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Interesting. Did you debunk them with evidence or just your side of the story?
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/25 03:00 AM
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You are a rare gem!
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/25 02:25 AM
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Why can’t everyone be like you eh? Oh well, Our loss.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 05:50 PM
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slow claps
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 02:21 PM
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I can tell you this for free, if you are a single woman and are lurking around here to find any kind of validation for the amazing life you are living, your life isn’t all that amazing. Its like saying i visit the kids playground everyday to remind me how lucky i am that i don’t have kids. If you need to go to that extent… perhaps its time to question your convictions. It will be tough in the beginning, but i have faith in you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 03:13 AM
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Ok mate. 👍
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 08:57 PM
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May be all her clients are female and she is gaining insights into mentally tortured men to use it against them? May be. JK
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 06:08 PM
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There is regular divorce sub as well for discussions. I dont mind them being here just lurking, trying to understand the other side or even if its just for pure entertainment. It is however bloody annoying when they start telling us to “understand, have empathy, introspect more” and why we are the ones in the wrong and then start pouring out their personal story about how they did everything and their husband did shit and was abusive etc. I am sorry if it was true and they had to go through that…
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 04:34 PM
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Well past it. Late coffee, was supposed to be decaf, mix up.. long story.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 07:57 AM
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Why? Are you?
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 07:54 AM
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Yes, and thank you for keeping you to yourself exclusively.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 07:52 AM
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I am not the one begging on subs for friends. Good luck to you too.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 07:49 AM
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I dont think you need much help keeping men away.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 07:44 AM
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You certainly sound like you have everything under control
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 01:10 AM
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Thank you. I hope you have as well.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 03:08 PM
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I don’t know your personal experience, but i would always take these kinds of complaints from a woman that she had to do all the work with a fistful of salt. As you mentioned yourself your are loaded up on hormones and have no real connection to a situation objectively and are projecting how you are feeling onto everything and especially your partner. I did the lions share of household work after my wife had a kid, i worked full time, cooked meals, dishes after, laundry AND also every spare minu…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 02:51 PM
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Hey man, i wouldn’t say go out looking for anything right now. But if something good were to come your way, dont shut the door either. There are a lot of good women in the world who also could potentially love your kids as well and they her. You know never know, just be open to the world and opportunities thats all.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 09:27 PM
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Situation Sounds very familiar. Are you about to split or trying to save the marriage for kids sake?
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 07:52 AM
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May be comes across as such. But i think its more focused on men more than categorising women. It’s basically about what gets a man/husband going and whats the counter productive way that most women tend to take for something that can be done in a much more loving and efficient way. Honestly, i am a simple. If my wife appreciated that i cook and clean almost every single day and take care of our child as a primary parent while doing equal work as her, I wouldn’t mind doing those things at all. B…
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 06:57 AM
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Or atleast better than the current one
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 10:11 AM
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Agreed. Someone had commented, i think there are a lot of men who want to share this video with their spouse but i bet no one will
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 09:47 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Similar situation except i am still on the fence about moving out as i cant imagine spending less time with my 2yo. No cheating, no infidelity etc. just moved apart over the years, disproportionate distribution of responsibilities, drama, walking on eggshells, lack of intimacy, you name it. Hence m still in the grey area about separating.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 10:33 PM
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I sat in the cafe today with my STBX and our 2yo. We were drinking coffee and having a decent time as a family. I am not sure what was said, she just went quite and distant. I asked her what was wrong, if i said something that upset her or if she wanted to leave. To which she got mad and told me to stop asking her questions and to give her some time. To which i got upset as I didn’t even what it is i had said wrong. Then it was just awkward silence. I saw a couple next to me, the guy soo full of…
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/23 09:39 PM
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Hmmm. My opinion, i am not sure its enough for a huge step like a divorce. I certainly think you need a break from each other though. Is it possible to for one of you to stay with a friend or family for a while?
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 08:58 PM
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These comments are scarily similar to my situation.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 05:55 AM
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Beautifully said. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 06:26 PM
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I sincerely have no hope left for our future. Forget improving, i can only see it deteriorating further, the main reason is this, she fucks up a lot and doesn’t do nearly as enough around the house, but is always the first one to complain, lose her mind, blame me. The biggest issue i have had with her is that everytime i have expressed my feelings about these things, its always been put down, never respecting it or even acknowledged. If she had even just listened to when i shared my feelings, i …
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 10:23 PM
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Ok. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 09:29 PM
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Haha. Hello and Welcome
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 08:57 PM
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Cool thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 08:25 PM
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Do you do the same deed on subs where women are hating men as well?
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 07:44 PM
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What are you doing on this sub? Its a genuine question, not like wtf are you doing here.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 05:26 PM
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Oh when you put it in yearly context mine is at about 20-25. Honestly i would rather have a wank alone than the amount of effort i have to put even for those 20 times.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 12:56 AM
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Good on you!
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 11:37 PM
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I am really happy for you mate. I really hope i have similar luck in my future as well. My whole life I haven’t cheated anyone, intentionally hurt anyone. I truly don’t deserve whatever m going through, and I know i deserve much much better.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 09:00 AM
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In my case it was a baby and better lifestyle and moving abroad. She was quite nice, but after she finally got a better paying job than me and we had a baby about 2 years ago, its gotten really worse. I now just feel used for those things.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 08:52 AM
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I dunno. I guess its some sort of power game? Or may be just genuinely uninterested now that whatever she expected to take from a marriage has been taken (eg. A baby, a house, a better lifestyle etc)
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 08:50 AM
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Then its a no brainer.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 06:24 AM
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I hear you. One thing m starting to believe is that, i need to go through with this even if it means i will be alone for the rest of my life. I am beginning to be ok with that. I have my sister, niece and most importantly my son.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 11:44 PM
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Hmm i always thought it would be opposite.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 02:43 AM
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I don’t suppose i will be dating. I am an immigrant brought up in a very conservative home. I neither have the game nor the faith
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 02:24 AM
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I am sure it feels that way. But does it feel that way after a couple of years?
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 01:29 AM
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Most of it out for me. I never dated anyone other than my wife so i have no confidence. I also have a 2yo
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 01:29 AM
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No, we cannot afford one. We are living pay check to pay check
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 08:53 PM
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I dont feel much for her. Its been like this for years now and i have used up every last bit of feelings i had left. The last strand was about a month ago when on a Saturday morning i asked her if i can step out alone for a coffee and come back. She made such a big scene about it. She apologised later but it was traumatic enough for me to never ask for anything anymore. We go out sometimes on weekends but i dont feel happy, we have sex once a week, no regular vacations. There is no emotional int…
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 03:10 AM
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I dont like to pry. She does seem to be working, my issue is that she is very inefficient at the start of the day when we have a nanny. But taking own time to start work, unnecessarily long breaks, watching a tv series on the side. These things bother me. If she wanted to, i have no doubt in mind she could finish work at 6, she is smart and skilled which is the whole reason i fell in love in the first place
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 08:22 PM
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Thank you. I understand your point.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 07:19 PM
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Thanks for the honest opinion. Unfortunately its about affordability of the nanny for longer hours than her availability. I am trying to work it out, but like you pointed its being unable to reason with her is the bigger issue.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 07:18 PM
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Thanks. I want to work it out, hence the post. I dont want to trust only my voice in the head cuz obviously we are all fucked up in our own ways and perceive things differently cuz of that.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 06:08 PM
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She does all of that. The problem is that it doesn’t feel equal.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 02:44 PM
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I have brought it up. She fights very irrationally, i cant really say much to her. She argues she spends all morning making his food. He has a bowl of instant oats with chia everyday. Hows that taking an hour? She says she cleans the house, thats why its taking too long, if thats the case then you should wake up early and clean? I clean the house after she is done with work and comes out to take him.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 05:58 AM
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