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MALE DEPRAVITYNonnasaysfuckoff/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:04 PM
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Another person said this, but make sure you're also taking photos without him. You don't want to have moments in your life ruined if all your memories have your ex in them. Especially if he's a shit. So take photos and have fun, don't let him become your whole scope. Enjoy the holidays, spend time with your friends and family. He's just one part of your life, not all of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:58 PM
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There is no relationship unless you've met in person and spent time together in person. Online relationships are about as real as your online "friends" who refuse to meet you in person. Seriously, what is even the point of an LDR? And even if you had met bad he had to leave,unless he's moving back after a bit, then what's the point? Genuinely. You're not even getting what you need from a relationship at that point, you certainly don't know what he's doing without you. The whole reason you want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:35 PM
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No but there is an uptick in violence against women. Always lies with these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:30 PM
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He paid to rape them, it was all violation . Edit: Apparently he lives near the Flathead Reservation... there's a real possibility he played a part in the missing women there. Someone needs to check up on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:55 AM
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At their own expense. Power to them but they do themselves a disservice with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:22 AM
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He's a footnote in their story at best. Can't believe this shit. They'll do anything to give themselves credit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:04 AM
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One of the most dangerous times for a woman is the end of her relationship and the time after that. Ghost. Block and delete. I don't say this to be petty, when I give this advice I say it purely from a self preservation standpoint. You don't owe anyone a conversation when you break up, you said all you had to say in the relationship and they didn't give a crap. They didn't listen then and they won't listen when it's done with. If you do feel the need, then a simple "it's over" text will do. It's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:02 AM
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Are you lost, baby girl? I watched a review of this movie for laughs, and that scene wtf I literally gagged and had a full body shudder, the grossest thing. Just ewww on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:32 PM
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I heard he was a pos in real life too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:30 PM
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Wattpad fanfiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:29 PM
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This should be on askFDS, and I recommend reading the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:27 PM
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He's using the woman while showing up for the friends. Every ounce of his respect and attention is in the male relationships, the woman is just there for him to unload on before he goes back to his friends and gives them what the woman is always asking of him; love, attention, respect, effort etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:52 AM
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That's my feelings on it too, the things that were said by the men from their own mouths and no investigation happened? Let alone Netflix purposefully brushing it all aside. Did any of those victims get free, get justice, is the cult still going? I don't know and they certainly don't seem to want to tell us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:00 AM
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That's actually ridiculous lmao, at least he showed himself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:38 AM
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It's worse because he would go there for sex tourism, I think they even mentioned in the documentary. He's probably still out there hurting girls, guy is sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:30 AM
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No Joe Exotic, who became sort of infamous and beloved by men as a result of this documentary. The guy who tried to put a hit on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:29 AM
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Do MRAs and men even need a reason, I feel like they just naturally hate women and will use anything to attack them. I'm remembering Kamala Harries and them citing her 'awkward laugh' as a reason the DNC is thinking of replacing her. Like why would that even be a reason???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:36 PM
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It was honestly crazy, I don't know how they legally justified it. Don't know how her lawsuit will go either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:31 PM
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That's fair but the husband was a groomer and a rapist. So were the rest of the men in that show, she's not perfect but they're monsters and it was fucking gross how Netflix glossed over their crimes(the things they admitted to wtf!) while trying to highlight her flaws felt intentional, in the case of making it seem like she murdered her husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:30 PM
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Literally, been doing extra reading into the one child policy and it's really messed up. On such a mass scale too, they would force sterilization after one child amongst many other atrocities. Always women suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:18 PM
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Best thing that ever happened with delivery in the last two years. I always get contactless delivery and wait till they drive away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:15 PM
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Homosocial basically, they value each other and women are there to be used and to benefit from. He cares more about this sicko stranger's feelings than his own wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:11 PM
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Why are you just a whole boss ass mood though lmao! Like that was beautiful to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:06 PM
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Make sure the cameras are blocked if you're by yourself, there's a real market for hacking these and men spying on women(and children...even baby monitors aren't safe) through them. They'll just watch you through them, one of the scariest things I learned years back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:02 PM
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Yeah and they'll reminisce about their jolly days of harassing and serving on women. Birds of a feather, motherfucker didn't care because he's just as fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:59 PM
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Yeah his reaction was so lukewarm like wtf. This man violated your home and your wife's belongings and you just chalk it up to "strange"? I would be livid, and I would have pressed charges(they would of stuck since he was a man, if he actually had a backbone and stood up to that shit).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:58 PM
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Yeah reading what she wrote made me sad, you could see how he messed her up by what she wrote. I hope she's okay honestly. Hope she gets free and heals from all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:07 PM
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Absolutely, they told her they were going to do one thing and then did another. They lied to her about the intent of the series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:54 PM
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No worries! But it was a funny part because she says it like it was karma lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:45 PM
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Yes they do mention it in season 2, it's in the article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:39 PM
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It's Carole's right to have this out there, Netflix doesn't deserve to make money off of her imo(and she doesn't want them to either).She has her own show out now I think on Discovery, maybe people can check that out instead. I agree on the Breaking Bad thing, they'll always blame the woman. They don't even need a reason, it's just their hatred that provides their opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:34 PM
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I don't believe shit about what they say about women anymore, I always find the truth to be opposite to the narrative they try to spin. Edit: Also fucking gross how when you google this they'll put up a men's rights article about it as well.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:45 PM
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He forced her to be his mistress, abused her to the point she doesn't know what she's feeling. This is horrific, especially when you read her letter(it's been translated to English, I'll try and post the link). Okay this is the Chinese version:https://mobile.twitter.com/emilyzfeng/status/1455558117190615053 It's not letting me link the English but the Twitter user who posted it is @RaducanuIN (delusional raducanu Stan) for anyone who wants to go look it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:32 PM
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Even Dobby had some self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:29 AM
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Who gives a shit. Women can die from various diseases they get from these unwashed, STI riddled walking bio weapons. They can die from childbirth. They can die from the years of abuse men put them through, the dangerous and sick sexual fetishes these freaks have. Hell even the stress can k.ill us. The fact that they're unstable wackos and being near them shortens your life just because they're that crazy. And we're supposed to give a shit about...blue balls? They have hands don't they. Better ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:25 AM
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I doubt this is a man who even wipes, so it's nothing new I assume.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:47 PM
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Yeah how old is this guy, feels sus that she moved in with him and his roommates. I got a series weird vibe when she mentioned her age and moving in, at the start of the video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:47 PM
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Literally, aside form the pick me bullshit why tf did we have to see a whole minute of literal shit? Like if you're gonna film it then do it quick and show us an after video at least lmao, all I saw was struggling to remove shit crust which made it even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:46 PM
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Talk about what goes around comes around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:57 PM
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Yeah..I feel bad because he's definitely emotionally abusing her. But the writing is on the wall, she sees it all and now that she has a baby she needs to make a decision. Once a kid enters the picture, you yourself become an enabler of abuse by not leaving. It's harsh but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:54 PM
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This comment was a damn rollercoaster let me tell you. Kept waiting for the things he did to stop and then you just kept listing more mess lmao.😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:50 PM
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Oh man, did you know they sealed the deal with the residency based on the clause that she had to be in a conservatorship? Meaning they wouldn't hire her without one...sketchy hotel is all I'm saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:18 PM
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Yep, they put her under conservatorship for early onset dementia too. All I needed to know is was utter horseshit. Mentally incapable of holding counsel but can go perform like a circus monkey without any rest? Fucking crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:08 PM
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There's a video I linked about him and there's even more info. He is definitely weird, I don't think she has any good people surrounding her which is sad as all hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:17 PM
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My feelings exactly. Make what work? He's treated you like crap and you want to compromise with him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:11 PM
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To harass women. They like hurting women, in any way they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:11 PM
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He has ties to Lou M Taylor and tristar entertainment so he's definitely sketchy. And there's receipts for all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:31 PM
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Translation for a lot of that is they just want a bangmaid, who is out of their league to boot. Mf are not complex, I don't listen to men even more, just drown their voices out lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:55 AM
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I feel you,been following this case closely and have felt powerless just reading up on some of the stuff that's happened. Can't imagine what she and others like her are feeling. This is a win and her case sets a precedent for all the others suffering the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:48 AM
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Because the judge was also corrupt, the current one as well. The lawyer she has now is on her side but the one before was responsible for getting her under her conservatorship. Not to mention she was deemed medically incapable of holding counsel. They completely violated her constitutional rights at every level. There are court documents you can see. And the videos I have show exactly how they put her under this. She was in psychiatric hold and forced to stay there, all this was done without her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:24 AM
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Absolutely, her case exposed a lot of people. People who had been victims of the judges highlighted in the case as well as the probie court that did this to her are speaking up. This case named names, so everyone involved is being looked at by the general public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:21 AM
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You're just helping a POS man con another woman, as well as playing not only a free therapist but also a secretary and life manager. Fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:35 AM
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Yep, I think the other one was also picked out by her father. Asghari has some shade to him too I think he and his sister are employed by an agency with ties to Lou. It's honestly bizarre, she's such a sweet person and is surrounded by garbage all around. Not to mention Kevin Federline who benifitted off of this and his income is literally just from her. He doesn't do shit but spend her money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:39 AM
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Don't forget one of her BF's was also her conservator. Meaning he literally owned her. I can't even imagine what he did to her. Let alone everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:19 AM
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Also it's insane she was put on lithium as it's a family thing, her grandmother and her grandfather's previous wives were also put on lithium and periodically sent to the sanitarium(he put them there). When you read the report of her grandmother's death it's chilling because she was obviously murdered(by the grandfather) but they describe it as a suicide... it's honestly shocking and yet not. Her sister and the rest of her family is involved in this as well. The brother is a total fucking creep …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:14 AM
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Here's some YouTube links really explaining how she was targeted and how deep this all goes: Deep Dive: part 1 part 2 part 3 part 4 part 5 part 6 This one is another YouTuber called Sloan: Britney speaking at her court hearing The Doctor responsible for aiding in her consorvatorship -this dude helped make the law that states a person can be mentally incapable of holding counsel Her sketchy current bf -this crazy and the lawyers involved in the case(everyone who did this knows each other) even ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:11 AM
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Why do they even act shocked I don't understand. You ask for nothing and then get shocked you got nothing. Even worse because you'll get well into the negatives, because a scrote will ruin everything about them just because. There's literally no gain, it's worse then no gain, you actively lose on multiple levels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:48 PM
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I feel like women need to screenshot these types of posts from scrotess they have as mutuals and then just DM the women in their lives with them as a warning. You see he has a new woman in the picture? Slide into her dms and send her some of this losers comments/posts, whatever happens after at least you did another sister a solid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:45 PM
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Tbh for everyone questioning things and advice we all share, please realize we're all trading notes and observations. We're sharing it so our other sisters are aware of it and hopefully have a better experience. Everything here is a direct reaction to how men and society are. If it was a perfect world we wouldn't need to be like this, but it's not and we have to acknowledge and work within the reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 10:25 PM
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Jesus Christ, that shit is a special level of disturbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:02 PM
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100%, there is some deep disturbing shit happening with her and the people surrounding her. It's all going to come out one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:01 PM
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Nah, they do that just for the song. Same thing with Doja Cat, her music is good but you can't tell me she's singing about being choked/slapped and being a masochist and then say she's not a pickme because she has a couple songs calling men out. It just doesn't work that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:30 PM
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This! Even when she was being sexual it never seemed like it was for men specifically, just something about the way she presented herself lacked that certain male gaze vibe, I don't know if anyone else felt that way seeing her. On Billie, even when she was doing that covered up shtick she was dating men almost 10 yrs her senior, when she was a minor to boot. She seems to be a victim of the industry, her family and the men in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:29 PM
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It's less sex sells, and more "women are sold". To men specifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:26 PM
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9/10 they're a sign of a butthurt man. They'll always have an attitude if they're either bald or short, probably because they're derided by their fellow bros about those very things. Napoleon syndrome with the short guys and for some reason a lot of aggression for the baldies. If the bald is natural and not some type of premature balding(that obvious receding hairline) it's less of an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:01 PM
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Aside from the clownery, women need to stop announcing they're going to be alone in a country on social media. I hope her account is anonymous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:59 PM
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I hated that movie, and especially since I don't like Ryan Reynolds as he's an lvm prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:57 PM
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Or when they repeat what you said back at you, after they ignored and belittled what you said. Fucking thieves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:56 PM
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There was an article I read once, that said one of the highest traffic times for porn usage was right before the work day. And the most popular was what you described, also a prevalence for "destroying" women in positions of power. These same men go to work and interact with their female co-workers, having just deliberately jacked off to porn that dehumanizes them. They become increasingly aggressive. It's a cycle of watching that porn to devalue real life women, and then becoming further degene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:09 AM
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Not Tarantino lmao, save us from that guy and his foot fetish.😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:44 AM
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God this, so much this. They just regurgitate the basic shit they think will make them seem "cultured".Because they're just not like other guys see; "they're above all this, they see the truth of society." It's like they watch V for Vendetta once and read a page of Machiavelli's "The prince" and they think they're the second coming. Or if they read a page of Marx and suddenly experiment with communism, or they think they're so anarchist because they dislike authority (LMAO to this one) or wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:42 AM
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Full of audacity, he knows he's trash and he's damn proud of it. Especially since he can con women into settling for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:42 PM
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Exactly, and to add to your point what about the whole women are basic stereotype??? And yet some pathetic dude who drinks beer, eats chicken wings and watches sports, or the guy who only likes classics and drinks scotch and his wardrobe is basically a men's catalogue he based off 50 shades of Grey. What about the weirdos having whole computer setups to play video games who always say "delete my search history when I die" to their bros. Mf's are so boring it's not even funny, it's literally just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:23 PM
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Anything you genuinely enjoy is a damn vet. Because men hate when we're happy and absorbed in something that's not them. Selfish pricks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:15 PM
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You can see my previous post. It is also happening in Denmark(another user posted about it), I heard Germany as well and there's an instance in the US(there's probably more but the media isn't reporting on it in the mainstream enough imo).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:14 PM
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Don't forget there was needle spiking at that event. Which has become an epidemic happening in clubs, bars and crowded areas. Victims are usually women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:41 PM
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This is why I find the way media lies about male and female friendships to be another form of the prince charming trope. It's that "true love, men are so wonderful" rot we're fed from a young age, from those Disney movies and other things. I've noticed it a lot, the representation of men on screen has really turns into "omg he's so lovable let me protect him uwu", and the friendships is literally just the women doing emotional labour for fuck all. Like they've changed from the "mumbled,slob lose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:39 PM
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Considering what's going on with Korean Feminism I call bullshit on all that fantasy of the men there. Honestly I feel like just look at the feminist movements in other countries and you'll see what women are struggling with there. You'll see what the men are really about. And here is the obligatory small dick emoji for all those pressed scrotes over there:👌👌👌👌🖕 Y'all really need to tune into the convo that was happening about that emoji, mf are childish af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:29 PM
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It's all abusive manipulation in every single sentence you shared here. If a man even says something remotely resembling what you shared then RUN. Please read the handbook and check out the book "why does he do that" by Lundy buncroft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:10 PM
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Millie Bobby Brown's situation comes to mind. Her grown 20 yr old boyfriend was arranged for her by her parents, he even lived with them. This freak had a live where he talked about how he abused her sexually when she was 16... The world is a sick place and a lot of parents are complicit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:08 PM
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That's why men pushed so hard to get that changed. It was always a predatory pedo thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:06 PM
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That's why they call grown women, girls. To make us small because we can finally stand up to them. And it's why they call girls, women. Because they want to use that as a way to groom and abuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:06 PM
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They get off on humiliating you. It's literally the abuse of it all that's the kink. The way they can abuse you may present with different fetishes, but at the core it's all about you being hurt that does it for them. Fucking freaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:03 PM
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Oh my god literally. He sound like he's a second away from raping her. This is unhinged shit, beyond fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:01 PM
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I've heard the men have moved to hinge for casual sex. Maybe they've exhausted the other avenues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:48 PM
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No. The very business model of online dating, matchmaking etc is that women are the product and men are the buyers. You're just paying money to be sold, it's a shit show. Vetting strategies would always be your best bet, meeting people irl. Joining things you actually enjoy, and if you meet someone then that's great(still vet though). I think women can try OLD and practice how to vet, how to spot red flags etc. You might have success but imo it's just too much damn work for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:48 PM
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Damn, so he was stupid and pornsick. Couldn't even spell his fetish right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:43 PM
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They're making sure the women in their lives know they need to be "taken" care of. The kind of loser who never grew up, thinks the way his parents took care of him as a kid is his due in life with any woman he meets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:41 PM
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They don't even value them. They absolutely love taking a woman "out of their league" and destroying everything about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:39 PM
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You're right, needles should be easier to check for then regular drugs. This shit is escalating, UK, Denmark,US and I heard incidents in Germany as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:21 AM
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All of this. OP if you're still following , she's right. No matter how you see it he will see it as using you, that's why they're lvm. You don't need to suffer or put yourself in a bad situation out of loneliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:17 AM
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I'm remembering that story about a user who went on a flight and saw some next level shit from the dude in front of her. He was switching accounts and servers like it was nothing, they'll really learn all the ways to fuck around behind your back(this guy has a wife and kids and was on a trip where he was buying male prostitutes by the numbers).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:11 AM
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You can also turn off people following your account. It's in account settings, also turn off appearing in search and appearing in Reddit username search. Blocking means they can still see your comments and posts but you can't ever see them. However I found taking away the option to follow me works well, of course they'll still creep on here but I've removed that direct access.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:58 AM
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I'm so sorry, you were incredibly brave and so damn strong. Even your kindness when speaking to that other woman, I'm honestly taken aback and very proud. I hope she finds peace, he sounds like an absolute scum. Hope he burns in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:55 AM
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Yikes. Sis read the handbook and buy a good vibrator. This isn't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:48 AM
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Heads up! There is reports of it happening in the US as well, just saw articles of this happening at astroworld, Texas at Travis Scott's concert. This shit is spreading for real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:39 AM
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Crazy!! Thanks for the info, honestly everyone stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:37 AM
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I just posted not a couple weeks ago about this happening in the UK, another user posted about the same thing happening in Denmark and now we're hearing it's happening in the US. I don't know whether there are more reports or if this was the first incident of this, but suffice to say spiking by injection has occured there which means there are people(men) who have access to these things. I didn't expect to follow this but I'm following this phenomenon, this is getting insane. Edit: If anyone can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 04:47 AM
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Too real. But honestly didn't we have horror stories just these past two months alone about that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 03:09 AM
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Those are just serial killer pics to me now. Nothing good can come of that imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 03:06 AM
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I don't quite know but it would be your word against his, if he did know you or you tried to file a report yourself. He could very well say he wasn't doing shit and you attacked him out of nowhere, it happens all the time in DV calls, they go from crazy to "yes sir, sorry sir", polite and charming, making themselves look reasonable. I know if we're in those situations we'll do what we have to, but from a legal point of view we will pay for it one way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 03:05 AM
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Girl what???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 12:54 AM
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Yeah it's pretty much just code for an insecure man. Also a man whose only way to feel powerful is if he's actively making a woman feel weak. When he sees his abuse tactics aren't working, suddenly you're intimidating. It's pathetic af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 12:53 AM
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If you can't find the movie, there's a clip by a YouTuber called Sloan available. He does an expose on Leo DiCaprio and the clip is close to the end of the video. It's actually pretty gross and I think I saw the real DiCaprio, the one that isn't the PR image he puts on for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 12:40 AM
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Don's Plum. There's a scene where he verbally harasses this one actress, he actually didn't like her for real not just as the character. He wanted to push her to leave, called her all the names in the book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 12:31 AM
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I hope so but you never know, there's another post that said the needle spiking has spread to Denmark. Where they inject needles into women, they don't even care where. It's hit and run style injections women are dying too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:17 PM
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If it's in Canada you're fucked whatever you use. There's literally no rights for self defense there. Tbh though as long as it's the woman doing the defending, she'll get into trouble with the law whatever the case may be. I heard the woman was more likely to be arrested for DV calls in the UK, about 80% and that they were more likely to be murdered after that fact. It emboldened their abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:16 PM
76

Honestly just organize a fun party of your closest female friends. You can alternate houses/apartments. I think it's the only way to be just have fun without being on alert the whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:55 PM
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I get it that's why the handbook is there. If you read it it will provide the best basis of recalibration for you. Also the book "why does he do that" by Lundy Buncroft. You need to make the choice and take the steps, because you keep going in circles. And I'm saying this because I want change for you, because you CAN do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:21 PM
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Apparently they're also getting date rape drugs online, in bulk(like 150 per order!) and on the cheap. Srsly please just don't go to these places, is it even with it anymore. This is why I don't drink shit, not even water around men. They're so sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:04 PM
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Okay, I'm gonna go tough love here after looking at your post history. Girl, he is a 32 year old man who is an alcoholic and has other issues. He verbally and emotionally abuses you, refuses to leave your house so he's a squatter. You have children as you've stated and you're 27 yrs old, having been with him for two years. You need to step up, it's not just about you. You have this man living with you and near your children. You are not protecting your children and you are actively putting them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:03 PM
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Oh shit it's spreading. This is happening very aggressively in the UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:53 PM
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This is why I say don't trust men, but especially don't trust them in vulnerable places. If you're in an AA meeting, group therapy, SA survivor subs, abuse subs etc absolutely do not ever trust the men reaching out to you. And if it's online then don't automatically assume you're speaking to a woman, you don't know who's behind the screen, not really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:52 PM
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This is also a really good point, I see this happen with women a lot too. They take the brunt of childrearing, or all of it and they get nothing. Pushed into a retirement home and not even in most cases. Elderly abuse is also a very real thing and it's usually the kids who do it to their parents. I'm sorry this is happening to you, I hope you know you are worth more then how they're treating you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:44 PM
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Yep, shit self defense laws are absolutely anti women. They don't want us to actually be allowed to fight back against them. When it involves men's need to terrorize women I guess anything goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:47 PM
24

He was in a movie once that was almost completely improv, he had it blocked from being shown in the US and Canada. I managed to see a clip form a YouTube channel that does exposes(called Sloan I think, not my fav but does have good tea) and he was so gross. He was very young in it, but you can see what absolute piece of shit he was. The things he said were atrocious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:30 PM
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Does anyone know if this type of selling is happening elsewhere? If it's online then I assume there's other countries where this is happening as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:21 PM
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You have to realize, that that's the majority of men. We're talking in the 90th percentile. If almost every woman out there has been absurd by a man, it also follows that almost all men have done the abusing. The entire system is what's wrong.and the system will never change because men know exactly what it would mean if there was actual punishments and consequences for their crimes. They know they too would be punished and they won't ever co sign anything that could put their ass in the line of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:20 PM
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This is why I'm tired of the "they're just teenagers" shtick. Fuck that bullshit, teenage boys are awful, and account for the majority of the harassment we recieved at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:14 PM
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This is why I say you can't judge women with the same moral stroke as men. Us going through their phone is to see if they're going to hurt us. Them going through our phone or other things like medications, clothes etc IS to hurt us. They'll put tracking software, they'll mess with your medications, who knows what else. Fuck that shit, were not trying to be one another statistic. One nobody gives a shit about, and instead they'd blame us for trusting these men too. So fuck that shit really, they'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:10 PM
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Absolutely. A lot of development stops or is thrown askew because of trauma, especially at such a crucial age in your development. He got her young, too young and he had her for years. No to mention she was reviled by the general public for years, she really didn't have anyone in the corner, I'm amazed she's as okay as she is honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 07:44 AM
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She's forced to share custody with her abuser who slanders her online and probably to the kids. Tbh I don't know that this is worse, it's certainly not great, but the kids are in an awful situation regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 07:41 AM
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Absolutely. The sabotage part is really important. Because it's not as simple as someone being a cartoon villain. -The pattern will show itself but it's usually initiating fights or drama at an important time for you, like exams or an interview prep etc. Or do they suddenly want to see and talk to you all day during their times, despite not being like that otherwise. Getting touchy feely etc. -Not liking your friends and family or immediately having issues with them means they see them as a thre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:47 AM
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Yep. Apparently cases have less chance of sentencing then they did not even 5 years ago. Not mentioning the joke that is the actual punishment and how often they get out earlier for good behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:50 AM
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It was literally like going to the redpill, PUA and MRA book reading. Mf probably had his flash cards right next to him, he wasn't even engaging with her. Refused to see it wasn't working and just kept finishing his script. I've had better interactions with the people calling me for duct cleaning or newspaper subscriptions, they at least know how to go off script and bullshit on the fly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:34 AM
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Lmao maybe, but no I meant "pro male propaganda" 😭😂. Just fixed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:22 AM
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Oh wow, glad I could offer insight! I'm really happy for you and proud as well. I know we don't know each other, but when I see my fellow women level up and realize how amazing they are, I just find it amazing. Honestly we could look at our past interactions with men and find an endless story of how they manipulated us, a lot of it isn't even because they were masterminds, it's because society paved the ground for them. Female socialization, pro male propaganda, female infantilization and patria…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:16 PM
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I think that's more just rape, it's not consent unless it's free and willing along with the chance to say no with no consequences. Also a lot of men make up those rumours to insult and degrade us, their disgusting egos can't fathom that we're better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 09:44 PM
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Men turning on women at moments of vulnerability is a well documented things. It's the norm sad as that is to say. The vetting strategies we discuss weekly will all help you, the handbook as well. It's why we always say just block and delete at the first sign of a flag, it's not worth it. There's no reward at the end of the tunnel to give a man a chance, just pain. I'd say tests like the blood in the water test, where you feign a vulnurability nd see if they use it against you. -See how they tre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 09:41 PM
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Wow what a fucking scrote. It's not you though and it's not love either. These desperate deluded losers think we're all willing to sleep with them and all they see when they see is is a potential fuck. Personally I'm pretty distant and borderline cold with men in the workplace, nothing good ever comes of engaging with them. I'm sorry this happened, what a moron that guy is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 09:29 PM
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I have so many things to say lmao, would love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:36 AM
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I never liked Dean, he would fly off the handle any time she didn't act like he wanted. Like when he lost it because she didn't say I love you back. Or when he said that woman should be in the house and make food rot, which Rory went along with for some insane reason. He also was insanely jealous and got into fights with Tristan, even though Rory never showed an ounce of like for that guy(unlike with Jess). His cheating was pretty much par for the course imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:57 PM
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I believe that's true for operations, women who seem isolated, vulnerable, poor, quite a lot of Indigenous women especially in Canada. There's also intimate partner trafficking ,which make suo a significant amount of sex trafficking. This one is more difficult imo because it all depends on what the man chooses, it's a good reason to vet and keep your guard up. And be careful of social media, I heard Facebook had an issue with traffickers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:55 PM
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People don't realize how common trafficking in the west is. I believe the states with the highest hot spots are California, Texas, New York,Ohio and Florida. City wise it was Washington,Atlanta, Orlando, Miami and Las Vegas. In Canada air seems to be Nova Scotia, Ontario. Halifax being high rate city. This is all in numbers that have been reported, I assume the reality is much worse. The trafficking victims for sex trafficking are most often young women, under 25 yrs of age though there are many…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:30 PM
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Yeah I can't watch it. He's so evil and everyone loves him, literally every convo is about how "he's not that bad" and has his reasons or he has a moral code. Fucking sick. The world is so backward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:13 PM
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Then you know best here, you can say no to this specific date if it makes you feel weird. It doesn't need to have a complex reason, if you're not feeling something then it's your right to say no, he should respect that and you can both move on and do something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:49 AM
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Relationship 'Therapists' are verified grifters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:44 AM
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Another horrifying fact, one of the most common forms of sex trafficking is committed by intimate partners. And often through means of psychological tactics;coercion, manipulation, threats etc. Also please check the hot spots for trafficking in your specific country, and if you live there search up the red flags to spot in identifying a trafficker. This is something you should be knowledgable about if you're currently dating, it can happen anywhere but there are areas where it's more concentrate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:43 AM
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Also please, strang.ulation itself is so harmful. Not only does it mean a man holds deep contempt for you, and is more likely to mur.der you. But the actual damage to your body and your brain function could last your whole life, multiple strang.ulations or hell even one could k.ill you. The lack of air and the pressure on your throat will cause complications. Lurkers, seek medical help immediately if you have been strang.led, it is not some simple thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:01 AM
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Emotional distance sis. That's what you need right now, take a break from this if you feel it's getting too much. Make sure your boundaries are in place and you're not immediately checking your phone to see if he texts. Make sure you're not doing the late night convos, or the hours long convos about "deep" things. Make sure you've been sticking to your standards and that you haven't made excuses for any boundary crossing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:48 AM
10

That's so sad. I mean what do you even say to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:57 PM
13

I'm telling ya'll, do not ever go out with or trust a man who uses Reddit. If they even use the language surrounding this place then I know to steer clear. I don't even consider myself a Reddit user, as I only use this place for FDS and FLUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:23 PM
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OLD is pretty good for practicing FDS vetting imo. Don't use it expecting to find a diamond in a pile of shit, but in terms of working out how to have a convo, when to block and to spot red flags etc, it's pretty good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:21 PM
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Really happy for you! Experiences like this are always magic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:34 PM
21

Yeah but that's especially heinous, like never in her life would Brittany have done that. She was really a good person, surrounded by assholes on all sides. It's really damn sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:31 PM
30

What the fuck, what a sick man, and the mom is pathetic too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:06 AM
47

This movie was so insidious, like it was crazy how he never actually saw her as a person with her own feelings and opinions. He just saw her as his fantasy, which I suppose is the point of the movie and yet literally all males identified with him and hated her. Ongoing trend of men not seeing both the point and the irony of who they hail as a "hero" or who they sympathize with. No lesson learned for them to be sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:03 AM
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Most definitely. There's always something in their scrote mind, maybe you'll never know what it was exactly. But you don't need to, all you need to know is that he's a skeeze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:58 AM
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Sis, these losers are more pathetic than you know, he absolutely feels slighted because he didn't get you back then. These men will hold grudges and main pain from rejection they got all the way back in grade school ffs. Like I know it's hard to wrap your head around because you're a good person who can't imagine this duplicitous shit, but I assure you they really are this sad. I was shocked the first time I learned about this thing, but I've even heard it explained in real life from men too. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:58 AM
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He's playing the revenge game as u/BabyGothQ also said. It's more common than you think, and yes it's absolutely pathetic and crazy. Basically he probably thinks you rejected him beforehand or were out of his league(I'd even argue he was an orbiter) and now he believes he can actually go after you, but only to get back at you. He's going to play hot and cold with you, and string you along. This is someone who emotionally peaked in highschool, and probably still rages at the girls who never gave …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:52 AM
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I'm not shocked,the pro male propaganda constantly brainwashed them to CoMMuniCate, and that MeN CaN'T ReAd ThEiR MiNDs. Men aren't as emotionally stupid as patriarchy has made it seem. I'd argue they're actually pretty adept at perceiving others emotions, it's just that they don't care about ours beyond how they can make use of them to abuse and use us sexually,as a therapist or live in maid. And they also like seeing women in pain, that is one emotion every man can see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:46 AM
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I kinda feel bad for her too. Wouldn't trust her, because we all know if they're that far gone they're a danger to you, but I do hope she does escape that mentality and that man one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:42 AM
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Human Bites Here's a quick look at what it entails. Depending on the severity of the bite, you could even die from it. Certainly the bacteria transmitted will cause an infection of some sort. It's a serious thing, wish more people knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:39 AM
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Like verbal paragraphs. Don't need to tell people exactly how to manipulate and hurt you. Give them nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:35 AM
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Why do people talk about these things for no reason, like who says shit like that?? Like wow, Rob sounds like a major loser and that young pickme....hopefully sis wakes up one day because this is sad. It's kinda sad how women nowadays will do these dumb things(her "art" portfolio) but don't realize everything they post will be there forever and most likely used against them, probably by the same men they're acting like this for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:34 AM
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When he started with body type and then continued with how she can serve him, we all knew this dude both follows insta accounts and watches porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:27 AM
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Dumb fox credo. Don't engage with it, simply do what you are going to do. You don't need to justify your decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:25 AM
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Please go to the doctor and see if they can give you antibiotics. Bites are serious, you can catch a lot of shit from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:38 PM
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Grade school, first grade. Fuck that loser, got a couple slaps because he kept cheating off my answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:49 AM
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Imagine how brainwashed, and desperate for male attention you have to be to act like this. This is why we say pickmes are a danger to you. It's female socialization itself to expect women to save everyone, I assure you a pickme is very deep in the patriarchal sauce, and much like a drug addict they'll do anything for their fix. Even put you in danger or outright hurt you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:47 AM
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Okay then men can fix these problems and go love their bros unconditionally. Not our problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:43 AM
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There's the option to turn off followers, meaning people can't follow your account anymore. You can also turn off your username appearing in search. It's in account settings. Better then blocking, because you remove their access to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:05 PM
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I get the feeling him being in the same apartment building was not by chance or fluke. He probably made that profile or knew she was in the same apartment beforehand. Also he's vehemently hateful towards women. What he took issue with is the mom part of dog mom, he can't stand that it's not another day about men. Probably the type to go "what about men" whenever anything about women is brought up. I can see by his already unsolicited opinion about liberals and conservative which didn't even make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:01 PM
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God wtf was up with Medina? What a fucking weirdo, dating his student's.mom, then being all dramatic with her. Not caring about being in school and fucking around with her, and approaching Rory during school too. Luke wasn't a step up either, just another sort of weird. I don't want to get into that lawyer weirdo either lol. And Chris was a fucking NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:29 AM
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I just don't give a shit about Jess once they wrote him getting drunk and trying to assault her. All I can think is what's he done to girls he didn't care about(and Jesus with the way he treated Rory despite "caring" about her) when he treats Rory like this. Fucking creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:27 AM
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Girl, dump him. Edit: A whole 31yr old dating a 22 yr old, gross af. The very first flag was that he' even went after you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 12:32 AM
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Exactly. And damn someone else who doesn't like Luke?? I see you sister👀.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:31 PM
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An absolute beautiful and adorable as well as someone with true character and heart. Lorelai didn't deserve her, although I have much respect for Lorelai for many things and she really achieved so much and was so strong, the way they wrote the story with her and Sookie was not my favourite. Sookie deserved better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:57 PM
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The real tragedies of Gilmore Girls, my absolute G's Paris and Lane. The show did them so dirty there's no words. Lane was such a fantastic character who was given the shaft in a huge way, she had more personality and drive in her thumb then Rory had in her whole body. Paris too. Both their backgrounds were deep, sorrowful, complex and amazing as well. Paris with her absentee and neglectful parents, being raised by her nanny. Always an outsider in some way and she focuses all her energy into bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:38 AM
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Mitchum was a dick and I firmly believe he didn't give a shit about Rory or anybody else for that matter. But what he said was never a personal attack to "destroy" her and frankly he was right considering what went down with the show and even a year in the life. She definitely suffered from perfect child syndrome if we're using the show's world. I like to just say she suffered from writers not allowing a girl to be that "perfect" and successful and no it's not unreasonable and unattainable, my h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:29 AM
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God🤦🏻‍♀️ Why does my autocorrect keep doing this to me lmao. Everytime and I have to manually fix it everytime lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:22 AM
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Didn't Jess almost assault her at a party? Constantly put her in dangerous situations, once where she literally broke her arm because of him. Oh and he was also a perpetual in his feels dipshit who would overreact, and ignore her for weeks on end. Even back in the day I thought the guy was a loser. They all were honestly, Rory was a major pickme and the men she went with were lvm. But her mom was a pickme too, can't believe the breaks she gave Chris(bio dad) for being a deadbeat dad who fucked o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:19 AM
55

Oh yeah, universities and colleges are a breeding ground for predatory males. Everyone knows, they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:42 AM
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They can choke on their scrote tears and fuck right off. Pathetic little losers! Ladies always have a back up plan and hidden funds, you can't trust these men for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:27 AM
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Porn and pornsick dead eyed men. They don't think about anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:10 PM
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Damn! What a lesson, you went so in depth and really broke things down for us, really wonderful thank you. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this guy and honestly it's why I'm a fan of not telling men our mental or physical health issues and never mentioning if we're on medication. I've heard countless horror stories of them tampering with the meds, gaslighting you etc, some even raping women whose meds make them deep sleep. Keep your meds under lock and key if you take them( don't let them ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:11 PM
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🤮🤮🤮 Lord deliver us from these men Jesus Fuck!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:25 PM
38

Jesus Christ you're still living together with him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:24 PM
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Also combine that question with "what am I giving to this", if you're doing too much and getting zilch then you need to go. Don't over invest yourself women have a lot to give but you have to make sure it's being given to the right people, who will return and even exceed your energy back to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:21 PM
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For anyone still balking, understand all men see when they look at us is what they can get out of us. It's not stopping to their level to either because no one here wants to harm potential partners( that's what they want to do though), we're looking for the people who will treat us best and will give us a fulfilled and secure(financially,emotionally etc) life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:19 PM
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Yes, there's been incidents of underage idols but I assume they do worse and we just don't know about it. I don't want to dig further into this to find out I'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:16 PM
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I'm not shocked, I've heard of the many atrocities that happen on the darknet and honestly it's the kinda stuff where there's no humanity. Nauseating stuff, this world is truly a sick place and its literal hell for so many women and children, a sobering thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:34 AM
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It is not mentioned in the article if you actually read it, they make a point to not name it. And again, this was popularized on Reddit, these freaks already know, but now so do hundreds of women. This is information we need to have and arm ourselves with, staying in the dark does not help us anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:23 AM
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Play the ignore game with these losers, as if you didn't even see their comment. Ask someone directly on the chat too if you want to ask a question or just repeat the question. They'll end up looking like a douche if they keep pushing it, they'll also seethe for days. Or do the classic" ...anyways does anyone actually have an answer to the question?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:00 AM
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They're 98% of the male population, it's more dire than you think. The stats are bleak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:51 AM
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Literally an embarrassment to the human race, children have better reasoning and grasp on reality ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:50 AM
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He must be having a little mantrum, because the tactics he's been devoting his little troll life to aren't working....loser lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:49 AM
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It could be making a guess but at that point how accurate it is doesn't matter, it will still be an approximation of your nude body out there for anyone to see, or they can just put your face on a nude. It's endlessly depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:07 AM
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Exactly, fucking snake oil salesmen. There's no solution beyond leaving these losers, but of course they sell a fantasy, which is really just more mental abuse of the woman until she gives in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:55 AM
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I do agree, I meant more cast doubt on their testimony because depending on what they wrote that could also tank her case. She was the one arrested and now she's the defendant with that psycho facing no consequences. It's a fine line but she can definitely look at all her options. All of this should be happening behind the scenes and should only come out in court through her lawyer as well, just to be clear on what I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:51 AM
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Fantastic, he was a loser. Good on you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:40 AM
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I just tell them I can't handle drama and I'm only here for good vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:31 AM
58

His very first message he tried to gaslight and said "he talked to his friends and they sided with him" LMAO. Like you're a stranger you freak who gives a shit??? And then he keeps calling with his borderline psychotic episode, but really it's just regular average male entitlement and delusion. Jesus fuck, also the threats and "I thought you were different" like damn did he have his well loved copy of the PUA bible next to him as he recorded these messages, or is he just born with it? We'll neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:30 AM
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Girl what possible benefit is there to entertain this clown? Just because you don't think it means anything doesn't mean he has the same impression, he doesn't want a friend he wants a fuck. You'll be inviting stress and a possible psycho situation if this guy blows up at you over rejecting his advances. You'd be wasting your time, just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:18 AM
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Couple counsellors are professional gaslighters imo. They just further push the women into these men's arms, it's a big a grift as relationship coaches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:43 PM
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Be aware this means any average loser can just use these no doubt numerous services, without even any coding knowledge. They just need your photos and it's done, they've violated you. It's absolutely abhorrent and vile. Edit: Please remember not to post pictures of your children of you have children. The implications of what they could do with them is absolutely demonic, the technology is disgusting. Don't post your kids anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:14 PM
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There have been cases of women being fired over things like this. Not mentioning the violation of all this, the intent is to virtually rape us. They are such sick disgusting golems, there's no humanity in them just depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:12 PM
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Also try and see if there are any groups that deal with police harassment/mishandling etc, they may have good advice and means to help you with that part of the issue. Edit: And that cease and desist can also work if you want to stop him from smearing your name, def talk to a lawyer about your options. Especially if he's trying to defame you online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:04 PM
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Yes if you have bruises they'll still show up, especially for strangulation you should do an x ray. Being strangled leads to long term issues so I would advise this for your own health as well as documentation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:01 PM
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This 100%, also could she get dna for under her fingernails to correspond with defensive wounds on him(if he has them)? I'm sure this scrote would try spinning this around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:00 PM
4

They're full of rage and obsession for their teenage years and whatever girls reject them then. The rest of their lives are about getting revenge for those perceived slights, they're unstable individuals to be sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:58 PM
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Don't be afraid to paint him as a villain, he actually is one tbh. And I guarantee he's already started a smear campaign against you, get ahead of this for sure. Make sure you challenge the police officers, if they arrested you then their police report and notes may paint you as the instigator and bad guy, you need to make their notes untrustworthy and as inadmissible evidence or at least cast doubt over their testimony, I think they can't testify if you're also reporting them but I'm not sure. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:57 PM
12

That's why we say vetting never ends. The moment they act up you should be going, and you should always have a backup plan and exit strategy. I guarantee all my sister's in long term relationships or starting out, staying will ruin your life. You'll give up everything about yourself until there's nothing left, and for what? A man who doesn't even like, or even probably hates you. You're better then this and you deserve better than someone treating you like this. It doesn't matter how long you've…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:48 PM
5

It's def a red pill revenge fantasy. Make the girl who rejected you "fall" for you then reject her, or use her and ruin her life(will probably include assault from what I've seen, whether it's leaking your nudes or hurting you).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:44 PM
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Shit depending on the cost get a medical check up to show the damages and if you have any long lasting issues then you can sue in civil court, if criminal charges don't work out. Take his ass to the cleaners I say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:41 PM
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Get a lawyer. Press charges against him, that's your right as a citizen despite what the police decided. Also report the officers for mishandling of the case, report them everywhere. Do not let this slide, that piece of shit attacked you and the cops harassed you. Try and get a cease and desist order and maybe a restraining order, let everyone know you believe this man to be a violent psychopath. Don't sugar coat shit, don't accept blame for anything, he's the crazy one and everyone should know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:40 PM
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I honestly think it's also female socialization at work, it's been ingrained in us to soften our words and not seem assertive, because women being steadfast is seen as aggression in society. One thing I've had to work on, is what I'm saying actually harsh or is it only interpreted that way because I'm the one saying it, if another man said the same thing would he be rebuked? It's not easy, but I do check myself on this a lot more now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:44 PM
13

It's honestly a lot of therapeutic basics too. Accountability along with forgiveness are key, you take responsibility for your part but you also forgive yourself you work to grow and not let things like that happen again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:42 PM
16

Look at it this way, the rest of the world feed you honey coated lies and you suffer for it. Their words are lies and their actions are brutality. I'd much rather have the harsh truth, that'll actually work to better my life then be caught up in the web of lies and continue to suffer for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:40 PM
41

It takes years to undo what the patriarchy has done to us and we'll surely slip. But I think being called out on pickme behaviour is less derogatory and more an aghast reaction, like "sis what the actual fuck are you doing letting people treat you like this?". It's looking at another sister and saying; you can do better, have better and be better, it's telling them they're being their worst enemy. Sometimes the truth really does set you free, even if it hurts to realize it, confront it. But the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:39 PM
8

It's sad that we're not even exaggerating, like there's def clowns out there acting like this....sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:56 AM
23

Yeah like exclusive liaisons lol. Also let me get into a scotes mind for a second, right before he cheats: "Hmm but wait I only said I was exclusive to her "emotionally", I never said anything about sex and also she hasn't been that great lately and I never said shit about settling down.i don't know if I see a future with her but I do sort of like her and she is important to me, maybe it's time to open up this relationship...or maybe I'll just fuck around and play hot and cold lol" They're truly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:10 AM
57

Women need to understand that men like hurting us, they like harassing us. There's a reason porn and kink culture is so violent. Sex to them is dominance and their true goal is to hurt us. They will absolutely stalk, harass and abuse women and girls in public. When we're kids is one of the biggest times we'll be catcalled or harassed ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:05 AM
20

Yeah but we live in reality where we can't shop in peace, as her post states. Giving women strategies to deal with how the real world is, is the basis of this sub. We have to face the truth and then arm ourselves with knowledge to protect ourselves. It's sad but it's how things are, the commenter gave good advice and it seems the OP appreciated it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:03 AM
46

Omg lol. They're for the streets of Mordor.💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:06 AM
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Girl you're doing amazing. I'm so glad you're taking action, do your best. Document everything and then show this clown what happens when he messes about. They always think they can do whatever they want, and we won't do anything. I'm rooting for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:09 PM
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Lol sorry when you said "have his cake and eat it too" I just thought, Jesus why?? It's not like losers like this even go down on women, mf can barely even perform ffs. Why the hell do they want to have so many women?? Is their kink disappointing sex? Lol truly all the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:08 PM
4

Send him a cease and desist and threaten with a defamation lawsuit. Actions have consequences, so let the consequences speak for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:03 PM
208

All sense of human decency and morality has been stripped away. All they are is the porn they watch with near obsessional vigour, and act out in real life. It's depressing how routine and droll it all is with them. Step one:watch violent porn, step two: enact violent porn, step three: use drugs or alcohol because their life is meaningless and they're barely people since everything they do is about their damn kink. No ambitions, hobbies, nothing, just when they can get their next fix. And they ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:00 PM
25

In turn, though…does anyone else think the more recent trend of Disney villainess themed movies (Maleficent, Cruella, etc) are sad attempts to milk more money by rebranding them as woke feminists? It’s all just so disgusting. I hate that company. YES!!!! Because they give them a depressing past to try and make them likable. Meaning they have to break the women for them to have a reason to be bad and for the audience to like the.Because the only way women grow is through trauma amiright(looking a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:44 AM
12

Lundy Buncroft definitely goes into this mentality. They disparage abuse and yet they don't consider their actions as abusive because they don't consider you at all. They play by their own rules of morality, I think it's just delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:04 AM
24

Money. Play into little girls fairy tail princess stories They'll either make money off you by selling to you, or selling you. Truly sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:18 PM
83

I mean let's be real, they took horrific folk lore and brushed it up to be "romantic". Their intent was clear from the start, otherwise they would have made their own stories up(still would have been male romanticized).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:17 PM
8

And his mom won't lend him bus fare lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:07 PM
21

You know what I've realized too, the reason men are so manipulative is because literally everything caters to them. They get away with blatant rudeness and fucked up shit. Because they get away with it they think they're slick and smart or whatever but that's not the case. I see politicians do the utter messiest shit and I know the only reason best getting away with it is because he's a man and people will excuse his behaviour not because he's some suave af mf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:59 PM
5

I think it's a complicated issue, definitely less screening done towards male cops and especially white male cops imo. Because how would you explain how violent and unhinged most of them are? Or it could also be that the police force itself is unhinged, all the way up to the top. I don't really trust cops or the "judicial" system personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:20 PM
3

Thanks for the clarification though we're both anon so I can't do anything but make a generalist statement in this case(because I don't really know your situation, life etc, nor should you tell me). But I 100% agree on your points on racism, and I will say I'm glad you were honest. I think it's better than someone with PTSD being just another person unequipped to have the power to enforce the law. Perhaps if they got treated and showed they were working towards helping them they could apply agai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:07 PM
40

I was about to say, those are outright abuse tactics, nothing micro about them. He was going hard core in trying to groom her to what I'm assuming, was even worse abuse in the near future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:24 PM
58

I need some scrote be gone roach spray on hand at all times. Because the amount of times men try to cushy up and make you their safety or wtf, I've already given up on male friends so I'm especially intolerant of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:22 PM
8

Do you think it might be discrimination rather then the rule in your case? I would think they'd absolutely be harsher on women, even more so if they're a woman of colour. Because the types of men allowed is too mind boggling for there to no be some bullshit going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:19 PM
68

Worse it's a pyramid scheme, and a pimp all in one. The state of exploiting people is truly changing with the times, women need to wake up to the fact that men will find ways to exploit them in literally every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:14 PM
45

I'd say men's reading habits are imparied by the fact that they are men. Meaning he could be reading Dworkin and Atwood and still be a complete violent piece of shit. Women may see the good in certain pieces of work, and look at the text critically but men absolutely live in a delusional mindset, and will probably think they're the second coming after reading Machiavelli once. I say all this to say, kudos for taking great things away from the text but be wary of assigning such a positive value t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:11 PM
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Libfems are brain dead. They can't put two and two together if they listened to actual Afghan women they'd realize that they've been saying for years that their own fathers and brothers support such things. This shit didn't happen out of nowhere and it was not the fault of one select group. It was the misogynistic culture that perpetuates hatred of women. The same kind that's gotten our right taken away over here in the west as well. If you want to see the timeline of what happens when are right…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:58 AM
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Here's another article about the same issue: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9956217/Male-Afghan-evacuees-bringing-child-brides-US.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:16 AM
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Not to mention the very first episode he tried to rape Jenny and I'm assuming actually raped other girls. He was a piece of shit and the actor is also weird and cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:04 AM
51

Every day I realize the true hell is right here. The crimes being committed against women and children every day, every minute... it's insurmountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:16 PM
4

This. The man is a psycho. Or maybe just a regular entitled man, honestly it's interchangable at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:55 PM
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