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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	Single woman says it's an 'instant turn off' when men don't pay for first dates Makes sense. Thank you for a helpful and insightful answer. The original article posted was about first dates so it would be someone I didn’t know knew very well. It’s tricky and while I am always willing and able to pay my way (or any date) on a first date, I’m not always sure how to broach the topic. And I didn’t even think about the ‘he may feel entitled to something’ aspect of it. Wow!	/r/MensRights	07/12/20 12:56 AM
0	Single woman says it's an 'instant turn off' when men don't pay for first dates I appreciate the info. I live in southern North America. I am of Jamaican heritage, and Jamaican men will typically not split the bill or let the woman pay, no matter what. But I know other cultures are different. So thank you.	/r/MensRights	06/12/20 08:52 PM
1	Mansplaining I’ve heard this term used and it’s confusing. But I think if an explanation by a man to a woman was not requested, and/or includes a hint of condescension (real or perceived), and/or involves a topic on which the woman is an ‘expert’, it is mansplaining.	/r/MensRights	06/12/20 05:41 PM
3	That’s it. I’m through. She sounds dumb and immature. And I’m a woman.	/r/MensRights	06/12/20 05:30 PM
-3	Single woman says it's an 'instant turn off' when men don't pay for first dates I’m a female and I’m just asking, so please don’t attack... lol. I have no problem with coffee as a first date (I’d probably prefer it - less pressure for everyone ). But does it make a difference who asked who out for the date as far as who pays? Also, do men ever feel emasculated if the woman pays the bill? What is a good way for a woman to offer to pay or offer to split the bill ?	/r/MensRights	06/12/20 05:28 PM

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