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Who gives a fuck about the last word? On that topic though, there was a girl I was seeing for about a month or 6 weeks several months back and it was about put up or shut up time with making it official. I ended things and was straight up about it, and this chick had the most cordial response I’ve ever seen in my life. She was disappointed but so, so respectful. I have never in my life second guessed anything more than this just due to how she carried herself, I really hope she’s doing well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:30 PM
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Ghosting is cowardly and any defense of doing so is delusional. My favorite is “well unfortunately as women we have to fear for our safety” as if someone who they feared would react negatively from rejection wouldn’t also react negatively from someone going dark lmao. Also, most of you aren’t being ghosted. It’s pretty granular but claiming to be ghosted by someone who you know nothing about and exchanged 2 texts with is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:07 PM
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The bar isn’t on the ground, the bar is the top like 10% of men. Even that might be a stretch - if you consistently work out you’re automatically top 50 or something. Not all, but many women have a warped value of their worth. Ironically I think the sense of entitlement is greater with women than it is with men, on balance. At least in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:17 AM
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I don’t mean linking your instagram (some apps allow you to do so, so people can see additional pics without following you). I mean putting your handle, specifically so people follow you. Then it’s “ahhhh men are so scary” like you’re pinpointing your identity idk how dumb someone can be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:04 PM
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Lmao. Tech is aids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:08 PM
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She looks like Roger Goodell
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:05 PM
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Ladies, if you’re looking for a serious relationship and have your instagram in your dating app bio, you’re self selecting out probably 90% of half decent dudes. It’s hilarious to see these people and then go to the profile out of curiosity and see they like their own posts lol. Time to grow up honeybuns Tbf I’m straight a dude so I don’t know if dudes do this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:04 PM
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All you brotha, if you find an attractive woman with bangs who isn’t bisexual I’ll take them off your hands 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:21 PM
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Deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:21 PM
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We have different ideas of fun that to me don’t correlate strongly with someone being relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:00 PM
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Dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:55 PM
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Maybe if they sleep with someone he’ll love them this time!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:45 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:41 PM
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No like automatically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:41 PM
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There should be a way to filter out rave chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:33 PM
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I’m not in a relationship I just don’t know what you mean by coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:38 PM
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What do you suggest? Not trying to be a dick I just want to hear your viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:44 PM
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You’re asking men who are prone to violence if told no a single time, to pick up on social cues. You can tell them til you’re blue in the face, something tells me they don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:11 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:21 PM
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Tf is telling them the signs gonna do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:29 AM
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Yes, deliberately making anyone uncomfortable is bad. But that’s flying over the heads of the people this PSA is directed towards. And the entire thing is these dudes don’t realize they’re being told no, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:37 PM
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I mean.. I guess? If your no is ambiguous you can’t complain that someone keeps bothering you is my point. Yes men can be better well adjusted. I think both can be true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:48 PM
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I’m not even the same guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:38 PM
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My fault I should read better. In that case, I’d say things like mutual respect, trust, assuming the best, and top tier communication are important. I think those are self explanatory but for mutual respect that could even include things like how you talk about your partner when they’re not around, if you do/don’t entertain other people coming up to you with romantic intent, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:38 PM
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I shouldn’t say “really” - I should say it more commonly applies. Men more commonly approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:00 PM
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I wonder what that reason may be Like, legitimately. My theory is that some women have a disconnect in their perceived attractiveness and worth in the dating market due to the gender ratio on dating app as well as differences in swiping patterns to worsen this- men on average swipe right on more profiles than women, hence a woman’s attractiveness threshold to match a man of equal attractiveness is much lower. Again, even before considering the gender ratio disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:56 PM
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This is accurate. I will add, ladies, “no for an answer” isn’t something you can pussyfoot around and then blame a guy for. Be overt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:44 PM
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Really this just applies to men due to traditional social conventions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:43 PM
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For whatever reason this comment brought back a monumental fold I had repressed in my mind. One time I was flying back from visiting work (I am the only remote worker) and my colleague asked me to move my flight and stay the night at her place. I was like “oh no haha I’ve gotta make this flight” just totally oblivious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:34 PM
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Also, the ratios might be favorable, but, while I’m sure they’re nice people and intelligent, there probably aren’t a ton in a book club that you would find attractive. I looked one up in my area just based off your comment and that was what I could tell anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:32 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:28 PM
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Do you want kids - ooooof. Also the dm one lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:36 PM
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I’m sorry you’ve dealt with that but it’s really reassuring to hear this sort of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:34 PM
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The most embarrassing rejection for me was pretty tame I guess. I had been talking to this woman at a bar (went with my friend) and she leaves to dance. I went up to her emboldened for some reason and asked for the chances she’d give me her number, she said 0 lmao. She cooked me. I thought that was sort of rude and I felt led on for the conversation we had being pretty in depth, but also learned a lot from this encounter. I didn’t even want her fucking number I just felt like I should have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:34 PM
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Or younger women have a misguided idea of their own attractiveness. Also I wouldn’t conflate self esteem with an ego problem. Ironically a massive ego is often used to mask deeper feelings of insecurity or inadequacy. One is undoubtedly a positive thing, the other isn’t. Who would want to date someone with low self esteem? They’re more likely to be pushed around and struggle to establish boundaries, lack control, seek approval from others…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:23 PM
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I’d date her but my bs alarm would be up. If she’s actually feminist IMO she needs to be a TERF. A trans radical feminist is an oxymoron and just not worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:53 PM
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Anecdotally my ex threw a water bottle at me when I didn’t want to have sex one time (I was drunk, therefore I couldn’t consent 😉) OP I think your post is controversial because it’s true. Look at DV rates in lesbian vs m/m relationships and it’ll tell yoy everything you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:52 PM
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There are too many weak and effeminate men. So when society starts collectively promoting the idea that men should be masculine, and no this does not mean repressing all feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:47 PM
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Doesn’t matter what they look like, no either way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:54 PM
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That makes sense. How many times do you think a man would be approached by a woman? In the past year alone I’ve been approached a couple times this year by decent women and I wouldn’t say l I’m one most women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:48 PM
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Fair. You guys can have the bachelor if we can have this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:37 PM
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I have hypersomnia:(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:36 PM
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I’d wager the guys saying that aren’t actually ugly, they just aren’t super model levels of attractiveness. As for where they get that confidence? Idk. If I’m being honest with myself, I, like most people, am somewhere in the middle just from a looks perspective. A little bit polarizing even. Seems like women either think I’m more or less attractive than I believe, there’s very little inbetween. Makes dating very interesting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:33 PM
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I disagree for the most part. Looks are important but I don’t think it’s that simple that your looks aren’t why you’re getting dates. Take it from a man’s perspective - even one of reasonable attractiveness won’t be approached by a woman, rarely if at all. So if he’s not putting himself out there by asking women out, I don’t think you can make that conclusion. For unattractive women, what you say is probably more true as women are traditionally the ones being approached. But there are numerous f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:30 PM
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This is legitimately a fundamental disconnect between b/t traditional values (some of which are innate) and the current societal reality. Probably also a contributing factor as to why so many women are dissatisfied in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:04 PM
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This is highly dependent on the person. Blanket assumptions like this are nothing more than stereotypes and should be treated as such. IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:02 AM
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2 years? Idk to me she’s not obligated to share but it doesn’t sound like she has you at the forefront of her mind. I would strongly prefer my partner of a couple years be there with me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:40 PM
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Thank you for the reply! I figured I oversimplified things but my broad assumption was that earning potential increases fairly linearly, on average, with intelligence. The “men dumber” part I did word incorrectly as well haha I couldn’t figure out how to phrase it. There are just more deviations from the median is a simple way to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:10 PM
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I’m no Adonis but for whatever reason when I’ve talked to women they’ve been devastated when I want to stop. One girl was making TikToks about me months after we stopped - we only talked for one to begin with. Probably at least a little of that is a product of selection bias but it’s funny to think about. Then again, I don’t waste my time with wishy washy women anymore. I’ll be the first to tell my friend to pull the trigger on cutting a chick off because her shit isn’t together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:15 PM
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That’s interesting!! So if I follow, dumber men are also, on average, dumber than dumber women. Serious question - does this call into the question the value of forced gender equality “for the sake of doing it”? That is, shouldn’t we expect more men to gravitate toward higher paying positions by virtue of their intelligence at the top end?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:05 PM
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Where can I read more about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:51 PM
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Amen brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:19 PM
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I’m 24. Gym (weights, PPL split) 5-6 days per week, that frequency for around a year. As far as taking care of my looks, I don’t wear designer BS and I don’t feel the need to follow trends for the most part (fuck oversized clothing). I like wearing quality slim fit t shirts that compliment my physique, particularly my chest and arms. And some semi dressy polos and sweaters to mix it up. I very seldom dress business professional any more as I’ve WFH for a year. As far as grooming, not as much as …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:13 PM
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This is reassuring. Seems pretty cut and dry like the stigma follows people with low empathy. The idea of anyone crying, even a stranger, makes me upset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:06 PM
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Respect. Seems like a mixed bag in the replies. I wouldn’t mind the lie if a guy pushes back on “no” as some have indicated but imo not great form to open with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:11 AM
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I could’ve possibly seen that either way, might have depended heavily on tone. I lean toward she was hitting on you but I wasn’t there haha. I like to think I’m average in looks which made it that much more baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:26 PM
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Oh for sure that’s the frustrating (and funny) thing about it lol. One time I had JUST had the “what are we talk” with a girl who I ended up dating a couple years, then I was driving back alone when this chick kept pulling directly next to my car on the highway. I kept speeding up until her friends were successful in motioning me to pull off at the next exit. Followed them to a parking lot and she just came out and said she thought I was cute and wanted my number. Started dating “what are we” gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:58 PM
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That’s sweet! Did he ask you out or did you initiate from that conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:30 PM
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Any rhyme or reason to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:28 PM
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Hmmm.. I guess I haven’t. Definitely never a park, and I’ve worked for an hour or two in coffee shops but that’s about it. Those are probably the type of women I want to meet, I guess I’m doing myself no favors by not putting myself in those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:15 PM
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Ahhh okay maybe it’s a little different calculus in that case because I could see him taking “no” as an invitation to flirt more. I don’t like asking in that manner for that reason. Curious, what do you/would you like to hear in contrast? A while ago I finally worked up the courage to ask a girl out at my gym after we talked one day, seems like we could have had a lot of similar interests. She seemed flattered but said she had a boyfriend and I told her no problem and I’d see her around. My fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:11 PM
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Went to the beach yesterday and read, mysteriously. No women approached me. I’m in good shape. I’ve tried nothing and I’m all out of ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:59 PM
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For women: of the times you’ve told approaching men that you have a boyfriend, what % would you estimate you actually did have a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:58 PM
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Are you in Wyoming? lol. But on a real note have you ever considered moving?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:18 AM
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Huh, TIL! Greater insulin resistance, liver fat, and diabetes risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:17 AM
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Yeah seems to be a lot of defense out of nowhere for those lol. For people not even involved. At the same time, at a certain point (early-mid 20s?) women need to know better as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:13 AM
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Not sure you’ll have a ton of luck at the airport tbh. In my experience relationships that begin as or are intended to be long distance do not fare as well. Are you approaching women near you already? Why/why not, and if so how?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:11 AM
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Depends how you define it. More women (11.5%) have severe obesity than men (6.9%). More men are combined overweight or obese then women, and more men are “just overweight” than women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:09 AM
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Women have a higher % of necessary body fat in general, so I don’t think that’s true. That said there’s a biological reason for it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:03 AM
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Beast
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:02 AM
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What’s your end goal? I imagine a lot of them are going somewhere else altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:01 AM
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On second thought I get the defensiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:39 PM
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On second thought I get the defensiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:39 PM
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I don’t get the defensiveness from a man’s perspective (I am one). Because I know I’m not one of those people. Then again, there’s nothing worse from our perspective than being unfairly assumed to be one of those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:35 PM
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Im built different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:26 AM
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Haha that’s how you know it’s a valid criticism. Really dispels the whole “my side is perfect” myth that has this site in a chokehold. If nothing else it’s ironic to here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:32 AM
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I’m a dude and I’d estimate 70-80% of women are not attractive. What the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:19 PM
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Keep in mind you’re asking Reddit. Naturally the answer is somewhere in the middle on average
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:12 PM
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But they’re one of the Good Ones!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:10 PM
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Ah yes disagree because.. ummm.. uhhhh…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:10 PM
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When one denies basic science…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:07 PM
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Moderate women who preferably aren’t super progressive or die hard conservative. Life is nuanced, political fanboyism is unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:06 PM
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Bro maybe if you comment this one or two more times it’ll come true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:03 PM
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Yup, I appreciate it! I wanna make it clear I don’t make those my bio anymore hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:44 AM
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Fair point. I think I phrased that wrong - I’d say “doesn’t take himself too seriously” is intended as a positive trait but YMMV. More like “capable of laughing at himself” rather than “nothing matters”. A sense of humility more than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:32 AM
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Usually something variably in jest like I don’t take myself too seriously. When I was a few years younger and more immature I was “5’10, two different measurements”. I’ve also done “something something Jim and Pam”, tinder I hardly know her, and a bunch of other things I can’t specifically remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:49 AM
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It’ll be alright. I stopped looking at dating as something that needed to happen on a certain timeline and was relieved. I don’t want to end up alone but I’m turning myself into someone I can stand to be alone with. I’d recommend the same for everyone. Anyway, it’s been my experience I meet someone when I least expect it. I am least expecting it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:42 AM
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“Never talk to women at the grocery store/at church/at the gym/in nature/at the beach” and all of a sudden you’re self selecting two of the shittiest dating pools for potential wife material - dating apps and clubs. No thanks. Good points
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:46 PM
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Some women do play hard to get deliberately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:42 PM
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Haha no I know what you mean. I’ve done it in the Midwest now in FL and unfortunately that shit persists everywhere. On another note I wish there were better filters to use tbh, of course people say “just swipe left” but that would imply there’s no reason for a height filter either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:28 PM
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For sure. It’s easy to go into a gym and feel discouraged but damn reality is far off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:27 PM
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I’ve not quite arrived to that conclusion yet. I am also willing to stay single if my standards aren’t met. Maybe it’s because I’m 24 but I find dating a lot more enjoyable that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:27 PM
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2:30 was my max in college athletics. No idea why we did it, wasn’t relevant to our sport at all. These days I prefer a different approach. If yall are well above one min I’d suggest trying one arm out and opposite leg out for around 30 sec at a time then switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:17 PM
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Definitely closer to the right. Ngl some of the bottom left straight up looks like dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:16 PM
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It’s weirdly encouraging swiping left so many times on a dating app lol. So much of the population is overweight, unskilled/no education/no trade/no career, drug addicted, or actively unintelligent. Really helps you re-calibrate what a 5 is, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:14 PM
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Not saying I agree with it but that’s why they call it a hoe phase and not a hoe forever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:53 PM
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Interesting. Probably some truth to the guys inflating their numbers thing because most my friends claim way more lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:57 PM
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Where are women like you lol. Standards are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:48 PM
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Based. I mentioned this in a thread yesterday and someone told me “I know what the statistics say but that hasn’t been my experience”. Thankfully someone else chimed in and made a good point - higher body count says something about your character and your values. It’s up to you to decide if that’s something you admire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:44 PM
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My ex didn’t count oral. Also ended up being a cheater lol Oral counts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:41 PM
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lol right. If it’s so empowering why play coy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:40 PM
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Tough call, over 3 months I’d expect some repeats naturally. So I’d agree with other reply and say 6 max. That’s a new one every other week I think that number is the higher end of what I’d consider reasonable, and even then not if you extrapolate it over a year - two years - etc. I think more reasonable is anywhere from 0-3. 12 in 12 weeks is an insane red flag and leads me to believe we wouldn’t be compatible anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:37 PM
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Deeply ugly people outing themselves, is how I spin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:31 PM
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At the end of the day, you’re right in that you really don’t know. But there is evidence to suggest it’s worth being cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:24 PM
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When everyone’s straight forward everyone wins!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:23 PM
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If we’re talking about one specific person, I agree with you that it’s pointless to worry about. But as I understand it, there is a positive correlation between body count and future infidelity. You can consider many things in dating, IMO this one shouldn’t be controversial. Obviously it’s a holistic approach as well, but I think it’s fair to consider at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:12 PM
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Beast. Nice physique man, about where I want to be with PPL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:03 PM
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Men don’t care about other men because they aren’t trying to date other men. I’d wager many women don’t judge men for body count because that would require they look at their own with a sense of criticism. So right off the bat it’s coming from a place of insecurity and not strength Edit: and to add how this is different for dudes - for a man and a woman the same age and of equal relative attractiveness, it’s about the same “difficulty” for the man to have more sex as it is for the woman to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:54 PM
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Beast
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 02:13 AM
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Wdym by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:38 AM
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I try to control what I can control. I’m happy to have had the privileges I had. I’m happy I’m in decent health all things considered. I’m thankful much of my family is around, though some have grown distant. I don’t think it’s an on/off switch, more of a gradient. There are things I wish were different, and of the ones I can control, that’s what I work towards. That pursuit makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:36 AM
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Hes changed now!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:33 AM
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I’ve fumbled before for sure lmao she expressed interest in me to her friend and I just absolutely bombed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:32 AM
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This will be all over the place, but I wish people were a little more understanding in dating and less likely to generalize (“all women are like this”, “all men are bad”, etc.) I’d like to meet someone who is accepting of their own flaws, constantly seeks to improve themselves without requiring approval from others, and most importantly acts with integrity when no one is looking. I’ve been cheated on in the past. It was awful, wouldn’t wish it on anyone. My options were to drown in my sorrow or …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:30 AM
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It’s 80/20 dudes, you need to pay cover, and frankly the women who frequent there don’t tend to be wife material. Awful place to pick up any kind of meaningful partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:33 PM
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Beast. Work out. Get sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:30 PM
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And then wonder why “all men suck” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:28 PM
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I’m average (5’10) and I feel women have a warped idea of height lol. And let’s be real, women who demand a man meet x height are likely insecure themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:27 PM
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I would imagine their tolerance for loneliness is much lower. For many women being single for a month is enough lol. Try a year or two
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:25 PM
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It’s saying 50% of marriages end in divorce, but there are frequent flyers that drive that number considerably (people that get married and divorced once i would assume are much more likely to do it 2, 3, 7 times)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:54 PM
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Off topic but my friend (F) had a cute friend come into town and she started flirting with me until my friend purposely put a stop to it. That pissed me off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:50 PM
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I feel we’re similar. If you could measure “dependability” and other intangibles, I’d be near the top of the dating pool. For many I feel like would be difficult to learn, especially if they’ve never had to. Any suggestions about how to improve otherwise? Keep going to the gym, keep a career, keep talking to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:26 PM
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That’s reassuring. Definitely something I can stand to improve. I think that starts with meeting more people in general, I bought some pickle ball paddles haha might give that a Hail Mary try
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:20 AM
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🤔 I hope women find my veins as attractive as the mosquitos do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:28 PM
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Is this referring to the wrist? Forearm? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:06 PM
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I’ve had a friend (tall, pretty objectively good looking dude) tell me the exact same, pretty much. To play to my strengths. Mine will seldom be that direct approach. Hell, at 24 I’ve had more success with women coming up to me in my life than I have going up to them blind. Conversely, I’m good at thinking on my feet and have comedic timing. I’ve always sort of considered myself a long term play for this reason. I’m not this Adonis hot enough to open the door, but when I get it open I keep it op…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:05 PM
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Women in a biological sense mature faster. I’d argue that women, from a societal standpoint, have been sold a foundation of lies and the pendulum has swung “too far” in the other direction as far as “raging against the motherhood”. Many women finding out they wanted to settle down too late. As fertility wanes much sooner for women, this has major impacts down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:01 PM
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I don’t disagree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:53 PM
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If the alternative is being beaten, then yes, a 2 parent household isn’t as good as a separated one. But these are fringe cases. By and large, a 2 parent household - or at the very least having the father present in the child’s life - is a gigantic predictor of life outcomes. I’m sorry that happened regardless and I’m glad it seems you’ve defied the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:49 PM
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Because it’s an uncomfortable conversation and holds people accountable for their actions. And unfortunately there’s a racial correlation which leads to this argument being perceived as targeted racism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:48 PM
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Wages have not increased enough to make being a single income couple super viable from a financial perspective. The government NEEDS to incentivize childbirth more than it does. Even if you don’t want/have children yourself, the societal benefits are endless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:45 PM
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Fun thought exercise. My standards: works out has friends has hobbies has a career or a passion of some sort with at least a semblance of a long term vision I find her attractive generally a good person; integrity - what do you do when no one is looking? similar stage in life That’s it. Doesn’t seem like it’s a lot to ask but maybe I’m crazy. I think these standards are fair as these are what essentially I set for myself (e.g., I go to the gym, have a career, have hobbies, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:17 PM
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I’ll give you an anecdotal example. Was at the bar last night with a lot of 20 something’s overall and with my 2 male friends. We were playing darts and two girls came up and touched our arms and asked if they could please have a turn. They hung around us for a while after. Eventually they complained about another guy who came up to them that was a creep. “Why is he here alone” etc etc. I could see where they were coming from but it was still a little ironic given the concept of personal space d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:16 PM
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Low self worth and fragile ego
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:29 AM
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lol facts. I’ve rejected several women in my life and I’ve been straight up about it. Meanwhile some women reject men and display very ugly personality traits. Some are graceful, no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:07 PM
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Spot on. Nothing is worse as well than getting rejected in a rude way and women saying “well some men don’t take no for an answer”. I’m not sorry because im not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:06 PM
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You don’t want a woman who wants emotionally unavailable men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:04 PM
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Because women are pursued more often than men and therefore have the illusion of more options
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:03 PM
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That’s unfortunate, seems like a twisted worldview in my opinion. I’d like to have my mind changed but it seems women are born “good enough” and men need to rise to meet their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:57 AM
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Interesting. I’ve taken a hiatus from dating apps but historically I’ve found myself in the classic territory of “I get attention, but not a ton”. I’ve met 3 women off them in my early 20s and could have met a couple more if I wanted. Afraid to try again because I have no confidence and no one has taken a picture of me for at least a year lmao This is not even semi related, but I’ve got a female friend who laments about her boy problems (we’re 24, in the professional world) and she usually hits …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:45 PM
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I’m on my first cut and feel the same way. Lost water weight immediately. Sometimes I waterboard myself if I get hungry (and by waterboard I mean look at pictures of the ihop menu) Or maybe that’s edging
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:40 PM
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Depends if you wear mental illness like a badge of honor. I think there’s a fine line
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:39 PM
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He’s a populist is essentially what it boils down to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:38 PM
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When women say “the odds are good, but the goods are odd” as far as dating/dating apps are concerned, are they saying more that men are ugly or creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:38 PM
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