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I partially agree with you. But seems like every girl I talk to has her pupils dilated. Pupils dilation alone shouldn't be used as an indicator. Pupils dilate due to multiple reason.
/r/seduction10/10/22 07:39 AM
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Flirt with her... alot! Be playful. If she laughs at your attempts or gives you the same flirtatious energy back. She potentially likes you. It's not one indicator, it's a confluence of indicators. Body language, eye contact, body facing you, laughing at your jokes, she touches your arms or she doesn't mind you touching her. If she's uncomfortable, dial down the flirting thing. She probably is not interested. Eg. She asks how're you. You can say," I was fine but doing alot better now *pause and …
/r/seduction10/10/22 07:38 AM
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Could you share an example of teasing you've used which worked and didn't work?
/r/seduction28/09/22 02:55 PM
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Thanks mate. The situation sounds very similar. The sex was amazing!! Still can't stop thinking about it. She's a literally a 10/10. Looks like Zoey Deschael. Will take your advice and not fuck this up.
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:21 PM
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Hahaha, made this account during my "toxic" and stoic phase.
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:15 AM
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Ahh mate. Don't have time to cook up stories. Don't believe if you don't want to. :) Not here to prove anything, just looking for some advice.
/r/seduction13/08/22 07:56 PM
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Bro, I have no clue. Been studying some pleasure techniques lately, I applied that. There are people who could explain better than me. But a lot of tongue, fingers and then penetration. She named one of the vibrators after me Also I guess wine helped.
/r/seduction13/08/22 07:36 PM
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I see. Thanks! Do you recommend I text her about how I had a great time? Or should be aloof?
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:03 PM
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Makes sense. Your looks are your resume. How you perform in the interview is your personality.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:16 AM
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Thanks! Got it. More often the advice you get here is women's brains are wired differently, they tend prefer personality over looks unlike men.
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:56 AM
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Bro message me as well.
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:41 PM
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No worries mate! I didn't understand seks. What does it mean ?
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:07 PM
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Yeah that could shake your confidence. I have learnt not too sweat the rejection. I worked in sales and used to get rejected all the time. So I don't mind it. However, I would not let it reflect on yourself or your personality. She was just being rude, you're expected to talk to people at dating events. Lol Her loss, you're doing great bro. Keep at it!
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:29 PM
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Yeah true that, I signed up cz it was a pilot run and paid next to nothing. I was bored on a Thursday evening so I thought I might give it a shot. I won't do it again though. Not too sound like a narcissistic but I was one of the interesting ones in terms of looks, conversations. I hung around abit after the event and understood why they were all single. Only connected with one women. I felt out of place at that event. The bartender was cute though, I focused my attention on her and it was her f…
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:05 PM
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Yeah exactly, it wasn't awkward for me though. I did enjoy some of the conversations. I won't do it again though.
/r/seduction28/04/22 05:59 PM
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I should have gotten some advice from here. It's a different scene to a regular bar/club scene. I probably won't do it again.
/r/seduction28/04/22 05:57 PM
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Hahaha, she wasn't. Apparently I picked bad cards. fml The worse part, her predictions were wrong as well. I told her I do palm reading and did palm reading for a minute. She interviewed me literally like a job interview.
/r/seduction28/04/22 05:56 PM
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Na mate, I'm not. I almost never receive attention from women. I'm a brown guy in a white country. I just don't care if I get the girl or not. I just talk to them and if they reciprocate I go for it, otherwise I move on. You can only become the best version of yourself. I'm just focusing on that.
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:47 PM
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Lol. No. That's some 007 shit. Met them separately. Two of them were friends and came together though.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:34 AM
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Hahah, about the married women thing, that was a one time thing. It doesn't happen to me at all. That's why I decided to create a post to get some advice. Lol Also, learnt that married/engaged women do this alot to other guys. So I won't count that. Yeah it's unusual for me, hoping the streak continues.
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:18 PM
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If a dude said this to me, I might do it. I'm a molly whore.
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:10 PM
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Yeah, it's subjective. However, On photofeeler, I get anywhere between 6.8 to 8 on attractiveness. I say I'm average because I get no attention from women. I'm assuming guys who are good looking get this all the time.
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:08 PM
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Also any tips for going out alone for night out? This was my first time. Started a bit rocky. Was about to give up and go home. Lemme know how was your night?
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:01 PM
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Thanks man! Glad I could help. The idea is not care and have an abundance mindset and just have a good time with people including guys. You're not wrong about the intelligent/humorous line. It does work depending on the setting. I have very little experience though. I just said "hi" because I didn't want to waste time coming up with a clever line. Although, I do have some conversation starters.
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:00 PM
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You can do this. You inspire me. I went to 3 bars before ending up at the last one. I decided to call it a night after the 3rd bar as it wasn't going well. However, at the 4th bar, I just decided to speak to guys having a good time. I guess it does depend on the kind of bar and your vibe.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:16 PM
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Oooo. I wish this was the case my guy. I'm an average looking guy.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:13 PM
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I'm an average looking guy. Brown skinned guy living in a white country. I'm 181 cm tall, knows how to dress nice, have a very little muscle definition (not ripped). That's about it. I just spoke to them expecting nothing in return. Wanted to have a good time as I was alone. Night started a bit rocky, went to a couple of bars. I did observe, alot depends on the type of bar you're at.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:10 PM
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Thanks mate, it wasn't obvious to me. I was just having fun. Didn't really care how the night goes. My goal was to have a good night by myself and get okay with rejection. I found couple of people waiting in the queue outside the club. We started vibing. I think when you're having a good time, you become magnetic and attract people with same vibes.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:00 PM
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Eye contact with some dancing, whispering into her ear etc. Stuff you might already know.
/r/seduction22/04/22 09:55 PM
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You're right, I'm working on the fast talking. Been consciously slowing down my speech and it seems to work in building tension. Slow down speech and keep hand movements to a minimal. Good advice. Thanks!
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:13 AM
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It is what it is. 🤷 I got a 7.8 on photofeeler on attractiveness scale. Don't know how to interpret that.
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:48 AM
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I don't laugh a lot during convos. Used to do that. That's good advice though. 👍
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:42 AM
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I see, the idea is to keep them guessing.
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:41 AM
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Thank you so much! This is really good advice. Just to be clear - I shouldn't exhibit/display high EQ characteristics with women which makes it more attractive? Correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/seduction21/04/22 12:41 AM
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Thanks brother! Keeping at it.
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:31 PM
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Thanks a ton Mate! Can't believe despite being aware of this, I wasn't actually practising it. Need to up the game. Will give this a go this weekend.
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:29 PM
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Thanks alot mate! I needed this advice with actual examples like you mentioned. That kinda turned me on. Lol Got it, I realise I'm making a classic mistake of playing it too safe and being too friendly. I should test the waters and escalate physically with her to show her my intent.
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:23 PM
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Yeah, absolutely right. It's more about talking to different kinds of woman rather than playing the game. It's also a confident booster the next time you go out. You can simply pull the girl you're vibing with on the dance floor and take the lead to dance with her. :)
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:15 PM
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I'm not physically escalating at the speed like you said. I make light accidental touches and not make very obvious touches. You're right about the confidence boost, have experienced that before. Need to repeat the process.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:20 AM
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Yeah, you're right. It sucks balls. Lately, I have been attracting married/engaged women. Wrong kinda women. See my last post. Have been working hard on myself for years. I feel I've got enough confidence to do this.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:17 AM
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Nah, mate. It's all in your head. Also, everyone knows if you're showing up without a partner to learn Bachata, it's obvious you're trying to meet women. However, don't just go in to meet women. Have a good time. Enjoy. Talk to girls, see if you have a good vibe. That's about it. Don't expect magic to happen at first sight. As these are girls you'll be seeings regularly.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:15 AM
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Yeah, got it. I do light touches though. Just don't go in for the kiss. Will need some practice and some work on it.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:12 AM
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Yeah, no language barrier. Yeah, the only thing I was passionate about is making money which is not really something you talk to women about it. I get what you're saying, the energy is indeed infectious. I meet women at bars mostly. I do need practice though. Gotta get over the fear of rejection.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:38 AM
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Friends are for hanging out and relaxing, whingeing together I think, that's what is happening to me. It's all taken in good stride but not seriously. Thanks for your insight. I did not consider this before.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:25 AM
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I have not kissed girls on date yet. (Except for 2,3 dates where she initiated the kiss) Reading your post, I think I'm not good at closing and have a fear of rejection. I'm just unsure if she wants me to go for it or I might come across as creepy.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:22 AM
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Interesting. I do think I show intent but it might be very subtle. I'm abit scared of rejection, but don't have a phobia of it. I can take a No. Will work on going in for a kiss if the opportunity presents itself.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:12 AM
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I'm 26. I'm humble, down to earth kinda guy. I live in the metropolitan city. One of the top 15 cities in the world. I do have a job. I have started developing hobbies lately. I don't have friends, maybe 2. I moved to a different country two years back. Lockdown kinda fucked me. I have female friends here, though they're in different cities. I do prefer meeting girls in person rather than dating apps.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:03 AM
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I generally meet friends of friends at social gatherings. What would be a wrong type?
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:59 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Will wait for her to initiate something. Will focus on single women for now.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:30 AM
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Yeah mate, you're not wrong. I feel they're not really right for each other and just rushed things. Not to mention the external pressure of families. Anyway, will see if she initiates something. Focusing on single women for now.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:27 AM
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Yep realising alot of married women do this. Will decide when she comes back. Focusing on single women for now.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:25 AM
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Couldn't have explained this better myself. You're right, it teaches you about physical interaction and just how to make her feel comfortable and lead the situation. Just don't be creepy, as you'll stand alot closer than you think.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:21 AM
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Yeah same here, they have sweaty palms too :) We're all humans. Some women had sweaty palms, stepped on me while dancing. It's all part of the fun.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:17 AM
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Yeah absolutely, going to a dance party/events are fun. Generally classes have a graduation ceremony that ends with a party. It's a good way to work on conversational skills.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:15 AM
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If you love dancing, just go to a beginner's class, you'll be surprised to see how far ahead you're of the curve. Plus people are very supportive of each other as everyone sucks int haoe classes. I myself am an average dancer. However I do enjoy it which makes it fun.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:12 AM
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Yeah, you do you man. Whatever works.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:10 AM
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I was lucky, our class had 20 guys and 25 girls. You're right, there are better ways to build up your game. I found this helpful as a beginner.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:09 AM
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I moved to a new country, I have very little to no social circles. Just trying to meet new people this way.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:08 AM
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Yes, I was struggling with this a bit. But after my second partner switch, I became very relaxed and just started enjoying the Latin music. Also this dance requires males to lead so you get a bit of a confidence boost.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:08 AM
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Yeah absolutely, don't do this just to get laid. It's a side quest. Only join if you're actually interested. Studios might ask you to leave if you keep bothering women.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:06 AM
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I understand, I never had dancing lessons either. I'm guessing you're in late teens or early 20s? I would suggest join a beginners dance class and you'll be surprised to see hoe many people struggle to dance dance. You're not alone. In my class, I had people from all age group who couldn't dance but were all just vibing. Just show up and that solves 90% of your problem. You can learn it. It's not something you're born with, it's somehow that you learn. The important things is not to stress but p…
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:04 AM
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Google's your friend. Where do you live?
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:54 PM
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How would you suggest I do that?
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:26 PM
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Yeah, I feel like, the dude she married is a safe bet but not an exciting one. Safe because they were family friends since forever and started dating in lockdown due to no options. Families got involved very soon and they got married fairly quickly. I have a high EQ. But my opinion may be biased in this case.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:26 PM
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Ooo, interesting. The only advice I've gotten so far is that leave her alone. Look out for single women.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:23 PM
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Doubt it. But people can surprise you.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:20 PM
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Interesting. I have zero experience in that area. But I guess it has to come from them.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:18 PM
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Thanks mate! That narrows it down.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:11 PM
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I did not think about volunteering, that's good advice. Any other social places like this?
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:10 PM
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Spot on about the "IN THE MOMENT" thing. I couldn't have explained it better. That's pretty much what happened. I distanced myself from her out of respect for her husband as there was some tension, atleast from my end. I was focused on just vibing and having a good time.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:09 PM
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This could be it. I've never actually met her before. I met her for the first time. She definitely married a safe dude as they were family friends since forever and started dating in lockdown when there were no options. Families knew right away and obviously wanted them to get married as it was safe and comfortable with no surprises. It is what it is.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:52 PM
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Agreed. What would you advice me who recently started getting a bit more attention due to working out, dressing nicer etc? Although, I generally don't catch feelings easily. This was different.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:22 PM
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This is very surprising to me. I was always under the impression, once you're married/engaged, people don't do this. Had this encounter for the first time. I feel wiser.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:40 PM
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I'm not friends with the guy. I would rather talk to her first about this.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:36 PM
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It is what it is. From this thread, I've realised, women would flirt with you but doesn't mean anything, they might just be bored looking for some attention.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:35 PM
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I'm a stupid guy. Not being used to getting attention. Not sure if it was a possible threesome, but could have gotten with one of them. Priority now is to get laid and leave married women alone. Will take your advice.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:34 PM
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Got it. I'm reading into it. I'm assuming she was probably bored. On to next adventure.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:30 PM
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Thanks bro. Yeah, I'll take it as an an ego boost/confidence boost. I guess me working out and being a good conversationalist has been working. Diving into the dating pool again.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:23 PM
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Thanks bro. You could be right. I might be overthinking it. She just saw me as someone who knows how to have a good time. Very easy to misinterpret being friendly or flirty. I'm surprised though, there were other signs which I didn't mention like we went bar hopping, everyone left and I was finishing my drink and she stayed with me for good 10 mins, she invited me to a trip she was taking the next day. etc. Moot point, she's married and not worth the trouble.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:20 PM
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Ayee, that's motivating. How do you deal with this ? Downplay it or friendly flirt with them? Forgot to mention, there were two other single girls that night who were hitting on me in a very direct, obvious way. I was preoccupied with Mia at the time. Cheers to life of abundance.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:10 PM
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Mate, hormones fucking my decision making capability. To be fair, they didn't look like they got married a month back. It didn't feel like they were in "love". They didn't seem excited to share their dating story. Moot point, she's married, let her be. Will look for single women.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:59 PM
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Didn't get your point. Do you mean she's not happy with him? Making him jealous or something?
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:52 PM
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Yeah mate, I get you. For me, however, I didn't know either the guy or the girl. Met both of them for the first time. So was a bit surprised to see that happening.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:34 PM
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You're right. I've started dressing a bit nicer and have been working out lately. Not used to that attention and I am probably just reading into it. Will ask her to set me up with one of her single friends.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:33 PM
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Sorry to hear about that mate. I hope you're doing better now. I'll take that as a compliment and not fuck with her.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:24 PM
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Yeah, I think you're right. I've had very dry dating life in last two years due to lockdowns. I'll leave it at that, she was just bored and saw me being the fun, friendly guy to be around. She had a good time. That's probably it. I did ask her about setting me up with one of her single friend. But that somehow got fazed.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:22 PM
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Thanks mate. Lesson learnt.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:17 PM
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Got it. Married women are off limits. Back to the dating pool.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:16 PM
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Damnn, a man doing this to a woman could not get away with this. Having experienced this now, I guess I'm better prepared if it happens again and how to deal with it without the emotional turmoil.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:07 PM
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Nah mate, I would be devasted if places were reversed with hubby. Wouldn't want anyone to go through it. Just took me a while to realise she's married. Not experienced in meeting a lot of married women I guess.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:02 PM
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Yeah, you're right. I guess she does see as a friend. Although I met her/spoke to her for the first time. Don't know how she thought of me immediately as a friendly guy out of the other 6 guys that were present. I think, I'm better than this. Don't know the hubby at all. Will not initiate anything.
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:55 PM
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Yeah, you're right. It could be an attraction/crush thing. I'll just leave it as a good night together. Thanks for this though! Needed to hear this. Back to the dating world.
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:44 PM
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Move on and don't reciprocate?
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:27 PM
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