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| 1 | What patterns have you noticed in the people you tend to date and/or attrract? What kind of conclusions could you draw about that?In my experience (only 30) I have a consistent trend (kind of knew it since I was little) in attracting older women who still have a ton of sexual energy left/attractive. I was a cheeky bugger and have a very disarming face (asian) even now. I certainly don’t look my age. I get the sense there is some conscious/unconscious almost definitive maternal instinct that rears it’s head out uncontrollably (longest time was about 20 mins before her guard was fully down. Other women told me she was the bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 12:17 PM |
| 1 | In your life, how high is "getting fe/male attention" ranked in terms of importance? What things in life do you consider more important than getting fe/male attention?Personal achievements/accomplishments general health personally and family/friends for me is like way above general attention from the opposite sex Financial Independence and self mastery too There’s a whole list of things as well I’m introverted as heck and I don’t struggle for women’s attention at all. Once your old enough normal human interaction gets easier as time goes on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?Goes both ways but that’s nature playing it’s role More “danger” reproductive drives gets heightened The modicum of exposition of sex has never been higher than it is today in the online world. 24/7 basically it sends the brain into overdrive Females/Males when I was young wasn’t like it was today. Post internet/social media generation it’s wild the stories I’ve heard from both genders only more in lockdown. Environment is highly dependent too so different individual experiences ensue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNature vs Nuture But yes 1000% correct Where you live/and the socio economic conditions play a massive part at pretty everything to do with life in general. For all we know Eskimos are fucking like crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?I’m 30 now so yes I’d say so. Depending on upbringing/environment conditions would differ of course in general socio eco networks. “Ought implies can.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 11:09 AM |
| 2 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?Highly dependent on where you live, who you are as a person, your social groups key factors. Know plenty “average” men with long term relationships it’s other individual characteristics Don’t have to be handsome to get laid. Responsibility, Sociable, Authenticity, Autonomy, Independence, and strong emotional regulators (little dependency on the outside). Doesn’t take a whole lot to get laid. And the great kicker is even if your struggling right now with the opposite member having an average wage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:54 AM |
| 2 | I think lot of people only pursue dating because of social pressure.Weirdly enough as you get older there’s a paradigm shift. At least in my experience Women are more open, Men I get it the grind has hit them and it’s real. Some are happy some want more freedom (isn’t so much the partner it’s the whole lot of responsibility’s that comes with being an adult comes thick and fast for both sides). Before it’s kinda like an achievement thing as with all men (I am one) telling each other our achievements, stories, boasting but in a harmless way. Now it’s like every ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Do women carry extra weight better than men?Outside of overweight people both men and women can carry quote unquote extra weight and sometimes be beneficial to that person. Women though as a guy from the outside looking in it’s objective base but yes the wording voluptuous does ring a bell. Or put more crass more junk in the trunk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | What's changed for you since graduating from college?Oh crap the fun place is here. When having a normal conversation with an opposite member can in reality put you at legitimate harms risk the movement completely lost the barrings on what is was to achieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you want the opposite sex to interact with you?The opposite sex (female) generally are very receptive to me in an authentic way at least I think so but communication is different I suppose. I’m playful and cheeky and very disarming so it’s kind of like no harm no foul. Intention from the jump is different (duhhh there’s subconscious/conscious primary drives at play here). We’re are animals wrapped in linen at the end of the day when we go out to talk to new/old people of the opposite sex. I guess that’s probably the clarity aspect would be b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to women too?Anecdotal in my experience but women in general are picky until they are not it’s kind of like seeing a switch go off and on in their mood/talk/ etc etc. I have seen with my own eyes the crunching off things in real time (happens really quick) the hyper quick glances with other ladies for confirmation, the outer to into the space of that said man. It’s quite consistent from just background thing from my pov. Most though that I’ve encountered because I have a very disarming face/voice for my age … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What problems do you have with LTRs/marriage and how would you like to see them change?Marriage/religion/law should always be kept separate and should never under any circumstance be conflated. But under government regulatory systems I can’t think of a way to enact an official marriage without it being recognized under the law. Therein lies the biggest amount of problems in my view. Law and Marriage should be seperate entities. But you can’t be officially married without law involved hence the hugely flawed proposition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 11 | A bunch of men "checking out of society" will not cause collapse, if anything, it's better for everyone in the long run.Japan is a smaller but a future outlook on global economic circumstances. Working class men have always been the backbone of society always has been. But here is the the harsh kicker in it all. The more autonomous something becomes the less need for man power. Has nothing to do with the sexes at all. The obsolete of working class jobs for men on mass (60’s-90’s in financial terms could earn you a living not anymore). Then your left with a Fight Club philosophy in that Education, Job, Marriage, H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Was the sexual revolution a mistake?I think that hyper consumerism has a bigger impact on society that can be even quantifiable at a micro level. Look at ones life right now the amount of value based productive of actual meaning vs consumption is probably close to 999-1 ratio. Try for yourself you’ll be very surprised how much consumption vs value production occurs. Artisan Law Tech Health Merchant A vast amount of jobs aren’t necessary when you think about it but are vitally necessary to keep the economy propped up by people need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.I mean the op isn’t wrong Fwiw females have the say at the end of day when it comes to mating. Because it’s on their terms sex is used as a form of power over another gender that by definition is more powerful psychically. But alas it floats with both sexes when abundance has always been a reality for women in general compared to a man of equal standing. Unless of course that man is of a higher standing. Then things sway greatly in the man’s favor. It is only then when women lose all their abili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 11:35 AM |
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