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I “experimented” with the girl I’m currently with for 6 months by basically dating her while not having sex, as I had some deep trauma regarding sex. She stayed loyal to me during that time and I eventually ended up dating her after I became more comfortable with the idea of sex. This isn’t the first time I’ve had to do something like this (though I should probably just see a therapist instead of wasting peoples time lol). Point is, if you communicate that on the first date or interaction, altho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:17 PM
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This question kind of hurt me to read. I’m sorry you haven’t had that experience and the world can be cruel. It feels validating. And a lot of the time they’ll tell u or ur friends that they find u cute. In terms of non verbal clues, if she stays up to talk to you on the phone that’s a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:08 PM
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I hate feeling attacked but yeah at times. Sometimes though it’s the same as when girls get abused, you just don’t know ur partner is a bad person or you just don’t know what love is supposed to look like. Maybe for the age range you seem to be describing it’s different because you probably should have learned over time. Either way, I don’t think it’s fair to victim blame for cheating regardless of if it’s a guy or a girl. Yes though, sometimes it is the options thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:52 PM
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I feel like tinder is if u only want hook ups. Hinge will get u like a date a week as a male (not matches). Considering that’s all the time I have available in a week is one day, I don’t really understand. I get that terminally online ppl have this problem, but I think it’s unlikely the average person does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:35 AM
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Yeah I have but not directly because she was nice but because she was a pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:57 PM
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It’s a party not a classroom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:02 AM
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Then don’t interact w them while ur there? Just start talking to other ppl?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:02 AM
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That sounds extremely normal I’m asking why ppl mad abt that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:02 AM
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The point of the post is female friends = increased access to pussy so I ask why ppl mad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:01 AM
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I literally feel like ur the only one here that understood the point of the post. Yeah having a female wingman is literally great especially bc girls know more girls than I do. But it just feels like a lot of people here seem to hate that and I was curious why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:59 AM
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Yeah exactly that’s why I’m saying it’s an advantage tho bc idk about you but it’s way easier to meet girls if you’re already friends with girls for me. Why do I need her to treat me better than anyone else I just need her to introduce me to her friends I can talk to and they can treat me that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:56 AM
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Yes ur misunderstanding. As long as u don’t yell in front of other ppl we are cool no one cares every couple fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:00 AM
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I really want my child to be a male. They’re going to conquer the universe one day and I think the intergalactic republic gives more diplomatic weight to males.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:44 AM
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Dude honestly I hate dating girls that have never been with other people and often I won’t date them literally for that reason. They’re not in command of the emotions they feel I know I wasn’t in my first relationship. Especially if they want to lose their virginity that feels wrong. I want to know that they have other options and they don’t just like me because I’m friendly or something. When I was in high school or maybe college that would have been fine but at a certain point I want to know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:38 AM
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Idk depends on how rich the girl is compared to me, usually they insist on splitting so im not gonna argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:55 PM
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Also thnx for letting me know what that means I’m kinda new
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:40 PM
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Yeah and I am by telling u ppl aren’t pathetic they just need u to be sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:39 PM
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I just assumed u had a real life experience bc the passion in your perceived tone and so it seemed like you might have asked someone and got angry about it when they weren’t being open minded. Plus I didn’t see anyone else talking about it like what kind of responses are you looking for exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:23 AM
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In the Bay Area 200k is kinda normal out of college or for smth u built that ur trynna sell. It’s not even just FAANG here, its the culture
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:06 PM
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Also having sex w the same other person consistently while in an open relationship I’ve seen not to work unless all parties are present.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:49 PM
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So I prefer monogamy so I see how some people might take offense when asked by their partner. I don’t think open relationships are bad but I wouldn’t get into a truly open relationship very quickly and would suggest swinging with other couples you are both good friends with! Men think of sex as a emotional connection so it might be harder to convince them that you’re not just wanting to do it bc they’re not enough but this way it’ll be fun for both of you and it’ll make him feel way more comfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:46 PM
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Personally I don’t know and I don’t mind older girls (I’m 20 ish tho so idk) but I have a friend who is 35 and she says ppl think she’s too old but she’s also in Japan so it’s a lil different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:27 PM
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That’s how I like my women like people that have their own shit going on. If I don’t respect u I’m not gonna date u bc u have a vagina ya know (with respect to education money and leadership). I could hire a surrogate to carry my child if that’s the only thing I’m looking for (with respect to being youthful). Just outsource. Plus if u can’t lead ur own life how r u gonna be able to teach a kid to lead theirs. I can only do so much alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:10 AM
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It’s a 2 income household they’ll be fine RNs can make bank
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:12 AM
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In the past it was easier bc u could murder people for their women. Idk u can still low key do that but it’s probably not the most efficient way, so we compete in aspects of law business and politics for mates and power which idk seems like a lot more fun than fighting to the death.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:55 PM
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Oh wait I didn’t read the flair my b this question is only for girls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:51 PM
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I hate girls that have no ambition. Probably comes from my poor relationship w my mother. Also makes me dislike women I see as weak. Like bro if u can’t stand up for yourself I don’t respect you point blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:47 PM
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Because scientists are underpaid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:40 PM
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I think if you’re w someone in a relationship then u should treat them like a 10 anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:36 PM
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Or regulate it and decriminalize at least
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:33 PM
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Just let prostitution be legal instead of porn so that way girls don’t have to deal with murderers or dudes w STDs or an abusive pimp. Porn is still good as a substitute bc it’s free and accessible but sex work is still shunned by society. Idk if it’s considered sex work but it seems girls are more than happy to flirt w people for u if it means they’re getting paid for it so I can’t imagine all women find sex work demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:32 PM
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Thank you lol you’re totally right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:16 PM
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And that’s not how the other person I saw using that word like in a subjective way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:24 AM
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Just bc I feel like then it would be more a subjective term
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:23 AM
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So I’m new to the sub and idk how u guys define shit but u can be high value and still not a good romantic partner according to me. Like one is status the other is romantic compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:23 AM
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Wait are you saying that high value women date people they see on their level or did u mean that’s not a potential reason they ignore red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:16 AM
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Idk I just heard the term on here sorry if I’m using it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:06 AM
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Idk women with a lot of money or on tv or go to elite schools
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:03 AM
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This makes me feel so much more confident but that’s not why I posted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:02 AM
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Yeah but if ur a Bugatti and u have access to those other cars does it matter if it’s a Ferrari or a Honda as your secondary vehicle neither one will help u go faster
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:58 AM
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Idk its a potential explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:56 AM
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That’s why I’m saying don’t make it your responsibility, but I’m also saying maybe don’t turn your back on people just bc they’re struggling life is more nuanced for such a large brush. And who knows u might make a difference in someone’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:52 PM
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I’ve had an opposite experience but I’ve been the dude who doesn’t get clean before that. I think like if you want to try to help someone with an addiction out you can but please don’t fall in love with me just so you can fix me ya know. When I met the girl I dated as I was finally getting clean I had started the quitting process before I met her. So like I think it has more to do with a case by case basis and the true intentions of the addict than it has to do with the disease of drug addiction…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:46 PM
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Oh I see wym, I was using “piece of shit” to mean like an addict. My general point is that girls will try to make you a better person if u give them the opportunity to, although it shouldn’t ultimately be their responsibility. Just care about people and they’ll care about you ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:02 PM
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Yeah ik wym but it’s important to let angry ppl know that ppl will help them if they ask (probably) regardless of whoever they are rn. So if ur a piece of shit u can become not a piece of shit one day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:54 PM
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Egh I think piece of shit is not the right word I think u mean as long as they’re a good person. Bc then they’ll try to help u be a better person at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:13 PM
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My mom was kinda violent so my first relationship was abusive in a lot of ways. My dad was never there so I didn’t know how to stand up to girls and would be avoidant. My relationship w men and women is fine, individuals may suck at times tho lol. My mom is a little negligent too but that’s bc she was raising us basically by herself so not rly her fault. I seek healthy relationships now although I am distrusting at first I can’t let my lack of trust in my parents define my life. People are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:02 PM
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Also everyone struggles with dating it’s like a human experience haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:21 PM
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Oooooh sorry yeah I didn’t know where to post this exactly I was on a couple different subs asking. What’s this sub about, and what are its values? And is it the guys who say this on the sub or the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:20 PM
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Um I don’t know she seemed uncomfortable flirting w me when she found out my age but like I’m more than a decade younger. I’m sure 30-40 should be fine for her, is that reasonable or should I tell her to try to expand it more? Thanks for the actual help now man I feel like I phrased this all in a way where people just got aggressive instantly but I’m honestly trying to help
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:57 PM
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Idk why she waited so late but she’s really regretting it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:53 PM
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Like I said from what other people have confirmed it’s different a lil in Tokyo. But I totally agree! She doesn’t know how to be in a relationship and so that’s why I’m telling her to accept u might be alone forever bc we all might be alone forever and if ur scared of heartbreak w the “wrong one” ur never gonna expand ur horizons
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:52 PM
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Not as devout at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:34 PM
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I think from what she’s told me and other people have been telling me it’s much harder for women 35+ to date in Japan and the men there are not that into it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:31 PM
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Dude that’s what me and my mom always tell her if she was on this side of the ocean she would be drowning in high value men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:30 PM
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Ur right tho idk what to call it but I get a feeling incel isn’t the right word either but like when I hear her get like racist to cope w being lonely it’s like yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:24 PM
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In her youth but as she got older she’s panicking and doesn’t care about celibacy although is having trouble meeting guys since the dating climate in Japan a lil weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:22 PM
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Ok thank you for the solid advice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:21 PM
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On god like super thin
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:19 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:19 PM
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Me and my mom tell her the same thing haha. So she wanted to wait until marriage before slowly realizing no guys wanted to wait for her as she’s religious but now she doesn’t care and is in panic mode
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:18 PM
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Yeah that’s why I didn’t put the incel shit she does
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:17 PM
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It’s also apparently different in Tokyo about dudes dating older girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:16 PM
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She has high standards and as she’s getting older she’s just worried the dating pool is shrinking too quickly and now can’t meet anyone easily
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:15 PM
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No ur answer made sense the first time it’s just like probably what she already hears a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:14 PM
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Well obviously yeah lowering her standards is an option I agree w u fundamentally I’m just saying there’s still a problem w her being lonely I should have been more nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:11 PM
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Not at all just 35 in Tokyo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:10 PM
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Nah dude it’s bc she’s Japanese so she feels like what’s holding her back is her age now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:09 PM
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I didn’t say she wasn’t also in therapy for it there’s just been issues w her insurance and idk she sounds like an incel sometimes like blaming her loneliness on not being Mexican shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:09 PM
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No this is a stupid reply because the problem is obviously she’s not ok with her current romantic life and she wants to hurt herself bc of how lonely she is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:06 PM
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You can try to date more dominant women. Rich women and girls who are like models already kinda know most guys are not going to fit their original definition of what they want anyways. You can also try to date girls that can help you with your goals. You should still initiate people are sometimes just too shy or guarded to do it themselves regardless of who they are. And making plans is something you should be doing because even when u hit ur homies up u have an idea as to what you guys are doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:56 AM
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Also none of these things are boyfriend/Husband things. It’s bc ur taller or u have knowledge of appliances or if ur helping them move idk a lot of people help their friends move. As for spiders she probably just thinks you’re braver than her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:33 AM
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You wouldn’t help ur friends w their errands? Idk sometimes I hit up my friends before I go to the grocery store. Trust me they’ll help you when u need it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:28 AM
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