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Story time ☕NinoEmines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:21 PM
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QUEEN SH*TNinoEmines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:48 AM
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SEEKING ADVICENinoEmines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:48 PM
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DISCUSSIONNinoEmines/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:27 PM
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You know what you need to do Leave, and never settle for such lack of consideration Again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:12 PM
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100% I'd divorce him right there and then screaming "U ARE DIVORCED" three times like muslim men do on tv shows when women mess up a dish (actually only men can do that lol but IDC he's getting divorced all the ways from all cultures then in court lol )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:09 PM
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thank you ♥♥♥ and thanks to sara who gave me the award ♥♥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:22 PM
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HIGH FIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! big same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:49 PM
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true, the forever gfs then look for a younger woman cause "female docs are too old and too busy "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:48 PM
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I'm aware of the medical field, some friends who study dentistry joke about how their girls don't give those any attention cause their reputation precedes them... and those dudes Sh*t talk about female docs as "old, unattractive, worn out, not available enough , too independent, would need to do actual 50/50 at home" like chill dude, got a dr before ur name u are not god walking the earth , nothing turns me off like arrogance, makes all the rest worthless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:46 PM
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Congratulations !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:37 PM
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Indeed i'm highly suspicious of movie kinda extra romance, feels like going through a to do list rather than being spontaneous or genuine like "make her fall" rather than "I want to do this", not all people write poems or a song but there should be alternatives, nice dinner, flowers occasionally, a present u would like, spa afternoon weekend away... and overpublic proposals can come off as manipulative to force a girl to not refuse, so lack of "mainstream" textbook movie romance is fine if it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:37 PM
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male docs are known to have super inflated egos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:06 AM
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she's 21, with the mainstream culture she isn't ""promiscuous" and is too nice to this dude, i love how she finally held her ground, i hope it carries on. that's the reason FDS is right about not discussing "past", what will it change to tHE PRESENt !!! ffs a person can do hook ups then grow out of it, or is "redemption" only allowed for men while women must be shunned and shamed and forever alone ? then they turn it into "don't shame my preferences" sure seeing women after not being virgin as u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:41 AM
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a dude using all degrading words towards women too frequently, too against feminism never showing empathy or having a decent view not "feminists exaggerate and evil" is the BIGGESt NOOOOOOPE RED FLAG for me it says a lot about his character, sure most men will judge their partner's part even if he did the same or more (I don't condone hypocrisy but sadly it's reality), but those like OP's ex have an even deeper problem with women they don't hide so well, so lashing out against "femina*is" and "t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:02 AM
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as a person who sabotaged herself with this "attraction grows in time, settle for ani decent dude showing interest " (never had a bf, but had friends who tried to get close ) just NOPE. if there isn't attraction there isn't. we need to drop this no mad would ever think like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:47 AM
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My mood is now always consistent. No anxiety. No one night stands or texting exes. No nostalgia for narc exes. congrats ♥♥♥ u're doing well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:36 AM
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he won't get dinner, he's getting a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:11 AM
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such small dick energy right here. that's what u should say, and block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:43 AM
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I agree, unfortunately this libfem rhetoric is mainstream and influences girls, esp young insecure ones who never had that kind of validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:42 AM
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I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:11 AM
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1 Don't blame yourself like that, or bring yourself down. it won't help u to internalize this 2 see it as a normal experience in life, especially with how young u are and focus on learning from it and growing stronger. 3 Remind yourself of why u want to break up, and stick to it. that will be a good way to learn how to set boundaries and be unmovable about it. good luck ♥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:02 AM
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thank u, this is very important . some men have both HV and LV traits and it's difficult to discern which of them is the real him.I faced that problem once and I'm still confused lol so we need to focus on these grey kinda areas to not be fooled by the HV traits alone, in the end LV traits are the ones that will have big impact on our lives and being with someone or leaving them depends more on that. and Most men don't have enough empathy to really understand feminism... or if they don't like wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:56 AM
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I said no, he said yes u have the answer right there, imagine how often u'll have to argue in order to defend the boundaries he tries to push one month is too soon, and it sounds manipulative how he tried to go about it. cut him off. a dude who respects u would not disregard ur boundaries or push when u made it clear u don't want it too soon and make u uncomfortable. I also tend to doubt myself and let others "convince" me to "change my mind" as i'm "too shy, stuck up" ect (thanks fam for mockin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:38 AM
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thank u, it's important for us to learn from these situations and spot red flags better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:54 AM
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Prepare for divorce, if u have joined accounts, make a separate one for u, save up, tri to protect urself from being exploited after divorce or not given enough, also never tolerate his behavior, and confront him 'NO U knew what u did Never dare to twist things on me again", start taking care of ur appearance, and go out to have fun with friends, u'll get to be far from his toxic behavior and u'll get positive attention. Stop caring for him, coddling him as long as he keeps that attitude , dista…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:40 PM
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she was badass at times, but too much of a pick me to chuck, there was too much to forgive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:02 PM
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sends hugs but you know better now, that's what matters ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:38 PM
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That's way above their comprehension, that's what happens when some people are too religious, it trumps reason.... I think most men world wide lack the ability to care so it doesn't bring enough relaxing The subject is so taboo and you're expected to maintain a level of ''respect'' towards the husband and seem clueless to it all, so in your own first time you'll keep being anxious till the blood appears and mentally prepare if it doesn't, even though you haven't even inserted a tampon or finger,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:15 PM
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exactly, in some regions dudes are like ''mom is tired and old, I should marry to bring her someone to help'' that's how low the bar is, they won't go to a girl already at home cause her parents denied her education, they will go to a woman with a career and demand she stops, stays at home to be his and his family's maid and endure their abuse and never have any privacy Small example, so a woman working is a privilege, expecting a man to help at home I too much, too beneath him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:53 PM
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I love this thank you very much ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:44 PM
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Exactly, and usually living with in laws breeds more problems Just nope, you're a grown ass man you can invest in rent The most NVM move in the culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:41 PM
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Ah that is the spirit 👏👏👏I thought it was just about u know I'm wishing you very good luck, get that $$$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:38 PM
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it's not racism if it's true, and most cultures, not just ''Brown'' enable some bad habits We have enough censorship as it is , speaking about it helps women expect more of them and then they'll have no choice but to find themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:43 PM
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Oh it would be a unicorn level of rare for a Muslim dude to stay virgin if he lives somewhere secular, hell even in Muslim countries they trick girls into letting them do it, or a..., or go to vacation just to get it But they can divorce a woman if she doesn't bleed, even if she was raped Only tiny teeny minority have some integriry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:39 PM
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look up their laws, and grass isn't always greener I heard too, many bad stories of women being stuck there once the mask drops, be careful sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:31 PM
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"Not forever ofc'' R U N
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:29 PM
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I'm very proud and happy for you, I know exactly what it feels like to ''not want to be too much'' , can you please elaborate on how you acted different to get these results? Was it just not putting up with low effort dates at first? Or he did well right away and you never said the ''oh this is too much, you didn't have to'', or did he try lol effort gifts and you showed your dissatisfaction? I never really had a bf and being all ''don't wanna be too blunt'' idk what is the appropriate way to do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:23 PM
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there is no point talking to these men like they are human and they respect you because they don't. Damn that's too accurate, v sad this applies to most, incapable of basic decency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:08 AM
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true, and the guilt tripping is even worse "so u don't trust me" "so i'm a creep" to make it about soothing him, block block block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:05 AM
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asking is enough of a red flag, tells u all u need to know next time, stop dating him on the spot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:04 AM
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thou art a genius, can I copy this please? just with a friend and indeed if u want u should make more of these, could end up being something memorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:58 PM
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this situation sounds like an exception, not the rule, i think it's a red flag if it happens more than once, then it becomes a lie and excuses so in this case don't open the text till at least an hour later, the start with "I see... I had a full schedule too" then answer it, IDK if it's helpful so I hope others express if agree with this suggestion or not... I learned giving "it's ok I understand" is the worst thing cause it makes it ok later on, and adding u didn't have time either conveys that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:47 PM
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Indeed,, i put ''modern feminism'' in air quotes for a reason, and I was alluding to libfem since they're the most mainstream and influential ones esp on social media
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:55 AM
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Hence ''modern '' I meant the mainstream libfem, now I see how radfem didn't waver from actual feminism's goal, defend women not throw them at the wolves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:51 AM
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Hence ''modern '' I meant the mainstream libfem, now I see how radfem didn't waver from actual feminism's goal, defend women not throw them at the wolves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:51 AM
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screw him, u know what, get pride from the fact u didn't even need his apology, that u built yourself up and got happiness and it never depended on him or his blessing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:16 AM
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Trash takes itself out bask in his bitterness, FDS is so right about not going dutch , imagine wasting precious time over a lil boy with anger issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:13 AM
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I didn't suggest it because "leaving a husband is bad" but because of the changes happening to u and ur new feelings rising, i thoughts speaking of that, explain to a professional the reasons for that, for wanting to be with ur husband to begin with so u figure out the reasons u feel this wai, if it's about him or about u and see how that can be fixed either from his side or urs or just split all I advised was to be more careful about such a decision, esp in ur situation, that's all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:30 PM
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tbh i think u should deal with these changes on your own first, go to therapy ect i don't see why you'd leave this, u did great and FDS goal is to be at where u are at now and you don't seem like you had any problems with your husband prior to this or do now just think this through is all I'm saying, in the end it is your choice but don't make a wrong choice based on such recent events, if he was showing red flags ect i'd agree to leave, but this situation doesn't feel like it so be careful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:07 PM
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it's infuriating how badly "modern feminism" is women's first enemy, throwing them head first into trouble... feels like a secret deal to push away real feminism and only leave two choices, conservative religious openly hating women and wishing to limit their rights and the woke left pretending to defend women while they convince them things harming them are empowering I'm so sick of seeing women being bullied into choosing one of these two, and not seeing how dangerous it is until they get burn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:00 PM
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u have no idea how much rage I hold, boiling inside, where I live there is pure normalised hate and humiliation towards women, men hating women and abusing them, women hating themselves to accept it and abusing their own girls and raising their sons to be heartless monsters, or throwing them at the streets and let the worst teach them, standing against women defending parts of religion that work against them, even if their ruling was for their time or that things changed so much it became obsole…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:21 PM
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indeed, woc have it much worse, racism, sexism and oppression within the community too and the forced silence otherwise it's seen as betrayal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:00 PM
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Pathetic, probably one of those watching too much conservative youtube videos without having her own critical thinking to see how full of sh** they are Women in some regions get killed for the stupidest mistakes, men's ego is too big to handle the shame without needing to take it out on women, women are physically weaker and it has always been against us. courts and cops don't take women seriously, don't collect all the proof for rape, during the trial the focus is on the woman, what did you wea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:43 PM
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tbh I see it as a good thing, most men rush and pressure. I think this is the result of the bar being so low for men and their impatience that u assume a man not being like that means he is not attracted trust your gut, don't doubt yourself, but don't let being accustomed to LV and insecurity mess with you either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:20 PM
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please remind urself how "most other dudes" are not a reliable reference actually a decent man would prefer earning it, if he gets it too soon he'll be turned off so u are doing right, drop the subject and wait for commitment/engagement and see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:16 PM
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As I'm inexperienced af and don't know witty comebacks on the spot, this is great inspiration sis I"m taking notes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:47 PM
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indeed , I hate that, a lose lose situation, react and u are "hysterical" like men centuries ago did, don't react and they win, it's difficult within work but in relationship just call him out on it and leave and only accept communication once he stops his mind game and deals with it as an adult, if not, why be with a sexist who has no respect for u as an equal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:45 PM
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glad u did lol, and glad to give a detached objective opinion, this lil fam is amazing for having each other's backs ♥♥ oh that's better, i hope he won't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:39 PM
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U gave him too much attention, make sure to learn how to put less effort and cut to the best part, "fuck off dude u were rude to me, I forgot u existed thanks for reminding me to block u, off u go" and we shouldn't explain, look at his reply and the poor attempt at guilt tripping u and then find an excuse, and explaining to these NVM only teaches them to act better to trick another woman for longer, so just don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:29 PM
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oh most foreign men have that attitude of "white female objectificaton" white women are more beautiful, jog (but will harass and beat a woman who even tries in their homeland) white with blue eyes and blond hair , are more "humble" and aren't as materialistic unlike the evil demanding women who want a decent wedding and to not live with his family (god all the money in the world is not worth dealing with them and their sexism and short temper, insecurities and overall abuse ) and do u think they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:24 PM
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I think it's fine, it "broke the ice" in this case but don't make him too comfortable or be "too humble" u need to keep this impression going
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:11 PM
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She sounds like the kind i'd avoid tbh, if a girl claims other women avoid her cause she starts drama, flirts with bf, husbands, she likely does she sounds like one of those women working against women and eager for male approval, and she's deluding herself when she claims she is satisfied in her relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:06 PM
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WOOOOOoW perfect response from u :!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:01 PM
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sharing a bed is no good sign, and travelling so soon with a stranger isn't either next time he brings this up, at more appropriate time, make sure two separate rooms or double bed would be in reservation, this feels like a trick "I plan a good date but u have to be in mi bed" no, if he insists it's too late just tell u can book a single room just fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:56 PM
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U exactly expressed how I feel, and as a natural self reflecting person and not blunt enough to be like "u are a liar rn and u know it" this is a huge weakness and so need to be on the lookout and constant vigilance while making sure u are right and have the proof , like never make a mistake for them to use against us that's the part that scares me most about men, but we need to learn their game well and be sure of ourselves ♥ thank u for this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:52 PM
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so to gaslight, even worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:17 PM
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Oh throwback to the time I put a selfie as profile pic (there was light from behind hiding most) I got 300 friend requests in 2 days, I didn't accept anyone ofc but proved how the thirst is real, all women get attention and are attractive enough to many men, the question is how to protect urself from being seen as object, being lied to, exploited or hurt, that's what FDS helps with and they hate it , they hate standards cause it pushes all men to improve, and prefer shaming us into lowering our …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:15 PM
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More like beautiful amazing women done with LVM BS and being hurt, abused, exploited and taken for granted but easier to equate us to actual hateful subs unashamed to hate women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:41 PM
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""Comunication" more like warning him to act LESS suspicious and delete proof NOOOOOO darling act dumb , get ur answers and act accordingly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:25 PM
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he's toxic af, anger issues are the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:24 PM
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I can relate at 23, reading this is like a trip into the future tbh I know how confusing that is, and in the two times I gave a friend a "chance" I regretted it and thei R A N, some told me it could be law of attraction kinda stuff (if u believe, I'm a bit skeptical) but ask urself, do u act different with dudes u are into, get softer on "the rules", can u go out, have activities that would "put u out there" where chances of coming across men u would be into are higher wishing u good luck, and I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:21 PM
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Same, a matter of principle, no dating that kinda fake dudes let alone sexual assaulter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:14 PM
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No, even in an actual relationship he must ask first and U need to be vocal about ur boundaries, it was inappropriate to do alone, and more inappropriate in front of them, if it happened in front of me i'd be judging him , bad, and avoid the creep u lost nothing, he was not worth anything and if u have low alcohol tolerance, please consider not drinking as much, this is a wild world hostile to women so u need to be sharp and in control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:12 PM
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*sends hugs* see ur worth first, and act like it is real, cause it is, correct me if I got it wrong but I assume u are not assertive enough but quiet calm polite empathetic and hard on herself kind of girl , and our behavior shows so I think people see that, u need to work on that, and be more blunt against people invading ur boundaries or in this case sexual harassment, don't be quiet, be mad, slap him or make a scene don't let him get away with it, if u can't complain and prove it to anyone, g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:07 PM
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Next time slap a bastard who dares to touch u like that he's not worth being upset over, u are learning how to avoid casual, next step is to stop that kinda "incident" right when it happens take care sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:56 PM
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Most women choosing the men in that scenario regret it someone should make a compilation of reddit posts and news articles that show how much of a bad idea it is to sacrifice education and work for a man HV or LV , though the former should be supportive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:01 AM
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thank u ♥♥♥ indeed, it's all about how and where the weight is focused on, but since FDS promotes being in good health and fit better be careful, but as long as u are in good health this is a great mindset I agree with and I agree, I was so curious I searched and I found that people can be into a lot of different shapes, but how about HV? but now I'm reassured, less things to worry about I appreciate ur comment ♥♥♥ and same goes for u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:57 AM
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thank u so so so much ♥♥♥ and *hugs back* u are inspirational, the effort u put in ur recovery is admirable i'm proud of u ♥♥ and I'm here for u as well thankfully i'm doing the work for myself, I want to be at less risk and be able to fit in cloths well esp tight , u know I started diet because of medical knowledge from UNI, before that I didn't bother but I wanted to have an Idea of how FDS views that so when I start the dating (I'm voluntarily single till I finish studies) I'd be on a confide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:51 AM
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i didn't, wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:36 AM
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thank u ♥♥♥♥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:57 AM
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oh wanna spend the night ranting about all that is wrong about that ? turning FDs into that society criticism lol those people are ev*l, hypocrites who ruined all of MENA with their propaganda, most of those were secular till u know what place funded brainwashing and countries being into arab supremacy just made things easier for foreigners to brainwash people who think thei aren't muslim enough and the east has all the answers, add to that nilesat and voila, society rotten to the core with thos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:48 AM
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I really sympathies with u, muslim women deserve so much better than this, and this behavior is what set the bar so low tbh 75% of the population is unfit for relationships altogether let alone raise kids with all the abuse no one acknowledges and just repeats on new generations and whi men get worse and worse esp with social media, and how thei expect more out of women it doesn't make u bad, in islam's time women were treated better considering that time, divorce wasn't such a taboo, men weren'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:11 AM
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there's a difference between a bit overweight and full on obese, although it's a thin line but it's discernable... and ofc I support u it is within ur rights, and I'm doing mi own version of that, be careful about health, and expect a partner in similar shape to mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:48 AM
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how about he minds his business f... off, and men are never limited with religion women are, men can get anyone while women must only marri men in their religion so he's not making any point, and at the end ur life ur choice he's white women's LV, u ha ve enough LV of ur own to deal with sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:38 PM
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thank u ♥ then nothing to worry about i think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:30 PM
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thank u so much for the advice ♥♥ I do looks were on FDS handbook, but I wasn't sure of the details, was the goal flawlessness or being in a reasonable weight and in health while presenting as best as possible ? I think this made things more clear for me. I agree, and I used to be so insecure but I worked hard on reprogramming how I think of myself, be less harsh love how I look while I work on improving, not wait for the results to start, and while i made dumb mistakes I got some validation out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:29 PM
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thank u ♥ what do u mean bi that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:57 PM
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indeed, she really thought she was making a point and advocating the classic 50/50, communication '"nice girl" stuff unlike "those other toxic insufferable women"ect, I was the nice girl and it got me nothing, so I knew her advice was not helpful, if she isn't reliable, is she reliable to tell me what is good or not? while I found empowerment HERE, i was born again, finalli getting advice that made sense and explained what I always noticed about women being successful, who make their own game no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:56 PM
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her post is pure Q U E E N energy , people are so hateful for attempting to shame and bring her down, pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:29 PM
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HE used the most overrated movie and series speech pattern ever please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:43 PM
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indeed, I recognize this, women are treated as if thei must marri as soon as possible, sometimes barely in high school and think that is good, the "old traditions" ect, and we are pressured into getting ani man cause he is a male, that's all that matters, having those genitals, he can be alcoholic, porn addict, ruined mani girls lives, still live with his parents in a small apartment but all is insignificant he will "cover" u from the "shame" of being unmarried while women are held to impossible…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:35 PM
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thank u ♥♥ I'm doing my best to apply that advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:53 PM
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thank u for the advice, as for pics it isn't worth it then I guess, I didn't post much and now have no reason, I used to feel left out,all friends share selfies ect why not me, now I see mom's warning weren't just unfounded and with how people get arrested for random stuff it isn't worth it, I stopped months ago thanks, u too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:49 PM
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I know, I'm seeing how bad it is for u as well i see what is going on, it was just to sai, u have it less worse I guess, tbh I shouldn't even have said that it's not a competition, sadly the bar for women's rights is low we think being mistreated less is good, but well things will move forward hopefully I absolutely agree, that's why i'm such a rad fem fan, putting women first no religion or culture relativism or sex positivism and t... issues above women unlike other parts contributing to that,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:54 AM
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thank u ♥ oh trust me western women are like the reference, i'm not saing u have it good, just much better than most, and where religion rules women are gaslighted into accepting it as "god knows what's best and what he created, u are less intelligent, meant to submit and men can marri more women, that's merciful if u are sick or infertile , much better than ur husband leaving u right?" even at mi lowest I believed that, I was kind of a feminist instinctively from when I was a child , I hated th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:20 AM
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thank u, i prefer not to precise i'm already worried about the comments I made ect and reddit doesn't have "change name" option sadly indeed, setting boundaries is tough for me, I want to be "nice" and "not too blunt" but I learned how to be firm about that, and pressuring or dismissing the risks "oh it's just a photo" is a red flag and I didn't know about how deep metadata goes, only recently... it's scary, that's why I don't even post selfies does uploading downloaded pics or screenshots do th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:08 AM
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U are growing and learning, it's a painful process to work against this 'guilt' and hopefulli FDS is a support for u, I think u blame urself enough as it is *sends hugs* keep on thinking with ur mind not what society pressures us into and u'll be fine most here made mistakes, it's a learning process, but the most important thing is to forgive past u and move forward stronger than ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:15 AM
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I'm not trying to put you down or shame you, but hopefully this clarifies where you went wrong. And VERY important to consider: he did you a favour by revealing 100% that he's garbage by his last message. But there are men who are as shit-tier as he is except they wouldn't come on so aggressively so you would continue having the same low effort conversation with them, go on dates, and end up wasting days/weeks/months dealing with a loser like this. I needed this advice, I'm guilty of this someti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:10 AM
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y Impressive :!!!!! proud of these women, I wish women in MENA do this too (where women aren't respected and their work for him and his fam taken for granted, even working won't spare u 100% of the labor at home) but at the same time our men will react violentli, feminist protests last uear made men living in the west tell others to throw acid, or c** at feminists... more women need to stand up, and stop the madness of competing over who submits better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 07:29 PM
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the bar is so low basic minimum is considered rare, and men want a reward for it i wish it was possible men and women swap bodies for one dai, thei won't survive it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:47 PM
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her stori is veri inspirational too, I forgot the details but she was suck in an abusive marriage, gained a lot of weight as a housewife esp wit all the stress, then pulled herself up, true level up now she's where she is at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:45 PM
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ah !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the arab FDS queen ! best example of level up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:43 PM
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I saw that, the amount of people who don't delete nudes, or worse have a "nude bank of all exes" shocked me, even girls were like "whatever' what? basic decency is to delete girls, never send nudes ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:41 PM
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AVOID At ALL COStS don't ask whi , actually here's whi : it will benefit him more than u, puts u at risk, and shows lack of respect, basically u're good for emotional support, and fucking, but won't even attempt to date u as u deserve, not worth it at all if u don"'t feel comfortable around him after this it's within ur rights to cut him off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:10 PM
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INDEED, but muslim women can't marri anyone but a muslim man, it sucks because NLMess is kind of the standard save for a veri veri small minority, if it's hard to get a HVM for a westener it's 100x more difficult for a muslim woman and jasmine actually, muslim men WANt muslim women, even ex muslim ones do, because muslim woman to them means more submissive and virgin, and going to the mosque is so not a reference it can be just a habit, for show and I hate the whole "it's his moms fault" no men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:57 PM
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This one is recurrent,there's much worse , living in their majority country is actual hell especially If you're minotity Tbh I understand being Muslim, I was, but I recommend the at least seek a moderate secular Muslim and vet him extra hard cause men from that background are extremely good actors downright psychopathes, and can invest a lot in a lie till you're trapped married to him, cause he knows how stigmatized and shamed divorced women are in that community Also many Muslim women married n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:13 AM
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And virgin, or else they'll start calculating ''how muvh length of D was in her''
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:37 PM
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You're doing well You have no idea how manipulative they are and act well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:42 PM
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I'm shy, reserved, I don'y like to anger or upset anyone so I learned since childhood to let things slide or try to confront it as ''quietly'' as possible though I think I would have reacted similarly to you judt less witted Thank you for your advice, i'll need to cultivate that sense of self respect and standing up for myself more till it becomes a reflex then dytand up for myself if a dude tries to spin it against me or ''i'm overreacting, can't take a joke, being too sensitive'' ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:10 PM
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thank u for the inspiration, this reddit is the most truthful place I have ever seen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:29 AM
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