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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 26 | My take on post-1.5 years | No-Addendum-1373 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/25 08:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Divorce EffectCon-fucking-curred, my brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Divorce Effecthttps://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/s/ETYkYRBMy1 I hope this works for you, my brother. Good luck on your journey. Welcome to the liberated ones | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:56 AM |
| 29 | Divorce EffectGot devastated financially. Had debts larger than my annual income. As she was out of the picture, I cleaned my debts in less than a year. I guess my income was not the problem; she was. In the following year, I built up a wealth so large I don't have to work for the next 4 years if I don't want to. Steadily moving towards financial freedom as my investments make more than my income now. Built a huge library for PS Games. Never played AC in my life. After divorce, I am now an AC savant. AC Valha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Give her the house?I am so sorry that you have gone through this, brother. I have gone through something similar and I am certain many souls in here have also experienced something same or similar to your and my experience. Hence, the article 2.1. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 01:38 PM |
| 5 | Give her the house?1- Does the jurisdical system in my country restrict her from filing alimony due to a bs argument a year after the case is settled? If so: 2.1. In case she realizes she will not get the house, will she become hostile and attempt to stain my reputation which have the potential of me loosing my job and my family? 2.2. Is the house's respective sum + the dividents I will get from placing that sum into a lucrative fund greater or less than the alimony of XX years? (probable inflation as well as the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Divorcing at 35, single dad with 2 little boys."I lost ME in that marriage" Once you loose you in a duo dynamic, becoming WE becomes pointless. I know how you feel and I sincerely wish you the best in your upcoming endavours. Maybe my take will help https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/s/W4QROrBqTn | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Overwhelmed"There's comfort in family" But you were never family! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/25 03:27 PM |
| 7 | MoneyI said it before and I'll say it again: The moment "divorce" or derrivations was narrated, your SO transformed into your competitor in the best case scenario. You should treat your former SO as such. Expect malicious behaviour, cherish the highest form which is nothing more than neutrality and prepeare for the worst. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/25 04:35 PM |
| 14 | Dating after divorce low self confidenceI am you, just younger and with a well preserved retirement (national) system. She got the house, the furniture, the compensation and put me under a lot of debt. There were times I ate a single meal 4 days a week and two meals 3 days a week. This went on for 1.5 years. During that time, I had 5-6 hook ups. I realized that women rarely take the current tangible information into consideration. They rather look at how you present the future. For them, it is not about "I have this", "I got that"; it… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/25 06:13 AM |
| 6 | My estrange wife is now having another kid by some other guyI feel like a jerk for saying it but honestly, it's on you. It should have been over the moment you learned she cheated. Now, she's throwing you a bone. You really should take her advice, finalize it and not claim someones kid. I mean, on top of everything you deal with, do you want to get involved with child support related legal case that presumably would go for years where, statistically, you'd see the worst of her which would, very likely, endanger your mental health? Divorce her and focus o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 06:24 AM |
| 11 | Fucking bitchYou are now the screaming soldier facing the shock after being shot. What is needed is for you to snap out of it, get yourself patched, burry the rage and anger in your guts and transform into the saboteur working in the shadows to gather intel and and plan for the single lethal strike that will transform her into what you wish for her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 03:53 AM |
| 3 | What do you consider worse: losing the perfect wife in a car crash, or divorce?Read again | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/25 10:26 AM |
| 7 | Have to meet the "new man", how to approach this?The same way you would when you have to train the newly hired replacement while offboarding from your current job: sufficiently distant, unsentimental, and most importantly, professional. Afterall, it is only business. Best part is you won't have to train him. He can learn the ropes on the ship while you gulp on your ale at the shore, watching the hell slowly yet steadily break loose. Just don't lose your cool and complicate things for yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/25 05:28 PM |
| 3 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.If you are on the right path, and you certainly are as it can be seen from your words, - and I congratulate you despite your young age and libido fueled wrong doings - then avoid these prick themed groups. As someone who does not approve his own actions caused by the urges, as someone who tries to take the steps to better himself, as someone who can openly admit the blackhand he got, you do not belong there. Your place is here, just under a different hat. Ask advice and you will receive a bunch.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 08:01 PM |
| 7 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Majority of fellas in here are hurt because they have been wronged. You are not one of them. If you are here to vent, be our guest. We will lend the ear. If you are here for advise or path guide, you will receive a ton. If, however, you are looking for empathy or sympath, do not expect much: For you are yet another embodiment of what hurt many of us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Self-confidenceI regained it once I started to analyse the motivation. We're human beings. All we do is motivated by fear. We are all trying to avoid the probable risks and in order to do that, we take measures which shapes our lives. However, men have tangible, concrete fears due to the need of the status quo: " Did I save enough?", "What will happen if I loose my job/health?", "Have I taken the the steps to assure the ownership of a house?". Whereas women, they got abstract fears mainly based on the prestige… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 04:20 AM |
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