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The best parts for me were: I went nuclear, but controlled. Told her she was far out of bounds, then later calmly packed by belongings to leave..... As expected, she physically tried to block the door and begged me to stay, and apologized for saying it. That dopamine feels good when the CC gets fulfilled huh. Do you realise you are addicted to random rewards?
/r/askMRP29/05/26 02:58 AM
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You are full of Covert contracts, are boring & lie to yourself often. Go to OYS.
/r/askMRP28/05/26 04:41 PM
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For a 2yr old pic of you. Lighting & pump?
/r/askMRP28/05/26 04:40 PM
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Be awesome or become awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/26 01:21 PM
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Guessing the bedroom is dead?
/r/askMRP21/04/26 04:24 PM
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I had to sit with this one for a while. You're right about masking, I was encouraged and taught to do this to fit in, honestly I find it draining. My goal was simply to blend in - be invisible. I usually stand out no matter what though. Stop reading and assessing all the while "am I learning something? Is this landing with me? Just read it. It's seeping in. Trust me. All you need to do to learn is to immerse yourself. Okay, just finished ‘Attached’ back to meditations today. Look at your talking…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/26 12:15 AM
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No. I said there is no point. Told me it's open & she wants to prove her innocence.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/26 11:44 PM
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Thanks for the advise and strategy. Running away doesn't do that. Facts
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/26 11:39 PM
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It's true, I've been in that place before & it's not necessary. I'll dial it back and alternate.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/26 11:36 PM
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Take a chill pill broski, you can do less and focus on one thing at a time. You're right & not the 1st person to tell me this. I'm approved for ADHD meds so the chill pill might literally come.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/26 11:35 PM
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Career: Passed my massage course but failed my driving test again (3rd time). Offered a job as a PT again in different gym from a manager friend, I accepted so I’m finally employed again. The gym is saturated though PT – Members, so I doubt I’ll be here long. Figure it’s best to look for something else while in a job. Social: Nothing crazy here but I’ve been waking up with the thought that happiness is a choice. Wearing a smile, I takes 1-5 random stranger interactions to turn my fake smile to a…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 02:39 PM
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OYS 8 Stats: 36yo, AuDHD, 5’10, 194lbs/88kg, 14% bf - est, Divorcing, 1 girl (4yo). TRT Current Lifting total: Approx 1000lbs. Readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16CoP, TRP Sidebar. Audiobooks: TRM Y1 & Y2, BoP, MAP. Non sidebar: Praxeology: Fuccfiles, Frame, Virtue of Selfishness, Undercover Sex Signals, Models, Unoffendable, The Courage to be Disliked. Youtube: Most of Rian Stone. Current reading: (75%) Attached – audiobook. Mission: To become a high value man. Build a frame that works for me. D…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 02:38 PM
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I posted a question and got good feedback. This is the retard pool Most issue can be solved with the basics, read sidebar, lift, stfu. The amount of lurker that post here having read 1 or 2 books & done next to nothing looking to be spoonfed or receive a pat on the head is high. Why should anyone invest in someone who won't invest in themselves
/r/askMRP06/03/26 04:57 PM
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While this may be effective for some lesser clued up women. If/when a woman realises (or her friends/family she listens to) you are manufacturing trauma bonding it breaks down to show your own insecurity. Be that actual guy rather than faking it. Good post though.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/26 10:47 AM
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OYS is where the work is done, hence: Do. The. Work.
/r/askMRP20/02/26 10:42 AM
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What # OYS are you on?
/r/askMRP20/02/26 08:28 AM
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I tried mushrooms twice in my life, after the slight visuals and shitting. It gave me a glimpse of what life with a much smaller ego would look like. A life where I'm more fun & givecway less shits. It's hacking or bypassing. It might be helpful to some in microdoses. Personally I would just steer clear and do the work. Definitely don't regret trying it & I'd do it again. Short answer = stop being a bitch & do the work.
/r/askMRP19/02/26 09:00 PM
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Physical is only 1 part of attraction. Don't be a dancing monkey. Seems like English isn't your 1st language so I won't trash you for it. Next time write this from your personal perspective or better yet just jump into OYS.
/r/askMRP19/02/26 11:34 AM
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Welcome sperg, you're in the right place. MRP contains a ton of truth but take it with a pinch of salt, everything has nuance. It will challenge your inferential comprehension too. Many things are situational, some rules have exceptions etc. From a fellow sperg. Read the sidebar, at whatever pace it takes you to absorb the info. Post in OYS. Humble yourself. Kill the ego. Take information from the endorsed members serious. Stop hiding your posts and comments like a phaggot.
/r/askMRP17/02/26 06:31 PM
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but it won't be a genuine desire I debunked this Rich Cooper line over five years ago now. Will you link this? Rian spoke to this too.
/r/askMRP17/02/26 09:37 AM
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The reality is, you are a nice guy. What is it with nice guys and exclamation marks I will never know, probably the need to convey a nice friendly tone (even by text). You are putting up a covert contract. Red Pill Man = wife wants me - but it's not reaaaaaal she's just scared to lose me. Meaning she doesn't love me for me like mommy did. Why are you even posting here?
/r/askMRP16/02/26 10:50 AM
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Different men are unattractive in different ways. Some generally across the board, some physically, some have little to no game, some emotionally, some mentally, others are giant phaggots who lurk for 8years but can't own their shit or stfu long enough to take legit advise DEERing at every turn.
/r/askMRP12/02/26 02:27 AM
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Good vid
/r/TheRedPill12/02/26 12:57 AM
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I remember being new here and the MRP vets just kept saying; "STFU & Sidebar". I thought they were just fobbing guys off but I get it now (I got it a while back). You come here having done nothing in ages, your old school mental models of "I have money, so girl must want sum fuk yes?" With a girl from a rich family of all types. Just wanting to leech. You put SheHer at the centre of your world. Too lazy to workout, your SheHer is actually trying to HELP you be attractive to SheHer; overlooking t…
/r/askMRP11/02/26 09:27 PM
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How is it you have a spanking bench before a flogger?
/r/askMRP06/02/26 07:49 PM
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“When you want a dominant partner but you are also independent”. I'm not fully convinced I can submit to you. she likes the idea of submitting but her feminist independent attitude tells her not to. I'm not fully convinced I can submit to you. We have dabbled in BDSM stuff in the past. But I never felt dominant; it felt forced and weird trying to be something I really didn't believe. You'll be shit at most things when you 1st start out. “I hate how can make me laugh even when I am mad at you and…
/r/askMRP06/02/26 11:48 AM
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Don't kink shame
/r/askMRP17/01/26 03:22 PM
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Noted. Yesterday I decided to just say whatever I thought initially in my mind and saw success. You should be keeping all interactions with people as open ended as possible, instead of asking specific questions which might only get you a one word answer. One of Rians books speaks to the same, open ended until some kind of disclosure then building off that. I'll practice being more open ended.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/26 06:10 PM
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What reading have you done?
/r/askMRP14/01/26 09:03 PM
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OYS 7 Stats: 36yo, AuDHD, 5’10, 191lbs/87kg, 13-15% bf, Divorcing, 1 girl (4yo). TRT Current Lifting total: Approx 1000lbs. Readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16CoP, TRP Sidebar. Audiobooks: TRM Y1 & Y2, BoP, MAP. Non sidebar: Praxeology: F—cfiles, Frame, Virtue of Selfishness, Undercover Sex Signals, Models, Unoffendable. Youtube: Most of Rian Stone. Current reading: The Courage to be Disliked (60%). Mission: To become a high value man. Build a frame that works for me. Develop my own mental point…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/26 12:12 AM
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Yeah, I'm being impatient at times. It took a long time to fuck up, it'll take a long time to unfuck myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 08:16 AM
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Thanks for the advise so far. I will try, fail, get, back up, fail again until I get it. I appreciate all the advise. I still remember you calling me out for being a reactive bitch and it was bang on. Happy to say I can laugh about it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/26 02:58 AM
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Are you doing those things? Are you actually training in those languages? Are you finding women who are into BDSM or swinging? Are you fighting? Actively doing some, working towards some & waiting on others. I'm training often, I'm waiting on an interclub somewhere near my current weight; should be "sometime at the end Feb" I'm told by my Khru. I'm ready to go - small water cut and fight. Cardio needs work but I move well considering. I'm learning BR Portuguese using a online tutor (preply) + Du…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/26 12:55 AM
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Personally a lot to be done has been done. There needs to be fresh blood willing to step outside of the norm and generate traction "Blaze a trail". The vets here are solid but they are solid from a previous time - a changing of the guard is sure to come. Revisions will be made. To the sidebar & to the rules. Social media leverage is inevitable at some point. All with time. Until then, it may not be popular or exciting but it's a tried and tested way of turning boys into men.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/26 06:16 PM
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I wrote a lengthy reply which got lost on hitting post. What do you want? And don’t just replace the word need with want and write the same thing. This is too abstract anyway. Don’t say you need frame. What’s a thing you actually want that you believe your lack of frame is holding you back from? Work on achieving that thing. What’s a thing you want to do for yourself? Go do that actual thing. Before I read up on frame here I knew some people as "solid" and other as "shaky", that's what I want. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/26 10:06 AM
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Thanks. Meditations is next for me, BluePillProfessor also recommends it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/26 08:10 AM
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OYS 6 Stats: 36yo, AuDHD, 5’10, 191lbs/87kg, 12-14% bf, Divorcing, 1 girl (4yo). TRT Current Lifting total: Approx 924lbs. *Readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16CoP, TRP Sidebar. Audiobooks: TRM Y1 & Y2, BoP, MAP. Non sidebar: Praxeology: F—cfiles, Frame, Virtue of Selfishness, Undercover Sex Signals, Models, Unoffendable. Youtube: Most of Rian Stone. Current reading: The Courage to be Disliked. Mission: To become a high value man. Build a frame that works for me. Develop my own mental point of or…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/26 10:55 PM
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No dummy, stfu & do the work. In general, STFU & do the work.
/r/askMRP05/01/26 10:56 AM
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Okay, so I took it to mean something similar as "treat em mean to keep em keen." I didn't just gloss over it or dismiss it as irrelevant. I made a light-hearted joke. I did take it to be solid advise from the onset. For the record, I'm the autist here.
/r/askMRP31/12/25 05:54 PM
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Edit: Forgot the /s
/r/askMRP30/12/25 05:02 PM
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And it's all uphill.
/r/askMRP30/12/25 12:51 AM
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If only every girl was a pain slut
/r/askMRP27/12/25 11:12 PM
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True, I have a long way to go. His help has been free of charge, I'll stop taking it & begin OMS.
/r/askMRP27/12/25 01:12 AM
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Understood, appreciate your time.
/r/askMRP27/12/25 12:45 AM
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Have you offered to find her a boyfriend?
/r/askMRP12/12/25 08:58 PM
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His wife is mirroring his own anxiety.
/r/askMRP10/12/25 08:00 PM
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Yeah these 2 paragraphs definitely look like you're not worried about it.
/r/askMRP10/12/25 07:59 PM
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This is askmrp you haven't asked a question. Your ADHD(?) gets the better of you and you whizz through the books/sidebar on audio while retaining little to nothing. You are freaking out right now because of minor changes in your life = pussy. You make excuses about everything (Cope/DEER). Acknowledge you are anxious AF right now and STFU. STFU even more while you build your own frame & get out of your partners. I'd treat it the same as a shit test. I've seen rich men whose wives have a specific …
/r/askMRP10/12/25 06:25 PM
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Iron clad frame prevents. Dark traid counters.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 12:35 AM
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For physical issues, not psychological ones.
/r/askMRP05/12/25 09:30 PM
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You're in the right place
/r/askMRP04/12/25 10:22 PM
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Are you still fucking her?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/25 12:50 AM
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You are on the edge of a victim puke.
/r/askMRP01/12/25 06:30 PM
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I couldn't make it through this post in one go because it's a shitpile of play by play "she/her". I don't know what going on but how about you get your own damn frame, your wifes is at max capacity.
/r/askMRP01/12/25 05:53 PM
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Oh gee oh wow yeah haha it's just that I think the best thing like you could possible maybe do right now is like just start at the beggenning if ya know what I mean girlfriend it's JUST that that's like the best part 4 u rite nwwww u knownwhat Im sayyinn just lyk rite @ tha beginning #1 1st thing bitch Toodles Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
/r/askMRP21/11/25 02:17 AM
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Long time lurker and student. 38, 6’1, 220 lbs, 15% BF. Yeah yeah I know. Made it this far then went to the comments. You are LARPing and we both know it. Anyway. Fast forward. Met a great girl. Not my type. But beautiful by all objective standards (I’m picky). In my frame. Kind. Nurturing. Patient. Helpful. Easy to get along with. And reasonable, for the most part. Yeah, alpha males use 1 word/short sentences all the time. Fuck yeah, you made it buddy. Knew you were a LARPer. Not sure what to d…
/r/askMRP20/11/25 11:11 PM
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Nothing like having a man to blame if/when shit goes sideways.
/r/askMRP20/11/25 07:53 PM
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OYS 5 Autistic & ADHD Stats: 36yo, 5’10, 191lbs, 12-14% bf, Divorcing, 1 girl (4yo). TRT Current Lifting total: Approx 924lbs Readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16CoP, TRP Sidebar. **Audiobooks:** TRM Y1 & Y2, BoP, Current reading: MAP (75%). Non sidebar: Praxeology: F—cfiles, Frame, Virtue of Selfishness, Undercover Sex Signals, Models, Unoffendable. Youtube Mission: To become a high value man, develop my own mental point of origin & give from a place of abundance without expectation of reciproca…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 10:50 AM
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If you'd just relax, you'd be surprised how much you'd hear, too much sometimes. Kill the Madonna/Whore. All people lie, it's part of the human condition. That's why being honest/minimising lying is such a valuable & potentially damaging trait.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/25 04:24 PM
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She, she, she. Fuck off back to r/seduction simp
/r/askMRP25/10/25 11:34 PM
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This wasn't an OYS. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/s/wENajBmiwu You claimed you are not fat in your post. You are fat, skinny fat (even worse). You claimed you lift, you can even deadlift 225, you're in dyel territory. Cba going through the rest, just delete out like all the other pussies. There are guys actually trying to better themselves here.
/r/askMRP21/10/25 08:11 PM
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You are unattractive, even just in this post - you have lied multiple times, you have DEERed, you are taking her words as gospel (yet still taking no action). You haven't said how much of the sidebar you have read (I'm guessing next to nothing. Didn't provide any stats of anything. This is just a big victim puke. Read the sidebar & start OYS, it might save this piece of shit marraige you have or it might not. No clue how you guy last do many years with little to no sex sleeping next to your wive…
/r/askMRP21/10/25 01:36 PM
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You are having sex for validation STFU Stop asking so many questions Stay out of your wifes head Stop taking MRP too literally (sperg) Your wife wants to play with you, start being fun. This includes fake rejecting you to see how that ego of yours will take it. Being clear, 2mins of work & she cleans you up & tucks you back in to bed.
/r/askMRP29/08/25 02:35 AM
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Dodging that OYS question huh
/r/askMRP21/08/25 07:45 PM
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Good post. The space seems outdated with "the changing of the guard" that's inevitable to happen. Text isn't just for logistics. It's a real part of game that shouldn't be slept on. Is this Tv/movie reference thing a new mrp trend?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/25 04:45 PM
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Yes, you're overthinking this. Also none of this works as long as you lie to yourself
/r/askMRP20/08/25 06:31 PM
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Must be a troll
/r/askMRP02/08/25 05:21 PM
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What exactly would you be "cheating" at?
/r/askMRP29/07/25 11:06 AM
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Visiting some 3rd world countries, I saw some of the physiques possible from guys using make shift equipment & weights made out of concrete. There really is no excuse.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/25 02:02 PM
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I don't care if what you wrote is true or not, it makes no difference. Sort your covert contracts out. No one owes you shit, especially for agreements you can't even talk about. Don't be a pussy. Your anger & resentment shows up in your actual life I'm pretty damn sure, fix that. Don't be a bitch. Stop comparing yourself to others, especially to look down on them. Literally bitching out your own friends. Stop being bitch. How many women you slept with before is irrelevant, you have oneitis now. …
/r/askMRP24/06/25 03:47 AM
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Stop rationalizing here at askmrp. Just go live your life as a cuck. Either you will love it and be happy, or you'll hate it and come back here saying she "cheated again." It's better to just get it over with than dragging this out. "She's hot, so I might let her cuck me." God damn, is this real tea?
/r/askMRP08/06/25 12:56 PM
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She, she, she, her, her, larp, larp, larp. "I'm not larping anymore... just kidding. Yes, I am."
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/25 12:36 PM
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The real issue here is that you want your wife to be more sexual with you/ polite/ feminine/ validate you by asking you in a special way. If you killed whatever covert contract is surrounding that & built your own frame, this stuff wouldn't annoy you this much anymore, if at all. You present as someone with quite a bit of money, so I'm guessing the 2k isn't actually much to you. Plus, it's not actually the money ask nor the way she asked that pissed you off. It's that she didn't ask in the speci…
/r/askMRP04/06/25 06:29 PM
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Why not ask the purple pill?
/r/askMRP19/05/25 07:41 PM
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Bet he was a real "sweet guy" too lmfao
/r/askMRP14/05/25 06:37 PM
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This is dumb. There is no "mrp mindset." Though I believe I get what you mean. Mrp provides you with a set of tools and a MAP to develop a frame that is actually useful to you getting what you want. If there was an "mrp mindset" it would = Lift, sidebar, stfu. Why would you come here and mentally masturbate about not lifting vs mindset? Put the energy into not being a nice guy instead.
/r/askMRP14/05/25 06:36 PM
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Why do you want to discuss this? How will it stop you being a nice guy?
/r/askMRP24/04/25 05:41 PM
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I don't know why the but the fact he was a cop made me laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/25 01:24 AM
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Sup with the influx of women here lately
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/25 01:22 AM
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I've seen this and known of it being done. The fake rollies are at a point now where they can only be differentiated from the real thing if you open it up (low quality movement). That said, a Tissot PRX (quartz or power 80 both are nice), a Mako 3, a Tissot Seastar. A genuine 2nd hand Rolex datejust, 2nd hand Omega Speedmaster or a Tag F1. These are all watches I'd put above a fake rolex. Add some game & decent looks. If it works for you, keep at it. I'll pass on this one.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/25 01:08 AM
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At least you can be honest here. Logically, this is terrible. Even from a manipulation standpoint. "Let me come home late without saying anything (when clearly you've set it up for that to be communicated.) that's gonna make her panties wet for me. Ay yo MRP, why didn't it work?"
/r/askMRP27/03/25 03:28 PM
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The "right answer" was likely along the lines of "I still wanna fuck you right now." Said verbally or non verbally. It's a test for you to be dominant, sexually dominant. She can't tell you, though, because if she tells you and then you do it, you're not really dominant.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 09:12 PM
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Second, this watching Rocco helped me a lot - not at the time, but looking back, there's a silver lining.
/r/askMRP03/12/24 11:19 PM
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It doesn't seem like you've internalised that you're the prize. Overly analytical -> overthinking. Horns has a good post covering this. You are 90% in the clear on this one.
/r/askMRP02/12/24 07:51 AM
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Bad news buddy
/r/askMRP02/12/24 07:46 AM
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Honestly, you have 2 choices: You are going to accept that both of your hypergamy is not going to be stopped by the other and embrace it. As in open marriage, start swinging. Or You're going to leave because she had 2 cocks (at least) in her. The final option is not an option it's being swept away by the tide. You struggle to forgive her over years (it's less about forgiving her & more about accepting you're a beta bux cuckold). Maybe some revenge sex at one point to make you feel like a man in …
/r/askMRP30/11/24 11:29 AM
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You are overthinking a lot. You were asked to grab her water pleasantly and with a please - sounds more like a request to me. Im going to assume you like these overknee socks, and your wife is putting these on solely for your benefit. Saving time to get to sucking your dick. The amount of "She" in your text is too high. You’re too heavily in her frame. Did you try and esclate at any point?
/r/askMRP06/11/24 02:17 PM
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Yes, you are doing it wrong, but you knew that and just wanted to vent. Did it make you feel better? Because that's what this is about, right? Your feelings. And fuck that bitch how dare she even question your authority. So what if you had the day off! She should be worrying about getting the dinner ready and sucking your cock when you get home. Better hard next her if this happens again, man. Dunno how you've put up with this for so long. Your understanding of AM is wrong your response is close…
/r/askMRP23/09/24 09:56 PM
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A good portion of us, I'd assume. Aspergers here.
/r/askMRP22/09/24 03:06 AM
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Nice to have an autist friendly post here.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/24 08:27 AM
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Why are you posting this from the 3rd person? Why are you "curious" about it? Sounds like this is YOUR life and you have a problem with this but are trying to rationalize this away since you are scared AF to leave her. or put your foot down. Guessing you talked/argued about it?
/r/askMRP12/08/24 10:43 PM
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punch her right in the kisser
/r/askMRP03/08/24 01:43 AM
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I was going to ask this. wanted to weed out the 1%.
/r/askMRP27/07/24 06:57 PM
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Would this be considered a male main event? The tide has completely turned, and this person has entered her frame completely as a proud beta bux cuck. This person has also provided a house for her to fuck her bull, plenty of money for them and to go on dates... plus, he'll watch the kids in the meantime. He provided the mother of all shit tests by handing her hid ring & and moving out for 5 days. Indirectly asked "what do you want me to do? I can't live without you". He's a broken sub. I questio…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/24 06:16 AM
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Anything outside your frame is either amusing, intriguing, or funny. Some people will fall into your frame, continue with you mission and campaign for what you want. Your life is a solo journey.
/r/askMRP15/07/24 07:24 PM
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I kept in mind that you should treat your wife like a child and I did just that. If that were true you would know a divorce threat is worth the paper it's NOT printed on. (Frame issues) <--- This is early sidebar material if you start with Steels guide. The amount of "her" & "she" in the post is too much. (frame issues) So your Co-pilot has a Dad on deaths door (what have you done here?), she mentions divorce and you say "the relationship is not where it should be" - No it's exactly where it sho…
/r/askMRP01/07/24 09:31 PM
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So is the real issue here that you are scared she will want a MFM/ another guy? (potential insecurity) OR Is it that it appears she is getting sluttier because of the books and not because of YOU? (potential validation seeking)
/r/askMRP01/07/24 08:51 PM
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For some reason the 2yr mark is when the dancing monkeys realise they are dancing monkeys. Either pick yourself up and become your own mental point of origin or get comfy in your wife frame while you watch her bang someone else. Your choice.
/r/askMRP23/06/24 12:29 AM
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I've seen "Alpha subs" if you will that are in the lifestyle. They have pretty much all the qualities of what is described as 'alpha' or 'dom'. Essentially, they could be dom/alpha if they wanted but choose not to. When it's a genuine submissive and not based in "trauma" anxiety, fear, etc, insert whatever excuse to be a woman. If limited to the bedroom/club, I have nothing but respect for those guys.
/r/askMRP16/06/24 10:29 AM
1

How much of the sidebar have you read?
/r/askMRP07/06/24 08:53 AM
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So have you read the sidebar or not?
/r/askMRP03/06/24 01:19 AM
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What dread have you implemented? (What level are you on?what have you done?) What does "bitching & moaning" mean? (be as specific as possible) Also, did you wake your wife up at 2am in the morning and get surprised when she wasn't super into having sex with you? Plus, do you realise this whole rant/vent was a massive victim puke?
/r/askMRP02/06/24 12:55 AM
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Yes. You are just being a pussy. Explore consensual non-consensual, hunter - prey & eventually perhaps even free use sex My 1st GF had something very similar in the fact that she would squeeze her legs as hard as she could, and I would have to pry them open with force before I could smash, the only time she didn't do it was when it was outdoor sex. She was a freak. I've met women with similar kinks & they too were freaks. You have a safe word & she wants you to get primal. She is telling you to …
/r/askMRP31/05/24 08:38 PM
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This should go in your oys
/r/askMRP29/05/24 12:38 PM
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Because you are being a nice guy. The nice guy discord is meeting right now, btw. As in right this second for the next 2 hours.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 09:11 PM
0

Ahh, okay, here I was thinking you were sticking it out with a shitty wife because of sunk cost fallacy/being a bad ender. "Life is great with her except for this 1 thing." "Everything would be good if she would just stop doing." "It's been 13 years, so I don't wanna end it." But I guess you are just Mr. Super Harsh Rambo, up the comfort and DEER a bit, sprinkle some beta (because clearly you are too alpha). See how it goes.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 08:45 PM
7

You are literally still doing it.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 07:58 PM
1

You need to leave. End of. I've been there, done that. End it now to save time. You've already wasted 13 years. Don't be another old guy who ends up telling stories of how he done a life sentence because he was a bad ender. Re-read NMMNG.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 07:46 PM
7

You have a high libido with other women? Can you go into detail here?
/r/askMRP27/05/24 09:34 PM
9

For now, you just need to STFU & read the sidebar. Not that the advice is wrong in here. Just that it's too advanced for you atm imo. You feel like her bitch, because you are her bitch. You are DEERING & before you can DARE you need to simply learn to STFU. Short one-liners & minor fogging. Until you can travel out of her frame and start building your own.
/r/askMRP08/05/24 06:01 PM
1

Relax. These are tools to use when beneficial. Not everything is an iron rule, not everything is a shit test. "I don't feel safe to be vulnerable around you" Is begging for comfort. Doesn't get much more overt than this for women. "You don't..... blah blah" = shit test. I'm anxious, give me more control so I feel more comfortable (or think it will). Even her shit tests are ultimately designed for comfort. If she is your 2nd in command. Yes, it can be beneficial to share the immediate plans/cours…
/r/askMRP29/03/24 02:36 AM
10

She is LSE adventress. You already know the formula. Her dad left the triggers open for you. Do all the depraved sexual things you can think of with her, especially the things her father did and make her call you daddy. The book tells you all this already. Also, go read No More Mr Nice Guy. Because you are a nice guy, so you should work on that. This girl is for recreational use only. They are very fun, if you can stay emotionally detached... Which it seems you can't.
/r/askMRP12/03/24 07:41 PM
1

Methodology will differ from person to person. For me it was read 1st time - fail to internalize. 2nd time - read a chapter - Watched Rian Stones' - video on said chapter, took notes. 3rd time, stopped at each BFA completed then proceeded. Another guy may just read it 1 time and internalize. Find what works for you.
/r/askMRP03/03/24 03:20 PM
7

I don't envy you mods, not only are you guys shovelling shit. Now you are explaining how and why you are shovelling shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/24 02:21 PM
7

STFU doesn't just apply to your offline life. You have mods spoon feeding you, shut up, humble yourself & you might learn something.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 03:43 AM
3

This could/would be better as another OYS. Dancing monkey transition into Rambo. One hand playing with fire, whilst being scared to play with fire... simultaneously holding a stick of dynamite in the other hand. Wait until the 1yr mark before your next FR, or don't, I'm sure everyone will kick back with popcorn. I think it would add more value to yourself and the sub to talk about your anger. Side question: How do you "contain" a D/s dynamic to the bedroom? How does a D/s not naturally become th…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 03:29 AM
3

Reading NMMNG & actually internalizing it are not the same. Read it again, at a slow pace & internalize it this time. It needs to become who you are, not some information that you remember.
/r/askMRP16/02/24 06:15 AM
1

When you write your 1st OYS make sure to put this in there: She has said she loves me but isn’t in love with me anymore, and when we fight divorce almost always comes up. Click here to find out what that means
/r/askMRP28/01/24 10:29 PM
63

Making friends with guys on a night out has helped me so much with having success with women. Good, clear, simple & effective post.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/24 06:48 PM
2

Planet fitness has no barbells only smith machines & dumbbells, I rec anytime fitness - although lifting is a solo activity, if you're somewhat social you can make a gym friend or 2. Alternatively buy a used rack and weights online, there are some very good deals out there, esp after the covid boom.
/r/askMRP07/01/24 06:02 PM
2

Overt contract. Your expectations are fantasies. Most likely she will put effort into the things you mentioned briefly & that's it. Either way it doesn't matter, demote her to a plate or just leave. Find a girl who already has the qualities you like & have fun while you're looking.
/r/askMRP29/12/23 07:38 PM
1

This is OYS worthy
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/23 09:06 PM
3

I think these questions start to sort themselves quickly once you choose a woman & she chooses you. What do you want? Does she possess those things? What are her cons & can you deal with that long term? What does she bring to the table outside of sex? Also are you optimising your mating strategy? If you are getting all the sex you want or near to it, including the quality of sex you want. How much will you care that a girl has 2 guys she is talking to when you have multiple girls ready to fuck y…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/23 04:02 PM
3

That I'm not very attractive, but I already knew that. No, you are low self-esteem. Your issue is more on the "not being unattractive" side. Take action, and be sexually assertive. That would be cool but no. I'm just boring. Then do it. Have her wet before she gets home.
/r/askMRP22/11/23 09:42 PM
15

This wasn't a shit-test or fitness test. This was just a failure on your part to rise to a challenge/request. Your wife has put this on EASY mode for you, overtly. She says: "What are you looking at me like that for? I feel like you're just waiting for my switch to flip." I say "Is it working?" She says "No. You gotta get me warmed up first." This means "I want to fuck you, but I want you to game me/seduce me 1st. You are really close, don't fuck it up now. Iniate instead of waiting for me to ge…
/r/askMRP22/11/23 08:24 PM
16

A lot of overthinking here. You seem overly concerned with notch count and looks, which is understandable. She stopped to hug me, then leaned back and asked if I was a virgin. I said “What?! No.” Reads as very reactionary. Why? Her: Wow, you're really direct. She's also giggling through this part, and eventually tells me I'm pressing too hard. I lighten my touch and she occasionally helps me. She even said she was still dry at one point. And how did this affect you? She's not my type. Just about…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 02:11 AM
9

Hamstring curls before squats & then again before deadlifts. Recommending BCAAs when you can just get them from protein powder.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 03:18 PM
9

Seems like another low quality pat myself on the back post while pretending to be of great value to the community.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 01:58 AM
1

It is about technique not strength, there are KIDS out there who could wreck grown ass men. This is a SPORT not a POWERLIFTING or BODYBUILDING competition. This only serves as excuses to hold yourself back. There are some things you simply don't meet the criteria for until you hit xyz stat. Learning how to box is not one of them, go to a beginners class. You can bulk at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/23 12:33 PM
1

You don't need to gain anymore Kg's to start boxing. Start Martial arts NOW.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/23 12:03 PM
4

You type like a woman. Your relationships have most likely been you trying to play the gay best friend who is not actually gay (just feminine). You're a feminized nice guy pre-recovery. I was also raised by women. It definitely gives a unique perspective but also blinds you completely to many important facets of masculinity. It is extremely hard for women to raise a masculine man. Go find yourself a masculine woman to submit to and serve if that's what you desire so much, why do you feel the nee…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 07:59 AM
3

Shut up faggot
/r/askMRP28/09/23 02:11 AM
9

You are deep in her frame. You've written up how your wife cheated on you and told you about it (not sure why, maybe an experienced member can guess), you're scared now and pushed into action. She is literally running female dread game on you (it's effective). Your entire reason for Mrp is your wife. In addition to all this, you have stated that it hurts your emotions, and you don't wanna leave... but maybe you will leave at the end of your MAP, right? I would call you a cuck, but that would be …
/r/askMRP27/09/23 10:56 PM
15

Or it just kills her excuse for not wanting to sleep with him. Time will tell.
/r/askMRP25/09/23 02:39 PM
35

So just ignore one of the iron rules?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 02:30 PM
4

Looks like you figured out how to pat yourself on the back.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 06:00 AM
9

Have you told you girl, overtly or covertly that you fuck other chicks?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/23 01:04 PM
0

The purpose of the post was for clarity & alternative perspectives. Not to whine/bitch complain about being butthurt w/e. Beyond the inevitable "bitch/pussy" responses I expected, I wanted this value. >u/nomoremrnicejay If a gymbro calls you pussy, you're supposed to say fuck you and hit your lift. I've been aware of the dynamic of male-male conversations for a long time. Trade insult for insult as a means to show some form of affection, in this gym scenario for the purpose of motivation. It pro…
/r/askMRP31/08/23 11:17 PM
0

With this particular girl, smacking her is part of the dynamic. Hands, paddles, canes, floggers, etc. She has a safe word, I observe her body language to push further or pull back before she needs to use it. No words or emotional stimulation is necessary, I enjoy causing pain. It makes me hard. Always has. I like what I like 🤷🏾‍♂️.
/r/askMRP31/08/23 02:57 PM
0

This 1 made me laugh
/r/askMRP31/08/23 08:39 AM
3

As a leader, it's also your responsibility to teach assertion.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 10:39 PM
2

"Good girls get rewarded. Bad girls get punished." And no matter how much punishment you give, if her outbursts achieve her goal, the behaviour will continue. I wouldn't bring a deity into your discipline. It is unwise to try and put "the fear of God" in her in place of genuine respect for her parents. You also have to check your egos for if this is actually a cry for attention.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 10:12 PM
9

"I slid into beta"
/r/askMRP13/08/23 02:49 AM
3

There are tons of issues here, tbh. She was single and kept him warm as a beta in waiting, she knew he would provide her with free dates, attention, and comfort. For just the chance to get some pussy/a relationship. The friendzone is a manipulative place for women to keep men. It's also a foolish place for men to voluntarily put and keep themselves in. He "fell in love" without actually vetting her. She was single the whole time and she was slutting around. She got her dosage of alpha (providing…
/r/askMRP10/08/23 06:05 PM
4

She loves x1 She thinks x2 She does not x1 She orgasms x1 She knows x2 This is just 4 sentences, sex starts outside of the bedroom. Imagine you weren't in her head (more like your head is up her ass). Imagine you had no covert contracts (dig deep for this 1). What do YOU actually want?
/r/askMRP05/08/23 12:10 AM
1

Women are much better at shittesting. Leave it to them. Lest you be treated like (a broken) one.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 10:49 PM
1

Can you explain why you would handle this differently? Specifically in private. As I understand it, she crossed your boundary publicly. You reprimanded her publicly. It reads that you let this build up too long and perhaps was a lil too harsh (I don't know your dynamic). It also reads that it was effective. What was your "price paid"? That would see you approach this from a different angle. I'm genuinely curious.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 10:40 PM
2

Why are you "not attracted" to her anymore?
/r/askMRP31/07/23 12:34 PM
6

I'm confused. Boundaries are black & white.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 09:31 AM
5

You found a girl who lacks assertiveness (too many of them now). She needed to start an issue (fake argument) in order to be assertive. During which time she confessed to being afraid of meeting a random man from Tinder for a coffee at 8am. She also shittested you a lil. Asks you to hang up but keeps at the phonecall (clearly interested and wants to know you are too). Trying to check how often you get laid (R U meeting other girls?). She sounds crazy in a clingy type of way (usually the most fil…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 11:45 PM
5

She's a plate. Date a few more girls and spin a few more plates. These "feelings" will subside, and you will feel bad for having them in the 1st place.
/r/askMRP28/07/23 03:57 PM
3

Gave me closeted gay vibes
/r/askMRP28/07/23 03:55 PM
4

It means take control of yourself, your emotions, your actions etc. Agency. You did this to yourself.
/r/askMRP28/07/23 03:51 PM
1

Why not take someone else?
/r/askMRP27/07/23 11:58 PM
2

It's the pat on the shoulder.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 09:20 PM
2

Lack on energy on your side. Lack of interest on their side.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 09:05 PM
6

I always saw red pill as the notes/information/examples your father never showed/gave you. You have the ability to teach him the red pill 1st hand.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 08:15 PM
1

Must be hot in that suit, doing all that dancing.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 04:51 AM
1

Do you think the scar is permanent?
/r/askMRP26/07/23 04:06 AM
1

Wow, how did you end up spending 3 years to snooping in her phone?
/r/askMRP26/07/23 03:41 AM
8

Clearly, by how you are all over this thread, it's triggered you. Please put your trauma away and get back to your mission. Thank you.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 02:18 AM
2

Here is the 1st step of advice. You need to explain the entire story. Stop being scared and using this cope of "acceptance" if you have accepted it, you can own it. Stop trying to hide the gravity of your mistakes and only coming here to AVOID/FIX (how nice of you) the consequences. Be brave for once. No doubt you're on a throwaway account anonymously online (cba to check) and still too scared.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 12:34 AM
2

Her calling me lame is fine at the end of the day If it was fine, why was there ever a problem? You had no reaction to the friend calling you lame. Your gf calling you lame is fine, too. Somehow, there was a problem? No boundary was ever crossed, so how can you be mad she didn't respect your "boundary enforcement"? Because remember it was fine.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 08:17 PM
7

What boundary did she cross? Articulate it. You don't handle boundary crossing with humor.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 04:21 PM
3

There's 2 options here. She crossed a boundary of yours (be honest with yourself). She shit tested you, and you failed + got butthurt. Either she's letting the "team" down or you are. Gonna point out here that her friend called you lame initially. How did you react to that?
/r/askMRP24/07/23 03:50 PM
1

Waiting for "Okay, I've got my PiV, wut do now???"
/r/askMRP22/07/23 08:45 PM
2

(Cue serious face) "Why would that upset you? I'm very wealthy because of it and have ties to a couple of Colombian cartels! Fun fact they're actually pretty nice people, besides all that beheading stuff ofc but if you turn a blind eye to that side, it's all good, hahaha!" Later down the line when she knows what it is. "Remember that time you really thought I was a drug dealer because you found my chemistry set, like I was the real life Walter White 🤣😂."
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 06:26 PM
1

I can think of 2 reasons. Religion Country still offers Marraige 1.0 (Saudi Arabia, Pakistan & a couple of other countries, I believe). That's it.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 06:14 PM
20

There's a lot to unpack here, and in this small window of procrastination. Here is my very rushed advice. She sounds like the typical Catholic hoe. She will slut around and do anything and everything except for vaginal sex (because that's the only form of virginity that matters right?) Everything else is fair game. You are inexperienced and asking for advice on not just this girl but on what boundaries you should set... you need to figure this out on your own, most likely through personal experi…
/r/askMRP22/07/23 11:28 AM
5

This is the cycle of anxiety and avoidance fuck your wife style. I really want to fuck but I keep getting rejected. I'm going to avoid trying to fuck because I'm anxious I might get rejected. Great, I'm glad I avoided trying to fuck the slut I married. I'm still horny though, sure would be nice to fuck. Hmmm maybe I'll try and get her to fuck me but how? I need to manipulate her to my will somehow. I'll askMRP because it's not like this shit is in the sidebar (your post is actually OYS worthy, n…
/r/askMRP19/07/23 06:45 PM
5

I’d STFU and focus on shit I need to get done instead of wasting time and getting fucked up. The question was: What would you do if you had a backbone? Better yet. What actionable steps would you take in the immediate future if you had the willpower & courage? E.G - I would join AA, find a sponsor/buddy and go every week. - I'd read NMMNG <--- you need this 1. - I'd confront the fact that my wife fucked another man. etc etc
/r/askMRP18/07/23 01:08 AM
52

You have a drinking problem. You know it, all your friends know it so does your wife. So you are known as an alcoholic/drunkard. Typically, one goes to rehab or AA to get their shit in order you know OWN THEIR SHIT. Instead you are trying to assess your wifes current load to know wether she could possibly "support" you. Aka you want your wife to deal with your problems for you. Also she is/was fucking someone else. Your response to this is what? Drink more until you are numb and hope she doesn't…
/r/askMRP17/07/23 03:45 PM
5

Hey r/AskMrp! My wife sucked my dick and now I'm super happy. That's it, guys!
/r/askMRP17/07/23 02:31 AM
15

Slap yourself Go fuck 5 escorts. Slap yourself again Don't marry this girl Another slap Work on yourself, by yourself. Not in a relationship (saved you money on that divorce, no need to thank me). 1 more slap (this ones from me). Sidebar Spin plates
/r/askMRP17/07/23 02:28 AM
1

Does it make you feel good to beat her?
/r/askMRP08/07/23 04:04 AM
10

That's great, genuinely happy for you. Very simple but very effective. But tell me this post isn't just you patting yourself on the back while pretending to thank HoA?
/r/askMRP04/07/23 02:00 AM
5

The 1st skill to learn in MRP is STFU. That means with your mouth noises & your body language. Your wife said to you. "When we have sex, you start acting in a way I don't like - it's unattractive. I don't wanna have sex with you if you're going to do that. I'm scared that will happen" Obviously, being the red pilled alpha aware 1%bf lump of muscle that you are, just freshly reframed 24 fukkin hours ago. Decided this was a shit test and you would fail it to show her who is the boss around here. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/23 01:52 AM
9

Is this a Rule 11? or is every weekend gonna be /askMRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 04:50 AM
1

This journey will destroy your ego and rebuild/reshape it in a way it will work for you, not against you. You care about your social standing, and that reflects in how you're scared how people receive you. Simultaneously slows down your journey and opens you up to the manipulation of others. Random people you don't know. Theres a healthy level of that care, the 1 fuck to give, and only 1 single fuck.
/r/askMRP01/07/23 10:28 PM
1

What do you want?
/r/askMRP01/07/23 06:54 PM
1

TLDR: I was fucking a hot bitch who tested my frame and I kinda liked it. Now I'm with a low SMV girl who knows it and is very compliant. I really just desire to be dominated by a woman though, so I'm missing that crazy hot EX because I really just wanna jump back into her frame again. 35m talking about settling down with a 4 because the options might be drying out. You sound like a woman who's on the verge of hitting the wall, preparing to jump off the carousel. Even down to trying to negotiate…
/r/askMRP01/07/23 06:04 PM
2

It takes many males longer to swallow the pill because their ego is threatened and wants to continue protecting itself at the expense of rejecting the truth. Rational egoism and having a large ego 2 different things.
/r/askMRP01/07/23 05:47 PM
89

Be open and communicate all your feelings to me so I can slowly lose all respect and attraction I have for you.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 11:33 AM
9

If this isn't about frame, what is it about? Okay, let's say it's about frame then. It's about your frame, which is the frame of a broken woman moonlighting as a fukboi. Let's spoonfeed you. She has a BF, and you know this. She is terrible with money and you know this. I'm going to assume she has been upfront about this - rather than you are a great detective - being ego invested and all. She has a vagina that you fuck - that concludes the totality of all value she brings to your life. She liter…
/r/askMRP30/06/23 03:14 AM
8

Next time you make a post, try putting all the details in the post instead of people have to question for the basics that you should have already done. You lend $100 to a girl that has terrible money management and is also cheating on her BF (You know she is good for lying). The only value she has is according to your post is her pussy. You paid $100 for a free hooker. I learnt the lesson of never lend more than you are willing to lose/give away (unless there is a legally binding contract in pla…
/r/askMRP29/06/23 09:17 PM
2

Congratulations, you are now free. Spin 3 plates at once, more if you please. Keep up the beta act in front of a judge if you can't settle out of court. Keep working on your MAP. Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 06:54 PM
3

Sounds like she is mad that you (allegedly) keep cancelling dates.
/r/askMRP26/06/23 09:02 AM
33

So you made a fat bitch your gf just to get cheap accommodation and now you want to reneg on the deal? If you are happy with the deal and don't want to fuck her then don't. I'm sure there are plenty of other guys out there ready to fuck her. So you might as well just become a cuck, that way, everyone will be happy.
/r/askMRP26/06/23 08:48 AM
11

I read "and then I texted her" "and then we texted" "we texted, texted, texted" I'm imagining a lot of texts ending "lol!" Or "hahaha 🤣" You're not a kid anymore, you said it. You are a man with shit to do. Text her while you have a mini break from doing shit. You will most likely find you can't text anywhere near as much. Or just call say everything that needs said and then carry on with your shit. Game more women. This girl was talking about love after 5 mins? Ye, the sex would have been crazy…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 05:11 PM
2

As the mod said, this is askMRP material, but sure, weekend vibes. I'm not diving into your post history. You yourself have identified that your wife is anxious and state you are "running dread." I'd advise you to be cautious with this, while it might FEEL good, especially while you are working through your anger to see her reacting this way. With wives who are already high anxiety + just had a child (hormones still fucked), you can very easily overdo dread - hence why that post includes time fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 03:44 PM
2

Just leads back to the basic pyramid of TRP. That incel who doesn't get laid cares/desires/needs it like the air he breathes. With a lil dread/game, owning his shit, comes the realisation that it's not impossible, and with a little effort, he can get laid like all those so-called "Chads." Before long, most will forget where they came from. Then bash that same incel they used to be like. Hatred of the former self is my guess 🤷🏾‍♂️.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 03:20 PM
2

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbours see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Your choice, though.
/r/askMRP17/06/23 12:47 AM
2

I've had sleep apnea for some time now. I was tempted to pull the trigger on a CPAP machine but never did because I wasn't convinced it was worth it. Your testimony is well received.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 04:16 PM
2

The problem with that new attachment post is that now every guy is gonna say, "I'm xyz attachment style and my partner is xyz!!" Why did you dump her? Why did you take her back?
/r/askMRP16/06/23 04:09 PM
9

It's not like porn, porn is like porn. It's like cheating via pixels, because you were either too lazy or too scared to actually fuck another bitch. You might as well have actually cheated since you will get all the bs and drama of cheating (deservedly) because of some pixels. When you "cheat", you have to be prepared that one potential consequence is that you will be "caught" and that you will deal with that outcome. I've been in a similar situation - learn my lesson. Be at a point where you ca…
/r/askMRP28/05/23 09:34 PM
5

Guessing he doesn't like foreign dicks in his wife.
/r/askMRP11/04/23 01:58 AM
0

Both these strategies end up with the same result. Two paths to the same place.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/23 01:28 AM
1

Thanks for the response. Can you elaborate on the validation seeking behaviour? because I can't see it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/23 01:45 PM
9

I'd interpret it as: "You are not the man I want to be with, our relationship was a mistake." What are you gonna do about it?
/r/askMRP17/03/23 10:41 PM
2

OYS #4 Now I'm nearing the end of the divorce process, few chats with the soon to be ex-wife led to a much more positive space for me. I'm looking at the red pill from a single perspective now, I've never had a roster or span more than 2 plates at a time. Right now I'm focused on health, fitness & finance. I'll write here once in a while as an open dear diary. I have a surgery that will see my out of action for 6 weeks - 6 weeks physio - then training ready in 12+, I hope to reduce this with bpc…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/23 07:36 PM
6

OYS #1?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/23 07:11 AM
8

Did no fap for a year, and honestly, it made little to no difference. Deciding to put myself out there, for my personal benefit. Approaching simply for the sake of improving my social skills, etc, made the difference. I think No fap would only work this way for chronic masturbaters. Everything else is just placebo, but sure, whatever gets you to your goal.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/23 12:51 AM
1

I'm a journeyman on this RP thing but I'm confused what the actual problem here is, as in what actually happened in real life outside of your head? You said your brother got treated as 'AMOG' and is a 'dick to me' also that you 'got ignored' (no explanation on either of these), then you ran to your wife saying "I'm really insecure about my family and I've been running from this conflict my whole life." ​ but what ACTUALLY transpired outside of your head?
/r/askMRP02/02/23 03:37 AM
1

Your thoughts are the problem, you are thinking tooooooo much - let's clarify that. I say this as a recovering paranoid ruminator. You have/had 2 choices. You clean the shit yourself, or you tell her you WANT her to clean up. Bonus option 3 is a lil bit of both. Fumbling around in your box, trying out a bunch of tools to remove a piece of blu-tack. Forget AA, FOG, AM - All the rest of it. You chose passive aggression. And to be clear, she just went through childbirth, dealing with post partum to…
/r/askMRP22/01/23 08:36 PM
6

Can tell life is pretty much drama free when you gotta make something out of nothing
/r/askMRP22/01/23 02:30 PM
5

So let me get this right you're saying you want us to fuck your wife for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/23 06:09 PM
3

Some real hamstering to protect your ego here. Not a trait, it's a demonstration of self-awareness coupled with high levels of self-consciousness. Aka LACK OF FRAME... You ended up in her frame. She is a good manipulator, and you got manipulated. Learn from this
/r/askMRP18/01/23 06:11 AM
1

The play was to work it into a MMF 3some with basketball brah then marry basketball brah because you are clearly a giant phaggot.
/r/askMRP18/01/23 05:56 AM
7

Honestly, this post is a waste of time. Do the day game, do the night game, and do the apps. See what you prefer/where you excel. Get a few plates, start spinning them, spend time single. Kill your ego, learn game, and don't fall for the pretty girls that will bat their eyelids at you in an attempt to become your new owner. You're not looking for guidance. You are looking for a pat on the head like you've come to expect whenever you think you're doing the right thing, like the good boy you are.
/r/askMRP16/01/23 08:57 PM
2

It's a friend with benefits. Many of these whores just want to fuck and be friends. The exchange is she gives you pussy and you give her attention & make her feel all the feels. Go to some bar for an hour or two, and make a few jokes. Flirt with a few randoms, escalate with your date etc etc. The sex starts in the bar. She tried to make an exchange, and you said "fuck your exchange" give me what I want. Your value isn't high enough for that & if it was, you would never be in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 07:57 PM
5

"Took me a L, no problem, I got on my grind got straight back to it."
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/23 06:08 PM
1

Despite coming her for advice, you are very combatitive with the responses. Lift. Sidebar (read the part on dread). STFU. All your answers are in the sidebar. Nothing you have presented in new here.
/r/askMRP13/01/23 05:42 PM
1

Majority of this = "I am angry at myself for allowing xyz" due to fear. Sidebar. Lift. STFU. Work the dread levels.
/r/askMRP13/01/23 05:40 PM
2

That money could be spent on you! R/askredpillwives
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/23 05:09 AM
3

As a mixed male, much of this relates to me. NNMNG & WISNIFG exposed this to me. Pretty much pushed to hyper masculinity/aggression - evasion or fluctuating between both for that well respected "crazy" tag. Solid post.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/23 06:45 PM
6

Already started the summer cut 20% - 11% in May. I'm gonna be that hot guy at the beach no matter what it takes.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 01:09 AM
2

Guessing you make good money? And she likes to spend it?
/r/askMRP21/12/22 05:53 PM
1

Liar, you are definitely an expert in the feels.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/22 11:31 PM
1

OYS 3 ​ 33, 1 kid. 5'10 - 97kg/215lbs - 19%bf. ​ Read: NMMNG x 2 Reading: WISNIFG ​ Mission Success, financial independence. A life of social satisfaction and physical competition. ​ Fitness S/B/D total = 467.5kg/1028lbs, 289 wilks. Sickness has hit me twice in the last 3 months lasting 4 weeks total. Even with all the time off I managed to make a tiny strength improvement. Still plan to maintain through to Jan, at 19% I look decent tbh but still feel like a fat shit for my own standards. I made…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/22 04:52 PM
1

It doesn't explain his shitty strength. SL and Greyskull are both Linear Progression programs so he should be much stonger than this after 3yrs of LP.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 09:43 PM
3

I'm curious as to what 200mg test is leaving you at (xxx ng/dl). I know everyone responds differently, but that would be a low dose cycle for me.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:35 PM
1

Think you would be better on any of the test, steriod, trt subs but sure. This post without bloodwork is kinda pointless. If you want TrT enough and ego aside, believe it would make a dramatic difference in your quality of life etc etc. Then you put yourself on TRT if the Dr won't prescribe it. ED can be mental, physical or both. If you can get it going with porn, you can get it going without. I recommend you stop watching porn full stop (don't let some random guy on the screen cuck you.) Seeing…
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:30 PM
50

Normal 1st reaction. Just wait for your anger phase to come along. If you don't want to be a monster/scumbag (whatever this means), you don't have to. Red pill will equip you with the tools you need, but how you decide to use them will differ from person to person.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 12:51 AM
2

Hence STFU
/r/askMRP27/10/22 06:36 PM
6

Your words have no power
/r/askMRP27/10/22 02:14 AM
6

Having herpes is outside of your control now. Trust yourself to take the precautions (within your control) to not transmit it to others. ??? Continue life?
/r/askMRP28/09/22 04:45 AM
1

I've said words to the effect of "I can't say I'll never sleep with another woman but if I do I'll tell you." I have & I haven't told her. And I'm not trying to lose 50% of my stuff as a consequence.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 11:33 PM
1

We are divorcing (UK): I applied in July Accepted in August Eligible for conditional order end of Dec Able to apply for Decree Absolute by end of Feb Everything should wrapped up by end of March goverment requires a lot of waiting. That was a typo it should have been "wife was on the verge of crying when she asked me". I have not had sex with another since and I'll tell her about it after the divorce goes through. She's agreed to a clean break and I don't wanna jeopardise that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 07:00 PM
1

OYS 2 33, 1 kid (1yo), divorcing. 5'10 Read: NMMNG x 2 Reading: Book of Pook Mission My mission is to be successful & financially independent. Enjoying a life of social satisfaction, sexual exploration and physical competition. Lifting SBD total = 445kg/979lbs @18% bf Holiday in the desert for 1 week, now I'm back home and sick so no lifting for 2 weeks. Plan is still the same, maintain/recomp till Jan then a 12-20week cut to approx 12% by end of May which should leave me around 190lbs. Decided …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 02:06 PM
1

Obviously missed out the tribal tattoos
/r/askMRP26/09/22 02:20 AM
1

Ease up on him he's been lifting his fork to his mouth plenty.
/r/askMRP17/09/22 06:40 AM
1

Lol at everyone who engaged this
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 10:01 PM
1

OYS 1 33, 5'10, 95kg/210lbs, 1 kid (1yo), divorcing. Read: NMMNG Reading: NMMNG (RStone sidebar series) Mission My mission is to be successful, financially independent. Enjoying a life of social satisfaction, sexual exploration and physical competition. Lifting SBD total = 445kg/979lbs Had been lifting on/off for about 6ish years, I was forced to stop due to an RTA for 3 years + 1 year physio and now I've been able to lift properly since Feb. Ran my own altered version of Starting Strength for 6…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/22 09:00 PM
1

Thanks for the response. 100% agree that I'm not a HVM yet, I'm on my path. I am making my way through the sidebar, admitted very slowly. I'm lifting 4 days + cardio. Starting back with combat sports shortly. Overthinking & not STFU, yeah true.
/r/askMRP01/09/22 05:20 AM
0

Nah it's not about embarrassment.
/r/askMRP31/08/22 05:21 PM
2

Okay that makes sense and I'll start with OYS. Thanks
/r/askMRP31/08/22 03:40 PM
2

Thanks for your time.
/r/askMRP31/08/22 03:32 PM
1

The Chad that will actually bang her. Not press his boner on her butt.
/r/askMRP24/08/22 05:12 PM
1

You are completely in your wifes' frame (dunno where this apostrophe goes). I've not read the comments and I skimmed over some of your post but it was a whole lot of she she she she her her her etc. I'm traditional, in that I believe in a man working while the wife raises the kids. Many do and many don't, no right or wrong just what makes me happy vs another guy. What do you genuinely believe as a model? What would make you happy? not what YOU believe might stop the second bitch in your househol…
/r/askMRP24/08/22 04:42 PM
1

Weed gives me energy makes me get up and do shit. Every time I smoke I'm much more social and thinking up some way to make it rich. With vaping flower, weed costs next to nothing and with making edibles it goes even further. I never understood the "weed makes you lazy" it has the complete opposite effect on me. Quite simply I stopped because I want to be the guy I am on weed, when I'm sober... and I will eventually. Still do you OP
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 10:17 PM
5

100% agree with you. Tbh I think this is a skill that should be developed in the teenage years but if you haven't for whatever reason I think taking time out to learn it is important and THEN getting to a stage where it just blends into your everyday life. I would have said to start smaller though and just ask girls for the time or something/directions as you ended up doing 1st.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 12:52 AM
2

Have you ran any dread? Have you fucked any other women? What value does she provide beside her vagina and some unsolicited BJs?
/r/askMRP14/08/22 07:55 PM
3

Sounds like you are doing great tbh what can we tell you? You should be teaching us. 1st you are in a long distance relationship and your lover cheats on you but you had an arguement and really showed her who is the boss with some angry fucking - really passed that shit test like a boss - She didn't even put up a fight when you wanted the DNA test. The only thing physically unsafe was your wifes pussy as Mr law enforcement (Your wifes side dick THAT YOU KNEW ABOUT) was beating that shit up for t…
/r/askMRP06/08/22 10:31 AM
2

What benefit does your ego provide that you need to create delusions to protect it so badly?
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:32 PM
25

Haven't read yet but that picture had me laughing hard.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/22 01:48 PM
2

You can't handle your wifes text rages (toddler tantrums), plus you can't handle looker room talk (resort to insults). All time PRs are irrelevant this isn't the lifting hall of fame stick to the present, in fact how much you lift is largely irrelevant too. Stop being such a giant sensitive phaggot.
/r/askMRP01/08/22 04:11 AM
2

Sometimes you gotta put the alpha shit to the side. You had drinks with the guys, you fucked the wife when you got home. She's a lil (insert emotion here) sends you a text you ignore it and she stills submits to you when you get home. You are already on top and winning stop trying to get a flawless victory. Makes fun on her lil childish outburst in the text and carry on with your day.
/r/askMRP30/07/22 09:35 PM
1

Still going through the sidebar don't even think I'm qualified to post anything but my dick is and will always be the only reward.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/22 10:51 PM
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