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Go to the child free subreddit. Plenty of women in there. Don’t generalize because plenty of women are childfree
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 01:58 PM
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Yeah exactly! People will judge people on appearances whether it’s race, gender etc but you can’t let them get you down. Not evryone will like you and that’s ok. If someone is being an asshole about your appearance block em. It’s that simple
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 11:44 AM
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Sure first impressions matter. You’re more likely to notice a pretty girl over one you deem as not so pretty. More likely to pay attention to what she says and does. The narrative can be switched to the other side. Good looking people in general get treated different it’s called the halo effect. But does it mean if you’re not drop dead gorgeous that you can’t live a good life? No. Go outside and touch some grass you will see the happiest people that are in healthy relationships aren’t super mode…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 12:23 AM
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THATS THE ATTITUDE! Their loss
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 09:03 PM
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This is the most rational and well thought out response OP. These types of threads occur much too frequently on this sub I have noticed. It’s as if the RedPill era is at its end rope and it’s followers are pulling at straws trying to justify everything. What even constitutes as “attractive”??? Like everyone is into different things. I mean the LGBTQ community exists and they having incredibly exciting dating lives. And their pool is significantly smaller. That begs the question truly what is it …
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 01:49 PM
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There are shitty people in both groups. I met a gay woman and while dating women as a woman might be different than a man dating a woman they’re experiences are still trash. I had a coworker that was a lesbian as well as she has told me of her very negative experiences. I think relationships are difficult for everyone. And there isn’t a whole group (I.e. gender, colour etc) that is “all good” or “all bad” because people are people. Ask yourself what you want in life. Don’t look at statistics or …
/r/ExRedPill22/03/24 04:28 AM
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Like honestly OP doesn’t realize the reason he’s unsuccessful is because of the double standards he places upon women which then sends them the message “I want to use you but be the only one to use you and that will make me feel masculine” which is repulsive and unattractive. We send messages to people without even showing it. It’s honestly so gross
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 06:34 PM
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I don’t think I was being passive aggressive. I was pretty direct in telling you my opinion about your post and my perception with regards to how you perceive women. That is all
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 01:49 PM
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Thank you!!!!! The dating game is brutal
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:56 AM
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You say you don’t want to downplay it but by the way you posted it seems like you view all women as shallow because they didn’t pay attention when you were fat? When in reality you could have used the experience to the how EVERYONE on that journey experiences life. There are plenty of fat people who lost weight and then received different treatment INCLUDING women. Human beings are capable of being incredibly shallow, duh. It’s humanity 101. And judging from your post you have some shallowness g…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:53 AM
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I agree with you. I watched their content here and there and sometimes they have good takes and others i don’t agree with. You are not crazy. I’ve caught them talking down on women’s body counts, age, weight etc and telling the audience that some of these women’s standards are too high. So fucking what? Who cares if she has high standards? It’s not like she’s gonna marry you? I unsubscribed a while back even though I enjoyed some of their stuff
/r/ExRedPill05/02/24 05:18 PM
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EXACTLY VIRGINTY=/= a kind human being I’m from a Muslim background and this shit is beyond annoying. I know plenty of virgins both men and women in my community that are shitty people. Your character is not determined by whether you had sex or not but how you treat those around you. PERIOD
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:55 AM
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Trust me when I say I know pleeeenTy of tall guys that can’t land any dates. And they’re above 6’1 Don’t worry about height worry about how you interact with people. Focus on connecting instead of impressing. Whoever wants you will stay whoever doesn’t will go
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 04:41 AM
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Just be single bruh you need to chill with that
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 04:38 AM
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It’s your mentality thibking you aren’t worthy in comparison to others. Maybe it’s the way you talk? When you have a toxic mindset it can be displayed with the way you talk. I think you need to do a detox. And just be not interested in relationships. Also the “short term” screams hookup culture. Are you coming across thirsty? Like you are only interested in sex? When engaging in conversation do you actually listen to the women you are speaking with? Could you repeat what they are talking about? …
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 08:12 PM
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It does it’s just your strategy. Where are you going? What are you looking for? What about the girls you go for? What are they looking for? You can’t go in circles doing the same thing and expect a different result. The main problem here is your strategy. Change your mode of meeting new people
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 05:15 PM
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Most people in this generation won’t have it together until 40 and I think we are quite young. 30s is for realizing responsibility and working towards a bigger goal. Don’t beat yourself up! You were young and living life. It hits a lot of us. I spent my 20s studying and didn’t date at all. Now I feel so behind on it. But one day at a time. And I’m sorry about your friends friend. Moments like that remind us to cherish every day we have been alive and the present ❤️
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 09:32 PM
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I think it’s weird you think it’s weird that anyone would question mean behaviour. Left wing people can be bullies too. They just get away with it by way of virtue signalling 🤷🏿‍♀️ both sides are crazy. I pray and fast and believe in taking care of the needy and poor. If you got a problem with that that’s a you thing I couldn’t care less.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 11:15 PM
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❤️❤️❤️ I’m feeling so much better and this is wonderful to read. I’m taking my time and enjoying life step by step
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 09:06 PM
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And? What’s your point? Bullying isn’t okay in any religion. What religion says we make fun of other peoples looks? Or tell them their worth is based on how marriageable you are?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 09:04 PM
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I didn’t know what it was until my cousin introduced me. I didn’t believe in any of it. Then when I hit 30 (the “wall”) I had a mental breakdown. And I think it was from all the subconscious programming in believing my self worth was based on the male gaze, my youth, beauty etc I realize now how toxic it is and how complicated people and life really is.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 05:59 PM
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Hey I’m about to be 31 and let me tel you. When you don’t have everything “together” by 30 you get ANXIOUS. If you scroll down my post history you can see how much the concept of “the Wall” scared the living shit out of me. And how I thought I passed my prime as a woman. Then I realized it’s not true and God has bigger plan for me ❤️ Almost every millennial is going through it. It’s because society has this idea that if you don’t have a house, career, kids etc by 30 then you failed and you’re we…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 11:28 AM
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It’s crazy because I know so many tall guys above 6ft3 who struggle getting girls who have turned to red pill ideology themselves 🙄
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 10:36 AM
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You need to go out. Women prefer meeting men in real life over apps. Most of the users of these apps are men as well. If you join an activity (sports,volunteering, arts, book club) you can make friends and maybe a relationship can bloom from that. Even make yourself available by having a social media that has interesting content like cooking or travels or something that interests you where people you meet can contact you and maybe then someone might slide in to the dms. It works more than you th…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 01:38 PM
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This is down to attachment style and emotional maturity. Some men behave the same way as well.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 04:48 PM
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Yes I’d rather be alone than end up with a shitty person. That’s facts. I think I was in a bad place because I had barely any family and friends at the time. So I was feeling alone in every sense. Since then I e developed a network of people and hobbies and I’m happier. Humans need human interaction. And sometimes we think the only form of it is in romantic relationships but I find that it’s not true. I’m so much happier being single and just going out and having fun with people. Also I realize …
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 11:09 AM
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I totally get it! I was so concerned about my age (30 yes) as a woman. I’ve had people tel me I’d die alone if I didn’t lower my standards and marry a the first guy that gives me attention because that’s all I’m going to get. I really had to go to therapy and distance myself from the internet because I fell into a deep depression thinking I was going to die alone. Im happier now though ❤️❤️I wish the same for you ❤️❤️❤️ There’s times the messaging gets to me and makes me feel super insecure. But…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 11:19 PM
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This hits!
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 01:10 PM
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??? Is this for real?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 10:48 AM
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No not true
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 10:52 AM
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Nah don’t worry it’s an insecurity I have always had since young that prevented me from dating just thinking like why would someone actually like me? But I get it
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 11:33 AM
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It always stresses me out when I’m talking to someone thinking that they may not appreciate the impression I give to people since I’m the prettiest or coolest. Reminders like this just make me feel like who would ever want to actually be with someone like me?
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 10:48 AM
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These are great points I know a few women who have been on the receiving end of the unfair divorce settlements where they were forced to give alimony, child support, and half of their assets. As far as false sexual assault cases/reports. Many women don’t report but sometimes with falsely accused people they didn’t have to go through a court system but instead deal with social scrutiny and ostracism. I have seen instances where someone just needed to spread a rumour, post something on social medi…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 03:57 AM
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I’m just going to leave this…make of it what you will Andrew Tate’s logic 🙄
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 12:24 AM
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The point flew over your head.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:16 PM
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If most women are in them doesn’t it mean that most men are in them as well? 🤔 Based on your logic doesn’t it mean that most men are toxic? Stupid.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 03:45 PM
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This is disgusting
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 03:44 PM
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It’s a spectrum from what I understand and there are few people diagnosed but a lot of people that are high on the spectrum of narcissism
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 09:55 PM
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Search up narcissistic personality disorder. If he was doing that very young it might be because he has a personality disorder. Look up how to spot the signs and how to avoid them in the future.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 08:33 PM
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I LOVE CONSPIRACY THEORIES
/r/ExRedPill10/04/23 04:34 AM
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I think you need 1. A break. Nuff said. You need to stop dating. Give yourself a time frame. Like 3 months where you don’t date or talk to anyone A hobby/ few hobbies. Find things outside of dating that can help you find internal validation. One that is artistic. One that is athletic. One that is community based. A cause you believe in. Volunteer or help an organization. Could be a shelter, hospital, foundation nursing home etc helps build empathy and compassion for others. Also when you do good…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/23 04:42 AM
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Not surprised
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 12:04 AM
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Everyone is different. Some women are attracted to outgoing some are attracted to the quiet types. Some like the athletic ones some like artistic ones. Every human being is different.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 10:09 AM
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??? What does being sexually worthless mean? That no one wants to have one night stands with you? Or that no one will ever love you or want to be with you? It you are unworthy of sex? Or unworthy of love?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 04:52 PM
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One word. Narcissism.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 03:31 PM
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What kind of pastry? I’d want to be cheesecake
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 11:34 PM
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All humans are born equal and I agree. Evryone is into something different
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 07:21 PM
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First, you are NOT going to be an incel forever! Don’t speak it into existence with a self fulfilling prophecy Second, get off the internet and go watch a movie. By yourself. Deadass Third, eat some food you really love and enjoy your day. When was the last time you had a really good day? Fourth, Find a book to read that will keep you busy for a week or two. GET OFF THE INTERNET AND OUT OF MANOSPHERE! These are immediate solutions to get your mind off of things ASAP but for the long term you nee…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 07:14 PM
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Yes I would Kevin samuels 🙄 You don’t like the fact that I showed the other side of the coin? Don’t care. Move along.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 10:49 AM
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If they don’t exist in this life they exist in the next. And I agree! Your value is not determined by having a spouse or children
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 10:37 PM
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There are a lot of good women being written off for being over 25, being divorced, being over 30, not being conventionally pretty etc. Shallow people in both pools. Someone doesn’t like you? Accept it and move on. There’s someone who will love you for you ❤️❤️❤️
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 08:42 PM
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❤️❤️❤️ I’m sending love and support because you’re not really getting it here. Your feelings are totally valid and what she did was awful. You sound hurt and lost and I’m sorry you’re going through it. I’m a woman and I struggle with dating as well. I want you to know the process is crap. And we often accept things that we shouldn’t. I’m learning to work on boundaries. Give yourself time to figure out what boundaries need work and how to improve your filters. Take your experiences as lessons on …
/r/ExRedPill24/03/23 10:52 AM
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Ouch. Ok.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 09:57 PM
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Hasanabi?
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 05:54 PM
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It’s possible that your BPD is making you feel things more intensely? And I’m 30F never been in a relationship. It’s hard for evryone so don’t think you’re a weirdo or undesirable. When you give up is when it happens. Just talk to women like friends and it should happen naturally. Don’t get a girl for the sake of one. Go out have fun meet people make friends and it should come with time ❤️
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 11:01 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 09:12 PM
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I’m 30 sis
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 07:00 PM
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I don’t think it’s recent. It’s pretty traditional. I’m 30 and in my parents home country women above 20 seem old tbh. So… Idk I just can’t get it out of my head. I appreciate the kind words ❤️
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 06:59 PM
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Thank you I’m in therapy and no matter how much I talk about it I still hear his voice. The guy himself is most deff a loser and I know it. I think I’m stuck in the fact that I was speechless and I don’t know how to forgive myself for not having a reply. Also because I’m having a shitty luck in dating I feel like it’s affirming the statement.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 10:51 AM
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Hamza needs to put some clothes on, go to school and stop slitting his eyebrow.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 10:47 AM
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Yeah I graduated HS in 2010 so it was rough. But it’s ok things happen for a reason right? I’ve come to the conclusion that evrything is out of my hands and to just enjoy what I do have
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 05:34 AM
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Yes I did loooool Why are you in your early 30s as well or in your 20s?
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 03:28 AM
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I’m 30F and single never been in a relationship. Women are also lonely out here. Don’t put emphasis on relationships with others. Be in a relationship with yourself. Make yourself so interesting that you love hanging out with yourself. The shorties will come with time. And the 20s suck lmaoooo broke over worked stressed and anxious about the future. I don’t miss that. Life really begins after 40. Also don’t get into a relationship for the sake of one. Just so you can say I experienced one. Get i…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 10:02 PM
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Chances are you ingested it when you were still developing emotionally and the ideology exploited your insecurities. People think that by “knowing the truth” that they are superior but it just makes them feel like they will never get someone. The reality is that you will still get what you want. You just need to believe in yourself ❤️ Focus on you outside of relationships. What makes you feel happy? Do that. Take care of yourself. Eat right hit the gym get a good skin care routine. Pick up 3 hob…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/23 02:20 AM
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Sis I feel you! The concept of “the Wall” really did a number on me. But once I reached “the Wall” at 30 and the number of interest I had didn’t decrease i realized it was fake. Take therapy and time to be single there is honestly no rush to getting into a relationship. And please stay away from FDS and red pill. I’ve been feeling so much better after filtering content I was consuming. Life is honestly so rich outside of relationships. And we need to realize there are people that would give up e…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 02:29 PM
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LMAOOO no he doesn’t
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 04:09 AM
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Omg I shouldn’t have assumed 🤣🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 10:40 PM
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Thank you sis I realized that afterwards. I’m starting to get over my fear of aging slowly
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 10:12 PM
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Uuffff I’m going through it too sis I’m 30 myself worst couple of months. I actually didn’t start talking to guys until 3 years ago? And I get a lot of attention still. Even the guys that say “ you’re expired” are asking me out afterwards. It’s weird. I’m not gonna lie. I haven’t been able to just waste time like watching tv and going outside without thinking I’m wasting time not finding a partner. I was so content in being alone and now with the negative messaging I feel immense pressure. I’m t…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 01:59 PM
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Nah because this rhetoric isn’t new it’s a man’s world and not to say “all men are trash” but misogyny isn’t going anywhere
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 05:53 AM
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I think for a lot of young men that are lonely and have low self esteem it’s like a safe haven? A lot of the young men that follow/join that community crave validation and information to tell them that they are not the problem. That women are inherently evil and superficial. Additionally it sells this idea that the red pill has it figured out with “how to attract women” “how to use women for sex” etc It helps make them feel less alone x For young women with low self esteem they’re craving valida…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 05:41 AM
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Hitting the gym? Having a purpose? Not begging for attention? That stuff is true Treating women like shit? Cheating? Throwing money at a problem? False
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 02:45 PM
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Meh I think there’s people in both genders that have become entitled, selfish and irresponsible. There are great men out there.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 02:58 PM
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Yes FDS is just something else. The red pill started pushing me that way a while back but I was like this ain’t right because there are great men out there. We need to get rid of the scarcity mindset
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 12:19 AM
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We are surrounded by it in the internet we have men debating these points to us. It’s everywhere
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 09:06 PM
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I just didn’t think about it I left in the middle of the night with a debit card and my pjs and ended up in a shelter for 2 months. Just get up and leave with the clothes on your back if you have to. Enough is a enough. If you wanna have a plan figure out the shelters in your city. Figure out the plan afterwards. Like money, job, apartment etc just get to it and it will work out I guarantee you! I never thought 4 years ago I’d be where I am today.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 06:12 PM
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When I moved out I was homeless for a few months in a shelter at 28. And now I got a career and my own spot and I’m safe and secure. It’s gonna be painful. Don’t focus on the self talk focus on the action. It took me years to find courage to leave because I believed in the negativity and mean words. But now I realize that it’s not me that stated these thing a its other people.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 05:32 PM
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I think you took a good first step in stopping the use of porn. But you can’t expect yourself to be perfect overnight it takes time and work especially if you’re used to certain images for a long period of time. Cut yourself some slack and be kind to yourself. I think also maybe making female friends? That are strictly platonic. Where you don’t try to have sex with them might help with improving conversation. Because then you’re just talking and not trying to have sex with them. This way when yo…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 04:55 AM
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This stuff has been stressing me out more than anything as a woman that is 30. I just keep thinking every guy thinks like this and that it’s over for me to even start a relationship. But then you have to think like will I even be able to keep a guy interested? It’s a bad time for me. I’ve had men say “it’s over for you”
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 08:26 PM
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Dude It’s not a pissing contest. I as well as others have acknowledged that men feel loneliness and it’s not discussed enough as well as the consequences of it. Likewise women feel it as well and it’s not discussed and it’s even invalidated because people say “well at least you can get sex” and it’s awful. As far as sex being a human basic need. Listen there’s a difference between a healthy need vs an obsession. We live in an era where pornography addiction is rampant. The sexual objectification…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 07:07 AM
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Women have a physical disadvantage in comparison to men. It’s literally dangerous for them to walk alone in certain places because of what MIGHT happen. Having to consistently be suspicious of people subconsciously it does something to women. It’s a lonely experience. Yes sure we could hook up whenever. That’s probably what some men are jealous of because they’re obsessed with sex. But considering the fact that most humans want a genuine connection with someone to grow old with it makes the expe…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 05:07 AM
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Not evryone has the same life experiences. Everyone is dealing with baggage. Some people witnessed horrific marriages some witnessed great ones. In addition it is a well known fact that marriage and children don’t contribute to happiness. As a matter of fact if you aren’t already happy with yoursef it can exacerbate a lot of internal issues. It’s why it’s encouraged to be happy with yourself before getting into relationships with people. There’s a lot of people that deal with addictions, generat…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 11:28 PM
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Where’s your wife and kids?
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 08:42 PM
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The do it on purpose so they can capitalize and profit off of low self esteem and insecurities. It’s basically like IG models that get plastic surgery but convince you that their tummy tea and waist trainers work. I’m currently going through the motions myself as a woman. I had to delete most of my social media and started to filter that content that I consumed on Yt and everything else. Remember that you are ENOUGH. And that your value is not determined in having a woman/man in your life. Or ho…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 10:31 AM
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Is he the one that said women above 23 are expired? I remember watching an Aba and Preach episode with someone that looked like him lol
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 08:19 PM
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