| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Pickup in Japan? | Ninjarro | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 08:39 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 24 | Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed?Confidence | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 03:37 AM |
| 7 | This is more of a relationship question because I know nothing about seduction - How do I become the chaotic adrenaline rush for women?How old are you if I may ask? From what you wrote, you sound quite young. To be honest, If I was in your shoes, I would just put myself out there, make the mistakes, get rejected A LOT of times and learn from experience Good luck | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 05:49 AM |
| 5 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.Congrats, glad to hear you're making progress but you sound like a total douschebag. I think you've still got a bit of growing to do. Keep up the great progress though, seems like you're somewhat heading in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceReminds me of the song R Kelly ft Usher - Same Girl | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 07:53 AM |
| 4 | what does it mean, when man said “I want you”You need more context but for males, don’t over think it too much. If he says “I want you”, then it means he wants you. Men are very black and white. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | FWBHer chances of falling for you 'mentally' are pretty much 99.99% not going to happen in the short term. She's incredibly emotionally invested in her ex, and people dont get over something like that in a heartbeat. If you want to get this girl to fall for you, you'll have to deal with her hoe phase with other dudes (most likely going to happen) and maybe try again in the next 6 months MINIMUM. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:02 PM |
| 0 | I invited a girl I'm into hiking and she says she wants to go on a different day than I suggested because her roommates cant goCommunication is key my friend | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 09:09 AM |
| -1 | I invited a girl I'm into hiking and she says she wants to go on a different day than I suggested because her roommates cant goDid you clarify if it was a date or just a casual outing? You have to be clear with these things from the get go | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | How can I ask a girl for a opinion?Best of luck OP! | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 06:55 AM |
| 2 | How can I ask a girl for a opinion?I wouldn’t even complicate it. Just go for a direct and natural compliment. “Hey, that scarf looks great on you. You pull it off really well”. Don’t forget to smile and be friendly. At the end of the day, you’re talking to another human being who’s exactly the same as you. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 06:50 AM |
| 2 | How can I ask a girl for a opinion?Just try what you think would be comfortable with you and go from there. I personally don’t ask for directions pr anything like that first up. A compliment would be nice, then introduce yourself and chat away | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 06:46 AM |
| 0 | I’ve been reading everywhere that girls crave emotional rollercoaster how do i give her that up and down up and down highs and lows how do I do that ?Idk works for me | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 08:48 PM |
| 0 | I’ve been reading everywhere that girls crave emotional rollercoaster how do i give her that up and down up and down highs and lows how do I do that ?Push/pull. You can YouTube it | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Outside of Dating Apps, where do you pick up girls?Do it. You sound pretty inexperienced to me (not a bad thing), but expect to fail like 80% of the time. Don’t be discouraged, just think that every failed approach makes you better on the next. Best of luck my friend | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Outside of Dating Apps, where do you pick up girls?Nah, don’t even think about sex. Get into the mindset of getting to know a girl instead of sex at the end of the night. Sex is just a bonus on a night out. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Outside of Dating Apps, where do you pick up girls?Bars or cold approach when sober <- very hard but I had good results from it | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:20 AM |
| 6 | Playing hard to get?I’m sure there are people with other opinions but from my experience, it’s fun but you need to know when to draw the line. If it gets dragged on, you lose your value when you keep trying and she’s getting more control of the situation. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | some motivation for myself to put me in the driver's seat rather than tied up, gagged, and in the trunk of my own life ;)I still don’t know what it is bro | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Girls with BFsIt also depends on your code of honour of being a respectful and high value man or if you’re that desperate for easy targets you’d go for women with boyfriends. | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Pickup in Japan?Or as I’d like to say it, mini Oreo Small and brown on the outside, vanilla with a touch of Aussie accent on the inside ;) | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Getting good at pick up, getting feelings for girlsWe’re human. Creating an attachment for girls you’re attracted to is normal. | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Pickup in Japan?I am Filipino on the outside but was born in Australia, and lived there all my life. | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Shit test compilation threadBut the best salespeople in the world started off with scripts | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 12:04 AM |
| 3 | How to stop being bitter/angry/resentful?....Trust the process. Don’t think of the end result. You need to totally change your mindset | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Told her to hang out she says she can'tHow old are you? By the sounds of it, I’m assuming you’re a teenager. If she says she’s busy and doesn’t give you a specific reason why - she probably doesn’t want to hang out with you, sorry bro. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 11:02 AM |
| 71 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Can you give us some context examples of agreeing and exaggerating during shit tests? | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you establish casual sex relationship?Word of advice for the future: You need to qualify which women are DTF or want a relationship. You can achieve this by asking questions during the conversation etc. I’m not going to delve deeper into the art of asking questions but look into it. It’s like trying to sell a car to someone who wants a bike. If they don’t want it (or not open to it), they don’t want it. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 03:31 AM |
| 3 | My exIgnore her | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Asking out a family friendJust ask to hang out as friends and bring up what you think of “us” and see if it works out | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 03:14 AM |
| 3 | I think Asian American girls are the best to dateDude you’re crazy in love. Congrats. But let’s keep this subreddit strictly objective, helpful and factual. Feel free to post this in your own personal blog or Facebook status but not here. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | So I am going to this school trip..How old are you? (Serious question) | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Went on first date yesterday... thanks for adviceYeah what I’m saying is, look forward to getting to know her and the sex will come eventually. Yes I’m aware sex is both mutually beneficial but this sounds like a first date. Things don’t escalate as fast realistically. As bad as it sounds, don’t put all your eggs in one basket as well. See other women. That way you don’t look too desperate on winning this particular one over. And if you happen to gain a good connection with her, then go for it. But for real though, you don’t ever want a “I wan… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 02:26 AM |
| 0 | Went on first date yesterday... thanks for adviceIf you’re dating a girl solely for looking forward to sex, you’re doing it wrong. The mindset you want is get to know this girl on a deeper level. If you guys start getting along well enough, you might be rewarded with getting to know her on a physical level aka sex. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I build my value?First of all, everything you’re doing in life is fine. As long as you’re not BEHIND (jobless, never strived for self growth, not working out). From what I can tell, your mentality about yourself is unhealthy. You need to change some things in order to perceive life in a more optimistic way. Go to environments where you will be complimented a lot. Self confidence for you can start from there. That may be joining communities were your hobbies, strengths or passions are. Secondly, go study what’s c… | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 01:32 AM |
| 9 | Does having high/low Snapchat score play a role?I don’t think that would be a criteria in which girls would find valuable in you | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you cope with not being attractive enough for women to approach YOU?Objectively speaking, I think I'm an 8 on looks and from experience, looks dont help much. I go out to town with my energetic mates, and girls find that a lot more comfortable with people who have great personalities. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 08:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I (mentally) get past my height?I'm average height but my ex and a lot of girls I know would still date dudes as long as they're taller than them. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I build my value?Tell us more? How old are you, what is your job? what do you do in your spare time? | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Last night, I hit on a girl for the first time since being single. She denied me, but it didn't feel like it.If you were giving off a “fun” vibe, she probably stuck around because she liked your energy. Or she could’ve been interested in getting to know you but not interested in going any further. | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 12:34 PM |
| 3 | One thing that is sure to happen if you don't approachFrom personal experience, this is insanely true | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Tinder girls smell like fish, learn to approach girls irl and not through tinder/Snapchat it’ll pay off trust meHey | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Results are plateauingTry take more risks. Dress differently and wear something that’s ‘in’ but not something you’d normally wear try different methods of approach. Idk what your game style is but maybe lean towards a push and pull and make her chase you for a bit elevate your dance moves it may seem like a quantity game but try get as much numbers as you can in a night, and try increase that every night try pickup while you’re sober When you first start off (in anything really), your learning curve is so steep and t… | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Ex-wife of 4 years cheats. I realize how much of a loser I am with woman.From what I’ve read, you sound like a loser man. You seem to have no or low confidence in yourself and seems like you haven’t been thriving for personal growth. Don’t worry, you and I are in the same position but my gf broke up with me and I realized I have nothing on myself. Go out and build on yourself. It’s up to you whether you want to stay with her or not because you have kids but you need to work on yourself. Go to social outings, hang out with a positive group of friends who excel in the … | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Guy coming over to my place tonight, how do I prepare and what should I do to seduce him and help him feel comfortable?Liquor fucks with sexual performance, and it would probably be worst on him since he is a first timer | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 09:03 AM |
| 8 | Wanna truly know a woman? Ask her to cook with youIKEA is the way to a woman’s heart | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 05:27 AM |
| 1 | I need advice. I'm an "attractive guy" that really struggles with inner game.I’m not going to give you some bullshit answer to make you feel better man, what I’m saying here is the truth and how you take it is up to you. Lose some weight. Being overweight is not only detrimental to your physical health but your mental health too. It sounds like you’re very self conscious about your physical appearance and that needs to go. Unfortunately for you, you have the hard path and you will need to do more cardio rather than weight lifting. Also fix your diet. A clean, healthy die… | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 04:53 AM |
| 2 | How to flirt with the cute guy who works at the movie theater?23M here, it is a breath of fresh air when the girl makes the first move. Don't be shy. I'd personally prefer you to come up and say hi to me, start some small talk and eventually give me your number rather than hand me a piece of paper with your number. I think he'd appreciate it more as it adds a face and personality to the number. Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Approached a girl at the gymThe world needs more people like you. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 03:27 AM |
| 4 | I have been in a relationship with a girl for 6 years; after break up, I cant seem to know how to pick up or flirt or deal with other womanSo glad I found this thread. I had my break up 3 days ago out of a 2 year relationship, felt like super shit but went out last night (with a history of knowing the game fairly well prior to the relationship) and was SUPER RUSTY. It’s as if I didn’t know how to talk to other girls! I know we’re not in the healthiest of mindsets atm OP considering the timelines of our situations but I’m staying positive by finding beauty in the struggle. I’m just going to keep focusing on the game and work on myse… | /r/seduction | 24/12/17 12:31 PM |
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