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Ninjarro/r/seduction05/01/19 08:39 PM
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Confidence
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:37 AM
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How old are you if I may ask? From what you wrote, you sound quite young. To be honest, If I was in your shoes, I would just put myself out there, make the mistakes, get rejected A LOT of times and learn from experience Good luck
/r/seduction31/07/24 05:49 AM
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Congrats, glad to hear you're making progress but you sound like a total douschebag. I think you've still got a bit of growing to do. Keep up the great progress though, seems like you're somewhat heading in the right direction.
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:02 PM
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Reminds me of the song R Kelly ft Usher - Same Girl
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:53 AM
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You need more context but for males, don’t over think it too much. If he says “I want you”, then it means he wants you. Men are very black and white.
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:26 AM
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Her chances of falling for you 'mentally' are pretty much 99.99% not going to happen in the short term. She's incredibly emotionally invested in her ex, and people dont get over something like that in a heartbeat. If you want to get this girl to fall for you, you'll have to deal with her hoe phase with other dudes (most likely going to happen) and maybe try again in the next 6 months MINIMUM.
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:02 PM
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Communication is key my friend
/r/seduction08/11/19 09:09 AM
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Did you clarify if it was a date or just a casual outing? You have to be clear with these things from the get go
/r/seduction08/11/19 09:03 AM
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Best of luck OP!
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:55 AM
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I wouldn’t even complicate it. Just go for a direct and natural compliment. “Hey, that scarf looks great on you. You pull it off really well”. Don’t forget to smile and be friendly. At the end of the day, you’re talking to another human being who’s exactly the same as you.
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:50 AM
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Just try what you think would be comfortable with you and go from there. I personally don’t ask for directions pr anything like that first up. A compliment would be nice, then introduce yourself and chat away
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:46 AM
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Idk works for me
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:48 PM
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Push/pull. You can YouTube it
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:45 PM
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Do it. You sound pretty inexperienced to me (not a bad thing), but expect to fail like 80% of the time. Don’t be discouraged, just think that every failed approach makes you better on the next. Best of luck my friend
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:55 AM
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Nah, don’t even think about sex. Get into the mindset of getting to know a girl instead of sex at the end of the night. Sex is just a bonus on a night out.
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:52 AM
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Bars or cold approach when sober <- very hard but I had good results from it
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:20 AM
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I’m sure there are people with other opinions but from my experience, it’s fun but you need to know when to draw the line. If it gets dragged on, you lose your value when you keep trying and she’s getting more control of the situation.
/r/seduction10/07/19 01:06 PM
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I still don’t know what it is bro
/r/seduction10/06/19 12:28 PM
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It also depends on your code of honour of being a respectful and high value man or if you’re that desperate for easy targets you’d go for women with boyfriends.
/r/seduction21/05/19 11:12 PM
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Or as I’d like to say it, mini Oreo Small and brown on the outside, vanilla with a touch of Aussie accent on the inside ;)
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:57 PM
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We’re human. Creating an attachment for girls you’re attracted to is normal.
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:44 PM
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I am Filipino on the outside but was born in Australia, and lived there all my life.
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:41 PM
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But the best salespeople in the world started off with scripts
/r/seduction13/12/18 12:04 AM
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Trust the process. Don’t think of the end result. You need to totally change your mindset
/r/seduction20/11/18 05:33 AM
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How old are you? By the sounds of it, I’m assuming you’re a teenager. If she says she’s busy and doesn’t give you a specific reason why - she probably doesn’t want to hang out with you, sorry bro.
/r/seduction31/08/18 11:02 AM
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Can you give us some context examples of agreeing and exaggerating during shit tests?
/r/seduction04/08/18 03:02 PM
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Word of advice for the future: You need to qualify which women are DTF or want a relationship. You can achieve this by asking questions during the conversation etc. I’m not going to delve deeper into the art of asking questions but look into it. It’s like trying to sell a car to someone who wants a bike. If they don’t want it (or not open to it), they don’t want it. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/06/18 03:31 AM
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Ignore her
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:51 AM
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Just ask to hang out as friends and bring up what you think of “us” and see if it works out
/r/seduction10/04/18 03:14 AM
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Dude you’re crazy in love. Congrats. But let’s keep this subreddit strictly objective, helpful and factual. Feel free to post this in your own personal blog or Facebook status but not here.
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:38 AM
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How old are you? (Serious question)
/r/seduction07/03/18 02:29 AM
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Yeah what I’m saying is, look forward to getting to know her and the sex will come eventually. Yes I’m aware sex is both mutually beneficial but this sounds like a first date. Things don’t escalate as fast realistically. As bad as it sounds, don’t put all your eggs in one basket as well. See other women. That way you don’t look too desperate on winning this particular one over. And if you happen to gain a good connection with her, then go for it. But for real though, you don’t ever want a “I wan…
/r/seduction07/03/18 02:26 AM
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If you’re dating a girl solely for looking forward to sex, you’re doing it wrong. The mindset you want is get to know this girl on a deeper level. If you guys start getting along well enough, you might be rewarded with getting to know her on a physical level aka sex.
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:55 AM
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First of all, everything you’re doing in life is fine. As long as you’re not BEHIND (jobless, never strived for self growth, not working out). From what I can tell, your mentality about yourself is unhealthy. You need to change some things in order to perceive life in a more optimistic way. Go to environments where you will be complimented a lot. Self confidence for you can start from there. That may be joining communities were your hobbies, strengths or passions are. Secondly, go study what’s c…
/r/seduction03/03/18 01:32 AM
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I don’t think that would be a criteria in which girls would find valuable in you
/r/seduction02/03/18 11:30 AM
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Objectively speaking, I think I'm an 8 on looks and from experience, looks dont help much. I go out to town with my energetic mates, and girls find that a lot more comfortable with people who have great personalities.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:14 AM
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I'm average height but my ex and a lot of girls I know would still date dudes as long as they're taller than them.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:34 AM
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Tell us more? How old are you, what is your job? what do you do in your spare time?
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:59 AM
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If you were giving off a “fun” vibe, she probably stuck around because she liked your energy. Or she could’ve been interested in getting to know you but not interested in going any further.
/r/seduction01/03/18 12:34 PM
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From personal experience, this is insanely true
/r/seduction25/02/18 02:48 PM
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Hey
/r/seduction19/02/18 03:44 AM
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Try take more risks. Dress differently and wear something that’s ‘in’ but not something you’d normally wear try different methods of approach. Idk what your game style is but maybe lean towards a push and pull and make her chase you for a bit elevate your dance moves it may seem like a quantity game but try get as much numbers as you can in a night, and try increase that every night try pickup while you’re sober When you first start off (in anything really), your learning curve is so steep and t…
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:52 PM
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From what I’ve read, you sound like a loser man. You seem to have no or low confidence in yourself and seems like you haven’t been thriving for personal growth. Don’t worry, you and I are in the same position but my gf broke up with me and I realized I have nothing on myself. Go out and build on yourself. It’s up to you whether you want to stay with her or not because you have kids but you need to work on yourself. Go to social outings, hang out with a positive group of friends who excel in the …
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:42 AM
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Liquor fucks with sexual performance, and it would probably be worst on him since he is a first timer
/r/seduction08/01/18 09:03 AM
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IKEA is the way to a woman’s heart
/r/seduction05/01/18 05:27 AM
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I’m not going to give you some bullshit answer to make you feel better man, what I’m saying here is the truth and how you take it is up to you. Lose some weight. Being overweight is not only detrimental to your physical health but your mental health too. It sounds like you’re very self conscious about your physical appearance and that needs to go. Unfortunately for you, you have the hard path and you will need to do more cardio rather than weight lifting. Also fix your diet. A clean, healthy die…
/r/seduction30/12/17 04:53 AM
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23M here, it is a breath of fresh air when the girl makes the first move. Don't be shy. I'd personally prefer you to come up and say hi to me, start some small talk and eventually give me your number rather than hand me a piece of paper with your number. I think he'd appreciate it more as it adds a face and personality to the number. Best of luck!
/r/seduction27/12/17 01:52 AM
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The world needs more people like you.
/r/seduction25/12/17 03:27 AM
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So glad I found this thread. I had my break up 3 days ago out of a 2 year relationship, felt like super shit but went out last night (with a history of knowing the game fairly well prior to the relationship) and was SUPER RUSTY. It’s as if I didn’t know how to talk to other girls! I know we’re not in the healthiest of mindsets atm OP considering the timelines of our situations but I’m staying positive by finding beauty in the struggle. I’m just going to keep focusing on the game and work on myse…
/r/seduction24/12/17 12:31 PM
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