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| 1 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindLol... you never seemed to hanged out with convenionally unattractive dudes and highly attractive ones. You ll see how differently they get treated regardless if they are nice, not nice or just minding their own business. Its not about behaviour, its about what perception others have off you more or less cause of your external appearance | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindKey word is "ideal" world. I don't expect people to worship me for helping them, but also don't expect them to treat me like a cat piss in turn for my kindness. And thats what happens to men, you think those guys think helping and being nice will lead them get brownie points? of course not. At the same time I'm sure they deep down want some form of equal treatment or assurance or the very least to be treated like a human being. Which women do don't understand nor accept as a norm. Its not about … | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindAre those guys in the room with us? I never met any guy who expects his dick getting sucked for helping a girl move her fridge. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 02:41 PM |
| 5 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindDid you read my post? That what means having a validation from some third party like a friend. Also what makes you think some ugly guy having a gf nullifies my statement? Women are only limited by the guys available for them. Of course its easier to get a less social girl who only knows few close people in her life. As soon as that ugly mofo shows up and gets the validation in her clique he is immediatelly a dateable option. But the same ugly mofo joining a tribe with more people and especially … | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindStatus can come in many ways, like them having a common friend, being in some social club organization together etc. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:55 PM |
| -5 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindExcept when you are a woman. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:51 PM |
| -3 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindYou're kinda original with your insults aren't you? Yeah out of 8 billion people on the planet some exceptions exist, imagine shockers | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:50 PM |
| -2 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindits called having a status. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:43 PM |
| -3 | Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kindWomen don't like unattractive guys my dude. Be a nice guy as a tall swedish hunk and everyone will adore you | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsDifference between a nice guy and a good man is how attractive he is | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsA nice guy is just a term for an ugly guy who tries to socialize. You should see how women treat conventionally unattractive guys even when they are doing nothing. So that guy being nice and kind towards others can easily been seen as "nice for the sake of manipulation". But truthfully that poor mofo is just trying to fit in, be helpfull and is certainly being kind. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsA nice guy is just an unattractive guy who had the audacity to expected to be treated equally | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Lets see, you go in a club and tell the first woman you find attractive that you want to take her home and screw her brains out, tell me how does that will work? | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 10:36 AM |
| 31 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?I think because being honest with a woman generally blows into your face unless you are attractive to her. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Find and join a social group or a tribe that you are passionate aboutI mean surely you have something passionate about or want to try in your life that also happens to have people meeting and doing it? | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Men who have multiple women without spending money or losing peace — what’s the logic behind it?Aside from physical appearance they usually engage in social events and approach a lot. Their social credit makes them instantly stand out, while availability of potential dating women makes them desirable to other women | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 12:00 PM |
| -4 | Why it is hard for short guys in datingAs a fellow short guy I understand the pain. Worst part is that most women don't see you even as a man. So I kinda stopped making it as a factor. Does it influence your dating pool? yes. Will you make it into a weakness? up to you. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 02:33 PM |
| 25 | do women ever take iniative and lead?They do, they just suck at it They usually give a lot of "hints" that can be either misinterpreted as them being friendly/bubbly or they certainly want you. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you attract unattractive women or do you attract them because you think they are unattractive?And thats the thing, you do it subconciously. But what if you had some sort conditioning to surpass that | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I don't think race that matters when it comes to seductionI'm not denying it. In fact very well aware of it through my own experience. Question is if you accept them as a fact? | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Can Asians be good at game?I dunno, build good body, lose extra fat, meet new women, change your style, develop social skills, build social life and you tell me Worked for me so far | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 03:20 PM |
| 2 | What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy?Pretty much. Fastest way to turn off a woman is asking her for a care and attention in your times of need. And it doesn't matter if you paid her college tuition in the past, one time you ask for her a hand out will be the day when she ll loose any respect or "love" she had for you. Thats why women are also so obsessed about masculine guys. Because they want someone who will let her be an irresponsible toddler while also not expecting any care in return. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | What’s The Difference Between A Woman Loving A Guy and Being In Love With A Guy?Women are only capable of genuine love towards their children, even then with a lot of exception. When a woman says she loves you she doesn't mean she will be there for you in times of your need nor it means that she cares about you or your dreams. It means that you are her, much like her property she is entlitled to. They are possessive not caring. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.So you suppose to approach women with zero interest huh? | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Status doesn't mean just money. Its more or less approval mark from other people. Invisble green check mark or star rating a guy has above his head. And do you know what kind of guys gain these marks? Good looking ones. Because odds are that there will always be at least girl in a group drooling over him, guys would prefer to bring him at parties cause that would mean chicks would come. With attractiveness also comes halo effect, which means everyone will perceive him to be nicer, kinder, more t… | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.They do in fact. They look for looks and status first. Personality, compatability and other things are just adjustable | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Difference between the 2 are largely how they are treated by society. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Imagine giving someone a brand new life but somehow being a bad guy when you hope for some goodwill in return. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Erm... manipulative people don't help or assist people one bit. They simply hijack kind or naive people's good will and exploit them dry. There is a difference between that and trying to earn something for your efforts. Difference between those 2 is in a woman's head and how she rationalises it. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 02:33 PM |
| -2 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.My ex after getting kicked out of a project she was in and had to come to me and lived with me and my relatives for 8 months. Throughout which I got treated like a mutt by my relatives for bringing this girl into their lives. For another 2 years she pretty much forced her all of her problems on me to solve and made my life a living hell throughout that. Throughout those years I made multiple suggestions to break up. She whined and cried till I just forgot and kept living with her. Once I managed… | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Lol never met a person im my life who expects that. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:59 PM |
| 33 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.The issue is that women simply don't reject such guys politely. And you also notice how just unfairly people treat them. So their furstration is less about being entitled to be loved and more about being treated more or less equally and with decency. I have really unattractive buddy. I'm also referring to him as buddy cause even I ( kinda sh.tty of me as well ) don't feel that much urge to hang out with him. And yes aside from him being kind towards others never felt as if he had anything going … | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:49 PM |
| -5 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Guess what genius? Life is not all sunshines and rainbows, is it wrong for a man to hope for something in return in his time of need? I think not | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:29 PM |
| 14 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.Hot guys never have to be needy in the first place. Unattractive people are needy cause they get little to no attention from others and hope to get best out of whatever social interaction they have. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.You do realize how players act right? There is little difference between them and serial killers in terms of charming women. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:18 PM |
| -5 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Difference between a "nice guy" and "good guy" is how attractive he is. It is not a sin to wish to be treated the same way you treat others. "Nice guys" are referring to are just nice cause people in general are not nice to them and their actions are more or less projections of their desire to be treated as well. You might as well call a hard working employee a lazy bum cause he is only working for the money. Or your friend as not your geniune friend cause is only nice to you to soak up your tim… | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Only he is attractive and or popular. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 11:14 AM |
| 6 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Honestly, depends on your looks, social status and general perception you give to women. If you are a 10/10 popular guy with talents and competence to back you up you can "m'lady" girls and tap your fedora all day, women will find you charming, nice and kind. If you are a 3/10 guy doing the same sh.t women will run from you in disgust. Kindness and generousity are very foreign concept for women. Most women I met are not nice nor kind, they have very selective mannerism to act in front of people … | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?Yes it is. Assuming that you don't have any other qualities, looks or status to back it up. When women usually say they like a kind man, they don't refer to a geniunly kind person. They will have some good looking guy who is either popular or well liked. For most women geniune kindness and generosity are very foreign concept. Being nice or polite is merely a facade they have to put in daily life. So, imagine this unattractive, perhaps not so popular guy being geniunly nice to you. It is perhaps … | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Love bombing vs Clinginess?Honestly it really depends how much she is interested in you. Same way how you can be charming or creepy depending on your looks and the level of attractiveness | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:31 AM |
| 0 | Women are not capable of geniune lovenaturally you would say that lol | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Women are not capable of geniune loveOh please, women always marry up. How many stay at home dads, guys working at menial jobs or spend good ammount of their time just playing video games you know, who are in relationship or married to an attractive woman with good career prospects? Unless he is a boytoy at least. On the other hand you ll see plenty of men who are in relationship with lower social status, education than them, doing low wage jobs or just plain stay at home mom. Thats another distinction. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:50 PM |
| 0 | Women are not capable of geniune loveOnly because the passionate love and whatever qualities that made that man so attractive in her eyes is still there. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:39 PM |
| -3 | Women are not capable of geniune loveLol You fail to learn the distiction and will sooner or later will find out the hard way. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are not capable of geniune loveCan you tell me at what point women usually break up or divorce a man that they once "loved" so much? Its not when he is at his prime, it is almost never when she is at her lowest, its almost always when he is at his lowest. I dunno, I known plenty of guys who stayed with their girlfriends when their gfs were having financial difficulties, battling cancer or other illness, their gfs revealed to be infertile etc. On the other hand I also know guys whose g.fs broke up as soon as he faced few month… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:34 PM |
| -3 | Women are not capable of geniune loveUsually when the man is out of her league, have higher status, wealth, takes care of himself well and just in general after years would still have the qualities that makes him for that woman desirable. But rarely out of his devotion and duty to the family. Or whatever hardships or history they overcame. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:24 PM |
| -1 | Women are not capable of geniune loveAh yes alternatives, another distinction between men and women. Like I mentioned, for a woman love is passionate, carnal and lustfull. So naturally some random guys who just want to hook up with her will be alternatives for her husband. For men its not. Even if he is getting chased by bunch of 20 year olds. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:20 PM |
| -1 | Women are not capable of geniune lovesorry, should have looked it up | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Women are not capable of geniune loveI definitelly agree that as men if you want to have a happy family is to adapt to the uneasy truth and go on with it. On the other hand understanding this distiction helps men to improve their outlook in life and on women. So they will likely make less mistakes in the future. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Women are not capable of geniune loveReally? Cause divorce rates would have looked slightly different no? At the very least men would initiate a divorce as often as women would, no? You see a couple who have been together for 20s go through a divorce. Odds are that the husband was unhappy a.f in the relationship. But that poor sap still stayed in it for the family and love he feels for his wife. But as soon as the wife decides otherwise, the marriage is over. Men don't go out of their way to harm someone they loved, just because th… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Women are not capable of geniune loveShe'll forget everything you do for her, but also will rember that dumb thing you said to her ages ago. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 01:56 PM |
| -18 | Women are not capable of geniune loveHard to swallow pill bro. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Are women after 25 harder to game?The more partner a woman has in the past the harder it is for her to build a relationship. 25 woman would be someone who on average had more than one partner. And it doesn't matter if it was a long term boyfriend or just a hook up. They will base it as some sort of standard to judge any man after that. If she dated some well off guy who just hooked up with her, she will somehow base that experience as a milestone for the next relationship. No matter how much you show your affection to her, she w… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 01:51 PM |
| 33 | She’s out of your league (for now)Not having similar mindset or pursuit in life also influences. A struggling guy, grinding his way to the top will not have the same mindset or a position in life like a sorority girl just floating through her best years in life at her prime. I mean how many average 20 something guys will go out of their way to spend 10-20 hours every week on some volunteering project, charity work, social club or some other vain activity only well off guys & girls with too much free time willing to be part of? N… | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Having close proximity with women is more important than any other factorsDefinitelly, you should work on yourself on every of aspects of yourself. Its just having active social life, good tribes you belong to, have some common third party connecting you with them will just optimize your chances. There is a reason why male nurses of all professions seems to get laid more frequently | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 09:29 AM |
| 35 | Having close proximity with women is more important than any other factorsThis is also partially why its harder to date as an adult with full time job. You are occupied with work, gym or any other activity with limited dating pool and simply have no time or opportunities to socialize more. | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 37 | Having close proximity with women is more important than any other factorsI know plenty of losers who managed to score geniune baddies and are in long term relationship with geniune wife materials simply because they were at the right time and the right place. Women go not to the best guy in the area but the best guy she knows. | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What are some signs that you are an attractive man?Yeah, seems like if she's attracted to you you don't have to put much effort. If not any effort will not matter | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 11:50 PM |
| -2 | Is it common for you to get laid when you are least focused on it?I mean yeah, you do have to put an effort once the chemistry is there or seems to be a possible option. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I even meet womenPursuing your interests and hobbies while also making sure to join a club or interest group helps a lot. Its not that there are no single women around you, its just that there is nothing third that connects you with them. Go ahead, join a dance club, charity work, volunteering project etc. Purpose behind it being anything other than women will help you improve yourself as well as shine as an individual. I have seen plenty of losers managing to pull genuine baddies simply because they took a part… | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them?Probably because most people desire what they can't have or feels like a challenge. People don't put value on things they can easily have. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How much do you think weight and fitness plays a role in seduction?Depends on your height and body structure a lot. If you have larger shoulder/chest and arms and bit tall then its pretty much irrelevant if you have a beer belly or not. If you are skinny fat, better lose that belly. If you are short and have narrow shoulders then those six packs will make you look like a POW. I used to be chubby and kinda short, so back when I had more of a chubby younger brother vibe, after losing around 17sh kg I went to f.ckable category, basically attractive enough to get l… | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 05:00 PM |
| 10 | Any guys 5'4" or shorter doing amazing in dating ?I know 2 short men of that height with complete opposite dating lives. Both grew up in similar environments in the same area, to roughly similar socioeconomic backgrounds. One is my older cousin, dude is chill as zen, pretty awesome to hang out, takes care of his look well and used to pull real baddies in his heyday. I never heard him say anything remotely insecure about himself or others for the matter of fact. I also can't remember him saying or doing anything to make you feel at tense, offend… | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How to get skillfull seducer?Being social, actively meeting new people (not just women) and actually spending quality time interacting with others would be a good start. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 12:34 PM |
| 5 | When a friend says he’s not into a girl — then starts subtly competing for her attention. What's the approach?Dude, why even pursue in the first case? Does she sh.t gold? If woman is interested in you you ll know, otherwise just ask her out. The more you put someone on a pedestal the more she will feel entitled to it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 10:46 AM |
| 1 | When a friend says he’s not into a girl — then starts subtly competing for her attention. What's the approach?Let him be, when a girl is trully interested in you she will foresake any of her rules, boundaries, friends and even social norms to be with you. Maybe escalate with her, a month is more than enough time to ask her out or get busy. Rejection is better than wasting your time, if you are happy to have her as just a friend let it be. If not then make your moves and see what happens. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 10:19 AM |
| 2 | At what point do you decide to close the door forever?I learned the hard way that you should cut ties the moment she shows any disrespect or disregard for you. There is nothing more emasculating than for a man to show willingness to spend his time and efforts for someone who takes it for granted. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 08:51 AM |
| 14 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?Couple of reasons: You don't dress, take care of your body & looks well. Minor things like getting and maintaining a decent haircut, dressing with a good sense of style can radically improve your sex appeal. You are either too friendly or hesitant. If you are too friendly with the women you meet without asking them out or expressing your interest you'll be seen as nothing more than a friend. You don't socialize enough, its prob the biggest reason. There are plenty of fish in the pond, you're jus… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 11:36 AM |
| 39 | At what age did you find yourself pulling the most women?I would say late 20s. I used to look like a teenager in my early to mid 20s. Now my face seem to finally getting into more manly shape. Also years of in and out of gym left me with some muscles. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 09:36 PM |
| 17 | I’m having a crisis in my 20’s…Are u describing me? cause im also 28 and broke up after 5 years of relationship | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 08:18 PM |
| 4 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?Just the way you dress and take care of yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 11:23 AM |
| 21 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?You ll be surprised how many "girls out of your league" out there who see themselves as average or below average. Just because a girl is stunning hot does not mean she has some sort of mental blockage when it comes to dating you. Focus on socializing and meeting new people, forming a friend group or joining one. Primary reason why most guys are not getting laid because they are not spending much time actively socializing. Make sure to hang out, take part in social activities or events once a wee… | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 10:07 AM |
| 15 | Shouldn’t we have evolved to be able to naturally do this shit?A lot of 10s consider themselves below average and have deep insecurities about their look. On the other hand there are a lot of 3s who consider themselves as the finest thing on earth cause many desperate guys hit on them. Odds are that the pretty girl you are interested is likely interested in you as well but perhaps too shy and held back as you. Also see conversations as opportunity to improve your social skills and less with something that has high stake | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Looking 4 helpFor me confidence comes from efforts and the progress I make. Hit the gym, build some muscles, track your progress. Improve your style and grooming and observe how people treat you differently. Spending 10 extra minutes everyday to improve your haircut, skin care and clothing can bring huge change. Socialize, make sure to remember people's name and find things in common to connect. Primary reason for guys not getting laid is simply because they are not going out meeting new people, taking part i… | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 08:30 PM |
| 4 | How to become more attractive as a manAside from working on your looks you should focus on building your own social circle or joining one. Having an agency will naturally increase your desire to take care of your looks | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 08:34 AM |
| 1 | What Are YOUR Best Questions to Ask Women When Getting to Know ThemGood start, you can ask what might be bothering them or make them feel at ease at the given time, what burning question they always wanted to ask a guy but never could, perhaps what kind of behaviour they dislike in friends groups. Or if they were able to predict the future in their dreams or if they believe in intuition and stuff. Basically make her talk, bring out subjects and most importantly something or some feelings that is bothering them or they are thinking about at the given time. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 06:56 PM |
| 6 | What Are YOUR Best Questions to Ask Women When Getting to Know ThemPeople tend to bond a lot over traumatic events, negative feelings, uncomfortable experience etc. than more positive ones. It doesn't mean that you should talk about negative things just have to get the girl into emotional state first and then from there work on. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 06:50 PM |
| 43 | What Are YOUR Best Questions to Ask Women When Getting to Know ThemI ask them what they dislike or hate and follow up with how it made them feel. This would usually put her into a somewhat emotional state, to follow up you can express your dislike in people's behaviour or maybe something negative happened to you in the past and how it makes you feel and all. If a girl is interested in you she will likely use it as an opportunity to open up to you and perceive you as someone caring. Your questions in general should be less about getting info out of her but rathe… | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you step up or check out when a woman has high standards?Women have standards until they don't. | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you?Rejecting sex to a woman is like spitting on her grandma's grave. If she was up for it and you deny that, its pretty insulting to a woman. Even for women in long term relationship active sex life is seen as a sign of deep affection and love. Thats why dead bedrooms are often initiated by women, its a clear sign that either she does no longer feel any love for you or a test to see how much you desire them. So if you want to have a relationship with a girl make sure to screw her and a lot | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Short men success stories?Don't dwell on your real or perceived flaws. If you can improve or do something about do it, but for things like height. Just shrugg it off and accept the way it is. If you limit yourself with one factor you are undoing all the other positive qualities you have or can develop in the future. Your weight, muscle mass, personality, social status, charisma, career, interests, sense of style are all the things you can do something about it. Focus on those | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 07:05 PM |
| 2 | What's a key way to tell if she's only going on a date for your attention/walletKey point is a woman who is geniunly interested in you will make sure to take her share of costs, partially to show you that you care and partially to enrich the experience with you | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 06:58 PM |
| 9 | What's a key way to tell if she's only going on a date for your attention/walletFrom my experience its normal and even expected of women for a man to pay for dates on the first few dates. That being said if she is geniunly interested in you she will likely won't oppose a walk through a park or just chilling at some bar. If she goes out of her way to pay for certain stuff or remembers to bring snacks or cooks and brings a lunch she is certainly invested in you. Thats how my dates with my ex used to be. I suggested a movie night and pay for the tickets, she would buy the popc… | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 01:53 PM |
| 6 | How is it that I got most of my best girls while unemployed?Being employed means you have a very structured life with little flexibility. Unemployed means likely you are searching for new opportunities or thrills | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 02:05 PM |
| 13 | What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on?Aside from looks largely social status & pre-selection. An average looking guy everyone knows of and invites to parties will be always more desirable than an attractive loner. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?Yes, if she really wants you she will throw any social norms out of the window. If its just someone you are about to have a hook up they will give you hints. One girl just straight out pointed at a condom machine as we passed by and told me that we should get some | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 04:38 PM |
| 3 | How would you change your approach/lifestyle/strategy if you were looking for a high quality girlfriend, rather than living the PUA lifestyle?Ask yourself what kind of woman you want and where they would likely spend their time and be there. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?Unlike for men sex is not some limited resource women have to work for. So offering it will not give you much success | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Trigger Emotions! How ?Being somewhat silent also helps. Especially if its just two of you. If you don't have anything good to say or talk just be quiet and try to enjoy whatever moment you have. People are in general uncomfortable with silence, given on the mood however if one party is somewhat quiet the other party will start opening up and start talking about the things that she cares about. You can just move on from there. If a woman is interested in you she will use the silence to ask you personal questions or to… | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | how to rizz upI know a pretty good looking, social guy with good career prospects and good personality. By all accounts he is kind of a guy who everyone loves to hang around. His only issue is that I believe he is too friendly. Might sound weird but if you are too friendly with women without escalating over time they will see you as just a friend. On the other hand there is my cousin, he doesn't say much at parties, comes in late, refuses to elaborate, hangs out few bros and books it after a while. Next say b… | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 02:17 PM |
| 36 | How do you deal with cockblocking friends at parties?Thats where wingmen come | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 11:16 PM |
| -13 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyTalking about kindness while making fun of men getting sodomised, my point exactly | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 11:00 PM |
| -5 | Lose weight guysinterval fasting | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 10:57 PM |
| -16 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyNo one cares or values how geniunly kind or selfless you are if you are an ugly guy with little to social status, money or position to back it up | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 10:24 PM |
| -2 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyStatus certainly a thing. Otherwise nepotism would not exist. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 10:17 PM |
| -9 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyIts not about being kind in order to get what you want. Its how people treat legitimatelly kind people compared to ones who merely seem like it. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 10:13 PM |
| -28 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyOh please, world is full of kind people in dirt | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 10:09 PM |
| -12 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyBeing honest here | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 10:00 PM |
| -58 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyNot really, a geniunly kind man gets a back seat to a passive man who happens to have either social status than him or just more privileged than him. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | The Nice GuyIts not a cheat code. No one care about how nice or geniunly good person you are. You'll see plenty of good men in awfull relationships, with people treating them like trash. When a good guy is in a relationship with a geniune wife material it is because he has had status, looks or other things to back him up and or just was at the right time at the right moment. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Run out of the things to sayAsk something or talk about something that might invoke an emotion. Whatever that would let her talk about herself and do the talking Ask her about her star signs and wether its fits her personality Or some common insagram trend and what she feels about it. Maybe something she hates about ...., having something in common to dislike about is also good. And just from that rant about yourself a bit and let her talk a bit and so on. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How to meet up women?Extending your social circle will help a lot | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 08:31 AM |
| 24 | Don't repeat my mistake guysThank you, on the bright side social status shifts as one ages | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 05:25 PM |
| 6 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative StatusStart following any community that hold your interest on instagram, fb and what not. Ask to join their whatsapp group, maybe go there in person to see ask what is there. I'm sure that in every city there is at least one social group for tattoo hobbyists or volunteering work for animals etc. Maybe you want to learn a language or a skill, im sure there is a course for it. Even if you can easily learn on youtube, go there and sign up if the price is ok. Once you find something you are passionate fo… | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 05:38 PM |
| 16 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative StatusI extended my social circle by joining a student club also reached contact with our local community and started frequenting their events. Also organized few parties at the dorm and made sure to invite everyone I know. Bottom line Is that a lot more people know me and I know them than the 3 bros for life I used to only hang out with. One some of the events I could invite one of my female friends for extra status as well. And this will have somewhat of a domino effect. Be social, learn peoples nam… | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 05:10 PM |
| 15 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative StatusAnything that has single women regularly meeting and hopefully something you are geniunly passionate about | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative Statusyeah maybe | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 04:20 PM |
| 10 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative StatusI agree with those, but if you are not around women and actively interacting them there is no way of them finding out or observing those qualities. | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 12:54 PM |
| 0 | Quick tips/pointers on how to approach in a club?Choose your venue and wingmen wisely. Go to one where specific event or music genre or dj is your liking if solo just try to enjoy the time and maybe talk with some people. If there is a bar nearby there will be likely the soon to be club visitors sitting, go there drink something and start a talk and maybe you ll find a group to tag along. Whatever the case is be there for the fun and venue and not looking for chics. If you have some female friends bring them as wingmen. | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 11:33 AM |
| 34 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative StatusIt simply means there is something third that the girls and you have in common. Ideally something that makes you socialize with them | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 11:21 AM |
| -10 | Quick tips/pointers on how to approach in a club?Let them approach you... Chill around in smoking area, maybe start a talk with guys or girls you have no interest with. Basically be there to have fun time and maybe meet and talk with new people before or inbetween dancing. Direct approached in general tend to get them into a defensive mode. | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 11:12 AM |
| 8 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative StatusHow? | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 10:17 AM |
| 13 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative StatusPoint is women have no issue finding a date on the spot if she wants | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 10:12 AM |
| 19 | How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts WomenNah, biggest factor is status. Think of this way, you are extremely good looking dude with all the good qualities, but spend most of your time either at work or men dominant hobbies. You'll get glimpses here and there and if you go clubbing everyonce in a while some hook ups. But thats it. On the other hand lets say you are an average guy, but take active part in social events, community projects, volunteer works or basically anything that allows you to meet new people or travel and has a freequ… | /r/seduction | 01/08/25 04:43 PM |
| -4 | Tips 4 Confidence?Cold approach is from my experience not a good thing. Women are big cowards and in general are in defensive mode when it comes to unknown men. Even if she finds you attractive that can be a case. Also you don't know what is going on her life at the given time. As for confidence, just have no expectations. No seriously, just don't care how you will carry on with her. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 06:41 PM |
| 0 | What Elements Create an Attractive "Aura" Beyond Just "Good Looks"?Being masculine: Overall not being reactive, kinda detatched and not too caring. Contrary to popular belief being aggressive or loud does not make you masculine. The most masculine guy at a party will likely will be the one chatting with some bros in the corner, not the one dancing his liver out with girls. He has things to do and will not waste his time. He has no issue comming to events, parties, friend meet ups late and will have no issue leaving early. He is polite and kind without any extra… | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against youIts mainly wether if she is attracted to you are not. If she is she will make excuses for you, if not she will be disgusted. I've seen girl's who are never been in a relationship and some who are already in a relationship thirst over my f.boy cousin. Overall it makes you distinguished amongst given friend circle or community, can be good or bad depending on the given circumstance. One thing that is certain is that it makes other guys, particularly simps and white knights overly aggressive, envio… | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Being good at conversation sets you apart from 90% of guys — and it’s a skill you can actually trainThe trick is to let someone talk more than you do and get into more emotional topics without being too direct or making them annoyed. You also be have to yourself an interesting person who has topics to speak about. | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 10:28 AM |
| 23 | Where do you go to approach women?You guys approach? | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Other than a bar or club, where do I find women?Try taking on any social activity groups that have at least one or more meet ups per week that happen to have women in it. I live in a student dormitory. I see bunch of average looking dudes with pretty hot girlfriends solely because they all came under the same student exchange program. In their home countries under normal circumstances that would have never occured. So be active and pursue any hobby, charity, volunteering programs that would allow you to pursue a thing you are interested in as… | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?I have a player cousin, he is tall, fit, has long hair and pretty much every sign that he is a player in terms of looks, clothing and even perfumes. I went with him one time to a social event, he didn't talk much and I just spent the evening chatting around meeting new people. The very next day I get 3 different chat requests from girls inquiring about my cousin, wether he is single, whats his instagram is and wether if we will come to the next event again etc. One of the said girls came on seve… | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | If women are truly picky as many seem to believe...common observation | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 12:15 AM |
| 25 | If women are truly picky as many seem to believe...You'll be surprised to learn that most women are not as picky as you imagine | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women?Aside from charisma and personality social status plays a huge role. By that I dont mean money or powerful position. Imagine some sort of social club, college study group, friends group, hobby club, volunteer project etc. Basically any social setting that involves women and have regular attendance. Something that particular girl finds worthwhile to spend her time. Now imagine a guy who is active in said group, maybe even a leader of some sort. Or just super popular and everyone knows him. He mig… | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 06:57 PM |
| 3 | [SERIOUS] What was a mental block you overcame that changed your life to become better seducer?Im not a great seducer myself, that being said here are few common mistakes some of my bros I know tend to make: Being or appearing overly sensitive. I think there is no bigger turn off for a woman than a man who is either overly sensitive or reactionary. Never overreact, regardless if its in a negative or positive way. Someone insulted you? Stay chill or laugh it off, someone gives you a hint, act as if you get that all the time and nothing new for you. Appearing cheap. One time a bro of mine b… | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 02:02 PM |
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