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No_Smoke_7284/r/askMRP02/07/23 07:35 PM
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You can dvr the game not the tee time or the time with the wife and kids
/r/askMRP07/09/25 11:44 PM
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Can’t fix crazy
/r/RPChristians27/08/25 12:07 AM
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Raise your self esteem and realize there is no spoon.
/r/askMRP19/06/25 05:09 PM
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I think you meant to post in R/Autism
/r/askMRP18/01/25 08:11 AM
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It’s never good enough
/r/askMRP15/01/25 12:59 AM
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I did it. But I had already been red pilled for about a year before heading into it. my wife needed to work through some shit that I did that was fucked up earlier in our marriage. I stayed quiet a lot listened to what could be productive and dumped the rest. I think I got lucky and had a balanced therapist.
/r/askMRP16/12/24 07:47 PM
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I know what you mean. My wife is hot too. Post divorce best shape of my life no fucks given. 5 years younger. Fucking out of horniness is when your dick is talking to you. Fucking for validation is when your head is talking to you. And on a side note I learned if you can not control your nit you can not control your woman. So get your head straight all around.
/r/askMRP02/12/24 02:44 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/s/U4QJE4wQxe Order does matter
/r/askMRP27/11/24 11:31 PM
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You asked what to do to not angry. Suggestions made to you seem beta; turning off your phone or not giving attention. So then why are you asking and why are you here? You haven’t read and if you did, you haven’t learned. I was a ball of rage for a long time. I had to recondition myself. Still not perfect but 75% better. How? Reading the sidebar. Ex 1. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/s/ILIsQNH01H Ex 2. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/s/Pt68S8Sh0G How do you enforce a boundary? If …
/r/askMRP24/08/24 08:19 PM
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Scheduled sex sounds terrible. Deal with the potential dry spells (spinning plates) and rejection (pussy). If you are 300 lbs attitude of gratitude for even getting laid.
/r/askMRP12/05/24 01:01 AM
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It’s called dread bro. Her hamster is anxious your fucking around. It’s a good thing. You fuck up the dread when you validate it. I give her some comfort but very little. Too much comfort diminishes the dread that came from STFU and lifting. Waste of effort.
/r/askMRP08/05/24 04:12 PM
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I feel you bro. The shit tests are the storm and lack of frame is the inability to remember there is calm shortly after. I just went through this last week, even called the divorce lawyer. Chasing after her validates her shitty behavior, the plates are just validation, but in the end the problem is the same; it’s self doubt. Take a look in the mirror, wipe the slate clean, and just like OSHA see how many days you can go without being a faggot moving forward. I just celebrated 16 months being sob…
/r/askMRP09/04/24 05:19 PM
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You have been posting for a year and still don’t get it? Your wife thinks your a bitch. After making breakfast, lunch, put your apron on and finish dinner.
/r/askMRP24/03/24 08:55 PM
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A five paragraph essay to say be humble and work on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 06:21 PM
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First quit the drinking. Your an alcoholic. Same for the weed. You can’t lead as a captain with an addictive personality. I know because I’m 2 months shy of a year being sober. Drank for 20 years. That allowed me to disconnect from the matrix I had allowed to be created around me. Your chick is pregnant too, and it’s not your first rodeo, so you know it’s even harder. If you want to know how I did it, DM me. I did it without AA.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 03:51 PM
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I’ll tell you what I did. The first time I went to my in laws and let them see I was in her frame. Huge fucking regret. The next I did not do shit. I turned off the ring camera and blocked her number. Continued my life as normal and went and spun a plate. Didn’t happen again.
/r/askMRP04/10/23 05:41 AM
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Agreed. Sounds like he was drunk when he wrote this. “How do I KNOW IDENTIFY structural improvements v. something that only makes me more of a plowhorse”. You attended college but can’t type a sentence? You mean how do I identify structural improvements vs validation seeking behavior? This post in itself is validation seeking behavior. Even the numbers I call BS on. 162 pounds at 5’11 and squatting 375, benching 286? Deadlifting almost 450. Really? He starts with admitting he’s a drunk captain b…
/r/askMRP26/08/23 06:45 AM
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I was thinking the same. Listen to the ones that have been in your shoes. How many of the guys giving advice here have kids, particularly daughters. Parenting style is also completely different than the relationship with your wife. Don’t compare it. I have a 2 going on 3 year old girl. I draw assertive lines now so I don’t deal with a monster down the road. Also, I expect my wife to help assert my boundaries. She listens better when it’s both parents telling her. Good luck dude.
/r/askMRP17/08/23 01:14 AM
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If your not having marriage problems and your wife is so perfect what are you doing on askmrp. The amount of effort I see you taking into giving attention to every answer tells me how what a nice guy you are. Your daughter senses that that and has you wrapped around her finger.
/r/askMRP16/08/23 11:58 AM
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It’s because your soft dude. You tried giving extra affection because of the divorce. The reason she listens to mom is because mom is batshit crazy. You know how I know? Because you explained my situation to the T. It wasn’t until I realized that I had created a little monster that I pretended to be confused. Implement a consequence, draw a hard line, and don’t go back on your consequence. Take into consideration a divorce hardens a kid, especially a girl, so you need to kill that nice guy and t…
/r/askMRP15/08/23 09:20 PM
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It raised my self esteem which in turn raised by self respect and mental health. Primarily it allowed me to not give a fuck so much what she thinks or says. If she leaves oh well. I was able to assert firmer boundaries. Instead of giving my energy to her, I turned to back on me and my kids.
/r/askMRP08/08/23 01:42 AM
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I’m rooting for you bro. It took me almost going to prison for 2 years to call it quits. Been sober 6 months. Once your sober you’ll no longer question whether she’s a bitch or if your just crazy. You’ll make better decisions because it’s your intuition. Then you can still grow from there. I finally had to accept what was my goal. My goal was to be captain of my ship. Nobody respects a drunk captain. But as a sober captain I respect myself, and that is a world of difference. Good luck!
/r/askMRP07/08/23 07:51 AM
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Hey bro thanks for replying. Yea house arrest is over. It’s taken a lot of stress out of my home being able to get out with the family again. I took to heart what you said. “Locus of control” which was a major weakness of mine combined with alcohol abuse. I’m 6 months sober and have no desire to drink again. However, now my new mission is SELF CONTROL. I want to be able to role model for my 13 year old who has seen anything but that from me. He is behaving similarly. Wife got over her rant after…
/r/askMRP29/07/23 06:36 PM
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Thanks dude. You are 100% correct. I did have several months counseling to process the grief, shame, and PTSD from the car accident. I am a reactor and that’s why I shot this post up real quick. In the last week I took the time to assess our relationship. Realized she has some mental stuff I can’t change but I can work on what causes me to react. I need to stop reacting. That’s my goal moving forward to break this toxic cycle and raise my kids right. STFU has been paramount. Congratulations on y…
/r/askMRP07/07/23 10:26 PM
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Hey Sepean thanks for the advice. I came across your article of the Fear Avoidant wife, which sounds like my wife. I need to digest your article. I also read MRP anger phase which I think I’m still processing. It pisses me off I’ve been betabux
/r/askMRP03/07/23 11:48 PM
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You are spot on! My current level of success blinds me into thinking I am successful. When in reality it’s mostly my false ego. It’s why I was an alcoholic, why I ended up with 2 felonies, and why I fail in my relationships. It’s the discipline and perseverance I lack and that’s why I slid off. Like alcohol I can’t have just one. So like my self control I need to learn to be disciplined in STFU and maintaining that discipline over a lifetime. It’s the only I was able to get sober. I posted becau…
/r/askMRP03/07/23 10:53 PM
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What I mean by I understand frame is that I understand the context of it but have not conditioned myself enough to hold it. I get it rattled easy and I hate it. I don’t feel I am doing chore play as I want a clean house and im not doing it to please her. She’s responsible for the bedroom and bathroom so I don’t do anything in there. And your right I should have titled it my wife didn’t follow my covert contract and need for validation and I had a bitch fit
/r/askMRP03/07/23 08:31 PM
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I have an understanding of frame . What should I read for game would that be TMMSLP?
/r/askMRP03/07/23 07:19 PM
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Correct no moving out and just STFU
/r/askMRP03/07/23 07:15 PM
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Thank you. Solid advice. Yes I’m still fresh
/r/askMRP03/07/23 07:14 PM
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This is what I came here for. It’s exactly what I need to work on. No self control has gotten me into lots of trouble. Is this Rian guy on YouTube?
/r/askMRP03/07/23 04:37 PM
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Hindsight is 20/20
/r/askMRP03/07/23 04:35 PM
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I agree. I am restarting with STFU
/r/askMRP03/07/23 02:38 PM
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I don’t drink. I mentioned that in the intro and a couple times after as well as the 2 felonies being the same event.
/r/askMRP03/07/23 02:35 PM
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Solid advice. I realize it’s a constant conditioning program and if I loose routine this is where I end up.
/r/askMRP03/07/23 06:39 AM
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Thanks. I’ve taken pictures of past attacks and let the MIL know to call the police. I learned from my ex wife about false DV allegations
/r/askMRP03/07/23 12:23 AM
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Great advice thank you
/r/askMRP03/07/23 12:05 AM
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It’s very frustrating to be a shit show on paper. I have a PhD. It definitely messes with my self esteem. The accident caused someone to pass away. It’s caused me ptsd that I have gotten help with. I hope to get my record expunged in the future.
/r/askMRP02/07/23 11:02 PM
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Your post resonates with me. I have met most goals through my anger. Yet my anger is what keeps me from biggest goals
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 09:21 PM
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No I would not want my daughter to bring a verbally abusive boyfriend home. I would also teach my daughter she needs to meet her partners needs also to make it work. I fucked up with a victims puke and now have to reset
/r/askMRP02/07/23 08:49 PM
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What do I do for trade? I have a clinical doctorate. The house arrest is for being part of a traffic accidents where someone else killed someone in a different vehicle. It was take a plea or risk manslaughter charges. I don’t drink alcohol. The only plan is to STFU and wait for her next move. What makes me the prize is I feel I have me all the goals that you guys laid out except learning to control my mouth. It’s been 6 months but I have a lot more to go
/r/askMRP02/07/23 08:46 PM
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Again please expand on how I’m being selfish if I’m getting almost nothing in affection or appreciation.
/r/askMRP02/07/23 08:42 PM
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My kids are my priority man. I have full custody of my 12 year old. Because of my daughter I have sucked up being treated like a room mate for almost 3 years. You advise to get my shit to get her. I have a phd, bench 275, deadlift 300, but am stuck at home. I can only interpret your advise as work harder at stfu, no covert contracts, and accept your shitty relationship to keep it together. Correct me if I’m wrong?
/r/askMRP02/07/23 08:39 PM
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I’ve been divorced before I’m not scared
/r/askMRP02/07/23 08:37 PM
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The house arrest is from the same 2 felonies
/r/askMRP02/07/23 08:36 PM
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Your correct on the MIL relationship poisoned. Whether she files or not I don’t know. She’s threatened in the past and I am not scared about it. She shows little affection to me none to my son. I am 100% focused on not breaking my house arrest
/r/askMRP02/07/23 08:36 PM
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