| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Is the term “pick me” over used? | Discussion | No_Historian_1601 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 11:33 PM |
| 10 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today? | Discussion | No_Historian_1601 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Despite to contrary belief is a man being non needy and confident not that great for dating success? | Debate | No_Historian_1601 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:43 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Despite to contrary belief is a man being non needy and confident not that great for dating success?Yes exactly. Women are too used to simps and attention seeking men that traditional healthy traits in mates are not attractive anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Despite to contrary belief is a man being non needy and confident not that great for dating success?Thanks that’s basically what I’m saying. Confidence being non needy isn’t shit nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Despite to contrary belief is a man being non needy and confident not that great for dating success?I am saying that even though I was needy and unsure of myself when I first started approaching women I got better results and now that I’m more confident etc I don’t get as much results. For the last time I never stated that approaching women was needy. Please read it thoroughly. I never stopped approaching women. My results have changed even though I’ve developed more positive traits and have less negative traits in dating women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Despite to contrary belief is a man being non needy and confident not that great for dating success?Never said it was. I’m saying approaching women has changed for me. At first when I was needy and unsure I got laid but as I got better (traits in my comment you copyed) I’ve gotten rejected more which is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Despite to contrary belief is a man being non needy and confident not that great for dating success?That’s essentially what I’m saying, it seems the opposite is more attractive these days. Being needy and humble, women prefer it more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Woman really don't like most men sexuallyThat’s a lie. You pulled that out of your ass and by ass I mean your own experience where you’re basing everything on. Which is dumb, majority of men want majority of women. I can tell you’re not a man so do your research and not believe just your experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Eh lots of women are feminine and they find it attractive. If I’m a masculine man why should I hide who I am? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?u/CloudsTasteGeometric this response was fantastic this covers a lot of what’s going on. And what happened in that example with setting up the dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Woman really don't like most men sexuallyPeople really need to watch fresh and fit they cover all of this. Hate them or not they are entertaining af either way even if you aren’t red pulled. Women are picky af I read a study where women don’t even acknowledge a unattractive man as in it doesn’t even register. Women do not analyze men’s face the way men do to people in general. So the joe shmo stocking a shelf at 711? Women won’t register him as a person if she made direct eye contact with him and you asked her right after what skin col… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?You sound like a man that has never been with lots of women. Anyman no matter how gentle arrogant aggressive kind charming evil whatever negative or positive trait you can think of, hitting on women is always high rejection for ANY MAN unless you’re Brad Pitt. Reread what I wrote because I don’t know how I was pushy at all. The woman is not a toddler I set two days for a date. Tuesday or Wednesday to be emphatic of her and her time. She rejected both and couldn’t come up with a counter date whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?But bjj and kickboxing gives men the confidence to defend themselves sparring helps you immensely with that. That knowledge transfers greatly onto being attractive masculine with women if you LET IT. I know plenty of mma guys and weightlifters who seem masculine af but are afraid to approach any woman. It’s laughable at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Yes I see this a lot when I approach women. Even the more masculine women are attracted to me and start submitting in person we have a good time but once we exchange numbers they almost always flake. Due to their masculine energy returning and they feel weird about what just happened. A truly masculine man will only attract and can only date feminine women. A feminine women would be the only type that will date/see the masculine man. He’s too polarizing strong of a personality for any woman less… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Tell me about it. Gay men and lesbians actively shitting on straight men is weird af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Gotta have stronger frame probably a little aggression. It’ll deter those types | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?They can’t handle it big dog. The masculine energy within can’t let them be led and or submit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:34 PM |
| – | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Nice feminist posing as a purpepill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Majority of the women here aren’t even purple pill bro. They are feminist or some type of bs they just come here to read posts and get triggered. Don’t even reply to her she literally has rainbow pill in her bio are we really going to debate with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:20 PM |
| 9 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Yes it’s hard to toe the line between dominant but giving enough space to women. I err on the side of being dominant leading to rejection because I’m not going to tailor my entire personality to what the woman want’s especially in the moment. At 2:10 pm she wants a submissive man who lets her express herself in any way. At 3:15pm she wants a man who is dominant that will just take it. Men are not going to read minds for such unpredictable people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Speaking up for himself leading the woman opening doors paying the check. He thinks so the woman doesn’t have to. She can just be. Men respect him so women respect him that much more, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?It’s pretty straightforward be triggered elsewhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?I’m simply saying I can see why women think dominant controlling is such a red flag because a man hitting a woman is a big deal. Controlling is bad dominant is not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?The term feminine and submissive automatically ring red bells in most modern women’s heads that this guy wants a sex slave or a doormat. It’s because the feminine indoctrination teaches women that men want to control women in all aspects NOW I do believe there is some truth to this but just the thought as a man that women can be submissive is so foreign to me even though 20/30 years ago it was more the norm. I do agree with you I think men can be domaint assertive while being gentle and respectf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?This is the purplepill love not two x chromosome. Why are you so surprised? Majority of any color pillers are bigots. Nobody cares if they “know” only you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Ofc I fucking am. Was I supposed to bow down? I would much rather have a masculine woman and feminine man dating than a gay or lesbian relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Yes submissiveness feminine ness is seen as a sex slave or a doormat there is no in between and it’s due to feminism trying to make every single guy seem to be out to “control” and enslave women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?I agree but I think it’s gotten to the point where any hint of these traits is demonized | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?NOT being in our traditional gender roles to society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?There is but I don’t agree with it. It’s detrimental to society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Might be blue pill. He thinks handsome men with masculine facial features are masculine men inside and out. Those snowflakes types get all types of poon from the feminist types | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Ofc, we exchanged number’s that night but she ended up not replying at all later. Polarizing I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Feminine and submissiveness is seen as being a sex slave or a doormat these days. A man can be dominant and assertive and respectful but any word of submissiveness drives woman away these days. Also a man taking the lead is intimidating to most women im talking about the beginning of dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?I understand but what about men that are aggressive and arrogant the alpha douche persona do they get women? Case in point was speaking to a woman the other day trying to make plans for dates. She said figure it out you’re the man, sounds fair I said Tuesday or Wednesday she said can’t do Tuesday and idk about Wednesday so I told her you figure it out your timing because I already approached you and am trying to making plans. She seemed dumbfounded that I was trying to schedule her life when I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:50 PM |
| -2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Emotionally triggered 😂😂 I asked a simple question and now I spend all day wondering what women want? You didn’t give an answer you gave me an typical mediocre statement that didn’t give any value at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Yuh!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Well women now have to compete with men in the job market so it clearly can spill over into dating. Hard to switch that off in some cases. Now traits like submissive feminine are synonymous with sex slave and a doormat in the eyes of most women. A man can be gentle respectful but assertive or dominant but women seem to not like even a little hint of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Okay that’s fair tell me exactly what you want to know and I’ll send you studies evidence etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Men can fake their entire personalities to get women so no I don’t think women are these all high reading expert attuned beings that can know everything about a man. Haha women are some of the most easily manipulated people. Idk where you got that from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Because feminism has created women that are competitive against men. So yes envy of men in women is a thing. Basic things like confidence or physical strength, there are lots of things women dislike about men but some of that is definitely envy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Thanks for trying to manipulate my words. As long as history as been around. Masculine men and feminine women have thrived, don’t get mad at me for what biologically we’ve been doing. I’ve noticed it recently in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:29 PM |
| -1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Yes I only say this because as a man who thinks himself masculine. Women are attracted to me but I can see the feminism in their brains fighting my dominant leading. It doesn’t help thay many men aren’t masculine so young women are used to women leading also men just chasing women just for sex with no strong boundaries or frame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Where to meet women?Norwegian doggo the veteran of Reddit seduction. | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Red pill may breed sexism/misogyny. But modern feminism is a misandrist ideology but it also encourages self internalized misogyny among women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?It doesn’t bother me as much because women are waking up yo the toxic feminism more and more. Saw a Instagram post about a woman that wasn’t a “girls girl”. Lots of women wanted to cancel her but surprisingly lots of other women were mad at “girls girl” being controlling and toxic. The video was abouta a female stranger paying to compliment to another woman. And the woman gave the stranger a stank look. The woman making the video was bitter and thought this was the era of “girls girl”. Etc but t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 07:14 PM |
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