| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 187 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I Expected | Field Report | No_Opportunity_5783 | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 11:07 PM |
| 158 | Why is this sh*t so hard? | Outer Game | No_Opportunity_5783 | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 02:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Buying Instagram FollowersYes you can hides likes on a post. I do it all the time. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Why I quit dating apps forever (and what I now do instead)Just started doing salsa classes. Going to one tonight. Wish me luck! | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:51 AM |
| 10 | What's with girls telling me they're busy?Yeah, you’re probably not their best option right now and they’re probably just leaving you on the sidelines as a backup option. That would be my guess… | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with brutal shutdowns? Are they preventable?Don’t know if it’s avoidable but the worst one I have gotten a few times is “I’m good.” Just move on I guess. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Approach when she has headphones in?You need to laid lmao. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Approach when she has headphones in?Universal sign? Most the world doesn’t even wear them. And I get interrupted all the time wearing earbuds and it’s me usually the rude one ignoring people when they’re talking to me. We’re people, we’re supposed to be social creatures. It’s how our ancestors survived. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 12:03 AM |
| -4 | Approach when she has headphones in?C’mon, if he complimented you and made you feel good you’d like it. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 11:47 PM |
| 8 | Approach when she has headphones in?If the man of your dreams walked up to you I bet you’d stop everything you’re doing to talk to them. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Approach when she has headphones in?But that’s most people nowadays because we live in an anti-social world where people need to be entertained 24/7. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 10:14 PM |
| 5 | How many cold approaches do you guys do per week?How many approaches from those lead to numbers? And from those numbers, dates? | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Why you shoud not double text a woman that's making you chase or ghosting youSending a message. And then sending another message later with no response in between. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedThese limiting-beliefs are holding you back. Stop caring about what other people think. The more opportunities available to you the better. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedYou do better bro. Then I’ll shut up. Oh yeah.. you’re a lazy scroller contributing nothing. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedOf course it’s the place. It’s a social hub for people trying to improve themselves. People make friends and girlfriends there all the time. And it was like I approach her mid-set. She was resting at the machine and even standing up. If I had been a less “gamey” I think she would have been receptive. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedI’m getting downvoted to hell in some of my comments if you haven’t noticed. Some comments are surpassing my upvotes on the post itself 🤣 | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedThat wasn’t my opener. I said that after I knew I was done. And she was looking at me. I’m very observant. She just didn’t like my approach. Probably too “playerish” in her eyes. Game should be done everywhere attractive women are. They want to meet men there. If they’re single. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedA little bit I admit. She was rude about it so I was rude back. I didn’t throw a tantrum or anything like that. I even went in front of her to finish my last exercise - bent over reverse flys. Had my ass pointed in her direction lol. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:29 PM |
| -1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedI’m a busy guy and I’m out in the field. Effort was still expended. You do better then. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedI’ve never seen her before and I’ve been going to that gym x3 a week. It’s possible she’s a gym hopper or is inconsistent. Securing the IG right after introducing yourself and having small talk is fine. I actually did it at my gym a week ago with some Colombian chick. And my Spanish wasn’t even that good. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedYou right! Was good practice. How many other guys have the balls to do that? Especially other Redditors lol. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedI don’t think she was trying to blue-ball me but I think if I opened more indirect I would have at least secured a number / ig. Oh well. Next time. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedWe’re talking about seduction here and developing the right frame. Sometimes you gotta brainwash yourself so you can adopt the frame for yourself. It’s all a process. Also, what is proper day game? Game should be a part of your life wherever you go. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedOf course they don’t want to be bothered. But if an attractive man approaches them they won’t be. If the vibe is good. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedHow do you know that? Women can lie about having a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedYeah, I think that’s what happened. Dumb that the wrong opener can screw you so hard. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedShe’s still not gonna talk to me lol. Women rarely approach. Sounds like a scene from a sitcom lol. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedTo meet women, duh. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedYeah, I think it was my opener that turned her off. Was too direct and opened myself up to be hard rejected. Frustrating because I always thought be being “ballsy” and going for what you want is attractive. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedPeople are anti-social these days. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:10 PM |
| 10 | Why she pulls away when you ask "where is this going?" and demand spoilers from herBeen hearing a lot of this advice from multiple sources: 1) Woman can’t know they “have you” yet 2) Attraction comes from the uncertainty 3) As a man be comfortable with being in the grey area as to where you stand with her Has been a tough pill to swallow but hopefully I can implement this into my own dating life. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedHere’s the thing. I don’t care if I see her again. It’ll be awkward for her. Not for me. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 03:33 AM |
| 6 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedLiterally all of them. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedThank you brother 🙏 | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 03:01 AM |
| -1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedWhy not? I’ve seen people meet at the gym many times. I’ve even seen a guy approach a girl at the squat rack where everyone can see and grab the IG. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 02:30 AM |
| -21 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedI had Chat transcribe my audio and then summarize it. Then I edited it make it more akin to something I would actually say. And then used Chat again to make easier to read on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 01:11 AM |
| -6 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedI’m literally a man taking action for what I want. She should be grateful for the opportunity to meet someone as awesome as I am. If she had given me a chance she would’ve realized this. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:59 AM |
| -50 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedIt really happened as I described tho so what’s the problem? | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:57 AM |
| 25 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedProblem with this is you may never see her again so you must secure an IG or a phone number. And if you play it safe you risk getting friend-zoned, at least in my experience. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:33 AM |
| -93 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedI admit I used it. It’s an excellent tool for adding more flow to your story. What you rather I have a bunch of typos and grammatical errors? | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:27 AM |
| 13 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedRight, give zero fucks. Fuck ya! | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedBro this is the white knight energy this sub is against. Game can happen anywhere and I’ve seen it happen it in my own gym. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:22 AM |
| 12 | How to Pick up milfsYes, you walk up like Borat and say, “how much?” | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Consistent called cute but failing in person game a lotShe’ll probably lie so she doesn’t hurt his feelings tho. Or she won’t know other than she wasn’t feeling it. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 12:31 AM |
| 0 | How often do you approach?Yeah, I’m curious as well. Are you able to get a date at least once a week? | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 10:02 PM |
| 3 | 10 Signs You’re An Attractive Guy!He had me until that awkward no. 8! | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 09:50 AM |
| 4 | What are some things you like to talk about with cute girls you just met at the gym?She’ll know what it is. | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 03:39 PM |
| 21 | Small mistakes you must avoid while on a first dateMinus the strip club part, S-tier | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How to approach guys successfully?It’s probably #2 tbh. Guys these days aren’t trained to approach girls they like out fear of being creepy or getting made fun of. If you’re at least not ugly, chances are these guys like you but are afraid to express it. I guess you should just make yourself more available to the ones you actually like. If you have to, ask them if they “want your number.” Good luck! | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 11:38 AM |
| 3 | What am I doing wrong?Yeah, they’ll lie to avoid hurting your feelings. Honestly, you shouldn’t ask anyway. It’s their problem. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 01:20 PM |
| 4 | What am I doing wrong?Generally how it works, unfortunately… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong?Texting too much and too soon? | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 12:26 PM |
| 9 | What’s your best openers in person and on textName’s Bond… James Bond. | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Should I put in more effort in dm’s?Depends what you send. If it’s boring then they’ll most likely give a low-effort response or not reply at all. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Only years later I asked someone for instagram and I got soft rejectedYou should still be able to DM her. I don’t think her forgetting to follow you back is the end of it. | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindJust go to Mexico or Thailand. You can get laid for $100 USD. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Bar hopping soloYou’re one step ahead of me. I have no friends to go out with on a regular basis and I’m shy about going out to meet new people alone. | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 06:26 AM |
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