one of the people he was trash talking me to. I didn't even address it. Just unfriended and blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:25 PM |
| 9 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfBeards: Burkas for Men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfDaaaaaamn. Let the trash take itself out, hon. Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Apparently, my sister and I are "shallow" because she doesn't want to date a guy and I'm telling her she doesn't have toWhy are her friends cutting her down? If she doesn't find him attractive she shouldn't have to date him. I once tore my friend a new one for trying to play matchmaker with an ugly dude. I was like "why the fuck would you do that to me." Her friends are being assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:09 PM |
| 128 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”I fucking LOVE this show. I think Cameron and Lauren was an example of a HVM and HVW finding each other and being like hell yeah. And then you've got Barnett and Amber who are both objectively low value assholes but their love is such scummy purity I can't help but root for them. edit: and just in case anyone tells me Barnett and Amber are not low value - Barnett lets his dog shit inside and Amber is a 100% dick to other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Men are just disgustingDid you get him fired? Or at least go to HR? Burn him to the ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 8 | [I don't know how to title this post]Good to know. I've thought about using it when feeling insecure but I just don't feel like it's needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Vet your partners not only for your safety but also for your pets safety....men poison their wives horses due to “jealousy” smh...That's the part where I was like "wtffff". He would have hurt his own kids to get back at her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Why I'd never let myself be "supported" by a man. LVM will literally hold you hostage.Wrote up a comment in the thread but linking it here for you: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fcwff5/why_id_never_let_myself_be_supported_by_a_man_lvm/fjddgst/ I couldn't get a copy of the original. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:58 PM |
| 36 | Why I'd never let myself be "supported" by a man. LVM will literally hold you hostage.Ok - so basically: She's being supported by her bf and he made her justify and basically write a dissertation of why she wanted a $1.60 jar of peanut butter because there's no food in the house for her when it comes to breakfast and lunch. He gets it, but is bitchy about it. The next day he goes out and buys himself a bunch of snacks that she doesn't like and says some of it is for her breakfast and lunch (even though she doesn't like those foods. Just want to emphasize that). She gets upset tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Why I'd never let myself be "supported" by a man. LVM will literally hold you hostage.Already? Damn. Let me see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:52 PM |
| -9 | National Pick Me Day was Feb 29 - Viewers left 'cringing' as women propose to their partners during live leap year proposals: “love was far from in the air in the studio, as the entire segment was like watching a car crash slowly unfold on live television.”I thought he seemed happy? Idk my bf and I just watched the whole thing and it seemed like all the couples were happy. 🤷🏻♀️ we were hoping for some drama lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | A friend asked me what I’m looking for in a partner...Are my expectations really that unreasonable??I fit that bill minus the kids. I’m barely average. Is your friend lame as hell? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Man cheats on Fiancé several times with multiple girls, treats her like complete shit, kicks her out and devastates her. She stops taking shit from him and gets a new boyfriend...and he now wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!!!Yeeaah, this cant be real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | The LURE method part 3: How to take control of your sex lifeCan I ask about men with low libidos? I’ve stopped initiating sex because I get turned down 90% of the time. He probably initiates once or twice a month. I fear if I turned him down I’d never get sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 12:45 PM |
| 43 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youTrue rate me is brutal, though. I don't think I've ever seen someone rated higher than a 7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:57 PM |
| 19 | No means noThe best sort of crazy. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡Absolutely!!! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡That's not what I meant. There isn't anything internal to being a woman that would preclude her from wanting/having sex as much as she can. But men really do have to ruin everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 3 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡Well I am preeeetty mentally ill (so low impulse control is right on the money) and have gotten a lot better since therapy and EMDR and addressing my PTSD and trauma, but I never said it was empowerment. Just that I wanted sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:11 PM |
| 4 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡I guess it's "pink pill"? Idk what that really means. There are definitely things that are said here that I don't personally agree with, and there are things that I do 100% agree with. I think that's important to developing one's own personal ideology and not just branding yourself The FeministTM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:08 PM |
| 3 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡That's a fair point. I was coming from the perspective that there isn't anything that would preclude a woman from "acting like a man" in this regard except socialization and norms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:04 PM |
| -5 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡To each their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:03 PM |
| 6 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡homie doesn't call/text them afterwards those very same women are boo-hooing to their friends about him not getting in contact with her. Yeah, and those are Pickmeishas. There were a couple of dudes I really liked and that happened, lol. I wonder why these women are even having sex with these randos, especially when the majority of the time the women don't even get to orgasm! For the randos I'd basically be like "So, here's how this is gonna go..." and make sure I'd get off. Unless I was super d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:02 PM |
| -2 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡If you're apprised of those risks and willing to take them for some potential benefit to you, I don't see the problem with making an informed choice. A lot of men suck in bed. Some of them are really, really good. I was willing to chance it sometimes for the ones that were good and those were the ones I made FWBs. The ones that sucked, I ditched. I might be in the minority, but I really enjoy sex and was willing to go out and get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:57 PM |
| -7 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡Btw can I have a LibFem flair instead of a Pickmeisha flair? There's a distinct difference. ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:42 PM |
| 11 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡That's probably true, and especially was true at the time. But I also didn't value them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 05:52 PM |
| -16 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡My opinion on this when I was single was: Do I want sex? Yes. Do I care from who? Not really. Do I want to get into a relationship just to have sex? Fucking hell no. It was just a transaction on both sides, so I don't think it's necessarily bad. I think the feminist take is that some women can and do enjoy transactional NSA sex and aren't always into having a relationship. With men I was interested in having long term relationships with, I made them wait. And some of those dudes STILL duped me a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 05:10 PM |
| 73 | LVM cheats with coworker, gaslights wife by saying it's because she's not 'desireable,' gets pissy when side chick wants (and gets) a real boyfriend, lies to the marriage counsellor, is totally surprised by his shitty actions. Sweet justice in the response.“Terminally surprised by the hurtful shit I did” is not an amazing look Yessss “I cheated on you and then repeatedly gaslit you about about how unappealing you are” is damage that she’ll carry in her body, in her self-image, possibly forever. Get him. So you want to leave (maybe) but you also want to be the good guy in the story, which means continuing to make the case that your wife is the one who somehow failed to make you happy. And he's the bad guuuuyyyyyy, duh. Don’t use “female” as a noun … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | It’s all about expectationsI never really have shaved (I used to do the bikini line but kept getting infected ingrown hairs), but I've started getting waxes when I know I'll be in a swimsuit. About once a year I'll give 'er a buzzcut because it's just a forest. My bf keeps his pubes super trimmed though and it makes me feel like I should groom. But I don't want to lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 24 | Women who standard-shame other women“struggle love” I just had an eye-opening realization about my abusive relationship. I 100% thought this is how love was supposed to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Women who standard-shame other womenIt sounds like they definitely took it personally on behalf of their husbands and if these women didn't have advanced degrees they might have taken it as an insult to them as well. I don't think you in any way intended that and I think it's fine for you to have those standards (of course). But I will tell you, depending on the personality of the person posting my reaction would be one of two things: 1. Get it giiiirl! or 2. Someone's a little full of themselves/elitist. If you are/come across as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Love is Blind on NetflixI saw an ad for it and I just wanna watch it for the pure trashy drama | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 38 | AND THIS IS WHY WOMEN SHOULD GET ALIMONYI mean, this is why I work and make money. My mom once was giving me shit about how I have always wanted a pre-nup and I said “ok, you were a sahm and don’t have a college degree and would have to depend on your husband for alimony. Your sister is a CFO who owns her house and several cars. If I had married my abusive ex would you prefer I be in your position or her position?” which I think actually got her to think about why I am the way that I am. Love doesn’t put food on the table. Struggling … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 11 | How many of you are late bloomers?I’ve noticed shitty looks from women at bars or in a social group when they think of me as “competition” but never from random passers by. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:11 PM |
| 2 | What is with Liberal Feminists and their cult-like dedication to bullying everyone into acting like every choice a woman makes is above criticism even when what they’re doing is clearly harmful or stupid as fuck?I'm sorry, what? I've asked before and haven't gotten an answer even from mods, what's with the whole trans thing here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:08 PM |
| 8 | What is with Liberal Feminists and their cult-like dedication to bullying everyone into acting like every choice a woman makes is above criticism even when what they’re doing is clearly harmful or stupid as fuck?I’m more of a liberal feminist and if that means I’m not wanted here I feel like that would be more explicitly stated. The vibe I’m getting is that I am welcome, but the core of FDS isn’t going to change to align with my worldview...which is totally ok! Ditto! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:06 PM |
| 8 | What is with Liberal Feminists and their cult-like dedication to bullying everyone into acting like every choice a woman makes is above criticism even when what they’re doing is clearly harmful or stupid as fuck?I think that it's up to each woman to decide if she's willing to take those risks to have sex. If she is, there's no point in shaming her. I kind of subscribe to the "to each their own" philosophy when it comes to casual sex. I think the better you feel about yourself the less likely you are to have it, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious!There's a whole kink subreddit dedicated to penile subincision called "pee holes". I know about this because I wanted to start a comedy podcast about kinks for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:08 PM |
| 3 | There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious!oooohhhh you had me at "degloved". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:07 PM |
| 4 | A survey where you can track your attachment style over timeLol, I understand being concerned about your data being sold. This is a long work-around - you could use a fake email and have it forward to your actual account. I haven't received any spam from them (or any more spam than I'm used to), but I want to make sure you feel like it's a good idea before you sign up. Let me know if there's anything I can do to help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:09 PM |
| 3 | A survey where you can track your attachment style over timeYou could use a fake name/email if you'd like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeThanks for this! I used Carvana last time and was just like "yup that's the car I want at a good price I can afford. Click click, done" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Using FDS principles while buying a car: how FDS can serve you in other areas of lifeExcellent example of having and sticking to boundaries. Good job!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:19 PM |
| 44 | CLOWN MOMENT: my ex who i have blocked on everything stalks me on reddit to warn me about the evil monsters at FDSThis is shit like what my ex would do. Appear completely rational and "kind" while STALKING ME. Lol. It's like "Yes, I would like to ask you for something for my personal growth and journey: LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:05 PM |
| 12 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Sure - I used to focus so much of my attention on other people as a way to distract myself from my own life. With therapy came tools and methods for improving my life so I stopped fantasizing about it being better or even being in a relationship. Once I was happy just doing my thing I stopped getting crushes beyond just the physical twinge because I wasn’t fantasizing anymore- so not thinking about how good we’d be together. Even with HVM I met I was reluctant to give up my free time to spend ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:47 AM |
| 9 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Oooooh yeah that used to be a huge issue for me. I would kind of fantasize and put my one dude on a pedestal and focus all my amorous attention on them. Therapy and focusing on making my own life what I wanted it to be helped. Also for a while it took devaluing the dick and it’s abundance and understanding no man is going to be perfectly my fit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:30 AM |
| 14 | Watch as men get exposed for failing to know basic information about their significant otherSome of those questions I was like “idk if I could answer that about myself!” especially favorite meal. AND THEN SHE HAD THE TATTOO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:55 PM |
| 26 | Why men Visiting FDS Get So UpsetI once tweeted “a man’s greatest fear is women he knows talking to each other” lmao. It was not received well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:42 PM |
| 45 | On “Choosing Beggars” sub. A 22 year old pretty girl with the most basic of requirements being roasted by LVMs. Reddit is a cesspool of raggedy ass losers.I don’t mind a little curve “upwards” if I’m being honest, but to the side just makes things difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:38 PM |
| 19 | Here's a little something for the Pickmeishas giving us a lurk.I saw the term and knew that I had been for a majority of my dating life and that a lot of therapy had reformed me, but there’s always more work to be done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:36 PM |
| 3 | LVM jealous of baby because he himself is a babyJesus Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The report option for "standard shaming" is not for reporting people who call out your pickme behavior. It's for reporting pickmes who standard shame women who have standards.I really enjoyed reading the Betrayal Bond (it was describing my behavior with fuccboi's to a T - seduce then ruin for daring to fuck me lol) and The Body Keeps the Score. Also EMDR helped a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | The life of a marriage-minded manI don't think I've given much advice at all, honestly. Just been learning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 64 | I'm enjoying the 90s Pickmeishas, but how about a 00s Queen for inspiration ;)... oh fuck yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:17 PM |
| 38 | I'm enjoying the 90s Pickmeishas, but how about a 00s Queen for inspiration ;)Don't worry, I'd be a Chutney. My hair is biiiiiig lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:10 PM |
| 6 | something to learn fromDon't fish lay eggs? Then the male fish come by and inseminate them? Alright, found an article: female brown trout don't release their eggs at the same time the male releases his sperm in like half the cases: https://www.cbc.ca/news/technology/female-trout-faking-orgasms-1.338542 I never realized fish "mated". I always though the female just like left her eggs somewhere and some male fish came along later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡Who is this?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 6 | EXPOSED: The new breed of sex addicts - who don't have sex. The world is waking up to the truth.Me too. I hope you're getting better and your ex is miserable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 73 | She had us in the first half nglI was joking with my bf that if I joined an MMA gym I'd need him to learn to french braid really tight and he was like "I'll just take you down to the salon." <3 Fucking love that man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:08 PM |
| 11 | EXPOSED: The new breed of sex addicts - who don't have sex. The world is waking up to the truth.It made me feel like such an object. And also that I wasn't personifying his fetish well enough. It was super fucking gross, honestly. I hate the way he made me feel and I think it really contributed to my weight gain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:03 PM |
| 15 | EXPOSED: The new breed of sex addicts - who don't have sex. The world is waking up to the truth.We might have the same ex. He loved bimbofication and "bolted on and maxed out" and also masturbated to SSBBW subs. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Guy call me half attractive...I had a dude once call me a five. He was 5'4", in grad school for like Literature and lived in a studio apartment and got whiny with me because I was still planning on going on dates with other men after we had slept together twice and said I "almost made him cry". Good. CRY ME A RIVER, BISH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 8 | Constantly ask yourself "who is benefiting from my beliefs?"THIS is the content I'm here for. Brava, lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 05:35 PM |
| 50 | So disappointed.Ok, so like 3+ years ago I made a post on the ENTP subreddit about standards, etc. and I actually made a list about what I valued because I thought it'd be rather therapeutic. Here is my rather humble list. HERE IS THE FUCKING RESPONSE I GOT Apparently I'm MAterIaLIsTIc ANd UGly. :eyeroll: So that's what men think about standards lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 05:27 PM |
| 31 | Vietnamese women shutting down sexpat losers on OLDMy bestie’s in-laws are Vietnamese. Those women take NO shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Studies Find Children Born to Older Fathers Are More Likely to Be Ugly. Even Snoop Dog Agrees. 😂Ahhh the benefits of being born to teenaged parents. I’m still depressed and anxious but at least I’m cute lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 14 | Be Like Beyonce and demand compensation for your reproductive laborBet she divorces him in 3 years once she’s maxed out the prenup. I don’t think she’s a pickmeisha. I think she likes money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 33 | I really LOATHE movies/books that end with the female protagonist giving a chance to the guy she had "friendzoned", just because ONE guy she liked did not treat her right.Some Kind of Wonderful is a great movie from the 80s where the male protagonist ends up with his tomboy bestie. Eric Stoltz and Mary Stuart Masterson are just too damn cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | I stumbled my way into dating a HVM on accident and I am so proud to have him.I did. I’m not being degraded and I don’t think I’m better than anyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 12:21 PM |
| 2 | I stumbled my way into dating a HVM on accident and I am so proud to have him.If anything I’ve been holding him to higher standards since finding this sub and he’s responded positively and with even more validation. I guess I was a little confused by the negativity in some of the comments. The guy’s paying for my entire vacation to Florida but “the bar is on the floor”? 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:12 AM |
| 10 | I stumbled my way into dating a HVM on accident and I am so proud to have him.Welp. I like him. He’s currently setting up a kegerator with cold brew coffee and raspberry seltzer on tap for me. Seems good to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 12:58 AM |
| 3 | I stumbled my way into dating a HVM on accident and I am so proud to have him.But he changed his behavior to meet expectations and meet my needs, including talking about his feelings and offering to go to therapy. Isn’t that pretty much the definition of a HVM? That to me shows he values me. Also someone can portray being stoic or masculine and that doesn’t mean that they’re not valuable. And I use FDS principles now. I wasn’t aware of it at the time. But thanks for passing judgment. Edit: I’d like to add that I was not being a pickmeisha when I met him, I told him like t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 12:53 AM |
| 10 | I stumbled my way into dating a HVM on accident and I am so proud to have him.Dicknotized? Don’t get me wrong once I knew I wasn’t going to blow him off I enforced boundaries and required him to communicate with me in an appropriate way to meet my needs. Read the bullet point about the breakup. He’s been perfect since then because I won’t tolerate a bad relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Girl who desperately needs a lecture not looking to be lectured.pawning her engagement ring That's a big yikes from me, dawg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Girl who desperately needs a lecture not looking to be lectured.I can't believe she got him banned NATIONWIDE from all casinos. This girl needs codependents anonymous ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Girl who desperately needs a lecture not looking to be lectured.He's a great guy. My face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:53 PM |
| 17 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦If it makes you feel better, I (female) once accidentally watched Aubrey Plaza masturbate from that hacking thing because I was like "what, how would they even get this, it can't be her" without realizing that it was from the "fappening". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 51 | My first time seeing #TweetLikeAPickMeI once gave a man a bike. For free. Because I wanted him to like me. My friend was so pissed at me and was like “this is the most outrageous thing you’ve done for d” I’m not proud of that lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 04:13 AM |
| 8 | Dick is an infinite resource - and LVM don't seem to grasp that.I'm not most people's definition of attractive (though I'm cute and can be charming). The only time I had a difficult time getting laid is when I had a buzz cut. It's literally the easiest thing in the world. Note that it's not from HVMs, but if I need dick I can get it. :shrug: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 03:30 PM |
| 6 | Just another prime example of how “the wall” men like to say exists doesn’t. JLo (50) and Shakira’s (43) after performing at half time. They were amazing.Shakira doesn't look a day over 25 and I need to figure out which night cream she uses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 03:17 PM |
| 0 | We can't have a single thing to ourselvesMy comments are getting removed now so I guess that’s a thing here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Can We Talk About Lesbian Pickmeishas who are always outraged on behalf of men and have “advice” for straight women that’s always about settling for less? They are NOT your friends.Yeah I was gonna say... all the lesbians I know pretty much hate men and try to convince me to join their team lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 67 | My boyfriend has been stingy with cash lately and I just found out why110% agree. Also I hate this title. He wasn’t being “stingy” with cash. He was actually being insanely generous to both her and his grandma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:40 PM |
| 56 | FDS Rules for Black GirlsA man once called me a quesadilla. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:50 AM |
| 6 | This is the ultimate fate of every Roberta the builder. ALWAYS put yourself first ladies.I'm a recovering Bobbi the Builder and I've definitely yelled "Not your mom, not your shrink" at my bf (more for myself than for him, but it did lead to a brief breakup because he was just not doing the things he should have been) and he's definitely had to remind to stop trying to fix him. It's hard when you've been raised that way. I was always trying to fix my mom so she would love me and I never got closure from it. But between a cat, dog, trying to buy a house, and a sane, lovely bf I'm fin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 7 | LOL some lurker decided to sexualize my dog after I posted on here saying how happy I was that I adopted her. Talk about projection!Do they just think masturbation and friendship doesn't exist? No. I don't need a man. I've got like five vibrators and people to talk to lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 06:14 PM |
| 14 | I've been in a relationship with my (26f) boyfriend (31m) for seven years. I am the definition of a forever girlfriend.I might also suggest Codependents Anonymous, which I went to for about a year. Also check out Codependent No More by Melody Beatty. Boundaries (imo) are the first step in becoming a HVW - and having standards and protecting yourself. I like to write them as "if this, then that" statements like in philosophy or coding. Is he on your mortgage? If not you can issue an eviction notice (you'll have to look up the laws about how long you need to give him) and if he fails to vacate you can call the pol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Confronted my EX with the girl he cheated on me withOh I'm not suggesting it as the go to option, lol. Just that I understand not having another choice, though I don't think that was OP's case. And yeah, he was a real shit-bird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Confronted my EX with the girl he cheated on me withI've kicked and punched my ex once he hit me first and it usually got things to stop because I was a better fighter than him and he was usually loaded. Every person does what they need to do to survive. She should have just called the cops when he showed up though. I've done that to that ex too. edit: For those downvoting, I'm assuming you've never been in a position where you've had to actually fight to defend yourself. I don't think that was OP's situation, but it was mine and it is a lot of o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | He might not be LVM but I’m not waiting around to find outYes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:56 PM |
| 9 | He might not be LVM but I’m not waiting around to find outIsn't that what we do with the 6 weeks deadline for him to ask to be exclusive? I actually didn't see a problem with it, but I also don't like to compete so I would have been out too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:56 PM |
| 10 | Friendships with HVW vs PickmeishasI've found that LVW and pickmeishas only ever want to talk about my relationship and it's potential issues instead of like my actual life. It's fuckin' annoying. Don't they think about anything else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 22 | You guys are like a mother figure to me, I love this subreddit cause my mom never taught me any of thisMy mom did try to teach me all this stuff and I didn't listen because I thought it was sexist and frustrating. Nearing 30 now but I'll still never tell her she was right lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:10 PM |
| 12 | OLD Message Exchange—He asked me to coffee. My response (good?)+ what should I say next?Oh gotcha. It sounds like you already resolved the problem, but yeah, he wasn't looking for a date. He was looking for a lay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | OLD Message Exchange—He asked me to coffee. My response (good?)+ what should I say next?He's still in college? Why would you want to date him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:03 PM |
| 25 | Daily reminder to NEVER TELL MEN ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY. They can and will hold it over your head, even if they seem fine with it at first. Don’t fall into this all too common trap.that way you weed out guys who don't "accept you for you" and find someone with the same values. I actually have used this strategy. It doesn't bother me if people think I'm a "slut" and it does actually weed out misogynists. I won't disclose my number to "good" men or people I know have low body counts. I guess I really only do it to shock people into not dating me lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 03:25 PM |
| 24 | Daily reminder to NEVER TELL MEN ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY. They can and will hold it over your head, even if they seem fine with it at first. Don’t fall into this all too common trap.IMO I actually feel like a HVM won't care. And I actually have used my "number" to weed out shit-heels. But I value someone who isn't misogynistic and won't hold me to a double-standard. I feel like caring about anyone's number is kind of shitty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 03:22 PM |
| 26 | Beware of bearded men: exhibit 268My bf has one of the biggest beards I've ever dated and I was shocked when he showed me a high school picture and he was handsome. I just assumed he didn't have a chin lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Do you believe that overweight/ugly girl tends to be pick me ?Yeah, it's an insecurity thing not an overweight thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Just the usual men tripping over to convince themselves that being attracted to teenage women is biology 🙄"My 8 year old self would have had a huge crush on him" Totally get this. I'm watching Anne with an E right now and the new Gilbert Blythe would have had me swooning as a 13 year old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:25 PM |
| 10 | Just the usual men tripping over to convince themselves that being attracted to teenage women is biology 🙄My sister has had her period since she was 10 and is turning 18 in a couple months and still looks like a child. She has some womanly attributes (big butts run in the family) but like her face, the quality of her skin, her hair, etc. is still childish and I can't imagine her looking like a woman for at least another 5 years. I look at pictures of me in college and I didn't really look like a woman even though I had large boobs and in my mind was an adult. I look like a teenager. That's a kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 3 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.No one gets to determine what you're "able to get" but you! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:45 PM |
| 3 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.Yassss! When I subscribed I was really worried this was going to be like Red Pill Women (who internalize all the fucked up shit Red Pill says about women and try to play that game) but this sub is so fucking empowering and truthy. And I also think "high value" can be subjective or "negotiable" in some ways. There are certain ways in which I'm "low value" (I'm overweight and I smoke, etc.). That doesn't mean I have no value as a person and I could change those things if I wanted to and I'm high v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed : first two dates with what seems to be a HVM. I'm a recovered pickmeisha, fighting old reflexes.Sure. I just think it’ll turn into a game of “he didn’t text for 24 hours so I’ll wait 48.” 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Advice needed : first two dates with what seems to be a HVM. I'm a recovered pickmeisha, fighting old reflexes.Yeah, to me it sounds like he’s pursuing several people and is probably chasing whatever is most convenient. So don’t be convenient! I’d just block and ignore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 04:22 PM |
| 6 | Advice needed : first two dates with what seems to be a HVM. I'm a recovered pickmeisha, fighting old reflexes.It sounds like maybe he lost interest? That’s ok. You don’t need to do anything to “make” him interested. Just move on. If he texts, he texts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 02:35 PM |
| 44 | Woman walked away from Liberal Feminism once she became a mother and realized the absurdity of trying to have “equal” relationships while doing 100% of the high risk reproductive labor. LibFem models of equality have a giant “mother shaped blind spot”. (FDS SAYS ALWAYS DEMAND MORE FROM MEN UPFRONT.)I mean frankly that’s why I’m not planning on having kids. Seems like a prison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 07:44 PM |
| 9 | LVM traps 25 y/o with baby. Gets mad when she resists motherhood.Imo they should just put the baby on formula if she wants to party, but yeah, not OP's problem. Sounds like a discussion between the couple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:52 PM |
| 18 | LVM traps 25 y/o with baby. Gets mad when she resists motherhood.Thank you - I had no idea it got removed! It's not a big deal to drink while breastfeeding if you "pump & dump" for like 12 hours after. As for weed, I have no idea. But yeah. Don't impregnate a 25 year old and expect her to act like a 35 year old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:17 PM |
| 13 | Hugging vs handshakesI second that. My body language leaves no room to interpret I want a hug. I will say by the end of the night I'm usually ok with departing with a hug, but that's me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 19 | Another day, another old man who marries a much younger woman from the Philippines who wonders why she doesn’t want him for who he is and is eager to start a family. Men are hypergamous.I actually shivered. Fucking lech. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 08:44 PM |
| 16 | This video shows a man that ask for his wife to be a bang maid barbie doll 24/7, if she wants to keep him faithfull... All female in the world need to be aware of FDSEspecially when he’s like “right that’s what I’m trying to get her to do” and Dr. Phil is like “oh my god”. He is SO up his own ass he doesn’t realize that it’s insane. As a true blue narcissist he wouldn’t realize that people actually have their own inner lives and thoughts so he wouldn’t realize how they actually perceive him... which is not well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 14 | Oh look more edgelords making pedo sympathizing jokes 🙄I fucking looooove that movie. I think the punchline is actually pretty good on this joke and depending on his delivery I think it's actually saying "because they're all fucking pedophiles" but I think it's lost a bit by being presented in text. I actually used to do stand up and trying to submit to stand up shots was the worst. I usually had to rewrite my entire joke and punchline just to have it make sense without delivery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 03:45 PM |
| 16 | Another Man lying on the internet that he “accidentally” found out about his girlfriend being an FDS member. These revenge fantasies about dumping a girl after “discovering” her FDS usage are getting less creative.Same lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 10:15 PM |
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