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No_Zone_911/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 06:08 PM
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The title says it all. Unless you’ve been through it, you can’t understand. And people don’t try to understand. And then people use it as some kind of ammunition against you when you just happened to rub them the wrong way or something. Employers are quick to cut and run. Friends are quick to cut and run. You aren’t really alone, but for a while you feel alone. But there’s a zillion other guys out there just quietly dealing with the same hand you were dealt. And eventually the grief fades. And t…
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 02:26 AM
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Sounds more like an issue with your religion than with marriage. It also sounds like you understand all of the risks. It seems like maybe you’re hoping to talk yourself into it so you can get laid. I believe you should address that issue issue first. I’m not trashing your religion btw. But you want someone “to lay with” and your religion tells you that you must make a bonding financial and legal agreement in order to do it. Why is that ? Maybe the rules of your religion were written long ago bef…
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 02:57 PM
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If the divorce is already on, then realize that she’s no longer the person you used to love, give no ground, absolutely do not move out of your house until a judge, orders it, and also realize that there’s probably another man present. Maybe not physical cheating but at least somebody at work with an emotional affair. Think about the following analogy. If you had a 5 mile walk to work every morning, regardless of the weather, you had to walk it. If someone gave you an old hoopdie beater car, it …
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 04:48 AM
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Seriously though you should lawyer up immediately. You will ultimately lose so you should give no ground and protect yourself as soon as possible. She will split or more than split your combined assets. She will also have you on the hook for alimony for some period of time. The absolute best thing you could do would be to retire and make your yearly income go to basically nothing for a couple years so she’s higher. Retain your ability to do whatever it is that you do. this will reduce your alimo…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 04:44 AM
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You should hire a male escort to “bump” into her, seduce her, and then catch her cheating to avoid alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 04:42 AM
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Less than 6’, even if close which I’m not at 5’10. Bar pickups are abysmal because there’s so many people bigger than me. Apps are hit or miss. I’ve banged a few smoke shows off the apps but most of them are ruined serial daters and I quickly got off of them. Kinda made me feel a bit nervous until I realized the ugliest chick I ever dated was 2 notches higher than the hottest of any of my taller friends and coworkers girls. I agree it’s all about the charisma and overall package. But initial pic…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 11:35 PM
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It's true
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 03:31 AM
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Just remember if any of the bad thoughts come into your head just repress it and type something uplifting and politically correct.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 03:21 AM
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Wtf did I just read
/r/askMRP30/11/23 05:43 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 01:13 PM
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Sounds like she may be a keeper. there's nothing wrong with being exclusive with a woman. Shit you can even love them. You just always have to maintain your frame. It goes to hard mode once your exclusive. I did it for a decade and a half and it finally blew up. I've never met a woman who didn't have at least one backup orbiter in play btw. Maybe your frame is so strong that she is not having sex with him. Even though she knows you are out there on your grind. I'll bet not though. Good luck man.
/r/newTRP20/09/22 12:56 AM
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Here's the problem... You want to promote the relationship. You want to make her your exclusive LTR. You want to apply dread so she wants that too. Instead, she's happy with being your friend with benefits. As you progress In your acceptance of the red pill, you'll see that your situation is actually the ideal situation. She's not pushing you for exclusivity. Unfortunately you have oneitis. There's no shame in it because it's happened to all of us. However, you have to recognize it. This is why …
/r/newTRP19/09/22 11:40 PM
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Set boundaries for yourself. Stop being lame and sending messages on your app. You don't actually need to contact her. Get back on the horse with your day to day activities as soon as possible. Act differently to create a different outcome. Accept the reality that she's gone and never coming back. With time, you will begin to realize that it's for the best. It will get easier.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/22 08:24 PM
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This is your toxic inner shame and self doubt telling you that you aren't good enough. Tell it to shut the fuck up.
/r/newTRP15/09/22 05:48 PM
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I used to have the same feelings, although I'm younger than you. Don't feel bad for her. She will actually move on faster than you. She already knows who she will start seeing if you are out of the picture. ALL women have a backup plan. Even if they aren't exercising it. You'll be surprised how quickly she moves on. This will sound wild but she will probably get laid in less than 2 weeks after y'all separate. She will be fine. Think about yourself. But let me warn you. She will quickly move on a…
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 03:47 PM
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Go on seeking and get an escort. Lose your v card and realize it's not that big of a deal. Your life will probably get a lot better.
/r/newTRP08/09/22 02:40 PM
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I'm going to try to answer your question. But first..plates don't come with you on dates or trips. That means this girl is not your plate. She's either a friend with benefits or f*** buddy or God help you... She's an LTR. In general, I don't solo bring girls to strip clubs. I vote no on this. I rarely go to them myself because it's expensive dick rug burn. But that's just me. If you want to bang an escort.. do so. If I was trying to turn my ltr into a bisexual then I'd start with her brain. Ask …
/r/newTRP04/09/22 09:38 PM
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Don't overthink it. I actually really enjoy this stage with women. Overall I've found that if I can secure a date with a woman, particularly with some physical contact, that basically my close rate is 100 percent after that with the following routine: Let her reach out first. When she does, set the next date (Corey Wayne). It may make you nervous but, they will always reach out eventually (at least once). They can't help themselves. The key is, when they do, be ready to schedule the next date an…
/r/newTRP31/08/22 11:53 AM
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This can be easily rectified... But it has to be done within your own brain. You have oneitis for this girl. Just go ahead and admit it to yourself. She doesn't respect you and right now you are her plate. You know she's going to pull some s*** on you soon. Start working on your pickups and attraction. Start having times when you're unavailable. Start pulling back a little bit. Don't completely throw her out, keep her as a backup to keep you on track while you're picking up new chicks. But you n…
/r/newTRP29/08/22 05:41 PM
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I swear sometimes I feel like you guys are trolling us with these posts. Let me summarize: you have oneitis for a chick twice your age and somehow you already had the talk about exclusivity after "you pleasured her" but didn't even penetrate. 🤦‍♂️
/r/newTRP26/08/22 08:14 PM
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This was all true in my case. Didn't find out till months later of course.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 09:28 AM
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Gentlemen, thank you for your responses and advice.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 09:24 AM
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Bro please read my post I made today because you are me but like 6 months behind me.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 07:12 PM
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So there's more to the story. We had refinanced some student loans along the way to achieve a better interest rate. She made a play early on to say that because I had "forced her to refinance her loans" during our marriage that I was on the hook to pay them. She wanted the monthly payment (2k) on the loan for the life of the loan (15 years) as alimony. I of course do not think it was a bad move financially nor did I force her. We were going back and forth on years.. 3 years. 10 years. 5 years. E…
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 06:48 PM
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You make a good point in retrospect... But when I was in it I was just trying to earn and build... Run the rat race. I didn't get it. I did discuss that with thelawyer, but once it was in motion it was too late.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 06:26 PM
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You already fucked her so now this gets easy. Never reach out first. When she reaches out say "hey it's great to hear from you. I'd love to see you. When are you free this week." (Corey Wayne). Set up an ironclad date with a time and place. Make sure the date is just the two of you, at night, and starts somewhere where you can get a drink. once date is scheduled Say "great I'll see you then". Drop off. Stop texting and simping for validation. Some possibilities: 1. She never reaches out. This me…
/r/newTRP20/08/22 03:13 AM
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If you are anything like me.. everyone will tell you moves to make, like don't move out of the house, get a lawyer, stop texting with her, don't offer any money to start with, etc. And if you are like me. You will want to "be reasonable" so you'll dick around and ignore that advice. Move out the house, wait weeks to lawyer up because "mediation", have long text battles with each other, etc. Don't be like me Edit: Because doing all that shit bites you in the ass. Your sweet princess who loved you…
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 04:25 PM
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😂
/r/newTRP06/08/22 03:41 PM
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All of us have dealt with this. There's a few concepts and you gotta internalize all of them. It boils down to "why do you care". So Tyrone and Chad are tag team fucking her in the ass tonight. This only matters to you because secretly you want her back. If you take her back sometime in the future after that then she's been defiled and her value is decreased. Your value is also decreased because your girl lets herself get fucked in the ass by Tyrone and then you still accept her. You love her an…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/22 03:56 PM
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This may be too old to be relevant, but this spoke to me so here's my commentary. Stay the f*** out of it. It's your parents relationship. You're going to be an adult soon. You have your own interest, obviously you're interested in sports and you need to focus on yourself and on your interest. Parents relationship is not your responsibility. It's actually your dad's responsibility to make the choice of whether or not he's going to divorce his wife or not. To be honest, of course your mother is w…
/r/newTRP15/07/22 12:08 AM
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