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| – | Women play a role in propogating patriarchy and toxic masculinity by selecting men with toxic traits.I'm soft as fuck and have picked up plenty of women. I talk about my anxiety and depression in my dating profile, and get matches every day. Gym trainers, massage therapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 11:13 AM |
| 0 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.So my question is what are the women in charge of these environments doing to address these boys falling through the cracks? How does Richard Reeves giving his experience with boys education, answer the question, "what are the women in charge of our education environments doing to address boys falling though the cracks?". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.Yeah I'm just providing a counter view. You said many women are turned off by the current direction of masculinity, and conservative view points coming from men. The term 'many' is pretty indescript, so I provided a counter stat, that 45% of white women voted for Trump. I never said you never said there are conservative men. I never said you never said there aren't collectivist men. It's cool that you can only provide defensive arguments. I am unfortunately going to have to report you for nitpic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.Humans don't live in a closed system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:17 PM |
| – | Women judge men for promiscuity!People desire fast food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.It's not in bad faith to call out glaring holes in your logic. If your logic only works in extremely specific applications, I'd argue this debate is more harmful to people's understanding of the world than beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.45% of white women voted for Trump. There's no shortage of Conservative women. Also, 50% of relationships end in divorce. Alsooo, your conclusion is to blame Conservatives, but the inverse can be just as true aswell. The issue could be women being too liberal, too empathic, not dominate enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel.What percentage of males are school shooters? 0.01%? That's mostly likely mental illness, and is likely more connected to the lack of social resources made available for men, and boys. Now what gender holds majority control over education, and social work? Women are 75% of our education sector, our social work sector, and our psychology sector. So my question is what are the women in charge of these environments doing to address these boys falling through the cracks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 06:55 AM |
| 3 | I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable.You definitely shouldn't pursue someone that's put up boundaries, I'm just explaining the culture of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 04:13 PM |
| 3 | I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable.I use to have your perspective, but imo opinion friendzone is just about having no sexual chemistry. That's different then a woman keeping you on the edge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 04:11 PM |
| 8 | I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable.The crazy thing is what you're describing really is how women act. Women are sexist as fuck, and don't see themselves as capable of sexually harassing or assaulting someone. I was with my ex at a Bush concert, and Gaven Rossdale was coming through the crowd, and after the show my ex excitedly told me she grabbed his ass. ... I sat there and argued with her about it for 5 minutes asking her how she would feel if I grabbed a female performer, and all she could say is "it's different". It's weird a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 12:41 PM |
| 3 | I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable.And you can also just be clueless, arrogant, or dissociated. Once again I think stocism is confused with confidence in these situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 10:58 AM |
| 7 | I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable.You're missing the point. I went to my massage therapist and they were complaining about guys making moves on them. About how the last guy kept trying to touch her hand and had a boner. Next session she was asking me about my sexuality with a big smile on her face, asking me about my dating history. She told me I seem like a very sexual person. She asked me out for coffee twice. She then invited me over to her place to "help" with a project where she was constantly touching me. She went from com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 10:52 AM |
| 5 | I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable.Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Most women don't actually have the balls to give a straight forward no to a timid guy. It's fucking insane. Women honestly don't even know what they want. They string guys along because maaaybe... one day.. They'll feel differently and they don't want to burn that bridge, they don't want to deal with the fall out. So women play these stupid games where they string you back and forth until they get called out, and then they play the woe is me card. It's not m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 10:45 AM |
| 6 | I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable.Man! I'm starting to question what confidence even means at this point. Because I'll be a ball of anxiety, but I'll also put out fires, skydive, and can run first into any situation. What you guys are discussing isn't confidence, it's stoicism, and charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 10:35 AM |
| 14 | Plenty of men are shallow unattractive assholes who never wanted to be good men.People treat me better when I'm a dick. When you're nice it sets a pretense that people tend to take advantage of. Having people dump on me while not giving a fuck about my life is extremely common. Friends, family, coworkers. Women will 100% sleep with you for just being nice, but this is the hilarious thing about talking about these subjects. Men don't just want sex. The thing is I don't want to spend my life being the 'good guy' while people walk over me. If I'm investing myself into you, if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Overview of reddit user with "Feminist" on her username:Just a heads up, my sister is this kind of person, but she's desperate to be in a relationship. She's just genuinely abusive. Feminists will try to frame this shit as "She's just fed up with me". Nah. She's just an abusive woman, it's not that complicated. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/09/25 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Women judge men for promiscuity!Funny, because you can go to pretty much any women's subreddit right now, and you'll find women talking about countless topics, and you'll see it doesn't matter what the topic is, at somepoint there's going to be people complaining about male promiscuity. You can't even read THIS subreddit without seeing it constantly being brought up as a reason for why men don't deserve respect. Also just a heads up, I didn't say anything about women valuing male virginity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304.I've seen a girl openly cheat on her fiancé, and I seemed to be the only one that gave a fuck 😛 She basically just started disappearing, and tried to make him out to be an asshole when he was obviously confused not understanding what was going on. He wasn't violent, he wasn't abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 11:59 AM |
| 6 | Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304.Women have always been there in history helping men enforce social norms. I can't remember where, but there's a place in the world today where obese women are prized, and mothers force feed their daughters, and hit their toes with a switch to get them to eat more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Women judge men for promiscuity!Out of curiosity what do you think that says? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 09:57 AM |
| 0 | Women judge men for promiscuity!Dude... women aren't openly honest 😂🤣🤣🤣 Those girls 100% were dragging you through the dirt shit talking everything about you with their friends later that night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Women judge men for promiscuity!People aren't logical. A woman can sleep with a dude because she finds him attractive, and then later she can be pissed off about him sleeping with other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Women judge men for promiscuity!Really! You've never heard men are pigs? Men are trash? Men are players? The concept of fuck boys, the concept of futon dick? A man whore? You haven't seen the millions of posts by women where a guy clearly explains his intentions, just to be told his an asshole, he's using her, he's objectifying? I bet you've actually read tons of that shit. Fuck man! Look at the response to passport bros. The reason you don't see this shit is because women a woman starts talking trash about men, you've already… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Women judge men for promiscuity!Okay so let's be clear... You're saying there are women that have an issue with it, you just don't see it as a significant issue? Can you explain that logic more for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Women judge men for promiscuity!I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 10:37 PM |
| 14 | How many times do we need to debunk this bs before the misandrinists stop regurgitating itI've dealt with way too much sexual assault from women for it not to be way more common then reported. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/09/25 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?All good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Not trying to be misogynistic or incelly but why do women get into relationships if at all?That's an idea! 🙌 😄🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 05:03 PM |
| 12 | Not trying to be misogynistic or incelly but why do women get into relationships if at all?I'm the type that's okay with things not working out, but other people are looking for something more committed. For a lot of people vows aren't just vows. The point is to have an actual partner in life. If things go bad if things stop working, it's suppose to be on the both of you to work to fix it. That's what marriage is. Marriage is binding your soul to another person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?If there's equal generalizations being made toward men, wouldn't it actually make perfect sense to make them towards women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?In that case your argument is using incels as a scarecrow. You're talking about men in general, but you're using incels as the meat of the argument, which doesn't actually address the more general discussion about men as a whole being critical of women. I do have retorts to your incel criticism, but realistically incels are maybe 5% of the male population, so it feels like a deflect to make the conversation about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?See I don't think that actually falls in line with modern Sociological and psychological perspectives. We live in a patriarchal society that has distinct cultures for men and women, and generalizations have practical applications from that perspective, but regardless, because this is getting away from the point. You're applying a burden of accuracy to statements made by men about women, that don't actually fit in the standards of how people communicate. Like I can tell you for a fact that women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?Sorry, but if I say women don't ask questions, and your response is "men don't ask questions either", does that make my initial statement false? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?Dude I'm attractive, I get women. You're going to have to figure out another angle for your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?That's not even remotely true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?Sorry, but I came here to talk about the topic at hand, which is the acceptableness of men talking publically about their issues with women. If you'd like you can rewrite your comment towards that topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?Sexist attitudes actually are the norm. Statistically speaking what's not normal is treating people as individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?I hear men criticized constantly for their preferences, what's the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?It's not normal to talk about dating woes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?That's not how language actually works. The point of generalizations is we aren't machines that can instantaneously perfectly communicate information to each other. Generalizations summarize information so we can communicate practically. Also because generalizations are constantly being made against men. So if we're arguing, and you're making generalizations, the easiest way for me to match you toe to toe is to make generalizations back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?I'm sorry, but maybe there's a better word than blame, but logically speaking. Attributing the preferences of the people who have them, to the people who have them is the correct response. If a woman isn't into a guy because he doesn't meet her preferences, that's a reality of the situation. It's not wrong to recognize the dynamic at play here. What's wrong is thinking another individual OWES you a relationship. It's not wrong to recognize someone's preferences, and that you don't meet them. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:05 PM |
| 5 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?Exactly. Some generic answer with no real accountability that'll go out the window the next time they have an issue with a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Compared to women blaming men, how much of men blaming women do you consider "normal"?Like 90% of Women's criticism towards their dates is due to some insecurity caused by a previous partner. I'd argue this extends to even just casual encounters. You can't do or say x,y,z because 'bad men' have been known to do or say x,y,z. The weaponizing of the term toxic masculinity is a trending example of this, which I think is a big reason male activism is trending, you literally can't just be a quiet dude these days without being called out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic malesI don't know if this is the exact way I'd put it, but it does key in on the sentiment. I once heard a girl getting really bubbly to a notable degree, and I turned to check her out, and the cashier she was talking to was boy band pretty. Like super lean, but cut features, wearing a leather jacket with white locks of long hair, and eye liner. Super pretty!! I want that. Because... Like... It's not actually about comparing myself to men. I just want what I give. I want a partner that is as into me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 01:50 PM |
| – | How has the success of the Netflix series "Adolescence" helped men?Posts about men's issues frequently just get locked. The posts explode, hit 100 comments, get locked by automod, and then deleted. Liberal women like to thiiink they're supportive of men, but the truth is you frequently make it impossible for men actually talk about anything, because everything steps on your toes. Men can't actually talk about being so much as lonely without women shifting the conversation to "So you think women owe men a date?!". Fuck, I watched as the sub r/Nicegirls went from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:28 PM |
| 3 | A Man is either desired by many women or no womenThat's not true. Women use sex to get guys out of their league all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How has the success of the Netflix series "Adolescence" helped men?I argued with what you said. It's not on me if your logic is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How has the success of the Netflix series "Adolescence" helped men?Okay so this is a debate sub. You presented an argument, I responded to it. Now you're back tracking. You presenting bad arguments I can easily break down is on you, not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Masculinity is defined by not being feminine. This a poor definition.I once had women feeling me up at a party because I built a box truck out of a ginger bread house kit, and then AGAIN haha! because I took lead of ordering pizza 😂🤣🤣🤣 "I love a man that takes charge" is a comment I got. It's fucking crazy how impressed people get. I get shit tons of compliments when I'm building stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Masculinity is defined by not being feminine. This a poor definition.Food for thought. 75% of sociologists are women, and 85% of the America Sociology Association is women. Plus 80% of gender studies majors, and 75% of psychologists, and social workers. It's not hard to understand why the current perspective is so hostile towards men. My friend was being told by his sociology professor "The only way for men and women to have equality is for us to split into two societies for several generations". ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Masculinity is defined by not being feminine. This a poor definition.I think of a lot of toxic masculinity concepts are gaslighting. Here's my new argument. Men are inherent in average stronger than women by 40%. That's biology. Men ARE stronger. The idea that men value strength because its anti feminine seems nonsensical to me. Strength has countless obvious benefits. You don't need to be anti-femininity to be Pro-strength. If anything, femininity adds to strength. Without femininity, there is no manliness by contrast. I argue it's actually femininity that's bor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 12:48 PM |
| 3 | How has the success of the Netflix series "Adolescence" helped men?How very blue pill of you haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 11:56 AM |
| -1 | How has the success of the Netflix series "Adolescence" helped men?Okay! So I just developed a new opinion here. Previously I was under the impression that men don't talk about their problems and that's why they don't get recognition. That men don't talk about being abused, and that's why the numbers are so low. I now think that's a gaslight. The truth is men DO talk about their shit. Frequently. Their opinions just get disregarded. It's just a gaslight to redirect the focus from women's neglect, to men's flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 11:56 AM |
| 4 | How has the success of the Netflix series "Adolescence" helped men?Complete bullshit. I've been sexually abused by multiple women. I'm a big 6foot 200+lb dude. If it's happening to me, and other guys I've talked to, it's happening to countless others. It's just not cared about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 11:49 AM |
| 19 | How has the success of the Netflix series "Adolescence" helped men?Man I've been sexually assault. I've been raped. I've been hit. I've been stolen from. I've been emotionally abused, and psychologically manipulated, and fucked with. Men actually do understand what women go through, because men actually do go through it to. You just don't give a fuck about men's experiences. I've seen women sexually assault a guy just to yell "It's not the same!!" when they get called out. I have fucking waitress staff walking giving my shoulders an intimate touch. "Ohhh they'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 10:34 AM |
| 3 | It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressureIt's also just... I have women telling me shit like "You're like the one nice guy" and "You feel like my soul mate", and the thing is they're playing me!! They're trying to create a false impression that I have some sort of significant meaning in their life, so they can use me. So they can get me to over invest myself into their lives and problems. If it was just the tinder shit, that'd be one thing, but it's the expectations put on men in accordance with everything else. And the REALLY stupid t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 10:00 AM |
| 2 | It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressureAnd case in point. I'm two messages deep with a girl I just matched and she's dumping her problems on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 08:36 PM |
| 6 | It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressureMy big jarring reality shift was primarily seeing women do all the degrading shit they've accused men of doing. The problem isn't sleeping around, the problem is all the lying and emotional manipulation that comes with it. Most women don't want just casual sex, they want a lot more, there's still this expectation on men to provide everything from dates to being an emotional rock, to constant validation. The problem is men aren't going to sit there and emotionally invest themselves into these dyn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hatePeople going to bars and clubs for casual encounters is common as fuck though. Like I get it's not personally your thing, it's not mine either, but it's not weird. What's weird is acting like single men talking about sex and women is somehow wrong. 😂🤣 Seriously 😂🤣🤣🤣 It's completely detached from reality to think that men who have the ability to travel aren't going to use it to meet women. I appreciate your comment, because I 100% have trauma from all the expectations put on men, and deconstructi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 10:23 PM |
| 5 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateYou can't fathom experiences outside your own? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateThe dudes I know that have done this shit, are retired men that spent their lives busting their ass for families they're now alienated from. They don't go for little 20 somethings, they marry driven women maybe 5 years younger. You don't have to be living in poverty to want a life with a western man. You think well off women don't like the idea off meeting a guy from another country, developing a connection, and then moving away? You think locals have no interest in having some fun with a touris… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateDo you also think it's weird for someone to go to a bar to meet people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateBecause you personally don't see any other worth in these woman aside from their bodies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateI've seen this. A woman that goes to chili, picks up a man, and then dress him, controls the finances, and dictates the direction of the relationship is viewed as empowered. Women are pissed off about men doing the same because a lot of their social propaganda relies on men not having other options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:49 PM |
| – | Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal.Hey 🙌 more quirky autistic girls for us eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:20 PM |
| – | Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal.As a neurodivergent person here's my contribution to this conversation. The hardest part about trying to develop social skills is everyone's trying to work you over, and no one actually wants to explain shit in a basic understandable way. I try to meet people have way, and get treated like shit, and then have to spend a shit ton of time trying to figure out what the fuck is even going on. I've mostly concluded people are insane. A lot of the shit I needed to hear is really fucking basic, work on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:01 PM |
| 2 | “I won’t donate my organs because I don’t want them saving a man.”I think the isolationism were seeing in the world sucks, I see society degrading everyday, I see the lack of basic consideration between people. The US's trade wars effect me directly. I'm watching as my food has doubled, and is tripling in price. I'm not financially secure. All that said, and I know you're not going to get the nuance of this. The world is currently undergoing a massive power shift. The US's position of a world superpower was situational. It was based on global events, massive t… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/09/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | “I won’t donate my organs because I don’t want them saving a man.”Not American or right wing 😂 What a shallow perspective of politics you have. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/09/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Light an oil lamp right? I assumed you were into whaling. Are you not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Funny, because I was once friends with this woman at work. She was my QA. Her mom had cancer and didn't tell the family. I was there for her for all of it. Purely as a friend, purely as a shoulder to cry on. She'd teach me knitting 😂 She was the one that made a move on me. I purely saw her platonically, she was fucking married, and she went off the rails. I told her I needed space, and he response was to stare me down everyday I walked in. She started going around to everyone I knew obsessing ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:06 PM |
| 0 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Weak gaslighting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 12:49 PM |
| 2 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”I can see why you'd think that. I could go deeper into explaining but basically I'm operating on the assumption of the 20/80 split where 20% of men are high value, and 80% are considered low value. So you have an average woman getting rejected by a high value 20% dude, and then blaming the other 80% of men for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:58 PM |
| 4 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”This isn't true. There are countless men who will accept women for who they are. Like I've seen my tomboy ass 30s single mother friend with two kids lock down a well off, well rounded guy in a month. Dude coaches kids soccer, owns multiple properties, is apparently amazing in bed, and is deeply invested in her as a person. Physically though he's just an average guy. Most women probably wouldn't swipe on him. He's not fancy. He's not hitting up concerts, and taking vacations every year. He's a fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:47 PM |
| 3 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Acknowledging the problem is the first step. I do agree with your perspective that a lot of men get locked into mentalities that leave them disempowered. It can be frustrating being further along in your journey looking back and seeing people stuck on shit. Sometimes it just takes time though. Male advocacy is in its infancy. I've seen dudes go from not recognizing their depression to doing cbt and dressing better, and working on themselves. Something big you need to realize is that if someone i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Feminists pretend to care about the male loneliness epidemic when it comes to AI girlfriends.Ai girlfriends are hilarious because it shows men do have deeper emotional needs than just getting their dick wet. Men actual DO want talk about their lives and feelings, women just suck to talk to. I matched a gorgeous nerdy chick with vibrant purple hair yesterday and do you know what her opener was? Love that toothy shit eating grin you got there; looks genuine ... Like .... That's your play? A backhanded compliment? I matched another chick, the gm of a gym chain. Instagram model style photos… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/09/25 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Conservative men maybe. That's on you. Who doesn't expect a Conservative to be a self serving asshole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?There's no logic to anything you're saying right now. Genuinely, if you didn't like my comment there's no reason for you to be sitting here 4 replies deep with me. It had to offend you in some way. And you're just factually wrong with everything you're saying. You know I'm right so you're resorting to throwing shade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:28 AM |
| 3 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Look it's not my fault you don't know what a tangent is, and as far as I'm aware, the sub isn't restricted to your anecdotal experiences. You're just upset because you were using yourself as a proxy to talk about women as a whole, and I undermined your sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:13 AM |
| 0 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?That's sad for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Hah! 🙌 Is that because you're pretty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:01 AM |
| -1 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Yeah I read the comment chain. You get how reddit works right? Does me pointing out the flippantness of other women's accusations bother you or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Are you talking about women that use ugly men for validation? Because that doesn't count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?I've seen a dude get called creepy and get ostracized for being "too nice". The hilarious thing is he was genuinely just that kind of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:17 AM |
| -11 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?You're in a trauma state. What you're feeling is not normal. The truth is you don't actually know how to properly distinguish safe people from threats so you've become hypervigilant. It's emotional not rational. The truth is you never know what people are going to do. By your own words you specifically associate with people that know how to appeal to social norms. Sooo... People that wear masks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:10 AM |
| 5 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Out of curiosity how do you feel about men doing the same thing? Treating attractive women better than unattractive women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:00 AM |
| 16 | “I won’t donate my organs because I don’t want them saving a man.”Sorry? You're confused about how gender bias in draft is a men's issue? You're telling me men shouldn't be offended that they get to sit and die for their country while their partners leave, move to sage areas, and start banging other dudes? Men are suppose to just... sacrifice themselves? For the supposed moral good while no one really gives a fuck about their experiences? And even if they fucking survive, they've now got a lifetime of trauma to deal with? And for what? To defend Ukrainian heri… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/09/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the powerIt's actually exhausting building bonds and relationships with people. If your a social butterfly, by all means, but even then, if you're constantly involving yourself with different men, you're going to end up rehashing a lot of the same conversations, the same dates. I went from a forever alone, to getting matches everyday, and women in my life regularly making passes at me. At first it was really exciting! 🙌 I was super invested! It was easy as fuck to form bonds with people. I constantly fel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Dude people cover for ACTUAL pedophiles all the time. 99% of the gossip people spread never gets said directly to the person it's about, because no one actually wants to have that conversation, they're risking their own social standing. Fuck, I've seen an actual psychologist make insinuations about tons of men in a volunteer organization just to keep being buddy buddy with them. we have great relations with all the parents and all the higher ups in the organization. You realize this is exactly h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?And there's still tons of women in those environments ostracizing men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Dude we have 300,000 years of men providing for women, their families, and their communities. If men weren't biologically programmed to provide, we wouldn't have social pack culture we do. Fucking lions kills off all the competing young when they take over a pride. Rodents regularly eat their young. I'd actually argue you're socialized to be LESS involved then you would be if you followed your natural instincts. We live in a society with legal structures, and men's previous responsibilities have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Women in female dominated environments ostracize men. 99% of the people calling men creeps are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:13 PM |
| -1 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Men don't even talk about their lives with each other. Most men couldn't give a fuck about status, men are practical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Arguing motivations don't matter is just conceding to their point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:10 PM |
| 7 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?By that same logic women are socialized to be more nurturing so what are we even talking about? You're using deconstruction to create double standards between men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?You think they'd tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:06 PM |
| 20 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?I had a buddy get called out in the middle of a fair. I just want to point out that your example was specifically a man that's already well known and respected in your community. Not some average dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Sorry no. Go actually google the longterm health effects of any physical attractivity. Humans aren't built to last forever. Mechanical parts degrade with use, and the human body is made of mechanical parts. If you actually want visible muscle, you're going to be damaging your body. There's tons of health benefits to exercise, but that doesn't mean there aren't also negatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:01 PM |
| 13 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?This isn't just dating apps. This kind of moves onto a tangent I want to get out lol! Okay! So if you go read a post about oldermen dating younger women, one of the biggest issues brought up is "What would they have in common?", that a olderman and a younger woman are in completely different places in life. No one gives a fuck when it's a childfree dude dating a single mother though. Anyways! My single mother massage therapist hit on me mid session, and she was 100% one of those people that acte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 07:43 PM |
| 8 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themHardly. Feminists even have a fancy word for this trait, internalized misogyny. Women by nature of living in patriarchy fundementally don't have the same level of mental independence or individuality that men have. Women in our world are infantized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Women have no idea what it actually takes to put on any amount of decent muscle. Genuinely a woman's idea of a 'dad bod' is body builder in their off season. Literally I am just on the higher end of what people would call a dad bod, and I deal with these issues. You're sitting here making up stories about how I need to take a slower pace when my muscle took 3 years to build up. And that's not even counting the base muscle I already had. I feel like you’re just looking for something to get mad at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Fuck man I'm just talking about the male experience, and your response is to think I'm calling people evil. Yeah I know some men who have a permanently bad shoulder because they blew it out when they made one form mistake while bench pressing. It’s a popular lift to focus on among people who want a big upper body. Exercise quickly becomes dangerous any moment your form steps out of line or if you’re over eager. But the right exercise done the right way can strengthen your bones and joints, and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?The problem is women, I just explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Even with perfect form, working out is stress on the body. Even jogging with perfect form causes stress and damage to joints. Even with perfect form, and rest days, and nutrition, and stretching, the majority of men with any significant muscle are going to experience what I just described. Start actually asking people. Next time you see a macular guy, ask if they have any chronic pain. I had thoughts like this after I had my own glow up and got more fit. Being treated better made me feel bitter,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:50 PM |
| 10 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?This is on women. Women don't give a fuck about men's physical self esteem. Spend 1 night in a group with some openly queer men as a dude, and you will feel like a king. Like.. women will sit there and tell men they're just unattractive, but somehow... queer men have noooo problem finding things to gush about. Queer men have nooo problem finding men's attributes attractive, and expressing it. It's fucking crazy, because women will walk up, and randomly start touching my arms, and shoulders. Wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Okay! So this is something I want to address. The amount of effort it takes to put on any significant amount of muscle is damaging to your body, and not sustainable. Men don't talk about this shit. I'm not even huge, more like... high end dad body, but I have tons of problems with my shoulders, arms, wrists. When I'm physically active is common for me to wakeup in the middle of the night with pins and needles because of lost circulation. I can't cuddle comfortably anymore. I had to change the wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:19 PM |
| 29 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?A big thing I've noticed as I've worked on myself, and developed things that make me attractive to women is women barely give a fuck about mutual interests. It's definitely a factor, but 99% of women are swiping on me purely for superficial reasons. Women LOVVEEE the fact that I'm a Skydiver. No one actually wants to go skydiving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:00 PM |
| -3 | Woman-loving-woman relationships do not have more intimate partner violence than straight relationshipsIt was a study on Domestic abuse and homosexuality. I'm not at my pc at the moment but I'm pretty sure it had those words in the title if you look on google scholar. Regardless, you have have any other studies showing a different number for emotional abuse? Because as we've established, just looking at physical abuse isn't all of ipv. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:26 AM |
| 12 | Woman-loving-woman relationships do not have more intimate partner violence than straight relationshipsIPV is just a newer term for domestic abuse/violence. Basically, it's meant to be more inclusive for partners that don't live together since "domestic" implies that. I do see some sources conflating domestic abuse, and domestic violence, the only problem is that only strengths my argument, because the prevalence of emotional abuse in lesbian relationships is 54% over the last 12 months, which is a valid form of IPV as we've now established, but your original argument is only taking into consider… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Woman-loving-woman relationships do not have more intimate partner violence than straight relationshipsHere's the problem, sometimes people assume pressure is coming from an external source when in reality it's self imposed. Someone stating a preference for example might feel like pressure, you might feel a need to meet their expectations, and that might make you feel pressured, but to actually pressure someone, to actually commit the act of pressuring someone, requires deliberate desire to subvert their preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:28 AM |
| 30 | Woman-loving-woman relationships do not have more intimate partner violence than straight relationshipsThis is a goal post shift or misunderstanding. 54% of lesbians have experienced domestic abuse in the last 12 months, not IPV. Specifically 54% of lesbians have experienced emotional domestic abuse in the last 12 months. Meanwhile the number for heterosexual couples experiencing emotional abuse over 5 years is 16.5%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:16 AM |
| 0 | Males should be told to dress betterThere's a selection bias here. Most people suck at taking pictures of themselves. Knowing how to pose, knowing your best angles, having the right lighting and feel is huge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Males should be told to dress betterThis isn't true, source: exforever alone. Style in itself is attractive, self worth, and personal expression are attractive interesting qualities to women. Ugly people DO look better in better clothes. Have you ever heard of the cheerleader effect? That if you take a bunch of women with flaws, and you put them in a group, they look better as a whole. Same concept. Humans aren't computers. Humans aren't cameras. Humans don't process everything they're seeing all the time. We focus in on attribute… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Males should be told to dress betterPeople should dress better because they want to, not due to external pressures. The idea that men in general should adopt a culture where they go around nagging at each other about clothing seems toxic as fuck. If people don't want to dress up, that's their choice. And the truth is... there are groups of guys like the ones you're describing in every city. Every city has high maintenance men hitting clubs. This is the pocket paradox. As much as women say they want functional pockets, they don't a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themIdk, I run in lesbian circles, and we have no problem finding each other attractive. I've also had no problem with a man finding me attractive if he was being respectful about it. Funny, because I've seen countless lesbians lose their shit over women sexualizing men. You can't go into a liberal women's space these days without lesbians crying about moids. If she doesn't know you're looking at her breasts, then she wouldn't have a problem with you looking at them. Just don't be obnoxious about it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 11:12 PM |
| 28 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themSomething I want to add on, I don't know if I can articulate this properly, but women are codependent on others to build their self esteem. They don't have the compartmentalization to prevent other people's opinions from effecting them, they don't have a strong sense of self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themThat's not true. Women will be sexual with someone they're not necessarily interested in to boost their self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themWomen also judge the fuck out of other women if they presume they might be dressing sexy for men's attention. This goes to the extreme that women will ostracize, and passive aggressively attack other women with defining features (big boobs, ass, looks). So what you're saying goes deeper than just how women judge men sexualizing them, it mimics the social culture women have with each other. Weird tangent, but something I experienced today that ties in. Women will use their sexuality to draw men i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 10:53 PM |
| -1 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?Women do weaponize sex though. You're saying that's imagined? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?I can easily find quotes from a dozen prominent feminists saying men should be systematically castrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:29 AM |
| 5 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?I think women are generally just more socially strategic. My parents were separated for 15 years before they finally divorced. My mom waited until my dad was fully committed in another relationship, and ready to get married before she got him to finalize the divorce. She wanted to make sure she got the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:27 AM |
| -1 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?The definition of misogyny you're using is so watered down it's basically useless. You're talking about the misogyny from a social political standpoint. The problem is feminists hold all the same views, they're just framed differently. Feminists will sit there, and argue that women's contributions aren't as valued in society as men's, it just gets deflected to talking about the cause being patriarchy, but that doesn't change the fact that feminists themselves hold the view that women hold less s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I think I'm asshole, which is where a lot of my thinking comes from haha 😂 I use to be super well mannered, and then I dated in my 30s, and got treated like shit a ton, and lost a ton of my respect for people, and lost my shit, and now like ... I've had so many experiences where women chase me. I've gone to parties just to have multiple women walking by casually feeling me up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I personally do have compassion for people, and a desire to be kind so I can't agree, I know for a fact kindness and niceness exist beyond masking. Fuck, I can feel sympathy for a rock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I don't think you're actually engaging with my argument considering I dismissed hypergamy already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.Counterpoint. Every human has something to offer. Every Niceguy has something to offer, they just haven't learnt what that is. I was raised to be generous, and considerate, and compassionate towards others. That's genuinely the person I was raised to be, it wasn't an act. I care about people. Throughout my entire life I've been complimented on my intelligence and kindness, so that's the perception I held of myself. It took me a long time to realize I have a shit ton of attractive qualities, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.Being nice doesn't mean you don't have other character traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:28 AM |
| 9 | My I Cannot Identify As a FeministAs someone that dabbles in marketing I have some constructive criticism. First I just want to say excellent work, and please keep it up. My tips are purely superficial aspects, but you had mentioned not getting viewers and this might help address that. My first impression of your article purely visually is that it was a bit jarring. While the image you chose to head your article is extremely fitting from a technical standpoint, or as a symbol of empowerment, in my opinion it's very sterile. It l… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/08/25 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.Help isn't one size fits all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I'm not victim blaming. Even if you've treated someone this way it doesn't justify their abuse of you. People have a personal responsibility to remove themselves from these situations. I know it can be hard as fuck to disengage in a toxic relationships, but the best way forward is to recognize the issues, and develop better habits. I get that the hard part about abuse is you still love them. I've been through a lot of shit. I've messaged my abusers after getting away sooo many times 😅 This isn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.Nah, I'm just saying it's deliberate. Ideally I want people to recognize these situations so we can avoid them all together, and aside from that I'm just trying to understand myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I don't find any of this compelling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.Where in my post did I mention violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.Sorry do you have anything that challenges what I've said, or do you simply disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.This still doesn't address my actual argument, it's a tangent. Niceguys aren't important to the dynamic I described, I was just using them as a reference. If you're simply arguing they aren't a good reference, I can understand why you would say that, and I'm willing to concede that, but I don't think it's foundational to my argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I agree with your perspective, what I'm saying can be simplified to why you're saying, but I would argue that the dynamic listed above is a large part of what drives the excitement, that it's the game driving a lot of these situations. And I'll give this caveat to argue it. Bender from The breakfast club is the archetype for this guy. The bad boy with a soft soul. Women are more interested if there's that added vulnerability, it's not just about fun times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I'm getting a lot of the same reply so I'm copying my message Genuinely I don't believe attacking my definition of Niceguy hurts my argument. The purpose of the Niceguy in my argument is purely to act as an example in contrast to the unhinged man. Even if the Niceguy is secretly an asshole, how would that influence the darvo dynamic listed above? Idk what you mean by "from the outside, what looks like women being mistreated by men..." because women outwardly look like they are mistreated by men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I'm getting a lot of the same reply so I'm copying my message Genuinely I don't believe attacking my definition of Niceguy hurts my argument. The purpose of the Niceguy in my argument is purely to act as an example in contrast to the unhinged man. Even if the Niceguy is secretly an asshole, how would that influence the darvo dynamic listed above? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I'm getting a lot of the same reply so I'm copying my message Genuinely I don't believe attacking my definition of Niceguy hurts my argument. The purpose of the Niceguy in my argument is purely to act as an example in contrast to the unhinged man. Even if the Niceguy is secretly an asshole, how would that influence the darvo dynamic listed above? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.Genuinely I don't believe attacking my definition of Niceguy hurts my argument. The purpose of the Niceguy in my argument is purely to act as an example in contrast to the unhinged man. Even if the Niceguy is secretly an asshole, how would that influence the darvo dynamic listed above? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.I'm talking about both. The difference between a Niceguy, and a Niceguy™ is bad boundaries. I personally believe a lot of the content you see on r/niceguys is just men reacting to being fucked with. That doesn't absolve their actions. That doesn't make them not assholes. That doesn't mean their response isn't abusive in itself. The Niceguy™ becomes the unhinged man if they don't resolve their shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.Your argument is that kindness doesn't exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:22 PM |
| -1 | Women pursuing charismatic men with unhinged behaviour isn't hypergamy, that's a misunderstanding.That's fair, and what you're describing does happen, but it's not the 1950s anymore. You can't watch Scoobydoo these days without being taught female empowerment. I'm talking specifically about drama that gets made public. I'm talking about the general social culture around dating. You say that most of women in toxic dynamics are alienated from their support structures. That should be trackable right? If the majority of women dating toxic men are alienated from their support structures, that sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:22 PM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?Nice subtle goal post shift there. The point made wasn't that women overtly say they're "looking for assholes", the point made is that everyone knows women that actively pursue assholes. So your first response to this point is to claim you don't know any women like this, but now we've clarified that you actually do, you just choose not to associate with them. And now your second response is to say women don't overtly say they're into assholes, which isn't the point being made. That said, if your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:38 PM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?I'm sure that's a thing, but what I'm thinking about specifically is that kindness isn't a one way dynamic. It generally does require some kind of interaction from the other person, and that can feel like an obligation, where someone being overly kind becomes an obligation to be thankful, or to be kind back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want themI've actually seen the opposite advice given from old ladies. "Don't date too much or you'll get picky". Most women find massive value in their personal relationships. Women that don't have a husband and kids often end up alienating themselves from their social networks. Women that perpetually date, and never settle down are looked down on by their peers due to the constant drama. The idea of the cool hip woman forging her own path living an exciting life pursuing her interests is a rare excepti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:25 AM |
| 10 | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want themA significant amount of women can't even get themselves off. Men are not the problem. What's stopping you from getting on top? Why am I the one doing 90% of the work here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want themOut of curiosity, why do so many women seem desperate for commitment from men that "don't offer anything". Why chain yourself to that? Certainly it'd be easier just to go it alone right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:13 AM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?That's not what the previous point is about though. The previous poster said everyone knows a women with x toxic behaviours, and you claimed you didn't. Except you do! You just keep them out of your life because you recognize their toxicity. Out of curiosity, why deflect rather than simply acknowledge the previous posters point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:06 AM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?Okay, but traditionally Puritans just supress anyone that goes against the grain. Every family has black sheep, mental illness, drama. Even if you personally don't choose to hang out with those people, someone you know does, they are in your world, they are connected to your social network. You wouldn't been be here in this subreddit if you weren't dealing with some level of 'trash' in your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:56 AM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?Dude even right now you can't give any actionable information that will help dudes. You tell a dude to be 'well groomed' and it actually explains nothing about developing style, or aesthetics. My concept of being well groomed as wearing a polo shirt. The thing is when already have no perceived value about the worth of your physical attractiveness, there's nothing to build on. There's no concept of self improvement, because there's nothing to be improved upon. And here's the really tricky bit. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:45 AM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?Technically if you don't know these women, you have no idea what their class status could be. Dude could be hanging out with aristocrats for all you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:33 AM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?I've crossed into this side of kindness. You can only be SO kind before you kindness starts imposing on others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.Are you deflecting, and giving circular because you're trying to avoid the obvious point? Negging is only considered manipulation because it actually works. Women are attracted to guys that subtly put them down. Why do women sleep with men that put them down, if the claim that only a small percentage of women are attracted to assholes is true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 06:11 PM |
| 2 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.Seriously. What man in his good mind would ditch a well rounded girl that's good in bed? Most men just want someone to chill with, fuck, and have fun times. Don't treat me like an atm, don't treat me like a therapist, and be half decent in bed, BAM! You're now a high value woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 05:39 PM |
| 3 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.What's the manipulation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 08:37 PM |
| 5 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.Going over to a girls place that claims to be a switch just for her to clarify she's more of a sub after you guys fuck. 🤣 Fuck, I appreciate that you get it man. It's fucking crazy! 🙌 🙌 🙌 Last girl I was with was my massage therapist. Tight as fuck body with an ass you launch of ship off of. Fucking gorgeous! No sexual confidence though! Fucking none! 🙌 What a fucking crazy experience.. to have a woman that beautiful naked infront of me, and SHE'S the one unsure of herself!!! 🤣 I can't believe h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 08:08 PM |
| 4 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.Then why does negging work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:31 PM |
| 11 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.Dating in my thirties as a dude completely changed my perspective about women. Because truth is a lot of the sex was bad 🤣 and I just remember all these stories about men that just fuck women and leave, and now I realize... Those women probably just really suck in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:30 PM |
| 7 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.I've seen women actively choose to go out, and hang around guys they were previously shit talking. I've seen a woman... who literally refers to herself as a bully, sit there smiling at a dude while joked about fucking women in the ass for 5 long minutes. I've seen an actual therapist talk shit about this guy just to go hang out with him, just to keep talking shit about him. I think the reason this shit is confusing is because there's no real logic to it. I've seen women hang out with guys they k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:26 PM |
| 7 | The Science: A Few Hyper-Aggressive Men, Drive Violence StatsChimps also live in trees. Biologically speaking do you think we should aswell? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/25 11:50 AM |
| 24 | Men face a social conundrum. You have to prove that you're safe and if you are the safe fun loving type of guy You're kind of not taken seriously.This is something I deal with. The weird expectations people put on your personality. I think this is the trick. If someone is putting superficial expectations on you about how you should act, or how you should be, it's completely okay to disregard that person. A lot of toxic women will attack anything they can about you. It's about power. If they can find something you're insecure about, they can hold that shit over you, they can bug you, they can manipulate you with it. Shit tons of power hung… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/25 11:37 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men who women otherwise love as friends, but never see them “that way”Women are WAAAAY more interested in me as a "nice guy" then when I was genuinely well mannered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to be more sensitive to misogyny and more active in gender wars.Just to add on. Feminism is reaching the point of having enough power that it's becoming the default way people view social issues. When 75% of our researchers studying societal issues are women, and the majority of our perspectives of society are coming from those women, more and more those become the only perspectives people are exposed to. Reddit use to be a men's site. Not specifically, but reddit originally was 95% nerdy, geeky, pedantic men. People on here use to have these deep technical … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/08/25 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Women seem to be more sensitive to misogyny and more active in gender wars.Women have been studying this stuff, and pushing social activism for 60 years. 80% of gender studies academics are women, 75% of sociologists are women, 75% of psychologists are women, 75% of social workers are women, and 75% of educators are women. I personally believe there's a self feeding back loop where the more that women's issues are studied, the more they're able to be recognized, which leads to more studying, which leads to more recognition, which leads to more studying, and now women's… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/08/25 03:57 PM |
| -1 | "Men are socialized to act like they need sex/see women as objects." That was literally the opposite of my upbringing. What was yours?It's 2025. No one gives a fuck about studies. I'm actually fully willing to believe there's a massive correlation between feminism and motherhood. If you believe different, by all means you can present something that proves such, but I'm willing to acknowledge feminists spend a massive amount of time demeaning the contributions of mothers, and the value of motherhood, to the point that we have counter movements such as tradwives. Not only that, but women frequently complain about feminists demea… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/25 04:04 PM |
| 35 | "Men are socialized to act like they need sex/see women as objects." That was literally the opposite of my upbringing. What was yours?The thing is because a lot of women or feminists have a cognitive dissonance issue. They are also more likely to think a man gay or odd for not sexualizing women. Yep! Toxic femininity. I wanted to add on another misandrist stereotype. 'The guy that's not hitting on you as a tactic to get in your pants' or 'The guy that's only being nice to get in your pants' or 'The guy that's only being x,y,z to get in your pants'. Godwin's Feminism, all arguments eventually lead to, men just wanting to fuck w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/25 02:48 PM |
| -3 | "Men are socialized to act like they need sex/see women as objects." That was literally the opposite of my upbringing. What was yours?I'm fine letting the statement stand as is, you're the one that has an issue with it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/25 09:21 AM |
| -6 | "Men are socialized to act like they need sex/see women as objects." That was literally the opposite of my upbringing. What was yours?I have absolutely no source. Do you have a source? And also why are you tying a women’s we Worth to motherhood Nope. You probably have some internalized misogyny if that's what you thought was being said. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/25 09:13 AM |
| -4 | "Men are socialized to act like they need sex/see women as objects." That was literally the opposite of my upbringing. What was yours?Do you have any sources contracting the claim? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/25 08:53 AM |
| -8 | "Men are socialized to act like they need sex/see women as objects." That was literally the opposite of my upbringing. What was yours?It's not. Modern discourse is based around extrapolation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/25 08:52 AM |
| -3 | "Men are socialized to act like they need sex/see women as objects." That was literally the opposite of my upbringing. What was yours?Do you have stats for that? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/25 08:51 AM |
| 74 | "Men are socialized to act like they need sex/see women as objects." That was literally the opposite of my upbringing. What was yours?The concept of the "Gentleman" has been around for over 400 years. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/25 08:44 AM |
| 4 | "Mankeeping" - does this sound like control and emotional abuse to anyone else?but it's still hard to shrug it off because it feels like the damage has already been done. That's part of the manipulation man. 'Learned hopelessness'. Even if you don't feel it, there's always potential to change, there's always potential to make progress. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/25 10:04 AM |
| 28 | Why do feminists say “misandry never kills” when that is untrue?My strategy lately is to give up on honest conversations. Step 1, if they bring up a stat, I retaliate with my own. Step 2, pretty much no matter what they say next, I'll just deconstruct it as much as possible, and push pro-male perspectives. If they want to talk about abusive men, I sit there talking about abused men, or men's sacrifices. If they argue about women's sacrifices, I acknowledge them, tell them it's not a comparison, and go back to talking about men's sacrifices. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/25 09:46 AM |
| 16 | You should boycott mens funerals in order to fight patriarchyI just want to double down on this point. Men get along SO FUCKING WELL when left alone, that soldiers in combat, during WW1 stopped fighting during Christmas and started giving each other gifts. Think about that. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/08/25 10:51 PM |
| 60 | You should boycott mens funerals in order to fight patriarchyThe problem with this kind of thinking is men get along when left alone. Absolutely, please do give men more opportunity to hang out with each other. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/08/25 12:55 PM |
| 20 | "Mankeeping" - does this sound like control and emotional abuse to anyone else?Thank you for this. I've been in these environments, and seen other men in the aswell. The slow erosion of your confidence. The feeling of walking on eggshells. Suddenly everything about you is offensive. Your jokes, your opinions, your hobbies, your style. There's actually a contradicting narrative from feminists. Okay, so the we've all heard of patriarchal theory. Have you heard of the girls being put in charge of boys, being told they're more emotionally mature, etc.. This is something I've s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/08/25 11:59 AM |
| 9 | Radical feminist complains that men only see women as holesWomen only think this way because they see everything men do for them as something they're inherently entitled to. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/08/25 09:31 PM |
| 15 | Misandrist woman makes shit generalizations about men and whines why she can't find a guy.I know people do it, but it seems insane to meet someone through reddit to me. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/08/25 04:07 PM |
| 23 | Misandrist woman makes shit generalizations about men and whines why she can't find a guy.Child free. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/08/25 04:07 PM |
| 0 | the philosophical work and pro male and pro transgender advocacy stuff i do is central to my life and it seems to be going nowhere and is increasingly seeming pointless and i need help.I honestly don't understand your reply man. You just disregarded everything I said to double down after asking for help and strategies. You seem to be using anger to avoid logical accountability to yourself. I hope you find your way, best of luck man. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/08/25 02:59 PM |
| 0 | the philosophical work and pro male and pro transgender advocacy stuff i do is central to my life and it seems to be going nowhere and is increasingly seeming pointless and i need help.Wishing you the best man ✌️ Be gentle with yourself. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/08/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | the philosophical work and pro male and pro transgender advocacy stuff i do is central to my life and it seems to be going nowhere and is increasingly seeming pointless and i need help.Are you setting realistic goals? I'm definitely not as formal as yourself, I'm mostly just focused on grassroots, but basically I try not to invest myself into individuals, or specifics. My perspective is more focused on what's being discussed on a societal level, basic issue awareness. Following that line of thought, I saw a anti male circumcision billboard on the highway today! 🙌 THAT'S the stuff that reaffirms me. It was 4-5 years ago when I first realized how oppressed men's issues where, wh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/08/25 03:59 AM |
| 6 | Biological women using misandry to dunk on trans-women.Keep in mind, if this study is a survey women are more likely to select politically correct answers. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/08/25 09:42 AM |
| 30 | "Average men" are dating out of their league with an average womanA shit ton of the things men supposedly depend on women for are things women push on men. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/07/25 03:37 PM |
| 9 | The pro male collective just got r/malesuffering banned!🙌🙌 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/07/25 04:46 AM |
| 11 | How the right is harming men. But the left is doing it tooOne huge problem is there's actually very little dating advice out there addressing men's experiences. It's an information black hole. In progressive spaces men talking about their dating experiences with women is pretty taboo, so you end up having edgy people pickup the topic. It doesn't matter how you feel about Tate if you don't have other options. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/25 12:22 AM |
| 9 | Responding to Uber's violations of men's rightsEh... People aren't exactly logical. You create an environment where people get to choose the gender of their driver, they're going to feel entitled to that, and they're going to feel victimized when their expectations aren't met. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/25 12:10 AM |
| 33 | By age four, I'd already learned to hide my feelingsThis is something I think about. One of the ways I was dampened is with double standards for my sister and I. Rules for me were always a hard stance, a firm line in the sand. Rules for my sister are variable to the circumstances. My dad still laughs at how my sister would bully me, and now that I'm older I can see how a lot of this is due to triangulation from my parents. What I see in my 30s is my mother will provoke conflict, and then set herself as the mediator. Sorry I definitely don't have … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/25 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Flawed study used to justify misandry (and people explicitly mentioning the study is flawed)My sister stayed at home when my mom had cancer. Not because my sister is deep, and caring, but because she's interdependent. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/07/25 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Feminist says the reason why men hold more wealth than women is b/c of patriarchal dominance but the reason why women outperform men in college is b/c "they are cleverer", disagrees that feminist ideology in universities is hostile towards men.I feel like he gave himself trauma trying to outreach his grasp. He could have taken his wins, and walked away, but he was pushing hard to be a cultural icon when he should have been making his own bed. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/07/25 02:52 PM |
| 41 | "Sometimes I dream about a society without men"In Canada 61% of abused men reported being treated as the abuser when they called police for help. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/25 01:09 PM |
| 116 | "Sometimes I dream about a society without men"Both Canada and the UK classify violence against men under violence against women and girls aswell. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/25 06:08 AM |
| 67 | Misandry isn't real..People... treating men like shit isn't anything new 🤣 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/07/25 09:16 PM |
| 20 | Another Example of It Actually Being the Other Way AroundMost women don't actually accept men for who they are, most men will actually accept a woman for who she is. That's the trope. Women that think they need to change themselves to be loved are projecting their attitudes towards men on themselves. Men that accept themselves unconditionally are projecting their attitudes towards women on themselves. As long as you aren't completely toxic, you can find a man that'll accept you for you, and even that's optional. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/07/25 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Misandrist just starts a bitch fest against menI completely agree with your perspective. Something I've personally been going through these last few years is confusing trauma dumping for emotional connection, and confusing emotional connections for deeper connections. Emotional intimacy can genuinely feel like a drug. That's something people don't talk about. Trauma dumping, and damseling yourself until you get affirmation, and taken care of is addicting as fuck. It's the McDonald's of emotional regulation. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 17 | Misandrist just starts a bitch fest against menIt's hilarious watching feminists argue that men are more emotional than women. It just makes it look like they think emotions are shameful. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 6 | The Same Psychologist Who Said That Rape Is Never Committed by WomenThank you for the upvotes! 🙌 Full disclosure, I stole this argument from misandrists 😂🤣 It's a super common tactic used against men all the time in relationship subreddits. You just criticize someone's grammar, and claim it's proof they're toxic. Super simple, and it allows you to look like you're taking the moral high ground without having to actually dispute what someone is saying. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/07/25 08:25 PM |
| 41 | Ironic misandrist takes to Reddit to announce how men are vile scumI know countless women that will drain their problems into me, but aren't invested in mine. I've personally been taking a break from dating, but that's my ultimate issue. I find it draining as fuck. And I'm going to be real, just knowing women on a personal level, having female friends... It broke me bit once I realized how women date multiple people, hide it, and then pin them against each other. And the whole fucking your fwb while not sleeping with a dude your pursuing? I get people have prac… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/07/25 03:24 PM |
| 44 | The Same Psychologist Who Said That Rape Is Never Committed by WomenIn LWMA were laughing because we couldn't come up with one movie that actually details the experiences of male victims. Not one. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/07/25 05:44 PM |
| 68 | The Same Psychologist Who Said That Rape Is Never Committed by WomenNotice the slight difference in ways she refers to men to dehumanize them? When she's talking about women, she uses the terminology "Women being raped". She talks about it in a way that emphasizes the damage to the person. But when she talks about men being raped, she doesn't use that same language, she doesn't use humanizing language. She just says "Male rape", and "male victims". | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/07/25 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Is there anything that makes you feel you have a male/masculine identity?That's fair | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/25 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Is there anything that makes you feel you have a male/masculine identity?Yeah. It’s between my legs. If you lost your dick would you stop identifying as a man? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/25 03:44 PM |
| 27 | Misandry Exposed: Reddit Study Reveals Intense Anti-Male HateThis makes me giddy 🥰 Sorry! It's just awesome to see things gaining traction. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/07/25 07:47 PM |
| 32 | These are the only types of men that existThis is a 'you're actually the problem' type thing. You're not happy if someone prioritizes emotions, you're not happy if someone doesn't prioritize emotions, you're not happy someone works on themselves because it's narcissistic, you're not happy if someone just sits at home, and watches porn. You're not even happy with progressive men, because you find their actions performative. You're just not happy. It's not the men. The truth is that there's good men everywhere, but what you want isn't a g… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/07/25 06:38 PM |
| 10 | What are some notable examples of male disposability?Man! There's so many layers. First, if you don't provide financially there's a lot of expectations that you'll provide more in some other way. Through romance, handy skills, intelligence, security, social status, adventure. The expectations are often put on men nondirectly. Like you'll be dating someone, and next thing you know they're telling you they can't afford their phone bill, or how they're having trouble with x, y, z. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/25 12:30 PM |
| 32 | 🤦♀️Yup! 🙌 Men these days just be out there raping and pillaging right? I can barely drive my car to work with all the raping and pillaging in the streets. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/07/25 10:10 PM |
| 57 | What are some notable examples of male disposability?Father's that work long hours are often chastised for not spending enough time with their families, but the impact on the fathers themselves is never really acknowledged. Similarly dad's suffer post partum depression at rates similar to mothers, and it's not ever talked about. I guess in these instances my focus is on the disposability of men's feelings. Domestic abuse rates are around 1 in 3 for men, but it doesn't get talked about. There's no awareness, there's no public campaigns. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/07/25 04:33 AM |
| 6 | Another “Women don’t hate men the way men hate women” PostThe women that hate men are straight up writing guides on how to exploit, manipulate, and degrade men in relationships. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 07:42 PM |
| 5 | I struck gold today (pinterest misandry 101)Gaslighting. Over a third of all men have been in abusive relationships with women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/07/25 09:52 PM |
| 23 | I'm writing a research essay on the lack of equality of opportunity for men in humanities; arts; and social sciences disciplines (higher education), and would love your suggestions/inputs/tips!I can't find them right now, but I've seen open letters from coalitions of women refusing to work with journals, because a researcher published a study that was female critical/ male sympathetic. Another factor keeping men out of social sciences is something I saw from my buddy going through youth justice. When he's doing vocational work what happens is the women opt-out of working with men, or violent clients, which is their right, but my buddy is left dealing with everything alone because of i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/07/25 02:10 PM |
| 8 | Now men are judged for how they spend their free timeI sew, I do wood work, I skydive, I paint, I program, I'm constantly learning about new things, I go to concerts, museums, parades. Men do plenty. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/07/25 09:03 PM |
| 53 | Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansAnd God forbid those men are coworkers, it might just become an HR issue. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/25 03:26 PM |
| 117 | Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansI don't see what's so complicated, men just need to learn to express themselves. Just not publically. And don't put it on your girlfriend, because that's making her responsible for your emotional labour. And don't put it on your female family members or friends for the same reason. Do it with other men. Quietly.. Somewhere else. But not tooo somewhere else. Because men need to be watched. Oh and here's a list of approved ways you're allowed to express yourself. Because every man is a potential m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/25 03:22 PM |
| 91 | Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansI spend a lot of time wondering what's going on when women just start talking over me when I'm talking about something important/meaningful to me. #NotAllWomen, it's just something I've noticed a lot that I'm trying to understand. Like my sister has been pushing me to open up and bond with her, for years. And man I love my sister so I'm trying, but literally anytime I talk for more than 15 seconds, she has a compelling need to cut me off so she can spend 10 hours talking about herself. I frequen… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/25 03:12 PM |
| 6 | AI's opinion on why men are falling behind and how to fix the lack of male unityWhat's interesting is this could spawn some cultural dimorphism between men, and women in STEM. If lack of social support means certain men are feeling discouraged from entering STEM then primarily the men you're going to get in STEM are those that don't value social support, you're creating an echo chamber which is contrasted by women in STEM who are given those supports. This is interesting. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/06/25 12:42 PM |
| 10 | AI's opinion on why men are falling behind and how to fix the lack of male unityI think it's referring to the statistical effect on men as a whole, not just the effect on passionate individuals. It's also seems to be talking about unconditional emotional support. So it's just talking about how men receive less social support for trying, and how that can be demotivating. This kind of pressure was there, and yet, it didn't discourage the people who were I to the stuff to get passionate about what they liked. What about people that haven't had a chance to develop that passion?… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/06/25 12:28 PM |
| 13 | Double standards and false narratives regarding male and female subs.I believe that men will have a greater freedom to publicly express their frustrations and share their negative experiences with women once the men rights advocacy gets greater traction. And that since to me it's in its infancy that we can't afford to help people who try to discredit it. I'm not waiting to express myself, and the audacity you have to think I should is astounding. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/25 02:53 PM |
| 27 | Male disposability is a human right, apparentlyIt's crazy to me that progressives don't recognize this as the reintegration of sexism into progressive culture. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/06/25 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Generalizations based on anecdotal experiencesPeople get into successful relationships all the time. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/06/25 09:02 AM |
| 25 | "I don't hate men, I hate the patriarchy" What are some things you think of when you hear this statement from feminist?I think it's counter productive. I think it erodes the concepts of individuality, and equality, and instead promotes stereotypes, and division. I also think in a roundabout way it just reinforces classic gender stereotypes. I also think it's a convenient way for people to deflect responsibility for their own ingrained sexism, to change focus from their own actions and beliefs, to "the system". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/25 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Never give up <3🤚 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/06/25 01:46 PM |
| 5 | OP gets stuck stuck in their own world and acts like it's the norm... everyone has flaws. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/06/25 01:41 PM |
| 178 | Kylie Brewer Has Discovered This Sub 😬I've been raped by a woman. I've been hit, I've been stolen from, I've been degraded, I've been emotional abused. I've had naked photos of me taken without my consent, and spread. Women rape, and men get raped all the time, but funny enough, when it's men getting raped, and women doing the raping, suddenly the issue isn't a priority for feminists. Suddenly it's wrong to stand up for victims. Suddenly it's wrong to call out predators. Suddenly I'm expected NOT to talk about being raped. Why?! Bec… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/06/25 05:28 PM |
| 32 | As a male survivor of child/early adulthood abuse, I'm supposed to just pretend that there isn't a huge, sexist discrepancy in services for males vs femalesOne thing that really pisses me off is male victimhood gets presented as being underrepresented because men don't want to talk and open up, when the truth is men open up all the time, people just don't want to listen. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 12:02 PM |
| 90 | Why is it that whenever men try to open up about serious issues mental health, loneliness, systemic struggles the conversation always gets hijacked or derailed with blame, deflection, or “women have it worse”? Where are the spaces for honest, empathetic discussion?Any, and all mens issues get labelled as red pill/ incel rhetoric. Any, and all support for men gets labelled as red pill/ incel rhetoric. There was a study posted last week about men stuffing from heart failure due to emotional loss. All the top comments were these anti-incel comments about how women don't owe men relationships. The study didn't say anything about women owing men relationships. It wasn't demeaning to women in any sort of way. People just jump to the worst possible conclusions. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 11:50 AM |
| 50 | These can be found all over the UK right now.Shit like this is going to backfire soooooo hard. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/05/25 07:01 PM |
| 23 | Anyone else get pissed when people say "the bar is low for fathers" because of how BS it is?There's a phenomenon I haven't seen talked about. I'm not sure how to describe it, but basically... The concept of men aging out of anger. Someone who when they were a younger father, they were loud, and aggressive, but decades later, all that anger is gone. What changed? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/05/25 05:03 AM |
| 46 | Idk how to feel about gender AbolitionI feel like in the past 5-10 years I've seen a massive social activist swing into extremism, and polarization. It's eroded the foundations of ideals in regards to personal liberties. It sucks. I grew up being taught the point of breaking down gender norms is to afford people greater personal liberty, to defend people's autonomy, people's right to make their own choices. If we're going to start oppressing people's rights to make their own choices due to a perceived indirect harm to some collectiv… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/05/25 04:17 AM |
| 9 | Ableism, ADHD and 'weaponised incompetence'I feel you man. I've been in that spot of constantly failing to meet expectations, and just knowing how hard it is, I find the posts around these topics genuinely cruel. There's this... vindictive quality that often comes out of them. Where the adhd man's failings get blamed on laziness, or lack of motivation, and you end up with all these people talking about how the dude should be punished. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/05/25 07:28 AM |
| 20 | Have you noticed how every "Living with ADHD" article is based on a woman?75%+ of psychologists, sociologists, and social workers are women. 80%+ of Gender studies academics are women. I'd image that having more women in professions related to mental health both indirectly, and directly leads to women's issues getting more exposure. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/05/25 06:14 AM |
| 29 | New Orleans commission orders rehiring of fired city council clerk after finding her alleged sexual harassment didn’t harm productivityhttps://council.nola.gov/news/april-2025/new-orleans-city-councilmembers-release-statement/ Found a better source. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/25 01:44 PM |
| 11 | New Orleans commission orders rehiring of fired city council clerk after finding her alleged sexual harassment didn’t harm productivityI have to point out that the nypost isn't a creditable source of information. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/25 01:41 PM |
| 14 | New Orleans commission orders rehiring of fired city council clerk after finding her alleged sexual harassment didn’t harm productivity"It's just different" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/25 01:33 PM |
| 19 | This sub pretends to care about men but is just a feminist subWhen I was sorting through my head after being raped I was recommend rBropill as a liberal men's support group. Holy fuck was it a traumatizing experience. Like I just needed a space to talk about being a man abused by women, and instead I was surrounded with people talking about how men can better help women. It's very much a (how can we fix men) type sub. rLeftWingMaleAdvocates is muuch better im terms of actually being a sub directed at supporting men's issues. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/04/25 08:32 AM |
| 13 | [UK] Government launches call for evidence on men’s health; Young men must be taught it’s OK to feel and to ask for help, Wes Streeting saysAnother addon 😂😅 First I just want to clarify, I don't think my experiences are universal. Which is the point really. Modern gender discussions have lost the plot, and we've started creating a new generation of stereotypes to hold people to. Anyways. Working in a conservative blue collar warehouse I've seen tons of emotional sensitivity, and respect. One dude was leaving so we threw him a party, he teared up at the end, and guess what? No one gave him shit, no one shamed him, no one talked behin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/25 03:00 PM |
| 12 | [UK] Government launches call for evidence on men’s health; Young men must be taught it’s OK to feel and to ask for help, Wes Streeting saysAnd sorry, just to connect back to my original point (this is something I've been thinking a lot about). After my last breakup I was heart broken, heart fucking broken. Distraught. I took it hard. I missed them like fucking hell. It was really hard to lose them from my life. If I had been emotionally vulnerable during our breakup. If I had expressed my emotions freely... I'd have been a psycho. I'd have been spewing all of my raw hurt feelings all over a person I care about. I'd be intimidating.… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/25 02:30 PM |
| 31 | [UK] Government launches call for evidence on men’s health; Young men must be taught it’s OK to feel and to ask for help, Wes Streeting saysI hate.... That it's always men being blamed for "surpressing their emotions". If I'm going through shit... In my experience, men in general will give me space, and let me sort through my emotions. In my experience, it's typically women picking, and prying at me, pressuring me when I'm going through something, constantly asking me "You're okay right?", "Just tell me we're okay?". And not just romantic relationships. My family, my friends, my coworkers, my bosses. I have a supervisor right now th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/25 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Men can't say anything about their wives. Bunch of misandrists pile in to say how awful men areIt's possible for both people to be over leveraged, and unsatisfied in a relationship. Personal relationships aren't a game of tug, and war where one side wins. Both people can be sacrificing, and unfulfilled. Relationships are fucking hard. One thing I just want to address. I've been in relationships where I constantly complain about my partner, and ones where I constantly gush. For me personally, if I'm constantly complaining about my relationship, it's probably because I feel like I'm giving … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/04/25 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Sick of seeing these posts everywhere nowadays"Why isn't anyone talking about this?" (Proceeds to reference a massively popular movie based entirely around the topic) | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/04/25 09:24 PM |
| 0 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.To insult dudes for being emotional? The crazy thing I just checked your post history, and you straight up have a post about how you're out of touch with your own emotions. Yet here you are... dismissing another man telling him he's emotional and ranting. In what way are you left wing? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/25 05:38 PM |
| 0 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.Why did you go to a left wing men's activism forum just to call men emotional? Can you answer that? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.I'd say if you're going around calling men emotional on a men's social activism subreddit that really says all anyone needs to know. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.If it could be the basis of a legal code that had more utility than our current sex based definition. To reiterate, hypothetically we have a study that shows trans women are women, but you'd be opposed to recognizing that unless it could be the basis of a legal code that has more utility than our current sex based definition? Aswell you'd be opposed unless we also protect the rights and beliefs of others? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/25 04:29 AM |
| 3 | I am I right about men getting mixed signals about approaching women here?What you're describing is a motte, and bailey fallacy. The Motte and bailey fallacy is a strategy where someone switches between a modest, easy-to-defend position (the "motte") and a more controversial, harder-to-defend position (the "bailey"), creating the illusion of a consistent argument. I completely agree with you. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/04/25 04:10 AM |
| 0 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.It’s the most compelling evidence but it’s far from conclusive and may correlate more closely with homosexuality than whatever trans is there are several distinct presentations. By the way you're talking, are you open to the possibility that transexuality is a real thing? Like tomorrow if there was a conclusive study proving trans women are women, you'd change your point of view? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/25 12:18 AM |
| 4 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.Sorry, but EVERYONE has moral authority. Everyone has moral authority to judge anyone else however they please. Trans people do have the right to go around judging whoever they want for their moral failings, same as anyone else. Trans people can call you fascist for oppressing their rights. It's a free country. Here's the thing though. The vast majority of people calling you fascist, and transphobe, and whatever for your opinions aren't trans people. Trans people represent less than a percent of… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.Gender culture isn't that black, and white. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/25 12:00 AM |
| 5 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.Honestly mate, you aren’t doing much to advance your viewpoint here Let's be real, you didn't come here to hear opposing viewpoints, you came to be dismissive. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/25 11:57 PM |
| 12 | What a horrible court decision has been released in the UK today.You are clearly having a little bit of an emotional rant though It says a lot about feminists that they use emotions as a reason to be dismissive of men. Like God forbid a dude actually has real feelings around social activism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/25 11:51 PM |
| 22 | Female on male hate is justified1 in 3 men have been victims of domestic abuse. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/04/25 12:51 PM |
| 6 | The reason why I think pro-male ideologies failRed pill actually seems to be going pretty strong. What do you mean by fail? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/04/25 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Why are there people advocating for the rise of women/girls in STEM, Business or higher paying courses but no one advocating for the rise of men/boys in female-dominated careers such as teachng?sociology, and psychology are 75%+ women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/04/25 04:33 PM |
| 21 | Can Richard Reeves make a change?I was debating this on one of the psychology subs a bit ago. The argument that worked for me and started getting me upvoted was pointing out that if women are simply better caregivers, if they're simply more sympathic, more empathic, and more loving, if men not pursuing HEAL industries isn't an issue of systemic forces and socialization, that only reinforces women's gender roles. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/03/25 11:39 PM |
| 11 | I don't see how Mensrights is a harmful subreddit and I feel like it's been completely misrepresented and gotten a horrible reputation that it doesn't deserveThe point is to shift the conversation from men's issues back onto feminism/misandry. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/03/25 02:34 AM |
| 14 | Something we can actually do: fix lonelinessSo I disagree with your perspectives towards social activism, and think grassroots is pretty vital to confronting, and stigmatizing misandry aswell as raising awareness of men's issues aswell as providing public recognition and emotional supporters to men. That said I think this is a great idea. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/03/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | A person talked about the challenges facing men in China. These are the comments he got.Because the goal isn't to be fair, the goal is to win. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/03/25 07:16 AM |
| 3 | A person talked about the challenges facing men in China. These are the comments he got.How can women be oppressed by men when women literally give birth to men? Checkmate feminists 😎 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/03/25 07:13 AM |
| 0 | Let’s Apply This to Minority GroupsAlso I'm just going to toss this out there, social activism doesn't pay. It doesn't matter if you're fighting misogyny, or misandry. Social activism isn't going to make you popular, it isn't going to make people like you. Social activists are generally going against the grain. That's the point. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/03/25 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Let’s Apply This to Minority GroupsNah, it's the creeps that need to overcompensate with this crap. Logically speaking, if someone isn't willing to confront stereotypes, they're not going to be out there confronting actual abusive people. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/03/25 06:38 AM |
| 2 | "Teaching men that the core of their identity is inherently flawed isn’t productive." | The “Toxic Masculinity” Lie: How Colleges Are Waging War on MenYep... Patriarchal theory as a foundation for egalitarian social activism never logically made sense to me. If we live in a patriarchy. If that's the social hierarchy of our culture. Men are in control. If we create an environment where it's men vs women, men ultimately win. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | "Teaching men that the core of their identity is inherently flawed isn’t productive." | The “Toxic Masculinity” Lie: How Colleges Are Waging War on MenI've had mutual friends come out defending a guy after I called him out for degrading his girlfriend. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/25 09:55 PM |
| 11 | My "the convenience of not all men " theory is proven in these screenshots.I saw someone ranting yesterday that not supporting safe injection sites in your neighbourhood is equal to white supremacy. That it makes you no different than the kkk. I don't know where I'm going with this comment lol! 🙌 I guess I feel like we're slowly losing the concept of individuality, and personal boundaries these days. Like if there's literally no difference between someone actively lynching someone vs say, being concerned about vagrancy in their community.... The implications on ethics,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/25 01:53 PM |
| 14 | My "the convenience of not all men " theory is proven in these screenshots.It's hilarious. Working at a Conservative corporation where people spent all their time talking about hunting, and cracking racist jokes at each other, but when women from the office came down you were told to be on good behaviour. The parallels of chauvinism are ironic as fuck. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/25 01:43 PM |
| 35 | My "the convenience of not all men " theory is proven in these screenshots.Feminists revision of history is such bullshit. Have you heard about how programming use to be female dominated, but men 'stole' the industry when it started tech started to become viable? Not even true. If you go back, and look at rosters men have pretty much always dominated programming by 75%+ | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/25 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Anyone know the actual figures for the claims made in this image? It cites no sources.Why would it need to be fought? (Still playing devils advocate. These are just holes I see in patriarchal perspectives). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/25 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Anyone know the actual figures for the claims made in this image? It cites no sources.Howso? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone know the actual figures for the claims made in this image? It cites no sources.The current wave of feminism is what argues men are responsible for society. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Anyone know the actual figures for the claims made in this image? It cites no sources.Devils advocate: Okay but from what I'm told we live in a patriarchy, and men have effectively created society. Why would women get a full cut? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/25 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Feminism for the 99%From a Marxist perspective, we basically just using feminism as a gateway drug to Marxism. Nancy Fraser admitting in his other book: Cannibal Capitalism that we can’t have gender equality under capitalism, because capitalism cannot function without exploiting people. You are forced to sell your time. We are not free. Marxist societies presumably still need workers do they not? Also I'm curious, do you believe that tribalism is exclusive to capitalist societies? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/25 05:09 AM |
| 5 | Feminism for the 99%Honestly... like ... next to none of my grievances towards feminism are based around economic gain. My main concern is mainly around how social progressivism has neglected men's side of social issues, and how feminists reinforce sexist perspectives regarding victimization, and oppression. I actually think your post is frankly... lacking critical thought. The proposition that modern feminism is more concerned about cracking the glass ceiling for a few privileged women rather than addressing the c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/25 04:54 AM |
| 37 | Posted these "jokes" on a major sub and most of the comments were defending them 🤦♂️The problem with doing this shit to "show men how it feels" is you're eroding your own moral foundation. You can't pragmatically argue with me that it's wrong for men to make these comments if women are doing the same thing. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/03/25 07:06 PM |
| 7 | Cringe pick me type found on Qoura. Absolute "I hope she sees this bro" moment... Being uncomfortable is a part of life. I've seen women ostracize a dude because he seemed "too nice". That's it. The dude has been around 10 years, has never over stepped a boundary, has never done shit but be nice to people. I saw a woman start fucking with a dude, because she was poly, and he didn't understand what that meant. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/03/25 06:27 PM |
| 11 | I ask why the left goes out of its way to (basically) act aggressive towards white people and men, this happens… dumbassesHere's the thing.... I'm Nonbinary, and a lifelong progressive/ social activist. This has nothing to do with educating people anymore than I'd be "educating people" by walking up to a random black person, and explaining to them the issues with gang violence. Because, as you guessed it, assuming someone's culture, life experience, and values based on something like skin colour is racist as fuck. LITERALLY I have people telling me I'm toxicly masculine when I'm nonbinary I fucking paint my nails, … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/03/25 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointYou don't see how what you're doing is discussing gender politics? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 06:34 PM |
| 8 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointAbsolutely man, your ego is more important then basic integrity. You're on a men's forum.. Telling people they shouldn't advocate for men's issues online. And you don't see the contradiction there? I get I'm being a dick, but you're here pissing on people's social activism with nonsense hypocrisy, and then just bailing out. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 06:16 PM |
| 6 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointI'm going to say something polarizing as fuck. Why don't you man up, and take accountability for your words, and show some integrity, and admit you're wrong. Like seriously. Have some fucking self accountability. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointThe big thing too is Andrew Tate, and incel culture is already wide spread. Those are already the associations with Male Advocacy. That train has already left the station. We need grass roots, so we can spread progressive perspectives on men's issues, so that all the progressive men across the world can start confronting regressive perspectives. People aren't even aware there's a real issue. People need to be woke. What happens after that is a different step, but we regardless, we need a basis o… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 05:44 PM |
| 13 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointMan according to this post in your profile here you don't even spend much time with your kids. Nothing you're saying is even adding up. You're just getting upset seeing other people take action while you do nothing, but complain about other people taking action. And fuck, were online right now, that's where this discussion is taking place. So by your own logic you shouldn't even be posting. Care to be honest, and tell me what your actual deal is? Because nothing you're saying adds up. Are you pr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 04:49 PM |
| 12 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointYou seem hyper defeatest. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 04:44 PM |
| 12 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointYou, and I honestly are operating on completely different levels. I'm going to sit back, and keep pushing grass roots, you let me know once you've written guideline for appropriate gender politics that you can convince the majority of people to follow without any sort of grounding. I'll keep working on the grass, you have fun with your sandcastle over there. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 04:40 PM |
| 40 | Mantalks posts about the rise of misandry - tantrum in the comments proves the pointDude we need grass roots. We need far reaching awareness. Not using the internet to achieve those goals makes no sense. It seems male advocacy is just starting to gain real traction, and suddenly I'm seeing all these comments telling people to stop discussing Men's issues? and to go do it... some where else.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Is this sub a fan of the Good Men Project?Seems like a weird point of contrition to refuse to admit a professor of psychology can't be more than inadvertently helpful. You absolutely don't have to invest your time into anything you don't feel, you aren't obligated as a person, but I can still challenge your rational. That's how critical thinking works. You want to boil it down to "I don't like JP" as if you're a child being told to eat broccoli, that's your choice. I don't see how I'm wrong for challenging you though. Especially when yo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/25 03:37 PM |
| -1 | Is this sub a fan of the Good Men Project?I was appealing to your rationality, not your stock portfolio, but you know what? I can see that was a waste of my time, have a good night. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/25 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Is this sub a fan of the Good Men Project?Man if it wasn't for that one controversial bill the dude would still be teaching future psychologists. How do you rectify that in your head? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/25 06:33 AM |
| 6 | Is this sub a fan of the Good Men Project?JP was a fucking professor of psychology at a fucking top university. You don't think he has actual positives? You don't think anything he fucking says has value? You think he only inadvertently helps people?!! You're just blind because he also says shit you don't like. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/25 12:02 AM |
| 15 | Is this sub a fan of the Good Men Project?I'm going to toss this out there. First I completely agree with your perceptions about JP, but for a brief brief time after a string of abusive relationships, when I was nothing but a complete mess of anxious thoughts, crap like JP, MBTI, and enneagram shit helped me reground to my indentity, and values, and gave me a starting point to start building myself back up. And I've literally watched a coworker go from a deadbeat with no direction working in a shitty warehouse to fucking getting his GED… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | It's funny how most Feminists view all men for women issues, because men created the Patriarchy. But won't use this same logic for all the benefits men created for women though.Because that's a basic fucking human interaction. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/25 06:38 AM |
| 15 | If Wendy Williams was a man, she would've been cancelled a long time agoThe entire culture around relationship advice is toxic and manipulative as fuck. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/02/25 07:45 PM |
| 4 | "I don't hate men, but I'm going to hate all over men"It's fucked what happened, like completely fucked. But why the fuck are you trying to one up a literal gangster.... Like fucking seriously. I had just parked and was walking to my hotel when a dude confronted me and asked me what the fuck my problem was. Did I challenge him to a fucking rap battle as a response? Fuck no. I said "nothing", put my head down, and minded my own fucking business. Life isn't a fucking game. There's are dangerous people all fucking over, and all it takes is two seconds… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/02/25 10:43 PM |
| 11 | Any shows or movies about a man trapped in a toxic relationship?I would agree that's probably the most mainstream sociological perspective at the moment. It's just sooo fucking one dimensional though. Because yeah, she can conceptualize her experience that way, but I'm aware enough to know that people exist on a spectrum, and that even though she discovered her identity as a woman, other people in other situations still exist, and someone else could just as easily be in that situation as a man. I think Patriarchal realism provides a form of detachment though… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Any shows or movies about a man trapped in a toxic relationship?Hahah! 100% One thing I think about when the concept of toxic masculinity comes up is how easily emotional vulnerability can turn into abusiveness. Like if you've ever watched an abuser manipulate someone, it's ALL about emotions. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 07:01 PM |
| 8 | Any shows or movies about a man trapped in a toxic relationship?This is actually a perfect question for chatGPT. Here's the response I grabbed (Obviously take don't take it to the grain of salt): "That’s a great question, and it’s surprisingly difficult to find an exact equivalent. The trope of men suffering in toxic relationships is often played for comedy or action-driven conflict rather than given the kind of serious, introspective, and structurally inventive treatment that Kevin Can F** Himself* offers for its female protagonist. However, here are a few … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 06:45 PM |
| 17 | Any shows or movies about a man trapped in a toxic relationship?Oh fuck! I did not realize that! Shit! That is really sad. I think it just goes to show how external validation can corrupt our values. Fuck. I wonder how she conceptualizes the changes in her perspective internally. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 06:40 PM |
| 13 | Any shows or movies about a man trapped in a toxic relationship?This isn't at all what you were asking for, but is tangently related. https://youtu.be/AeGEv0YVLtw It's a guy talking about domestic abuse, but the guy is a theatre major, and the whole video is an art piece. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 06:22 PM |
| 5 | JD Vance: "Don't allow this broken culture to send you a message that you're a bad person because you're a man"This seems like really black and white thinking when life is grey. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | British radical feminist author, psychologist, and campaigner. Have I stumbled upon a different planet?At my core I'm an egalitarian, and my ideal is an egalitarian perspective on issues, but I think egalitarianism can have a hard time representing, and addressing more nuanced, hidden issues that aren't necessarily black, and white. My solution to this would be to have more individualized perspectives, but this can lead to neglect of larger societal issues. It's weird for me to be sitting here arguing with you, because I actually completely agree on principle as an egalitarian, but from the persp… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/02/25 04:42 AM |
| 1 | British radical feminist author, psychologist, and campaigner. Have I stumbled upon a different planet?Complexity increases exponentially with more variables is a big factor. Resources are limited, you have to decide where to invest energy, and capital, which means something at some point needs to give. The result is you end up with overly simplistic explanations for complex situations, i.e. everything is a result of patriarchy, toxic masculinity, and misogyny. Patriarchal theory IS feminism trying to be representative while also prioritizing it's own goals. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/02/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | British radical feminist author, psychologist, and campaigner. Have I stumbled upon a different planet?You're approaching this from a purely logical perspective, the problem being, people are irrational, and petty. The concept of patriarchy often becomes a bias where people infer problems are men's responsibility as "the patriarchy". And you might respond, that's not truly how patriarchal theory works, but my response is that's how human bias works. If you go around telling everyone the world is controlled by men, and all of societies problems are created by men, people are going to internalize t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | British radical feminist author, psychologist, and campaigner. Have I stumbled upon a different planet?Personally I think feminism trying to be all encompassing is a huge part of it's problem. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/25 11:18 PM |
| 20 | Women groping women is men’s fault.I was skydiving this one time, and there's 4 of us on the plane, and you cram yourself in there. There's this woman infront of me sitting between my legs while we gain altitude. My female friend sitting side me just starts touching the woman's hair infront of me, poking it into the back of her helmet. I remember just joking "That's not me!", "No touching! No touching!". Everyone just started laughing, but seriously... What if I didn't say anything? What if this woman thought I was just some cree… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/02/25 09:39 PM |
| 54 | New study falsely claims people only allow bodily autonomy for men. What are your thoughts?This study in and of itself is a study about the moralizing of women's bodies 🤣 I'm not sure how you'd account for the feedback loop of gender studies. Because the fact of the matter is gender studies is dominated by women's point of views, so yeah... You end up with more studies discussing the ethics surrounding women's issues. The confusion here is that a deeper discussion of women's issues is somehow demeaning, rather than evidence of gender study privilege. Just a heads up to anyone that isn… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/02/25 07:01 AM |
| 6 | So being a victim of CSA makes me an instant "creepy man"It's a debate tactic. It shifts the conversation from whatever was being talked back to the victimization of women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/02/25 06:48 AM |
| 31 | So being a victim of CSA makes me an instant "creepy man"Hey I just want to say man, people like this are completely deluded. You are totally worthy of love, and attention. I'm a weird ass mother fucker, that grew up online in the 90s, which anxiety, and depression, and women still want to be around me. Feminists just have these creepy power fantasies that anyone that disagrees with them will be socially ostracized. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/02/25 10:03 PM |
| 33 | We know which sub this is, don't we? Also false dichotomy fallacyLet's be real, women that want to generalize domestic abuse as a male problem are telling on themselves. A good woman wouldn't be threatened by a conversation about violent women. They'd actually want that shit addressed. Because check this out... Good women... Have men in their lives that they love. They have brothers, and sons, and fathers, and uncles, and friends, and coworkers that they care about. Good women don't downplay male victimization. They take it seriously. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/02/25 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Women being controlling and blaming men by calling it "porn addiction"Man! I'm going to be real I couldn't get past the first sentence. If you've only been with someone a year, and you're describing it as "a rough year"... Obviously they don't make happy. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/02/25 07:51 AM |
| 14 | I found this disgusting discussion on Twitter.Those numbers are bogus. Victimization of men doesn't get studied at all at the rate victimization of women does. So yeah... When 88% of gender studies majors are women, and 75%+ of sociologists, and 75%+ of psychologists.. Men slip through the cracks. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/02/25 11:21 PM |
| 2 | It's funny how most Feminists view all men for women issues, because men created the Patriarchy. But won't use this same logic for all the benefits men created for women though.I've had this done to me. I had multiple women come to me talking about a dude harassing a girl, but no one wanted to confront the situation. Eventually I exploded on the guy. I didn't do anything physically, but he disappeared after that. Later I found out the girl being harassed was fucking with the dude's head. He was MTF and she spent months flirting with him, sending him pictures of her in lingerie, and shit, just to later tell him she's not into trans guys. And 100% she doesn't owe him any… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/02/25 05:09 PM |
| 20 | Not my post - AITA for answering honestly when my gf asked me if she should get an abortion.I use to be one of those dudes that was all "Whatever you think is best", "Her body her choice", "I don't get an opinion". Fuck. That. Shit. Ultimately it's her body, ultimately it's her choice, but the man should get to have an opinion, the man should be able to express his feelings about the situation. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/02/25 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Men in America, how's your social life going?Canadian here. I have two social groups, but I've started to distance myself because honestly no one could give a real fuck about me. I just drain myself listening to everyone. The really frustrating part is when I give up, and start putting up boundaries then people start caring. Stupid fucking shit. Getting raped is when I learned the stark fucking reality. No one cares. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/02/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Can we return the sub to leftist male advocacy?Is it possible for political philosophy to not be conceptual? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | I talked to the DEI officers at work about men's issues - Part 2https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/cj-jp/victim/rd14-rr14/p4.html That's the government of Canada's resource on abused men. If you do a search for the 64% figure it'll pop right up. There's tooons of great information on there, one bit being that the lack of social resources available to victimized men is actually traumatizing in itself. Man! I have sooo many points of argument! 🙌 I appreciate that you're out there doing the work! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | I talked to the DEI officers at work about men's issues - Part 2Just a heads up, I'm the Nonbinary person this dude is referring to. I get how dei works, and have explained my ethical issues with it. He just doesn't like my answers, and instead has developed this rational where he thinks I hate dei because I'm white, while simultaneously he thinks I don't support it because I don't understand the benefits I'd recieve as a Nonbinary person. However, I've told the dude I think these issues are better dealt with through civil and labour rights with egalitarian … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I talked to the DEI officers at work about men's issues - Part 2So much of what you say is relevant. I've dealt with other nonbinary people on this sub who have racial hangups about dei/aa policies while they miss all the ways those policies will provide protection for their nonbinary status. I agree that focusing on men's issues and leaving race out of it is the smarter plan. Oh hey that's me you're talking about! You sat there, and told me over, and over the only reason I'm against DEI is because I'm white, and when I pointed out that I'm nonbinary, your o… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | I talked to the DEI officers at work about men's issues - Part 2My two biggest stats are that 1 in 3 men face domestic abuse, and 64% of male victims of domestic violence report being treated as the abusers by police. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | A male student was accused of sexual harassment. Ventura College failed to provide him proper notice of the allegations so he could prepare a defense. The Department of Education investigated, found the College at fault, and just recently released its findings.Fuck man that's horrible. I'm sorry you had to deal with that shit. It's interesting because people will criticize religious institutions for doing tribunals like this, but okay for colleges to be running fucking faux courts on sexual assault? How is that at all okay? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 03:12 PM |
| 12 | It's funny how most Feminists view all men for women issues, because men created the Patriarchy. But won't use this same logic for all the benefits men created for women though.I think this is going to be one of the strongest arguments to pick apart feminist sexism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 02:53 PM |
| 8 | It's funny how most Feminists view all men for women issues, because men created the Patriarchy. But won't use this same logic for all the benefits men created for women though.Maybe we need affirmative action? I personally think women should have the same criminal opportunities as any man. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Can we return the sub to leftist male advocacy?An Ancom? 😂 Fuuuuck 🤣 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Can we return the sub to leftist male advocacy?Yikes..... Once again it's proven true, all the rad lefts can do is deflect. Did you know Marxism is already a disproven theory? That his predictions for the course of society were just wrong? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 04:50 AM |
| 26 | Can we return the sub to leftist male advocacy?I presume you believe in class bias though. Anyways, do you consider men the enemies of women? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 04:41 AM |
| 23 | Can we return the sub to leftist male advocacy?Except I actually support governance beyond the bare minimum, believe in social welfare, public resources, etc... Libertarians literally think I'm a Marxist. I have no idea what economic choice is. The ability to make my own choices on how to spend the capital of my own labour. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 04:39 AM |
| 15 | Can we return the sub to leftist male advocacy?What if I believe in decentralized power? What if I believe groups of humans are inherently corrupt? What if I believe in economic choice? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 04:27 AM |
| 48 | Can we return the sub to leftist male advocacy?DUDE! 🙌 Patriarchal theory is the DOMINANT Sociological theory. My friend is taking youth justice, and patriarchal theory literally the world view he's being taught. I seriously think you need to check your own biases right now. It's not the 1800s, 75% of sociologists are women, and 88% of sociologists doing gender studies are women. On top of that 75%+ of social workers are women, 75%+ of educators are women.... Women dominate the fuck out of our social fields, and you think it's wrong for men … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/25 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Social media is NOT activism.Man! I could not actually disagree with you more. I started debating men's rights about 4-5 years ago on Reddit, and the climate has changed drastically in that time. I use to just get dog piled and banned anytime I'd defend men. That eventually turned into feminists mocking people for saying 'NotAllMen', and now we're shifting into a spot where men's issues seems to be starting to take hold, and you can actually get community support sometimes. That's massive progress. We're actually able to st… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/25 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightSorry? That's a different post. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightAre you saying you never said that? Show me where in this comment chain I did. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/25 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightThey should. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/25 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Eating disorders in men are not taken seriouslyFeels like a good time to remind people that gender studies is 88% dominated by women, that psychology, sociology, health, and social work are all also 75%+ dominated by women. So when men's mental health issues aren't being addressed it's NOT "because of patriarchy". I don't feel like looking up the exact numbers, maybe someone can link them, but 85% of men that committed suicide sought help from social support resources. 65% of men that committed suicide sought support from mental health resou… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/25 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightYou can't think of any reason why people would downvote a Nonbinary person talking about being harassed? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightWow! 🙌 The mods really did nothing! That's ominous! 😂 Eh! Can't say I didn't try the official channels. Dude you can't even accurately describe my position, and reduced it down to "Hey! You both disagree with racial stuff" Please show me exactly where in this comment thread I said this, and I'll revoke my claims of harassment. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightAssuming what's people on this sub? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/25 04:13 AM |
| -7 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightSorry, but disagreeing with you is not an invitation for you to follow me around the site. That's harassment. -edit- Thank you to all of the left wing advocates that apparently think it's wrong for me to feel harassed when a member is following me around, attacking my gender trying to bait me into arguments. 👍 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/25 05:39 PM |
| -3 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightI'd appreciate it if you didn't stalk my comments. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/25 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunaticI actually expect you to explain yourself, yeah. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/25 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic.... first I just need to point out that a screen cap of a twitter comment. They have the same racial based hangups with DEI/AA as you do. Who is they? And where exactly does it say we have the same hangups? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunaticHow so? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/25 05:16 PM |
| 10 | Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far rightDammit... I just lost my comment 🤣 So this is going to be blunt now 😝 First is just that I think what you're going through is a natural part of deconstructing your internalized biases towards men, which includes talking about it with others. Second was a podcast on the topic of free expression and totalitarianism by some writers/professors that I think could be relevant/helpful. 'Wierd Studies - Episode 169: On Free Expression' Third is that I'm nonbinary, and in my opinion, the entire point of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/25 05:15 PM |
| 27 | Why doesn't this exist for men too? Perhaps because women fought tooth and nail to eliminate men's only spaces as being sexist...Yepp.. Did you hear last year 30 feminists organizations in Spain protested the formation of a battered men's group? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/02/25 08:24 AM |
| 45 | Why doesn't this exist for men too? Perhaps because women fought tooth and nail to eliminate men's only spaces as being sexist...The woman that started the first shelter for women tried to do the same for men, but lost all her support and started receiving death threats from feminists. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/02/25 12:48 AM |
| 32 | Conformity, masculinity and resentmentIt's weird as fucking having grown up in the 90s, and being taught gender roles are oppressive, gender roles are oppressive, gender roles are oppressive, just to see where we've landed in the 2020s. Like holy fuck. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/02/25 12:34 AM |
| 33 | Femcel uses crime stats to invalidate the mental health of men. Honestly gives off 13% make up 50% vibesIf you go back to the 90s before women took over sociology, and gender studies there was tons of data showing equal victimization across genders. Something like 70% of college aged men reported being pressured into sex by their partners. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/02/25 12:53 PM |
| 12 | References Examining Men as Victims of Sexual Coercion/AggressionCrazy how when women started to dominate gender studies, all the studies about male victimization just.... stopped. Thank you for putting in the work to assemble this all! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/25 03:05 PM |
| 2 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?Boundaries are a dog whistle now? lmao | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?"If you can convince the most self-righteous progressive that discrimination is virtuous when done in the name of justice, they won’t notice when their own principles are being betrayed. Hell, give them a cause that lets them feel morally superior, and they’ll excuse any prejudice you ask of them." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/25 02:33 PM |
| 8 | Censorship and moderation on misogyny vs MisandrySociology is 75% women. Gender studies is 88% women. The reason everything gets declared misogyny is because it's women doing the declaring. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/02/25 11:58 AM |
| 11 | Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunaticIs saying "Those two statements together don't look great." a threat to you? I think the implication of your statement that I might be interpreted badly if I don't explain myself is a bit of a threat, yes. You still refuse to say why you're against AA. Are you that afraid to stand on your principle you refuse to state them out in the open? I'm afraid that we live in a time where words are so casually manipulated, that people are so easily misled, that you could steal from your own mother, get ca… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/25 03:35 PM |
| 24 | Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunaticThis is the problem with empty threats. Two comments ago you were warning me about what might happen if people read inbetween the lines of my statements. So do it then. Show me what you got. Because the truth is you're the one pushing racist policy not me buddy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/25 03:06 PM |
| 19 | Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunaticI'm actually curious what implications you're drawing based on my statements. Let's hear it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/25 02:41 PM |
| 24 | Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunaticWhy am I against racial based hiring practices? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/25 02:32 PM |
| 21 | Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunaticLast time I told a dude I was against affirmative action his response was "You only think that because you're white". Sooo... I'm personally not worried 😂 And this is the problem with fear mongering and alienation. There's only so low you can realistically go. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/25 02:19 PM |
| 2 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?I already have common ground. We're all human. Getting people to see that though? All I can do is talk to people, call out bullshit, and set my boundaries. But I realistically don't have a ton of faith, just from where I've seen people's heads at already... I think we're fucked. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 13 | “Stealthing is only rape when it’s done to women.”So it's only rape if someone gets pregnant? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/01/25 06:17 PM |
| 7 | “Stealthing is only rape when it’s done to women.”If the condom is there purely for the woman's benefit, I guess it's not my responsibility anymore? Since apparently intercourse is an unequal act with unequal burdens. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/01/25 06:17 PM |
| 5 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?We honestly might be fucked. I think the Nazi's are the ones that made fascism, and bigotry unpalatable, which caused a revolution of humanitarianism, and egalitarianism, and right now we're slowly tredding back into the dark ages as people lose touch with those values. Ideally people would find common ground, but everyone these days is scrambling for authority. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/25 05:22 PM |
| 15 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?It's crazy to me that we've gone from a world where I had free access to information, and free privilege to just be myself, to one where we treat every man as a potential domestic threat. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/25 04:51 PM |
| 12 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?I remember about 10 years ago there was this massive crackdown on reddit on sexist attitudes directed at women, which has slowly created this uneven dynamic where misogyny was dealt with, but misandry was left to grow. People use to be able to joke, and have serious conversations about these issues, but now you're not allowed, it's taboo in progressive spaces to talk negatively about women, so literally the only places for men with issues to go is the right. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/25 04:18 PM |
| 9 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?Honestly, I think political triage is exactly how we found ourselves here. People selling themselves down the river bit by bit, sacrifice by sacrifice. If someone can't find a lowest common denominator between fucking people to create a basis for equality, to respect individuals as individuals, their ethical foundation is corrupt, and it doesn't make sense for me to support them in an attempt to get some short term gains. It makes much more sense to me to just detach my ego from the democrats. T… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/25 04:05 PM |
| 37 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?The hilarious thing is if tomorrow Republicans started talking about creating a healthy view of femininity Democrats would be calling it out talking about how gender roles are regressive, but when the roles are reversed, suddenly some people "see the need". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/25 01:33 PM |
| 35 | Are women more likely to under-report being victims of sexual violence or men (in the UK)?I grew up a social activist, was heavily informed on consent, and domestic abuse. It took me 6+ months to realize my ex did something non consensual to me, and then maybe another year before I really started to grasp I'd been raped, and then another few years to realize she'd been abusing me for most of our relationship. Realistically... what guy is going to want to do the mental work to realize, and accept, and deal with the fact that their partner is abusive? How are women going to accept it? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/25 01:29 PM |
| 105 | GQ Article: "Can Pat Ryan Help Democrats Win Men Back"?I find the idea that we need political parties to define masculinity for men regressive, and demeaning as fuck. It's not "Let's stop demonizing men". It's not "Let's raise social awareness about the 1 in 3 men that face domestic abuse". It's not "Let's address the education gap for men". It's not "Let's address how HEAL industries are 75%+ dominated by women". It's not "Let address the gender gap". Talking about creating a healthy view of masculinity is literally JUST propaganda. It's shallow, i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/25 12:57 PM |
| 69 | Also When Men Sexualize Women vs. When Women Sexualize Other WomenThe same girl at my sports club that went around talking shit about a guy being "too nice" will openly sit there ogling guys talking about how it's not wrong to "admire God's creation". The female president of the same club, took fucking video of me... when we were doing skinny dipping type activities, and when I asked her to deleted, she just snubbed me and walked off. She was also gossiping with girl 1 about the dude being too nice. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/01/25 04:49 PM |
| 7 | This shit just breeds more bigotryThe truth is so much more interesting though. If you look into it, religion is just ancient social media. Everything we know about major religions comes from a bunch of old dudes sitting around arguing with each other about shit that happened hundreds of years prior. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/01/25 01:56 PM |
| 2 | This shit just breeds more bigotryApparently the last bit there is debated. In some secs of Islam Aisha was 16+ | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/01/25 01:03 PM |
| 29 | This shit just breeds more bigotryWhen ever you see a story about a pretty woman mudering her kids, the comments are full of sympathy for the mother because "she was probably dealing with post partum depression, and not getting the support she needs". Oh yeah... that totally justifies driving your kids off a cliff. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/01/25 01:01 PM |
| 20 | Some feminists don’t like men’s LIBWhy... would I not use feminists own arguments against them? Generally I'm trying to point out the hypocrisy in their words. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/01/25 11:34 PM |
| 6 | I’ve created a subreddit for LGBT men’s rights activismIf I'm talking about Nonbinary shit I often have to gear my perspectives in a very specific way or they get dog piled with downvotes. And I experience stuff like this in real life where a progressive and a conservative are debating acceptance of trans/Nonbinary people, and afterwards I tell the progressive "Hey, I'm actually Nonbinary by the way." Aaaaaand they just walk away from me. It's interesting! 😅 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/25 11:58 PM |
| 7 | I really ate how many of men’s problems are branded as their/patriarchy’s/misogyny’s faultCan I ask then? Do you support gender roles? Do you believe it's okay for people to create cultures around judging the gender traits of another person? Is it okay for me to go out, and evaluate women's femininity? To shame, and promote what I consider healthy? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/25 10:25 PM |
| 17 | I really ate how many of men’s problems are branded as their/patriarchy’s/misogyny’s faultIt's not about cedeing the term to people that misuse it, it's about recognizing that words have connotations, and can promote biases. Toxic masculinity is just a modern version of female hysteria. If you see problems with the term female hysteria, you should be able to see that similar problems apply to the term toxic masculinity. Also ... I'm going to point out that using academic terms in laymen conversations, and pretending they don't promote sexist connotations IS misusing the terms. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/25 10:07 PM |
| 25 | I really ate how many of men’s problems are branded as their/patriarchy’s/misogyny’s faultA lot of these are the fault of the social structure that feminist theory calls patriarchy. This is wrong though, because you'll see many of these issues persist across countless different social structures, because the issue isn't "patriarchy" it's people, it's humans. People are petty, and selfish, and stupid. I hate this topic because you're choosing to use divisive gendered terms when there are more neutral perspectives available, and in doing so you promote bias. Like toxic masculinity is j… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/25 08:21 PM |
| 64 | I really ate how many of men’s problems are branded as their/patriarchy’s/misogyny’s faultThis tangently related. I find it crazy how feminism will appropriate other causes. Like feminists... Just randomly started taking credit for queer activism. Which connects back to your point where feminists dictate the root of homophobia is misogyny, and therefore it's a feminist issue, which means any progress that all LGBTQ+ progress, is now feminist. THAT'S NOT WHAT HAPPENED. Fucking queers organized, and protested, and fucking pushed back for DECADES! Queers achieved their progress through … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/25 07:56 PM |
| 10 | “Women can’t rape men,” straight from the horse’s mouthAlso I'm probably going to get banned for this, but do you want to know why women get recognition, and men don't? It's because when you can't talk about how women abuse men without other men stepping in to moderate the conversation. I got a fucking comment removed today for pointing out how manipulation, lies, and half truths are used to discredit, and throw men under the bus, because the mods just assumed I was generalizing women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/01/25 12:21 AM |
| 11 | “Women can’t rape men,” straight from the horse’s mouthMy ex use to push herself down on me without a condom, and then she'd mock me for getting worried, and upset about pregnancy. It's taken me years to conceptualize, and realize I was getting raped, and sexually assaulted, because like ... Its not what you'd expect 😅 I didn't get hit, it wasn't in some dark alley, I wasn't backed into a corner by some creepy old man, it wasn't some stranger feeling up my leg. It was my girlfriend trying to have unprotected sex with me... And feminists will sit the… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/01/25 12:14 AM |
| 29 | Guy uses personal journal to deal with his frustrations so as not to upset his wife, she reads his journal and blasts him on reditAnother addon 😂 lol! Check this out aswell. So they've been dating 2 years... She's moved in with him.... She now just quit a job without another lined up.... Fucking poor dude. She forced him into a position where he's now supporting her. I see this shit happen to guys all the time, have had people try to pull it on me, have seen it happen to my father. My dad and my ex-step mom moved across the country, aaaand she just randomly decided that the move was soooo tiring, she was going to wait a fe… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/01/25 12:13 AM |
| 34 | Guy uses personal journal to deal with his frustrations so as not to upset his wife, she reads his journal and blasts him on reditAnnnnnd yuuup! I just checked to see if anyone in the comments picked up on the contradiction, and it's just all people supporting OP. What's really sad is no one picked up on the line quoted on in the journal where the dude says he feels like he has to walk on egg shells in his own house. Massive red flags right there. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/01/25 12:06 AM |
| 8 | Propaganda "Claims of abuse by mothers were often dismissed while allegations of alienation against fathers were prioritized" In what world?😂I knew someone who claimed her ex was being abusive at child trade offs because he'd slam the car door, and he knnoooowsss how sensitive to sound she is. She was constantly complaining about evvvverything he'd do. And like... I'm not saying the dude wasn't potentially a massive asshole behind closed doors, but he seemed to be acting completely normal to me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Are we seeing the birth of a male in-group bias?I have an add on I just remembered 😂 Okay! So fucking check this out! 🙌 I did a naked Skydiver this year, and on landing the president of the club was sitting there with her phone taking video of me. When we got inside I told her I wanted the video/ wanted her to delete it. She just snubbed me and walked away. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Are we seeing the birth of a male in-group bias?Man.. the casual way feminists will slip 'rich' white man into a discussion. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Are we seeing the birth of a male in-group bias?I think they're talking about unifying men as a collective that fights for its own interests. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Are we seeing the birth of a male in-group bias?I've seen women in my social groups straight up lie, and turn molehills into mountains, dragging dudes through the dirt while ignoring the offensive actions of other women. A dude got ostracized for being TOO NICE, but the same girl that made that claim mooned someone one night, makes sexual comments about the dudes at our club, had another girl spanking her, and started antagonizing me when I asked not to be randomly touched, and hugged. The other girl she was gossiping to, who's the president … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 01:52 PM |
| 22 | Men under growing pressure to bulk up with steroidsI'm not entirely convinced women are super honest about what they want. Women don't really comment on my muscles, but I've noticed since I got them, probably about half the women I'm friendly with randomly touch my arms, and shoulders. Also there's this thing where some girls will like... get in my bubble, and stand like... 8 inches to my left side, and a bit behind me? So if I look over my shoulder they're like... Right there. It's weird to describe, but it's something super apparent to me, bec… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/25 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Solipsism At Its FinestWomen are passive aggressive as FUCK though. Like women really are that awful, they're just covert about it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/01/25 04:38 AM |
| 14 | “Girls being able to hit boys is not an unjustified double standard.”The problem with this type of rhetoric is it puts domestic violence into tiers of acceptability, which applies to women aswell. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/01/25 04:03 AM |
| 9 | DECENTER MENFueled by women that don't see men as people, but providers. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/01/25 12:52 PM |
| 2 | DECENTER MENPersonally I don't think you should be centering your life around anyone. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/01/25 12:38 PM |
| 18 | More Nonsense About the Hockey Player Murdered by His Ex-BoyfriendI just want to take this moment to mention women are the ones that dominate caregiving, and social development in our society. From parenting, to teaching, to our physical/mental health, to our social welfare, to our research in sociology, and psychology, women dominate it ALL. The question isn't why are some men violent. The question is why are women creating violent men? Off the bat I can tell you studies show adolescent boys recieve half the amount of hugs as girls. Men have less access to cr… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/01/25 02:01 AM |
| 1 | I think that women who believe that men can't be hurt by women hurt men.The conversation policing feminist do annoys the fuck out of me. It's especially insane on reddit, which uses comment trees, which is a function that's prime feature is that it allows tangent discussions to branch out. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/01/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | “Women don’t kidnap children on their own.”This is not super related, but something I think about, but never see it talked about. There are single parents that date, that just let their kids get abused by their partners... Parents that SIT there, and call their children liars when they talk about the sexual abuse they face. I had a friend that grew up in this environment getting raped by the string of men her mother was seeing. Aaaand she repeated the pattern. When this (ex)friend and I started talking, I literally had to ask her NOT to … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/01/25 08:25 PM |
| 50 | Male survivors 'ignored' as their abuse is classified as 'violence against women'This is KIIIIIND of related. On the Canadian Government's information page about elder abuse it says that the majority of elder abuse is committed by men. If you check the study their referencing you'll find it's a 55/45% split between men, and women. 45% of elder abuse is committed by women, but they conveniently don't have that information on the Canadian Government's website, they paraphrase to just "The majority of elder abuse is committed by men". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/25 05:03 PM |
| 20 | Male survivors 'ignored' as their abuse is classified as 'violence against women'Source: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/sep/07/cps-report-violence-against-women-girl-men-boys-victims-violent-crime | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/25 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Trans men are effected by misardy too.Oh god! You've convinced me! 🙌 I renounce my ways! How dare a trans person give their perspective! How dare I shed fucking light on a topic so people can have a deeper level of understanding. I should never have put myself above you like that! I should have just closed my mouth, and been thankful I'm not strung up in a tree somewhere. -edit aaaaand now I'm blocked and can't reply. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/01/25 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Trans men are effected by misardy too.If you were starving in Africa you wouldn't have time to feel non-binary. This might surprise you, but starving people in Africa still have genders. A feeling is mostly a want The distinction is important. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/01/25 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Trans men are effected by misardy too.I can't speak for OP, but when I started transitioning to Nonbinary it wasn't so much a 'want' but rather a feeling. I just felt the need to add that, because in your comment you said "they wanted to be a man". | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/01/25 06:16 AM |
| 0 | This is disappointing to read:Modern feminism takes a shit ton of it's inspiration from Marxism. Patriarchy rhetoric specifically is Marxism applied to gender issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/25 05:23 AM |
| 2 | This is disappointing to read:Do you know what? When I was going through shit this year the ONLY person to express any worry about me was a racist afghan vet I'd just called a piece of shit two months prior. I'm friends with a literal psychologist, and the only one that checked up on me is a dude that's racist.... and has been in active combat. Also check this out! I practice stoicism, which is considered toxic masculinity by the American Psychological Association, and earlier this week I offered to be emotional support to 3… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/25 05:17 AM |
| -2 | Are attitudes towards abused men this bad across reddit?From my perspective feminism has pushed hard left, and totalitarian. Specially feminism has drifted from individualism perspectives to more collectivist. I seriously have no idea how you could see modern day feminism as neo-liberal Neoliberalism is often associated with a set of economic liberalization policies, including privatization, deregulation, depoliticisation, consumer choice, globalization, free trade, monetarism, austerity, and reductions in government spending. These policies are desi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/25 04:25 AM |
| 4 | PSA: The difference between being misogynistic and criticizing Feminism.The fact that you came here to point the finger at men is telling. I smell a feminist. The fact... that you would come to a men's forum to dissuade men.... Says all I need to know about you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/01/25 09:18 AM |
| 6 | PSA: The difference between being misogynistic and criticizing Feminism.I feel this hard 🫤 Reddit use to be full of people deconstructing bias, aaannnd now that's all gone, and now I find myself struggling to find the words to convey the inconsistencies I see in people's arguments. Last year I learnt I discovered the concept of availability heuristic. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Availability_heuristic The availability heuristic, also known as availability bias, is a mental shortcut that relies on immediate examples that come to a given person's mind when evaluat… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/25 04:04 PM |
| 2 | PSA: The difference between being misogynistic and criticizing Feminism.I... actually think it's kind of impossible to confront men's issues without being misogynistic. To combat the victim/offender gender dimorphism, women need to recieve criticism. To fully acknowledge the 1 in 3 men facing domestic abuse, we also have to acknowledge the women perpetrating that abuse. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/25 03:04 AM |
| 13 | PSA: The difference between being misogynistic and criticizing Feminism.I think one problem you're going to face with your perspective is that sometimes feminists are talking about a form of "systemic misogyny" which is to say it's not about the validity of any individual action, but just the fact that it COULD negatively impact the societal perception of women is why it's called misogynistic. I think analysis like yours are necessary, but but one thing I want to warn to be careful about. You can lose ground on your own positioning adopting feminist terms. It puts y… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/25 02:53 AM |
| 30 | The double speak of "men must create their own movements".The "feminism is for men" meme is just lip service to make sure men stay in line and don't make their own advocate groups. It's also an attempt to assert control through biased terminology. Feminists use the argument that western culture is male centric to push their own feminist centric views. i.e. all sexism is misogyny. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/25 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Is ‘masculinity’ behind male loneliness and substance use disorders?Dude... Fucking spectacular write up! 🙌 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 10:41 AM |
| 7 | Is ‘masculinity’ behind male loneliness and substance use disorders?oooou, interesting catch! I'm literally Nonbinary, paint my nails, cry with my partners, and I still get the phrase toxic masculinity thrown at me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Gender neutral language about sexual harassment us sexist.Don't forget about Twitch! While not direct nudity, Twitch is full of women using their sexuality to get donations from 13 year olds. I remember in one instance a woman raffled away her fucking used underwear to a 15 year old. Like... fucking on stream. Google Twitch topless meta. It is FUCKED UP that when women expose themselves to children PEOPLE FUCKING DEFEND IT AS PERSONAL EXPRESSION. And these isn't even about the double standards. This isn't about how people treat male predators vs female… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/12/24 04:35 AM |
| 74 | "Male-Dominated"I generally just throw it back at them, and use it as an opportunity to promote our statistics. Get the word out. Health, education, administration, sociology, psychology, and social work are ALL 75%+ female dominated. And yeah, men might dominate industrial jobs, but guess what? Men also die 10 times more often on the job than women, and recieve a fraction of the social support. Why should men be expected to give up the few places they have to have a safe job like STEM? and where are men expect… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/24 01:45 PM |
| 5 | God I hate feminists.It's politics, not logic. The goal isn't to be honest, and fair, it's to win. The idea is just to keep pushing their propaganda. If one point fails, they just pivot to another so they can control the narrative. Like a big tactic I see is for them to take a valid criticism about women, and to change it to "Oh so you think women don't deserve rights". And what ends up happening is instead of talking about your issue, now the conversation turn to a discussion about women's rape statistics. I think … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/12/24 07:52 PM |
| 7 | I hate being called "One of the good ones."quiet masculine rage intensifies. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/12/24 04:38 AM |
| 30 | I hate being called "One of the good ones."Yup! I remember being in a group, and the women were talking about men being trash, and I commented. I got told I need to understand where they're coming from. Another dude mentioned he hasn't felt emotionally supported in his past relationships, and was told it sounds like he hates women. Anyways though lol! I can 100% relate to the resenting being called a good man thing. However! 🙌 I met someone recently who's actually interested in getting to know me as a person? And I feel in that instance … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/12/24 02:43 AM |
| 9 | "Women have been opressed so it's your turn"Oh! So on the good side of things! I saw a woman with a MRA tag in her dating profile the other day! 🙌 Keep fighting the good fight! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/12/24 01:48 AM |
| 20 | How come every time it's a women's issues threads and you bring up the fact that it's an issue for everybody, you get spammed with hate? But when it's a men's issues thread they have no problem saying "Women face this too" and get hundreds of upvotes.Man the comments on that thread are infuriating. "Ohhh yeah! We know! We just didn't want to be on the wrong side of political correctness". Like holy fuck. Thank you for the link. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/24 05:24 AM |
| 16 | Dear men, stop talking about your issuesHow can she slap!!! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/12/24 10:49 PM |
| 48 | Dear men, stop talking about your issuesThere's this video of an Indian game show where this lady is degrading the fuck out of a guy. Eventually she slaps him, and he slaps her back. Like 20 dudes just all swarm, and start beating the crap out of the guy. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/12/24 09:43 PM |
| 25 | Society needs to understand that men can easily be physically abused in straight relationshipsThis is really dangerous, because you can walk it back too. Once you establish there's acceptable amounts of violence, that only grave violence is serious, suddenly you can justify a lot of violence towards any gender. The thing that really pisses me off is I've been hit with like a closed fingers slap hard enough to turn my head. That shit fucks with your brain. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/12/24 02:30 PM |
| 28 | National Review: The Democrats Have a Woman ProblemThis stuff is baked into our social sciences now aswell. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/12/24 02:35 AM |
| 24 | "Be quiet and listen to women without making it about yourself, you parasite."How DARE you come to a public form, and voice your opinion. The fucking AUDACITY! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/12/24 09:07 PM |
| 28 | What male-focused policies would you like to see the Dems include in the platform next election?I'd like the see the gender gap in sociology/psychology/social work/education/administration addressed. I was also thinking about a subsidy to encourage male caretakers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/24 01:11 PM |
| 16 | The Moral Failures of "Punching Up"Women engaging in hate speech are simply blowing off steam and coping with the pain of living in that system of oppression. One is taken literally, the other is taken figuratively. One is punching down, the other is punching up. I just want to point out, this is actually an example of feminists treating women's opinion/actions as LESS valid/impactful. aka it's internalized misogyny. I find approaching arguments from this angle gets me upvotes. The otherday I was in a psychology post on caregivin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/24 01:01 PM |
| 9 | Joe Rogan Being a Female Pedo ApologistI hate this shit, because literally any valid men's issue is going to be picked up by red pillers, and incels at some point, and then incels get pointed at as a reason to ignore the issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/24 06:59 PM |
| 71 | Joe Rogan Being a Female Pedo ApologistI highly recommend checking out the interview with the OCD clown on Soft White Underbellys YouTube channel. He got raped by his dad's girlfriend at 15, and you can see he still hasn't sorted through the trauma, and it shows some of the nuance of these situations. Because like.. yes.. He was a horny teen that wanted to fuck. But do you think on a moral level he wanted to fuck his dad's girlfriend? Because he didn't. And you'll see this shit with a lot of female pedo teachers where they're using t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/24 06:57 PM |
| 8 | Pinterest being a misandrist dumpster fire again (Failing to realize Male victims exist too!)I take the I'm rubber your glue approach. Time to start making feminist tears jokes. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/11/24 06:36 AM |
| 9 | Check out r/twoXchromosomes it's misandrist as fuckThe mental gymnastics are crazy. I had a feminist confront me today because I said sociology as a field is 75%+ dominated by women, and you can see the biases in how's men's issues are ignored. In their first comment they told me feminists try to deal with men's issues, but Republicans prevent them. By their third comment they were giving me shit for being entitled, that I shouldn't expect women to give equal consideration to men's issues, and that men should deal with them, themselves. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/11/24 12:25 AM |
| 21 | Check out r/twoXchromosomes it's misandrist as fuckPlease, us men don't have the level of social skills needed for such a complex conversation. This would have been communicated through grunting and pointing at pictographs. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/11/24 10:09 PM |
| 59 | Check out r/twoXchromosomes it's misandrist as fuckLmao! 😂 The top post right now is a woman talking about how she chose not to run the secret Santa this year, and as a result... it's not happening.... And then a bunch of comments talking about how impressed they are with her. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/11/24 09:18 PM |
| 22 | Check out r/twoXchromosomes it's misandrist as fuckOH MY GOSH DID YOU JUST SAY NOT ALL MEN?! Do you lyke... h8 womyn?! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/11/24 09:07 PM |
| 18 | Skeptics lost touch with reality, blames young men's views on "loss of privilege"100%! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/11/24 04:46 PM |
| 11 | Rule changes and thinking out loud about the disinformation age and the state of the subMy issue with this rule is that there really aren't a lot of good places for liberal men to go, and just express themselves. I have posts that get removed all the time, and it blows, because I have no where to go to express, and work through these thoughts, and feelings. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/11/24 08:14 PM |
| 127 | How can we mitigate the current political divide between Young Men and Women; except not misandristic in content.I’m gonna be so real, they need consequences for their actions. Boys are taught from an early age that they can make rape threats as bad jokes and schools do not hold them accountable or punish them in any way. It’s “that’s not very nice” instead of “you’re being expelled”. And I do mean that it needs to be that level of consequence. That needs to be the norm. Their lives need to be ruined. LMAO 😂 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Let me get this straight... This feminist thinks expelling boys from school is … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 03:45 AM |
| 30 | Pretty funny how they can’t handle their jokes back at them even slightlyI just wanna comment on the "We do that because we DON'T want to continue the conversation". That's absolutely a true thing, but I tell you from my experiences with the dozens of women I've messaged, a ton of the time when women are putting in no effort, if you match their tone or respond with just a "cool", they suddenly get invested. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/11/24 09:20 PM |
| 14 | Making Excuses for Incompetent Women When They Wouldn’t for Incompetent MenI have fucking horrible homemaking habits, I'll fully admit that, but dear fucking God... Check your privilege ladies. All the women I know grew up having these relationships baking with their grandmothers, and shit. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/11/24 06:32 PM |
| 13 | “It’s literally every man.”ooouu! I love that conceptualization. The Thin Pink Line could be another one. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/11/24 09:54 AM |
| 10 | How Feminists Celebrate International Men’s DayThat's politics for you. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 10:36 PM |
| 10 | How Feminists Celebrate International Men’s DayLmao! 😂 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 10:28 PM |
| 10 | How Feminists Celebrate International Men’s DayWhat discourse? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 10:23 PM |
| 13 | How Feminists Celebrate International Men’s DayOh shit! And all the posts about women hiding their votes from their husbands! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 09:20 PM |
| 90 | “It’s literally every man.”This is mostly projection. Women in general are the ones with an in-group bias. Calling each other out is literally apart of men's culture. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 09:19 PM |
| 38 | How Feminists Celebrate International Men’s DayThat's probably a good indication of the type of company they choose to keep. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 09:12 PM |
| 74 | How Feminists Celebrate International Men’s DayI just want to take a moment to point out that even fucking prisoners hate rapists and woman/child abusers. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 08:58 PM |
| 31 | Found this gem on TwitterThat is all incredibly incredibly awful, but.... who dominates baby killing again? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 03:55 AM |
| 22 | Men are Default Accused64% of the time male domestic abuse victims call the cops they're mistaken as the perpetrator. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/11/24 03:21 AM |
| 9 | Hypocrisy of Therapists,I was LITERALLY just thinking about this 30 seconds ago. Growing up my mother would chastize me for sulking. When I got raped, and told my grandmother I was scared of my abuser, I got the response "But you're so much bigger than she is". I literally had to hang up on my mother, because she wouldn't stop arguing with me to go back to get my stuff. My sister knows I've been physically abused, she's never like... asked me about it though. I'm straight up friends with a psychologist, and the most I'… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/11/24 08:34 PM |
| 26 | The Phenomenon of “Female Chauvinism”Great post! I haven't conceptualized this phenomenon in the same way, but it's something I think about. Recently I've been thinking about how it's considered wrong to shame women into physical intimacy, but it's acceptable to shame men into emotional intimacy, and what the implications are if you look at physical, and emotional intimacy from opposite perspectives. Men are often criticized for their shallowness in relation to sex, that men will sleep with anything. But inverse can be said to be t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/11/24 05:48 PM |
| 51 | Hypocrisy of Therapists,I was joking around about suicide the other week, and my psychologist friend told me she has a duty to disclose, and just thinking about it for a few days I don't see how this wouldn't be a massive deterrent to men since men are more often the primary breadwinners, and involuntary commitment could destroy someone's financial stability. Another issue I have is psychology, sociology, and social work are all 75%+ dominated by women, and now apparently it just so happens that all of society's woes a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/11/24 09:43 AM |
| 5 | Feminist therapist takes apart feminism and explores men's issuesGreat video! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/11/24 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"Why do you ask that? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"Dude, everyone already knows the feminist talking points. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"Hard disagree | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 06:21 PM |
| 3 | "Not all men but always a man ahh" subredditIt's hilarious watching things shift from "I'm horrified every time a man talks to me in public, because I don't know how they'll deal with rejection" to "It's okay for men to approach you respectfully". Of course people will tell you calling out misandry "does nothing" and "nobody cares", but I say the results speak for themselves. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/11/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | “Compliments from women are superior to compliments from men.”yass queen! 🙌 👑💅 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/11/24 09:28 PM |
| 2 | new hate group just droppedIs it a threat? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/11/24 03:36 PM |
| 79 | Any thoughts on Hank's take?Timestamp? This is really complicated for me to feel out. Like there definitely a lot of things democrats could be doing that aren't specifically about men but would pull me back to the party, like labour rights, privacy rights, rebolstering freedom of speech. That said I think we're watching the rise of men's issues, and male politics, and I don't think that can be discounted. Like I personally have felt my own political values faulter, and waiver, because of the disparity of recognition men re… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/11/24 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Is There A Word For This Level Of Delusion? Because The Word "Deluded" Doesn't Quite Cut It.How about the fact that sociology is 75% women? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/11/24 02:15 PM |
| 11 | Finding Shit Like This On TwoX Is Like Finding Hay In A HaystackWhat I love about this shit is it doesn't matter anyway. 1 Men's issues deserve recognition regardless. 2 If women want to go back to being considered the emotionally/socially unhealthy gender... Like... By all means! 🙌 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 19 | Apparently, Men Expressing Their Predicament = Declaring War On Women<image> | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/11/24 03:02 PM |
| 3 | American sociologists are not that professional75% of sociologists are women, and 85% of the American Sociological Association is women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 12:26 PM |
| 86 | The Guardian/Richard Reeves on why Democrats lost young menMisandry creates massive barriers to just becoming friends with women aswell. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 10:25 AM |
| 52 | Wellness check: how're you coping with the fallout?I'm feeling pretty disconnected from it atm. Taking more of a stoicist approach. Whatever feelings bubble up I just kind of let go of. I was considering skipping out on skydiving, because I didn't want to listen to people talk about it. That's not super ideal. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 01:26 AM |
| 16 | Worries that the election and subsequent results will continue to drive the divide and double standards of men and women even further.Also! I think the whole "Men have failed women" narrative is going to be a GREAT segue into discussions about misandry. Like PERFECT! because it's so easily demonstrably false, and I think that first step, that first acknowledgment that men face discrimination is HUGE. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 12:43 AM |
| 31 | Worries that the election and subsequent results will continue to drive the divide and double standards of men and women even further.1 I feel like the election has already spurred a ton of discussions about men feeling disenfranchised from the left, and men's issues in general, and I think that's a really positive thing. 2 I have nooo idea what's going to happen, but part of me feels things need to get worse before they're going to get better, that we're going to have to see the consequences of bigotry before people start looking for common ground. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/11/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | The Democratic party had a strong coalition of working class males who gladly called themselves Bernie Bros. They threw them away.I'm Canadian, but this is where I fit ideologically. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/11/24 12:01 PM |
| 12 | What percentage of women voted for trump? Because most people treat men like garbage and tell men they’re trash for going to the right. Fuck misandrists.Men are the exact opposite. 54% for Trump, 44% for Kamala. And did more white woman than not vote Kamala? I can't find that data yet. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/11/24 07:47 PM |
| 51 | What percentage of women voted for trump? Because most people treat men like garbage and tell men they’re trash for going to the right. Fuck misandrists.Women voted fucking 54% for Harris, and 44% for Trump. FUCKING 44% OF WOMEN VOTED FOR TRUMP This shit is just slander against men. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/11/24 07:32 PM |
| 33 | Trump winning the election is very bad for men and men need to be concerned about trump winning.1 I don't think men's issues had great representation already. They're already associated with Andrew Tate, and incels. 2 The perspective that we live in a patriarchy, and all this shit about mansplaining is already being promoted by sociologists. 3 Electing a woman isn't going to make people suddenly not sexist. 4 Your post reeks of propaganda. Men's issues already weren't being taken seriously, the idea that oooouu this is going to make people REALLY not take them seriously is a revenge fantas… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | My friend just got a new boyfriend, and now I've been downgraded from hearts to likes ..Boooo. I knew it'd get taken down 😂 this sub doesn't appreciate more sudden forms of misandry. All the girls get to be close, and have these loving relationships, but if youre a dude you often end up kept at arms length. I get it, it just fucking sucks. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/11/24 05:00 PM |
| 14 | If harris/walz lose, and insofar as they are losing male votersDamn! So telling men they hate women if they don't vote for Kamala didn't get the voters out?!! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 11:22 AM |
| 16 | I father of 2, got called incel at work here is whyIt's really interesting logic. And if you brought up how male gang members are also forced into those situations, it'd be argued that it's because of patriarchy, and therefore men's fault. The second you call this out as sexist though, suddenly it's all "Men AND women make up the patriarchy. No one is just blaming men". Yeah... Yeah you actually are blaming men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/24 04:55 AM |
| 13 | I father of 2, got called incel at work here is whyCan we meme-ify this? Maybe make an infographic that shows how cliche the argument is, and how it's a deflection. Label it "The Danger Myth" or something. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/24 04:44 AM |
| 42 | The American election and menOn the opposite side of things, I'm nonbinary, and progressive, and I've rejected women over toxic feminist ideology. Also... Last election 45% of trumps votes were women, and 55% of white women voted for trump. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/11/24 11:51 PM |
| 10 | Woman commits suicide with two children after husband goes through with separation.Super easy, just claim it was an abusive relationship. BAM! No facts needed. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/11/24 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Found this comment on a post titled “What Advice Would You Give to Boys Becoming Men”I have a small sliver of hope that people are going to clue in that sociology is being used a tool to push politics, more specifically radical feminist ideology, when science is suppose to be conducted without bias. That it undermines democracy when you have unelected officials letting their political views corrupt the research we use to base our public policy on. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/11/24 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Found this comment on a post titled “What Advice Would You Give to Boys Becoming Men”The massive fucking blind spot people seem to have is any weapon you develop against your enemies... they can use against you. Feminists single-handedly have revitalized the justification for sexist terminology with dumbass fucking shit like "Mansplaining". How can sociologists of ALL people be so fucking careless, and stupid. If we live in a fucking patriarchy, why would you revitalize sexism?!! Fuck. Like I wouldn't even be here arguing against feminism if it wasn't for all the Misandry. I bel… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/11/24 01:40 AM |
| 5 | Found this comment on a post titled “What Advice Would You Give to Boys Becoming Men”That's because I practice real progressivism which recognizes that the ultimate minority is the individual. This classwar/culturewar bullshit can only end in genocide, civil war, and/or concentration camps. People are absolutely deluded if they think we're going to reach a point where one side submits. It's so stupid. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/11/24 01:22 AM |
| 20 | Found this comment on a post titled “What Advice Would You Give to Boys Becoming Men”My answer to the question 😋 Work on developing your own set of convictions, ethics, and way to interact with the world. Everyone is going to have a fucking opinion about how you live your life. If you want to live it for yourself, figure out what that's going to mean. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/11/24 07:22 PM |
| 22 | Found this comment on a post titled “What Advice Would You Give to Boys Becoming Men”I'm starting to think maybe people just don't understand the concept of a counter point of view. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/11/24 07:18 PM |
| 13 | Woman commits suicide with two children after husband goes through with separation.Damn! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/11/24 04:23 PM |
| 25 | It's crazy how feminists must always find loophole ways for men to give women special treatment. Somehow men being mean to both men and women is still sexism. And I bet they don't care about women that are mean too.Notice they're only talking about men being sexist? Where's the data about rude women? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/11/24 04:00 PM |
| 2 | An admission that feminism is not for everyoneWomen commit 47% of elder abuse. Female faculty are the sexual abusers in 80% of reports by juveniles in corrections. 1 in 3 men face domestic abuse. Women ARE violent. We'd probably have more public awarness except all of our social science fields are 75%+ women aswell! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/10/24 01:16 PM |
| 4 | Women are more nice to gay men, and not straight men. Because they think straight men are more likely to mistake their kindness as romantic interest.Although I should say 😂 I've had multiple women try to pull me into threesomes. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/10/24 03:25 AM |
| 7 | Women are more nice to gay men, and not straight men. Because they think straight men are more likely to mistake their kindness as romantic interest.Also insecurity. Men are actually really nice partners. I'm being flirted with by a guy right now, he's given me more compliments about my body in a few nights then I've recieved from women in my entire life. He actually like... shows he's interested, and makes moves. It's less stressful. It's not easy for most guys to just pickup a girl, it's a lot easier to hookup with another guy. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/10/24 03:24 AM |
| 3 | But I thought we were all oppressed under patriarchy!shhhhh!! You're not suppose to tell them about the meetings! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/24 06:13 PM |
| 24 | Women are more nice to gay men, and not straight men. Because they think straight men are more likely to mistake their kindness as romantic interest.Yup! haha! I was making friends with this one girl, but she was putting up these barriers, so I stopped making bids, and now she thinks I'm a "lone wolf" 🤮 What really annoys me is the women at my club will give the guys shit for making sexual jokes, but the women aren't really better. I've seen women spanking each other one day, and criticizing men for making sexual jokes the next. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/24 03:38 PM |
| 34 | Women are more nice to gay men, and not straight men. Because they think straight men are more likely to mistake their kindness as romantic interest.I've experienced the 'stink face' thing. It hurts. There's another example of misandry in these types of posts that I don't think I've seen pointed out. Men get blamed for mistaking friendliness as flirting, but women do the exact same thing. It honestly makes me nervous to talk to women, because I've been there when I guy with a little extra pep gets labeled "too nice", and it's like... There's no winning. And part of me is like... What if this was my boss? Like... what if this was a person int… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/24 03:24 PM |
| 4 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is BS, because it's 100 percent a psyop or a deflection from men issues. So please be careful here.Oh Damn! Good catch! That's the first I'm hearing of this fallacy. I've also noticed there's a pattern feminists uses that's kind of the opposite of a motte and bailey fallacy. It's where they use the really extreme examples of women suffering to open the door, like women being raped, and then they start complaining about men not doing enough chores, and in conflating them together under the label misogyny, now any little tiny small thing a man does that inconveniences women, is actually some gi… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/24 07:26 AM |
| 22 | But I thought we were all oppressed under patriarchy!This person argued with me for 10 comments that I couldn't talk about my personal experiences dating pillow princesses, because I didn't give a feminist context for WHY women might be pillow princesses. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/24 06:51 AM |
| 13 | "Women, I suggest you try dehumanizing men" is seriously getting upvotes?Honestly? Bring it. What you're teaching men is you'll dehumanize them, for the actions of other men, which really only raises awareness of feminist misandry. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/24 04:51 AM |
| 21 | "Women, I suggest you try dehumanizing men" is seriously getting upvotes?Maybe it's not their hair? Maybe it's the Misandry? Like maybe the men that are willing to be friends with someone spouting toxic feminist rhetoric aren't great people? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/24 04:40 AM |
| 2 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is BS, because it's 100 percent a psyop or a deflection from men issues. So please be careful here.Yay! 😊 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/24 02:51 AM |
| 4 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is BS, because it's 100 percent a psyop or a deflection from men issues. So please be careful here.This shit is how the Christians killed off paganism. It's simply propaganda, nothing more, but gullible idiots choke it down. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 09:28 PM |
| 15 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is BS, because it's 100 percent a psyop or a deflection from men issues. So please be careful here."made to penetrate" It's fucking RAPE. THAT'S RAPE. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 08:33 PM |
| 6 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is BS, because it's 100 percent a psyop or a deflection from men issues. So please be careful here.I could have given better examples but this is my quick retort ✌️ | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 08:31 PM |
| 13 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is BS, because it's 100 percent a psyop or a deflection from men issues. So please be careful here.<image> | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 08:31 PM |
| 12 | These are funny. Anyone got the post?? which highlighted how AITA subs pass opposite judgements for male vs female posters (in favour or women obviously)It's even worse then you think. Men get postpartum too, and at rates equal to women. Where's the sympathy for fathers? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 04:54 PM |
| 21 | These are funny. Anyone got the post?? which highlighted how AITA subs pass opposite judgements for male vs female posters (in favour or women obviously)Oh! And there's the whole debate about confirming paternity vs go bags. There was a post the otherday asking if someone would be okay with their wife having a £100k hidden bank account "in case things get bad". Everyone is arguing that it's perfectly reasonable. That if a man had a concern about it, he's probably abusive. So I asked about men doing hidden paternity tests. I got told to shut the fuck up. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 03:21 PM |
| 38 | These are funny. Anyone got the post?? which highlighted how AITA subs pass opposite judgements for male vs female posters (in favour or women obviously)Lmao! What bullshit! Show me a post where a man gets support for hitting his kids. Show me a post where the answer to a dude losing his shit is "how much do you do around the house?". Fuck! The otherday I saw a post about a wife cleaning out the house, taking the child, and just leaving a note for OP to find after a trip. People didn't trust OP because he said "my son" instead of "our son". That was it. "OP is clearly hiding something, you can tell how he feels about the relationship by how he s… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 02:26 PM |
| 8 | More women complaining about men not approaching them despite the fear of men they claim to always have.100%! And the crazy thing is that again, like... women will tell men "compliment a women's clothes". Like straight up, I thought that was suppose to be what you're suppose to do. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Dr K on female bullying/nasty behaviorI can't find it anymore, but I've seen an open letter from feminist sociologists threatening to stop working with journal because they published a critical study. Fun fact, sociology is 75% women 🙌 and the American Sociological Association is 85% women! (While also proudly displaying their DEI initiative I might add) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/24 03:20 AM |
| 9 | More women complaining about men not approaching them despite the fear of men they claim to always have.The super ironic thing is they also argue that good men will call out their sexist friends, Oh wait! Correction! Their "misogynistic friends"! I forgot feminists don't care about sexism anymore, but anyways, yeah, they're looking for good men that will call shit out, just not their shit. The Venn diagram cuts closer, and closer with every criticism. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/10/24 01:47 AM |
| 34 | More women complaining about men not approaching them despite the fear of men they claim to always have.Women "I feel horrified everytime a man approaches me. I never know if he's genuinely nice or if he's going to murder me". Other Women "No one ever said the problem was men approaching women" 🤦♀️ | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/10/24 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Homophobic Misandry?Dude you don't even know me. You don't know where I've come from, you don't know my culture, you don't know my values. You have an incredibly narrow-minded view of what Nonbinary people can be. No different then someone that stereotypes every queer as a flamboyant man running around going "YAASSSS GIRL!!" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/24 02:44 PM |
| 4 | Homophobic Misandry?I love how you're sitting here telling me I MUST be a gender abolitionist because I'm nonbinary, and ALL nonbinaries are gender abolitionists. That's just prejudice, full stop. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/24 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Homophobic Misandry?If you're sitting here telling me people 'tend' to process things a certain way I'm going to see that as an instance of majority representation, not an argument of objective fact, which is how you're presenting things. I'm also NOT a gender abolitionist so I don't appreciate the accusations, and I also don't appreciate the accusations of homophobia, especially when you're the one trying to erase MY representation from the discussion. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/24 02:28 PM |
| 31 | Homophobic Misandry?Dude the amount of downvotes I get anytime Nonbinary politics comes up... Like holy fuck. Like people will ask questions about being Nonbinary, and I'll answer them, and then they just argue with you, and downvote the fuck out of you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/24 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Homophobic Misandry?Research indicates that people tend to experience sexual attraction in more polarized terms This seems consistent with being socialized in a hetreo normative/ gender dimorphic culture, as opposed to the definitive way humans process sexuality. Aside from that though, in one sentence you're saying people 'tend to' experience sexual attraction in polarized terms. The key word there is 'tend to', which to me implies that this fact you're expouting is actually just a generalization. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/24 01:26 PM |
| 20 | When the Woman Who Proposed to Her Husband Calmly Defended Her DecisionI love how the first quote is basically, "People aren't upset about a woman proposing, people are upset because they have preconceived judgments." | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/10/24 09:24 PM |
| 26 | "positive masculinity" is whatever a woman like in a man. I.E. traditional masculinity all over again.My big thing about these terms is just to realize they're tools to manipulate people. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/10/24 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Can’t Crosspost but Valuable Commentary from r/LeftWingMaleAdvocatesGreat content ✌️ | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/10/24 01:48 AM |
| 26 | When men have contradictory views, they are all generalize as hypocrites. But when it comes to women all of a sudden it's "just two different people".The thing is you constantly have people telling you "If you do x, you'll never get a woman", "Women don't like y", "Men just need to do z". I show the inconsistencies in these points of view because they're bullshit, and I feel the pressure. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/10/24 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Comments in r/feminismJokes aside I would consider this hard power, it's just not direct. Being in control of the very terms, and definitions we use to conceptualize our society is hard power. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/10/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Comments in r/feminismSoft Power just happens to be my porn name. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/10/24 07:09 PM |
| 14 | How do you even make this upIt's self sabotaging. She's creating a dynamic where her partner is going to have to constantly bid for her affection, HE'S not going to feel appreciated, and next thing you know she'll be posting memes about low male egos after he dumps her. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/10/24 07:04 PM |
| 39 | Comments in r/feminismOoouu! This is a perfect post to remind people that sociology is 75% women. Women have tons of power in our society. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/10/24 01:19 PM |
| 9 | They think they disproving men issuesIf men want equality why did Hitler try to kill the Jews? Checkmate men! 👏 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/10/24 12:09 AM |
| 2 | More female teachers being caughtYou care about pushing your patriarchy narrative. Literally you're sitting here arguing these rapes aren't an example of pussypassdenined. How is that HELPING men. People here are trying to bring attention to women raping children, and your response is to post about how you always see men justifying rape? You aren't here to help men, you are here to push more political anti-male patriarchal bullshit. As a man that's been sexually abused I'm telling you to kindly go fuck yourself you political sh… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/10/24 10:28 AM |
| 19 | "Men are not interacting with women, because they have poor social skills".Alright, so I doooo have horrible social skills 😂 I'll fully admit to that. However... That is not why I don't approach women. The reasons I don't approach women are exactly what you described. Growing up I've heard countless times how don't like being approached, how they'd just like to be left alone, how unsafe it makes them feel. I seriously have like... no idea what a socially acceptable way to approach a woman would be. People will tell you to just develop hobbies, and have genuine friendsh… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/10/24 05:43 AM |
| 22 | Anti-Indian racism + misandry is supported on mainstream redditYup! The feminists I've known often do end up being racist. Sorry you guys have to deal with that shit. When people started using patriarchy as justification to be sexist I knew it was a short stone throw away before people used the same arguments to justify racism. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/10/24 05:04 PM |
| 31 | The future, not men, is the beneficiary of patriarchy - and we are all oppressed for itPersonally I don't think it makes sense to refer to our society as a patriarchy, and I actually find the term really toxic. People will tell you patriarchy is the cause of men's suffering, that because society sees men as leaders the prospect of a man showing vulnerability it creates a crisis. The reality though is that there are tons of men that are able to hold provider roles, that are able to hold leadership roles, and be vulnerable. There are men that are sole providers for their families, w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/10/24 07:46 PM |
| 14 | Feminist lies about male rape and domestic violence victims and other stuff1 in 4 men have been domestically abused by a partner. I'd like to see that addressed. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/10/24 11:02 PM |
| 24 | Has anybody had a chance to analyze the "Misandry Myth" study?Fun fact, over 75% of sociologists are women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/10/24 01:25 PM |
| 32 | It is cool to see a political candidate have policies to improve the lives of some menI see it as further resurgence of racist/sexist policy so I can't support it. If someone is living in poverty whether or not they recieve support shouldn't be based on their skin and genitals. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Well feminist admit in nowI don't gotta do anything. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/24 01:19 PM |
| 10 | Steps to counter misandryFucking eh! 🙌 I feel ya. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/24 12:38 AM |
| 5 | Why you guys are painting all feminists and women who hate men as same group of people?Its the effort to lower men's confidence and self-esteem by making us aware of assumed social power dynamics and applying them to ourselves. Fuuuuuck, I appreciate this articulation man. Feminists will often argue that generalized statements towards men are just about "the bad men", the predators, the creeps, but "check your privilege" shows men are expected to align themselves with generalized perspectives. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/24 12:23 AM |
| 8 | Why you guys are painting all feminists and women who hate men as same group of people?Men's issues aren't studied to the same level women's are. That in an of itself is a real harm. You've heard of the gender disparity in STEM right? Have you heard of HEAL yet? Health, education, administration, literacy. Women dominate HEAL industries by higher rates then men dominate STEM, but we don't address the situation the same way. Women are 75% of public school teachers, 74% of psychologist, 77% of sociologists, 91% of nurses, 81% of social workers. So my first issue with feminism is it'… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/24 12:15 AM |
| 18 | Why you guys are painting all feminists and women who hate men as same group of people?Again, is this a harm? As someone who has actually been exposed to the Duluth model, at length, it didn’t do me any tangible harm. I don’t accept the premise, I find it objectionable, it offends my sensibilities, but it didn’t actually do anything measurable to disadvantage me, which is the common charge against feminism. Is this a serious question? A battered man calls the police in need of help, and ends up being assumed to he the abuser. You don't understand how that's harmful? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/24 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else feel conflicted about voting left due to how dismissive and condescending the discourse on men has become? Men are unfairly reduced to violent, unemotional providers, with no space to address their issues. While I oppose conservative policies, this still frustrates me.Sociologists are extreme as fuck though. A shit ton of the misandrist attitudes towards men you see these days are sociological arguments which go on to impact policy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/24 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else feel conflicted about voting left due to how dismissive and condescending the discourse on men has become? Men are unfairly reduced to violent, unemotional providers, with no space to address their issues. While I oppose conservative policies, this still frustrates me.I can't in good faith support the totalitarianism I've been seeing on the left. The major issue with gender politics for me is that they undermine self autonomy, and individuality. When I've grown up being taught how gender roles are oppressive, I can't support political affiliations that are now willing to weaponize gender roles to achieve their goals. I can't support political affiliations that promote racial divisions. I can't support political affiliations that don't fight for basic rights l… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/24 11:25 PM |
| 24 | Well feminist admit in nowI feel like all I see about Kamala is superficial shit like this. Just fucking gender war crap, and partisan finger pointing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/24 11:09 PM |
| 28 | Steps to counter misandryI just wanted to say that over the past three years I've seen people confronting misandry more and more on reddit, and I'm proud of the work everyone is doing to help create that social progress. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/24 09:54 PM |
| 21 | I bet these are the type of people that say "misogyny is normalized,misandry doesn't exist"This is ironic because feminists argue women face more social oppression right? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/10/24 04:33 PM |
| 13 | The Toxicity of “Positive Masculinity”Agreed. Applying morality to human traits is just a way to assert control over others. Like when feminists say good men wouldn't oppose them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/24 03:29 PM |
| 8 | The Toxicity of “Positive Masculinity”I am so goddamn tired of being treated as a walking nuclear bomb. Great conceptualization. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/24 03:23 PM |
| 6 | We might see the pendulum swing when it comes to people complaining about gender roles. Since women might struggle to adapt to a new world where male gender roles are less prevalent.Your perspective on Liberals reminds me of a sociologists that was on NPR one time. The host was talking about using affirmative action to correct the disbalance between racial groups, and the sociologist responded that he believes in targeting poverty, which would end up giving more support to more disadvantaged groups by default. I miss that kind of leftism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/09/24 04:56 AM |
| 2 | We might see the pendulum swing when it comes to people complaining about gender roles. Since women might struggle to adapt to a new world where male gender roles are less prevalent.My sister once complained because she was living at home, and a tinder date asked her what her career plan was. Like... That's a completely reasonable question.. The only reason I see to be upset by that question is because it implies he expects her to work. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/09/24 04:51 AM |
| 30 | We might see the pendulum swing when it comes to people complaining about gender roles. Since women might struggle to adapt to a new world where male gender roles are less prevalent.To bring it back to what Dr. K said about men failing, because men aren't adapting to the modern world when it comes to female gender roles. And here I thought finding a partner was about personal compatibility! 🙌 Silly me. Sociological dating perspectives are seriously the most regressive shit. I fucking hate this shit. Yes trends are interesting, and hold useful information, but god damn people don't know how to talk about dating in an intelligent way that doesn't project a bunch of bullshit. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/09/24 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Because we all know men are the enemy… yawnI had keys bunched between my fingers just last night. Anyways though! All these comments from women about how men need to emotionally support each other has me thinking, women could start forming community watches. Like there's nothing stopping women from getting together to make the streets safer. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/09/24 03:59 PM |
| 11 | This sub being perceived as anti feminist isn't necessarily the real issue people have with this sub. I think the issue here is that we are ironically "too feminist" lol.I'd argue a large part of feminism is portraying women as weak. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/24 10:30 PM |
| 42 | Why do people demonize men so much?Because there's no social stigma against it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/09/24 10:20 PM |
| 44 | Positive male spaces that existI'm going to use the exact same argument structure. If women really cared about ending patriarchy they'd be emotionally and financially supporting men so we could break down toxic masculinity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | The Men's Rights Movement and The MediaI think I agree that recognizing the harm that society, and more specifically women do to men is going to be a massive culture shock. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/09/24 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Help Intact Global Launch a Constitutional Challenge Against Forced, Non-Religious Genital Mutilation of Males in OregonIt's possible it's a subject they've never thought about, and see it as just normal, so seeing people speak out against it seems extreme. That said I'm seeing a ton of comments lately taking anti-lwma stances, so it's possible we're getting brigaded. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/09/24 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Tumblr fucking sucksThat's a really interesting question. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/09/24 04:08 PM |
| 12 | "Why feminists say that misandry doesn't exist" question answered:I bring this shit up around feminists for two reasons, 1 feminists spread a shit ton of misandry, so yeah, it's a good spot to spread awareness. 2, if we're talking about rape, domestic violence, or other humanitarian issues, men deserve to be apart of the conversation. If feminists weren't making space for hate, and weren't excluding men from social support, this wouldn't be an issue. And I'm going to say that in the past 5 years I've been going at this, I've seen more, and more people standing… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/09/24 04:03 PM |
| 5 | A creepy male feminist out in the wildYeah... like... Why are men so upset about being compared to animals? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/09/24 04:05 PM |
| 8 | The fact that this sub is considered misogynistic or hostile towards women. Just brings more validity to the claim that a lot of women prefer benevolent sexism over equality.That's because confronting ingrained biases feels wrong, and there's no incentive. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/24 02:42 PM |
| 9 | Moms think more about household chores − and this cognitive burden hurts their mental healthI once had a date pull a knife out of my hand because apparently I was spreading my peanut butter wrong... I started to feel nervous cooking infront of her after that 😂 I definitely feel for some women there's this desire to like ... show me up? A similar situation I had a date over, and was looking for ketchup or something, but was out. She marches over to my fridge to look for it. I definitely remember in my family and others where I'd be barked out of the kitchen if I tried to help. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/24 02:34 PM |
| 14 | Moms think more about household chores − and this cognitive burden hurts their mental healthThere's this Facebook video where a mom is talking about letting her husband pack their kids lunch, and the husband puts the kids pretzels in a big container, and their sandwich in a small container. The mom chastises the husband about his mistake saying "What would happen if I wasn't here!". The husband responds "Well... I guess the pretzels would have gone in the big container, and the sandwich in the small container...". The mom is telling the story, and responds with "and that's when I reali… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/24 02:23 PM |
| 8 | Moms think more about household chores − and this cognitive burden hurts their mental healthThis is something that really bothers me about stay at home mother talks. People will list all these duties trying to get sympathy "I have to do the laundry, dust, doctors appointments, make sure the bills get paid, dishes, vaccuum, arrange the plumber! 🙌 People don't know how hard I got it!". But like...... Hoooow often are you going to the doctor, and calling plumbers? How much time are you seriously spending vaccuuming everyday? Personally a load of laundry takes me like... 5 minutes all toge… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/24 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Moms think more about household chores − and this cognitive burden hurts their mental healthDamn! Good call man. Yeah.. there's no reason for this to be a gendered article because there are men in the same position. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/24 01:54 PM |
| 29 | If feminists truly hate the male gaze. Then they should call out women who encourage other women to use sex as a tool of control.Alright! So one ironic thing I want to bring up is that like 10ish years ago when reddit had a surge of women coming to the site there was a bunch of controversy because women would constantly insert themselves into photos when there was no reason for it. It's kind of hard to explain because the culture of the internet has changed so much with the popularization of social media, but previously on Reddit, if you found a picture of a cool spoon, you just posted the spoon. You painted some Warhamme… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Progressive spaces shit on lonely men and then wonder why they go to scumbags like Andrew Tate for advice.Looking for information about dating is exactly how I ended up on fresh and fit actually 😂 I had a massive culture shock when I started on dating apps. I grew up being told how shit men are, how they're players, how they're selfish in bed, how they badly they treat women, but then I got on dating apps and learnt it's a two way street. Like I've been hit, I've been stolen from, I've been stood up on friggen Christmas. And this shit was confusing because I'd always been raised to call out bad beha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 03:22 PM |
| 14 | Why is racism the line most misandrists won't cross?Fuck! So I'm nonbinary, and my experience being Nonbinary has me flabbergasted learning the shit that women will do! I think this was one of my first or second times encountering this attitude in the wilderness. I had matched up with a poly girl on tinder, and we're at my place chilling talking about tinder, and she starts telling me about this dude (she called him a rig pig) who she matched up with. Apparently he was a coke head, and really confused about what her being poly meant, and her resp… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 12:18 AM |
| 69 | Why is racism the line most misandrists won't cross?This! In my experience if you're friendly enough with a feminist they'll start talking about how middle eastern men make them uncomfortable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/09/24 03:22 PM |
| 11 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"Fun fact! Men now face a higher discrepancy in college admissions then women did in the 1970s 🙌 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/24 04:16 AM |
| 8 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"But man!! Women weren't allowed to sign up for credit cards until the 70s! 🙌 Obviously that means women need support. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/24 03:51 AM |
| 19 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"I've definitely noticed feminists projecting in discussions, and think it's actually a foundational pillar of modern feminists arguments. i.e. Men have created structural systems that disadvantage women, so feminism creates structural systems that advantage women. Men are sexist, so that justifies sexist perspectives of men. Men have created toxic gender roles, so feminism creates new concepts of what a "good" man is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/24 02:30 AM |
| 18 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"I think I read recently that in the UK the amount of reported female on male pedophilia has tripled in the last 10 years. I recall another report talking about how if you're doing a survey of domestic violence for victimized men the terminology used to describe the act has a huge impact. If you ask a man if he's been hit by a partner you'll get much lower results than if you ask if he's ever been smacked, slapped, scratched by a partner. I wonder how this applies to sexual assault aswell. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/24 02:18 AM |
| 23 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"I've been mulling a concept I call Boardgame Patriarchy. Basically the idea is that potentially a lot of feminists see society like a boardgame. There's players, there's rules, you can win, and lose. If the game isn't fair, and some people keep losing, well that's because the game has unfair rules. And who makes the rules? Men! So if women get raped it because men have created a system that results in women getting raped. Society in reality though is a chaotic mess, and no one is in charge. (I h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/24 02:10 AM |
| 19 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"When I told my grandmother I was scared of my ex, the response I got was "but you're so much bigger than she is!". I abandoned all my property, and had to argue with my mother that I would NOT go back. So stupid. I read this report on domestic violence against males recently, and it mentioned seeking help as a victimized male can be traumatizing, and it seriously has been. Thanks for the sympathy my dude. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/24 01:26 AM |
| 7 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"Alternative explanation: Jar Gremlins. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/24 12:38 AM |
| 11 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"Whell obviously patriarchy gives men some sort of super power that allows men to be responsible for their choices, while women idk... Can only exist as God made them? Or maybe it's just that women are perfect, so if there's a problem is must be because they aren't receiving proper support. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/24 12:05 AM |
| 41 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"And fuck, just in regards to my personal life, to people I've personally opened up to. Men are constantly told these days they need to be vulnerable, they need to express themselves more. I've had exactly zero women ask follow up questions to me talking about my trauma. Not one "Are you okay?", not one "How are you doing?". And you know what? They don't have to, but feminists keep telling men they need to open up, and the reality is... the support structures aren't there for men. And I know the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/24 08:19 PM |
| 138 | Child Abuse Apologists -- "She's just overwhelmed!"This is something I've experienced when talking about my rape too. If I bring up the fact that I've been raped, and abused by women, the majority of the time on reddit I'll have someone commenting "I'm sorry that happened to you, but you need to understand this is caused by patriarchy". Like... wtf... How hard is it to say women can be predatorial? Last time I brought it up the response I got was "Rape against women is a systemic issue. Rape against men are isolated incidents". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/24 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else noticed the growing radicalization of general purpose 'women' subreddits?Sorry I'm still processing things so honestly I'm not even sure where I stand anymore, but realistically for myself, I already have a ton of these negative feelings internalized. I already feel uncomfortable because of the prospect that I'm making someone feel threatened. I think realizing it's an issue of female bigotry is helping me let go of that though. Like... It's not an issue of how I carry myself, or who I am as a person, or how "good" men are. It's that some men are predators, and I'm b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/08/24 06:24 PM |
| -3 | Has anyone else noticed the growing radicalization of general purpose 'women' subreddits?I notice I'm getting downvotes. Let me be clear, I think this shit is fucked up, I'm just deconstructing, and analyzing things. I don't think it's on men to put themselves down to appease women's fears or anything. Articulating a situation does not mean I support it. I think your example is moot, because this isn't about logic or fairness, it's about fear. Like humans kills more lions than lions kill humans, but does that mean I'm going to show sympathy to a lion out of fairness? No, because I s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/08/24 05:27 PM |
| -9 | Has anyone else noticed the growing radicalization of general purpose 'women' subreddits?The thing is it's not about any one man specifically. You can be Mr Rogers, and it doesn't matter, because there are other men in the world that still commit acts of violence, sexual assault, rape, and emotional abuse towards women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/08/24 04:44 PM |
| -8 | Has anyone else noticed the growing radicalization of general purpose 'women' subreddits?It's not about fairness, or consistency, just that at some level, men are a threat to women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/08/24 03:40 PM |
| 12 | Has anyone else noticed the growing radicalization of general purpose 'women' subreddits?Sooo I've gotten into some confrontations with women that want to support men, and the conclusion seems to be that while they understand what men are going through, and are sympathic, men are an existential threat to women. That seems to be the conclusion, and... I honestly don't see a path forward anymore.. Like... we can talk about patriarchy, and societal inequalities all we want, but at the end of the day... Men on average are always going to be bigger, and significantly stronger. Men are al… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/08/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | The American Sociological Association uses a sexist definition of rape!Check this out too! Their website has a subsection on how they all pro-DEI, meanwhile the staff is 85% women. 😂 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/24 10:25 PM |
| 3 | The American Sociological Association uses a sexist definition of rape!I'm not sure! It doesn't specify, but this made me curious so I checked out their staff page, and 85% of the staff are women. 17 out of 20 people. #patriarchy | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/24 07:54 PM |
| 8 | I hate the pressure society puts on men to have "game".I think when someone asks "Where can I meet women" what they're asking is "Where is it socially appropriate for me to approach women.", and I don't feel your question really answers that, because at some point... you have to make a move, you have to flirt, you have to escalate things... And with that comes risk, because she might not be into you, she might react negatively, she might feel threatened, or creeped out, or objectified. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/24 03:50 PM |
| 35 | Imagine getting offended over men wearing makeup.This is what happens when when groups start policing others based on systemic implications. I miss when social activism was based around defending people's rights to individuality. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/08/24 05:36 PM |
| 118 | I hate the pressure society puts on men to have "game".The one I find hilarious is guys will ask how to meet women, and they'll be told to pickup a hobby/join a group. Inevitably someone will bring up "isn't it considered creepy to join a group just to meet women?". Feminist: No! That is creepy! Just join a group to make female friends! Dude: But I'm trying to find a partner... Feminist: WHAT?! No!! Are you some creep that can't be friends with a woman? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/24 11:45 PM |
| 22 | On “Not all men but it’s always a man”I... don't see myself as apart of a collective? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/08/24 11:43 PM |
| 11 | 'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False ArrestDude it's the fucking internet. People can talk about whatever the fuck they want. There's no social decorum on how people need to respond to a post. If what someone feels like discussing is false allegations, that's fine. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/08/24 10:41 PM |
| 7 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is silly for two reasons.I've spent my whole life standing up for women. The attitudes towards men's issues make me wonder why I bother. Like why am I putting in so much effort when women don't even care to do the same. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/08/24 04:46 AM |
| 10 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is silly for two reasons.The college/university gender gap between men in women today is now bigger in favour of women then it was for men in the 1960s. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/08/24 04:39 AM |
| 26 | The phase "feminism is for men too" is silly for two reasons.Feminists have done this to me when I'm straight up talking about having been raped, and hit by women. "Oh whell patriarchy is the reason you're not able to get help! Men need to help men!". The otherday I had people telling me "Rape against women is a systemic issue, rape against men are isolated incidents". Another lunacy was when I was talking about about seeing misandry in my social groups I got "Due to the shift in power dynamics, women are now able to address bad behavior from men". Sooo..… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/08/24 04:35 AM |
| 20 | “How do I make this all about me?”/#BlameMen | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/08/24 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Project 2025 Hires, Incompetence, Criminals, and Unamerican. A Rebuttal To: Project 2025 Private Training Video: Conserving AmericaEhh... I feel like you haven't really presented enough why this is relevant to the sub. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/24 12:42 AM |
| 31 | It’s not about the draft: The draft is symbolic for men being made to put themselves in harms way for others benefit.It's the "step up" mentality. Sorry I don't have a ton to say off the cuff atm, but one thing that's been going through my head that we don't seem to acknowledge. Feminists frequently talk about the generational effects of gender dynamics on women's culture, and such. Do you know what I never hear being mentioned? What about the generational trauma of sending men to war huh? What about the mental stress of being financially responsible for a family? Like... it use to be common to just have your … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/24 11:12 PM |
| 9 | r/Science Mods leave up gender divisive post with false title.I've felt this same sentiment a lot these days with feminists narratives. On rBropill there was a bunch of "men need to step up and protect women" attitudes, and I really don't see how that's much different from traditional gender roles. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/08/24 11:16 PM |
| 7 | r/Science Mods leave up gender divisive post with false title.Shit, thank you for bringing this to my attention. No explanation from the mods, it was a shadow removal. I just dropped them a message in mod mail, let's see how they respond. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/08/24 09:00 PM |
| 6 | r/Science Mods leave up gender divisive post with false title.This post was a direct link to my comment, but it appears the mods of r/science have since deleted it. Here's a screen cap. The really stupid thing is I was the top comment on that post by a long shot. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/08/24 08:57 PM |
| 29 | Non problematic men are still often loop in with toxic masculinity, just because they have a few personality traits women don't find attractive in men? This is why I struggle to take some people using the term seriously.I'm friggen Nonbinary, can cry, can express myself and my feelings, I don't even really gave a concept of "not man enough", because I generally don't genderize human traits. If I get in an argument with someone about the sexism present in feminism, it's not uncommon for them to start throwing out the toxic masculinity card. Shit like this is whyyy I think the concept of toxic masculinity is so regressive. You don't take two such common casual words with such loaded subjective connotations, and s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/08/24 04:02 PM |
| 6 | Why is there is not a MaleAdvocates subreddit? why the only MaleAdvocates subreddit has "LeftWing" in it?the left will blame the patriarchy or white privilege, even for men’s own issues, even ones directly as a result of feminism. Ummm... Nonclassist liberals/socialists still exist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/24 11:19 PM |
| 16 | The way feminism wants men to act/feel about gender issues feels very religious/catholic to meFeminism has lots of things to offer, such as the breaking of traditional gender roles which force people into rigid ways of self expression. I don't know. From my perspective feminism has dropped the ball on individuality, and promotes a ton of rigid thinking. It doesn't even really seem to promote female empowerment these days. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 6 | The way feminism wants men to act/feel about gender issues feels very religious/catholic to meI've had this very thought 🤣 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 12:46 AM |
| 36 | Menslib being menslibThe cherry on top here is the pinned mod comment questioning the emotional state of anyone disagreeing. SUCH a progressive sub eh? Men should talk about their emotions, but also... they should do that somewhere else... Very progressive, yes yes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/24 10:06 PM |
| 18 | Menslib being menslibHow about the variable that there's a selection bias in prosecution. Prosecutors are going to select and pursue rape cases that are likely to result in a conviction. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/24 09:59 PM |
| 14 | Menslib being menslibThere's an underlying implication here I'd like to address, that if a situation only applies to a minority of cases that it's unimportant, less important, and not worthy of discussion or consideration. That if false accusations only account for a small percentage of rape accusations they shouldn't be talked about. By logic we shouldn't be concerned about rape period because 99+% of interpersonal situations don't result in rape. 99+% of Police interactions don't result in police brutality so obvi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/24 09:49 PM |
| 66 | We are seeing damned if you do, and damned if you don't type of situations playing out in real time.Another random vent. There was a drama story on reddit a bit back where a woman had a male coworker who was friendly, and polite by her own words, but he didn't socialize with the women at work. He was fine hanging out with the guys outside work, but just wouldn't take up any of the women's offers. She wanted to go to HR over it. I get that situation sucks, I get that likely there is some level of sexism going on, maybe he feels uncomfortable around women, maybe he doesn't connect with them, or … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/24 02:42 AM |
| 63 | We are seeing damned if you do, and damned if you don't type of situations playing out in real time.I very much agree with your sentiment. I've seen female friends talk about a dude seeming creepy for being "too nice", and that's valid, I get the concept of a guy being nice just to get close, but also... like... The dude was super nice to me too. I've been thinking a lot about the paradoxical nature of the "You're one of the good one's". The thing is... like... isn't the majority of sexual assault committed by friends, and family? The whole "We were friends for 5 years and then he made a move,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/24 02:31 AM |
| 25 | The male gender role of being the stoic rock in a romantic relationship is the most pronounced example of emotional labour that exists in life, and those who believe women do more emotional labour on average are either lying or ignorant.This is something I'm struggling with in dating. I want to go out and have fun with people, but I don't want to take on people's emotional debts. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/24 09:12 PM |
| 9 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?ummm... I support egalitarianism. Feminism is deluded. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 07:00 AM |
| 2 | What are people's opinions on TERFs and trans rights in general?You'd expect that people who have experienced discrimination would be a lot more understanding, but it doesn't seem to work that way. People can flip flop from "Its wrong for you to treat me that way" to "my criticism of your gender is valid". That's how we got modern feminism. Like tons of minorities are bigots. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 06:59 PM |
| 2 | What are people's opinions on TERFs and trans rights in general?Eh... I've noticed it doesn't really work out this way. People can just flip flop between their perspectives. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 25 | Rape apologetics and pedophilia apologeticsFucked up. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/07/24 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Why I'm here:The burden of proof is on the person making the initial claim Dude there's no rules. The burden of proof is on the person that wants to provide proof. especially when the claim goes against almost every paper printed on the subject. Except it doesn't. The claim is that there's a fundamental flaw in taxonomy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/07/24 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Why I'm here:I'm going to be blunt, I've been coerced, and I don't consider it rape. I've also had someone force themselves on me. I think there's a significant enough difference between pressuring or manipulating someone into sex vs forcing yourself on them. Anyways though, I believe in the podcast they were specifically talking about the fear of disappointment. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/07/24 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Did anyone get an archive of the comics situation?Oh! I wanted to vent this, and this seems like a relevant spot 😅 I was just at subway a couple of hours ago, the dude working the counter seemed pretty tired, whatever. So he's microwaving my sub when this woman walks in, he asks her was she'd like, she answered, he had to ask her to repeat herself. She asks him if he's okay, he says yes, and then she starts going off about his attitude, and if this is how she's going to be treated she'll spend her money somewhere else. Dude wasn't rude or anyth… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/07/24 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Why I'm here:Those are some nice claims you made, care to provide anything approaching a source for your 1% claim? Or your claim that these numbers are being deliberately inflated? Do you have data showing the numbers aren't inflated? Because what the person above mentioned does line up with my understanding of how these studies are produced. IIRC from NPRs 3 part podcast on consent, the majority of rape perpetuated against women was instances where they went along with it because they were worried about dis… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/07/24 05:07 AM |
| 19 | The Left has failed Men ... I guess | F.D. SignifierThe sad thing for me is we've made sooo much progress as a society, sooo much progress on social issues, and people have decided to regress back to bigotry. And it's like... I thought we were in this together. I really did not expect so many progressives to like... start pushing bigotry. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/07/24 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts? I agree with her that leaving an abusive relationship isn’t as simple as “just leave” and I appreciate her saying “some men”, but she seems to get worse the further into the threadWhen things were ending with my ex she randomly showed up to my place, I told her I didn't want to hang out, she followed me up the drive way, put her foot in the door, forced herself inside my place, and proceeded to tell me she was scared. She then jerked me off, and kept trying to get me to say things were okay between us. This would have been after she raped me. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/07/24 04:48 AM |
| 13 | Men are afraid women will kill them, r*pe them or/AND falsely accuse them, abuse them or/AND falsely accuse them before divorcing and taking their possessions, and so much more. Fеminists are afraid Disney will ONCE make a cartoon where a female character is not the only one (what blatant misogyny!)Yeah so I got raped once. My fear was if I defended myself I'd end up in prison. That's literally what was going through my head as my rapist forced themselves on me. It was soo fun having the women in my family chastise me for abandoning all my stuff at my ex's. I remember telling my grandmother I was scared of my ex, and the response I got was "But you're so much bigger than she is!"... My uncle was sympathic though, and shared a story about his ex kicking him in the back of the head while he … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/07/24 04:15 AM |
| 2 | I agree that fearmongering about trans people is wrong but so is fearmongering about cis men…And notably, those differences do not line up with the differences in rates of violence Line up how? It sounds like you're just talking out of your ass right now. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/07/24 01:24 PM |
| 6 | I agree that fearmongering about trans people is wrong but so is fearmongering about cis men…Notwithstanding, values for strength, LBM and muscle area in transwomen remain above those of cisgender women, even after 36 months of hormone therapy. Strength loss with 12 months of GAHT also ranged from non-significant to 7%. Taking these strength parameter data collectively, and in consideration of cisgender women demonstrating 31% lower LBM, 36% lower hand-grip strength and 35% lower knee extension strength than cisgender men, the small decrease in strength in transwomen after 12–36 months … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/07/24 03:20 AM |
| 2 | I agree that fearmongering about trans people is wrong but so is fearmongering about cis men…Show me a study. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/07/24 03:08 AM |
| 4 | I agree that fearmongering about trans people is wrong but so is fearmongering about cis men…I'm pretty sure hormone therapy doesn't actually rectify the differences in strength. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/07/24 03:04 AM |
| 35 | Comedian Janey Godley posting this tooI'm scared that women will lure me into a false sense of trust, and safety where they'll abuse me mentally, and physically, picking me apart until I've lost all sense of self. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/07/24 03:29 AM |
| 2 | So, I happened to come across a forum concerning Tobey McGuire (49) hanging out with an influencer 29 years his junior. The comments summarily bashed McGuire, so I wanted to ask you all what you think of significant age gaps between consenting adults, but from a male perspective?Yeah I don't agree whatso ever. I think social maturity, social skills, and psychological maturity are not that black, and white, ultimately most of what we're talking about is just social norms. It's fucked up to think that someone should ignore their own self autonomy in regards personal relationships for the sake of "social cohesion" as you put it. I'm never going to be "socially cohesive" because it frankly doesn't stimulate my brain, it doesn't make me happy, it doesn't interest me to devel… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/24 07:56 AM |
| 8 | So, I happened to come across a forum concerning Tobey McGuire (49) hanging out with an influencer 29 years his junior. The comments summarily bashed McGuire, so I wanted to ask you all what you think of significant age gaps between consenting adults, but from a male perspective?What about people lacking social maturity? I'm really dumb when it comes to social dynamics. Really really really really dumb. And I tend to wind up in abusive situations. Am I suppose to just not date? It's great to talk about power dynamics, but what about self autonomy? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/24 06:29 AM |
| 30 | “Large psychology study debunks stereotype of feminists as man-haters” - ”The Misandry Myth: An Inaccurate Stereotype About Feminists’ Attitudes Toward Men”There's an interview with a KKK member from the 60s or 80s or something, and the guy spends half the interview sitting there talking about how the KKK doesn't support racism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/24 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Indian men just lost legal protection against sexual assault. 2 days later, a female doctor genitally mutilates her partner because he changed his mind about marrying her. She recorded the abuse. Indian domestic violence laws are also gender-restricted.Yeah it's such bullshit. If I'm talking about the abuse I've faced from women feminists will just deflect to "Whelll it's not women that stop men from talking about suffering, it's the patriarchy!". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 10:47 PM |
| 11 | Indian men just lost legal protection against sexual assault. 2 days later, a female doctor genitally mutilates her partner because he changed his mind about marrying her. She recorded the abuse. Indian domestic violence laws are also gender-restricted.I remember reading a relationship post on reddit where a mother lost her shit, and started screaming at her kid. Half the comments were "What did the husband do to push her to that point?". Like leaving laundry on the floor is justification to yell at a child. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 09:38 PM |
| 16 | Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensoredThought that was just because that’s how the movement started and it went from there. I disagree with "that's how the movement started", feminists just take credit for egalitarian, and humanist progress. Regardless though, confronting traditional sexist labels is a big part of egalitarism. Men suffered just as much from “The Patriarchy” as women did and still do but we get sidelined in the culture war. The whole point of labeling society as "the patriarchy" is to put blame on men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 06:03 AM |
| 8 | Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensoredThat is inline with modern feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 05:29 AM |
| 14 | Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensoredI have to ask... Didn't you already realize they were ethically bankrupt since they're using a gendered label to identify themselves while claiming to be egalitarian? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 05:27 AM |
| 14 | Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensoredDamn, that's controlling as fuck. "Either you accept what I say unconditionally, or you're a troll". Ummm... How about no? How about I form my opinions based on my values, principles, and ethical perspectives rather than submitting to dogma? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 05:24 AM |
| 1 | radical women only hiring policy improves diversity dutch universitySmits thinks the fellowships brought about cultural change at the university, with decision-makers forced to look farther afield to find and recruit talented women. Many women were surprised to be headhunted, suggesting they would not have considered themselves qualified and would not have applied on their own, he says. In his experience, women are less likely than men to apply if they meet all but one of a list of job criteria. Because that eliminates many top applicants, he says, actively recr… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/06/24 02:04 AM |
| 3 | [Canada] In one Canadian study, 64% of male survivors of IPV who called police reported being treated as the abuser (Dutton 2012).I'm not going to debate with you about American stats. If you'd like, the link above from the Canadian government, and you'll see men, and women are abused are fairly close. About one third (36%) or 4.9 million men reported experiencing IPV in their lifetime (compared to 44% or 6.2 million women) (Cotter 2021). When asked about the previous 12 months, 12% of women and 11% of men indicated experiencing some form of IPV (Cotter 2021). The most common type of IPV reported by men was psychological (… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/06/24 09:05 AM |
| 9 | Does anyone else feel like this sub’s entire existence is proof that everyone assumes the worst about men’s issues?My assumption is just that it's about values. If this place was a general male advocacy group I feel the posts, and comments would be a lot different. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/06/24 08:52 AM |
| 38 | Female Self Snitching and Public Mistreatment: The Consequence of Gender RolesI had an acquaintance tell me she liked working payroll because if she got in a fight with someone "Whooops! Looks like you're missing 40 hours.". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/06/24 06:12 AM |
| 12 | Progressive Male Advocacy Discord Server: A Community for Informed Conversations on Men's IssuesSame with bropill. After I got raped, that's the community I got directed to, but it was just a bunch of content about becoming better men from a Feminist perspective. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/06/24 09:12 PM |
| 17 | YIKESI've been raped by a woman, so that's wrong. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/06/24 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Someone mentioned in a post a day or so ago that said they see the gendered anger in some posts here. Maybe this might explain at least some part of why that is. This is only part of a myriad of reasons of course.I've been hit, I've been stolen from, I've been stood up on Christmas, I've had people force their kids on me, I've seen abusive parents, one mom fucking sprayed her kid down with Febreeze instead of giving him a bath. I've been told "you're like the one good guy" just to get used, and fucked with. I've had to deal with suicide threats. I've been love bombed to hell being told "we feel like soul mates" just to be discarded. Dating culture is such a turn off at this point. I have female friends, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/06/24 09:02 AM |
| 3 | “Men are being shunned for good reasons”, “threats towards men don’t hold the same weight”Here's the thing... On average men are always going to have a physical advantage, so threats against men are never going to hold the same weight in the eyes of a femcel. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/06/24 08:26 PM |
| 11 | Nice misandrist female friends?That's fucked! I'm nonbinary, and yeah... There's a ton of sexism, and bigotry in the lgbtq community. I blame Marxism 😂 What they were doing was just abusive. I'm sorry dude. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/24 04:54 PM |
| 6 | Nice misandrist female friends?Does that bother you? What's the significance of getting called a conservative? Arguing against sexism does not in anyway make you a conservative. If you're just not in a position where you feel you can stand up against this stuff, I've been there, I can understand that, but if youre just worried about being unpopular.. I don't know man. I've always lived by the quote "For tyranny to prevail all it takes is for good people to do nothing". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/24 04:43 PM |
| 10 | [Canada] In one Canadian study, 64% of male survivors of IPV who called police reported being treated as the abuser (Dutton 2012).My assumption was it's satire. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/24 02:28 AM |
| 10 | [Canada] In one Canadian study, 64% of male survivors of IPV who called police reported being treated as the abuser (Dutton 2012)."rightly so" is a quote from the source. In research, policy and service delivery, more emphasis tends to be placed on violence against women (VAW) — and rightly so." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/24 12:21 AM |
| 49 | [Canadian Government] "Significant numbers of men in Canada experience intimate partner violence (IPV), though it is rarely discussed. In research, policy and service delivery, more emphasis tends to be placed on violence against women (VAW) — and rightly so."There's a TON of sociology work that's been done positioning men as the dominant class of society. Once you have that basis you can justify a lot of sexism. I feel like the general public isn't super aware of this stuff though so I'm curious what'll happen as people see it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/24 09:51 AM |
| 66 | [Canadian Government] "Significant numbers of men in Canada experience intimate partner violence (IPV), though it is rarely discussed. In research, policy and service delivery, more emphasis tends to be placed on violence against women (VAW) — and rightly so."One thing that really frustrates me about it is it's a self reinforcing loop. If you spend a disproportionate time towards researching, and discussing violence against women it's going to lead to more social awareness, which is going to lead to more reports, which is going to increase to perceived disparities between men and women, which reinforces the loop. It took me 6 months to even like... conceptualize I had been raped, and I'm an informed social active person. I'm the type of person that l… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/24 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Male violence and female fearI've definitely noticed that as the culture on reddit has polarized from it's more Liberal/Libertarian roots to left and right perspectives the concept of seeing, and treating men/women as equals has evaporated. Specifically I remember going to r/bropill after I got raped. I was told it was a progressive community, but a ton of the content was just about how men need to protect women, how men need to confront their friends. And then you start adding on patriarchy discussions... All the gaslighti… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/24 09:09 AM |
| 7 | Could feminist double standards contribute to rape culture? (Mona Chollet and the topic of mother on son abuse)Do you think we should put people in jail on just suspicion? A gut feeling? Like.... What realistic solution do you have that doesn't involve just shrugging your shoulders and saying "They need to figure it out". Rape is hard to prove. Like I've been raped, and the only evidence I have is my word. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/24 08:31 AM |
| 8 | Why do women commit less crimeI've been raped, sexually assaulted, and physically abused by women. I'd never report it, because the chance of things getting flipped on me is a huge fear. When I told my family I was scared of my ex the response I got was "but you're so much bigger than she is!". (Oh! Random tangent! I think you brought up testosterone as a biological factor, but testosterone aside, men are on average just bigger, and stronger which is highly beneficial in a criminal industry where you might have to defend you… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/24 07:51 AM |
| 27 | I posted the question "Are there thorough analyses of crime victimization by gender?" on the social science subredditYeaaaaah 😅 r/socialscience seems biased as fuck to me. They tend to only want to look at things from a class power dynamic angle. Apparently they think individuality is no longer a thing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/06/24 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Often overlooked is that for most of recorded history the vast majority of men did not have the right to vote eitherI feel like it's more of a Mexican stand off rather than any group of people having absolute control. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/24 10:04 PM |
| 10 | Often overlooked is that for most of recorded history the vast majority of men did not have the right to vote eitherThis is only loosely related. I was arguing with a misandrist about feminism, Spain's sexist rape laws (they only protect women), and feminists protesting against the creation of a battered men's group. The person started deflecting to an argument about patriarchy. "Who made the laws! It's not feminisms fault! Men made the laws!" Okay... But it's feminists currently standing in the way of abused men from organizing, and actually changing these laws. Also... Yes men originally created the law. Me… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/24 10:01 PM |
| 6 | This is from the UK. Men need to get out of there.I see it's being directed at women, but I don't see anything saying only women can report. My concern though is that we don't talk about the experiences of victimized men, which means people are less likely to recognize it, which means people are less likely to report it, which means it's not going to be shown in the data. Like I randomly get touched a lot, and I fucking hate it. Like I had a waitress just randomly draw her hand across my shoulders. Like wtf?! Shouldn't she know that's a violati… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/06/24 03:11 PM |
| 19 | Single women are happier... Whats your perspective on this?There's so many potential reasons, but the main one that pops to the top of my head is it's easier for women to find partners. You can be a 40 year old cashier as a woman, and there are plenty of guys that will want to be with you. It's not the same for men. So if a woman is single, it's more likely to be a choice. If a man is single, it's more likely to be a lack of opportunity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/06/24 11:54 PM |
| 5 | All this coming from a male misandristI think it's a false dichotomy. "It isn't misandry, misandry isn't real in the capacity that misogyny is" Yeah! Misandry, and Misogyny are different, and can come from different places. That doesn't mean misandry isn't real. That doesn't mean judging men for being men, and hating them for being men isn't misandry. The author knows they're misandrist, they're just trying to justify it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/06/24 11:34 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to women perpetuating issues that affect men, particularly gender role expectations. Feminists would do all the mental gymnastics in the world to explain how progressive women can't hold ridgid views.I don't agree with this perspective. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/06/24 03:46 PM |
| -6 | Should we apply Marx to men's issues?Addendum: I also don't like the totalitarianism of Marxism. I also think Marxism presents simple solutions to complex problems when the real world doesn't work that way. The idea that if we just eliminate capitalism humans will stop being petty doesn't make a ton of sense to me, I understand the argument, that there won't be a need to be petty without wealth inequality, but like... I think pettiness extends beyond materialism. I have soooo many issues with Marxism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/24 03:06 AM |
| -5 | Should we apply Marx to men's issues?You can apply anything to anything so I can't really reply to your poll. We could sit here and talk about rock music from the perspective of a moth. I'm pro social work, I'm pro social programs, I'm anti-classism. I think classism erodes individuality, and promotes bias, and bigotry. I also think a lot of the Feminist bigotry towards men comes from Marxist perspectives on feminism. If this place goes Marxist, I'm out. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/24 02:21 AM |
| 7 | What do we do when the inevitable male far right backlash comes?Can I ask a question? 🙋♀️ How does communism deal with greed, jealousy, and other forms of corruption that result in humans abusing their postions in society? Sorry! I have a ton more thoughts and examples, and challenges towards the topic, but I have to get to work! 🤦♀️Ironically 🤣 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/06/24 05:17 PM |
| -1 | What do we do when the inevitable male far right backlash comes?Genders are classes. People applied Marxism to Feminism, and that seems to be how we've ended up in regards to the modern culture surround human rights, and progressivism Intersectionality being the long way around of getting back to individuality. The absurdity of people pushing classism to me is historically classism is a tool of oppression. Aristocracy is classism. Caste systems are classism. Sexism is classism. Slavery was classism. Racism is classism. In my mind classism is the opposite of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/06/24 04:24 PM |
| 17 | Is there some term for the unwillingness to assign any malignant agency to anything women individually or collectively do? Example: when a woman murders her husband its is always portrayed as 'he made her do it'.Holy fuck!! The Hilary Clinton article in there?! I will institute gender-responsive policies in the federal prison system and encourage states to do the same—because women follow different paths to crime than men, and face different risks and challenges both inside and outside the prison walls, and every part of the justice system, from sentencing to the conditions of confinement to re-entry services, should reflect women’s unique needs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/24 01:40 PM |
| 4 | Throwing Men under the Busfound that when exams are marked independently and anonymously boys do better in maths than girls. However, when teachers are marking their own class, this switches, with girls coming out on top. In tests graded from one to 10, the average grade for GCSE-aged girls was 6.3, while the boys averaged 5.9. [Pass mark is 6]. https://ca.news.yahoo.com/girls-routinely-better-grades-boys-160600911.html Not the study, but here's an article referencing it. This.. fits with my experience learning to skydiv… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/24 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Throwing Men under the BusWealth has SUCH an impact on our culture, but I'm going to disagree with you that it's the underpinning factor. I think competitiveness is ingrained into humanity. Maybe not every human, certainly we have people that do more for others than they do for themselves, but just as a matter of how our brains form, and develop as we become people, competitiveness can be ingrained into a person's psychy. I think focusing on societal wealth is putting the cart before the horse. Before people have any con… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/24 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Since the feminist have discovered the Dog Question. I think we should have the talk.I had this person really push for me to open up, I was deep in depression, I didn't want to put that on anyone, they kept pushing, kept reaffirming me, I let them in. 8 months later I found myself getting smacked across the face for talking bad about myself. This person was a social worker.. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/24 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Misandry DOES KillThis Tedx talk feels like a perfect encapsulation. I was standing in the supermarket next to the bananas with my son George who's a little bit older than this now but it was about 10 at the time and he looked up at me and he said mom why are you obsessed with women's rights what about me and it started me thinking about men's role in feminism and gender equality. https://youtu.be/3Xu2JE2LoEY | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/24 03:08 AM |
| 14 | Misandry DOES KillFuck... This uhh explains a lot of what I've experienced in my family. I had a friend who was a married and my supervisor, and they made a pass at me. I asked for space, and she... did not care... She'd sit there and just stare at me. She was saying all these obsessive things to my friends and coworkers, she knitted me fucking gloves. She was telling people she was going to show up outside my house or was going to confront me when I was drunk somewhere. She fucking followed me out to a concert a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/24 03:00 AM |
| 16 | Misandry DOES KillUgh! And if you confront that it's followed by the double down of (victim) blaming everything on toxic masculinity, and patriarchy, which frustrates the fuck out of me because you'll have femandrists in one instance saying "women contribute to patriarchy, and toxic masculinity too", and then in another it's just "Men are responsible for their own problems". The otherday in a discussion on Man vs Bear someone was criticizing about how "men are allowed to express their emotions, they just choose n… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/24 02:36 AM |
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