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I mean, then you've answered your own question? I gave you my opinion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:03 AM
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Dont call yourself a post wall hag lol. That doesnt exist IRL. He looks pretty young but his intellect is very grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:02 AM
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I really want to fuck cosmic skeptic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:25 AM
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This is ridiculous. Grown adult men should understand when they have no chance. I've specifically told men that im not interested and they continue to stick around. That's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:15 AM
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I think internet culture and IRL are two totally different things. Most people IRL are not having these conversations. Also, your feed is tailored to you and what you like. My feed is make up and things tailored towards women my age. I wouldnt assume that everyone is getting tons of make up videos on their feed just because I am. What you engage with is what you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:57 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:01 AM
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Personality: arrogance/stubbornness , they cant admit when they are wrong. Angry, boring, uninterested in personal growth or learning new things, emotionally unavailable, too serious and not serious enough Unattractive? Heavily overweight, too skinny, extremely muscular Im not sure I have any career dealbreakers unless they work too much or just too little? Uhm... always needs to be busy and cant stand to sit still, never wants to go out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:53 AM
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Maybe but I just dont see anything wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:42 PM
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Men should embrace using things to enhance them. Like filling in hair where its thin in the beard, hairline, or brows. My ex was a ginger and his eyebrows were light. Adding a brown eyeshadow to his brows gave his face much more definition. Did the same to his beard. I bought him a green bb cream to remove some minor redness and give him a more neutral complexion. I filled in my ex fwbs hair line with black eyeshadow and it made a nice difference. Ive also seen men get wigs and done correctly, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:05 PM
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Men can wear make up and wigs and it not be noticeable. Women can wear make up and wigs and it not be noticeable. I.e. you show a man a picture of a woman with neutral make up and he thinks shes not wearing make up because it isnt brightly colored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:00 PM
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Interesting question... actually, this sounds super cheesy but whenever im my regular self, men tend to develop crushes on me that are much deeper than when im putting on. Even at my worst.... but, when im "trying" or i dont know... intimidated by a man or something, it just doesn't really get that deep. Or maybe im just very self conscious and over think everything I do or say in those situations But i guess now that im dating to marry, I do feel pressure to act a certain way that im really not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:26 PM
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I feel like you're blaming women for mens behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:07 PM
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3.5? - intellect is very important regardless of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:55 AM
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The fact that you have a girlfriend is chefs kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:51 AM
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Don't turn me on in the comments, please. Im a lady
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:43 AM
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God I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:40 AM
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Papa Fiji 💖💗💗 in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:37 AM
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💖💖💖💖💗💗💗💗
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:35 AM
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I.e. passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:34 AM
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Yawp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:34 AM
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Its their only hope sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:32 AM
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Lol they cant provide evidence clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:19 AM
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It seems to me to be security. If you have more security that your partner won't leave you, you are less affected by their past. If you have less security, you believe that their past can threaten what you have going on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:24 PM
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Practical steps would actually be trying to understand what feelings you feel, pinpointing when exactly do you feel them, who makes you feel them and who doesnt, and possibly where you think they come from. Once you have a deeper understanding, you can apply more logical solutions to help you manage the feelings or simply not have them at all. I've been in a fuck ton of therapy lol. Free therapy lesson. There ya go
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:48 AM
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You get disgusted thinking about a man's sexual history?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:43 AM
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I think being secure with yourself really paints a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:41 AM
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Talk yo shit! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:39 AM
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!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:38 AM
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I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:38 AM
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Its just a very old and outdated reason they come up with for not wanting to date a woman with a high body count as if A. Every sexual encounter ends with a pregnancy B. Paternity tests don't exist C. She has to be actively fucking two men at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:37 AM
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Maybe that's why it turns me off so much. Jealousy and insecurity are a sign of weakness. Okay this is making much more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:35 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:32 AM
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THIS!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:32 AM
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You nailed that last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:31 AM
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Sex between partners is amazing but sometimes there's this unbridled, primal sex that you have with a hot stranger that you could never have with a partner. A lot of people's best sex is with a stranger and trying to rank sexual experiences could get a lot of peoples feelings hurt. I think a much more healthy way to view things in general for everyone is, I may not be the best sex you've ever, and you may not be the best sex that I've ever had, but we long as we are both satisfied and have a ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:27 AM
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I just dont think about it. If I like a guy, I like him. I want to know about him. I couldnt give a fucks less about who he has been with in the past especially if she's in the past. If she still cares about her, even then, im still me. She doesn't have what I have. I dont have what she has. Why would I ruin something with a guy by showing him that I am filled with jealousy and insecurity? He'd be right to be put off by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:17 AM
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You're a fucking idiot. Women are and have in the past currently sent to combat zones in the US. Im a female Marines and they had the balls to actually join and not sit on the internet and ask stupid questions. They could kick your ass with an armed tied behind their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:39 AM
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Why do yall act like its 1665 and paternity tests dont exist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:01 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:00 PM
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Any woman who doesnt agree with them is automatically a feminist. Duhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:58 PM
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Btw im super impressed and proud of you that you are able to not be a member of groupthink. Thinking for yourself is fucking key. I wish I could award you .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:03 AM
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Nothing is wrong with you. I'd like to admit that I'm feminine but there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe you should check out r/FLR or just search female led relationship. Maybe that could help you? Maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:02 AM
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We agree for once. Maybe we are moving the needle. Well... Maybe not. I don't like back burners. I have a few and its not fun having to reject someone on s constant basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:56 PM
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I think younger women like older men who can provide them things that younger man can't like experience, experiences, and status. Younger women can like older men because they are more experienced in the bedroom. They arent as selfish and are far more likely to want to sexually please than younger men. Im in my early 30s and as a woman, find myself attracted to younger men physically. Mentally, I just cant really see a long term relationship with younger man because they have so much mental and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:51 PM
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No, you said it better than I did. They are in pain and suffering but they don't have to be. They could use these spaces that they have built, not to further get confirmation of harmful beliefs, but to challenge themselves to get to a healthy mental space. Its one thing to get anger, frustration, rejection, and feelings of loneliness out. That's so important. But there's a point where you can decide that you want to turn yourself into a victim OR you can decide that enough is enough its time to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:46 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:36 PM
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I met this guy a few months ago. Over 6ft. Very fit. Hes competed in bodybuilding and lives in the gym. Frat bro. Cool ass dude though. He came from money so he's pretty much set. His ex still cheated on him and hes complained to me that women aren't interested in him. I was so confused because by all means, he's the "chad." But his self-esteem is in the gutter. He focused so much on outside factors giving him confidence that he was never happy. He kept looking for things to improve. He was huge…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:34 PM
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Bro its college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:17 PM
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Preach my brotha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:15 PM
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Yeah because YOUR life and the men who don't get attention from women are the only lives that are valid. Got it. Btw... its a rule that no one is supposed to downvote in this subreddit. Im not sure its enforced. Whoever is doing it, I know that you don't agree with me. You don't have to downvote to let me know me that that. Regardless, its against the rules and its childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:13 PM
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You inserted yourself into the conversation and brought up something that was mentioned to me multiple times in my own thread. Youre specifically referring to me even if you didn't know it but I assume that you do. Now you're saying And when I responded to your comment? This is getting weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:09 PM
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I think that you may have misinterpreted what I meant. The bar is on the floor isn't because women have lowered their standards. It meant that a lot of men have been lowering the bar theny with their own actions. It sucks not to get any messages. It truly sucks. Im not denying that at all. It does hit your self worth and self esteem. Its okay to acknowledge the damage that has been done so you can process that damage. Its heavy though. It can bury you. But you gotta have hope. Its a struggle for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:05 PM
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It sounds like you are just absorbed with your reality. And honestly, do you. It only hurts you as an individual. It has no impact on me or the general population what you believe is true. So if you'd like to choose to live in a world where you refuse to listen to others, you will never get out of the situation that you're in. End of conversation. Believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:25 PM
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Girl. I know! I asked my guy friends and even 3 or 4 random dudes that I matched with one night. I asked for honest opinions. No bullshit. Not one cared. I even went to r/askmen and read some of the body count posts and i'd say 80 to 90% dont care. There are men who legitimately do care but its not because its "biological." As women who are out in the field dealing with men on a regular basis, we know whats up. And when we tell them, they're like, "those men are virture signaling." Or maybe men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:22 PM
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Where is the lie though? My intent was not to insult. I do fully understand that impact vs intent but where is the lie? Where am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:19 PM
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Youre right lol Sometimes when I have to pee and I don't wanna get up, I fake massive excitement about peeing and being grateful that everything works as it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:17 PM
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I made like two threads on body count because I was genuinely curious and people are like, why are you so obsessed? Meanwhile theres like 10,000 threads from men about the same things and no one bats an eye. Likeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:14 PM
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Its because you perceive it as taking things personal or being "triggered" or "emotional" When they have an opinion. Its YOUR OPINION that someone takes something personal. You cant definitively prove over a Reddit comment that someone has taken something personal. I'd say 95% of the things in here said about women dont apply to me, i'll simply respond and someones like YOU'RE TRIGGERED. You're jealous. And I literally have as much emotion as if im sitting down to pee. Soo maybe check that your …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:54 AM
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"Not as frequent as women do." Have you read this sub? Just say it invalidates your opinions and that hurts your feelings and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:48 AM
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Oh no... dog piled because people are so enveloped by their own self pity that they have zero awareness or empathy for other people? Yall wanna be masculine so bad. Fucking be it then. Stop wanting everyone to feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:35 AM
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See my new comments. Im tired of the pity party. Its so unbecoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:46 AM
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I got you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:45 AM
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Grow up. Please. Stop acting like a screaming child throwing a tantrum as if your concerns are the only ones who matter. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and acting like men are the only ones who has been disappointed or looked over. Women dont want the "top men." Your low self esteem clouds your judgement and its sad. Women will literally sit in your face and tell you what they want and you stick your fingers in your ears and refuse to listen because your ego is fragile yet too big at the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:44 AM
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No, the OP asked if women were aware of the struggles men face. I think if you want women to understand mens struggles, they might want to give the same respect. But nope. They would rather play the dating oppression olympics and either minimize or refuse to see anyone else's struggle and act like no one has it worse than them. Having shit choices that will never work out is the same as having no choices at all. Being let down and disappointed time and time again sucks. Getting back up every sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:29 AM
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Im 5'7. So yeah i'd like it if he were taller than me but if a man were amazing in other ways and he was my height, i'd most likely concede. That's not an insane request.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:28 AM
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Average women are VERY much struggling. Beautiful women are struggling. There's literally a saying women have been using to describe dating: the bar is on the floor. And it is.... the bar is LOW. He can communicate? Is kind? Doesnt hate women? Has a job? Marriage material. Jk but EVERYONE is struggling with dating. Why do y'all choose to victimize yourselves so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:42 PM
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Average women are VERY much struggling. Beautiful women are struggling. There's literally a saying women have been using to describe dating: the bar is on the floor. And it is.... the bar is LOW. He can communicate? Is kind? Doesnt hate women? Has a job? Marriage material. Jk but EVERYONE is struggling with dating. Why do y'all choose to victimize yourselves so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:41 PM
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Average women are VERY much struggling. Beautiful women are struggling. There's literally a saying women have been using to describe dating: the bar is on the floor. And it is.... the bar is LOW. He can communicate? Is kind? Doesnt hate women? Has a job? Marriage material. Jk but EVERYONE is struggling with dating. Why do y'all choose to victimize yourselves so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:40 PM
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Girl lol. Literally! Or they'll be like, reddit again?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:37 PM
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Every. Single. Time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:36 PM
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LMAOOO WHAT AN INSULT. Regular normie people aren't joining PPD? Im about to show my black ass out the door
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:35 PM
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The other day they were trying to convince me that my male friends aren't reliable and that I should take their word for how men think because they are men. I was even trying to get them to go into r/askmen and see what other men think. They wouldn't do it. Like... do you know what it would do to my mental health if I didn't know any actual good men and relied on the talking points in this sub to represent all men? No offense at all to anyone. There are some decent dudes in here as well, but sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:50 PM
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I prefer not to feed the trolls. I've never reported anyone in this sub until today from what I can recall. They seem to be out in full force recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:36 PM
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I don't think that all women outside of America are impoverished. Obviously. But I also don't believe that passport bros are looking for the outgoing, sophisticated, intelligent women in other countries. I think I've seen one guy in this whole entire sub say anything close to that. Everyone else is like, "they haven't been corrupted by feminism. They are submissive and they aren't sluts." (As if women in other countries don't also seek rights and as if America doesn't actually lean sexually cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:32 PM
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I don't watch the shit. Ive watched commentary videos and that have clips in them. Soo no. Your point is not validated by moi
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:13 PM
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I totes agree. I made a post in a feminist sub here on reddit asking for help with being less judgmental towards dating bisexual men. I knew if I asked my friends or just others in general, they would say, "everyone has preferences" but they wouldnt really challenge me or give me insights. They dragged me anyway and were really snarky and ended up calling me homophobic and said they hope I end up with a bi man lol. It was so dumb. They were like, google it. See a therapist (which I did and guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:46 PM
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Im highly attracted to masculine men as are a lot of American women and I can say with complete confidence that we don't care if these men leave. I will say that I think a lot of men confuse being a man with being masculine. They confuse being shitty humans with shitty behavior as being masculine but masculine men don't victimize themselves. And they don't tell the whole world that they are leaving, they just go. But realistically, masculinity is highly rewarded in American society. Successful l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:33 PM
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When you say "hoping to be the next" Well... That means they are staying for a reason. I know. I have a few and I've specifically told them I'm not interested but they would rather wait around and see what happens. Cool with me cause they are cool dudes, but I hope they don't resent me because their friendship tokens can't buy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:07 PM
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Yeah and the men have not forgotten their masculinity. Why do y'all forget that part? PLENTYYYY of American women are feminine as well as dont consider themselves feminists. Why don't they try and hack it out with those women first instead of putting a huge stamp on their forehead that says, drain my wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:05 PM
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Have you seen what the average passport bro looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:59 PM
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Well... its hard when to give empathy to people with a victim complex. Sometimes you need to hear the bitter truth but in kind language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:56 PM
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Hell naw. And yeah, we should be outraged by a man who brags of beating women when they say no to sex and tricking them into sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:39 PM
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Gosh I agree so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:38 PM
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They sell courses. If they didn't monetize their content, maybe...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:35 PM
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Logan Paul had a whole section for parents on his website to convince them why they should buy their kids his course. Not really hard for teenagers to ask for money or get jobs. How are all of the biggest tiktok stars like 17-21 and living in mansions? Kids spend lots of their parents money. Not that hard to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:34 PM
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Yes. Underreported by women for sure. I had two make ex's who were very disappointed that we didn't have a child because they wouldn't have a permanent king to me. One would pull out late and only admitted it after a pregnancy scare. During the break up, he said that he wished we could have had kids so he could be in my life forever. My other ex cried when I got my period because he wanted me to be pregnant so bad. The first would have been a wonderful father. The second, not so much at all. A L…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:14 PM
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And BTW every state is different. Do you want data from each state, professor?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:05 PM
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I didn't know logic needed sources. Why on earth would a woman simply be able to keep a house in a divorce simple because she is a woman? Btw, you do know data can be interpreted in all kinds of fucked up ways, right? Like I can pull up data on the majority of child predators being white men but if I used it to say that all white men should be kept away from children because the data shows me they are the biggest sexual predators, you would probably think im wrong, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:04 PM
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Instead of passport bros flying to the Philippines to find a woman, why not go to the mountains of Appalachia or some other poor town in the US and find someone there? Youre essentially getting the same type of woman without the red tape. You can even get the whole experience of hopping on a flight and rescuing a more conservative woman from their conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:41 PM
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If you truly believe that last part, sounds like AI is perfect for you. And no, I'm not missing the fact that AI will grow more intelligent over time. That's literally how it works. Im saying that AI cant and shouldn't replicate human emotion. But that's a moral opinion and I know we all have different beliefs on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:02 PM
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Im not sure of anyone who would willingly rent in order to save money. That sounds very counterintuitive. Who wants to wait around for a man to "settle down" at age 40. Stability is very important for women but that stability doesn't simply mean financial stability only. Ugh... i cant tell you how many men have tried to brag about how how much money they have thinking that i'll just jump in their arms. Youre just looking to be taken advantage of financially if you think money will bring in the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:59 PM
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Women keep the house if they keep the kids. Lets not forget WHY this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:42 PM
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Something actual and factual. I like it lol. That being said, im so confused out. A lot of men claim to want a submissive wife but they don't have the chops to dominate anyone. The men who don't want to financially support a woman often feel emasculated if a woman is more "successful" than them. They slam single mothers for not choosing the right father for their child, therefore taking complete responsibility off of the father. People forget that co-parenting exists. Even if you hate the mother…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:39 PM
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This seems like the most logical answer to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:31 PM
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Why would you want that? I downloaded an AI dating app to see how these things work and they lack the real meat and potatoes that actually make you fall in love with someone. Like one AI was telling me he was watching a movie so I asked him who his favorite characters were and he couldn't tell me. Knowing how someone ticks is the beauty of it all, not just telling them what they want to hear. Why not just go to a chat room (showing my age here) and find a real human?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:26 PM
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You realize that orbiters choose to do that, right? Like this idea that they are just strung along like little puppies is not all that accurate. Puppies cant take off the leash. Humans can. Wheres the accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:21 PM
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I would agree with you if I didnt read these men literally downplaying violence against women because it doesn't happen "all the time." Women in this sub have talked about how rejecting a man could literally get them killed and dudes are like, not all the time. But they get their feelings hurt and now its an excuse to be violent? Nah... Go to therapy like the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:18 PM
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I agree to a certain extent. This sub while helpful in..er, some ways, is not representative of the actual picture. Every now and again when I lose faith in men after reading this sub, I check in with my male friends and im like, phew! Okay. False alarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:13 PM
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I can definitely over-critique so I think now I have over corrected and under critique. I just need to listen to my gut because its always on point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:26 AM
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Im at the point where I try to look past small red flags but I wonder if I should stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:04 AM
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I dated someone who was really, really terrible. It took me a year to stop having feelings for him but I didn't go back. I don't think I ever gave myself enough credit for walking away from him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:53 AM
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Some people just like to flex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:41 AM
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Lmao are you me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:27 AM
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I adore you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:26 AM
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we don't compare nearly as much as you assume. It usually goes into two piles: memorable and forgettable. Most men suck at sex so most men will go into the forgettable pile. We literally don't think of him ever again. If we are with one guy, we are not comparing him to another guy during sex. Lets compare it to a meal, when you eat a meal, good or not, you're focusing on that meal. If you're with your friends and you talk about your favorite meals, you're most likely going to recall your favorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:15 AM
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I wasnt asking you. And no its not obvious or I wouldnt be asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:22 AM
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FINALLY SOMEONE WHO IS HONEST. Ugh. This is what ive been waiting for. Not some blown out of proportion statistics about divorce and cheating. The real deal! I could kiss you right now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:10 AM
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Ha. Look at like all of my recent comments. Not sure anyone actually follows that rule. Im not perfect but I at least put in an effort not to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:08 AM
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Let me look up these studies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:11 AM
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If you say so. But what is wrong with a woman having a high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:06 AM
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Okay can you tell me exactly what's wrong with a woman with a high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:05 AM
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We aren't talking about MY body count, I asked them about women in general. And I have more trust in them because they arent stuck in an echo chamber of men who are sad and angry about lack of sex and relationships. And im not talking about YOU. Im talking about beliefs of misogynistic men in general. As you said, no one cares about your beliefs as an individual. I care about reaching men who have a chance to change their views before they get sucked too far down into these harmful ideologies th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:14 AM
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No i dont think its only TRP and PPD. I think its all men who have toxic thoughts about masculinity. A lot of those men know nothing about "pills." Soo when I ask my guy friends who are very decent and kind humans who give me logical advice, im inclined to believe them more than men the internet that I dont know. And you're right, i cant be convinced because my life experiences don't align with this. I understand that a lot of men in these kind of spaces don't view women as individuals. Its hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:46 AM
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then he should go pursue these women...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:38 AM
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Okay. Go find them. Not sure why you downvoted me. I said good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:37 AM
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Go to r/askmen and type in body count. The majority dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:36 AM
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More than once? Lol okay. Well good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:07 PM
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I was in the marine corps. Usually about 90% male soo I wouldn't be so sure that you've been around more men than I have. But yeah, I think there's a correlation between toxic masculinity /hyper-masculinity and views on body count. I don't think all or even a majority of men place a huge importance in it. And even if they prefer a low body count, its not a deal breaker. I dont think anyone is going to change anyone's mind altogether but I would hope that people could challenge their beliefs just…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:05 PM
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And what answer will make you think one way or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:14 PM
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If you consider the vast amount of men, men in TRP and PPD, you're highly mistaken. I think the only men who care are men who don't see women as individuals, but as objects or figments of their imagination. If you saw women as individuals, you would be able to accept perceived "flaws." But because you see women as something to be conquered, you place value on how many times shes been "conquered" instead of placing value on things that actually matter like her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:12 PM
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That was pretty direct to me. In fact, he asked me twice in a row why it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:07 PM
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And ive dated a woman and shocker.. didnt care who she was with before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:04 PM
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Turned down someone for their race...What a flex and has nothing to do with anything. I have a racial preference but its something I almost never discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:03 PM
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Triggered? I only slept with M.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:57 PM
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How old are you? Lol that "Honey" Is giving me 40-45.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:29 AM
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Why thank you : ) but dont you let anyone see you being nice to me, they'll call you a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:16 AM
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Did to mean petty? And like 500 dudes in this sub would because my body count is pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:06 AM
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Get back to discussing it. I was just providing his response, I wasnt making it a topic if discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:04 AM
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Its genuinely intriguing to me? Do you ask that about the men who incessantly post about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:50 AM
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You a real one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:36 AM
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I want my own version of what you have 💗
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:44 PM
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That's not bad. The brain is done developing. She's had some life experience. I wish y'all luck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:36 PM
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💗 that's gotta suck. I hoping y'all last forever surrounded by love
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:35 PM
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What did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:34 PM
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Lmaoooo what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:34 PM
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I remember in 6th grade I had a crush on this guy Chris. He had a girlfriend at the time but he gave me a card and inside he wrote, "Just a lil somethin." And it was so cute. Last Valentines day a girl brought me some chocolates and stuff. She came over and started rubbing my leg and im like GIRL. This is so uncomfortable but also thank you. Im newly seeing someone for about a month now so I don't expect him to get me something huge but like Chris gave me, I would like a lil something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:33 PM
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Studies and anyone with eyes who go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:16 PM
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Lord, I see what you do for others!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:14 PM
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Well, I am very happy to read that there are far more important things to be concerned about. Maybe we are making progress!!!! But yeah, i mean I've said this before in this sub but I think that TRP thinks that women care more about appearance than we actually do. But appearance leads to sexual attraction and sexual chemistry is very important. Besides, its nice to wake up next to a gorgeous face every day. Its not thaaaat deep. Being hot will only get you so far
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:11 PM
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Dont say "a man." Say you. My exs liked buying me make up or paying to get my nails done because it looked good but more than that, it made me happy. If playing around in make up makes me happy, im going to do it. Why? Because some things I like for myself and not because im trying to appeal to men. I.e. A lot in makeup is about technique. I don't do crazy eyeshadow because of low self esteem. I do complex eyeshadow looks to hone my abilities and see where I can get better and to have more confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:21 PM
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Yeah... i think you should view women as individuals with individual needs and desires instead of a code that can be cracked. It'll work for some and not for others. And as someone said already, being hard to get versus playing hard to get are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:45 PM
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SAY THAT
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:32 PM
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Duh. Even the idea that all women go after the same "top" men. The men ive been most obsessed with didnt think that they were all that great. I think so much of TRP is based off of outdated cliches and fails to note the actual complexities of humans
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:05 PM
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When did I say that? Wtf are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:16 PM
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You think a man who fucks anything with a pulse is in high demand? By whomst? Women with 5 felonies, gets tattoos in someone's living room, fucks for $5 and a pack of cigarettes? A woman who thinks highly of herself is not going to want to be with a man who thinks a hole is a goal. But let me reiterate, im not body count shaming, im quality shaming. If in college and throughout your 20s, every year, you meet 3,4,5 cool, beautiful women that you end up sleeping with, cool. Maybe on a good year yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:47 AM
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You say we but honestly I mostly hear it from specific groups of men and those men have deep ties to misogyny. In all of my years of dating and fucking, a man has never stopped me and asked me how many men I've been with before fucking me, dating me, or that one time I got married. It makes much more sense to be concerned with building a healthy relationship and getting to know what makes someone laugh, what song always puts them in a good mood, whats their favorite food? Do I feel supported and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:23 AM
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And I didn't even mention religion which is another huge part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:11 AM
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Its not no damn evolutionary instincts. Its because land and shit was passed down in families and if the woman is fucking around, they couldn't be confident that the land was going to the right offspring. The only way to be sure was to make sure the woman was sleeping with one man. And actually, since a woman can only be impregnated once about every +- 10 months, and a single man can impregnate multiple women, it actually makes "evolutionary" sense that men would be more careful with spreading t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:09 AM
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Lmao... maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:18 AM
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I dont think men are naturally repulsed by promiscuous women. In fact, I think men are drawn towards promiscuous women. If I go out with my tits and ass out, im going get hit on quite a bit. I often get hit on when I look like a bum as well, but its going to be at a much higher rate than average. I even tested it on a dating site years ago. One that had sexy pics and a flirty profile. I got like 100 messages in the matter of a few hours. The other profile was regular and maybe I got a few likes …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:17 AM
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I like to argue over politics with men im attracted to, not dating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:10 AM
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You don't have to take it personal. I was giving you an example and why you leaned into that part and not about the fucking anything with a pulse is beyond me. You sound like you just want to argue and normally im with it but I don't feel like it tonight. Byeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:51 AM
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And yeah, i dont mind a lil storytime lol. I have some stories if my own B
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:48 AM
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We had this one girl when I was in the military that a lot of guys fucked but no one wanted to claim they fucked her. Those guys are a no. You stick your dick in anything because she's breathing and has a hole? Community dick. You are an attractive guy who can pull bitches and now you're 30 and you've been with 40 women? I don't care. You can probably make me cum, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:46 AM
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This is soo underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:25 AM
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Not sexually but in other ways, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:25 AM
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Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:24 AM
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I definitely approach men or make the first move because a lot of the guys I like wouldn't assume that I would be interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:24 AM
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No woman wants to be with a man who has community dick. We just don't place a man's value in his sexual purity like insecure men do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:23 AM
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I think you were upset by something that wasn't meant to be upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:49 PM
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Nevermind... read your post history and figured it out. Uhm.... someone saying that they have a fulfilling social life is not bragging. I looked through the comment history of the person you were talking about and they mentioned their social life once. I think maybe you should dig a little deeper and figure out why that comment bothered you. Im not being a bitch, just saying that understanding your emotions and digging deep into what upsets you and why is a key step in finding peace. On another …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:26 PM
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I'd like to see an example of what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:12 PM
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Jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:47 PM
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Sex or relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:11 PM
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💗
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:08 PM
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Can you explain your reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:33 PM
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I find some sub called where have all the good men gone and its basically all incels shitting on women. Absolutely gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:32 PM
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Maybe it would help to understand women a bit better. Like you said about body language. Not saying that all women who are into you will be nervous but I typically get nervous around guys im attracted to. I'll usually ignore the guy im attracted to and befriend the guy im not attracted to. I know that not all women are the same but maybe it would help to understand that friendliness doesn't always equate to someone liking you. Maybe look for the girl who acts nervous or avoids eye contact but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:50 AM
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Same. I've done it just a few weeks ago with an extremely beautiful man. We talked and I could have indulged and continue to fall in lust but it was pointless so I told him that we should stop talking. But I also have other prospects to talk to. I imagine it would be different if he were the only guy who would talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:35 AM
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Well, i dont think there's anything wrong with letting a woman know that you are interested in her romantically. I would much rather someone tell me that wanna screw me than pretend to be my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:20 AM
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Being a good mother is a huge turn on for a lot of men. Not sexually of course, but emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:16 AM
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I've definitely seen this. They talk about how great I am and I'm like dude, you don't even know me lol. Stop lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:01 AM
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Going out of my way to compliment a man or to remind him of how amazing he is, is not treating him like a toddler. Its being a supportive partner and reminding him that he's valuable. Nothing at all wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:35 AM
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Im very shallow and I hate it. The tiniest thing can turn me off. I wish I wasn't as shallow but I can't change things. I've tried in the past to overlook looks and focus on personality and I ended up with a best friend and not a guy I wanted to sleep with and that's not fair to men so now I try to make sure a man meets all of my needs regardless of how shallow they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:26 AM
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I wish men knew how much it sucks to have a man pretend to be your friend just so you will sleep with him. It really really sucks. Whats so wrong with being a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:05 AM
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They arent fuck boys but I will say they are aspiring fuck boys. A fuck boy actually fucks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:16 PM
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Oh you're a passport bro so of course you're triggered. No one is qualified or unqualified to ponder what impoverished women want with men who can afford to fly across the ocean to see them. You act like its some course you can take like astrophysics and not just common sense that women in 3rd world countries want western men with money to take them out of poverty. That's why they marry western women's least desirables. But have at it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:21 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:18 AM
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Thats the point. They dont. They almost exist in some delusional kingdom. Most women I know are with men who are less attractive than they are. Why? Because the men are funny, caring, smart, not because they are "chads." Like what the hell is even that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:06 PM
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Soo much this. I don't get the shaming of single mothers as if they impregnated themselves and if the men don't still have a commitment to be a father. A man sticks his dick in someone and cums, yet its the woman's fault because she should have "chosen better." I don't understand why men absolve themselves of all responsibility and now its strictly the women's fault? Oh brother...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:00 PM
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Im black and I exclusively date white men and white women have nothing to do with anything at all. There's no jealousy involved at all. I wonder if maybe they are resentful of the lies that were sold to them about their beauty versus being jealous of them. Resentment and jealousy are similar but not exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:54 PM
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Your point is that his game works for the general man. I dont believe it does. It works for him because hes wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:42 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/Tsv284S0qHk?feature=share.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:47 PM
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Hes a successful pimp because he lies and manipulates. He flaunts his wealth and when women reach out to him, he tells them that they will be his girlfriend and once they get to him, he makes them cam. Hes also "successful" because he sells a dream to sad men that they too can get wealth and riches if they follow his plan. So they shell out money for his "university."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:45 PM
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Yah i think I've seen though Mail order bride and 90 day fiance to know what's going on. They see westerners as marks, tricks. And the guy sees the woman as someone easy to manipulate. If he goes there, he will have go take care of her family. If a US guy brings gf to marry, he will have to care for her financially until she can make above poverty guidelines. Not to mention how much it costs for lawyers and flights. Its a money pit and a very hard road so its just ironic how people think its the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:33 PM
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Its only popular to men who follow him online because he make's them feel special, seen, heard, acknowledged, ect. In the real world outside of social media, his tactics do not work. He said if a woman makes 10k from only fans, she should give the man 8k because she is selling his property. Sounds like a pimp, not a man. And very interesting considering that he's been charged with sex trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:24 PM
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Everyone...? I think the better question is who reinforces them but the answer will still be everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:59 AM
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Wait lol. Wait... You think non-white women are jealous of white women because non-white women can't compete with white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:57 AM
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I think there is a difference between hating white supremacy/institutions of whiteness versus hating individual white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:13 AM
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This is funny because I had sooo many crushes in boys in my youth that I never ever talked to. I was very shy and didn't start engaging with men until 16. Then I joined a predominantly male branch of the military and men became like 95% of the people I interacted with. Anyway, im still boy crazy. I still love men but its for much more complex ways these days. I can definitely have a, "omg he is soo fkn fine" moment but not a full blown crush. I remember in college watching guys doing their thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:39 AM
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I don't get it. Like, why would you WANT to be a victim? Why would you make that your personality? Its so odd
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:28 AM
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I have. I like to approach men first because I don't trust it the other way and it works well. Men are usually very flattered because they aren't used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:22 AM
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Im so glad you posted this so we can see the reality of "passport bros."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:21 AM
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Take note of his view of his ex. He did trash her. He stated the facts. He was in a relationship with a woman who treated him well for 6 years. She she broke up with him but she gave him 6 years that they both look fondly at. Just take note how he's not bitter and hoping that she fails
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:19 AM
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No. It has not created a false sense of access. Thats just what yall want to believe in order to make yourselves feel better. Being a woman who is fairly attractive but certainly not a 10 and on dating sites, most of the hottest guys openly admit they don't want a relationship. There is a clear connection between a guys hotness and his lack of interest in LTR on dating apps. I wouldn't say the same thing IRL but on apps, yep
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:13 AM
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I think some people like to believe this as a sort of "gotcha." Someone said to me on here that a guy having sex with a woman and not wifing her is the equivalent of a male incel. Like what? Im not sure how it looks bad for the women when the dude is the one lowering their standards and not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:04 AM
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Its crazy because I see sooooo many gorgeous women with men that are not attractive at all and the women make more money than the men do. I think some people need to realize that their personality is just not it. I'll give two examples right now: erika priscilla and amrezy. Gorgeous gals. Their husbands are not IMO but they have each been together for like 8 years+
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:59 AM
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Well I guess I don't know men as well as I thought. I asked him if he found weakness in women attractive. He said yes and no. He likes someone with a little grit but he also likes to be the protector.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:51 AM
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Lol okay. My bad. It was a joke...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:17 AM
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I think its correlation versus causation. A lot of single parent homes are impoverished. We know that poverty and crime go hand in hand. Poverty doesnt cause crime but it creates the conditions in which crime can thrive. So, single mother households do not cause these things, they just create situations in which these things happen more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:12 AM
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Thank you 💗
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:08 AM
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What? I got married at 21 and had my first child a year later. Has nothing to do with a ticking clock, babes. More like experience dating different men and finding out what I like best
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:08 AM
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I think that I can be strong emotionally and also vulnerable. Let me ask the guy im talking to what his opinion on this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:06 AM
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Say that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:02 AM
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I absolutely and totally agree. These men look to Tate and the "manosphere" for advice about women yet the majority of women have said time and time again that they despise their ideologies. It just doesnt add up to me. They are upset that they cant get women, yet do things that futher alienate them from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:58 AM
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The first part is some good advice. I saw this girl on tiktok or somewhere saying that if you want to marry a doctor, work in the medical field. If you want a lawyer, work at a law firm. I think its bomb advice. I do question how you look at submissiveness or femininity though. I dont think its about being helpless or weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:37 AM
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My post literally says exactly what you're saying. I wrote, "You don't have to claim that you're masculine. The way that you carry yourself proves it." I also said, its not on, its in you in the post which essentially means the same thing. So, I already know. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:33 AM
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I had to google it. Im not sure. I was just saying the next thought that came to my head. But anyway, were you joking? I'd rather an Asian dude than a non-asian obsessed with asian culture. Im probably not their type anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:31 AM
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Yes, I have an addiction but im clean now and happily sober and the strength it takes to overcome your demons and face your trauma is not easy. Anyone who would judge me is not the kind of person that im looking for so thats all good. Most people hit road blocks in life and for some, it turns them angry, bitter, and mad at the world. For others, it just makes them better and more confident in their ability to bounce back. And of course ive done that in real life. Thats just normal intimacy..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:26 AM
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The colored hair is a wig but I've heard several men say they dont like colored hair. Thats interesting. I thought the purple wig would be like a sexy kinda cosplay kinda thing. I usually wear the black or the blonde. I love blonde hair against my skin tone but I appreciate your time in responding thoroughly to me. That was very thoughtful of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:18 AM
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Nooo lol. Like during sex. I am not down with abuse. Thats horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:15 AM
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Awww thank you : )))) that's very kind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:12 AM
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That's true. Im not sure if we talk about how hard it is to be that guy. Its a lot of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:04 PM
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Lovely insight. I think that's one thing that I've learned from this post is that masculinity can present in different ways and I need to see all of the possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:58 PM
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Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:56 PM
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There is A LOT to unpack here. You realize that its a persons responsibility to reraise themselves if they weren't raised correctly? There are plenty of men raised in single parent homes who grew to be the kind of man they want to be. I dont buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:56 PM
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googles weebo hmmm... i do find Asian men very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:26 PM
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Im definitely not a "chad chaser." Its kind of sad that you seem to see a division amongst men and that seems like it stems from some sort of inferiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:25 PM
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You get it. Im happy for the both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:24 PM
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I don't really buy into the 20% thing. I look at a guy as an individual. I dont rank him amongst other men. Sure there are men that im not interested in. There are plenty of men not interested in me but I see it more as a yes i would date you or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:23 PM
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Its crazy that you think that. I was in the military and there were plenty of men who were great leaders, fair, compassionate, but still masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:21 PM
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Well, thats true. You got me there. But I guess I was trying to be PC about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:20 PM
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Well i have some pics up. They have filters on them but they are still me and give the essence of me. They don't change too much of the face. But im gonna delete this comment after you see them if you care to look. You don't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:17 PM
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That's why I joined the military. To serve a purpose greater than myself. I have more complex feelings about that now but that was my thinking at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:15 PM
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How do you do the quote thing? Anyway, I see masculinity as like... speak softly yet carry a big stick. They dont have to do too much or yell, or put people down. They have that inner confidence that comes out when it needs to come out. I was in the military so i'll give you an example from there. He works hard and does what he needs to do but when its time for someone to step up, he does it. Not to show off but because he has confidence in his abilities and he knows that he can get the job done…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:12 PM
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You single? 💍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:51 PM
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I definitely want B. Being in these spaces have cemented that it's imperative that any man im with can respectfully give his opinion and not get in his feelings if I dont agree or give a differing opinion. I like A are the fake doms that im talking about who give real doms bad names.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:50 PM
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I mean I dont either lol so im not hating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:48 PM
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Noooo. Dont say that. Im sure you're just fine 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:47 PM
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I understand that a lot of the people in here are hurt and are just expressing their frustrations. I try not to take it personal. My own life and experiences with men are nothing like this sub. So I see it as a small minority with a high internet presence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:43 PM
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I can see that. I typically underplay my exact desires for that reason. That and the fact that I generally have to explain all of the terms I use.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:47 AM
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Lmaooo I think im alright as Well. I dont look my age. People usually guess between 21 and 25 so thats good but thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:44 AM
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Baby! Say that!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:43 AM
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Yessss absolutely. There's a youtuber that I've been watching. Let me see if I can find her. Jasmyne Theodora and she seems to offer really good advice. But I do want to make room for different types of masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:52 AM
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See, that's just your perception because I thought I made it clear that im talking about just me. Im not making any claims about who makes a good husband or father and who doesn't. I believe that a feminine man can make a great husband just not for me because I've been there before and it just didn't work out. Not even necessarily because of them but because of me and how I acted in those relationships. I do not want to be the person who believes that my preferences should apply to everyone and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:44 AM
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Im trying not to get political lol but I definitely hear you. I really needed to hear Michelle Obama talk about her relationship with Barack and how she couldn't stand him for a few years but they worked through it. I definitely see a trend of people immediately breaking up because of certain things and having a zero tolerance policy I was really starting to believe that a relationship had to be a certain way in order to stay in it but I think the truth is that one person will sacrifice more or …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:39 AM
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Awww omg 🥹🥹🥹 im agnostic but ive been praying as well and trying to manifest a husband. I even told the universe, if I wont find a husband, just have the desire leave my heart. Or if he's out there somewhere, give me that sign as well. I've been talking to a guy and he's said that he's my sign but I guess we will see how it plays out. And yeah, I take the good with the responses and leave the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:23 AM
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Well, I already admitted that I have a sexual fetish for dominant men and myself being submissive buuuuut it goes a lot further than that. And I've dated submissive men and they were great but it wasn't for me. So I feel like in general, people are happiest dating people who fill their needs. Its like someone saying they are physically attracted to thin women and you tell them about all of the people who are happily married to fat women. Good for them I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:18 AM
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Really? I just might go to church. And im 100% serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:59 AM
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I totally agree but im agnostic. I don't think they would date an agnostic. What do you think since you're in the scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:58 AM
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I dated someone recently who kinda looks like you. I had to make sure you weren't him lol. Anyway, im not sure if I can expand on this without going way off topic. This is a tough one. I'll say that the word traditional can be used to kind of code a certain connotation into something. I.e. traditional marriage typically means that someone doesn't believe in gay marriage. So, I guess its how you use the word and what you mean when you use it. I do think its clear from what I've read here that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:15 AM
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I guess it depends on what context. Can you expand a little bit? Like, what things they would do in a relationship? Or like... what qualities they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:55 AM
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I agree. It has to be at the right time and reciprocated. I remember talking to a guy and the first night he told me a horrific story that stuck with me today. It really kind of damaged the relationship. I also agree that it doesnt take someone off or on the menu but I think in general, a man who is emotionally intelligent will have a leg up to a man who isn't. Its like the funny guy. If a guy uses humor correctly, it can really help a woman to find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:44 AM
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To the point to explained, made a similar point and that really stood out to me. I think what could fill that gap is men understanding how truly important emotional intelligence is. it's really, really, really fucking important. Its not at all to be understated. We can get the same educations, make the same amount of money, but can we talk openly and honestly about our feelings? Can we talk about the ways in which our childhoods have shaped our lives? Can we talk about what you feel when you lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:07 AM
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I can summarize it in a single sentence. I did but deleted it. I don't exactly want to share personal information that's close to my heart in a place like this where people try to put your weaknesses on blast to embarrass you. I made a comment the other day about the men I date treating me well and someone went through my post history and found an old post where I talked about a guy who was trying to talk to me having a wife. They commented, they treat you well like this guy? So im wary about ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:56 AM
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I cant stand when men bottle their emotions. One of the things a man HAS to be able to do to be with me is to be able to a. Have high emotional intelligence and be able to express himself or b. Be willing to work on that. I need a man who is able to express how he feels in a respectful way and also listen to me as well. I love having deep conversations and really getting to know someone. I think the disconnect between what you're saying and what im saying is when I said, it has to be in you and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:51 AM
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Okay. So if you don't mind sharing, how do you navigate this in your personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:39 AM
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Im super impressed with your response. Props for real. I need to screenshot this and really think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:38 AM
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This is such a black and white take on life. Its really sad. Im not sure if you know this but women were not happy only being wives and mothers. Women wanted more and they fought for more. We are the daughters and granddaughters of the women you are talking about. We didnt just come up with these ideals, we are the actualized ideals of those women. We heard their stories and we learned from them. Women in the 60s and 70s were fighting for the rights that we have and are losing today. I think you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:36 AM
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Debating if I really want to put too much of my personal details on here. Maybe if you feel like pm'ing me then we can talk about it but that's up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:32 AM
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Hmmm... Okay, well I can only speak for myself. I think that trying to understand what women want in general is a huge task and simply unnecessary. I guess it makes sense if I'd you're trying to look at it from a social standpoint and get a big picture look at the state of men and women's relationships but I just don't really think that its super important. That's why I've started to think less about what men in general are looking for and started trying to be the person that will attract the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:28 AM
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I need a dictionary for this comment lol. Let me go look up a few words and report back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:21 AM
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Well good lol. Glad you exist. For reals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:19 AM
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Ive had submissive partners and I hated it. That showed me that I would prefer not to be with a submissive man. Like I told other people, you have to be a strong person in this world. You have to put on your girl boss face to get anywhere in this world or people will take advantage of you. They will get jobs, I wont. They will get promotions, I won't. They will get what they want, I won't. So I have to play the game. But really im just a softie. I'm a people pleaser but that just gets you used.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:18 AM
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I already stated multiple times that I could be using the terms incorrectly. I did that first thing lol. In my definition of a relationship, I would like traditional AND dominant. And im very submissive. Very much a pleaser. I get pleasure from making my man happy but if a man is not naturally dominant, I usually become the dominant partner and I don't like that. When I am with a dominant man, the submissive side of me comes out naturally. Its a beautiful thing really but not every man has it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:15 AM
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Im not going here. As I stated before, I like dominant men for a plethora of reasons. If you truly want to know why, I have answered this in a comment already
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:10 AM
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Apparently so. But I don't think its that women today are inherently different from 50 years ago. I think women have more freedom to choose what roles they want. How many housewives were depressed and on medications because they were depressed and wanted more than to just be a wife and a mother? Lots. Women also expect more from men emotionally which has become a huge barrier for healthy relationships. Since women can essentially provide for themselves in ways that they werent able to 60 years a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:00 AM
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No and to reduce all of my statements to that is kinda wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:52 AM
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Im not exactly sure what your point is but I think I addressed this in the beginning when I stated that I may use the terms interchangeably and that one might fit better than another. So forget the traditional thing. Im looking for a dominant man. But I do find it interesting that you looked over the very next statement after the one that you quoted when I said something like, " of course not all of the time because we are humans. I'll say it again, I only know what's best for me. Im not trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:50 AM
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Yes. I wouldn't have made the post if I wasn't. Dating is complicated. I have to be what they want, they have to be what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:43 AM
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Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:38 AM
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The first part of your comment is an absolute yes. And the ending definitely makes sense but I haven't ever thought about it with men. That's how I feel though Very outspoken out in the world so in my personal relationship, I would prefer to take that hat off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:37 AM
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Interesting. I will definitely think more deeply about the last part of your comment. Maybe I should give people a chance to fall into the role instead of trying to see if they fit into my definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:35 AM
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Lmao I was in the military and yes, absolutely except I was a POG so I resent your statement a little bit lol. I tend to match with military guys a lot on social media. Being in the military has really shaped how I view men. I was in a branch thats typically about 90% male so I feel like I've witnessed the most masculine of masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:33 AM
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You really think so? Like you actually have felt pressure to be less masculine or dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:29 AM
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I definitely like a man who can work with his hands. I love a hardworking blue collar man. I also think that feminism has confused a lot of men. They are scared to be seen as the bad guy. It makes them unsure how to act. But, I don't think there's anything wrong with a guy being feminine. Like I said in the post, we need all kinds of people to make society work. We need analytical people to become doctors and can make decisions in stressful situations, we need people to care for children and be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:27 AM
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Im not perfect and peaches and cream. Everyone has faults and like I said, lots of men prefer a more "equal" partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:21 AM
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So do you actually have something substantial to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:20 AM
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You should definitely keep living your life in the way that makes you feel safe. I will day, Statistically though, women are at a higher risk of being killed by their partners than almost any other demographic of people. So, it's risky both ways. But again, do what makes you feel safe and comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:19 AM
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No. It definitely came after dating and being in relationships and figuring things out along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:15 AM
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Yessss but I dont have a hard time explaining it. I do understood what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:14 AM
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Genuinely, well.. there are a lot of reasons. I've been in relationships where I was the "dominant" partner. I made the decisions, they catered to me, my ex ex lost his whole personality because he folded to become what he thought I wanted. I liked him at first because he was so fucking cool. He was into film and music that I had never heard of. He was unique and he lost that trying to make me happy. I guess in a sense I should be grateful, and I am. He was great to me but he wasn't confident. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:12 AM
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Lol i live in the sticks and they definitely are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:45 AM
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I don't see how being a caring, responsible, masculine man could lead to someone accusing you of rape. That's just kind of crazy. I just looked up statistics and out of 300 rape accusations, only 50 lead to arrest and only 30 to conviction. So while its terrible to be falsely accused, it doesn't look like people are weaponizing sexual assault as much as you believe. Again, i think it goes back to what dominance really means. Its not, b word, make me a plate. Its about establishing a structure in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:44 AM
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According to the men in here, I've aged out of finding the man I desire lol. But im 32
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:36 AM
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You can have power at work, in interpersonal relationships, over yourself. There are plenty of ways to lead without committing crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:35 AM
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Right, i say I want a dominant man and some think only sexually and even sexually they have no idea how to actually take control in the correct way. Like choking. I love to be choked but you have to know HOW to choke me properly without causing long term damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:32 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:41 PM
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I think that we need to be understand why these injustices exist so that we can figure out how to make it better. But I do really value having a respectful discussion with you. I appreciate that a lot btw
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:16 PM
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You're right and I thought of that when I was typing it. I guess I meant single and not necessarily lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:28 PM
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I agree with the last part but im confused about the first part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:16 PM
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I think you can look around this sub and see the amount of bitter men that I don't believe men are as chill as you say. Ive never seen women shooting random people or running random people over because they were not chosen. I think socially, Anger is a more widely acceptable emotion for men. Women are allowed to express a wide range of emotions (while also being called crazy and unstable).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:10 PM
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Ive looked at multiple studies that report similar findings but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:06 PM
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Eh. It depends on your take. Some people find peace in being alone. Other people dont. A lot of older single women like the freedom to do what they want, eat what they want. Develop the friendships they want, and cultivate a lifestyle that makes them happy instead of being bitter about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:05 PM
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I think its terrible as well but when they dont take accountability and blame everything on others and take a victim mentality, its hard to have respect for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:03 PM
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I've become the same way. I used to fuck whoever I wanted, whenever. The hottest guys EVER. Omg... I have stories . Now you gotta be fucking perfect to damn near even get my number and talk to me, let alone fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:29 AM
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Its interesting that they seem to think that the act of being with men sexually is damaging in and of itself, hence the more men you have been with, the more damaged and less desirable you are. It really doesn't paint a good picture of how they view men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:21 AM
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Most men dont care about body count. You're right. Ironically, the only men who care about body count are not having sex to begin with or they worry act how they measure up. ive had ONNEEE guy ask me my body count. ONE and thats only because I asked him a question relating to it first. The way these men talk in here, you would think every man cares. They don't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:18 AM
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I wish men knew how much other men give money and get zero sex in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:13 AM
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Do you think that women are inherently more mentally ill than men or that its more acceptable for women to seek help for mental disorders, therefore skewing the numbers? Or have you thought about the demographics of those who have access to medical care and can afford monthly medications? Or maybe the distrust amongst people of color, specifically black people, and the medical field? Or maybe we can talk about different cultures where you simply just dont go to the dr for mental health? You pray…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:09 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:04 AM
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I think science has proven that the saddest and most miserable demographic are single men. Lets be real here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:19 AM
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Well most of you dont even have a choice of women at all so you should take what you can get. And only insecure men who have dick envy worry about body count. No man with confidence in himself would ever care about men before him because he knows that he's the one. Just like I dont care about the women who came before me. It doesn't even cross my mind how many women were before me. Thats real beta
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:35 AM
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You missed the entire point of this point and youre not a man so it wasn't for you. Chill out. I hate the guy too. Its early. Maybe start your day on a more positive note
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:09 PM
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Im black lol. I hate pumpkin spice. I don't own uggs. Why you mad about what I like? This is odd. Did I strike a cord cause you don't look like what I described? You aren't trying to be my man and you being mad about it wont change my mind. What im supposed to change what my brain likes because some random insecure dude feels triggered by my preference? Tomatoes fucking tomatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:33 AM
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Yeah but there's soo much competition these days that if you don't have a great product, you will eventually lose. Like the sites about cheating men lol. Are we dating the same guy groups. West elm caleb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:44 AM
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Being into a man with trash views is a conundrum for me. And pretty sure if you don't do what the customer prefers, they will go elsewhere. I am pretty into makeup and if companies take notes and do what customers ask, they will return. If they dont, they will buy elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:24 AM
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Its quite the conundrum that I have experienced as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:04 AM
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Are your fingers fucking broken? In the us, you cant be al arrested without charges. Im sure it's similar in most places around the world. You sound willfully ignorant asking over and over if he's even charged. God men like you are ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:52 AM
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Are you dumb? Yes he's been charged. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/12/30/world/europe/andrew-tate-romania-arrest.html. The charges are linked in the article
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:46 AM
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Gross gross gross. Do what you want but don't cry and hate women when women don't like you and don't blame them when they are telling you that they dont like this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:44 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:43 AM
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I was talking about what he said. Not advocating for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:42 AM
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NOT my type. I can send you my type but hes not it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:41 AM
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Exactly. Whats it? $50 a month for his UNIVERSITY and then tell me his followers don't want to be like him? All he does is teach men how to be and women how not to be. Its not like he got famous by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:40 AM
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Yeah unless he didnt sell courses teaching men how to be like him. Wtf are you even saying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:39 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:37 AM
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Hes in jail. Wtf do you think? You sit in jail door a time out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:36 AM
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If the women actually consent. He admitted that he tricked them. I have no respect for that and it is sex trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:36 AM
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I do agree that men lack good role models but they should seek therapy instead of finding a shitty one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:33 AM
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Tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:32 AM
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That's not the reason he's trash. He's trash because he thinks that women are his property and if they backtalk him or go against him, he physically assaults them. These are all his words. Came out of his mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:32 AM
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His father gave him a casino. Not sure he was "poor."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:29 AM
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How informative
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:28 AM
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I don't think everyone who follows tate is a high school drop out but I think they are what prostitutes call, John's. They pay to get fucked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:26 AM
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Agree lol these men might be in relationships but im guessing they aren't getting fucked and the wife is close to hitting the door and then they cry about divorce and how women all suck. NEXT
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:25 AM
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He asked... i gave an answer. Why you mad? You definitely chose the correct username
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:23 AM
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Im just using their logic to get them to look in the mirror. I fucking hate andrew tate. Btw, I'm a marine also... semper fi
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:22 AM
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Uhm...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:20 AM
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You respect human trafficking? Say what
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:19 AM
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I never said that being such makes you many. Traditional relationships mean that the men provide. That is not only for rich people. And you don't have to be a professional fighter to be able to protect someone. The whole point is, it don't apply, let it fly. Don't misconstrue my words because you don't agree or like them. I specifically was referring to Tate fans, not all men. Buuuut.. okay. Live your life how you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:17 AM
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Yah okay if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:13 AM
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I cant really think of one right now but if I come across one and remember, i'll link it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:12 AM
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I think mine is oval
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:12 AM
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I don't like this kinda face
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:18 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/wFzUXgR
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:18 PM
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I find all different kind of men hot but the main theme is tall, square jaw (I dont find long faces or pointy faces attractive at all) full lips. I like longer hair on a man. Not too skinny but not fat. I dont care for muscles but muscles are fine. The main thing is an attractive face. I like a big nose on a guy lol. Personality? Dominant. He knows who he is and doesn't seek outward adoration. He knows he's that dude just by who is he is. He's strong minded and not easily upset and he can expres…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:27 PM
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I didnt ask if its wrong to ask questions. OP said that if you don't know something, you shouldnt talk about it and I said, but isnt that how people learn? I definitely didnt ask if its wrong to ask questions but its fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:02 AM
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Yeah uh... you're definitely not talking about me because I didn't do any of what you mentioned so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:47 PM
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You're talking about women thinking they are goddesses. That really has zero negative affect on society. Don't act like you're doing society a favor trying to knock women down a peg. There's nothing noble about attempting to make someone feel bad about themselves. It seems to me like youre doing it to make you feel better because you don't like yourself. Cause if you did, you would have way more important things to think about besides whether women consider themselves goddesses. It doesn't affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:15 AM
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Why do you care at all what someone else thinks of themselves? Its not society's place to police how others feel about themselves. Because why do you think that your opinion is the only valid one? That's so self important they you sound as full of yourself as the people who you don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:42 AM
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Holy smokes lol. Are you okay? Like seriously... are you alright? there's soo much pent up rage here. I sometimes wonder if people dont understand how insecurity can actually present itself. If someone needs the outside praise of another while also feeling some kind of way when another person loves themself, it's insecurity. I don't know if its because when someone has a lot of self hate and they see someone else loving themselves, they resent it. It doesn't make them feel good because it remind…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:11 AM
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Oh really? How many women have you made cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:52 AM
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Btw, you are fucking adorable 🥰💗🌸🌷
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:33 AM
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Lol same. Like for real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:31 AM
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Dude. I love sex. I love men. I love to suck dick. All a that, but hearing the way men speak about women who like to fuck, made my vagina dry all the way up. I stopped sending nudes and everything. It made the bar of who I will have sex with rise to the fucking moon and I know im not the only one. More men are single and having less sex than ever before because women are having higher standards of what they accept in a partner. Its interesting because men did this to themselves. They are lonelie…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:31 AM
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Okay phew lol. Just making sure you're with me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:10 AM
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i love men. Masculine men. Im submissive to my man. I want a leader and to cater to my man, but I dont need or want to put other women down in order to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:56 AM
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I love men. A lot. But I don't need to put other women down in order to do this or show this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:53 AM
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Did you ever happen upon r/femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:40 AM
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I wouldn't say men. I would say a particular group of men. I asked my male friends about some of the views here and well... most of them laughed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:39 AM
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But isnt that how people learn? By asking questions, getting things wrong sometimes, reading, interacting, ect. I don't now the difference between red pill, black pill, ect. But I am a woman and I know a good bit about how women think and I can add that bit of knowledge to some of these discussions. I especially appreciate when I can come to an understanding with someone in here and avoid the tit for tat, jab throwing that tends to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:15 AM
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Men definitely like women with sexual experience. You know why? Because men like women who know how to fuck and please them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:00 AM
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Sweetie, everyone uses pronouns every day. When you talk about your father and call him he, thats using pronouns.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:53 AM
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I love this. So much of what I post on my social media is simply provocative ON PURPOSE. I may show bits and pieces of my real self but it's typically amped up by a lot because I find it funny. Its over the top on purpose because its hilarious. Its not at all reflective of my personality unless im talking about my views on politics or posting pictures of my family. I surmise that most people are the same way in they only post a small view into who they truly are. Humans are way too complex to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:52 AM
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Abso-fucking-lutely
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:30 AM
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My exact point lol. This dude acts like people who don't understand these intricacies are stupid. No, they just have better shit to do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:28 AM
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Im not sure why you are inflating not knowing the difference between incels and "rp" as incompetence. The common human being is not interested in these ideologies because they have other things to do than worry about who women find attractive and how many bodies a woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:27 AM
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So you get what im saying. I guess I have no real idea how women act around men alone but im still not sure what your original point was lol. One more time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:15 AM
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What? When women are together, we tell the absolute truth to each other, especially about men. True female friends don't need to impress each other. We spill all of the details. As soon as we leave a man's house, we are calling our friends. Better yet, at his house we are texting and talking about what products men use in the shower. The fact that you think that you know women better than other women is quite baffling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:47 AM
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You seem like one of those people with deep seeded insecurities that you try to disguise by acting as if you know more than anyone else or are better than anyone else. Its really gross but you aren't fooling anyone. And im not saying it to make you feel like shit. Im just letting you know that I can see right through you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:23 PM
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Im so glad you understand me better than I understand myself. he's extremely intelligent, he knows what's going on in the world and has informed opinions on it, he's hilarious, we relate in very specific ways that mean a lot to me, he's masculine, draws firm boundaries, and when im when we are holding each other, I feel at peace. But you're probably right.... looks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:29 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:23 PM
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Okay? Looks do matter a lot to me. Im extremely shallow. I agree with you. Not sure why you're still going on about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:26 PM
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I did say that I was being snarky. I was over exaggerating. But I still basically agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:48 PM
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Read it again slowly, babe. I said it doesn't matter MOST. But also, duh. Its like when you apply for a job, having certain qualifications/experiences means that you qualify for the job but there are other factors that make you more qualified than others. Like, do you work well with others? Do you communicate effectively? How well can you handle unexpected problems? Me being attracted to someone is just the basic qualification but you need a hell of a lot more to get me to actually want to spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:41 PM
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Have you not read these comments lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:34 PM
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No i definitely agree that a young chick needs to RUN from any old man. That's why Leonardo breaks my heart
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:33 PM
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You should be open minded and not so stuck in your beliefs. Im a woman who has spoken with lots and lots of women about relationships and I know how women think. You just don't seem to grasp that there's more to relationships than sex. Emotions really keep people stuck to others. Honestly, im flabbergasting at the amount of women I see in relationships with men I find unattractive. Its because women also care about stability, chemistry, fun. Im stuck on one asshole and he treats me like shit and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:52 AM
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Oh no. Im going to be a bit snarky here and say that a lot of incels have extremely high standards and think they are too good for average women, and wouldn't dare touch a below average woman. Its only 9s and 10s for them who are still virgins, have no male friends, and not feminist, left, or woke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:05 AM
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7 seems extremely low for me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:00 AM
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Physical attraction does not matter most to most young women. Its an opening. It gets a man in the door, but it will not keep him there. Im extremely shallow and looks matter a lot in the very beginning but that's about it. Looks can only take you so far. I think what a lot of men miss is that if a man treats you like shit and you keep going back to him, it has way more to do with your feelings for him and not looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:58 AM
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You did not have to drag me like that btw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:55 AM
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Through snow, sleet, ice, rain, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:54 AM
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I beg to differ. I think its interesting that you have a problem with me judging men over 40, never married and no kids... yet you seem to find nothing wrong with OP judging all women over 30. I just wondered what the difference between my point and his point and in terms of judgement? Is it because you agree with OP and so his judgement is acceptable? And you don't agree with me, so you point out my judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:51 AM
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Or how about you answer the question instead of being snarky but then you couldnt feel better about yourself being mean to women on the internet so... I understand 🥰😘
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:18 AM
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No. Resentment is weak. It means you've been beaten down and aren't resilient enough to rise above and realize that people are different and not everyone will treat you the same way. And believe me, women dont call men creepy for showing emotion. Emotion does not automatically mean creepy. Creepy is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:40 PM
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Okay i gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:36 PM
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You're right lol. People should just admit that they dont care to use skincare products than try to act like its a scam. If you do research and consult with a dermatologist, well.. i dont have to tell you lol. You and I both already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:07 AM
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Well, I was responding directly to your comment which was specifically taking about getting compliments. In regards to OP, I said I agree with him and I that it was really fucking awesome that he felt vulnerable enough to share his feelings without anger or hate. I wish more men would be like him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:19 AM
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Also, to be specific, its the ones who brag or use that as a selling point. It just doesn't hit like they think. If a man focused on his career and was shy and a good person, I wouldnt hold it against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:14 AM
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Maybe but im ready to commit now if I find one worth committing to. But im not going to settle because men on reddit are worried that my eggs aren't fresh enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:12 AM
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But you say this as if you blame women, when its men who are lusting after them. No one is forcing men to look at their images or pay them for content. Maybe men should talk to other men about having higher standards. Jk lol. Unless you can do it in a way that doesnt bash women for men's behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:04 AM
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If I see a super attractive man, im not going to compliment him IRL either. I do tend to let men know when im into them but if its a dude that I randomly see on the street who is attractive, I wont say anything. Not getting compliments doesnt mean you're ugly. But ever since ive found how little men get compliments, I compliment the men I care about quite a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:01 AM
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Im sooooo proud of you that you were honest and posted this. I wish men were more open about how their feelings are affected by not being desired by women instead of lashing out and only showing anger. And even though im a woman, I totally agree with you. Everyone acts like we should love ourselves regardless of what other people do but imagine you make dinner and you enjoy it but everyone else hates it. Anyone who has ever tried it, hates it. You may start to think even if you like it, its actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:56 AM
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I can be sometimes. Not all the time. But why say that to me and not the man who made this post and essentially said the same thing about women? Whats the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:51 AM
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I wouldnt say there's anything wrong with men over 30 using apps. Some men are shy, maybe out of a long term relationship, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:34 PM
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Which part of my post said dont be a loser who cant write well?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:22 PM
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Ilmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:13 PM
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Yep. When I see a man in his 40s touting, "Never married. No kids." My first thought is, what is wrong with this one? Not... oh my! What a catch. Im so lucky I found him when so many women have overlooked them. Yeah fucking right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:12 PM
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This is exactly what it is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:11 PM
1

Preach baby. Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:09 PM
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Right? And like, if women wanted to be in a relationship simply to be in a relationship, most of us could be. I as a woman have ended all of my relationships, including my marriage and now I know exactly what I want and don't want. If having high standards keeps me single, i'd rather be single than in a relationship where im unhappy, simply because I dont want to be looked at as "damaged goods."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:08 PM
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Yeah okay ; )
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:01 AM
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A virgin, huh? Sounds made up, not gonna lie lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:49 AM
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Btw. Theres having standards and theres being a hateful fucking asshole. Heres a tip: if you want to be desired, maybe be a person that a woman would actually feel comfortable with being around. Being so angry and hateful shows me that you have a problem regulating your emotions. It screams of mommy/daddy issues and that no one affirmed your emotions so you immediately skip to anger and dont understand that anger is a secondary emotion that usually comes from shame, loss, lack of control, sadnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:52 AM
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I've never had a man ever ask about my body count so... i have no personal experience with these so called standards. Hoes get chose, buddy. Its just a fact. Ive been in 3 long term relationships and they all wanted to marry me and one did. So... again, hoes get chose. The only men who have a problem with hoes are the men who wonder why said hoes sleep with everyone except them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:47 AM
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Bi men are worthy human beings who deserve love and respect and full relationships and full lives. Just like women who have an active sex life and just like any other decent human being who shows compassion and love to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:51 AM
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Noooo I can admit that its messed up that I dont find bi men as viable partners but I don't also want to change that either because I want to be with a man who loves women. I love men. I love everything about men. And I want my partner to be just as passionate about women as I am about men. I didnt say bi men are lesser or unworthy, as you feel about women with high body count. I dont think bi men shouldn't feel desired, as you feel about "unpure" women. I dont hate bi men or spend my time scour…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:48 AM
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I used to be a hoe but its had zero consequences. I dont remember a single man asking me how many partners i've been with and vice versa. Besides, I have common sense. I know that normal people who can actually have partners and attract others will form relationships deep enough where they want to have the ultimate form of intimacy. And I know that sometimes people want to have fun and attract other fun and beautiful people and who doesn't want to fuck a beautiful person? I've met many gorgeous …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:42 AM
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Also, a man being into dudes turns me off whether or not they are having sex or not. Its not the act of fucking, its just the idea that a man is into men is just i inherently feminine TO ME. Even if a man was bi and had never been with a man before, it would be a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:37 PM
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I don't trust you at all. You probably posted pictures of aborted babies or some shit. Btw, just a side note, maybe you should replace "men" with "I" because 9/10 when I ask my guy friends if they agree with any of this bullshit, they usually say no. So, hashtag, not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:32 PM
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I don't trust you at all. You probably posted pictures of aborted babies or some shit. Btw, just a side note, maybe you should replace "men" with "I" because 9/10 when I ask my guy friends if they agree with any of this bullshit, they usually say no. So, hashtag, not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:32 PM
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Smells like.... delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:21 PM
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Also, what does having an abortion have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:07 PM
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... says who? I need a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:06 PM
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So what exactly does me having dozens of dicks inside me mean within the context of a single relationship? Btw. Its definitely giving insecure. Like when I hang out with a guy, should I be thinking about every girl they've ever been with? What would that do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:54 PM
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Me... bi men turn me off. I think there is a part of it that does seem feminine in nature to me and I don't find feminine acting men very much attractive. But I also think that its insecurity that keeps men from wanting a woman with a high body count. Honestly, how much difference at all does it make who i've slept with? If sitting, it means that my sexual skills have peaked but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:53 AM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:48 AM
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Very
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:47 AM
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Bitches been wearing make up and using adornments to attract men for as long as humans have been alive. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:51 AM
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Confused as how women get shamed for having sex has led to less casual sex? How is that confusing? Or do you just not agreeing and being confused are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:58 AM
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Again, I never said what anyone should or shouldn't do. I said what I believe but i understand that negative experiences cause more anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:22 PM
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I mean, better than getting all up in a woman's personal bubble and making her feel uncomfortable, thus leading to a higher probability of being rejected. But shit, whatever works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:17 AM
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I said, I as in me PERSONALLY. As in MY personal thoughts, believe that. I didnt say, "Men shouldnt be afraid." My personal beliefs are that men, whoever they are, should not be afraid to approach women. Of course its hard. Duh. I actually prefer to approach men and to make the first move and of course I get nervous but... so? If I want the guy, I have to let him know that. I cant just send brain waves to his head. And sometimes im rejected and sometimes not. If I am rejected, I apologize and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:10 AM
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Yeah I think the topic of male loneliness is really fucking sad and I wish that we could talk about it in more of a productive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:07 PM
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Why are you thinking that women dont have it just ad hard? Living in a society where you are relentlessly pursued by men sexually yet also relentlessly shamed for having sex. Thats why I stopped having casual sex and I think that's partly why people are having much less casual sex today then they did ten years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:48 PM
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I totally agree. I put myself on a "diet" from men and stopped talking to the ones who were actively trying to pursue me. I've made it very clear that I am not not looking for sex or a hook up but men seem to disregard them. It became very frustrating and made my question myself. Most of my male friends expressed attraction toward me and it was very hurtful because I just wanted a friend. But I saw somewhere that its evolutionary for men to see attraction and connection where there is not one. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:43 PM
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I dont think that men should be afraid to approach women, men just have to do it safely. Keep a safe distance so that the woman doesn't feel threatened, ask permission to speak and/or approach closer, and the absolute key key KEYYYY is to take rejection gracefully. When I was in my early teens, I used to ignore men who hit on me and it always turned aggressive. "Fuck you too then, bitch." "You wears ugly anyway." So i've learned to be very kind and smile say thank you but no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:33 PM
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I think most women can attest to the fact that we are approached more often on the street the more bummy and like shit we look. At least for me, I often get approached when I feel I look my worst and im like wtf? Lol im not short but not tall either. Over 5'5 and under 5'9. Bars and clubs are a different story. For myself, im black and white men rarely approach me. I am very forward and I prefer to approach men and pursue men in the beginning. A lot of white men are surprised when im attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:28 PM
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Im so glad I just had a two and a half our phone call with a man who told me how awesome and cool I am and how many people have issues with me because I carry myself confidently and how intimidating that is to certain people. Looks like his point was proven in less than ten minutes. He also begged to go on a date with me so.... the ship is dock bright and beautiful and shiny and not bitter which I cant say the same for you but its okay. Maybe one day you'll like yourself enough that you don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:27 AM
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Okay. I'll bite. I asked someone earlier, say I do believe you, what shall I do with this information. Im in my early 30s now, how should this information inform my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:21 PM
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Thats your response? Lol. You think I go around bragging to men that I suck cock well? It was a point that I was making that in virtually every aspect of my life, including sex, its better in my 30s. Also, men love getting their dick sucked and I love sucking dick. You know what that does? Allows the men that I involve myself with to have a much more fulfilling sexual experience which is an important part of romantic relationships. You can try to turn this into a negative all you want, but its j…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:40 PM
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I did respond. I vividly remember doing so but maybe it was deleted? Anyway, I wrote something about having to be negatively affected by this idea in order for it to hurt me and that my life experience does not reflect this whatsoever. Im at the point where too many men want me and its making me feel very objectified. Im trying to find the grace in this and not ward off all men because of several men's behavior. I realized there is an evolutionary advantage to men behaving in the way that they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:13 PM
1

I definitely responded. Wtf. Hold on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:28 PM
1

Okay let me go find it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:27 PM
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I just simply don't care. Like what am i supposed to do with the information you're telling me? Kill myself? Cry in a corner until I die? Agree with you? Not doing that either because my experience just doesn't support your argument. But I don't need everyone to agree with me. Also Sofia Vergara is married and in Hollywood. She's one of the hottest women in hollywood. Our experiences cant even compare to her fame. But You mean to tell me she doesn't get hit on every time she leaves her home? I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:45 PM
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Eh. I like debates and if someone makes a good point that doesnt align with my thoughts, I will acknowledge it. But I am going to defend myself against people who insult me, make nasty assumptions, or put me down. And if you think theres a good point that i've missed or didn't acknowledge, let me know and i'll give it a second look.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:08 PM
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The collective of men that i've come across, i'll say about....80% of every man I've ever known has called me beautiful or expressed interest in me. Every man that i've been in a relationship with has talked about marrying me. So, im pretty secure on what the collective of men in my life believe about my value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:03 PM
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Well I had mine at 21 and 23 and even so, I don't live my life based on what "most dudes" I will never meet or even talk to think. In fact, "most dudes" I know have kids already anyway. And luckily im about a decade and some change away from 43 so thats not my reality at the moment anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:31 PM
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The older I get, the less I come across men who want kids. They either have them already or don't want them. I don't see this being an issue. Especially with fertility specialists and medical technology becoming so advance. A woman can freeze her eggs now and save them for later lol, or she can be like my mom and have them at 43.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:23 PM
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More people, you mean the men who can't actually talk to women in real life?... or like actual people? Because the men who I asked who are my actual friends were like wtf? Why are you asking this dumb ass question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:19 PM
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💗💗💗💗
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:17 PM
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Agree lol my mom had me at 43
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:16 PM
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Did I not ask a question and respond to almost every comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:14 PM
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Right. And I agree. And once they hit 30, I hope they apply those same standards to themselves. But they won't so... lol i'll just be hoping
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:13 PM
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I hear you. And I do have an age number, higher and lower that I feel comfortable with dating personally. But I wouldn't say that all women find these ages undesirable just because its not what im looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:09 PM
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Thats not what im no capping over but im a bit older than 30. Like just a pinch
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:07 PM
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Also, my last statement exists. I am the one who chooses to remain single (aside from the guy who im in love with). If I wanted to be in a relationship, I could be in one today. But im on a diet from men right now and im not pursuing anyone at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:06 PM
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Duh. But isnt that the point? Isnt every single thing yall obsess about is the fact that women don't sleep with you? Yet when a woman is fuck-able its "only" You dismiss it like incel's entire identities aren't shaped by the fact that no woman has slept with them? So whats the goal here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:04 PM
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Personally, im black and black women tend to age much more gracefully than lighter skinned women due to protection from the sun. But also ive heard Asian dont raisin and Asian skincare is out of this world. Their skin tends to be flawless. Also, brown don't frown lol. White women who protect their skin can also hold off wrinkles. Just get a good skincare routine and don't smoke and your skin will stay youthful looking well into your 40s and 50s. Even then ive seen some black/brown women in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:02 PM
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Also, not trying to brag but at least 4 men right now in Beyonce's big whole world would absolutely be in a relationship with me. And thats no cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:51 PM
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Why are you replying as if you know these people individually and you know their intentions? And why dont you think that at my big age, I can't tell the difference between a man who wants to fuck me versus a man who wants to date me? Also, is there something wrong with a man wanting to have sex with me? And even if these men do want to only fuck me, apparently according to the men in this thread, being fuck-able is the goal, right? Looking hot and fuck-able trumps everything else. Therefore, im …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:49 PM
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Are you... are you serious? Men don't look for wisdom and confidence? Then men I find attractive definitely view wisdom and confidence as high on their lists of qualities in a partner. You do realize that a relationship is about growing into a partnership and being able to trust and rely on your partner, and not just about sticking a peen in and out of a hole 3 times, right? Im just flabbergasted at these replies lol. Its like an AI who has only ever collected data from 4chan, responding like a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:38 PM
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But we've had lots of sex in the past. At this current moment, he's the only man that I am willing to have sex with because im in love with him and my heart (and apparently vagina) is closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:01 PM
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Bro I wanted to have sex and he didnt because he was "tired." I was so sad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:58 AM
1

Sure. Lets go with that. You get as many reddit points as you want. Hopefully you can redeem them somewhere for actual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:57 AM
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I mean, be honest. Why not? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:56 AM
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Lol exactly. Me at 30 having like 10 current, legitimate, breathing, actually alive and not anime characters, men who I have a friendship with who actively show interest in me is probably more than the men in this sub have ever had confined in the history of their lifetimes. Maybe 4 or 5 of them would actually be in a real relationship with me but alas, im in love with a Chad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:55 AM
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If thats what you like, thats what you like. I was in bed with my guy friend last night and we were cuddling and I grabbed his little belly and it was the cutest thing ever. I prefer a lil tummy over abs any day. I guess im at the point in my life where looks just don't play a big of a role as they used to. Im sadly still very shallow but looks only go so far. You can only have sex with an attractive idiot or asshole so many times before it becomes not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:47 AM
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Well thank God. I hope every man in this sub or who even uses words such as "chad" is so turned off by me that even the thought of me makes their penis retract straight back inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:41 AM
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I don't do much of the shit that you do lol but I still get early 20s. A couple months of go someone guessed 19 and im like, quit lying lol. But yes, I totally agree. The women of our era seem to have access to so many things to preserve our looks. But more than that, as I've said in this thread plenty of times, the wisdom that comes from age is really the important thing. Ive been able to reach places in my mental health that I could never have gotten to in my 20s. I am able to say no today and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:39 AM
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After 20 its all downhill for women? Again, its a known truth that women tend to gain so much more wisdom, confidence, and a general f-you attitude that they much more appreciate than just having the looks that they had in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:34 AM
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Lol that's what a friend of mine told me when I sent him the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:31 AM
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Personally, I am early 30s and the I keep about a 7 year+- when it comes to age. Men in their early 20s have too much to learn and men in their 40s just seem a bit too old for me to date personally but I don't believe that it means that men in their 40s+ are intrinsically bad. They just aren't who I would like to be with. I don't understand how some people ego's are so inflated that they believe that their beliefs are absolute law.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:30 AM
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30? Definitely not. Maybe in the 1950s. Women these days are aging much more gracefully and age shows less and less on the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:26 AM
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I will say that sometimes older women are much more okay with being single and enjoying their lives without having to take care of a man. And casual sex is much less of an issue than when you're legitimately looking for a partner. For me? Its much harder to have sex with me today than in my 20s because I was more likely to be impulsive and have fun with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:24 AM
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Im sure you would like to believe that. But in fact, I think its gross when men only go after younger women and its a clear red flag. I've definitely stopped talking to a guy when he said he preferred younger women. Not because I am jealous. I think most women enjoy their 30s way more than their 20s. In fact, I think women in general prefer the confidence of aging and maturing. I know myself a lot better in my 30s and I prefer older men closer to my age because I believe that they have also bene…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:20 AM
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Op, my life sucks but I feel sorry for you. All of your responses here are sad. And the fact that women are telling you that you are wrong and you're like, "but my friend of a friend's cousin said one time he fucked a girl at a bar." Like dude. Get OFF the internet and talk to real life people with interesting and complex stories and you will see that if dating and sexuality were that easily broken down into "chads" and "staceys" and whatever else you're saying, someone would be the richest pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:08 AM
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Right? In my 20s I barely knew how to even give a proper bj and I definitely didn't know how to last on top. Now im like a porn star in this bih. D all in my throat and shit breathing out of my nose. Not trying to be weird or vulgar. Its just the truth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:38 AM
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What are you even saying? That women in their 30s have less of a chance to get a man because they have to compete with women in their 20s.... yet somehow men are excluded from your logic as if men don't reach their sexual peak at 18 while women reach it in their 30s lmao. Im in my early 30s and I can't take a man in his early to mid 20s seriously. They just have too much growth to do. As for a man dating younger women exclusively or preferring younger women, that is a red flag and an immediate r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:05 AM
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