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Just follow rules 1 & 2. Dating apps only reward superficial attractiveness. They’re a downer for probably 75% of men.
/r/RPChristians09/02/26 12:31 AM
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… a woman who says she’s only made it to 3rd base.
/r/RPChristians25/12/25 03:43 PM
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One way to ruin a future marriage is to tell your future husband “you don’t do that any more” once you’re married.
/r/RPChristians07/12/25 10:51 PM
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I figure God can do whatever he pleases. Why is their view of God limiting?
/r/RPChristians24/11/25 06:58 PM
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The first year of marriage is all about setting expectations. My advice: fail early and fail often. Her expectations will be so low that you will be able to delight her later on without even trying. /s
/r/RPChristians08/09/25 12:45 PM
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Apple picking. Spending IRL time with your family is a fleeting privilege. NFL (and I love football) are a bunch of millionaires playing a kids game. It’s not real life. I’m not saying let your wife lead you around by the nuts every Sunday, but being a present husband and father is way more important to you and your family than begging out in front of the tv for 3 hours.
/r/askMRP07/09/25 06:45 PM
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Two people can work through a lot of marital problems if they are aligned on values. Being unrepentant of egregious past sin is a huge red flag to say that she doesn’t share your same values, despite what she says.
/r/RPChristians25/03/25 02:05 PM
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This sounds like someone who has never been a man having an argument with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:18 PM
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This is a straw man argument. Who says that men think “conventionally unattractive” women have it EASY when it comes to dating? I think most men would agree that fat, ugly women are not going to be drowning in options. It’s just that they HAVE options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:47 AM
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Maybe it’s because of my age, but escorts seem like a good option for older married guys in dead bedrooms. You love your wife, but she has zero interest in sex. A monthly visit to see a girl could be the difference between marriage and divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:01 PM
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I’m not clear on your argument. Which are you saying: - Women have an advantage over men. This is because they can perform sex work. - When it comes to performing sex work, women have an advantage. I’d say the first option is not true. Having the option to sell your body for sex isn’t much of an advantage. And the second point is irrelevant because so few men WANT to engage in sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:41 PM
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🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:35 AM
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You know how many women don’t even bother with BJs? Especially not to completion. And that percentage goes WAY up when you’re talking about married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:20 PM
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Guys will fuck a tree stump. Women want men to have some archetype of social status, protector, provider, etc. It’s hard to be any of those with mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:25 AM
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Only old harpies actually say that. I think we can all agree that younger women are GENERALLY hotter than older women. It’s not even debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:44 PM
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Absolutely. I have never once in 45 years had an explicit discussion with a guy about a sexual conquest. My wife says she knows all kinds of stuff about even her most goody-two shoes friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:41 PM
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I’d agree that they are both bad. But I’d be a pathetic mess if I used porn as much as my wife uses social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:48 PM
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I agree with OP. Don’t get jacked and rich to get girls. Do it to make yourself the kind of guy you admire and want to be. The women will come. Also, don’t get jacked and flaunt wealth (real or fake) and then complain about women. If you’re taking the path to get the shittiest kind of shallow women, then of course it’s going to be hard to find a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:30 PM
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I think that’s a very immature view of RP. TRP is about having fulfilling and satisfying relationships based on an understanding of M/F dynamics. It’s a fact that a deep and mature relationship is going to involve long term commitment. Guys who do a good job finding feminine and complementary women can set themselves up for a lifetime of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:00 PM
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This is very well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:54 PM
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Yes. Unfortunately. Many women have responsive desire in most situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:17 PM
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I’m happily married and only have sex with my wife. My odds of a “hookup” go to about 100% if we’re both drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:57 PM
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I think it ends with the majority of white collar jobs being held by unmarried women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:25 PM
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Yo dawg. I heard you like dick, so I put a dick on yo girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:29 AM
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lol. 1000% a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:57 PM
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It’s almost like the sexual liberation and the erosion of societal norms is having the exact outcome that naysayers predicted it would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:30 PM
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Why not both? This is Reddit. Everyone is short, unattractive, and autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:16 PM
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What else would you add?
/r/RPChristians06/05/23 10:14 PM
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It seems like you’ve got a good handle on the thought process. I agree with everything you said.
/r/RPChristians22/02/23 10:48 AM
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Then just rip off the bandaid. Sorry you’re dealing with this. The only thing you can do is move on and improve yourself. I agree with the other comments that you need a major attitude adjustment. Channel that hurt into active rage and determination instead of fatalistic self-pity.
/r/askMRP19/02/23 03:09 AM
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$1M is worth about $35k / yr for the rest of your life. That’s not enough money. I’d do it for $5M.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:19 PM
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How does this. It's assumed everyone doesn't meet anyone else after the first date and especially after sex. The women expect guys to travel internationally to meet for a dinner date and meet no one else. Mesh with this: In the past 6 years I've been on around 300 dates and have had sex with 90 SEA women give or take, How do you navigate this? Are you up front with the women regarding what you’re looking for, or do you just “dine & dash”? Also: For goodness sake filter out ladyboys or you can ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:04 PM
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OP - I would LOVE to see before & after pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:24 PM
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Not when a wife is happy to simply not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:49 AM
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Men don’t speak to women in person because women are just as awkward and send clear signals that they don’t want to be spoken to IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:20 PM
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You have to have muscles under the fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:23 PM
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Those guys are beasts. Anyone who calls those dad bods is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:20 PM
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Sure. And ALL women aren’t shorter than ALL men. But we can confidently say that men are taller than women because they strongly trend in that direction. Same thing goes here. Just because YOU would rather be alone doesn’t mean that the trend isn’t for women to settle for their average husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:17 PM
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The “next big thing” is going to be the push for legalization and normalization of pedeastry. The gay rights movement has cemented the idea that sexual orientation in in-born. And the trans movement is giving little children the ability to make life-altering choices about their physical gender & sexual preferences. It’s only natural that these two would come together and say that certain men are born with a natural affinity for young boys, and that the young boys should be allowed to choose for …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:29 PM
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I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:53 PM
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That’s like saying men who prefer to lease a new car are trading their old beater for a separate set of problems. OK? At least the new car has a tight rear end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:29 PM
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If it matter to YOU then it matters. It’s no one else’s right to say that you are wrong for caring or not caring about N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:56 PM
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You’re pursuing pleasure without any thought of happiness. That new relationship energy is awesome, but it’s just a fleeting feeling. It’s not “real” and isn’t the basis for long term contentment and happiness. I’m not trying to say that you have to be married to be happy. Just define what you want out of life and try to separate short-term dopamine hits from real lasting contentment.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/22 08:36 PM
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I think people tend to see the positives in their current partner while focusing on the negatives of their ex. It’s human nature. This leads to an “over-reporting” of past toxic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:09 AM
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Nah, but I’d make enough to afford a nanny. Personally, I know I’d be a terrible SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:41 PM
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I never heard of him either until my son told me about him a few weeks ago. Every teenager knows who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:11 AM
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Plenty of poor people are getting pregnant every day. I don’t buy the “economic factors”’ argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:36 AM
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I’m happily married and have friends, but I’m 100% happy by myself, and especially with distractions like Reddit and YouTube. My wife, on the other hand, is constantly in contact with other women all day long. She’s always chatting with someone by text, phone, or IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:35 AM
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p*rn This is a safe space. You can say the P word
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:24 PM
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That’s the thing though. They won’t. At least not the kind of women who are worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:24 PM
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Porn & social media. Guys see all these over the top representations of men and women online and assume that they don’t measure up. They don’t have the six pack and 9” dong like the guy in the video, so their confidence takes a hit. It was already hard enough trying to overcome young man awkwardness to talk to a girl. How much harder is it when the internet has convinced you that you’re a loser, while at the same time given you an endless supply of fake dopamine generators (porn, games, etc) tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:48 PM
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Those aren’t my original ideas. You should read The Accidental Superpower and other books by Peter Zeihan. England has been invaded 73 times. There are lots of people still alive who remember when it would have been 74 if not for the Americans and Russians. USSR is a dying country with an economy the size of New York State. It’s economy is totally dependent on the export price of oil, and oil will eventually go way down due to lessening demand and increased American energy production. US exports…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:50 PM
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Yea. And UK fell prey to geopolitical forces. That same geopolitical framework is exactly what is going to keep America where it is. we have zero external military threats. we are energy independent thanks to shale. Rising wages and increased manufacturing sophistication (e.g. highly customized additive manufacturing) is pushing manufacturing jobs back to America. America is the largest consumer market in the world. By a mile. every industrialized nation has a baby boomer population bubble that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:26 PM
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Barring some catastrophic internal civil war, the US will continue to be the dominant cultural, economic, and military power for at least another 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:12 PM
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So because you don’t have written record of prehistoric marriages, you assume they didn’t happen? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:10 PM
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I’m pretty conservative, and I think we’re going to hell in a hand basket, but I think we can just look to modern Islamic cultures to counter all of these assertions. They have strong enforced monogamy and chastity, yet are nowhere near the most flourishing culture in terms of any measure given here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:07 PM
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Yway man. Your prospects are great. Don’t sweat it.
/r/RPChristians16/06/22 02:17 AM
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Make a Tinder/ Bumble / etc profile, don’t include your kids in the photos, and watch the matches flow in. Seriously, if you’re fit, tall, and mildly interesting, then the deck is stacked in your favor. What’s your alimony. Hold support situation look like? $200 goes quick if you’re supporting two households.
/r/RPChristians15/06/22 08:48 PM
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Aka - met a hot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:11 PM
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I think that 80% of my marriage’s success is based on the fact that my wife and I have very similar backgrounds, beliefs, world view, goals, etc. That commonality is going to be hard to build with someone from a totally different culture. Not saying it can’t be done, but it will be harder.
/r/RPChristians28/05/22 07:03 PM
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That’s not the Murph, or at least I’ve never seen it with crunches.
/r/askMRP26/05/22 06:51 PM
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It does address these issues. It says you’ll need to stop complaining and work harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:52 PM
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In other news: Water is Wet
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 01:47 PM
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Sales guys and youth pastors pull smoking hot wives. Common thread? Extroverts who know how to engage people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:43 PM
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My first job out of college was in sales, and the first thing I noticed was that all these dork senior salesmen had really hot wives. Every one of them was “out-kicking their coverage”. After working a while, I realized the main mental hurdle of a salesman is hearing the word “no” and not letting it deter him. These guys took the same attitude with women, and it paid off for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:15 PM
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This organization strongly disagrees with your opinion. https://aaml.org
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:41 PM
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A higher earning male takes on ALL of the risk in a marriage, with no upside. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negative_freeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:39 PM
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What other reasons are there? “Conflict / Irreconcilable Differences” means anything you want it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:36 PM
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I joined online dating for the first time yesterday… I had so many men about 300 now …. Good luck fellas LOL. This basically sums up OLD for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:05 AM
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My wife? Yes. Of course. A girlfriend? Nah. Her parents can take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:33 PM
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This. Men take such a HUGE risk when supporting a SAHM. People don’t appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:52 AM
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My SAHM wife & mother of 4 is the least lazy person I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:50 AM
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Seriously. He described a guy who has practical industrial and artistic abilities, and another with a passion for snow skiing. Most girls I know are into social media and cute outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:55 PM
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Or she doesn’t think you’re into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:46 AM
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Personally, I’d add overhead press & pullups.
/r/askMRP08/04/22 02:08 AM
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6 am class.
/r/askMRP08/04/22 02:07 AM
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Yeah. This is a strawman argument. People aren’t “teaching” this to their kids. If anything, it’s Disney-esque princess stories that are telling girls they need a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:30 PM
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Right or wrong, a dad could laugh off his son joining the navy and visiting a hooker in port. He would be completely shamed if his daughter was working as a hooker down at the port. Just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:57 PM
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As a modern society, we’re in a constant rush to throw off all traditional societal norms. What if we get to the end of the road and realize that those traditional values were just incredibly hard-won wisdom codified? When 99% of the planet’s cultures historically place an extremely high value on “traditional” marriage principles, maybe we should have a little humility and assume that there is some wisdom there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:47 PM
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One of my wife's brothers fits this demographic. The only exception being that he comes from a great family and is a hard working and responsible dude. I assume he has aspergers, but he was never tested / treated for it as a kid. Anyway, he's ugly, and dumb as a brick, but he was able to get a steady above-minimum wage job because of a family hookup. He never had a girlfriend in his life until this big land whale came along and sunk her claws into him. He was married in 6 months and she moved ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:16 PM
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Culture has always said that men were scoundrels and sexual predators. The veil that TRP lifts is the lie that women are chaste and are just looking for “a good man”. It reconciles the differences between what women say and how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:55 AM
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My wife was a full time SAHM mom of 4 for about 12 years and it was great for our family. She started working 1/4 time when the little guy started school, and is now doing about 30 hrs / week.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 10:45 PM
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Go to /r/personalfinance and read The wiki top to bottom. It has good info and a list of books. I recommend this one for anyone starting from square one. I Will Teach You to Be Rich, Second Edition: No Guilt. No Excuses. No BS. Just a 6-Week Program That Works https://www.amazon.com/dp/1523505745/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_Z2GN442TFAZB4GRRBPK1
/r/RedPillBooks11/02/22 09:37 PM
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/r/adultery
/r/askMRP03/02/22 12:19 AM
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Honestly, I think yes. Take my perspective a grain of salt because I’m 45 and married at 25, but my wife has several friends who didn’t, and now their sitting at 45 and single. They’re all decently attractive, employed, and cool, but they just somehow missed the boat. I don’t get it. The weird thing is that all the quality single people we know are women. I have a lot of sharp guy friends, but they’re all married. On the other hand, my single guy friends are all people that I probably wouldn’t d…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 06:28 PM
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It’s not obvious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:42 AM
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Her talking about it so nonchalantly makes it sound like she's not as repentant as you make her out to be. I don't know. It just seems like there would be at least some amount of shame if she really believed that her past actions were sinful. That said, your only road ahead is grace and forgiveness. Pray that you'll be able to give both. Also, talking to a Christian marriage counselor about this could help you work through the issue. I'm sure its super common.
/r/RPChristians16/12/21 04:32 AM
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You need to read No More Mr Nice Guy and look for anything you can find that talks about covert contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:42 PM
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I know, which is why it’s weird. I promise these women don’t fit any of the stereotypes people are harping on in these replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:21 AM
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My wife has 3 close single friends who are attractive, non-feminist, and nice mid-40s women. They just never found anyone. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:39 AM
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Great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:25 AM
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More power to them, but the image of bi and gay guys is that they are raging sluts. And why wouldn’t they be? But it doesn’t help their case with most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:13 PM
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Not if you’re active in a church. Otherwise, probably
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 02:45 AM
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Prostitute. 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:39 PM
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Dance, tall monkey, dance. Fuck off, short monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:02 PM
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Lift weights.
/r/RPChristians02/10/21 04:37 PM
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Small world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:01 AM
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You know OP’s girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:28 PM
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They were all unicorns at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:28 PM
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>dividing assets by 2 and using your state’s standard maintenance and child support payment calculators should not ruin you. That is true if: Wife has similar income as you You are young with relatively low net worth and plenty of time to recoup your losses. You don't have a lot of minor kids. You have F-You money and could absorb the hit. Four minor children and a stay-at-home wife of almost 20 years. I'm well on my way to a comfortable retirement at 62, but a divorce at this point in my life w…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 01:45 PM
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Some times people are just dicks. I wouldn’t take it as representative of an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:13 AM
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I met my wife this way. Although that was before Tinder, so take that for what it’s worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:01 PM
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I’d definitely let her go. Worst case scenario the friend is just pretense for a rendezvous with a long term affair partner. If that’s the case, it’s not like you whining about is going to make her break it off.
/r/askMRP21/09/21 08:29 PM
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Broke-ass MF’s have been getting laid since the dawn of time and still are. Guys just aren’t interacting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:58 PM
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Can confirm. Shy kid who had a couple of hookups at church / church camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:53 PM
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I had a fraternity brother who was 6’4”, blonde, muscular, , handsome, and had a great personality. It was embarrassing what girls would do to get with him. One example: Our college was playing football against a school that a lot of my high school friends attended, so I had some hometown friends staying in my room in the fraternity house. This girl that I’d gone to church with my entire life was like “OMG! I want to suck his dick!” And she eventually did. There were lots of other incidents like…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:53 PM
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That time in Vegas doesn’t count. And neither does that time after Susan’s wedding because we were both drunk. And I totally regret the Harley guy, so I’m not counting that one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:16 PM
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Validation. Everyone, whether they admit it or not, wants to be wanted.
/r/RedPillWives08/09/21 06:42 PM
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Most of these faggot comments seem like they come from guys play-acting how they think “real men” talk and act, but I suspect these people have never had real men in their lives to model off of. This sub wasn’t like this 6-7 years ago when I first stumbled across it. There were standards (e.g. read the side bar!), accountability, and “tough love”, but not the autistic knee-jerk and low effort “faggot pussy” comments posts are flooded with today. Just look at your own life experiences. I bet you …
/r/askMRP08/09/21 12:15 PM
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Your body, your choice. My money, my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:06 PM
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Totally natural. You need to find a good woman, marry her, and start knocking boots.
/r/RPChristians26/08/21 12:45 PM
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¿Porque no los dos?
/r/RPChristians26/08/21 12:43 PM
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People keep talking about attractiveness, but that’s a cop-out. Everyone knows that confidence and humor are attractive qualities, but how is a woman supposed to know you are confident of funny if you don’t go up and talk to her? Get off your phone and shoot your shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:37 PM
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For years
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:20 PM
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You fucked up, man. Now you’ll be paying for it for at least 18 years.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/21 08:26 PM
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I’ll happily hold my wife down and give it to her rough. It’d be hard no from me even if she sincerely asked me to actually hurt her. That wouldn’t be fun for me at all.
/r/RPChristians29/07/21 07:31 PM
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Meh. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 04:18 PM
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you need to say you were talking to your boyfriend. This guy sounds like an insecure dork. I wouldn’t sweat this at all. It’s a non-issue.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 11:15 AM
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How about: “get some Viagra, have sex a few times. Forget about your problem. move on with your life”. That’s the easiest thing to try. Sometimes you get trapped in your own head and just need a kickstart to get you back on the right track.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 09:57 PM
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They are definitely much worse ways to go out.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 12:35 AM
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Yes. When we were dating, I’d joke around and say I wanted 5 just so I could negotiate back down to 4.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 08:26 PM
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I'm a father of 4 married to an awesome SAHM who isn't a reddit user, so I'll take the liberty to answer for her. i hope it's OK. Did you use to work? If so, why did you leave?- Yes. My wife worked full time at a hospital until our first child was born. She dropped down to part time until number two arrived. Her job wanted her to work at least 20 hours to stay on the schedule, and this eventually got to be a problem, so she just quit. She would have quit regardless for the 3rd kid because child …
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 04:19 PM
2

I’ve never choked a woman, but I’ve choked, and been choked by, a shit-ton of guys in Brazilian jiu jitsu / mma context, and it’s totally fine. Not my kink, but I don’t think it’s near the danger you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:14 PM
0

You just summarized intersectionality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:05 PM
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So we all take LSD and shrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:59 PM
2

What our government does to correct for a shortfall of new young laborers remains to be seen Does it? Immigration will fill the labor hole. We’ll just import South American and African workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:58 PM
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A spouse shouldn’t be able to start sleeping with someone else and then take half of their spouse’s net worth. It sets up a profit motive for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:55 PM
2

I was with you until Stop choking women during sex, that's dangerous. Is it? And are guys choking women who don’t WANT to be choked? I’ve never heard this complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:42 PM
1

Dating, sex, and child rearing are the foundation of any society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:37 PM
3

Hey, don’t kink shame
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:17 PM
1

If he’s 20, he should be working to build skills for a career. A guy at that age working 6 days / week in a dead-end job would be a yellow flag to me unless he has a trade, degree, etc or is actively working toward some business goal.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 04:06 PM
4

A lot of what you shared closely mirrored my own experience and thoughts. However, you shared it with much more wisdom and eloquence than I’d ever be able to manage.
/r/RPChristians12/07/21 08:36 AM
-4

It’s not like he can actually DO much for you while you’re pregnant.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/21 01:43 AM
1

You do understand the people who want to legalize prostitution here are not the same ones who are against men going to them right? This is a false statement. Look into the Nordic model that people tout. It’s basically exactly what OP is describing where the women are legalized, but the Johns are still criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:48 AM
4

Calloused hands? God loves a working man. Nothing is grosser to me than shaking hands with a guy who has soft feminine hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:18 PM
3

I try to tell people all the time how cheap food and ag products are in relative historical terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:41 PM
3

I don’t know about the stat that was quoted, but I buy the premise. I work for a large Fortune 500 multi-billion dollar consumer products company. The consumer we sell to is most definitely a woman. Even when it’s a men’s product, it’s women who are buying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:37 PM
1

It happens, but I know a LOT of stay at home moms. I know zero stay at home dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:04 PM
2

If you’re both bringing equal assets and income to the relationship, then there is little reason NOT to get married. Any divorce would split things down the middle and you’d go your separate ways. It’s when the income of one spouse is much higher than the others that the possibility of “divorce rape” starts to creep in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:02 PM
1

I have 4 kids, and I honestly don’t remember pregnancy really ever being a barrier for sex. I was kind of weirded out by it at first, but I got over that pretty quickly.
/r/RPChristians10/06/21 12:21 PM
2

Would it be great if all women (and men) were honest? Of course. But this is /r/redpillChristians, and the red pill side of that name says to multiply any n count number a girl gives you by some value > 1. If you’re the type of guy who will walk away from a woman with a high n-count, then the girl will know it and will have every incentive to lie.
/r/RPChristians30/05/21 11:36 PM
0

Are you prepared to walk away if she says she isn’t a virgin? What if she says her “n count” is 1? What if she says it’s 1, but it’s really 3? If a girl you’re dating is a virgin, then that will obviously come out in conversation. If she isn’t, then it may be best to not know the details.
/r/RPChristians30/05/21 09:30 PM
-10

Has she dated a lot of guys? Do you have any strong reason to think she isn’t a virgin? If not, I’d just ask her and then trust whatever she says is true. Or better yet, don’t ask - that way she isn’t put in a position where she feels compelled to possibly start her marriage off with a lie.
/r/RPChristians30/05/21 10:46 AM
2

Focus on Jesus. The same Jesus is the savior of both the powerful Roman centurion and to the Eunich. Same to the king and the slave, same to the rich noble and to the lowly prostitute. Your ”manliness”, at whatever level you think it is or would like it to be, is inconsequential to Him. Get right with Jesus as your savior and then worry about everything else. When you are ready to worry about other stuff, I’d follow the basic advice of lifting weights and trying to make male connections. One of …
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 05:21 PM
2

Roman Catholic.
/r/RPChristians06/05/21 04:14 PM
1

I use muscles every day. I think it’s sad that most people don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:07 PM
3

Which is very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:19 PM
1

You’d be correct if we assumed marriages are evenly distributed through the population. But they aren’t. By definition, only people who want committed relationships get married. Fewer marriages means fewer committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:39 PM
3

You’re wrong.
/r/askMRP18/03/21 04:52 AM
9

You may be horrified to find out the shit your father has done to your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:37 AM
8

The rate of divorces went down because the relative number of marriages went down. Fewer people are entering into committed relationships. This backs up the other guy’s point, not your’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:30 AM
8

If you’re a practicing Christian, then sexual fornication is a sin. The only reason to get married is so you can “fornicate” with your wife without judgement. If you’re asexual or extremely stoic, then even Paul says it’s better to stay single.
/r/RPChristians01/03/21 02:35 AM
1

Nope. Neither of us were virgins when we met, but we’d both only had awkward teenage sex. Despite what I thought at the time, I was pretty clueless about sex.
/r/RPChristians01/03/21 12:18 AM
4

Part of the joy of marriage is figuring all that stuff out WITH your wife. I’ve been married 20 years and we’re still growing and exploring in the bedroom.
/r/RPChristians28/02/21 06:11 PM
12

A waitress at Hooters called me “cute” once.
/r/askMRP27/02/21 07:30 PM
2

As a pastor, job one is obviously to bring people to Jesus and then to see their faith mature. How does any of this stuff you’ve listed support those two goals? My recommendation would be to have a small group of guys that you can “life on life” mentor. Teach them the truths about the Bible, challenge them and keep them accountable in their prayer and bible study. After that, just be a positive male role model. Let them find the RP truths by watching you be awesome and wanting the same for thems…
/r/RPChristians27/02/21 01:26 AM
1

Yes. But, honestly, I never got to the point of “dating” a girl with an objectively high N count, so it was never a factor.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/21 04:52 PM
1

That’s not a shit test.
/r/askMRP25/02/21 02:54 AM
2

Much more likely that You strained an intercostal muscle than “broke a rib”. They take a while to heal. Probably 3-4 weeks. Also, what are you lifting on? If you have spotter arms on your rack, then you can just set them to catch the weight if you fail dramatically.
/r/askMRP25/02/21 02:54 AM
3

Pop culture loves to make men, especially fathers, the bumbling goons that everyone can laugh at. Al Bundy, Homer Simpson, Peter Griffin, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:26 AM
3

No way. I think it was Chris Rock who said a father’s #1 job is to keep his daughter off the pole. He was talking about being a stripper, but same difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:56 PM
4

Girls don’t typically “settle” at 20. The whole “beta bucks” thing is about women locking in a guy who they aren’t so physically attracted to, but who will be a high earner / good provider. How much could you offer at 20 that would entice a woman to do that? Is your family wealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:40 AM
2

You’re on rpCHRISTIAN, so you can’t skip the advice to get into a church. Like the other commenter said, find a good Bible-believing church and start participating - even if it’s just online stuff for now. Forget about a woman, you need a church to help yourself grow in your faith. The added benefit for you would be that most churches have singles groups, or at least a couple dozen young married women with single friends.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 08:29 PM
1

Are you actively involved in a church? I’d start there, if not. I feel like I know of lots of attractive good Christian women who are in a similar situation as yourself.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 02:00 PM
4

Assuming they’ve got the same level of contact with a guy, a hard working 9 with a plumber dad is going to have a better chance than an entitled 6 with a rich daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:52 AM
2

[a]A wife of noble character(A) who can find?(B) She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband(C) has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.(D) 12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.(E) 14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. 15 She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. 16 She considers a field and buys it; out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:49 AM
1

You can be pro birth control AND pro-life. I don’t see the dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:43 PM
1

Sure. If women have the right to demand child support. Either the kid is 50% his responsibility or it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:55 PM
1

I’d say I have about as many friends as my wife (maybe), but we aren’t involved in the details of each others’ lives to the same degree. My wife has hundreds of text messages per day. I have maybe 10 tops. Half are from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:42 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:26 PM
4

Not at all. They hit on girls, but the girls make it very clearly known that they want to be hit on. Or the girls are just down right predators. I had some high school friends spending the weekend with me once in college, and this girl that I’d been friends with since we were 5 decided she wanted one of my Chad fraternity brothers. The shit she said and did was shocking. “OMG. I want to suck his dick Sooo bad.” She ultimately won and I didn’t see her again the rest of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:56 AM
1

You could turn that around and say that people with your view are too weak and lazy to put the work in to try to improve themselves and salvage their marriages.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 05:40 PM
10

I feel like this is a troll post. Assuming it’s not, I’d start with online dating and say you’re committed to saving yourself for marriage and would like to find someone with the same goal. That’s way better than asking some girl “are you a virgin?” In the middle of some Starbucks date.
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 04:58 PM
4

Come on, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:55 AM
53

A man who doesn’t want to commit isn’t an adult. A woman who doesn’t want to commit is a strong, independent female
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:43 PM
1

Not a lot of mentions of money. We all know that no good woman is marring a broke ass guy, even if he has all the other qualities nailed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:29 PM
3

If you have 3 women talking, and one is complaining / venting about something like this, the other two will generally agree and sympathize with her. To an outside observer like OP, it looks like all three women have the same problem or feel the same way. When in reality, the other two may not actually feel the same way. TL/DR - Even within a single conversation like OP observed, people can have wildly different opinions and experiences that would not be obvious to OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:16 PM
1

And women tend to agree and sympathize with whatever their girlfriend is complaining about. At least to their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 03:41 PM
1

The guy is paying child support to like 6 or 8 different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 03:40 PM
1

To add some anecdotal support to this statement, my dad was divorced 3 times and my mom divorced 2. So between the two of them, they had 5 separate marriages. Only one (my dad’s most recent) hasn’t ended in divorce. So, for them, 4 out of 5 end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 03:39 AM
1

Just and FYI that the idea that we live longer than our ancestors is mostly a myth. So there hasn’t really ever been a time in recorded history, outside of war or other disaster, when people were “lucky to see 40”. Life expectancy is an average. If you have two children, and one dies before their first birthday but the other lives to the age of 70, their average life expectancy is 35. Lots of people died in childhood, which brings down the average, but then they generally lived just as long as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 03:34 AM
3

It sounds like she ADMITED to sexting. You generally only see the tip of the iceberg. You should just assume that she did physically cheat on you. She could be sleeping with some guy inside YOUR home right now for all you know.
/r/RPChristians12/01/21 02:12 PM
1

You absolutely do not need to be on a caloric surplus to see noob gains lifting. Eat at maintenance or slightly below making sure to hit your protein numbers, and shoot for a "recomp" rather than a bulk.
/r/RPChristians12/01/21 02:07 PM
2

Being the sole breadwinner really sets you up for divorce rape. You spend all those years sacrificing so you can feed a wife and kids, and then she leaves and takes half your meager savings and a portion of your future income for years to come. That said, I’m the only person in my family of 6 with a g£¥ D$&% job, so don’t listen to to me. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:57 AM
3

100% true. I remember one night chatting up a married new hire at a work trip. She was super cute and probably 12 years younger than me. I was just goofing around and verbally picking on her like she was one of the little kids on my street. An hour later she was buying me drinks, and a few hours after that she invited me to her hotel room. Thankfully, I had the clearheadedness to decline, but it was an eye-opening experience. I looked her up on Facebook a few days later and her husband was a tot…
/r/RPChristians08/01/21 03:29 AM
1

I’ve considered it. I’m tall, black hair, olive skin. My oldest son has blonde hair, avg height, blue eyes, and pale skin. But my wife has never given me ANY reason to question her faithfulness. 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:26 PM
2

Not sure how this experience is relevant to the purpose of this sub.
/r/RPChristians07/01/21 04:38 AM
2

Based on the the way she is holding her hands, I’d also assume that she’s got more chins than China Town.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:06 AM
4

Do you have data to back up this statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:20 PM
0

most men aren’t very good at it in the first place I’d argue that > 80% of women “aren’t good at it”. They expect the guy to do everything while while also requiring physical and mental gymnastics to get them turned on and then to get them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:19 PM
3

I’d argue that women do this more for the approval of other women rather than to attract men. So apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:14 PM
2

The haters aren’t the ones approaching women. Those guys are jerking off to the internet in their basements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:12 PM
3

Take away all culture and birth control, and the facts remain the same. Women pay a much higher price for sex. 10 min of intercourse for a man is fun. For a woman, it can mean a lifetime of motherhood. Now add the fact that women are much more selective in sexual partners than men, and you get right back to where we are today without any talk of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 03:42 AM
2

Yeah. I was trying to provide an anecdotal reference to support your idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:34 PM
3

I was in a fraternity in college that had about 120 guys. There was definitely a bell curve with just a few outliers getting inordinate amounts of female attention. Everyone did fine with women, but there were two guys that girls would just fall over themselves for. One had a committed girlfriend, so the attention basically fell to one Uber-Chad. It was an eye-opening experience. But the numbers bear out your theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:28 PM
9

I’m way taller than Napoleon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 01:22 PM
1

I’ve seen many many instances where this was not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:37 AM
4

Pretty broad generalization. After all, 100% of women were virgins up to some point in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 04:06 PM
2

It was a mild joke. You literally made a comment to say that you were lurking and not commenting.
/r/RPChristians06/12/20 01:45 AM
2

Lol.
/r/RPChristians05/12/20 10:46 PM
2

But yet, here we are. /s
/r/RPChristians05/12/20 10:44 PM
1

Username does NOT check out.
/r/askMRP05/12/20 02:27 AM
3

I wouldn’t worry at all about reducing numbers in OLD. The stats are so skewed in women’s favor, that If you’re half-way attractive, you’ll have more potential matches than you can realistically handle.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 12:40 AM
3

My older brother married and started having kids at 19. He’s a good bit older than me, but his kids are long since out of the house and he has grandkids that are older than my kids. I’m jealous when I see him spending every weekend at deer camp or out on his fishing boat.
/r/askMRP02/12/20 02:01 PM
2

Marriage isn’t necessarily a trade-off of freedom. You could still do all that stuff with the right wife. However, it is a financial trade off. You make a government-enforceable contract with this person promising 50% of all your income and assets. The question is what are you getting in return for this promise.
/r/askMRP02/12/20 01:56 PM
8

There’s really no other answer. Swallow if you really want him to feel special.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/20 01:06 PM
3

MRP=MARRIED Red Pill
/r/askMRP01/12/20 12:25 PM
10

Power lifters and weightlifters often do low reps and heavy weight for strength. But lots of gym Bros have built thick physiques doing high-rep bro splits with a lot of intensity. As with most things in life, the answer for the average guy probably lies in the middle. The term “powerbuilding” is used by a lot of people to describe this mixed approach. Personally, I run GreySkull LP right now. I do two “main” lifts every workout looking to build strength through progressive overload. Then I do mu…
/r/askMRP29/11/20 07:36 PM
2

I’m literally sitting here looking at a picture of my wife and I on our first “date” from 1996 and our most recent one from last month. I honestly have much more attraction to the 2020 version than I do (or did) to the 1996 one. In fact, I was actually dating another girl when that first picture was taken, and I felt much more physically and emotionally attracted to the girlfriend at the time. But I eventually saw that the girlfriend was fun, but she was a rollercoaster that wouldn’t be a long t…
/r/RPChristians29/11/20 12:43 PM
1

That was also back when men could have a mistress without the wife being able to take half of their assets.
/r/RPChristians29/11/20 12:30 PM
10

First of all, I wouldn’t stress out about it too much. The women are out there and they are actively looking - even if you aren’t. They’ll probably find you. I don’t know how old you are, but I see a lot of normal attractive Christian girls who miss out on the college coupling years without finding a husband and are then single for a long time. My wife has several friends in this boat, and I’d happily date any of them if I was single. Successful, masculine, attractive Christian men are in short …
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 04:26 PM
3

Do it. I don’t think it’s weird at all. My wife has several perfectly normal and attractive single Christian girlfriends. I really don’t get it. It seems like there is just a bunch of girls that miss the “coupling” window in college and get left out.
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 07:40 PM
1

“Where there’s woke, there’s fire”. Great quote from an otherwise questionable post.
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 07:17 PM
1

Your argument was that the man was competent to lead because he couldn’t fight as well as his wife. I made a Comparison to other leader / subordinate relationships. Not sure how that’s a straw man since it was building of your core point.
/r/RPChristians23/11/20 02:36 AM
1

You don’t understand much about leadership in the real world then. Is the general the best marksman in the army? Can a ship’s captain fix the engine? A leader sets vision and makes sure that the organization (family) is rallied around that vision and executing for the same goals. He does this by setting an example and keeping everyone accountable, but he doesn’t have to be the best at every role. Or even remotely competent.
/r/RPChristians22/11/20 08:00 PM
1

Pretty bad. Thankfully, I’ve never actually heard this song.
/r/RPChristians22/11/20 01:24 PM
1

Excellent comment
/r/RPChristians22/11/20 01:23 PM
0

My wife’s not the one on here making posts. OP is. So I’m not sure why you’re attacking me with emotionally charged comments. I provided some stats backed up by research and gave OP some perspective on what she could DO. Action she could take. She can take it or leave it. Your implied insults aren’t needed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 06:17 AM
2

Nice dick swinging, buddy. I’m certainly impressed and intimidated. Facts are that the average time for intercourse is about 5 1/2 minutes. I posted a few links below. Could the guy do more? Of course, but OP has been down the nagging road, and that didn’t work. If she were a man, we’d tell her to focus on controlling what she can. LOTs of women use vibrators or finger themselves during sex. Maybe if she did it a few times then her husband would get the message. https://www.esquire.com/lifestyle…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 05:56 AM
1

I’m just sad he ...didn’t try to last longer. I bet he is trying to last longer and internally feels like failure for not getting you off in that time. However, you may be setting unrealistic goals for yourself based off of porn. 7-10 minutes of PIV intercourse is above average in the real world. Can you use a vibrator or your hands to help get yourself off?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 05:24 AM
2

That was a good read. Thanks.
/r/askMRP18/11/20 02:20 AM
9

This is awesome. Nice work.
/r/askMRP17/11/20 08:59 PM
1

What is OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:18 AM
1

As an athletic, 6’1” guy with a 6 figure salary... I don’t see what’s wrong with #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:50 PM
1

Something only has value if it’s in short supply. Think of women as a cartel like OPEC. They all agree to limit the supply of “oil” so that they can get the highest return possible on their finite natural resources. Now, let’s say some Venezuelan girl is throwing her “oil” out to every guy in town. The Russian and Iranian girls’ goods suddenly aren’t worth the price they are asking. Slut shaming tries to keep the outliers in line so the whole group has more value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:17 PM
1

What if I drive a Ferrari and live in a swank house and you just make the assumption that I’m rich, but I’m really just house sitting for my rich friend? Personally, I think the other person’s shallowness negates any sin of omission on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:18 PM
1

I see dating someone for their income as worse than lying about income just to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:15 PM
1

It’s like riding a moped. It’s a lot of fun, but you don’t want your friends to see you doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:37 PM
2

It comes from reading women’s tinder profiles and seeing how many have minimum standards for height.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:22 PM
1

The stats from dating apps don’t back up your hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:15 PM
1

She’s no bridge troll, and she looks good done up. Also, they’ve been dating since they were 16 or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:14 PM
1

The stats are backed up by dating app data. I think your points about dress and hygiene aren’t applicable because you either can’t tell from a profile pic or guys are legit trying to look their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:04 PM
2

Did you know all this about your wife’s past before you married her?
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 11:59 PM
3

Top tier.
/r/RPChristians12/10/20 04:47 PM
1

Work out -> look better -> feel better -> increased drive
/r/askMRP10/10/20 11:26 PM
23

All you need to know: https://i.imgur.com/DlDxoLm.jpg
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 09:46 AM
1

/r/thathappened
/r/RedPillParenting29/09/20 06:34 PM
2

I have a few guys that I’m in a men’s group / bible study with. A few are friends that I’ll do stuff with for fun, but it’s always a great place to talk about stuff and see how other guys make it work.
/r/RPChristians29/09/20 01:43 AM
1

Most people’s view of redpill / alpha behavior basically boils down to “make money / fuck bitches”. Don’t fall into that shallow thinking. The real heart of it is having a purpose and living out that purpose. Just look at Jesus. He eschewed the approval of men in favor of God’s approval. He CHOSE to live a life of service and poverty - it wasn’t forced on him. He was anything but meek in his dealings with people in power. In fact, he was a straight-up gangster.
/r/RPChristians26/05/20 12:29 PM
1

Lead, but still have fun. Don’t do a full 180 and go into retard asshole mode.
/r/askMRP09/01/20 03:03 AM
1

Are you Protestant? Look for churches with Reformed or Evangelical in the name and see what clicks.
/r/RPChristians15/12/19 09:11 PM
7

Lol. ^ This, OP.
/r/askMRP10/12/19 09:53 PM
1

Holy shit. I literally didn’t know this was a thing. Can oral herpes (cold sore) be transmitted to the genitals, or are they two different things?
/r/askMRP09/12/19 08:44 PM
4

Hey, man. Whatever you do, don’t have a kid. Besides that, divorce isn’t the unforgivable sin. Have you spoken to your pastor about it?
/r/RPChristians09/12/19 08:42 PM
2

Definitely not at 16% BF and weak.
/r/askMRP09/12/19 01:36 PM
4

I don’t know. That will weed out the truly broken ones, but I personally know several avid carousel riders who grew up in my conservative church and have great fathers.
/r/RPChristians07/12/19 08:50 PM
7

I’d gladly take a guy who’d watched porn over a woman with years of Tinder dates in her history.
/r/RPChristians07/12/19 08:48 PM
6

Go with your gut. Don’t let this woman into your business. It will hurt morale and when she (eventually) leaves you, she will have a stronger case for stealing more of what you’ve worked to build.
/r/askMRP29/11/19 05:57 PM
0

Raped as in forcibly raped, or raped as in “had too much to drink and wasn’t in a state to make good decisions” raped?
/r/askMRP27/11/19 12:33 PM
2

Preach
/r/RPChristians23/11/19 02:51 PM
2

No woman just leaves. She has plans and options all lined up. Most likely she is already fucking some other dude. Accept it, keep your cool, and prepare for your next life.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 06:40 PM
1

I’m on mobile, so Forgive me for the brevity, but I think your starting assumptions are all terribly flawed. Being RP isn’t about hedonism or selfishness and Christianity isn’t about self hate. Look at the hero’s of the Bible and you’ll see some of the most red pilled “bros” to have ever lived. You don’t have to spin plates to be RP. What you need is a healthy perspective of your purpose in life and the role that a woman plays in that purpose.
/r/RPChristians04/11/19 10:49 PM
2

Don’t date her, but I 100% guarantee you that this crazy bitch is a great lay.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/19 02:21 PM
-3

You married a woman who was on antidepressants?
/r/askMRP30/06/19 01:40 PM
1

LOL. I don't understand your post. Not being into marriage is "cucked" and "beta"? Can you elaborate?
/r/RPChristians02/05/19 10:04 PM
2

1When David’s time to die drew near, he commanded Solomon his son, saying, 2“I am about to go the way of all the earth. Be strong, and show yourself a man, 3and keep the charge of the LORD your God, walking in his ways and keeping his statutes, his commandments, his rules, and his testimonies, as it is written in the Law of Moses, that you may prosper in all that you do and wherever you turn, I read that as David’s primary litmus test of Solomon’s manhood was wether or not he followed God. But t…
/r/RPChristians06/04/19 02:23 AM
4

Fukin tough love, mate. Lol.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 09:56 PM
1

I can picture your ideal Tinder bio. "Widowed mom of 2 seeking middle-aged troll with low self-esteem and fragile financial position."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 07:38 PM
1

I don’t see any problems with this one, honestly, unless you’re complaining about the 6’ comment. Is she beautiful? No, but most of us aren’t either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 06:17 PM
1

Solid stuff, man. Thanks!
/r/RPChristians12/02/19 10:55 PM
5

The best gift an an adult can give a kid is time. ​ That said, I've read several of these books aloud to my boys. I don't have any to add that aren't on your list.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/19 08:13 PM
1

My wife says there a lot of little “pull-outs” running around In the world, and I’d have to agree.
/r/RPChristians25/01/19 05:41 AM
4

Dong, give up hope.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:12 AM
2

Most companies just drug test during the application phase and then never again. Honestly, if you don’t have enough discipline / drive to get clean once, then you’re not going to make a decent employee.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:16 AM
1

Do you pay your bills? Do you have insurance? Do you save money for retirement / rainy days? If so, then I’d tell them to pound sand.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:59 PM
0

Fuck the common good. It's that altruism bullshit that perpetuates the blue pill model Working for "common good" is not a sign of weakness or being blue pilled. A man can nobly spend his life in service to others or a cause greater than himself.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 03:35 PM
4

Don’t go down this road. When the thought comes to your head, push it out And think of something else.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 02:19 PM
1

Yeah. You make a good point. I don’t disagree with any of that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/18 03:51 AM
1

The 3 year thing is kind of a stretch. I wanted my wife’s parents to put her through grad school on their dime. No way I was buying a ring before she was free and clear. We dated for 5 before I proposed and then were engaged for 1 more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/18 03:12 AM
3

Add in daddy-state policies like welfare, WIC, etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 09:50 PM
1

She cooks and has a job. 4 kids at 33 means she was probably married in her early 20s. I’d give this one a pass until I met her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 09:24 PM
3

Full-time mom = unemployed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/18 02:51 PM
1

Do you have a source for those divorce stats?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/18 01:51 PM
3

I don’t know. Seems like you should have reiterated your first offer before shutting it down with the games comment. You didn’t give her a chance to back-pedal.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:11 PM
0

Hey man, as a parent, all I can say is that you should do your own thing, but cut your parents some slack. They’re doing what they know, and all of their fuckups and bad vibes come from ignorance, not malice. It looks like they are immigrants, but even if they aren’t, they’re just acting based off what they know. I think you’re on the right track, but just remember that they love you, even if it’s not obvious.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:18 AM
1

Read Song of Solomon and realize that the whole thing is about physical desire between a man and woman. Sex and physical intimacy is a God-given gift. It’s not gross or weird or bad at all. Your parents were wrong to let you think any differently.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:04 AM
1

That sounds miserable. There are lots of six figure jobs out there if you are willing to put in the work up from to get yourself quailed to do them. If you go back to school, do something hard. Challenge yourself, put in the hours, and kick ass. But most importantly, be smart about debt. It’s ok to make a leveraged investment in your future, but it needs to be a smart investment.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 02:02 PM
0

Are we talking 6 plates per side or 6 plates total?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/18 12:59 AM
1

In the south at least, women move their maiden name to their middle name and drop their middle. That’s what my wife did. But nothing says you can’t have 4 names.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/18 02:52 AM
1

I’m browsing r/MRP and r/Testosterone with the same scenario (minus the Canadian piece).
/r/askMRP18/01/18 06:09 PM
2

I won’t comment on KM because I don’t know anything about it, but I’d recommend BJJ, Muay Thai, or an MMA gym. Those are great because everything is (eventually) practiced against a fully resisting opponent. I personally do BJJ and love it.
/r/askMRP06/01/18 03:01 AM
3

I don’t want my wife chatting with old boyfriends.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 02:43 AM
3

Lol. Ironic that feminists come out specifically against femininity. But seriously, this is one of the best things about going to an SEC school: “This symbol of the southern lady, they argue, is typified by students’ formal wear, soft and flowy dresses, a significant amount of jewelry, and clothes that emphasize “feminine curves without revealing what might be considered ‘too much’ skin.”
/r/becomeaman04/01/18 05:17 PM
1

I laughed out loud.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:21 AM
1

I’m sure there are plenty of short guys who don’t want to date a fatty.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 11:15 PM
1

You have to do your homework to find out which are the good ones. Ask older friends or just straight up find a hot girl on campus when you visit and her her who the best 3 fraternities are. Things may have changed a bit, but It’s best if you have some contact before the summer you graduate so you can get on their rushee list.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:48 AM
1

If SJWs are berating he about her weight / working out, then it probably means that she is already fit.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:05 AM
13

It’s his kid though
/r/askTRP30/12/17 05:43 AM
1

Sorry you are feeling this way. I do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and I see posts all the time at r/bjj about how it helps people manage their depression and anxiety. Maybe try that if there are options near you. Or maybe Sambo might be more readily available there. Basically anything where you are physically and mentally challenged. It’s hard to think about your problems when some guy is literally trying to choke you to death. Plus, It’s a blast.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:42 AM
1

Great quote : “I do not weep at the loss of these men, I praise their existence and hope their standard and actions ring loud for all to hear.”
/r/becomeaman08/10/17 06:37 PM
3

Evil genius level stuff
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:01 AM
1

IME?
/r/askMRP13/04/17 05:05 PM
9

Dem thighs though
/r/askTRP11/04/17 06:55 PM
8

But you can definitely think "Man, I regret fucking HER". OP - go for quality not pure quantity. I'd much rather my first time be with a girl I was actually in to rather than than some loud mouth walking fleshlight.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:49 AM
8

Wise words. I wish this viewpoint got more press with young guys.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:44 AM
0

I think a guy in this position has very little respect for women because he knows exactly why they are sleeping with him.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 05:12 PM
42

100% disagree. You can be comfortable and competent in social situations, but that doesn't make you an extrovert. Extroverts NEED the interaction. Introverts NEED solitude. Both types can cross over, but they'll always gravitate toward their natural state.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 10:49 AM
1

How often do you lift?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:59 AM
1

https://youtu.be/_ZQrIqAc_OA
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:27 AM
6

I so wish I could go tell this to my 16yo self.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 01:42 PM
1

I didn't realize I'd submitted that. I was going to say that my wife says I look MUCH hotter since I stopped cycling and started lifting weights and spin CrossFit. I still ride a little, but nothing competitive.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 08:02 PM
1

I raced CX and cat 3-4 road for about 4 years. I was never "good" but it was my passion. C
/r/askTRP03/12/16 06:11 PM
2

Where do you live?
/r/askTRP03/12/16 05:39 PM
3

The Bible
/r/RedPillBooks03/12/16 05:35 PM
1

Are you talking social or professional? I think there's some overlap in the two, but they have different goals. I'd start with 1: lift. It all starts here. Since you want to meet people, going to CrossFit would be a good option. People shit on CrossFit, but it's great environment for greeting in shape and making friends with like-minded people. And there are some smoking hot x-fit women. 2:follow your passion. Even if you don't know what it is yet, put yourself into something and work hard on it…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 05:21 PM
1

Join the military.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:01 AM
20

Go fuck yourself. Just kidding. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/12/16 02:38 AM
2

Lift.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 02:26 AM
1

You need better friends.
/r/becomeaman03/12/16 01:07 AM
1

Ah. True. I read it as fun first date.
/r/seduction13/11/16 03:29 AM
22

First date. "Asked her into a relationship". Alcohol wasn't your problem.
/r/seduction13/11/16 03:13 AM
5

You would
/r/seduction13/11/16 03:09 AM
4

There's nothing wrong with the goal of having a wife & family. Just use what you learn here to find a Quality woman and set the stage for the rest of your relationship. You don't have to be out "slaying pussy" to live a red pill life.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 10:43 PM
13

Models first. Lift weights.
/r/becomeaman10/11/16 10:37 PM
5

Well, he could be a 7 year old.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 09:35 PM
1

This stinks of troll post. Servile women, book of poon, 20 yr LTR...
/r/askTRP04/11/16 12:32 AM
1

Want to say some more about why this doesn't work for depression caused by a reason we know?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:36 PM
1

The only downside is that It does something with my sinuses,and I end up sounding like I have a cold. Kind of breaks the mood when your girl is afraid she'll get sick if she kisses you.
/r/becomeaman03/08/16 05:17 PM
1

Buy it on Amazon you turd.
/r/RedPillBooks03/08/16 05:14 PM
3

For life?!?
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:32 AM
13

I'm old enough to remember back when women with drug and alcohol problems were always skinny. I guys it was the cigarettes. Ah - the good ole days.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:41 AM
4

Dude. Always close and bang at the cafe. Rookie mistake. /s. Nice job getting back on the horse.
/r/seduction25/07/16 10:35 AM
1

I think your average civilian self-proclaimed sheepdog is very loosely correlated to actually being alpha. Most would call themselves alpha, but in reality I think they are about as likely to be blue pill as any other segment of guys.
/r/askMRP21/07/16 03:26 PM
1

You build a thousand bridges...
/r/askTRP19/07/16 08:47 PM
-3

And your mom would do your laundry. Where does it end? Following your logic, you could justify living at home forever.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 08:38 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:47 AM
1

6'4" 188 puts you in r/gainit territory. I bet you are either leaner than you think or criminally weak. Either way, you need to be #gaining weight. I don't see anything wrong with steroids if you do your homework. And you sound like a vagina for implying that Jesus and having pseudo-single mom made you a fat kid. Eating ice cream and playing video games makes you a fat kid. Lots of ripped black dudes out there with no daddy.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:43 AM
1

I can't tell if this sarcasm or not. And I've got a pretty good /s detector.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:37 AM
1

Camping club - sneak into her tent at night (preferably naked) and tell her what's up.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:25 AM
1

Lift and dress smart is never bad advice.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 11:39 PM
1

PM me when you figure it out.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 11:16 PM
1

So how does autism affect other areas of your life?
/r/askTRP17/07/16 10:56 AM
1

STR?
/r/askTRP17/07/16 10:48 AM
1

Doesn't that kind of mean that your hormone levels are ok then?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 04:11 AM
6

I think you're kidding, but the Target near my house is covered in attractive MILFs.
/r/seduction20/05/16 11:09 AM
1

Hottest girl I ever dated I met by walking up to her at an outdoor concert and saying "you don't look like you're having fun" in kind of a playful way.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 12:11 AM
1

I went drinking at a couple of bars one night in Portland ME. I was always a tall and strong guy, but I felt like a little pussy because there were so many jacked guys in the bar. Maybe it was a r/bodybuilding meetup or something, but it was weird.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:55 PM
6

I love lamp
/r/seduction19/05/16 10:35 PM
1

Herpes in the mouth is no big deal.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:28 PM
4

People are going to fuck your house up and steal things.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 07:39 PM
0

If having genitalia is your sole criteria for being a man, then I think you've stumbled across the wrong corner of the Internet.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:18 PM
1

At 18, I'd have not stopped lifting out of high school and I would join the army reserves. I wanted to go into the military, but had scholarships for college that I felt I couldn't pass up. The reserves would have been a good compromise. Rewind a few more years and I would apply to a service academy. The guys I know now from West Point and other schools are pretty driven and successful dudes.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 09:41 PM
1

Women cum because of your teeth?
/r/askTRP03/05/16 09:31 PM
0

Your video applies to kids who stay in poverty. A healthy newborn baby in a clean cut adoption will have dozens of families lining up to raise it in the suburbs and send it to college. Middle class Americans are spending $20k + to fly to Asia and Africa and adopt babies no strings attached. Other people do years of foster parenting just to have the chance to adopt. These are generally good families who will give these kids a great shot at life. Don't take this as preachy. I've paid a girl for an…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 09:53 AM
5

I know where you're coming from, but that wording Sounds kind of weird. Who plans when they will drink coffee with that much detail?
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:20 AM
1

High volume squats and food are a great mass building combo. Also check out r/gainit
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:13 AM
5

Olympic boxing has removed headgear because of (I think) fears of INCREASED brain damage using the gear.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:04 AM
1

No. I was explaining the saying and throwing in another one for good measure. In regards to your situation, I think you're being too butt hurt about it. I'm probably a bit older and from a time (the late 90s) when most college kids smoked at bars. My girlfriend didn't like it, but I'd sometimes bum a cig off some (usually fat) chick after I had a few beers. I never smoked sober and it wasn't a big deal. I'd ignore it if she's an otherwise good catch.
/r/askMRP03/05/16 01:41 AM
2

It's 2016. Most people aren't overtly racist - really the opposite, actually. Every time you think someone doesn't like you because you're a minority, stop and ask yourself if maybe the reason they don't like you is because you're being an asshole. The answer may be "no, they really are racist". I just wouldn't be so quick to jump to conclusions.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 01:01 AM
5

This is fucking stupid. Reliable source or go home.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 12:59 AM
2

Are we talking about landscaping or cunnilingus?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 12:12 AM
1

Nice list. My wife hits all of these.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 11:59 PM
3

If it happens again (hope it doesn't), please ask her to consider adoption. Lots of people out there want kids and can't have them.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 11:50 PM
7

I once asked my older cousin when he and his wife got married. He said "About 109 pounds ago."
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 11:39 PM
2

Smokers put out. So do single moms.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 11:25 PM
1

I can't think of any reason vasectomy would have any believable impact on evopsych Most evopsych is a load of pseudo-science horseshit anyway
/r/askMRP28/04/16 06:42 PM
1

I got my ass handed to me by a 16 year old girl during my demo class.
/r/askMRP27/04/16 01:50 AM
1

So trump's campaign pays him? to do what?
/r/TRPOffTopic27/04/16 12:05 AM
1

I don't get how a guy makes Money off a subreddit..?
/r/TRPOffTopic27/04/16 12:00 AM
5

If you project your family tree back to around 900 AD, then your number of grandparents in that generation exceeds the population of Europe at that time. Wrap your head around that. Take it back 4000 years and each person would HAVE to represent scores of spots on your tree.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 08:20 PM
1

I assume that you are also Indian? Isn't this super common for Indian girls to ride the carousel for a while with other races, and then find a sweet Indian guy to settle down with so that he parents will be happy? I dated this beautiful girl in college who told me she was a virgin. Then one of my fraternity brothers started dating a girl who was best friends with my girl's sister. My buddy's girlfriend told him that they would go to the sisters' house and my 'virgin' and her ex-boyfriend would b…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 02:20 PM
1

I'm so glad that I chose not to click on that link at work. :)
/r/askMRP25/04/16 08:16 PM
1

I usually have pretty funky balls after mowing the grass. No way I'd suck my own dick, much less somebody else's 🙂
/r/askMRP25/04/16 05:47 PM
2

Things work out in the end = outcome independence.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 02:45 AM
1

This Book changed my life. It was such a kick in the nuts.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 02:43 AM
1

I wish someone had told me this when I got broken up with for the first time. I look back now and realize how big of a faggot I was. Mesh.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 02:40 AM
1

Wise words, OP
/r/askTRP23/04/16 02:36 AM
1

You dodged a bullet for sure. Much better now than 7 years from now when she's banging some bartender and walking out the door with half your savings. But good for you for turning to TRP, because she was basically telling you that's exactly what you need to do. Sounds like you need to spend some time reflecting on yourself and then make a plan to fix it.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 02:35 AM
10

Women never have a difficult time getting laid - at any age. There's always some thirsty guy out there thankful for the opportunity to bang her.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:07 PM
1

I'm kidding btw
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:59 AM
1

Your knowledge of Greek is definitely inferior to everyone else's. Zeta is a lot closer to alpha than omega. Learn your Greek alphabet, you miserable fuck.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:58 AM
10

I've got a cousin who slays. He's a great looking guy and has his own business, so that obviously helps. But he swears that the killer move is to be on a couch making out a while with music on. He stands up and puts his hand out like he wants them to get up and dance. Then when she puts her hand in his, he picks her up over his shoulder and physically carriers her to the bedroom. Sounds a little rapey to me, but he swears it's near 100% successful.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:14 AM
1

What's starting pay for a role like this?
/r/becomeaman18/04/16 11:55 PM
1

Ah I missed it. What did it say?
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:05 PM
1

If you have a dead bedroom with a FIANCÉ, then you need to seriously reevaluate your decision to marry this woman.
/r/askMRP17/04/16 05:14 PM
7

http://youtu.be/d73tiBBzvFM
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:43 PM
1

You really think you might want to have a kid with this woman? I say move on. You're never going to get this out of your head. Sounds like you deserve better.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 09:08 PM
6

Sounds like mission accomplished. If you want to do anything else, my son really enjoyed Gracie Bullyproof. The make it a progressive series of games you play with your kid. By the end, they know enough BJJ to get a kid to cry uncle. The upside is that using BJJ keeps them from having to hit a kid, which could obviously land them in trouble at school.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/16 10:09 PM
1

Cuddle me now, bitch.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:55 AM
2

I luckily found MRP very soon after DB. But I feel you man - Read MMSLP and then NMMNG. Those were a swift kick in the balls for me and opened my eyes.
/r/askMRP07/04/16 02:39 AM
1

I feel like posts like these should be accompanied by a bio and pics. Most guys have probably had the emotions your feeling toward women at some point, but I think that the vast majority of guys are able to have productive and enjoyable relationships with women. If you're feeling this much angst, then at some point you've got to ask yourself what it is about YOU that keeps making you feel this way. Do you work in a low skill field or run in a social circle that attracts lazy and uneducated femal…
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:32 AM
1

Don't set your standards too low. Depending on your size, you likely have the potential to keep progressing well past this. Just keep rolling that stone up the hill. What is your body weight?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 02:41 PM
1

Can you explain a bit?
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:36 PM
2

Get some boner meds like Viagra or Ciallis. They work and I think would help you get through your anxiety.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:06 PM
3

Dappered.com. Put This On
/r/askTRP28/03/16 05:53 AM
1

This is an excellent point.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 05:09 PM
1

What site did you use?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 05:08 PM
1

Maybe you're not getting laid because of your terrible analogies. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 05:07 PM
4

First of all, don't base your standard of success and happiness on something that you read on the Internet. What are YOUR goals? If it's to get validation by banging a bunch of sluts, then you're probably doing it wrong. Reaching some imaginary TRP ass quota isn't going to be a happiness pill.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:17 PM
2

Don't be a dumb shit who follows his dreams into an a $50k art history degree. Go for the money, establish your base, and then reevaluate once you have some stability, experience, and maturity. Nothing says you're locked in to anything.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:12 PM
-2

TL/DR: match with sluts on tinder. Follow rule 1 & 2.
/r/seduction23/03/16 01:11 PM
33

Ticking? Mine's at defcon 3. Orange alert. Caution required.
/r/seduction23/03/16 01:10 PM
2

Get back on that horse, brother.
/r/seduction06/03/16 05:38 PM
4

I don't think so. I've made good male friends through real-world hobbies. Pick something, anything, and there is bound to be a community of like-minded people who are also into it. Give it some time, and pretty soon you'll be getting a beer after a bike ride, which turns into maybe carpooling to an event somewhere, then pretty soon you're sharing a cheap hooker in Mexico together.
/r/becomeaman06/03/16 05:37 PM
2

Butt ur gay
/r/askTRP06/03/16 05:25 PM
4

For you, I'd say get off the internet and live your life. I get the impression that you're setting a standard for yourself based on what you see online. At the least you seem to be striving for external goals. The 'cure' isn't to go have crazy experiences. It is to enjoy and make the most the life you have. You're young, you have a great girlfriend, you're healthy. Sure, always strive for improvement, but you can't be sad because your life up until now hasn't been some TRP internet ideal. Fuckin…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:10 PM
1

Boxing is full of champs fighting bums. I don't think I see that AS MUCH in UFC.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 02:55 AM
3

She turned into a child well before the loss.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 02:53 AM
1

Tinder
/r/seduction19/02/16 02:52 AM
1

I'd personally advise against doing that. There's really no point in just punching the card just to get it punched. I assuming you're hitting the gym hard and eating a significant surplus?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 02:38 AM
1

I hit a weird slump where I couldn't keep it up, so I got some meds. Worked like a charm. I never told my wife, but she'd always make comments about how hard I was when I used it. I can get it up and keep it up fine, but the meds add that extra stiffness that the lady seems to appreciate. I keep some in my drawer now for strictly recreational purposes.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 02:23 AM
2

Google Mark Rippetoe's podcast on back pain. It's good advice / motivation on how to deal with pain and to keep working out. Just don't give up. Don't be the guy that lays off for a week, which turns into 4, which turns into forever.
/r/askMRP19/02/16 02:11 AM
-2

Just Don't be a dick
/r/askTRP19/02/16 01:41 AM
1

Try tinder. I'm 38 and played around on there a bit. I was surprised how many hot 40-50 year olds there were. There're probably road whores with a full train of baggage, but I bet once you went out with a few, you'd have a lot better idea how to move up the chain.
/r/seduction19/02/16 12:26 AM
1

This is how Islam wins. Enough people look around and the current state of western civilization and think "anything has to be better than this madness."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 10:43 PM
2

I wouldn't be surprised to find out that the whole point of the ice cream stop was that she wanted you to buy condoms.
/r/seduction18/02/16 05:02 PM
1

Biology is amoral. Openly spinning plates is amoral to a non-religious person. But even the mot primitive civilizations view lying as immoral (in almost all circumstances).
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 04:24 AM
7

You sound bitter. It is what it is. AWALT, but not all women DESERVE to be cheated on. The issue with cheating is the lying. Spin plates if you want, but you cross a moral line when you're telling them you are exclusive but fucking other women.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 07:34 PM
5

Yeah, but that kid was like 13 before he got busted. I've GOT to think that she was a lot hotter 13 years and at least one kid ago. Edit: holy shit, Arnold. Holy freaking shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 07:25 PM
1

To give you some perspective, my latest estimated maxes are: Bench: 293 OHP: 150 DL: 378 Squat: 351
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 04:02 AM
1

Yeah. I was reading newest to oldest. Still, I wish I had your OHP.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 03:58 AM
1

i look so much better in pics when I'm down below about 15% bf.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 01:47 AM
1

I'd be curious to hear your "big 3" numbers. Is a lot of your 'strength' good technique and being able to get under the bar fast?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 01:46 AM
1

I can't believe that your OHP is so high compared to your bench. Maybe mine's just so weak :)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 01:40 AM
1

Great job, old man :) I'm about 13 months in myself, but I laid off with a back injury for about 5 weeks. I'm back to where I left off before the injury, and am hoping to hit 1k within a few weeks. It's been a goal of mine since I was playing high school football 20 years ago. It took MRP to get me serious about hitting the gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 01:38 AM
2

There's a difference in pretty fat girls, homely, thin girls, and ugly fat girls. I'd go #2 most days, #1 just once for the novelty, and never #3.
/r/seduction16/02/16 01:48 AM
1

You'd show up for the bear in the ironman suit, but you'd stick around for the chicks with dick tits.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 01:29 AM
1

If you're not looking for an LTR, and you ALWAYS bag it, then I don't see the harm in dating a single mom.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 01:17 AM
2

part-time fitness instructor plus total disrespect of her husband sounds like 200% chance that she's already cheating on him. Can you dig around and either confirm or deny it?
/r/askTRP16/02/16 01:02 AM
1

Yeah. I'd definitely get him to read NMMNG.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:56 AM
16

Flirt with the friend for sure
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:52 PM
1

I know a girl who did this. She loved it, but it didn't exactly open any doors when she got back. Basically just fucking off for a year.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:06 AM
2

Lots of family have gone the roughneck route. Good money. One ex brother in law is a "mud man" and travels all over the world working on offshore rigs.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:05 AM
-1

Military. You'll have great memories (assuming you don't get blown up).
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:02 AM
11

LOL - You really just started jerking it in the middle of a movie night? That's the funniest thing I've heard all day. Definitely not something I've ever tried, but I may have to one day soon.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 01:58 AM
1

I'd drop the 25 part and just go with "after somebody's put their dick in it". That's way funnier. At least that's what I'm going to do when I steal this and pass it off as my original joke.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:46 PM
1

Lots of guys here have the exact same story and have made great turnarounds. You have a great shot at success if you take ownership of the problem and keep plugging away. And even if you don't 'succeed', then you're in an excellent place to move on and make a new start. MMSLP and No More Mr Nice Guy were the two books that did the most for me early on.
/r/askMRP14/02/16 06:45 PM
5

"How to get my wife to fuck me" googled searched me here a little over a year ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 02:06 AM
3

Nitpick question: Cite vs Site - are these swapped on purpose?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 02:05 AM
1

Depends on where you are. You can definitely lose fat while milking newb gains. I lost 20 lbs if fat and put on about 8 lbs of lean body mass over my first 6 months of serious effort. And I'd screwed around a bit before that too.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 08:53 PM
6

I've seen 4. I'd have preferred to be watching tv in the lobby, honestly.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 08:30 PM
4

I don't really understand who, but there seems to be someone pushing the idea that all prostitution = sex trafficking = modern slavery. The line goes that you have to outlaw prostitution in order to keep your daughter from being kidnapped and chained up in a brothel.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 07:32 PM
6

Definitely move in with your brother. You'll fight (probably literally) but it will most likely end in great memories. I have two significantly older brothers who lived together between college and marriage and they have so many hilarious stories. My dad even joins in and starts slinging the bullshit stories (he owned the house) when we get together and they start talking about it. I'm totally jealous. I also had two first cousins who did the same thing on and off for probably 15 years. Great st…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 01:04 AM
1

I was thinking the same thing. Just post it up.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:51 AM
1

I'd say BJJ. You actually would get to mop the floor with some dudes instead of swatting air. Nothing's going to put swagger in your step faster than tapping some dudes. (After you eat 6 months of humble pie learning how not to be a total spaz)
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:50 AM
1

Fucking solid comment. I'm saving this.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:42 AM
1

Then the French women all fuck the alpha German dudes.
/r/seduction11/02/16 12:38 AM
1

Well said.
/r/seduction11/02/16 12:32 AM
4

i bet you have a stupid profile and bad pics. Can you post your pics and profile text?
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:57 PM
2

And a minority
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:16 AM
13

I'd say don't shit where you eat. Stay away from the work women. Unless you are in a lower paying non-career job and DGAF.
/r/becomeaman24/12/15 02:43 AM
3

The core issue is that he's not the kind of guy she wants to fuck. She's lost some weight, thinks her SMV is higher, and now she's looking to branch swing. AWALT. OP needs to take this as a wakeup call to see if he wants to up his game or watch her leave, take a fat child support check, and have his kids calling some other guy 'Dad'.
/r/askMRP17/12/15 06:32 PM
1

Jesus. $4300 / mo is still a killer. And it sounds like this is just Alimony. Child support could still be that high.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 01:54 AM
1

Good work.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 01:42 PM
10

TIL. Thanks. And I thought you were the dummy. :)
/r/seduction02/12/15 01:54 AM
0

I think it's number 2
/r/seduction02/12/15 12:36 AM
-6

Tow
/r/seduction02/12/15 12:31 AM
2

Actually, look for a woman who enjoys the little things in life...
/r/seduction20/11/15 03:09 PM
3

Like I said, I don't think you were wrong for calling the lady out. Nobody's advocating walking on eggshells. What I'm saying is that by starting the conversation with your new firearm / close combat resume, then I think that your new "frame" is coming more from that gat in your pants than anything else. And I stand by my touching point. Talk to me all you want. Touch me and things just escalated for no reason. As a guy with a gun in your pants, the last thing you should be doing is initiating o…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 01:32 AM
3

Riki Tiki Tavi was the original red pill mongoose. That dude ran out of fucks the day he was born.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 08:45 PM
8

Not sure what to think about this post. This incident would be pretty cool if it wasn't prefaced with the CCW info & sheepdog metaphor. As a fellow CCW guy, I think the absolute wrong attitude to have is that you are going to step in and help with other people's problems. It was ok in this situation, but your post makes me think that you'd apply the same logic to a more serious encounter. An encounter where the details may or may not be what they appear to someone walking up. My job is to protec…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/15 08:04 PM
2

Total shit test. TRP (and the comments in this post) give you all the tools you need to blow this out of the water. Better luck next time.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 03:24 AM
1

I think this is bad advice. I talk to my friends about guns, mma, hunting, video games, etc... Girls don't want to hear about this shit unless their super into you.
/r/seduction15/11/15 12:00 AM
1

Can you elaborate? I've never read it, but I've got morning my kindle.
/r/seduction14/11/15 11:57 PM
1

Stim dick?
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:21 PM
1

Don't kiss. Just motor boat 'dem boobies.
/r/seduction12/11/15 02:17 PM
2

You'll have sex bots for sure. But only the rich will be able to afford them. This will further the divide between the haves and have-nots and lead to more class tension. And the robot users won't be limited to just men. Women will get in on the action too, maybe even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 02:11 AM
1

Post a pic.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 01:57 AM
2

First, Don't stop lifting due to a knee injury. I wish I had all the time back that I wasted laying off due to injuries. I invariably fall of the wagon and then take months to get back to my previous level. Keep doing what you can do while the knee heals. Upper body, calf raises, stiff leg deadlift, etc.... Work on your social circles. Guys mostly. That will do more for your long term happiness an a random piece of ass. Don't worry about the balding thing. It happens (to me), so just embrace it.…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 05:52 PM
2

This sounds like the beginning of a false rape horror story.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:44 AM
1

I'd dump her. You can't believe in God AND be a Hilary supporter. She's lying about something.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:26 AM
2

Are you in junior high? If not chances are she's kissed a boy before you.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:17 AM
1

So what? No biggie.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:16 AM
2

Ever eat a hamburger or a steak? Chances are it was a castrated steer. Castration ensures that only the chosen few males get to breed and results in better and more consistent tasting beef. I assume it's the same with hogs. Edit: castration can be surgical, with rubber bands that cut off the blood, or even by hormones that wreck the balls.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:10 AM
1

How old?
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:24 AM
5

I almost posted this exact same comment. If she's good to go every other day then maybe she just a bad lay. Enthusiastic but uninspired.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 12:11 AM
3

This is good advice. If you need to go around telling people that you're RP, then you're not RP. Let your actions speak, and then answer questions if / when anyone asks.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 11:44 PM
4

Truth. Maybe they should see a therapist about her lack of desire to have a cock up her ass.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:18 PM
-18

Why so much hate, bro. It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:14 PM
-1

You're talking feelings. Use logic.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 04:07 AM
1

How is this not the top comment?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:41 AM
1

I have to disagree with 25 being "the wall". I'd put it at 29. Maybe it's my old age (38), but I play around on Tinder just for fun, and I can tell you that there a whole lot of hot 25 yr old girls out there.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:30 AM
5

Remember that success breeds complacency. Just set long term self-improvement goals and don't lose focus. If I've learned anything in my 10 month journey, it's that the monster never goes away. It's been pushed into a closet, but it pushes back on the door and peeks out looking for an opportunity to come out again. Short-term success can't be your measure of effectiveness. The monster still lurks just behind that door. You're going to naturally slack off as the problems fade into the back of you…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 01:40 PM
9

Don't forget about the fact that these same liberated women are also now claiming that there aren't enough men to meet their standards for marriage. http://www.brookings.edu/blogs/social-mobility-memos/posts/2015/09/22-shortage-marriageable-men-brief-sawhill
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 03:09 AM
2

Assuming you use a 45lb bar, One large 45lb plate on each side is 135lb. One medium 25 lb plate is 95 lbs.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 08:46 PM
1

Can you share your numbers? Body weight, fat %, bench, squat, deadlift maxes.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 07:26 PM
4

You bench 90lb and you are in better shape than the guys around you? Do you hang out at a junior high school? Is this a metric conversion mistake? Im a married old guy benching 260, and I'm not able to say I'm in better shape than the guys I hang out with.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 07:22 PM
2

Can you post a fit pic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 07:10 PM
21

You're getting downvoted, but it's a fact that native Germans have a low birth rate, Muslims reproduce faster, and there is a recent influx of Muslim immigrants. Germany won't disappear, but the Germany you know today will.
/r/seduction20/09/15 07:00 PM
1

This is a great summary.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 12:39 AM
1

I posted this a while back and still refer to it occasionally when I want to go get some inspiration: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/31rjxl/looking_for_style_resources_for_the_middleaged/
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 02:07 AM
6

Update please :)
/r/seduction28/08/15 03:14 AM
1

Is that book worth $40? It looks interesting, but the price is way too steep.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:19 AM
2

Have a couple of boys and a couple of girls. It's fascinating to me how my 4 kids are so different. I had two boys before my daughter was born, so she slept in truck pajamas in a neutral room, watched boy TV, had access to a shit ton of boy toys, etc., and she turned out as girly as they come. She's tough, but she's a total priss. Way more girly than my wife was or is. Then along comes my 4th kid, and I think that he's going to be ruined because my daughter thinks the new baby is hers and dotes …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 02:02 AM
6

Gender roles are definitely not assigned by parents. They are born masculine or feminine. Source: I've raised 4 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 12:23 PM
3

I'd say that if you want kids anyway, 30 is indeed a good time start. Especially if you want more than one. It took my wife and me about a year of trying before she got pregnant with our first, so it's not like you're going to be definitely having a kid 9 months from now. It could be a year or more.
/r/askMRP20/08/15 12:03 PM
1

I always see the shower recommendation and think of this every time.
/r/askMRP18/08/15 11:57 AM
1

Starfish posts :)
/r/askMRP18/08/15 01:57 AM
1

who is this guy?
/r/becomeaman17/08/15 08:10 PM
1

Especially thanks to Viagra and TRT.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 01:28 AM
0

Saw a friend in the gym locker room once who I knew was Mormon. It took me a few years to get her what the hell he was wearing.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 01:22 AM
1

This sounds awful butt hurt. Move along. Soft next.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 10:33 PM
1

My wife has a similar getup. Major boner deflater.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 10:09 PM
1

Is /r/marriedredpill not included?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:07 PM
1

Sounds like you need to moderate a new group /r/GAYREDPILL.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:40 PM
3

Stupid question maybe, but is TRP applicable for gay dudes?
/r/askTRP06/08/15 04:09 AM
1

I don't see any problem with it so long as you're progressing with your basic 5x5 compound lifts. Do those first and then add some extra "isolation exercises" at the end of the workout. The gainz fairy won't skip your house if he sees you doing some preacher curls.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 01:09 AM
1

Of course what you're saying is pretty much the standard for fitness plans, but my own personal experience has been different. My fitness and physique improved significantly when I moved from 3x / week to 5x / week without any overtraining downsides.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 10:54 AM
2

in both you can make some really great newb gains right out of the gate, but then it becomes a grind to keep eking out tiny little improvements over time. The successful people are the ones who don't give up or just lose focus.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:28 PM
2

I'm plateauing and need to move off of Stronglifts, but I freaking LOVE the app. I would love to find one as simple and intuitive for Madcow / 5-3-1 / Texas method.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:26 PM
1

Stronglifts has chin-ups and dips as accessory excercises
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:24 PM
1

As others have said, lift heavy and take a pill. No shame in that. I'd try that for a while before I went to testosterone. Sometimes I think you just need to break the cycle and get your confidence back up. I'm 37 and I've used to get out of a temporary slump before, and still use it occasionally when I'm in the mood for an extended session. Besides keeping it at full mast, I find that I can last longer on Viagra. I also last longer in subsequent sessions, but i think that just goes back to havi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/15 07:54 AM
1

Good stuff. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 06:04 PM
6

This hurts because it's true. And I'm married.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 08:31 PM
2

"Hey, I don't call your country a cunt. Don't call my fraternity a frat"
/r/askTRP03/04/15 08:21 PM
1

Perfect
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 05:30 PM
2

Yeah, this gets all the guys laid.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 03:16 PM
1

Brazilian Portuguese. Brazil is a rising economy, freaking huge, exotic, cheap to visit, and (reportedly) full of red pill women.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 03:16 PM
3

If you study high impact business writing, one of the first rules is to state your purpose in the first sentence. I guess your post title should do that, but I'd like to see it in sentence format at the top of your post. You can then go back and provide background and additional info.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 02:57 PM
3

This looks like a great blog. I wonder how I can subtlety introduce my wife to it?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/15 02:43 PM
2

Good stuff. You need to post this up with more examples.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 12:57 PM
5

One month and you haven't finished the book? Put "read faster" on your map :)
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 12:55 PM
-1

I think this is generally true. I've seen it in sports, academics, and work. Guys seem to be able to take "tough love" criticism much better than women. Women tend to internalize it and it affects their emotions. With that said, some guys will get upset, but they are typically the hot-headed egocentric prema Donna types. Source: I've never seen a guy cry when criticized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 12:43 PM
2

Touch his forearm while standing directly in front talking. Kind of an "oh, you stop it" swat.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/15 12:20 PM
2

I created a tinder profile once with my wife's Facebook account (weird, I know). The first observation I made was that Guys who are smiling look like beta goobers. Guys with a stoic look or confident smirk just look cooler and way more alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 12:24 AM
1

Don't get hung up on the cash. You need to be thinking about the long term plan. 5500 / month is serious bank at 18, but that's barely middle class if you have a family. If you plan for it and invest in your future, you have the opportunity to be sipping margaritas full time on a beach by the time you're 50. open a 401k. Max it out don't waste your money on stupid shit. Your "materialistic" comment makes me think you are. get a long term plan. What's next? Start your own business? Move up into m…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:56 PM
10

Why are you asking? You know the answer. Just break it off. Don't try to talk it out because the worst thing that could happen would be for her to promise to change, and even to go full slut mode for a few months. That will just string it out. Regardless of what happens before the wedding, you know that the other commenter's mention of this being "the good ole days" is spot on.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 04:12 AM
1

Unless you plan to cure cancer or something, I think that you'll have a much more substantive impact on society by putting your energy toward raising your children.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 10:03 PM
0

How are these things oppressive? They are all aspirational things. Ideals to strive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 03:19 PM
3

I think you're probably going full-on asshole a little too hard. "Sweet cheeks" sounds condescending if you haven't already established a playful mood. And like others have said, emailing her to say she needs to do a better job of being a Stay-at-home-mom is pretty lame. I have a pretty good wife, but I know that doing that now, much less when she's pregnant, would be counterproductive.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 02:45 PM
2

Have you read and internalized MMSLP? Stay or go, you need time to improve yourself before you can expect anything positive to come from "dread level 9.25". Stick it out awhile to lift and improve your style. Your confidence will be higher and you'll either turn your marriage around or put yourself in a much better spot to hit the ground running when it does end. Personally, I plan on lifting and running my MAP for 1 full year before I declare this whole experiment a success or failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 08:37 PM
1

At some point maybe you have to realize you may have married a harpie.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 04:56 PM
1

Ditch the Pokemon and online games. End it now. Today. Go to the gym and make yourself a better man.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 05:11 AM
1

Not at all. As long as she's not lazy, I could care less. A sexy kindergarten teacher is just as hot as a sexy marketing executive. Best would be a hot kindergarten teacher with a trust fund :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 04:57 AM
3

I'd eat a lot more. I used to lift, but I was so worried about getting fat that I never came anywhere near reaching my potential. I'd have had a much more interesting college experience if I'd come in with an extra 20 pounds of muscle. I'd punch the older guy who bullied me when I was a freshman. I'd not punch the younger guy who "stole" my girlfriend my jr year. I'd change the time I told my friend I'd shave my Head if he went first - and then backed out when I saw how dumb he looked. I'd have …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 10:21 PM
1

I stand corrected. That is interesting that black birth rates apparently peaked in 1990 and since dropped significantly. https://www.census.gov/compendia/statab/2012/tables/12s0080.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 12:45 AM
1

This seems totally backwards to me, but maybe I just don't get women. Why do you think this?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 11:49 PM
2

Don't forget about you avg urban welfare mom. They're still popping out babies at a pretty high rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 11:42 PM
11

The older I get, the more i realize that most adults are just kids faking it and hoping nobody finds out. The problem is that you assume you're the only one doing it. Don't worry. Be yourself, but be the version of yourself that you aspire to be.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 02:51 AM
7

I have three boys and a girl. Mine are young, but I think the environment you consciously put them in plays a large role in the impact society has. Mine are in Scouts, take martial arts, and play on boys-only sports teams. In the end, you're the parent and have to take ownership of who you allow to influence your children.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 11:24 PM
3

For me it has really been just staying away from grains, white potatoes, and sugar. I'm Trying to get lean meats and plenty of vegetables. It can be tough sometime if you are in a hurry, But any fast food restaurant has a grilled chicken salad. And real lifting plus good sleep. That combo makes me feel really good.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 04:35 AM
4

If she says 6, then the laws of TRP mean that it's likely closer to 10. At least 8. What about anal? I just could see settling into an LTR with a girl who'd done anal with a bunch (3?) of dudes.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 02:34 AM
1

I'm a personally a long way from maxing out natural gains, but I wouldn't look down at all on someone who used a little Mexican protein.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 02:31 AM
3

I used to get so tired in the afternoons that I could hardly work. I started lifting, staying away from carbs, supplementing with a multivitamin & fish oil, and then it pretty much went away. I'm only tired now when I've been up late / early - but that's ok.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 02:26 AM
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I'm saving this comment. Nice summary!
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:30 AM
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Don't have a kid!
/r/askTRP19/03/15 12:31 AM
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You're over-thinking this. I don't think having a kind word for someone is bluepill at all. In fact, being nice to her for it's own sake shows MORE self confidence and self esteem than if you'd been a butt-hurt dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 07:28 PM
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I don't think this is a big deal at all. I like my wife's family and was happy to name make her maiden name my first born's middle name. All four of my kids have a middle name which ties back to a loved relative. I see this as the same. Now, I'd go nuclear if she insisted on the double last name approach that the OP is talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 09:00 AM
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I think it works well as a hobby - something that makes you a slightly more interesting and less lame. I'll tell you from experience that bringing home a deer doesn't get my wife wet in the panties. I think that she does respect the fact that I accomplished a goal that I set out for myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 12:46 PM
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I've GOT to be better at both asserting what I want and dealing with rejection. Backstory: about a month ago I got my wife's phone and entered an appointment for "Steak and BJ Day" on March 14. About a week ago my wife asked what it was, and I said "it's when you buy me a steak and give me a blowjob". Expectations were clearly set. I was out of town Friday night. Sat morning I got a few sexy texts from the wife, so I'm thinking it's on. Later I got a call from her saying that she was having her …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 12:19 PM
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If you have the least bit of reservations, then I think you need to be firm in your no. Literally for the rest of your life you'll have this hanging over your head every day. You should have worked this out before you got married, but I'd say hell no.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 10:14 PM
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I read the books via kindle on my phone. I'd tell her if she asked , but that hasn't happened.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 05:24 AM
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Key Points: Distinctions in masculine and feminine roles are ordained by God as part of the created order, and should find an echo in every human heart Adam’s headship in marriage was established by God before the Fall, and was not a result of sin The Fall introduced distortions into the relationships between men and women. In the home, the husband’s loving, humble headship tends to be replaced by domination or passivity; the wife’s intelligent, willing submission tends to be replaced by usurpat…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 07:26 PM
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This does look wrong. My (still) skinny wife had 4 kids, and you could never once tell she was pregnant from behind. Still always had a nice curve. But from the profile - oh mama - That thing was huge. Stuck out like a horizontal camel's hump.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 02:55 AM
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I want to hear the story about the really fat chick. Why did you go through with it with her?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 01:04 AM
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I didn't mean to come off like I'm shitting on your FR. Strong work there. Just some encouragement to keep pressing forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 02:49 AM
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Congratulations on the great progress. I think MRP is like a diet. You've been stuffing your pie hole with empty carbs for years and then suddenly you quit. The first thing that happens is that you drop a bunch of water weight and you look / feel way better. The scale shows great improvement and you think you've got this thing wrapped up. Then the progress slows down and you have to really fight for every pound. Eventually, you realize that further progress is going to take real dedication to yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 01:32 AM
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I can think of a few things more manly than going north-south on some fat hairy dude. I'm just sayin' :).
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:08 PM
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Man, I've got to work on this more. My wife can read me like a book. I may try to not be butt-hurt about it, but I just can't hide it because deep down I AM pissed off about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 12:38 PM
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I imagine that most every activity has a small subculture of people who bond and hangout outside of just doing the activity. Case in point: I moved to a new city about 13 years ago not knowing anyone, and found that my new house was close to a bike trail. I started riding my bicycle on the trail - usually solo. When I was in decent shape I started doing organized weekly group road biking rides where I met lots of people. Then I started racing, where I met more people. Then I joined a "team" wher…
/r/seduction09/03/15 10:50 AM
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Here's a direct link for the lazy: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1892005034/ref=ox_sc_act_image_1?ie=UTF8&psc=1&smid=A2BJC0O15C01RO
/r/RedPillParenting08/03/15 06:02 PM
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I hunt in the fall. During the spring and summer I like to shoot and ride road bikes (but not at the same time). By the way, cycling is a great way to meet people who will have a generally positive impact on your life. Most bike shops have organized rides on Saturdays. Once you get in shape, you can start doing some racing just for fun, and then that opens up a whole subculture of fit, positive, and cool people.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:10 PM
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Can you say a bit about your fitness journey? What did you do and how long did it take you to go from your "before" to "after" state? Any insights you'd like share?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 09:05 PM
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You can't spell LEGenDAry without "leg Day". I bet You can still squat.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:19 PM
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I'd echo this. I've had a lot of fun going out in Warsaw. I'm married, but I've let plenty of "untapped" opportunities pass me by. I swear that EVERY girl there under 45 has a smoking hot body. Skinny waists and nice fat tits are a dime a dozen. Unfortunately, there are also a lot of butter faces there too, but most girls hit solid 5-6 status just on body alone. Kraków is also nice.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:16 AM
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Since it hasn't been said yet: lift. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 05:17 PM
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Stronglifts is definitely a beginner program.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 04:54 PM
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I think you should have prioritized your wife over your mother. It's not your mom's kid. It's yours and your now ex wife's. You mom has ZERO authority to do anything to or with the kid. My personal opinion is that you should read NMMNG and think real hard about how it applies to your relationship with your mother.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 01:19 PM
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You can do cardio AFTER your workout, but Mehdi from Stronglifts discourages doing it on REST days. You may be able to get away with it when you are just starting out with lite weights, but I think your recovery will suffer as the weights increase. Adding 15lb / week to your squat requires a good bit of recovery - especially as you are reaching the end of your linear progression. With all that said, keep lifting hard, but keep your focus on cutting weight. I've gone through periods of indecisive…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 01:11 PM
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Not from what I've read or experienced. Because of the fact that these drugs are PDE5 inhibitors, there are supposedly no long term effects. You body apparently can't build up a tolerance to the inhibitor. I'd recommend you doing your own research though.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:13 PM
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Have you tried cialis or Viagra? It may get you over the hump (pun intended) until you can get your confidence back.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 01:02 AM
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This. I grew up in LA, MS, AL. I'd hold the door for a man woman or child - but especially for a pretty girl I was planning to get naked :)
/r/askTRP28/02/15 05:29 PM
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Yes 100%. Knowing what I know now, I just would behave differently during those early years of marriage. That was the time when we where we were starting to have kids and I was quickly becoming a full-on beta bitch. What I definitely would change is my behavior with girls PRIOR to marriage. My dating life would have been a lot more interesting if I'd known and applied TRP principles. Edit: Christian with a wife who was raised in probably the least feminist family in America. YMMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 03:36 PM
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Reading the sidebar material really is required.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 03:19 PM
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I see this as the big danger. I'm well on the road to having a higher SMV than my wife, and I'm sure the gap will continue to widen with age. I can think of situations in the past that I would have been tempted to carry to fruition in my current state of mind (and body).
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 09:29 PM
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Oh. I've got a long way to go. I'm barely half way there now. All weights are 5x5 sets. Not sure what my 1 RM would be: Bench: 165 DL: 240 Squat: 180 Total: 585 OHP: 105 I was at about 750 during the summer and then let a lower back injury knock me off the wagon for 4 months. I started at about 50% on all my lifts in January, but it's been much easier to make progress this second time around.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 09:12 PM
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My current lifting goal is to hit the 1000 pound club before I'm 39 (18 mo) - something I never was able to do playing high school football.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 05:49 PM
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Hell, I'm 38 and i'd save money if I lived with my mommy. Why is this even a question? Move out and be your own man.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 01:15 AM
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LOL - you were going to impress a woman with your dart skills.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:12 PM
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This won't get me any TRP cred, but you're fine not having sex with a girl you think you want to marry - just as long as you KNOW she's a winner and not a former slut. I'd suggest trying to lock up a virgin if you can. My wife and I are both Christians and we dated 6 years without having intercourse. I promise you the attraction was there the whole time. Maybe it's trying to get out on a technicality, but we'd still do handjobs and oral all the time. I don't regret anything. I doubt we'd continu…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:00 PM
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Agree. I've done both, and losing the fat should be the priority. Noob gains phenomenon will allow you to continue to gain strength for several months while the fat peels off.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:21 PM
1

Great post. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 03:05 PM
1

No way. I think OP had a great line.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 11:55 PM
1

"Put your hands in the counter and stick your butt out. I'm going to fuck you" This is gold. I've never done this before, but it's going on my short list. Thanks for the inspiration!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 11:54 PM
1

This
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 11:47 PM
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Can you explain your 50% comment? Trying to internalize that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/15 03:13 PM
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Can you elaborate some more on your "lonely road" and less love comments? I think I understand what you are saying, but I'd like to hear more. Maybe some examples?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 09:20 PM
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She cooks dinner 3-4 days a week.lunches are PB&J or something similar. The older kids are in school full time. The 4 yr old goes 2x/week.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 10:33 PM
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6 years is not a big deal. You're over thinking it.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 07:39 PM
2

What is the "Main Event"?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 10:36 PM
2

Can you post up your library of texts? This is golden.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 04:47 PM
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Lot of good advice from this guy. I did 4-5 months of stronglifts 5x5 in the fall and couldn't get straight in my head if I wanted to focus on strength or fat loss. I'd stop eating and my squats would stall. I'd eat good and then I'd complain because I wasn't losing fat. I'm restarting after an injury now and I'm going to run a calorie deficit and just let my lifts stall if it comes to that. I think I'll be happier with the results.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:05 PM
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Just curious - how did you phrase your text?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 10:48 PM
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We can always use more Uncle Remus references.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 03:25 AM
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No way should some little kid be going around saying "take a piss" to adults, teachers, women. Teaching kids to have some social class is not blue pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/15 02:31 PM
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Depends on where you are. Get into a troop sponsored by a conservative evangelical church and I think you'll find that things are pretty squared away. I say that only having experience in the south and Midwest USA. Could be different elsewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/15 02:29 PM
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Why? Do you hate white people? I think what he is saying is "non-Asian expats".
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 02:26 PM
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I don't know. Getting "shit drunk and high" may work if you are a kid trying to impress other kids. I think an adult doing this is kind of pathetic. There's nothing wrong with a little 'social lubrication' to open people up. Taking it to the extreme, like this guy seems to suggest, is going to backfire more often than not. Everyone thinks they are cool and funny and good looking when they are wasted. In reality, unless the other person is in the same or worst shape than you, they typically just …
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:37 PM
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No it's not.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 01:40 AM
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No advice, but I've lived through this via my mom and her second husband. She and his daughters didn't get along, and it was hell for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 01:54 PM
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judo FTW
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 03:29 AM
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I've got an online Google spreadsheet that I can update via a web form on my phone. I track : - did we have "contact". - who initiated, me or her. - if yes, then what kind: sex, BJ, etc. - if not, why: rejected, fell asleep, working, not in the mood (me) etc. - where she is in her cycle staring from day 1. - what have I done to improve myself that day (lift, cardio, crossfit). - did I pray for my wife and our marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 03:27 AM
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Swallowing while deployed? Must be Navy, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 07:38 PM
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Just getting started on the RP journey. Holding frame, being assertive, stepping up to lead small and large decisions. Lifting. All the basic stuff - just 4 weeks in.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/15 08:41 PM
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You forgot to mention big swollen breasts in the plus column :)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/15 07:04 PM
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What about this quote:? "These findings strongly support the proposition that men have an innate preference for sexual variety and women for selectivity and monogamy." and "...homogamy rather than female hypergamy is the rule."
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 01:10 AM
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Have you checked out /r/leangains ? Lots of good info on fasting and lifting.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 06:04 PM
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Now that I've got a little perspective, I think the success is because her dad has this stuff nailed down tight, so she just falls into naturally. I was raised by a pretty bad ass single mom (painfully classic NMMNG), and I was always amazed. (In a negative way) by how my Mother-in-law just hangs on whatever my father-in-law says. He's a great guy, but I was so used to my mom being so independent that I tended to look down on my wife's mom for not being more independent too. Looking back, now I …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 01:21 AM
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Thanks for the dalrock reco. I just spent a couple of hours reading his stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 01:08 AM
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Then I say try Stronglifts or Starting Strength & work up to heavy weights. The current routine isn't working, so you might as well try something new. You only need one hour max per workout 3x / week.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:07 AM
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Nothing makes me feel better than when I'm lifting heavy (5x5), eating decent, and getting good sleep. My energy goes up, i feel more confident, i get better boners, last longer in the sack, etc. 10 hours of sleep is great. That still leaves 14 hours to work and workout. Lots of people get good sleep, work 50 hrs a week and still have time for exercise, dating, & friends. I bet your problem is a lack of discipline in going to bed on time. Do you stay up late on the Internet or playing video …
/r/askTRP23/01/15 09:40 PM
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