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| 1 | You’re Competing for Women the Hard WayThis is just a copy of a ig reel that said something like "get women using billionaires bussines methods" or some shit like that (might even have name droped bezos) Interesting marketing but the framing is just so damm off. | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?You're good when it comes to looks. And dont get discouraged if you find approaching difficult at first. You need to actually get your game on point. But you're good in the looks department man. Go crush it! | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys start conversations at the gym with pretty women?The same way you do everywhere else, bro. Just don't do it when she is mid set obviously xd | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Should I put dating on the back burner?Your therapist has no Idea how to get you girls and what will help you solve this issue. Thats not a part of their profession. The fact is that the way to learn how to be yourself around girls is to get out there and do it, and learn from experience that it's not a big deal. So inherently, you are gonna have to do this at some point, and "putting it on the back burner" is just wasting precious time. It's still your choice if you wanna do it right now or not, obviously, but it's atleast important… | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 12:48 PM |
| 1 | How to flirt with men and approach them?With looks | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Pickup with depression. Is it possible?Yes it is. Just dont show them you are depressed and you will be fine. And their positive reactions will amke you feel better. And when you get a negative one, be proud of yourself for doing the approch and for taking action, improving, getting better, and working on yourself. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 03:59 PM |
| 0 | Pickup with depression. Is it possible?This is terrible advice actually. Doing pickup has been the very thing that was able to make me feel better no madder how bad others stuff was. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl?wtf are you doing bro xddd | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Writen by ChatGPT | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Writen by ChatGPT | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 07:47 PM |
| 2 | All the guy's I've [F22] asked out so far had girlfriendsGet them to cheat. Be that good... | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to offer options within the date or is that too indecisive?You "seed" meaning you fish for what she is resposive to but you make the final decision yourself | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like shit after a date that didnt end with at least a kissYou rejected yourself she would have probably kissed you if you went for it | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How to not become “power-hungry” with seduction?You can't avoid bro. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | How to get women to open up to you emotionally?Examine your assumptions bro xd | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 08:22 PM |
| 7 | What would you say if another guy commented on your approach?I dont care what you say or think you can praise or trash talk I don't care. The moment you start giving me feedback I will disregard it assuming you know jack shit. And it would kind of insult me in a way. In a "it's kind of fucked up you would asume you would know something I dont" kind of way. It isnt valuable info how the approch looks from the outside what only matters is what the womens experience is inside the set. And realy man if you walk up a to guy doing cold approche as a rando and d… | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 06:28 PM |
| 50 | How can you tell if a girl is single before approaching her?You can't, stop being afraid of her not being single. You approach, and she is either single or not. If she isn't single, you can pick her up anyway, which you definitely can do, or choose to leave, it's your choice. But worrying about it beforehand is pointless. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Do yall think you can date 10'sYep | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 07:14 PM |
| 7 | Social proof backfired!Correlation is not causation my friend. It's likely something else that happened that cause the cold responces ans stuff. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Buddy of mine's "luck" with women suddenly flipped to positive - but I have no idea what he did differentlyHe is probably just trying more moves cause it the first time has seen them work. But you would have to see he actually interactions with girls know exactly what he is doing differently. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How can I make her say if she has a boyfriend without having to ask directly?The key thing is that they are not actually unavailable. They just think they aren’t. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:11 PM |
| 4 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?Repeat | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Are the rules of the game, also game?What do you mean exactly? Are you referring specifically to stuff said in the book the game? | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Shit-test She gets madUpset in what way? what does she say? What do you say? generally you eider Agree and exaggerate (exaggerate her shit test to such a degree it's ridiculous) or misinterpret (interpret it as her hitting on you or giving you a compliment) | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 11:54 PM |
| 2 | What makes you prefer cold approaching? Is it because bars aren’t your thing, or maybe you don’t have many friends? Or have dating apps not been working for you? What's your story?You can cold approach in a bar. You probably mean daygame cold approaching right? | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Did I Catch Feelings or Am I Just Not Used to This?Told you ;) | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Did I Catch Feelings or Am I Just Not Used to This?Dont overthink the texting. Texting every other hour is completely normal. Just schedule a another date and take her home so she becomes even more attached. Dont have the limiting belief that she is "so innocent" because with the way she likes you she will probably do anything you want with her. Afterwards you can take it into whatever direction you want that's up to you. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 08:04 AM |
| 7 | Why just why are we so scared?Its genetic. If you were to approach the wrong girl in a tribal setting you could get kicked out which is life or death in that environment. So ye there is a evolutionary reson. Dont worry about it, it goes away after you do it enough and get good enough. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 10:52 PM |
| 2 | How long should I wait when a girl I’m interested in doesn’t reply to my text?If you look at it logicaly. Not texting in that scenario has probably a probability of success thats close to 0%. If you sent a good followuo text your % will definitely be higher. It's seems more like an ego thing and a mentality thing for most people. But in terms of chance of success doing nothing isnt the most optimal move. | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 12:20 PM |
| 4 | How long should I wait when a girl I’m interested in doesn’t reply to my text?The idea that you should just drop the entire interactions when she doesnt reply once is a popular one but it's fucking stupid. You can always follow up wirh something funny or interesting that doesn't require a response. Meaning dont aak questions when she has already left you on silent. Wait like a day or 2. | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 11:10 AM |
| 2 | How to spike emotions in womenThen do it bit by bit little by little. Generally positive emotion are a reward for her when she wants them. It wont help you get her more attracted to you but it will help you escalate. Positive spikes aren't generaly done much for attraction unless they are done for contrast ie making your negative spikes more powerfull by having a positive spike close to it. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to spike emotions in womenIf you're trying to kill their ego air on the side of negative but you still gotta show some intrest at some point. You generally dont kill peoples ego by causing them postive emotions. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Does caffeine worsen your results with approaching women?It depends what your sticking point is. If you are too nervous quitting might help. If you are too bored taking might help. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 07:43 PM |
| 3 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueIf you are in a car lot and you walk up to a car you consider buying, will you try to prove yourself to the car? Or will you hope the car has the qualities you're looking for? | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Want to know if she has a boyfriend within 10 seconds when doing cold approaches?You don't need to know and you don't need to care | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Would people agree surface level frames can set deeper ones?The answer is yes and wlyou have to bust thought more shit tests to chnage that frame | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Progression Of Pickup.In your night game list it could be benefical to move handling logistics earlier so you dont talk to a girl with bad logistics for the whole night. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?Your issue stems from not building enough attraction in the set which leeds you to flaky numbers. You need to learn how to run better sets and how to build attraction. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Is seduction really even possible?The answer is yes a 100% at leas when we are talking about you being a man seducing women which is the most common one. Why is my answers that? Simply because I have done it and seen it happen many many times. You just need to know what to do and how it works. The best way for me to show you this is true, is to tell you how to do it and for you go test it and succeed. If we were talking about us guys getting attracted to girls we didnt want before I think that would probably involve more of a "p… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 01:31 PM |
| -1 | I don't understand what flirting isHave you watched the whole video? | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand what flirting isHere is the best explanation you can find | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Ambition… how to leverage it to get more second dates?it's hard to tell you how to hint at it when we don't know what it is | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | I want to remove your makeupI think it's too obvious that i comes from you not liking her makeup. Also saying you wanna remove her make up is kind of negative because the girl spends time and effort every day to put it on. You could say "wanna see you without makeup" and would be more intimate and more complimentary. Or you could say "you look so good without makeup" as a compliment. But saying you just dont like the makeup is just kind of an insult. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 07:14 PM |
| 11 | What is the Obsession with Cold ApproachesCold approach is the best balance of effective and almost infinitely scalable | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Can we always rely on women's body language and facial expressions?You can tell when its fake and when its real with practice | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 12:50 AM |
| 19 | What does the phrase ‘attraction is not a choice’ mean?It means it is not a choice they make. It's a feeling they have. Which also can mean they might not want to be attracted to you but they are. And they might want to be attracted to you but they aren't. | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?Because in most cases looks are more work than genetics. Working out, loosing weight, eating right, getting a good haircut, wearing nice clothes, hygiene, being well groomed, getting braces if needed ect. In this kind of job you would probably do those things because you are a public figure who is on camera a lot. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Ditching apps and cold approachNobody is gonna make fun of you for putting the sword down and staying in the warm end of the pool. You do you! | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Girls that give you mixed signalsOk read the thread of you and op talking and you're correct. And also are providing good information from what I have seen. Still the strategy I layed our is the higest percentage way to win but it is true that in this case with OPs skill level and situation it might be just better to use it on a different girl insted. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Girls that give you mixed signalsMy point is that OP should look to increase her attraction to him. Women many times even if they admit to "playing games" they justify it to themselves after not linking the guy enough to be with him even though they were attracted to him at a certain point to some extent. And most of the time women aren't "playing games" consistently they just feel the urge to ignore the guy when he is acting unattractive and look for his attention when he is acting attractive. Op being more direct at this poin… | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 10:12 PM |
| 50 | Feelijg jealous of friend getting instagramsGetting an insta means jack shit if it makes you feel any better xD | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 06:23 PM |
| 8 | Girls that give you mixed signalsYou're thinking of it in the wrong way. You're trying to figure out if she is into you or she is not. But you must realize that women don't experience attraction the same way we do. As a guy, you pretty much know if you're into a girl or not almost right away. But for women, it differs as they experience more of you. So stop thinking if she is into you or not and start thinking about how much she is into you. She might be into you a little bit but not enough to sleep with you or even go on a dat… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Reading people's facesExactly this. Haven't seen an answer that's this spot-on in a while on this sub. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 08:15 PM |
| 8 | Is the text spamming really that bad?Many people take the idea of not texting too much too far. Yes, it needy to text more and get ghosted multiple times in a row. But if she didn't reply to your last message for a couple of days she probably never will. And you sending a new text has a way better chance of getting a reply than not texting again (especially of your next text is good contentwise). There is obviously too much and too little follow-up. But shit like "never double text" is complete bullshit. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Kissed girl too early ?You should have slept with her. If you didn't than thats your mistake there. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Girl losing interest AFTER great sex?Have you asked for plans today? If so and she didnt reply send this "...?" problem solved | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Video games are holding you backThat applies to any hobby/thing that takes up your time. Your post could literally be "not speaking to women is holding you back" and it would have so much less fluf. Plus the "good" hobbies you mention aren't even nearly enough to replace deducated game practice and infield time. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Video games are holding you backWhat ment is, its good game what's important, not that the girl factually knows you play video games | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Video games are holding you backWatch this and stfu | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 09:30 PM |
| 2 | What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl?it's more about attention than who is better. Just get her on a date first, take her to bed first, and keep her first. If you are attractive enough to get there first it doesn't matter from then on. (you kind of have to be better to keep her in the long run but not 100%) | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend lineBetter than leaving for fucking sure. I realy dont like when people just leave sets like these. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:46 PM |
| 4 | How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend lineThis is funny af xd especialy if you aren't xd | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:46 PM |
| 3 | How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend lineMisinterpret as a compliment + plausible deniability and continue building attraction until she doesnt care that she has one. "I am glad you already see me in that category but I dont even know if I like you yet". You could go more clever/polarising. I just cant be asked to think of clever lines rn. Generally anything that let's you ignore it and continue, works just fine. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Does cold approach just not work for an ethnic guy?What is success and failure to you? You claim to have a low success rate. You're talking about a cold approach and opening. Do you mean then not many girls want to talk to you on the cold approach? Do you mean not many girls are attracted to you? Do you mean not many girls go on dates or give numbers? Do you mean not many girls sleep with you? Be more specific otherwise we can't figure out which part of your game is causing you trouble. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 04:18 PM |
| 0 | How to approach a married neighbour?You like play with fire. That's always fun, enjoy ;). As long as you're attractive and his wife won't find out you should be good. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Polarity without neggingExactly ;) | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Polarity without neggingIts better when your negative and positive polarity is genuine you just need to make sure that the ratio is right at any given time. Too much negative or uncalibrated negtaive and you're a jerk. Too much positive and she won't be attracted. I dont think your goal should be not devaluing them. Because being fully authentic you would do it even not inteding to. Just keep the ratio right and say shit you mean not shit that is supposedly "correct". | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Polarity without neggingWhat do you think negging is exactly? So many people think negging is something it's not. And so many people have different definitions if negging. Define what you mean by negging in this post. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 04:13 PM |
| 2 | how to pass this shit test?Just dont qualify yourself. She is asking you to chase/invest so just misinterpret it as though se is the one already chasing. Sometimg along the lines of: "I was just talking in general, but glad see me as charming 😉." Should be good. | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | What is the next level for me?Who the fuck taught you that?! Not only is it putting so much emphasis on an insignificant sign while using a low-personage opening style very fucking early into the set. But also its common knowledge nowadays that attraction can be created. What you're describing is a myth that has been busted and field-proven to be one a long time ago. These beliefs are literally killing your game! | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?write "...?" as your next text. Fucking problem solved trust me. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she says this?I like your attitude. Most people dont realise how optimal this approach is actually. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Can women provide wrong signals when horny or PMSing?This u? | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive?Only to the point were it makes sex likelier | /r/seduction | 14/06/23 03:18 PM |
| -5 | If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier timeWomen crave real men, and the more simp losers there is, the more us the real ones can stand out, and the more women crave us | /r/seduction | 14/04/23 11:03 PM |
| 8 | It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do.Yeah exactly and if you know what ur doing even if you fuck up bad and get a bad reaction. The girl still very much respects your attempt in the back of her mid. | /r/seduction | 07/04/23 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Overcome approaching anxiety challengeDont know about any specific 30 challenges. But if your problem is aproach anxiety then you should have a goal of approaches every day (3-5 or even more) and do something more difficult in set each day. Depends on what you find difficult. | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 12:58 PM |
| 12 | Overcome approaching anxiety challengeDivide it into easier approaches and move on once its easy, an easy progression is: Ask for the time/directions Ask a random opinion Give a compliment Give a compliment and introduce yourself Also make it a habit. And give one of your friends like 50$ or something and tell em to keep it if you dont do it. Do this everytime you go out until you dont need it anymore. | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Assume she likes you and do the move | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching has lead to the most embarrassing moment of my lifeThe more girls you approach the more you get used to approaching. The more you get used to approaching the less nervous you will be. This is all a part of the learning curve. Dont take it as a loss take it as a win. You've made progress. Be proud of yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:17 AM |
| 2 | I really did something dumb guysYou should be proud of yourself for approaching this many in such a short time spend. And getting numbers on consistent bases. Its very unlikely to happen again no reason to feel bad about it. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:50 AM |
| 6 | How to cold approach at a nightclub?Focus on your feet. Sounds dumb but let me explain. This realy worked well for me. You gotta focus on walking up first and think of what you say after. It works wanders because your brain will naturally think of something to say when you have already walked up. Just think of the physical movement of walking up and thrust yourself to say something good after naturally. Also once ur there make it look unapproachable. Think of what it looks like to other people if it looks like you and the girl are… | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?I think it's because we as people naturally think others judge us the same way we would just them. A girl would be more attracted a guy with a lot of hot girls around and she is trying to replicate that because she thinks it works the same though it doesn't. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Should I keep cold approaching or give it up?Do both you being able to approach is progress dont give it up. Work on your looks sure, but continue approaching as you do. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 08:58 PM |
| -1 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?What date girl basically wanted you do was, to deal with the friends shit (most of what the friend said were probably shit-test of some kind) and then befriend her and get on her good side so she would leave willingly. This is obviously incredibly difficult to do but date girls attraction would probably sky rocket if you managed to pull it off. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 2 | disqualifiers vs showing interestI think the mentality is that you're intrigued but not convinced so you keep her on her toes | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Why is a teenager below 18 having sex with 18+ more acceptable in Europe and other countries than in America?I think its just the difference in law and in what people are used to | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 09:52 AM |
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