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“About one-in-five Millennial men residing with their own child or children are unmarried. This is significantly higher than the shares for previous generations: 15% of Gen X fathers, 4% of Boomer fathers and 1% of dads in the Silent Generation were unmarried at a comparable age.” Pew research
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 08:04 PM
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Alright , these comments are cracking me up. Just gonna add https://youtu.be/XCuIyA7kXvI
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:16 AM
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The future of affirmative action in college admissions https://www.ivywise.com/ivywise-knowledgebase/resources/article/the-truth-about-affirmative-action-for-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:48 PM
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>You are out of your mind for saying you haven't changed one bit buddy. Most people change...a lot. But don’t overestimate this poster. It’s quite likely he hasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 01:07 AM
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Abwahm All Brazilian women are homicidal maniacs.😝
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:11 PM
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We are talking about LTRS. If you want a strong bond, inspiring lust in your partner strengthens the bond. Nothing smooths over the rough edges and conflicts of living with a spouse like mutually enjoyable sex does.. Why would you want that “burned out”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:33 PM
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Because horny is an unpleasant experience, all things considered? Been at the bottom of some of my best experiences. I wish I was a horny now as I was at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:13 PM
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And don’t forget his grandfather was also cast out of the family home by a cabal of cackling witches and as a result died somehow as a result of being homeless? If I recall, grandpa drowned. I’m not sure how drowning and being homeless are connected though, but attempted murder and negligent homicide are just common events that all men must suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:04 PM
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You are comparing urban and rural imho. Fat folks are everywhere. Poor people are more likely to be fat, rural folks as well. I will say that women in more conservative areas tend to wear heavier makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 01:43 PM
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This scenario is pretty common. So is adding one or two a year for several years after a divorce. In my experience, this is also common, in all socio economic classes. It’s often a function of how long a person is “single “.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:58 PM
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If for women the doors of casual sex are open from 6+ Lol, waaat? There is no bottom for women’s access to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:35 AM
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It’s not strictly education and class. It‘s also dependent on how long people stay single. Ten + partners is going to be much more common in women who don’t marry until they are early thirties and women who have been divorced for many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:51 AM
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From the article you linked to: “However, experiences of men circumcised as adults differ dramatically. Some men actually prefer sex afterwards because they no longer have the pain of a tight or inflamed foreskin. Some report a significant loss in sensitivity and greatly reduced sexual pleasure. Some report being less sensitive but say there is no change in their overall enjoyment of sex. Some are very happy with their decision to get circumcised.” No one says that about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:21 AM
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What do you think would happen if men started holding women to the same standards that women hold men to? Ignoring the “who asks who out”, should men require women to be “entertaining, interesting, prosocial/ communicative, generally display value, pass shit tests, and pay for dates”? Lord I wish they would. I think most women would welcome it. As it stands now, too many men say women only need to be hot, young, and know how to shut up. It would make society better overall if men required women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:15 AM
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“two years in particular that stand out as the most common years for divorce — years 7 and 8.” You are looking at 30 as the most common age for divorce. “60 percent of couples married between the age of 20 -25 will end in divorce. Those who wait to marry until they are over 25 years old are 24 percent less likely to get divorced.” This is from your own source. u/SherbertBacon is right. When you factor out multiple marriages, too young and too old, the divorce rate for college educated couples is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:38 AM
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Oh hell no. My h is very masculine in looks and action, but I can testify he is very happy I made great money as an engineer and even happier with how I’ve invested it. A man who wouldn’t want me to be the best I can be and use all my talents isn’t the man for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:39 PM
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it makes sense to name the child after the person who is certain to be the parent. There are no questions or surprises as to who the genetic mother is. The exact opposite is why the fathers name is important. Yes, everyone already knows who mom is. Giving a kid the fathers name acknowledges paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:31 PM
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Like I said, I think this is just an inate trait that most people have, but they don’t think about “the why” Just like men wouldn’t verbalize “I’m attracted to women’s breasts because they are a dimorphic trait” any more than they think “she can feed my genetic offspring “. I would guess most women think, and rightly so, that tall is what they find attractive. While I don’t think many people examine the issue much further....I will say there is something that feels very feminine and protected wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:45 PM
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Height is an example of a sexually dimorphic trait. Men are taller, more body hair, more muscular, and women are typically smaller, higher body fat with fat distributed in breasts and hips, less hairy etc. Of course there is a lot of diversity between different ethnic groups, and a lot of individual diversity within groups as well. An average US woman is taller than an Indonesian man. https://www.disabled-world.com/calculators-charts/height-chart.php It’s kind of built into us as a default to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:40 PM
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I’m worried about being one STD from the median
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:10 PM
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Try a post on this topic, see how many agree with you. TRP is all about avoiding commitment and spinning plates. Op of this thread certainly wishes casual sex was available to him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 11:38 PM
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So women are supposed to trust men because they have no options? Ever hear of hookers? Ever hear of the first wives club? Remember the basic questioned posed, to paraphrase,why don’t women want casual sex like we men do? No one even challenged the idea that all men want casual sex in the first place. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 11:38 PM
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Great news that he’s home! Sucks balls they couldn’t *keep him longer, just to be safe. Is he in the house alone? 2020 does suck in general tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 11:28 PM
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I have preferences, but then have been totally surprised when I found myself attracted to someone completely not fitting “my type”. Was wildly physically attracted to a guy 1” shorter than me, have found some blonde men attractive, I like medium to slim build but some really skinny guys have been attractive, balding guys attractive, etc. I think I might be rare based on other women’s comments here, I think a wide range of men can be attractive. A handsome face is a handsome face. And sometimes e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 11:22 PM
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https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2016/02/03/nearly-half-of-gay-men-have-had-an-open-relationship/ Did you think all those dudes in the bushes in the public park were counting butterflies?Or that glory holes, bathhouses and back rooms in gay bars were urban myths? I honestly think most straight guys would do the same, at least for a while when they were young, if they had the chance. ALL women have the chance for anonymous sex a few times a week, very very few don’t show some restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 11:05 PM
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I know a lot of them in committed relationships. I also know what they were like when they were 20 and monogamy was absolutely the last thing on their minds And I have news for you, almost half of those ” committed” gay male relationships are open and non monogamous https://tombruetttherapy.com/monogamy-spectrum-in-gay-relationships/. That’s just one study, several others , plus my own experience, say the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 10:49 PM
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Lots of mentally ill people absolutely are more promiscuous than average. Especially bipolar people ime. Lots of people with substance abuse problems too I don’t know what you consider promiscuous, but do you think most gay men are mentally ill? How about all the men who go to prostitutes, pay sugar babies? All the swingers, frat boys, pro athletes, actors and rock stars? Half of the Hollywood actresses? Most Catholic school girls freshman year of college? Wow, that’s a lot of mentally ill peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 09:48 PM
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I’ve known some really promiscuous women, well ones that have gone through a phase. Yeah, they do partner up from what I’ve seen. I honestly haven’t seen them be divorced more than average, but wouldn’t be surprised, since they tend to run in circles where divorce isn’t frowned upon. Knew one former hottie who got fat and drank herself to death and was promiscuous for years. And one normal, non mentally ill woman who still swings but with her husband. I ran in some pretty libertine circles where…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:21 PM
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What behavior? As I told another poster, I’ve known gay men who have anonymous sex multiple times a week. A woman could easily have sex with a hundred guys a year, and I’ve never known any woman to be as promiscuous as her options. In fact I thought about that after I posted. I’ve known many women who went through a slutty phase. The only woman I know who has engaged in this behavior for years and still engages in lots of casual sex is one who is in the swing community. All the negatives, ....un…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:09 PM
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Low inhibition? High sex drive? I mean what’s “quite a bit” by your definition? I’ve had gay male roommates who had casual, anonymous sex multiple times every week. Even the fairly promiscuous women I have known are relatively chaste in comparison to their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 06:04 PM
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That poster I responded to said in an earlier post that a guy needed “club clothes” to successfully troll for women in clubs. The only “clubs“ I still go to are music clubs in Atl a few times a year, but I certainly don’t notice the men in any sort of “special outfit“ or “club clothes”. Tended bar for years and can guarantee there was no special outfits for men purchased to go out, get shitfaced and hopefully get laid.....unless it was Mardi Gras or Holloween
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:54 PM
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There is no doubt that women in general have a lower sex drive, a more reactive sex drive and are much more relationship minded. Doesn’t completely explain why some women would never even consider casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:46 PM
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From the 2018 FBI crime statistics. Expanded Homicide statistics Data Table 10. Victim to perpetrator profiles. Husband 119. Wife 519. Boyfriend 210 Girlfriend 531. Under category of relationship of victim to perpetrator. 1050 women killed. 339 men killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:16 PM
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Trafficked tortured and killed,.... Those are all possible but statistically improbable, still not worth the risk for no reward. I think the more common experience is feeling pressured to perform acts that you are uncomfortable with...this is common with gay men too....and the awkward feeling of going through the motions halfway through when it’s not really working I have had some incredibly fun casual sex tbh, I’ve had some that I absolutely would not want a repeat of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 04:37 PM
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Can they go to a random glory hole and find a woman, not a gay dude? No. Can they pull from a bar? I’ve seen guys who can a several times a year for sure. If their standards are low and they are good looking? Slightly more often. Still not a steady source. Can they pull from a group of friends? Get an ongoing fwb? Depends who they hang out with. Not to be insulting, but if that crowd is full of guys who think “club clothes” are a thing....probably not. College kids, young urban dwellers, yeah pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 01:20 PM
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Wait...whaaaaat? Where did you get that >There are roughly 9x more male homicide victims than women homicide cpvictims in an average year in the US. I’m gonna need a source for that What I see, for 2018 is 10,914 male 3,180 female victims. Got that from the FBI if 38 % of those women were killed by an intimate partner that’s 1208 women, if 7 % of those men were killed by an intimate parter that’s 764 didt look up every year for the past 10 years but ...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 12:58 PM
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Women are much less likely to go to a private place and get naked with a stranger twice as strong as her, have sex which will probably not give her an orgasm, risk getting pregnant with some strangers child, and be shamed and considered unworthy of serious relationships, and labeled used goods? Color me shocked.!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:36 AM
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Sure. There is no unconditional love. Maybe, just maybe your mother loves you unconditionally. But many people experience loving and being loved by someone. Maybe it’s not always lifetime and permanent, but it does still exist Love is delusion? Consider for a second this may be true for you but not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 10:54 PM
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Sure, why tie yourself down? Why hang on to an old dog when a younger, cuter, better dog might come along. Just dump the old one off at the pound. Why not break your plans with an old friend when a new friend comes along who might be more fun? Maybe you don’t, but some people actually form attachments to people of the opposite sex, they make bonds and honor those bonds. Weird huh? Some people seem even capable of something called love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 10:46 PM
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He needs to get another job and possibly therapy and anti depressants. No one with a household income in that range should be in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:56 PM
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Why did literal juveniles behave in “childish” and juvenile ways and why do young adults act like young adults? Wow, I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:49 PM
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Yah, bad form on her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:35 PM
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I will add that there is nothing at all unmanly about my husband. I love masculine men. I love every dimorphic trait. He still opens the jars, is bigger and stronger and protective. He is also strong emotionally. He isn’t afraid to cry when he needs to cry, but a guy crying every night over 100k? Seriously,I don’t know the guy but I think I have already lost respect for him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:33 PM
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Chicken meet egg. The fact that he cries every night over his 100k probably hasn’t helped her opinion of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:25 PM
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Why would anyone who makes a combined 400k do any menial task they don’t want to do? I mean does he do his oil changes or cut his own grass even though he hates it? Paints his own house? I made more than my husband. He didn’t cry every night. Seems a “him” problem. I know a guy who is a househusband, his wife is a drug store heiress and she goes to work every day managing the family money. He’s happy as a pig in shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:20 PM
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I've literally never had a job where, at some point, I didn't have to clean the toilet. Goals
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:04 PM
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Children brought up in single mother homes are: 5 times more likely to commit suicide, 9 times more likely to drop out of high school, ... 50% of single mothers are below the poverty line, their children are 6 times more likely to be in poverty than children with married parents. ..............and so on ☹️ It’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:21 PM
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No one cares. Prostitution should be legal, most people agree. Just to clarify the nature of the transaction. Sex in exchange for cash and prizes is called prostitution. It’s like the twilight zone in this thread. Some men saying I love this lobster. Well you might be eating a dish you enjoy, good for you, but by all definition what you are eating is monkfish. Then the inevitable response. “”Don’t shame me for liking lobster”, “It’s none of your business if I want to purchase lobster” It’s bizar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:15 PM
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Okay, you make good points about her hypocrisy. I just disagree that she “got a pass cause gynocentrism”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:00 PM
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both enjoy having sex with each other. Lol, see how much she “enjoys it“ when she stops getting paid. $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:22 PM
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Gay male prostitutes exist, they are just young. Young people in general just don’t want sex with old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:19 PM
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How about every skank you date demand you be willing to be her sperm donor baby daddy and then pay her child support. After all, you did it for some other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:07 PM
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Yeah, some people prioritize bumping their uglies with the most attractive thing around....water is wet, what’s my “argument “. I readily acknowledge that some guys want the hottest woman and will gladly pay for it. I also acknowledge that some young women just want the hottest guy possible and could care less about a relationship with him. I made no statement on which was better, an actual girlfriend or a gfe. I only stated they are different. My only point was that paid sex is paid sex. Poster…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:32 AM
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I think it should be legal too. What’s your point? Who said anything was “wrong with it”. I personally would avoid a guy who made sex with hookers a habit, you’re perfectly able to avoid women who have sex with 20 different dudes off of Tinder every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:02 AM
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I don’t know if we “let it slide” To be fair, I just googled her name and his name came up as a suggested search and here we are talking about it. It was a little creepy tbh. What did you think should “happen” ? It was legal. Jerry Seinfeld dated a 17 year old when he was 39. I don’t remember him being ruined. http://defamer.gawker.com/remember-when-38-year-old-jerry-seinfeld-dated-a-17-yea-1714153938
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:53 AM
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And we absolute, positively, NEVER discuss our past sex lives with an ex with a new bf. Absolutely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:55 AM
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largely resembles my normal relationships A dildo “largely resembles” a real penis. Buying sex is buying sex. If you want to buy sex that “resembles “ a relationship that’s fine. That’s a “girl friend EXPERIENCE “, not a girlfriend. The only difference between an escort and a sugar baby, is the pretense. Escorts sometimes offer a gfe, sugar babies mostly offer an ongoing gfe. Both will pretend to enjoy it to speed things along and keep repeat business. It’s really not that big a difference. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:41 AM
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I hate the fat acceptance movement, it’s just unhealthy. I know, some people are fat and healthy, some people smoke and make it to 90 too But I do think there is a biological basis behind overweight women not getting as many smp points knocked off as men. Fat is a feminizing trait, women need more fat to be fertile. The extra weight on a man lowers testosterone, on a woman it can emphasize female dimorphism....ie bigger boobs and hips
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:06 AM
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Being lean is much more important than being big Amen. I know you like them big, that’s you. In general, just not being fat makes you already above average
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 01:53 AM
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I feel a new flair coming on......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 01:41 AM
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I have done both and only difference is condom use. Has it ever occurred to you that you might be the outlier? That you exhibit one of the characteristics in that study...that men who habituate prostitutes have a much higher propensity to see sex as an impersonal act? Have you wondered why other men crave the girlfriend experience? Has it occurred to you that most men’s experiences might be different? Researchers have measured oxytocin levels (the love hormone) in men during sex and how it aids …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:22 AM
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I’m arguing that prostitution is not ever going to replace relationship sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:16 AM
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?????? When did I ever say prostitution shouldn’t be legal? If you recognize how dangerous it is, why does it surprise you that sociopaths and psychopaths are more likely to go to hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:14 AM
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That assumes that going to a prostitute is a similar experience to having sex with a loving partner. One is very different than the other. A man with a prostitute can indulge in any sexual act he orders up, he doesn’t have to worry about pleasing a woman, and he can get a different woman any time. A man having sex with a non pro, a woman having sex because she genuinely desires you, may not have the excitement that variety, control and the catering to specific desire that sex with a hooker bring…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:08 AM
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none of what you describe happens?Lol that is the most naive thing I have ever heard. Sex work is the most dangerous job there is ....by a long shot “In 2004 the homicide rate for female sex workers in the United States was estimated to be 204 per 100,000, although this figure mixes illegal work with legal work.[2] This figure is considerably higher than that for the next riskiest occupations in the United States during a similar period (4 per 100,000 for female liquor store workers and 29 per 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:26 PM
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Probably. In many non western countries the availability of sex outside of marriage is much more limited. You can’t compete in a game no one plays. I also don’t think women in these countries are competing to give it away for free and men still pursue women for relationships, so I don’t think prostitution changes the dating and marriage market much. Both institutions, marriage and prostitution, are as old as history and have existed side by side with one not affecting the other much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:02 PM
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It’s actually usually funny and well written. https://www.npr.org/programs/wait-wait-dont-tell-me/902589773/wait-wait-for-aug-15-2020-a-best-of-wait-wait-show
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:55 AM
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Lol... WAIT WAIT DON’T TELL ME,,, that’s the name of the show! It’s a comedy/current events/quiz show with a panel of three different comedians.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:44 AM
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wait wait don’t tell me ....NPR. This weekend‘s radio show
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:39 PM
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Happened once. On paper, probably the most promising prospect I ever had. 6/6/6. About 7 to 8 years older but decent looking and fit. Pursued me for a while, so I should have figured out the chemistry wasn’t there from the beginning. We dated for about 6 weeks maybe? It was something he did in bed. It wasn’t kinky or gross .....just no, so so no......
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:09 PM
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Atlas: https://images.app.goo.gl/jpnpWA4Cre2rvyoC8 But with a much deeper voice than Mike Myers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:57 PM
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I thought about this for a while this morning. I have a hard time wrapping my brain around “impersonal sex” As something comparable to getting my hair cut or getting a cup of coffee. I would think that 90% of women and probably a significant number of men agree. To me, it’s an oxymoron. I dunno, maybe this is where we are heading, but it also makes me sad. The butterfly’s, the emotional connection, they all make sex much more than masterbation into a human hole. But I have seen lots of gay guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:26 PM
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As long as good looking guys are not only getting it for free, but are getting it with enthusiasm and genuine desire, there will always be a sexual caste system. Those who have sex with willing partners and those who will always be seen as HAVING to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:14 PM
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Men dont find all women physically attractive, they find most fuckable. They typically settle for “attractive enough“. Women don’t find all men physically attractive, they also don’t find most fuckable, especially without other attractive qualities. They typically settle for “attractive enough”. From this weekend‘s Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me “SAGAL: Maz, researchers have surveyed single people who were looking for a partner and found all of them have one thing in common as to what they want in a pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:02 PM
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Just feels like someone had an agenda and set out to discredit a “study” to justify their preconceived beliefs about men who use escorts, without even reading it. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:05 AM
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I think it will definitely be seen as morally neutral, and probably legalized. Unlike homosexuality though, the biggest stigma has little to do with morality, it has to do with being seen as a loser, so it is a bit different in that way. We might get to the point where it is normalized. Idk. My point was that saying things like “it’s great for the handicapped “ actually IS the real stigma.......
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:04 AM
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I stole it from someone responding to this bit of ppd insanity https://i.redd.it/852y726ccue51.png
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:05 AM
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similar education and ethnic group but it doesn’t mention what that was? “7We conducted phone screenings of 1,247 men to select for the two groups (SB and NSB) and to match the two groups on age, ethnicity, and education. The groups were matched within 5 years on age. We used guidelines from the Massachusetts Census to establish approximate size of ethnic groups (Metro Boston Data Common, 2010; U.S. Census Bureau, 2000) who were categorized as African American, Asian or Pacific Islander, Latino …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:58 AM
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You are kind of arguing against the op’s point in a way though. You are right that prostitution has always been around, and so has marriage. One has never replaced the other and never will. And saying that prostitution is good for the disabled (which I think it is, btw) doesn’t destigmatize it. It pretty much says you are paying because you can’t get sex any other way. Not something young, able bodied guys want to identity with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:40 AM
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Yah...Btw, how old are they? I find them very similar to straight guys with a high smv to be honest. They often settle down into monogamy later, and statistically almost half will be “monogomish” , in a relationship with rules for an occasional hall pass or threeway with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:31 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/281443339 found it no paywall more aggression toward women, less empathy, more fear of rejection, self reported higher likelihood to rape The most interesting finding to me is that men who regularly visited sex workers less accurately assessed the actual experience of the sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:24 AM
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sexual services were routine and normalized and mundane Oof. You are right on the nose. In the study of men who routinely visit prostitutes that u/Mimoxs linked to, one of the hallmarks the noted was that those men reported feeling those women were just objects “It’s like having a cup of coffee, when you’re done you throw it out” was a quote from that study. Lets hope society never gets to a point where treating other humans as disposable garbage never gets normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:16 AM
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I‘ve been roommates with promiscuous gay men, they have it even easier than legal prostitution, they can go out and find free, anonymous sex at the drop of a hat, and without stigma. From what I can tell, this in no way replaces or diminishes their desire for emotional connection or romantic relationships Most men crave sexual variety, especially when they are young, but unless they have some sort of attachment disorder or mental illness, most men will still seek out relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:03 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/281443339
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:36 AM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:20 AM
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I came really close to dating a former male sex worker at two times in my life. Before my ex and at a point in time after. Long story......lol A guy who went to a hooker once to see what it was like? No problem A guy who regularity relied on hookers? No thanks. That’s a guy who probably wouldn’t make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:14 AM
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I know what you are saying. It was some of each tbh. But I never felt “tossed aside”, I had a pretty libertine circle of friends where casual sex was common and expectations low. Several hookups turned into str, but more than one was ended by me. Honestly if I didn’t have any transition with casual sex and STR’s at all I’m not sure I would ever have gotten married at all. It was part of a gradual process of getting back into the game for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:01 AM
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Let's not confuse cause and effect here. Thank you for this, this is my experience. The time in my life I engaged in casual sex was following two years of celibacy after my 7 year LTR broke up with me. I genuinely thought I would really never trust another man It was a difficult time in my life, but I honestly never felt casual sex added to depression. A few times were big letdowns, some others were really positive and fun. If anything, it helped me get back into living a full life again more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:15 AM
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Nonsense. The guy with the wife that doesn’t work at all still wants her to be faithful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 11:07 PM
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I dont need to check my ph levels on daily basis every since I installed the bubbler to prevent the proliferation of anaerobic bacteria and use my new UV light for disinfection. https://imgur.com/nCkHSR1 So superior to all the vaginal tearing I got using other cleaning methods. And NO! It does not smell like FISH! Fish are edible, everyone knows that pussy isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 10:32 PM
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Welp time for a new flair. Gotta go and get my special soap and check my ph. Hope I don’t tear the vag again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:10 PM
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She wants full monogamous (on his side) commitment. Why? Exclusive access to resources. come on, this is a step too far even for you. My husband made less money than I did and we both expect monogamy from each other. Expecting fidelity has nothing to do with resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:52 PM
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oh shit, I forgot my special soap and tore my vagina again😥
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:20 PM
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As far as sex and relationships go, Japan seems to be a very sad place to me at least
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:47 AM
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Trolling on the internet instead of smoking weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:01 AM
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Wealthier people can afford them, the poor can’t. Given options, even catholic Hispanic women embrace birth control. First numbers compare 1980 to 2010 if I remember, second study compares 2008 to 2018. The best thing happening all around imho is the sharp decrease in teen pregnancy more. I don’t care who has them as long as they want them, can feed them, and are mature enough to care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:00 AM
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I admit it’s a bit old.....2010. Decreased among all minorities, especially Hispanics as of late. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwj1ktmOuIXrAhVtkeAKHffyCU8QFjAAegQIBRAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fifstudies.org%2Fblog%2Fbaby-bust-fertility-is-declining-the-most-among-minority-women&usg=AOvVaw06M5NHEODeqs-oAZSXxJpP Immigrants are quicker to assimilate than we give them credit for imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 01:40 AM
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You fucks won't jay walk, or smoke a joint, or break a rule Sometimes I wonder if they just don’t have things to rebel about. I was a virgin till 19, but I did sneak out at night, skip school, drink with boys, and smoke pot. I was the “straight“ one of my friends. They were dropping acid and going all the way, It was fun, but maybe it was more fun because I was sticking it to my old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 01:10 AM
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I hope so oz, but if not, more for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 12:21 AM
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He will call Israel for help. Yo...Semites. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwiynqfUm4XrAhUjZN8KHQjwAkgQFjAUegQIARAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.usatoday.com%2Fstory%2Fnews%2Fpolitics%2F2020%2F08%2F04%2Ftrump-mispronounces-yosemite-white-house-event%2F3289122001%2F&usg=AOvVaw0GsA5p4DN3pFdkNb_ZCK1J
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 11:31 PM
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I don’t know about “stupid”. Birthrates have decreased for everyone, most sharply for minorities and teenagers. The poor are just barely at replacement rate and rich people are having more https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwijn9mhgYXrAhXDTN8KHTJpBvoQFjAJegQIBBAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fmedium.com%2Fimpact-economics%2Frich-families-are-having-more-kids-1c0b80d5a16e&usg=AOvVaw3f4it_OK73xeCoR-bfNaSK
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:32 PM
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Classes being all male doesn’t help. I only socialized with two of those guys, I was a few years older and tended bar through college. The bar crowd was my tribe, even after I got my first “real” job. I also think there is a bit more of an almost social stigma these days against getting married right after college Yeah, generally good advice to wait imho, but might not be working for stem types. The weirder thing happening is more kids move back home after college now. Twenty years ago more were…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:18 PM
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Yeah I was in New Orleans which is ...just it’s own category. Culturally very different. Conservative light with lots of alcohol. Guys from outside the area? Raised in other parts of Louisiana, Texas, Mississippi? Very conservative. Why do you think they didn’t marry the college girlfriend? Do you think most of them had one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:23 PM
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I find this pretty interesting as a female engineer who’s much older than you. I can only think of a single young guy I worked with who wasn’t married. Most of the guys were pretty fit and not unattractive but conservative and nerdy. They were all married though, by their mid twenties. Mostly to cute women, lots of school teachers, nurses, banking. Low n count guys married to conservative girls they met in college, and most had at least one kid by 30. This was companywide, with the exception of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:04 PM
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Answering for older, I see less sex all around, less satisfaction with sex when it does happen, and technology getting in between our natural triggers for attraction. Can’t say about the future, but I think we are headed toward Japan. Society will hopefully adjust, but it makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:49 PM
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>he often tells me? Is he related, like he actually speaks to you personally or does he just rent space in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:39 PM
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When I want that feedback, I ask a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:56 PM
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Someone here gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:52 PM
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Humiliation and submission are not long term attractive. Most women don’t want even one guy like this, much less a whole harem of them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:48 PM
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Okay. The little head is clearly better at thinking than the big one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:41 PM
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Just say “you look good”. Anything else is a minefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:30 PM
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Oh I see the difference. It’s still a hard no. If he doesn’t want to lock me in a room and fuck the living shit out of me, the relationship would never get started in the first place. Being wanted and being liked are both important. But I don’t care how much he likes me if he doesn’t want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:28 PM
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Then I will assume you know EXACTLY what to say when she asks “do I look fat in this”. 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:19 PM
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pussy don’t really feel all that different. I once knew an old man who used to say “you finally realize all cats are grey in the dark”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:10 PM
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I rate this post as mostly true. I modify it a bit. The drop in testosterone gives most men a bit of clarity. Just like post nut clarity can make a guy think “she’s not that hot after all”, aging makes men think the constant chase just isn’t worth all the added effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:06 PM
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Your uncle is a very smart man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:55 PM
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Hell yes I would be bothered. How would he even become my significant other if I didn’t feel desired?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:53 PM
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I wanted to have women attention Yes.... being the guy who HAS traits that don’t pull women might feel natural, but wanting to be a guy who CAN pull women can be part of your personality too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:45 PM
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I had to find this comment from death by a thousand cats too. Perfectly describes female sexuality “A crucial aspect of male love is protectiveness, possessiveness and ownership. Most women would not feel loved by a man (or men) willing to share her.” OWNERSHIP We want a man to take us, own us ....but ultimately protect us from “men” not share us. Also why the female trope of two men fighting over us is and always has been such a common trope. We don’t want both of them. We want the stronger one…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:32 PM
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Rape is a common fantasy too. Doesn’t mean I would appreciate it in reality. Darla stated the reality of female sexuality. We don’t want all the men, we want the best one, and when he isn’t the best anymore, we want the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 11:56 AM
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Arto Lindsay? Are you a fan or.......if not we need to dm. We know some of the same people. Back to the question. Pick me women who indulge their cuck boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:06 AM
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grow flowers for a living Tell me more!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:35 AM
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Is casual sex really worth contorting your personality for? What if you are a naturally introverted, but also a naturally horny guy who craves female attention and desperately wants to be popular with women. I think that depends on how much of your personality also wants to stay an introvert and how much wants to be a conventionally desirable man. If you are okay an outlier only appealing to a small niche of women and the thought of being more extroverted is appalling then you are good. If your …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:29 AM
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Be yourself. Unless you suck. Seriously, I don’t think changing things you really like about yourself just to fit in with others is a good idea. But changing things that are holding you back from getting what you want? Things that are negative and problematic? Carry this out to its logical limit to see the fallacy. I’m schizophrenic, or depressed or morbidly obese. Let’s say I’ve always been this way since childhood, so much so that my very identity centers on my diagnosis. Should I not get medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:13 AM
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Amen sister, I’m with you. It’s one thing to change who you fundamentally are just to please others, but it’s quite another to actually IMPROVE who you are. We can all improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:59 AM
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👍. It’s hard for me to believe any woman wants 5 guys to have sex with at one time, or one guy who would tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:49 AM
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I used to go to brunch with a group of gay guys all the time. It’s actually not weird at all. You’ve seriously never heard of a fruit fly? I used to live in New Orleans. My ex and I had a gay male roommate, a friend who followed me from New Orleans to NYC. When my husband and I moved out to the middle of nowhere, I swear my husband used to try to set me up with gay guys. Told me more than once, I met a guy and think he’s gay!! You would LOVE him! It’s just a way to be friends with men who have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:29 AM
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Also they probably won't be paying any attention to you. Gay guys love a fruit fly.🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:18 AM
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If receiving positive attention =power? Then I guess. It’s just the male harem that I never have to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:15 AM
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Oh, brunch with 5 women is fun in different ways. 5 gay guys? Well you get all the male attention, especially if you’re the only woman there, without anyone getting upset that you don’t want to fuck them. Having straight male orbiters can end badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:55 AM
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I’ll take 5 gay men who take me to brunch and tell me I’m fabulous, do my hair, design clothes for me and cuddle me when I’m sad. And one straight, masculine husband at home to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:21 AM
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You okay? I’m a woman, have never claimed anything about women hitting the wall at thirty, and think marrying a Virgin ....well let’s just say that my husband sure didn’t get one of those. I think Cobra, and I were just echoing your earlier comment that women used to have to tolerate it before divorce was more socially acceptable. Most woman today who are on an equal footing will bail or demand their own hall pass. I have no idea where that weird tirade came from. 🤷‍♀️Have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:10 AM
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Oof, a man who would not care that some other dude was railing me? No thanks. Mate guard me like I deserve or gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:58 AM
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And that is why Jesus gave us gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:44 AM
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Yep, and millions also get caught. Hookers are probably a man’s safest bet (provided you aren’t Trump). But if a man wants to get married and also wants to cheat, I think u/Cobra_x30 is right. If the guy wants to stay married and also doesn’t want her to have a hall pass, his best bet is a woman who can’t afford to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:40 AM
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I agree with him in the sense that a woman on equal footing won’t tolerate cheating though. She will either divorce him or cheat herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:12 AM
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Bmwm......your flair poppy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:08 AM
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I suspect the same. I think the people worried about rampant sexual degeneracy are on the wrong track. I suspect we are headed for an increasingly sexless society with dropping levels of testosterone and an eventual disinterest in sex altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:23 PM
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How about guys who fap 24/7 to women with impossible to obtain beauty standards ie very thin with extremely large breasts (very rare without cosmetic surgery), professional makeup, soft focus, etc....And especially and most importantly, women displaying immediate sexual readiness for penetration. Do you think daily masturbation to these unrealistic depictions of sex can eventually rewire a man’s brain to where he can no longer appreciate average sex with an average woman? This is not a rhetorica…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:11 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:59 PM
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There are people whose behavior I don’t especially approve of. I disapprove of cheating and would be hesitant to ever consider a cheater for an LTR, but every situation is different. I just don’t feel the need to define people as “not decent” for having a different moral code. I’d also never date a swinger but have known a few and there are many quite decent people in their ranks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:29 PM
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The important distinction is that men's options get much less (in terms of quality/quantity) as the level of commitment decreases. Seems to me that men’s options are infinite if they are willing to pay. Do you think men who have been to young, thin, good looking hookers are incapable of loving their wives? We have young guys on this sub who admit they can’t get it up because their girlfriend gained 10 lbs. Two hundred years ago the sight of an exposed ankle was enough to get a guy erect. Do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:10 PM
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>I have met absolutely 0 people who partake in casual sex regularly and are actually decent people. The 41% of people in the US who think our leader in chief is a decent person would like to have a word with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:42 PM
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Men are also trying to have their cake and eat it too -- having sex with the most desirable women they can attract at the lowest levels of commitment, spinning plates till middle age, and then later seeking higher levels of commitment. Men have ALWAYS tried this strategy. It was called “sowing your wild oats”. The problem is that very few of them can actually pull it off, and many end up completely sexless Women didn’t invent the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:36 PM
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I’m saying that every act of sex within a marriage is not sacred. Not even close. My marriage itself is the expression of love and commitment and a vow of sexual fidelity is a part of that marriage. Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:02 PM
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Fair enough, I accept the compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 09:18 PM
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Lol, my best friend is married to a guy 27 years older. She always gets mistaken for his daughter. Somehow it’s works for them. Old dudes don’t need to step aside. Very few are hot enough for young women to want to fuck and the rest filter out the greedy gold digging whooors so young guys don’t have to get sucked in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 09:14 PM
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Ya, you should have stuck with that one ...... If you could have seen it through with that one you could have avoided #2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:06 PM
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Lol, this guy thinks he was the wildest sexual relationship and it’s sounds like he’s young too...700 times in 6 years!🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:05 PM
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“every other day”. There is more than once a day you know Talk to u/reluctantly_red He’s an old goat and smashed his phat ass girl three times on Sunday apparently. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 01:35 PM
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Without feeling horny, we wouldn't even be having it Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:31 PM
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Six years, 700 times? Not even that sexually charged of a relationship honestly. Unless you are over 40. My husband was 40 when we married and we banged way more than 100 times a year the first few years. My first 7 year LTR when we were both in our 20’s? 700 times in two years. Could literally not keep our hands off each other those first couple of years. So make it through the seven year itch, the loss of libido that comes with aging, the sleepless, sexless nights of parenthood. Then report ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:15 PM
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Sorry, sometimes the motivation to stay together is just discipline and determination. You absolutely do that out of obligation. You take a vow that imho makes you family, and you owe each other every effort to make that family work. You need to choose someone carefully and make sure they have the same mindset, and then “pray to God you both don’t fall out of love at the same time”. It’s a trope, but it’s true. People have often posted, “why get married, it just makes it harder to leave” For me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:59 AM
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“healthiest views and morals I've ever seen on this site“. Well you probably haven’t read my whole history, there were a few years there where I was slutty by weirdo reddit standards and I don’t regret them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 10:47 AM
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I mean if the love is gone, then the love is gone and it's time to move on, wouldn't you say? I acknowledge that relationships aren't going to last forever. I could only hope that somebody who I do marry continues to love me in such a way that I don't need to start hassling them to show some affection that probably isn't there anymore. Oof. I can’t even....And this is why we need commitment. Not commitment the “emotion”. Commitment the action. FWIW, in my opinion love is also an action. And a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 06:14 AM
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Oh I don’t think it’s ever boring, Maybe mundane was the wrong word. Had kids yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:37 AM
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Can be, yes, but that doesn't really change the dynamic of sex between romantic partners. Wrong. The dynamic of sex between long term partners changes, and can change pretty dramatically. It definitely has its ups and downs and sideways detours. So do feelings of love for that matter. That’s exactly why COMMITMENT is important. If it were all rainbows and unicorn farts you would never need commitment. Commitment is what makes you stay and work shit out when things, maybe even including your sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:31 AM
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There's new relationship sex, there's makeup sex, there's kinky experimental sex, there's emotionally intimate sex (e.g. "making love), there's casual sex. Each flavor has its own unique pros and cons. Yeah, and all of these types of sex happen inside committed LTRS and outside of LTRS too. Just because two people love each other and are committed doesn’t mean every sex act is meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:05 AM
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Meh, I mean sex with someone you love, know and trust is great, but the act of sex can be pretty mundane at times, like scratching an itch or scratching your partners itch. Not every act is staring into each other’s eyes, communicating deep emotion. Sometimes its just for fun, sometimes it’s even nasty. I’m as monogamous as they come and mostly blue pilled and still believe in love and romance. But I’m not buying it. Sex within the context of a loving LTR is lots of things. Sometimes it’s just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 01:58 AM
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Not to debate af/bb.... A woman saying “now that I'm 19 I won't date a bald guy but when I'm older I will be open to it” might well be a woman expressing af/bb. But the actual attraction to bald men is real and has nothing to do with af/bb. Young women’s taste in men is very different as they age. Young women’s ideal is often effeminate twinks, think boy bands and k pop. As women age, we begin to find more masculine men attractive and being bald doesn’t reduce attraction as much. A shaved head o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:42 PM
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That sounds like a lot of really horrible experiences. I do think your experiences as a man make you an outlier. Ninety % of the men here complain about a total lack of any female interest at all....Most guys here are complaining about not getting dates at all, not married women lying in order to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:31 PM
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My father. He told me young boys will lie, flatter, and misrepresent themselves to get sex and to not to be fooled. He also told me that older men will prey on young girls that they think will be vulnerable. His advice definitely made me more suspicious and less susceptible to getting my feeling hurt by a pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:10 PM
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I thought I got “fucked over”. It took me 7 years to get married after that LTR ended. Looking back, I just learned a lot about what I really want and need, and ended up with someone who suits me better. During my own anger phase I spent 2 years thinking I’d never have sex again, and 4 thinking I’d never really trust another man. It took a lot of introspection to realize that I had lots of culpability in the situation. I expected someone to give me what I wanted who was simply too immature (and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:18 PM
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Omg, thread! Thread! Jesus have I seen this for myself. Lower middle class guys around here seem famous for this. Two years into a relationship and they are shitting the bed and think that mommy wife will always take care of them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:11 AM
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FYI, I was celibate for almost two years post break up......
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:57 AM
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“It's knowing that this can't go on forever Likely one of us will have to spend some days alone Maybe we’ll have 40 years together, But one day I’ll be gone, or one day you’ll be gone.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:37 AM
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This is exactly what I came to say. Some people are really shitty parents. If in doubt, don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:37 PM
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Sounds like just the kind of person you should be glad isn’t having kids, so that works out pretty well in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:34 PM
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Having someone ignore you is very different than having someone call you mean names. I will defend anyone’s rights to have standards and not be attracted to an overweight person. That doesn’t mean you get to go around intentionally trying to make people feel bad. Yes, getting in shape, being more attractive and healthy is winning. If someone who previously didn’t find me especially attractive showed interest I would be flattered and would not rule out having a relationship. However if someone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:39 PM
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What's "sadder" fucking someone you don't want sleep with True. Also kind of sad to fuck someone who really doesn’t want to fuck you imho. Some people are better actors than others and lube goes far to make the experience bearable, but there is no substitute for mutual passion with another human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:25 AM
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Women in their 60's are socially invisible. This is very, very true. A much more realistic take than women hitting “the wall” at 35 imho And I also agree that some guys in their 50’s and 60’s can often date 10 years to 15 years younger, and have a much larger dating pool. HVM in middle age don’t need to settle, but they usually want to settle in my experience. Even the promiscuous gay guys I’ve known tend towards monogamy in middle age. And lots of hvm want kids. Unlike a woman, a guy approachin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:16 AM
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I've found that modern women and men like to pretend they don't care, which leads to a vicious cyrcle of counterproductive interactions until the relationship ceases to exist. I don't understand the purpose in all this. Great post, especially this. I think caring about “not caring “ takes up loads of real estate in many people‘s head. It‘s the substitute for caring. Mgtow megaposters being the prime example. A whole sub dedicated to how much you supposedly don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:41 PM
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Do you think this is healthy for society in general? “sometimes this leads to feeling unfulfilled.“ You answered your own question. When you genuinely love and care for someone, yes I suppose that does give them some power over you. That’s why it’s very important not to love and care for anyone who doesn’t love or care for you back. When they do love and care for you as well, they have also ceded some power. Hopefully both parties are invested, both are trading in parts of their autonomy and fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:28 PM
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That’s why the in person interview/date is the next step in the process and the background check/vetting is (hopefully) done before the offer is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:52 PM
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And all that kissing doesn’t elicit a sexual response?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:43 PM
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When you love people romantically, there is no urge to connect physically as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:36 PM
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My parents influenced me a lot, but mostly as a role model of what I didn’t want. My mom married young, lost her virginity to my dad, dropped out of college to get married, and had way too many kids, way too soon. I loved my parents and know that they loved us, but was very aware their lives weren’t happy. And our lives as their children were equally unhappy. They were objectively really, really, bad parents. My dad was a rageaholic, my mom was a narcissist who would never admit she was a shitty…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:25 PM
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Still pretty disappointing how silent the NRA was after Philando Castillo. Then they came out months later with some bs about how they wouldn’t take up his cause because he lied about being a drug user on his permit. So, NRA....are you saying that licensing and permits are important after all? What happened to their slippery slope when a black gun owner is shot over his weapon? The whole gun control debate is mostly ridiculous. Most in the US just don’t see that we pretty much ALL agree, that gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:09 PM
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I've never met a person that I have an urge to have sex with.. I'd easily take masturbation over having sex with a person Have you ever fallen in love? Are you asexual and aromantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:46 PM
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HR spends 6 seconds looking at your resume. Why would you think anyone looking at hundreds of photos would spend the time to read her profile? To continue the analogy, she is only getting to the interview process, not getting the position of girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:26 PM
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Yeah, I’ve commented on this before. Terpers: we don’t care about your education, career, motivation, discipline......just be young, hot and stfu. Also terpers: why are women boring and basic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:24 PM
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Lolol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/20 03:09 PM
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“Men tend to have higher sociosexuality scores and be more unrestricted than women across a variety of cultures.[5][6] ....... the average man is less restricted than the average woman,” And the rate of male infidelity is higher AND less predictable. Welcome to OUR world.🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:24 PM
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And men? Men who are not attractive enough to be promiscuous can hire hookers. A low n count man might be low n count only because he has no options. He hits middle age and hires hookers. If you desperately want to avoid getting cheated on, go for a low n count woman. She has dicks thrown at her every day, and has resisted. If you are a woman who wants to avoid getting cheated on? If no one will willingly have sex with him, he will buy it. The only logical conclusion is avoid men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:58 PM
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Yeah, we’re catching up. Men have always cheated, and always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:49 PM
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Well, it’s true. And guys don’t even need to be attractive, they just hire hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:39 PM
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My husband was handsome and tended bar. When I first met him, he was sleeping with three women simultaneously. I teased him about this years later, when we started dating, and he admitted there was a fourth the other three didn’t know about. He could have racked up 50 a year, especially in a tourist town, if he wanted to. I worked with some pretty mediocre looking, but outgoing guys when I was tending bar while in college. Even they had a pretty good track record of getting lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:37 PM
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There is a reason that, before widespread internet porn, Playboy magazine was extremely popular and the biggest audience for the short lived Playgirl was gay dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:00 PM
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Nice try. Women are very worried about being cheated on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/20 04:32 PM
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So women need 6 to 10 partners before their likelihood of cheating is approaching that of men’s? Seems like if you are going to be paranoid and base all your future actions around cheating, men need to avoid women with high n counts, while women need to avoid men altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:29 PM
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So women need 6 to 10 partners before their likelihood of cheating is approaching that of men’s? Seems like if you are going to be paranoid and base all your future actions around cheating, men need to avoid women with high n counts, while women need to avoid men altogether.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/20 12:20 PM
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You have me confused with the other poster. I was just linking to the conclusion of that article he linked to, confirming your statement that there was no scientific evidence for his claim Chillax
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:56 AM
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??? I just copied and pasted “There is no direct scientific evidence for that at all” from the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:50 AM
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“And while flies aren’t people, what are the chances that the same phenomenon is occurring in human reproduction? “It’s something we definitely don’t want to speculate about yet with humans,” she says. “There is no direct scientific evidence for that at all.””
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:39 AM
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I had to go to people like nuns, lesbians, traumatized people I’m with u/NarniaFox I know several women who haven’t had sex in years, several of them quite consciously and deliberately so. I don’t know if this is a cultural difference or if there are women around you who just don’t discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 06:12 PM
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Looking like Wayne Coyne helps too. Also, he could pass as a decade younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:18 PM
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>you can filter our or block anything you read or see that makes you uncomfortable I think poor socialization is a huge problem. Internet/gaming/ social media usage is to blame, but helicopter parenting doesn’t help either. It’s gone too overboard to a point where kids are just not left alone together enough. I know a home schooled guy who was never alone with a girl until he went to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:28 AM
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Of course. Wayne Coyne worked at a Long John Silvers in a slummy part Oklahoma City for 7 years and looked like this. Edit....he apparently worked there for 13 years https://images.app.goo.gl/YDcKqwkmJoSjY4Uz9 At age 59 he just married a 30 year old woman and unlike Scott Adams, I guarantee she’s fucking him https://images.app.goo.gl/wx3pzEsKfrQoddyk7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:13 AM
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he must like that or he wouldn't fuck her? Like the chicken sandwich or farm animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:42 PM
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>For example, recently a lot of redpillers congratulated Scott Adams on marrying on his gf, Kristina Basham, who is 31 years younger than him. lololol https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwiF0OHJ2-HqAhWnhOAKHSt4AC8QFjAAegQIAhAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fblog.aaronsleazy.com%2Findex.php%2F2017%2F06%2F13%2Fscott-adams-of-dilbert-fame-does-not-understand-women%2F&usg=AOvVaw34QXG-fqQHihQk3zn-ol57 ​ That screenshot really does say it all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:11 PM
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Found Miss America data https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-eye-opening-evolution-of-miss-americas-body-over-95-years_n_55f078d9e4b002d5c077a6fb Similar finding. As we get fatter, our ideal body has gotten thinner Overall, though, I actually thought they were better looking than today’s contestants on average. Probably because they were actually healthy/low BMI, not underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:59 PM
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You are totally right about ideal standards becoming thinner https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwienaCixuHqAhXEUt8KHRjpD9UQFjASegQIAxAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.businessinsider.com%2Fmiss-universe-winners-body-types-2016-4&usg=AOvVaw14tup_QwNIvbO8qgsn8vMJ ​ Weight of beauty pageant winners has remained stable, but heights have increased. The BMIs of pageant winners has dropped pretty significantly since the 50’s. Beauty pageant contestants haven’t gone from “ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:07 PM
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Yeah, I get that part. I would frankly be pissed if I was a guy and a woman wanted to have a kid of mine that I didn’t want. I personally would hope she abort. I would be extra pissed if she had expressed pro choice views in the past. But I’m just pointing out that many men and women see this as Gods decision, not theirs. So the standard of “women can decide” isn’t one size fits all. To some people “deciding” is incomprehensible. The issue is that women want the power of picking to have a child …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 01:04 PM
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I think young men are really responding to THIS message https://youtu.be/NiwTYctDVfw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 12:01 PM
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Why are you watching this? I feel like I need to go shave my pubes or something. Get that shine on Everyone loves watching things that make them mad now. Especially if it confirms which ever worldview has convinced them that the world is a very bad place. It’s our new national pastime. Garden more, bitch less people! Your arteries will thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:32 AM
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Mmm, he made lots and lots and lots of money, and thought that would translate to a high smv. It didn’t. He did get laid a lot from what I hear, mostly by women he had to buy coke for though.😭 Developed a nasty habit himself in the process. Too bad, so sad. He has never married, lost his business, put all his money up his nose and looks like shit. A fist bump would just be punching down at this point I’m afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:45 AM
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Ah no....both low. He dumped me after 7 years because he wanted to fuck other women before “settling down”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:33 AM
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If I’m honest, some would pick the lower n count too, as evidence that she was more able to make a relationship work. But I’ve honestly never hung around people who made high or low count much of a priority 🤷‍♀️ Except my ex who dumped me because his n count was too low.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:27 AM
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In my experience, he would never know because it would be so low a priority that he would never ask. Let’s assume they did know. Some would gladly pick the higher n count hoping it would translate to a higher libido
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:22 AM
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Well, we certainly don’t hang out with the same crowd. The people I know would probably select on who gives better head 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:16 AM
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Yes, she has status despite having dozens of lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:13 AM
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Then why do men like Arod want to wife up a woman known to have dozens of lovers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:11 AM
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It’s what I’ve seen. In my social circle sleeping around was common and everyone paired off eventually with other members of that circle late 20, early 30’s. Many of those marriages have lasted, some have not. But I’ve been to MANY a wedding where both bride and groom have hooked up with half of the people in attendance
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:07 AM
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Sure, they are marrying them for their attractiveness and equal status...which apparently is much more important than having a lightly used vag. JLo still has plenty of status despite being romantically connected to dozens of men. Butter face women have no status, virginal or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:01 AM
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We are all weirdos, who else would be on ppd? In the real world, no one is especially happy to find out their so did scat porn with midgets, but on the other hand, also in the real world, not very many people give a crap about some random sex here or there unless they are religious conservatives, middle eastern or Indian. Body counts in my experience tend to fall into assortive mating, most high n count men date high n count women and visa versa
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:37 AM
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shitty degenerate behavior. Hey...no need to make this assumption. Not all of us degenerates are into butt stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:24 AM
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My husband didn’t owe me commitment. He gave it freely, just like I gave mine to him. It was voluntary, not some payment. My past is probably slutty to most of the weirdos here, my husbands n count was higher than my entire total by the time he finished high school. He was a mega slut. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:11 AM
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If that’s a woman, sign me up to be a dyke. He’s a cutie🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 08:50 AM
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I got that part covered, mountains and garden
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 02:04 AM
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I would totally vote for many MRA issues. Reading their bullshit online though? I really cannot fucking stand some of them with their whiny hyperbole. They are honestly worse than lesbian feminists looking for micro aggressions from the patriarchy under every ballsack.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 12:55 AM
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I resemble that comment. I am fascinated by serial killers yet hate actually watching violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 11:41 PM
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The one problem I see in your argument is that there are women who are truly pro life. To them, abortion is murder and there is no decision, many see it as “gods decision”. And you can’t really say, ”just don’t have sex”, it’s unrealistic and besides, lots of unplanned pregnancy happens inside of marriage. I don’t share that view that abortion should not be an option, but I think many men who have sex with women who are staunchly pro life have consented to the same gamble as their wife or girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 11:21 PM
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Bullshit. If it’s REALLY that important to you, then stop being a fucking pussy and fight. Acting like you will suffer the same consequences as John Lewis is beyond the pale. Medger Evers and Martin Luther King’s lives were over, not metaphorically “over”. Ohhh My life will be over! This is EXACTLY why no one takes you seriously. You act as if these issues are the fucking end of the world and yet at the same time they are not worth risking “😱bullshit rumors😱”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:29 PM
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incomparable comparisons You are correct. That was kind of my point. Not every battle and fight for fairness and equality is comparable at all. I think there are many areas where I can get on board with some MRA issues, particularly surrounding unfair custody of children and unfair incarceration. I would vote for men’s rights in a heartbeat. But the hyperbole of “we have no power” is beyond retarded. Have you looked at the Senate lately? Yes, getting the right to vote is bigger issue than having…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:10 PM
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No I don’t, not in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:39 PM
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Man azngirl, that ain’t fair. Most normal people want to be loved by a spouse or partner. You can love yourself and still want and need deep connection and love from others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:37 PM
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man, I feel for you, for real. I spent a few years avoiding love because I just didn’t trust, but we all want to love and be loved. Casual sex was fun, but no substitute for sex with someone who loves you. Good luck, I hope you find it. Do you date at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:34 PM
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Alice Paul was arrested 7 times and jailed three times. Emmeline Pankhurst was beaten and pelted with rotten eggs. Even today, women in Saudi Arabia are jailed for fighting for the right to drive. There are allegations of torture which have been corroborated by Amnesty International. Susan B Anthony was arrested for trying to vote. Does that sound like “being treated fairly” Atlas is right about what blacks went through. John Lewis was beaten and his skull was fractured. “They would be labelled …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:08 PM
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Lol, well good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 11:44 AM
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Mmm, I can’t say for sure that government benefits NEVEF factor into the calculation. But I live in a super conservative area and what I see is they fall back mostly on family (inter generational living is common, lots of single moms living with their single mom) and CHURCH. Church used to be the place you were either covertly or overtly shamed for being a single mom. Churches around here now practically fetishize single moms as brave warriors for Christ who didn’t murder the precious gift of li…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:56 AM
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Well the problem as I see it isn’t lazy people who PLAN on welfare. I think the welfare queen who PURPOSELY had more bastard kids for bigger checks lost her gig 25 years ago. I do know several outright disability fraudsters though..... Most of my single moms have made shitty choices, but most are very willing to work and I don’t think their 200 bucks in food stamps had much influence in their shitty choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:30 AM
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Yes, in many ways it does. But probably not in the ways you think it does. Tanf has a lifetime cap of 5 years. Most other benefits, depending on the state, require the recipient of food stamps and housing subsidies etc. to work. Full time work at a single job with healthcare coverage becomes almost impossible at the lowest tiers like fast food, retail, etc. Many working poor get only 30 hours a week so the employer doesnt have to pay benefits. They rely on food stamps to fill the gaps and Medica…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:18 AM
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We currently have way less crime and somewhat less welfare We have a greater increase in single moms, but a huge decrease in single teenage moms. Not everything is so cut and dried.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:37 AM
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attractiveness AND success Exactly. Both will get you women. When you are older you might get women because you are more successful, despite being less sexually attractive to younger women. Sounds like AF /BB and you are happy to be the BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:10 AM
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contradicts the claim that men’s friendships are less emotionally intimate than women’s. I could cite 20 more sources that claim that men’s friendships are not as emotionally intimate. In fact, in many ways, the material you cite seems to actually confirm this. Yes, women are more disappointed by friendships because it is widely accepted that women expect more out of friendships. Yes, women’s friendships are more emotionally charged....ah, precisely because they are more emotional? Yes, women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 12:58 AM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00292464 “Findings from this study support American research suggesting that women are more intimate and emotional in their same-sex friendships than men, and tend to place a higher value on these friendships than men do.” https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2FBF00287568 “clear sex differences were found in both studies in the nature of interactions with friends. Women showed emphasis on emotional sharing and talking; men emphasized activities an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 10:45 AM
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boring is good for long term relationships Really? 🤣Not been my experience. Based on the number of guys bitching, it’s not their experience either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:59 AM
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So you really don’t care if she IS boring. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:55 AM
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>But ask the men here or anywhere whether they get more emotional support from their male or female friends (including girlfriends and wives). What friends? White, heterosexual men have the fewest friends of anyone in America, according to a 2006 analysis of two decades of data published in the American Sociological Review. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwiwhOvUuLzqAhWEmeAKHXNLCX8QFjAAegQIAxAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fmedium.com%2Fthe-weekend-reader%2Fwhy-dont-…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:55 AM
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Good quote. I’m not always a huge fan of Jordan Peterson but this is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:37 PM
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There are also several studies that show this might not be cultural or learned preferences Female infants linger longer on familiar faces than male babies. Women are probably innately more social creatures than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:33 PM
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>A lot of the men here unfortunately have just managed find boring women Yes. Men on ppd. “we don’t care about your education, your job, your accomplishments, your travels,....just be young, hot, not a bitch and willing to put out”. Also men on ppd....”women are boring”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:08 PM
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You just described my husbands life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:02 PM
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This is what men will PAY MONEY to fuck. https://flic.kr/p/aQtedk Some of y’all BEYOND thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:11 AM
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My personal opinion is women are peak of being attractive at 22, generally early 20’s. And completely objectively? men at 27 or generally late 20’s But that is my opinion being past those ages and looking back. When I was 22 myself, I probably thought 24 was the most attractive age for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:41 PM
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https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/visualizations/time-series/demo/families-and-households/ms-2.pdf Statistics..... age of marriage is getting older , typical age gap is pretty stable though, and is actually much smaller than in the past. Lol, I’m sure you will have no problems finding that young wife....if you are a billionaire. I’m sure she will genuinely care for you. 💵 💵 💵
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:14 PM
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my judgement has been fine all along Lol. Traditional skills like letting a fling knock her up. Sorry you got SO triggered. Sounds like you are really doing great in life. You seem happy. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:10 PM
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Yeah, fortunately most men aren’t ready to settle down before 30 either, most want to be young and free, so it works out pretty well all around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 01:47 AM
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Yeah, I do in fact. Those 20 year old frat boys are not much like 30 year old career guys. They are 10 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 01:06 AM
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Many men (like my husband) are very different types of people at 30 vrs 20 and I myself was a very different type of person at 30 vrs 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 12:52 AM
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I’M OLD!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 11:20 PM
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Okay here are the ones in my bathroom, The translucent/transparent photographed funny🤷‍♀️. Those windows are popular, I’ve given a few away, they look better than the photo in real life https://imgur.com/a/xiDruJA Afraid of ending up on one of those “weird home“ shows, have mosaics in every room, started just giving them away
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 11:11 PM
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Well then 1/2 of the guys in Finland were the best option available on any given night. I think game counts too, but we agree that old has changed the game
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:47 PM
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Look at the study that Smoogs posted about casual sex in Finland. Twenty years ago roughly half of all young Finns had more than one sex partner in a year, about evenly split between the sexes. The share of women having multiple partners has remained stable, the share of men has steadily decreased, to now only 20% of men having more than one partner. Other studies show sexlessness increasing for both sexes but male sexlessness increasing much more dramatically. Blackpill theory is that women wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 12:22 PM
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baring healthy kids Ummm that’s either a Fruedian slip or a whole different topic https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwianeD1mqnqAhVvmuAKHYvNAbwQFjACegQIDRAF&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.writing-skills.com%2F60-second-fix-bear-and-bare&usg=AOvVaw1JRlrEvliY7t773v69JFHw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 09:21 AM
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I’m a woman and think this is complete nonsense. Some men appreciate women closer to their age for relationships, it can be hard to have the whole compatibility package with someone who is very much younger, but pure physical beauty? Women’s beauty tops out young. I disagree with philomexia about men’s looks topping out at 23, I would say 27. If I saw my husband watching porn involving a woman my age I’d get his head examined.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 09:18 AM
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Those are cute! I’ve been wanting to get started on a glass tower for our woods, my h has been underbrushing ......aaaaand adding bowling balls and “object d’art“. He is calling it his artboretum. 🤷‍♀️ Keeps him out of trouble I suppose. Will dm you pics tomorrow. Mosaics can be a super cheap hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 07:46 AM
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Welp I have used weldbond and grout with great success on indoor projects, not a single one has failed in the least. Weldbond cleans up easy, dries clear and seems to work great inside. Outdoor projects? Ahhhhh. I’ve done two bowling balls FAILED both of them. One was thin set under glass stones, the other was e3000 glue. Did three wooden birdhouses, two failed. Can’t remember what glue was used on one to be honest, the other was e3000. The only one still intact is on the porch of a friend of mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:13 PM
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Well, there are a lot of pressures on women to have it all. But I’m honestly surprised that this is only in the US. My mom was born long before any sort of women’s Lib and I don’t think she was unusual in being absolutely miserable. The Stones wrote Mothers Little Helpers in 1966 after all and my own mom’s struggle to maintain her sanity with 5 screaming kids predates that. Marital satisfaction and general happiness goes back up when the kids leave. One other thing about women, attraction and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:48 PM
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I’m saying you are questioning my vetting when I was 20, while you in your late 30’s were “dating” a skank. Decent qualities, like crotch fruit with a fling? Sure. Lol. I’m old. I’ve been happily married for longer than most redditors have been alive. Lie down with dogs, wake up with fleas. I’m that catty bitch that knows trash when I see it, no matter the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 05:15 PM
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Ah ya gotta see my veggies willow, as a fellow “farm girl” you would be proud. Plus berries, asparagus Etc. Biggest tips for mosaics? Make sure the glue and backing are right for the application. I (of course) gravitate to outdoor garden projects and have had lots of mosaics fall apart because of using the wrong glue or the wrong backer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:00 PM
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The median age of first marriage is almost 30. That’s NOT anecdotal evidence. That’s modern society. Educated people do not marry young. That’s a statistic. People do not remain virgins until they are 30. That’s a statistic. So which Muslim country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:50 AM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:46 AM
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Yeah, people wearing masks is your problem, lol, that’s a crock of shit. I don't want to think anymore but I can't stop THATS the problem. Monkey mind. You can’t turn it off. I can’t be the first person to suggest you need to quiet you monkey mind? I have monkey mind too. BIG TIME Why do you think I have an acre of flower garden? Runs in my family. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwi-pvf2xabqAhWFiOAKHZeABaUQFjAYegQICBAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.forbes.com%2Fs…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:00 AM
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Why he started? Lol, he’s from New Orleans, everybody drinks. His dad drank, but really everyone drinks. Not everyone can’t control it though. He actually was more of a druggie in high school. Tended bar though, occupational hazard. Do you think there was something that made you start? You have the whole Ana thing too....self medicating? OCD or anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:27 AM
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All that oppression in those fucked up muslim countries just creates more pervs. Look at any entrenched systemic perversion in institutions .....Catholic Church, those little house on the prairie fundies. The more obsessed with controlling sex, the weirder they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:18 AM
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Welp, my h just quit. No AA for him. It does work for some, His brother committed suicide about a month later which sealed the deal. Pray it doesn’t take you something that traumatic to make the change. Those kids need a SOBER dad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:11 AM
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Try AA? My h was a drunk before we dated. Sober probably longer that 90% of Redditors have been alive. It can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:59 AM
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Staying sober?🤞👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:48 AM
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Yeah. I think when the relationship goes south, she loses those love googles. I think we are mostly saying pretty similar things, I think though to characterize modern western women as marrying guys they aren’t “physically attracted to“ isn’t accurate. I genuinely think most women, even though they are marrying guys they wouldn’t swipe on Tinder based on looks alone are genuinely sexually hot for the guy when they marry him. As long as he doesn’t start to fall below her baseline for attraction (…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:10 AM
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so why do you keep doing it? Huh? I did say it could be fun. Just not earth shatteringly meaningful. People like to have fun. they're pushing 30 & need to find a 'nice, stable, secure' guy I was a little older than 30. My formerly wild promiscuous husband had actually turned into a stable secure guy. Lots of people, both male and female. have a wild youth and settle down when they get older. It not unusual. The median age of first marriage is around 30 now. We’ve been a stable couple for decades…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:47 AM
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Warren Zevon 😥 https://youtu.be/RMTKb-pgxGI he made the tactical error of not seeing a doctor for 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:15 AM
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Gardening https://imgur.com/a/RW07ZaL Mosaics, rug making
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:09 AM
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Depends on what you call a “date”. When I was young, I had lots of guys take me to places because they wanted company or wanted to be seen with a young blond chick. None of them ever ever ever thought they had a shot with me, in fact none even tried. Knew a guy who worked offshore in the North Sea 6 months out of the year, he took me on a VACATION with him. He would have gone for it in a second if I had green lighted it, but he knew right from the start it was a no go. TWO SEPARATE ROOMS or I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:19 AM
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making out with someone else then bragging. She also had a kid from a previous relationship that she referred to as a "fling". she wound up marrying her "baby daddy", but still contacted me during the engagement 🤣And you’re questioning the vetting process and judgement of a 20 year old? This is who you date in your late 30’s? I can tell you my ex wasn’t as trashy as that broad. My husband has certainly appreciated my career as a mechanical engineer and my real estate investments. Neither of us n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:46 AM
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🔪 🔪 🔪🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:49 PM
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No, I absolutely do not think it is common for women to marry men they are not SEXUALLY attracted too. Not in the modern west at least. Like you said yourself, women’s sexual attraction is much more complicated than men’s. For men, physically, visually and sexually attracted are more closely tied. It’s pretty well known that women’s responses to visual images of erotica are very different than men’s. How men rate the quality of porn is very closely linked to how visually attractive they find the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:57 AM
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I think there is some correlation, but it’s an imperfect one. Some men report immense satisfaction from banging whores, continue to bang whores and prostitution will always be part of society, in fact one poster recently said all of his most memorable sexual experiences were with escorts. An escort fulfills men’s imperative to find a fertile female of the species to mate with. In fact I think some men find it appealing precisely because they can fulfill their imperative without regard to the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:54 AM
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Lol, you are predictable. Carry on with them big gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:20 AM
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I went through that phase. My husband was quite the Chad in his day too and had way more than his share. It gets old. I don’t believe in Prince Charming, but at some point it’s nice to have someone who loves you in my book. No shade, enjoy it while you can and be safe!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:04 AM
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I know this is a question for men, but I haven’t seen anyone really considering the child. I would be hesitant because I wouldn’t be into being a stepmom and it wouldn’t be fair to the kid. However the kid ended up with one parent only, it deserves a step parent who is willing to be all in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 12:15 AM
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drove her ex to cheat Pick up truck 👍or Prius 🚩 I just give mine money for an Uber.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:59 PM
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https://youtu.be/gP3MuUTmXNk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:56 PM
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Hopefully not cigarette butts. If it smokes it pokes! In fact if it’s breathing, it skeeving! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:44 PM
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It can be a red flag, I would say it can be a correlation, but not a causation. Yes, many people who have been molested, who grew up in a bad household and are desperately seeking love, people who drink too much....etc. all often have high n counts AND problems with relationships. When I was only interested in str’s and ons, I was actively avoiding getting hurt again. I also think it can be a harmless sign of healthy rebellion and a phase that some people go through. A broken heart can heal, I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:42 PM
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most women are then forced to begin to grapple with lower attraction levels I still believe that women (or men) are very unlikely to fall in love with someone who doesn’t meet our minimum level of attraction. But I do think that it’s easy for both men and women to confuse attraction and love. If not universal, you wouldn’t see as many middle aged men dump their wives for their younger secretaries, only to divorce that secretary in a few years. I don’t think it’s especially gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:15 PM
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Bingo! I’ve argued repeatedly that n count doesn’t tell the whole story. Heartbreak is wayyyy more damaging than some casual sex here or there. This is coming from a woman who knows, lol. I had a breakup after 7 years....I was low n count, he was a Virgin, and he dumped me because he didn’t want to marry the first woman he slept with. I spent a few years celibate and a few more in a series of strs with one or two ons thrown in each year. Went back to school, bought my own house and swore I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:57 PM
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I mean most low n women seem to want a similar low n man. So avoiding a thot seems like a non issue to me, a matter of assortive mating, provided you aren’t a male thot. My husband was a HUUUGE slut, I knew him for years and always thought he was handsome, but never would have dated him back in his slutty drinking days. He was a wreck,lol. We all have a right to a monogamous partner if that’s what we want. Men also can pursue women who make decent money if they want to avoid being a wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:31 PM
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Yes, you are on to something with emotions and attraction. Here’s the problem imho. When we fall “in love” that person becomes wildly attractive to us. Looking at them gives us more tingles than the most objectively attractive person in the world. People confuse finding someone attractive DUE to being in love with finding someone attractive AS being in love. Limerence wears off and if we are in an LTR long enough we will eventually find other people attractive. It happens. That doesn’t mean we l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:17 PM
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Huh? Not sure who you are talking to. Like 36 % of all women, 28% of all women where both work, I made MORE than my husband. I hardly saw him a a “wallet”. But no, imho, women on mass are never going to accept a total scrub. Our imperative is to provide a stable home for children. Women are hard wired to seek stability and security. If a man is a drag on the stability of his family, he won’t have one long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:54 PM
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You sound like either a larper or a sociopath Tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:37 PM
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Supply and demand. Of course supply is arbitrarily limited. So why is that? Why is it common for gay men to hang out in public places and offer free sex to anyone who wants it? What is inherently different between male and female sexuality? Women here can’t win. If they follow their own imperative, they are selfish, stingy with pussy, if they conform to the male imperative they are sluts. What’s your solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:37 PM
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Women not associating sex and “love” turns men off and makes them bitter So you’re bitter that girls who didn’t love you had sex with you? You have totally lost me. You want to sleep around with women you don’t care about...,are you bitter because their feelings AREN’T hurt? Because you couldn’t pump and dump girls who loved you? Honestly I’m lost
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:16 PM
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Oh, I think he is “not exactly handsome”, but very very fuckable. Did I just say that to a Christian girl? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:58 PM
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Did you bang those fat Megan Fox chicks because you loved them? Do you think hookers have existed because men associate all sex with love? Women have always had to accept that many men want to have sex without love. The vast majority of women prefer sex with love, but some will have sex alone as better than nothing. One only needs to look at the difference between the sex lives of gay men vrs gay women to see which gender is the one more likely to separate sex and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:55 PM
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They hang around older boys and start to “think like men” 😆 Also, slim hips= high testosterone, or wide hips= signaling her sexual availability. SLUUUUUTS! Basically if it has butts, it sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:39 PM
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I dunno what to tell you. It’s really hard to explain to men, especially young men, how little getting banged by some hot frat guy means to us at the end of the day. To a young guy, banging a hot chick is the most fantastic and validating thing in the world. To a woman? I mean....it can be fun....Sure, we would rather get pumped and dumped by a hot guy than an ugly guy, but getting a guy to show us love and romance? It’s the young woman’s equivalent to banging Megan Fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:26 PM
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Well there were probably one or two in between Clooney and my husband, but I did pretty well. He definitely was a Chad in his day. ​ A lot of very young and inexperienced guys obsess about this...a woman marrying him who doesn’t find him attractive. It’s pure solipsism. They are at a stage in life where they are only concerned with getting the hottest girl possible. It’s hard for them to believe that they can be truly loved without being the hottest. ​ This has been said multiple times here..Att…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:17 PM
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Well there you go. She is also missing all the hair on her tail and most of her butt from Cushings disease. I call her beautiful. But if I had to describe her to a stranger, I’d probably just say she was sweet (which she is!).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:02 PM
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I also have several older brothers....apparently another slut tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:59 PM
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My love is not in proportion to my objective assessment of physical attraction. Yeah, I mean wife goggle/love goggles exist, that’s the thing. Looking at some random handsome young guy doesn’t give me the same emotional feeling as catching my husband smiling across the room. I can love looking at my husband while still maintaining a somewhat objective assessment of my own, his and others looks. That aside, this is the most absolutely beautiful dog that has ever lived https://imgur.com/nbAnPK3 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:36 PM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:47 PM
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I used celebrities because people know who they are. You’ve never found ANYONE more attractive than your current partner? I know both my husband and I have....each other 20 years ago! Doesn’t mean I don’t still find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:43 PM
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Women could still marry men who they are not AS attracted to yeah well George Clooney wasn’t exactly hitting me up. Fortunately for me, Megan Fox wasn’t exactly waiting around for my husband to call either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:09 PM
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Even during the ‘70s, over 40% of women married their one-and-onlys. A girl with five partners would have been chalked up as a floozy during those halcyon years. And 40% of women were married in their late teens. https://images.app.goo.gl/rZkGSs5sZZEVkoqD9 Teenage pregnancy was common https://images.app.goo.gl/oVPAqW2uWKSz9Aa79 A girl with 5 partners who marries at 28 is VERY different than one who marries at 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:52 PM
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For example, a US survey found that 44% of teenage girls have had sex, compared to 58% 25 years ago. For boys, it was 47% compared to 69% 25 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:35 PM
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I don’t blame you for being confused. It’s a confusing issue, even to most women themselves. In many women’s experience, that attraction means, at its core...“I would love to pump and dump you” , not ”I would love to marry you, be eternally faithful and make you the mother of my children”. Women are quite aware that men feel this attraction several times a day, even several times an hour. So a woman who gets that “I would love to put a baby in you and split soon after, complete stranger on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:18 PM
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Maybe they are the majority of people who actually have sex with someone they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:33 AM
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Gives the term “body count” a whole new meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:31 AM
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Now I’ve finally figured out why my husband doesn’t notice how much I’ve aged...we’re just two former sluts staring past each other for two and a half decades
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:21 AM
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Lol, you’re funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:31 AM
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I’m going to try more fluid entrancing movements and gestures and try to subconsciously direct attention to my breasts. See if the h is appreciative or finally figures out I’m a slut and tosses me to the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:11 AM
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Happened once. He didn’t change one iota. For some reason I just started to find him immensely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:04 AM
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Uhhh, are you a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:35 AM
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Yeah, I have friends with profiles on old. So? It’s about as low effort as it comes. Again, you don’t need to “formulate a strategy” when your attitude is basically, it would be nice, but it’s not a priority. It’s like leaving your resume out for headhunters, in case a great offer happens to come along, but not actively looking for a new job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:17 AM
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I dunno, context is everything. My dad taught me well that guys will use flattery to get in your pants. When in doubt...doubt their sincerity. Drunk guys in bars told me I was beautiful all the time. Sorry dude you’re drunk and don’t have a shot at banging the bartender. Actually for me a complete turn off. Most of them would have told a shih tzu she was beautiful. The guy I broke a huge dry spell with....already had me naked and in his bed....cupped my face in his hands and said “god you’re bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:58 AM
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In conjunction with this comment as well The question is "What sexual strategy do you need to implement to achieve your goals?" Look I’m happily married but have had wgtow friends for years. Some are complete born again virgins, just not interested in ANY of it. Some haven’t completely ruled out being sexually active, some haven’t ruled out marriage, but most are pretty content whether it happens or it doesn’t. Op sounds like the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:45 AM
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What you guy fail to realize is that many women don’t need “sexual strategies” because they are fine if the man and relationship never materialize. Wgtow.....like mgtow but less angry and you know, actually quietly going their own way instead of feeling a chronic need to vent. “the off chance I meet someone” doesn’t really sound like a woman particularly invested in finding a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:28 AM
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Yeah, there are some opting out. Poor socialization, unrealistic expectations, low testosterone, general asexuality.....there have always been volcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:44 PM
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Not a personal dig to you specifically, but if you don’t believe charisma exists it’s pretty likely you have none. When you tend bar in a late night bar, you get a pretty good idea who is popular with the girls and who isn’t. Good looking guys were popular with women, so were fairly average guys with charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:08 PM
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She had a sense of duty to home and family before career? So did you wife her up? Or leave her wishing she had just focused on her career instead? waste her time when she was in her late 20’s when she little time to waste? I had a tremendous sense of duty to support and uplift my first LTR. Fat lot of good that did me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:37 AM
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Omg, Bearsaint is back?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:24 AM
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This seems pretty accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:19 AM
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According to studies, only the bottom 28% of young men are having trouble finding any sex, casual or relationship, the bottom 18% of young women are presumably not interested in casual sex and are having trouble finding a relationship. The 20/80 talked about is statistically for CASUALsex...only 20% of men are engaging in casual sex and informal observation indicates that many of the bottom 80% are “struggling”, ie interested in casual but unable to get it. >Or are the to 20% or so of men sleepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:18 AM
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Most statistically accurate and underrated comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:00 AM
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the 8/10 men don’t want her for casual sex anymore Lol, you have no clue how easy it is for a female 3 to have sex with a male 8. There are some who can even get him to pay for it. https://images.app.goo.gl/MnF5ux8JoJDbDXk5A I tended bar for many years, I’ve seen it first hand. Now will that 3 get a relationship with that guy who’s an 8? No. But she will get as much casual sex as she wants, and even manage to pull an occasional 8 still.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:32 AM
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Sex is a partner sport. Underrated comment. I’m sure there are some men who would think I suck at sex. Its about good verbal and non verbal communication but there is also an element of compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:57 PM
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I dunno, I agree with Gaylord fag. I can’t even imagine developing feeling for someone and getting emotionally invested, only to find out we were sexually incompatible. I dated one guy where we turned out to be completely, anatomically incompatible. I’m glad I wasn’t already in love or committed, so if you aren’t sexually compatible, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:51 PM
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To be fair, RP also states that “you’re her plate too.” In practice, I‘ve seen posts on TRP go both ways...MRP? Lol, cheat cheat cheat but next the bitch if she cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:38 AM
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The push back to the word “sharing” on here (ppd) stems from several guys on trp and mrp who maintain that “women” will gladly share a hvm, ie knowingly let him cheat, and many also claim that “women” will gladly stay faithful to a cheating husband provided he is alpha enough. Yes, there is an occasional woman married to an mba player who looks the other way, but this is not common in “women”. Divorcing the cheater is still pretty popular last time I checked. Even back when divorce meant social …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:11 AM
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Really? People aren’t paying attention then. I personally know many more young men in this age range living at home with their parents and socially isolated than young women. It’s what brought me here, not trp. I wonder if presented with the idea of overall decrease in sexual activity, but a much sharper decrease in young men than young women, without introducing the idea of women “sharing a minority of men” , if the general public would understand the problems facing young men better?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 01:25 AM
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I think everyone familiar with gender politics/TRP accepts as fact that many young men are having much less sex, both casual sex and relationships, in their early 20’s than previous generations, such a statement isn’t controversial at all here, no? Young women are also having fewer relationships as evidenced by a slight rise in sexlessness in young women as well, but the data also shows less disruption in overall sexual activity in women than men. Therefore there are only a few logical conclusio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 01:02 AM
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A man is also sharing a promiscuous woman with other men. It doesn't only go one way. Like RP states, you are her plate too. I mean we are still back to the word “sharing”. By your definition yeah, women are sharing. I hear sharing...ugh. I think knowingly fucking some guy who is simultaneously fucking other women. My husband managed to find women to do this decades ago. No me, lol. To me “sharing an Uber” means another passenger is in the car at the same time, not that the Uber driver picked up…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:27 PM
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Of course it’s always been easier for women. But I tended bar years ago, and saw first hand guys that were successful with women who would struggle to get dates with online dating today. Good looking guys always have and always will do well with women, but online dating pretty much knocks the average guy with above average game out of the running.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:03 PM
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I think atlas is right, to be in a harem, or to share implies acceptance of ongoing, overlapping relationships. I would also add that there is a lot of pushback on this idea because it assumes that women’s fundamental values have changed. I don’t think they have. When I look at those graphs, I see Women’s sexual behavior has been actually pretty consistent. A certain % engaging in a hookup or two when they are young, or having more strs ...until mid twenties, when sex with more than one partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 08:51 PM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:22 PM
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Gee....., a quick google search of “Happy Mothers Day to my Dad” brings up two different greeting cards specifically designed for single dads on Mothers Day, a Facebook page dedicated to celebrating single dads on Mothers Day, a YouTube....... 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:15 AM
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I think I like your take the best. You’re not willing to do something completely not you, but open to trying things that might get you woman that you could be interested in as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:40 AM
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Alright I couldn’t find the automod to post my true appreciation of the thread but this is the best comment I’ve seen in a while “Apparently majority of all relationships are beta bucks but not a single person here is actually a BetaBux. Thank you for entertaining my questions Alpha Males of PPD.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:48 PM
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Bully for you. Maybe the advice wasn’t for you because you didn’t need it. I’m not suggesting men judge their worth by anything. I’m suggesting IF men want to get laid, and IF they are not getting laid, that getting involved in outgoing activities and hobbies can be just as helpful as losing weight and getting in shape, and they might end up more self confident as well. Since you have no problems, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:05 PM
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This is my lower class white area . He’s on disability, she works is very common combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:55 PM
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the Jammies....Ugh. The jammies on a big girl? YIKES Even more ironic is how much money some people spent to look like crap. https://www.shopbop.com/1212-runway-high-rise-slim/vp/v=1/1556217471.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:16 PM
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I mean, by definition, who else ya gonna cuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:38 PM
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Oh I’m not gonna branch swing, the other 5 already give me cash and prizes just for letting them follow my Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:00 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:57 PM
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the man is the hotter one. No homo though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:27 PM
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I’ll make sure and let my husband know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:46 PM
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On yeah, agreed. Skin tight is very cheesy, on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:44 PM
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Guys need to deal with flaws at the gym not the mall. I mean I don’t disagree but some gotta work with what they got The thicker non clingy fabric Looks better imho. If I can see rolls and even your navel through your t? No bueno
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:43 PM
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Lol, truth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:21 PM
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Totally do it, just add a fitted blazer. Skinny guys can rock that look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:17 PM
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No, that’s exactly why women keep telling you guys to pay more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:14 PM
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You’re not wrong really. If you are really fit, having well fitted clothing shows it off, even if it’s jeans and t shirt. If you don’t have a great body, you probably will look like a slob in t’s and jeans. If your body has flaws you need to hide, you will probably look better in a slightly looser but not baggy, crisper pique fabric polo than a clingier t shirt. Your choice of fabric and style can help accentuate a good body and also hide flaws in one that’s not so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:13 PM
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I reject the notion that clothing doesn’t raise smv. Guys who spend time working out and keeping their body fat low, often wear clothes so baggy that no one can really tell. And some of the guys who get big and buff (not my personal preference) can look downright overweight in ill fitting clothes. Style is one thing we can debate, but fit is not imho. If your body is decent, don’t don’t hide it under a circus tent. You can dress in a well fitting flannel and jeans and still be considered “stylis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:05 PM
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People don’t give a shit about people as individuals in general, other than a very close circle around them, except in a facile way. Even Mother Teresa ate well, went to decent modern hospitals and flew first class. Any woman who posts anything she thinks could be helpful to men gets an onslaught of hate. Wanna see my inbox? You don’t expect us to continue to be empathetic when you post hateful shit, do you? Organize the campaign to reform child custody laws and get your jars out on the counter.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 10:14 AM
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Here’s the thing? Anyone find you attractive right now? Still think you should just sit on the sidelines and just be picky and wait? Until that perfect waifu dream girl who wants to cook your meals and owns 19 sided die, and can’t wait to please you knocks on your basement door and seeks you out because you’re a special, special boy? You have your list your unicorn needs to have. The question is...what do you bring to the table? Why should a woman want you? Men are thirsty, women are not. Blame …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:37 AM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:52 AM
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Oof, next step...maybe some type of game with people in the same room? Do you have social anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:08 AM
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That was just a joke btw. Oh my h and I danced around the issue for almost two months, lol. That was the awkward part. Once we figured out we were both on the same page it wasn’t awkward at all. Apparently some of our mutual friends were thinking “you two just need to get a room already”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:31 AM
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Don’t hang on to relationships that are destined to fail anyway. Don’t try to force yourself to like guys who seem like a good catch, but don’t really give you tingles. Kiss that weird kid on the camp bus that you wanted to kiss. Lose your virginity to that cute, dirty little hippy, not your nerdy friend. Don’t wait till college to lose that baby fat. Don’t wait so long try psychedelics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:22 AM
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Tell him.not me...lol, I suggested touch and glance, he thought “glance” was something only girls do. Touch is better, especially between old friends I think. I don’t think this is going to be let’s get it on if it works, it’s gunna be let’s fall in love. Kino Escalation, by DiCarlo Buckaroos sounds like fancy footwear Yeah eye contact along with a sly smile...that look that says bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:53 AM
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Mentally healthy and stable women only. Completely unreasonable expectation. That unicorn doesn’t exist 🤣 Btw I disagree about using the word “date”. My h didn’t, just talked about new movies out and when I expressed interest said “let’s see it together and get dinner after.” He did insist on picking me up, not meeting up, and paying. It was definitely “date vibe” while still leaving that door open of “just one friend treating another” if I backed off. It’s definitely an awkward situation at fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:14 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:33 AM
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I was friends with my husband for I guess about a decade before we ever dated. My advice? Start hanging out more, a lot more. Everytime you hang out, plan the next time to hang out before parting. Take her to your house and feed her. KEEP IT LIGHT! maybe get a little flirty, touch her more, but playfully, see how that goes. Any excuse you can find to touch her. Put your hand on the small of her back, one of those “sexual but not sexual” spots and see if she responds. If she doesn’t back away, pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:07 AM
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Are we talking games in the same room with other people, or people you meet irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 11:57 PM
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I’m making a lot assumptions ? When did I ever tell anyone they had to give up a hobby? Show me? I only said it didn’t count as a hobby that would help a guy meet women. In fact what part of this exchange even comes CLOSE saying soone should give up their dnd hobby? [–]smolhomie 3 points 1 day ago Being a good dungeon master requires you to be a good speaker, storyteller and problem solver. [–]Nodoxxintoxin Yah, but are lots of females in the room? If so carry on. Roll those 20 sided dice with c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 11:54 PM
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Why should your preferences be more important to a man than his own? To win your favor? Yes What do you give in return? sex? Among many other things do you change your preferences to fit with your man's Of course I do I have to change my preferences to get sex from him too. I shave. I don’t blurt out every negative thing that comes to mind. I don’t let myself get fat and use deodorant. I try to suppress my inner bitch. I pretend to like some of his friends more than I really do. I pretend to lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 09:16 PM
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🤓number 2 looks like he modeled for this emoji
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:39 PM
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Sure, it’s subjective. We are talking about things that have a high likelihood of making people “interested” in you. When the crowds of people all cheer on your awesome tuba solo, you and your tuba will be “interesting” to women. If you play the tuba, move to New Orleans and join a second line. They make the tuba interesting and people will want to meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:58 PM
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Yes dear
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:07 PM
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Touche’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:06 PM
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Gate keeping. I can “care” about “men” like I care about homeless animals. I throw my change in the jar, not go bring home 20 strays. I can “care” about global warming, doesn’t mean I’m a total hypocrite because I don’t bike instead of taking a Prius. What you are asking about is who cares about YOU and YOUR problems as a man. Enough to listen to your problems. Maybe only your mom, I dunno. I care about my husband and frankly only 2 out of my 4 brothers. I have three female friends who can call …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:42 PM
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No different poster
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:26 PM
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🤣what happened to Gaylord 1 and 2? Banned for cam sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:01 PM
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Cool. Beat your meat or blow dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:52 PM
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Utter bullshit “In the years that followed, Tesla became a darling of high society, a bon vivant much in demand at dinners and salons graced by the likes of J.P. Morgan, John D. Rockefeller, the Astors and the Vanderbilts, and he hosted many of the elite at his Manhattan laboratory for after-hours entertainment. One of his favorite guests was Mark Twain, who claimed he was temporarily cured of constipation by a session on a vibrating platform mounted on an electrical oscillator. Considered a hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:48 PM
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Fair enough , on those two specific examples at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:32 PM
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Grief is one thing, a necessary rite needed to mourn loss. Depression is another. I’m just observing that some ways people try to cope with it are destructive. There is a lot of research on activity that can lessen depression and improve mood, and on activity that exacerbates it, and sometimes ends up more problematic than the depression itself. If pointing out that some coping mechanisms are counter productive is policing then I guess I’m policing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:27 PM
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Having a passion for something is worthless for attracting women or being considered "interesting" if it's the wrong type of thing Agree emulating the passions or lifestyle of someone who is successful with women is probably the greatest change a guy can make to increase his success with women Agree we shouldn't attach too much value to womens attraction I guess that depends It’s pretty valuable to most guys if they don’t have any already. Rp 101
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:11 PM
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the smart men are gently and sweetly pretending to listen and empathize Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:05 PM
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You change your entire personality, for her. If you are a depressed miserable wretch, and your personality sucks, you change it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:23 PM
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they never have to see themselves as the "thing" that needs to be fixed. Bingo. It’s about whining “why doesn’t my tinder date or waifu crush care about how sensitive and sad I am” and never about “how can I be less sad and more attractive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:21 PM
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Nothing worse than getting picked, amIright?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:10 PM
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You are absolutely right that I am telling you that expressing your deepest, darkest emotions to someone who you don’t already have a deep emotional connection to is no way to form a new connection. Sorry. The only stranger who wants to hear that is your brand new therapist. Do you expect your new boss to care? Your mailman to care? Why should your tinder date care either? I’m not talking about your wife or LTR. I’m talking about presenting yourself to the world in a way which makes people gravi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:05 PM
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What’s your solution? Retreat to the basement with tendies and Cheetos, gaming and porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:49 PM
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Makes them happy? How about men who are lonely and miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:46 PM
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You know, you should try it. Literally. Very very literally. Dance. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-antidepressant-diet/201709/dancing-away-the-blues Get up and move. And force yourself to smile while you are at it https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/smiling-can-trick-your-brain-happiness-boost-your-health-ncna822591
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:42 PM
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If you deal with your problems by retreating into the basement and gaming, you are only making your problems worse, especially if loneliness is one of your problems.. If you deal with your problems by diving headlong into some creative passion that might help you in social settings, you just might find your problems get better, not worse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:35 PM
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Yeah Aaren, exactly. There is a lot of confusion here about what you present to the world to be attractive and what you can present to an LTR after you have proven yourself worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:31 PM
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Recent threads have been about how to be ATTRACTIVE, not how vulnerable one can be when already in a relationship. If I go on a blind date, I’m not talking about how my grandpa molested me or how I never got over the trauma of my abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:26 PM
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Oh yeah, you need to get the skills. And before you get the skills you have to get the passion to want to do them and the confidence that you can master them. All attractive qualities, all worthwhile characteristics to cultivate. I not talking about just faking it, I’m talking about making yourself a better person at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:14 PM
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Like I said, you only have to be the center of attention in the room that night to get a woman interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:58 PM
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I get that guys were upset about the vulnerability thing, but I also read at least three answers about how if you have to change for a woman she doesn’t love the real you, always be yourself 100% etc Look, the whole vulnerability thing is a relationship issue, not one of being attractive in the first place. Any guy who thinks putting his most raw, vulnerable self on full display to attract a woman in the first place is delusional. Let’s face it, you can’t do that with anyone, not a job interview…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:55 PM
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Isn’t the saying “you don’t have to outrun the tiger, just the safari guide”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:31 PM
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Tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:35 AM
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You have to fix that first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:30 AM
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This is not #1advice for people dealing with serious depression. That’s best handled with professional help and possibly medication and/or therapy. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:25 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:22 AM
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I call bullshit. I’m telling you to have a passion for life. It’s up to you what that is, but everyone is happier when they are passionate about something, and if the mastery of that passion of yours is an activity that involves women or that women appreciate that’s a win win. I’m not saying every onevshould change, but if you look at yourself objectively and you have no interests and aren’t interesting, then maybe you suck. Life is short. Don’t be boring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:21 AM
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Yes as I told another poster, I had no idea there were no expectations placed on me........ “Really? And all this time I thought my husband expected me to not to be a fat cunt who sits around all day moping. Damn, maybe I should go get some Ben and Jerry’s and start watching soap operas all day. I could have just sucked all along. Til”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:14 AM
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Being funny can do that, so anyone can write off the majority of your post as filler content. Yeah, but just like some people aren’t creative, some just aren’t funny. The point of my post really lies in the title. Don’t be afraid to change your persona if the one you have now sucks. if perception is reality" is true, then how you perceive people is what shapes your views of them, and perception can be changed depending on how open you choose to be. Might as well say gay conversion therapy works …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:05 AM
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I get the whole anger over having to sublimate emotions tbh. Honestly that is something to deal with after you are already in a relationship. No dude in his right mind should think depression is attractive. But these types of responses “Always be 100% your authentic self.” ”if someone doesn't like you for who you are truly then they are the wrong person.” are the ones that made me think you know, maybe if you really are a Debbie downer, introverted personality type, wouldn’t TRP tell you to chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:17 AM
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I did say something that makes you center of attention be fair. Cars...meh, guns...dunno, not me, gold prospecting 🤣negative But are you telling me yachting doesn’t help you get women? I mean if I was single and a guy asked me on his yacht....he’d have to look like a psycho or bridge troll before I’d say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:39 AM
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We already know that women like status, strength, courage, and wealth, Yes, I suggested mastery of things were men can highlight extroversion and confidence. I stated up front in the post, not mastery of video games or d and d. mastery in a skill isn't worth anything to women unless it brings status and attention I specifically stated in the post....Things that “make the man the center of attention for the evening” but "love," in my opinion, is just a program that has been wired into the brain t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:30 AM
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Idk why but calling him “Teddy” gave me the biggest laugh tonight. Ah, that Teddy Bundy, what a charmer that lad. Shame about those severed heads tho.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:41 AM
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Buy shots
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:32 AM
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Lol, my friend and I were watching the documentary, not gonna lie, he was pretty cute. Glad I never ran into him, my head probably would have ended up in his bowling bag He wasn’t just charming to women either, they say he was able to escape because all the guards liked him and “let their guard down”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:11 AM
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Did you get the full exposure?😱
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:06 AM
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Plenty of solo self improvement actively decreases exposure, plenty of opportunities that increase it as well. As I said, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:05 AM
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Jesus Christ you went to the dark side fast. I have no idea what I might have said to bring this on. Look is it so horrible at the end of the day that most men’s initial interest in a woman happens to be a seeing a flesh light with a pulse , preferably a young nubile flesh light, while women are sizing men up to figure out if he is strong enough to protect her and the offspring? We are both simultaneously thinking rational beings able to weigh a persons intellect, morality, kindness and values, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:59 AM
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Unless... I act like a cartoonish villain. Mogging other men at bars, being ostentatiously loud, generally acting like an asshole is the only way I have gotten female sexual attention with any consistency 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:57 AM
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only being valued for a few things that you can do for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:56 AM
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Stole it from Joss whedon, lol. Lily Tomlin’s wife said it first I think, so he stole it from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:54 AM
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I mean it’s not really off point at all. You prefer your improvement activities to be solo. I did say “anything that social, extroverted men do which proves they have confidence and mastery. You do NOT have to be famous, just the focus of the room for the night, to get the attention of a few women.” Solo improvement builds confidence but it should be obvious that at least SOME display of your talent or mastery is needed to attract women. Even playing a mean guitar gets you no where if you only p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:50 AM
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I did say, in the op “anything that social, extroverted men do which proves they have confidence and mastery. You do NOT have to be famous, just the focus of the room for the night, to get the attention of a few women.” I don’t know if I can explain this very well. Yes, it is about the public eye. That’s always helpful. But also, women like to see men “doing” things. There was a thread once a while back about this. It was started about the trouble average men have with online dating. One woman s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:41 AM
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Wow, I would like to meet you and have a beer. You don’t suck. So that advice isn’t for you. It was for boring guys. Guys who don’t shine in any way. And if you have done public speaking you should already come off as a confident guy. Women DO give a shit about these things, being interesting can easily turn a meh dude into a maybe dude. But not if there is some other, overriding “no way “ thing going on. Most rock stars have tons of groupies even homely ones, but not if they are 700 lbs. Do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:21 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:07 AM
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From what I can tell, plenty of people suck. Ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:01 AM
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psychology and philosophy Oof. That’s a tough one. Not gonna lie, something performative, something you “ do” is usually what gets female attention. You would have had a shot 20 years ago, back when professors didn’t get fired for dating students. There was always one chick hot for teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:58 AM
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Lol, hear there is “cam sex” involved. Come back and let us know. 🍆 or 🍑
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:54 AM
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Yeah, guys who play guitar or are great at tennis,,,,that’s not interesting at all....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:52 AM
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that is a complete waste for my productivity if you are socializing at the gym you're wasting time It sounds like you have your priorities and meeting women isn’t one of them. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:48 AM
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They hate the fact women expect them to be interesting? That explains soooooo much. I don’t hang with anyone who’s a bore. Ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:41 AM
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Lol....claims to be a woman .....I think?.. 💥 🚂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:39 AM
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Dude, if I didn’t have a vagina, pretty sure my husband wouldn’t have been interested in the rest of me. First things first....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:37 AM
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sound like good sex to me ngl Lol dam son. You need to dm that gaylordfag2 chick....she loves the butt stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:32 AM
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Every time I’ve gone, there are twice as many girls as guys and some crazy dude with dreadlocks is definitely getting laid. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:27 AM
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Okay. What does my post on not being a bore with no interests have to do with that? If you are a bore with no interests you suck and should change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:26 AM
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“so in some ways people have to suck, either because they're protecting themselves” Mmm..I don’t think we are talking about the same thing You are talking about being an open person, one with a amiable personality which is also important .. I’m talking about not being boring, about being able to take pride in the mastery of something, some realm where you feel confident, having a spark, a passion, a joie de vive if you will. A reason to get out of bed in the morning. Something that fits your per…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:23 AM
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Really? And all this time I thought my husband expected me to not to be a fat cunt who sits around all day moping. Damn, maybe I should go get some Ben and Jerry’s and start watching soap operas all day. I could have just sucked all along. Til
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:08 AM
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Yeah we women like interesting men who know how to live a full life and aren’t boring. 😈. Bad bad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:04 AM
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Something...anything...I keep getting all these comments. I don’t like poetry, I don’t like guitar. You’re completely missing my point! I’m talking about guys who have no interest in anything except video games and anime. Have a goddamn passion that gets you out of the house, that you have mastered, that you can feel confident doing. If it is a mixed gender activity, all the better. Just anything hat makes you interesting and confident. You don’t have that? Maybe you suck. Maybe you are boring D…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:58 AM
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No. There was also lots of “why should I change”. Why should they change? Maybe they just suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:50 AM
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Any mastery will help to make you a more interesting and confident person, and you will suck less. But if you also want to improve your odds with women, it helps to be in a target rich environment ....one with lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:48 AM
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Cause she will divorce rape you will no lube! Your anus will be wreck’d with alimony! You won’t be happy like the perpetually single guys who NEVER EVER EVER post bitter diatribes on Mgtow. They only talk about how fun it is to be single! Despite being bald and 50 with a drinking problem, young pussy just falls in their lap. ......I tell you for guys that supposedly have gone their own way, they sure let women rent lots of space in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:43 AM
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Then do your own thing. Just be really good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:32 AM
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The biggest circular rage argument now.....men should just check out of society cause wimmen doesn’t want them, and since wimmen doesn’t want men, we are checking out. How about presenting them with something to want and see how that goes instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:31 AM
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That goes for most social activities for now tbh. Hard to smash some strange and keep your mask on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:23 AM
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I’m suggesting being confident by mastery of something, anything. If it happens to be something extroverted and that appeals to women, and you are relatively unsuccessful with them currently, it can’t hurt. Suck less! Start today!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:17 AM
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Suggest going out for drinks as a group after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:09 AM
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See, here’s the thing, people need to find that thing that is their own. I can’t say go be a graffiti artist or a mixed doubles amateur champ. And I can’t guarantee that pussy will be falling in their laps like manna from heaven. But I suspect some of the more unsuccessful guys here just honestly kinda suck. Yeah, I do think many really unhappy introverts might try to fake it till they make it engaged in a more extro activity, so in that sense it does contradict their natural personality, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:02 AM
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rage comment bukkake Okay, you win the ppd for the day. Might have to change my flair again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:53 PM
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Oh, I mean if you are happy with your life and already enough female attention to make you happy, by all means carry on. If not, ( and plenty of dudes are in this camp) you just might suck though. Here’s the thing, doesn’t have to be artsy. Could be beach volleyball or even yoga for the chill dude. True story, I knew a kundalini master with a man bun who used to fart, but he could strike some impressive poses. He wasn’t every chicks cup of tea, but he did pretty well in a certain demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:49 PM
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I agree to some extent that it gets harder the older you get. If you’re trying to have mastery of anything, I think the 10,000 hour rule is somewhat valid tbh. One I forgot though....dance. Everytime I do any type of dance, contra, Cajun, the women outnumber the men two to one. You don’t have to be great, just proficient to stand out as a man on the dance floor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:37 PM
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Like I said to another poster, life is short. Why make it boring by being boring? Why not be both interested and interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:29 PM
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Cause life is short, why make it boring by being boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:27 PM
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Lol, or you can just try to be really, really interesting at being abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:26 PM
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Okay, so if you’re not good at anything and have no interest in being good at anything, then be honest with yourself. Is it possible that you kinda suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:21 PM
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Sure, my question is, has this just become Mgtow lite or does anyone still care about TRP here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:17 PM
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Here’s the thing though, if you do suck, you gain a lot more than female attention by mastery of a skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:13 PM
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Yah, but are lots of females in the room? If so carry on. Roll those 20 sided dice with confidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:11 PM
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My best friend married a guy 21 years older than her. She is a statistical outlier. Every day someone wins the lottery and someone drowns in their bathtub. So what? Anecdotal examples are irrelevant. We are talking about MOST doctors who are four times more likely to marry another doctor than someone who has no degree at all. all they're doing is getting a degree to get close to a man who will make far more money than they ever will This is hard to quantify, but if it’s true, according to statis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:09 PM
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Lol, I banged plenty of guitar players who were FAR from famous in my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:36 PM
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Wow u/philomexa I never thought I’d get to post this TWICE in one week. Well some people try to pick up girls And get called assholes This never happened to Pablo Picasso.... Well he was only 5'3" But girls could not resist his stare Pablo Picasso never got called an asshole Not in New York
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:35 PM
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Women get together and rant about men too. When they post their frustrations in public spaces, they are labeled man hating radfems and lesbians. Who cares. We still fall in love and sleep with the enemy. This battle of the sexes is as old as Adam and Eve.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 01:25 PM
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50 year old guys are the ones glad to pick up a 45 year old woman. If they wanted kids, chances are they have had them already. If a 50 year old guy is getting a hooker, the vast majority want the 20 year old. That’s not the question. The question is the comparative rmv value. The question is does a 50 year old guy want a 20 year old wife or LTR. Some yes, most just don’t want the headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 01:16 PM
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You seem to have a problem with stating verifiable facts as opposed to your opinion. So all of these doctors want to marry the hottest chick they can find, and they don’t realize they can just go to Hooters, flash their platinum card and get a hot wife? Just because YOU don’t value a BA doesn’t mean that the VAST majority of men with professional degrees don’t. People are marrying at later ages than ever in history. https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/03/getting-married-later-is-great…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 12:41 PM
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Got a source for that? http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/brainiac/2013/04/so_you_want_to.html Only 8% of males with professional degrees marry someone with less than a BA. 31% marry women with similar professional degrees. If you factored out the foreign born, it would be approaching zero the number of professional men willing to marry a woman without a degree. I’m sure every girl at Hooters would love to marry a doctor . Seems like male doctors don’t actually marry girls who work at Hoote…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 12:18 PM
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We only have two children these days, we buy our bread at the store, have a washing machine in our home and many two income families can afford a cleaning lady once a week. Women have always worked nooone needs a housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:22 AM
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Well statistically men don’t ACT like this. Like I said, age gap for marriage is lowest in history, educated men are only marrying educated women, etc. Look at what they do, not what they say, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:09 AM
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A large majority of men will take shallow, "vapid," boring, dumb/ditzy, plain women if they're attractive enough Yes...women with high smv and low rmv women will take men who aren't as well groomed as they proselytize to their friends or on the internet if those men are attractive enough. No, what you don’t understand is that there is no “attractive enough “ if the guy looks like a slob. Although well groomed isn’t all a guy needs to be attractive, at some level he needs to be well groomed to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 10:10 AM
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Of course 20 to 24 year old woman is at the height of appearance. That’s not what was stated. I don’t think the rmv of a 20 year old girl is always higher than a 30 year old to a 35 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 02:21 AM
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It doesn’t bother me. When they talk about the opinions of “we guys” or “all men”, I usually refer them to actual numbers showing them that in reality men don’t always behave this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 11:37 PM
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I’m pretty sure that most men don’t think like this, and positive that in real life men don’t act like this. There are not just my own eyes, there are plenty of statistics. Assortive mating is real, age gap for marriage has never been smaller, the typical women doesn’t have that many partners and I never really had guys who wanted to know my n count when I was single. Lots of the posters are very young, foreign, or outliers. As for the rest? Like TRP says, watch what they do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:37 PM
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I got “separated “
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:06 PM
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It would come out eventually? There was a bar owner in Greenwich Village who had two FAMILIES and two sets of kids. #2 knew about #1, but #1 didn’t know about #2. Personally #1 was probably in denial, but she never looked too close...till the Will was read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:05 PM
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Lowest for men: relationship status Even lower, for women: kids Takes a special kind of person to lie about having your own children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:00 PM
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Reddit should give you unlimited gold and reddit premium for life. Any sex with incels is doing God’s work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:32 PM
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Have you ever read the Freakonomics essay on the huge fall of crime rates in the US 18 years after Roe v Wade made abortion legal? The theory is our crime rates dropped quickly because fewer unwanted children were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:14 PM
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🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿 Hey I thought you were the dude who likes milfs? I’m getting people mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:56 PM
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“I've had cam e-sex with literal incels”? Holy shit, how have I missed you? 💥 🚂 .... 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:52 PM
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😳 ...I have lost my words.....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:46 PM
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Just saying, depends on where you live and who you are whether or not cops are a legitimate problem. They are in places other than NO as well. Derek Chauvin may be a rare case, the real problem is that 3 other cops all stood by and watched. I’m betting that most all of the cops on the force would have done the same. That’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:10 PM
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13? Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:03 PM
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It’s not background searches that are problematic. Most background searches are limited in scope. Where I am it’s a small town and all arrests get published in the newspaper. Name, age, address and charge. They stay in the paper indefinitely as far as I know. A potential employer doesn’t need a formal background check, arrests can come up with a google search. They also publish a paper 4 times a year that you can buy called “Busted” which prints all mug shots taken within a 3 county area. My hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:01 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:48 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:44 PM
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You never asserted money was the only meaning full metric? Attainment without an increase in purchasing power is pointless. Pointless then? As separate from meaningless?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:35 PM
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“enough of the founders thought the two phrases were synonymous enough in meaning” “happiness has nothing to do with economic migration.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:23 PM
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You know it’s funny, but the male gay community saw a rise in men appreciating the “bear”, older, heavy set men. Lots of people theorized that in the age of HIV and AIDS, the bear represented a clean bill of health.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:12 AM
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holy fuck....I get the need for public defenders but would really have a hard time getting a plea deal in a child sex abuse case, especially if the victim was really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:01 AM
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Police are not a problem Boy, do I disagree. The ones back in New Orleans were frightening. They used to work detail back when I tended bar and the average, typical cop scared the shit out of me. One of them beat the holy living hell out of a guy for pissing on my car and thought I would be grateful. I saw another one smash a law school students head onto the concrete and kick him because he was drunk and was climbing the patio fence. (He lost his detail shifts). Their detail shift was $100 cash…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 08:51 AM
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Many of them acknowledge it, even Lewis Cross finally fessed up to a diagnosis. There was a guy recently shrieking “ I’m completely neurotypical, I’ve been tested and my therapist is wrong”. Nothing to see there. Kind of like Russell Long saying he was completely mentally healthy and had the discharge papers from the mental hospital to prove it. It‘s funny though, u/Westsidemoonwalker has talked about having autism and he seems like one of the most well adjusted and happiest guys who posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 08:20 AM
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is his murder any more excusable than George's cuz reasons? Its not about what’s excusable. Murder is never excusable. We expect thugs to murder. We also expect that those suspected of that murder will be arrested on the spot with investigation to follow. George’s murder provides more outrage for several reasons. His murderer was supposedly not a murdering thug criminal, he and his fellow officers were employed by taxpayers to protect us from murderers. And when cops are suspects in a murder, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 08:09 AM
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Be very very glad this all happened pre internet age. At least I’m guessing it did. No employers like the optics today of their employees showing up with mug shots on a google search. Probably not great when admissions officers in colleges pull this up with ease either. I honestly think it’s holding people (mostly men) back from getting better education and employment. Imho, arrest without conviction should not be so easily accessible in public databases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:50 AM
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Amen on all points
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:41 AM
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“in order to comparatively measure the efficiency of two different socioeconomic structures in any meaningful way, one must have a unit of measurement which can be controlled for.” I reject this premise that money is the only meaningful metric. I would add the metric of the country of Bhutan, gross national happiness. Lack of mobility = death of dreams, not just ability to buy consumer goods. If that is how you define an emotional approach as opposed to a rational approach, I will gladly take my…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 06:25 AM
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life, liberty, and the pursuit of property. Your dream, not mine. The pursuit of happiness is much more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 06:21 AM
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:( It won’t be suicide, more likely involuntary manslaughter when they visit grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:05 AM
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😳 that’s Middle school! For a college educated man to marry a hs drop out is EXTREMELY rare http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/brainiac/2013/04/so_you_want_to.html Fewer than 5% of men with a Ba marry a woman with only a high school education. The statistics on men with a BA who marry a hs drop out (middle school education) look like less than 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:01 AM
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middleschool educated women In the US, this typically means they have not passed the 9th grade of High school. We call grades 6, 7 and 8, middle school. Is this actually what you meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:50 AM
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I’ve been to two weddings in the past few years where the couple already has children. One couple had two kids and the older one was 5. Not what I consider ideal, Time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:46 AM
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Yes, think you are correct, and I would add that women are raised to care. Most girls are weighing this in college. Guys not only care less, they start to care later in life, when they start considering child care costs and 401ks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:43 AM
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You know dude at the end of the day, this argument just comes down to values, you have your mothers....show me the money or you haven’t done shit. My values just lie somewhere else. I would rather see my kid be president and make only 400,000 k a year than be a corporate raider at 10,000,000 a year. You can argue all day that the ability to attain the job as leader of the free world is pointless if one has the ability to make 20 times more. To me “attainment mobility “ is every bit important eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:28 AM
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Really? We are back to that American dream I was referring to remember? Not if you work hard you can buy a big truck. The American dream is any kid can be president. It’s becoming more like “Any kid born to a wealthy family with connections” all the time. This is who exerts control and influence in our economy and that influence exists to maintain and preserve the rising aristocracy, not to increase meritocracy and opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:08 AM
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Nice. Your mom taught you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:50 AM
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Yep, absolutely, and as I stated, one of the biggest threats to capitalism in the US is the rising aristocracy, the incompetence of generational leadership based on wealth and social standing, and decrease we are seeing in meritocracy. That lack of “attainment mobility”, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:49 AM
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Sure. Hunter Biden and Eric Trump are both wealthy and successful because they have really worked hard and are inherently bright and motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:27 AM
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Well by your metric, and your mothers, his “attainment was pointless without purchasing power”. Loser/pointless....po TA toe, po TAH to. Oh and here I thought “ My children of working age all already have their own companies those who are not will have their own when they come of age”. Not they will join DWB if they so choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:19 AM
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By your metrics, it sounds like your mom was right, your dad was a loser. And your grandfather simply preferred his poverty. My take on the lives they lead is probably a good deal more charitable. “My children of working age all already have their own companies those who are not will have their own when they come of age” Good thing you are raising them to think independently. /s. Sounds like you have already made their choices to me. What if your child decided he or she wanted to be a low paid d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:51 PM
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“The most successful of my colleagues tended to be from poorer and more disadvantaged backgrounds and (as a result) had more drive and ambition than those of us from the more privileged backgrounds.” Duh. No shit Sherlock. You almost assuredly had colleagues with no drive, no ambition and little innate intelligence and yet many were still in the top 1% due to the circumstances they were born into.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:44 PM
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Every guy under 25. Ask them when they are older.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:23 PM
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Yeah, not the question. The question is did you? Would you be where you are today without the best education from an early age? Are you as exceptional as your father? Statistically, probably not. Exceptionalism is not generational ....like wealth and achievement is becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:22 PM
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Hey u/SeemedGood, I got questions. Lots of questions. Why was your grandfather a sharecropper? Did he have no other skills or intelligence other than the ability to stand behind a mule? Madam CJWalker was born shortly after the civil war....her parents were slaves, if she could become a millionaire, why didn’t your grandfather? Your dad got out of poverty...proof the system works. The fact that Madam CJ Walker did it is also proof the system works. Does your grandfather’s status as a sharecroppe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:02 PM
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Thanks! If you really want to get into gardening, learning propagation and cultivating friendships with other gardeners is key! I buy very, very few plants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:28 PM
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To you maybe, not to me. As I have stated, I prefer the dream we can DO anything, not HAVE tons of shit. Different values, different dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:57 PM
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And having a well educated father, then I’ll assume you didn’t attend elementary school at Oretha Castle Haley with no library, no air conditioning, forty kids in the class and armed guards at the doors either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:56 PM
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Bully for him. The exception doesn’t prove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:49 PM
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Centrally planned markets tend to have high “achievement mobility”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:47 PM
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🤪. Why not!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:36 PM
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Huh? I identify as mildly “feminist lite” and I say it all the time. No one has burned me in effigy yet. Technology and work at home will be a small game changer though, but it will take some HUGE shift before women accept a total scrub, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:27 PM
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Yes, My mother is Danish. I’m well aware of the difference in standard of living. I am also aware that good education is available to everyone in Denmark. I’m a capitalist but opportunity needs to be more available for everyone, not just those who can afford private schools and tutors. Economic immobility is a red flag that it’s not available. We need to acknowledge we are slowly veering from a capitalist society to an aristocratic one. The whole beauty of the american dream was the mythic “anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:22 PM
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Good luck then. I can assure you that there is some dumbass who barely made it through school despite going to the finest prep schools, had mediocre Mcats, but because his pappy went to Harvard and his grandpappy too, a big donation and legacy admission guarantee him a degree from Harvard. I can also guarantee he makes lots of money and lots of mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:10 PM
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Cut and paste the Cato Institute all you want, you still won’t answer my questions. Which surgeon do you pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:54 PM
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Lol, you do you dude or dudette. Spend half an afternoon trying to say that economic mobility isn’t a problem because our standard of living is high....now the studies are flawed. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:52 PM
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Oh sure, and I don’t see this changing to be honest. As long as women lactate when they hear their infant cry, women will take time away from the job place, earn less, and still want a husband who can easily pick up the slack. 28% of women in dual income marriages make more than their husbands, but the stay at home or marginally employed husband is never going to be common place....as long as it’s the wives doing the breastfeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:49 PM
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Again......I’ve acknowledged that moving classes in Canada or Sweden will have little impact on purchasing power. Centrally planned markets tend to have high “achievement mobility” Jfc, finally...thank you Jesus. Statistically the US has BOTH lower achievement and economic mobility than Canada or Sweden. Yes I’ve acknowledged a small bump in class has much larger effect on standard of living in the US. But that doesn’t mean that more kids in the US are able to change class, economic standing, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:41 PM
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“It has been my experience that human drive and passion both have a fairly standard normal distribution in all socioeconomic, educational attainment, and professional cohorts“ Then why are people in the US more likely to end up in the identical socioeconomic circumstances as the one they were born into?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:08 PM
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Jfc Where there is low economic mobility that’s an indicator of low achievement mobility. Do you disagree? Do you believe that not only are all people living up to their potential, but their offspring have identical potential and infinite opportunity, and that they always end up in achieving their highest potential? The circular argument is that a person’s potential defines what they earn, so what they earn defines their potential. By refusing to acknowledge that lack of mobility is a problem th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:03 PM
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“If I used terms which you do not understand, please let me know what is confusing you and I will elucidate that particular point.” Lol nice try. “How do you propose to measure (and compare) labor specialization choices and their efficiency?” I would say it’s not a stretch to say whenever there is limited economic mobility, that’s a pretty good proxy and indicator that the best jobs aren’t going to the best people. Well I’ve already mentioned one other metric, the ability of the above average Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:39 PM
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Nice thesaurus, shitty actual argument. Tell me WHY it’s moot? NOT something you can parrot from a textbook, I’m not impressed. Tell me your own thought process, not something somebody a lot smarter than you at the Cato Institute said. In English. As a society, doesn’t utilizing people’s talents to the fullest benefit us all? Do you want to go to the surgeon who got in to med school because he’s a legacy, or because he had the most raw talent? Is your legacy surgeon “ the optimizations of the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:06 PM
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Again, we are not talking about absolute purchasing power. I’ve described both arguments. You aren’t addressing the second argument. In which country does the smart, but poor kid have more of a chance of fulfilling his goal of being a doctor? In which country do dumb rich kids stay rich? These questions have deeper implications for the overall health of a country than the ability of the individual to purchase a new f150 every year. Address the issue or don’t bother responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:08 PM
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Statistically, assortive mating along educational lines is the norm and the highly educated marry the highly educated. 71% of college graduates married another college graduate. https://familyinequality.wordpress.com/2013/04/04/educational-endogamy/ Interestingly enough, it’s now women who more often marry down in terms of educational attainment https://ifstudies.org/blog/a-record-share-of-men-are-marrying-up-educationally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:29 PM
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Most men like him will get Stacey widowed Again, are you more likely to have fomo over the one that got away, the girl next door from high school who you never even got to finger bang, or the drunken one night stand who’s name you can’t even remember. high n-counts are bad for LTRs? Sometimes yes. My question is which comes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:19 PM
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Maybe, but I would argue the US has 20 or more elite institutions on par with Oxford, Harvard or Yale. Harvey Mudd, MIT, Stanford, Cal Tech.... I still think the US tops the world for elite education. But maybe that’s my engineering bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:08 PM
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“Universities in Canada and the UK are just as good as the best the USA has to offer “ This I think is actually inaccurate. The very BEST in the US ranks as just about the best in the world “better than the AVERAGE the American college” THIS I think is accurate. Our average colleges are often pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:58 PM
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“relative to others”. Thats exactly what we are talking about. When you move quintiles, your economic mobility is measured “relative to others”. Of course the difference between middle class and upper middle class is more pronounced in the US. Moving quintiles in Europe or Canada will not cause as noticeable a change in lifestyle. That still has no bearing on whether a poor, smart kid has a better chance of becoming a brain surgeon in the US or in Canada. If you want, you can argue that it’s poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:24 PM
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Ahhhh, yes? Economic mobility is a measure of meritocracy. Not which individual gets to buy the most crap. Europe and Canada both have less income inequality, so the rich are relatively not so rich, the poor are not relatively as poor. In that sense you could argue they have less meritocracy. But economic mobility also measures whether or not a society is able to put the best people into the best positions based on their talents. Ie is it easier for a smart, poor kid to become a brain surgeon, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:02 PM
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No.....you don’t. At all. It’s a look into the relative economic quintile in which you were born (in this case 1980), and the quintile you currently reside. In terms of our ability to purchase consumer goods, the USA has a higher standard of living. That has nothing to do with economic mobility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:48 PM
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Standards of living and upward mobility are not the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:42 PM
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Perhaps it is easier to escape from poverty trap in Europe but if you actually want to be rich the US trumps over it. Actually, I think this is pretty accurate. We have lower social mobility, but much higher income inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:35 PM
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“Intergenerational mobility across the world: Where socioeconomic status of parents matters the most (and least).” We are not exactly a third world county, but our economic mobility does rank lower than Europe and Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:32 PM
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“The map of global economic mobility shows pockets of hope and pockets of concern. Thirteen of the fifteen least mobile countries globally are in Sub-Saharan Africa and South Asia, while some of the most mobile economies are in Western Europe, Canada, Australia and Japan. But the divisions are not clear cut. The threat to economic mobility exists even in developed, high-income countries such as the United States. The U.S. is one of only four high income economies amongst 50 economies with the lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:10 PM
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yeah, lots of people never get sober and get their shit together. Still doesn’t address what I stated. What’s more likely to affect your emotional well being? Drinking two six packs and 5 to 10 shots every night or putting your dick in strange? Seems unlikely to be all the strange he was getting since he doesn’t even remember half of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:11 AM
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Or.... men who have a hard time pair bonding slut around if they can? My h was a HUGE slut, because he was young, he was handsome and charming, but mostly because he was a raging, dysfunctional alcoholic. Once he hit his thirties, got sober and got his life together, the wild and crazy sex life stopped. It was immaturity and alcohol inhibiting his ability to form an intimate relationship, having his dick in strange every night didn’t rewire his brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:41 AM
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Oh, peoples experiences can make them bad at pair bonding for sure! I just think that experiences like getting dumped, getting cheated on, getting rejected, GETTING MOLESTED (statistically a huge one), coming from a broken home, all have much more impact on your ability to love and trust than taking a few random dicks on a whim now and then. I’m saying that a few extra random dicks is likely to be a correlation, but not the causation. For someone not a born narcissist, sociopath, or attachment d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:29 AM
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Thanks Salty, the gardens looking good too😏. Hows the Japanese garden coming?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:58 AM
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Shit, I WANTED to marry a beta bux, some slubby fellow engineer who would not have an option to cheat and who I could have a stable life with. Just couldn’t do it. Ended up with a broke, ex alcoholic Chad who banged every girl in town. It‘s worked out okay so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:03 AM
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However, the more realistic question is, what are these men doing so wrong that their wives would rather be poor and alone than have sex with them? There is also the flip side of this, the ones who argue that single women better lock down a guy while she is 20, because otherwise she will be forever single, and all single women past 25 are miserable cat ladies. Many guys just refuse to believe that any woman would choose to be voluntarily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:52 AM
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My view is having a hard time pair bonding is what puts you in the promiscuous zone, not the opposite. Getting dumped after having been a supportive and self sacrificing girlfriend led me to almost two years of celibacy followed by a few years on the carousel. Dating a number of guys and having ons was a result of damage to my ability to trust another LTR, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:33 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/ysb4pMv yeah, you could call it a “hobby”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:24 AM
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Welp, I can tell you that a few real stinkers can help you appreciate a keeper even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:09 AM
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Convenience ? Okay, whatever. They seem to have plenty of ugly, convenient kids too. I guess in your mind, being used by someone for convenience is worse than being used for money. Carry on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:12 PM
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I dunno, I see ugly guys with ugly women all the time. I see ugly guys married to ugly women who have decent jobs and who don’t need the money. You seem resigned to buying sex. Might as well buy young if that’s what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:43 PM
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If you're smashing a 18 year old woman you're not beta bucks You can define it however you want. If a woman is only fucking you for money then don’t pretend that it’s anything other than that. Like I said, if you’re okay with buying pussy, might as well buy the flavor you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 06:08 PM
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Disagree. Looks definitely get women. You can have no game and no money and still get plenty of women. Good looks confers it’s own status. You can do well without looks. If you don’t have looks, you better have something else though, something more than just not autistic and not ugly. Good at sports, popular, in a band, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 06:02 PM
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Adam Driver isn’t handsome. He isn’t a pretty boy. Adam Driver is VERY fuckable in my book. Deep voice, very tall, very masculine and very good at being the cocky, confident man And he had a hot wife before he ever became famous. There is a reason he was cast in Girls and Michael Cera wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:54 PM
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Yeah, I think general advice given to op hit a sore spot...and this guy took it personally... Seriously what’s the point for either gender to work on their fitness if they are then going to hide it under a circus tent anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:32 PM
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I mean you do you fam, if you want women who values you only for money, might as well get a young one, just don’t delude yourself. If you are fine being a beta bucks some female who loves only your wallet and not you go for it. If you‘re going to buy sex, might as well buy what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:26 PM
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Woman here who loves beards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:07 PM
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How about we start with admitting that it’s not arrogant to give general, good advice to someone asking for general, good advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:04 PM
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You're smart so it would be remarkably easy for you if you just tried. It would be remarkably easy for anyone to see how poor your argument is. It seems very difficult for you to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 11:50 AM
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You’re the one calling people arrogant for giving advice to other posters who are actively asking for advice, ....they are arrogant because ?...because the people who didn’t ask for advice, don’t want advice? THE NERVE of some people! And pointing out flawed logic on a debate forum? That’s now passive aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 11:38 AM
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Hair removal is not low effort Boy howdy did my husband find this out when I waxed his earlobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 11:19 AM
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Lol, pointing out your response is illogical and completely non sensical is insulting? Okay dude. You win. When people ask for general advice you are absolutely right...no one should then give general advice because it’s arrogant to assume people who ask for advice actually need advice. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 11:09 AM
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if she did value you for more than money, that 18 year old wouldn't have rejected you when you were poor. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:57 AM
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Big girls often like big guys, girls almost always want to be smaller than guys. If you are happy and love those big girls then God bless. But losing weight will improve your health.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:55 AM
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the cliche advice offered to men, often built on generalizations Aaaahhh yeah. Duh. That advice IS cliche and often repeated, that doesn’t make it inaccurate. Wear shit clothes, look like shit. Pretty accurate generalization. You yourself admit people judge you on your appearance. Op: Give me some general advice. How can I look more attractive Reddit: stop dressing like shit You: How arrogant! How dare you assume op needs advice! Some people like to look like shit! Me: Lmao. Lol. Carry on with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:49 AM
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290? Oooof. I mean, sure, strong and fat > just plain old fat. I agree with the poster above though, lean>>>fat, muscles or no muscles. Some women dig the strong fat thing, but most women, myself included would settle for low body fat over muscles. I have a wide tolerance when it comes to height, ethnicity etc, if a guy has a decent face.....but excess body fat? For me? No bueno. If you are doing well with women at your current weight, carry on, but you are not healthy. Lose 70 lbs and then get …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:35 AM
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I agree. But being all bulked up and shredded isn’t needed. Most dudes just need to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:15 AM
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People who wear baggy jeans aren't asking for advice on how to be attractive? Really? Maybe YOU aren’t. Maybe you wear baggy clothes and have to beat off women with sticks. Again the post is about “what can men do to make themselves attractive”. It’s in the title. Op is fucking asking this question. He IS literally asking for advice. That’s why advice was given. If he does wear baggy clothes then it’s good advice. By your own admission we are judged by our clothing choices. I seriously don’t eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:11 AM
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Wtf. Someone posts don’t wear baggy clothes if you want to be attractive and your response is, “well what if I wear baggy because I like them”. Fine...don’t be attractive. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:49 AM
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Wtf, are you just arguing with the voices in your head dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:42 AM
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The list given to you by other posters is pretty complete imho, and yes, to be perfectly honest I do think there is a law of diminishing returns for looksmaxxing for most guys. Past the don’t be fat and have great hygiene, you are better investing your time in being good at something women care about like playing a sport, being in a band, etc. Lots of really ugly dudes have been highly successful with women by having high status within a niche social circle and a confident attitude. 🎼 Well he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:40 AM
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>Have you considered that some people just like baggy jeans? Wether it's for comfort or aesthetic preference? Okay, then wear baggy clothes because you like them.... >I never at any point denied that how you dress will impact how people perceive you. and don’t be surprised when it impacts how people perceive you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:18 AM
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I personally think any ”style” at all helps. It shows confidence. If you aren’t a Hugo Boss kind of guy, don’t fake it. Figure out who you are and then dress in a way that’s both flattering and individualistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:02 AM
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In all honesty I think it's better to be skinny shredded than. "gym bro". Thank you. As a woman I couldn’t agree more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:50 AM
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Yeah, I’m a woman. My list would be shorter. DON’T BE FAT. Also have clear skin and nice white teeth. If you have a unibrow, fix it. If you are balding, for the love of all that is holy, cut it short. But mostly, DO NOT BE FAT. I have argued till I’m blue with guys on here....I’ve been told women like a husky guy, that muscular guys hold fat better, that my BMI is in the overweight range because I lift......blech. No, Mark Phelps’ BMI is still in a healthy range and his body is perfection on ear…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:48 AM
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Look, I don’t agree 100% with all of the advice, but well fitting clothes can’t hurt. Your answer is fine..yeah but I prefer baggy clothes. So go ahead and wear baggy clothes, but if you are getting lean underneath those baggy clothes, no one will care. If I prefer sitting on my fat ass, having unattractive, blue stringy hair, and wearing unflattering clothes, that’s my choice, but I can’t complain when men don’t find me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:25 AM
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I’m sure you have no problem with women, many would find you highly desirable. But for me, 6’2 is my limit, 5’10 to 6 I find the most attractive. I’m blond/blue eyed nordic and like dark hair and olive skin the best. I do think that a handsome man is a handsome man, even if he is 5’7, skinny and blond so I can have a wide range of guys I find attractive but if I were going to engineer a peak male he would absolutely NOT be 6’7 and blond.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:42 AM
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Yeah, too many details....not productive. My h was just relived to hear I didn’t ever fuck his late brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 02:16 AM
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I think that’s not the opposite of automatic, I think they mean when they are reading the sex manual that’s in one hand and are jerking it with the other
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 02:14 AM
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high n counts fuck women up bad and mess with their pair bonding but it does to men as well I think.. (it did to my dumbass anyway) My h had double digits before he was out of high school, and was a good looking guy who tended bar. I slept with more than the average # myself. The whole high body count causes inability to pair bond is bullshit Imho. Do I think there is correlation? Yes. Causation? No. We both racked up higher n counts during times in our lives where we were incapable of and/or or…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 02:10 AM
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So a young woman who loves your money, but isn’t genuinely attracted to you, has a real emotional connection, but an older woman who also values your companionship and security doesn’t? If a woman really doesn’t find you sexually attractive and is using you strictly for money, you think she “respects” you ? Lmao. Read the accounts of Hugh Hefner's “girlfriends “ and how gross they thought it was to fuck him and how they had to be high or drunk to stomach him. If some young women is fucking you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:41 AM
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you’ll agree that whether a man has given you an orgasm before has little to do with your decision to have sex with him in the future. I was like this as a very young woman. I had sex because I was “in love”. I stopped tolerating shitty sex with no orgasms in my late twenties. I will give a few chances to get on board, but if things weren’t happening , the relationship wasn’t happening. I dumped a 6/6/6 who only real flaw was he was mediocre in bed. On the other hand, if you checked no other box…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:15 AM
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So if you think that real emotional connections don’t exist and all you want is to bang hot young things, just hire them. You give something whether its good looks, money, commitment and you get something in return. You admit to not having looks and have no interest in commitment. All you have left is money. Give young women money, get sex. Hookers are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:58 AM
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Some older women will value you for your money, your security, your companionship, your potential as a parent. Some will actually love and care about you. Some older women won’t, they will be gold diggers. Young women will be even more likely to value only the money. If you weren’t inspiring lust in anyone as a young man, you probably won’t inspire lust in anyone as an old man.That doesn’t mean that it’s not possible to find someone to form a family with. Young women are more likely to take the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:36 AM
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You think a successful man can't pull young women? Sure, if he has money, there are some young women that will attract... there’s a name for that...... You can ignore the bucks part as much as you want when young women go for old rich men? Literally the definition. They don’t want the fucks, they want the bucks. I will edit/clarify.....You can’t go back and make yourself into something young women value for SEX If your looks and personality didn’t inspire lust in young women when you were younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 11:44 PM
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If a man gets constantly rejected and ignored by women throughout his youth he won't be so fond of them later on? Sounds like a “you” problem. You are only punishing yourself further. You can’t go back and make yourself into something young women value. Just like young men....young women value youth and good looks. When people get older, they (hopefully) prioritize other things....including stability, compatibility and parenting potential. Bunch of companies probably didn’t want to hire you when…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:21 PM
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If a woman gave you her youth and loyalty from the start you'd be an absolute idiot not to return the favor. Yeah, that’s what young men are known for, sexual temperance and wisdom /s Young men are WAY more likely to let the little head do the thinking Fomo is real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:33 PM
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The guy I invested in as a young, low n count woman cheated on me (only confirmed post breakup) and broke up with me after 7 years because he didn’t want to marry the only woman he slept with. The man who wifed me up as a slutty woman quickly careening into the wall head on has been my faithful husband and companion for a long time now. My husband got plenty of youth....back in his youth. Just not mine🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:14 PM
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https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-06-03/man-behind-sweden-s-virus-strategy-says-he-got-some-things-wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:55 PM
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Rest of the world, we suffered a temporary loss in our economy, we are devastated. https://www.npr.org/sections/coronavirus-live-updates/2020/06/03/868567924/swedens-coronavirus-response-chief-acknowledges-potential-for-improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:54 PM
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Moved up to # 7 highest deaths per capita today
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:07 PM
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In addition to what others have noted, helping an older man is more often received poorly. It can be emasculating. Source? My last job was working with volunteers in horticulture. Old men did NOT want the help of a younger person, especially a younger woman. The older women always expressed gratitude, the older men almost always took offense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:43 PM
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From a young age women are taught The difference in sexes is probably also something innate. There is research showing that female babies maintain eye contact with familiar people much longer than male babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:36 PM
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I'd swear they were trying to get people to riot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:13 PM
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Woman here. Of course 20 to 24 year old women are the most physically attractive. Was this somehow in question? The problem is that there is a huge leap between “who is prettiest and who “I want for a relationship”. It should also not be up for debate that the vast majority of men lose their looks as they age as well, even famous men with loads of money who spend effort on maintaining their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:03 PM
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Your post just lost all credibility
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:23 AM
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>Yeah, I see no problem. not surprised, but good to know....btw, the only one in the top 8 per capita where new cases aren’t decreasing, so still time to make it to #1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 07:18 PM
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They didn't have any problems. Like Sweden? Number 8 worldwide in deaths per capita, behind Andorra and San Marino? We define “problem” differently. Without testing, how do you keep nursing homes safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 02:09 PM
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​ No, not anything goes by a long shot. We started with businesses with small customer base...the “tattoo and beauty parlor”, dog grooming etc. As of today, a FEW restaurants have reopened for eat in dining, most are still take out and pick up. And yesterday was NOT a good day for numbers. An increase of 970 new cases, 59 deaths and 100 hospitalizations in the past 24 hours. Way way out of the predicted range.The genie is out of the bottle though, I think if a vaccine doesn’t come before next fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:57 PM
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...okay you get my upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:32 PM
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I am “pro suicide” in some circumstances. Provided a person is as mood stabilized as possible, and they want to kill themselves, I think it’s their right. I’ve known many people whose lives weren’t living, they were dangerous to others when manic, absolutely miserable when on their meds. I’ve seen them behave in ways that would have appalled their younger selves, before mental illness took over. I support euthanasia for anyone who is doing it for good reasons, has zero reasonable expectation of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:27 PM
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I will say my h has enough social skills and emotional intelligence to not ask for sex on the way to grammas funeral or from my hospital bed, so there is that. Helps to be able to read the room
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:06 PM
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If I were a statistically average unmarried man, chances are good I would be having zero to very little sex, so yes, I would still get married. Maybe with a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:25 AM
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My husband is Chad-god, there isn’t a dry vagina in the house when he enters a room. In fact, women don’t even have to look at him, just smell his alpha pheromones and bam...they are pregnant. It’s his superpower. At least that what he told me.🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:19 AM
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🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:05 AM
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The cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:04 AM
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What, be afraid I might get divorce raped? I made more than my husband and already owned a four plex. I’d be the one who got divorce raped. So yeah, if I was a guy and I could lock down a woman with a good career and property, who cooks for me and never says no to sex? Sure I’d marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:10 AM
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How do you know if you’re sexually compatible with someone BEFORE you have sex with them? I already stated that I have also dated short men, remember? Look at the original post Einstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:54 AM
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Okay Eeyore, whatever you say. I guess the idea that you could not be sexually compatible with someone is over your head. I did say I was 5’6” and had a huge crush on a guy my height though, but if you hear that you can’t cry while you wank yourself to sleep. 😭 🍆 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:41 AM
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Not to get too graphic, but the difference in height made for awkward sex. IBesides, I’ve dated lots of people that were less than ideal, duh....that’s why you date. Sometimes you don’t know what’s awkward and what’s not until you find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:31 AM
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https://images.app.goo.gl/e9BWnsYPm47djgs99 Actually this is 6’1, 160. Perfect! Husband is getting salad for dinner🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:23 PM
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That to me is right about perfect. I gotta stop feeding my husband.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:19 PM
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u/reluctantly_red gets a lot of crap, but he’s honestly doing gods work, those big girls need love too. But I swear you could probably find some week old crumbs lodged in those folds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:18 PM
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Well it’s certainly not “big” https://images.app.goo.gl/s7yimWu2JryQw6KLA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:58 PM
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lol, lanky is my jam. Tall lanky men. 6’ 160-170? 👌 To each her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:53 PM
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It wasn’t for me. The awkward part had nothing to do with standing next to him in heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:50 PM
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I know EXACTLY why you don’t go down on your chicks. Who knows what you might run into in all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:42 PM
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I do find tall men attractive, but face >>>height . I dated a few short guys, had a terrible oneitis for a guy who was my exact height but really cute. And taller than 6”1? No bueno for me. I‘m 5’6” and dated a guy who was 6’3”. The height difference was awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:28 PM
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Who cares about men watching porn? I wish mine would watch more, any inspiration is welcome. Actual physical cheating? If I wanted that I wouldn’t have married. If it happened, I rather just be single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:04 PM
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Just something that always gives me giggles, especially the comments, ”They are both so selfless. Bless him for marrying an intellectually disabled person, and bless her for marrying a homosexual. I'm sure God will reward both of your sacrifices!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 02:44 AM
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“Moore describes in his book how he met his wife at a friends' Christmas party when he was aged 37 and she was 23.” but “Moore was 29 and Kayla just 15 when they FIRST met”. When they married he was 38 and she was 24, and she had already been married and divorced with a kid. Just for the sake of accuracy. I don’t care, my best friend is married to a guy who is 22 years older. Some Christians would rather see their daughters married to young gay men https://youtu.be/TuSr85d2WrU 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:27 PM
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I have no idea where 16 year old home schooled daughters are being matched up with men a decade older. Even the Duggars wait till they are 20. The biggest problem in home schooled circles is apparently that they can’t get the daughters married off at all. Geoff Botkin is still waiting for those daughters careening toward the wall to find someone good enough. The mother of the entire movement, Mary Pride, still hasn’t found anyone to marry her a few of her daughters. I don’t really personally kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:53 PM
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Depends. Is she hot? Does she also have a top 5% rmv? Again, within certain subcultures, in this case people with a high degree of desirability, it probably isn’t realistic. For those outside of that subculture? Probably yes, it’s unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:40 PM
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Virgin wives are easy to find if you live in one of many subcultures in the US. Are you Amish, Orthodox Jew or an 18 year old home schooled Christian who has never been allowed to date? If you are outside of a particular subculture (that typically expects both bride and groom to be virgins), I would say you can want what you want but may not find it. Unreasonable? The more accurate word is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:23 PM
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Well damn, I’m pretty low n count after all by most of the standards here!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:22 AM
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My point is that it didn’t hurt her career. And Playboy soon was legally selling millions of copies. This was a huge sea change and happened independently of and well before the “sex positive feminist” movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:09 AM
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It seems to me hat the lid came off the jar long before the feminist movement. A major movie star was photographed naked in Playboy magazine in 1953. Before that, nudie pics were underground. It was accepted into mainstream culture, it didn’t hurt her career in the slightest and the entire genre got more graphic every year. The number one goal of Playboy was to convince society at large that the wholesome girl next door was just as horny and sexual as any man. There has always been a huge market…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:47 PM
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https://images.app.goo.gl/w5scnhgMxmsgMufE9 Caution, mildly nsfw The degenerate world today....am I right!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:14 PM
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I think you missed my point. You claimed women want to ban porn because the women are thin and pretty. My point is that most media made for, by, and about women features thin pretty women, yes, sometimes almost thin to a point of unobtainable standards. Yet women still wholeheartedly buy and support it. If women want to ban porn because they ” don't often like other women who are thin and pretty“ why do they love all other media centered on thin pretty women? I haven’t heard about throngs of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:05 PM
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>Women want to ban porn because the ladies of porn are usually thin and pretty. That’s weird, cause all women's magazines, all fashion, most any product marketed to women features thin pretty women, imho prettier than many porn stars. There are some seriously butterface women in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:41 PM
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😈
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:32 AM
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How about someone with multiple alts for multiple subreddits?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:13 AM
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I vote break it off, if it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:11 AM
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“I wonder where I'd be today if she had loved me too Probably be driving kids to school” “Lord, I hope she's happy 'cause she sure deserves to be Especially for what she did for me.” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:11 PM
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Yeah, exactly, way too many men are just locked away due to the evils of feminism I’m not sure the “war on drugs” had anything to do with feminism. Look at the new Netflix documentary about criminal justice reform. 13th. Why do so many more men kill themselves if they live such lives of privilege? This is certainly not my position that “men” lead lives of privilege. Wealthy white men have always lead lives of privilege. In that order. Wealthy white male. Now wealthy white women too I think the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:07 PM
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You don't have to be physically strong to be an electrician, plumber, HVAC tech? I disagree. As someone who fixes all my own rental property, if my husband isn’t around, I’m glad my tenant has a son in his twenties. He wields the wrench while I explain what to do. Certain aspects of each of these trades doesn’t require strength, but in each of these you will come across situations that only a few women have sufficient strength (or inclination). Even pulling wire or taking the bolts off to change…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:52 PM
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Poor people still have 3, 4, 5 kids on a consistent basis? Not in the US. 2.5 is the median for the lowest quintile https://qz.com/1125805/the-reason-the-richest-women-in-the-us-are-the-ones-having-the-most-kids/. Some of the most successful in the US are the self employed. Contractors, electricians, plumbers etc., and right now they are in very short supply. Having a wife with a good job, company provided healthcare and a retirement plan is a great head start to family security while pursuing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:09 PM
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Feminism has forced generations of women to make selfish choices against the benefit of their children. Most kids do not have mothers who stay home with them in the current Era. I agree that staying home with children in the first years of life is optimal. This is almost always going to be the mom, new dads don’t involuntarily lactate when they hear a baby cry. This is why women will never accept broke ass men imho, many want to quit working or go part time when their children are infants. Econo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:25 PM
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Yes, the low class isn’t making enough to be able to work when you factor in childcare and transportation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:57 AM
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Pamela Brown also definitely a red pill adjacent song.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:47 AM
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What DO you do? Blackface and shuffling? Stepin Fetchitt or Sleep n’Eat? The modern day equivalent, Shit Post n Impregnate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:28 AM
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Why do you think so many people think you’re a sardonic parody of a hood rat and of every single thing wrong with ”black culture”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:45 PM
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College educated women are the most likely to get married and stay married ! The solution is not less education for women https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=4&ved=2ahUKEwiWjcum96npAhWMiOAKHd0dCP8QFjADegQIBBAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.brookings.edu%2Fblog%2Fsocial-mobility-memos%2F2016%2F08%2F19%2Fthe-most-educated-women-are-the-most-likely-to-be-married%2F&usg=AOvVaw0Q31WUFoUjkPh8dJXVCoqI It’s absolutely in men’s nature to fight for civil rights issues such as joint custo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:39 PM
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The n count issue imho falls into assortive mating. I was no angel, but my husband was an absolute manwhore. We met while we both tended bar. We’ve been married for 25 years so I think neither of us has had a problem pair bonding. But I understand low n count women wanting low n count men and visa Versa, The reality is that young people are more sexually conservative though. Don’t disagree, again chicken and egg though. I can tell you that women like my own mom who married young and had 4 unplan…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:20 PM
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I think some of the things you worry about aren’t happening, some are not necessarily negative and some have been affected by things other than feminism No evidence of promiscuity, especially the most damaging type. Kids are staying virgins for longer, teen pregnancy is way down and despite not getting married until they are older, partner counts aren’t increasing. Girls are the gatekeepers. Higher female self esteem = less promiscuity. Maybe Karen in HR is alone because she’s a bitch, not a bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:13 PM
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It’s Clayton Bigsby!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:42 PM
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Next time...I meant next time you have that situation, not this woman. If you get anxious its easier to compose yourself in a text.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:38 PM
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Shame we got the virus going, I love going there for festivals etc. Looks like the United Nations, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:07 AM
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Oops. Ask for her # next time and text!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:33 AM
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Lol, Piedmont Park, the loop, midtown?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:32 AM
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I see white guys with black girls all over!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:11 AM
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Where do you live? You look like you’re pretty attractive, I see attractive black girls with white guys all the time in Atlanta
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:11 AM
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After she tells me she's single 2 or 3 times, i started thinking she was interested in me Are you sure you didn’t do something to put her off? It kinda sounds like she WAS attracted to you. Even when I was single, if I was just being friendly, I would say I was taken, I certainly never offered up I was single unless I was interested. Did she know your full name? Facebook profile? Small town, she knew an ex? Anything like that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:05 AM
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Hey camo, can I use this as my new avatar?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:29 PM
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Camo, you a rapist, racist motherfucker but you funny. +1 for the hairy balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:27 PM
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I think you meant he’s trying his beast?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:23 PM
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I’ll hold your beers 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:08 PM
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Reality, most couples both work. He puts in a few more hours at work, she puts in way more hours cleaning and child care This study is from Korea “married men in dual-income families spent 546.8 minutes at their workplace, or 1.3 times more than women, who spend 412.4 minutes. But after work on weekdays, the wives spent 129.5 minutes on household chores a day, or 7.4 times more than the husbands who spent 17.4 minutes. For childcare, women spent 52.2 minutes, 3.5 times more than men's 14.9 minut…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:59 AM
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Yeah, but they inevitably get caught and she divorces him.....😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:44 AM
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Well in your case, they are basically employees so unless hookers form a union, you all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:39 AM
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And as that husk can consume more of your semen Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:36 AM
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👍. Hey, my husband did it, he quit two years before we started dating, but he had a serious problem too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:24 AM
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Interesting, I just found a third one, a breakout of happiness levels based strictly on age and gender. https://experiencematters.blog/2016/11/23/the-demographics-of-happiness/ According to this one, old women were the happiest in general and women were unhappier than men until age 45, then after age 45 their happiness surpassed men and continue to increase. I’m a married woman and I have no interest in being single, but I sometimes socialize with a large group of middle age, mostly childless, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:22 AM
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a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:05 AM
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You were pretty close, that was in psychology today, it was a study of office workers and the female earned under 100k, not necessarily “around”. studies, studies studies....here’s another one... “We may have suspected it already, but now the science backs it up: unmarried and childless women are the happiest subgroup in the population. And they are more likely to live longer than their married and child-rearing peers, according to a leading expert in happiness.” Happiness is subjective, longevi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:45 AM
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Relevant https://www.cbsnews.com/news/coronavirus-mens-semen-survivors-sexual-transmission-covid-19/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:29 AM
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Sold them? Well then, I guess you take your chances with how that material might be portrayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:34 AM
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Aahhhh you can’t read can you? So sad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:30 AM
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Who gets affirmative action again? https://www.insidehighered.com/admissions/views/2017/12/11/essay-affirmative-action-male-students
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:25 AM
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Watch out squid, these women might end up cutting you into calamari
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:20 AM
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Holy shit u/poppy_blu, Lol. Talk about a serious bitch slapping. That one left some wigs on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:13 AM
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👊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:06 AM
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:/ It’s kind of easy to forget the real person that’s behind a joke like this, but do you know how this video got out? Did she post it herself on some social media platform? Did she do it and realize she would be the butt of a joke? Why? So many questions.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:04 AM
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You don need a man, you need a tiger. That’s how Carol Baskin did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:08 PM
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Lol, good idea, but also....not cheap!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:58 PM
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Everyone would love that except the janitors and the building owners. It would not be cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:38 PM
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The wall doesn’t go to the floor because there are floor drains which facilitate cleaning. Granted, the whole stall could provide more privacy, but in order to be hosed out and occasionally steam cleaned you need some gap. You won’t notice but the whole floor typically slopes to a drain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:37 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:24 PM
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As I’ve said, I’ve had these exact conversations. Literally. In planning meetings, with all sorts of people from all walks of life. Instead of letting people get “stretched out and snap” for no other purpose than my own amusement, it’s just not that hard to present things in a way that get people to agree. But then you’d have to admit that the average Joe really is capable of plenty of nuance. And that apparently isn’t fun for you. Go figure. I think we’re done here. But thanks for your perspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:15 PM
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Lol, who’s triggered now? Good day sir
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:02 PM
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And it's fun sometimes tow watch them snap over literally nothing. We have different definitions of fun then. As stated, there are plenty of sexual predators. Namalt, but it only takes a very small % to cause big problems. I’m not triggered, you just seem like a smug asshole who thinks he’s a lot smarter than he really is. That’s not said in the context of the purge either. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:01 PM
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I see you edited your post. The spirit of the purge here is between groups and factions that have a prior online relationship where we get to actually come together with some humor to hopefully laugh at ourselves and others. If I tell someone they are gay as fuck, or tell some dude he is a bitch with a big bleeding vagina, it’s (hopefully) done in jest. Yeah, sometimes huge amounts of vitriol get unleashed in ways that aren’t always healthy and sometimes the veil is lifted on ugly truths. But it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:54 AM
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But you HAVE to admit how funny it is how EASY it is to trigger these people. I’ve actually been in meetings where these issues were discussed calmly, and I have said, I don’t find it hard to discuss these issues without people “losing their minds” at all. As far as “these people” who are so easily triggered, they actually have several overlapping interests that can easily be highlighted, instead of further dividing them for your own amusement. Trans people do exist, lord knows I wouldn’t know h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:25 AM
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You seem overly preoccupied by “sides“ though, certainly not plumbing. Or saving money. It’s about illustrating why when you're actively triggering people you are actively in the way of solutions you claim to care about. You see, it’s not really that hard to discuss issues, solve problems and make things better for everyone by addressing real life concerns without trying to trigger anyone. Or you can just be an asshole and think you are so fucking superior to everyone by intentionally making peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:32 AM
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Lol, field report. I gotta live vicariously. The one with the bf? Ooooopsy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:30 AM
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My life is so the opposite of a soap opera, I never leave my house or see anyone. I feel like I’m having a mental breakdown.😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:25 AM
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Jeezus, even my cat likes privacy. And in prison (at least the only one I ever worked on), you got a little half wall. You do you hoss. Just don’t do it in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:39 PM
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Yeah. It’s hard and expensive to retrofit an old building, but not that expensive to add to a new building. Handicapped people have all sorts of issues that a grab bar and a raised toilet seat just don’t address. They often need assistance and privacy to clean up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:47 PM
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Some states actually have potty parity laws that recognize the problem of women taking longer and having more clothes to remove. They require more fixtures for women to make the waits similar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:17 PM
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Hmmm, interesting, because I’ve had all sorts of conversations with people in all sorts of contexts, professional and casual, and never really had people on “either side”, (whatever that is) “lose their mind” I would say that your contention that it would save on plumbing is somewhat true, especially in smaller building with light occupancy and especially for lavatories. The default for small buildings ends up at one per gendered bathroom, where one lavatory is sufficient for several water close…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:08 PM
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Sure. Why put a door on the bathroom at all? In fact, why not just make the whole thing an open air affair? Talk about saving money! https://images.app.goo.gl/LiHqrsvcebCCT1zU7
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I get it. And it’s all about who we can make mad and trigger and has nothing to do with trying to make anything betterI’m getting off Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:00 PM
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I mean I throughly agree. I live with a man, have male friends and love all the men in my family. But it was cold yesterday and I spent way too much time on reddit. The number of guys who really hate all women around here is overwhelming sometimes tbh. One guy posted about how all women were basically incompetent and unworthy of whatever job they had, and on the same day bemoaned the fact that his own daughter thought she was stupid. You read shit like that and realize this shit slinging bleeds …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:04 PM
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I know it’s purge week, but serious topic, I was a mechanical engineer and for a while had a job in code compliance for commercial buildings. I’m not the first to suggest they blew the call when they wrote ada regulations. It’s not that gendered bathrooms make no sense, but for new buildings they really should have forgotten the ada compliant gendered bathrooms and required a single, mixed gendered ada compliant bathroom like the one pictured above, known as “Family” restrooms in addition to gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:49 PM
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Is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:32 PM
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Yah, and the ladies didn’t really notice. It’s like all the dudes who lift and flex. The only one mirin is other guys. You all are gay af.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:30 PM
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Yaaa. They might as well BE women. I swear the manosphere is going to turn all women gay or permanent cat ladies. Most women really don’t hear about how all the gross old men want to bang teenagers, how men would just prefer to buy a low IQ fuck slave from a third world country or how much better things were back before women could vote. I realize not all men are like this, but I’m bombarded by this shit on this sub everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:26 PM
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All the dudes were looking at his dick, all the women were noticing his fucked up bathtub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:03 PM
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I also got banned on t_d just posting a link to actual census statistics without commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:33 PM
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Our teen pregnancy rate is a FRACTION of the DR. They HAVE to get a husband because they live in a shitstain country and if they don’t submit he’ll beat the shit out of her. If you think that’s winning, try the Special Olympics approach to dating...get a bride for showing up with 10 US dollars and raise that bastard she had when she was 16. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:17 AM
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“The incidence of teenage pregnancy in the Dominican Republic is between 25 percent and 30 percent, an alarming level, according to two ...” “2017 - Out-of-wedlock childbirths have become more common ... 36 percent; Dominican Republic, “ lol, they are all a bunch of sluts knocked up in a shithole country with no chance in life other than to survive on low key prostitution......errrrr beta bux losers .....to feed those bastard kids they spawned with Julio.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:54 AM
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This was in Mid April. Might be open now? If you tent camp, there’s always National Forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:50 AM
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:( We had campground reservations in Tennessee last month. Closed. I think Georgia campgrounds are open, our state parks never closed to my knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:12 PM
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An oldie with multiple meanings in the time of covid19 Pacing the Cage https://youtu.be/7h_VKaoITio
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:03 PM
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lonely or desperate? No, their dog just smells better than an incel who wears the same clothes for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:49 PM
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Why are you discounting all of wimmens who have our 10 cat harem and tuna flavored lube? Don’t we count?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:47 PM
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Camowoobie is a whiny bitch who’s always on the rag
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:39 PM
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But drugs are bad? Not all of the ones I’ve had.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:27 PM
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sniffing the hair of women ahhhh, so sweet....btw how’s your presidential campaign coming Joe?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:25 PM
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losing fat first, that’s what women care about the most. Thank you, you are doing God’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:09 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:52 PM
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Lol, I gotta say, nothing screams low confidence beta than neurotically obsessing over whether or not your response to a text was alpha enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:39 PM
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Well if you want to be a sad sack, address the actual facts in my post I've never met a single man who thinks he's too good for an average woman, and I've never met a single woman who doesn't think she's too good for the average man. You realize that there are just as many fat guys as fat women, right? You realize that being fat reduces men’s testosterone and literally makes them less manly? You realize that over half the guys on here complain about fat girls, but statistically 90% of men are fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:26 PM
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Ahhhh, I’m not that stingy. They just deserve each other is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:08 PM
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Holy shit, I bet your triglycerides were off the chain
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:06 PM
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You realize you’re asking CamoWoobie this right?🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:14 PM
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My husband has such great legs, if he shaved them they would look like Heidi Klum’s 😍 oh shit, maybe I’m bicurious after all ......
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:05 PM
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I dunno, I’m advocating for them really. I just see way more than 10% of guys who think they are too good for them, when in reality, 90% of dudes are too fat as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:56 PM
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Ah, a moped.....fun to ride but you don’t want your bro’s to see you with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:54 PM
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Lol, another combat veteran of the boar wars. Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:43 PM
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It's so unmasculine to fear being divorce raped by a wee little girl. Lol 👏👏👏well done sir!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:51 PM
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As a retired veteran I’d like to thank you for your service. Even half blackout drunk I still wouldn’t fuck a fat guy with your mamas pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:42 PM
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red pill needs to forget about lifting and start telling dudes to stop lifting their forks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:39 PM
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No chicks down there with you at all? You might have to try the landfill then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:28 PM
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Just saying, thought it was interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:27 PM
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Edit. In fact the main purpose of sex and relationships in the first place is to have children. Its a modern luxury that we can have sex and relationships at all without creating children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:26 PM
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You just haven’t dived deep enough into the dumpster
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:23 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:22 PM
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The main purpose of marriage is to build a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:21 PM
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Any woman who has children without attempting to lock down as much commitment and security as possible is unfit for motherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:09 PM
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It’s purge week...lighten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:04 PM
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And you like fat guys? You are going to pop boners all across ppd today! Half of these dudes will have Cheeto dust on their weiners if they can still find them under their guts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:39 PM
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I love a man who takes one for the team!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:35 PM
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Your pic looks like you are one of the not fat 10%...congrats . You get to fuck healthy weight women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:32 PM
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Found a fatty!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:31 PM
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Shave. I love facial hair on a man, but that fuzz on the top of your lip doesn’t cut it. Otherwise you aren’t bad looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:30 PM
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If I had a dollar for every guy who bitched about fat chicks, tried to convince me that THEY were dad bod studly, said their high BMI was because they lifted, I’d have enough money to buy everyone here a dozen Dunkin’ Donuts . so no you fat fucks, 90% of you look like shit with your big fucking guts https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=11&ved=2ahUKEwjs58unmZ_pAhVDc98KHVZYBxgQFjAKegQIBhAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.menshealth.com%2Fhealth%2Fa19527449%2Fmajority-of-men-are-over…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:09 PM
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Mmmmm, I think the biggest problem I see from bitter guys, especially the black pills, is they find out that women are just as shallow as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:59 AM
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That’s fucked up all around, but all the guys around here who want to return to the “good old days”? This is what the good old days looked like. More kids than anyone wanted and non procreative sex was shamed and sinful. Men think they don’t enough sex now? Lol. No premarital sex, then After the heir and the spare, no post martial sex either...or a new baby every two years. I’d probably hate my husband too if he knocked me up eight times tbh. My husband would probably hate me back if I dropped a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:38 AM
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Well interestingly enough, even though almost all inventions were created by men, a woman had a significant contribution to the development of the cell phone. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=2&ved=2ahUKEwi5_JnHkJ_pAhWHl-AKHcAUB0wQFjABegQIARAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.forbes.com%2Fsites%2Fshivaunefield%2F2018%2F02%2F28%2Fhedy-lamarr-the-incredible-mind-behind-secure-wi-fi-gps-bluetooth%2F&usg=AOvVaw24REE-djEVhel0FiWe17bM
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:26 AM
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The male solipsism is both sad and yet hilarious. The genuine surprise the guys have that she is only in it for the money and that she doesn’t enjoy the sex. Of the 5% of hookers who actually seemed as if they were enjoying themselves, I guarantee 3% were great actresses and the other 2% were off of their medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:38 AM
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Whoa, that sounds messed up, and you sound like a psycho, tbh, taking advantage of an engaged girl when she is drunk. And she sounds like a slooot. This could be turned into a pretty compelling drama! Law and Order SVU. Plot twist, that ex fiancée turns out to be a pretty great guy, goes on to own a successful gravel company and is an exceptional piano player
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:01 AM
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Uuuuuh are you sure about that? I love dogs. I’ve always had a dog and always will have a dog. I believe them to be amazing creatures that I can have an incredible bond with. But if I see a random dog on the street, I don’t shove my hand in its face without first determining if it’s a friendly dog. I’ve also been bitten by dogs, more than once. I vet a dog and make sure it’s friendly before interacting. I think ALL women are fearful of men in the same way. I love my husband, my brothers, my male…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:40 AM
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Well they have 8 kids Talk about burying the lede....wtf. Catholic? I can only imagine the resentment between a couple if they keep having kids they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:07 AM
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Oh they are already past eating, they are big ferny leafed out fronds now. I’m way warmer than you, I’m in zone 7, although a few random spears are still coming up occasionally. These whoppers came up almost two months ago They fell over when leafing out, they just could no longer support their own weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:44 AM
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>No one owes anyone anything, least of all consistency. Some exceptions. My personal ethic is that I owe what have promised. I expect the same from my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:48 PM
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DO IT ALREADY.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:43 PM
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So willow, I‘ve got a two year old bed of asparagus, about 30 plants, and it came up great, but some sent up HUGE fat spears that immediately fell over. Did I blow the call? Should I have harvested those?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:10 PM
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Field report time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:06 PM
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That’s what we did to my little brother. He made it. Tested and proven to be fit for procreation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:22 PM
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Let’s pray he stops at just milking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:15 PM
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Pro tip (which you may not need depending on your location). When baking, always used weighed ingredients, not measured. Much more accurate. In the US we often used dry measures instead of dry weights. No bueno
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:31 PM
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having a pillow with the face of Lisa Ronstat in our living room Wat? Teenage anal porn is one thing, but that pillow sounds like a crime against humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:48 PM
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I’m a woman and I agree. The dudes in my life at least rock. A few randos spouting out their crazy shit online hasn’t changed my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:45 PM
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You buy second hand cars without getting a title? That’s called getting the government involved. You transferred money? Between two government regulated agencies I hope with a legal paper trail documenting the transaction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:01 PM
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Yes American and even if you do send your kids to public school, then you’d better live in the right zip code in a way oversized expensive house so you are in a good school district. If you make way more money than any woman and have no interest in building a life together with someone you are free to do that. Stay single. I’m not trying to set your goals for you, but explain my own
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:57 PM
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Really? What other partnership would you enter into or responsibility you would take on without getting the legal system involved? Would you buy a house from someone without a real estate lawyer? Would you buy a house with someone on a handshake? Lol. Good luck. Btw, I have a great business deal for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:41 PM
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Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:36 PM
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Lol, part of what made him successful, in addition to a very high IQ, was a very high drive to succeed, and that drive to success was driven by an unstable self image and ego. Honestly he was also too young and too immature to give me the kind of relationship I was looking for. It could have been worse. He could have married me and then decided 10 years down that he never got to have his fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:34 PM
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Lol, kids take way more than half your income when they are young and you can NEVER divorce them. Most couples buy their house together and many couples earn similar incomes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:24 PM
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28% of women make more than their husbands. It’s not uncommon. Assets shouldn’t exist? Lol. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:21 PM
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Why not me? He wanted to get married too.We are both tied to this imho. He gets out more financially than he put in if we divorce. But if we divorce, there is no question we both lose...a lot. Not just financially. I lose my family, my guarantee of love, friendship and moral support. I can’t put a price on that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:19 AM
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I do think the whole bisexual woman refusing to date a bisexual man is absolutely analogous to high n count count guys saying they will only LTR low n count women. But you know at the end of the day, people have the right to search for what they want, even if it’s hypocritical. The hooker thing is different I guess, not to me, but to some women who see them as victims. I’ve lived among sex workers, and yes most of them are pretty damaged and/or desperate people. I also know you can give them 3 s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:56 AM
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To be fair, these are different women. The low n count/ sex is reserved for love/sex in LTR only women who post on here are all looking for low n count guys. I’ve never seen a high n count woman get her panties in a twist over the prospect of dating a high n count guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:34 AM
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Uh, read again. I’m the one who made more money and also the one who came into the marriage with assets. I’m the one who had everything to lose. But go ahead and lecture me about what a good relationship is 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:06 AM
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that sweet spot between not loving The Lord their God enough to be abstinent and too scared of hell to abort I like you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:56 AM
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Thread please. Some guy has posted that 97% of men pay alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:51 AM
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Oh you will change, she will change, especially if you have kids. 100% on board means we weather the changes together. If you can’t commit to marriage, don’t even entertain having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:46 AM
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I wanted to be tied to him yes. Which one is the hostage? We are tied together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:19 AM
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I would be way less forgiving if it happened using good times. That to me signals my partner has been weakest when our relationship has been strong. Would it be the end? I honestly don’t know. If I thought I was going forward afraid it would happen again, I’d probably rather just be single tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:11 AM
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Once or twice out of curiosity? Nbd. If he relied on them in lieu of seeking a relationship? No moral judgement from me, but no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:50 AM
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He got really very very successful and dumped me. He told me he didn’t want to marry the only woman he ever slept with. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:29 AM
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It’s not control of your partner, but yes, to some extent it’s more control of the situation and the future relationship. When I know something is a worthwhile and important goal, I will gladly remove options that might seem appealing in the short term for more important things I want in the long term. I don’t bring cookies into my house, if I did I’d probably be eating one now. My morning walk is not optional, I could fence my part of my yard to let the dog out, but then neither my dog or I get…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:25 AM
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I can’t help being angry. You of all people know how shitty it is to have an addict for a parent. So yeah. DON’T BE STUPID
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:22 AM
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Yep, I hate it when people ask me for the “recipe”. Unless you are baking, it’s pretty easy to look at the basic ingredients and eyeball the quantities. I’ve been making some killer ethnic food lately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:50 AM
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My husband sold pot in high school and I’m pretty sure my ex was aspie. You are correct. My husband is the better lay. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:42 AM
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He’s a long time poster on here with a bunch of kids and a SERIOUS alcohol problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:30 AM
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🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:18 AM
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I thought it was about love these days... Marriage is about a whole lot more than love. It’s about building family and future together. Yes, financial future together also counts. It’s about working as a team. I would never have wanted my husband to help pay my mortgage or do repairs on my property without having a vested interest in that property. Two ways to create family, blood and paper. My husband is my boyfriend, he is also my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:16 AM
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Fuuuuuck no. I got a city hall wedding by a judge, a gold band from Walmart (it was on sale too!) and my brother treated us to lunch. I wanted the COMMITMENT. I wanted it to be hard to get out of. I wanted the added incentive to make it work! FWIW, I made a whole lot more money and already owned a fourplex, so I was the one who had more to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:39 AM
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Artistic types offer nothing but looks? Hmmm. I find them to be the most interesting even in a platonic context
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:11 PM
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Damm, I gotta watch me some Japanese porn I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:49 PM
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Skinny artsy Chad is my favorite Chad...next to long haired dirty hippy Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:07 PM
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Based on my brothers, not especially successful, but I’ve always been more adventurous than they have ever been. I did tend bar all though college though, and can confirm there are very few male incel bartenders. On the flip side I was an engineer and most male engineers that I knew were pretty boring, conservative, married young and had low n counts and zero game. So maybe so where between Chad and an incel? A serial monogamist who had a few more hookups than average?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:06 PM
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I got tested for autism aswell Nothing to see here folks.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:48 PM
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Do you also refuse to work because you’ll never be a billionaire? Sadly I see this echoed on this sub with shocking frequency. “If I can’t have casual sex with Stacy, I’m not leaving my basement to do anything”. It’s the Special Olympics for the able bodied....if I can’t get a trophy just for showing up, not only will I not try to compete, I won’t even leave my home, it’s porn and video games for life. Mom can just bring me tendies and wash my cum sock.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:43 PM
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Depends on how desperate. Then there are people who just tune out and treat it like a job. My friend did one tell me “everytime I had a mouthful of cum I figured there had to be a better way to make a living than this”. I’ve never gotten any gay or bisexual vibe from him, and he is the most dgaf person I have ever met. He doesn’t hide the fact that at 14 it’s how he survived. I have no way to explain why if he doesn’t bother to hide that, he would bother to hide he was bisexual. FWIW, many of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:25 PM
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Also, probably due to high I Q kids more likely to be raised by UMC, helicopter parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:55 PM
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Huh?, go to the French Quarter in New Orleans or the Castro or Miami Beach, etc etc. if you are young and hot and hang out in the right areas, you can find a chicken hawk daddy pretty fast. In fact I had a friend in NYC who worked at Covenant House, most homeless kids, male and female, hustled at some point if they were addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:06 PM
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If you think fucking someone you don’t want to fuck isn’t “less than optimal “ I don’t know what to tell you. I’ve talked about this friend before who hustled old gay men when he was fourteen and homeless and he’s straight. Also, for a while I lived in the French Quarter above a hetro couple who both hustled old men. If you think gay for pay isn’t a thing then you have lived a very sheltered life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:06 PM
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I got news for you, gay dudes do that for young men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:11 PM
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Honestly this is absolutely true and not always something men should feel proud of. I’ve known more than one hot woman with bipolar disorder in my life and neither has ever lacked for male support. Suicide and homelessness are strongly linked to substance abuse and mental illness, and it’s impossible to help someone who is addicted but doesn’t want to change. My husband‘s brother committed suicide and his best friend died homeless of cirrhosis. He tried to help them both, in fact I had to throw …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:09 PM
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I sure as shit didn’t want my husband at his worst. He was sweet and charismatic and funny. He was also a drunk and a total pussy hound. Fortunately he didn’t want himself at his worst either....he’s been sober for a long time now. On the other hand, I took the chance to grow with my broke but highly intelligent, highly motivated and socially awkward ex, when he started making ridiculous amounts of money he dumped me....go figure. I did take the ex at his “worst” and he did become a productive m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:47 PM
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His dad.....the worst. An addict of course. Him? Building a strong family. With an assortment of kids who only see their drunk dad on weekends, kids who see a drunk dad everyday and step kids whose dads have committed suicide who get to be raised by a drunk step dad. You know, strong families.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:58 AM
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Still a drunk Bearsaint or beachedredwhine or whoever you are today. Worry instead about the man you have made and what those kids will see. You think you hate your dad? Wait till yours grow up and look at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:12 AM
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Mostly wrong. You are conflating introversion, neurosis, lack of confidence and culture with intelligence. Mostly wrong because there is some correlation between higher neurosis and lack of confidence with higher intelligence, but it’s the neurosis and lack of confidence that makes them unsuccessful, not the IQ. A highly intelligent, extroverted and confident man will have exactly the sex life he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:07 AM
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It’s hard to say, but of course every age gap marriage was age gap dating at some point. I do think that large age gaps aren’t as common as everyone thinks, they have a tendency to stand out and get noticed, which makes people believe that they are more common than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:47 AM
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Every day until noon...ah shit forgot about my morning coffee... Seriously though, we usually have two or three vegan dinners a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:06 AM
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Lol, how about with her loaded shotgun though.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:30 AM
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In a strictly numbers game, it’s true. A thirty five year old guy is looking for a 28 to 37 year old woman, a thirty five year old woman is looking for a 33 to 41 year old guy. There are a lot more 28 to 37 year old single women than 33 to 41 year old single men https://images.app.goo.gl/1W4KKQx9nAsiNXZL7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:28 AM
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She travels to see them too, so both see dating this far away to be an option for both. She doesn’t go for rich ones, she always seem to get broke artists and craftsmen, but well educated guys. Broke, artistic and well educated describes her pretty well too. The men who live in her town that are her age tend to be camo wearing dudes who live to hunt. Just not her speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:05 AM
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I don’t disagree with both the age gap and the numbers both favoring men, when I say options go down for everyone, I’m referring to the “target rich environment “. How many people in any one gathering will be both single and in your age range. Go anyplace in your twenties, half of the people there in your age range might be single. In your 40’s, those in your target age range are much more likely to be paired off. This admittedly is probably less a problem in a big city, we’re the number of avai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 11:53 PM
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Well, the whole conversation is really about who women will date, a lot men will clearly date younger......if they can find one genuinely attracted to them. I think its not especially controversial that men have a broader range in who they will sleep with. And there are MANY more men than women willing to date people they would never consider for relationships. >i think there is much more people ready to fuck older and younger person than what they admit .... This is somewhat true for both sexes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:06 PM
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It’s an easily quantifiable, verifiable number predicting “who dates who”, but not a perfect one to one correlation. There is probably more age gap dating than age gap marriage, but it’s still a better metric than the rando on TRP with his anecdotal “I’m 35 and 22 year old women are crawling all over me” .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:25 PM
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A man in his mid 30’s has a larger dating pool than a woman in her mid 30’s, but the idea that most guys even in their mid thirties have “the pick of the litter of young women” is laughable. Only very very hvm will be able to attract mid 20’s when they are mid 30’s and there are lots of young women who just won’t entertain a guy more than 5 years older no matter what. Dating options go down for everyone as we age. Fewer than 5% of all marriages have a 10 year age gap, and statistically these are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:06 PM
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Lots of single moms raise great kids, but they do this DESPITE those kids not having a dad in the house. Not being raised with a dad in the home increases a kid’s risk for all sorts of social ills..... The strongest predictor of whether a person will end up in prison, is that they were raised by a single parent”. C.C. Harper and S.S. McLanahan, “Father Absence and Youth Incarceration”, Paper presented at the Annual Meeting of the American Sociological Assoc., San Francisco, CA, 1998 In 1996, 70%…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 10:17 PM
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If this is what some men will pay for...... https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&ved=2ahUKEwjZu63KkJHpAhVHh-AKHbTWCTsQFjAAegQIARAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.businessinsider.com%2Fcheck-out-the-stunning-pictures-from-the-citigroup-trader-who-photographs-prostitutes-2012-2&usg=AOvVaw0hptbILKo0Da79A3Ar0Ysi imagine what they would fuck for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:51 PM
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Lol, sure. Both recognized genders here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:57 PM
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porque no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:21 PM
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Everyone already knows everything they need to know about virgins and npcs though. Just being on ppd guarantees you are both of those already
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:34 PM
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>who knows but my question is.. this is normal?? Do you seriously have to ask this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:13 PM
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Lol, I’m just here for the giggles
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:37 PM
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Yeah, well you black 23 year old skater stoner anime nerds are all alike. a-b23yossan-alt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:35 PM
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Well considering I was talking about fat people and you had to bring up how much sex women have that they lie about, you might be a TAD obsessed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:31 PM
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Oooooo BOLD typeface! Someone’s triggered, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:29 PM
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I miss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:16 PM
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You guys that only want virgins can and should create your own sub and circle jerk to your hearts content. Normal western men with normal western values might not want to wife up town bike or marry a sex worker, but are not obsessed with virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:14 PM
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Chicken meet egg. Lots of us are losing motivation for anything, which results in sexlessness for many men....which in turn fuels more depression and lack of motivation. Not all is caused by feminism or tinder. Men are getting fat now even before puberty and losing testosterone. Our bodies weren’t made to lie around 24/7, eat tendies and play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:09 PM
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Positive body image for women sells to women just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:56 PM
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Actual quotes.......“A good chunk of "chads" are overweight, and there are plenty of guys that are well muscled with a some form of a gut.” and this “Guys that have a good layer of muscle under their fat hold the weight totally differently than a guy that just has fat.” Peak delusion...it’s okay to be fat...just lift bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:11 PM
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I think the trouble arises when people expect euphoria out of domesticity You are right again you dirty degenerate. LTRS and marriage are not for chasing highs, imho, they work best after exhausting the roller coaster ride. Limerence is a hella good drug, an new relationship energy hard to give up. Settling down is settling, and from my perspective (as a post wall woman ;) ) not a bad alternative. I just know that I have to work to keep domestication my husbands best alternative too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:53 PM
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Thread please. Guys bitch all the time about below average women all pairing off with above average men....it’s not what I see. Or what science says https://www.menshealth.com/health/a19527449/majority-of-men-are-overfat/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:18 PM
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Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:40 AM
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St. Coutil's School for Fancy Boys 🤣These types are fodder for comedy for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:19 AM
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u/wub1234 is right. Narcissism. ASPD . Having a biological child at 90? Just as narcissistic and selfish as the woman ready to hit the wall who heads to the sperm bank to intentionally bring a kid into the world with no father. Its all about the self and not about the child. Someone despite his sagging old balls needs to prove to the world he is still virile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:16 AM
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>Many can feel sexy feeling like a dirty whore, but not an UGLY dirty whore I think you might be the only man here who understands this. If you want enthusiastic sex, neg what you want, but not her appearance. And yes, women need to feel sexy to want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:07 AM
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Sorry, but right now I’m just picturing Jon Lovitz with a silk smoking jacket and ascot screaching “I am a THESPIAN” and I am drier than the Sahara.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:54 AM
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there isn't a movement Who’s fault is that? Men’s magazines and media is owned and read by men I would assume. They are free to highlight and empower short men all they want. They could publish whole special editions of short athletes, short models etc. Putting pictures of Lizzo in her drawers on magazine covers doesn't make her any more attractive to men but it sends a message of “fuck you if you don’t like me, I’m going to love myself anyway”. (In the case of obesity I think it’s misguided, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:36 AM
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😝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:42 AM
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Stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:37 AM
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It means there are some aspd people are attracted to other aspd people, some gullible people attracted to charismatic people without seeing how truly sociopathic they are, and some people attracted to charismatic individuals, but can sort out the sociopaths from empathetic AND charming. I tended bar for five years. I saw the guys who were always out to get laid, and the successful fell into different categories. Some were charming, handsome guys who were honest with women, some were sociopaths w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:00 PM
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Your article? Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 07:51 PM
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A hot aspd person gets away with the most
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:41 PM
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More like Disability Alley Georgia, our motto is “it ain’t welfare if you’re white”. It’s actually very safe and extremely beautiful. There would be a much higher return on the dollar here if the governor relaxed rules and helped promote delivery services which are sorely needed and lower risk than hair salons. With gasoline so low, people could actually make money, and this could really help the local hospitality industry, although that is still highly dependent on visitors from Atl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:19 PM
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Neck/throat cancer many years ago, Lung cancer more recently. Hope he has his nine mile long cigarette now.😞. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:08 PM
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Oh, plenty of women also voted for him. Plenty of women wanted to date him, plenty of people look up to him. My point was that everyone , both men and women are drawn to men with Dark Triad traits because they are charismatic. They do know how to manipulate people. On a personal level, I’m sure his ex wives could tell some unflattering stories though. Like banging pornstars when they were pregnant or taking both family AND side piece on vacation at the same time. But then again, wife two seems l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:53 PM
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That’s okay, while you were gone was just more convos about gross sluts. You didn’t miss a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:37 PM
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Men do too, they can be particularly charismatic and appealing provided you don’t look behind the curtain. Look who we elected to be our president. My armchair psychology pegs him for a malignant narcissist. More men voted for him than women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:32 PM
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I think, or hope, there will be additional localized lockdowns for areas where the transmission rate is higher than the hospitals can handle. A county near me is at 135 cases ....which doesn’t sound so bad...but doubling every 2.5 days.....and one 25 bed hospital. It’s no stretch to think people will die needlessly because our local healthcare will be insufficient. Our governor wants to reopen hair salons and tattoo parlors...not elective surgical centers, accounting offices etc.....but you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:26 PM
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First step...get off reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:14 PM
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Just because they don’t actively engage in violent or criminal behavior doesn’t mean they are capable of having a healthy relationship. “According to the DSM-5, sociopath is now blanketed under the title Antisocial Personality disorder, ... Inability to maintain healthy relationships” “Relationships with sociopaths, particularly high-functioning sociopaths- tend to be difficult, turbulent experiences” “ ASPD is part of a category of personality disorders characterized by persistent negative beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:39 PM
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Whatever people choose within the context of good mental health. I won’t deny that many people with extraordinarily high n counts also have other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:29 PM
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Date one for a while and come back with the field report
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:19 PM
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do more vigorous physical activity 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:52 PM
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A HUGE number, DOZENS! In an unofficial survey! Dear god, someone protect Megan Markel before it’s too late! Sister Boom Boom, the ginger-haired mother superior of drag queen activist syndicate The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, started as an astrologer and satirist of Catholic culture before converting to Islam in 2003! Who will be next!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:26 AM
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That last poor dude is just in the wrong religion. This guys three sexy wives are behind him in the picture. The eyelids shown by these beauties would drive any man wild https://images.app.goo.gl/fVGEZRghov2NtW3p8
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:03 AM
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Apparently the most oppressed group is now red headed men. u/mindsanitizer wins the ppd this week for #gingerjihad. 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:29 PM
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Burn it all down motherfuckers https://images.app.goo.gl/31tyH815N7tnPTUU8
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:25 PM
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Trust me when I say that fat, ugly couples are hardly an anomaly where I live, they are the norm. I don’t know if you’ve looked around lately, but waaaaay more than 20% of people in the US are fat. In fact way more than 20% are obese. “39.8% of adults aged 20 and over were obese (including 7.6% with severe obesity) and another 31.8% were overweight” Only 30 % of people AREN’T fat and where I live it’s usually because they are meth heads. +3 points added to their smv for the trim bodies, but -4 f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:42 PM
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For a lot of guys, if they enjoy the chase, and they enjoy variety, then they shouldn’t settle down. My husband was a total hound at one point in his life. Even most guys with options will get tired of the chase at some point, but if they don’t? C’est la vie. Good for them. But if it feels like faking it in marriage, it’s got to feel even more exhausting in casual dating. It takes less effort to romance a wife on a Friday night, than a new woman every 6 months. For some men, the wooing is the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:32 PM
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In what world? In the normal Walmart world of the good old USA, where I see fat ugly couples with their fat ugly kids who seem no more or less happy than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:15 PM
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Yeah, both parties need to keep training to stay in the game. Men might assume that sex is a given, but if he phones in the part that makes his wife feel sexy, he should not be surprised when it goes to shit. Women might assume that now that she’s married she has her commitment trophy, but if she continues to not bring her a game, let’s herself go, gets fat, she also should not be that surprised either when it goes to shit. When women are dating, we always make sure we are properly groomed, ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:09 PM
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Ppd apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:41 PM
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I’m not going to speak for the op, he’s doing a good job speaking for himself, but I think OLD is messing with men’s confidence levels. Best reason for some to just delete .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:40 PM
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It seems like we already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:30 PM
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Okay then, if being alone and never having a family is the better option in your book, do that. Marriage is no walk in the park, but for me it’s a million times better than being single. Ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:18 PM
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Meh, it’s something you will lose anyway. For casual sex? Honestly a woman will always have the power. But men can grow in achievement, personality and status for attracting relationships. Men primarily value youth and looks, woman have less power to increase their rmv as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:15 PM
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A 6 looks like a viable choice in a room packed full of 5’s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:10 PM
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At the end of the day, most people end up paired off. You don’t have to be the best, just the best available option
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:03 PM
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grown up in the era of .....hypergamy? jfc have you never read Jane Austen? You think women today are worried about marrying up.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:01 PM
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Good thing you didn’t make this a cmv, because everyone is in agreement. Ninety five % of guys are going to do better and meet better women irl. The rare exception is the good looking guy with some sort of extreme shyness or shit personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:19 AM
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Everybody gets an ATTRACTIVE partner? I have no idea in the world who could possibly think such an illogical thing. I see pretty unattractive men and women on a daily basis, if they all got an attractive partner, there would be a lot of attractive people with unattractive partners. It’s pretty clear to me every time I go to Walmart that there aren’t enough attractive people for everyone to get one. I still think most people are capable of finding someone. It’s just up to the unattractive individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:12 AM
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Good people find each other. The whole joke behind the whole “where are all the good men?" trope is that the women asking the question are supposedly not good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:17 AM
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Another Canadian? US is way more conservative and uptight, lol. Those stick up their ass social conservative guys love “practical” majors, jocks and frat boys like business.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:14 AM
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Depends if you’re 16 or 40, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:22 AM
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My ex tried to lose his virginity in Vegas at a legal brothel. He said she got naked, spread her legs and smeared a glop of lube and laid there. He said he just couldn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:16 AM
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I was dating a virgin and he couldn’t get over the fact that he lost his virginity to me My 7 year LTR broke up with me after he got rich...he didn’t want to marry the only woman he ever slept with...go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:14 AM
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I have no idea, more than 15 less than 18? Was very low until a break up in my late twenties. Spent 2 years celibate and then 5 years single. Several strs, and one or two ons a year over the course of 5 years. I vowed to never get in another LTR. My husband? lol......his was double digits in high school, the very first time I met him he was sleeping with 3 women at once that all knew about each other, years later when I teased him about it, he admitted there was a fourth. Yeah, he was Chad. We k…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:11 AM
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There wasn’t a SINGLE jock in my class. About 20% second generation asian, lots of social conservative types and at least 25% pocket protector nerds. None of those dudes were getting laid, lol. When they did, they were usually glad to lock her down, although they often got cute, conservative girls with practical majors like education or business.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:56 PM
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It’s just a bizarre idea that people who don’t lock down a partner young are broken, commitment phobic or low value. The college educated have always married later. Look at the NYTimes marriage announcements, well over half of both brides and grooms are over 30. Yes people still get married at younger ages in Oklahoma and Utah, but college educated people in the northeast? Thirties is the norm. And most have dated around and have much higher n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:42 PM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=11&ved=2ahUKEwi__eWy0vroAhWKdd8KHRr4Dk4QFjAKegQIAhAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fifstudies.org%2Fblog%2Fearly-marriage-has-fallen-especially-among-those-without-a-college-degree&usg=AOvVaw1zVr22r6j8AsjYpcvv0nSF
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:14 PM
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by late 20's most of the good ones are married? Median age for college educated people to marry is 31 and most have only dated 3 years. I would hardly call the couple who dates around for a decade and then marries in their early 30’s “broken”. More like normal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:47 PM
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In the engineering world, it’s surprisingly common. In other words, nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:34 PM
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They are already members.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:15 PM
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Most men here think everyone has a high n count except for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:12 PM
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It definitely depends on your social circle and circumstance. I tended bar while going to engineering school. My friends in the bar world? 20 partners by 30 was nbd. No one would think twice. And those people all eventually married, mostly in their early 30’s. Among my more conservative engineering colleagues ? They mostly married their college sweethearts around 25 to 27. I think VERY few would have n counts above 3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:09 PM
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Only the ones who are single for a good portion of that time. If you date your college sweetheart for 5 or 10 years and then marry, which isn’t that uncommon, your count will be much, much lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:02 PM
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“Into casual sex” is having sex with the guy who is calling it that, “promiscuous” is having it with everyone but him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:58 PM
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Let’s get our priorities straight. Virgin vag >not having your kids die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:26 AM
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For ideal body fat percentages based on age, Beth Israel Lahey Health Winchester Hospital gives the following guidelines for a healthy body fat percentage for men: Age Percentage 20-39 8-19% 40-59 11-21% 60-79 13-24% To me, up to 15% to 17% looks perfectly acceptable, 10 percent is the most attractive. Ymmv. But the average male in the US is 28%. No bueno
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:14 AM
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Yeah....and that’s why the arithmetic mean is higher than the mode. Which is why I said.... Five years may be an arithmetic mean, but the typical age gap is even lower. as a point of clarification, since “average” used is often colloquially as typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:10 AM
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Example number two is probably not as easy as it looks, but yes, the broad shoulder v shaped torso is the pinnacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:35 PM
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kinda tubby muscular of guys I suspect a lot of guys are upvoting you right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:27 PM
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Not for me thanks. Swimmers are perfection, lean, well defined but not weird or too crazy bulky. But moderate muscularity is also very attractive as long as they are lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:38 PM
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Aaaaannnndddd....Like I said, it MAY be average, as in the arithmetic mean, (I didn’t do the math) but the word “average” is also used colloquially to represent typical, usual or ordinary. 10% does not represent typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:53 PM
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I owe my husband plenty thank you so don’t speak for me. I just don’t owe the risk of a pregnancy from every rando who feels like a hump.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:42 PM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&ved=2ahUKEwj0hPr8mffoAhWGg-AKHfViAn0QFjAAegQIARAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.theguardian.com%2Flifeandstyle%2F2019%2Fmay%2F25%2Fwomen-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert&usg=AOvVaw2sMy1U-XhgVTME_rGw5rHj Studies on happiness can be very subjective, but all else being equal, the longevity of never married women has been well documented for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:27 PM
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There's no way rich old men are that delusional to think the girl is physically attracted to them? You need to stalk the sugarbowl subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:19 PM
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Five years may be an arithmetic mean, but the typical age gap is even lower. Husband 2–3 years older than wife. 20.4 % Husband and wife within 1 year 33.2% Wife 2–3 years older than husband 6.5% So the ages of husbands and wives are within 3 years in 60% of marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:16 PM
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Yeah, us selfish wimmens ought to be down for getting pregnant by every rando we pass on the street who wants to wave a dick at us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:11 PM
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I went hiking with a friend in a state park and we managed to keep 6’ plus distance.....but we noticed we were the only ones who got off trail to let others pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:47 PM
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It’s no longer red vs blue, it‘s normal western values vs Sahib, the it guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:27 AM
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If all those Ohioans weren’t so anti abortion. Kasich was one of the more reasonable Republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:39 AM
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Would it be wrong of me to call it the most Tyroniest?🤣. I think some women got pregnant just being on the same dance floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:34 AM
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A county near me is low per capita, but currently doubling every 2.5 days. I ended up at that Walmart....no masks, no distancing and packed. I wore a mask on top of my n95 Rural southwest Ga was very, very bad. Even with shutdown, there is a very small rural county with 2 % of the population infected in less than 3 weeks....got their first case on April 1.....now 18 days later it’s 144 people and 13 deaths, and one rural hospital with only 25 beds in the entire county. There are several other ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:28 AM
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Can we make that Cuomo vrs Dewine? Then we have a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:07 AM
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I gotta say, I was there as a teenager and I honestly think it fueled my frugality. My cousins were astonished that my family had two cars, that I had my own personal boom box, they thought my family was loaded. But I was pretty impressed at how my cousins didn’t have to worry about paying for college, how clean everything was, etc. Even though that level of democratic socialism would never work in the US, we are just not as socially cohesive and we already have too many people shitting the bed,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:25 AM
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Columbia? Is this a joke? In Colombia, 84 percent of all children are born to unmarried mothers. Teen pregnancy rate is the worst in South America. Good luck finding an 18 year old without a kid, much less finding a Virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:00 AM
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Maintenance sex has a limit on it and if you cross that limit...you are starting a slow descent into 0 sex. I don’t disagree. The biggest problem imho is when the higher libido partner only touches or shows physical affection when they want sex. Once the low libido partner starts recoiling from all physical affection because they don’t want it to lead to sex, it’s a downward spiral of hurt feelings, rejection and misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:14 AM
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Overweight is certainly not a vague term to me. I know it when I see it and I see it more often than not. Here...does this convince all the fat guys out there? https://www.seeker.com/health/90-percent-of-american-men-may-be-overfat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:49 PM
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Two conflicting facts Men in marriages and LTRS often don’t get as much sex as they want Men in marriages and LTRS still get more sex than single men. Yes, women often have high sex drives in the honeymoon phase, and lower sex drives later. Couples with mismatch in libidos need to compromise. I believe wives are responsible for keeping husbands happy within reason. For the vast majority of men, their sex life IS compromise. Most men’s sex drive would be well served by a few loyal, available wive…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:47 PM
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Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:27 PM
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I’m not going to pretend that dating is easy for most men. When it comes to dating, it’s a buyers market for young women. Women usually have lower sex drives, and have opportunities thrown at them constantly, so dating when they are young doesn’t have the urgency it does for young men. Yeah it sucks but it’s biology. But most women want husbands, children and families and most people eventually pair off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:26 PM
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Ah....yeah pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:14 PM
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Huh? “Me love you long time” is come on of a Thai hooker looking to replace 10 guys a day she doesn’t want to fuck with one guy every three days she doesn’t want to fuck. Less work and better benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:10 PM
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Ah shit Salty, I’m not a socialist, but I’d seriously move to the homeland of my mom, Denmark, if it wasn’t so damn cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:13 PM
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Lol, so true. Me love you long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:56 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20180730-why-more-women-donate-organs-than-men https://wrex.com/2020/02/21/woman-who-saved-man-from-burning-tanker-truck-gave-birth-days-earlier/ https://www.wdbj7.com/video/?vid=476875033 Sure, more men save women, men are also twice as strong. Men don’t do all the slog work. Not many of them are wiping your incontinent grandparents asses in the nursing home. Already men are checking out because it's clear women don't want them When I pointed out that most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:53 PM
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In an ideal world, we all want it all. Every woman wants a handsome, rich, confident husband. Every man wants a perpetually perky young woman who doesn’t get stretch marks, adores him day and night and comes with her own trust fund. We all want to be rock stars and supermodels. What people settle for as acceptable varies on the person. I got sweet and handsome. Not complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:18 PM
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The "cock carousel" is literally just dating. Serial monogamy with a couple hookups and FWBs in between. This normal for both WESTERN men and women FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:08 PM
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⭐️ You won the Internet for today
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:04 PM
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Imho, 25 to 27 is the age where most women grow out of their attraction to pretty boys and start to find more masculine men and older men attractive. At 27, they will still find men their own age to be the most attractive but there is more likely to be a genuine physical attraction at 27f/35m than 20/28.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:13 PM
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Sure. When I was 20, a 30 year old was absolutely gross. When I was 30, I found 40 year old guys attractive. That doesn’t negate the fact that plenty of guys have a younger model waiting in the wings though. Edit... Lol, the last sentence was added because I thought you were responding to a different post about who’s more likely to branch swing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:43 PM
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Also: “While 80 percent of men in their first marriages have spouses within five years of their age, that share drops to 57 percent by the second marriage.” And https://images.app.goo.gl/mT4qVSsveEikMxGL6 explains a lot about why the divorce rate has historically been higher
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:06 PM
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The share of women marrying men who make less has increased every year since 1970 https://images.app.goo.gl/J5jTYHUjQ5DRf9th9 Women marrying men with less education is now the norm https://images.app.goo.gl/ZCv23q78eiG7Tdds6 These are the rising trends in “modern” marriages. More financial equality, not less. Marriage may be down, but so is divorce. Men may still make more money, but men have less and less to lose financially all the time I’ve just posted multiple times today.....men want to bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:02 PM
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Men are having more sex? Source? Edit https://www.today.com/health/americans-are-having-less-sex-here-s-why-it-matters-t151817
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:47 PM
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Our philosophy is if you can’t cut the mustard you can still lick the jar. I know it’s a corny old trope but it’s true. Marriage isn’t 50/50, it’s 100/100. Look, I get it if you don’t want to have maintenance sex. You’re probably better off just not getting married. Not everyone should
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:36 PM
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it’s a PITA to get motivated Also want to add that the higher libido spouse has an obligation in this department. Higher libido spouses need to realize that their low libido spouses may need sufficient time to get motivated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:32 PM
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“Washing dishes makes me feel better because the house is clean.” Making your spouse happy should also make you feel good. If making your spouse happy about most things isn’t a priority, then don’t get married. If I expect monogamy, which I do, part of making my spouse happy is making monogamy appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:27 PM
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Making sex a “chore” . Absolutely not. But sex for the lower libido partner shouldn’t have to be a chore. If your high libido husband thinks railing you dry like a pornstar for an hour is acceptable ...that’s a chore. It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:14 PM
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Should women be pressured into having sex when they don’t want to? That’s a loaded question. Should women be aware of their partners needs where there is a gap in libido? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:03 PM
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Lol, hey, get the red pillers together. Then the “just lift and smash tail” bros will beat up the “muh virgin bride” guys, steal the few women the trad con crowd has and form soft harems. 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:50 PM
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Look I’ve seen your name but that’s about it. I honestly have no opinion. But there is ZERO solidarity among men on this sub. Just like real life. Reds fight tooth and nail with other reds over stupid definitions of alpha. Trad cons fight with the enjoy the decline crowd. Both blues and reds see mgtows as quitters who took their ball and went home. Everyone who isn’t black pill hates the shit out of black pillers ....and then there are women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:22 PM
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I wasn’t referring to you specifically so don’t melt down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:14 PM
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Maybe because reds don’t upvote black pillers they see as whiny bitches crying over their karma points 🤣 I don’t know how many lurkers upvote and downvote, but it always seems men outnumber women here, it’s just that the men are more likely to have strongly divergent opinions and less empathy for their fellow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:01 PM
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Uphill climb. Solidarity is not men’s strong suit https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&ved=2ahUKEwjytfvXwvToAhUJVd8KHUJWCvsQFjAAegQIAxAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.sciencedaily.com%2Freleases%2F2019%2F01%2F190130175604.htm&usg=AOvVaw0xP00SkDRawfvDkkK_CRxX Look at ppd. Women mostly argue with men, while men fling shit all over the cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:52 PM
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People in general are fickle, women cheat slightly more when young, men cheat more as time goes on, a LOT more. Married women cheat with married men, married men cheat with married women, the college intern, and a host of paid sources including hookers and sugar babies Women initiate divorce more. See above for one of the big reasons. She is also betting her financial and and emotional well being. His attraction to her is guaranteed to change. Most men find 20 to 24 year old women to be the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:44 PM
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Yeah, they are fat and not “dad bod attractive “ or “carry it well”. Fat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:55 AM
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Stop. Just stop. I have eyes. I know how many fat men there are . Most men are fat 🐹
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:46 AM
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“A good chunk of "chads" are overweight, and there are plenty of guys that are well muscled with a some form of a gut.” This is just as absurd as a woman telling you she is more attractive now that she is 40. The vast majority of women don’t give a shit what is under your layer of fat! Stop with the goddamn hamstering OVERWEIGHT MEN ARE NOT ABOVE AVERAGE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:24 AM
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You ”grossly” underestimate how unattractive man boobs and beer guts are. Those are very few women‘s idea of above average anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:55 AM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:52 AM
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A good chunk of "chads" are overweight, and there are plenty of guys that are well muscled with a some form of a gut. 🤢 Like I said, your idea of “above average” and mine are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:45 AM
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Nearly three-quarters of American men and more than 60% of women are overweight or obese. Incels love to claim the top 20% of all guys have their pick of hot chicks, just not being fat practically makes you Chad these days. Are you saying Chad is being seen In Walmart with one of the 60% of women who are overweight? I thought he had his pick of chicks ready to jump on his dick with one swipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:03 AM
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I think your opinion of what constitutes an “an above average guy” may not be the same as mine. The majority of men are overweight and out of shape
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:45 PM
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Anecdotal evidence aside, the number of women married to men who are 10 to 14 years older is 4.8%. The number of marriages where the wife is 15+ years younger is 2.6%. The divorce rate for those marriages is 95% higher than for marriages with a smaller age gap. Second marriages typically have larger age gaps. I’m sure the number who have dated with such a large age gap are significantly higher. My best friend is married to a man 20 years older. Second marriage for both. Yes, he is loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:41 PM
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Life has always been sweet for rich old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:28 PM
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I have always been amazed at how none of these guys who don’t believe looks matches are a real thing never go to a Walmart
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:04 PM
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I married one. To be fair, I was fuckable enough, but my now husband would have probably done a hit and run.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:17 PM
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I have tits and won't slash his tires Lol...my new flair!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:07 PM
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While it’s true that women don’t NEED men as much as they used to, the vast majority of women still WANT men. That is the only thing that has changed in recent times. It could be argued that being wanted is better than being needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:03 PM
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Hey, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:23 PM
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This is a joke, right? “Considering that currently around 65% of Brazilian children are born outside of marriage, estimates that approximately one fifth to one quarter may not have their father's name on their birth certificates mean that between 13% and 16% of all children born in Brazil are not initially recognized by their biological ...”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:13 AM
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Yeah, it’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:17 AM
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Not to mention increased levels of aggression and violent impulsivity in certain genders. That’s okay, affirmative action helps these unfortunates “At the College of William and Mary, admission rates for men were 40 percent in 2006, compared to just 26 percent for women. At Pomona College, the admissions rate for women was an average of 9 percent lower than that of men, while at Wheaton, it was a staggering 21 percent lower, U.S. News found. What that means is young women who have worked hard to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:51 AM
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Yeah. Too bad it can’t grow up with a dad in the house. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:40 AM
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Depends on the subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:12 PM
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That’s honestly hard to believe. Keep trying, you can go lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:04 PM
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Sure, you can also blame the fact that they are men. Let’s blame testosterone /s. Criminal =man Man =/= criminal Simple logic Criminal son=single mom Single mom =/= criminal son See what I did there? Maybe there are other factors outside of single motherhood contributing to criminal behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:00 PM
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The only normal one here is the actual autistic guy with the big honking cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:48 PM
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Hey, I posted a link to numerical facts that was downvoted in the negatives, so I think this goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:45 PM
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Lucky kid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:33 PM
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Please tell me .....the Ebonics and the attitude, this is a parody account, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:20 PM
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I was gone make her my baby mama one day How special.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:14 PM
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https://www.concordmonitor.com/Memorial-Day-compulsory-service-AmeriCorps-2380130 I’m personally not for compulsory service, but any suggestion of reducing student debt without including voluntary service I would oppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:10 PM
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Rico translates as rich, as in wealthy, also as cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:55 PM
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Ugh, nothing weirder than bad lip fillers. My ophthalmologist is a beautiful young woman married to another doctor.....but her lips look horrible, like a duckbill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:51 PM
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“Yet this idealization of physical beauty is something that many other countries and societies find vain and superficial.” You answered your own question. We are vain and superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:48 PM
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https://sites.nationalacademies.org/cs/groups/dbassesite/documents/webpage/dbasse_083892.pdf The late 50’s/early 60’s were a hundred year low for homicide in the US. The US has always had a crazy high murder and violent crime rate. Yes, it’s still way too high. My point is that the rise of single motherhood has not correlated to a rise in violent crime. Criminal = single mom, but single mom =/= more criminals. Imho, it’s a specific type of single mom that produced violent criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:23 PM
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I don’t disagree at all. Especially for non violent offenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:46 PM
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Yep. So are white men which are 1/3 of the population. Lots more black guys in for crack than white guys in for oxy addiction. Maybe we need to lessen their burden on society by decriminalizing non violent crime, forcing them to participate in the labor force as a condition of release and looking at alternatives to incarceration. We save money on jails and also save money on fewer benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:46 PM
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Birthrates have not fallen nearly as fast as crime rates have fallen and single motherhood has skyrocketed. Yes, I am arguing that it’s not just “single moms” but certain types of single moms that raise criminals, specifically immature teen moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:43 PM
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Abortion peaked in 1980 and has fallen since. I don’t disagree that abortion has contributed to falling crime rates. In the meantime single motherhood has climbed since 1980 and continues to climb https://www.dailysignal.com/2011/04/08/teen-moms-just-a-small-part-of-single-mothers/ Yet crime has continued to fall. This leads me to conclude you not just need to look at single motherhood as the main factor in crime rates, but specific types of single motherhood causing criminal behavior in their c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:37 PM
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I don’t disagree one bit. There are 2.7 million children with a parent in prison or jail. Most of them are receiving government benefits. It’s a lose/lose proposition
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:26 PM
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If men want less money going to women, they should marry them. The old, married, female battle axes die quicker than the single ones, and the men would live longer. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:15 PM
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Excellent plan. We can just keep taking the money from education. https://www.ed.gov/news/press-releases/report-increases-spending-corrections-far-outpace-education
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:01 PM
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Abortion is also down. Birth control is better, especially long term methods that don’t require monthly prescriptions and daily usage. Yes many have argued that crime has dropped since Roe, especially those Freakonomics guys. So how do YOU explain the parallel rise of unwed mothers and the drop in crime rates? Again, is it better to be an unwanted child, or one your parents chose to give birth to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:53 PM
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I don't have any solidarity for incarcerated males, honestly I wish most of them were dead Okie dokie, except lots are incarcerated for non violent offenses. Some are just sociopaths that have no empathy. Enough said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:32 PM
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Both facts are true. So what to think? You know what else is true? Teen pregnancy is down, way down. Way way way down in fact. Maybe it’s worse to be an unwanted child of a teenager than to born to people who want you but don’t have a piece of paper from the goverment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:24 PM
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Yet the number of single moms has grown in inverse proportion to the crime rate. 🤔 https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=7&ved=2ahUKEwiFxebvxe_oAhUwWN8KHXS-BcQQFjAGegQIAxAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pewresearch.org%2Ffact-tank%2F2019%2F10%2F17%2Ffacts-about-crime-in-the-u-s%2F&usg=AOvVaw1WUCzGUaWhSuEMp45IoUVv Edit nothing I love more than a simple link to facts downvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:17 PM
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Sadly, lots were behind bars for non violent offenses. Another large demographic were unemployable because of non felony arrest records being public information.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:14 PM
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Sure gotta feed those bishes anyway, amIright?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:08 PM
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Also Poppy, don’t forget all the tax dollars spent on men. The Bureau of Justice Statistics reckons that the United States spends more than $80 billion each year to keep roughly 2.3 million people behind bars. 90% of the incarcerated are male. Last figure I got for food stamp spending was only 68 billion. About 56% of food stamp recipients are female and 44% are male If you are really worried about where your tax dollars are going, (and which gender is costing you more) worry about why so damn m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:43 PM
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Where have you been Assmilk?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:12 PM
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A woman always has some sexual attraction towards a nice guy. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:04 PM
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And the other half live with their mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:22 PM
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There are a lot of angry people who come and go. Some will find a SO, some won’t, but the anger phase a will subside for most. Ask me how I know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:20 PM
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If this is what they pay for, think of what they will bust a nut in for free https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&ved=2ahUKEwiWsc78wenoAhXikOAKHVWOD_YQFjAAegQIAxAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.businessinsider.com%2Fcheck-out-the-stunning-pictures-from-the-citigroup-trader-who-photographs-prostitutes-2012-2&usg=AOvVaw0hptbILKo0Da79A3Ar0Ysi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:47 AM
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Imho, it’s one of those policies that’s “good for society”, but unfair to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:57 AM
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This above....this is the equivalent argument. It’s not “one gets to abort and/or decide not to abort”. It’s her body the fetus is in, so where there is a disagreement, her choice trumps his. The argument should be that women are legally allowed to not accept responsibility for their own child. They can drop it off at a fire station and walk away. A man should also be able to legally walk away from the child after it is born. Both can decide the child should be adopted. If the man chooses to all…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:38 AM
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Actually there are quite a few guys here who claim to love “banging sluts” but will only consider good girls for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:45 PM
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Women don't want to be with a guy who thinks having a family with her is boring and would rather be having sex with younger women. Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:47 PM
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while not getting any fun in return?I guess I’m fortunate. My h had plenty of fun in his youth, just not with me. He doesn’t really care much about the issue. I honestly think this whole n count thing is mostly an issue of assortive mating. There are a few here who claim to have high n counts and want to eventually marry a low n count woman. But most low n count woman posting on here claim to want a low n count man, so I think some might have a problem finding that low n count unicorn that doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:41 PM
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It’s just a biological fact that men have more testosterone and a higher sex drive. Women can have very high sex drives, but we typically have a more reactive sexuality. Men’s sexuality is typically more objective , women’s subjective. Tbh, sounds like I want my husband to carry all the really heavy objects too....because he has all the testosterone. Imho, some traditional gender roles don’t make sense, some do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:11 PM
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You need to find and interview Salman Rushdie. Figure out his secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:34 PM
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but they are aroused by the attractive guy wanting them in the same fashion as men are aroused by women wanting to have sex with them, even more so than men in my experience. The easiest way to turn a woman on is talking about how arousing you find their body (again in my experience). Exactly. I think it’s actually MORE important for a woman to feel desired, we have a more reactive sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:20 AM
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And many still are. The plaintive cry of LewisCross, to all the women across the chasm that is the great sexual divide, still echos on the pages of the ppd....DO YOUR JOB!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:13 AM
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Men: "I have to want her to want to have sex with me" I mean this doesn’t stop guys from actually having sex with women either, otherwise hookers wouldn’t exist. What we want =/= what we settle for. Yeah, you’re right, women might sleep with him anyways. Guys have sex with women all the time when the woman isn’t that into it, even with their own wives and girlfriends. At its best, its called maintenance sex, at its worse it’s starfish. But women want to be desired just as much as men do, maybe m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:49 AM
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My h has an ex he dated when he was in his early 20’s she was actually a pretty wild child, but smoking hot. I didn’t know her back then, but she was a legend, lol. She was the one that got away, broke up with him for a guy who was definitely a hvm within a subculture. She married that guy and he died of cancer. Then she got remarried to beta slub and divorced. Right after the divorce my sister in law, (my h‘s late brothers wife) tells me the es has reached out to her on Facebook after two decad…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:42 AM
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mmm, I don’t know...as a woman my take is Women: "I have to want to have sex with him" is very very true, but just as important to me and to most women I think is: “I want the man I want to have sex with to want to have sex with ME, not every rando on the street, but ME AND ONLY ME” whereas my view of men , especially many young men is they are often thinking Men: "I want women to want to have sex with me" Am I way off base?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:21 AM
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I know exactly what to think about it. Stop trying to re-enact scenes from porn where the woman screams with pleasure from being railed by your magic fuck stick for a half an hour and ask her what makes her actually have an orgasm. Don’t be all put out and pouty when you find out it’s not your penis. Then incorporate whatever makes her orgasm into your sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:53 PM
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No problem goat, TheJim has figured out a way to get the all ppe needed in hospitals right now “For the personnel and equipment, offer money to the hospitals to acquire them.” Why didn’t we think of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:28 PM
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Btw in less than a month, Sweden’t death rate from Covid 19 is already more than four times what the US death rate was for a whole year of the swine flu pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:57 PM
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So those are your choices, settle and be settled for, or don’t. Decide what sucks the least. Ahh, guess what, you also didn’t get to be an astronaut or a lion tamer. You can settle and be a well paid accountant , or settle and be an insurance salesman, or you can decide if you have to settle and be settled for, you’d rather pick up your ball and go home. Then you can live in your moms basement until she dies. Suck it up buttercup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:52 PM
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I said the death rate, because the per capita death rate ALONE for a young person is higher than than the per capita number of available hospital beds. With death rates for young people that high, it should be intuitively obvious to the casual observer that hospital treatment won’t be available for the vast majority of those who need it. The median length of hospitalization is 10 days, for those on ventilators it’s three weeks. Seems like if we follow the advice of the expert you cited, and get …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:36 PM
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Lol, he’s a frequent poster here. I’m probably not spelling the reddit name right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:12 PM
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Yeah, this is AaronAugustines manta. It’s oversimplified, but there is some truth to be had here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:48 PM
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The quickest way to a lonely grave is being too picky. ⭐️🏆🎖
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:44 PM
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However society acts like men’s wants are evil and women’s are pure? Many guys want a woman capable of contributing to household finances as well. Many men don’t want to marry a lazy layabout. Good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:32 PM
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I’ve got news for you, everybody settles, on everything too. There are only so many Victoria secret models and Prince Charmings to go around. You can either settle for the best you can get or settle on living your life alone. There is no perfect spouse or soul mate. Everyone stinks up the bathroom with a nice dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:29 PM
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Assertive=you are really into us...and not just women in general, but specifically US ++++ Rapey= you are really into hurting us, or just women in general, very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:29 AM
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He was already a gyno when women weren’t into him....ah, he was 26? Most 18 to 22 women are not into doctors yet, they want to bang frat bro’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:23 AM
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Are you the new metrosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:11 AM
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Peak ppd debate insanity..... “A woman experiencing different sexual interactions numerous times and enduring the possible repercussions of those acts would be altering her natural development. It would cause physiological deterioration. The appearance of her eyes would lose their innocence. Her walking style would likely suffer. Her voice would become altered. Her energies would be hindered” Although admittedly I did have my walking style temporarily altered a few times in my wayward youth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:08 AM
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But isn’t it true you can get married at almost any age in California with parental consent? Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:00 AM
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