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| 5 | getting past the first date | Fundamentals | No-Buy7459 | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Getting serious relationships | Inner Game | No-Buy7459 | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 12:04 AM |
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| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?After sleeping with almost 150+ (no escorts) women and the fact that I lost my virginity at 27 I can very confidently explain the reason someone might be a virgin. I am a good looking guy but severely autistic. Till 27 I was almost 25% body fat and I had 0 success on dating apps as expected. Therefore I was forced to use social circles but I failed miserably there as I'm autistic. However I bought myself to 10-15% body fat started going to the gym and within my first year I slept with almost 20 … | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority?very small pool of women for sure. though a large percentage do have a hoe phase. speaking because most women i had slept with happened to be in their hoe phase and have been in long relationships since then. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Stats for Top GuysI have had almost 3-5k lifetime matches on hinge. And I have slept with almost 150+ women and I only sleep with women who are skinny. I'm out of this lifestyle now as sleeping with so many women is a huge waste of time, energy and money. Im in early 30s. I have tried nightgame once or twice but I consider it time inefficient. Dating apps I just have 5-6 canned lines I say and girls are ready to go on a date with some of them flaking (like 10-20% I'd say). And once on a date, I'd sleep with >80% … | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Is my mediocre dating app experience because of my race?I'm 5'9 and Indian and have almost 2k matches/likes on hinge (only white and asian). I think if youre >average height, for dating apps face is the biggest factor, race/height dont matter. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 02:57 PM |
| 2 | If women are successfully hypergamous, shouldn’t men be upset and demand action from/against the few men benefitting rather than the multitude of women?agree, instead of average i should say below average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:52 AM |
| 6 | If women are successfully hypergamous, shouldn’t men be upset and demand action from/against the few men benefitting rather than the multitude of women?i found the opposite when i do a google search | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:51 AM |
| 3 | If women are successfully hypergamous, shouldn’t men be upset and demand action from/against the few men benefitting rather than the multitude of women?With AI taking away all the jobs soon, it would revert back to normal I think. Only manual labor jobs would remain and historically men have been much better at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 06:31 PM |
| 41 | If women are successfully hypergamous, shouldn’t men be upset and demand action from/against the few men benefitting rather than the multitude of women?That wont do much. evidence: woman would rather stay single than marry average guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 02:16 PM |
| 3 | How Phone Calls Completely Changed My Dating Life (And Why Texting Was Killing My Conversions)I also chat a little bit, and get them on a phone call. So easy to make them laugh etc, also my text game sucks. I cant however do this with american women as I have a strong accent and it works against me | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 03:44 PM |
| – | Socializing IRL is overrated IMO especially if you are ugly/neurodivergentCompletely agree. Im severely autistic but good looking. Ive never dated someone from my friend circle or house parties because I become very quiet and that puts me in a negative light. Being neurodivergent I dont even need that social stimulation as I dont enjoy it and think that most of the topics normies talk about in parties is completely useless and I can do more productive things. Therefore I have completely stopped going out on non dating social activities. I just go on dates from hinge n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I even go to the club if I feel every guy there is better looking than meIve got laid almost 5-10 times in clubs and Ive been there every other weekend on an average for the past 10 years. So now I dont bother and just stick to the apps. | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Are 3șum even a real thing?Me, my bi fwb and her friend were in a cab dropping me off in the way. Before the cab we were clubbing where they both were making out the entire night. And i was making out with my fwb. Her friend told me almost 5 times that my fwb told her i had a big dick. I had also taken naked pictures of my fwb and she said she also wanted a photoshoot. Coming to the cab ride, everyone was high af. She started jerking me off in the backseat about when we were 2 min from my place, while her friend was sitti… | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 09:33 PM |
| – | Most men have nothing to offer womenIf thats true why do women still date men despite knowing men just want sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Interesting bar nightI still feel like apps are much better. You just got lucky, try going to a bar 100 times and calculate the odds of this happening. Not downplaying your experience, but going out is so time expensive that Id not use it as a way to get women. Sure if Im already out I wont oppose that but id rather swipe on apps for 5 hrs while cooking/cleaning my home than spend that time outside if I just want to pursue women. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | If you have no success on dating apps, its a VERY strong indicator of how you do IRLIm good looking and severely autistic and I completely agree with you. "Personality" is as genetic as looks. Just the distribution is flipped. Most guys have a decent personality but most guys are ugly. Charisma is when you are average/ugly and have hot girl friends because you have top 1% social skills to compensate. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | If you have no success on dating apps, its a VERY strong indicator of how you do IRLaverage guys with attractive girls is usually because by luck they were in the same social group and the guys had above average social skills. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Online game is 100x better ROI than walking around cold approachingIm a decent looking guy and if I go to houseparties I get approached by women. Im never interested in them because I compare them to what I get on the apps. And fucking someone in a friend group is never a good idea as people talk. So for now I only use dating apps. I just see one disadvantage though, a large percentage of women (especially the hot ones) arent even on the apps. Apps are just good if you want to sleep with an endless number of average-above average women. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s?Im 32. Had my hoe phase 27-31, kinda bored of it now and need a deep connection. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Why it is hard for short guys in datingtry being neurodivergent | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I don't think race that matters when it comes to seductionim decently good looking so thats the reason | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 06:07 PM |
| 3 | I don't think race that matters when it comes to seductionRace doesnt matter as long as you "look" white. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | I don't think race that matters when it comes to seductionsame as you, had endless hookups but never had a gf, cant even imagine my life if i had been ugly | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What's the fastest you've hooked up with someone ?Id say 10 seconds. I once had a tinder date who was visiting LA, she was at her hotel room. She asked me to come over. I asked her to open the door naked. But that happened in the evening and i started talking to her in the afternoon. Id' say more interesting question would be whats the fastest you have hooked up with someone truly random. Like meet someone random at a bar and youre fucking after x amount of time. That would be 30 min for me. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 12:18 PM |
| 1 | If you think that you can have ‘good’ to ‘mind blowing’ sex with strangers; your definition of ‘good to mind blowing’ sex is… Limited. CMV.sex in the honemoon phase of a relationship > random stranger sex > sex in non honey moon phase of a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | There is no dating app datathere is a very detailed study done by ok cupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]Completely believable, I once slept with 7 girls from friday eve to sunday eve. One club pickup, 2 previous fwbs and 4 new ones. But this has never ever happened to me again and I dont think it will. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 03:58 AM |
| 4 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.im good looking autistic guy. I have slept with almost 100+ women and I really crave a relationship, but unable to get into one because of my mental illness. Sometimes i really wish i was husband material.... hookups only seem nice when you dont get them, but they are 100x worse than being in a loving relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyHave a similar story. Have slept with almost 100+ women, suffer with autism. I try not to jerk off as I get depressed. Therefore the only way to satisfy that urge would be to hookup. But hooking up with hot women also requires lot of chatting and so on, which I dont want to so, i tend to fuck average women then. But after post nut clarity hits I decide to never copulate with then and this repeats. Dont see a solution to this. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:15 PM |
| 9 | How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approach<10 times. All of them because the woman approached me. Quality hasnt been that great ofc. Due to my autism I have never approached a woman randomly. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What is the best career for game ?gym trainer | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 09:42 PM |
| 16 | What are some eye opening thing that led you to a successful dating lifewent from 5 matches per month to almost 500 per month, just because of pictures. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Logistics of the datenever dinner because its weird, coffee because i get diarrhoea from it, so only drinks | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 09:37 PM |
| 3 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themi agree with you, thats why i said "most women" not all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 01:32 AM |
| 0 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themTheres no much in common between me and a woman. An average woman isnt into sports/politics/intellectual pursuits, if I was into movies/art/literature then probably we'd have something in common. Ive met girls who say they are very passionate about some band and dont even know the name of the lead singer. So when women have some interest its mostly about them hanging out with their friends there and that thing happening in background. Second I cant be myself and raw with a woman ever. Third alte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | We should get rid of dating appsIm in my 30s and I lost my virginity at the age of 27 because I'm autistic. Since I lost some weight and started using apps within 3 years only I have accumulated a body count of 100+. Not something to be proud of but before dating apps I hadnt even kissed a woman. If I had my way I would get all IRL interactions closed down as I feel the hottest women are still not on the apps and the only way to hang out with them is through social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menim saying for hot women to be attracted to you, you need a LOT of money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Do most pickup artists struggle to form deep connections beyond hookups?100% its almost impossible to sleep with that many women without catching something. Sex with a condom sucks, sex without one is dangerous. I caught an STI once and it scared the shit out of me, thankfully it was not HIV but I promised to never go raw before dating someone | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 03:07 PM |
| – | If no woman wants to be in a relationship with you, do betterobviously, but you dont need to be better than everyone else, just better than as many people as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:05 PM |
| – | If no woman wants to be in a relationship with you, do betterWhen I fuck up a date, I directly go to the gym. Dating is a competitive activity and the only thing that matters is if you are better than other guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menMoney gives you access to attractive women but that access is not a linear function. A guy who makes 100k vs one who makes 500k per year have almost the same access. The magic happen when you can fund the sugar baby lifestyle kinda money, so something like networth of 10M+. Under that only your looks matter. I have tested this on the apps as well, women just dont give a shit about money unless you are broke af or rich af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Men embrace redpill because mainstream advice is dogshitBeing misogynistic was never a negative for me in terms of getting dates. For relationships yes it might be but for casual sex never | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?1) we have only recently (some thousands of years) been social and therefore more than rizz physical characteristics mattered much more. Like fighting strength, athleticism etc 2) Women think differently than men. Why dont women get turned on by the way men talk about video games for example ? Why is the onus on men to talk in a way which women find attractive ? | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Discover and Cultivate Your True Masculine Self for Dating Successmasculinity is about winning. Its about competing with other males. Money is the best indicator of your ability to compete thats why women like it. Be competitive and keep bettering yourself. Its about you achieving your goal. You ask a woman for a date, she says no, you just dont give a f. Her loss, she cant join your life | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Seducers of Reddit: Who’s the Most High-Profile or Attractive Person You’ve Seduced While Being Broke or Low-Status?daughter of famous actor | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | To Master Seducerssome girls are into toxicity. Ive had this a lot | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 07:37 PM |
| 11 | Blunt Truth: You Might Have Undiagnosed Autism (And That's Okay)This. Most people non autistic people dont have problems getting girlfriends unless they are very unattractive. And autisticness is a spectrum. Engineers/math guys for example seem to be more autistic than average in my experience. Myself being an engineer and having engineer friends all of they are a bit weird. But art students never struggle. For them its very natual and not a set of rules which needs to be followed. An engineer friend of mine once mentioned to me how if you are cold approachi… | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Women truly do not care if you’re unattractive like you think we do. It’s truly about confidence and charm….Im in the same boat as you. I have severe autism but Im very good looking. Its very easy to hookup with average girls and sometimes hot ones when my game is good as we have something in common etc. I have slept with almost 100+ women but I never had a gf or a fwb last more than 2-3 months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold?only if you have a great face to begin with | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Statistically Seduction Isn’t in Your FavorIts definitely both. First you need to be above a threshold in terms of looks. Next you need to have as less competition as possible. When I go to my home country I slay like anything. US is much more difficult. But when I was a bit on the fatter side I was invisible in my home country also as i wasnt above the threshold. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Statistically Seduction Isn’t in Your FavorIm a guy with 100+ body count. Most of the women<25yo I have slept with have body count 5-10 with almost all with guys they already know. Almost 20% of them are virgins. Highest I have ever heard is 25ish. So definitely most women are into fwb or relationship rather than ONS unless shes a giga slut which is very rare. Plus the fact that I would never sleep with a giga slut due to fear of STDs. Plus most of the times I sleep with traveller women, hardly ever I get women who stay in the same city … | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 05:56 PM |
| 12 | Statistically Seduction Isn’t in Your FavorIm a guy with 100+ body count. Most of the women<25yo I have slept with have body count 5-10 with almost all with guys they already know. Almost 20% of them are virgins. Highest I have ever heard is 25ish. So definitely most women are into fwb or relationship rather than ONS unless shes a giga slut which is very rare. Plus the fact that I would never sleep with a giga slut due to fear of STDs. Plus most of the times I sleep with traveller women, hardly ever I get women who stay in the same city … | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is OLD so much easier than warm environment for me?ive sever autism and ive slept with 100+ women. For casual sex being good looking is all that matters. I have the same situation as him. Ive never had a gf or friends but ive no problem getting girls. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 05:54 AM |
| 13 | The Silent Attraction Killer: Why Being Too ‘Safe’ Makes You Invisible to WomenBeing nice is actually a good thing. Issue is most guys are not nice by default, among them the good looking ones can get away with being toxic and still get women. The non good looking ones HAVE to be nice so as to get attention. These 99% then extrapolate being bad as the best way to get women. As someone who has slept with 100+ women Ive always been nice to women and have seen good results. What is important is to not show desperation | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 04:43 PM |
| 3 | What do players do differently?Good looking average height autistic guy here. Probably slept with 100+ women. In my experience atleast for sleeping with as many women as possible its mostly about having a good face. Im autistic enough that I havent been out with my friends even a single time in the last 4 years. My only social life on the weekend is fucking. So people talking about "just be yourself bro" are lying. Just like you wont have sex with a girl who has a nice personality but isnt hot same holds for guys in most case… | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 11:13 PM |
| – | Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive?by bad i mean emotionless, autistic people are much less emotional than the average person atleast ones i know or maybe your autism is not as severe as mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:28 PM |
| – | Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive?Ill chime in as an attractive autistic man. Im in my 30s and my body count is 150+ but ive never had a girlfriend. I dont think autism is unattractive especially for casual sex. Since Im autistic Im very emotionally detached and cold. When talking to a girl my default behaviour is not to be a simp and actually be bad to her. This kinda works in my favor along with the fact that Im physically attractive. However for a girlfriend I think you need to be friends as well which is impossible for me. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:00 PM |
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