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Dating apps without even talking about politics is all you need to know. It's all about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:16 PM
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What's your subculture then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:05 AM
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It has its advantages but now you can find yourself in a subculture with nobody around you that understand it and so it makes it harder to make friends or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:51 AM
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It's not really about people themselves but the fact we don't have spaces also to find ourselves together unless you're rich then you live in the rich parts of town with mostly white people but if you're poor your stuck with people who don't share your values & history so it's easy to find yourself ostracized from all society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:49 AM
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I don't think it's urbanization alone but the death of monoculture and the multiculturalism (especially as a white guy in big cities like in Europe where white people are mostly old and 50% of the city are from other origins) so it makes it hard to find someone genuine who you can relate and build a future with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:49 AM
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Didn't read the whole post but yes there are some stuff like this that are ridiculous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:28 AM
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Spanx don't make you attractive at least for men but a new haircut/ haircolor, a bit of mascara or even a tiny line of eyeliner do, I tried it myself and got more positive reaction from women than before
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:25 AM
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I believe that you have the intelligence to answer that question yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:15 AM
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Being more attractive = more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:17 AM
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Valued by men or society in general not by women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:15 AM
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Just like guys when we say we don't like makeup on women with the majority of men not able to discern a no makeup face, like actual 0 makeup, no eyeliner, no eyebrows done, no mascara, no contouring (they would be horrified if they saw one)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:13 AM
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I do some of these but it only made my body dysmorphia worse & now can't live without it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:10 AM
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I mean I'm definitely not obsessed with 50/50 for everything but in the modern economy thinking a man can provides for everything is absurd even more when he can't expect loyalty or submissiveness in exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:54 AM
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I know, we just don't want to be lectured about men when you're actually talking about a minority. At the end of the day you can rant, scream, throw slurs at those top 10% guys, they don't care because they have the choice to do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:58 AM
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Because maybe we want to have sex & love too like every living creature
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:51 AM
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> Let him pay for everything > He leaves anyway > You have nothing and are in deep sh*t That's what happened to my mom and to many women, I criticize feminists a lot but they're right in 2K26 you can't depend on a man 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:20 PM
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Pretty much every video about men dating + experiences of guys I know & me. The only male vision you have is chad who won't settle with you because you are NOT the woman he wants but he can get sex from you with no commitment so he's fine with that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:02 PM
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You are talking about this like it's a thing many guys do but in reality not even 10% of dudes have sex with who they want, all the others have to settle for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:34 AM
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Well I have high standards but knowing people better make it easier to fall in love with them despite them not reaching the standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:17 AM
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Only a woman could think an average man as 1/3 chance of getting a girl when you talk to them when in reality is 1/100 if not worse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:53 PM
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It's true but It's hard to have friends now, once you're an adult, people don't have time, especially when you live in a country where there are more introverted people. Also having male friends who struggle in their dating life and who would "steal" your GF if they could, doesn't make it easier. (yes I have trust issues)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:10 PM
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They can be entitled to prostitutes and escorts if they pay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:01 AM
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I think both behavior are disgusting. Don't get in a relationship with someone you don't want to have sex with and don't have sex with someone you don't want a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:57 AM
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No in my opinion, the problem is the opposite because women are often hypocrites and that's the problem, you say looks don't matter much and personality is more important while you do the exact opposite. That what we can't stand anymore, the hypocrisy. Just have the balls (ironic I know) to say looks matter more and everyone will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:51 AM
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There's plenty of hot dudes who don't have to provide anything but you only think about transactional relationship because that's the only thing you can get like 80% of dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:23 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:02 AM
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Yeah but women hate it because it gives them less opportunities (even though they would never date the average Joe, at least now) and somehow think the 1/10 ugly Becky should be entitled to date the 5/10 instead of him looking for his style of women elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:01 AM
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Ah yes men are a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:04 PM
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Not being fat is easy for both men and women. You only have the will to do what's right, nobody ask you to be skinny like a model. That's how low the bar men put on women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:50 PM
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A sex friend =/= a guy who pretends wanting a romantic interest and leaving as soon as he hits. (Pump & dump) And if he does this multiple times and the girl still believe they're more than that despite not doing anything else than sex then it's the girl who's immature for not understanding she's being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:40 PM
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Women definitely love the word projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:29 AM
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I didn't say that all men need to succeed but there is a lot of difference between all men reproducing and 20%. And I'm sad to tell you that we need new humans to keep the infrastructure going, like your supermarket, farms, hospitals, electricians, plumbers, nurse for retirement home, etc. And no using migrants as your slaves because you don't want to reproduce will not work long term
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:52 AM
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It's a good thing but for the long term survival of humanity as a species it's a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:11 PM
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Yeah women are masters hypocrites and manipulators, they don't say it clearly who they're talking about, when they say "all men" & the only men who care listening to their rants are the one not getting laid paradoxically and inside the group of those listening, the simps are the ones who will approve the message in hope to get laid. (Most) Women complain a lot but will continue dating these top 10% percent men because they are unable to learn from mistakes unlike men or animals somehow & they be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:36 AM
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yeah if you got results, which means being chad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:10 PM
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It is the whole biology (human & animal) is made around males pleasing females to have sex (even tho in the female brain effort =/= reward only result = reward)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:57 PM
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Gender roles ? We still talking about that ? In the big 2K26 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:18 PM
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I don't think it's better but I don't really have a choice even after "looksmaxxing" I'm just an average+, I wouldn't be surprised that I'm on the spectrum & have nobody to take good pictures for dating apps so I just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:58 AM
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you completely missed the point but I am not gonna keep arguing with someone so bluepilled that cannot even comprehend the fact that we are social creatures and we need people we can rely on for long term, which is very unlikely to happen with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:31 PM
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We rant about women a lot because of dating problems but we love women anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:27 PM
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I don't say you have to be with someone 100% of the time but from someone who has no family left, me; ( and I'm only 31) it is NOT fun in the long term, yes I got friends, people I work with and have a lot of hobbies but coming home to ... nothing & no one in the long term sucks and I can't even imagine what it is when you're old and can't move or read well anymore, etc. You can cope all you want but from my experience I don't recommend it, take someone if it doesn't work change partner and if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:22 PM
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Not being happy is better than being alone but since you're a young woman you have no experience in being truly alone which I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:52 AM
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Yes but these one have kids already usually so they know they're not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:10 AM
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I think that you are partially right because yes they're happy until they're like 50, then all your family dies and you are alone and everyone around you has a family, a job and have less time for their friends, which means you have no one for the holidays, no one to take care of you when you are sick, have financial problems,etc. That goes the same for men, we are social creatures, yes the lifelong monogamy might not work but staying alone with nobody means earlier death and there are actual st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:54 AM
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My mom and my sis had kids and they although it was difficult for their first after that it went ok and they never complained that much about it, what you describe is far from the majority but if you already have a small or pelvic issues then I would agree it's best not to have kids in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:58 PM
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Well it's up to you to find a dad that will (spoiler it's not chad with the squared jawline and 30 side girls)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:56 PM
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You can have kids whenever you want practically nowadays and it's only a few years of struggle then you have a new family member who you can have fun with, who can take care of you, share memories.. the wins clearly beat the losses
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:49 PM
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No but women can't complain if we import en masse 3rd worlders with no respect to women and western values if they don't want to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:44 PM
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I'm 30+ and people I know got jobs and barely got time to do anything else & my country isn't as extroverted and open to new friendships as people are in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:51 PM
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Yeah as long as you pay, but tbh personally if I want to spend money I'd rather take an escort who's like a 8 or a 9 and being sure I have a good time than spending money & time for 5 or 6 who I have to almost beg to have some action while I'm getting invested emotionally while she's only there for security
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:06 AM
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I feel like red pill doesn't work if you want to attract but to retain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:50 AM
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I'm gonna be hated for this but for A LOT of women, evil & humiliation turns them on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:54 PM
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We're not talking about financially when we say this but physically. I'm a 31 yo dude and I don't drink or party or have casual hookups, I take care of myself and I look like I'm in my early 20s while most women my age actually look OLDER than their own age because of all the shit they've gone through
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:32 PM
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I swipe left on 70% of women profile, I am desperate but not that desperate. I am a 7/10 and most profile I see are girls of 6 or bellow and I'm not interested and the one I like, I read
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:11 PM
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But what's your pleasure ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:23 PM
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I mean if you're decent looking, smell good, not fat or old and have condoms, I don't understand why women makes it so difficult. They could spend a good time with low risk of pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:37 AM
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This is true but a real 3 or bellow is rare, fat people can get leaner and teeth can be fixed. I'd say the average man is between 4 and 6 and can easily go to 7 if you do everything you can
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:34 PM
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Women can get longterm easily but they want it with chads that's why they're losing because they themselves are rarely what you could call a "stacy"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:19 AM
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Women are the gender with 0 accountability and you mix that with being brainwashed by propaganda and you get a dangerous mix
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:57 AM
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You too, genuine desire from a woman never comes unless the guy is above 8/10, underneath you're just playing GFE while we provide
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:55 AM
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you realize prostitutes exist and affordable ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:49 AM
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For autistic men I would say just get escorts or pr*stitutes, life isn't fair, it's biology so don't play by the rules. It's that or nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:37 AM
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Sadly true, but if you looksmaxx + have some game & social skills you (may) have a chance to be that guy for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:28 AM
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Your match =/= your type
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:16 AM
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Because it messes up the whole dating game for both men and prettier women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:10 AM
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Well you just say what I'm thinking but extremely attractive women get the benefits without having to to date because for many of these women they prefer the freedom and ability to explore her options until she finds the best man (something the top 10% of dudes do too but replace the gifts/dinners, etc. with sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:06 AM
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Because men standard are absolutely NOT hard to meet while women standards are absolutely insane despite them being average. The issue is that women don't know their SMV, you hear fat & ugly women saying she's a 10 while she's not even a 2 and on top of that she wants princess treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:00 AM
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No what I mean the equivalent for women is that pretend they don't know their male friend are in love with them and use them for money / gifts / diners while the dude is in the friendzone. You might not do it but it's often women that are in like the top 20% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:12 AM
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Let's not pretend women don't act like this too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:12 AM
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No joke.. But the fact is that only few men have access to it because women will only do it with top 10% dudes and these guys share all the women who are willing to participate in it or women naive enough to think it will lead to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:28 AM
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Well it's the same the other way around for many men. We're seen only if we got looks or money. 80% of the average dudes don't matter to women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:51 PM
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Well I don't date a "partner", I date a woman and if I wanted to be friends I'd rather have a male friend because less drama and more 50/50 to the friendship while women often are not funny and give little to nothing to entertain a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:08 PM
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Maybe but I can't take a chopped girl, in fact, the most annoying girls are chopped. The good looking one may be dumb but they're fun to be around and lighthearted while ugly ones are often mean and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:04 PM
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Most women choose among men that approach them first. That's absolutely blue pilled, women do approach, just not the average dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:34 AM
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You don't get it, you can still get the guy if you're not that hot but he will definitely makes less effort. With women if you're really not attractive, there's no way you can have sex and if you have a relationship it's more like a sexless friendship ( friendzone)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:53 PM
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Well not to insult you or anything but you have a very feminine way of thinking (are you sure you're a real dude ?), I mean if you truly are a dude, if Melania would propose sex and sex only would you refuse ? That's all the argument is about sex and cheating (long term was never the real argument because of course the personality matters then)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:55 AM
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I'm not 12 but I have social media and I'm aware of the female gaze and that women can get turn on just as quickly as a guy it's just more rare because most guys are not "chad" or whatever you call it. You can still cry about it but it's the truth just like Sarah Stock the trad wife who cheated on her husband (while she made him wait for marriage btw). Women are not angels dude, men too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:51 AM
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I agree with you but for the Auramogg i wouldn't say being more extroverted is a way to mog IMO because the too much extrovert makes you cringe and clingy in the eyes of women (that's why they like mysterious guys) but definitely not the shy introvert type neither
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:46 AM
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You didn't say I was wrong, in fact I am right just go watch some videos of how the guys who are chosen are treated like by anonymous women like clavicular.. The guy go to a bar, the chick go to him, even tho it's him that initiates for sex, they accept. Plenty of examples like that but not my fault if it hurts your ego that women are not princesses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:27 AM
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Killing criminals or enemies (duty) =/= killing innocent people (personality trait => psychopathy) and if it's an accident then it's not really a murder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:22 AM
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That's BS that's only needed for the average guy, once they see their celebrity crushes for the first time they would sleep with them directly, no need to know them any better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:15 AM
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Well if killing people is a good personality for you.. ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:13 AM
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Ok for the Hybristiphilia. But for the 1. I think you don't understand the halo effect.. And I mean ok someone can be attractive conventionally but imagine it's EXACTLY your type, would you really care about their opinions ? I don't think so, it's not like their opinions (some vague ideas in their head) is gonna impact your life greatly when you could still enjoy life together
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:12 AM
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Well you must be really young, really introverted or not that attractive to think you can't have better chemistry with someone else. Beautiful people are definitely the ones who don't stay in long committed relationship because of the amount of option they get, it's mostly the average & slightly bellow average that think love only comes once because of the lack of opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:05 AM
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Well I might agree if you want something serious but would you still think the same if it's just for one night only with the hottest dude on earth (according to you) and your husband/ bf would never know about it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:00 AM
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Yeah I never said it didn't work but it's because lots of women don't like dating apps and don't get hit on that much IRL but if she would get approached by a dude that "mogs" you IRL, she might resist a little but would fall for him anyway if he insist enough. And it would be the same for you, you won't stay with Becky if Megan Fox wants to ride you (the thing is that it never happens)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:57 AM
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Well I'm gonna repeat myself but if you could have the same or better personality, charisma and chemistry with a hotter dude you would leave him directly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:53 AM
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Yeah the younger people are the more looks are important, it's like what's the point of looks when you're 80 like 90% of people look like sh*t at that age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:26 AM
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C'mon you made that up, I refuse to believe that not only you tried to date a 2.5 or that he wanted models. He was at least a 6 or a 7 (I don't think any guys bellow would see themselves worthy of dating a model even tho it's delusional even for a 6,7). Or maybe you must be close to 2.5 yourself to. Because guys don't refuse to have sex with an average girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:22 AM
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Well maybe you don't date up because you're self aware but you definitely don't date down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:11 AM
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Yes but personality is not the main issue, because of hypergamy you're invisible to women (at least on dating apps) bellow 8. So yes it's going to be hard to find someone IRL because you're neurodivergent but I would advise you to looksmaxx because if you're 6, there may be a way ( or not IDK you IRL) to ascend to an 8 and then maybe the girls will do the socializing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:06 AM
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I mean for the attraction phase it's the main thing if not the only thing that matters but I agree that for long term maybe not because looks fade and people want to try "new things" (new people)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:01 AM
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Because your above statement is banana pants. It's total nonsense. How ? Yes, your personality and charisma can improve things. Yes if they don't have any better at the moment, but there are a lot of women who don't give no f*ck about the personality and who would straight up date criminals and murderers (hybristophilia)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:00 AM
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Who ? Let me guess.. Girl friends, family, gay friends and dudes trying to fck you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:35 AM
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Well I don't trust you because most women think they're a 10 when they're barely a 5 with make up on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:15 AM
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They want a good girl who's attractive, if you want them to wait a long time but your looks are 6 and under you'll be disappointed because they're is no real incentive to wait a long time for a girl who's not that hot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:13 AM
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Yeah when you're not in the top 10-20% of men.. It's totally true we're Pavlov'ed by women which is why we have to do the same, don't reward coldness or rude behavior, something a lot of guys don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 10:03 AM
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It's far from the standard of beauty, you can go far from it but you'll have way less attention from attractive guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:46 PM
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Attractiveness is objective whether you like it or not, it goes the same for men, and I would say ESPECIALLY for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:45 PM
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I you're black, just wear a wig, makeup, don't be fat and don't act entitled and you'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:19 AM
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I know women cheats for emotional reasons, the couple doesn't work anymore and she gets hits on multiple time by a guy she finds fall attractive and the lack of attention from guy #1 or the fact that she's bored in the relationships makes her fall into temptation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:16 AM
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Depends 10 isn't a big deal if you're like 20 and 30
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:01 AM
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Abundance isn't shit it's the equivalent of "manifesting" for women, you can be rich but if you're a fat 1/10 with no game you'll have nothing but prostitutes, not even relationships (even with your money)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:25 AM
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"Guys don't know or care to vet women," That's peak blue pill sht, still thinking feelings and emotions are deserved because you're nice with her & you buy her stuff. That's exactly the best way to lose her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:22 AM
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Well maybe not from random girls but from those I like. I already got hit on or complimented by girls (not a lot but still) but they were never my type, not ugly just not my type. When they say guys take what they can get, there is a lot of truth, we never got our #1 choice of girl (especially for a hook up) .. Unless you go to sex workers & I don't think it's satisfying to fck someone who doesn't have attraction towards you.. But that's another debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:27 PM
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We don't live for that but having 0 compliments from women, absolute 0 female validation your ENTIRE life, makes a lot of us feel undesired and it makes a lot of us want to give up dating completely. And no we don't want to hear "you're a nice guy" kind of compliments, because it's the thing you say to non sexually attractive males and it feels like humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:21 PM
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Depends of what she wants but I'm not giving oral to girl bellow 6,5 that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:06 PM
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Commitment isn't the issue, it's the time it takes to get some action
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:23 PM
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The frame is mostly about you not about her, women and emotions.. If she cheats on you but you have frame she will regret and will try to stay. So it's a sign the frame worked but she's the one who fcked up. If you really have frame you don't take her back.. But dude we're not in 1950 anymore, women go outside are tempted, it's normal. No frame will save you from her cheating if she gets hit on by prime dicaprio or johnny depp..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:27 PM
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well what is between red and black ? I think frame works but in long term, one moment the woman gets bored and is hit on by a hot dude and she cheats, same for dudes. But that doesn't mean she wants something serious with the guy she cheated with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:14 PM
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You don't understand, at least 90% of men never get complimented on their physique, they always have to chase, and it feels more like a work than something easy to have a woman in bed, even one you're not really attracted to.. It's like you're starving and your dream is that someone gives you your favorite food just ONCE without having to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:08 PM
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5 dates is like what ? a month, if 1/week ? Well for guys that ain't that attractive or women who never enjoyed sex it's definitely longer but I never said it was the norm, I just say what I noticed, you don't notice the average guy, you notice your friends who are definitely banging hot dudes or above average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:57 PM
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Well I'm not a woman but if I was (and wanted something casual) I would take a dude who is slightly bellow my league (not ugly but like if I'm a 8/10 physical attractive girl, then a 7 or 6 guy) because the dude would feel so lucky, he would definitely gives his best to keep me. Unlike the dude who is like a 9 or 10 who can get unlimited matches, so for him I'm replaceable so he doesn't have to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:53 PM
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Well I don't know you but if you're ugly, good luck finding a guy who wants you for you without having sex in the first place or he's really ugly and fat himself. But if you give him sex there's a chance he becomes addicted and then settle down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:47 PM
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I know plenty of dudes who had to wait months to get action with a girl when she banged another dude on the first or second date
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:42 PM
9

Frame won't save you, once she gets hit on by a dude who mogs the shit out of you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:36 PM
12

Yeah for hot dudes not with the guy you see as "beta", the one you're not really attracted to in short
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:34 PM
5

Well for a man who wants casual sex, sorry to tell you but making the woman "enjoy" the sex when it's just a "one night only" or 2 maybe, it's not worth to try to satisfy her. But if she's really attractive and you want maybe dating her really later then yes satisfying her is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:31 PM
2

Well I didn't say it was all women so I don't 100% agree + men are not different, many want a virgin for society to see but a slut in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:36 PM
2

what does that even mean ? Yes I get pussy if you're asking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:02 AM
2

The women who likes me was never for my personality or they would say I'm mysterious but we all know this is bs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:08 AM
4

Yeah but those who got shitty lives get easily addicted to it not the average person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:13 PM
6

Yes but it destroy your health and your life because it's addictive like OF or porn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:07 PM
2

We literally see 1/10 women being able to reproduce and polute the whole gene pool, natural selection isn't sexual selection
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:06 PM
3

Well nothing makes a woman attracted to you except looks the rest is bullshit and jestermaxxing which will lead to being friends at best
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:03 PM
6

Why do people buy drugs ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:53 PM
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It's predatory towards men who lacks intimacy &/or relationships while providing nothing real but taking their money ad creating social issues and dependency to something parasocial, one sided. At least a prostitute gives you actual sex unlike OF..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:50 PM
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Ratioed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:14 PM
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looking at this post and the comments like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:58 PM
1

I live alone, not in the US so almost 50% of the basic income already goes to healthcare, the state, etc. and something like 50% of the remaining money goes to rent and with food and everything I have money to buy stuff but not a lot to travel or like once year maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:59 PM
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Enjoy being single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:50 PM
1

Well.. A lot of us don't have the money or time to travel, especially if we have to pay for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:48 PM
1

This, my mom got me at 36, I had to take care of her since i was 25 to when I became 30, not long ago, because she had early Alzheimer, now she's in a special retirement home and my dad (they are not together) had a lot of health issues too and I 'm afraid he won't be long with us too because he's 78. Which means when I'll be 35 there is a great chance I will be without parents. They'll never see my kids, if I have any, sadly, because with all that I never really had time to date. Also I'll neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:43 AM
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The day we'll make good sex bots with smart AI it will be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:36 PM
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I don't want "cheap easy validation of my masculinity", or I would go to prostitute. I don't think you got it, I wouldn't have sex with a girl who I wouldn't be interested in long term but that doesn't mean, I can't have fun. And if she ends up pregnant we can keep the baby, I'll always wanted to be a dad anyway. It's not because I want to get married one day with a girl that I want to wait for mariage until I can have sex with her, we're not in the 50s anymore. I mean it again if you don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:46 PM
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It does not work I'm 30, I don't want to wait months and spend money for someone that might have 0 interest in me, I'd rather move on and try with someone else. And I want a serious relationship..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:27 PM
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I got the opposite problem, I'm so happy single that I don't think a relationship is worth the pursuit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:51 PM
2

I'm 30 and we grew up in the same environment I can tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:20 PM
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Men peak at 30-35 ONLY IF they're not bald or fat, I look way better and fitter at 30 than I did at 20 where I still had a baby face
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:26 PM
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I think it's mostly wanting to fck them without doing any effort not date them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:05 AM
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Depends who is your wife lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:03 PM
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I know red pill guys try really hard to insist that women over 25 can’t find a man, I never said that, and that is a cliché that very few red pill guys says, we just say that IF and only if you still have big standards past 30 and not 25, it is harder to find someone but it applies to men too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:30 PM
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Well you can become ugly.. + if the woman is ugly too there is nothing weird about him being a dad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:27 PM
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"My kid", what's the point on being on here talking about dating when you have kids and being closer to the old age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:18 PM
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Yes if you're older but you can't ask for that to a 18 year old who is studying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:56 PM
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The more ugly you are the more money you need, like the more beautiful you are the less you need it, (well for a guy you still need money but you can become model, actor or influencer if you have the looks)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:14 PM
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I mean if you're really ugly you need to be a millionaire to be able to date, if you're average you don't need to be rich but you have to be able to provide the basic : food/car/ house or appartment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:12 PM
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Because if you don't have looks only money matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:16 PM
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That's because men are seen as dogs and creeps because as soon as a woman looks good (even underage !) there are guys who hit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:16 PM
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It's true, I've never tried dating apps because I know I am average + (like 5 or 7 at my prime) based on physical appearance, I don't have much chance on them, but IRL women are easier because they like my personality and I pass shit tests
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:47 PM
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Most women will not shame a dude for earning less. Literally 90% of the relationships where the woman earn more don't work or it's a short fling/ casual sex. Women not only shame the dude but end up despising him because he's not as ambitious as her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:27 PM
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You're right but I'm saying this goes for us too and especially for us, male gold diggers are way more rare than women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:15 PM
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But men do, because every time you'll have an argument she will shame the guy for earning less even if it has nothing to do with it. A lot of emotional manipulation because "I earn more so my man shouldn't have boundaries, I can do whatever I want in the relationship". Women earning more are often a redflag because they're masculine in a bad way, in the same controlling way men were before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:25 AM
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You can have money but men don't care about money if you don't have the physique that's what women don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:21 AM
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Yes, women control the world by some Machiavellian tactics, just like cleopatra slept with caesar and marcus antonius or theodora with justinian or jezebel with achab. They're really smart at this and I would even say they're the one maintaining the illusion of the so called "patriarchy" to keep other women revolted and keep the power by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:24 PM
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Technically he is, he literally pays for women and I'm not american
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:06 PM
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Because society is ruled by women and their slaves (aka the betabux heterosexuals and the gays)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:47 PM
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It is true, you seems to forget one major thing : we are animals so these beahaviours will always exist. And most males species struggle to find a mate. I believe we have only 45% of male ancestors, for 1 man who reproduced there were 2 women who did and it was probably worse before religions came.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:11 AM
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Well if your algorithm show you these no names that your problem dude they're not even famous now, there are no "ad agencies" for youtubers, they do it themselves, also 10 years ago was really bluepillish and not really in phase with how society evolved now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:44 PM
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Who are your dating coaches ? I don't even know 1 who tells you most of this stuff, bluepill or redpill .. You can pull "10s" whatever 10 means, or average guys means, because if you had experience you would know the average girl is way more difficult because she gets more attention because all the low self esteem guys like you try to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:18 PM
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Strive to make actual platonic friends that are girls. They will almost certainly have other single friends that they can set you up with. REALLY bad idea, you'll just be the "gay" friend and they'll ask to themselves why my friend isn't with him/ why isn't he attractive. It's like reverse pre-selection, even worse than having no women friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:55 PM
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My big cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:05 AM
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This, thanks for calling out female hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:06 AM
1

What kind of boomer thinking is that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:01 AM
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Women love words and men love the view so they're both cheating and both may have unrealistic expectations, it's not even a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:00 AM
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Not all porn is violent or disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:58 PM
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I know but don't complain if the men visible are low value then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:26 PM
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Don't you know that a lot of us think like you, unless you're like really hot we will move on to the next girl, there is no point of playing mind games and forcing "seduction" with an average girl..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:21 PM
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Well I asked if you didn't cheat because of love or because you never found someone better (hypergamy) and you didn't once talk about love or feelings you have for him just that there isn't anyone better. So that proves my point : love, feelings are BS for women, you only care when men are better than you and better than other men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:17 PM
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If you found someone better or if he really simped/ lost his attractiveness you would have cheated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:56 PM
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Then not only you are lucky but you prove my point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:50 PM
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You didn't cheat because of how much you loved him or because you never found someone better than him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:48 PM
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You're right but don't try to resonate a BPW, they say one thing but want another, because they are lust driven and think they can get love from the guy they lust ( spoiler he's above 9/10)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:31 PM
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"Good husbands" you'll cheat on because he was too nice or you didn't feel the spark anymore, because you never argue, he's too much focused on you and he never sets boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:28 PM
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Yes men are simps and women profit from it, manipulate guys by giving them hopes instead of directly rejecting them. Conservative men are usually big simps because of the "repentance" way of seeing things and blaming men while never making women accountable. I would even say that I am a simp myself, it's like a biological thing. I do the best I can to avoid being one but when you really like someone it's hard not losing frame and put her on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:26 PM
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I know handsome guys that are less successful than ugly jerks and no I'm not the handsome nor the ugly one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:49 AM
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Yeah we just find younger women (not girls) hotter and there's nothing wrong with that, it was always like this in society
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:44 AM
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Damn never realized there were so many fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:27 AM
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USA* In European countries most of us aren't fat at least not before 30
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:55 AM
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Ironically I'm gonna play the devil advocate but there are plenty of arguments in favor of the existence of God, you just weren't interested in it enough to look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:14 AM
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Typically, they are college-educated, solidly middle or upper-middle class white women. yeah demons
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:09 AM
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You can get the same money without exposing yourself by buying stuff and reselling it to the right people, especially if it's a niche market
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:39 AM
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They're just mad at the famous only fans "models", just like you might hate a celebrity/ actor because it's seen as easy work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:36 AM
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Yeah you're 100% right about drug use, prostitution if it's illegal in your country it's even worse because you have no real protection physically and legally. In the countries where it is legal you got brothels, not saying it is perfect but at least they got a roof, have other female "coworkers", are protected and can actually have standards or say no to a customer. The actual advantage is for men, it's more satisfying to have physical contact with a human even if it's just once a month than be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:34 AM
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They don't ask them out, they do a show like showing their colored feathers making a beautiful scream and if the female likes it, they fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:46 PM
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Onlyfans doen't work unless you're a top attractive woman/ have something that makes you stand out or else you'll get max 100$ a month and you can get your reputation ruined for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:40 PM
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Finally someone who gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:34 PM
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Great morning/evening/afternoon to you too !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:40 PM
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If I see they are struggling and/or ask for help and that I know they are good people (at least to me) I'll help. But I have neighbors that are complete asshole so I wouldn't help. I hang out with friends but not just to not really to talk but to do things together, like go bowling, 8 ball pool, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:49 PM
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I'm not kind for like no reasons, if one friend needs help I'll help him tho or if they celebrate something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:40 PM
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Well yes but you miss the point, it's not even being bitter, why would we do chivalry to women, be nice to women now that not only it doesn't get you with them, and they got equality and they're strong enough to not need us. I'm not even nice to other men why the hell should I soft myself down for women ? Don't you want to be treated as men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:18 PM
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Slut shaming is mostly done behind women's back and more often than not it's made by other women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:31 PM
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They didn't ask but if 50 guys would come up to him and said "I fucked your girl", he would definitely have a problem unless he's a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:30 PM
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You just contradicted yourself, you call them insecure if they have a problem with your bodycount and now you say "no one deserves commitment, they either find someone who wants to commit or they don’t." which means people have the rights to have standards and guess what bodycount matter for some guys and it's ok. Just like some women like tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:11 AM
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That's literally gaslighting. Check what you have to offer instead of talking about others, why do you think you deserve commitment if you fail to commit or be committed to with XX guys ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:03 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:43 AM
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Funny how it's always women who use the term "insecure" to avoid being slut shamed and avoid accountability in dating. Woman classic ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:42 AM
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Best way to compare it : dating for women is like gaming for guys who have enough money to get anything. You check steam's page every day in hope of finding a perfect gem, sometimes you get a game because you heard it was good (pre-selection) and after playing a little you get bored and don't know which game to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:39 AM
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Yes but the quality doesn't reduce that fast unlike women, at least before 40, my dad made at 48 and I absolutely 0 problems physically, I don't wear glasses, I don't have asthma or anything and my IQ is 115. He probably should have made me sooner but economically before 30 is hard as an average guy so I would say between 30 and 40
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:31 PM
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Depends what you call hot, above 7 is hot in my books, the sugar daddy girls are definitely at least 9
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:42 PM
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The girls who were getting run through in college for free by losers are not the attractive ones amongst their peers. That's clearly an incel mindset dude. I can tell you they were hot, the sugar daddy girls are maybe 1-5% of them. Most girls are disgusted just by the idea, money by itself doesn't attract them especially from an old creepy dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:38 PM
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Why would a woman in her prime choose the man that has no resources/no car/no muscles/no looks over the guy that does? You clearly never got laid in college my friend, they ask all this things when they want to settle, muscles ok in their prime but it's not a material thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:32 PM
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Bad take because if you "bring something to the table" you get transactional sex not much different than before, if you want a real relationship/ true desire for sex you must be really attractive and have some game. Bring "something to the table" never created attraction that's just BS, it's just to get women who hit the wall or need to have kids and will settle for someone they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:29 PM
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Both are shallow and both deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:37 PM
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Thanks for the hug, I think 25-30 is the optimal age for women and 30-40 for men. Too young is bad and too old too but for different reasons. Sure genetics plays a role but I also know people with younger parents who died early. And of course nobody is forced to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:17 PM
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it was a study done on a specific dating app a study probably paid by either dating apps themselves or a feminist organization. Reality is here most guys I know barely have any matches (I'm not talking about bots or onlyfans/insta girls who just want to promote their page which might in big numbers false your study) And for approaching, it's just not possible in most cases, there is a chance you end up on tik tok and/or get mocked (best case) or you get a metoo and they complain to the community…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:35 PM
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I get what you say but the problem with women is that we can't even approach you if we don't even fit your primary standards. There is like 80% of women dating only 20% of men on dating aps. So how can we create an emotional connection to someone who despise the average guy and don't let him approach ? Well you can say date in the real world but at work, it can be dangerous for us. Through friends very unlikely as we tend to stay between men and there are not many activities left where we can me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:33 PM
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Everything is numerical in this world, even the symmetry of our faces, the shade of color of our hair. the weight of the food we eat, the time we spent exercising,etc. We don't live in a magic fantasy land .. Even your emotions are related to brain chemistry and hormones. There is definitely a golden number about everything you like you just don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:20 PM
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Yes that's your conscious standards but the unconscious ones are real in your case. You can bs me all you want mental/emotional connection you won't date an obese bald gamer with one leg who lives with his mom lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:10 PM
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Do you have a source for these numbers ? I'm interested
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:06 PM
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Women don't even hit the wall at that age, it's mostly those who live degenerate lifestyles, alcohol, drugs, don't exercise, eat fast food, promiscuous, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:05 PM
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well our standards are realistic and women standards aren't, that's why most settle down past 30. Just try with your standards https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:00 PM
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Well I'm not settling for sub tier woman, I prefer a short relationship for a hot toxic girl who can make me hard than a woman I find repulsive. That doesn't mean I have crazy physical standard but below 6 it's just not worth the investment. The real difficulty is to approach normal women, when you're past a certain age when you don't really have a big friends group it's hard. Dating apps are shallow AF, at work it's dangerous + there is not always a lot of choices. And with hobbys/street/clubs …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:58 PM
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My mom got me at 36 and my dad 48, result she got alzheimer since I'm 25 and my dad has also had health problems, they both can literally die tomorrow and I'm only 30. I have to take care of her and my dad has another woman..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:48 PM
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Basically any dating/talk show where women are invited and where asked to rate themselves, most of them rate themselves a 10. It's weird because the ones who are the most attractive like 8 or above rate themselves good. What women tend to not understand, is that a man who is desperate for sex will sleep with almost any woman above 2/10 but he will never commit. So the fact you can fuck a 8/10 as 4/10 doesn't mean your value is 8, you're still seen 4 and even worse now you are promiscuous for acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:31 PM
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Facts about the need of validation by women for men but women don't really care about you providing if she doesn't know you unless she's a sex worker. The only thing women care is attention, it's literally their currency, they want it so bad even the guy has no chance at all with her. For men's need of validation by women, it is really hard to get out of that frame, when your whole life you barely had any validation by women while you have physical needs to become intimate with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:22 PM
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Women want relationships from (and only from) the top 20 or 10% guys who them want these women just for easy sex as they're not attractive enough to be with these men. But the average woman who thinks she a 10 ( definitely between 4 and 8 at best) can't understand they're being used so the game is ruined for everyone, average guys have to deal with inflated women egos from chad who fcks them and her simp army on tinder and it's also ruined for women who can't get commitment from a guy that is ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:54 AM
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There is literally no proof and the case is still going on. They had a camsite yes but that's not trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:09 AM
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Women want equality but DON'T want to lose their privileges Their privileges : Not having to do the first move Can play the victim card and will be trusted Sisterhood uber alles / being supported by your gender no matter what (most of the time) Chivalry, not having to pay for dates Can body shame men ( mocking his d size, hating on short guys) but you can not even ask her weight Once something is not convenient to women they can emasculate you by saying "a real man would.." but if you do this th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:01 AM
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You're 100% right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:17 AM
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+ andrew and tristan tate got wives and kids and they're the most extreme..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:15 AM
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You don't understand the red pill, there is nothing that makes men hate women, just help them understand women. The whole kids shooting girls, etc. Are people who fell in the black pill (despair, rage, not understanding women are all different & not understanding/not wanting to improve as a man ).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:08 AM
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why not rollo ? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:05 AM
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It's true that's why I say either looks OR intelligence OR status ( & well money is more for escorts and that is 100% transactional, not love I agree but don't lie you wouldn't see a woman love an obese poor man who literally has nothing to offer). So yes looks is transactional in a way, giving you crazy emotions/ butterflies in your stomach is transactional => it wouldn't happen to you if the guy didn't stand out in any way, it can be intellectual yes, the red pill acknowledge sapiosxual too ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:00 AM
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Not saying you're wrong but hypothetically if women would control the world; how would you satisfy men's desire for sexual intimacy without coercing women into doing it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:44 AM
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Again you don't understand the red pill at all, it literally is a way to stoicism. You use sophistic assumptions told by the media to call it misogynistic. There is nothing misogynistic about knowing women want men better than them (either in looks/status/money/intelligence), and knowing they settle down once their biological clock is ticking (if they're dating no one). Nothing raging too if you think about it. The whole hate, despair & violence stuff & only looks matter is black pill. Nothing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:35 AM
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It's only a rage bait when you first learn about women nature and don't know what to do about it. Once you accept it you become more in a calm "aware" state. People who stays in the rage phase are more likely to fall in or to be black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:24 AM
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It wouldn't be there and successful if it didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:58 PM
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Let's not forget they race swiped the kids. Weird how the bad guys must be white. But when they need heroes/good guys from western history they turn them black.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:56 PM
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you're litterally the one crying in the comments because you can't stand reality and facts. Get a brain lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:50 PM
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I think you're delulu and didn't understand a single thing he wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:37 PM
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Tbf universities, the whole PC culture, and the "bring down the patriarchy" movement here since the late 60s are absolutely dominated by women and so there is a massive bias. So it isn't a point for you too. You defend people who hate everything you represent. But you do you, you have free speech brother, something they hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:33 PM
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I am convinced empathy towards strangers does not really exist (for both men & women), it's just to be be well seen by society. True empathy is towards your people, your family, your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:26 PM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:23 PM
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Blue pills guys k*ll themselves (or worse they k*ll their wives !) when they're being left because they centered their life over a woman. While us we move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:19 PM
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Yes but I don't care about them either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:14 PM
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They do it because women tend to have a herd behavior, especially communal narcissism not because they want to solve the actual problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:12 PM
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Not all + you're on internet too in the same sub so that's weird for you to say that. The only men who hate me are the ones who are still in the cave too afraid to get out to see the light.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:44 PM
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The blue pill man chases and gets nothing, the black pill man isolates himself in rage and gets nothing too. The others fck or at very least attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:35 PM
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Women hate the fact that we know now that all the sugar coating about women we're taught since we're kids isn't real. We know their true nature thanks to SM and especially their tikt*k videos and they hate it. Their shaming tactics, "man-up" and all that trad BS isn't working anymore, especially for modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:26 PM
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I don't have time to waste on that sht
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:16 PM
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Thin and young isn't a high standard as it easy for men to be the same too. And for "pretty" we just want an average woman, while women want an 8/10 man min + you expect him to have money, a car, a house, take you to trips while we don't. Modern women are just completely delulu and don't even know they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:11 PM
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Yes but that can be learnt unless you have severe autism which is way more rare than people pretends to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:13 PM
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Because they're not ugly, in my opinion. Not beautiful too just average. If they would try in real life (not dating app) it would work, maybe not with everyone but they definitely can attract people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:09 PM
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That's because you're psycho-rigid dude, I find plenty of socially awkward people cool to talk to, you just need to help them socialize. Most of them are normal they just don't know how to talk to people or they get nervous. Nothing too worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:22 PM
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Not everything is because of attractiveness, I know people who are virgins just because they're socially awkward or they don't go out/ ask people out but if they try they would succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:25 PM
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"Deserve" doesn't mean shit for women, as you guys often prefer gangsters than hard working men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:33 PM
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We don't female friends because lots of them got no hobbies at all (travels and going out aren't hobbies) the only female friends we can have are the ugly ones because it's the only one who have actual hobbies or personalities. And we "care" or pretend to care about the others because it's a biological need we have to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:43 PM
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You may not like it but he's right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:22 PM
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Decenter relationships yes but decenter sex hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:22 PM
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Because most men are entertaining and most women aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:51 PM
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If you don't want your own family and don't care about giving/sharing the money/attention for a kid that isn't yours then you're winning but for majority of guys it isn't a dream. (+ some single mothers still have big standards if not bigger)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:05 PM
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Men are not a monolith with a single opinion about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:30 PM
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It's statistically better but not automatically better. Because there are other factors in it too, wealth and social status of the parents, neighborhood, school/ education of the kid, society you live in / time period..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:31 AM
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The fact that men value themselves about the ability or not to get women says a lot about our gynocentric society
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:04 PM
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Because (most) women are 1. lazy 2. entitled 3. scared to do the first move. Edit : Also reading people in comments who think all women approach.. Totally delusional, I have female friends who I knew they were attracted to other guys (they told me) and not even one dared to approach their crushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:34 PM
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Idk how far she settles, I'm a 7, I could settle for like a 5 and be happy so maybe if she's a 7-8 settling for me, I won't be the best option but maybe we can make it work as I'm far from being repulsive and I have some game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:19 AM
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Soviet union will be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:13 AM
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True but men beating their wives were never a majority
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:37 PM
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Far left is hard work but with no pay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:34 PM
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Because back then feminism wasn't about hating men, they knew men could protect them and if the man was the only one working it was also better for them to reward hard work, discipline. The left was more about workers back then than identity politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:58 AM
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Because empathy (left) is a feminine trait and discipline, hard work (right) is a masculine trait, at least in most species.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:01 PM
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Jesus Christ, even the bluest pill guys here are not as pussified as you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:12 PM
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Yes because it's nature and female selection and I would even say it's not toxic, It's only labelled that way because we live in a forced positive society, where everyone has to be nice but that's not how nature works, the fittest survive and the strong kills/dominate the weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:07 PM
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If she's 8 or above yes and I'll make her change opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:04 PM
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Women are just coping because their looks fade away, not for all but these who rant about it definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:12 AM
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It does, look how many girls are complaining about dudes who won't commit on social media, guess why these dudes won't commit ? Cuz they have the choice and they use it without the girl even knowing about it. I'm sorry if I destroy some girl fantasy but most dudes who are really attractive aren't serious at all unless you're yourself a 9 or 10 which is rare too tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:31 AM
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One dude fcking ("dating") multiple women at the same time, without them knowing that and that's how you get these stats but it can be hard to understand if you don't know how males, or at least attractive males work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:22 AM
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80% women sharing the same 20% of men if not 5% nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:08 AM
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Yeah, totally true as someone who is like a 7, I get looks from women and get hit by women who are between 3 and 5 but they don't overpursue and women who are like me or above; like my company, they would even send mix signals and like the flirting but would never reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:00 AM
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Women have sht mental state because of their high expectations both in themselves and others. If women were more down to earth they would be happier. But I acknowledge the downside you said though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:51 AM
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But being the 304th girl of the week for the same guy is valuable. Women ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:45 AM
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You also forgot that men bromance are really a thing of the past, most of us don't really support each other and would backstab each other over a woman much more than women IMO because of the lack of opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:41 AM
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Because of social media, most women don't want the average man (which means poor, no muscles, short, small D, no game, too nice) which means we don't have choice but to improve. I've never seen a modern woman happy with an average guy in the long run, unless she is so far bellow him that she's winning, like fat, bad skin, ugly face, etc. It's the sad reality of hypergamy. 5/10 women don't want 5/10 men but at least 8
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:54 PM
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I think the peak age gap is between 2 and 7 for both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:57 PM
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Well they're parasites only if they give nothing back, like no sex, no cooking, no emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:08 PM
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Because (most) women get unattractive with age and it becomes harder for them to find someone (good) as they get older (and no I'm not talking about 30s but more like 40-50+) Also it's harder to make kids for them 30+. Money is not really a problem if you know the dad recognized the kids, he'll pay for them and depends where you are, you get support from the state and supposedly your parents too. And being a woman alone in later life is harder because women tend to have that herd mentality that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:04 PM
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Yeah but what you don't get is that marriage is a woman fantasy, most masculine men (rare nowadays) don't care about it like di caprio or the one who do get married, marry multiple times. For the class sure, the difference shouldn't be that big but I think we can agree that a supermodel and a billionaire are not the same class moneywise but I'm sure he would marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:52 PM
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And why the assumption that all women who make more than minimum wage are ugly and bitchy? Usually it’s poverty that correlate with weight and harsher manners. I don't know in the us but in europe most people are not fat because of the food, at least when they're young and metabolism work well. I would 100% date a pretty ceo over ugly cashier that's for sure. Would I feel intimidated ? Maybe yes but I would try to make it work. Do we want to marry someone from our social class ? Not really. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:36 PM
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No I mean related in attraction, we men value loyalty, beauty and youth more than money, success, status in dating compared to women and male brain because you think what will attract women and not what will attract men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:03 AM
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Depends, if she's hot yes but the problem is that women nowadays have a "male brain" which make them think that we're interested in money/ success / status which might work for women but not for us. I'll take a pretty sweet young cashier over an ugly entitled boss woman all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:23 AM
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Blame (single) mothers who teach this to their sons in the west and the lack of fathers or male that aren't 100% betatised by society to teach young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:22 PM
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*checks flair* blue pill woman Not surprised at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:31 PM
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Never said it's impossible but a rageful feminist over 40 who isn't good looking will have a hard time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:54 PM
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The age to get married with a high value man is usually sooner like between 20-30. I'm sorry to tell you but at 42, men will only see you as a party girl who just want to settle down with them to be safe later and who was never able to keep a man. The only guys who would want to commit are definitely low value dudes unless you're in the top 10% women which I highly doubt because of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:37 PM
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Yeah not accountable in your dating choice, you're literally the nice girl asking where are the good guys while dating the assholes all the time. That's literally karma. I get you can fall for a bad dude one time but if it happens on multiple occasions maybe the issue is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:39 AM
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Women are the mate selector so assuming there is no rape and you end up with someone like that you probably deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:16 AM
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Women don't want bad boys because they're bad but because they're free, they don't give AF about society's expectation, they don't bitch like nice boys i.e. saying stuff like : "I did this and this for you and I was there for you so you owe me sex and a relationship because I've been nice to you for X years" and they're not needy + they usually care more about their appearance and have more charisma than mr nice boy who never did anything wrong in his life, has 10 degrees and a good relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:41 AM
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