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Social IssuesNoobinpro/r/MensRights09/03/21 02:25 PM
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Check out John Griffin on YouTube. I promise his channel will help.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/26 05:43 AM
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At 15 he should be able to choose who he stays with full time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/26 10:06 PM
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I recommend John Griffin on YouTube.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 09:12 AM
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My ex is vicious and poisonous. I requested "required" pickup and drop off to be at the police station when it is not at school or an activity. All communication goes through talking parents, all of it! With that out of the way it is a week to week battle over parental alienation.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/25 11:50 AM
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Go for the throat. Also check out John Griffin on YouTube.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 06:07 AM
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Aaron Clarey, Rollo tomasi, rich cooper
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 04:33 AM
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I recommend checking out John Griffith on YouTube. Hope you make it through this stronger.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/25 01:57 PM
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I still occasionally bout with anger and my ex still tries to do things to get a reaction out of me but realistically I'm over it. It's a process dude, you have to feel all of the emotions and recognize each one. No booze, no drugs, no nicotine, no excessive energy drinks, hit the gym as much as possible, eat right, and work on sleeping right. You are a separate person from your kids, your ex and everyone else. Your kids are going to love you both even if your ex is a piece of shit. Don't talk b…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/25 12:31 PM
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I was absolutely crippled financially by my ex. I lived with family and friends, basically anyone who would let me live with them for cheap. I finally won 50/50 custody of my daughter and started working from scratch. I got the cheapest place possible while putting every dime into the market. I moved back in with family at a different point as well to save more. Do not compare where you are with anyone else. It's time to acknowledge that you will have to work twice as hard to get by. At the same…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 09:35 AM
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I pick up Tuesday one week and Wed the next, drop off is every Saturday.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/25 08:46 PM
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She was cheating and that's why it happened so quickly. My advice, build muscles, money and focus on your kids. Do not jump into dating. You are going through trauma and it will take one year minimum of clean /sober living to feel real damn good again. I recommend going basically no contact with the ex except regarding the children.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 03:25 PM
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It's already over man. Do not beg, do not lower your self esteem just to have here step on you. Get a conciliation with a divorce lawyer and serve her papers. Eat right, workout, get into nature, work on getting more sleep, make money and most importantly be a good father. Do not leave the house and do not believe a word she says. Once again get a lawyer, emotions are raw right now and you won't be able to think straight. Don't agree to anything either until you secure legal counsel.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 02:46 PM
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Check out John Griffith on YouTube.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 06:29 AM
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No gifts or cards. Work out, eat right, gain muscle and try new things.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 06:29 AM
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The mediator cannot make any decision, they just mediate. An arbitrator or judge can make a decision. Do not fucking budge on 50/50.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 10:54 AM
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Put family photos on a sim card or flash drive. Put it away in case your kid wants pics someday but only for that reason.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 07:54 PM
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Fuck that. Put everything in a hys and keep doing what you are doing.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 12:00 PM
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My daughter is much younger and I recognized the parental alienation immediately. I'll give a rough summary of what I have learned. The courts are last or even not an option. This is a psychological battle and the courts blatantly do not care. Is it possible to change the parenting plan or circumstances due to parental alienation? Yes but it will be a financial battle, you basically wreck the other party and yourself financially to change things. If the alienated party is financially well off th…
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 12:43 PM
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Calm down, you are on a hair trigger. She is trying to emotionally deregulate you and it's working. All communication should go through talking parents or family wizard and you can legally request this. All in person interaction needs to be video taped. If you have a parenting plan then follow it and if you don't then get one yesterday. Do not immediately respond to any message, take 12-24 hours minimum. You have no control over what she does on her parenting time with your kids. Keep calm, do n…
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 09:42 AM
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He doesn't have two daddies. It is okay to correct him and say " you have one mommy and one daddy, I am your daddy." Btw this is a form of parental alienation.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 02:47 PM
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Ya. Please check out Lise Leblanc on YouTube. No Contact/minimal contact (Only a court approved email messaging like talking parents, only coordinate logistics or deal with situations. Cut contact!!) No booze, No nicotine, No drugs and minimize caffeine Work out, lift heavy and do intense cardio like sprinting or hitting the bag Eat healthy and make sure to add fatty fish or omega 3 supplements and add dark chocolate. Journal Meditate Go get a massage The amygdala is a part of the brain that enl…
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 10:56 PM
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Your ex cheated on you and detonated the family while simultaneously introducing a loser as a parental figure to your children and getting impregnated by said loser creating a mixed family. She is a child abuser on top of a spousal abuser... How about you just keep being a good dad and have a good life while thinking about your future and your children's future.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 04:42 PM
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You are not responsible for half of a failed marriage from an abusive cheater, she was and is the problem. You don't have to tell anyone in real life about the abuse or possible personality disorder but it would be bad not to understand what disordered people do. Control, fuel, character traits and residual benefits. I can guarantee that smearing you to your kid (parental alienation) is already happening.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 11:45 AM
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You got a serious healing journey ahead of you. Cheating and introducing children immediately is both domestic abuse and child abuse. It is also a key indicator for narcissism so I highly recommend checking out Lise Leblanc on YouTube. Your health is the most important factor right now, physical and psychological.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 11:05 AM
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You are completely right. No contact unless it involves information regarding your child. You owe her nothing and the therapist doesn't care about any of you, just a paycheck.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 10:23 AM
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Get through the divorce. Don't drink, don't do drugs, don't use nicotine, work out, eat right and sleep. You will be dealt a hand when this divorce is through, most likely every other weekend with the kids and a Weds for dinner, possibly just visitation until housing is established. The good news. What you make is crap and you can easily double it in less than 2 years. CDL jobs, Non-cdl driving jobs, electrician/lineman, HVAC, machinist, plumber, the list goes on and on. Even a manager at Walgre…
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 08:33 PM
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..... You are being gaslighted which is 100% abuse. Divorce this woman and walk away, nothing will fix the betrayal of cheating anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 09:09 PM
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I think you should go scorched earth. Communication through the app only and pickups at a public place or even the police station. 5 months huh.... Either she was cheating or there is disorder involved. Make sure your kid is okay and shrug that harpy off.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 01:04 AM
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Show me a woman who has remorse over the end of a relationship and I will show you a woman who didn't have your replacement lined up. Taking your ex back would be one of the biggest regrets/mistakes you could ever make. You are "winning" in her mind and that is the only reason she is acting like this. If you really want to win, hit the gym more, earn more, look good and keep doing what you are doing. Focus on you and your kids above everything. You got this King.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 07:24 PM
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Get a lawyer, get the divorce, get as much custody as possible. Right now logic is your friend, this woman is the enemy and you need to cut her out of your life. Don't drink, don't do drugs. Eat right, sleep well, work out and be strategic until this is over. Good luck man, hope you make it through this okay.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 06:05 AM
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Right.... "I'll let God handle it".... It's so bad it's laughable.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 04:01 PM
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If she threatens that again notify the police immediately. Go through with the divorce and live your best life.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 12:17 PM
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I've been dealing with the same. Get the divorce and parenting plan done as soon as possible while she is still in the affair fog.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 08:18 PM
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You have to let that anger out. Scream in the car, hit the gym, get a punching bag. There is no "dealing with anger" let it out in controlled scenarios and work on being the best version of yourself in the process. Anger is a natural response when deeming something or someone as a threat especially if there was a betrayal.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 01:16 PM
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It is straight out of the playbook dude. It is amazing how predictable women are. Get this shit dealt with and let it be over. You are definitely not alone, so many guys are dealing with this crap.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 09:22 AM
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Focus on what you are in control of, the custody you have, your job, your body, hobbies and so on. Ruminating on this will only make you go crazy. Identify that you do not have control over the other party, never ever make a threat or lose your cool.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 10:43 PM
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I am one of those guys. 6ft, 180, jacked, bright green eyes, full head of hair and tan. I still got cheated on after providing everything and have 50/50 custody of my daughter that I fought heavily for.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 05:49 AM
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That is some heavy shit. Is it worth it in the end? Well that depends on who is asking and the circumstances. I've spent about 100k from the age of 30 to now 32 to be a 50/50 dad. I was left and blamed for everything and then we reconciled for 7 months only for her to cheat and leave. I deal with the darkest hate imaginable towards that snake though I wouldn't take back anything. All I can recommend is to see this through and be the best goddamn father and human you can. Work, save, invest, lear…
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 10:08 AM
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She shouldn't even be on your radar. It's over, go Gray Rock. Keep working out, keep making money, be a good dad, network and enjoy yourself. When the point of indifference hits you everything will be clear, until then just play indifference by ignoring her and only interacting about the children or legal matters.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 06:33 PM
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No, if you are fishing from the shore you don't need any fucking life vests. Fishing from a boat, canoe, tube or anything on the water then yes. She just got a reaction from you, she won this round. Go back to grey rock and ignore stupid crap.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 08:04 PM
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I wasn't married though my situation involved family court, child support and being the only provider. It cost 100k over 4 years. Along with that was reconciliation only to turn into cheating and betrayal of the worst kind, definitely narcissistic abuse. Everyone's situation is different. When the dust has settled you are left with a hand just like in poker. Initially working out, eating right, quitting all addictions, nature walks, journaling, meditation, new/old hobbies, networking and staying…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 04:50 AM
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Glad to hear it man. Staying fit and healthy is a blessing in these situations. Consider any emotional response "fuel" that she wants, be dull to her.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 10:05 PM
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..... You described an abusive relationship and also described narcissistic behavior. Get the legal stuff done, divorce, child support and whatever else. Look up the gray rock technique and try to go basically no contact unless it's something important. Your psychological and physical health should be of the utmost importance right now. I'm sorry you are going through this.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 08:30 PM
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No you are not crazy and correcting child support immediately was a very smart move. Your ex made this choice.. and is a cheater. From your description this guy sounds like a narcissist and your ex was ensnared. That is not your problem though. Right now is the time to focus on yourself, don't touch booze, in fact quit all addictions if possible. Get exercise, lifting heavyweight safely is probably the best but start small if necessary. Eat a healthy diet, get rid of sugar and most carbs. I reco…
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 09:53 PM
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It is already a war mate. Drop the doe to get everything set up, know what to expect when it comes to assets, child support or alimony. Talk with the lawyer, plan it out and execute the plan. Women will plan out divorces months or even years in advance so they get everything. Expect a fight but you may be able to own this before she even has a plan.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 06:34 PM
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Meet with a lawyer and file first. Do not let her know what is going on, pretend like everything is okay. Hit her hard and fast.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 05:03 PM
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Delete and discard every photo, gift or anything that can be thrown out. Exorcise that shit. Time to focus on you and what you want in the time that is left on this rock spinning through space. Get exercise and eat right to start the journey. Check out "Listen my Son" on YouTube, George is pretty cool. Good luck bud.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 05:09 AM
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Ignore it. Ignore her. Get the legal stuff done and cut contact to a bare minimum and only on a parenting communication app such as talking parents (pay the monthly 10 bucks.) Anyone that cares about the smear campaign doesn't belong in your life anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 12:38 PM
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This sounds like parental alienation and your ex sounds like a manipulator with a possible personality disorder. Keep fighting to be a 50/50 dad. I fought and won, I have 50/50 of a 3 year old little girl and her mother is a venomous snake. Kids are resilient though the sooner you have more time, the better. Also focus on your health.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 08:25 AM
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The YouTube channel "Listen my Son" is pretty good and George has great insight on healing. I highly recommend it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 08:08 AM
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With no science based facts here is my answer. Energy redirection. I've personally seen every aspect of my life get better by simply being celibate and highly recommend it. Though of course, it is a personal choice.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 05:14 AM
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Physical and psychological health: Quit all addictions, eat a healthy diet, take supplements, work out, journal, meditate, network (to build a better social circle, just talk with people,) find communities (even the gym community,) have hobbies, read, finally and awkwardly quit masturbating. Financial health: Analyze skill set and what is marketable. How will getting a different job or creating a business impact being a father? What different skills are in demand in your area, how early would yo…
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 05:00 AM
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I went to hell and back dealing with a full blown narcissist witch and obtained 50/50 custody. I would never settle for anything less than that but will always take more time.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 02:24 PM
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Glad to see this comment.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 08:09 AM
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Here is your solution. Quit drinking, get a PO box address, get a company paid CDL, live and work out of a truck, save, invest, watch what you eat and work out when possible, see the country and stop ruminating. That's your few minutes of me caring while I take a shit. If you can't live your own life that is no one's problem but yours.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 09:03 PM
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20 hours later.... Good comment all around, there isn't much room to debate because it's all fact
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 09:40 PM
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Just want to mention that I have a hyperthyroid condition. One of the symptoms is excessively hot skin, I've been pouring sweat in 30 degree weather without a jacket on.
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 07:27 PM
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Saw that coming. Bezos is with dirty Sanchez so both didn't do great with partners. You know she had an iron clad prenup, probably gave him 5 million to get lost.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 02:41 AM
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It's good to hear an argument and see if there is a valid point. This isn't feminist or askwomen.
/r/AntiFeminists17/09/22 02:58 AM
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Ya, just caught up in BS. Thank you for the reminder.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 10:58 PM
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Good point! And thanks man. In to many situations custody just goes straight to the mother and alienation happens to the father. The new step dad is dad, it's a whole can of worms. Just stating the obvious while getting ahead, thanks again.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 10:31 PM
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What the hell is daddy and dada? Are we supposed to be all happy about another man trying to be are kid(s) father? I'm about to get heated over this! Oh ya happy early father's day...
/r/MensRights18/05/22 10:06 PM
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I agree, though that is a blessing as long as we keep pursuing the best for ourselves. I'll be 30 coming up and already I look back at the skills I have acquired, the bank account I built, zero debt and a brutally trained body.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 09:44 AM
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Is it tho.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 10:18 PM
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The judge who was assigned the case should be.....
/r/MensRights12/04/21 12:26 AM
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Well I will comment and say I appreciate it! Personally I've given up and just want to raise my daughter, live a quiet life and be left alone. Cheers.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 02:22 AM
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Don't get me started bud. Just take it one step at a time and remember... We only get one life. Even with the bullshit live your best one.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 02:12 AM
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Single dad's and Custody subreddits are good. Hope the best for you man. Remember to workout, eat right and hangout with some people close to you.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 09:13 PM
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While the father was battling in court to meet his baby. Fuck society.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 11:30 AM
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Literally just got done with my first court phone call. My ex gave birth to my daughter 3 months ago and I have not met her. It has been financially draining already. I want to pay child support and I want to be in my daughter's life!! Btw my ex is unemployed.... To give perspective to the question, I could pursue a job that would make 30k more a year. Doing that would limit my available time to basically nothing so I will not pursue that and will keep at my current financial level. Not to avoid…
/r/MensRights23/03/21 08:13 PM
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Holy shit!
/r/MensRights22/03/21 04:16 PM
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I appreciate it, it's good to be able to talk about it. I never did social media before this (reddit, facebook, ect..) Honestly I was blindly walking through life as an optimist. Now the reality of how society is feels like a hammer hit me in the head. Sounds like you are already aware. I'm probably never going to get into another exclusive relationship, I'll never marry period. Again thanks for the optimism!
/r/MensRights22/03/21 12:27 PM
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She has had trauma happen in her life and now she blames men. So to answer your question it is both. It's not a very enlightening situation...
/r/MensRights22/03/21 12:05 PM
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This is my current situation, I'll sum it up so it's not to long. My ex girlfriend and I were living together. During that time I covered all of the bills (rent, utilities, food, ect..) I was averaging 60 hour work weeks to cover everything, she was unemployed. I got a puppy for us and signed over a vehicle to her so she had transportation (wasn't luxurious but it was a nice little 4x4, we have snow here.) She became pregnant and soon after left saying "You don't understand my trauma, it's all m…
/r/MensRights22/03/21 11:35 AM
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Ohh buddy! I had a child 3 months ago and have not met her yet. I've spent 5000$ so far and might be able to within another month...... She lives 10 minutes away.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 01:12 AM
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Again, I mentioned it has been speculated. In the comments it has been viewed as false, though it is mentioned in the comments that it is possibly 10% which would be 1 in 10 in that room. Percentages aside, everyone did agree that the topic of paternity is a controversial one. Thanks for the input, have a wonderful day/night.
/r/MensRights11/03/21 12:22 AM
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That's a very reasonable response. Even the reported numbers are very alarming. I would be curious to see an actual study done instead of reported infidelity as the begs the question, how many are unreported? Thank you for the response.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 04:55 PM
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I am having trouble linking the sites. Google is a biased search engine though if you Google it many articles will appear. Again I am not claiming that number, just aknowliging the speculation. I'm guessing it would really depend on geographic location. The school project was located in Canada and the 23 and me was a worldwide speculation of 10 million people.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 02:41 PM
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