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| 1 | [deleted by user]The flashlight mount practice sounds like a good idea. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:56 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Ohhh okay sorry, I’ve only made a few posts on Reddit and wasn’t really sure where to post this question, but thanks for letting me know | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:56 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Okay so with fingering he tries to just jam them in there back n forth, and he’ll try to go in dry, and he’s scratching my insides. I’ve talked him thru what feels nice and doesn’t but he’ll still go in dry etc. with oral he just stick his tongue inside me or he can’t find my clit. His size isn’t too much of any issue sometimes it is and there will be a little blood. But I’ve gotta more used to him now so it doesn’t hurt to often. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Okay so with fingering he tries to just jam them in there back n forth, and he’ll try to go in dry, and he’s scratching my insides. I’ve talked him thru what feels nice and doesn’t but he’ll still go in dry etc. with oral he just stick his tongue inside me or he can’t find my clit. His size isn’t too much of any issue sometimes it is and there will be a little blood. But I’ve gotta more used to him now so it doesn’t hurt to often. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]If I wanted to leave him, would I really be here asking for advice? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:21 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Key word self. You do realize people can learn about themselves on their own. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Hi thank you for this advice! I’ll definitely try to implement this. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:52 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Hi so the suggestions I’ve given him hasn’t worked. Without being graphic I showed him the come hither motion with his fingers. And every time he’s scratching my insides, and it isn’t pleasant. He told me his fingers just don’t move like the way I demonstrated. But I’m definitely not going to end things, Ik he’s trying and he’s been really patient. But I’ll keep using a encouraging approach and then if needed consider a sex therapist. Thank you for the tips! | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:46 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Okay thank you both for the book recommendation! But how should I ask him to read it? I don’t want to hurt his feelings. And your right I will Definitely continue to be more patient. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:26 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]The lack of passion part is right on, for me at least I realize that I’m loosing the desire to be intimate with him. Maybe I should start by looking into role play to get the spark going again. But yes I’m going to talk to him about it thank you! | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:20 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Hi thanks for the tip. I think I will just have a more straight forward convo, in the past I didn’t want to hurt his feelings or tear down his confidence so I’ve been careful about what I say and how I say it. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:16 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Well in terms of improvement, In the beginning it used to be somewhat painful, now not as painful. But yes I have talked to him to ensure he is being pleased and to find out everything he personally likes. I enjoy pleasuring him and love finding new ways to do so. I have more experience than him and I pay attention to his body language closely. And I do think I’m pouring more into our sex life, because he doesn’t know how to initiate so typically I have to initiate every time, and all the things… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:07 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]I don’t want to do this, because we have a really good relationship. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:41 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Yeah but it’s been so long already, and it’s becoming harder to get in the mood especially during foreplay he’s not a good kisser and doesn’t know how to touch me or talk dirty anything. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:41 PM |
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